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Speaker 6: Listening to show, I don't joy yeah, joy show.

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Speaker 5: You got you love? Turn you.

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Speaker 6: To turn the mouth the turn you probably got to

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Speaker 7: Turn out the water the mon jo.

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Speaker 2: Look, come on, come on, you think I sure will?

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Speaker 2: Good morning everybody you all listening to the voice? Come on,

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Speaker 2: dig me now one and on. Is Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 2: a radio show? Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Man boy, God has been good to me. Man, I

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Speaker 8: can't really count at all. You can't either, You know,

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Speaker 8: it's all in perspective. You really can't count all that

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Speaker 8: God has done for you if you look at every

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Speaker 8: little thing. It's unbelievable. The things He's done for us.

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Speaker 8: How many times you know, we got through something without

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Speaker 8: blessed us with it. How many you know? It's just

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Speaker 8: it's so much that the fact that you wake up

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Speaker 8: struggling out here, but guess what, you still going to work.

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Speaker 8: You know, you live in check to check. But you're

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Speaker 8: making it all. You got all the plates spinning. You know,

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Speaker 8: it's hard. You got a lot of plate spinning, but

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Speaker 8: in one break, but he put two more back up

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Speaker 8: there to look a little bit better, and you got

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Speaker 8: to get to spending them so it all works.

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Speaker 2: And then you got a lot.

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Speaker 8: Of people who just can't seem to mentally put it

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Speaker 8: together as to you know, why their life isn't in

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Speaker 8: a position that they wanted to be. We talk about

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Speaker 8: this oftentimes, but I don't want to try another angle

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Speaker 8: with you to day.

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Speaker 2: You know, maybe it's you. Have you ever thought about that,

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's you.

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Speaker 8: Maybe it's no external force that's at fault, like you

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Speaker 8: keep making the excuse to be You know, so many

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Speaker 8: if he hadn't have done that, if she hadn't have

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Speaker 8: done that, I would have been further along. I wasted

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Speaker 8: all my time, my years with this man, and he

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Speaker 8: could have been there, and this woman she did this

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Speaker 2: Done that, I could have been here and I could

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Speaker 2: have been there. Maybe it's you.

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Speaker 8: Maybe it's not really that external force that you keep

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Speaker 8: making it out to be. See, I've done this to

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Speaker 8: myself before. Once again, I'm talking to you about something

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Speaker 8: I know about. I've done this to myself before. I've

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Speaker 8: had the reason I wasn't where I wanted to be.

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Speaker 8: and if they hadn't have done this, I would have

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Speaker 8: been further along up the road. That's what I was saying.

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Speaker 8: But hold on, man, boy learned a valuable lesson.

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Speaker 8: See, if you don't ever let it go, it's gonna

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Speaker 8: be hard for you to go. If you don't ever

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Speaker 8: to go. I was listening to Bishop td Jake's one day,

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Speaker 8: You go outside and try that. Try to drive your car,

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Speaker 8: All you're doing is looking in that rear view mirror

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Speaker 2: The past is the past, and I know it's hard.

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Speaker 8: I watched a show and this lady said, well, I

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Speaker 8: That person may be extremely remorseful, could have gone to

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Speaker 8: God and got in forgiveness for it years ago. But

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Speaker 8: Bishop Jakes come on the show one time and say

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Speaker 8: something that really really struck home. You keep drinking the poison,

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Speaker 8: waiting on your enemy to die.

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Speaker 8: I just shook my head and went, wow, you drinking

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Speaker 2: Waiting on your enemy to die. Revenge is poison to you.

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Speaker 8: You know, if hatred is poison to you. Unforgivingness, when

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Speaker 8: you won't forgive a person, that person could be going

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Speaker 8: on with they life made the right with God. Don't

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Speaker 8: know how you feeling. They skipping through life. Now you

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Speaker 8: make adjustments every time you see them. And it takes energy. Man,

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Speaker 8: it takes so much energy to hate. It takes so

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Speaker 8: much energy not to forgive to Now they come in

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Speaker 8: Oh here they come. Now you got to make a

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Speaker 8: Oh oh, here they come. Or where they gonna be

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Speaker 8: I want to go out here and get some barbecue.

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Speaker 8: She out there at the barbecue, staying, Oh lord, I

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Speaker 8: set of people, man, take themselves all out of position,

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Speaker 8: trying to make adjustments, when if you it would simplify

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Speaker 8: Maybe you ain't where you need to be because of them,

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Speaker 8: won't move forward. Look at this, ladies. Let's say you've

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Speaker 8: been in a situation with a man for years. It

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Speaker 2: I got what you say he did.

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Speaker 8: I got what he did, I got he all of that, YadA,

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Speaker 8: YadA YadA. When you get through, did not God get

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Speaker 8: you through it? Did not he allow you to survive it.

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Speaker 8: I got you, got some cuts on you, I got

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Speaker 2: He just trying to get it right now.

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Speaker 8: But you sitting there holding on to it, you drinking

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Speaker 8: instead of you enjoying the blessing of finally being free

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Speaker 8: from a situation that was not healthy for you, you create

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Speaker 8: an even more unhealthy situation in your mind, by hating,

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Speaker 8: by having revengeful thoughts, by hoping he fall on his face.

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Speaker 8: Maybe you even doing something to the other situation to

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Speaker 8: make sure they struggle. Oh man, you drinking the poison,

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Speaker 8: waiting on your enemy to die. Maybe you ain't where

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Speaker 8: you ought to be in life, not because of your

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Speaker 8: external forces, but maybe it's you. If you don't let

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Speaker 8: You can't keep driving your car looking in the rear

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Speaker 8: view mirror. Come on, man, Forgiveness is not for the

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Speaker 8: other person. Forgiveness is for you.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 8: I've got sunshine on a cloudy day when it's called outside,

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Speaker 8: I get the month of May. Well, I guess you say,

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Speaker 8: what can make me feel this way? I'll tell you

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Speaker 8: what it is. My girl, my girl, I'm talking about

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Speaker 8: my girl, my girl. Those were the types of lyrics

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Speaker 8: that were written in a time where men expressed their

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Speaker 8: sincere and obvious love for women. Something has happened in

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Speaker 8: our music. That's why I don't buy none of it.

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Speaker 8: This message this morning to my sons and daughters to

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Speaker 8: keep wondering why I won't download nothing new, cause y'all

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Speaker 8: time to listen to music, I want to here. I've

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Speaker 8: got sunshine on a cloudy day. He boom, boom, that's

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Speaker 8: what I want to hear. I don't want to hear

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Speaker 8: all this. You ain't nothing without me putting up on

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Speaker 2: Somebody's shot me. I got fourteen times to.

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Speaker 8: Get yeah, yeah, great, great, great, we're in the club.

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Speaker 8: We got shot. That's good. I'm bleeding. Okay, who's gonna

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Speaker 8: Steve Harvey Morty Show, early vinting. That's all it was

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Speaker 8: is holding up the show day. So I felt like saying,

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Speaker 8: And tell a woman how you really feel today. Fellas

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Speaker 8: if you a man listening today, give some credit to

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Speaker 8: Tell her you ain't gonna do.

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Speaker 8: Don't hurt it, don't hurt. I'm telling you that's the

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Speaker 8: truth really, because if you if you think you can

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Speaker 8: This whole old thing ain't worth a loted die without them.

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Speaker 2: Girls.

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Speaker 8: Man, you need women to make this world go right.

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Speaker 8: Matter of fact, you need women to even be here.

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Speaker 8: Morning Showberry calling for all on one psscific Monica Junior,

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Speaker 8: the legend that is nephew Tommy Junr.

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Speaker 2: What you're like? No music we got today?

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Speaker 9: Nothing?

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Speaker 1: Well no, not well.

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Speaker 2: Some of them like her? You like her her or

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Speaker 2: I love her her cold?

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Speaker 7: You know her.

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Speaker 8: Her cold? Nor her bad girl dog yon say bad too,

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Speaker 8: you know, you know Beyonce bad, Rihanna.

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Speaker 2: You know they bad.

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Speaker 8: But I'm a lyrical person. I like lyrics. I like

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Speaker 8: love songs. I like songs. Would you mind if I touched,

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Speaker 8: if I kissed, if I hell you tight to.

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Speaker 2: The morning line?

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Speaker 8: Boy, I'm talking about damn near cry when they say.

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Speaker 2: Don't I don't anymore?

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Speaker 8: You know your last dude, y'all had I like di'angelo, Okay,

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Speaker 8: he was he was kind of cold.

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Speaker 2: That nice sun. Yeah, you know, I like to Tony

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Speaker 2: They're going.

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Speaker 1: Today.

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Speaker 10: I'm just trying to find out where he at though, Like.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we talk about that need to meet it back

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Speaker 2: Steve Hard Morning. So when you ask me why I

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Speaker 2: am all morn.

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Speaker 11: Long if you want to, we're gonna hear from the

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Speaker 2: Who what you got? Paper clips? It? Okay, don't say

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Speaker 2: Speak for it. You know what a paper clip here,

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Paper clip prank?

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Speaker 1: Yes, I just thought it was adverse.

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Speaker 2: Paper clips out of note. Yeah, you go too far so.

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Speaker 13: Is she hi?

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Speaker 4: Have Ironica.

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Speaker 12: How you're doing? My name is Philip.

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Speaker 4: I'm from CORP. How you doing?

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Speaker 2: I'm good?

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Speaker 14: Thank you? How can I help you today?

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Speaker 12: You were with the company here, see you just left

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Speaker 14: That's correct?

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Speaker 12: And you left with a severance? Am I right?

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Speaker 4: That's right? I'm sorry?

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Speaker 2: Who must be going with?

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Speaker 4: Philip? My name is Philip, Philip. I'm actually calling on

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Speaker 4: some security questions and wanted to reach out to you.

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Speaker 4: Now you you own your own travel agency.

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Speaker 15: Now that's correct, okay.

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Speaker 4: Now you actually left with a severance when you when

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Speaker 16: That's right?

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Speaker 4: Okay? And how long were you actually with FA?

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Speaker 14: I was there for eight years.

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Speaker 16: I'm sorry who I'm thinking to again?

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Speaker 4: My name is Philip. I'm with security.

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Speaker 14: And what can I do for you?

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Speaker 5: Philip?

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Speaker 4: Uh? Well, we got we have you. You started this business?

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Speaker 12: Now?

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Speaker 4: Did you started before you left?

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Speaker 1: Philip?

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Speaker 14: I started this business after I left there.

