1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: and the Black Effect asked back there, Nice still asked 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: back there, Still asked back there, Nice, Hey, y'all, what's up? 4 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: Welcome to Camfully Reckless? What's your girl? Just hilarious? But 5 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 1: this ain't about me. It's about the crazy ship y'all 6 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:26,240 Speaker 1: be going through And trust me, if anybody understands you, 7 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: it's me so quick. I got a question. Have you 8 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: ever wanted to do something but you couldn't? Now? I 9 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 1: know that's a very very broad question because people feel like, 10 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: you know, when you've grown, you can do whatever the 11 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 1: funk you want to do? Right? And this is a 12 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: free country, But how free is it really? Is it 13 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 1: really a free country? To what extent are we fucking free? 14 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna jump right into story time because I got 15 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: a story to tell y'all, and this is how I'm 16 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 1: gonna start off every episode of Carefully Reckless. What story time? 17 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna give you a second to grab your teeth. 18 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: A group of hill Billy stormed the state capital on Washington, 19 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: d C. Basically a terrorist attack on their own country. 20 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: They were standing on desks, stealing ship, making videos, taking 21 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: pictures of themselves. Mind you, none of these people were 22 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: wearing fucking masks, right, And so it's evident that they 23 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,479 Speaker 1: didn't give a funk about COVID all because Trump didn't 24 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 1: get a second term, and because he's led these people 25 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: to believe that the election was rigged, even after they 26 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: recounted all the fucking states that he's so called got 27 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 1: cheated out of. It was no cheating to get your loss, 28 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: that's it. And the whole time, his supporters thinking us 29 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: about him when he's really not trying to go to 30 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 1: jail because they can't arrest him as long as he's 31 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: the president of the USA, So we're trying not to 32 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 1: get arrested, y'all. Motherfucker's really thinking that he cares about y'all. 33 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: People actually died in his name, Like I'm talking about 34 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: a couple of his fucking supporters died, Bro, he didn't 35 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: say one fucking thing about them people who died. Then 36 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: the FBI asking for help and ship identifying the perpetrators, 37 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: like if you have any information on the people that 38 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: broke into the capitol, you need to help us, and 39 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: all that ship, what the funk you mean? Just about 40 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: everybody went live took pictures, made videos and all that 41 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: ship I'm talking about. Even when the reporters got outside, 42 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 1: you know, it was people walking up giving their names 43 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 1: and where the funk they was from? My nigga like yo, 44 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: The ladies said it, I'm Sharon Hemsley and I'm from Nashville, Tennessee, 45 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: and I came here because we have to take America back. 46 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: Why the funk she not in jail? Would help? What 47 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:32,080 Speaker 1: a help do you need? They told on themselves. My 48 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: thing is if they were black, oh, it would have 49 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 1: been target practiced for the motherfucking securities and offices and 50 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:42,639 Speaker 1: SWAT and National Guard and everybody would have been there. 51 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 1: The whole d C would have been bombed up, maced everything. 52 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: If these people were black, I'm gonna do you want 53 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:51,679 Speaker 1: even better? Years ago, there was a black woman who 54 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: drove up on the property of the Capitol and they 55 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: didn't hesitate to start shooting at her, and they actually 56 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: killed her, no questions, no nothing. These white people got 57 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: to climb the walls. They were climbing the fucking walls, 58 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: bro And did you see how so little security was 59 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: inside the capital. Once they got inside, it was like 60 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: it wasn't even enough niggas the guard the building, like 61 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: what the fuck? So believe that ship had me very 62 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 1: very hot and it just happened, And and I'm gonna 63 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: be thinking about it for a long time. It's gonna 64 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: be on my mind because you really get to see 65 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: with looking at Trump and those people. But let's sun 66 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,119 Speaker 1: the people. Let's just look at Trump. You really get 67 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: to see how white power is used in America, like 68 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: there's nobody higher than the white man. The perspective of 69 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: this country is from a powerful white man that should 70 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: have said that should have said to have to explain 71 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: to my son, because he even asked me, like, mommy, 72 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: how did they break in a building like that? How 73 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: did they do it? Ain't that like the White House? 