WEBVTT - She was a fairy  Feat. Flyana Boss

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<v Speaker 1>Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife,

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<v Speaker 1>and she couldn't. She cleaned and cared for her children

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<v Speaker 1>and the man of the house, and of course she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't talk back. She was both obedient and soft by nature.

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<v Speaker 1>She was a good woman who always made good choices.

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<v Speaker 1>We're good mom's bad choices.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's single mom who said fuck the patriarchy shared all

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<v Speaker 2>their bad choices.

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<v Speaker 1>And found out they were so bad after all, we're experts,

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<v Speaker 1>overshares and your new besties. Sit back and enjoy the ride.

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<v Speaker 1>I can.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to good Mom's bad choices. I'm Erica and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Mila.

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<v Speaker 1>Camis Wednesday, Happy hump Day, bitch is happy, Happy hump Day.

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<v Speaker 1>How you feeling, m I feel okay, baby daddy is

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<v Speaker 1>annoying me today. But other than that, but new it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like the levels of petty that niggas do go

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<v Speaker 1>It's just stupid. But how could it be petty to you?

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<v Speaker 1>You're literally doing everything. I think that every woman can

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<v Speaker 1>relate to their baby daddy being petty? How was it

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<v Speaker 1>being petty because we went to the store, because I

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<v Speaker 1>took iri to go to cheer Oh okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Well maybe well I'll tell the story a different day.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Anyway, well because today because today my daughters in

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<v Speaker 1>the other rammit, you can hear me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, I'll tell you my story this weekend. Last weekend,

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<v Speaker 2>I took Luna to a fucking Tate McCray concert. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if I told you this. I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>I told anybody. But at the take mccrab concert, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, like bitches go to seats that don't

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<v Speaker 2>belong to them. That's like, that's standard, right. So we're

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<v Speaker 2>in our seats. Shia is on her mom's lap, so

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<v Speaker 2>there's one seat empty. So these two teeny boppers squeeze

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<v Speaker 2>by me and I'm like, hey, that's my seat and

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<v Speaker 2>they're like I'm like, hey, that's my seat. Oh I know,

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<v Speaker 2>but no, nobody's gonna say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I said.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying something, okay, okay, when you're when they're ready

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<v Speaker 2>to when they're ready to sit down, can we just move?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, so I had a moment in my

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<v Speaker 2>head and I'm like, okay, I'm i gonna be the old

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<v Speaker 2>bitch at the concert and like kill it for everybody,

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<v Speaker 2>and like and then I was like as it like

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<v Speaker 2>even I've done this, but like even as a teenager,

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<v Speaker 2>if someone said this is my seat, I would immediately move.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna fucking go back and forth with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm already like I'm at the fucking Tate McCray concert,

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<v Speaker 2>so you can imagine amount of teeny bopper bitches that

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<v Speaker 2>are there. You know, we saw Tate McCray at Call

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<v Speaker 2>Her Daddy event, and you saw the crowd. So it's

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<v Speaker 2>that time's fucking ten thousand. So I'm like, Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be cool. And I'm like, am i gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>like a bitch? No, I'm not gonna be the old

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<v Speaker 2>bitch because I really wanted to Karen that because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>bringing I'm embracing my Karen this year. I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>the black caro. Yeah, because what else. Yeah, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>But then I was like, no, I'm not gonna go

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<v Speaker 2>get security. I'm just gonna let the bitch sit here,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. And so I looked over at Luna and

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<v Speaker 2>she was like like she was disgusted with me for

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<v Speaker 2>letting these bitches sit there, like you fucking punk bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>She looks at me like, are you fucking kidding me.

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<v Speaker 1>She was looking at them like and looking at me

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<v Speaker 1>and looking at them I love me and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Now my daughter thinks I'm a punk bitch, like I

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't believe it, and then find in my head I

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<v Speaker 2>was like And then finally they're like okay, like two

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<v Speaker 2>songs and I'm like, thank you so much, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like and I was like, I am I gotta

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<v Speaker 2>really get into the like the mom mode, like.

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<v Speaker 1>I love Tate McCray, I love teeny bopper music, even.

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<v Speaker 2>When we have to watch like four hundred versions of

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<v Speaker 2>Zombie four and they're like a musical that I can't stand.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm bonding. I'm bonding. We're bonding.

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<v Speaker 2>She can't watch Friday every day, like we can't watch

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<v Speaker 2>adult movies like I want to watch Baps and Clueless,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's like, sometimes I gotta compromise and go to

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<v Speaker 2>Tate McCray and like two little teeny boppers steal my

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<v Speaker 2>seat and let my kid fucking judge me. And then

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<v Speaker 2>later I was like, were you judging me? And she

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<v Speaker 2>was like yeah. I was like, Okay, Well, so much

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<v Speaker 2>for being nice not being the old bitch at the concert.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I should have went old bitchen.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's old bitch. I think that's just.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, like when you when you're a young bitch

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<v Speaker 2>concert and you're the oldest one there and they're like

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<v Speaker 2>doing the young bitch thing of taking people's seats, you

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<v Speaker 2>would think that I would, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, just be more chill, and I was not.

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<v Speaker 1>But what was their ethnicity?

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<v Speaker 3>What the fuck do you think?

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<v Speaker 1>So? Is it young bitch or is it white privilege?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I was thinking, Like, I think there might

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<v Speaker 1>be different.

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<v Speaker 2>The privilege is crazy. I think in general, the millennials

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<v Speaker 2>are the millennials.

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<v Speaker 1>We're millennials.

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<v Speaker 3>What are they?

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<v Speaker 1>GENALFA, the Gen what? Yeah, whatever?

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<v Speaker 2>The Gen zs and the Gen Aalpha. They don't have

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<v Speaker 2>common sense. There's a lack of customer service, a lack

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<v Speaker 2>of common sense, and a lack of urgency. They missed

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of chapters because they're on the internet. It's

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<v Speaker 2>either like they're too woke and they know too many words,

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<v Speaker 2>but they can't put it with critical thinking. They're like, oh, polly,

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<v Speaker 2>empathy criticism, Like there's making all these words, but they

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<v Speaker 2>don't really get it. On a actually embodied level, so

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<v Speaker 2>they're just talking of their ass. And also, if you

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<v Speaker 2>go to like American Eagle or whatevery, these fucking teeny

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<v Speaker 2>bopper stores and they're like, hey, can you do this

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<v Speaker 2>for me, they're like mm hmm, Like, hey, bitch, you

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<v Speaker 2>work here?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>One time I was somewhere and the bitch had a

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<v Speaker 2>fucking face fan on her face.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, do you work here? Yeah? Bitch, if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't ask me if I need help.

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<v Speaker 3>She's in here like with a fan on.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, okay, there's a missing piece between the millennials,

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<v Speaker 2>which the intelligence to us and the gins alphas whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like them, and I'm gonna, I know, identify

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<v Speaker 2>you're raising one.

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<v Speaker 3>She's not like them.

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<v Speaker 2>And as you can see, she wanted me to Karen,

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<v Speaker 2>So that's how I know she's not like them. So

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<v Speaker 2>that's my confession or my bad choice of the week,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess, because I let these teeny bopper bitches punk me.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, that's it, that's all.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for sharing.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody me let me tell you what happened at the

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<v Speaker 2>Tavor Craig concert. Anyway, we're here with two very lovely

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<v Speaker 2>guests today. This is my personal request. I stalked them,

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<v Speaker 2>and really, I feel like it's my manifestation powers that

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<v Speaker 2>brought them in because I saw they had a video

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<v Speaker 2>that went viral right in front of our studio and

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<v Speaker 2>I told my daughter, I was like, we're gonna get them.

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<v Speaker 2>They must live in the neighborhood. And sure enough, shout

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<v Speaker 2>out to Fairly. They brought them in by the Manifestation gods.

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<v Speaker 2>Today we are joined by Bobby and Flying a Fly

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<v Speaker 2>on a Boss, the Ink Girls.

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<v Speaker 1>This show.

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<v Speaker 2>Lady, you guys look so cute and your pink your

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<v Speaker 2>pink hairs.

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<v Speaker 5>I like that pink eraea pink doodle era.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, that's what's a pink doodle era?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we got.

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<v Speaker 1>Pink hair, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I think when I saw you guys, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I think there are my people.

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<v Speaker 1>Is she wearing elf? I was like, is she a fairy? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't wear my ears to Naa and I because

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<v Speaker 1>somebody forgot them. Orda one forgot them sam Mine too.

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<v Speaker 5>Really, I'm just.

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<v Speaker 1>Who are you?

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<v Speaker 2>I know, so you usually are usually were You're like

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<v Speaker 2>your fair are they ELFs?

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<v Speaker 3>Are they fairy ears?

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever the day is?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess Okay, I just figured we're gonna get along

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<v Speaker 2>great because I identify as the night fairy Felion period,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I figured you guys were you're gonna you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna identify too. I love that love that is how

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<v Speaker 2>identify as a night fair.

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<v Speaker 1>It just depends, It depends on the night. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well tell us about yourselves.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited to get to know you and like your

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<v Speaker 2>journey and your story.

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<v Speaker 1>How you guys became friends, You guys besties.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she's from Detroit, you're from Dallas. We came here

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<v Speaker 6>to l A to be big stars. Yes, we met

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<v Speaker 6>on Hollywood Boulevard.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Really school, Yeah, you've.

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<v Speaker 1>Met, Hollo Hollo.

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<v Speaker 5>There's an institution music, music institution, and we met.

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<v Speaker 3>There how long ago, like eons?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it feels like a long long time. Were you

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<v Speaker 1>What were you in school to study? Was it? Was

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<v Speaker 1>it actually like music? Yeah, it's a music institution. But

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I think I know what we were talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like editing, there's mixing, there's all types of stuff.

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<v Speaker 6>We met in the Independent Artist program, which is like

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<v Speaker 6>a culmination of all those things because they teach you

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<v Speaker 6>like photoshop and logic, yeah, and music.

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<v Speaker 1>Stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, oh, you want to do everything, going to

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<v Speaker 2>be independent exactly marketing strategy?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah did jo?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you graduate from there? Or I dropped out to college?

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<v Speaker 1>What about you? You were doing all the way while

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<v Speaker 1>with the AA or whatever?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what it does.

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<v Speaker 2>Associates not an AA AA is like alcoholics?

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that A didn't I thought it was called a degree.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I didn't finish, so I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It was.

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<v Speaker 6>A b associates is what I got. And it's hanging

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<v Speaker 6>on my mom's wall.

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<v Speaker 1>She's proud.

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<v Speaker 2>She's so proud, not hanging out my mom's yesterday I

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<v Speaker 2>met my mom.

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<v Speaker 3>Wish something was hanging on her wall.

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<v Speaker 2>Should have finished paying my tuition then, sorry, that was

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<v Speaker 2>a personal that was a personal goodness.

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<v Speaker 3>I just dropped out. I was on drugs.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just kidding. You're not what's tight? Can we put

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<v Speaker 1>headphones on? So I have a real conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you normally have headphones?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>We don't have our kids here?

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<v Speaker 5>Headphones on?

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<v Speaker 1>Your kid? What drugs? Like?

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<v Speaker 5>He's the microphone he's getting.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's getting fairly the headphase. Lord Jesus, let

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<v Speaker 1>me have a candidate. This is an adult show.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, well I dropped out. I moved to Sweden. I

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<v Speaker 6>followed a boy to Sweden.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow was he Swedish? Yeah, of course you slowed a

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<v Speaker 1>Swedish boy.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought I was gonna, like, you know, settle down

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<v Speaker 6>and have like little fairy children.

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<v Speaker 1>One black girl in Sweden.

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<v Speaker 2>It's me and thee.

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<v Speaker 6>But I was in like a farm town, so like

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<v Speaker 6>Stockholm has like a bunch, but I was like maybe

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<v Speaker 6>an hour out of Stockholm, very farm town.

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<v Speaker 3>We were going for how long did that last?

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<v Speaker 1>Like a year? But I was coming back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>because like visa stuff was this family like where they're

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<v Speaker 1>like come, I'm coming to the whole. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>the most beautiful person ever. Swedish people. Swedish men love

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<v Speaker 1>black women. They do. I can attest to that. I

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<v Speaker 1>had a Swedish boyfriend and he loved That's why there

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<v Speaker 1>was so babies and really it was a very large

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<v Speaker 1>population mixed babies. Yeah okay.

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<v Speaker 6>But also I miss like African Americans specifically because there

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<v Speaker 6>were like African people.

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<v Speaker 1>It's different culture. It's a different culture. Yeah, And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like it's black people like American blacks.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, American blacks are specific and they're like, I

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<v Speaker 2>have a I have a conspiracy theory, and I don't

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<v Speaker 2>even know what's I'm a huge conspiracy theorist, but I

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<v Speaker 2>have a cousin. Shout out to cousin Chris, and all

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<v Speaker 2>we do is send conspiracies back and forth. And he

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<v Speaker 2>was telling me most recently that the conspiracy is that, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it's conpiracy. I think it's the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>But that black people.

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<v Speaker 2>Are indigenous to America, so it's not like we A

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<v Speaker 2>lot of our history says that most of us got

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<v Speaker 2>here via the slave trade. We know that's not true,

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<v Speaker 2>but that this is why specifically African American culture is

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<v Speaker 2>so globally influential, because this is our homeland and because

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<v Speaker 2>this is where we're supposed to be, and that's why

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<v Speaker 2>they like we actually ignite here and like even though

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<v Speaker 2>all the all the like suppression and like attempted genocide

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<v Speaker 2>and all those things doesn't work on us, and like

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<v Speaker 2>we still rise like May Angelo, because this is actually

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<v Speaker 2>the land we're indigenous to. And so that's why, like

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<v Speaker 2>you know, African culture is pretty influential globally, but nothing

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<v Speaker 2>is more influential than African American culture, and it's like

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<v Speaker 2>coordinates that make us like boo boom, all of our

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<v Speaker 2>superpowers come out.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think I believe it.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe. I don't believe that one, but I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>I really want to.

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<v Speaker 5>And I believe that African Americans.