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Speaker 4: You started it after you left there?

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Speaker 14: That's correct?

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Speaker 4: Month okay.

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Speaker 12: So the reason why I'm giving you a call, and

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Speaker 12: I've been you know, we've gone through some security tapes

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Speaker 12: and things of that nature. We're missing so many rims

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Speaker 12: of paper we're missing thousands of paper clips. We're missing

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Speaker 12: so many.

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Speaker 4: Office supplies, and it's been brought to the securities attention

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Speaker 14: Let me get this right, soil you are calling my

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Speaker 14: place of business, Anthony, if I have used paper clips

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Speaker 14: and paper I have customers in my establishment right now.

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Speaker 14: I can't talk to you about this.

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Speaker 12: Okay, ma'am Listen. I know that I'm sorry for calling

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Speaker 4: Now, So you gotta go, then I'm going to have

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Speaker 4: that I'm trying not to do.

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Speaker 14: You know, hold on one second, you hold that clip.

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Speaker 16: Who is this on my phone talking about from damn

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Speaker 16: paper clips. I have been going from there for six

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Speaker 16: months and you calling me now by some paper and

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Speaker 16: so what paper clips?

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Speaker 12: Man?

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Speaker 4: We're missing at least five thousand paper clips.

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Speaker 14: I'm gonna tell you what you can do this.

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Speaker 16: I have been of that company for six months. I

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Speaker 16: worked for y'all for eight years, and you all let

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Speaker 16: me go. I didn't take anything from you.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 12: Have you ever used any paper or any paper clips

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Speaker 12: outside of Have you done that?

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Speaker 16: Of course I use paper every day. I run a business.

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Speaker 12: Okay, but you're using our paper for your own personal business.

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Speaker 12: You're travel agent or whatever it is that you have.

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Speaker 12: You're using office supplies. That right there is against the laws.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 16: I will go and buy you some damn paper clips.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well we don't want paper clips. Man.

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Speaker 12: Now we've given you a severance play and from my understanding,

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Speaker 12: it's been a substantial amount. And right now it's gonna

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Speaker 4: These paper clips and paper I'm.

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Speaker 16: Gonna tell you what you can do. The five thousand

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Speaker 16: paper clips on paper, clip them together and hang you

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Speaker 16: off for by your I instill the damn paper clips.

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Speaker 16: You're gonna call me six months late to talk about

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Speaker 16: some paper and paper clipst ma'am.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to go back fillip. I'm sorry, this

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Speaker 4: is some filliup. So are you wanting to return all

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Speaker 4: the merchandise because it looks like I didn't take no merchandise.

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Speaker 16: I don't have to steal nothing from y'all. I worked

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Speaker 16: for you for eight years.

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Speaker 4: Talking about for eight years. You stole paper, paper clips,

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Speaker 4: you stole off the supplies, scissors, masking tape. You have

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Speaker 4: taken markers, pens. We got it down to know what.

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Speaker 14: Video tape you got Phillip.

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Speaker 16: I ain't steal nothing from y'all. I was employee of

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Speaker 16: the year. You all gave me a seven package. How

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Speaker 16: can you called me six months?

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Speaker 4: Lady?

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Speaker 16: You can take them paper clips and shove them up

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Speaker 16: your behind.

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Speaker 4: Excuse me?

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Speaker 15: Are we done here?

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Speaker 12: No, we're not done here.

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Speaker 16: So take your video tape and your paper clips and

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Speaker 16: your scissors, and you know what to do with them.

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Speaker 4: No, No, I don't, man. Now listen.

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Speaker 12: What we're gonna have to do is you're gonna get.

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Speaker 4: Served right there at your travel agency. Where are you

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Speaker 12: We're missing over five thousand paper clips and we need those.

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Speaker 16: Now, what's your address? I'm gonna bring your damn paper

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Speaker 16: and paper clips to you.

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Speaker 12: How about that?

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Speaker 4: So you are.

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Speaker 12: You are guilty of using the paper aren't you?

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Speaker 16: We all used paper fillip.

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Speaker 4: On kill, which means guess what it's against the law,

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Speaker 4: which means you have something.

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Speaker 12: If you have taken one paper clip, it's against the law.

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Speaker 12: And we all.

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Speaker 16: You got pins in your car. I feel that a corporation,

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Speaker 16: I bet you do.

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Speaker 4: I work for the company.

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Speaker 16: I'm trying to run a business. So you steeling too.

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Speaker 16: Give me your voice's number. You calling my damn phone

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Speaker 16: talking about some pens and paper cliffs. You lost your line.

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Speaker 16: Give me your address. I'll bring the pens and paper clips.

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Speaker 4: You ain't got to what you do thinking so many

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Speaker 4: pins and so many paper cliffs, thousands.

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Speaker 14: Of runs a business.

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Speaker 4: Don't call my phone with this.

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Speaker 12: I'm gonna stay decision now. I'm gonna go ahead and

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Speaker 12: order come over. I'm ordering the police to come and

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Speaker 12: problem taking care.

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Speaker 4: Of out the phone.

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Speaker 16: Bring the police and you come with them. Come get it.

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Speaker 16: I got something for your when you get here, bring them.

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Speaker 16: You're calling me about some paper and paper cliffs. I've

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Speaker 16: been going from there for six months.

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Speaker 4: C maam, you have stolen paper clips from the company

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Speaker 4: and we want our paper.

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Speaker 16: Bring yo over here. You wanna get more some damn

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Speaker 14: Yo over here if you want to, you want to address,

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Speaker 4: Ll up.

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Speaker 16: Come on, I'm a professional. I'm trying to run a business.

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Speaker 16: I gotta walk away from my customers to deal with

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Speaker 16: some buy some pens and paper.

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Speaker 4: And paper clips. Because you stole over five thousand paper

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Speaker 4: you're fat and you also you better be ready because

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Speaker 4: you stole some stuff for Tommy and he's been over

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Speaker 4: here about it too. Wait a minute, wait, Tommy says

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Speaker 15: Of his stuff.

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Speaker 16: Listen, I don't know no Timmy.

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Speaker 4: You don't know nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 4: You don't know him?

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Speaker 12: I say? Do you know nephew till Me from the

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Speaker 17: You?

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Speaker 12: Your girlfriend Dorothea got me the brank pak are you oo?

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Speaker 15: I'm gonna kick it. I'm gone going to get her

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Speaker 1: For the holidays?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 8: How do you leave your girlfriend at home for the

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Speaker 7: No more?

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Speaker 8: Because when you do, you ain't coming around for the holidays,

450
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 8: and you bringing one over for the holidays, that's a change.

451
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 8: You got another problem cause the girl white. That's because

452
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,160
Speaker 8: you wrote that in the letter. Yeah, that's what's really wrong.

453
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 8: And the sister helped him out. But that don't mean

454
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:43,640
Speaker 8: you got you get that. That doesn't mean that don't

455
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 8: mean you're gonna make the whole cut, you know now,

456
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:48,720
Speaker 8: I know it be out that Well, that's the one,

457
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,679
Speaker 8: that's that what you want? That ain't the one you like?

458
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 8: Now the problem is he bringing his white girl over.

459
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 8: You got a problem. You to know your parents not

460
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 8: to let him do that. He thirty seven. Your daddy

461
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:02,719
Speaker 8: has said, let him do what he want to do,

462
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 8: and brouh, it's your brother's business.

463
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 2: I would avoid. Yeah, there you go. Probably the White House.

464
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 8: He heard the song and he's having it and obviously

465
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 8: been dreaming about it, just like the song. So now welcome.

466
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 8: You know you saw the movie Guess who's coming to dinner?

467
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 1: Well, he wants to confront his brother or a boy family.

468
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 8: Ain't no confront your brother about what? That's your brother,

469
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 8: business man? You bring who you want over for holidays?

470
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 2: Quit tripping? He your brother, all right?

471
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,920
Speaker 11: Moving on Derees and little Rock says, I listened to

472
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 11: you guys online and you have said that men and

473
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:52,639
Speaker 11: women cannot be best friends unless sex is involved.

474
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 1: I want clarification because I've had him.

475
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 2: What I said, go ahead.

476
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,439
Speaker 11: I've had that male best friend for almost ten years,

477
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 11: and now that he is divorced, he wants to stay

478
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,639
Speaker 11: overnight at my house on the weekends. I am not

479
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 11: attracted to him at all. Do you think he's trying

480
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 11: to sleep with me?

481
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:13,120
Speaker 1: What is going on?

482
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 2: What you think?

483
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 4: What? Ever?

484
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 2: What's your money?

485
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 8: Asked to spend a night at your house? For his hotels?

486
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 8: He can stay in his house. Now, what I did

487
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 8: not say is you can't be best friends without sex involved.

488
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 2: I didn't say that.

489
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 8: I said it's hard for a man to be best

490
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 8: friends with the woman he's attracted to. Thus, this man

491
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 8: is attracted to you, and now that he got a divorced,

492
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 8: he don't want to be your friend no more.

493
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 2: He want to sleep with you.

494
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 8: He want to slumber party. Yeah, not damn at all. Okay,

495
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:55,880
Speaker 8: then now we have a problem. But I told you

496
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:59,480
Speaker 8: how men are. I didn't tell you how women are.

497
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 8: I said, if a man is attracted to you, he

498
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 8: will lay and wait till there's a crack in the door.

499
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 8: He got a divorce, he thinks that's the crack in

500
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 8: the door. Now all of a sudden, y'all, friendship, he

501
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 8: won't sleep with you now here. That's what I said,

502
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,719
Speaker 8: and what I stand by what I say, And all

503
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 8: these men out here, no, man, I have very attractive

504
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 8: women that I'm not.

505
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but you would if you could. Dog. So

506
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:24,879
Speaker 2: now listen in that conversation.

507
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 8: Next question, Shirley, all right, Monete, I said that old ass.

508
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 2: I know what I'm talking about.

509
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 11: Monette in Greenville says, my mother and I have dated

510
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,679
Speaker 11: the same man in the past, and now he's married

511
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 11: to a lady we go to church with. I don't

512
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 11: talk to my mother anymore, and I don't fool with

513
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 11: this woman. I want to know why he felt the

514
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 11: needs cheat on me with my mom and then this

515
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 11: older lady at the church. I could see if it

516
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 11: was a sugar mama situation, but it wasn't. Why did

517
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,679
Speaker 11: he feel like she should be a better wife than me?

518
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:01,879
Speaker 1: It's eating at me? So do I get closure?