74 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: And I had to explained to him, Yes it is. 75 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: It is kind of like the White House. It's just 76 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: like the White House, asking how did they get in 77 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: that baby? The color of their skin and how did 78 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: only four people die? Because the color of their skin? 79 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: That's why, which brings me to just fix my mess. 80 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: That's a segment where some of my fans sends me 81 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: some of their personal dilemmas and I give my advice 82 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: to help them dealing with the ship that they probably 83 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 1: cause they goddamn selves. So as it relates to this topic, 84 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 1: I asked on Instagram, what's one thing that you always 85 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: wanted to do that you couldn't do? Get away with 86 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: some ship. My answer would be get away with the 87 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: same ship that them fucking white people just did. That's 88 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 1: always been what the funk I want to do. I 89 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 1: want to be able to do whatever the funk they 90 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: can do. I would never want to be a white person, 91 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: but I want to be able to do what the 92 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: funk they did and get away with the ship. But 93 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna read off a couple, so I asked one 94 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 1: thing you always wanted to do but couldn't go Tree 95 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: of Artistry on our g says, smack the funk out 96 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: of my father for not being there for me and 97 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: being a funck boy but having the nerve to be 98 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: a pastor and where a preacher cart team fakes fuck 99 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: shaking my head. I definitely feel you, Queen, see one 100 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: thing you have to do if you ever want that 101 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,280 Speaker 1: that one on one and from your dad, go to him. 102 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 1: It's kind of hard there because you know the adult 103 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 1: should actually reach out to the child. The adult is 104 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: ultimately the bigger person. Just by tradition, you should just 105 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 1: want to reach out to your daughter. You should want 106 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 1: to build that that father daughter relationship that you never had. 107 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: Is never too late. It's never too late. I don't 108 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 1: care what nobody say, and and Queensy, you may very 109 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 1: well be a grown as woman, but I guarantee you, 110 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 1: if you was to reconcile with your dad, something that 111 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 1: you've been missing your whole life. I'm telling you, it'll 112 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 1: be like a love you've never known. He just gotta 113 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:47,719 Speaker 1: be willing, and if he is in the pastoral position, 114 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: that's just something that he has to fucking want in 115 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 1: his mind. I'm hoping that he's scared of how you'll react, 116 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: and he's waiting for you to come to him, and 117 00:05:58,040 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: he's preyed on it, and he has to have a 118 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 1: damn good reason why he didn't make that ship right 119 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 1: with you yet, especially being a man of God and 120 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: you stand in front of a group of people, you're 121 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 1: a leader, You're a shepherd of the Lord. The Bible says, 122 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: honor thy mother and thy father, and my days will 123 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 1: be longing on earth. How is she gonna honor her father? 124 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 1: If her father won't even acknowledge her. I really want 125 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:21,039 Speaker 1: that to get better for you, Queen Tee, give me 126 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 1: an update and let me know, baby, but you may 127 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: have to be the one to break that ice. Okay. 128 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: One thing you always wanted to do but couldn't go, 129 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: Stephanie A Queen's Journey on Instagram says, read a nigga's mind. 130 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: L O L bitch, you're laughing, but I know they 131 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 1: ain't no goddamn joking. You ain't playing because girl, I 132 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 1: always wanted to do the same ship too. But listen, 133 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. The guys they feel the 134 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: same way. They want to be able to read our 135 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: minds and we're so goddamn screwed up just like their asses. 136 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: Like it's like the Battle of the sexes. They want 137 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 1: to know what we're thinking, and we would die to 138 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 1: know what the funk they're thinking. So absolutely, girl, on 139 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: what you on that one one thing you always wanted 140 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: to do but couldn't go. Mr ken Nyata on Instagram 141 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 1: says be a wealthy political assassin taking both sides out 142 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: living in Brooklyn with a credit score of eight fifty. 143 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: I love your imagination, Mr ken YadA, Uh, I don't 144 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: I don't know how to funk. You would be a 145 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: wealthy political assassin living in Brooklyn with a credit score 146 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 1: of eight fifty um. But keep dreaming. Just that sounds 147 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 1: like a nice movie that you should write. Nwya Sandford 148 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 1: q W and and bitch listen. Naya Sandford on Instagram says, 149 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: go to Disney World as a child. Every time my 150 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: mom promised we would go, she got pregnant. It became 151 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: a running family joke. Now not to bring up Disney 152 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: World because that made me and the baby is on 153 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: the way. That's cute. That's cute. I actually hope you 154 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 1: get to go though. That's actually a cute story. Trena 155 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: Bradshaw from Instagram said, a threesome with two guys? Whoa 156 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: hold up, Trena, since I got you here and ship, 157 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: since you might be listening, you didn't get specific? What 158 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: how how would you want this? You some with with 159 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 1: the two guys? Because I always say if I wanted 160 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 1: to do a threesome, it would be with a guy 161 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: and a girl. I don't want to take on two dicks. 