1 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy Mellencamp and Camra Judge. 2 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: So you guys, welcome to another episode, but instead of 3 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: it being too teas in a pod, it is going 4 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:23,799 Speaker 1: to be one tea, one sea talking all things. 5 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 2: Oh see, I am with my friend Cynthia Bailey. Hello, 6 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 2: it's you. I've missed you too. So for those of 7 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 2: you guys who don't. 8 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: Know, Cynthia and I go way back to when we 9 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: were essentially roommates, but I'm not really her. 10 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 2: Roommate because I lived in the hallway and Cynthia got 11 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 2: a bedroom. 12 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:45,879 Speaker 3: You're amount of time in my bedroom and in my 13 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 3: bed actually. 14 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 2: Well I my other options were lamar. 15 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness. 16 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 2: So we had a. 17 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: Lot of fun. But I have missed you. I feel 18 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: like I haven't seen you and forever, but you have 19 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: been seeing a lot of some other people. I know, uh, 20 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: one thing I need. I need to understand. What's the deal? 21 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: You and Sutton are tight? When did this happen and 22 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:14,680 Speaker 1: how did I miss it? 23 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 3: Sutton and I connected at Bravocon. We actually were paired 24 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 3: together for a panel I think or a meet and 25 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 3: greet I can't remember, and we just hit it all 26 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 3: I love her. She's awesome. She's like, you know, Southern, 27 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 3: and she's just like really fun and really sweet. So 28 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 3: we hit it off, and you know, it is when 29 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 3: you know you meet people. It's like, yeah, yeah, you know, 30 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 3: call me when you're in LA. We'll keep in touch. 31 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 3: And I have to say to Sudden. Credit Sutton's credit, 32 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 3: she did a really good job of just like, hey 33 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 3: are you here, you know, because I'm like, yeah, I'm 34 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 3: going to call you and then I get there and 35 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 3: I'm like busy and I don't always call, and she's 36 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 3: like like, hey, you got to call me. So she 37 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 3: really did a good job of staying on me. And uh, 38 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 3: we've become really really tight. Actually, I'm going to see 39 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 3: her in New York soon. And I just saw her 40 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 3: when she was in Augusta where the Masters. 41 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 2: And oh I love the Master. 42 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, So I got a chance to hang out 43 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 3: with her. Been spending some time with her on and well, 44 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 3: I can't really get into that. 45 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 2: You can't say, but a lot of off camera out 46 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 2: of Vince this year. 47 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:19,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, but we're good. 48 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 2: I love someton take the news that you are going 49 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 2: to be co hosting with me. 50 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 3: Oh, she just texted me actually some other stuff, and 51 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 3: I told her I was gonna call it back because 52 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 3: I was getting ready to do to tease in a 53 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 3: pod with my girl Teddy, and she was like, oh Lord. 54 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 2: Cares. The thing about. 55 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 1: The thing about me and Sutton is like we have 56 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 1: like we can have moments where we're having fun and 57 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:50,399 Speaker 1: we're laughing at everything, but then there are moments that 58 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 1: like I don't know if we just miss each other's 59 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:56,399 Speaker 1: social cues because we both end up offending each other 60 00:02:56,520 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: in some way, like every time, And I'm like, what 61 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: is it? Because there are moments we laugh, we have fun, 62 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 1: and then there are moments where I think maybe she 63 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: doesn't understand my humor. 64 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:12,079 Speaker 2: I don't understand here her humor, and we just. 65 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 3: Hey, listen, Sometimes you know the connections are there, but 66 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 3: you just don't connect. It just is what it is. Yeah, 67 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 3: you know. 68 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 2: So question are you going to be more in Atlanta 69 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,359 Speaker 2: or are you going to be more in Beverly Health? 70 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 3: Right now, I'm splitting my time. I'm here in Atlanta 71 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 3: right now, here at Lake Bailey, and I just left 72 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 3: LA two days ago and I was there for a 73 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 3: couple of weeks. So honestly, Teddy I'm just wherever my 74 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 3: money is, you know, eat the bag, and you know, 75 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 3: my team is in LA. So I do spend quite 76 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 3: a bit of time in LA, like shooting movies and 77 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 3: stuff like that, but I shoot a lot in here 78 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 3: as well, So I don't know. I'm just kind of 79 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 3: all over the place. Really mostly LA in New York though, 80 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, really just mostly lay in Atlanta. 81 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 2: And I know you made some appearances on Atlanta as. 82 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 1: Well, So my question is, if you were going to peck, 83 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: would you rather go back to Atlanta full time or 84 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: be a friend on Beverly Hills. 85 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 3: Ooh, okay, I love the way you phrase that, because 86 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 3: I'm not really interested in being a full time housewife 87 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 3: on any franchise at this point in my life. My 88 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 3: focus is my acting career, which is thriving, by the way, So. 89 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:30,600 Speaker 2: I love that congratulation. 90 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 3: I got to come back on when some of my 91 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 3: movies come out. I have like probably about six or 92 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 3: seven movies coming up this year anyway. But back to 93 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 3: the question, since I kind of want to live in 94 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 3: the friend space and I've been a houseway on Atlanta 95 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 3: for so long, I just love kind of popping in 96 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 3: on Atlanta and maybe being a friend on Beverly Hills. 97 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 2: And have you been watching the season of Atlanta so far? 98 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 3: The highlights you know on my Instagram. 99 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: Well, because we actually said and this was before you 100 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 1: were confirmed to come back and be on the show, 101 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: I was like, they are missing a voice of reason, 102 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 1: like they need a Cynthia right now, because it honestly 103 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: feels like everyone is doing the most to create drama, 104 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: but you're not seeing any fun right now. 105 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, from what I've seen, it just definitely feels like 106 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 3: they're very divided. It's like team Kenya, Drew, Candy, and 107 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 3: then team Barlows, Chebre and Sanya, and then I think. 108 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 2: Now there's Manietta. 109 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 3: Pardon, I feel like I'm missing someone. Did I say 110 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 3: d I think Drew's on the. 111 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, but then there's mon Yetta and then. 112 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 3: Manetta. I think Monyetta trust to get along with everyone, 113 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 3: but I think at the end of the day, she's 114 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 3: team Candy and Kenya. 115 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, well now she's fighting with Marlowe. 116 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 1: Yes, question, do you think that Marlowe is Do you 117 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: think marlow has a good heart? Because there this last 118 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: episode and I know, and we'll get into Orange County, 119 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 1: but I just want to bmrail you on this because 120 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 1: I don't. Every time I've had her on the pod, 121 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 1: she's been really fun. Some of the women that from 122 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: Atlanta that have come on are very media trained, so 123 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 1: you don't get too much right. She's not like that. 124 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: She comes on. She's just who she is and I 125 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 1: love her for that. But when I'm watching the show 126 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 1: sometimes I'm like, is she just trying so hard to 127 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 1: keep the peach that she's doing things out of her 128 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:40,359 Speaker 1: character or is that who she is? 129 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:45,679 Speaker 3: I to be honest, I the first part of the question. 130 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 3: I do think that marlow has a good heart. I've 131 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 3: known her for years. I do think she has good intentions. However, 132 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 3: on the show, I could definitely see how she could 133 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 3: be very misunderstood. Something just don't land the way that 134 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:04,679 Speaker 3: I would think she would have wanted them to land, 135 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 3: And it definitely, you know, looks a little crazy, Like 136 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 3: I definitely am like, okay, Marlowe, like, were you trying 137 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 3: to be a jerky in the sea? Turn out that way? 138 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 3: And again, I love Marlowe. I think she has good intentions, 139 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 3: but I think on the show sometimes things just don't 140 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 3: land right. 141 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 1: Have you been following the KROI Bearman and Kem Zondiac 142 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 1: of it all. 143 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 3: I am on planet Earth. I have no I can't 144 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 3: get away from it. Of course, it's been all over 145 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 3: my timeline. I would be have to, I would have 146 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 3: to be living under a rock, not be following it. 147 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 3: Of course I have. I was surprised. I was surprised, 148 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 3: and you know, sad for them, of course, you know, 149 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 3: I'd never want to see a happy marriage end. And 150 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 3: I always thought that, you know, they were, you know, hack. 151 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 1: That's a hard thing about when you when you see 152 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 1: couples on Instagram and you see things happening, like you 153 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 1: always make your own narrative, and then all of a sudden, 154 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: it's so all of a sudden, there's so much toxicity 155 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: and people are fighting back and forth, which is something 156 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: I have not seen you do with your acts at 157 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 1: this point. You guys have And how did you do that? 158 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: Because I know a lot of our listeners, you know, 159 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 1: have been divorced or getting divorced. 