519
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 8: Wow, you're not gonna get no closure from him. You

520
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 8: need closure with yourself, you and your mama. Dating a

521
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 8: man with hoosh tendencies, a man with holish tendencies has

522
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 8: dated you, your mama and now another woman at the church.

523
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 2: What what is it? You need closure home? Y'all?

524
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 8: Was all attracted to a wish man, not a man

525
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 8: that took his act somewhere else. He don't want you,

526
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 8: and why would you want him? He then slept with

527
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:33,400
Speaker 8: your mama and the other woman.

528
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 2: At the church. And I can promise you it's some more.

529
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 2: He's married at church.

530
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 8: It's okay, it's some more. You pull off a stunt

531
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 8: like this, it's because.

532
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 2: You're good at it. It's some more. Why am I

533
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:49,160
Speaker 2: not good enough?

534
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 7: You?

535
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,160
Speaker 2: You dodged a bullet?

536
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:58,360
Speaker 8: Yeah, be grateful, man, lady, Come on, give yourself breaks.

537
00:27:58,560 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 1: He's married anybody?

538
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:06,160
Speaker 2: What church? Y'all go to? Man? Great?

539
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 8: Anybody been to the passes office about this? What's happened?

540
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 8: He ain't nobody pulled into the office about this one?

541
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 2: Right here?

542
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:18,399
Speaker 8: Y'allly had no church counseling? Is just pop it off? Passages?

543
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 2: Man him?

544
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 8: How many times he'dn't married him?

545
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:24,640
Speaker 2: Alright, let's go on, all right.

546
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 1: Jeanette in Michigan.

547
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,119
Speaker 11: Says, I'm fifty seven years young and I have a

548
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 11: weight loss surgery and I got a nose job. I

549
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 11: was dating a man that didn't mind my weight and

550
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 11: said he loved my big old nose. Now that I've

551
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 11: healed a bit, I tried to rekindle the flame with him,

552
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 11: but he said he's only attracted to big girls. I've

553
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 11: done online dating and I had a blind date. But

554
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 11: nobody turns me on like my ex. If it's real love,

555
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 11: why does size matter? Is he making up excuses because

556
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 11: he's moved on?

557
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 15: Wow?

558
00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 8: He making up excuses because he liked what he liked.

559
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 8: He like them thick. You done lost weight. He like thick,

560
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 8: big nose women wide. No, now you the wild weight

561
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 8: and got your damn nose cut down. Now he theem

562
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 8: went from Dayton Nail Carter to Michael Jackson.

563
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 2: He don't want that. And she put that nose back

564
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 2: on the old Okay.

565
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 8: You know how they put the makeup on your nose

566
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 8: to make it look thinner. Uh huh, yeah, he was

567
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 8: probably wide in that brushstroke out a little bit and

568
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 8: try to make your nose look wider.

569
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: We just forget about it to move on. But as

570
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 1: long as you feel good about yourself, mister.

571
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 8: Steve Martin Marty show man.

572
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: But I got his old wratchet behind.

573
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 10: I won't let me spend none of my money, he said.

574
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 10: My goal is to have my money outlive me. What

575
00:29:58,080 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 10: would I die.

576
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,080
Speaker 15: The money died.

577
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: Live, Poe and die rich.

578
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 10: I'm looking for a casket with a pocket in it

579
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 10: right now.

580
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 9: I don't left these raffles account.

581
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 2: Because they get to spend all day.

582
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 11: Well, all of us here at the Steve Harvey Morning Show,

583
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 11: we can hardly wait till till Christmas. Most of us write, uh,

584
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 11: except for you know who bitter man slash the Grinch.

585
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 11: We call him the Grinch around Christmas. Anthony Brown, Steve

586
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 11: is here your friend.

587
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 8: Now.

588
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: This is his segment. He's calling it Evil Things to

589
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 1: Do for Christmas.

590
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 19: Because I don't know why I have been dubbed the

591
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 19: evilish one on this show because I'm.

592
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 8: Not the evil.

593
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 2: But you only want Yeah, you are Jay, not the evilist.

594
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 2: We didn't have evil to.

595
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you brought evil in.

596
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 19: Evil Things will Do over the Holidays by your Julie

597
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 19: jams and around number one, get yourself a lawn chair

598
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 19: and go to one of those stores electronic stores and

599
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 19: just sit outside and watch people try to put a

600
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 19: big ass TV and a little lass part.

601
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 2: That's so much fun. Bring a lunch, just bring won't

602
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 2: make it.

603
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 19: Yeah, the best part of the when of the guy

604
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 19: who works at his sun gotta go back inside you.

605
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 19: That's the best fun. That is the best even last

606
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 19: thing to do for the holidays. Load up four or

607
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 19: five baskets, load the man you're gonna shop and you'll

608
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 19: walk out and leave them because you know somebody got

609
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 19: to put that stuff back down.

610
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 7: Leave it at the store.

611
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: You're not buying any of it.

612
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 3: Ohoa, this is a real good win. Come out of

613
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 3: the store.

614
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: Go to your car.

615
00:31:54,320 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 19: Okay, back out, pull back in, back out, pull again,

616
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 19: and then then get out.

617
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 3: Go in and then come back out, back out, pull

618
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 3: back in.

619
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 1: Get your friend.

620
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 2: Some people think they got a parking space.

621
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 19: Oh my god, just to look not leaving out there.

622
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 7: There's another one.

623
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 3: This is so much fun.

624
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 19: Put all your trash in a big box, wrap it

625
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 19: up in Christmas paper, put a bow on it, go

626
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 19: to the mall, set it on the hood of your

627
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 19: part and just watch people steal it.

628
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 3: It is so much fun.

629
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 12: I like that.

630
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 19: I love that one to see them drive around like, oh,

631
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 19: there's a box on the car, get it, get it,

632
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 19: Get on the elevator.

633
00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 3: Wait, did you see somebody with a whole lot of packages?

634
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 3: Hurry up, come on, I got it. I'm holding the elevator.

635
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 3: I got it. And when they get there, you let

636
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 3: that dog close right in there? Right, got to yell out.

637
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 2: Right I do I do? I do that a lot

638
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 2: ja elevation.

639
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 20: Yeah.

640
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 2: I don't ride with nobody. I try to act like

641
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 2: I'm trying to pay. Sorry shot, Sorry.

642
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 3: Here's another one.

643
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 19: Get in line with Santa Claus, sit on Santa lamp

644
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 19: and hold up the line. Just pull out along ass list,

645
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 19: just till the kids get irritated. When they stop crying,

646
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 19: it's just and then I'm way hard. I didn't want

647
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 19: to get a new house. Just as long as you

648
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 19: can talk the Santa, the better.

649
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 4: Oh another one.

650
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 2: This is get you stuff. This is a good one.

651
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 19: This is goingead get you a stuffed Santa Claus tied

652
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 19: to the hood of your car, and then drive around

653
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 19: like you hit Santa Claus evil one of them inflatable

654
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:17,240
Speaker 19: Santa Claus hold and tied to the hood and drive

655
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 19: by school.

656
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 3: Hey, what's going on?

657
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 7: Kids?

658
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 3: This is a real good this kind of tricky.

659
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: What is what are we doing here?

660
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 19: Little things to do over the holidays? Candy rounds. Find

661
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 19: your ex girlfriend right on the back of her car.

662
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 19: Merry Christmas, Ho ho ho, here's the kitchen. Here's the catch.

663
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 19: Two of the whole hoes have been written by paint

664
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 19: that will wash off when it rains. So in the

665
00:34:47,000 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 19: back of the car just said Merry Christmas. Ho Come

666
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 19: up and last, but not leave. You know these people

667
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 19: associated you gotta go to a Quanta party.

668
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 3: Uh huh dressed like Santa Claus.

669
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 10: Oh they gonna lose?

670
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 2: Are they gonna take mine.

671
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 10: God, ain't I got a cousin man who celebrate Kwans

672
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 10: do not play.

673
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:36,759
Speaker 8: They do not play seriously, Man, I gotta I got

674
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 8: a family member do that too, Man, I just what

675
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 8: you know, I'll be trying to be respectful of him,

676
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 8: I said to Dog, I can't. Hey, man, why don't

677
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 8: you get back to your Africans? I said, bro, I'm

678
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:51,279
Speaker 8: in touch with my room. But I do like Christmas. Yeah,

679
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 8: you don't even understand what Christmas is. I might know,

680
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 8: but I sure don't understand what Kuans are. So let's

681
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:02,440
Speaker 8: me and you, I said, But just understand, dog, my

682
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 8: whole life I grew up with Christians, just like it.

683
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 8: I ain't Finnah stop.

684
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you should stop. Every black person should stop. No, Dog,

685
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 2: that's a hard say.

686
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 10: Yeah, I can't celebrate a holiday the same age as me.

687
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 10: Christmas way older than me. Yeah, me and Kwans have

688
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 10: both got his.

689
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:27,880
Speaker 4: How long is.

690
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 1: Kwans is it?

691
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 2: It's a certain amount of days?

692
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 1: Seven days?

693
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,879
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's cool for the people that do it, man,

694
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 8: but they be on such an angle for you not

695
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 8: joining in.

696
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,360
Speaker 11: Well, for those of you who celebrate kwansa happy Kwanta

697
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 11: and for those of you.

698
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, celebrate Christmas, Merry Christmas.

699
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 8: And for everybody to celebrate Happy honk just happy holiday. Yeah,

700
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 8: everybody out there, do you and.

701
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 9: I do want to see Santa Claus go to this

702
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 9: for this kwansa party.

703
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 1: You're listening Hardy Morning Show.

704
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714
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Speaker 11: Time now for a round of would you rather? Would

715
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 11: you rather? Guys think about this? Would you rather bring

716
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 11: in the new year naked in bed or dressed to

717
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 11: kill at a party?

718
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 9: Just to kill at a party here, because we're gonna

719
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 9: get to that naked after that party.

720
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 2: It's all no that don't never have.

721
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: The way you think it's gonna happen.

722
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 2: Everybody tied.

723
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:01,360
Speaker 1: Right.

724
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 8: I don't want to be dressed to kill when the

725
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 8: bell got off. Then my last few New Year's Eve

726
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 8: been on time.

727
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 17: Square lord, oh yeah, and you were.

728
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 2: God, it's so anti comatic. Man, when that.

729
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 8: Ball drops, the show should be open. The show is

730
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,439
Speaker 8: thirty minutes after the ball drop. Man, you can see

731
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 8: the sidewalk. Ain't nobody down there?