162 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: I mean can barely handle one big one after fifteen minutes. 163 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: I ain't even gonna hold you I'm not the sex 164 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 1: all night long type of bit. I just I don't 165 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: do that. So how could you handle two dicks? Like 166 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: and I and I've watched I watched porn all the time, 167 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 1: like that's my guilty pleasure. They're like, porn is my yacht. 168 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: I watch it every day all day by myself. I do. 169 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I love it. But you gotta be 170 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: specific because most of the threesomes I see with the 171 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 1: women and two guys, as I see the double penetration, 172 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:36,719 Speaker 1: show head if a dick in he ass and the 173 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: dick and the vagina, ain't know what I'm saying. And listen, listen, 174 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 1: listen if you turn in your head and turning your 175 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 1: nose up at me right now. This is carefully reckless 176 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: with just hilarious. So you already know who you're listening 177 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:50,559 Speaker 1: to anyway when you started this ship, So yes, X 178 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:52,959 Speaker 1: rated all day. It's even gonna be a dick in 179 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 1: the mouth for dick in a butt. It gotta be 180 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: like I don't know, you can't satisfy two men at 181 00:08:57,679 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: one time, Like I don't know, it's kind of hard, 182 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 1: but maybe you're a little freak Arena Bradshaw, because I 183 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: don't know from the profile picture, you're looking kind of seasoned. 184 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to call you old, but um, you 185 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: look you look seasoned and you look blessed though. Thank 186 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 1: you for sharing those personal dilemits with me. Y'all funny 187 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:16,320 Speaker 1: as hell, which brings me to my next segment, Current News. 188 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 1: It's self explanatory. It is exactly what the fun says 189 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 1: it is. So with the current News this week, it's 190 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: a particular story I wanted to share with you alls. 191 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 1: Ship is crazy. It's gonna blow your fucking mind. So 192 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 1: there's nine year old kid. He was walking with his 193 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:33,080 Speaker 1: head down in his phone, maybe texting on TikTok, you 194 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 1: know what the kids do, and he fell in his 195 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: pool in the backyard and he didn't know how to swim, 196 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 1: so he fucking drowned. He is alive, but he was 197 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 1: brought back to life. He had drowned. Ship like that 198 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: frustrates the funk out of me. For a couple of reasons. 199 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 1: Kids do not play with toys anymore. Everything is internet driven, 200 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 1: is technology driven, electronic driven. It's one thing for adults 201 00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: to have our eyes glued in the phone every fucking day, 202 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: all day. I mean that's just what it has come to. Now. 203 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 1: People don't even sit down and watch TV as a 204 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: family anymore. Everybody is in their phones. When you go 205 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 1: out on dates, both of them motherfucker's are in their phones. 206 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 1: Like they don't even get to know each other, and 207 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: none of that ship. Like people get to know each 208 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: other over text messages now, like period. I'm guilty of it. 209 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 1: I got the knowing nigger over quarantine over the goddamn 210 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 1: text message, and I feel like I'm annoying them forever. No, 211 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 1: y'all don't need to know who the fun it is 212 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:27,439 Speaker 1: and y'all will never see. But everything is about these 213 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:31,560 Speaker 1: phones and technology and every goddamn thing. On Christmas, my 214 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 1: dad asked me what my grandson want to find out 215 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: what what toys he wanted? I told him, I said, 216 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: Daddy wants some v Bucks. Said, damn, that's all. He 217 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 1: ever want roadblocks, V Bucks haircut? That's it all right, Well, 218 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:44,319 Speaker 1: at least he want a hair cut. Dad? When hit him? 219 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:47,440 Speaker 1: And play with toys? Dad? No, nobody kids play with 220 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: toys unless they're a little, little little And then you 221 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 1: have to also think about it. I want you to 222 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:56,079 Speaker 1: name one fucking toy store there are no toy stores around. 