160 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 2: Like, how did you guys decide to just keep it cool. 161 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 3: Just leave each other respectfully? 162 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 2: You know? 163 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 3: And I did the same with my first ex, Peter, 164 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 3: regardless of what issues we had in our marriage, even 165 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 3: as public people. I feel like, at the end of 166 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 3: the day, you know, we're all grown, we all chose 167 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 3: to be together, and if things don't work out, I 168 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 3: think there's always a space to leave in a very peaceful, 169 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 3: respectful way. It didn't work out, I still don't love 170 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,680 Speaker 3: these people any less. I still, you know, I still 171 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:05,199 Speaker 3: root for these people. I still pray for them, but 172 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 3: they're just not my person. And that's okay. But I 173 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 3: had to find I had to go through the process 174 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 3: to see if they were my person. If they're not, 175 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 3: that's okay. So nothing but love. It was all kind 176 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:15,599 Speaker 3: of intentional. 177 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 2: How did you know it was time to leave? 178 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: I mean, because I think in every marriage that we 179 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 1: all have ups and downs, Like it would be a 180 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: complete lie to say, like, oh, every day of my 181 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: life is just amazing with Edlin, and we are so 182 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: happy all right time. Like there are days where I'm like, 183 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I'm so lucky and I'm so in 184 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 1: love and I'm so happy, and there are days where 185 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, honestly, if I never see you again, I'd 186 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:40,079 Speaker 1: be all right. 187 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 3: Right, Well, yeah, no, I hear you. Look, this is 188 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 3: not my first rodeo, so it's not my first marriage. 189 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 3: I've been married before. I am a woman of a 190 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 3: certain age, So not only do I know what I want, 191 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 3: I just know what I don't want. And I think 192 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 3: as you get older, you just are able to figure 193 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 3: out what works for you a little quicker than when 194 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 3: you're younger. You're just still the first time. You're still 195 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 3: trying to figure it out. So just not even just 196 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 3: in my personal life, in my professional life, I just 197 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 3: don't want to continue anything that doesn't bring me peace 198 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 3: or happiness. And at this point in life, so you know, 199 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 3: the transition has been really really good for me. But 200 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 3: I think again, with age, you just kind of go, 201 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 3: you know what, this is not right for me, as 202 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 3: opposed to when you're younger you might try to ride 203 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 3: it out a little longer. You know, I don't have 204 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:30,560 Speaker 3: I'm like twenty five more summers left, girl. I don't 205 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 3: have time to waste to. 206 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 2: Figure out something. 207 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. 208 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 2: My dad always says. 209 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 1: That he's always like, oh my god, he's always like 210 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 1: ten years left, And I'm like, can you not say 211 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 1: that you have no idea how many years now? 212 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 3: The tending is true? Like you know, I was the 213 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 3: queen of like you know, running towards like fifty. I 214 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,440 Speaker 3: made fifty cent like such a big thing, Like I 215 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 3: literally wore you guys out with my fiftieth birthday. Now 216 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 3: I just turned fifty six, and I have to tell you, 217 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 3: fifty six does not get the same as fifty five 218 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 3: because fifty five you're still in the middle. You're still 219 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 3: close to fifty. You're right when you turn fifty six, 220 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 3: you're closed in the sixty. That's when it gets real. 221 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 3: You're like, wait a minute, now, now everything really counts, 222 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:14,320 Speaker 3: Like I really need to live my life to the 223 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 3: fullest and do the things that I want to do, 224 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 3: Like I still have so many dreams and goals and 225 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 3: things that I want to do, So I'm like the 226 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 3: clock is ticking, so I don't have any time to waste. 227 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 1: Well, I also saw that you recently said you're single 228 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 1: and ready to mingle. Yes, who have you gone any dates? 229 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 3: I am single and I have been mingling. Yes, I've 230 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 3: been on a couple of dates, and it is you know, 231 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 3: there's some prospects out there, nothing serious right now, but 232 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 3: I'm definitely having fun dating. 233 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 1: And you've heard data guy from another reality show girl. 234 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 3: At this point, I'm not ruling anyone out. I mean, 235 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 3: I'm not it's not a preference for me from a 236 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 3: reality show, but if that's what God sends my way, 237 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 3: I can't rule anything out because I just don't know 238 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:08,199 Speaker 3: who who God has for me. I just honestly don't 239 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:10,719 Speaker 3: and I don't want to close minded. I don't want 240 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 3: to miss my person because I have all these rules 241 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 3: of like who I won't date. I don't know when 242 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 3: my person comes. I feel like I'm going to know 243 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 3: who that person is and I'm going to date him. 244 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 2: Well, have you met Char's dude or Kenya's. 245 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 3: I've met Scharaise dude. Yes, and he's really sweet. I've 246 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 3: only had nothing but like great, you know, experiences around him, 247 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 3: and they're so cute together. Charaies seems really happy with 248 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 3: him and they look great. I mean, I'm I'm happy 249 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 3: for what you know, I'm happy for them. I don't know, 250 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 3: you know, the major details about their relationship, but we 251 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 3: went to dinner one night together and I was very 252 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:54,320 Speaker 3: happy for them both. 253 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 2: Did you get me? 254 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: Oh? 255 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 2: Kenny On had what. 256 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 3: Kenya, on the other hand, I have heard about her guy, 257 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 3: but I've never met him yet or seen them together yet. 258 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 3: But she seems pretty pretty smitten with him. For sure. 259 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 1: She seems pretty into him, but I could tell even 260 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 1: when you could see the FaceTime they had on the show. 261 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 3: I was like, Oh, no, he's into that man for sure, 262 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:21,199 Speaker 3: even like the way she like lights up like a 263 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 3: light bulb when she talks to him or about him. 264 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 3: And uh, yeah, I actually just got back to Atlanta, 265 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 3: like I said, so I'll probably catch up with Miss 266 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 3: Kenya this week and get some more scoop on that. 267 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: But she had a big episode this week, so she 268 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 1: probably needs a friend right now. And then final question 269 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 1: before we get into Orange County. Yes, when people found 270 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: out are assumed that you were coming on because like 271 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 1: I did that little post like who do you think 272 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:50,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be co hosting with? 273 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 2: And people are like Cynthia, you know. 274 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 3: They want to know about that because I've only done 275 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 3: it like one other time, like maybe twice once. 276 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:03,040 Speaker 1: Or twice friends, Like So for me, something that's pivotal 277 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: to me, like if I'm going to do this podcast, 278 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 1: I want it to be with people that I truly 279 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: have a relationship with. Yeah, because then to me, if 280 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 1: you have a real relationship, you can disagree on something right. 281 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 2: And no, we're still done. 282 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. 283 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 2: I don't agree with you on this point of view. 284 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 1: You don't agree with me, but like, let's laugh it 285 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 1: off and move it on because we're only as good 286 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: as last week's episode. But a lot of people want 287 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: to know your first impressions. Denise and Camille. 288 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 3: Oh my god. Okay, First of all, I love Denise 289 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 3: and Camille. I actually spend some time with them, and 290 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 3: I'll and Denise and I've been texting back and forth. 291 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 3: We're supposed to get together for lunch or for dinner, 292 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 3: and then I got busy with all my movie stuff 293 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 3: and I had to come here. But we're definitely getting together. 294 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 3: And then Denise was gonna come to Atlanta to shoot 295 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 3: a move and then the whole st right thing happened. 296 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 3: But we definitely connected door Camille, We're gonna definitely do 297 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 3: like a million lunches and dinners. We had a good time. 298 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 3: I like those ladies. We've always been like friends from afar, 299 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 3: but we definitely have crossed over too. We will see 300 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 3: each other and and and you know, really, you know, 301 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 3: get to know each other. 