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<v Speaker 1>Are the best.

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<v Speaker 2>From for African American IM if you didn't think you

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<v Speaker 2>knew all the conspiracies.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna every week one that was a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a good one.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm like courdinentially, no, that's a word. I

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<v Speaker 2>think that that makes sense. The headphones. Okay, so we're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna go back a trucks.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you on Why didn't you drop out of college? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I was on drugs, just the normal ones the white

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<v Speaker 1>people want.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you need to be more specific?

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<v Speaker 1>I see it's twenty twenty five. That could be like

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<v Speaker 1>Crystal meth right, Oh my god. The rich white people

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<v Speaker 1>went okay, not crack. No. I mean that wasn't specifically

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<v Speaker 1>the only reason, but it was part of the reason

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<v Speaker 1>I was going. I was living in New York, so

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<v Speaker 1>I was going hard to the paint out there, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was seventeen when I went moved away, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was in college, and yeah, it was it was for

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<v Speaker 1>me to come home. I actually volunteered to come home.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know they did cook in New York. What

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<v Speaker 1>I heard about that, I feel like it's what, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's heavily like, so I don't know what that's late hours,

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<v Speaker 1>they are up to six am.

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<v Speaker 5>They've been doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>The good Lord knew not to put me in studios

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<v Speaker 1>New York.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I didn't even think black people did cocaine until

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<v Speaker 2>I moved to Atlanta and I was like, oh, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>oh they do.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I thought that I thought it.

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<v Speaker 3>Was a Hollywood thing. But then I realized that it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Not doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>They do. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I just saw it on TV and I was just like, no,

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<v Speaker 6>you shouldn't ever, that's for crazy people.

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<v Speaker 5>Then I met a lot of normal people.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I came to Hollywood Boulevard. This is not using cocaine.

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<v Speaker 1>You're at your own risk. No, we're not normalizing it.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just saying in Hollywood it is normal. It's kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like passing a bluntly.

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<v Speaker 1>In the.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's such a it's such a thing in l

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<v Speaker 2>A that you will consistently see, like think like signs

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<v Speaker 2>on the wall that says, don't do cocaine in the

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<v Speaker 2>bast Yeah, because people will sit in there for fucking ever,

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<v Speaker 2>have long conversations, and people like me are sitting in

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<v Speaker 2>the hallway about to pee themselves my very baby bladder,

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<v Speaker 2>and then they come out like huh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I asked my mom if she ever did it, and

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<v Speaker 6>she said everyone did it, and her day and she said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>of course everyone did it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's true.

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<v Speaker 5>My dad did it.

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<v Speaker 1>The eighties. It's going crazy. It was like weed but better.

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<v Speaker 1>My mom denies, she said she never did it. Rick James,

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<v Speaker 1>I know my mom's kind of square. Though I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know I believe her. I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't even don't that I believe that she did.

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<v Speaker 1>It a few times. I think she was lying. She

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't you, but she she was in the eighties.

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<v Speaker 2>I think every I didn't never, you know, I some

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<v Speaker 2>questions out even ask because you're gonna lie and I

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<v Speaker 2>know the truth, right, But yeah, the eighties was and

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<v Speaker 2>the seventies were a crazy time. The Good Lord has

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<v Speaker 2>said you can't be in that time, because I would oded,

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<v Speaker 2>for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you do mushrooms? Yeah? I was gonna say the

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<v Speaker 1>paint on your face is giving. Yeah, if you're on

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<v Speaker 1>If you're not watching this episode on YouTube, go take

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<v Speaker 1>a gander on our YouTube. We have we have lots

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<v Speaker 1>of aesthetics happening here, you do. We have her face,

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<v Speaker 1>paint her face, paint my new weave. Y'all have a

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<v Speaker 1>new weave? Guys, SI soin or weave?

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<v Speaker 7>What is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Either the same thing? Change And Mila has a new

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<v Speaker 1>hairstyle also.

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<v Speaker 5>It's cute too.

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<v Speaker 2>Usually my hair is usually like very short, and I've

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<v Speaker 2>been we've been retreating a lot this year, so it's

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<v Speaker 2>been in braids and so I mistakenly grew it out.

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<v Speaker 1>This was not the plan and now it's this length

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<v Speaker 1>and I kind of hate it. I look like a secretary.

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<v Speaker 1>No you don't, but you know whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>And I tell my hair She's like, I'm gonna cut off.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, no, you're not. I was like, yes, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>cutting it. After I go to BALI no, I was like, bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>who is the boss here?

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<v Speaker 5>They own your hair?

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<v Speaker 2>And well she kind of does. I've been finding her

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<v Speaker 2>for twenty five years and she's white. Shout out to

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<v Speaker 2>Cody cuts, my white hair dresser. Every time I tell

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, cuts it up. Cody cuts it up with

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<v Speaker 2>a K and a t cot. But every time I

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<v Speaker 2>tell someone that my hair dress is white, they're like really,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I know, right, she has a.

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<v Speaker 1>Black soul cut it up?

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<v Speaker 2>Does all of her clients are black? Because yeah, because

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<v Speaker 2>she knows what she's doing.

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<v Speaker 1>She grew up here in theod Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So if you, if you guys, ever had any

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<v Speaker 2>second thoughts about having a white hairdresser, it does.

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<v Speaker 1>It can work very rarely, very rarely.

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<v Speaker 2>But if it's Cody, I might have found like the

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<v Speaker 2>only white hair dresser in the Los Angeles area doing

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<v Speaker 2>black hair.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, in the valley, you gotta do what you gotta do.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys have been you guys always lived in the valley.

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<v Speaker 1>She's been a valley here.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, most of my time here.

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<v Speaker 1>You like it.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a no ho ho.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a no ho ho too. Would you go back

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<v Speaker 2>to Detroit like to visit?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>And you said you're from Dallas. You go back to

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<v Speaker 2>Dallas often, not often? And you just had a baby, right,

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<v Speaker 2>I did. How did your baby?

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<v Speaker 1>She's eleven months, she's almost a year old. How did

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<v Speaker 1>you How was your birth? Uh? Was horrific, awful, zero ten.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't want to do it again. But my sea sectional

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<v Speaker 1>see section.

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<v Speaker 6>I tried to do vaginal, but she just didn't want

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<v Speaker 6>to come out, so I had.

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<v Speaker 1>To go get induced.

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<v Speaker 6>They did the balloon. They broke my water like fittanyl.

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<v Speaker 6>They yeah, they give you like.

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<v Speaker 1>A micro dose of fitanyl. What is that supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>do open you up? No, it's supposed to help from

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<v Speaker 1>the pain of I think breaking your water or this

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<v Speaker 1>like balloon that they like, stay, I did the balloon.

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<v Speaker 1>They did the balloon to me too. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>there's like a balloon. This is the weirdest thing.

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<v Speaker 2>They put it in your pussy and then they fill

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<v Speaker 2>it and they're hoping that you open up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that you'll dilate.

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<v Speaker 2>That sounds like the most ridiculous procedure. There's like a

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<v Speaker 2>dumb doctor like, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>We could do I got it.

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<v Speaker 2>I gonna see a clown like.

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<v Speaker 3>A man, right like.

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<v Speaker 6>So, yeah, you didn't dilate either, What I didn't? Okay, No,

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<v Speaker 6>mine didn't. Whenever my time comes. So how long were

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<v Speaker 6>you in labor? Forty eight hours? Yeah, forty eight hours.

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<v Speaker 6>Potosin didn't work past four centimeter the same girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you eventually get the epidural?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I did, because we thought, okay, this baby's coming out,

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<v Speaker 6>like I wasn't giving the epidural, let's do the pot

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<v Speaker 6>let's do it all.

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<v Speaker 1>And then they were like, no, it didn't work. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>I could still feel the c section, the scar, no

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<v Speaker 1>cut you open, like the pressure was immense and screaming

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<v Speaker 1>on the table, and the anesthesiologists was just like pressure

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<v Speaker 1>is normal, and I'm screaming welcome to being black in

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<v Speaker 1>the hospital. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, so it really hurt. I can feel it,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like a little pressure is the pressure or pain?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know the difference. Yeah, I felt like a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Grand Piano was on top of me. Yes, yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>then being like ripped out of you and put back

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<v Speaker 1>and then ripped out. Yeah. It was horrific. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I I am sorry that So because of that, you're

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<v Speaker 3>you're good?

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<v Speaker 1>Or do you think I will? Probably?

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<v Speaker 6>But right after I was like, I do not want

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<v Speaker 6>to do this. I get why bitches get surrogates.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. How do you feel?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I'm like I can't, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if I'm with the surrogate, like it's one thing

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<v Speaker 2>and maybe you absolutely can't, but just for like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have time this week.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, for that, I'm like real time.

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<v Speaker 1>But the pain, maybe I do get it.

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<v Speaker 2>It'll probably be easier your second time, when you know more,

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<v Speaker 2>You'll you'll be more informed, That's what I'm hoping, and

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<v Speaker 2>then you can just do it at the house or

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<v Speaker 2>or you know, I just never go to the hospital.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll never put that balloon in my pussy.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my, and like checking how dilated you are? Hurt

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<v Speaker 6>so much too, Like they just come.

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<v Speaker 2>In and just put their fingers inside of you every

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<v Speaker 2>fucking twenty minutes, like you're a goddamn pinned hate it.

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<v Speaker 1>I really love my dog. Really, yeah, I think we'll

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to Welcome to the mom tribe.

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<v Speaker 6>You would have kids too, that's yeah, But I want

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<v Speaker 6>to like start and then don't stop, like once I start,

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<v Speaker 6>like until I'm finished.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to have that? Are you in a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with you both are? Do you want to have kids?

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<v Speaker 1>Like writing now? No? No, no, I need a million dollars,

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<v Speaker 1>got to get to get it a million dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>One time me and Erica once said when we first

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<v Speaker 2>started our podcast eight years ago, that we were gonna

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<v Speaker 2>refrain from having sex until we made a million dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>It wouldn't have been like five years.

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<v Speaker 7>But we.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't do it.

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<v Speaker 3>It was probably gonna take a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn. We would have been not fucked for like five years. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but we did it. We did do it. We did

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<v Speaker 1>do it.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm gonna have a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>One fucked all the way along the way. Maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why I thought.

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<v Speaker 3>That was a great idea.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, let's just not have sex energy I sell

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<v Speaker 2>it for two weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I know forever you know.

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<v Speaker 7>So who broke it first?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably her? Probably. So we have a segment on our

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<v Speaker 1>show called bad Choices Bad Choice of the Week. Do

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<v Speaker 1>any of you ladies have a bad choice that you

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<v Speaker 1>made this week? Bad mom?

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<v Speaker 8>Not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

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<v Speaker 7>So how bad should it be?

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<v Speaker 1>Well? Bad could be bad meaning good good for you,

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<v Speaker 1>bad for something out for somebody else, the actually just

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<v Speaker 1>or just bad, just bad, fucked up choice.

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<v Speaker 6>My husband is Jewish, so I told him I would

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<v Speaker 6>participate in.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hungry Are your technology free?

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<v Speaker 6>To and like no, I'm like, I'm like whatever, it's

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<v Speaker 6>called like a little bit on it off of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but wait, are you I'm not Jewish, but are

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<v Speaker 1>you going to cross over? No, he's not requesting that.

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<v Speaker 6>He's not super religious. He's a liberal one. He just

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<v Speaker 6>does the fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Stuff like starving starving.

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<v Speaker 5>He likes the spirituality of it.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like a tradition.

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<v Speaker 6>Like yeah, like a lot of Jewish people are like

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<v Speaker 6>either orthodox they go buy everything by the book, or

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<v Speaker 6>like they just do the traditions.

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<v Speaker 5>Like a turnip Jew. I guess because.

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<v Speaker 1>The Jews do turn up. I do, you know, I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up.

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<v Speaker 2>We grew up in the valley, so we grew up.

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<v Speaker 2>I grew up with a lot of young Kipors and

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<v Speaker 2>Russia Channa. Yeah, Friday Chabbots. And I will say I

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<v Speaker 2>can adopt the Shabbat. I want to eat good dinner

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<v Speaker 2>every Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm gonna just buffet all the religions. I'm not religious,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'll take Shabbot. I'll take you STOs exactly that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take a.

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<v Speaker 2>Couple of things, just a little bit from here. What's

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<v Speaker 2>your religion. I'm a buffet exactly religion.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna start saying.

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<v Speaker 2>That buffet buff commnitate with me. I'll tell you a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit about it.

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<v Speaker 7>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my bad decision. I'm regretting it right now. Okay, over,

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<v Speaker 1>we're supposed to eat tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 6>We're supposed to eat tonight, but also we ate too

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<v Speaker 6>late yesterday, so you're supposed to eat after your were

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<v Speaker 6>done eating the day.

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<v Speaker 1>Before twenty four hours. Yeah exactly, Yeah, I got it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, thirty months after that or whatever, so we didn't

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<v Speaker 6>stop or like, we had dinner late like nine or something, so.

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<v Speaker 2>You have until ten basically, yeah, Okay, have terrible decisions,

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<v Speaker 2>are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Guys only been married.

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<v Speaker 6>For like a year and a half.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have the whole like big wedding situation. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we went to Mali.

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<v Speaker 7>You had the best wedding.

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<v Speaker 6>It was just like small our best friends, her and

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<v Speaker 6>her partner, and then his best friend and his partner.

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<v Speaker 2>As your husband, best friends with your partner. Okay, butt along, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was a five person wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>Six Yes, it's nice, beautiful.

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<v Speaker 6>And b it was amazing. I didn't want a big wedding.

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<v Speaker 6>He's more like extraverted. He did want a big wedding,

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<v Speaker 6>and you know, Jewish weddings were like huge, like there

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<v Speaker 6>a thousand people.

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<v Speaker 7>I was relieved because I.

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<v Speaker 5>Didn't want to plan anything or like do anything. I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, this is great.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have a bachelorette? No? No, no, no one

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<v Speaker 1>one last time. No. We see each other all the time.

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<v Speaker 6>It's just been hurt anyway, drinking out of a penis,

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<v Speaker 6>but we do that anyway, right, nothing new here.

