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Speaker 1: over there. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been dating a man
Speaker 1: for four years and he is slightly younger than I am.
Speaker 1: We met on a site for polygamous I was new
Speaker 1: to it, but he was not. He lived with the
Speaker 1: woman at the time, but they broke up recently, so
Speaker 1: now is just me and him trying out monogamy. It's
Speaker 1: easy for me to be with one person. It's him
Speaker 1: that I am worried about. I guess all men want
Speaker 1: to have their cake and eat it too. But our
Speaker 1: biggest problem is his finances. Since his girlfriend left him,
Speaker 1: I realized she was paying most of his bills because
Speaker 1: now nothing is free over there. He constantly has his
Speaker 1: hand out begging for money. When I go visit, I
Speaker 1: buy the groceries for his house and mine.
Speaker 2: Now I do.
Speaker 1: Stupid things like picking up and paying for his dry
Speaker 1: cleaning weekly, and I give him gas money. He said
Speaker 1: that he feels bad for needing money all the time,
Speaker 1: so he mentioned getting him another girlfriend on the side.
Speaker 1: That threw me for a loop, because I think the
Speaker 1: only reason he would want to add another person to
Speaker 1: the mix is because he needs the money. It makes
Speaker 1: me feel like that's why he's still messing with me
Speaker 1: instead of getting a second job. He plays video games
Speaker 1: all night, and he's at the bar in his building
Speaker 1: doing poetry. My friends said, I'm giving sugar Mama vibes.
Speaker 1: They said, he's using me for money, and polygamy is
Speaker 1: a front so he can cheat. How do I tell
Speaker 1: if he's still into me or if I'm just paying
Speaker 1: him for sex because he's not into you, and yes,
Speaker 1: you are paying him for sex. I mean, these are
Speaker 1: just facts, and this is crazy. You got to get
Speaker 1: out of this now. I mean this. I don't usually
Speaker 1: say this early, even in my response, but you got
Speaker 1: to leave him you need to see what everyone else
Speaker 1: is seeing. Just like your friends pointed out, this man
Speaker 1: is using you for money. You're giving sugar Mamma vibes,
Speaker 1: and the polygamy thing is affront to bring in another woman.
Speaker 1: Stop buying his groceries, stop giving him gas money, stop
Speaker 1: picking up and dropping off his cleaning, and please stop
Speaker 1: giving him money. This man is doing absolutely nothing for
Speaker 1: you but draining you drive nothing at all. He's not
Speaker 1: serving you in any kind of capacity. He's sitting back
Speaker 1: waiting for you to come over and take care of him.
Speaker 1: That's his job, all right. This relationship is about as
Speaker 1: one sided as it gets. And I know you gotta
Speaker 1: want more for yourself, but guess what, You're never gonna
Speaker 1: get it from this guy. Never Steve.
Speaker 3: Please, this letter is stupid from top to bottom.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna pretend like it's not. It's just ignorance.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna just read this letter and point out to
Speaker 3: you the ignorance of the letter. Some of the stuff
Speaker 3: will have to retain because we're gonna have to go
Speaker 3: back so I can retrack to show you how it
Speaker 3: don't make no sense. I've been dating a man for
Speaker 3: four years. He is slightly younger than I am. That's
Speaker 3: a false statement right there. He is way younger than her.
Speaker 3: She didn't want to put the ages in here because
Speaker 3: she didn't want to seem like as big a food.
Speaker 2: That will come up later in the letter.
Speaker 3: We met on a site for polygamous You met a
Speaker 3: man on the site for polygamous people who are in multiple.
Speaker 2: Relationships at the same time.
Speaker 3: I will put to it, but he was not okay,
Speaker 3: So what he do and obviously is what you want
Speaker 3: to do because you over there on the site too.
