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Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all all at.

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Speaker 3: All, So.

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Speaker 3: Bu bu boozy.

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Speaker 1: Listening too.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, joy.

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Speaker 7: Show.

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Speaker 8: You gotta do that, you love, you.

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Speaker 1: You got to turn the mouth the turn you probably

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Speaker 1: got to turn mouth water the water up looking.

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Speaker 2: Come come on, you'll think, uh huh, I sure will.

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Speaker 9: Good morning everybody.

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Speaker 2: You are listening to the voice, come on, dig me

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Speaker 2: now on and only Steve Harvey got a radio show.

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Speaker 9: Man, oh man, oh man? How good is God to me?

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Speaker 2: And part of the mission and the reason that I

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Speaker 2: have a radio show is to become a share of

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Speaker 2: more and more of a share of you know. I

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Speaker 2: used to hear my mother say it to me all

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Speaker 2: the time. But God blesses you to become a blessing.

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Speaker 2: And I think the more you understand that about yourself,

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Speaker 2: I think the more blessings will flow your way. I

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Speaker 2: think that once you understand the principle that.

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Speaker 10: You know.

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Speaker 9: But it's kind of tied together with some other scriptures, and.

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Speaker 2: I'm not too knowledgeable about them, of course, as usual,

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Speaker 2: but I do know what I've heard. You know, and

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Speaker 2: you know if you look at something simple as do

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Speaker 2: unto others as you would have them do unto you,

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Speaker 2: wouldn't you want somebody to help you if you needed help.

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Speaker 2: I just know how to get it down there to

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Speaker 2: where I've been able to understand it. If there's a

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Speaker 2: scripture similar that it says do unto others as you

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Speaker 2: would have them do unto you, or if that's you

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Speaker 2: know in a prayer, would not you want somebody to

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Speaker 2: help you if you needed help? You've heard you reap

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Speaker 2: what you sew? Do you understand that if you so discord,

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Speaker 2: that discord is gonna come your way. That if you hate,

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Speaker 2: hate gonna come your way. If you blog nothing but

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Speaker 2: negative comments about people, your life will be filled with negativity.

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Speaker 2: If all you do is talk about people, then guess

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Speaker 2: what somebody got to turn that gun around and talk

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Speaker 2: about you. See, it just stands to reason. So what

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Speaker 2: I've learned in my life and through all the trials

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Speaker 2: and tribulations that I've had, is to take those lessons

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Speaker 2: and share them with people in case you ain't heard

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Speaker 2: it from somebody else. See sometimes, and the reason it

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Speaker 2: seems like I'm redundant at times is which I am

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Speaker 2: is because I'm always trying to find a different way

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Speaker 2: to say the same thing. Because it's a funny thing. Man,

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Speaker 2: you got to hear it a certain way for it

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Speaker 2: to click with you. How many times have I heard

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Speaker 2: that it clicked with me. You know, I've heard this

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Speaker 2: saying right here. Remember this now, everybody's not happy for you.

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Speaker 2: We've all heard that, right everybody's not happy for you. Well,

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Speaker 2: that's very simple. I don't need no explanation. That simply

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Speaker 2: means of all the people you know or do not know,

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Speaker 9: Not gonna join in on the celebration.

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Speaker 1: That's all that is.

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Speaker 2: But then you take it one step further. My father

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Speaker 2: can't go with you. He said, you're gonna lose some

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Speaker 2: don't care where you get in life. Know this right here,

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Speaker 2: everybody can't go with you if you are constantly trying

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Speaker 2: to improve yourself. You constantly have to take assessment of

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Speaker 2: the people around you, because if you are going to

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Speaker 2: continue to go and continue to grow, then guess what

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Speaker 2: you got to have people that's on the goal and

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Speaker 9: Guess what.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna learn the valuable lesson. You know, the late

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Speaker 2: boxing promoter Butch Lewis. I was talking with Butch Lewis

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Speaker 2: one time, and man with a good brother. Man, he say,

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Speaker 2: every successful man is doing what I call he got

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Speaker 2: sitting there listening to Butch Lewis and all the money

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Speaker 9: He was just an amazing man with no education, but

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Speaker 2: He Butch Lewis read all the papers, all the periodicals.

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Speaker 2: That brother knew everything. He said, you got to put

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Speaker 2: There's this huge, huge raw rope over your shoulder. There's

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Speaker 2: burn marks on all of your shoulder. Connected to that

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Speaker 2: rope is a wagon. That wagon has all your weight

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Speaker 2: on it, all your responsibilities, all the people you're responsible for,

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Speaker 2: they just sitting there. He's saying, what you gotta do

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Speaker 2: is you gotta pull that wagon up the heel.

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Speaker 2: The only thing with it is, can't nobody help you

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Speaker 2: pull your wagon? You pull your wagon alone. He say, Now,

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Speaker 2: what you can do along the way of pulling your

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Speaker 2: wagon is you can find yourself a good wife, a

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Speaker 2: good woman. He say, Now, what that woman does is

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Speaker 2: she get down off the wagon. She fan you while

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Speaker 2: you pull it. She put water on you while you

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Speaker 9: But she but she pull it for you.

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Speaker 2: But she is equally as important as you are on

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Speaker 2: the pull the rope. He say, you hear me clearly now,

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Speaker 2: young soldier, He said, nah, I got this here, he says,

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Speaker 9: That you're responsible for.

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Speaker 2: But you want the people on your wagon to help

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Speaker 2: hope is that they got their foot hanging over the

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Speaker 2: you with both legs they back facing your back, maybe

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Speaker 9: Left leg hanging over trying to push.

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Speaker 2: And you hope that all them people on the wagon

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Speaker 9: Here go your problem.

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Speaker 2: Though, everybody ain't pushing, Everybody ain't pulling. Ain't everybody ain't pulling,

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Speaker 2: Everybody ain't kicking rocks out the way. You got some

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Speaker 2: Looking at you, talking about why this wagon is so slow.

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Speaker 2: Then when you start picking up picking up speed, they

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Speaker 2: to pull more. Then they want you to throw what

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Speaker 2: on the wagon so they can have MO. But guess what,

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you gotta kick the people off the wagon that

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Speaker 2: I thought I could do this with you, and I

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Speaker 2: me you ain't nothing but dead weight. And it ain't

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Speaker 2: my responsibility to carry dead weight anymore. I have carried

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Speaker 2: you as long as I have to carry you. You

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Speaker 2: are no longer my responsibility. I'm responsible for my family,

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Speaker 2: my wife, my children. I'm not responsible for you. You

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Speaker 2: got to get off my wagon because I'm a man

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Speaker 2: on rope. I'm on a mission. Baby, I'm pulling.

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Speaker 3: You're listening, shot Hardy Morning.

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Speaker 9: Show Ladies and gentlemen, the time has come, a new

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Speaker 9: day has arrived. He did it again. And God boy,

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Speaker 9: he's something else.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 9: He the only one could do it.

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Speaker 2: Man. You know what he show up, never been late,

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Speaker 2: track record, one thousand percent, accountability, all of it. He

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Speaker 2: checks all the blocks. I don't know nobody else check

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Speaker 2: all the blocks. But God, Almighty. Wow, that's a good

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Speaker 2: friend to have. Man, check all the block. God answers

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Speaker 2: to all your question and got a solution to all

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Speaker 2: your problems. Man, if you don't do nothing else, get

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Speaker 2: your relationship with God. Man, if you don't do nothing else.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: So, sometimes your focus is too much on a relationship

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Speaker 2: on a man or woman. You better get you some God. Man,

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Speaker 2: somebody ain't gonna ever check out on you. That's all

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. Steve Harbin, Marty Show, Shery Strawberry, call the

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Speaker 2: Frail mississipp Marnica Jr.

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Speaker 9: And the legend that is nephew Tommy Well Jr.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I just got a question for you this morning.

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Speaker 11: I got a question for you this morning. Consider this

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Speaker 11: is Easter week.

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Speaker 9: Up. Could you have been a disciple lord with the

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Speaker 9: Lord back in the day? Up?

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Speaker 11: Could you have followed the Lord back in the day.

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Speaker 11: Steve Harvey's disciple. Could you be a disciple.

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Speaker 9: Look, I'm doing it now. I'm talking about walking with

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Speaker 9: me every day. You would complain by nothing, you would

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Speaker 9: have No, Steve didn't. I didn't say that. I said

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Speaker 9: I be a disciple. Yeah, yeah, Now you know.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go over there with him. But all this

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Speaker 2: y'all talking about doing it, all this, his spitting, all

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Speaker 2: this here, That's what I'm here for.

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Speaker 12: Now.

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Speaker 9: When Jesus leaves, I'm gonna come back over here to eve.

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Speaker 2: Through something. Next time we come to town here. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: you know I'll be back there. I'll be back selling

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Speaker 2: all the stories. So y'all gonna throw something five thousand,

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Speaker 2: y'all all, y'all hung You ain't see what they deal

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Speaker 2: with their fish? Yeah huh, I'll be his hype man.

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Speaker 2: Five fish, two long bread.

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Speaker 13: You ain't on you.

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Speaker 9: You aren't there for that. Yeah, he wouldn't be there

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Speaker 9: for that. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Last, and then I know he already knew, but i'd

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Speaker 2: have been on him by Judas. Hey, hey man, we

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Speaker 2: need out of here because right here he's tripping.

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Speaker 9: You can already tell.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a I'm I'm I'm a warm Judas. Though

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Speaker 2: I know I noticed the way it's got to go. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but when I find out about it though, yeah, y'all

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Speaker 2: could have been one.

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Speaker 9: But you know, it's just.

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Speaker 2: You know, man, I think I've come to the I've

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Speaker 2: come to understand better and better as I walk with him.

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Speaker 2: You know that they are none perfect, no, not one

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Speaker 9: Do know that, don't. We ain't gonna never get there, boy,

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Speaker 7: Oh, this is just a this is just a you know,

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Speaker 7: Every time your wife birthday come up, I don't know

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Speaker 7: just not knowing what I'm gonna do for your wife

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Speaker 7: But I got to figure something out. I can'tnot do nothing,

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Speaker 7: So yeah, anyway, your wife's birthday, Boy, what is we

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Speaker 12: Lord?

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Speaker 7: My grandmama saying, chih today, I don't come on, man,

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Speaker 9: Let's go cat.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach there.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, what's up?

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Speaker 4: What's going on? Brother?

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Speaker 12: My name is Chris.

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Speaker 4: I work with your wife, Sharon. I think I think

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Speaker 4: Now I don't remember you, Okay, okay, cool, Hey listen, man,

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Speaker 15: You know what I'm saying kind of like something like

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Speaker 4: Uh No, I wasn't gonna hit her with no grab man.

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Speaker 4: I was just you know, like I said, we were

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Speaker 4: you know do Okay?

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Speaker 8: Well, she likes money, man, you can you know, uh

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Speaker 8: Starbucks card or uh something from McDonald something. You know,

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Speaker 8: it don't have to be too big. She she don't

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Speaker 8: uh you don't.

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Speaker 15: Have to, you know, she she's not that material a

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Speaker 15: listic Okay, okay.

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Speaker 4: Let me let me let me ask you this so deep.

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Speaker 4: Uh do you uh you know what a size is?

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Speaker 4: Do I know what a size is like clothing, you know,

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Speaker 4: do you know what side she will?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 15: Yeah, I know what size she's about. She's my wife. Man,

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Speaker 15: What I think this is kind of like I'm getting

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Speaker 4: Man, What do you do you think? You know? I

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Speaker 4: don't mean to make you uncomfortable. Brother. Let me ask

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Do she like stuff from Victoria's Secret?

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Speaker 15: WHOA hold up?

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Speaker 5: Man?

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Speaker 15: Stop right there? You talking about like I said, what

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Speaker 15: what you hey? What's your name again? Man?

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Speaker 4: My name Chris? Like like I said earlier, my name Chris.

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Speaker 15: How long you been with the company?

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Speaker 4: I don't only been there six months? You know? But

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Speaker 4: like I said, I think I saw you at one

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Speaker 4: of the happy y'all I saw maybe you just don't

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Speaker 4: remember who I am though.