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<v Speaker 2>How has it been being in business and like being

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<v Speaker 2>in a group like business partnership and friendship? How has

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<v Speaker 2>that worked for you guys? Like, that's not always an

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<v Speaker 2>easy thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it worked out for.

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<v Speaker 6>Us, thankfully. It's pretty good. We'rely good about each other boundaries.

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<v Speaker 1>How long have you guys been doing music together?

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<v Speaker 5>Six years?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow?

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<v Speaker 6>And she like she had showed me her stuff and

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<v Speaker 6>I was listening to it after I got back from Sweden.

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<v Speaker 6>I was listening to it, and I was like, we

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<v Speaker 6>should do this together. And so I kind of pressured

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<v Speaker 6>her into this and.

0:25:15.760 --> 0:25:22.240
<v Speaker 1>Forced yourself into her group. We need to do this

0:25:22.280 --> 0:25:23.240
<v Speaker 1>together exactly.

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<v Speaker 6>I always loved her, So I was like, because we

0:25:25.880 --> 0:25:28.320
<v Speaker 6>weren't best friends yet we like became best friends over

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<v Speaker 6>are shy, But I was like, I love her and

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<v Speaker 6>I adore her.

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<v Speaker 7>She's very dope.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll give it a shot, and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like, let's do it. And now it's the best

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<v Speaker 1>decision ever.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it was a great decision.

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<v Speaker 2>What was your what were your solo names when you're

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<v Speaker 2>a solo artist?

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<v Speaker 1>Falyan okay, I mean Falyans is like that's pretty fly.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you said that your your name is Nigerian. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you grow up in a traditionally Nigerian householder?

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<v Speaker 6>Like yeah, like traditionally Pan African Nigerian Jason m.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard you say that your dad was not that

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<v Speaker 1>supportive of the type of music that you're doing now,

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<v Speaker 1>but he was supportive of you doing music. Yeah, he was.

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<v Speaker 6>He's like a nomad artist himself as well, Like he

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<v Speaker 6>did jewelry making and stuff, singing, dancing, all those things too.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's a bubble lao. It was like a religious

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<v Speaker 1>like a yeah African religious thing anyway. So he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>me to do that.

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<v Speaker 6>You didn't want me to like be up there rapp

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<v Speaker 6>into Jay Dilla and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>She was doing boom I was like a boom back rapper,

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<v Speaker 1>but he didn't want me to do that. What's a

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<v Speaker 1>boom ba? J Dilla common like woke, like the backbeat back?

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<v Speaker 1>What about you? What has been your journey with with

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<v Speaker 1>your artistry and how you grew up?

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<v Speaker 5>I grabbed this sooner? Did you ask me this?

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<v Speaker 6>My parents are big music fans. All my family loves me.

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<v Speaker 6>Nobody did it. I didn't know if you could do it,

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<v Speaker 6>and then I figured out you can actually make music.

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<v Speaker 6>And I started making it when I was like fifteen mm. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>and not just like finding my way figuring it out.

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<v Speaker 6>But yeah, my parents are pretty supportive. Like my dad's like, girl,

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<v Speaker 6>you say crazy stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and she worked at the Motown Museum.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh she knows every single fact about Motown and music

0:27:24.640 --> 0:27:25.040
<v Speaker 6>in general.

0:27:25.320 --> 0:27:25.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm a little rusty now, but yeah, I worked

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<v Speaker 6>at the Motol Museum as my first job.

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<v Speaker 1>That's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're telling the future. You knew you're gonna be

0:27:34.119 --> 0:27:35.160
<v Speaker 2>here in the front seat.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't.

0:27:38.240 --> 0:27:39.960
<v Speaker 1>I was listening to your Sothy and meet over were

0:27:39.960 --> 0:27:43.080
<v Speaker 1>listening to your new single that's coming out on Halloween

0:27:43.920 --> 0:27:46.800
<v Speaker 1>called try Me. I love your style. You guys like

0:27:46.800 --> 0:27:51.720
<v Speaker 1>are like a bridge between like like hip hop, rock,

0:27:52.720 --> 0:27:56.120
<v Speaker 1>like punk, R and B. Like what would you like?

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<v Speaker 8>What?

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<v Speaker 1>John?

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<v Speaker 8>I mean?

0:27:56.960 --> 0:27:59.840
<v Speaker 1>I think you're like genre crossing, but like what genres

0:27:59.880 --> 0:28:02.160
<v Speaker 1>we you say, like your style falls under.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we're like all black girl Yeah like pop pop, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>hip hop, hip hop?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you already shot a music video yet? Just you know,

0:28:12.160 --> 0:28:15.720
<v Speaker 1>Miila and I are top notch video hosts, are you seriously?

0:28:15.720 --> 0:28:19.200
<v Speaker 1>We have been in about seven music videos. So if

0:28:19.240 --> 0:28:22.879
<v Speaker 1>you need a music video, ho for hire. Okay, if

0:28:22.880 --> 0:28:26.440
<v Speaker 1>you want a host, No, We've been featured in Duran

0:28:26.480 --> 0:28:31.640
<v Speaker 1>Bernard's videos. We've been featured in Jessica Rose's music videos.

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<v Speaker 1>What are the new.

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<v Speaker 2>Videos, Melanie Fiona, We're like a duo music video like

0:28:38.240 --> 0:28:40.560
<v Speaker 2>collective thing that is going on, So just throwing it

0:28:40.560 --> 0:28:40.880
<v Speaker 2>out there.

0:28:42.200 --> 0:28:43.600
<v Speaker 1>We haven't seen her dance moves yet.

0:28:44.240 --> 0:28:46.840
<v Speaker 5>We right around the street, we write down we're shooting.

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<v Speaker 2>My daughter would be very proud like so today, Yes,

0:28:53.840 --> 0:28:56.280
<v Speaker 2>late late in life video hosts, but we're still doing

0:28:56.320 --> 0:28:57.800
<v Speaker 2>Its never too late.

0:28:57.680 --> 0:29:01.800
<v Speaker 1>To be video. I know how how challenging it can

0:29:01.840 --> 0:29:04.760
<v Speaker 1>be to be an artist and just be independent artist.

0:29:04.800 --> 0:29:07.120
<v Speaker 1>Are you guys independent artists? That's what I thought. Me

0:29:07.120 --> 0:29:10.080
<v Speaker 1>and Mila were independent podcasters for many, many years until

0:29:10.080 --> 0:29:13.040
<v Speaker 1>we signed to Black Effect. Our family at Black Effect,

0:29:13.040 --> 0:29:17.120
<v Speaker 1>ihearty five year anniversary, What do you think is like

0:29:17.640 --> 0:29:21.040
<v Speaker 1>been the biggest challenge being independent? And then like what

0:29:21.080 --> 0:29:24.240
<v Speaker 1>has been like the best part about being independent?

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<v Speaker 6>The best part about being independent is that we don't

0:29:28.520 --> 0:29:31.320
<v Speaker 6>have to like show ship to a label or like

0:29:31.320 --> 0:29:33.920
<v Speaker 6>to an A and R, and they don't have to

0:29:34.440 --> 0:29:35.800
<v Speaker 6>like micromanage or like.

0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:36.720
<v Speaker 5>Cut it on our ship.

0:29:36.800 --> 0:29:40.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly, cut us into pieces and then dissect that

0:29:40.160 --> 0:29:40.960
<v Speaker 1>and then analyze it.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>The worst part is it's expensive. Yeah, everything costs.

0:29:46.560 --> 0:29:51.160
<v Speaker 1>So god damn much, everything, everything, especially in La.

0:29:51.440 --> 0:29:51.640
<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but likely you have a producer who's allso your husband. Yes,

0:29:54.960 --> 0:29:56.680
<v Speaker 2>that's cutting down a little bit of cost.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yeah, that's that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>That's ful.

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<v Speaker 5>He comes in a lot of it on the back end.

0:30:02.480 --> 0:30:06.720
<v Speaker 1>He's like, I got the back end. I got him

0:30:06.720 --> 0:30:07.320
<v Speaker 1>on the back end.

0:30:07.600 --> 0:30:09.600
<v Speaker 5>She really did a big one with that one.

0:30:10.520 --> 0:30:13.840
<v Speaker 1>You know what. That's that's that's not talked about enough.

0:30:13.880 --> 0:30:15.920
<v Speaker 2>Like when you have like a we call my man

0:30:16.000 --> 0:30:17.800
<v Speaker 2>the tribe husband, and when he shows up for like

0:30:17.840 --> 0:30:20.600
<v Speaker 2>the whole tribe, like teaches the kids to ride bikes,

0:30:20.600 --> 0:30:22.960
<v Speaker 2>he cooks for us. But then like when it's time

0:30:23.040 --> 0:30:25.640
<v Speaker 2>to repay, make the payment back, you got it's me.

0:30:26.600 --> 0:30:29.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm an independent label, Like I've got to do it

0:30:29.840 --> 0:30:30.560
<v Speaker 1>brick by brick.

0:30:30.920 --> 0:30:35.800
<v Speaker 9>Yeah, a bike riding last week, I got a ride

0:30:35.800 --> 0:30:41.880
<v Speaker 9>bike teaching.

0:30:42.200 --> 0:30:46.600
<v Speaker 2>This is gonna trump too many fucking friends. You gotta

0:30:46.600 --> 0:30:47.800
<v Speaker 2>pay back something his favors.

0:30:48.760 --> 0:30:49.680
<v Speaker 5>Somebody's got to do it.

0:30:51.880 --> 0:30:52.520
<v Speaker 3>I understand.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand where you're coming from. Oh my goodness, And

0:30:59.400 --> 0:31:01.040
<v Speaker 2>how's your partner or with the scene in music or

0:31:01.040 --> 0:31:01.880
<v Speaker 2>what is how is that?

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<v Speaker 6>He's an actor and screenwriter but he also coaches kids basketball.

0:31:06.840 --> 0:31:09.360
<v Speaker 5>Oh nice, But he came on tour with us.

0:31:09.120 --> 0:31:12.400
<v Speaker 6>And shot footage because somebody had to get up there

0:31:12.520 --> 0:31:14.440
<v Speaker 6>and let's make this money family affair.

0:31:14.640 --> 0:31:16.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we need the footage exactly.

0:31:16.600 --> 0:31:20.800
<v Speaker 6>We opened up for Gene Moo name the Most Amazing Dreams.

0:31:20.840 --> 0:31:22.760
<v Speaker 6>But yeah, you can see him on stage. He's like there,

0:31:22.800 --> 0:31:25.760
<v Speaker 6>he's like six two and like lanky soth's there with

0:31:25.800 --> 0:31:27.160
<v Speaker 6>the camera bending down.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, okay, make sure you can invite us to the

0:31:31.120 --> 0:31:32.680
<v Speaker 2>Jenelle Money's Halloween party.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

0:31:33.720 --> 0:31:36.480
<v Speaker 2>We're usually usually sneaking and we get him. We have

0:31:36.600 --> 0:31:37.760
<v Speaker 2>him with a friend of a friend.

0:31:37.760 --> 0:31:40.760
<v Speaker 1>But now that we know you guys, yeah, we're gonna you.

0:31:40.760 --> 0:31:42.800
<v Speaker 5>Probably can use our names if you.

0:31:44.800 --> 0:31:51.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly, I'm flying. Yes, it's like, okay, she's at home.

0:31:51.360 --> 0:31:53.280
<v Speaker 1>Other baby, she's not gonna mind. Don't wry.

0:31:54.440 --> 0:31:56.840
<v Speaker 6>But no, her Halloween parties are epic. Yeah, it's so good,

0:31:56.880 --> 0:31:58.160
<v Speaker 6>like she goes all out. I know.

0:31:58.280 --> 0:32:00.320
<v Speaker 1>I love you guys Halloween, but just like we are.

0:32:00.640 --> 0:32:03.560
<v Speaker 1>Is that your what's your favorite holiday? Hmm?

0:32:04.200 --> 0:32:07.440
<v Speaker 6>I like New Year's real because it's like a fresh start.

0:32:08.400 --> 0:32:12.800
<v Speaker 1>Thanksgiving I think, what? What the what? In the colonizer,

0:32:13.040 --> 0:32:19.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm from the South California. We call it indigenous people stay.

0:32:19.440 --> 0:32:25.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm from Dallas, tex And people love Thanksgiving. Put that

0:32:25.280 --> 0:32:27.560
<v Speaker 1>spread out my smoke.

0:32:27.400 --> 0:32:31.880
<v Speaker 2>A joint dressing or stuffing dressing that's down south.

0:32:31.960 --> 0:32:34.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's the same ship. But I love do you say?

0:32:35.240 --> 0:32:37.600
<v Speaker 2>I say stuffing because I'm from a l A l

0:32:37.640 --> 0:32:40.120
<v Speaker 2>A thing, But also like why don't we eat.

0:32:39.960 --> 0:32:42.640
<v Speaker 3>Stuffing all year around? Like why do we have to

0:32:42.680 --> 0:32:43.440
<v Speaker 3>wait for the holiday.

0:32:43.680 --> 0:32:45.719
<v Speaker 5>My mom makes him good dressing.

0:32:45.960 --> 0:32:47.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't want it all year round?

0:32:47.480 --> 0:32:48.120
<v Speaker 3>I do.

0:32:48.320 --> 0:32:50.959
<v Speaker 1>I don't either. I want it on Thanksgiving.

0:32:52.000 --> 0:32:54.920
<v Speaker 2>For me. I will make it myself because we are

0:32:54.960 --> 0:32:57.800
<v Speaker 2>not leaving Thanksgiving Day without this god damn stuffing that

0:32:57.800 --> 0:32:59.000
<v Speaker 2>I've waited eleven and.

0:32:59.000 --> 0:33:02.040
<v Speaker 1>A half months for you mean Indigenous People's Day. Indigenous

0:33:02.040 --> 0:33:03.239
<v Speaker 1>People shout out to them.

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<v Speaker 6>We support all, it, says the coordinates.

0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:14.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love Indigenous People's Dame love food.

