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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife,

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Speaker 1: and she couldn't. She cleaned and cared for her children

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Speaker 1: didn't talk back. She was both obedient and soft by nature.

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Speaker 1: She was a good woman who always made good choices.

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Speaker 1: We're good mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 2: Who's single mom who said fuck the patriarchy shared all

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Speaker 2: their bad choices.

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Speaker 1: And found out they were so bad after all, we're experts,

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Speaker 1: overshares and your new besties. Sit back and enjoy the ride.

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Speaker 1: I can.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to good Mom's bad choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 2: I'm Mila.

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Speaker 1: Camis Wednesday, Happy hump Day, bitch is happy, Happy hump Day.

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Speaker 1: How you feeling, m I feel okay, baby daddy is

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Speaker 1: annoying me today. But other than that, but new it's

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Speaker 1: just like the levels of petty that niggas do go

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Speaker 1: It's just stupid. But how could it be petty to you?

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Speaker 1: You're literally doing everything. I think that every woman can

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Speaker 1: relate to their baby daddy being petty? How was it

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Speaker 1: being petty because we went to the store, because I

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Speaker 1: took iri to go to cheer Oh okay.

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Speaker 2: Well maybe well I'll tell the story a different day.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Anyway, well because today because today my daughters in

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Speaker 1: the other rammit, you can hear me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, I'll tell you my story this weekend. Last weekend,

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Speaker 2: I took Luna to a fucking Tate McCray concert. I

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Speaker 2: don't know if I told you this. I don't think

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Speaker 2: belong to them. That's like, that's standard, right. So we're

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Speaker 2: in our seats. Shia is on her mom's lap, so

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Speaker 2: they're like I'm like, hey, that's my seat. Oh I know,

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Speaker 2: but no, nobody's gonna say anything.

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Speaker 1: I said.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying something, okay, okay, when you're when they're ready

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, so I had a moment in my

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Speaker 2: and like and then I was like as it like

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Speaker 2: even I've done this, but like even as a teenager,

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Speaker 2: if someone said this is my seat, I would immediately move.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna fucking go back and forth with you.

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Speaker 2: I'm already like I'm at the fucking Tate McCray concert,

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Speaker 2: so you can imagine amount of teeny bopper bitches that

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Speaker 2: that time's fucking ten thousand. So I'm like, Okay, I'm

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Speaker 2: like a bitch? No, I'm not gonna be the old

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Speaker 2: bitch because I really wanted to Karen that because I'm

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Speaker 2: bringing I'm embracing my Karen this year. I'm gonna be

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Speaker 2: But then I was like, no, I'm not gonna go

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Speaker 1: She looks at me like, are you fucking kidding me.

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Speaker 2: Now my daughter thinks I'm a punk bitch, like I

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Speaker 2: couldn't believe it, and then find in my head I

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Speaker 1: I love Tate McCray, I love teeny bopper music, even.

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Speaker 2: When we have to watch like four hundred versions of

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm bonding. I'm bonding. We're bonding.

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Speaker 2: She can't watch Friday every day, like we can't watch

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Speaker 2: for being nice not being the old bitch at the concert.

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Speaker 2: I guess I should have went old bitchen.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's old bitch. I think that's just.

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Speaker 2: You know, like when you when you're a young bitch

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Speaker 3: Know, just be more chill, and I was not.

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Speaker 1: But what was their ethnicity?

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Speaker 3: What the fuck do you think?

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Speaker 1: So? Is it young bitch or is it white privilege?

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Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking, Like, I think there might

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Speaker 2: The privilege is crazy. I think in general, the millennials

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Speaker 2: are the millennials.

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Speaker 1: We're millennials.

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Speaker 3: What are they?

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Speaker 1: GENALFA, the Gen what? Yeah, whatever?

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Speaker 2: The Gen zs and the Gen Aalpha. They don't have

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Speaker 2: common sense. There's a lack of customer service, a lack

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Speaker 2: a lot of chapters because they're on the internet. It's

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Speaker 2: either like they're too woke and they know too many words,

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Speaker 2: but they can't put it with critical thinking. They're like, oh, polly,

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Speaker 2: empathy criticism, Like there's making all these words, but they

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Speaker 2: don't really get it. On a actually embodied level, so

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Speaker 2: go to like American Eagle or whatevery, these fucking teeny

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Speaker 2: bopper stores and they're like, hey, can you do this

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Speaker 2: One time I was somewhere and the bitch had a

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Speaker 1: I was like, do you work here? Yeah? Bitch, if

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Speaker 3: She's in here like with a fan on.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, there's a missing piece between the millennials,

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Speaker 2: which the intelligence to us and the gins alphas whatever.