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Speaker 15: No, no, no, man, but you way out of line

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Speaker 15: talking to about her size. And I'm not comfortable with

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Speaker 15: this at all. Man. You know Okay, okay, you way

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Speaker 4: What's what? You didn't answer? My question was what do

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Speaker 15: Victorious Secrets? Going to answer your question? Keep talking about?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, what's what's what? What what's the language? Brother?

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Speaker 4: What's what's we brothers?

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Speaker 15: You know we ain't no brothers? Fun fool? What do

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Speaker 15: you get off asking me about my white's clothes?

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, all right, okay, talk without.

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Speaker 15: Okay.

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Speaker 4: What all I'm saying is do you think she gonna

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Speaker 4: like the victorious secret I will give her? Hey, man,

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Speaker 4: just stup with that.

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Speaker 15: Do you know how long we've been together? I know

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Speaker 15: this woman since high school. Don't come to me with that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I was just trying to get up. What what? What?

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Speaker 15: What time do you guys get off?

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Speaker 4: I'm coming I need office at five thirty, but I

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Speaker 15: I mean, right, hey, we can talk about this faith

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Speaker 15: what I ain't gotta listen to me?

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to get shared a pandem Broth said, man, okay, hey, you.

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Speaker 15: Ain't buying my wife and she wouldn't even accept it anyway. Okay,

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Speaker 15: hey man, how you get this number? How you get

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Speaker 8: I know she didn't give you this.

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Speaker 4: Let me tell you how there I got it from

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Speaker 4: your wife, Sharon, because guess who I am? I am

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Speaker 4: nephew Toppy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Sharon got

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Speaker 4: me to brank phone call you what then there this happened? Man,

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Speaker 4: This is nephew Tommy brother.

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Speaker 8: Man.

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Speaker 4: This is some bulls.

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Speaker 8: This is some real books. This is some straight up bully.

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Speaker 15: Hey man, you ain't white man. You know you need

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Speaker 15: to stop with people, you know, because you might get it.

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Speaker 15: You might somebody might be waiting for you have to

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Speaker 15: work one day. Man, that's totally wrong. You have heard

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Speaker 15: of karma. I heard somebody gonna play a prank on

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Speaker 15: your one day. Your uncle is right, somebody's gonna what

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Speaker 12: Oh man, all right, all right, darn before I get mad,

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Speaker 12: will you please tell the people what is the baddest

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Speaker 12: radio show in the land, Steve Harvey Show, And now

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Speaker 12: you have it?

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Speaker 9: Stupid crazy Yes, run that prank back. We got that.

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Speaker 9: We got to get your wife something.

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Speaker 7: You know. I'm just saying, let's just work this thing

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Speaker 7: So we everybody happy.

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Speaker 9: You happy.

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Speaker 7: I'm happy to see you happy, and that's all we want.

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Speaker 7: We just want everybody to be happy.

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Speaker 1: Just I love about this time?

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Speaker 9: Is you was concerned. You actually had the courtesy to

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Speaker 9: call and ask by this jure, Yes, I love you.

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Speaker 1: He's not trifling.

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Speaker 9: And that's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying. If

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Speaker 9: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, there's a right way

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Speaker 9: to do the wrong thing. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, come on, sweat right and the wrong way

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Speaker 7: That's the right way. Big up the sweat. That was

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Speaker 3: We're moving on, nephew, thank you.

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Speaker 14: Coming up next, ask to see hello our Chief Love

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Speaker 14: Officer Steve Harvey in the building.

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Speaker 3: Right after this, You're listening.

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Speaker 14: Morning show coming up at the top of the hour

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Speaker 14: and entertainment news, Hollie Barry recalls a herpe scare that

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Speaker 3: Diddy's lawyer, we'll talk about that.

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Speaker 14: Diddy's lawyer said the FED used excessive force during the

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Speaker 14: The countdown is on for the iHeartRadio Music Awards. We'll

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Speaker 14: from lew And Washington. Lou says, I'm divorcing my husband,

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Speaker 14: but he won't move out. He's dating someone, and so

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Speaker 14: I'm a lot more respectful to him. Why is he

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Speaker 9: Well, see, you.

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Speaker 2: Can't place levels of respect on disrespect. You know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. Both of you have aged for a divorce.

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Speaker 2: you have agreed to a divorce.

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Speaker 9: He won't move out.

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Speaker 2: You got a boyfriend. He got a girlfriend. He faced

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Speaker 2: timing her while you're around. He got her coming over

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Speaker 2: If y'all ain't gonna be together, then don't live together.

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Speaker 2: If y'all don't want each other, quick current, quick quit

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Speaker 2: caring about who the other one won't You got a boyfriend,

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Speaker 2: he got a girlfriend, But what.

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Speaker 3: Why he thinks he's behaving like a child.

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Speaker 2: She says, while y'all living together, y'all don't want each other.

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Speaker 2: You got a boyfriend, he got a girlfriend. What now

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Speaker 2: where we at that?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 9: Once you break the covenant of marriage, what you expect

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Speaker 9: He won't even play the basic rules.

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Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying. It just don't seem like I

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Speaker 2: don't see why you wrote us. You know what's happened

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Speaker 2: today in this world, we allow and exist in so

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Speaker 2: many abnormal conditions. We keep trying to normalize mess, and

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Speaker 2: then you want mess to get regulated.

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Speaker 9: You can't regulate mess. That's why they call it mess.

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Speaker 1: Now, all right?

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Speaker 9: I don't understand that.

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Speaker 3: I think she just wants them out of the house too.

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Speaker 14: Moving on to a mirror in Detroit, a mirror says,

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Speaker 14: I have proved that my husband cheated, and my two

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Speaker 14: what's going on in my house, so I need grace

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Speaker 14: from them. How do I tell them to let me

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Speaker 2: He had a video come from that's what you say,

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Speaker 2: I need y'all to let me handle this. Okay, now

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Speaker 2: the video is out.

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Speaker 1: What is going on?

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Speaker 2: Once the video get out, you are open to public

445
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Speaker 2: scrutiny and speculation.

446
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Speaker 9: You might as well have posted it.

447
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 7: Wow, I'm convinced you can't cheat. Let you in pitch dogs,

448
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 7: just pitch y'all.

449
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Speaker 9: Why won't my sisters let me have it? Yeah, lady

450
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Speaker 9: to body, how did they see the video? You show

451
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Speaker 9: it to.

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Speaker 4: You?

453
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Speaker 2: Well, see to me, like your house is in the streets,

454
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Speaker 2: so now you know everybody know what's going It's hard

455
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Speaker 2: to he was in your house with everybody.

456
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Speaker 9: In the house.

457
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and you don't.

458
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Speaker 2: Her and her husband, Mike could work this out. It

459
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Speaker 2: might could be workable, but when you get that outside pressures.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and a video.

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Speaker 3: Okay. Moving on to Tavita in Baton Rouge to be

462
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Speaker 3: the writes up. My daughter has a half brother that

463
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Speaker 3: goes to school with her.

464
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Speaker 14: My daughter is eight and he's seven. I just found

465
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Speaker 14: out he was my husband's kids two years ago.

466
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Speaker 3: The kid was sick at school and my husband called

467
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Speaker 3: and asked if I could go up there. I told

468
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Speaker 3: him no. Was he wrong for asking me? Or was

469
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Speaker 3: I wrong for saying, no, this is stuff.

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Speaker 2: Go get the bar man, it is his job. Then

471
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Speaker 2: you deal with it regardless. Well, it seemed to me

472
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Speaker 2: like he should have went up yeah, instead of well

473
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Speaker 2: but maybe he couldn't get off work and then closer

474
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Speaker 2: and all this here. But now see bro, wife, just

475
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 2: now now listen to me. The boy ate your daughter seven. Yeah,

476
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 2: you just found out about this boy two years ago.

477
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 2: Dad ain't really know when he was six he was,

478
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Speaker 2: so now Dad ain't really set in yet. And now

479
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Speaker 2: you're trying to figure out what you want to be

480
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 2: coming to help you do what? And that's a tough one.

481
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Speaker 2: I don't think you were wrong for not going up there.

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Speaker 2: I really don't think you were, because you have every

483
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Speaker 2: right to. Uh, he can't ask you to join in.

484
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Speaker 9: And help with the rear in and all like that.

485
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Speaker 9: He should have went up there, or the boy's mama

486
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Speaker 9: should have been up the wind up. Yeah, but that

487
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 9: was a test to see how if he could work

488
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Speaker 9: this in. He know now, don't they don't having everybody.

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Speaker 1: I'm not there yet.

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Speaker 14: He's only had two years to process this seven year

491
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Speaker 14: old baby. So so the dad's gotta go if she's

492
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Speaker 14: not gonna go and the mom. So he's gotta go

493
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 14: because the baby is sick.

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Speaker 2: I mean the boys, well you don't now remember now

495
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 2: this is a this is a letter, so they didn't

496
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Speaker 2: already handle this high ever, so I ain't know.

497
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Speaker 9: Who got it go. She didn't go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she didn't say how the baby got handled, but

499
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Speaker 2: she didn't go. Her question was was I wrong for

500
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Speaker 2: not going? Was he wrong for asking? He wasn't wrong

501
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 2: for asking you, but you wasn't wrong for not going?

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Speaker 14: Okay, all last one Steve moving on to Fabian and

503
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 14: Indianapolis baby and says, I'm dating a new guy and

504
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Speaker 14: I cooked dinner for him. I had jambalayah with jolapeno cornbread.

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00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 14: After we ate, he immediately went home. He said his

506
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 14: stomach was messed up for days. He could have said

507
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 14: he had stomach issues. How is this my fault?

508
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 9: Come on, now, you gotta get to the hub man,

509
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Speaker 9: What does you come on?

510
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Speaker 13: Now?

511
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Speaker 9: Do you know what's happening?

512
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Speaker 2: Jumb See, just because you can say the name of

513
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 2: the dish, jumb and the dish, Oh we go together

514
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 2: if you can cook? See sure didn't had this problem

515
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Speaker 2: in time.

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Speaker 5: I knew it.

517
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Speaker 9: I knew it a steak in a crock pot. Something

518
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 9: was wrong with what you made?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Clo coming over at the top of the hour.

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Speaker 9: Everybody, people, you're listening show.

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Speaker 15: All right.

523
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 14: So Halle Berry was speaking at the Universal Conversation Summit

524
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Speaker 14: with First Lady doctor Jill Biden, when she revealed Halle

525
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 14: a painful intimacy experience with her boyfriend Van Hunt, which

526
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Speaker 14: led to Halle to believe that something.

527
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Speaker 3: Was very wrong.

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00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 14: Halle said, it felt like razor blades were in her

529
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Speaker 14: private area. That's what Halle said. She said she went

530
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Speaker 14: to the doctor and he said it was the worst

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Speaker 14: case of herpes he had ever seen. However, Halle and

532
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 14: her man Van they both tested negative for herpes. Halle

533
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 14: went on to say that her symptoms were later diagnosed

534
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 14: as a transitional period of perimiental pause. Then Halle said, quote,

535
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Speaker 14: my doctor had no knowledge and didn't prepare me. That's

536
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 14: when I knew, Oh my gosh, I've got to use

537
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 14: my platform. I have to use all of who I am,

538
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Speaker 14: and I have to start making a change the difference

539
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Speaker 14: for other women.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: What what was she talking to, Tommy? Tommy, she doesn't

542
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 3: have it, Tommy, let him go.

543
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 9: Through it. Let she doesn't have it.

544
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 2: She tested her negative, leave it alone?

545
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: Yes, is crush, that's all.

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Speaker 11: You know.

547
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 3: How people hear what they want to here, she doesn't.

548
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 1: Did you hear that card that she tested that little bite?

549
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Speaker 9: Yes, Tommy, it's that. It's that, Yes, she got Yeah,

550
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 9: shut up, shut up, yes.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yourself to get their.

552
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Speaker 3: Why are you letting him go through the it's unnecessarily we.

553
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 9: Got to check on out.