0:33:15.120 --> 0:33:16.960
<v Speaker 2>I guess when you dress up every day, Halloween is

0:33:17.000 --> 0:33:19.440
<v Speaker 2>not your like, doesn't have to be your favorite Halloween.

0:33:19.120 --> 0:33:19.400
<v Speaker 1>Enjoy it.

0:33:20.000 --> 0:33:21.720
<v Speaker 5>But yeah, we like to dress up no matter what.

0:33:22.120 --> 0:33:22.400
<v Speaker 5>Were not.

0:33:22.560 --> 0:33:23.600
<v Speaker 3>I think I'm gonna adopt that.

0:33:23.680 --> 0:33:25.200
<v Speaker 2>I think I'm gonna take a page out of you

0:33:25.200 --> 0:33:27.880
<v Speaker 2>guys's book, and I'm not gonna wait until I mean,

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:30.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna wait to the week of Halloween to

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:31.400
<v Speaker 2>do it all year long.

0:33:31.480 --> 0:33:34.800
<v Speaker 5>Okay, you must express Yeah.

0:33:34.720 --> 0:33:36.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm feeling feline. I mean I had to wear my

0:33:36.680 --> 0:33:39.160
<v Speaker 2>ears on a regular basis. I saw the little bitches

0:33:39.160 --> 0:33:40.360
<v Speaker 2>in high school doing it. I was like, oh, I

0:33:40.360 --> 0:33:41.600
<v Speaker 2>could do it too, and you can.

0:33:42.640 --> 0:33:43.120
<v Speaker 3>And then I.

0:33:43.040 --> 0:33:49.440
<v Speaker 1>Also got some motorized fairy wings. Yes they were going like.

0:33:51.040 --> 0:33:51.640
<v Speaker 7>That's fun.

0:33:51.960 --> 0:33:53.720
<v Speaker 3>But I was knocking people over.

0:33:53.760 --> 0:33:56.880
<v Speaker 6>But I loved every seconds. Sometimes I wear them and yeah,

0:33:56.880 --> 0:34:00.760
<v Speaker 6>you'd just be knocking. Sorry, you have to stop caring

0:34:00.760 --> 0:34:01.880
<v Speaker 6>after a while. I don't say sorry.

0:34:02.280 --> 0:34:03.000
<v Speaker 1>Fairy doesn't care.

0:34:03.080 --> 0:34:04.160
<v Speaker 3>Fairies don't apologize.

0:34:04.240 --> 0:34:08.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sure, I don't care over, just keep walking.

0:34:08.600 --> 0:34:09.320
<v Speaker 5>You're a mission.

0:34:10.200 --> 0:34:12.920
<v Speaker 1>Now, you're a mission, ladies.

0:34:12.920 --> 0:34:16.080
<v Speaker 2>We usually play a game called trigger, so basically like,

0:34:16.120 --> 0:34:17.959
<v Speaker 2>well you hear these press on nails, bitch?

0:34:17.960 --> 0:34:18.359
<v Speaker 1>Shut up?

0:34:19.560 --> 0:34:25.279
<v Speaker 5>Oh shut up, press on too.

0:34:26.080 --> 0:34:30.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm on my non toxic journey and I have taken

0:34:30.040 --> 0:34:33.919
<v Speaker 1>off my gels and I've put the press ons. And

0:34:34.280 --> 0:34:36.319
<v Speaker 1>I've had these press ons on for three weeks. If

0:34:36.320 --> 0:34:38.600
<v Speaker 1>you've been watching this, you've been watching us for three weeks.

0:34:38.640 --> 0:34:41.680
<v Speaker 1>We've been recording these lives. Okay, this is these are.

0:34:42.239 --> 0:34:43.239
<v Speaker 3>Days before they come out.

0:34:43.320 --> 0:34:47.320
<v Speaker 1>So I have had the same ones on since I

0:34:47.320 --> 0:34:53.280
<v Speaker 1>started my non toxic journey, and the pinkiest fucking come off, okay,

0:34:53.920 --> 0:34:56.160
<v Speaker 1>and I've literally I'm trying not to rip them off. Today.

0:34:56.160 --> 0:34:57.799
<v Speaker 1>I have to go to the drug store and get

0:34:57.840 --> 0:35:01.480
<v Speaker 1>some acid tone and so pinkies in there because it's

0:35:01.520 --> 0:35:06.920
<v Speaker 1>just spinky. The brand is the brand, Impress, this is

0:35:07.320 --> 0:35:09.200
<v Speaker 1>no this is lamine.

0:35:09.680 --> 0:35:12.560
<v Speaker 5>Oh I like, Oh so it's glue.

0:35:12.840 --> 0:35:15.239
<v Speaker 1>Yes, they have the they have the sticker ones. Yeah,

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:17.719
<v Speaker 1>I didn't think those were gonna last. Not those things

0:35:17.760 --> 0:35:20.920
<v Speaker 1>the best you'll ever in your life. Impress, y'all need

0:35:20.960 --> 0:35:23.440
<v Speaker 1>to pay I've seen impressss. They come with the sticker

0:35:23.440 --> 0:35:26.440
<v Speaker 1>already on them, so you just peel it off and

0:35:26.440 --> 0:35:30.160
<v Speaker 1>and those last for two weeks with washings and I

0:35:30.280 --> 0:35:32.840
<v Speaker 1>washed dishes all the time, but then we want to

0:35:32.840 --> 0:35:34.120
<v Speaker 1>take them off. Is a bitch.

0:35:34.320 --> 0:35:35.760
<v Speaker 5>It's way easier than the glue.

0:35:35.960 --> 0:35:37.959
<v Speaker 6>Like I've been doing that too, because the press songs

0:35:38.000 --> 0:35:39.600
<v Speaker 6>like with the glue was like tearing my nails.

0:35:40.239 --> 0:35:41.799
<v Speaker 10>Yeah, I'm like, this is what I might as well

0:35:41.840 --> 0:35:45.080
<v Speaker 10>just get the jails and exactly maybe if all like,

0:35:45.200 --> 0:35:47.279
<v Speaker 10>do we need to just like as a as a

0:35:47.320 --> 0:35:50.439
<v Speaker 10>community of women, just reject the things that we've been doing,

0:35:50.520 --> 0:35:51.919
<v Speaker 10>Like just fuck the nails.

0:35:51.920 --> 0:35:52.760
<v Speaker 3>We're not doing anymore.

0:35:52.760 --> 0:35:55.440
<v Speaker 1>You have said this literally fabulous twenty two times.

0:35:55.480 --> 0:35:58.960
<v Speaker 6>I know, with your long nails on your you're saying

0:35:59.400 --> 0:36:01.600
<v Speaker 6>that nail she's been.

0:36:01.480 --> 0:36:03.160
<v Speaker 1>Trying to grow to her armpit hair out I did.

0:36:03.280 --> 0:36:05.359
<v Speaker 1>I grew up my legs hair, my armpit hair, my

0:36:05.360 --> 0:36:05.919
<v Speaker 1>pissy hair.

0:36:06.400 --> 0:36:07.160
<v Speaker 3>I did them all.

0:36:07.280 --> 0:36:09.080
<v Speaker 1>And then I was like, this is not.

0:36:09.080 --> 0:36:11.520
<v Speaker 5>Gonna work out, do you.

0:36:11.600 --> 0:36:11.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:36:12.120 --> 0:36:14.200
<v Speaker 2>You know, I played with it, like the idea, and

0:36:14.239 --> 0:36:16.280
<v Speaker 2>then I was like, I'm going in public with people.

0:36:16.360 --> 0:36:19.080
<v Speaker 3>Let me even even remember back in the day, like.

0:36:19.000 --> 0:36:21.279
<v Speaker 2>I don't know how you hold your mom's are my

0:36:21.320 --> 0:36:22.920
<v Speaker 2>mom's from Philly. She used to like lay down the

0:36:23.160 --> 0:36:24.680
<v Speaker 2>like used to put the lotion and lay down the

0:36:24.719 --> 0:36:26.240
<v Speaker 2>leg hair and it looked like nice.

0:36:26.560 --> 0:36:28.560
<v Speaker 5>Oh I don't know about that trend.

0:36:28.760 --> 0:36:33.759
<v Speaker 1>My hair wasn't laying down. It was just like laying

0:36:33.760 --> 0:36:38.680
<v Speaker 1>down for a little Nivia shave control. When it was

0:36:38.760 --> 0:36:42.319
<v Speaker 1>laid down, it looked cute. Maybe that's the creation like.

0:36:42.280 --> 0:36:46.520
<v Speaker 2>Age control, like a thick thing leg shake shake control.

0:36:46.640 --> 0:36:49.200
<v Speaker 1>We can make some trend. I'm telling you that people

0:36:49.200 --> 0:36:49.680
<v Speaker 1>would do it.

0:36:50.000 --> 0:36:50.880
<v Speaker 3>I'm kind of with it.

0:36:51.000 --> 0:36:54.799
<v Speaker 2>I've been lasering viral and TikTok bringing back leg hair.

0:36:55.360 --> 0:36:57.160
<v Speaker 1>She lasers everything on her body.

0:36:57.280 --> 0:36:58.759
<v Speaker 5>I was from the belly button down.

0:36:59.440 --> 0:37:01.399
<v Speaker 2>I was going to enjoying laser because my homegirl works

0:37:01.400 --> 0:37:02.799
<v Speaker 2>at a laser place, and she said, if you just

0:37:02.840 --> 0:37:04.280
<v Speaker 2>book legs, I'll do everything.

0:37:05.000 --> 0:37:07.840
<v Speaker 1>So I was like, I want to. I don't know.

0:37:07.800 --> 0:37:11.360
<v Speaker 5>I don't believe.

0:37:12.920 --> 0:37:16.960
<v Speaker 1>You're fired. You know what. I already did laser and

0:37:16.960 --> 0:37:18.400
<v Speaker 1>then all grew back. So I'm.

0:37:19.880 --> 0:37:20.799
<v Speaker 5>How long did you do it for?

0:37:21.440 --> 0:37:23.400
<v Speaker 1>I did like eight sessions and it was gone. But

0:37:23.440 --> 0:37:25.000
<v Speaker 1>then I had a baby and then it all came back.

0:37:25.120 --> 0:37:28.400
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, but I'm.

0:37:28.239 --> 0:37:30.440
<v Speaker 5>Like, I'm on twelve sessions, so I'm gonna keep going.

0:37:30.280 --> 0:37:33.880
<v Speaker 1>To But I will say that the texture changed it's better,

0:37:33.960 --> 0:37:35.759
<v Speaker 1>so now it's more manageable. So I don't even really

0:37:35.840 --> 0:37:37.480
<v Speaker 1>need to do laser. I don't get ingrowns like I

0:37:37.560 --> 0:37:42.800
<v Speaker 1>used to. I don't mind shaving. That's fine. I like

0:37:43.320 --> 0:37:45.160
<v Speaker 1>even when I lasered it, I was like, damn, I'm

0:37:45.200 --> 0:37:47.200
<v Speaker 1>never gonna have pussy hair. Am I pussy again?

0:37:47.320 --> 0:37:47.440
<v Speaker 8>Like?

0:37:47.880 --> 0:37:47.920
<v Speaker 6>Not?

0:37:48.920 --> 0:37:51.279
<v Speaker 1>Was I sure about this decision? I literally thought that

0:37:51.360 --> 0:37:55.839
<v Speaker 1>I like everything. I didn't keep anything, whole thing.

0:37:56.760 --> 0:37:57.960
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, something I'm grown.

0:37:58.239 --> 0:38:01.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I was also like twenty four when I did this,

0:38:01.719 --> 0:38:05.879
<v Speaker 1>twenty three, so I was going full bald one star style. Yeah.

0:38:07.000 --> 0:38:09.239
<v Speaker 2>Wait, now that there's headphones on in the main room,

0:38:09.640 --> 0:38:10.560
<v Speaker 2>what did your baby daddy?

0:38:10.640 --> 0:38:14.880
<v Speaker 1>Dude? That was Oh my god, it's stupid, but it's

0:38:14.920 --> 0:38:17.160
<v Speaker 1>it's just dumb. I don't he just you know, he's

0:38:17.160 --> 0:38:19.320
<v Speaker 1>a Gemini, so he'd be getting in weird, like sometimes

0:38:19.360 --> 0:38:20.920
<v Speaker 1>he's cool, sometimes he's not. And I never know how

0:38:20.920 --> 0:38:23.879
<v Speaker 1>to read this nigga. So I took Iri to go

0:38:23.960 --> 0:38:27.719
<v Speaker 1>to Dick's Sporting Goods to get her some shoes, and

0:38:28.400 --> 0:38:30.200
<v Speaker 1>I told him I was going there. I said, hey,

0:38:30.200 --> 0:38:33.160
<v Speaker 1>can you please send some money? Says to pay for

0:38:33.160 --> 0:38:35.000
<v Speaker 1>the shoes, So of course he sends it to her. Whatever.

0:38:35.000 --> 0:38:37.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't give a fuck, I don't care who you

0:38:37.360 --> 0:38:39.719
<v Speaker 1>send it. Yes, yes, so let me get there. And

0:38:39.760 --> 0:38:42.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, she's going anymore. This is not enough. So

0:38:42.239 --> 0:38:45.040
<v Speaker 1>then I was like, hey, can you send more money?

0:38:45.080 --> 0:38:47.040
<v Speaker 1>Like we need more money? And he was just like

0:38:48.040 --> 0:38:49.640
<v Speaker 1>I sent her money and I was like it's not

0:38:49.760 --> 0:38:52.799
<v Speaker 1>enough and he was like, okay, well i'll send it

0:38:52.800 --> 0:38:54.839
<v Speaker 1>to you later. And I was like, okay, cool. So

0:38:54.880 --> 0:38:57.319
<v Speaker 1>then I sent a screenshot of what I spent and

0:38:57.360 --> 0:38:59.399
<v Speaker 1>then he sent it to Iri and I'm like, why

0:38:59.440 --> 0:39:02.480
<v Speaker 1>the fuck are you sending this to Iri? It's my money?