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Speaker 2: I don't like them, and I'm gonna, I know, identify

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Speaker 2: you're raising one.

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Speaker 3: She's not like them.

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Speaker 2: And as you can see, she wanted me to Karen,

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Speaker 2: So that's how I know she's not like them. So

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Speaker 2: that's my confession or my bad choice of the week,

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Speaker 3: But yeah, that's it, that's all.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing.

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Speaker 2: Nobody me let me tell you what happened at the

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Speaker 2: Tavor Craig concert. Anyway, we're here with two very lovely

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Speaker 2: guests today. This is my personal request. I stalked them,

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Speaker 2: and really, I feel like it's my manifestation powers that

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Speaker 2: that went viral right in front of our studio and

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Speaker 2: I told my daughter, I was like, we're gonna get them.

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Speaker 2: They must live in the neighborhood. And sure enough, shout

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Speaker 2: out to Fairly. They brought them in by the Manifestation gods.

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Speaker 2: Today we are joined by Bobby and Flying a Fly

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Speaker 2: on a Boss, the Ink Girls.

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Speaker 1: This show.

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Speaker 2: Lady, you guys look so cute and your pink your

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Speaker 2: pink hairs.

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Speaker 5: I like that pink eraea pink doodle era.

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Speaker 1: I like, that's what's a pink doodle era?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we got.

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Speaker 1: Pink hair, you know.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I think when I saw you guys, I was like,

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Speaker 2: I think there are my people.

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Speaker 1: Is she wearing elf? I was like, is she a fairy? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I didn't wear my ears to Naa and I because

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Speaker 1: somebody forgot them. Orda one forgot them sam Mine too.

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Speaker 5: Really, I'm just.

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Speaker 1: Who are you?

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Speaker 2: I know, so you usually are usually were You're like

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Speaker 2: your fair are they ELFs?

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Speaker 3: Are they fairy ears?

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Speaker 1: Whatever the day is?

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Speaker 2: I guess Okay, I just figured we're gonna get along

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Speaker 2: great because I identify as the night fairy Felion period,

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Speaker 2: and so I figured you guys were you're gonna you're

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Speaker 2: identify as a night fair.

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Speaker 1: It just depends, It depends on the night. Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well tell us about yourselves.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited to get to know you and like your

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Speaker 2: journey and your story.

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Speaker 1: How you guys became friends, You guys besties.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she's from Detroit, you're from Dallas. We came here

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Speaker 6: to l A to be big stars. Yes, we met

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Really school, Yeah, you've.

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Speaker 1: Met, Hollo Hollo.

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Speaker 5: There's an institution music, music institution, and we met.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it feels like a long long time. Were you

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Speaker 1: What were you in school to study? Was it? Was

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Speaker 1: it actually like music? Yeah, it's a music institution. But

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Speaker 1: I know, I think I know what we were talking about.

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Speaker 1: There's like editing, there's mixing, there's all types of stuff.

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Speaker 6: We met in the Independent Artist program, which is like

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Speaker 6: a culmination of all those things because they teach you

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Speaker 6: like photoshop and logic, yeah, and music.

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Speaker 1: Stuff.

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Speaker 2: You're like, oh, you want to do everything, going to

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Speaker 2: be independent exactly marketing strategy?

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Speaker 5: Yeah did jo?

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Speaker 1: Did you graduate from there? Or I dropped out to college?

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Speaker 1: What about you? You were doing all the way while

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Speaker 1: with the AA or whatever?

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Speaker 5: I don't know what it does.

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Speaker 2: Associates not an AA AA is like alcoholics?

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Speaker 1: Isn't that A didn't I thought it was called a degree.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I didn't finish, so I don't know.

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Speaker 6: A b associates is what I got. And it's hanging

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Speaker 6: on my mom's wall.

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Speaker 1: She's proud.

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Speaker 2: She's so proud, not hanging out my mom's yesterday I

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Speaker 2: met my mom.

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Speaker 3: Wish something was hanging on her wall.

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Speaker 2: Should have finished paying my tuition then, sorry, that was

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Speaker 2: a personal that was a personal goodness.

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Speaker 3: I just dropped out. I was on drugs.

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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. You're not what's tight? Can we put

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Speaker 1: headphones on? So I have a real conversation.

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Speaker 5: Do you normally have headphones?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: We don't have our kids here?

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Speaker 5: Headphones on?

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Speaker 1: Your kid? What drugs? Like?

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Speaker 5: He's the microphone he's getting.