732
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 2: Yes, a few people. Hey, Steve, Steve can have himself. Steve,

733
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 2: Steve can't take pictures. And then man, I'm so, I'm

734
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 2: so done with it. Yeah, you've been.

735
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: Preparing for it all day, rehearsals and all that.

736
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 17: Right, you want to call it, it's work work.

737
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 2: The rehearsal is all day.

738
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,799
Speaker 8: You rehearse all day, and then you take off one hour,

739
00:38:57,880 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 8: and then you come back and start taking jump because

740
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:02,760
Speaker 8: you start taking show at eight, Well.

741
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 11: You do it.

742
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:06,799
Speaker 1: That's full day, all right.

743
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 11: So naked one, naked one dressed to kill at a

744
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 11: party and you're you're naked to junior naked?

745
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, newly went, Okay.

746
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 2: Okay, y'all is y'all naked with your shirt on? Or

747
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 2: just full of nicked?

748
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 8: Do you understand what naked means? You know, we don't

749
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 8: what we don't want to do is go with basic English.

750
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 7: Rather basic?

751
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:38,800
Speaker 2: Now is your shirt on any socks?

752
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 8: Or one leg in your what's the next?

753
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,399
Speaker 2: Are we on your nerves right now?

754
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 4: All right?

755
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:50,879
Speaker 11: Would you rather go ice skating with family? Or would

756
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 11: you rather go ice fishing with your friends? Ice skating

757
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 11: or your family?

758
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 1: You want to go fishing with your friends?

759
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 2: Fishing?

760
00:39:58,160 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 7: Hell?

761
00:39:58,440 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think ice skating with mo.

762
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 1: I'm going at your house.

763
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 2: It's hard to watch, Steve. Help me get around here?

764
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 2: Help you.

765
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 7: All right?

766
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 1: Last one warmed?

767
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 11: Would you rather warmed baked banana pudding or cold baked

768
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 11: cold banana pudding?

769
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:23,640
Speaker 1: Which one you're like? How do you like your banana pudding?

770
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 2: I'm cold?

771
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 1: Cold?

772
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 2: Yeah?

773
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 3: Cold?

774
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 2: Oh no, nobody want hot ass? That up? It's good?

775
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 2: Hell don't want hot ass banana? Good? Said he? I

776
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:41,719
Speaker 2: want a hot ass banana. I like it. I like it?

777
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 2: Like what I like?

778
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 4: Yo? Yo?

779
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 3: What's up to Shah? Homie ice cube?

780
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:51,280
Speaker 19: Wishing everybody a happy holidays from my family to yours

781
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 19: and the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

782
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: What up Steve?

783
00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:00,319
Speaker 11: It is time once again to check Steve's voicemail. These

784
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:03,840
Speaker 11: calls we're going to continue him eight seven seven twenty

785
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:06,320
Speaker 11: nine Steve, and Steve, we have a lot of messages

786
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 11: about yesterday's Strawberry letter. Remember it was called too Good

787
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 11: to be True. It was about a woman who was

788
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 11: dating a man for about a month and he took

789
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 11: her to his high school reunion. At the reunion, he

790
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:20,320
Speaker 11: ate some bad tuna. She warned him about this tuna,

791
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 11: telling him it didn't smell right, but he didn't listen

792
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:26,280
Speaker 11: ate it anyway. He got sick and while at home

793
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 11: he asked her to stay with him. She said no

794
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 11: and suggested that he go to the er, and she left.

795
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 11: The next day she called a check on him. He

796
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 11: told her basically he didn't want to see her again.

797
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:40,320
Speaker 11: This is from Sophia in New Orleans.

798
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:41,720
Speaker 4: Good morning, Steve.

799
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:46,319
Speaker 13: This is Sophia from New Orleans. I'm writing to work

800
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 13: and I'm listioning to the Steed Harvey Morning Show. I

801
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 13: just heard part one of the Strawberry letter, too Good

802
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 13: to be True, and I'm with you one hundred percent, Steve,

803
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 13: because young lady does not know how to take care

804
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:07,360
Speaker 13: of a man. She should have stayed with him, she

805
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 13: should have taken.

806
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 4: Him to the hospital.

807
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 13: She blew it, and she doesn't deserve the good man

808
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 13: that she claimed to have had the opportunity to share

809
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 13: one month with.

810
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:22,319
Speaker 1: She killed it.

811
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 13: You guys, keep doing what you're doing and have a

812
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 13: blessed day.

813
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 8: You know, I agree with you say, because you know what, man,

814
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 8: it don't hurt to care about a person. He was

815
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,759
Speaker 8: sick as hell. He wasn't trying to sleep with the girl.

816
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 8: He said, just would you stay with me? She said no,

817
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 8: if you that's it, go to the er. Okay, cool,

818
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 8: here this man trying to find somebody to ride with.

819
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 2: You know, it's just a simple test. You could have said.

820
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:52,360
Speaker 8: She could have said, hey, listen, I will stay with you,

821
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:53,839
Speaker 8: but I'm gonna stay here on the sofa and if

822
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 8: I hear you need anything, I'm here for you.

823
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:55,880
Speaker 4: Now.

824
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 8: That would have made a dude feel one hundred percent better.

825
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 8: But oh no, uh, that's said go to the er.

826
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:05,920
Speaker 8: I'm bouncing deuces. Okay, cool, Okay, clearly you ain't what

827
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:06,399
Speaker 8: he needs.

828
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,839
Speaker 2: He just worked. Okay, that's just a sickness, and let's

829
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 2: get I tell.

830
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 8: This praise the helper out and read out of money.

831
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 8: Br br If you ain't there, If you you you

832
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 8: That's why I tell people about relationships.

833
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 2: Let your relationship got to be tested.

834
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:30,040
Speaker 11: Go ahead, we have another one from Houston. Her name

835
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:31,479
Speaker 11: is Marie. Let's see what she says.

836
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 20: Hey, Steve and the crew, this is Marie from Houston, Texas.

837
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 20: I'm calling about the strawberry letter the guys did Tuesday.

838
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:42,160
Speaker 20: He turned out he was too good to be true.

839
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 20: Shirley's like, you know, well you too, let it go.

840
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 20: And then Steve just went in on this woman because

841
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 20: she wouldn't stay with the man. Baby who wasn't you know,

842
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 20: thoughtful enough, wasn't smart enough to list of it. She

843
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 20: told him the tuna fish was bad. He didn't listen.

844
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 20: He scarfd down and held a bunch of them anyway,

845
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 20: which is why he wound up being in the bathroom

846
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 20: for a long damn time.

847
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 1: And then he's.

848
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 20: Mad because she wouldn't stay overnight with him and baby him,

849
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 20: and Steve's all on the on the woman, ting about

850
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 20: that's why you that's probably why you ain't got nobody now. Well,

851
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 20: first of all, she had him, and secondly he was

852
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:23,800
Speaker 20: singled who thirty eight years old, no kids, never married,

853
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:27,400
Speaker 20: so that's a that's a bad thing for her to

854
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 20: like still be single at that point, but not for

855
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 20: him as some double standard. Steve, he didn't have no

856
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 20: damn body either before he started dating her the month before.

857
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 20: And I kind of I tried with the woman. She

858
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 20: didn't feel like staying there and been days that damn

859
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 20: long you're talking about, get some super so she didn't

860
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:47,399
Speaker 20: feel like it. And if he's out because of that,

861
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 20: oh well, he sounds like a big old man.

862
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:49,919
Speaker 4: Baby.

863
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,240
Speaker 20: If he just listened to her about the dad tuna

864
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:56,959
Speaker 20: fish tip began with his ass, wouldn't have gotten food poisoning. Noting, Steve,

865
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 20: you look too hard on her. Damn him, you know,

866
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:03,920
Speaker 20: is his ass thirty eight, never been married and stuff,

867
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 20: and it sounds like too big of a prize the

868
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 20: damn self.

869
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 8: Bye, guys, and baby, I one hundred percent. I one

870
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 8: hundred percent agree with you too.

871
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 1: That's right. Give baby, Yeah.

872
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:23,440
Speaker 2: You said what you said. That's fine. That's how you

873
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 2: want to view it. That's how you can view it.

874
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:27,799
Speaker 8: But now, ain't nobody got nobody now, damn And you know,

875
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 8: dudes don't listen. Good Yeah he should have listened, but

876
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 8: he didn't, now you know. But then you know she's

877
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 8: sitting up here, she's gonna walk away from good ass man,

878
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:37,399
Speaker 8: over that right there, y'all keep.

879
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:40,919
Speaker 2: Doing it like this, you ain't gonna have nobody.

880
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 8: All right, coming right, it's off the blocks for Dayton.

881
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 11: Well, you're not in today's prank phone call. Right after this,

882
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 11: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up

883
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,479
Speaker 11: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after.

884
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 11: It's my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is

885
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 11: is ex wife got a real Christmas tree?

886
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:03,879
Speaker 2: Oh?

887
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:07,399
Speaker 1: Hell, we'll talk about that and a few uh.

888
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:13,399
Speaker 11: Well, get into that just a few because right now

889
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 11: the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.

890
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: What you got for us today, nephew?

891
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:23,240
Speaker 2: A wedding and a funeral? That's too much.

892
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 21: A wedding and a fun trying trying me today with him,

893
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 21: They trying try a.

894
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 2: Wedding.

895
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 8: But I like the way he gave me, had the

896
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 8: call he got because he didn't have win all in

897
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:49,320
Speaker 8: the back of his throat wind.

898
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 2: Playing man, let's go care. I'm not gonna say it again.

899
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:02,799
Speaker 4: I'm trying Ryan, Ryan, how you doing. Hey, I'm good.

900
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 4: I'm thinking this is Josh Josh over at thee I'm

901
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:07,879
Speaker 4: one of the officials at the church where you guys

902
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 4: are getting married tomorrow. Yeah, yeah, how you doing, man?

903
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 4: I want to thank y'all for that too, man. We

904
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:14,879
Speaker 4: we'll appreciate it sure here.

905
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:16,719
Speaker 12: Well, we definitely hope to make you a member here

906
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:18,800
Speaker 12: sooner or later since you guys are getting married.

907
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 4: You know, hey, man, you know I'm trying to get

908
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:22,839
Speaker 4: this work schedule changed up. You know what I'm saying.

909
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 4: They got me working on Sundays now, man, So as

910
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 4: soon as I tweak at a mood at around a

911
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:27,919
Speaker 4: little bit, I'll be there.