554
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 14: I know he loved Barry, but yes, well, well the

555
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 14: results were negative and now she's doing a good thing

556
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Speaker 14: by helping other women.

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00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 9: Yeah, going, I need to go see us. I need

558
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 9: to go see yes, no, no, no, yeah you do,

559
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 9: you need to go see I need to check out

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00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 9: you you Yeah, I'm going in there and tell her

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00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 9: what you heard? That's what.

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00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 3: Yes, real.

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Speaker 14: Tommy, Steve, tell him it was a misdiagnosis. Okay, what

564
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 14: doctor did that?

565
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 9: Who did that?

566
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 14: Misdiagnosed her doctor who she said had no knowledge and

567
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Speaker 14: didn't prepare her at all.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so she probably changed doctors in fire.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you ain't never had no news when the

570
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Speaker 2: doctor told you something you ain't want to hear.

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Speaker 10: Her doctor made a horrible mistake, just didn't have the knowledge.

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Speaker 1: You know, I didn't know because your doctor don't mean.

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Speaker 3: You know everything everything right, Okay.

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00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 2: See Tommy, you are to the ultimate doctor and look

575
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Speaker 2: at you now, see you fine? Yeah, but you do

576
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 2: need to go see Holly though.

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Speaker 3: And we love we love.

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Speaker 14: Other people during a time like this. You know, she

579
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Speaker 14: wants to help other women and make a difference.

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Speaker 3: You could change.

581
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Speaker 2: But you know what, on a serious note, the number

582
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Speaker 2: one cause of death in this country is not cancer.

583
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 2: It's not auto uh no, it's not auto or crashes,

584
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 2: it's not unviolenced. The number one cause of death in

585
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Speaker 2: this country is medical misinformation misdiagnosis. That's the number one

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Speaker 2: cause of deaths in this country because it mentally. I've

587
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 2: been medically misdiagnosed before. You know, it wasn't real serious,

588
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 2: but they gave me the wrong diagnosis. Yeah, and I

589
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 2: mean it messed me up. Yeah, well I could just

590
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 2: tell it. I've been diagnosed with or with having diabetes before.

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00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 9: Wow. And then I went, what are you talking about?

592
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 9: I feel fine?

593
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Speaker 2: And then we went down there and retested and they

594
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 2: came back again, you have full blown diabetes. Your A

595
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 2: one C number is six ' nine. I said, how

596
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Speaker 2: can that be a month ago? It was five to two.

597
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 2: I get diabetes in a month. Then here come to laugh.

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00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 2: We apologized we had contaminated tests. Oh now guess what

599
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 2: they they done, send prescriptions up to the clinic to

600
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 2: get me started right away.

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Speaker 9: I got hair instantly.

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Speaker 3: What mm hmm.

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00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 2: Misdiagnosis, that's what. And and and there's people with more

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00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,839
Speaker 2: serious issues than that. That's why listen to y'all. When

605
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 2: you all get an opinion, go get another one. Get

606
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 2: a second second, get a second one. Okay, all right,

607
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 2: I'm all right, I'm I'm gonna go see it.

608
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 3: I know it was devastating.

609
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 2: I got a partner, had two knee operations, come to

610
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 2: find out it was his hip?

611
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Speaker 4: What what? What?

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Speaker 9: And I had a partner, had two knee operations, come

613
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Speaker 9: to find out it was it was his hip.

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00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 3: Oh now that's bad.

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00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 9: There's nothing you can do about that.

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Speaker 5: Mm hmmm.

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Speaker 3: Second opinion, Second opinion.

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Speaker 9: That is a lawsuit.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, all right, we're going to try and get to

620
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Speaker 14: this other story. It's about Diddy. His lawyer says he

621
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Speaker 14: was a victim of a witch hunt. Aaron Dyer released

622
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 14: a statement that read, in part, there was a growth

623
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Speaker 14: over use of military level force the search where warrants

624
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 14: were executed in mister Combe's residences. There is no excuse

625
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 14: for the excessive show of force and hostility exhibited by authorities,

626
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Speaker 14: or the way his children and employees were treated.

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Speaker 3: This is an ongoing story, and we'll keep you abreast

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Speaker 3: of course.

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Speaker 14: Well, yeah, coming up in twenty minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 14: we'll talk about our favorite Easter childhood memories.

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Speaker 3: Right after this, you're listening Morning show.

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Speaker 14: All right, So this Sunday is Easter Resurrection Day, you'll

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Speaker 14: get the day Christians celebrate all around the world. So guys,

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Speaker 14: let's talk about our favorite childhood Eastern memories.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure you have some. Easter was an important day still.

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Speaker 9: Is growing up.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know.

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Speaker 1: All of that.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, My my my.

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Speaker 7: Favorite one was also my worst one at the same time,

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Speaker 7: what do you mean, mad Me and my cousin decided we.

642
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,959
Speaker 9: Was gonna do you know, you know, you bought eggs,

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Speaker 9: then you paint them and do all that, you know.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so we decided we were We did these eggs,

645
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 7: but we didn't all of them. Man on purpose, on

646
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 7: purpose put them out there for people to find. And

647
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 7: man when they start breaking the egg. That yolk was

648
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 7: all over that place. Boy, my mama found out. It

649
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 7: was me and my cousin that didna meg, we had

650
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 7: that yoke. That yoke was all over them people's stoops,

651
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 7: man all over the people. Well, me and my cousin

652
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 7: laughing our butt off.

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00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:55,239
Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 7: My mama whooped our ass right there in that church yard. Man,

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, I mean, I mean about nine be

656
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 7: our butt to death. Man, I mean your man passed.

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00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 7: They had yoga all on the robe. It was just

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00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 7: it was bad.

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00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 9: It was bad. But we have We had done about

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Speaker 9: three duzen and we had a bunch of raw eggs

661
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Speaker 9: just painted. Oh man. We thought that's that's that's that's

662
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:23,880
Speaker 9: my first prank right there.

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Speaker 1: Right yeah, that's when it all started.

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Speaker 9: That's my right there, junior.

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Speaker 11: I don't like it right now, just like the Thursday

666
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 11: before Easter, I'm getting my ass because I ain't got

667
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 11: that speech together yet. I speech with the belting hands,

668
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 11: say space, she whip in my head because I can't

669
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 11: get the second line out. The Thursday before we got

670
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 11: it for form on Sunday, I ain't got nothing together.

671
00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 11: Almost a lot of damn pressure right now, get it

672
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:04,319
Speaker 11: together right. All that bill was coming from my back.

673
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 11: Five here, I need to ride right now, to ride, I.

674
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:16,320
Speaker 1: Can't do it.

675
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:24,919
Speaker 2: Seal his Roebuck had a suit called a ten way.

676
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 2: It had reversible pass, reversible vest, and reversible jacket. And

677
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 2: they said you could make ten combinations out of there.

678
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:38,800
Speaker 2: I had thirty five.

679
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 9: Folks. They didn't know what I was finn to do.

680
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 9: I was turning inside out. I was so cold. I

681
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:49,320
Speaker 9: would go to church.

682
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 2: Let the little girl see me go to the bathroom

683
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 2: and come out with a whole of outfit on.

684
00:38:58,040 --> 00:38:59,759
Speaker 9: WHOA, I'm changing that.

685
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 3: You come right up.

686
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 2: Then I could change anywhere. I could go in the

687
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 2: road claus and and change the bathroom and change I'm going.

688
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 2: I'll go in to janitor clause of the change.

689
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 3: I'll come up him right after this. You're listening Steve

690
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 3: Harvey Morning Show.

691
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:19,399
Speaker 14: It is time now to check Steve's voicemail eight seven

692
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:22,479
Speaker 14: seven twenty nine Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve.

693
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 14: If you would like to leave a message for Steve,

694
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 14: all you have to do is call him. You might

695
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 14: hear you call on the air.

696
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 7: Steve.

697
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:28,240
Speaker 3: Are you ready?

698
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 9: Stay ready?

699
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 3: A voicemail from from a loyal listener. Check it out.

700
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 5: Hey, Steve and the rest of y'all. I just want

701
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 5: to let y'all know that we listen to y'all every

702
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 5: single morning as my husband.

703
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 8: And the kids.

704
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 5: The mornings at y'all do the stub liney, I'll say,

705
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:45,879
Speaker 5: get them kids the hell out the room.

706
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 16: I have to.

707
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:49,399
Speaker 5: We're being a call, so I'll be trying to figure

708
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 5: out how to help. I supposed keep them out of call,

709
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 5: but we love y'all so so so much. I wanna

710
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 5: try to keep going everything y'all do. Steve, if you

711
00:39:55,719 --> 00:40:00,800
Speaker 5: it's a bed, I really really love you. I'm like,

712
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 5: you just made my morning. Every single morning you made

713
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 5: my morning, like you just letting me know that. Yes,

714
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 5: we don't keep going like I just love you. I

715
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 5: love you, I love all your carecters. I just love

716
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 5: everything about chow.

717
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 3: Gee every blank morning, blank in morning.

718
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 9: I like that it's calling.

719
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 1: Yeah all right.

720
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 14: See, this is a guy from Cleveland. His name is

721
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,800
Speaker 14: Ken Kenneth. He wants to know if you remember him.

722
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:39,720
Speaker 15: Flow Steve, my name is Kenneth.

723
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 5: Maybe you remember me from Parkwood Elementary.

724
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 15: We got into a bit of a scuffle after flipping

725
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 15: each other in the snow when you flip me off,

726
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 15: fell and broke my front tooth. There's a memory that

727
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 15: I always have. I thank God that you're successful, that

728
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 15: you are where you are, have a blessed date.

729
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 2: Remember, I remember I fought all the time. No, I'm

730
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 2: gonna tell you. I tell you I was fighting ass

731
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:11,759
Speaker 2: little boy man? Why because we had to fight?

732
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 9: Oh okay, I didn't care if it was in the

733
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 9: snow or what you whipping my ass?

734
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 2: I'm not funny at I didn't remember his name was Kenneth,

735
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:26,720
Speaker 2: But I flipped the boy. I got in trouble because

736
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 2: he chipped his tooth when I flipped it. But he

737
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 2: tried to flip me, And what.

738
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 3: Were you gonna do?

739
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 9: I was just quicker than his ass.

740
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 1: That's so you do remember him.

741
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 9: I do remember. I didn't know.

742
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 2: I don't remember his name was Kenny. But I got

743
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,959
Speaker 2: in a lot of trouble because because I broke his tooth.

744
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 3: Oh did he Was he able to get it fixed?

745
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 9: Or did he?

746
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 2: What you should have did? Stayed off me, I told you,

747
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 2: But he told me. We got in a fight because

748
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 2: he told me. When the bell rang, I'm kicking your head.

749
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 4: What you know.

750
00:41:57,800 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 3: Who didn't he?

751
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 1: So how did it start? Y'all? Just outside of the

752
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:01,760
Speaker 1: snow and then the flipping?

753
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 2: No, we started in school, argy, we got out on

754
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 2: playground to suddenly, so I came out the back door

755
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 2: to go home. He's standing there waiting with a whole

756
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:17,880
Speaker 2: group of people or black people will woo you into it.

757
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 2: Yes and't And because let me tell you, because he

758
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,800
Speaker 2: that's park with Elementary. You got to know me to

759
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:31,359
Speaker 2: say park with because that was the school and he's

760
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 2: one hundred and eleventh street. Dude, I was one hundred

761
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 2: and twelve. I had to cross his street to go home.

762
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 7: See, but you know, okay, I told him, you want

763
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 7: to check on killer Man and see if killer need

764
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 7: another too?

765
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 9: Because I told his ass did go ahead on?

766
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 3: How old were you? How old were you?

767
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 9: We was in there? There had to be fifth sixth grade?

768
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 3: Oh wow, I can't.

769
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,320
Speaker 2: You can't count the stories how many fights I've been in.

770
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 2: I fight my neighborhood. We were we had hair, but

771
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:04,879
Speaker 2: you had to have hands though. Uh it wasn't none

772
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 2: of it wasn't. No shoot, no got no calls all

773
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 2: about the kidder man and that dog.