223 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 1: I remember when you could take your kid into a 224 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 1: toy store and you can have him hick whatever toy 225 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: he wants him or her to. Go away, go away, 226 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: go in like a kid in the candy store, but 227 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 1: like a kid in the toy store. There are no 228 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 1: toy stores anymore. That ship has gone. It's now reduced 229 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: to toys sections and big department stores. It used to 230 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: be like three or four hours in Walmart. That was 231 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: literally one and a half hour of toys in Walmart. 232 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 1: Depending on the size of the Walmart, it might be 233 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:22,960 Speaker 1: two or three hours, but very very seldom more than two. 234 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: There is no store designated for toys and toys alone 235 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:29,559 Speaker 1: like it used to be when I was growing up, 236 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:31,839 Speaker 1: or like it just was when my my son was 237 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 1: a fucking baby. The world, society, the government, like everything, 238 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 1: like they are turning us and turning our children into 239 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 1: little fucking robots, little gadgets, that's all they're worried about. 240 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 1: When I punished my sign and take his phone in 241 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 1: the game, you would think that little boy gotta asswhipping. 242 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: Oh he has a fit. He can't stand it. He 243 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:54,559 Speaker 1: can't live without technology. It's crazy now even with the 244 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 1: virtual schools, they're required to have a laptop. They have 245 00:11:57,880 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: to learn how to work computers. Every thing it's about 246 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:05,559 Speaker 1: to be technology generated. Nobody's gonna have jobs at all anymore. 247 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: That's the craziest shit. My ideal New Year's resolution was 248 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 1: to leave technology for kids in. If I could, I 249 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 1: would leave technology for children in. When I was eight 250 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:20,839 Speaker 1: years old, I didn't have a phone. I didn't get 251 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 1: my own cell phone until I was like fourteen years old. 252 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 1: Although times have changed now and you have to always 253 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: keep in contact with your kids and all that type 254 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 1: of ship ship changes with with you know, with Tim, 255 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 1: everything is with Tim. So yes, kids do need phones, 256 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 1: but not as much as they beyond them. They need 257 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 1: a schedule. Everything should come with a schedule. I swear 258 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 1: other things I left in and y'all gonna be very 259 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 1: upset with me. But just with the mess, yes, yes, 260 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 1: oh my god, just with the mess is buried in 261 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:53,680 Speaker 1: twenty I am not going to be doing just with 262 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 1: the mess anymore. I know you guys are gonna hate me. 263 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: You guys are gonna be like, oh, she's boring. Now. 264 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: I don't give a funk. But if y'all can love 265 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:01,680 Speaker 1: me for just with the mess. Y'all can love me 266 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:04,679 Speaker 1: for my other content. Y'all can love me for carefully reckless. 267 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 1: Y'all can love me for my TV roles. Y'all can 268 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 1: love me for my music. Maybe a lot a lot 269 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 1: of you ain't gonna let me for my music, but 270 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:12,079 Speaker 1: I don't give a funk there or something out there 271 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 1: who will. Y'all can love me for my my merchandise, 272 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:19,520 Speaker 1: my doctor who fitness line, my messy Pause, canine clothe 273 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 1: the airline. I got so much ship that I'm working on, 274 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,080 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I'm talking about TV deals 275 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: and all of that ship. And then, honestly, I know 276 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: a lot of y'all are going to want to know why. 277 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: Sometimes when you do something for a long as time, 278 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: you have no desire to do it anymore. And a 279 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:38,679 Speaker 1: lot of times that's not the case. Some people do 280 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 1: the same thing forever. There's no evolution there. To me, though, 281 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I started just with the 282 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: mess in two thousand and sixteen. That was like a 283 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:48,959 Speaker 1: couple of months, and I started doing videos. I think 284 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:50,679 Speaker 1: it's time to retire it, you know what I mean, 285 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 1: unless it's going to be put on TV. I don't 286 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: want to keep doing it online. It's just time to 287 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 1: grow from that ship. The first time I said I 288 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 1: wasn't gonna do it anymore was when x x X 289 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:03,839 Speaker 1: Tanta died. I made fun of that kid before. I 290 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:05,199 Speaker 1: made fun of a lot of people. You know what 291 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:07,839 Speaker 1: I'm saying, not knowing what they're going through, not knowing 292 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 1: their struggles and what the funk may hurt them. You 293 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because back then I was really 294 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 1: a bit who just really didn't give a funk. You 295 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I was very unapologetic, but I 296 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:17,839 Speaker 1: still have a good heart. It's okay to not give 297 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 1: a fuck and still have a good heart that there 298 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 1: are people out here like that. My biggest fear was 299 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 1: becoming like Wendy Williams. I don't want to be like that. 300 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 1: I think she's dope at what she does, but it's 301 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 1: still hurtful a lot of ship that she'd be saying 302 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 1: about other people. Sometimes I'd be hurt for other people. 