0:39:03.160 --> 0:39:05.120
<v Speaker 1>Like why are you? Like what the fuck are you doing?

0:39:05.200 --> 0:39:06.719
<v Speaker 1>And so then I texted him. I was like I

0:39:06.719 --> 0:39:08.959
<v Speaker 1>didn't even say why. I just said, did you send

0:39:08.960 --> 0:39:10.880
<v Speaker 1>the money to Iri? I was like, can you you

0:39:10.920 --> 0:39:12.840
<v Speaker 1>need to send it to me? It was there confusion,

0:39:12.920 --> 0:39:14.799
<v Speaker 1>and he was like no, and I was just.

0:39:14.719 --> 0:39:16.600
<v Speaker 2>Like, she's not paying any bills over here.

0:39:16.760 --> 0:39:18.640
<v Speaker 1>He's like. I was like, I'm the one spending the money.

0:39:18.680 --> 0:39:19.879
<v Speaker 1>He's like, no, I'm the one spaying the money.

0:39:19.880 --> 0:39:22.279
<v Speaker 6>I'm like, okay, well she didn't knock it out give

0:39:22.320 --> 0:39:22.759
<v Speaker 6>me that bag.

0:39:23.760 --> 0:39:26.400
<v Speaker 1>You bad choice of the days for you to be.

0:39:27.440 --> 0:39:30.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna take IRI's phone and I'm gonna fucking send

0:39:30.160 --> 0:39:33.400
<v Speaker 1>that money to my fucking self and now. But then

0:39:33.440 --> 0:39:34.719
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my god, then she's gonna be like,

0:39:34.719 --> 0:39:39.719
<v Speaker 1>my mom stole my money. No, it's the shoes you

0:39:39.719 --> 0:39:42.120
<v Speaker 1>saw me pay for. She knew that he was. She

0:39:42.160 --> 0:39:43.399
<v Speaker 1>knew that he was also to send me some money

0:39:43.400 --> 0:39:44.600
<v Speaker 1>because she was like, you wanted to ask him to

0:39:44.600 --> 0:39:46.080
<v Speaker 1>send more. And then I was like, no, it's cool.

0:39:46.080 --> 0:39:47.960
<v Speaker 1>He said he's gonna send it, and then he sent

0:39:48.000 --> 0:39:49.680
<v Speaker 1>it to her and he called her in the car.

0:39:49.719 --> 0:39:51.600
<v Speaker 1>I was like, hey baby, and then I couldn't hear

0:39:51.640 --> 0:39:53.480
<v Speaker 1>what he said, and she's like, okay, thank you, love you,

0:39:53.880 --> 0:39:56.080
<v Speaker 1>And that's what I realized. I was like, thank you.

0:39:56.120 --> 0:40:01.160
<v Speaker 2>Who right, money, It's an opportunity to learn the term reimbursement.

0:40:02.760 --> 0:40:06.360
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you what reimburse me? Okay, Okay, I

0:40:06.480 --> 0:40:06.839
<v Speaker 1>like that.

0:40:06.920 --> 0:40:10.120
<v Speaker 2>I like that, okay because if someone pays for something,

0:40:10.120 --> 0:40:13.279
<v Speaker 2>you have to reimburse them. And because I paid, I'm

0:40:13.280 --> 0:40:14.400
<v Speaker 2>the one getting reimbursed.

0:40:14.520 --> 0:40:24.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah spelled our eyes Yeah, No, it's just it's just dumb, stupid.

0:40:24.680 --> 0:40:29.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know the best part about like because we've

0:40:29.160 --> 0:40:31.239
<v Speaker 2>been in this for a long time. We started at

0:40:31.280 --> 0:40:34.000
<v Speaker 2>the very beginning where like our kids, we were just getting

0:40:34.000 --> 0:40:36.880
<v Speaker 2>out of relationships with their kids' dads, and it's just

0:40:36.920 --> 0:40:39.440
<v Speaker 2>really nice to see like the growth and just like

0:40:39.560 --> 0:40:42.920
<v Speaker 2>the lack of like the control you don't have over me,

0:40:43.080 --> 0:40:45.640
<v Speaker 2>Like your emotions are less tied. You can laugh about

0:40:45.640 --> 0:40:48.239
<v Speaker 2>ship that used to like boil you, and now I'm

0:40:48.320 --> 0:40:50.760
<v Speaker 2>just like, God, this would have never worked out between

0:40:50.840 --> 0:40:52.040
<v Speaker 2>us when this stuck.

0:40:52.160 --> 0:40:54.839
<v Speaker 1>Was I thinking, you know, it's like such an easeful one.

0:40:54.880 --> 0:40:57.919
<v Speaker 2>You can be like whatever niggat I have to deal

0:40:57.960 --> 0:41:01.920
<v Speaker 2>with you. It's such a beautiful Like I know everyone says, uh,

0:41:02.120 --> 0:41:05.120
<v Speaker 2>time heals the baby, does it heal?

0:41:05.760 --> 0:41:09.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? No, I mean it's still annoying, but this probably

0:41:09.600 --> 0:41:12.239
<v Speaker 1>would have boiled my blood ten times more like five

0:41:12.320 --> 0:41:15.200
<v Speaker 1>years ago. But it's just like anything, it's like all

0:41:15.239 --> 0:41:17.040
<v Speaker 1>the things, like even like you're in your first year

0:41:17.200 --> 0:41:19.400
<v Speaker 1>of mothering right now, and I don't know, how how

0:41:19.440 --> 0:41:21.880
<v Speaker 1>are you feeling? Actually, how are you doing? Are you tired?

0:41:22.000 --> 0:41:24.799
<v Speaker 1>Are you are you are you like well rested? Are

0:41:24.880 --> 0:41:28.600
<v Speaker 1>you thriving. Did you experienced a postpartum I think I

0:41:28.640 --> 0:41:31.000
<v Speaker 1>don't know, Like I've always been like an emotional person

0:41:31.000 --> 0:41:35.120
<v Speaker 1>in general, so I'm not sure like what that shows

0:41:35.160 --> 0:41:40.400
<v Speaker 1>in me now. But my husband's parents live five minutes

0:41:40.440 --> 0:41:45.040
<v Speaker 1>from us, and they're the best grandparents on the planet Earth.

0:41:45.200 --> 0:41:49.640
<v Speaker 1>So I am like, very fortunate. Did I get right try? Yeah,

0:41:49.760 --> 0:41:52.040
<v Speaker 1>like literally, they're the best. They watch her all the time,

0:41:52.200 --> 0:41:54.440
<v Speaker 1>and that's how it's supposed to be. Yeah, beautiful. I

0:41:54.440 --> 0:41:56.640
<v Speaker 1>couldn't imagine it not being that way. I probably would

0:41:56.719 --> 0:41:59.040
<v Speaker 1>like lose my mind. I was just having this conversation

0:41:59.200 --> 0:42:02.279
<v Speaker 1>yesterday with my my aunt and she was saying, like,

0:42:02.320 --> 0:42:03.640
<v Speaker 1>we need to just get a farm. I was like,

0:42:03.640 --> 0:42:05.719
<v Speaker 1>I've been trying to tell people that and I'm like,

0:42:06.560 --> 0:42:08.640
<v Speaker 1>but it's like but like you know, some people are

0:42:08.640 --> 0:42:11.520
<v Speaker 1>totally like think that that's insane, like that's and I'm like, no,

0:42:11.640 --> 0:42:14.200
<v Speaker 1>that's how That's how it was, and that's when people

0:42:14.239 --> 0:42:18.120
<v Speaker 1>were feeling better, like you know, And so I think

0:42:18.160 --> 0:42:21.399
<v Speaker 1>that it's beautiful that you're with the grandparents live so close,

0:42:21.440 --> 0:42:24.399
<v Speaker 1>because that's kind of like the same thing. Yeah. Yeah,

0:42:24.400 --> 0:42:27.040
<v Speaker 1>but these grandparents and we've talked about this You're lucky

0:42:27.040 --> 0:42:30.759
<v Speaker 1>because these modern grandparents they don't really want to like

0:42:30.840 --> 0:42:34.400
<v Speaker 1>take the kids for that one. They don't they're not

0:42:34.440 --> 0:42:41.080
<v Speaker 1>making grand they're not the old grandparents. No, they don't

0:42:41.120 --> 0:42:44.160
<v Speaker 1>make them like they got the old kind, got the

0:42:44.160 --> 0:42:44.680
<v Speaker 1>old model.

0:42:44.840 --> 0:42:47.799
<v Speaker 6>Friend of ours said that their grandparents or like their

0:42:47.800 --> 0:42:50.759
<v Speaker 6>parents watch the baby, but they don't change poop divers.

0:42:51.160 --> 0:42:55.040
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, so they don't there, So what happened.

0:42:56.880 --> 0:42:57.399
<v Speaker 5>Do you come back?

0:42:58.800 --> 0:42:59.200
<v Speaker 1>Confused?

0:42:59.200 --> 0:42:59.480
<v Speaker 6>I was just.

0:43:01.920 --> 0:43:04.680
<v Speaker 1>Fifteen minutes are under? I don't even know. He was like, yeah, oh,

0:43:04.719 --> 0:43:08.080
<v Speaker 1>we have our our parents here too and training the baby,

0:43:08.120 --> 0:43:12.360
<v Speaker 1>don't you ship? So you only go out for like

0:43:12.480 --> 0:43:13.399
<v Speaker 1>dates and come back.

0:43:13.760 --> 0:43:17.319
<v Speaker 5>I don't know that's anyway you change your baby you have.

0:43:18.719 --> 0:43:20.600
<v Speaker 1>It's because that's what you have to do if your

0:43:20.640 --> 0:43:24.799
<v Speaker 1>baby sitting. Yeah, that's included in the job. Yeah, these

0:43:24.880 --> 0:43:31.480
<v Speaker 1>new grandparents. Yeah, so hashtag blessed hashtags not hashtag blessed

0:43:31.520 --> 0:43:34.239
<v Speaker 1>especially might be God's favorite. I don't know. Yeah, that's true.

0:43:34.239 --> 0:43:36.719
<v Speaker 1>You are sounds about right because I know that if

0:43:36.760 --> 0:43:39.359
<v Speaker 1>I have another baby, and this next baby and gonna

0:43:39.360 --> 0:43:41.560
<v Speaker 1>get the same care that my first daughter did, it's

0:43:41.560 --> 0:43:43.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna be fucked up for them, actually.

0:43:43.719 --> 0:43:46.320
<v Speaker 2>But you're gonna have more time and like compassion and patient,

0:43:46.480 --> 0:43:49.080
<v Speaker 2>I think, and you're gonna like you have more.

0:43:48.960 --> 0:43:51.880
<v Speaker 1>Space, you get more clear about it. I need help.

0:43:51.920 --> 0:43:54.680
<v Speaker 1>It's not about clear hands on deck.

0:43:54.760 --> 0:43:57.560
<v Speaker 2>I was like, yeah, you realize that we have a baby,

0:43:57.800 --> 0:43:59.879
<v Speaker 2>like me and you. This is a kid right now,

0:44:00.360 --> 0:44:03.080
<v Speaker 2>they go to another family part time. I was like,

0:44:03.120 --> 0:44:03.759
<v Speaker 2>if we have a.

0:44:03.840 --> 0:44:08.120
<v Speaker 1>Kid, it's just us. This baby won't go any more.

0:44:08.520 --> 0:44:11.520
<v Speaker 2>I was like, no, breaks, are you sure you want

0:44:11.560 --> 0:44:13.360
<v Speaker 2>to do this because we have one right now. Look,

0:44:13.520 --> 0:44:15.719
<v Speaker 2>she's fine, and then she's gonna leave and then we're

0:44:15.719 --> 0:44:16.200
<v Speaker 2>gonna like her.

0:44:16.280 --> 0:44:17.000
<v Speaker 3>She gonna come back.

0:44:18.040 --> 0:44:20.279
<v Speaker 2>But it's me and you do it, just me and you,

0:44:21.440 --> 0:44:23.279
<v Speaker 2>none of this. He's like, yeah, yeah, I won't do it.

0:44:23.320 --> 0:44:26.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, okay, all right, sure, yeah.

0:44:26.160 --> 0:44:32.920
<v Speaker 1>Babysitter y try full time, but you can drop that baby.

0:44:33.000 --> 0:44:33.799
<v Speaker 3>Yeah we're going to.

0:44:34.760 --> 0:44:37.560
<v Speaker 2>But I just realized, like honestly, I was talking to

0:44:37.600 --> 0:44:39.760
<v Speaker 2>one of my friends as newly single, she just got divorced,

0:44:39.760 --> 0:44:43.680
<v Speaker 2>and she was like, honestly, having my kids, having like

0:44:44.320 --> 0:44:47.120
<v Speaker 2>a part time being a part time mom is a blessing.

0:44:47.200 --> 0:44:49.160
<v Speaker 2>I was like, matter friend was like, people are always

0:44:49.200 --> 0:44:51.200
<v Speaker 2>like feeling bad for single people. She was like, I

0:44:51.239 --> 0:44:53.880
<v Speaker 2>feel bad for not single people. I was like, I

0:44:53.920 --> 0:44:54.359
<v Speaker 2>feel you.

0:44:54.440 --> 0:44:56.720
<v Speaker 1>She's like, as a single mom, this is the best

0:44:56.880 --> 0:44:59.680
<v Speaker 1>we have that realization early on, we were like, this

0:44:59.719 --> 0:45:03.719
<v Speaker 1>is the that crows ourselves relationships.

0:45:04.920 --> 0:45:07.279
<v Speaker 2>I was like, it was crazy. I'm like, we're having

0:45:07.280 --> 0:45:09.120
<v Speaker 2>the best time. Like I still get to some time

0:45:09.200 --> 0:45:11.040
<v Speaker 2>with my kid, but then I get to drop you off.

0:45:11.080 --> 0:45:13.600
<v Speaker 2>It's also your responsibility. It's like kind of.

0:45:14.000 --> 0:45:16.600
<v Speaker 1>You guys get isolated one on one time with the

0:45:16.640 --> 0:45:17.759
<v Speaker 1>person that created you.

