1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: From Hollywood to You. 2 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:11,639 Speaker 2: Air Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. Let's see Cisini. 3 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 2: A lot of people are talking about I guess psychologists 4 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 2: say there's a scientific method if you're single that should 5 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:21,479 Speaker 2: be applied to dating to stop you from repeating the 6 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 2: same disasters, mistakes, problems, whatever you've had in the past. Right. 7 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 3: Yes, And it's the approach of almost acting like you're 8 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 3: a scientist when it comes to your dating life. So 9 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,919 Speaker 3: the first step, just like you would in a science 10 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:42,639 Speaker 3: lab or situation, is observation, which involves gathering data and 11 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 3: recognizing patterns. 12 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 1: And once you've had is huge buzzwords. 13 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 3: Once you've made your observations, it's time to formulate a 14 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 3: hypothesis an educated guest based on the data that you 15 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 3: just realized. And then from there you reflect on your 16 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 3: past relationships and look at what went wrong. You decide 17 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,959 Speaker 3: which might lead to better results. It's truly like you're 18 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 3: doing like a science problem in class. The experimentation phase 19 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 3: is where I think it gets a little bit more exciting, 20 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 3: Like you go out with somebody who piques your interest 21 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 3: but isn't traditionally your type, and so that's when you 22 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 3: break that pattern that you've been experiencing for so many years, 23 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 3: and the new relationship is then a chance to test 24 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:27,479 Speaker 3: new hypothesis, ultimately helping you better understand what works for you. 25 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 3: And then finally, wait, wait, wait, I'm not done. Finally, 26 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:34,119 Speaker 3: experts say that regularly analyzing your dating life like this, 27 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 3: whether over brunch with your girls, beers with your boys, 28 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 3: that is very helpful and it's almost like. 29 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: You talk through it. You you rehashing it kind of 30 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 1: an all. 31 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 3: Yes, that is like a great approach for understanding the 32 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 3: perfect match for you because you're bouncing ideas off of 33 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 3: another person, and it gets even a little bit more crazy. 34 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: They say, keep a dating log to really kind of 35 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:03,559 Speaker 1: keep track of your patterns. And then this is where 36 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: I tie you in. 37 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 3: Tanya rad because it goes back to your crazy book. 38 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 1: You're calling in the one. 39 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 4: You did all these things through my workbook and it 40 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 4: worked at wo RK. 41 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 1: That in a weird. 42 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 3: Way, Tanya's weird book that we all give her you 43 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:24,639 Speaker 3: know what about, is exactly this. It's the scientific method 44 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 3: you did to find Robbie. 45 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: I did it, and in the one I called him. 46 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 2: In, I don't like it. I don't like the process 47 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 2: of it. Maybe I'm being too romantic here that aren't 48 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 2: you just supposed to run. The universe puts you in 49 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 2: the same place. You end up having these amazing moments 50 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 2: and connections and beautiful things that continue to evolve, the curiosity, 51 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 2: the relationship that likes that, and all of a sudden 52 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 2: you realize that this is the person for you. Why 53 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 2: do we have to be so clinical and laboratory about it. 54 00:02:57,240 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 4: Would you tell somebody that was going after their dream 55 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 4: job to just let the universe help them get it? No, 56 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 4: you would tell them to make a plan, to have 57 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 4: a resume, to have all these things lined up. So 58 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 4: why is it any different if you're looking for the one. 59 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 3: Not to respond to you. I think there's something here. 60 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 3: There's something here with the whole breaking of your patterns. 61 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 3: I think that we get stuck in our ways, and 62 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 3: that's why we were like, Oh, I don't know why 63 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 3: it's working out. I don't know why I keep only 64 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 3: after the third day, I don't want to go out 65 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:36,119 Speaker 3: with them anymore. Whatever it is, these are your patterns 66 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 3: that you're stuck in. And even like when I met Michael, 67 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 3: I never thought that I would be with someone younger 68 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 3: than me someone who is Latino because I just had 69 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 3: never dated a Latino man before, and that was me 70 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 3: breaking my pattern. 71 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: And Injoil, I. 72 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 2: Just like to believe in the beauty of alignment universe, 73 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 2: you're going to run into that person, you're going. 74 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 3: To be It still happened that way for me, though, 75 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 3: that still. 76 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 2: Happened, and line together to get on the plane. You 77 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 2: sit next to them on a flight. Like all that 78 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 2: stuff seems I mean, granted, yeah, but like all that 79 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 2: stuff seems to me better than this. 80 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 3: But even when you get to that point, like you 81 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 3: can still do the scientific method in that situation, and 82 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, am I breaking a pattern? Am I 83 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 3: dating differently than I have in the past? 84 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 1: I don't know. There's something here. 85 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 2: Well, you guys are married, Like, okay, I get it. 86 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 2: This is of course there's something. You guys are so 87 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 2: very excited about it because you did it all. 88 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: I'll try it. 89 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 2: Try. Its the enthusiastic they are because they're all married 90 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 2: up for the rest of their lives. How great this is. 91 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 2: Isn't this a great way to do it? Yeah, let's 92 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 2: go follow the lab science here and do it because 93 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 2: it's going to work out. Well, No, we're still we 94 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:48,039 Speaker 2: still have this romantic view of how it could happen. 95 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 3: I still am very much romantic, and I still think 96 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 3: that my love story is very romantic. 97 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 2: It is. But the story that you just shared me 98 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 2: is so clinical. 99 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 1: It's just a method. Give it a try, don't knock 100 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: it to try. I'm not gonna tell you. Try it. 101 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 2: Looking here, looking here, one of two point seven, kisse seven. 102 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 2: We've covered a lot of ground this morning. But let 103 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 2: me grab this call here it kiss. This is from Brittany, 104 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 2: isn't he? Tanya pan on this uh Inpasadena says, my 105 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 2: brother wants to propose to his girlfriend, but they never 106 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 2: met in person? What Brittany? 107 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 1: Okay, brows are all raised over here. 108 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:27,239 Speaker 2: Brittany, you your brother wants to propose to a woman 109 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 2: he's never met in person. 