302 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 2: You know, what's a good thing about you? 303 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 1: Cynthia is like I feel like everyone likes you and 304 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 1: you like everyone, which is quite abasit for me. 305 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 2: So we're really we're. 306 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 3: I'm just kiddy, you know, it's so crazy. It's so crazy. Well, 307 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 3: first of all, everyone does not like me. I mean 308 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 3: I think maybe more people like me than you. But trustingly, 309 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 3: I got my hater's two girls. I just think maybe 310 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 3: they're just tired of hating on me and they just 311 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 3: are like, Okay, I'm just gonna be I'm gonna just 312 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 3: like Cynthia this boy. But but it's so crazy because 313 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 3: my experience with you, like we did Arlend together named 314 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 3: that too? Did that ever come out? 315 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 2: By the way, So I think it comes out in September? 316 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 3: Oh okay, all right, and then we did Big Brother together. 317 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 3: My only experiences with you have been amazing. So I'm 318 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 3: always like, I love it. I don't know what everybody 319 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 3: else is doing. That's why whenever you call, as you 320 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 3: can see, I always should. 321 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 2: Right there and I will do the same. And when 322 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 2: you come out next week, we're doing pellicare for sure? Yes, 323 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 2: all right? So to go into Orange County? 324 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 1: Have you watched any past or just this most recent 325 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 1: episode so I know to be. 326 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 3: Honest, no, I have not I have not. If I 327 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 3: see something again on the ground, you know, I'll like yeah, 328 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 3: but I did watch the episode. I did watch the 329 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 3: screener last night. 330 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 2: Okay, so right from the beginning, who's your favorite? 331 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 3: Ooh, well, you know, I have a little sweet spot 332 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 3: for Tamra because I've gotten to know her a lot 333 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 3: through you and everything. I do. Like that she's back 334 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 3: on the show. I'm excited to see her. Intro. Was 335 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 3: bummed while she comes in on the motorcycle. I was like, Okay, 336 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 3: I don't even know if I ever want to go, 337 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 3: but if I do, copen, I know, good damn well, 338 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 3: I need that Tamera intro. Like, I don't even ride motorcycles, 339 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 3: but I'll learn to. 340 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 1: Just like know, you're gonna have to find you're gonna 341 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:04,879 Speaker 1: have to like come in on like a helicopter that 342 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:08,119 Speaker 1: you're piloting yourself, something no one else has done. 343 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 2: Like that was a badass intro they brought. 344 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:12,439 Speaker 3: They brought my girl in right, Like she kind of 345 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 3: went out like like in the bushes, right. She didn't 346 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:20,720 Speaker 3: go out right, so but they definitely brought her back 347 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 3: in right. So I was really glad they kind of 348 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 3: lift her up in a blaze of glory and just 349 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 3: let her have have that moment. I will say, I 350 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:30,439 Speaker 3: don't know a lot of the ladies from Orange County. 351 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 3: I do know Vicky. I've done a bunch of stuff 352 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 3: with Vicky. But I can see Vicky in this episode. 353 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 1: Is she is she back or she's she's gonna be back. 354 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: I don't know if she's even officially a friend, but 355 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 1: she will be back. We see her on a cast 356 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:47,919 Speaker 1: trip like in the trailer, she does like a jump scare, 357 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 1: like she's like you kind of realize that she's back. 358 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 1: The episode starts and Tamra's back. We hear Shannon ask 359 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 1: if Tamra can change and Gina calling Tamra a dick. 360 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 2: We find out Tamra's mom, Sandy, lives in the Casida. 361 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 1: Okay, first things first, the OC women love a casida, 362 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 1: like Gina. 363 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 2: Lived in one, TAM's mom's in one seen. 364 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:21,359 Speaker 1: You know, as they're kind of setting up the tone 365 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:24,439 Speaker 1: that Tama's coming back, it doesn't seem the women have 366 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 1: much positive things to say. Right then we get then 367 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,679 Speaker 1: they kind of they showed the beginning stuff with tam 368 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:45,200 Speaker 1: what'd you think about Tama's mom? 369 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:46,280 Speaker 2: Oh? 370 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 3: I love her? I love her. I love that she 371 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:53,199 Speaker 3: has settled right on end, she's comfortable, she brings her 372 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:55,879 Speaker 3: male friend over. I thought it was fun. You know, 373 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 3: it's not easy. I had my mom live with me before, 374 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 3: and I love my mom. Moms living living with your 375 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 3: mom not not easy. Love my mama. But I don't 376 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:08,880 Speaker 3: know if I want to live with her or her 377 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 3: see her. 378 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 2: Would you be okay with her at her house? What's 379 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:15,240 Speaker 2: that okay with her being in your house. 380 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 3: Being in my house. I'm totally fine with my mom 381 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,160 Speaker 3: visiting for like, you know, weeks at a time. 382 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 2: Living and visiting are very different. 383 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 3: My mom for a week, for like a week, two weeks, 384 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 3: she can visit for a month, but there always has 385 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:30,160 Speaker 3: to be a cut off when she's going to leave, 386 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 3: for sure. 387 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:33,439 Speaker 1: But I also have to say, the only time I 388 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 1: want to hear about my mom's sex life is when 389 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:37,880 Speaker 1: I want something to make me cry, Like. 390 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 2: I absolutely don't. No, no, ma'am. 391 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:44,439 Speaker 1: Like I grew up with a mom who was like 392 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:47,360 Speaker 1: all of my friend's best friends, like always giving them 393 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 1: it like sex, And I was like, no, I don't 394 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:51,879 Speaker 1: want to hear it. 395 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:52,879 Speaker 2: I don't want to know. 396 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 4: I can't that my mom having sex like like that 397 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 4: would that would be I don't think that conversation would 398 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 4: ever happen freely between us to talk about our sex. 399 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 2: Lives, but also having sex on the pullout couch. 400 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 1: I was cracking up, like that is a small little 401 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:12,359 Speaker 1: area to have sex on. 402 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 3: You never had sex on a pullout couch. 403 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 2: Not if I was sandy. I mean, of course I 404 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:20,200 Speaker 2: did when I was younger, but like. 405 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 1: That was I mean, if you're I can't imagine sharing 406 00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 1: a bed to go to sleep on that side, say. 407 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 3: It's the most ideal, a comfortable situation, but I'm definitely 408 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 3: had sex on a pullout couch before. And if it's 409 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 3: it's all about the person's not about the couch, Hey, 410 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:37,479 Speaker 3: it's about the person and what they were. 411 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 2: That's a good point. 412 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 1: Did you see that two teas in a pod was 413 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 1: played right at the beginning. Right at the beginning, it 414 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:49,639 Speaker 1: said clips from two teas and pod are played to 415 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 1: show what Tamra has said about Shannon. 416 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 2: On the pod, camera says you just told the truth. 417 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 1: So to give you any backstory that you you mostly 418 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 1: get on the episode. But when Tamra left and well 419 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:06,399 Speaker 1: got fired or what as we like to call it 420 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 1: got vickied. 421 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 2: She as I was. 422 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,919 Speaker 1: I don't know how you felt, but the majority of 423 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 1: women when they are asked to either step down and 424 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:21,320 Speaker 1: become a friend or you get fired completely, there's a 425 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:25,680 Speaker 1: moment in time where you feel lost, especially if it's 426 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:27,640 Speaker 1: something that has taken over your life. 427 00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 2: And did you have those feelings at first? 428 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 3: I did? I did. I mean I was offered to 429 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:37,840 Speaker 3: come back as a friend, and I just chose to 430 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 3: just cut the cord and just you know, move into 431 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:45,639 Speaker 3: focus on my acting career. However, you know, once the 432 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:47,879 Speaker 3: show actually came on, Like, I was fine until the 433 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:49,919 Speaker 3: show came on, and it was like all over my 434 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 3: Instagram and everybody's like, oh, look at the outfits. A 435 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 3: good the tag was and I was like, oh. 436 00:21:54,119 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 1: Man, yeah, did any of the women that you were 437 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 1: close to kind of distance themselves from you afterwards? 438 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 3: You know what's really funny, I feel like everyone actually 439 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 3: came to me more, like even the new girls didn't know. 440 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 3: They were like, hey, you know, I'm new on the show, 441 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 3: and I hear so much. You know, I heard so 442 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,479 Speaker 3: many great things about you. I'd love to connect at 443 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,399 Speaker 3: some point and just you know, talk to you or 444 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:24,160 Speaker 3: whatever whatever. I actually got a lot of love, which 445 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 3: I was surprised honestly because Teddy, I thought like, you know, okay, 446 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,679 Speaker 3: these women honestly, it's they really don't have to be 447 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 3: friends with me. You'll be around get this time. Yeah. 448 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 3: You know, it's different when you work together because you regardless, 449 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:36,199 Speaker 3: you have to see jo. 450 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:38,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're showing up, You're going to a job. 451 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 3: Like they could have just dropped off, And I really 452 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:43,479 Speaker 3: expected some of them to do that, to be honest, 453 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:47,760 Speaker 3: and to my surprise, you know, everyone was like, hey, 454 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 3: you know, I see you're in Atlanta. Looks at dinner 455 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 3: like people all everyone, all of those ladies included the 456 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 3: new ones, did a really good job of, you know, 457 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 3: just keeping in touch. Was just why actually end up 458 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 3: popping up because they're always inviting me to their things 459 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,439 Speaker 3: off cameraan on camera. So I was like, all right, 460 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,200 Speaker 3: you know what, if I'm in town, I want to 461 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 3: go and support them. 462 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,639 Speaker 2: And that's that's something I said to Tamar. 