0:45:17.800 --> 0:45:21.760
<v Speaker 2>It's important, which doesn't sometimes happen if you're not careful

0:45:21.760 --> 0:45:24.759
<v Speaker 2>in the same household because it's just systematically the men

0:45:24.800 --> 0:45:25.160
<v Speaker 2>think like.

0:45:25.160 --> 0:45:26.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh, go to your mom, Go to your mom, go

0:45:26.640 --> 0:45:28.080
<v Speaker 1>to your mom, and then they get to like back

0:45:28.080 --> 0:45:30.000
<v Speaker 1>out but be there but not be doing shit. Yeah,

0:45:30.080 --> 0:45:31.160
<v Speaker 1>so you got to get in that ass.

0:45:31.400 --> 0:45:33.200
<v Speaker 6>I really didn't know my dad till my parents got

0:45:33.239 --> 0:45:36.480
<v Speaker 6>divorced and we started talking. I was like, really, he

0:45:36.560 --> 0:45:38.279
<v Speaker 6>was in the house, but I was just always with

0:45:38.320 --> 0:45:40.520
<v Speaker 6>my mom or he was at work. You were always

0:45:40.520 --> 0:45:43.480
<v Speaker 6>with your mom, yeah, Like we would watch our shows

0:45:43.520 --> 0:45:45.439
<v Speaker 6>and stuff, and then they got divorced and like she'd

0:45:45.440 --> 0:45:46.320
<v Speaker 6>be like, call your dad.

0:45:47.000 --> 0:45:48.120
<v Speaker 5>Then I got to know him.

0:45:48.160 --> 0:45:48.839
<v Speaker 1>It was pretty cool.

0:45:48.840 --> 0:45:50.719
<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's crazy that you had that realization.

0:45:50.760 --> 0:45:52.880
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know my dad, Like, do you think that

0:45:52.920 --> 0:45:54.040
<v Speaker 1>you were hijacking your mom?

0:45:54.840 --> 0:45:55.719
<v Speaker 5>I think he thought that.

0:45:56.719 --> 0:45:58.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm just wondering, like what that feels like, honestly, like

0:45:59.040 --> 0:46:00.680
<v Speaker 1>now that I'm thinking about it that way, like what

0:46:00.800 --> 0:46:02.719
<v Speaker 1>a partner might feel like, because I know my mom

0:46:02.800 --> 0:46:06.000
<v Speaker 1>kind of feels like that with my brother and her

0:46:06.080 --> 0:46:08.680
<v Speaker 1>husband's dynamic. They're like the best of friends, my brother

0:46:08.719 --> 0:46:10.560
<v Speaker 1>and her dad, and she's like, I'm like the odd

0:46:10.560 --> 0:46:11.279
<v Speaker 1>man out, Like.

0:46:11.320 --> 0:46:13.799
<v Speaker 6>Oh, yeah, that's how my dad felt because I'm like,

0:46:14.239 --> 0:46:16.319
<v Speaker 6>I'm like a surprise baby. They had me late in life,

0:46:16.320 --> 0:46:18.160
<v Speaker 6>so I had like older siblings, so just the three

0:46:18.200 --> 0:46:19.600
<v Speaker 6>of us in the house. I think my dad felt

0:46:19.640 --> 0:46:22.600
<v Speaker 6>ganged up on, like excluded from this stuff.

0:46:22.760 --> 0:46:27.520
<v Speaker 1>Damn. That's dope.

0:46:28.239 --> 0:46:31.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's unfortunate that divorce led you here, but yeah,

0:46:31.560 --> 0:46:34.319
<v Speaker 2>that's something important to be like to be aware of

0:46:34.440 --> 0:46:36.520
<v Speaker 2>as a father or you know whatever, like in the

0:46:36.560 --> 0:46:39.560
<v Speaker 2>household that Like I think people get confusion that like

0:46:39.680 --> 0:46:41.400
<v Speaker 2>if you're all in the household, things you're going to

0:46:41.480 --> 0:46:41.920
<v Speaker 2>be perfect.

0:46:42.000 --> 0:46:43.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it's like there's still.

0:46:43.160 --> 0:46:44.960
<v Speaker 2>Things that need to be like you still need to

0:46:44.960 --> 0:46:46.680
<v Speaker 2>spend time, you still need to be present. Just because

0:46:46.719 --> 0:46:49.200
<v Speaker 2>you didn't leave or you don't physically live somewhere else,

0:46:49.200 --> 0:46:52.040
<v Speaker 2>it does not mean that there is not opportunity to

0:46:52.080 --> 0:46:54.520
<v Speaker 2>like spend actual quality time to like try.

0:46:54.760 --> 0:46:59.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, try and stuff. I know the affirmation try

0:46:59.120 --> 0:47:01.680
<v Speaker 1>and I'm not trying. I'm taking my sister. My little

0:47:01.719 --> 0:47:03.520
<v Speaker 1>sister is much younger than me, Like we didn't grow

0:47:03.560 --> 0:47:06.000
<v Speaker 1>up in the same household, Like I was off in

0:47:06.160 --> 0:47:09.200
<v Speaker 1>college when she was like a baby. So it's taken.

0:47:09.280 --> 0:47:11.279
<v Speaker 1>It's we don't really have a relationship. And so tomorrow

0:47:11.280 --> 0:47:15.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm taking her to lunch, and I'm nervous. I'm like,

0:47:15.560 --> 0:47:17.359
<v Speaker 1>this is my sister. Why am I nervous to take

0:47:17.360 --> 0:47:19.920
<v Speaker 1>my little sister to lunch? Like meeting her again, like

0:47:19.960 --> 0:47:22.440
<v Speaker 1>getting to know her now? Well yeah, like really just

0:47:22.440 --> 0:47:24.200
<v Speaker 1>getting to know her at all. Like she's kind of

0:47:24.239 --> 0:47:27.640
<v Speaker 1>just been like almost like a a fantasy or something,

0:47:27.880 --> 0:47:29.399
<v Speaker 1>or like a cartoon character.

0:47:29.280 --> 0:47:33.480
<v Speaker 2>Just like a but she's so much younger a cartoon character.

0:47:35.520 --> 0:47:45.480
<v Speaker 1>Maybe my imagination. Yeah hey bye, Hey, I mean I

0:47:45.480 --> 0:47:47.560
<v Speaker 1>wonder what I'm like to her. I'm like, I'm like

0:47:47.600 --> 0:47:51.320
<v Speaker 1>a mystery, You're not a over the internet. No, but

0:47:51.360 --> 0:47:52.799
<v Speaker 1>you're probably still a mystery. Yeah.

0:47:52.840 --> 0:47:55.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you know you always say when I think

0:47:55.520 --> 0:47:59.000
<v Speaker 2>of it, you are on the internet saying like kind

0:47:59.000 --> 0:48:02.440
<v Speaker 2>of jarring things if you compare it to like a

0:48:02.600 --> 0:48:04.759
<v Speaker 2>very Christian twenty year old.

0:48:04.920 --> 0:48:07.360
<v Speaker 1>Oh she's religious, and that's what I.

0:48:07.320 --> 0:48:08.879
<v Speaker 7>Feel like, that's a big thing.

0:48:08.880 --> 0:48:12.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't but still she's still hanging out with like

0:48:12.719 --> 0:48:16.040
<v Speaker 1>her boyfriend's like a rapper or sorry, fiance she is

0:48:16.080 --> 0:48:17.080
<v Speaker 1>like a rapper and.

0:48:17.080 --> 0:48:22.160
<v Speaker 6>Likewy twenty one, what was twenty and she's a fiance

0:48:22.560 --> 0:48:25.959
<v Speaker 6>nineteen d I think she just might have just turned

0:48:25.960 --> 0:48:28.040
<v Speaker 6>twic she's just turning twenty last month.

0:48:28.080 --> 0:48:28.759
<v Speaker 1>She just turned twenty.

0:48:28.840 --> 0:48:36.439
<v Speaker 2>Oh I would say something yes, same, No, for real,

0:48:36.880 --> 0:48:38.919
<v Speaker 2>I don't think and this is not personal any mine,

0:48:39.000 --> 0:48:41.400
<v Speaker 2>just I just know overall, I think because we're older

0:48:41.400 --> 0:48:43.200
<v Speaker 2>that we can say and you know, when you're younger

0:48:43.200 --> 0:48:44.480
<v Speaker 2>and people tell you shit and you're like, shut the

0:48:44.520 --> 0:48:49.720
<v Speaker 2>fuck up. I really don't feel like anyone should even

0:48:49.800 --> 0:48:53.239
<v Speaker 2>consider being in a serious relationship under like thirty two.

0:48:53.560 --> 0:48:55.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh, you've got to practice.

0:48:55.200 --> 0:48:56.160
<v Speaker 5>That's that's long.

0:48:57.600 --> 0:49:01.959
<v Speaker 2>Maybe marriage I should be no engagement or marriage talk

0:49:02.080 --> 0:49:05.080
<v Speaker 2>before like thirty to thirty two and I'm saying this

0:49:05.160 --> 0:49:07.680
<v Speaker 2>because I had to go through a bunch of I

0:49:07.680 --> 0:49:09.040
<v Speaker 2>had to do a lot of host shit. I got

0:49:09.040 --> 0:49:11.799
<v Speaker 2>a lot of stupid relationships to be like yeah, and

0:49:11.880 --> 0:49:13.840
<v Speaker 2>even I had a conversation with my mom recently and

0:49:13.880 --> 0:49:15.840
<v Speaker 2>we got into a huge not a huge dargon, but

0:49:15.880 --> 0:49:19.480
<v Speaker 2>an argument over something fucking ridiculous about me wanting to

0:49:19.480 --> 0:49:21.280
<v Speaker 2>get another car because I didn't want to take Orlando

0:49:21.360 --> 0:49:23.600
<v Speaker 2>to work at five am. And she's like, you don't

0:49:23.640 --> 0:49:25.160
<v Speaker 2>need to get another car. I took your dad to

0:49:25.200 --> 0:49:27.879
<v Speaker 2>work at five am. I was like, I was like, no,

0:49:28.000 --> 0:49:32.200
<v Speaker 2>you didn't. He worked up the street, but he didn't

0:49:32.200 --> 0:49:34.000
<v Speaker 2>go at five am. And then I was like, why

0:49:34.040 --> 0:49:35.560
<v Speaker 2>is this about you? And I'm like I don't care,

0:49:35.600 --> 0:49:37.560
<v Speaker 2>Like I don't want to struggle. I don't want I

0:49:37.600 --> 0:49:38.040
<v Speaker 2>don't want you.

0:49:38.120 --> 0:49:39.719
<v Speaker 1>That's what I said. I don't want to And then

0:49:39.760 --> 0:49:40.680
<v Speaker 1>she's like I'm calling you back.

0:49:40.680 --> 0:49:43.040
<v Speaker 2>I was like bye, and then like my fucking person

0:49:43.120 --> 0:49:44.880
<v Speaker 2>the car at Costco because I was arguing with her

0:49:44.920 --> 0:49:45.920
<v Speaker 2>and I had to go back and then I was

0:49:45.960 --> 0:49:46.560
<v Speaker 2>so pissed.

0:49:46.600 --> 0:49:47.600
<v Speaker 1>But then I never she.

0:49:47.640 --> 0:49:49.600
<v Speaker 2>Didn't text me, but recently she called me and she

0:49:49.680 --> 0:49:51.440
<v Speaker 2>was like, you know what, I realized.

0:49:51.520 --> 0:49:53.160
<v Speaker 3>I was like what she was like, I realized.

0:49:52.880 --> 0:49:55.719
<v Speaker 1>You were right nice. I realized I did. I sacrificed

0:49:55.760 --> 0:49:56.560
<v Speaker 1>so much for a man.

0:49:56.600 --> 0:49:59.520
<v Speaker 2>I sacrificed all my life for a man that cheated

0:49:59.520 --> 0:50:00.560
<v Speaker 2>on me since I knew him.

0:50:00.880 --> 0:50:03.040
<v Speaker 1>And she was like, and you shouldn't do that. And

0:50:03.040 --> 0:50:04.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't know why I did.

0:50:04.040 --> 0:50:05.600
<v Speaker 2>And I don't know why I said that, and I

0:50:05.640 --> 0:50:08.160
<v Speaker 2>was She was like, and now I realize, like life

0:50:08.239 --> 0:50:10.080
<v Speaker 2>doesn't have to be I was like, yeah, girl, we

0:50:10.080 --> 0:50:12.680
<v Speaker 2>don't have to be up here taking the pennies and sacrificing.

0:50:12.760 --> 0:50:15.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, bitch, make it as easy. It's not pitch like,

0:50:15.160 --> 0:50:16.520
<v Speaker 2>make it as easy as possible.

0:50:16.719 --> 0:50:16.959
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:50:17.120 --> 0:50:18.800
<v Speaker 2>And I realized And she was like saying, like, I

0:50:19.280 --> 0:50:21.040
<v Speaker 2>wasted so much time. My mom's fifty eight.

0:50:21.080 --> 0:50:21.759
<v Speaker 1>I said.

0:50:22.480 --> 0:50:25.400
<v Speaker 2>The difference is I'm She's like in Orlando, DA, I

0:50:25.400 --> 0:50:27.120
<v Speaker 2>was like, I'm thirty seven. I'm about to get married

0:50:27.160 --> 0:50:29.400
<v Speaker 2>as a forty year old, like you have been with

0:50:29.480 --> 0:50:31.600
<v Speaker 2>him since you were fourteen. These are real like it

0:50:31.719 --> 0:50:34.600
<v Speaker 2>takes time to develop. And she and her parents were

0:50:34.640 --> 0:50:37.920
<v Speaker 2>together since they were very like since she was you know, young.

0:50:38.200 --> 0:50:40.040
<v Speaker 2>She was like, I thought, the first person, I fuck,

0:50:40.040 --> 0:50:42.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm supposed to be with forever. So I'm busy trying

0:50:42.760 --> 0:50:45.960
<v Speaker 2>to make a circles fit into a square. And it's like, no,

0:50:46.040 --> 0:50:47.719
<v Speaker 2>if it isn't surfey, it doesn't feel good.