110 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,159 Speaker 5: Yeah, and they've been dating less than a year. 111 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 2: Wait, how are they dating if they've never met in person? 112 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 5: I don't really know, Like, I don't know how to 113 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 5: support this. 114 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 2: Sorry, he's dating some of us never met them? 115 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I dat be a huge mistake. 116 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 3: It's not dating. 117 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 2: No, what are they doing? How many years have they been? 118 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 2: Not seeing each other? 119 00:05:57,480 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 5: Less than a year? 120 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 6: But I mean, I don't want to discourage my brother. 121 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 5: He's not been in a lot of relationships and he's 122 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 5: also kind of an awkward guy. 123 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 6: So I just I want to. 124 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: Ada, how did they meet in the first place? 125 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 3: Online? 126 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 6: And she lives in Scotland or some somewhere. 127 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:22,599 Speaker 5: Oh, come on, yeah, she's over these and I guess 128 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 5: like this Beyonce visa takes up to eight months, so 129 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 5: he has to start the process and he's like he 130 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 5: wants to start as soon as possible. 131 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 2: I think you need to stick to view here. 132 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 3: Wait a minute, now, she wants to be supportive because 133 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 3: she says he's been an introvert her his entire license something. 134 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 3: But she got to meet somebody's gonna FaceTime? Like can 135 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 3: you ask to meet at least over FaceTime? 136 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 7: Right? 137 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 2: Like it's all bad, It's just what are you saying 138 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 2: that she needs to meet him? Or I think he 139 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 2: needs to meet her? 140 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,480 Speaker 1: Well, I'm sure they FaceTime. They don't FaceTime. No, I'm 141 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 1: talking about Brittany, Like, Brittany hasn't even met her. 142 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 2: Her brother needs to meet the woman he's going to 143 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 2: propose to period. 144 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:04,919 Speaker 3: Maybe maybe not. 145 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 1: It's like maybe maybe you have is blind or are 146 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 1: these shows that we watch. 147 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 2: On TV, shows on TV. 148 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: No what they end up being together, like difference. 149 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 4: COVID time, A lot of people dated via zoom date. 150 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 4: I'm not opposed to propose to her whatever. 151 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 3: I think it's like doable, but I would love for 152 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 3: you to at least have a conversation with her. 153 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: Meet her. She needs to meet your parents like. 154 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 3: Virtually virtually or the brother does everything's virtual right now because. 155 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 2: She's really I think you got to be encouraging, but 156 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 2: he needs to meet her. I don't know where else 157 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 2: you go on this one. 158 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, I just feel like if I tell him don't 159 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 5: go through they he'll. 160 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 6: Shut me out completely. 161 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 1: Yeah you don't want that. 162 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 2: Well, you're his sister, do you know him better than anyone? 163 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 2: Do your best in navigating this with the Neesse. But 164 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 2: please get them to meet in person before they get 165 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 2: engaged for sure. 166 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, they have to happen. 167 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 2: Good luck, good luck. I guess you could just break 168 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 2: off the engagement. 169 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 1: That's true. No, that should not be the way you 170 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: think about And. 171 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 2: I'm trying to be supportive here. You can't roll your eyes. 172 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 2: It's radio. 173 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 1: Not the best advice to say. 174 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 2: You can close captioning here. Kiss FM. Good morning. Who's 175 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 2: this Hi? 176 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 8: It's Amanda. 177 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 2: Hi a man. That's Ryan Seacrest and Sysney and Tanya. 178 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:34,079 Speaker 2: How you doing. 179 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 8: I'm good? How are you? 180 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 2: We're doing all right? So your mom wants to give 181 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 2: your pregnant sister all of your dolls? Is that what 182 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:43,319 Speaker 2: you're calling about? 183 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 8: Yes, but specifically she wants to give my sister my 184 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 8: American girl dog. 185 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 3: Oh no, what's the problem with that American girl dog? 186 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 1: Like special that. 187 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 2: You've grown up? 188 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 8: American girl dolls are very special, especially I have two 189 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 8: of the originals, like Mollie and Samantha. Anyone who's the number? 190 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:12,560 Speaker 8: I mean, there was really only five American girl dolls 191 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 8: back when they really first came out, so you had 192 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 8: to pick the one that looked like you the most. 193 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 8: Like we didn't have like go design your own. 194 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 2: Why do you need an American girl doll now as 195 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 2: an adult? 196 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 8: Because, I mean, first of all, they're very special to me. 197 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 8: I mean I grew up playing with them, get you know, 198 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:32,679 Speaker 8: dressing them them in different outfits. I have, like their 199 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 8: own little bedroom sets, and you know, I would love 200 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 8: to be able to give them, you know, if I 201 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 8: have a daughter of my own, like I may be 202 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:43,080 Speaker 8: single right now, but I mean, those are my dolls. 203 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 8: Like I shouldn't feel obligated to have to give them 204 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 8: to someone. It should be my decision. 205 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 2: Your sister's daughter of the lead the. 206 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 3: Experienced doesn't even know about these dolls yet, but she will. 207 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 8: This is not the crime. 208 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 3: That's that's weird because your niece the America Girl dollster 209 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 3: and buy her own American Girl doll. 210 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 8: I mean, it's not my fault. My sister just like 211 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 8: didn't really take care of her dolls growing up. She 212 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 8: had an American Girl doll herself. Like this really isn't 213 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 8: my fault. You know, my sister was one of those 214 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 8: girls with like cut the hair. She didn't care like 215 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 8: how expensive these dolls were, Like she cut the hair 216 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 8: of the doll, like you know, drew on them, like 217 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 8: she didn't care about this stuff. Like I really took 218 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 8: care of my American Girl dolls, and I shouldn't be 219 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 8: penalized or forced to do anything. I love my sister 220 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 8: and I'm so excited that she's having a child. But 221 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 8: like if I wanted to give her one of them 222 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:36,959 Speaker 8: or both of them, that should be my decision, and 223 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 8: I shouldn't even feel pressured to do any of that sort. 224 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 2: Amanda, I don't know a girl here, but I think 225 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 2: there may be some deep rooted issue between you and your. 226 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 1: Sister that then definitely something happened. 