463 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 1: That is obviously different with OC than I'm like Hills 464 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,399 Speaker 1: because the same thing happened to me when when they 465 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 1: got the news, like they filled me with love like 466 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 1: all guys friends, like they were like you know we 467 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:19,720 Speaker 1: missed you. 468 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,120 Speaker 2: This is we hate this, like this isn't right. 469 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 1: We did so much for us for the show, like 470 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 1: all this shit we didn't even want to do. 471 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 2: You'd do like all of it, we're going to be missing. 472 00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 1: So I so when Tamora was upset about it, I 473 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 1: truly related because they were best friends. 474 00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:39,639 Speaker 2: For a lot of years. But then. 475 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 1: You know, as they start to talk about it, you 476 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 1: see that they both have heard on both sides. 477 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 2: But I mean, I think facts are facts, Like that's true. 478 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:50,560 Speaker 3: It's true. But but here's the thing too, if you like, 479 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 3: you know, just like show friends, and then there's like 480 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,240 Speaker 3: real friends, because I'm like friends with some of the 481 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 3: ladies who I just mostly see them at work. But 482 00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:59,199 Speaker 3: then I have friends that I hang out and go 483 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 3: on vacations with and spend real time with. 484 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 2: Us. 485 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 3: Well, some you're just closer to than others. The thing 486 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:05,639 Speaker 3: about like when you know, tamer was saying, well, you know, 487 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 3: I did an interview and they asked me and I 488 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 3: told the truth. Okay, so here's here's the thing with that. 489 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 3: That's all fine and dandy, but you always know, you 490 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,080 Speaker 3: always have to keep in mind if you do an 491 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 3: interview and say something. Even if it's the truth, someone 492 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 3: else in an interview is gonna ask that next person, well, 493 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,760 Speaker 3: did you see the interview that ted that Teddy did 494 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 3: with you? You know that Teddy did and she said, 495 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:28,160 Speaker 3: this is this about you? So we're always asked to respond, 496 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 3: whether we want to or not, you know, regardless of 497 00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 3: how we feel. So in all fairness, like every reaction, 498 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 3: every everything you do is going to get some kind 499 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 3: of reaction. And I would say, even if I'm telling 500 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:43,400 Speaker 3: the truth, like I feel like, if it's my real 501 00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 3: friend who I care about, I'm going to I'm not 502 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,960 Speaker 3: just gonna be like, oh, well someone out there, Like 503 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,199 Speaker 3: I'm gonna say, you know what, that's my girl and 504 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:54,440 Speaker 3: I always love her. But honestly, truthfully A B and 505 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,199 Speaker 3: C and D, I think there's just a way to 506 00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:59,440 Speaker 3: put the truth out there. If you the friendship, if 507 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 3: you want not you don't want to protect the friendship, 508 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:02,639 Speaker 3: then hey, let it do what to do. 509 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: But I think what I've started to see is if 510 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:09,280 Speaker 1: the anger is involved in the end of the friendship, 511 00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:11,120 Speaker 1: that's where things start to get. 512 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:14,119 Speaker 3: Thrown out and hurt and hurt and hurt. Yeah, inituations 513 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,919 Speaker 3: where my feelings were really really hurt, and I know 514 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 3: that I saw an episode that Tammer was going through 515 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 3: a lot, her dog died, her husband's going through stuff, 516 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,359 Speaker 3: so I know at those are the times when you 517 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,639 Speaker 3: really really want your friends to be there for you. 518 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 3: So I kind of get it if she was coming 519 00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:31,119 Speaker 3: from a place of hurt. I feel like, none of 520 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,720 Speaker 3: it's so bad that they can't you know, get it, 521 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:35,879 Speaker 3: you know, pull it together. I did. I would like 522 00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 3: to say, though, in the scene when she and Shannon 523 00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:42,120 Speaker 3: finally talked, I feel like Shannon was definitely a little cold, 524 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 3: like I felt like, at least just from the dog 525 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 3: down along like I was, I just wanted to jump. 526 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 3: I was like, hug her, hug. 527 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 1: Her, Yeah, because you could see Tamar getting emotional. 528 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,639 Speaker 3: Yes, I wanted Shannon to just hug her old friend 529 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 3: and still hash out the stuff later. But in that moment, 530 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:01,720 Speaker 3: even if you guys aren't getting a loan, like I 531 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:04,160 Speaker 3: would hug my worst enemy if she told me their 532 00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,639 Speaker 3: dog that her dog died, I just would be like, 533 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:08,679 Speaker 3: you know, I don't really like you that much, but 534 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:10,679 Speaker 3: I'm gonna give you this gift hug because I know 535 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 3: you need it, and I know you're in pain. 536 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 1: I don't even love hugs, but that like half assed 537 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 1: hug that Tamer and Shannon had made me uncomfortable. 538 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 2: I don't like it. 539 00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 3: I know. I was like, m yeah, I didn't feel 540 00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:27,520 Speaker 3: that hug for sure. 541 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely not there. Okay, then we go on the 542 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,199 Speaker 1: hiking on Housewives kills me. I don't know if you 543 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 1: guys have to do it a lot on Atlanta, but like. 544 00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:38,199 Speaker 3: I'm big on hiking here. 545 00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:42,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, like but OC and Beverly Hills is always hiking 546 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 1: where you have to walk really slowly because the camera 547 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 1: crews like sprinting. 548 00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:48,479 Speaker 3: Off the cliff. 549 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:50,919 Speaker 2: So it's the most bs hiking. 550 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:55,199 Speaker 1: But Emily in the past has done kind of like 551 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:58,480 Speaker 1: outlandish things like when it comes to like one time 552 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:00,240 Speaker 1: that she was in a sauna and she called a 553 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 1: subway sandwich out of her. 554 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,919 Speaker 2: Purse and ate it in the hot sauna. 555 00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 1: So like do you think when she drank the dog's 556 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:11,199 Speaker 1: water from the water ball that that was a shtick 557 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 1: or do you think that she was just like, oh 558 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:16,880 Speaker 1: I'm thirsty, No, why. 559 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 3: She drinks bowl? I really just don't know why she 560 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 3: actually did that. And I will just like to say 561 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,200 Speaker 3: I don't know how thirsty I have to be or 562 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,639 Speaker 3: what deserted island that I have to be on. I 563 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:36,880 Speaker 3: actually need to drink from my dogs. And I love 564 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:40,120 Speaker 3: my dog. I mean, may Bailey rested in piece recently passed, 565 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 3: but I have seen the things that Bailly has done 566 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 3: with that mouth, and the whole thing with animal's mouths 567 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:49,919 Speaker 3: are cleaner. I don't know, because I've been with some 568 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 3: humans too that have done some interesting things mouth. 569 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 1: I mean, all I know is like my like some 570 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 1: of my past dogs own ship. 571 00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:09,880 Speaker 3: And I don't want to say it, but yes, absolutely. 572 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,480 Speaker 1: It would be one thing maybe if it was her dog, right, 573 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 1: I know, you don't even know what Artie's been up to. 574 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:19,199 Speaker 3: Exactly exactly, because at least if it's your dog, you 575 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:21,399 Speaker 3: already know what you fed this dog. You know what 576 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 3: that ship looks like already, you've smelled that ship for years. 577 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:28,560 Speaker 3: You're at least familiar. But really, I mean, I'm umpy, shit, 578 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,920 Speaker 3: it's your shit, basically, it's your ship. It's like eating 579 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 3: your own like your dog is like an extension of 580 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:37,440 Speaker 3: you in some way, not just something so yeah. 581 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 1: But then Emily's talking about all the all the ship 582 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:41,400 Speaker 1: that came out of Tamar's mouth. 583 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 2: I'm like, none of it is as bad as what 584 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 2: you're drinking right now, exactly. 585 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 3: Exactly. 586 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,800 Speaker 1: Get into Heather talking about how Gina has canceled on 587 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:55,800 Speaker 1: her multiple times. Terry says, sometimes people don't want to 588 00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:59,240 Speaker 1: invite them since they think it won't be fancy. 