912
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 12: Okay, listen, we have a bit of a situation that's

913
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 12: come up. We had some problems and miscommunication and it's

914
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 12: definitely been on the outside.

915
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 4: They had your name Ryan down here with your phone

916
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:42,360
Speaker 4: number as well as you as soon to be wife Sonya.

917
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:44,360
Speaker 4: They had her name here, but we didn't want to

918
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 4: call her with if we wanted to just reach out

919
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 4: and talk to you and see if it just make

920
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:51,799
Speaker 4: you aware of what was going on. Okay, what's going on? Man,

921
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,399
Speaker 4: there's been a mix up on on scheduling. I don't

922
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 4: know if you know su the older make she passed

923
00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 4: away a week ago, and you're not you're not a

924
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:01,880
Speaker 4: member of the church, so you wouldn't know it. But

925
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 4: she's one of the one of the oldest members here

926
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:06,879
Speaker 4: at the church. It's the older may passed away. And

927
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:11,279
Speaker 4: what's going on? Is you all's wedding is tomorrow at

928
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 4: twelve o'clock, right, but the actual funeral is at three

929
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 4: o'clock here at the church. Okay, uh began, Brother Josh, Josh, Okay,

930
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 4: look here, brother Josh. Hey, man, we we already got

931
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 4: this thing in motion. Man, we didn't stand down. They

932
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 4: have mere two hundred invitations. Man, I mean, blessed us

933
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 4: so old man, and and I understand that, but but

934
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 4: but I mean, you know, she's there's no way we

935
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 4: could have moved it around.

936
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:41,160
Speaker 12: Now the figures problem.

937
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 4: The funeral home is bringing the casket first thing in

938
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 4: the morning. So what I want what I wanted to

939
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 4: make you aware of. And I don't want you to

940
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 4: tell you why this, but the actual casket will be

941
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 4: in the Saint Arear, but we will have it come rollo.

942
00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 4: Hold on, man, are you serious? I look at him. Hey,

943
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 4: y'alln't need to move this around. I don't know what

944
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:01,600
Speaker 4: y'all gonna do. Y'all have a fellowship all in the

945
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:02,800
Speaker 4: back or something.

946
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:06,319
Speaker 12: Like that, Ryan. The only place we can actually put

947
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 12: the cask in it if we didn't put it there,

948
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 12: is in the actual room that you'll as soon to

949
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 12: be wife would be changing in. That's the only place.

950
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 4: My wife, say, could have changed no room with no

951
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 4: dead body, you kidding? And you know what, I understood that.

952
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 4: That's the first thing I thought of it. I thought,

953
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 4: I said that, just put the casket the way it

954
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 4: goes for the and we're gonna cover it up and

955
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:31,439
Speaker 4: see basically you actually get in. Wow, I can't even

956
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 4: believe you call it. What did the man look at

957
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 4: the excuse my french man? Yeah, I know I need

958
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 4: to get back into church, I really do. But right now, Doug,

959
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 4: this ain't going down like this man. Now, we didn't

960
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:44,399
Speaker 4: already pay the money. First of all. First of all,

961
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:48,319
Speaker 4: you know, I don't even feel like she may to pay,

962
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 4: you know, to to hold no wed and over and

963
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 4: hunt her to where she pay tithes at. That's that's

964
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 4: the first thing. You know. I ain't like that from

965
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 4: the jumping, but I wouldn't head when winning because she

966
00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 4: want her pastor to marry us. And now you got

967
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 4: the nerve to tell me it's how we arrange something

968
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 4: that funeral will happen the same day as my wedding,

969
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:05,879
Speaker 4: and my wife got to get dressed in the room

970
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 4: with a dead body.

971
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 12: Well, we're not gonna put it in that bro. Like

972
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 12: I say, I'm putting that body first thing in the morning.

973
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 4: I'm gonna put that body in the right there in

974
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,799
Speaker 4: front of the fullpit, and we're gonna cover it. Now,

975
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:20,440
Speaker 4: what you're getting out of it is you're getting more flowers,

976
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 4: because there's gonna be flowers from the funeral. So I'm

977
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 4: thinking that's probably gonna be a little bit of a perk.

978
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 4: But I just wanted you to they don't wear it.

979
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 4: It's probably gonna be more people than you think because

980
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 4: some of the people that's gonna be at their wedding

981
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 4: it's really for the funeral. A hold on, man, are

982
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:38,799
Speaker 4: you serious right that? I mean, look here, doctor, I

983
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 4: then paid for the wedding that happened at this church. Man, okay,

984
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 4: And no disrespect to the lady that is past, God

985
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:48,239
Speaker 4: bless her family. I ain't planning to not putting no

986
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 4: dead body, having no funerals at my wedding. Man, that's crazy.

987
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 4: I'm gonna come down there church, too, sir. She's a

988
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:58,360
Speaker 4: member of the church too. I don't give it. I

989
00:50:58,360 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 4: don't be no member of the church.

990
00:50:59,560 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 19: Man.

991
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 4: I ben paid for this win and it's gonna happen tomorrow. Man,

992
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 4: you my fixing and putting no dead body at my wedding.

993
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 4: What's right? Right?

994
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 12: I mean no difference.

995
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 4: But the woman has passed. She is not gonna get up.

996
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 4: I mean, what what is the town? The problem is? YO?

997
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 4: Calls me with this man the day before my wedding.

998
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:24,279
Speaker 4: We didn't schedule there six months ago. I gotta spend

999
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,400
Speaker 4: twenty five thirty thousand dollars on this wed.

1000
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 15: Okay, and I do gonna tell me that we got

1001
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:28,439
Speaker 15: to show.

1002
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:30,800
Speaker 4: I will wed with a tremble. But the hell is

1003
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 4: wrong with you? Man?

1004
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 15: You man something?

1005
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 4: Do you want to have your wedding at this church?

1006
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:37,879
Speaker 4: I paid for the what you mean wrong? I'm having

1007
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:39,879
Speaker 4: a wedding, okay. I tell you what. Let the body

1008
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 4: up in the marning. I rolled in the right up

1009
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:43,600
Speaker 4: the street planning. Y'all just stay out there in the

1010
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:46,439
Speaker 4: front and and and throw for hours like throwing rice.

1011
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 4: But we're gonna have a wedding. It's out the same

1012
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 4: Jerry Tomorrow I promise you that I can't. I cannot

1013
00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 4: assure you that it won't be I have no other

1014
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:56,879
Speaker 4: place to put the body. Okay, well, I'll bet you'll

1015
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 4: find somewhere to put it. If I get that a mark,

1016
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 4: it's a body. Now, there's gonna be a couple of

1017
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:03,799
Speaker 4: boudies in there. And ain't you got two choices? To

1018
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 4: move the funeral or to rembursity back. It's thirty thousand

1019
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:09,240
Speaker 4: dollars out of our respend. Those are the two choices

1020
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 4: I want to hear about it. Meet me at the

1021
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 4: front door to night with a thirty thousand dollars cashier check,

1022
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 4: or we say to have this wedding up in there

1023
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 4: tomorrow morning. You heard me. I ain't playing. I ain't

1024
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 4: playing at all, no joke. What's wrong with child? Man?

1025
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:24,960
Speaker 12: You can do something else, man, I understand that I

1026
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:25,719
Speaker 12: don't want to know.

1027
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 4: More from you. Man, all I'm saying is it's gonna

1028
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:31,919
Speaker 4: be a wedding at this church tomorrow without saying dead body.

1029
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:32,879
Speaker 4: That's all I'm saying.

1030
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 12: To push it to the band, man, there's one more

1031
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:37,799
Speaker 12: bit of an issue that I need to tell you.

1032
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:40,319
Speaker 4: Also, what can be worse than a dead body. What

1033
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:43,279
Speaker 4: issue can be worse than dead body at my wedding? Man?

1034
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 4: The issue is there that is worse than the dead

1035
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 4: body is? This is next few time and from the

1036
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:52,279
Speaker 4: Steve Harby Morning. Sure your best man, Jeff got me

1037
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:53,799
Speaker 4: the prank phone. Call you.

1038
00:52:55,800 --> 00:53:03,360
Speaker 15: What you know what made the bench man about to

1039
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:07,880
Speaker 15: get the best what he can possibly get? Man playing

1040
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 15: then got leave to get the best beat down possible.

1041
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:18,919
Speaker 4: Man, I'll telling you, hey, one more question.

1042
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 12: What's the baddest radio show in the land?

1043
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 4: Right, Steve Hall, good morning show.

1044
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:32,400
Speaker 2: Baby, there is where the funeral? Come on? Wait, where's

1045
00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:37,319
Speaker 2: my fan fauld? Where about it? Hold up? Hold up, y'all,

1046
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 2: I don't I don't understand. I thought the thing was

1047
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:41,960
Speaker 2: praising a raise.

1048
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 9: That's that's coming up on the strawberry left. You're supposed

1049
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 9: to be questionhiping my prank right now?

1050
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 2: Okay, that's all right? Come on, come on, I need

1051
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:53,320
Speaker 2: some claps.

1052
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 9: I need some hugs. K Come on, that's a home wrong.

1053
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 9: We're gonna where it does. He can go have his

1054
00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 9: wedding right here. White's body here. I took a cleanse.

1055
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:08,360
Speaker 9: I just it's over sharing.

1056
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, no good, no tell us about it y'all. All right,

1057
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 2: there you have it.

1058
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:18,959
Speaker 9: Get ready to my next stop is a December twenty

1059
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,839
Speaker 9: eight that is called It's called the New Year's Comedy Jam.

1060
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 9: It is actually on December twenty eight at the Dog

1061
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 9: Constitution Hall in Washington, d C. That's Tony Robbins lands

1062
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Speaker 9: Wood was Red Grant Lounail Bruce Bruce, hosted by Yours

1063
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Speaker 9: truly nef you Timmy all right.

1064
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 2: Tickets on sale right now.

1065
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:39,439
Speaker 9: You can make that a great stocking stuffer and put

1066
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 9: it in somebody's stocking and give them some laughs for

1067
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:46,719
Speaker 9: the Christmas holidays. Laying in the cut after that is Milwaukee, Milwaukee,

1068
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:50,440
Speaker 9: The Nephew was coming. That would be MLK Weekend at

1069
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:53,839
Speaker 9: the Improv in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. Tickets on sale right now.

1070
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 9: The nephew coming through. I ain't never been up in there,

1071
00:54:57,280 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 9: so come watch, come see what all the us is

1072
00:54:59,200 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 9: all about.