0:50:48.040 --> 0:50:49.799
<v Speaker 1>You know, you have to you gotta lets shit go.

0:50:50.480 --> 0:50:53.720
<v Speaker 2>But I'm realizing like, yeah, like you really your frontal

0:50:53.760 --> 0:50:55.160
<v Speaker 2>lobe is not even fully.

0:50:55.480 --> 0:50:58.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think the whole shit is necessary. The whole

0:50:58.760 --> 0:51:03.040
<v Speaker 1>shit is so necessary. Yeah, I'm just going to you know,

0:51:03.120 --> 0:51:06.440
<v Speaker 1>I think that she feels super judged, and you know,

0:51:06.560 --> 0:51:09.560
<v Speaker 1>there's there really is nothing you could tell someone that age,

0:51:09.680 --> 0:51:11.040
<v Speaker 1>like if they're going to be engaged, they're going to

0:51:11.080 --> 0:51:14.920
<v Speaker 1>be engaged, you know, Like so I don't know. I

0:51:15.000 --> 0:51:18.879
<v Speaker 1>just I'm going to just get to know her because

0:51:18.880 --> 0:51:20.799
<v Speaker 1>I don't I'm trying to also understand just like who

0:51:20.840 --> 0:51:24.120
<v Speaker 1>she is, her thought process behind this. And I remember,

0:51:24.200 --> 0:51:26.400
<v Speaker 1>like I didn't have dreams of ever really being married,

0:51:26.440 --> 0:51:28.440
<v Speaker 1>so that wasn't part of me. But I've definitely like

0:51:28.520 --> 0:51:32.279
<v Speaker 1>had like fuck it, like probably like just having unprotected

0:51:32.320 --> 0:51:42.799
<v Speaker 1>sex all, you know what I mean? Also too, and

0:51:42.880 --> 0:51:45.320
<v Speaker 1>you know everyone's path is different, Like do I believe

0:51:45.320 --> 0:51:49.440
<v Speaker 1>everyone needs a whole phase? Maybe? Yeah, probably, Like you

0:51:49.520 --> 0:51:51.600
<v Speaker 1>definitely need to have sex with you don't need to.

0:51:51.760 --> 0:51:53.440
<v Speaker 1>I do, like, but I don't know if like everyone's

0:51:53.480 --> 0:51:57.040
<v Speaker 1>trajectory is as like there's like the step by step

0:51:57.080 --> 0:51:59.600
<v Speaker 1>thing in order to feel like you've done it all,

0:51:59.719 --> 0:52:02.560
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<v Speaker 1>right path for her, but ultimately, like, shit, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>do anything about it. You and I just really want

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<v Speaker 1>to get to know my little sister. Yeah, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know you. And it's like it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know one another.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and it is probably a good time to get

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<v Speaker 2>to like know her, just because it's I guess it

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<v Speaker 2>is harder when you're like twenty and someone's ten or

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean, Like the you're in totally

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<v Speaker 2>but a different part of it. So this is probably

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<v Speaker 2>where she's starting to become, you know, a woman, and

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<v Speaker 2>it will be easier to connect in that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, hopefully, Yeah, it'll be great. Thanks, Yeah, thanks, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>beater on and that's what I'm saying. I like that,

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<v Speaker 2>blood in it?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 1>go heat up your dick right quick?

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<v Speaker 2>be the first.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, okay, speaking of sex, let's let's talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you guys? We have a little segment on our

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<v Speaker 1>show called Hori's where we ask our guests to share

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<v Speaker 1>a little hotel.

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<v Speaker 5>Who stories? Yeah, I mean I don't. I mean I do,

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<v Speaker 5>but it's like I'm boring.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you go first?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, have a real whole face.

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<v Speaker 1>You can literally have the worry with your with your man.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you never the nasty ship like I bent

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<v Speaker 1>over by the I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Also like yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Groupies, Yeah, getting like on the road groupiest.

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<v Speaker 6>We've been in relationships the whole time, like when we

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<v Speaker 6>they were there, this would be a perfect time.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a threesome. Trust right now?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you're like, hey, groupies, brokay, no fans, No, because

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like our fans are like so passionate. Yea,

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<v Speaker 6>they all have self diagnosed like something some everything?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you all of them? But are you say

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<v Speaker 1>they're all like emore you.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, or like self diagnosed involuntary mudism?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait? Who fan fans is a bad fans? Is a

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<v Speaker 1>bad bad idea? She said they are self diagnosed.

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<v Speaker 5>Something, all of them. Sorry, some of them are just

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<v Speaker 5>like not self diagnosed.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually die you No, No, we love our fans, no

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<v Speaker 1>we do.

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<v Speaker 6>But some of them, they they'd be hitting on me

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<v Speaker 6>in the d all of them, the girls, the boys.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean that was a good girl to try.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess because just right there, I say, no fans,

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<v Speaker 1>I think let me get let me go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>tell you we're gonna go no fans, Okay, don't don't

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<v Speaker 1>do it. I don't recommend it. I think it's not man,

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<v Speaker 1>we went too far. You guys have way more fans

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<v Speaker 1>than so. We thought we were rock star moms. We are,

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<v Speaker 1>but that was it was.

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<v Speaker 3>Not a good idea we have. I take responsibility for that.

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<v Speaker 5>But maybe one fan like like worship King.

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<v Speaker 1>We went all the way, yeah, maybe will tell the

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<v Speaker 1>story you get on Patreon. We were like, hey, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>wants to come with us, join Patreon dot com, backslash,

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<v Speaker 1>good Moms choices. You want to hear our groupie because

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<v Speaker 1>that's it kept going. It's extended because like updates, it's horrible.

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<v Speaker 1>It actually fucked up three years later.

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<v Speaker 3>I can fuck you.

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<v Speaker 1>Fan if you're listening to this, fuck you.

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<v Speaker 2>I can finally talk about it for three years in

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<v Speaker 2>the sealed files of never to be Spoken again, I'm about.

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<v Speaker 5>To join this Patreon, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we're gonna write I'm finally ready.

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<v Speaker 2>I've heeled Yeah, okay, I won't get it and get

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<v Speaker 2>back to your horries ago.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh you think what is mine?

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<v Speaker 1>Then the Ethiopian Ethiopian tell me more.

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<v Speaker 6>This is not the most whole thing, because I like

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<v Speaker 6>to get to know people, like their personality exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>But then this time I was like I was like

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<v Speaker 5>a year celibate because I was.

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<v Speaker 6>Like in between relationships, and like I made out with

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<v Speaker 6>this guy at a bar and we ho and it

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<v Speaker 6>was like such a good kid. So it was just random,

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<v Speaker 6>like I was just dancing and he came up behind

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<v Speaker 6>me and he was like really cute.

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<v Speaker 5>Then I turned around and we just like and then

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<v Speaker 5>he asked me on a date. So then we went

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<v Speaker 5>on a date. It was cute. Then he was like,

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<v Speaker 5>do you want to come back to my house?

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<v Speaker 6>And I was like, actually, I'm trying to continue out

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<v Speaker 6>this year celibate, so I don't know if that's a

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<v Speaker 6>good idea.

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<v Speaker 5>And he says, okay, we can just watch a movie.

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<v Speaker 5>And then he was like, why am I telling this story?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't She was like, okay, well this save space.

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<v Speaker 6>So we were back at his house watching a movie,

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<v Speaker 6>making out a little bit, and he's like, I really

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<v Speaker 6>want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck really bad, said.

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<v Speaker 5>Please, mom, what it is remember?

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<v Speaker 6>And I'm like no, I'm just I'm almost there, like

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<v Speaker 6>when it was October and I'm like, I'm almost there

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<v Speaker 6>to the year somebody as well.

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<v Speaker 5>Just wait, yeah, if you care about me.

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<v Speaker 6>At all, yeah, And then he.

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<v Speaker 5>Was like, but will you suck my dick?

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<v Speaker 1>You talking like this?

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<v Speaker 7>Well you please?

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<v Speaker 5>Just he was kind of nerve.

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<v Speaker 6>He was a mathematician, and I was like, well, I

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<v Speaker 6>try to be a hole a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>So then I sucked his dick. It was pretty good

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<v Speaker 5>because I'm so good at it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what you're a professional.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm gonna have to know these moves when

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<v Speaker 2>this That's what I'm gonna need to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, when you were sucking this dick? I only asked

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<v Speaker 1>because I've had a situation like this where I was

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<v Speaker 1>sucking the dick and I was like feeling like should

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<v Speaker 1>I be doing this? Yeah? Yeah, I was thinking.

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<v Speaker 6>I was very present in the moment. I don't know him.

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<v Speaker 6>I just met him to before, like, so I didn't.

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<v Speaker 6>I was thinking like, oh, actually, maybe I should stop now.

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<v Speaker 6>So it was like literally like one minute of dick sucking.

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<v Speaker 2>Then he was like, oh that was That was the episode.

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<v Speaker 1>The inner the inner thoughts of the Diary of a

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<v Speaker 1>conflicted Home. The diary of that was me. I was

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<v Speaker 1>having very conflicted thoughts about my my wholeness. It was

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<v Speaker 1>because mine was for different reasons. It wasn't because I

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<v Speaker 1>was a celibate.

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<v Speaker 3>She just really wanted it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was. My friend had dated this guy sort of,

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<v Speaker 1>but they broke up like a long time ago, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we just hung out one time and then I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, it was all this chemistry and it was fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me tell you, it was so fine.

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<v Speaker 1>That's OK. Then I started to makes bitches tweak and

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<v Speaker 1>you got me so high. I was confused and we're

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<v Speaker 1>watching a weird movie with cats. Yeah, you had sex

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<v Speaker 1>after don't. It was crazy, it was too much, it

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<v Speaker 1>was raining, it was just fu Oh, I'm sorry anyway

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<v Speaker 1>I can relate.

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<v Speaker 5>That's a good story. Yeah, no, I just instantly regretted it.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's the worst. And that's why why I was

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<v Speaker 5>scared not to be anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>But you learn if you learn, Like, Okay, if I wouldn't,

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<v Speaker 2>I said not to begin with, I should have just left.

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<v Speaker 1>You learn in the hoeing.

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<v Speaker 2>There's always lessons. Not to encourage the hoeing for the lessons.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, I think you should just be.

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<v Speaker 6>A confident hoe and I just wasn't ready for that.

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<v Speaker 6>But if I were to hoe now, I'll be super confident,

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<v Speaker 6>Like I know what I'm holling about.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm clear. I want to hold with you, yes tonight,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm holding for me, and then we're hoing for life.

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<v Speaker 1>Ho for your hold him, yes for you. Don't hold

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<v Speaker 1>for him, but.

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<v Speaker 5>Be an empowered hole. Don't be a sad home.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't really sad, stand but you know why, because you

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<v Speaker 1>can't shame an unashamed hoe.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly, But if you're ashamed, If you're a shamed ho,

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<v Speaker 2>it just doesn't work.

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<v Speaker 1>Anywaying it for all the empowered hose you.

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<v Speaker 2>Got, like, you gotta have like put some ship on

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<v Speaker 2>your chest to be a home.

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<v Speaker 5>Put the whole your chest.

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<v Speaker 2>Put the whole your chest, you whole, Like, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a whole nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah exactly, I cannot steal.

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<v Speaker 5>They cry, what's your body count?

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<v Speaker 1>A lot? Nigga?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're like, why I do that? I got enough, nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how to suck For the first time, I

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<v Speaker 1>sucked from.

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<v Speaker 3>The moment he touched my lips.

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<v Speaker 1>Niggas more for this. You got to have in you.

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<v Speaker 2>Some people have the hoe in them, some people don't.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you can't see that your chest, don't do

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<v Speaker 2>it for real.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah some mine was underdeveloped. Yeah, but now you've developed it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>If my man sucked up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, these streets streets are calling. The streets are calling.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm gonna start like a boot camp for

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<v Speaker 2>the hose. If you want to have some hoe in

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<v Speaker 2>your chest. You joined Mila's boot camp.

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<v Speaker 1>An I'm scared your chest. Who would buy this course?

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<v Speaker 7>Who?

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<v Speaker 1>If you're a weak ass side hoe.

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<v Speaker 2>I have tips for you if you want to put

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<v Speaker 2>the hole in your chest, if you want to be

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<v Speaker 2>an unashamed hoe and not ashamed, and you want to

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<v Speaker 2>read good Mom's Corinthians one and two that says that

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<v Speaker 2>shall hold with thy chest.

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<v Speaker 1>Without shame, without without judgment.

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<v Speaker 11>Lord, just holding for the pussy and for the pleasure, Lord,

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<v Speaker 11>for the healing.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, won't you do it?

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<v Speaker 2>If I got numbers, it's because I got different area codes.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not a powerful hole. I'm manifest with this.

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<v Speaker 11>Hold them, amen, No one can tell me ship about

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<v Speaker 11>this pussy. This pussy brought life, and this pussy brought

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<v Speaker 11>come all right, the.

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<v Speaker 1>Church, you get a hallelujah, hallelujah.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sold, amen, Amen, I really think you gotta cut

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<v Speaker 6>that as a peace.

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<v Speaker 1>This is part of this is part of the buffett has.

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<v Speaker 8>To be.

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<v Speaker 1>Past. My hair is getting sweated, that's right, yes, one

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<v Speaker 1>right out of me. The Holy Spirit, the.

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<v Speaker 5>Holy Spirit is coming through Lord spirits.

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<v Speaker 3>We would rebuke all anti hoes and cels.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, rebuke all the Kevin Samuel's followers, all the niggas

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<v Speaker 2>acted like Christians.

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<v Speaker 1>But they hoen in the streets floor and them away

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<v Speaker 1>from the Lord away. I don't. I only want the

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<v Speaker 1>men of God that understand the hold them.

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<v Speaker 5>Lord, the whole kingdom, Lord, hole kingdom.

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<v Speaker 6>The.