774
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 14: Here's the last call listener, had to comment on Michael

775
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 14: Jackson's son blanket with his lawsuit against his grandmother.

776
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 2: Ms.

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00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 6: Catherine, Hey, this is Jackson from Gramsvio, South Carolina. I'm

778
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 6: comment on the Michael Jackson's son sing his grandmother. I'm wondering,

779
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 6: why are we still pretending like those white kids were

780
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 6: Michael Jackson's kids in.

781
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 1: The first place.

782
00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 6: What Catherine Jackson needs to do is go ahead and

783
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 6: take a DNA test and crew those aren't her grandkids

784
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 6: in the first place, and that will shut him up

785
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:43,479
Speaker 6: real quick.

786
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 2: Oh wow, ma'am, ma'am, ma'am. When you at that level

787
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 2: of money, all that's been settled long time. If you

788
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 2: stop talking about one of them white kids, is you

789
00:43:58,160 --> 00:43:58,880
Speaker 2: stop all that?

790
00:43:59,520 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 6: All?

791
00:43:59,719 --> 00:43:59,839
Speaker 4: Right?

792
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 3: Look, we gotta go.

793
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 6: Yeah.

794
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 14: Coming up next the nephew with today's prank phone call

795
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:08,959
Speaker 14: right after this, you're listening.

796
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 3: Morning show coming.

797
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 14: Up at the top of the hour, right about four

798
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,719
Speaker 14: minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today and the

799
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 14: subject is my husband and part time lover. But right now, hm,

800
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 14: it's time for the nephew and today's prank phone call.

801
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 14: What you got for his nest?

802
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:30,359
Speaker 7: Well, it's early, it's happened to most of us. If

803
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 7: it hasn't happened to you, then you probably just ain't

804
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 7: really live. It hasn't happened to you, ain't really lived.

805
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 7: If you have not gotten your car repossessed from you,

806
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 7: you have not live. If you haven't walked outside and

807
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 7: you'll driveway and your.

808
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:49,359
Speaker 9: Call will just gone, you have not live yet.

809
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 7: Came out the grocery store on the mall and your

810
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 7: car gone, you ain't lost it. It's gone because it

811
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 7: has been repossessed. This right here is the repo man,

812
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 7: repoll man. And that man right there he didn't hear

813
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 7: it at all, seen it all. Let's go cat dog. Hello,

814
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:14,720
Speaker 7: I'm trying to reach age. Please try. My name is Robert.

815
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 7: I'm with the collection agency. You do own a Sierra

816
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 7: GMC truck? Am I correct?

817
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:20,879
Speaker 2: Yeah?

818
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 9: Okay.

819
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,800
Speaker 7: We don't show that we've had any payments within the

820
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 7: last I guess about three close to four months now,

821
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 7: and we want to try and stop having to come

822
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:31,919
Speaker 7: in and repossess it. Maybe we give you a chance

823
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 7: to uh bring your payment in, but we haven't had

824
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 7: a payment from you in about four months, sir.

825
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 13: No chances financial with the other other thing. I don't

826
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 13: know what's in the mode. Yeah, I've been paying all

827
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 13: the time. It's directed partly from about that.

828
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:49,920
Speaker 7: Well, I'm with They've they've turned you over to us.

829
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 7: I'm with collection agency, and we haven't gotten anything from don't.

830
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 7: I don't show any uh any paperwork here on the

831
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 7: computer at all that we've had any payments made within

832
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 7: the last four months.

833
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:01,880
Speaker 9: So that's why they have.

834
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 13: How they turned it over to y'all without my permission.

835
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 13: They can't never tell my truck over to y'all.

836
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 9: A Yo, Well, I understand that, sir.

837
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:12,400
Speaker 7: What happens is if you haven't paid it in a

838
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 7: certain amount of time, it actually comes over to the

839
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:16,879
Speaker 7: collection agency. And that's what they've done. They've actually sent

840
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 7: it over to us. They've given us, uh pretty much

841
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 7: all the information on you. I guess it's uh gold

842
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 7: this type of color uh seer two thousand and three

843
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,240
Speaker 7: GMC truck from our understanding, Am I correct?

844
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 13: That's my truck?

845
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:28,760
Speaker 9: Okay.

846
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 7: Now, what I'm gonna need from you today, Jeremy, is

847
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 7: for you to come in uh and make a payment

848
00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 7: to us this evening for four months so we can

849
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:39,320
Speaker 7: see so we don't have to come in and repossess

850
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 7: your truck, and I don't want to have to do that.

851
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 7: But if I have to send a record out there

852
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 7: to you, I have your address on file as well.

853
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 9: I don't want to have to send anybody have to

854
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 9: pick it up.

855
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:50,839
Speaker 13: Y'all not coming here my truck. And I'm not paying

856
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:54,919
Speaker 13: y'all for new full months. I'll truck all time every month.

857
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 13: That's a dunk deal, sir.

858
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 7: I don't want to get in a back and forth

859
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:00,320
Speaker 7: with you, but I'm telling you exactly how it's gonna go.

860
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 9: Now. I come out there and repossess it myself. But

861
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 9: I'm telling you.

862
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 13: No, no, look, that's not that's not even where we

863
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 13: gotta go with that.

864
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 4: Don't be you don't need to be screaming and.

865
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 13: Fussing and chaotic. Can come get it yourself and all

866
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 13: that suff you ain't so much truck my truck. That's

867
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 13: gonna be that?

868
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 7: What hang on, let's back up, because I'm a man

869
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 7: just like your man. What do you mean it's gonna

870
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 7: that's gonna be that? What are you saying? What are

871
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 7: you what do you what are you saying to me?

872
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 4: Sir?

873
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 13: I'm telling you, Look, I'm telling you that I pay

874
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 13: my truck note and and that's a final I don't know.

875
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 4: I know.

876
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:34,879
Speaker 7: Let's get I've already stated it to you before. I'm

877
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 7: with an agency. And let's get one thing straight. You

878
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 7: don't tell me I tell you now.

879
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 13: Hey, calm down on the phone. It don't make no

880
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,240
Speaker 13: sense to me, you know, over the phone and whatnot.

881
00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 13: You can come, you can come get the truck, my

882
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,319
Speaker 13: truck right here, I work. I'm ready here, you can come.

883
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 13: You can come, try to get my truck. You come

884
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 13: on there.

885
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 9: Sure, I'm already aware of where you work in the

886
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 9: whole nine yards. Now I don't. I'm trying to be

887
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 9: as uh cardial with you as I can.

888
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,399
Speaker 13: Now you can talk about coming get my truckle I'll

889
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 13: tell you I'll be paying much. So you know you

890
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 13: should have dropped down and been like, all right, I'm

891
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 13: gonna check with somebody else, check with somebody else to

892
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 13: make sure I'm right, and then call me back.

893
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 7: I'm telling you you haven't paid anything. That's what I'm

894
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:17,359
Speaker 7: telling you. I've got it listed on the computer. You've

895
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 7: been turned over an agency and you haven't done it.

896
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 7: You haven't done it thing.

897
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 13: What used to you? You you're waiting your press, screaming

898
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 13: and hollo over the phone like that because they ain't

899
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 13: gonna do me at you no good. But you ain't

900
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 13: getting no money from me, then you ain't coming my truck. Well,

901
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:34,240
Speaker 13: a matter of fact, you could come for my truck.

902
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:36,439
Speaker 13: I'm I'm gonna be at my truck and I'm gonna

903
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 13: wait on you till you're gonna be.

904
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 7: It doesn't make any difference, sir. You gotta get repossessed tonight.

905
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 7: If I don't get four months payment BRUK, Definitely, if

906
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 7: I don't get four months payment brought into me collection agency,

907
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 7: your truck will be taking care of.

908
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 4: No.

909
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 13: Hold on, listen, man, hold on the probably pas with me.

910
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 13: You kind of kind of serious truck and.

911
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 4: Pard you couldn't at me.

912
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 9: That's what's wrong.

913
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 13: You got me look right outside. You can come over

914
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 13: here and get it. I'll be sitting on that.

915
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 4: Way for you.

916
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,120
Speaker 9: Look, you know what. I'm at the point I don't

917
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 9: give it about this job. I'm ready to come kick

918
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:15,879
Speaker 9: your That's what I'm ready to do. Call him back.

919
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 7: I don't need a little scared hanging up the phone.

920
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:25,480
Speaker 7: You're standing here like a man, and you handle your problems.

921
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 13: Hey, I'm I can't.

922
00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 12: Make it.

923
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:32,759
Speaker 13: Wait, bro, stop calling.

924
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 9: I'm at work to doing my job the same way

925
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 9: you're doing yours.

926
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 4: You don't want to get I got one more thing

927
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 4: I want to say.

928
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 9: To you before you go. And you're listening.

929
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 7: This is Nephew Timming from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

930
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:51,239
Speaker 9: You just got prayed by.

931
00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 13: You got you got all my teacher?

932
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 4: You are you all right? Man?

933
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 13: I'm gonna talk to this man.

934
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 4: I'm talking about cool.

935
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 13: You talk about.

936
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,800
Speaker 9: She told me. She told me, man, she said that

937
00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,280
Speaker 9: boy love that truck.

938
00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 13: Yeah, that's my choice, man, my only trportation. Man, that's choice.

939
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 13: Many Yeah, you got it.

940
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 7: Hey, I gotta I gotta ask you man, tell me, brother,

941
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,720
Speaker 7: what is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio

942
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 7: show in the late st Now you have it that

943
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 7: you have it to repot? Man, an'ybody have been repold

944
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:52,320
Speaker 7: on the show. No, man, I ain't never been repo

945
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:54,840
Speaker 7: Wow call you've been repot.

946
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 16: When I was a little girl, our car got repold

947
00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 16: and my daddy told me that it was you got

948
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:00,480
Speaker 16: stole them.

949
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 1: And my mama said, who told you that?

950
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 9: I was real?

951
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 3: Yeah it sound like hell yeah.

952
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 9: Well let's go ahead and ask you know.

953
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:20,399
Speaker 2: Who aren't no good here? Well from a long time though,

954
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 2: I drove a car three years. I'll make him.

955
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:26,320
Speaker 9: Payment of three years. Yeah you do that?

956
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 3: How did you hide it?

957
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:30,719
Speaker 2: My ex wife set up here and it got a

958
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 2: hold to it and used and parked at somewhere.

959
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:34,879
Speaker 9: I told her, I asked not to part.

960
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 3: But you didn't tell her? Why did you?

961
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 9: She knew?

962
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 7: Why?

963
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:45,320
Speaker 9: Hell? Oh we did this together. Hold, you want to

964
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:47,959
Speaker 9: park the car before you go back to the house.

965
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 9: I feel like party like the house. Well, not a

966
00:51:52,280 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 9: car going Yeah be dam if you ain't been republicshed,

967
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 9: you have not live yet?

968
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,840
Speaker 4: Yeah girl, yes, what.

969
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: What walk? I said?

970
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 9: No, just one time, one time.

971
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,319
Speaker 7: That's a that's an eery fitting though, because you think

972
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:19,160
Speaker 7: somebody stole it.

973
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 9: Somebody s right there. I know I parked it right there.

974
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 9: I parked that every night. I know other parker they

975
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:30,359
Speaker 9: knew too. That note.

976
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 7: That note was one eighty five one eighty six per month.

977
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:35,879
Speaker 7: That's what that note, and that's all.

978
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:36,759
Speaker 3: That's all.

979
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 7: Six was hard though it's jumping off Friday night. The

980
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:45,480
Speaker 7: nephew will be in and I'm sorry it's jumping on

981
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 7: Saturday night.

982
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 9: The Neugh.

983
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 7: You would be in Montgomery, Alabama the Gump It is

984
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:53,840
Speaker 7: your boy nephew Tommy along with celebrity of the comedian,

985
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 7: along with J. J. Williamson and the One and Only Earthquake.

986
00:52:57,480 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 7: We would be in Montgomery at the Montgomery performing All

987
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:03,279
Speaker 7: send it tickets to on sale written now, all right,

988
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:05,440
Speaker 7: come out and kiss all the stupid you can get.