227 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:52,200 Speaker 2: I'm sure you love her, but there's a deep rooted 228 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 2: issue with your sister based on what I just heard. 229 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 8: I mean, well I do. I mean, I'm the younger sister, 230 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 8: she is the oldest sister. If there's that dynamic, but 231 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 8: it all, I mean, I think it really just comes 232 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 8: down to the sun. So, like I mean, I love 233 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 8: my sister. 234 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 5: But again, like. 235 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 8: I would never expect somebody, I wouldn't expect her to 236 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 8: give anything to my children. But she didn't want to 237 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 8: get willingly. 238 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:22,319 Speaker 2: Okay, well, why don't get these dolls back and then 239 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 2: let's see how time goes, and maybe you'll want to 240 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 2: do it yourself for your you know. 241 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 3: And by the way, your sister's pregnant right now, like 242 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 3: she's your niece. Wouldn't even have these dolls until she's 243 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 3: at least five or six. 244 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: Do you want to keep one? It's like fifty to 245 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: fifty best of both. 246 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 2: Doesn't want to do any of this time screaming. 247 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 8: And here's the thing, and here's the thing. And you know, again, 248 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 8: I'm so sorry to like interrupt, but if I have 249 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 8: two daughters myself, and then I don't have anything to 250 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 8: get I see. 251 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:55,079 Speaker 2: All right, well, then let's table this, let's get that, 252 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 2: let's table it, let's table it. And then also just 253 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 2: take a look at your relationship with your sister while 254 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 2: you're at it, and lock these dolls up and good luck, Amanda. 255 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 2: All right, core of the day coming up here in 256 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 2: a second. Right now, this is like real stuff. You're 257 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:12,599 Speaker 2: going out tonight and you're single, and you want to 258 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 2: pick up line. They say these actually work, Well they're three. 259 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 2: First one, I couldn't help, but notice you have a 260 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:20,319 Speaker 2: stunning smile, and I couldn't leave without coming over to 261 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 2: introduce myself. I think that's great. Yeah, so then what 262 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 2: do you do? Hopefully it works? Right? 263 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 1: Is that how you would say it? Like with that tone? 264 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 3: Can you please read it like as if you were 265 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 3: actually doing to do it? 266 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 2: All right? Uh, I'm sorry to bother you, but I 267 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 2: I couldn't help, but notice you have a stunning, like 268 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 2: most beautiful smile, and I didn't want to leave without 269 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 2: coming over to say hi. And then you know that 270 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 2: I have more. 271 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 1: Okay, keep going a few more. 272 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 2: The next one, you are way too cute to be 273 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 2: waiting alone. Can I buy your drink? I don't love 274 00:12:58,120 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 2: that one so much. 275 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: That one's a little cheesy. 276 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 2: It's cheesy a right. The final one, they say, dating experts, 277 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 2: dating coaches say, these work these days. You look so familiar. 278 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 2: Has anybody ever told you look like insert celebrity name here, 279 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 2: she's here or she's my celebrity crush? So I had 280 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:13,320 Speaker 2: to come and. 281 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 3: Say hi, telling them that their celebrity crushes a little direct. 282 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:19,680 Speaker 3: But I think it's I like the comparing them to 283 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:20,359 Speaker 3: a celebrity. 284 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, but then I mean, would you not be enamored 285 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 2: by that? I think I would be. 286 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 287 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:26,240 Speaker 4: Do you know why I think these three are working 288 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 4: is because they're direct, and I feel like a lot 289 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:31,079 Speaker 4: of people these days, with the way they flirt or 290 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 4: approach people is like, are they. 291 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 1: From here? Right? 292 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 9: Well? 293 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 2: They do. They're on record to be working these days. 294 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 2: Today's quote the people you attract reflect the wounds you 295 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 2: need to heal. 296 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 3: Okay, judge a mental I mean she's very very touchy. 297 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:56,199 Speaker 2: Today, Judge Judy over there, don't bring up the pit 298 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 2: Whight Sysney with the headlines this morning on this Friday, 299 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:03,040 Speaker 2: La Kiss What do you have? Kiss FM headlines with 300 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 2: siciny Well. 301 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 3: A mysterious illness linked to the Venice Canals has taken 302 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 3: the life of a seventh dog, now warning pet owners 303 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:16,959 Speaker 3: to remain vigilant. 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One waking up after 311 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 2: good night's sleep, A cup of coffee, simple pleasures, simple pleasures, 312 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 2: catching up with an old friend or loved one, the 313 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 2: smell of coffee not even drinking it. Going to a 314 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 2: local farmer's market. And I bring this up because TONI, 315 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 2: you're having a intimidation with your farmers. 316 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, the beef beef with the farmers, not beef, 317 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 1: not beef. 318 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 4: I think what I realized, so I used to be 319 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 4: a farmer's market girly like that was my Sunday routine. 320 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 4: I went every Sunday and that's where I did all 321 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 4: my grocery shopping. 322 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 1: Like I knew my local farmer's market. I knew it 323 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 1: in and out. 324 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 4: And then this past weekend we went to a farmer 325 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 4: We never go to farmers markets anymore, haven't gone in 326 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 4: like years. So we went and we like fumbled our 327 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 4: way through. We didn't know where anything was. And we 328 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 4: spent an hour there and that came out with a 329 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 4: box of dates, a handful of flowers, and a box 330 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 4: of berries. 331 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 2: What's the issue. 332 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 4: I don't know how to like navigate, I don't know 333 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 4: how to like go in. I don't know how to 334 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 4: pick the best ones. 335 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 2: I don't know. We've established you're rusty. 336 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 4: What's the difference between organic and not certified organic? 337 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 1: But not pesticides? 338 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 2: And you're not you're in the weeds on all that. 339 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 2: Let me just tell you will not find nicer people 340 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 2: anywhere outside of the farmer's market, farmers market vendors, the farmers, 341 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 2: their families, their brothers, their sisters, their moms or dads, 342 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 2: their cousins, everybody behind the table in front of the banner, 343 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 2: the best people on earth. They're just the nicest people, 344 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 2: offering me samples right bagging my guava gama. That's the 345 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 2: very person to go to. 346 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I start talking intimidating. 