589 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:04,040 Speaker 2: Enough for them. Right, Okay, I here's the thing. I 590 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:07,520 Speaker 2: am personally a person. If I have an event, I 591 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:08,440 Speaker 2: try to. 592 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,960 Speaker 1: Group a group of people that I think will potentially 593 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 1: get along. It has no idea, has nothing to do 594 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:17,480 Speaker 1: with fanciness. Like my fortieth birthday was a mish mash 595 00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 1: of people from all over my life. Some have a 596 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 1: lot of money, some had very little money. But it's 597 00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 1: about what kind of energy they're going to bring. So 598 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's necessarily wanting to not invite 599 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 1: her because she's worried Heather's not gonna enjoy it because 600 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 1: they don't have the but by the way, she drinks dumb, 601 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 1: not the but yeah, like let's be clear. But also 602 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 1: it's more she thinks Heather is not going to be 603 00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 1: appropriate to her other friends. 604 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,320 Speaker 3: Well, this is how I feel about that. Okay, I 605 00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 3: am super busy. I have a huge mix of friends. 606 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:07,000 Speaker 3: Some I love to be around. Some I kind of 607 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:12,240 Speaker 3: takeing doses, like you know, different age groups. It's a lot. Personally, 608 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 3: I always I always want the invite. I don't always 609 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,440 Speaker 3: want to go, but I want to be included. So 610 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:21,600 Speaker 3: I want the opportunity to say, oh thanks, But you 611 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 3: know what, I'm gonna set this one out. I think 612 00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 3: if you're my friend and it seems like you know 613 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 3: they're friends, like you just got to like throw the 614 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 3: invite out there and be like, I hope she doesn't come, 615 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,240 Speaker 3: Like I ran, I want to invite this person, but 616 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 3: if I don't, she's gonna feel some kind of way. 617 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:39,680 Speaker 3: But it's not really her thing, it's not her crowd. 618 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 3: Hopefully she's not gonna come. But at least you know, 619 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:43,320 Speaker 3: I did my part. 620 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, that's essentially what Heather said to Gina. 621 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,479 Speaker 1: But this is what led me to the other thing 622 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 1: that we were talking about before, which is show friends 623 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 1: versus non show friends. In my opinion, Gina last season 624 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 1: became close with Heather because it was good for her 625 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 1: and the show. Then the show stops filming, and that's 626 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 1: why she didn't carry on the friendship. 627 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:08,880 Speaker 3: Got it? Okay? 628 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 2: Okay, because you can eat, regardless. 629 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: If she's not gonna want to be invited to an event, regardless, 630 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 1: if I thought, you know what, Cynthia would hate this event, 631 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,440 Speaker 1: she doesn't like to do blah blah blah, why would 632 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 1: I invite her? 633 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 2: I could still say, hey, Cynthia, do you want to 634 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:22,440 Speaker 2: go to lunch? 635 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 3: Right right? 636 00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 1: I could still make an effort to see you doing 637 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 1: things that we and I know we both enjoy together. 638 00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,200 Speaker 1: So if you're not making any effort to see somebody, 639 00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 1: it's not necessarily about the event. 640 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 3: It's true, that's true. And even when she was explaining 641 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 3: why she hadn't reached out, it was like, oh, and 642 00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 3: then you know, I had to go do my laundry, 643 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 3: and then I had to go bought my floor, and 644 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 3: you know it took a really long time to buy 645 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 3: my floor. 646 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 2: Like it was just a lad who's like, girl, like, 647 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:53,560 Speaker 2: do you. 648 00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 3: Want to continue this friendship or not? 649 00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 1: And yeah, you know, well, how did you feel about 650 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 1: Heather's come when she was talking about her kids going 651 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,880 Speaker 1: to college and they don't know how to do laundry 652 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 1: and blah blah blah, like how did you raise your plate? 653 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 3: Could totally relate when Noel went to college. I mean, 654 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 3: she didn't really know how to do much of anything either, 655 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 3: to be honest, and she had to kind of learn 656 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 3: when she was there and just be on her own 657 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 3: and like figure it out. 658 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:25,719 Speaker 1: Well, I know, I watched it at first, and then 659 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:27,680 Speaker 1: I was like, I need to be better with my 660 00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,239 Speaker 1: kids because like there's a lot of stuff like I 661 00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,640 Speaker 1: have them put their in the sink, but I don't 662 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:38,200 Speaker 1: have them wash their plates. Yeah, absolutely, things like that, 663 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,280 Speaker 1: Like I had them forget Like. 664 00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 3: I didn't even know Noel didn't know how to wash 665 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 3: dishes until she was it was time for the leave. 666 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 3: I was like, wait, you've never she would do the 667 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 3: same thing. She would put it in the sink. Maybe 668 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 3: rents at all, maybe you know what I'm saying. But 669 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:56,000 Speaker 3: she didn't. She never really did dishes. She's like, we 670 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 3: have a dishwasher, I just put it in the dishwash. 671 00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 1: But like, actually, I'm having now flash of the Celebrity 672 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,720 Speaker 1: Big Brother House and how disgusting all the men were 673 00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 1: with leaving the ship everywhere from the toilet to the plates. 674 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,040 Speaker 1: Like so I feel like, even more so than with 675 00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:14,760 Speaker 1: the girls, I need to like really hound in with 676 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 1: my son how to take care of himself. Even the 677 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,840 Speaker 1: other day, I watched him go potty, and I go, dude, 678 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 1: why aren't you lifting up the toilet see and if 679 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 1: you need to keep it down, you have to wipe 680 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:26,720 Speaker 1: it off when you're done. 681 00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:30,000 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, agree. 682 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,080 Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, I'm doing this kid in disservice. 683 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 2: His poor wife's gonna be like the hell did your 684 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 2: mom teach you nothing? 685 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,640 Speaker 3: You know era like we had like I had to 686 00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 3: learn how to cook, I had to know how to clean, 687 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,000 Speaker 3: like because we had I had to know how to 688 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 3: base it my brother when he was younger, Like it 689 00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 3: was just part of life that I was growing up, 690 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,360 Speaker 3: Like you just had to you had to feed yourself 691 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,880 Speaker 3: through with everything everything. 692 00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: So like my mom getting up with me and getting 693 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 1: me breakfast before school, a well bounced. 694 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 2: I was like, here's a. 695 00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 1: Lucky charm mill exactly half fast lunch. Like there wasn't 696 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 1: any Like I needed my volleyball uniform. I had to 697 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,160 Speaker 1: go wash it, like iron it. 698 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 3: Yourself, like whatever. We totally were. We were self sufficient. 699 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 3: And now like these kids like they don't like I 700 00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:23,120 Speaker 3: don't even think Noah would have survived like during my era, 701 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 3: like because she's literally like wait, what like, okay. 702 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,640 Speaker 2: So audition for everything. 703 00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it's it's crazy, and I actually feel bad 704 00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:34,959 Speaker 3: for them because it's actually good to know how to cook. 705 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 3: I don't know, like like they have these kids have 706 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,640 Speaker 3: to be rich because they have to have somebody to 707 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:41,560 Speaker 3: do these things for things for them, because what are 708 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:43,359 Speaker 3: they gonna do when they get in a situation where 709 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:46,680 Speaker 3: they have to actually cook and clean and do all 710 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 3: these things. It's it's really. 711 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:51,719 Speaker 1: Think I'm not a good cook either, Like, but I mean, 712 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:52,799 Speaker 1: I know how to cook. 713 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 2: The things that I like to eat, but most other 714 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 2: humans are going to enjoy what I like. 715 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 1: I can make five things that I like that were 716 00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,759 Speaker 1: my go to So I mean, maybe we all need 717 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,680 Speaker 1: to take a cooking class from you, because you're an 718 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:08,279 Speaker 1: excellent cooking where's your cooking show? 719 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:09,480 Speaker 2: By the way, I've been waiting, I know. 720 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 3: I know, I know, you know what. The acting thing 721 00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,320 Speaker 3: has just taken off. Like I am super super busy 722 00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 3: with my acting career, and I thought, like it would, 723 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:19,920 Speaker 3: you know, I was prepared for it to kind of 724 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:23,719 Speaker 3: roll out a little slower, but it's happening. I keep saying, Oh, 725 00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,480 Speaker 3: I'm transitioning, and I like even now just changed narrative. 726 00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,160 Speaker 3: I don't say I'm transitioning anymore. I'm an actress now, 727 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:31,880 Speaker 3: Like I just flew from Miami even doing a movie yesterday. 728 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 3: I'm like, I probably have like again, probably both at 729 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,600 Speaker 3: this point. You know, you know, the strike is going 730 00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:39,319 Speaker 3: on now, so things slow down a little bit. But 731 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:41,719 Speaker 3: I probably have about eight movies coming out this year. 732 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, I'm busy, I'm body. 733 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 3: Yet, but it's still on deck because cooking is definitely 734 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:50,960 Speaker 3: my happy place, my peaceful place, and I feel like 735 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,799 Speaker 3: that's something that, as you know, as far as reality TV, 736 00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:56,160 Speaker 3: something that I would enjoy doing for sure. 737 00:35:56,239 --> 00:36:11,080 Speaker 1: So yeah, and then we have Jennifer ped DROWNTI. She 738 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,960 Speaker 1: is the newest housewife. She's the one that has the 739 00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:17,959 Speaker 1: yoga event. She and her ex husband Will still share 740 00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:22,040 Speaker 1: a house. Will works in Oklahoma, Oklahoma for her family's business, 741 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:25,120 Speaker 1: and instead of having her kids go between the houses 742 00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:29,160 Speaker 1: and Will comes into town, Jennifer stays at her boyfriend's house. 