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Speaker 1: First date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Hunter is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Jamie. So we're

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Speaker 2: gonna find out a story and then give her a

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Speaker 2: call and see if we can figure out why she's

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Speaker 2: ghosting him and maybe get him another date if he

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Speaker 2: still wants one. Hunter, how long has it been since

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Speaker 2: you heard from Jamie?

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Speaker 3: Well, it's been about six days since I sent a

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Speaker 3: follow up text after our date, and i've heard anything.

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Speaker 4: So did you text her right after the date? Was

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Speaker 4: it days later? When did that happen?

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Speaker 5: So? I texted her two days after our date, and

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Speaker 5: it's been six days since that text.

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Speaker 6: Okay, we got a lot of exact time. Yeah, Hunter,

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Speaker 6: very sure. I like it.

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Speaker 4: Oh, why don't you tell us about your date and

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Speaker 4: how you met Jamie?

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Speaker 5: So we met through our mutual old friend Mike, who thought,

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Speaker 5: you know, we would be a good match. We went

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Speaker 5: to an Italian spot because it just seemed, you know,

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Speaker 5: most romantic, and that was my idea. Okay, okay, And

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Speaker 5: after the date was over, you know, I felt like

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Speaker 5: we had good conversation and after the date was over,

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Speaker 5: you know, I said, oh, you know, i'd love to

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Speaker 5: you know, get together again, and she said she would

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Speaker 5: think about it. But I just figured she was playing

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Speaker 5: hard to get.

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Speaker 6: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Did she give you that vibe that she was like

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Speaker 4: playful and flirting.

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Speaker 6: Into it somewhat?

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Speaker 5: But I'm just you know, I'm just curious that I

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Speaker 5: haven't heard back anything for six days. You know, I

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Speaker 5: just figured I would have, you know, at least heard

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Speaker 5: something or you know, even if she's not interested, just

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Speaker 5: you know, letting me know either way, you'd think.

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Speaker 4: But it turns out that that's not a common courtesy

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Speaker 4: these days. What is it about her though, that makes

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Speaker 4: you want to get a hold of her?

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Speaker 5: We were we both talked about like similar topics, you know.

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Speaker 5: We were both into like space conspiracies, aerospace and okay,

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Speaker 5: you know, all political stuff.

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Speaker 6: So like aliens.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And it's weird to find anyone that

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Speaker 5: I can talk to about these things or that'll even listen.

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Speaker 6: She seemed into it though.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, from what I saw, Yeah, that'd be cool.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, Well, is.

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Speaker 4: There anything that could have happened on the date that

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Speaker 4: makes you feel like, I don't know, she would have

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Speaker 4: been like, bye, sorry, Hunter, this was fun, but not

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Speaker 4: for me.

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Speaker 5: You know, maybe I'm a little bit too nerdy for

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Speaker 5: my own good.

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Speaker 6: I don't think, though, I think you're you, Hunter.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that you'll find somebody who is just just

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Speaker 6: I guess maybe it was her. It could have been maybe.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean maybe maybe I showed too much of

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Speaker 6: I can see that. I mean, she's gonna find out eventually,

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Speaker 6: not a bad way or in a good way. Well.

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Speaker 4: She also could be like a sapio sexual. You know

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Speaker 4: what that is. It's when you're turned on by somebody's brain.

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Speaker 4: So if you're super smart, then I mean, you know,

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Speaker 4: maybe she just had a cooler never heard that term before,

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Speaker 4: but saio sexual. I'm totally a sapio sexual. So I

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Speaker 4: know this me too, right. Yeah, so maybe she just

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Speaker 4: had to cool off for a few days, you know,

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Speaker 4: if it was too hot for six days. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to stay optimistic for you, bro, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Keep hoble live, Hunter, They're about to call her to

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Speaker 2: play a song, come back, and then call her and

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Speaker 2: steep she's else why she's ghosting you and then maybe

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Speaker 2: get you another date. Okay, all right, place don't come

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Speaker 2: back and get your first day first Date follow up powered

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Hunter is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and Hunter is getting ghosted by Jamie. So we're about

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Speaker 2: to call her and see if shall tell us why

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date if

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Speaker 2: he still wants one after he hears the reason. But

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Speaker 2: before we do that, Hunter, why don't you remind everybody

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Speaker 2: of your date with Jamie.

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Speaker 5: We went on Jamie and I went on a date

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Speaker 5: a little over a week ago. We talked about, you know,

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Speaker 5: kind of aliens and space, and a.

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Speaker 3: Couple of days after the date, I texted.

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Speaker 5: Her and it's now been six days since I text

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Speaker 6: Maybe she was abducted by aliens. That would be cool.

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Speaker 2: That would be ironic, because she swoops down in a spaceship.

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Speaker 2: It picks you up and then you guys can go

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Speaker 2: hang out. I just got a visual, so funny. Also,

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Speaker 2: the second date, I see what you did there?

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Speaker 6: All right? Hunter, ready for us to call her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, I'm gonna call it.

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Speaker 6: Here we go. I'm gonna call right now.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, may I speak to Jamie please? This is Jamie, Jamie,

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Speaker 2: how are you? My name is Jewbell from a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 4: The Whole Radio Shows. Here Jamie, surprise. My name is Nina.

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Speaker 6: Why in Victoria?

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Speaker 7: Hi? Everyone? What's going on with?