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Speaker 1: I think he's getting fairly the headphase. Lord Jesus, let

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Speaker 1: me have a candidate. This is an adult show.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well I dropped out. I moved to Sweden. I

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Speaker 1: Wow was he Swedish? Yeah, of course you slowed a

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Speaker 1: Swedish boy.

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Speaker 3: So I think I believe it.

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Speaker 5: And I believe that African Americans.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna every week one that was a good one.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm like courdinentially, no, that's a word. I

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Speaker 1: Are you on Why didn't you drop out of college? Oh?

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Speaker 6: I just saw it on TV and I was just like, no,

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Speaker 1: Then I came to Hollywood Boulevard. This is not using cocaine.

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Speaker 2: We're just saying in Hollywood it is normal. It's kind

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's such a it's such a thing in l

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Speaker 6: I asked my mom if she ever did it, and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 1: The eighties. It's going crazy. It was like weed but better.

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Speaker 1: of aesthetics happening here, you do. We have her face,

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Speaker 1: Either the same thing? Change And Mila has a new

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Speaker 2: And I tell my hair She's like, I'm gonna cut off.

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Speaker 5: They own your hair?

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Speaker 2: And well she kind of does. I've been finding her

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Speaker 1: Black soul cut it up?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, in the valley, you gotta do what you gotta do.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, most of my time here.

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Speaker 5: I'm a no ho ho.

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Speaker 6: I tried to do vaginal, but she just didn't want

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Speaker 6: They did the balloon. They broke my water like fittanyl.

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Speaker 1: do open you up? No, it's supposed to help from

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Speaker 2: They put it in your pussy and then they fill

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Speaker 1: Or do you think I will? Probably?

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm like I can't, I don't

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Speaker 2: and maybe you absolutely can't, but just for like I

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Speaker 2: don't have time this week.

446
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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, for that, I'm like real time.

447
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Speaker 1: But the pain, maybe I do get it.

448
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Speaker 2: It'll probably be easier your second time, when you know more,

449
00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:40,159
Speaker 2: You'll you'll be more informed, That's what I'm hoping, and

450
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Speaker 2: then you can just do it at the house or

451
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Speaker 2: or you know, I just never go to the hospital.

452
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Speaker 1: You'll never put that balloon in my pussy.

453
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Speaker 6: Oh my, and like checking how dilated you are? Hurt

454
00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:51,800
Speaker 6: so much too, Like they just come.

455
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Speaker 2: In and just put their fingers inside of you every

456
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Speaker 2: fucking twenty minutes, like you're a goddamn pinned hate it.

457
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Speaker 1: I really love my dog. Really, yeah, I think we'll

458
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Speaker 1: welcome to Welcome to the mom tribe.

459
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Speaker 6: You would have kids too, that's yeah, But I want

460
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Speaker 6: to like start and then don't stop, like once I start,

461
00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:12,399
Speaker 6: like until I'm finished.

462
00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,440
Speaker 1: You want to have that? Are you in a relationship

463
00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:19,440
Speaker 1: with you both are? Do you want to have kids?

464
00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:22,760
Speaker 1: Like writing now? No? No, no, I need a million dollars,

465
00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:24,960
Speaker 1: got to get to get it a million dollars.

466
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Speaker 2: One time me and Erica once said when we first

467
00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,679
Speaker 2: started our podcast eight years ago, that we were gonna

468
00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,600
Speaker 2: refrain from having sex until we made a million dollars.

469
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Speaker 2: It wouldn't have been like five years.

470
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Speaker 7: But we.

471
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Speaker 1: Didn't do it.

472
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Speaker 3: It was probably gonna take a long time.

473
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Speaker 1: Damn. We would have been not fucked for like five years. Yeah,

474
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Speaker 1: but we did it. We did do it. We did

475
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Speaker 1: do it.

476
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Speaker 5: So I'm gonna have a baby.

477
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Speaker 1: One fucked all the way along the way. Maybe I

478
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Speaker 1: don't know why I thought.

479
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Speaker 3: That was a great idea.

480
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Speaker 2: I know, let's just not have sex energy I sell

481
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:01,040
Speaker 2: it for two weeks.

482
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 3: I was like, I know forever you know.

483
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Speaker 7: So who broke it first?

484
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Speaker 1: Probably her? Probably. So we have a segment on our

485
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Speaker 1: show called bad Choices Bad Choice of the Week. Do

486
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:16,679
Speaker 1: any of you ladies have a bad choice that you

487
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Speaker 1: made this week? Bad mom?

488
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Speaker 8: Not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

489
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Speaker 7: So how bad should it be?