743 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,080 Speaker 2: What is your initial vibe on her? 744 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:38,319 Speaker 3: She seems cool. I like her energy. I think the 745 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 3: whole house situation is ridiculous. I just think that she 746 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,480 Speaker 3: has a new man, Like you know, everybody has to 747 00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:49,879 Speaker 3: feel comfortable and even though they're friends, and I get 748 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,359 Speaker 3: the whole kid thing, I get the convenience thing, but 749 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,759 Speaker 3: I feel like, you know what, and I like being 750 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,720 Speaker 3: friends with my exes, especially because kids and stuff involved, 751 00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:02,520 Speaker 3: But I think there has to be a cut off. 752 00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 2: Like some sort of a clean break. 753 00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:07,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I just don't think it makes any sense 754 00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:10,760 Speaker 3: for this man's clothes to still be in the house 755 00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 3: and my new man is there, my new man is 756 00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:15,799 Speaker 3: talking about well maybebout where is jacket? Like that's that's why. 757 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:19,440 Speaker 1: And then we get to the part where Emily said 758 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:22,680 Speaker 1: she heard from Gina that Jennifer was not faithful to 759 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:27,879 Speaker 1: her husband and that's why they ended up breaking up. 760 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,480 Speaker 1: So I just feel like we're going to see a 761 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:34,880 Speaker 1: lot of things unravel with her. I don't know, but 762 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,160 Speaker 1: the way she kind of explained why she broke up 763 00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,400 Speaker 1: with her husband made a lot of sense until we 764 00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,480 Speaker 1: started hearing the other things from the other women. 765 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:45,600 Speaker 3: Okay, why did she say she broke up with them? 766 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 3: Because I didn't see that. 767 00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,160 Speaker 2: She just said she didn't want to live in Oklahoma. 768 00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:54,240 Speaker 3: Okay, well neither do I, So yeah, GROUNDS get it. 769 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:57,919 Speaker 3: So she Oklahoma, but I don't live there either. 770 00:37:58,040 --> 00:37:59,960 Speaker 1: Okay, what else she didn't want to live in oka 771 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,719 Speaker 1: home and he works for her family, and I think 772 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,520 Speaker 1: my guess, I don't actually know. My guess is she 773 00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:10,799 Speaker 1: they have the second house in Orange County. I think 774 00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:16,640 Speaker 1: probably she's allegedly stepped out on her marriage and then 775 00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:21,840 Speaker 1: left her husband, and then he's still just because he 776 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:25,120 Speaker 1: works for her parents or runs the family business or 777 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:25,799 Speaker 1: whatever it is. 778 00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:27,920 Speaker 3: Does he have a girlfriend? 779 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:29,399 Speaker 1: I don't. 780 00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:30,279 Speaker 3: I don't know. 781 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:33,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's bizarre. I mean, granted, my 782 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:37,000 Speaker 1: ex husband worked for my dad for about six more 783 00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:41,120 Speaker 1: months after we were divorced, Okay, and I was like, 784 00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:42,160 Speaker 1: this is weird. 785 00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:43,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, we gotta wrap this up. 786 00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, like, let's I realize you're doing a documentary on him, 787 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,319 Speaker 1: but let's let's keep it moving. 788 00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:52,239 Speaker 2: Like we're friends, we're cool. But like, I don't need 789 00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:55,799 Speaker 2: to hear about you from my dad. I'm good, Like 790 00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:57,319 Speaker 2: I don't want to, like. 791 00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 3: A clean break in a new beginning. 792 00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think the thing and then you. 793 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,080 Speaker 3: Guys figure out the kids stuff in between. But I 794 00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,239 Speaker 3: think it's even for the kids. I feel like that 795 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,400 Speaker 3: could even be confusing. If dad is still in the 796 00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:12,120 Speaker 3: house and stuff is still there, and then the new 797 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,919 Speaker 3: guy's there and it's like, wait, what it's a lot. 798 00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,520 Speaker 1: And I actually asked camera on the last podcast, I 799 00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:18,960 Speaker 1: go is Eddie always liked that? 800 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:23,040 Speaker 2: Like is he always making sexual jokes? And she's like always. 801 00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:26,800 Speaker 1: But then I watched the scene with Jen where her 802 00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:30,200 Speaker 1: boyfriend picks her up they're filming, and he's like, yeah, 803 00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:31,040 Speaker 1: I want to get something. 804 00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:37,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, I would have you been sexual on camera? 805 00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:38,399 Speaker 2: Not sexual, but like. 806 00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:43,320 Speaker 3: No, but I've definitely, you know, made it very clear 807 00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:46,080 Speaker 3: that the sexual when I was with the person that, 808 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:49,040 Speaker 3: you know, the sexual relationship was in a very healthy, 809 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:51,880 Speaker 3: thriving space for sure. I did not hide that on camera. 810 00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:54,719 Speaker 3: I think there was definitely a scene where we're on 811 00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,040 Speaker 3: you know, we're at my kitchen counter, and I think 812 00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,879 Speaker 3: we may have mentioned, you know, some of my past 813 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:07,640 Speaker 3: experiences on that, but like we yeah, if if I'm 814 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:13,920 Speaker 3: having sex with my guy and we're filming, yeah, you 815 00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:16,879 Speaker 3: know what, things can definitely be thrown out there. I'm 816 00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:19,960 Speaker 3: I definitely don't shy away. You know, I'm pretty happy 817 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,279 Speaker 3: when I'm when I'm getting some so filming or not. 818 00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:25,600 Speaker 1: When men are nervous, they start to make those jokes 819 00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,080 Speaker 1: a little more because they're like, what else are we 820 00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:28,920 Speaker 1: going to talk about? 821 00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,080 Speaker 2: So they're like, yeah, I want to get you. I'm ready, 822 00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:32,959 Speaker 2: but who knows. 823 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:36,919 Speaker 1: Then we get to the yoga where Shannon falls down 824 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 1: five thousand times. I'm not shaming anyone for their physical ability. 825 00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:44,719 Speaker 1: I'm not fall shaming, but I was like, is this 826 00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 1: a stick at this point? But then we get we 827 00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,160 Speaker 1: get inside, they have the of course, they have the 828 00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 1: intuitive Healer, who we've probably seen on past seasons with 829 00:40:56,680 --> 00:41:04,400 Speaker 1: a different job. And then they go inside and Gina 830 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 1: is talking to Tamra and they start talking. 831 00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:12,080 Speaker 2: About Shannon, and Shannon's like is this me right? 832 00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:16,920 Speaker 3: And I love that because that's so that always happens 833 00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,120 Speaker 3: where you walk into the scene, they're like go in now, 834 00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:21,759 Speaker 3: go now, and they're like literally dragging you in the 835 00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,560 Speaker 3: scene or whatever. They weren't really dragging her in this scene, 836 00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 3: but I've been in scenes where they're like talking stuff 837 00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,560 Speaker 3: and then I just walk up and I'm like, hey, guys, 838 00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:30,960 Speaker 3: what's going on it? 839 00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:36,960 Speaker 1: And then everyone's like panicked. But then Tamra starts crying 840 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:42,080 Speaker 1: and saying she missed her best friend. She tells Shannon 841 00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,160 Speaker 1: that Bronx died and they had to close the gym, 842 00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:49,239 Speaker 1: and Shannon says, you know, she's kind of in like 843 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:52,520 Speaker 1: a nonchalant way, like we should get together. 844 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:53,920 Speaker 2: We do have history, amiga. 845 00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:56,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it was. 846 00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:56,840 Speaker 2: A little. 847 00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 3: I got a little cold, and I don't know, like 848 00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,319 Speaker 3: all right, really okay, well yeah, I think soon. 849 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. 850 00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:09,680 Speaker 3: I don't know a moment where I wanted her to 851 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:14,480 Speaker 3: forget the bullshit, grab her old friend and give her 852 00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:18,239 Speaker 3: a tight hug and then say, hey, you know what, 853 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:21,080 Speaker 3: my heart is breaking for you. You know, we have 854 00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:25,120 Speaker 3: to have real conversation at another time, but in this moment, 855 00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,480 Speaker 3: I just want to hug you and give you some lave. 856 00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:32,719 Speaker 2: But also just they have Instagram. 857 00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:38,759 Speaker 1: I don't believe that they unfollowed one another, so likelihood 858 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:42,879 Speaker 1: that Shannon already know those things. She could have at 859 00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:47,360 Speaker 1: that point said like I know that I was sorry. Yeah, 860 00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:49,440 Speaker 1: like I know, I'm so sorry, and you know what, 861 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:52,360 Speaker 1: I probably should have reached out, but so much has happened. 862 00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:55,520 Speaker 1: I didn't know how like I and those moments, you 863 00:42:55,640 --> 00:43:00,680 Speaker 1: just want to feel real connection absolutely so, I mean 864 00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:06,160 Speaker 1: I know we'll get there. But kind of two last 865 00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:12,279 Speaker 1: things to discuss, what are your thoughts on the three 866 00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:17,200 Speaker 1: fourth Confessionals, like now they show their legs and confessionals 867 00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:19,200 Speaker 1: like they do that on Dubai too, I would have 868 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,200 Speaker 1: been so pissed because I love not having to wear 869 00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:22,279 Speaker 1: nice pants. 