303 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 1: I'll be like, damn, But then you gotta look at 304 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 1: her life, the ship that she going through. Then you 305 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 1: gotta feel sorry for her. And then it's like nah, 306 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: I bet you nah. But I still have a heart 307 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 1: for her going through ship because with her past year, 308 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 1: her was fucked up to you know what I'm saying, 309 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 1: So people are still hearing. That brings me to the 310 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 1: second time I said I was gonna stop when Chadwick 311 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 1: Boseman died Rest in peace to chat with Bozeman. You 312 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I was one of the people 313 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 1: that made fun of his weight loss. Yes, I said 314 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 1: something about that ship, you know what I mean. I 315 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: wasn't the only one, but I was, like, it seemed 316 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 1: like I was the only one that caught blowback from 317 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 1: it when he passed away, you know what I'm saying. 318 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 1: And I didn't mind anybody that got mad at me. 319 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 1: I was made at myself. And that guy was so 320 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 1: upset because my son told me that he died. I 321 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 1: didn't even see it online. I hadn't opened up my 322 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 1: phone yet. Ash I found out on TikTok and he 323 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 1: had came and ran and told me he was hurt. 324 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 1: He was upset that hurt me, that he was hurt 325 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 1: because I had made fun of someone that he looked 326 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 1: up to as a super fucking hero. Didn't know what 327 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 1: the guy was going through. Didn't know he had cancer. 328 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: I didn't know. I'm just being funny, you know what 329 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 1: I mean, which a lot of times it's not worth it. 330 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 1: You know, you just grow, You just grow with a 331 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 1: lot of ship. I'm tired of talking about Meek Mill, 332 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 1: even though that's a funny motherfucker. He makes it so 333 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: easy for me to pick on him. But you know, 334 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 1: I'm tired of talking about him. You know, I don't 335 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 1: know what the funk he going through. I don't know, 336 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 1: and then he probably going through ship. It don't matter 337 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 1: more what the story is. I'm just tired of talking 338 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 1: about people. And that's it. I'm not saying I ain't 339 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 1: gonna have a crack a joke on him a funk, 340 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 1: That's not what the funk I'm saying, But the jests 341 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 1: with the mess, I'm not going to do it. I 342 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: just I I can't find any happiness and it anymore. 343 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 1: I used to wake up ready to do that ship, like, 344 00:16:10,360 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: oh what we're gonna talk about the day. You know, 345 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Oh, ship, nig's ugly. Oh shoot with the fun. 346 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 1: And then celebrities are never gonna stop doing stupid as 347 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 1: ship that don't mean I have to talk about it 348 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: and then what I do and just with the masters. Basically, 349 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 1: the comments do that ship for me? Like wut be 350 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 1: some real life comedian roasters, top tier roasters and the 351 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 1: fucking comments. I'll be dying more at the comments than 352 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 1: I do my own ship. Again, I am so sorry. 353 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 1: I apologize. I apologize for the end of Jess with 354 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 1: the mess I'm sorry there will be none. I know 355 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 1: as soon as I said that ship Hella, y'all probably 356 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 1: cut this fucking audio off. Y'all probably went out the 357 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 1: fucking podcast and clicked on another nigga's podcast. I'm so sorry. 358 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 1: I just have no desire to do that ship. So 359 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 1: if you love me and you love to see me grow, 360 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 1: grow with me, other things that should be left in 361 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:06,160 Speaker 1: according to me, messing with guys who belong to someone 362 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 1: else that I take your nigga talk. Please, women, if 363 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 1: we can stop trying to take what's not ours and 364 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 1: work on something belonging to us, we would be in 365 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 1: more successful relationships, more thriving relationships, and we would stay 366 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:24,360 Speaker 1: in them. You know that's saying you lose them how 367 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:26,959 Speaker 1: you got them? That ship. A lot of times it's 368 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 1: true and when you get into relationships wrong, the end wrong. 