347 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 2: Well, do I always do a lap? I do a 348 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 2: lap first, and I establish, yeah, I do a lap. 349 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: They say to do that with buffets too, Well. 350 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 2: I always do a buffet lap because I don't want 351 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 2: to prioritize. Yeah, let's take a lap and then we 352 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 2: come back and break it down exactly. 353 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 3: You never start piling on your play right at the 354 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 3: beginning of a buffet. 355 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 2: I think you got to do a lap now. I 356 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 2: also am well known for forgetting every single Farmer's market 357 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 2: bag I have when I get to the farmer's market 358 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 2: and having to like juggle all the stuff getting out 359 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 2: of there. But take a lap, take inventory, take your time. 360 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 2: Farmer's mark is not meant to be was meant to 361 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 2: be actually peaceful. 362 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: I know, I bet I felt. 363 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 4: I left feeling like I still have to go to 364 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:07,400 Speaker 4: the grocery store tomorrow, and do you know what I mean? 365 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 4: Like I wanted to get all my groceries and I 366 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:10,439 Speaker 4: felt like I didn't have a plan, I didn't know 367 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 4: what I was doing. 368 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:14,200 Speaker 2: I felt very Is is this a bigger issue? 369 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 1: Yeah? 370 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 2: Well, I don't want to put words in your mouth, 371 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:20,120 Speaker 2: but Sistani might. 372 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: What do you want me to say? 373 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:24,120 Speaker 3: Like you, how hard is it to just pick out 374 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 3: some food? 375 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 9: No? 376 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:26,439 Speaker 1: Or is it like my routine? I'm too stuck in 377 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:27,040 Speaker 1: my routine? 378 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 6: No. 379 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:31,160 Speaker 2: I feel like there's just there's this anxiety exuding out 380 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 2: of you as of late. 381 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:34,680 Speaker 1: Oh, like you can't make a decision. 382 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:37,520 Speaker 2: Something in indecisiveness. Maybe that's what it is. 383 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 1: Indecisiveness. Yes, okay, got it. 384 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:43,200 Speaker 2: Dates for the wedding. We did get the dress check box. 385 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 2: But now the farmer's market, I mean indecisiveness. I think 386 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:50,879 Speaker 2: is it? Maybe is mercury retrograding. 387 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:54,439 Speaker 10: Because it shouldn't be that hard to pick berries and no, 388 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 10: I wanted to do all my grocery shopping again, it 389 00:17:57,960 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 10: shouldn't be that hard, Like if you needed to do 390 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:01,639 Speaker 10: all of it, then get your eggs, get your berries, 391 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 10: get you that feels this way? 392 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 6: Can you can't? 393 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 2: It can happen one of two point seven kiss at them. 394 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:15,919 Speaker 2: It's a second date update and these can be a 395 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 2: disaster or they can work out. So I'm so anxious 396 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 2: to see which way this goes. 397 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 1: You never know. 398 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 2: Sean reached out to us and he's on the phone here. Basically, 399 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:28,880 Speaker 2: he met her in a spin class. The instructor took 400 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 2: a picture of the class one weekend and tagged them both. 401 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 2: So he messaged her and she responded right away. They 402 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 2: had a great first date, and then she sent him 403 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 2: a weird message. And now she's not responding. So let 404 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 2: me get Sean on the phone. Sean, what was this 405 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 2: weird message she sent you? 406 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 7: So she she sent me, uh, you know, I asked 407 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:55,440 Speaker 7: her out and she again and she was like, uh, 408 00:18:55,720 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 7: I don't think so, like keep looking I. 409 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,879 Speaker 2: Don't think so keep looking at It's very rude to me. 410 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 2: Is she a nice person? 411 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 8: Yeah? 412 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:08,479 Speaker 6: We have like a really good time. It seemed like 413 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:10,440 Speaker 6: so I don't know what changed. 414 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:13,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, that sounds I mean to me, that sounds rigid. 415 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:14,879 Speaker 2: It sounds not nice. 416 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 6: I know, Like, what was what was. 417 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,439 Speaker 2: What was the message you sent her that she responded to. 418 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 6: I just said, like, I really had a great time. 419 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:27,920 Speaker 6: I'd love to take you out again, dude, nice? 420 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:33,159 Speaker 2: Yeah? Are you sure? Like do you want to go? 421 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 2: Out with this person. If someone set me those words, 422 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 2: I'd be like, it's okay, I'm okay. 423 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, totally him, I'm okay. And are you sure that 424 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,919 Speaker 1: the date was that great in her eyes? Apparently not? 425 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:47,200 Speaker 6: I mean I think so. I mean everything was going fine, 426 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 6: like I mean maybe, like the only thing I could 427 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:52,439 Speaker 6: think like that happened was like we finished dinner and 428 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 6: then like we were kind of like showing each other 429 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:57,399 Speaker 6: photos like a recent trip that I took to like 430 00:19:57,480 --> 00:20:00,679 Speaker 6: Joshua Tree, and then like I don't know, maybe there 431 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,879 Speaker 6: was a vibe sist or something, and then yeah, and 432 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 6: then like wait a then like night, I send her 433 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 6: the message and I got that back. 434 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:09,920 Speaker 2: Well, let's find out she has agreed to the back 435 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 2: room to come on the air with us. Next. Her 436 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 2: name is Marabelle. Why is she so mean? What happened? 437 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 1: We'll find out? 438 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:22,920 Speaker 2: Next to Kiss FM, Nice Kiss FM, Los Angeles. Let's 439 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 2: get back to Sean. In a second date update, guy 440 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,160 Speaker 2: goes out, meets the spin instructor, They go out, they 441 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 2: have a great date, and then he sends her text 442 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 2: saying yeah, I like to do it again, and she says, no, thanks, 443 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 2: you should keep looking and he can't figure it out, 444 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:41,200 Speaker 2: like there was no sign anything going in the wrong direction. 445 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 2: And then he gets that text back. But Sean, if 446 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 2: I got that text, I wouldn't want to talk to 447 00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:47,200 Speaker 2: her again. 448 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:48,879 Speaker 1: You know, he wants to know what happened. 449 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to know what happened. 