Speaker 3: Stop me when I'm wrong. He lived with a woman
Speaker 3: at the time, dug Ain't that what polygamists do? He
Speaker 3: lived at a woman, and he lived living with a
Speaker 3: woman at the time, but they broke up recently, so
Speaker 3: now it's just me and him trying out monogamous for women. Boy,
Speaker 3: woman Laby, you met a man on a site for polygamy,
Speaker 3: and now he broke up with the woman he was
Speaker 3: polygamy And where you with? And now y'all decide y'all
Speaker 3: want monogamize with each other and you ain't gonna be
Speaker 3: polygamy and no mot with no more women. But you
Speaker 3: met on a polygamy and the on site. Girl, shut
Speaker 3: up this letter so stupid. My whole response is going
Speaker 3: be stupid with me. You are y'all out there polygamy,
Speaker 3: and now all of a sudden, you all want him
Speaker 3: to be money monogamized. It ain't finnh have. It's easy
Speaker 3: for me to be with one person. It's him that
Speaker 3: I'm worried about. You met him on a polygamous site.
Speaker 3: I can be with one person. You didn't want two
Speaker 3: on the site. Now you say it's easy for you
Speaker 3: to be with one person. It's him. I'm worried about you.
Speaker 3: You ain't gotta worry about him.
Speaker 2: It's what he do.
Speaker 3: I guess all men want to have they cake and
Speaker 3: eat it too. That's not true. All men would like
Speaker 3: to have the cake and eat it too. Women would
Speaker 3: like to have they cake and eat it too too.
Speaker 3: It don't mean you're gonna go get somebody else. Hell.
Speaker 3: I like eating ice cream and peanut butter sandwiches. I
Speaker 3: wish I could have one every night before I go
Speaker 3: to bed, but I know if I do, I'm gonna
Speaker 3: wait two seventy. So see, what you're saying is making
Speaker 3: no sense to me. I guess all men want to
Speaker 3: have they cake and eat it too. Yeah, but you
Speaker 3: know you can't. But our biggest problem is is financing.
Speaker 3: Since his girlfriend left him, I realized she was paying
Speaker 3: most of Now nothing is free over there. Constantly got
Speaker 3: his hand out big and for money. When I go visit,
Speaker 3: I buy the grocery for his house and mine. Now
Speaker 3: I do stupid things like picking up and paying for
Speaker 3: his dry clean and weekly and I give him gas money.
Speaker 2: Well, hell, that's everything. If you're picking up my dry clean,
Speaker 2: you paying.
Speaker 3: For my gas, and you doing my groceries, that's nice.
Speaker 2: That's nice cut. That's nice cut.
Speaker 3: He said he feels bad for needing money all the time,
Speaker 3: so he mentioned getting him another girl Fred on the side.
Speaker 2: Hang on, Steve, he a polygamis.
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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter.
Speaker 1: The subject is nothing is free over there.
Speaker 2: This letter is so ignorant.
Speaker 3: This woman who says she's dating a man for four
Speaker 3: years and he's younger, slightly younger than me. That's not true.
Speaker 3: If they met on the site for polygamies, I was
Speaker 3: new to it, but he is not. Okay, that's what
Speaker 3: he do and that's what you want to do. That's
Speaker 3: why you was over there on the site. Let's just
Speaker 3: be real about this.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 3: He lived with a woman at the time, but they
Speaker 3: broke up. He lived at a woman at the time. Dum.
Speaker 3: That's what That's what polygamy is. You in relationship with
Speaker 3: a few people that say it says.
Speaker 2: Quo, and then you not. This ain't breaking new, this
Speaker 2: ain't nothing seeing anything.
Speaker 3: They broke up recently, So now it's just me and
Speaker 3: him trying out monogamy. What that don't make no sense?
Speaker 3: So now it's just me and him trying out monogamy.
Speaker 3: How you met him on a polygamy site and he's
Speaker 3: a polygamist, and y'all is poligon men. Now he wants
Speaker 3: to monogami in and it don't work like that.
Speaker 2: Child.
Speaker 3: It's easy for me to be with one person, But
Speaker 3: it's him that I'm worried about.
Speaker 2: And you should be because he's still on the site.
Speaker 3: See you didn't say he got off the site. I
Speaker 3: guess all men want to have they cake and eat
Speaker 3: it too. That's not true. I do want to have
Speaker 3: bowlice crema and peanut butter sandwich every night, like I
Speaker 3: did when I was living in New York. But I
Speaker 3: got up to two hundred and forty eight pounds doing that.
Speaker 3: If I do that now, I'll be two seventy. Okay,
Speaker 3: I realized she was and then, But it's our finances.