1073
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 11: Hi, nephew, will thank you. Coming up next it is

1074
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 11: the Strawberry Letter for today. The subject is his ex

1075
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:08,360
Speaker 11: wife got.

1076
00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: A real Christmas tree. We'll get into that right after this.

1077
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 18: When America needed hope, they delivered this Christmas discovered the

1078
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Speaker 18: and only all black, all female battalion to serve overseas

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Speaker 18: doing World War Two. Their mission to boost the morale

1081
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Speaker 18: of soldiers With a little love from back Home. With

1082
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Speaker 18: a powerhouse performance from Carrie Washington, the Sixth Triple Eight

1083
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1084
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Speaker 1: Touch your heart.

1085
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:39,120
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Speaker 18: Tyler Perry, Watch only on Netflix December twentieth.

1087
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Speaker 11: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now

1088
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 11: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, works, sex, parenting,

1089
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:58,759
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1090
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Speaker 11: com and click the Strawberry Letter. We could be reading

1091
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 11: your letter live on the air, just like we're going

1092
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:07,800
Speaker 11: to read this one right here, right now. You never know,

1093
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 11: it could be yours.

1094
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 10: All right, everybody, buck love and hold on tight. It's

1095
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 10: time for a strawberry little My friend Shirley Strawberry.

1096
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 1: Thank you, my friend Junior. It's subject.

1097
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:24,880
Speaker 11: What happened his ex wife got a real Christmas Tree

1098
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:28,800
Speaker 11: is the subject of this letter for today. Dear Stephen, Shirley,

1099
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:32,279
Speaker 11: I'm on my second marriage and there's an issue in

1100
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:35,480
Speaker 11: my marriage. My husband was married for eighteen years and

1101
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:38,759
Speaker 11: he's got two daughters and joint custody of them. I

1102
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:41,400
Speaker 11: have a daughter that lives with us. We've blended the

1103
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 11: family nicely, and his daughters are sweet to my daughter,

1104
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:47,719
Speaker 11: but they like to remind her that their father is

1105
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:50,880
Speaker 11: not her father. My husband is not good at setting

1106
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:52,760
Speaker 11: boundaries for his ex wife.

1107
00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:55,400
Speaker 1: When we started dating, he let me know.

1108
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:57,799
Speaker 11: That he and his ex are friends and whatever he

1109
00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:01,359
Speaker 11: does for her is for his daughter. I can accept that,

1110
00:57:01,680 --> 00:57:03,880
Speaker 11: but when it gets to be too much, I stepped

1111
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 11: in to help him set boundaries. The other day, he

1112
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:10,320
Speaker 11: told me that since his ex wife and the girls

1113
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:13,720
Speaker 11: moved into a new house, he wanted to buy his daughter's.

1114
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 1: A nice Christmas tree.

1115
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 11: I was against it, but then I realized his daughter's feelings.

1116
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 11: Then I considered his daughter's feelings and I agree to it.

1117
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 11: We got a little seven foot artificial tree out of

1118
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 11: the storage room, and I went and bought new ornaments. Saturday,

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00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 11: he told me he was picking up his daughters to

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00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 11: get a tree, and he took my daughter with them.

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00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 1: I wasn't invited.

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00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:40,960
Speaker 11: Two hours after they left, my daughter posted a video

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00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 11: in her Instagram story and they were shopping for a

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00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 11: real tree. They picked a giant, beautiful, real, fluffy tree.

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00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:51,840
Speaker 11: I had assumed they would go to Walmart and buy

1126
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 11: an artificial tree. My daughter said they took the tree

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00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 11: to his ex wife's house and he set it up

1128
00:57:57,680 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 11: for them.

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00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:00,440
Speaker 1: He set it up for them and they decorated it together.

1130
00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:04,240
Speaker 11: I was crushed because I decorated our fake tree alone

1131
00:58:04,320 --> 00:58:08,160
Speaker 11: while they were gone. My husband always justifies things by

1132
00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 11: saying that his daughter shouldn't suffer because he left their mother.

1133
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 11: Does he do it out of guilt? Will his ex

1134
00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 11: wife be forever a part of our family?

1135
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:18,080
Speaker 7: Well?

1136
00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, in a sense.

1137
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 11: She may not be a part of your family, Okay,

1138
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:25,920
Speaker 11: but she is the mother of your husband's daughters, and

1139
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 11: those are your stepdaughters. So the ex will always be

1140
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:33,040
Speaker 11: in your life somehow, Okay, as long as you know

1141
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 11: she's got the daughters and everything.

1142
00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 4: You know.

1143
00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 11: My issue is with you, though, really, I mean this

1144
00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:42,439
Speaker 11: is kind of petty. You're worried about a Christmas tree here.

1145
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:45,320
Speaker 11: I think you're saying it's about that, but what it

1146
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 11: really is is that you don't want your man over there,

1147
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 11: and you don't want him over there doing stuff for them,

1148
00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:53,200
Speaker 11: like putting up the tree as a family. I think

1149
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 11: you're jealous when where this is concerned. But I'm telling

1150
00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:00,439
Speaker 11: you don't be insecure. Because he still wants to spend

1151
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:03,880
Speaker 11: time with his daughters. That means he's a good dad. Okay,

1152
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:07,520
Speaker 11: he's right. He left their mom, not his kids, so

1153
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:09,959
Speaker 11: he wants to continue to show up in their life

1154
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 11: for them as their father. He and the ex don't

1155
00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 11: have anything going on. I mean, if you guys can

1156
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 11: afford it, why don't you, You know, if there's something

1157
00:59:19,760 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 11: wrong with your tree, why don't you and your husband

1158
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 11: and the girls go out and get a tree.

1159
00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: You didn't have to stay.

1160
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:27,920
Speaker 11: There and decorate the tree by yourself. You could have

1161
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:30,480
Speaker 11: waited until they came home and you guys could have

1162
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 11: done it together. You know, he just went with the

1163
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 11: girls to get a new tree. You need to talk

1164
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:38,160
Speaker 11: to him if you have a problem with how he's

1165
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 11: moving right now. But he sounds like a father who's

1166
00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:43,120
Speaker 11: just trying to do the right thing to me. As

1167
00:59:43,160 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 11: crazy as that all seems, it sounds. Yeah, I don't

1168
00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:47,000
Speaker 11: have a problem with this.

1169
00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 2: Steve, Well, it's a twofold situation.

1170
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 8: In my eyes, he's being a good dad and he's

1171
00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:57,040
Speaker 8: being punished for that.

1172
00:59:57,760 --> 01:00:00,080
Speaker 2: But he's doing it, and he's making a couple the

1173
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:01,760
Speaker 2: mistakes the way he's doing it.

1174
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Speaker 8: You know, first of all, when y'all this is both

1175
01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:11,200
Speaker 8: of y'all second marriage, he set this whole thing up

1176
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:17,560
Speaker 8: by telling you that, you know, look, but I'm gonna

1177
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:21,520
Speaker 8: do stuff with a daughter, and I'm gonna do stuff

1178
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 8: for my daughter, and I'm gonna do stuff for her,

1179
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 8: but the.

1180
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:25,840
Speaker 2: Reason I'm doing it for her is for my daughter.

1181
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:28,520
Speaker 8: He set all of this up with you in the

1182
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:32,760
Speaker 8: beginning because he's active in their life, as he should be.

1183
01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 8: Now you all say, you all have blended the family

1184
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:38,240
Speaker 8: together nicely, but the daughters are sweet to your daughter,

1185
01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 8: but they always remind her that ain't your daddy. They

1186
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 8: do that kid's gonna be kids. They're gonna jockey for position.

1187
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 8: Your husband is not good with setting boundaries for his

1188
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 8: ex wife, and his ex wife is flexing because she

1189
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 8: has two kids with him and she's taking advantage of it. Now,

1190
01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 8: let's get to the whole thing about what this letter

1191
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 8: is about. His axe got a real Christmas tree. First

1192
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 8: of all, when he picked up the daughter, when he

1193
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 8: picked up his two daughters, and he took your daughter.

1194
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 8: He took your daughter, which is his daughter, which is

1195
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:23,439
Speaker 8: to his biological daughters, because he wanted to get them

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01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 8: a tree because they had moved into a new house. Well,

1197
01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:33,000
Speaker 8: now here the problem you made though when you took

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01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:38,560
Speaker 8: your daughter from your new wife with you, and she

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01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:42,680
Speaker 8: posted it on a story. So I'm assuming that these

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01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 8: might these might be teenage kids if they can post

1201
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:47,960
Speaker 8: on stories and stuff.

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01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, what did you say?

1203
01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:54,120
Speaker 11: Wait, say that one more time, Steve, about the daughters.

1204
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 11: What I just wanted you to say that one more time?

1205
01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 11: What you said about the daughters. He has two daughters

1206
01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:04,800
Speaker 11: with his ex. He has two daughters with his ex,

1207
01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 11: and then the wife had a daughter.

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01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 1: The new wife has a second wife has a daughter.

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01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:14,200
Speaker 8: Okay, but see that's his daughter. He has three daughters.

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01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 2: Now, yeah, right, right, separate them. If you separate them,

1211
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:21,240
Speaker 2: they will help you separate. Yes, yeah, maybe that's what

1212
01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 2: the deal is.

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01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:23,920
Speaker 8: When I come back, I'm gonna tell you the mistake

1214
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:26,640
Speaker 8: he's making with this. He's a great dad, but he's

1215
01:02:26,640 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 8: making a mistakes.

1216
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 1: All right.

1217
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:31,240
Speaker 11: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at

1218
01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 11: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject

1219
01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:38,080
Speaker 11: is his ex wife got a real Christmas tree. We'll

1220
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 11: get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve

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01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:47,320
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Speaker 11: all in one place. All right, Steve, come on, let's

1232
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:17,320
Speaker 11: recap today's strawberry letter. The subject his ex wife got

1233
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:18,680
Speaker 11: a real Christmas tree?

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01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:21,280
Speaker 2: Okay, So on the break, I read this letter again.

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01:03:21,520 --> 01:03:23,840
Speaker 8: This married This man was married to this woman for

1236
01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 8: eighteen years and they got two daughters. His ex wife

1237
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:29,040
Speaker 8: were married eighteen years and they got two daughters. So

1238
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:32,520
Speaker 8: I'm going to assume that these two daughters are teenagers. Yeah,

1239
01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:36,200
Speaker 8: because they got Instagram and they post his stories. You

1240
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 8: she the woman he's married to now, who's writing this letter.