450 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:51,160 Speaker 1: He does. 451 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 2: Well, that's why he's here and we're gonna do it. 452 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 2: And so Marabel's on our other line. Sean, don't say anything, 453 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 2: be very quiet. Let's see what we can find out. Okay, Hi, Marabell, 454 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:06,439 Speaker 2: thank you so much for coming on with us. How 455 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 2: are you? It's kiss FM, Ryan Seacrest and Tany and 456 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:09,400 Speaker 2: Sisiny here. 457 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 9: Hey, yeah, I'm good. 458 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:17,159 Speaker 2: We are calling you to talk about a guy you 459 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:19,479 Speaker 2: went out with Aankees in your spin class named Sean. 460 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 2: You went out on a date. 461 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:25,400 Speaker 9: Oh yeah, the cute boy from spin Crass, the. 462 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 2: Cute boy who spins so strong. Right. Is he a 463 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:30,159 Speaker 2: good spinner? 464 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:33,520 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, he's good. 465 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:36,639 Speaker 2: And you think he fakes it when he when he 466 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:42,240 Speaker 2: turns the I'm a great that's my best acting. When 467 00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 2: I take the nod to the right. 468 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,360 Speaker 1: You know, it's just a little bit, not like a 469 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 1: full turn. 470 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:49,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, And then then they'll come around and check me. 471 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 2: I get caught twisting my knob. Anyway, anyway, so Marabel, 472 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:57,159 Speaker 2: tell me about this guy Sean and what you liked 473 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:58,600 Speaker 2: about him and how the date went. 474 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean the date went well, and he bought 475 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 9: me dinner, and I liked him really early on. We've 476 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 9: been going to class together for a while now, and 477 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:14,199 Speaker 9: you know, just every time he would look at me 478 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,119 Speaker 9: and I would look at him, it was just like butterflies. 479 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:17,640 Speaker 9: So yeah, yeah, we went out. 480 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:20,440 Speaker 2: Do you teach the class or you go to the class? 481 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,400 Speaker 9: No, I don't teach. No, I just go. 482 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,200 Speaker 2: I thought you were the instructor. So you guys are 483 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:31,479 Speaker 2: in the same class. Well, yeah, how did the date end? 484 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 2: How was the end of it? 485 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 9: I mean it was fine. I mean we, you know, 486 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:41,159 Speaker 9: just said good night and we went our you know, 487 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 9: separate ways. 488 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:45,400 Speaker 2: And what's the plan now for the next date? 489 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 9: I I don't think there is gonna be Did he 490 00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 9: put you off to this because I told him that 491 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 9: I think he should keep looking? 492 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 7: Well? 493 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 2: Why why why did you say that? 494 00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:58,160 Speaker 6: Right? 495 00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 9: I mean I said that because he should he should 496 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 9: keep looking because I'm clearly not up to his standards. 497 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 2: I mean I'm working on it. 498 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 9: And when I get to where I want to be, 499 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,920 Speaker 9: then I mean, well I will not be calling him. 500 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 2: Well, hold on, there's a lot here. What do you 501 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 2: mean you're not up to his standards? Okay? 502 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 9: I mean do you really want to know? 503 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:28,200 Speaker 1: Yes, we do, and take a deep breath. You're fine. 504 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 9: I was showing him pictures on my phone of my 505 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,879 Speaker 9: family and my friends, and one of the pictures was 506 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 9: me with my sister and I'm in a bikini, and 507 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 9: he said, and I quote, I love your confidence. 508 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well that's nice. 509 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 2: No, No, I think he's saying what I think you're saying. 510 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 2: He's saying what what? What is he saying that you 511 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:03,240 Speaker 2: think he's saying. 512 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 9: I mean, you don't say I love your confidence to 513 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:09,880 Speaker 9: someone who looks great in a bikini. 514 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, you say you look hot in a bikini, right, 515 00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:13,159 Speaker 2: or you look. 516 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:17,679 Speaker 9: Great exactly exactly. It's to wear a bikini when you 517 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:20,440 Speaker 9: don't have the body for it. It's an insult. 518 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,520 Speaker 2: I understand what she's saying. That's like if you were 519 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:24,919 Speaker 2: just like if I were to walk around with my 520 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 2: shirt off at the beach and you would say I 521 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,440 Speaker 2: like your confidence, I feel like, well, that's an insult. 522 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,840 Speaker 1: I see you, So. 523 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:37,399 Speaker 2: That offended you, understood? He does he even know that 524 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 2: offended you? 525 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:40,400 Speaker 5: I don't know. 526 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,199 Speaker 9: I mean maybe he didn't realize it, but it's like 527 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 9: that is kind of what that means. You know, even 528 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 9: if he doesn't realize it, that's that wasn't intentional. 529 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,400 Speaker 2: But if he apologized, would that make a difference? 530 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 9: I do. I mean, it just seems like that's kind 531 00:24:58,600 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 9: of how he thinks. 532 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:03,360 Speaker 2: You know, Sean is on the phone. Sean, what did 533 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 2: you mean when you said that? 534 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 6: That's not what I meant at all? Okay, Like I 535 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 6: thought you looked amazing. You look amazing. Okay, So I'm 536 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,640 Speaker 6: sorry to bring up my ex, but like my last 537 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,479 Speaker 6: girlfriend was was the type to like only wear a 538 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 6: one piece at the beach with a wrap. She was 539 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:27,720 Speaker 6: super uncomfortable in her body. So I actually do mean 540 00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 6: like I loved your confidence, Like that's something I'm not 541 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,440 Speaker 6: used to. Like, I just think that's really cool. 542 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like I believe him. 543 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 3: It didn't come out that way, Sean, but I know 544 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:43,280 Speaker 3: where you're coming from. 545 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 9: Okay, Well, I actually like I took it two ways 546 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,199 Speaker 9: because I mean, yeah, I thought it was you know, 547 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 9: it takes confidence to wear a bikini with a body 548 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,240 Speaker 9: like that. But I also thought it meant it takes 549 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 9: confidence to wear a bikini next to my sister who 550 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:56,439 Speaker 9: is tunning. 551 00:25:58,040 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 6: Oh my god, hear some of this. 552 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 2: Maybe some of this is just a little bit of 553 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 2: unneeded insecurity on your part. 554 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 1: Mirabel, And you're in your head a little bit too much. 555 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 2: So I understand where everybody is on this. But Sean, 556 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 2: I think really liked you. I don't want to speak 557 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:20,199 Speaker 2: for Sean, but really liked you and wanted to go 558 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:24,400 Speaker 2: out again. And maybe now that he understands this miscommunication, 559 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 2: you guys can move on. What do you think, Mirabel? 560 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,200 Speaker 9: Now I've made it weird. I don't know what's weird. 561 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,440 Speaker 1: No, it's just part of it. You're just figuring each 562 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:33,880 Speaker 1: other out. 563 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's not weird at all, Marabella, Like you look 564 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,199 Speaker 6: so hot. I was also I was trying to I 565 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 6: was trying to be respectful, you know, if you were 566 00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:44,640 Speaker 6: in public, who was the first date. I didn't want 567 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 6: to come on too strong. I promise, I promise it 568 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 6: won't be weird again. 