Speaker 3: This is the biggest problem because since his girlfriend left,
Speaker 3: I realized she playing all the bills. He constantly got
Speaker 3: his hand out begging for money. When I go visit,
Speaker 3: I buy the groceries at his house and mine. I
Speaker 3: do stupid things like picking up and paying for his
Speaker 3: dry cleaning weekly, and I give him gas money. Well,
Speaker 3: that's everything. The only thing you ain't doing is paying
Speaker 3: is written. He said he feels bad for needing money
Speaker 3: all the time. So he mentioned getting another girlfriend on
Speaker 3: the side. He done already met up and on the
Speaker 3: polygamous site he's still on now. He just mentioned getting
Speaker 3: a girlfriend to see how you gonna feel about it.
Speaker 3: That threw me for a loop. How the hell that
Speaker 3: throw you for a loop?
Speaker 2: Lady?
Speaker 3: You met him on a site for polygamis. Then he
Speaker 3: mentioned a new girlfriend. How that throw you for a loop?
Speaker 3: You say, we try and monogamy, y'all done tried it.
Speaker 2: He ain't like it. He back to polygamy here, he
Speaker 2: back to it poliga mean, that's.
Speaker 1: The word funny though, that's a funny word.
Speaker 3: I'm polygamia and that's going about your being. That threw
Speaker 3: me for a loop because I think the only reason
Speaker 3: he would want to add another person to the mix
Speaker 3: is because he needs the money. Yes, he needs the money,
Speaker 3: but he gonna sleep with him too. Here jigglow and
Speaker 3: it makes me feel like that's why he's still messing
Speaker 3: with me. Now listen to me, lady. He's still messing
Speaker 3: with you because he's a poligamist. They mess with several
Speaker 3: people at the same time. They have a psyche poet.
Speaker 3: You done been on it because you was new to it.
Speaker 3: This is what he do now instead of getting a
Speaker 3: second job, he plays video games all night, or he's
Speaker 3: at the bar and his building doing poetry.
Speaker 2: My friend said, I'm giving sugar mama vibes.
Speaker 3: Now let's go back to the top where you said
Speaker 3: he's slightly younger than you. Your friends say you giving
Speaker 3: sugar mama vibe because he way younger than you. He
Speaker 3: is way younger than you. And yes, you are looking
Speaker 3: like for food. They said, he's using me for money,
Speaker 3: and polygamy is a front so he can cheat. Polygamy
Speaker 3: ain't a front. That's a lifestyle. They got a site.
Speaker 3: You met him on the site. It ain't so he
Speaker 3: can cheat.
Speaker 2: He been cheating. He on the site. This is the letter.
Speaker 3: So dumb, How do I tell if he's still in
Speaker 3: into me, or if I'm just paying he into or if
Speaker 3: I'm just paying him for sake.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're paying him for sex. He doing you for sex.
Speaker 2: He gonna do it.
Speaker 3: He was doing the girl he was living with for
Speaker 3: sex and to get paid, and he gonna do this.
Speaker 2: New girl the same way.
Speaker 3: And that's what he doing to you. Just stop being stupid.
Speaker 3: But let me go back to the park where at
Speaker 3: video game games at night, he's at the bar in
Speaker 3: his building doing poor.
Speaker 2: That's what he does. Ladies and gentlemen. Let me get
Speaker 2: a name. Jim please welcome Jay Rap. Yeah what Jay Rap?
Speaker 3: J Rap is a acor LIM stands for James and polygamy.
Speaker 2: Don't worry about that. They ain't got about the R.
Speaker 2: Don't worry about that.
Speaker 1: Don't worry about the R.
Speaker 2: James is really a politicous okay now.
Speaker 3: James.
Speaker 2: Ladies general, welcome Jay Ralph. Lads, Jimmy, thank you. Here's
Speaker 2: my poor.
Speaker 3: I live in the building. I'm right upstairs. I play
Speaker 3: video games all the time. Why that she even can?
Speaker 3: I met all my women that I get with, and
Speaker 3: they all know I'm a polygamis. I don't play with
Speaker 3: just one woman. That's not what I do. So now
Speaker 3: you know I have some one of them?
Speaker 2: Is you all right? Steve? All right? Come on? He
Speaker 2: through poetry in the building at the Botty House States.
Speaker 2: Juniors are much better, though.
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