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Speaker 1: It is time now for my Strawberry Letter. And if

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Speaker 1: Buckle love and hold on tight. We got it for

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Speaker 1: you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephew. Subject

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Speaker 1: Yams and cookies are always available. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm

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Speaker 1: writing you in hopes that my nieces and my sister

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Speaker 1: is forty and his wife is thirty six. They have

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Speaker 1: They started having children in college and then got married

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Speaker 1: seven years ago. My sister in law is sweet spie,

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Speaker 1: but she's an airhead. She loves to complain about how

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Speaker 1: complain yet again about how they dress. He said he

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Speaker 1: squats to get firm yams, which is nice thighs and

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Speaker 1: fifteen year old? In my opinion, she's living through her teenagers,

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Speaker 1: who both look a lot like her. I've talked to

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Speaker 1: for teenagers to do it, but not my sister in law.

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Speaker 1: How can he get her to cover up her yams

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Speaker 1: and cookie? What advice can you give? You? Know, I'll

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Speaker 1: give you this. You're right in a sense, you know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she's only thirty six, she's still fairly young.

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Speaker 1: But she's not her daughter's friend. She's their mother and

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Speaker 1: they you know, they want a mom now. They have

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Speaker 1: plenty of kids their own age, I'm sure, and your

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Speaker 1: truth be told, you don't like your sister in law.

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Speaker 1: You really don't care for her. You called her a

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Speaker 1: sweet airhead. Okay, that's what you called her. But I

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Speaker 1: got to ask you, why are you all up in

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Speaker 1: their business? I mean, I know you said your brother

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Speaker 1: He was just venting. This is not for you to

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Speaker 1: it looks like they probably are gonna stay together. They're

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Speaker 1: gonna resent you for this. They're gonna resent you because

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Speaker 1: they are still married. And I can believe that as

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Speaker 1: So you need to tell your brother that he needs

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Speaker 1: I know he's tried before, but he's got to try harder.

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Speaker 1: good because you want to. I'm me personally, my wife

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Speaker 1: dress dressed beautiful to me, she dressed classy, and I

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Speaker 1: don't you because this really don't hand nothing to do

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Speaker 1: with you, But why don't you just set an example

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Speaker 1: for all three of them, for the nieces as well

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Speaker 1: as your sister in law, because you evidently know what

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Speaker 1: what class he is, You evidently know how you should

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Speaker 1: how they should be uh presenting themselves and they're not

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Speaker 1: this really ain't your business. He the one that's really

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Speaker 1: going through and he's like, how do I get how

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Speaker 1: do I get past it? I think your wife got

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Speaker 1: to grow out of this. His wife has to grow

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Speaker 1: I don't hand a woman like that, Junior. I just don't.

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Speaker 1: My wife don't dress like that. My wife don't do that.

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Speaker 1: She she bringing the classiness all the time. Twenty pulls

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Speaker 1: something that you laid this on the show. Y'all drink

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Speaker 1: y'all bring the class you know, ain't nobody got there

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Speaker 1: you ain't I'm hanging out. Ain't nobody got their cooks

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Speaker 1: hanging out? What? What? What is that? What they do

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Speaker 1: that at? And if she's saying, and she's saying, all

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Speaker 1: kids are doing no, they now, my little girl don't

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Speaker 1: wrestling clothes. Everybody wear tight clothes. This don't get out here.

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Speaker 1: Let's go put out here. That's what we need to do. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Hold that thought, junior, Hold that thought. We're gonna have

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Speaker 1: part two of this Strawberry letter coming up at twenty

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Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. The subject is yamas and

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Speaker 1: cookies are always available. We'll get back into it right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to show, all right, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is ms and cookies

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Speaker 1: are always available, and that's not what you want. This

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Speaker 1: brother who's married to a woman who's thirty six. The

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Speaker 1: She tries to dress like her young daughters, and her

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Speaker 1: old is squeezing into clothes that are inappropriate for a mother.

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Speaker 1: And she's thirty six, she's still young, but she dresses

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Speaker 1: He's talking. He's venting to his sister about how his

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Speaker 1: She doesn't like the way the woman dresses either, But

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Speaker 1: you know, something will happen there, but the names her

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Speaker 1: that's what the problem is. Yeah, she thinks she miss

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Speaker 1: you were saying, yeah, I've said if if the mom

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Speaker 1: we're in tight clothes and you got two daughters wearing

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Speaker 1: lone this last. The tight family. Yeah, we're gonna beat

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Speaker 1: see the rock Yeah, I'm talking about. Get you some

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Speaker 1: jeans coming at me and fast squeeze yourself and the man,

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Speaker 1: don't We're gonna be looking like just don't make no sense. Man,

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Speaker 1: You you're a father, you have the right to tell y'all, daughter,

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Speaker 1: I don't care what your mamma do, but y'all not

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Speaker 1: as much as I'm providing here. You can't leave my

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Speaker 1: but I'm your daddy. I said, you're not leaving my

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Speaker 1: house like this. That's right, That's how the bottom Larons

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Speaker 1: raised us. Yeah, but it's different now. I don't care

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Speaker 1: what different wine world. Well, you know, Junior, when they leave,

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Speaker 1: they may lead a house where you want to do.

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Speaker 1: When they get where they're going to go, put what

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Speaker 1: they want on, they're gonna change, They're gonna do it. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: she's got to know that you're still her mother. You're

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Speaker 1: not her girlfriend, and you can't you know example. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm ing same thing. And who the body builders wearing

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know a lot of women wear athletic wear,

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Speaker 1: Carlor coop? We just do this time here. It's just

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Speaker 1: something we could do as the father. Can we can

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Speaker 1: start cutting clothes up, can we do that. I just

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Speaker 1: you say? I was just saying, it's a challenge. It's

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Speaker 1: style and all that. So you have to, as the mother,

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Speaker 1: lead by example and and show your daughter, Okay, you

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Speaker 1: don't have to dress like this. You could do this,

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Speaker 1: give her options and choices and things like that. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's a constant things, a constant battle. Parenting is twenty

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Speaker 1: four seven. Yeah, you know, you gotta get it and

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Speaker 1: I'm sure, Yeah, Well, they want to hang out with kids,

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Speaker 1: they're on age. You don't want to go everywhere with

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Speaker 1: your mother and all of that and why is yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is yeah, be a mom, Be a mom. Here,

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Speaker 1: be a mom. All right, all right, guys, thank you.

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