569 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:53,200 Speaker 2: So what's the decision here. We've actually are on the air, 570 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 2: as you know, so we've got to keep moving. But 571 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 2: what's the decision? 572 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 9: He's sweet? You I fine, Like I guess I've got 573 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:04,119 Speaker 9: nothing else to do. 574 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well let's make it a little enthusiastics. And 575 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 2: it did be like last resort here all right, Sean, 576 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,119 Speaker 2: you're in. Don't screw it up. 577 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,200 Speaker 6: I got the ball to my cart. 578 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,160 Speaker 2: Now, good luck you two. 579 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:19,639 Speaker 1: I do think it's good. 580 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:24,359 Speaker 2: That was a second date update on air on air 581 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 2: with a Ryan Seacrest. You're on kiss FP. So how 582 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:36,679 Speaker 2: did everybody sleep last night? Except off and on? You 583 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:39,479 Speaker 2: know that's I had some dreams. I can remember them 584 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 2: kind of, but it wasn't the greatest night of sleep, 585 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:47,880 Speaker 2: but you know it was fine. How did you sleep, Tanya? 586 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:52,200 Speaker 4: So it's funny you ask. I got a ninety eight 587 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 4: percent sleep. 588 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:56,320 Speaker 2: Score, and what was the difference in your night? 589 00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:01,119 Speaker 4: So you're gonna think this is uh not normal. But 590 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,200 Speaker 4: so on top of my mouth tape, I put these 591 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 4: like sleeping patches on my temples and like they have 592 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,959 Speaker 4: some herbs on them in them, and I had I 593 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 4: got deep sleep. I've never hit in my rem I've 594 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 4: never had twenty six percent in rem. 595 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:17,960 Speaker 2: Ever, first you think it was these herbals patches, I. 596 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,440 Speaker 1: Think so and I had some dreams. Now, you put 597 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: patches and you tape. 598 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,640 Speaker 2: Your mouth shut. You don't have to have a costume 599 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,120 Speaker 2: following wrap your hair. 600 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 1: Too, So it's fine. We both look the same. 601 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:31,960 Speaker 2: She got a start a process at four point thirty 602 00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,240 Speaker 2: read by eight clearly, but. 603 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 4: I'm telling you, ninety eight percent is wild. 604 00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 2: It's like she's in a tool shed with all this 605 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 2: stuff before she has to go to bed, all this she. 606 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 3: Opens, Oh my gosh, I has to keep her patches refrigerated. 607 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 3: It's a process, totally a process. How say I will 608 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 3: actually woke up. I don't know my sleep was whatever. 609 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 3: But I've been doing this thing now where I don't 610 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,800 Speaker 3: really watch TV at night, but I scroll Instagram or TikTok, 611 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,840 Speaker 3: which I don't think is great for me either, but 612 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 3: I get down these rabbit holes of like crazy theories 613 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 3: or just and then it just kind of like takes 614 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,320 Speaker 3: you into that algorithm of whatever it is that you're 615 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 3: starting to like. 616 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 1: Best part about social media. 617 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 3: So I'm in it and it's yeah, it's soothing sort 618 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,480 Speaker 3: of speak. But then I wait, So my phone was 619 00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 3: dying and I was like at two percent, and that 620 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 3: should have been my sign to just go to bed, 621 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 3: but no, what do I do? I don't have a 622 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 3: cord charger next to my bed. I have to go 623 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,080 Speaker 3: to those stands that you put the phone on. So 624 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 3: I set it up like this, and then I'm just 625 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 3: laying in bed and I'm like scrolling like this, just 626 00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 3: like falling asleep, and apparently it landed on whatever video. 627 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,120 Speaker 1: And you know, if they just keep repeating, if you 628 00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 1: don't switch it, it. 629 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:45,120 Speaker 3: Just repeats and reads your peak. I woke up to 630 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 3: Michael being like, are you awake? Like He's in front 631 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 3: of me, like on the side of the bed because 632 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,520 Speaker 3: he hadn't gone to bed yet, and I was like, 633 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 3: I wake up, and he's like, why is your phone on? 634 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 1: Like what are you doing? And I don't know. I 635 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,720 Speaker 1: just fell asleep watching whatever video. 636 00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 2: They say not to be on your phone before you 637 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 2: go to sleep, and you know, but also I find 638 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:02,960 Speaker 2: shocking you guys go to bed at different times. 639 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,040 Speaker 1: Different times. Yeah, I go to bed earlier. 640 00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:08,960 Speaker 2: I never have been in a relationship where we didn't 641 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 2: go to bed at the same time. 642 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:11,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, we used to go to bed at the same time. 643 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 3: But Michael's been working like so crazy with this new 644 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 3: job that he got not so long ago, and so 645 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 3: he pulled in late nights downstairs in the office, so 646 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:20,680 Speaker 3: I had to go to bed early. 647 00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 2: No, I get it, I just have never done it. 648 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 649 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:27,080 Speaker 2: Same now, I've gotten up first all my life. I 650 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 2: got the first one to have to go. Yeah, and 651 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 2: then some people will wake up with you. Some people won't. 652 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 1: I'd say, like it's fifty to fifty. 653 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 3: I mean sometimes we go to bed together sometimes, you know, 654 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:38,840 Speaker 3: like last you know, the other night, we did not 655 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 3: last night. 656 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 2: I can safely say, after working the jobs and hours 657 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:44,480 Speaker 2: that I've worked all my life, if you have to 658 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 2: get up before I have to get up, I'm not 659 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 2: getting up. 660 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with that. 661 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:51,719 Speaker 2: Like there'll be a world where I have dinner at 662 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 2: nine PM and I wait to get up at like 663 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 2: eleven some year, like. 664 00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 1: Eleven in the morning or eleven pm. 665 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 2: No, I want to eat dinner late and sleep in. Oh, 666 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 2: like maybe when I'm seventy. 667 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:05,920 Speaker 1: You can hear it. 668 00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,440 Speaker 4: On the weekends, Yeah, do you wake up earlier on 669 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 4: the weekends. 670 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 2: I tried not to throw my schedule off too much 671 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 2: on the weekend. 672 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, Eleven's there's no chance I could sleep into eleven. 673 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 1: That's what we're already doing lunch. 