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Speaker 6: Not much? Just chilling? How about you?

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Speaker 7: I'm doing good, just working, you know, and grind nice.

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Speaker 6: Nice.

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Speaker 2: Well, we're calling you today because we got an email

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Speaker 2: about you from one of our listeners.

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Speaker 7: Okay, let's hear it out.

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Speaker 6: We do a segment called the First Day follow Up.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 2: someone and then you end up ghosting them, they can

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Speaker 2: email us to get you on the phone and find

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Speaker 2: out why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 6: And we got an email about you from Hunter.

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Speaker 7: Oh no, okay, yes we did. Oh yeah, I know

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Speaker 7: Hunger and she's told me enough about him, so fine.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well he really liked you and he's wondering why

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Speaker 2: you're not calling him back.

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Speaker 7: Yeah. I what an awkward time. I don't even though

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Speaker 7: I explained it. We went out. He talked about himself

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Speaker 7: the whole time, with things that I had no interest.

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Speaker 7: I just kind of sat there and nodded and yeah,

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Speaker 7: and he just talked. He didn't ask me about anything

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Speaker 7: about myself the entire night, and it's just it was

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Speaker 7: very no at all ish and a lot of negative things,

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Speaker 7: and I just kind of just felt stuck close and

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Speaker 7: I was just nodding and okay, yeah, sure, yeah, interesting

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Speaker 7: and that's about the only words I could get in

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Speaker 7: so the whole time.

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Speaker 4: So you're not super into space and stuff because Hunter

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Speaker 4: thought you guys really bonded over alien.

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Speaker 7: No, but he did talk a lot about aliens, and

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Speaker 7: I just nodded my head and I did not know.

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Speaker 7: I couldn't get a break in the conversation to move

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Speaker 7: to something else or or he was just so excitedly

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Speaker 7: talking about everything he knew about. And thank you listening.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I'm a good listener. I guess people have

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Speaker 7: told me, but wow.

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Speaker 2: You don't feel like you got a chance to talk

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Speaker 2: about the things that you know about. It was only

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Speaker 2: him talking about the things he.

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Speaker 7: Knows exactly exact Creet. It was very It's very odd.

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Speaker 7: So I at the end of the night. I even said, yeah,

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Speaker 7: you know, I'll have to think about it when he

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Speaker 7: said we should do this together, and I kind of

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Speaker 7: I just I was busy at the time, and then

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Speaker 7: I didn't really have I wasn't sure how to respond.

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Speaker 7: So it's been a while and I probably should have responded,

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Speaker 7: but I didn't know what to say. And oh, man,

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Speaker 7: now everybody's gonna know.

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Speaker 6: Just really nervous.

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Speaker 7: I don't know. I thought first dates, we're kind of

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Speaker 7: getting to know each of you, like that both people

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Speaker 7: take part in things that ptain to their lives. But

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Speaker 7: that's not where we were at at all. He's very smart,

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Speaker 7: don't get me wrong, like very smart, but.

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Speaker 6: Maybe he hasn't dated a lot.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I guess that's probably a factor. I, you know,

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Speaker 7: didn't We didn't get on those topics of other things.

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Speaker 7: It was a lot of space stuff in.

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Speaker 6: Fall, Jamie.

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Speaker 2: I will let you know that Hunter is actually on

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Speaker 2: the phone listening and he wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: I thought you were more into our conversation than apparently

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Speaker 7: No, I really have no interest in you know, the

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Speaker 7: was hoping the conversation would move to anything else in

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Speaker 7: the world eventually, but it just, you know, kept going

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Speaker 7: about you. And I'm sorry, that's just not I just

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Speaker 5: I thought it was it the topics. Were they just

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Speaker 7: No, I mean, I'm just not into that stuff, and

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Speaker 7: that I didn't really I wasn't super interested in those topics,

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Speaker 7: but it just didn't stop, and I just kind of

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Speaker 7: nodded and you know, listened, but just wasn't wasn't things

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Speaker 7: I was into and wasn't the type of date I

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Speaker 5: Were the topics too intimidating. No, I don't think they're intimidating,

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Speaker 5: just not what I'm interested in, because I thought I

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Speaker 5: thought you were really smart talking on those topics as well.

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Speaker 7: I mean I kind of just agreed with you and

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Speaker 7: nodded and tried to move the conversation forward. Okay, so

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Speaker 7: you weren't into the topics I was talking about No,

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Speaker 7: not really. Sorry.

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Speaker 5: I guess that's good to know for future.

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Speaker 6: Well, I do have to ask the question, Jamie, would

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Speaker 6: you like to go on another date with Hunter? We'll

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Speaker 6: pay for it.

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Speaker 7: No, I'm good, think thinks but no.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I'm good too as well.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I'm good. I think this is great. That

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Speaker 4: everybody's good success Hunter. Maybe you learned something too on

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Speaker 4: the next time. Well, the next time you go on

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Speaker 4: a date, maybe just ask them what they're into. Make

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Speaker 6: Make more conversational for sure.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, do you like aliens?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm good. But I did want to let everyone

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Speaker 5: know that they did release seven chemtrails today, so everyone,

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Speaker 5: I would just recommend everyone stay at home.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I don't either. We'll just make sure we do that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, thank you, Hunter, thank you for that.

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Speaker 5: You're welcome.

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