989
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 7: So we're gonna be straight, ignorance, straight, crazy, straight everything

990
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:10,359
Speaker 7: laying in the cut.

991
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 9: You already know.

992
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 7: It is Friday night, April fifth, in Brooklyn, Brooklyn in

993
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:16,959
Speaker 7: the house.

994
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:18,040
Speaker 3: We're Brooklyn at.

995
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 7: April Fool's Comedy Damn on April fools Night. That's at

996
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 7: the Barclays. Yes, thank you, thank you.

997
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:27,640
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you. Coming up at the top of

998
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 3: the hour.

999
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 14: Coming up next Strawberry Letter my husband and part time lover.

1000
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 14: Right after this you're listening.

1001
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:36,439
Speaker 3: Hard Morning Show.

1002
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:39,839
Speaker 14: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if

1003
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 14: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,

1004
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 14: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve BARBFM dot com

1005
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 14: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your

1006
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 14: letter live on the air, just like we're going to

1007
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 14: read this one right here, right now, and you never

1008
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:57,240
Speaker 14: know it could be yours.

1009
00:53:58,120 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 9: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on time.

1010
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 9: We got it for you. Here It is strawbery letter,

1011
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:03,760
Speaker 9: Thank you nephew.

1012
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 14: Subject to my husband and part time lover. Just Stephen Shirley.

1013
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 14: I've been married for four years, but we have been

1014
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 14: together six years. My husband charmed me and I was

1015
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:16,320
Speaker 14: head over heels in love with him. He was always

1016
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 14: considerate and very loving, but over the years he's become

1017
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 14: distant in everything that we do. He stopped dating me

1018
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 14: after the pandemic. We had just got married, and when

1019
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 14: the world opened back up, he never resumed his duties

1020
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 14: as my husband. Now, we make love and he gets

1021
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 14: in the shower and then goes to sleep on the sofa.

1022
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:38,680
Speaker 14: He said it's because I don't like to sleep with

1023
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:41,319
Speaker 14: the TV on, but I will compromise if he'll stay

1024
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:43,919
Speaker 14: in the bed with me. I even tried to lure

1025
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 14: him back in for sex twice in one night, but

1026
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:49,800
Speaker 14: he said he was tired. When we go out for dinner,

1027
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 14: we don't have much to talk about, so we talk

1028
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:55,800
Speaker 14: about whatever's topical on social media. We talked about starting

1029
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 14: a family and he told me he wants to put

1030
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 14: it on hold for at least another year. Whenever he's

1031
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:04,399
Speaker 14: on the phone with his boys, he's his usual talkative self,

1032
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:07,879
Speaker 14: but if he's with me, he barely speaks. He still

1033
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:10,319
Speaker 14: does the husband stuff, like he will kiss me when

1034
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 14: he comes in, and he still rubs my feet and

1035
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 14: gives me compliments. There is a disconnect somewhere though. He's

1036
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 14: doing just enough in the bedroom to please me, but

1037
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 14: I'm not sure it's good for him. I'm scared to

1038
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 14: ask him because I don't want to know the answer.

1039
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 3: What if he tells me he's.

1040
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:30,440
Speaker 14: Over the marriage. I did not think we survived being

1041
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:33,399
Speaker 14: locked down together for a year, but we did. Why

1042
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 14: is he being a part time lover?

1043
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:37,439
Speaker 3: Now? Is my marriage over?

1044
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 15: Yeah?

1045
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 14: Your husband is just going through the motions, and you

1046
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,320
Speaker 14: know what, I'll say this about your marriage. It doesn't

1047
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 14: have to be over. But you are right, there is

1048
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 14: a disconnect somewhere. I'm sure if you think back, you

1049
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:55,440
Speaker 14: can remember just when it started changing. The pandemic intensified everything,

1050
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 14: and it was a maker to break a time for

1051
00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 14: a lot of marriages during a pandemic, some couples just

1052
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 14: couldn't survive being up under each other all day, every day,

1053
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:08,360
Speaker 14: and it sounds like your husband grew apart and the

1054
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:12,320
Speaker 14: intimacy in your marriage is gone. He's not interested in

1055
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:15,359
Speaker 14: getting it back. You guys only have four years under

1056
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 14: your belt, six years altogether, you say, and while you're

1057
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 14: willing to work on it, he doesn't seem to be.

1058
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 14: So you can't be afraid to ask him these hard

1059
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 14: questions if you want the answers. That's where the work

1060
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:30,320
Speaker 14: comes in in a marriage. I definitely suggest counseling for

1061
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 14: you too, if he's open to it. He's still there,

1062
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 14: he's still going through the motions. He's still doing some

1063
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:39,799
Speaker 14: of the husbandly things you say, like rubbing your feet

1064
00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 14: and kissing you when he comes in. He's still even

1065
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 14: making love to you. So you got to tell him

1066
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,320
Speaker 14: how you feel. You need to find out where he

1067
00:56:46,640 --> 00:56:49,160
Speaker 14: is and possibly save your marriage.

1068
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 3: If it can be saved.

1069
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 14: You know you always should try that, So don't be

1070
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 14: afraid to ask him.

1071
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 3: Steve hum.

1072
00:56:58,640 --> 00:56:58,840
Speaker 4: You know.

1073
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:07,360
Speaker 9: My husband in part time lover. It's the subject.

1074
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:11,360
Speaker 2: At the end of the letter. The lady asked a question,

1075
00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:15,919
Speaker 2: is my marriage over?

1076
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1077
00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 9: Sounds like something wrong though, It sounds like based on

1078
00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 9: the letter. Something is wrong. Oh, lady, you know all

1079
00:57:34,840 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 9: of this. Let's just get to it now.

1080
00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 2: You know, I could go through this letter line by

1081
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 2: line and show you what I've discovered and all this here,

1082
00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 2: you know, here's the part when now when y'all make love,

1083
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 2: he gets in the shower and he go to sleep

1084
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:53,840
Speaker 2: on the sofa, he said, because I don't like sleep

1085
00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 2: with the TV on. Then you said, but I'll compromise

1086
00:57:57,440 --> 00:58:00,560
Speaker 2: if he'll stay in bed with me. Even tried to

1087
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 2: lure him back in for sex twice in one night,

1088
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:08,320
Speaker 2: but he say he died. Well, lady, I don't know that.

1089
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 2: Then you said, you start talked about starting a family,

1090
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 2: and he told you, let's put that off for another year.

1091
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 9: Is my marriage over?

1092
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 2: When he's ever on the phone with his boys, he's

1093
00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 2: his usual talking hisself, but he's with me, he barely speaks.

1094
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:32,560
Speaker 9: Is my marriage over?

1095
00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 2: He became distant in everything that we do. He stopped

1096
00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 2: dating me in the pandemic. Is my marriage over?

1097
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 9: I don't know.

1098
00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:49,560
Speaker 2: We go out to dinner or we don't have much

1099
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:52,760
Speaker 2: to talk about, so we talk about whatever's topical on

1100
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 2: social media. Is my marriage over? I mean, I'm just

1101
00:58:58,160 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 2: reading lines out there letter, it sounded like sound like

1102
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 2: a rap to me. But the problem you have, ma'am

1103
00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:13,160
Speaker 2: is I'm scared to ask because I don't want to

1104
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 2: know the answer. You can't put your head in the sand.

1105
00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 2: I don't understand that part of it. I'm scared to

1106
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 2: ask because I don't want to know the answer. Seemed

1107
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 2: to me like you already know the answer, you just

1108
00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 2: don't want to hear it. So with the rest of

1109
00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 2: this letter, I'm going to do a reenactment. Shirley and

1110
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:45,440
Speaker 2: Carlor will ask me a series of questions that a

1111
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:48,960
Speaker 2: wife would normally ask her husband, and I'm gonna show

1112
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 2: you the answer you probably getting, which will answer the question,

1113
00:59:55,360 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 2: is my marriage over? These quest will be about anything

1114
01:00:01,680 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 2: from finances, to the children, to going out to dinner,

1115
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:09,520
Speaker 2: to public relations anything, and our answer a way your

1116
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 2: husband is asking you and you tell me, is your

1117
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 2: marriage over. We'll do that when we come back right

1118
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 2: after this.

1119
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 14: All right, at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's

1120
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:25,920
Speaker 14: Strawberry Letter subject my husband and part time lover. We'll

1121
01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:28,920
Speaker 14: get back into it with reenactment right after this. You're

1122
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 14: listening hard Morning Show, All right, Come on, Steve let's

1123
01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 14: recap today's strawberry letter.

1124
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:37,800
Speaker 3: The subject is my husband and part time lover.

1125
01:00:38,520 --> 01:00:39,680
Speaker 9: Well, we have a problem.

1126
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:42,920
Speaker 2: This woman been married four years, being together six. She's

1127
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:45,160
Speaker 2: asking us is her marriage over?

1128
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 4: Now?

1129
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 9: Everything will changed after the pandemic?

1130
01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 5: Uh?

1131
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 2: He make love to her. Now he getting the shy

1132
01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 2: and he goes sleep on sofa. She then tried to

1133
01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 2: lure him back with six twice. He don't come back

1134
01:00:57,160 --> 01:00:57,440
Speaker 2: in there.

1135
01:00:57,520 --> 01:00:58,000
Speaker 4: He tied.

1136
01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:00,640
Speaker 2: When they're on the phone talking with his boys, he

1137
01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 2: his usual talking himself. When he talked to her, he

1138
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 2: shut down when they go to dinner. They ain't got

1139
01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 2: nothing to talk about himself was topical on social media.

1140
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 9: He don't do that.

1141
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:11,720
Speaker 2: He's still kissing when he come in the house. But

1142
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:15,280
Speaker 2: it's total disconnect. The lady says she's afraid to ask

1143
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:18,400
Speaker 2: because I don't want to know the answer. What if

1144
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 2: he tells me he's over the marriage? Then she said,

1145
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:24,960
Speaker 2: I don't think we'd be survived being locked down together

1146
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 2: for a year talking about the pandemic. But they did

1147
01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:31,240
Speaker 2: survive it, but everything changed after that. So did you

1148
01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:31,920
Speaker 2: survive it?

1149
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:33,040
Speaker 9: I'm not sure.

1150
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:36,840
Speaker 2: So Now, since this letter is so obvious to me,

1151
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 2: what I've decided to do is ask Shirley and Carl

1152
01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 2: Hem to ask me any questions, and I'm gonna be

1153
01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 2: the husband that's in the letter, and I will answer

1154
01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:50,560
Speaker 2: the letter based on how I think this man is

1155
01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:56,440
Speaker 2: been acting. He's aloof, he's distant, he's disconnected. Ladies and gentlemen,

1156
01:01:56,800 --> 01:02:00,880
Speaker 2: let us begin with the wives questioning the husband.

1157
01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 3: Honey, you want dinner.

1158
01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 7: Now?

1159
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 9: Ain't hungry already? Eight? I ate yesterday, Yeah.

1160
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 13: But.

1161
01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 3: Surely you're hungry now. I can fixture whatever you like.

1162
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 3: We got steak, we got shrimp, we got chicken, whatever

1163
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:17,200
Speaker 3: you want.

1164
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 2: Honey, Yeah, I don't eat that no more. I gave

1165
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:26,960
Speaker 2: up chicken, steak, shrimp, all that. I'm just letting it go.

1166
01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:32,840
Speaker 9: Good night. So you're vegan now, now, I ain't a

1167
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 9: vegan right now. I just don't eat that no more.

1168
01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 12: Right.

1169
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:36,760
Speaker 9: Uh?

1170
01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:41,040
Speaker 16: So you want to do a double date hang out

1171
01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:43,360
Speaker 16: with our friends? You know when we normally go out

1172
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 16: with Oh.

1173
01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:47,439
Speaker 9: Yeah who who what? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, we're going

1174
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:48,680
Speaker 9: while we.

1175
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 16: Was gonna go to dinner and then afterwards get some

1176
01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 16: cocktails or something like that.

1177
01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:53,360
Speaker 4: You know.

1178
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,560
Speaker 9: Oh no, no, no, no, no, I want to do that.