674 00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:18,160 Speaker 2: So irreverent, isn't it. 675 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 3: I mean, back in the day when I was in college, 676 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 3: I did. I made all my classes noon, I could 677 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 3: sleep in. 678 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 2: That's that's a way to do it in college. Let 679 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 2: me get to Tiana here. 680 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:34,080 Speaker 3: I almost say Tanya, but it does kind of look 681 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,120 Speaker 3: like Tanya, And it looks like Tanya to me. 682 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 2: Tiana in Wittier got an issue with her boyfriend's family. 683 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 2: So what's the problem? 684 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 9: You can call me whatever you want girl. 685 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,520 Speaker 2: All right, well, your boyfriend's family may have a problem 686 00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,120 Speaker 2: with that. What's the issue with When. 687 00:31:53,640 --> 00:32:00,200 Speaker 3: Has that ever stopped you before? 688 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,160 Speaker 1: Just so oblivious going about your life. 689 00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 2: I mean, I just I don't know. I didn't get it. 690 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:13,760 Speaker 5: Guys, Okay, anyway, thanks so much for having me. 691 00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:16,400 Speaker 2: Of course, what's the problem with your boyfriend's family? 692 00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:21,520 Speaker 9: So we've been dating, like, you know, for a little while. 693 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 1: He's great, he's very sweet. His family's very sweet. 694 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:27,000 Speaker 9: But recently we. 695 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 8: Started doing like Sunday night dinners and after. 696 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:39,560 Speaker 3: The dinner we all play board games, and I'm like, okay. 697 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:38,360 Speaker 8: But yeah, it's cute. 698 00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:41,440 Speaker 9: They got like a whole closet full of them, and 699 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 9: but it's like very serious for them. They're super competitive. 700 00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:50,120 Speaker 9: They start yelling, it gets ruthless, like to the point 701 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 9: where I don't really want to play anymore. 702 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,320 Speaker 3: What's fun about that? 703 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 6: You know? 704 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 1: So, I don't know, is this Do you guys think 705 00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:57,640 Speaker 1: this is a. 706 00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 6: Big red flag? 707 00:32:59,240 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 8: You know? 708 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 6: I don't know. I'm worried. 709 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,520 Speaker 9: Maybe there's no future with us if this is how 710 00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:06,040 Speaker 9: he and his family asked. 711 00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 2: You know, well, Tanya, I mean you've dealt with new 712 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 2: family most recently. What's your view on this? 713 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 4: I don't think it's a red flag or a deal breaker. 714 00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 4: I think sometimes people let let themselves get in the 715 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 4: heat of the moment in games like this, and I 716 00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 4: think it's all I think. 717 00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 1: Just laugh it off, take take people as they are. 718 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,840 Speaker 2: And some people are just too competitive, and that's just 719 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:27,400 Speaker 2: the way it is. 720 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,640 Speaker 1: If you can't beat them, join them be just as competitive. 721 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 1: Well that feels why they can be competitive. Why can't Deanna. 722 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 3: Just just she just has to sit there quietly? 723 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 1: Well, let them have their thing. 724 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 2: You know what games are you playing? 725 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 1: Be part of the family. What are the games we play? Everything? 726 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:52,920 Speaker 1: Code names, raditat cat, take It to Ride? 727 00:33:53,840 --> 00:34:06,000 Speaker 3: You know of anything, Monopoly, Jenga, Jeopardy. It was a 728 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 3: Jeopardy board game. 729 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, very there is a real fortune board game. I 730 00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:12,880 Speaker 1: bought it for my costume. 731 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:23,840 Speaker 2: Okay, because I don't know if you know, tiny stressing 732 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 2: up as the wheel. 733 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:28,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, correct, No. 734 00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:36,120 Speaker 2: For you, sweetie, Yeah, your thing and you beat You 735 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 2: Take people for who they are. 736 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:42,080 Speaker 1: Take people who they are. It's the best lesson of life. 737 00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:43,760 Speaker 1: It's the best lesson in life. 738 00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 8: Yeah. 739 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 4: Then your expectations just like take them as they are, 740 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 4: don't expect them to change. 741 00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,480 Speaker 1: That's what you should be doing with your family. 742 00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 2: Most people will disappoint you, just expect it. 743 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:58,960 Speaker 3: But no, that's not quite just like two extreme, but 744 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:02,880 Speaker 3: that's true. 745 00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:05,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, I have never I have never disappointed you. 746 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 2: Yeah most people, I said, not everybody. 747 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:12,160 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just saying you don't have I have not 748 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:13,480 Speaker 1: disappointed you. See. 749 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,160 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, this has really put me on the spot 750 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,120 Speaker 2: because if I were to say the things that disappoint 751 00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:20,200 Speaker 2: me would be still not nice. But they're not. They 752 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:20,760 Speaker 2: don't exist. 753 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:22,040 Speaker 1: They bring out the popcord. 754 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,719 Speaker 2: Maybe happened at the first break of this show if 755 00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:28,400 Speaker 2: you remember back all right, Tiana, we love you. I 756 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,040 Speaker 2: think let this go and good luck with the relationship. 757 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:34,799 Speaker 9: Okay, okay, appreciate it. 758 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:35,319 Speaker 1: Thank you. 759 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,480 Speaker 3: I think it's fun to be competitive when you're playing games. 760 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:39,600 Speaker 1: It's exciting. 761 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:44,359 Speaker 2: I think I accidentally get competitive me too. I don't 762 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 2: really care that much about the win, Oh I do. Yeah, 763 00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:50,279 Speaker 2: we know how competitive you are. 764 00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 1: You're going down. 765 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, right, it's one o two point seven kiss FM. 766 00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:02,719 Speaker 2: If you're already questioning your bond and your decision to 767 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:06,759 Speaker 2: be with your life partner, maybe you don't want to 768 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:07,879 Speaker 2: hear what's coming now. 769 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:14,560 Speaker 1: Maybe you do, though nobody's questioning it. Well, men are 770 00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:15,279 Speaker 1: questioning it. 771 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,920 Speaker 2: Okay, hold on for a second before we generalize it's 772 00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 2: only guys. 773 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,600 Speaker 1: That's what this very kind of What came down to. 774 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 2: The point is some people I've heard say that they 775 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,520 Speaker 2: fell out of love their partner. I know it's unromantic 776 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:30,360 Speaker 2: and it's heartbreaking. 777 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:34,520 Speaker 3: Right, you grow apart or you become like roommates. You 778 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:37,400 Speaker 3: just don't like that spark sometimes is not there. 779 00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:42,760 Speaker 2: And it can be part of life. I mean, maybe 780 00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,960 Speaker 2: you know, Sisanitanya, maybe there is a benefit to not 781 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 2: getting married yet says But that's what I'm trying to say. No, 782 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,720 Speaker 2: I get it, because if you look at life span 783 00:36:56,800 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 2: an opportunity to fail. The deck is stacked. I know 784 00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:02,200 Speaker 2: later you can do it. 785 00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 1: But companionship is like what life is all about. 