870 00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:24,759 Speaker 3: You can go either way for me, Like I do 871 00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:28,560 Speaker 3: like being able to have like sweatpants on at the bottom, 872 00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,120 Speaker 3: but if you have like a really I have had 873 00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:34,120 Speaker 3: like really gorgeous dresses on, or like a gorgeous outfit 874 00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:36,440 Speaker 3: on where I felt like it would be great to 875 00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,000 Speaker 3: see the entire outfit, you know what I mean. So 876 00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:41,640 Speaker 3: I like the option, like if you have a great 877 00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:44,040 Speaker 3: outfit on, show the whole thing, if you don't just 878 00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:45,759 Speaker 3: show the waist up, you know what I mean. 879 00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,840 Speaker 2: Did you drink during confessionals or were you sober? 880 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:53,200 Speaker 3: Absolutely I drink. I wouldn't even do without drinking. 881 00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:58,520 Speaker 1: You realize that like the majority, I mean, it's half 882 00:43:58,520 --> 00:43:58,919 Speaker 1: and half. 883 00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,200 Speaker 2: But like one time I Kyle, I'm like, do you 884 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:04,239 Speaker 2: drink during confessionals? Because I was struggling my last year 885 00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,640 Speaker 2: because I was pregnant and I couldn't drink during confessionals, 886 00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:08,960 Speaker 2: And I was like, you know, it doesn't feel as 887 00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:14,319 Speaker 2: effortless to be shitty. I never drink during confessionals because 888 00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:16,000 Speaker 2: I want my memory to be on point. And I 889 00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:20,120 Speaker 2: was like, I one million percent needed to. 890 00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:23,680 Speaker 3: He's a real one. I did I drink during confessionals. 891 00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:26,800 Speaker 3: I drink before the scenes. I drink during the scenes. 892 00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:29,760 Speaker 3: Like I think I drank the most in my life 893 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:33,040 Speaker 3: while I was on Last Wise. But sure I drink. 894 00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:36,920 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I definitely. I'm a social drinker, and I 895 00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,640 Speaker 3: have anxiety sometimes when I'm shooting, so I'm like, give me, 896 00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,080 Speaker 3: give me, what's tequila? What? 897 00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:45,200 Speaker 1: What? I just had a thought with I know you 898 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:49,320 Speaker 1: can't talk about the filming, but you were with Kyle. 899 00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,359 Speaker 2: I forgot that you guys had a whole sitch. Yeah 900 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:53,399 Speaker 2: on the girls trip. 901 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:54,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 902 00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 2: Are you guys completely good now? 903 00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:00,960 Speaker 3: I think so, you know we we I moved past it. 904 00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,920 Speaker 3: I think she moved past it. She just sent me 905 00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:08,799 Speaker 3: Mauricio's book. I got a big beautiful box from her 906 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:11,800 Speaker 3: for his stuff that he has going on with the show. 907 00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:16,880 Speaker 3: So she communicates my text her or whatever. She's lovely. 908 00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:19,040 Speaker 3: I think we're good. We just had to kind of 909 00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:20,880 Speaker 3: get over that. I mean, I don't think you know, 910 00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:23,799 Speaker 3: she wants to be my best friend. Read but. 911 00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:28,399 Speaker 2: You're not banging down your door right now. Yeah, she's not. 912 00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:31,680 Speaker 3: Fucker texting me or anything like that. But I think 913 00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,160 Speaker 3: we're in a great place and we shared you in common, 914 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:37,279 Speaker 3: we shared justin in common. So Kyle just has to 915 00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:39,000 Speaker 3: be we just have to be friends. We're just too 916 00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,399 Speaker 3: connected to you know, other people that we're really good 917 00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:41,879 Speaker 3: friends with. 918 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,680 Speaker 1: So and I do think I set the tone for 919 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:50,000 Speaker 1: girls trips because that Girl's trip had the perfect amount 920 00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:51,360 Speaker 1: of fun and drama. 921 00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:53,520 Speaker 2: I know it was part of it was really shitty 922 00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:57,000 Speaker 2: for you, but like seeing that, and as I. 923 00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:01,080 Speaker 1: Continue watching the otherwise, like especially the most recent one, 924 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:04,479 Speaker 1: I was like, gosh, I miss I missed the Turk 925 00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:08,120 Speaker 1: and Cako's trip where I felt like real authentic drama. 926 00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:10,840 Speaker 2: It was fighting over like a tequila bottle. 927 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,600 Speaker 3: Right, No, it's true, you know. I do feel like 928 00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:18,239 Speaker 3: our girls trip was definitely super authentic and super real. 929 00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:21,080 Speaker 3: It was the first one, so there was no formula 930 00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:24,080 Speaker 3: for it. We just went and we, Like I honestly 931 00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:25,560 Speaker 3: got on that trip and I was like, this is 932 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:27,520 Speaker 3: gonna be so much fun. You know, I get along 933 00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:30,360 Speaker 3: with everyone. I have like friends already, like I was 934 00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:34,920 Speaker 3: already close to like Kenya Luan, I already had in 935 00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,319 Speaker 3: my mind playing Kyle as my friend because I was 936 00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:40,200 Speaker 3: like my friend because she's fun and we have friends 937 00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:42,040 Speaker 3: in common, and she has no choice but to be 938 00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:44,440 Speaker 3: my friend, and of course true to when the cameras 939 00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:50,800 Speaker 3: come up, she was the first close like what is happening? 940 00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:53,879 Speaker 3: This was like I had already like literally moved into 941 00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:55,160 Speaker 3: our guest house, like we were. 942 00:46:55,040 --> 00:47:01,160 Speaker 2: Gonna just what it is. 943 00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,600 Speaker 3: But it all worked out and we're in a good place. 944 00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:06,680 Speaker 1: And then if I were to remind myself, I can't 945 00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:10,920 Speaker 1: really remember who you connected with more Teresa or Melesisa. 946 00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:13,920 Speaker 3: Who was the person that was the most curious about 947 00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:17,480 Speaker 3: because of everything that she had gone through on the show, 948 00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:19,880 Speaker 3: Like I love like a comeback story. 949 00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:25,560 Speaker 2: Were you at the wedding? Yes, this is what I 950 00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:26,880 Speaker 2: don't understand. I have a question. 951 00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:30,280 Speaker 1: Do you think the wedding was just like an extension 952 00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:35,959 Speaker 1: of Jersey or it was like its own full thing, 953 00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:40,320 Speaker 1: because I don't know, they didn't really give us much 954 00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:43,000 Speaker 1: of the other I wanted to see like more of you, 955 00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:47,960 Speaker 1: of Derenda, of Chanel, like all the different women that 956 00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,680 Speaker 1: were there, and it's like we just got like a second. 957 00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,799 Speaker 3: Okay, I didn't see the special yet, but I know 958 00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:56,440 Speaker 3: and real life being there, I don't even think I 959 00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 3: was micd To be honest, I did get there, I 960 00:47:58,680 --> 00:47:59,920 Speaker 3: was running a little bit behind. 961 00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:01,920 Speaker 2: So did you get paid? 962 00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:02,680 Speaker 1: No? 963 00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:04,840 Speaker 3: No, no, I actually just went in real life because 964 00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:07,120 Speaker 3: I you know, Teresa's like my real friend in real 965 00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:08,760 Speaker 3: life from Girls Trips. 966 00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,640 Speaker 1: Well, how did you feel about how do you feel 967 00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:14,640 Speaker 1: about Louie? Like, have you seen any of the stuff 968 00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,760 Speaker 1: going down Louie? 969 00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,840 Speaker 3: Like, I've met him, We've all had dinner together. My 970 00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:23,160 Speaker 3: experience with him, he seems to be very into his wife. 971 00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:25,160 Speaker 3: She seems to be very into him. They seem to 972 00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:28,120 Speaker 3: be happy together. I feel like he's a good guy. Like, 973 00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:30,840 Speaker 3: but I don't. I don't know, Like I haven't watched 974 00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:33,359 Speaker 3: all the stuff. I've seen, like some clips, and I've 975 00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:37,440 Speaker 3: seen some very concerning clips where I'm like, oh, okay, yeah, 976 00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:42,319 Speaker 3: this doesn't feel right, but that is not again, I'm not. 977 00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:46,600 Speaker 3: All I know is what I have been around, and 978 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:47,919 Speaker 3: he seems like a good guy. 979 00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:52,399 Speaker 1: Well, my prediction is what a little bit is that 980 00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:56,960 Speaker 1: Ryan Jen the new housewife from Ocay, I feel like 981 00:48:57,200 --> 00:49:02,560 Speaker 1: her boyfriend may have a slight case of the Louis. 982 00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:05,680 Speaker 3: Oh Okay, it's called the Louis. 983 00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:09,799 Speaker 1: You have to look into the eyes. I feel such 984 00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:13,000 Speaker 1: a danger from both. I don't know, We're gonna have 985 00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:13,480 Speaker 1: to keep. 986 00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,120 Speaker 3: How do you think things are gonna work out with 987 00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:18,200 Speaker 3: Louis and Teresa? 988 00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:22,719 Speaker 1: This is my concern because I actually, even though you know, 989 00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:25,480 Speaker 1: tamer and I have had all these back and forth 990 00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:29,120 Speaker 1: with Teresa and Melissa and Jacqueline Lareda, and it's all 991 00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:29,520 Speaker 1: over the. 992 00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:31,720 Speaker 2: Place, and they're supposedly this big feud. 993 00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,560 Speaker 1: I loved hanging out with Teresa at Andy's baby shower. 994 00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:38,239 Speaker 1: She was like one of my favorite Like, we had 995 00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:42,239 Speaker 1: a blast. She's cool, she's fine, like it out of 996 00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:47,160 Speaker 1: Jersey setting. I've always had fun with Teresa, But watching 997 00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:54,279 Speaker 1: this season, it is so toxic, and I worry that. 998 00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:56,960 Speaker 1: And this is not coming from a judgmental way. This 999 00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:00,600 Speaker 1: is just coming from like I tend to see things 1000 00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:03,080 Speaker 1: in certain relationships, and you know, I see them. 1001 00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:05,440 Speaker 2: About my own that are not positive or positive. But 1002 00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:09,120 Speaker 2: there's something about the way that Louis is with her 1003 00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:15,640 Speaker 2: that feels like gaslighting. Like I feel like he pumps 1004 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:16,280 Speaker 2: her up. 1005 00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,719 Speaker 1: In the most authentic way, and then it gets her 1006 00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:23,359 Speaker 1: in trouble and she doesn't know how to get her 1007 00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:26,239 Speaker 1: way out of it without him, So it's like that 1008 00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:31,439 Speaker 1: need to have him, and I hope that I do, 1009 00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:33,000 Speaker 1: truly hope that I'm wrong. 