1241
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:44,200
Speaker 8: She has a daughter from her previous marriage. I don't

1242
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 8: know how she is, but they treat her nicely. But

1243
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 8: they do remind her that he's not your real daddy.

1244
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:55,480
Speaker 8: That's our real daddy. But they treat her nicely, and

1245
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 8: you all have blend and they're sweet to the girl. Okay, cool,

1246
01:03:58,520 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 8: So we got that out the way.

1247
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:01,000
Speaker 4: Now.

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01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:03,880
Speaker 8: The man set this up by telling you, listen, I'm

1249
01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:06,439
Speaker 8: gonna do some things for my wife, my ex wife,

1250
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:07,480
Speaker 8: because we're friends.

1251
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 2: But everything I do for is because of the daughters.

1252
01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:10,600
Speaker 4: You.

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01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 8: Okay with that, Now let's get to what the problem is.

1254
01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:18,760
Speaker 8: It's a Christmas tree. He the ex wife and the

1255
01:04:18,800 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 8: two daughters that moved into a new house. He wants

1256
01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:26,360
Speaker 8: to get them a nice tree for their house for Christmas. Okay,

1257
01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 8: So he takes your daughter, which is his daughter from

1258
01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:37,400
Speaker 8: this marriage, Christmas tree shopping with his daughters from his

1259
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:41,560
Speaker 8: previous man, and he goes and buys them a real.

1260
01:04:41,640 --> 01:04:44,600
Speaker 2: Christmas tree, big old fluffy tree.

1261
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:47,720
Speaker 8: You that went to the storage room and went out

1262
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 8: there and got that little ragged ass Sears tree seven.

1263
01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:56,200
Speaker 2: Feet tall in the box. Man, that's in the box

1264
01:04:56,240 --> 01:05:01,360
Speaker 2: that you been putting up for years. And so now.

1265
01:05:02,560 --> 01:05:07,760
Speaker 8: You bought some ornaments for the treat, some new ornaments.

1266
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 2: They went tree shopping.

1267
01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:15,320
Speaker 8: You look on Instagram, your daughter the posted they bought

1268
01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:18,960
Speaker 8: a tree. They take the tree to his ex wife's

1269
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:22,400
Speaker 8: house where his daughters live. They set the tree up

1270
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:26,439
Speaker 8: and they all decorated. Now you said earlier they went

1271
01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:30,240
Speaker 8: Christmas tree shopping and you weren't invited. Okay, it was

1272
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 8: just him and the girls. So that's cool because the

1273
01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:36,040
Speaker 8: tree is for the girls. But it's at the ex

1274
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:41,160
Speaker 8: wife's house. I mean, that's what it is, so in

1275
01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:44,840
Speaker 8: the waiters would be cool. Here's the mistake he's making.

1276
01:05:46,160 --> 01:05:52,640
Speaker 8: You got to not make them kids feel and see

1277
01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:57,880
Speaker 8: a difference. You've got to go above and beyond in

1278
01:05:57,960 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 8: treating them the same and eat.

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01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 2: This is not your stepdaughter, this is your daughter.

1280
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 8: If the daughters get a real tree, everybody get a

1281
01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 8: real tree.

1282
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:12,360
Speaker 2: Yes see, he should have bought two real trees.

1283
01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:15,960
Speaker 8: What he should have did because you can't make the

1284
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:22,240
Speaker 8: quote unquote step daughter feel step See. The reason we

1285
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 8: never use the word step in our family was because

1286
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:30,160
Speaker 8: when you say step child, it's usually like a step down,

1287
01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:34,880
Speaker 8: and it's like a step down from the level that

1288
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:37,640
Speaker 8: the regular children on that's why we never use that term.

1289
01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:41,160
Speaker 2: So now, but you can't let them see or feel

1290
01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:41,760
Speaker 2: the difference.

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01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 8: Now, if his daughter's got a big fluffy Christmas tree,

1292
01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:47,080
Speaker 8: he should have got a big Christmas tree at his

1293
01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:47,840
Speaker 8: house too.

1294
01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:50,400
Speaker 2: That's the mistake he made.

1295
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 8: Yes, that would that that would have cleared this whole

1296
01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 8: thing up.

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01:06:55,560 --> 01:06:57,240
Speaker 2: And bruh, that's all you got to do.

1298
01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:02,920
Speaker 8: Everybody got to get equal and light treatment, period. And

1299
01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 8: you can't have your new wife feeling some kind of

1300
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:07,919
Speaker 8: way because you're doing all this extra stuff for your

1301
01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 8: ex wife, because that's how she looking at that too. Oh,

1302
01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:14,160
Speaker 8: she got a treat. And y'all all decorate the tree together.

1303
01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:16,240
Speaker 8: I didn't know you was gonna go over there and

1304
01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:18,560
Speaker 8: put it up and decorate it together. I wanted to

1305
01:07:18,600 --> 01:07:21,680
Speaker 8: surprise y'all when you came home. Y'all come home late.

1306
01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 8: I'd have decorated the tree by myself. And y'all asked,

1307
01:07:25,280 --> 01:07:26,760
Speaker 8: was over there having family time?

1308
01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:27,520
Speaker 2: Right?

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01:07:28,800 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 8: You see why she said? You see now she gonna

1310
01:07:31,200 --> 01:07:33,479
Speaker 8: be upset about that dog. And this is your mom,

1311
01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:36,840
Speaker 8: because you gotta do everything equal. If you're over there

1312
01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:39,360
Speaker 8: having hot chocolate, you got to come home have hot chold.

1313
01:07:42,840 --> 01:07:46,160
Speaker 8: You'd then bought the Voka pound cake from naming Marcus

1314
01:07:46,200 --> 01:07:46,600
Speaker 8: over there.

1315
01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:48,680
Speaker 2: You got to come in your house with the Voka

1316
01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:49,360
Speaker 2: pound cake.

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01:07:50,280 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 1: Okay, you know.

1318
01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:55,440
Speaker 8: See that's what you gotta do now, brother, that's the mistake.

1319
01:07:55,520 --> 01:07:58,600
Speaker 8: You make it, and you've got to sit your husband

1320
01:07:58,600 --> 01:08:03,120
Speaker 8: down and say, hey, listen, we can't feel like with

1321
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 8: second class citizens when it comes to special events, while

1322
01:08:07,560 --> 01:08:12,120
Speaker 8: your ex and your biological children get all the perks.

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Speaker 8: So I think that's unfair. So you can do whatever

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Speaker 8: you want to do for them. I'm not stopping you,

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Speaker 8: but you needed to start doing the same thing over here.

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Speaker 8: See that real big fluffy tree that was beautiful, but

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Speaker 8: that would look good in this house too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they should get one, you see.

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Speaker 8: Because they had a new house. He feels like they

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Speaker 8: should get a new treat well. Well, well, and you

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Speaker 8: got to get to everybody else a new tree.

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Speaker 2: Though.

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Speaker 11: Something a thought came to my head because a lot

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Speaker 11: of mothers have mom guilt?

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Speaker 1: Do dads have dad guilt as well? Is that what

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Speaker 1: he's dealing with dad guilt as well?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? He said in the letter they can't pay because

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Speaker 2: I left.

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Speaker 11: Their mother, right right, I left their mother, not them.

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Speaker 2: See.

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Speaker 8: But then also now, so you got to be careful

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Speaker 8: of the Disney Dad syndrome too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, see what you do.

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Speaker 8: See the kids, you can't be Disney Dad. And then

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Speaker 8: all of a sudden when you go home to your family, ain't.

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Speaker 1: No Disney right, it's just the old tree.

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Speaker 2: Oh man.

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Speaker 8: Uh, you got Disney Dad mold all the way around board.

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Speaker 4: Bro.

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Speaker 1: Yeah all right.

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Speaker 11: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve HARVFM

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Speaker 11: on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry Letter

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Speaker 2: What's good is Chris Brennan.

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Speaker 10: I want to just say happy Holidays from my family

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Speaker 11: All Right, it is time to check Steve's voicemail. Call

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Speaker 11: eight seven seven twenty nine Steve to leave a message

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Speaker 11: for Steve. Now you might just hear your call on

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Speaker 11: the air, Steve, you recently said that if you have

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01:10:23,680 --> 01:10:25,680
Speaker 11: a problem with your mother, you need to try and

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Speaker 11: fix it. Okay, I think that was yesterday or day

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Speaker 11: before on the air. Well, this caller has a question

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Speaker 11: about what to do with a complicated mother daughter relationship.

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Speaker 1: Take a listen.

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Speaker 22: Good morning. So this is a comment on what you

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01:10:39,439 --> 01:10:41,720
Speaker 22: said about being upset with your mom or your dad

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Speaker 22: this morning, and you got to have a real problem.

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Speaker 22: But what if your parents are the problems? My mom

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Speaker 22: is a narcissistsartraistic and she uses any and everything against me,

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Speaker 22: give him my son, to make it seem like she's

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Speaker 22: done it thing wrong, like I'm the bad guy because

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Speaker 22: of the life that I chose to live, like she's

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Speaker 22: applied with it. Everyone around is always put before me,

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Speaker 22: and I'm always doing something wrong. So how am I

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Speaker 22: to heal that? How am I not to have a

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Speaker 22: feeling against my mom? If she does those types of things,

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Speaker 22: it says really really thinks to me don't just want

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Speaker 22: to sit there and take it. I don't understand that

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Speaker 22: I can't do that.

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Speaker 2: Here's a deal, sister. First of all, I don't know

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Speaker 2: the particulars.

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Speaker 8: I don't know the route that you chose to go

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01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:27,960
Speaker 8: that makes you be pointed out as the bad guy.

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Speaker 2: I don't know the particulars.

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Speaker 8: I know that little baby, as boys you got, I

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01:11:34,160 --> 01:11:35,920
Speaker 8: know you really need to go back there and fix

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01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 8: it with your mom and daddy. Doesn't sound like you're nine,

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01:11:38,640 --> 01:11:39,799
Speaker 8: and don't sound like you're.

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Speaker 2: On your own.

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Speaker 8: But that aside from itself, let's get serious about this

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Speaker 8: for a moment.

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Speaker 2: Here's the deal.

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Speaker 8: Listen to me, people, I've heard Bishop Jake say this

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01:11:50,960 --> 01:11:55,000
Speaker 8: a million times. Forgiveness is not for the other person.

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Speaker 8: Forgiveness is actually for you. Because you said in your statement,

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01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:01,960
Speaker 8: I can't do that. How am I supposed to forget?

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Speaker 8: I can't do that? Well, you not forgiving a person.