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<v Speaker 1>Kingdom. Let us be in peace. But Holy Dix that

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<v Speaker 1>respects our hold them. Yes, hallelujah. Amen, Amen that beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>chandling your candle. You channeled an ancient home channel and

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<v Speaker 1>the whole house channel married. It was part of Egypt.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel, I feel, I felt the ham come through.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me hate that, let me.

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<v Speaker 5>Deserve that. I got some bitches. I can send that

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<v Speaker 5>shoot too, right now, right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Send the tone right now, because a sad ho yeah clip, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>now what's your horror?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my gosh, okay, first time moving here. I'm from Dallas, Texas.

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<v Speaker 6>Everyone's so like kind and sweet, okay. And I'm walking

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<v Speaker 6>down Hollywood Boulevard because I live off like lost Pomas

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<v Speaker 6>in Hollywood. It's me and my friend Taylor, and we're

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<v Speaker 6>just walking down the street and we see these guys

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<v Speaker 6>and they're dressed like kind of like weeping hipster.

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<v Speaker 7>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>They got the poncho that you can buy from like

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<v Speaker 1>the smoke shop type of poncho, like the roster man

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<v Speaker 1>poncho and I'm like, oh my god, period like hipsters.

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<v Speaker 5>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>And we start talking to them a little bit. They're like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you smoke?

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<v Speaker 6>We were like yeah, we uh, we have this really

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<v Speaker 6>cool apartment actually right here, all by ourselves. We're when

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<v Speaker 6>to come over, and we invite these men over, and

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<v Speaker 6>we later on in the day figure out that they

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<v Speaker 6>were homeless.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew it because he really we didn't want to know,

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<v Speaker 1>because he had like he had made a comment of

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<v Speaker 1>like nowhere to go, and I'm like, oh, we know

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<v Speaker 1>where to go.

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<v Speaker 6>He was like, oh yeah, we're like kind of homeless.

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<v Speaker 6>And I'm like, okay, like on someone's couch and he's

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<v Speaker 6>like yeah, he's like yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, well, can you go there? And he's

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<v Speaker 1>like no, not right now, not right now. So we

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<v Speaker 1>let them sleep over.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, lord, I feel like I don't I

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<v Speaker 5>know this story.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the under twenty five story, twenty four Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I did this last week right here, right now, just

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<v Speaker 1>two vulnerable girls, okay, And then we had to kick

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't. I didn't. I didn't you care the homeless

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<v Speaker 1>I was on my period. If I wasn't on my period, homeless.

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<v Speaker 3>Man I've seen them, fine homeless man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're insane. Then the next day, because we let

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<v Speaker 1>them sleep over you, you're kind of brocking peacefully with

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<v Speaker 1>your eyes closed.

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<v Speaker 6>One of them took a bath. There was a black

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<v Speaker 6>ring around the bad Take that.

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<v Speaker 3>You did?

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<v Speaker 1>You really did? Who cares? And who cares? One of

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<v Speaker 1>their brothers came storming through the door next day, ask

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<v Speaker 1>you where his brother was?

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<v Speaker 5>Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Was his brother spend the night too? Or yeah, he'd

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<v Speaker 1>spent the night he was. It was two guys. My

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<v Speaker 1>friend had the other. I'm before he got in the

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<v Speaker 1>bed though I think it was after.

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<v Speaker 7>She was young.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, No, that wasn't mine. By the way, did he

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<v Speaker 1>take a bath?

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<v Speaker 8>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. So the next morning, the brother comes storming through

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<v Speaker 1>the door. Where's my brother?

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<v Speaker 8>Was?

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<v Speaker 1>My brother was? My brother? We also left the door unlocked,

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<v Speaker 1>like it was like, I don't know, comes storm through

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<v Speaker 1>the door, where's my brother? Were like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll have to go right now.

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<v Speaker 7>They left.

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<v Speaker 1>We found little capsules of like a dark liquid left

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<v Speaker 1>behind along with the ring in the tub, and they

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<v Speaker 1>were like, oh my god. We like we think it

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<v Speaker 1>was like hair on or something black. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a dark were they nodding off? It was was

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<v Speaker 1>there a word smelling? I thought it was like a

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<v Speaker 1>dark liquid. We had to like lock the doors. My

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<v Speaker 1>brother lived in Los Angeles at the time, so I

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<v Speaker 1>had to call him.

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<v Speaker 3>And was he like, are you a dumb it?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, we may have let the wrong guys over.

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<v Speaker 1>They were homeless.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh man, Okay, I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>There was more to this. No, this is a horror

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<v Speaker 1>story for Halloween. Okay, this is a story I've never heard.

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<v Speaker 1>And then like after that, he just like, did you

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<v Speaker 1>guys make out? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, okay, so something you

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<v Speaker 1>got pets a little bit, Yeah happened. But I'm also

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a pillow princess. So he didn't ask me to

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<v Speaker 1>suck his day. We're gonna have put the horror music

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<v Speaker 1>behind this clim The homeless man didn't ask me to

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<v Speaker 1>suck his homeless day, but he ate your No, they

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<v Speaker 1>just because I was in my period, right, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>you know the period roommate let him hit though I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm asking asked.

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<v Speaker 1>She might have been on her period too, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Actually I don't remember. We probably think that,

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<v Speaker 1>but it reminds me of a movie. And she was

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<v Speaker 1>like he was a wizard.

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<v Speaker 3>She was he was like, he was homeless. She was

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<v Speaker 3>like he had magical being.

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<v Speaker 1>No, exactly, he got us weed. So he did have

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<v Speaker 1>the weed. He was had weed. Yeah, hopefully it was weed.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an offering. It's an offering.

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<v Speaker 8>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>You saved that man that back, I think, so he

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<v Speaker 1>could have cleaned it after. But you know, yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>made out a little bit. It was a good kiss

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<v Speaker 1>from what I remember. Lovely, if you live.

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<v Speaker 2>In Hollywood, don't bring strangers home to your house ever. Ever,

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<v Speaker 2>don't just just don't bring strangers that young. I bought

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<v Speaker 2>a homeless person in my hospital, not not like that,

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<v Speaker 2>like in the night. I just I was moving and

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<v Speaker 2>he was on the street and I thought he was

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<v Speaker 2>just a nice guy. And then I really as he

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<v Speaker 2>was homeless and kept seeing him outside in the.

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<v Speaker 1>Trash, and I was like, my damn, that type. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought about it, and then I was like, you could

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<v Speaker 1>get mad outside and fight another home, like there was

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<v Speaker 1>like bum fighting, And then I realized that man was

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<v Speaker 1>in my house.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you say bum fighting?

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<v Speaker 1>Bum fights?

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<v Speaker 5>Remember bump fight?

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<v Speaker 1>I do, But it's the thing A world that was

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. It is it is, Yeah, it's the first kind.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, that was like a really good tory. Thank you,

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<v Speaker 3>really good.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for sharing, ladies, thank you. That was just lovely.

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<v Speaker 7>Do like me?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, don't do like I say? Is that the affirmation.

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<v Speaker 8>You're young?

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<v Speaker 1>Moving somewhere? I say, not as I done.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, that was really funny. I think I

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<v Speaker 2>had real tears. We picked a tarot card. Okay, upside

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<v Speaker 2>down there the three of swords?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>And what is that nine of one that was upside down?

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<v Speaker 3>The three of swords.

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<v Speaker 2>When the three of swords turns up in a terror reading,

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<v Speaker 2>it signals that you are feeling deeply hurt and disappointed.

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<v Speaker 2>Your heart has been pierced by the sharp blades of

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<v Speaker 2>another's hurtful words, actions, and intentions, and they have inflicted

1:21:20.640 --> 1:21:23.880
<v Speaker 2>intense emotional pain of sadness, grief, and heartbreak. These events

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<v Speaker 2>are often unexpected and come out of the blue, making

1:21:26.120 --> 1:21:29.360
<v Speaker 2>them even more painful. It's also about an emotional release

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<v Speaker 2>when you have suffered a major setback or loss. Now

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<v Speaker 2>it's an excellent time to have a good cry, expressing

1:21:34.520 --> 1:21:36.800
<v Speaker 2>your sadness as a part of the cleansing process. And

1:21:36.920 --> 1:21:39.200
<v Speaker 2>letting it all out will help you move on to

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<v Speaker 2>better times. Allow yourself the opportunity to experience these emotions

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<v Speaker 2>no matter how painful. Cry, shout, or scream at the

1:21:46.160 --> 1:21:48.599
<v Speaker 2>top of your lungs. Do whatever it takes to express

1:21:48.640 --> 1:21:52.719
<v Speaker 2>your anger is pain, as this will help emotions flow

1:21:53.000 --> 1:21:55.679
<v Speaker 2>through and out of you. Sometimes you have to confess

1:21:55.760 --> 1:21:57.479
<v Speaker 2>of the internet about you. At one time you brought

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<v Speaker 2>a homeless name was mine?

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<v Speaker 3>So you can move on?

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<v Speaker 1>I cry all the time?

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<v Speaker 5>That just makes sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that apply to anybody you know who you are? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you're feeling something okay. The nine of wands reversed

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<v Speaker 2>hum the nine of ones reverse suggest that you are

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<v Speaker 2>struggling to keep working towards your goal. The challenges on

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<v Speaker 2>the path are relentless, pummeling you with setback, and after setback,

1:22:26.400 --> 1:22:28.320
<v Speaker 2>you don't know if you can cope with it anymore

1:22:28.360 --> 1:22:30.519
<v Speaker 2>and may have to give up. Just know that you're

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<v Speaker 2>oh so close to completing this challenge. Draw upon your

1:22:33.080 --> 1:22:38.080
<v Speaker 2>internal resources, your resilience, innercourage, positive self talk, and mindset

1:22:38.400 --> 1:22:40.920
<v Speaker 2>to keep you going. You have it in you to

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<v Speaker 2>turn this challenging situation into a fantastic success and to

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<v Speaker 2>help others facing similar hurdles.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep fighting. You've got this spot on.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah kay M The tarots never lie.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, no. Sometimes we need to be reminded

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<v Speaker 1>to keep going. M gotta keep going, just keeps Life

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<v Speaker 1>is good. Life is worth keep going, keep going. I

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<v Speaker 1>was worth keep going.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't really have a rough even if the aliens

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<v Speaker 2>are coming, even if the world is maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean now, at this point, I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>see what's gonna happen. At this point, I'm like, Okay, God,

1:23:19.240 --> 1:23:22.559
<v Speaker 1>what's that show? But do you I really think I'm

1:23:22.560 --> 1:23:24.840
<v Speaker 1>gonna be witnessing this would be epic. I would be

1:23:25.200 --> 1:23:30.720
<v Speaker 1>We are the last generation of celebrities, celebrities to who

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<v Speaker 1>if we're all dead, it does matter to us, And

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, if aliens come right now, think about it

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<v Speaker 2>in my head, Like I would be so in shock.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be like, it's a Project Blue Beam, Like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know about how I react.

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<v Speaker 3>Project who Oh you don't know you know Project Blue Beam?

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<v Speaker 1>Now you're just throwing this ship out here like we're

1:23:48.680 --> 1:23:52.960
<v Speaker 1>sposed to know. You guys don't know any conspiracies? Where

1:23:52.960 --> 1:23:57.479
<v Speaker 1>are you a rock? I'll tell you, Okay, tell me later.

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<v Speaker 1>It's what the government's planning. Don't say y, don't let

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<v Speaker 1>him know we know, Okay, nobody cut this out to Orlando.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Okay, sorry, I'm just everybody knows except you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys have affirmation.

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<v Speaker 1>Did we say sorry? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>I know.

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<v Speaker 6>Mine was don't do do as I say, Do as

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<v Speaker 6>I say, not as I do as I say, not

1:24:21.200 --> 1:24:22.600
<v Speaker 6>as I do, do as I say that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, pretty much all you can do is I do.

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<v Speaker 1>And to find out, I was very fortunate I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get killed. All of us were.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty sure we've all done some like kidnapping, murder,

1:24:36.960 --> 1:24:42.280
<v Speaker 2>like like voluntari situations that we're supposed to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>We're supposed to like flirt with the edge. Yes, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're not, you know this guy said to me one day.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're not, if you're not on the edge, you're

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<v Speaker 1>taking up space. That's okay, Yeah, maybe fall off. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes they like to be in the middle. Just find

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<v Speaker 1>the balance between the edge.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to tell our people where they can

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<v Speaker 2>find you and your hit single that's coming out on Halloween?

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<v Speaker 6>Our hit single, try Me, is coming out on Halloween. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>try me?

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<v Speaker 1>If you dare exactly, and you can find us that

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<v Speaker 1>Flying the Boss on Everything.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, flying a Boss like Diana Ross.

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<v Speaker 7>That song.

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<v Speaker 1>That song is a hit. I was playing with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was playing that in the car with my daughter

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<v Speaker 1>and she was already picking it up.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And y'all know where to find us. Good Mom's

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, juicy, I'm gonna join.

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<v Speaker 1>It's worth it, It'll be worth it. It was really

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<v Speaker 1>worth it. Bye bye.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I'm living so good. Can't you tell?

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<v Speaker 1>I went through a drought.

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<v Speaker 5>That's until I found out, Well maym have.

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<v Speaker 1>Been known Earth?

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<v Speaker 8>I used to be broken hell now got the blues

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<v Speaker 8>Hanser like Beyonce Jasell throat shot or pop in his

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<v Speaker 8>cow wearing her voices. Patriarchy kept it in the box

1:26:17.400 --> 1:26:20.759
<v Speaker 8>to it'sploidis women put the pee and powers, so it's pointless.

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<v Speaker 5>They want me to be good, so I made bad choices.

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<v Speaker 1>Bad mom.

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<v Speaker 5>Not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

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<v Speaker 8>It He's in on put cannabis in their bathbon walked

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<v Speaker 8>in bossas Cap and I blew his cat ball hot dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm immune to.

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<v Speaker 8>The cat called Herbie and the waisted straight to it

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<v Speaker 8>like a dollar sign. Mother, rent the louver when too,

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<v Speaker 8>It's like a water someone where you're rent the winter

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<v Speaker 8>essential will when the summertime. I do what doll ain't

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<v Speaker 8>know when I need to run it by