369 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 1: When you go into it toxic, it ends toxic unless 370 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:40,119 Speaker 1: you have like a miracle therapist. For instance, if you 371 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:42,399 Speaker 1: meet a nigga and he's married, well, he's in a 372 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 1: relationship and he's always complaining about what she don't do 373 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 1: and blah blah blah blah blah, and you still pursue 374 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:49,920 Speaker 1: this nigga. What the fund do you think he's gonna 375 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 1: do If y'all du get together, he gonna get tired 376 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: of you. And then the next bit, he's gonna be 377 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 1: telling the same ship he was talking about the other 378 00:17:56,840 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 1: girl that you took him from, quote unquote, the same ship. True, 379 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 1: you're gonna be saying that ship to the new girl. 380 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: It's a cycle, and it's a cycle that men are 381 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 1: not gonna break, so we have to break it. Do 382 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:11,159 Speaker 1: not pursue anybody that's not yours, that's already occupied. I 383 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 1: don't give a funk how bad he talked about the 384 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: girl at home. I don't give a funk how bad 385 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 1: he want to get a divorce with the wife. I 386 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:18,760 Speaker 1: don't want to be with a will leave U and 387 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 1: then you come over here. I'm not gonna be with you. 388 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna involve myself with you because now 389 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 1: you have your cake and needed till you got your 390 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 1: wife that you don't care about until you go home 391 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 1: to it, and then you got me that you care 392 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 1: about when it's convenient for you to see me. Ship 393 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:38,680 Speaker 1: like that, yo, So we have to value ourselves. Please, 394 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:42,920 Speaker 1: let's leave everybody else's niggas alone. Let's leave everybody else 395 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 1: like everybody else niggas alone. Please, let's let's get our own. 396 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 1: Let's work on ownership of our own ship, our own men, period, 397 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 1: other ship that should have been left in. Stop biting 398 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 1: your tongue, letting people walk all over I know a 399 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 1: lot of people that bite their tongue. Not saying you're 400 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 1: a bit, you're a punk, you'll puss se whatever. Those 401 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: may very well be the names that some of you 402 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 1: would use. But seriously, a lot of people just don't 403 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:09,160 Speaker 1: like confrontation. A lot of people don't like the whole 404 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 1: approaching situation. But you cannot allow someone to walk all 405 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 1: over you. I don't care if you're unhappy, you say it. 406 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 1: Don't ever think you're scared of starting over. Don't let 407 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 1: the nigga walk all over you. Fun that sometimes that's 408 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 1: what you need. You need to walk away and start over. 409 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 1: Even friends. Stop letting friends walk all over you, nigga, 410 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:29,200 Speaker 1: get some balls and get some new friends, or get 411 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: some balls and make them respect you, period, even in 412 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: the streets and the job. And don't let your boss 413 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: walk all over you. It's a it's a respect level. 414 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 1: You're my boss, but you are not going to disrespect me. 415 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 1: Co workers, I don't give a fuck. Church members, other 416 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:46,920 Speaker 1: people who just in laws, stop walking all over me. Listen. 417 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 1: And this day and age is very easy to fold 418 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:56,159 Speaker 1: because judgment. Prejudgment is at an all time high, and 419 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:58,119 Speaker 1: it's a lane for it. I would say it started 420 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:00,119 Speaker 1: on the internet and then people get so bold. Now 421 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 1: in person, they're doing what they do on the internet. 422 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,960 Speaker 1: It's easy to break a motherfucker down. So you have 423 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 1: to put on that tough skin. If you ain't, gotta 424 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 1: go get something telling you. All right, y'all, that sift 425 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: for now. I'm about to get up out of here. 426 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 1: But before I do, man, if you know any of 427 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 1: the people who attacked the capitol and broke into it, 428 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 1: please submit that ship to me so I can submit 429 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 1: it to the FBI. Make sure if you see anybody 430 00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:26,639 Speaker 1: in any any Caitlin's or any Mildred's, or any fucking 431 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 1: body Tom Billy, Bob or theor Thornton's, please send that 432 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 1: ship over because they acting like they don't know who 433 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 1: anybody is. They Oh, we we we we don't know. 434 00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:37,880 Speaker 1: We we we don't know. We didn't see anybody's face. Yeah, 435 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:40,199 Speaker 1: so let's let's help them catch these motherfucker's because if 436 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 1: they were black, like I said, it'll be a bunch 437 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 1: of casket to the be funerals out the ask. It 438 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,520 Speaker 1: would be no jail time. It would be total fucking death. 439 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:51,000 Speaker 1: That brings me to the end of the first episode 440 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,879 Speaker 1: of Carefully Reckless. I love it, I love it, and 441 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: I love you. Make sure you catch Carefully Reckless every 442 00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 1: Wednesday on hump Day. Next week, I got some juicy 443 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:09,159 Speaker 1: ship for y'all and my deepest Pam voice peace be like, 444 00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:12,479 Speaker 1: just you got your ass, Niger, shut the fuck up. 445 00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 1: I've been out hit on my cash, sold you brot 446 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:20,680 Speaker 1: my hustle. I've been stu. Carefully Reckless is the production 447 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,440 Speaker 1: of I Heart Radio and The Black Effect. For more 448 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 1: podcasts from I heart Radio, visit the I heart Radio app. 449 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 1: Apple podcast or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.