786 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:10,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I wouldn't change anything for the world office cute. 787 00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:15,160 Speaker 2: I love you guys. 788 00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,360 Speaker 3: I love you guys, but my love for you is 789 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,120 Speaker 3: unmatched compared to the love for half of my children, 790 00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:21,640 Speaker 3: my husband. 791 00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:24,960 Speaker 2: That's fine and fair. I get a lot of it out. 792 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:26,239 Speaker 1: I said, I get to go out. 793 00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 2: I was like, I go out. 794 00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:28,920 Speaker 1: I know that that's really cute. 795 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:30,080 Speaker 2: I don't really get to go out. 796 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,239 Speaker 4: It really is a blessing that we love each other 797 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:33,879 Speaker 4: so much. Like a lot of people go to work 798 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:35,879 Speaker 4: every day and do not like the people they work. 799 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,600 Speaker 2: I get it out, and I also bring you guys 800 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,440 Speaker 2: up in conversations with people and. 801 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:42,920 Speaker 1: Like in general. 802 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:47,120 Speaker 3: When it comes to the whole Kiss staff, someone was saying, like, 803 00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:49,400 Speaker 3: you guys all like hang out with each other outside 804 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,200 Speaker 3: of work because we like each other. 805 00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 2: That how come no one group replied to the EO 806 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 2: you were. 807 00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:59,319 Speaker 4: Going to be when one person does, and then it 808 00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:01,800 Speaker 4: just just how many people are on that email thirty 809 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:02,759 Speaker 4: something exactly. 810 00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,480 Speaker 3: It was like you and Paul, And then I was like, 811 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:05,959 Speaker 3: that's great. 812 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:07,520 Speaker 1: We just need those two emails. 813 00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 8: No one. 814 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:10,759 Speaker 2: I did a reply all to a group email from 815 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:11,759 Speaker 2: our boss time. 816 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,440 Speaker 1: I don't have time to reply alls. Did you appreciate 817 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:18,480 Speaker 1: because I have three kids? No, no reply all. 818 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 2: And by the way, it was a salute to the 819 00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:25,640 Speaker 2: team Kiss that I replied all too with a spirit sentence. 820 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,040 Speaker 1: It was really really cute, well written. 821 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:32,440 Speaker 3: Yeah team And also you you when you started it out, 822 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,440 Speaker 3: you said something about Beata, so it's almost like you 823 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:35,360 Speaker 3: sent it to Beiata. 824 00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:38,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I complimented our boss. 825 00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, so it was more like, okay, and. 826 00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,520 Speaker 2: To work at Kiss, I just feel lucky to work 827 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:45,920 Speaker 2: at Kiss. And that's kind of what I said. I 828 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 2: think we all do. 829 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:50,319 Speaker 1: No one replied times watching the Daughter game last night, 830 00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:55,120 Speaker 1: you have time time to reply all? I can't. 831 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,280 Speaker 2: Great we're being sidetracked here anyway. The first love theory, 832 00:38:58,960 --> 00:38:59,760 Speaker 2: let's get into. 833 00:38:59,560 --> 00:38:59,879 Speaker 1: It, okay. 834 00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:04,080 Speaker 3: This specific theory is the notion that men men specifically, 835 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:08,080 Speaker 3: never forget their first love. This video has been shared 836 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,640 Speaker 3: over like a hundred million times on TikTok, and the 837 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:14,120 Speaker 3: claim is that they will always remember her and want 838 00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:16,960 Speaker 3: to get back to her, or they will be always 839 00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,960 Speaker 3: looking for like a version of her interest in their 840 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,160 Speaker 3: next partner. It's very scary. 841 00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 2: Really, I always a strong word, but in cases, I 842 00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:26,399 Speaker 2: guess you could say. 843 00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:30,239 Speaker 3: I think it's a nostalgia of that time in your life. 844 00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:33,080 Speaker 3: You know, first loves usually probably happened when we're teenagers 845 00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:36,880 Speaker 3: maybe or maybe early twenties, like, and life was simpler 846 00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,719 Speaker 3: back then, Like you didn't have as many responsibilities as 847 00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,000 Speaker 3: as you do now as an adult. So maybe it 848 00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,400 Speaker 3: goes back to that kind of stuck of being stuck 849 00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:50,240 Speaker 3: in that first love era. But I bring this question 850 00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:53,359 Speaker 3: up to you Ryan, being one of the only men 851 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:56,080 Speaker 3: in this room. Man, since you're so friendly with all 852 00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 3: your ex'es, what kind of feelings do you have towards 853 00:39:58,960 --> 00:39:59,719 Speaker 3: your first love? 854 00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:01,719 Speaker 2: Well, who's my first love? 855 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:03,520 Speaker 1: Well, that's a question for you to answer. 856 00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:07,040 Speaker 2: Getting into that first You don't know my first loved? Well, 857 00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:10,839 Speaker 2: I thought it was in high school twice, but then 858 00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:12,920 Speaker 2: I look back and think, no, I didn't know how 859 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:14,799 Speaker 2: to love that. 860 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:15,520 Speaker 1: Okay. 861 00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:20,360 Speaker 2: Interesting as an adult, I remember the first girlfriend that 862 00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:23,359 Speaker 2: lived with me. That could be it, Yeah, that could 863 00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:27,800 Speaker 2: be probably it. And that one was like seven years yeah. 864 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:29,880 Speaker 1: I remember her. 865 00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:34,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, And but I think I don't know, I see, 866 00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 2: do you believe you can fall in love. You can 867 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,240 Speaker 2: fall in love different times. 868 00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:42,160 Speaker 4: Yes, I justly I think that. Yeah, I have a 869 00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:46,399 Speaker 4: different theory on this. What if a man's first love 870 00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:52,920 Speaker 4: is his mother and was trying to find aspects of 871 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,360 Speaker 4: his mother in his future. 872 00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:59,600 Speaker 2: I think the psychology in that happens. 873 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:04,040 Speaker 3: And vice versa, I think with their dads totally. 874 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:10,040 Speaker 1: So you're saying Ryan his mom no, but. 875 00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,400 Speaker 4: That your first love was your mom, don't be bringing 876 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 4: up his mama no, And that you're trying to seek 877 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,800 Speaker 4: a partner that has qualities like your. 878 00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:19,240 Speaker 2: Mom, which is great. 879 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:23,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, your mom the perfect human being on this planet. 880 00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:27,839 Speaker 3: I mean that is a tough role to fill. If 881 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:29,279 Speaker 3: that's your goal. 882 00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:33,759 Speaker 2: Well, look could be a great goal. All right, Well, 883 00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:35,759 Speaker 2: this is a lot to ponder. I've got to get 884 00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:37,600 Speaker 2: a break in. But thank you for this theory that's 885 00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:43,040 Speaker 2: going to rattle everybody to that kiss. Thank you guys 886 00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,440 Speaker 2: so much for that epic Friday morning. It's gonna be 887 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,800 Speaker 2: such a great weekend in southern California. We'll talk to 888 00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:48,200 Speaker 2: you on Monday.