1179
01:02:56,600 --> 01:02:57,160
Speaker 9: I gotta go work.

1180
01:02:57,480 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 1: You're busy.

1181
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:01,440
Speaker 9: Yeah, I gotta go work tomorrow tomorrow night.

1182
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 1: I know you gotta work during the day, but I'm

1183
01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:05,000
Speaker 1: talking about tomorrow night. Let's go kick it.

1184
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 9: Yea, tomorrow night. That's what I say. I gotta go

1185
01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:10,120
Speaker 9: work tomorrow, So you gotta work during the day and

1186
01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:10,640
Speaker 9: at night.

1187
01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 2: I gotta rest at night because I'm gonna go to

1188
01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:17,160
Speaker 2: work tomorrow the next day, tomorrow. What you know, I

1189
01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 2: just said tomorrow. You ain't listening to me, so.

1190
01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:24,280
Speaker 1: So we can't hang out. We need something together time.

1191
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:24,960
Speaker 13: What's going on?

1192
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 2: I don't like hanging you know what I mean that

1193
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:29,680
Speaker 2: It bothered me. You know, I was watching I was

1194
01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 2: watching the Clint Eastwood movie the other day, hanging loose

1195
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:37,440
Speaker 2: at high noon. And ever since they hung Clint Eastwood

1196
01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:39,600
Speaker 2: they shot him down out that tree, I ain't been

1197
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 2: able to hang out no more.

1198
01:03:40,680 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is thinking about.

1199
01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:50,240
Speaker 3: That baby. Isn't that baby so cute? I look at him.

1200
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:53,880
Speaker 2: I told you, I told her, I see what you're

1201
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 2: going with this here. I told you we need to

1202
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:57,280
Speaker 2: have no damn baby right now.

1203
01:03:57,600 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 9: I told you that.

1204
01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:00,800
Speaker 3: Well why not, I mean, why not?

1205
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 2: We don't okay, okay, because you see how you just

1206
01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:06,720
Speaker 2: was falling in all over that baby right there.

1207
01:04:06,880 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's so cute.

1208
01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:10,560
Speaker 9: I don't want to split that time fawn over me.

1209
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:14,400
Speaker 9: I do fawn over you at least for another year.

1210
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,520
Speaker 14: But a baby would be such a beautiful addition to

1211
01:04:17,640 --> 01:04:18,360
Speaker 14: our family.

1212
01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 9: Not right now? Well, why not hold you a year?

1213
01:04:24,120 --> 01:04:26,320
Speaker 16: We have the time, We have the time.

1214
01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:29,840
Speaker 3: We got a work in order, everything, our careers are going. Well,

1215
01:04:29,960 --> 01:04:32,680
Speaker 3: why not a baby? I want a baby, honey?

1216
01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:36,640
Speaker 9: Why are you pressuring me? Why are you all up

1217
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 9: on me about this baby?

1218
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 14: We just want to increase our family, that's all.

1219
01:04:41,640 --> 01:04:44,600
Speaker 3: That's all it is. Just have a beautiful little baby,

1220
01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:46,720
Speaker 3: that ain't.

1221
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 9: I don't feel that way, sister pandemic.

1222
01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:55,880
Speaker 3: I don't want to plan.

1223
01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:59,480
Speaker 1: Let's plan our vacation, summer vacation. Want to go?

1224
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:01,920
Speaker 16: You want to go to the Caribbean, You want to

1225
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:03,600
Speaker 16: go to Mexico, you want to go to Europe?

1226
01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 1: Where you want to go? Africa? Where you want to go?

1227
01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 4: You know what what.

1228
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:13,000
Speaker 2: I was thinking about going down there? The ymc A

1229
01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 2: got a the package, the ymc A.

1230
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:21,960
Speaker 1: What does that have to do with our vacation, our summer?

1231
01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 2: No, they got a family vacant that's why I want

1232
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 2: to go. You know, just wake up, go down there

1233
01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:29,880
Speaker 2: every day, you know, workout, swim, come on back.

1234
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:32,919
Speaker 1: But that's not what I want to do. I want

1235
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:34,240
Speaker 1: us to go somewhere.

1236
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 9: Oh, here we go again. Oh it's about you now, Oh.

1237
01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:42,480
Speaker 1: Hey, nowhere. You don't want to go anywhere.

1238
01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 2: When you you told me about family vacation, I told

1239
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 2: you where I want to go. That's right back on where.

1240
01:05:47,040 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 9: You want to go. That ain't what I want to do.

1241
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 9: You got to lower your tone.

1242
01:05:56,040 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 2: Oh nah, I can't say nothing. See all this here

1243
01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:04,920
Speaker 2: at the pandemic. I used could talk for the pandemic,

1244
01:06:05,240 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 2: pre pandemic. Now here come damn COVID. Now, all of

1245
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:09,720
Speaker 2: a sudden, I got shut.

1246
01:06:09,600 --> 01:06:12,560
Speaker 1: Up those four years ago. What are you talking about?

1247
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:12,959
Speaker 1: The pan.

1248
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:16,800
Speaker 2: We're gonna stack all this money up now, he won't

1249
01:06:16,920 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 2: just go blow through it right now? Well this money

1250
01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 2: stacked though. We were saying, now you want to just

1251
01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:23,919
Speaker 2: go blow through the money.

1252
01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:26,640
Speaker 3: No, we were saving it for a reason to buy

1253
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:28,760
Speaker 3: a new home, our dream home.

1254
01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:31,760
Speaker 2: We're not gonna buy no house right now because we

1255
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:33,720
Speaker 2: ain't finna have the baby right now.

1256
01:06:33,960 --> 01:06:38,160
Speaker 3: Damn, I guess our marriage is over. You don't divorce me.

1257
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:39,320
Speaker 3: I'm definitely divorcing.

1258
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 14: Oh oh you boast your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter

1259
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,640
Speaker 14: at Steve Harvey FM, on Instagram and Facebook. Check out

1260
01:06:48,680 --> 01:06:53,200
Speaker 14: the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app downloaded today.

1261
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:55,520
Speaker 14: Coming up at forty six minutes after the hour of

1262
01:06:55,560 --> 01:06:59,760
Speaker 14: Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this you're listening Steve

1263
01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:03,520
Speaker 14: Morning Show. It's time now for Junior and Sports Talk.

1264
01:07:03,560 --> 01:07:04,480
Speaker 3: What you got Junior?

1265
01:07:04,640 --> 01:07:08,160
Speaker 11: All right, well, then marsh Madges continues, This weekend, come

1266
01:07:08,200 --> 01:07:10,919
Speaker 11: on now, Friday is the Women's Sweet sixteen. They start,

1267
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:13,560
Speaker 11: but tonight the men start. So let me just see

1268
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:14,560
Speaker 11: how you're gonna pick them up.

1269
01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 9: Let's just see.

1270
01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:16,880
Speaker 11: This is when a tournaments start. Let's just see how

1271
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:18,680
Speaker 11: you're gonna pick these game men and women.

1272
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:19,160
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1273
01:07:19,240 --> 01:07:21,160
Speaker 11: No, just go with your feeling, see how you feel

1274
01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 11: about it. Just start with the women. Here we go

1275
01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:30,320
Speaker 11: South Carolina, Indiana Women, South Carolina. Okay, Oregon State no today,

1276
01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 11: number three. Oregon State gets number two.

1277
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 2: No to dame.

1278
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:34,920
Speaker 9: What that's old? Women?

1279
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:35,640
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1280
01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:41,960
Speaker 2: Women, Oh, just pick one up. Orgon way too far

1281
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:47,080
Speaker 2: away the girls on team none of that.

1282
01:07:47,120 --> 01:07:48,000
Speaker 9: Go ahead. The next day.

1283
01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:50,440
Speaker 11: Okay, women, Texas Gonzaga.

1284
01:07:51,400 --> 01:07:56,800
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, please Texas, please, I'm just so sick of Gonzaga.

1285
01:07:57,360 --> 01:07:58,600
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go.

1286
01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:02,560
Speaker 11: Number three North Carolina stated against number two Stafford women.

1287
01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 9: That's gonna be rough them Stanford girls.

1288
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:09,560
Speaker 2: Boy, they not playing, They not playing, boy, they not

1289
01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:13,320
Speaker 2: king the North Carolina Steak gonna catch hell with Stamford.

1290
01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:18,560
Speaker 11: Okay, here we go our number one hour against Colorado.

1291
01:08:18,640 --> 01:08:24,200
Speaker 9: You know, Kayla Clark who our move on?

1292
01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:29,400
Speaker 2: We'll see what y'all ain't paying attention to. Though, since

1293
01:08:29,479 --> 01:08:34,320
Speaker 2: Dion been been up in Colorado, I got a different attitude. Yeah,

1294
01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:38,000
Speaker 2: but that girl Caitlin Clark them who shit everything.

1295
01:08:38,040 --> 01:08:41,519
Speaker 11: Every here you go, it's gonna make you prior right

1296
01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:44,479
Speaker 11: here up number three L s U gets number two

1297
01:08:45,400 --> 01:08:46,000
Speaker 11: U c l A.

1298
01:08:48,160 --> 01:08:50,800
Speaker 9: It's gonna be rough too. Man, It's gonna because you know,

1299
01:08:50,880 --> 01:08:51,720
Speaker 9: I like L s U.

1300
01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:55,800
Speaker 1: Angel come on, Angel Reeth, Yeah, girl on poor.

1301
01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:57,840
Speaker 2: I'm poor for them. They struggling a little bit right

1302
01:08:57,880 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 2: now though, Okay, struggling little bit. They getting through these games,

1303
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:02,840
Speaker 2: but they struggling.

1304
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:03,320
Speaker 9: All right.

1305
01:09:03,439 --> 01:09:05,200
Speaker 11: Ug let's switch over to the men is now here.

1306
01:09:05,680 --> 01:09:09,599
Speaker 11: Here we go now I start to night ukon't San

1307
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:10,479
Speaker 11: Diego State.

1308
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:15,280
Speaker 9: Oh god, dog boy, San Diego was looking good a

1309
01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:18,760
Speaker 9: minute ago. Over there. You can't is not a game boy.

1310
01:09:19,280 --> 01:09:23,640
Speaker 11: Here we go up North Carolina, Alabama.

1311
01:09:24,240 --> 01:09:30,120
Speaker 2: Oh Ima, look good, Alabama, man, they strong. They funk

1312
01:09:30,160 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 2: it this year too. Yeah, yeah, they got the more

1313
01:09:34,320 --> 01:09:36,320
Speaker 2: this more dog skinned people on Alabama.

1314
01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go.

1315
01:09:39,640 --> 01:09:43,200
Speaker 9: Just what I said. I'm going with them. I know,

1316
01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:45,439
Speaker 9: light skinned people have limitations.

1317
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:46,360
Speaker 1: You know, my god.

1318
01:09:47,560 --> 01:09:49,920
Speaker 9: Okay, University of Houston versus.

1319
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:56,840
Speaker 2: Duke, Well, I want Houston to do something, but Duke man,

1320
01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:59,880
Speaker 2: they looking food, they looking nasty right now.

1321
01:10:00,720 --> 01:10:02,439
Speaker 3: Who you got you got?

1322
01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:04,080
Speaker 9: I mean, I won't Houston.

1323
01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 3: But all right, go coops, go coos.

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Speaker 14: Coming up on the top of the hour, a man

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Speaker 14: on social media needs some advice Steve. He says, my

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Speaker 14: ex wants more money for child support. We'll talk about

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Speaker 14: it right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: All right, So Steve Matt and Steve Harvey FM.

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01:10:26,680 --> 01:10:29,599
Speaker 14: Says, my ex and I split custody of our six

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Speaker 14: year old daughter and I pay her child support. But

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Speaker 14: even though she only has our daughter every other week,

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Speaker 14: she doesn't have a job, and she says that she

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Speaker 14: needs more money from me because she can't survive on

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Speaker 14: what I give her. We never had an official custody arrangement,

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Speaker 14: and I really don't want to have to take this

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Speaker 14: to court. But I don't think I should have to

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Speaker 14: pay one hundred I should have to one hundred percent

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Speaker 14: support her and our child?