1010 00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:37,560 Speaker 2: But all the stuff we've seen allegedly from his past, 1011 00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,160 Speaker 2: like now that we do this podcast, you'll see now 1012 00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:43,400 Speaker 2: now that we're doing OC, people send you so much shit. 1013 00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that you don't even want to see, Like 1014 00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:50,080 Speaker 1: you're gonna get so much stuff, Like there's ninety percent 1015 00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:52,560 Speaker 1: of the things that I'm sent I don't talk about 1016 00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:54,680 Speaker 1: on the pod because I just think it's crossing a line. 1017 00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:58,680 Speaker 2: But the things on him, I just fear for her. 1018 00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:00,200 Speaker 2: I just don't want her to. 1019 00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:04,160 Speaker 1: End up in a similar situation that she had with 1020 00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:05,120 Speaker 1: her first husband. 1021 00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, Well, I'm rooting for them. I want the 1022 00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:10,839 Speaker 3: best for them. I have not watched the show. I've 1023 00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:14,080 Speaker 3: only seen the clips online and my only experience is 1024 00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:18,480 Speaker 3: with them in person. So I pray it works out for. 1025 00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:22,120 Speaker 2: Them me too. I hope it's all figured out. But 1026 00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:24,440 Speaker 2: we loved having you today. 1027 00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:28,560 Speaker 1: Any final thoughts you want to share on OC, like 1028 00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:31,399 Speaker 1: do you think this is going to be a good 1029 00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:33,360 Speaker 1: season or do you think like do you think this 1030 00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:34,560 Speaker 1: was a slow start? 1031 00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:36,600 Speaker 2: Do you think it was a good one, Like were you? 1032 00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:40,840 Speaker 3: I think I think it should be. I mean, I 1033 00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:42,279 Speaker 3: hope it's going to be a good season. And what 1034 00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,200 Speaker 3: I love is it seems like a really good mix 1035 00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:47,759 Speaker 3: of women. It seems like authentic friendships and you know, 1036 00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:51,160 Speaker 3: like friendships that are going through things. I think these 1037 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:54,560 Speaker 3: shows are the most successful when it's this, when there's 1038 00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:57,680 Speaker 3: real connection with the women and the real issues. And 1039 00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:00,880 Speaker 3: I think on Atlanta, you know, going back to Atlanta 1040 00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:04,360 Speaker 3: I think what's kind of missing on Atlanta is those 1041 00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:08,640 Speaker 3: like those friendships where like I mean, you know, the 1042 00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:10,560 Speaker 3: ups and downs that you have to go through. Like 1043 00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:14,279 Speaker 3: I've although I'm in a good space with everyone, I've 1044 00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:15,680 Speaker 3: had moments with all of them. 1045 00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:17,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, we. 1046 00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:20,800 Speaker 3: Were able to get past those moments. And it's real 1047 00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:24,840 Speaker 3: because it's like, hey, you know, like this this is happening. 1048 00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:27,080 Speaker 3: This is not a comfortable time for us in this friendship. 1049 00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:28,640 Speaker 3: And it's such because you have to still be on 1050 00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:31,120 Speaker 3: camera with this person, where in real life, when you 1051 00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:33,759 Speaker 3: fall out with your friend, you just you know, put 1052 00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:35,080 Speaker 3: them on ice for a couple of weeks. 1053 00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:37,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, all right, we're gonna I'll. 1054 00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:39,279 Speaker 3: See you in a couple of weeks here. You know 1055 00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:40,719 Speaker 3: you have to you know you have to go back 1056 00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,439 Speaker 3: the next day and you know everyone's have dinner with them. 1057 00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:47,880 Speaker 3: So yeah, I I'm actually after watching it, I'm a 1058 00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:49,800 Speaker 3: little invested to like kind of see how the season 1059 00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,239 Speaker 3: plays out. And I'm super excited that Tara was back 1060 00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:54,719 Speaker 3: and I know she's going to I know she had 1061 00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:58,680 Speaker 3: plenty of time to rest up and bring it the season, 1062 00:52:58,719 --> 00:52:59,560 Speaker 3: so I'm excited. 1063 00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:02,640 Speaker 2: You had to ask her. I'm like, are you gonna 1064 00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:03,279 Speaker 2: get mad at me? 1065 00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:05,120 Speaker 1: Because I know there's going to be some things that 1066 00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:08,840 Speaker 1: you're doing that I'm not going to be team tam On, 1067 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:11,200 Speaker 1: And she was like, listen all the ship. 1068 00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:12,560 Speaker 2: That the good thing about Tamra. 1069 00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:16,600 Speaker 1: She's like, I know when I cross the line right 1070 00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:19,759 Speaker 1: and watching it back like, oh, shoot, like I made 1071 00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:20,400 Speaker 1: a mistake there. 1072 00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:21,920 Speaker 2: I was an ask so I drank too much, I 1073 00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:23,000 Speaker 2: did this or whatever it is. 1074 00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,319 Speaker 1: And then you guys for listening, Thank you so much 1075 00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:28,080 Speaker 1: for having Cynthia on. Please send any questions that you 1076 00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,440 Speaker 1: have for us so that we can talk about it 1077 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:33,720 Speaker 1: on the next episode. I will be back with Tamar 1078 00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 1: on Monday to talk all things at Lanta, which I 1079 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:40,640 Speaker 1: also need to ask you one last thing, Cynthia, how 1080 00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:41,680 Speaker 1: do you feel about Sonya? 1081 00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:45,400 Speaker 3: I like, so, how do I feel about Sonya? I 1082 00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:51,920 Speaker 3: like Sonya. I think she is definitely stop it stop 1083 00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:54,640 Speaker 3: stop stop so stop. You know, first season is hard. 1084 00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:58,480 Speaker 3: I think she is still getting her, you know, getting this. 1085 00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:00,799 Speaker 2: Her second season well, I know. 1086 00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:03,560 Speaker 3: But I think she's I think Asanya has definitely stepped 1087 00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:05,200 Speaker 3: up in her second season. 1088 00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:05,520 Speaker 2: You know. 1089 00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:09,759 Speaker 3: It's I like her. I like her. 1090 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:13,440 Speaker 1: I don't know if you want to go party with her. 1091 00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:15,000 Speaker 1: Does she seem like a fun time too? 1092 00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:18,319 Speaker 3: For sure? For sure, I'm really d with her. And 1093 00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:20,800 Speaker 3: she was like, oh my god, like she's she's really 1094 00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:23,799 Speaker 3: a nice woman, and I think she's great and I 1095 00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:27,719 Speaker 3: think that, you know, as you go on. Here's the thing, 1096 00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:31,520 Speaker 3: I'll say this, a lot of the people that you like, okay, 1097 00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:34,160 Speaker 3: a lot of people who figured it out the first season, 1098 00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:37,600 Speaker 3: A lot of people like, hmm, I don't get it. 1099 00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:39,920 Speaker 3: You know. Matter of fact, I'm sure people said that 1100 00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:42,520 Speaker 3: about me my first season. Well, Peter and I were 1101 00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:44,799 Speaker 3: like a hot mess my first season, Like everything was 1102 00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:47,440 Speaker 3: like the train went completely off. As soon as we 1103 00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:50,520 Speaker 3: signed up. Everything went crazy. So we were like we 1104 00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:53,799 Speaker 3: were a lot. But anyway, first season is tough. I 1105 00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:57,200 Speaker 3: think it takes at least two, maybe possibly three seasons 1106 00:54:57,480 --> 00:54:59,520 Speaker 3: for the fans to get invested and for you to 1107 00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:00,800 Speaker 3: just kind of work out the kings. 1108 00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:08,960 Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean I was only liked my first season, I. 1109 00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:10,960 Speaker 3: Know, but like, let''s give her a chance, because like 1110 00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,799 Speaker 3: even I was on twelve years, eleven years, and people 1111 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:15,439 Speaker 3: it was like, oh, either people thought I was great 1112 00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:17,839 Speaker 3: or they thought I was boring. So there you go. 1113 00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:21,000 Speaker 3: I like to think that I just picked, you know, 1114 00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:23,160 Speaker 3: just you'd like to pick and choose the drama that 1115 00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:23,840 Speaker 3: I wanted to be in. 1116 00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:27,760 Speaker 1: But I think every I do think every single franchise 1117 00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:30,200 Speaker 1: needs a voice of reason, and I think you were that. 1118 00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:34,600 Speaker 1: I do think Sonia could be that, but she's too 1119 00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:36,600 Speaker 1: much of a flip flopper at this point. 1120 00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:39,239 Speaker 3: Oh my god. Okay, see I used to get like, 1121 00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:41,080 Speaker 3: I used to get called that too, So that's like 1122 00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:42,240 Speaker 3: a little bit of a trigger. 1123 00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:45,120 Speaker 2: Oh shoot, sorry. 1124 00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:47,719 Speaker 3: Triggering me right now. Because here's the thing. When you're 1125 00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,960 Speaker 3: in a group of women, Teddy, and it's like one 1126 00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,239 Speaker 3: day you may feel like, okay, I see what you're saying, 1127 00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:55,000 Speaker 3: I agree with you, and then you talk to someone else, 1128 00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:56,440 Speaker 3: you're like, yeah, I'm okay. I kind of agree with 1129 00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:58,560 Speaker 3: you too. Sometimes you just kind of get caught in 1130 00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:01,120 Speaker 3: the middle and it's all right when you're really trying 1131 00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:03,760 Speaker 3: to be in a decent space with most of the women. 1132 00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:05,759 Speaker 3: So I'm just gonna leave it right there. 1133 00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:08,719 Speaker 2: I know we have to go, but you know, I 1134 00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:13,280 Speaker 2: like about this next week. I said, we'll fight about 1135 00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:14,560 Speaker 2: this next week exactly. 1136 00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:16,800 Speaker 3: We'll come back on this is to be continued. 1137 00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:19,719 Speaker 2: I love coming on your hand out and all right, 1138 00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:22,759 Speaker 2: so you're my girl. Thank you so much. I'll see 1139 00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:23,319 Speaker 2: you next week. 1140 00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:25,359 Speaker 3: Yes, we're going to the spot, all right. 1141 00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:28,840 Speaker 2: Bye bye,