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Speaker 8: It's like you drinking the poison, waiting on them to die.

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Speaker 8: So now you gotta have a reaction to your mother. Look,

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Speaker 8: everybody don't get great parents, you know, ma'am. Watch I

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01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:22,519
Speaker 8: watched my father make a few mistakes in his life,

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Speaker 8: but I still loved and honored him. He was my father,

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Speaker 8: and it kept us in a relationship that was a

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Speaker 8: beautiful relationship with this mad because, as Shirley just said,

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Speaker 8: these people are humans. You know, you don't get to

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Speaker 8: you don't get to stop being human. You don't get

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Speaker 8: to not make mistakes. So it's really up to you. Now,

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Speaker 8: if you feel that horrible about it, you're gonna just

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Speaker 8: another thing. My daddy said to me, He said, son,

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01:12:47,479 --> 01:12:50,200
Speaker 8: two things can happen in life. You can get over

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01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:55,160
Speaker 8: it or you can die mad. Now you can pick

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01:12:55,160 --> 01:12:58,519
Speaker 8: one of it what you want. And he said, son, just

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Speaker 8: go and get over it. And I know you say,

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Speaker 8: well I can't. Well, if you say you can't, then

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Speaker 8: you can't. Steve Harvey and nobody else can help you.

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Speaker 8: You can go to a therapist. If you saying you can't,

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Speaker 8: forgive her and let it go. There's nothing nobody can

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Speaker 8: do for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's not even trying, she's not gonna try.

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Speaker 8: I would just look write it off. Mom, She making

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Speaker 8: a mistake, that's her.

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Speaker 2: That's it. All right.

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Speaker 11: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

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01:13:27,840 --> 01:13:29,840
Speaker 11: this is from Kelvin in Montgomery.

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Speaker 1: Listen up.

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01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:30,679
Speaker 2: Guys.

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01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:33,120
Speaker 11: Kelvin says, I live in a small town and I

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Speaker 11: was messing around with a married woman. I started messing

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Speaker 11: with her when her man was locked up for firing

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Speaker 11: a gun within city limits and attempted murder. He served

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Speaker 11: eight years and he's out.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 11: I'm scared for my life because I mistakenly left my

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01:13:48,040 --> 01:13:51,280
Speaker 11: apron to my uniform in this woman's car and her

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01:13:51,360 --> 01:13:54,120
Speaker 11: husband saw it. I'm scared to show up at work,

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01:13:54,200 --> 01:13:56,960
Speaker 11: but I can't keep telling them that I have COVID.

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01:13:57,360 --> 01:14:00,479
Speaker 11: I've been laying low and I thought about relo locating

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Speaker 11: to Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: What should I do? I can't fight at all.

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Speaker 9: You need to be rolling to Atlanta now. Well, I

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01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:10,400
Speaker 9: don't even know why you're taking time to write us.

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01:14:10,680 --> 01:14:12,680
Speaker 9: That don't make no damn say. You should have rote

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01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:16,080
Speaker 9: us from Atlanta. That's what you should have done. Why

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01:14:16,160 --> 01:14:17,880
Speaker 9: is he in jail? Why was he in jail again?

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01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:19,120
Speaker 2: He fired a.

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Speaker 11: Gun, firing a gun within city limits and a tent murder.

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Speaker 9: That part, when you knew that part, what made you

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01:14:27,320 --> 01:14:30,599
Speaker 9: think mess around with this woman was okay? And you

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01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:34,479
Speaker 9: know you can't fight, and you forgetful. You done left

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01:14:34,479 --> 01:14:36,519
Speaker 9: half your stuff in the woman car. See right there.

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01:14:37,600 --> 01:14:39,280
Speaker 9: This man actually finn to go back to jail if

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01:14:39,280 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 9: he found your behind. You need to get on down

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01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:42,840
Speaker 9: to Atlanta and mix it up and get get where

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01:14:42,880 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 9: he can't find you. But you need to get your

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01:14:44,360 --> 01:14:46,760
Speaker 9: butt out of this little small town that you say

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Speaker 9: you live in.

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Speaker 2: That's another thing. Stupid. Somebody mess around in small towns.

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Speaker 1: That's stupid, and I don't do that.

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Speaker 11: Kelvin is in his real name. There's not a lot

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Speaker 11: of Calvin's, but.

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Speaker 2: He probably that's stupid too, his name.

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Speaker 7: Junior.

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01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:08,519
Speaker 2: I'll take exact what I think. No, No, don't come

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01:15:08,560 --> 01:15:10,320
Speaker 2: to Atlanta. We got enough shooting down here. We don't

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Speaker 2: need you.

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Speaker 10: Don't bring your ass to Atlanta. We fine, We got

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01:15:14,560 --> 01:15:15,920
Speaker 10: enough attempted murders down here.

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Speaker 2: We don't need no more motive. No were good.

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Speaker 10: Stay ask in Montgomery, work it out. Photos need folk.

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01:15:22,680 --> 01:15:24,360
Speaker 10: Gonna get that apron out the car. I don't care

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01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:26,400
Speaker 10: if you've got to be a sleuth. If you got

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01:15:26,400 --> 01:15:28,000
Speaker 10: to slide from on the slide there.

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01:15:27,920 --> 01:15:30,519
Speaker 2: Don't open. We get that apron. But don't come to Atlanta.

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01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:30,760
Speaker 7: We can.

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Speaker 1: We fine.

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01:15:31,479 --> 01:15:33,519
Speaker 10: We on the news every night with something. We got

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Speaker 10: a lot of light attimpted murders. You don't need no

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01:15:36,479 --> 01:15:39,280
Speaker 10: more down here. I look at Channel eleven, Channel five four.

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01:15:39,479 --> 01:15:40,639
Speaker 10: I don't need no more down here.

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01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:44,559
Speaker 1: No, no, we said, Atlanta's clothing. Yeah, we're clothed for shoot,

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01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:45,320
Speaker 1: we'll run.

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01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:47,760
Speaker 10: No, no, don't hide out here, because if he come

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01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:49,600
Speaker 10: to Atlanta and he see you, and here we go

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01:15:49,640 --> 01:15:50,800
Speaker 10: with another attempted murder.

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01:15:51,240 --> 01:15:54,439
Speaker 11: No, no, we're good, all right, I think we have

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Speaker 11: time for one more guys.

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Speaker 1: This is from Shelle in Richmond.

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Speaker 11: Shell says, I'm in school to be hairstylist, and my

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01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:02,960
Speaker 11: sister in law has let me do her hair a

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Speaker 11: few times as practice. Now that I'm about to graduate,

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Speaker 11: she said, I will be her stylist because she knows

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01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:11,479
Speaker 11: I won't change her as much as she can get

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01:16:11,479 --> 01:16:13,800
Speaker 11: her hair done whenever she wants to. I won't charge

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01:16:13,840 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 11: her as much. I won't charge her as much as

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01:16:17,200 --> 01:16:19,080
Speaker 11: you know when she comes to get her hair done.

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01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:22,000
Speaker 11: I did not agree to that. If I had known

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01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:24,000
Speaker 11: she was going to try to use me, I never

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01:16:24,000 --> 01:16:27,200
Speaker 11: would have asked for her help. How do I tell

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01:16:27,240 --> 01:16:29,880
Speaker 11: her that she will not be taking advantage of me?

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01:16:30,000 --> 01:16:31,160
Speaker 11: When I get my license?

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01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:35,040
Speaker 9: You get two hairstyles for me. For what you did?

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01:16:35,160 --> 01:16:38,920
Speaker 9: You get two times too visits for help appointments. That's

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01:16:38,960 --> 01:16:42,080
Speaker 9: it for helping me. After that, it's whatever they charge.

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01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:44,120
Speaker 9: Whatever the dollar y'all ladies know what that is. Whatever

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01:16:44,120 --> 01:16:46,200
Speaker 9: the top dollar is, that's what you're about to pay

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01:16:46,280 --> 01:16:48,439
Speaker 9: up in here. But all this you help me. I

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01:16:48,439 --> 01:16:51,120
Speaker 9: can't stand that. Woo I got you where you are. Oooh,

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01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:54,600
Speaker 9: I'm the one I discovered you. You hain'te discovered a

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01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:59,040
Speaker 9: damn thing. Okay, you get two free hair jobs.

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01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:00,519
Speaker 2: And that's it. That's it.

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01:17:00,600 --> 01:17:01,920
Speaker 1: I'm done with you.

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01:17:02,040 --> 01:17:05,680
Speaker 2: Go Wow, that's easy fixed. That's three fifty.

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01:17:07,800 --> 01:17:09,240
Speaker 1: Three and fifty dollars.

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01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:10,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, what whatever?

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Speaker 10: Whatever she charged them, but whatever she getting, Yeah, three fifty,

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01:17:12,840 --> 01:17:13,240
Speaker 10: that's it.

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01:17:13,280 --> 01:17:14,519
Speaker 3: You ain't gonna say nothing else.

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Speaker 2: That's three fifty.

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01:17:16,080 --> 01:17:18,520
Speaker 10: But I thought I was Uh, I got paperwork.

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01:17:22,600 --> 01:17:25,679
Speaker 2: I ain't got no paperwork. I got all.

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01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:28,400
Speaker 9: Oh, junior, if you want me to do something for you,

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01:17:29,040 --> 01:17:31,679
Speaker 9: if you want something for free, a washing set, I'll

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01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:33,640
Speaker 9: give you a washing set.

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01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:34,520
Speaker 1: Washing set anymore.

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01:17:35,680 --> 01:17:38,320
Speaker 9: Make her wear a particular sign you gonna wear with

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01:17:38,479 --> 01:17:41,200
Speaker 9: them old alb hairstyle, a washing set. You're gonna walk

1537
01:17:41,200 --> 01:17:43,240
Speaker 9: out here with them pink rollers in your head if

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01:17:43,280 --> 01:17:44,960
Speaker 9: you take them down when you get to the house.

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01:17:45,120 --> 01:17:47,439
Speaker 2: A wash in set. That's what you get for free.

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Speaker 2: Right here. I'm coming here.

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Speaker 9: Look up for no, no, had it bear and none

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Speaker 9: nothing that's in style right now. I'm coming here with it.

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Speaker 10: I tap you on your thigh, I mean, come from

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Speaker 10: under the dry you done so. I tapped on your thigh.

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Speaker 2: That means come from mother that you're done.

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Speaker 12: Right.

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Speaker 1: Thanks guys.

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Speaker 11: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 11: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.