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Speaker 3: Am I wrong?

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Speaker 14: How should I handle this? I could probably afford to

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01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 14: pay her a bit more if I had to. Should

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Speaker 14: I try to get sold custody of her? Sould custody

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Speaker 14: or give her a little more money?

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Speaker 2: Now, bruh, I can't get in that part with you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you should get sold custody or nothing.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. Before court takes a child

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Speaker 2: from the mother, she got to be unfit. Ain't no

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Speaker 2: court taking no child from no mother.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 9: You can get up out of here with that.

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Speaker 2: You can go in there and try it if you

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Speaker 2: want to, but you have to be unfit for the

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Speaker 2: courts to take the child from the mother.

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Speaker 9: So period.

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Speaker 2: Second, she may need more money for her to live,

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Speaker 2: but the courts will determine what that is, and it's

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Speaker 2: based on your income. Now you try not to go

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Speaker 2: to court, but this is fit to go to court.

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01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 2: Now she ask you for more you said you could

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Speaker 2: probably afford to pay a little bit more, then go

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Speaker 2: ahead and make your offer. But if she don't want that,

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Speaker 2: then what you're gonna do, and then what you can

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Speaker 2: do when she come back for more, because she coming

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01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:07,240
Speaker 2: again too. So it seemed to me like your smarter

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01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:09,479
Speaker 2: move was just to go to court and see what's

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Speaker 2: required of you to pay. You don't seem like you

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Speaker 2: have a problem with paying. But I can't tell you

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Speaker 2: shit you go and get cussed at that baby either,

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Speaker 2: because I got news for you. Unless she's an unfit mother,

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Speaker 2: she's not taking that child. They're not the court not

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Speaker 2: taking the child from the mother. The mother gotta do

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Speaker 2: something wrong gonna happen. You can quit wasting your damn

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Speaker 2: time and rightfully so, yeah, because I'm gonna tell you, man,

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Speaker 2: every child deserves a mother's love. Now everybody don't get that,

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Speaker 2: but it'll show. He is a bonus if you got it. God,

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Speaker 2: it's a bonus if you got a mama's love.

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Speaker 9: Boy.

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Speaker 14: Okay, all right, Well, here's another child support question from

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Speaker 14: Demetrius on Facebook. Dimitria says, my wife became my ex

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Speaker 14: wife three years ago and I got total custody of

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Speaker 14: our son.

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Speaker 3: I pay for everything. She contributes nothing.

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Speaker 14: Now I've been hearing some rumbling or talk that she

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Speaker 14: wants to take me to court to have my paycheck

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Speaker 14: garnished for child support and back child support. I don't

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Speaker 14: see how this can really happen, but I do do

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Speaker 14: think it would be wise to be prepared in case

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Speaker 14: she tries this.

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Speaker 3: Any advice would be appreciated.

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Speaker 9: Bruh, listen to truth.

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Speaker 2: If you have soul custody of the boy and you've

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Speaker 2: been taking care of the boy, ain't no court thing

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Speaker 2: to give this woman no money, now, you're straight, bro,

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Speaker 2: Ain't no court thing to give this woman no money

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Speaker 2: because now what she's gonna take you to court for

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Speaker 2: is spousal support. And that ain't what the arrangement is.

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Speaker 2: If you didn't get that at the divorce, you ain't

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Speaker 2: finna get it now. You skip your happy ass on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he says he doesn't see how it can happen.

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Speaker 9: I'm gonna tell you right now.

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Speaker 4: You can.

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01:14:02,520 --> 01:14:11,840
Speaker 9: You came to the right place, boy, boy, you know

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01:14:12,000 --> 01:14:12,960
Speaker 9: from which you speak.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm telling because I know because I've gotten possession

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Speaker 2: of my son before, so I know how that goes.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, and.

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Speaker 2: You know, people can say what they want to say,

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01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:36,120
Speaker 2: but I got possession of my son. You right, you

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01:14:36,280 --> 01:14:39,320
Speaker 2: write whatever you want on that damn internet. I got him.

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Speaker 9: Now you go from there.

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01:14:41,200 --> 01:14:43,920
Speaker 7: I paid child support for years and my son.

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Speaker 4: Was with me.

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Speaker 9: Now look at that. Look at that. Yeah, hold up,

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01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:52,400
Speaker 9: I got I got warm for you.

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Speaker 1: I can top you.

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01:14:58,400 --> 01:14:59,680
Speaker 9: Well, I just say it.

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Speaker 1: What it all right.

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Speaker 14: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

1419
01:15:05,360 --> 01:15:06,400
Speaker 14: up at twenty minutes after.

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Speaker 3: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.

1421
01:15:12,760 --> 01:15:15,559
Speaker 14: We're sending our thoughts and prayers out to the families

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01:15:15,680 --> 01:15:20,839
Speaker 14: and the victims and survivors from that horrific, terrible, terrible

1423
01:15:20,920 --> 01:15:25,960
Speaker 14: Key bridge collapse in Baltimore. Maryland's governor Wes Moore and

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Speaker 14: other officials said the collision was an accident, and federal

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01:15:29,520 --> 01:15:33,680
Speaker 14: officials said there was no evidence of terrorism, declaring the

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Speaker 14: bridge a terrible accident. President Biden said he intended for

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01:15:37,960 --> 01:15:41,360
Speaker 14: the federal government to pay the entire cost of reconstruction.

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01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:44,600
Speaker 14: That is good news, the President said, quote, We're not

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01:15:44,800 --> 01:15:46,880
Speaker 14: leaving until this job gets done.

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Speaker 3: That's a great thing. You know that he's on it.

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01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:52,200
Speaker 3: This is an election year, he's busy. We know that,

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01:15:52,360 --> 01:15:53,040
Speaker 3: but he's on it.

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Speaker 16: Yeah, he caresples right down the street from Washington, DC.

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Speaker 1: It was horrible.

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Speaker 16: Yeah, say it, Tom, It's just it was unbelievable what

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01:16:02,320 --> 01:16:04,400
Speaker 16: we saw when we saw that video.

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Speaker 3: It looked like a movie.

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01:16:06,160 --> 01:16:06,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, Steve, you.

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01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 3: Said you saw headline people driving on.

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01:16:11,160 --> 01:16:15,799
Speaker 7: The bridge on the bridge, Yeah, And who was driving

1441
01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:17,840
Speaker 7: the barge? Did we get a name on that person?

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Speaker 3: And then if we do what? Because Tom, where are

1443
01:16:22,000 --> 01:16:22,280
Speaker 3: you as?

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01:16:22,760 --> 01:16:27,080
Speaker 7: Did you sound like, Uh, I'm sorry, I just want

1445
01:16:27,080 --> 01:16:29,200
Speaker 7: to know who was driving? That's I really did.

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01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:32,000
Speaker 9: I want to hit it. Hit the if it was Jake.

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01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:34,160
Speaker 2: Well, it was horrible because when I saw the slow

1448
01:16:34,240 --> 01:16:38,000
Speaker 2: motion I saw I mean personally, I thought I saw

1449
01:16:38,080 --> 01:16:40,000
Speaker 2: two cars on the bridge going down.

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01:16:40,080 --> 01:16:42,960
Speaker 9: I saw headlights. That's a horrible accident.

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01:16:43,080 --> 01:16:43,240
Speaker 4: Man.

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01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:46,160
Speaker 3: I saw prayers, like we say, going out to them.

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01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 9: Yeah.

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01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:51,880
Speaker 14: Coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll

1455
01:16:51,920 --> 01:16:54,439
Speaker 14: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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01:16:55,160 --> 01:16:57,759
Speaker 3: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning.

1457
01:16:57,640 --> 01:17:00,280
Speaker 14: Show, and it's time now for a round. Would you

1458
01:17:00,439 --> 01:17:04,360
Speaker 14: rather would you rather take back anything you say or

1459
01:17:04,400 --> 01:17:07,720
Speaker 14: would you rather listen in on every conversation about you?

1460
01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:11,800
Speaker 9: I said, what I.

1461
01:17:11,880 --> 01:17:15,240
Speaker 1: Said, yes, I'm staying on business.

1462
01:17:18,760 --> 01:17:21,200
Speaker 14: Are either taking it back or you're listening in on

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01:17:21,320 --> 01:17:22,479
Speaker 14: every conversation about it.

1464
01:17:22,520 --> 01:17:24,120
Speaker 11: I have some more to say soon as I hear

1465
01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:28,000
Speaker 11: what you said about me, Steve.

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01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 9: I'm not taking back nothing I said. I don't give

1467
01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:32,120
Speaker 9: a damn what.

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01:17:32,320 --> 01:17:33,680
Speaker 10: You said about me.

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01:17:33,880 --> 01:17:39,920
Speaker 9: It's so simple, I'm full blown. I could give less.

1470
01:17:40,080 --> 01:17:46,000
Speaker 14: Than all right, Would you rather show your coworkers every

1471
01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:49,880
Speaker 14: picture in your phone? Or would you read aloud every

1472
01:17:50,000 --> 01:17:52,160
Speaker 14: text you've sent in the past five days?

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01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:52,840
Speaker 9: All right?

1474
01:17:53,040 --> 01:17:55,920
Speaker 14: So send you send your coworkers every picture in your phone,

1475
01:17:56,479 --> 01:17:59,840
Speaker 14: or read aloud every text you've sent in the past.

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01:18:00,120 --> 01:18:03,760
Speaker 9: Well, that would depend on what level of pain y'all

1477
01:18:03,800 --> 01:18:08,280
Speaker 9: want to experience. What do you mean say, hurt me deeply?

1478
01:18:08,680 --> 01:18:12,280
Speaker 9: Then I'm gonna let y'all read these texts. You're talking

1479
01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:15,360
Speaker 9: about the text about us. If you want to say,

1480
01:18:15,479 --> 01:18:22,800
Speaker 9: shock me, that's cold. How you want to do it?

1481
01:18:23,360 --> 01:18:24,160
Speaker 1: So it's on us?

1482
01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:25,040
Speaker 5: Right?

1483
01:18:26,280 --> 01:18:28,640
Speaker 3: Would you rather but you put it back on us?

1484
01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:32,559
Speaker 2: See, Junior, I'm gonna tell you right now because where

1485
01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:34,760
Speaker 2: your coping skills work, you need your look at these

1486
01:18:34,840 --> 01:18:35,479
Speaker 2: pictures and.

1487
01:18:37,360 --> 01:18:41,120
Speaker 9: Let me read what you say. You'll be in therapy.

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01:18:41,240 --> 01:18:46,960
Speaker 3: Then it would be your own people, all your own people.

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01:18:47,439 --> 01:18:49,519
Speaker 2: I'm just keeping it real with you. You don't need

1490
01:18:49,640 --> 01:18:52,800
Speaker 2: the text These pictures ain't gonna be damn.

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01:18:54,080 --> 01:18:56,360
Speaker 9: I'm taking what you say about.

1492
01:18:57,680 --> 01:18:58,000
Speaker 5: Junior.

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01:18:58,120 --> 01:19:00,680
Speaker 9: You don't need to see these. We're talking now.

1494
01:19:02,640 --> 01:19:06,160
Speaker 2: You don't need cit texts because you ain't ain't you

1495
01:19:06,240 --> 01:19:09,559
Speaker 2: ain't that stable. You ain't got too much right now,

1496
01:19:09,600 --> 01:19:10,320
Speaker 2: you got a lot on.

1497
01:19:10,479 --> 01:19:16,800
Speaker 3: You take that full capacity loaded for two weeks.

1498
01:19:16,800 --> 01:19:20,760
Speaker 14: Would you rather wear your spouse's panties or just go commando?

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01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:21,439
Speaker 1: Wow?

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01:19:21,640 --> 01:19:26,479
Speaker 7: Oh well, I ain't wear no pennises, just commando. Oh

1501
01:19:28,120 --> 01:19:28,639
Speaker 7: just ignorant.

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01:19:29,360 --> 01:19:35,320
Speaker 9: I can't get my white panties on. You're you're talking

1503
01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:39,960
Speaker 9: about cutting off all circulations. I gotta get that.

1504
01:19:40,040 --> 01:19:42,240
Speaker 2: I get that if just above my knee, I get

1505
01:19:42,280 --> 01:19:44,320
Speaker 2: the little things on might be blooding, might look like

1506
01:19:44,400 --> 01:19:47,519
Speaker 2: a guard bill. I ain't gonna get both legs in them.

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01:19:49,880 --> 01:19:54,560
Speaker 2: But we have a would you rather for Junior? You

1508
01:19:54,600 --> 01:19:56,479
Speaker 2: know we're talking about your wife's clothes. So I was

1509
01:19:56,560 --> 01:19:59,280
Speaker 2: just thinking about JUNI here's a question for you, ju

1510
01:20:00,439 --> 01:20:08,160
Speaker 2: Visa or he had you said yes, you know it's basket.

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01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:11,120
Speaker 1: Give me, gim me advise again I'm going.

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01:20:12,720 --> 01:20:17,200
Speaker 3: All right, we gotta go. That's today's rounded.

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01:20:17,280 --> 01:20:19,960
Speaker 14: Would you rather coming up with forty nine minutes after

1514
01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:21,880
Speaker 14: the hour, We'll close out the show with the one

1515
01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:22,719
Speaker 14: and on least.

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01:20:22,560 --> 01:20:27,760
Speaker 3: Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening morning show.

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01:20:28,520 --> 01:20:30,920
Speaker 14: Here we are, guys, our last break of the day

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01:20:31,120 --> 01:20:32,200
Speaker 14: on this Thursday.

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01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:33,479
Speaker 12: Wow.

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Speaker 3: A lot of things going on in the world, A

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01:20:36,479 --> 01:20:40,960
Speaker 3: lot going on this heavy thoughts and prayers again going

1522
01:20:41,000 --> 01:20:41,880
Speaker 3: out to Baltimore.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we got easter this weekend tomorrow Friday.

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01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:49,360
Speaker 9: Baltimore's government though he owned it.

1525
01:20:49,439 --> 01:20:52,599
Speaker 3: Man yeah, Governors yeah, and the man and the mayor.

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01:20:52,880 --> 01:20:53,599
Speaker 10: You black.

1527
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Speaker 3: Agreed, Steve, you want to take us out?

1528
01:20:59,760 --> 01:21:05,599
Speaker 2: Well, oh, you know, always try to be encouraging to people,

1529
01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:11,479
Speaker 2: and I try to give people, you know, something to

1530
01:21:11,560 --> 01:21:15,879
Speaker 2: hang their had on. I was in a conversation yesterday,

1531
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Speaker 2: and I guess you all must say, Man, Steve, you

1532
01:21:19,040 --> 01:21:20,840
Speaker 2: have a lot of these conversations. Well, I do, because

1533
01:21:20,840 --> 01:21:24,160
Speaker 2: that's what I attract. I attract these types of conversations

1534
01:21:24,400 --> 01:21:26,639
Speaker 2: because I have people coming up to me all the time,

1535
01:21:27,479 --> 01:21:30,880
Speaker 2: even on commercial breaks at family Feud, I take questions

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Speaker 2: from the audience. All of them are in terms of

1537
01:21:34,040 --> 01:21:36,680
Speaker 2: advice and what would you do or how do you

1538
01:21:36,800 --> 01:21:41,000
Speaker 2: handle this? And you know something I've been thinking about lately.

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Speaker 2: I would rather be known as a person who has

1540
01:21:45,080 --> 01:21:52,040
Speaker 2: valiantly tried and failed than to be a person who

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Speaker 2: sat and watched. I'm gonna give it to you again.

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01:21:57,640 --> 01:22:00,680
Speaker 2: I would rather be known as a person who valiantly

1543
01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:04,639
Speaker 2: tried and failed than to be a person who sat

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01:22:04,720 --> 01:22:09,240
Speaker 2: and watched. You know, there's a lot to be said

1545
01:22:09,320 --> 01:22:12,640
Speaker 2: about you making an attempt. There's a lot to be

1546
01:22:12,840 --> 01:22:17,560
Speaker 2: said when you put forth an effort, because in attempting

1547
01:22:17,720 --> 01:22:22,799
Speaker 2: and putting forth an effort, you learn things, and learning

1548
01:22:22,960 --> 01:22:26,479
Speaker 2: what not to do, oftentimes is just as valuable as

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01:22:26,600 --> 01:22:33,920
Speaker 2: knowing what to do. Give yourself some credit when you try,

1550
01:22:35,240 --> 01:22:39,800
Speaker 2: give yourself some credit when you make the attempt, and

1551
01:22:39,920 --> 01:22:42,679
Speaker 2: don't beat yourself up so badly when you fail, because

1552
01:22:42,760 --> 01:22:46,960
Speaker 2: failure is a part of the process. I don't know

1553
01:22:47,160 --> 01:22:51,479
Speaker 2: any successful person who has not failed miserably time and

1554
01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:56,240
Speaker 2: time and time again. I've set down with Tyler Perry.

1555
01:22:56,320 --> 01:23:00,280
Speaker 2: I've heard the story. I've sat down with Denzel, I've

1556
01:23:00,320 --> 01:23:04,080
Speaker 2: heard the story. I sat with Jamie Fox, I've heard

1557
01:23:04,160 --> 01:23:08,080
Speaker 2: the story. I with said the entertainer. I've heard the story.

1558
01:23:09,200 --> 01:23:11,479
Speaker 2: I sat down with Mark Cuban, I heard the story.

1559
01:23:12,920 --> 01:23:15,639
Speaker 2: I've sat down with Dame dash I've heard the story.

1560
01:23:16,960 --> 01:23:20,439
Speaker 2: I've set down with so many people, and I heard

1561
01:23:20,520 --> 01:23:23,400
Speaker 2: the story. Me and LL had a conversation one night

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01:23:23,479 --> 01:23:27,439
Speaker 2: on a boat. I've heard the story. I don't know

1563
01:23:27,560 --> 01:23:31,160
Speaker 2: a successful person who has not failed time and time

1564
01:23:31,280 --> 01:23:34,839
Speaker 2: and time again. And in each one of those failures,

1565
01:23:35,200 --> 01:23:38,680
Speaker 2: that was a valuable lesson learned. And what you end

1566
01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:43,920
Speaker 2: up becoming in failure is you become experienced. And I've

1567
01:23:43,960 --> 01:23:46,560
Speaker 2: often said experiences prices is a shame. You have to

1568
01:23:46,600 --> 01:23:49,760
Speaker 2: pay for it with your youth. But boy o, boy o,

1569
01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:52,599
Speaker 2: boy oh boy, the things I've learned in all my failures,

1570
01:23:53,439 --> 01:23:56,360
Speaker 2: the things I've been taught in all my moments of adversity,

1571
01:23:57,400 --> 01:24:01,760
Speaker 2: But those things combined have become the total sum of

1572
01:24:01,840 --> 01:24:05,639
Speaker 2: who I am. And I got to tell you something, folks.

1573
01:24:07,800 --> 01:24:11,599
Speaker 2: You can fail a lot of times. You only need

1574
01:24:11,760 --> 01:24:12,240
Speaker 2: one win.

1575
01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:18,000
Speaker 9: That's all you need. You need one here, you need

1576
01:24:18,160 --> 01:24:21,000
Speaker 9: one of them balls to go over the wall. You

1577
01:24:21,120 --> 01:24:27,559
Speaker 9: need one home run, that's all you need. We're talking

1578
01:24:27,560 --> 01:24:32,639
Speaker 9: about life now. We ain't talking about a game. Were

1579
01:24:32,680 --> 01:24:37,160
Speaker 9: talking about life. And your life is not summed up

1580
01:24:37,200 --> 01:24:40,080
Speaker 9: with your current set of circumstances and conditions.

1581
01:24:40,360 --> 01:24:42,879
Speaker 2: You have to realize that you are on your way somewhere.

1582
01:24:44,080 --> 01:24:48,160
Speaker 2: You are being processed right now, that's all you're doing.

1583
01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:52,439
Speaker 2: Quit looking at your right now set of circumstances and

1584
01:24:52,560 --> 01:24:55,320
Speaker 2: thinking that's it. That's the determining factory. Do you have

1585
01:24:55,439 --> 01:24:57,560
Speaker 2: any idea you could wake up tomorrow and all this

1586
01:24:57,760 --> 01:25:00,680
Speaker 2: is different. Do you know that next week all of

1587
01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:02,960
Speaker 2: this could change you? You know, next year, this whole

1588
01:25:03,080 --> 01:25:07,120
Speaker 2: thing could be different from you. You don't know when

1589
01:25:07,240 --> 01:25:09,880
Speaker 2: God gonna turn on the switch, But you can't cut.

1590
01:25:09,960 --> 01:25:11,720
Speaker 2: You ain't got no switch to turn on. If you

1591
01:25:11,800 --> 01:25:15,880
Speaker 2: ain't attempting, if you ain't trying, if you are not

1592
01:25:16,040 --> 01:25:19,840
Speaker 2: in the arena, if you're not an active warrior, if

1593
01:25:19,880 --> 01:25:23,880
Speaker 2: you are not a Valian soldier, you get nothing in

1594
01:25:23,960 --> 01:25:27,960
Speaker 2: the stands. You know, all you did was buy a ticket.

1595
01:25:29,120 --> 01:25:32,639
Speaker 2: You get nothing in the stands. You're just sitting there

1596
01:25:34,120 --> 01:25:38,800
Speaker 2: watching everybody make an attempt. And then what kills me

1597
01:25:38,920 --> 01:25:41,960
Speaker 2: about the people in the stands. Cain't got the nerve,

1598
01:25:43,080 --> 01:25:48,840
Speaker 2: They got the damn audacity to comment, running your mouth

1599
01:25:48,920 --> 01:25:54,439
Speaker 2: about my failure, talking about my attempt, laughing at my

1600
01:25:54,680 --> 01:25:58,040
Speaker 2: outcome when you ain't got nothing going on.

1601
01:25:59,560 --> 01:26:02,280
Speaker 9: You ain't you ain't even got a shot. That's what

1602
01:26:02,560 --> 01:26:03,000
Speaker 9: kills me.

1603
01:26:03,080 --> 01:26:06,080
Speaker 2: About the people in the stands man running they mouth

1604
01:26:06,360 --> 01:26:07,760
Speaker 2: you bought a ticket to see me?

1605
01:26:09,240 --> 01:26:11,800
Speaker 9: Yeah, I don't think he all that you tune in

1606
01:26:12,000 --> 01:26:12,519
Speaker 9: every day.

1607
01:26:13,720 --> 01:26:15,679
Speaker 2: You know, I was reading somewhere. I was just going

1608
01:26:15,720 --> 01:26:18,280
Speaker 2: through my timeline. Somebody said, I don't know what the

1609
01:26:18,360 --> 01:26:22,040
Speaker 2: fussy is. I don't even like family feud what at

1610
01:26:22,240 --> 01:26:27,439
Speaker 2: So it's a whole lot of people don't like family feud.

1611
01:26:29,640 --> 01:26:33,520
Speaker 2: But guess what, I don't need you to be successful.

1612
01:26:36,760 --> 01:26:40,280
Speaker 2: I just need a win, and I got enough people

1613
01:26:40,360 --> 01:26:44,040
Speaker 2: tuning in to negate. You not ever watching or carry.

1614
01:26:45,520 --> 01:26:50,479
Speaker 2: You just need one win, that's all it is. But

1615
01:26:50,600 --> 01:26:53,080
Speaker 2: you in the stand, you got TV nob sitting a

1616
01:26:53,120 --> 01:26:55,680
Speaker 2: bit talking about you don't like me on TV. Well,

1617
01:26:55,680 --> 01:26:59,240
Speaker 2: at least I'm on the damn credit below.

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01:27:00,320 --> 01:27:02,320
Speaker 9: Let me stop. I'm out of here, y'all have a

1619
01:27:02,439 --> 01:27:05,240
Speaker 9: great day. Man, doctor God he loved to hear from you.

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