490
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Speaker 1: Well? Bad could be bad meaning good good for you,

491
00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 1: bad for something out for somebody else, the actually just

492
00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,359
Speaker 1: or just bad, just bad, fucked up choice.

493
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Speaker 6: My husband is Jewish, so I told him I would

494
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Speaker 6: participate in.

495
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Speaker 1: I'm hungry Are your technology free?

496
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Speaker 6: To and like no, I'm like, I'm like whatever, it's

497
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Speaker 6: called like a little bit on it off of it.

498
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but wait, are you I'm not Jewish, but are

499
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Speaker 1: you going to cross over? No, he's not requesting that.

500
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Speaker 6: He's not super religious. He's a liberal one. He just

501
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:16,400
Speaker 6: does the fun.

502
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 1: Stuff like starving starving.

503
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Speaker 5: He likes the spirituality of it.

504
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:20,160
Speaker 8: Yeah.

505
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like a tradition.

506
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,520
Speaker 6: Like yeah, like a lot of Jewish people are like

507
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Speaker 6: either orthodox they go buy everything by the book, or

508
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:34,800
Speaker 6: like they just do the traditions.

509
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,160
Speaker 5: Like a turnip Jew. I guess because.

510
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Speaker 1: The Jews do turn up. I do, you know, I do.

511
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 1: I grew up.

512
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Speaker 2: We grew up in the valley, so we grew up.

513
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Speaker 2: I grew up with a lot of young Kipors and

514
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Speaker 2: Russia Channa. Yeah, Friday Chabbots. And I will say I

515
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,639
Speaker 2: can adopt the Shabbat. I want to eat good dinner

516
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Speaker 2: every Friday.

517
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

518
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna just buffet all the religions. I'm not religious,

519
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Speaker 2: but I'll take Shabbot. I'll take you STOs exactly that.

520
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 1: I'll take a.

521
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 2: Couple of things, just a little bit from here. What's

522
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 2: your religion. I'm a buffet exactly religion.

523
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 5: I'm gonna start saying.

524
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:18,920
Speaker 2: That buffet buff commnitate with me. I'll tell you a

525
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 2: little bit about it.

526
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:21,400
Speaker 7: Exactly.

527
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Speaker 1: That's my bad decision. I'm regretting it right now. Okay, over,

528
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 1: we're supposed to eat tomorrow.

529
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Speaker 6: We're supposed to eat tonight, but also we ate too

530
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Speaker 6: late yesterday, so you're supposed to eat after your were

531
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Speaker 6: done eating the day.

532
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Speaker 1: Before twenty four hours. Yeah exactly, Yeah, I got it.

533
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Speaker 6: Yeah, thirty months after that or whatever, so we didn't

534
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Speaker 6: stop or like, we had dinner late like nine or something, so.

535
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Speaker 2: You have until ten basically, yeah, Okay, have terrible decisions,

536
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Speaker 2: are you?

537
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Speaker 3: Guys only been married.

538
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 6: For like a year and a half.

539
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 1: Did you have the whole like big wedding situation. No,

540
00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:57,160
Speaker 1: we went to Mali.

541
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Speaker 7: You had the best wedding.

542
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 6: It was just like small our best friends, her and

543
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 6: her partner, and then his best friend and his partner.

544
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 2: As your husband, best friends with your partner. Okay, butt along, yeah, okay,

545
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 2: but it was a five person wedding.

546
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Speaker 1: Six Yes, it's nice, beautiful.

547
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 6: And b it was amazing. I didn't want a big wedding.

548
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 6: He's more like extraverted. He did want a big wedding,

549
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 6: and you know, Jewish weddings were like huge, like there

550
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Speaker 6: a thousand people.

551
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Speaker 7: I was relieved because I.

552
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Speaker 5: Didn't want to plan anything or like do anything. I

553
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 5: was like, this is great.

554
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Speaker 1: Did you have a bachelorette? No? No, no, no one

555
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,160
Speaker 1: one last time. No. We see each other all the time.

556
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 6: It's just been hurt anyway, drinking out of a penis,

557
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 6: but we do that anyway, right, nothing new here.

558
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 2: How has it been being in business and like being

559
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:51,919
Speaker 2: in a group like business partnership and friendship? How has

560
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 2: that worked for you guys? Like, that's not always an

561
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 2: easy thing.

562
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:56,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it worked out for.

563
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Speaker 6: Us, thankfully. It's pretty good. We'rely good about each other boundaries.

564
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 1: How long have you guys been doing music together?

565
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 5: Six years?

566
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 1: Wow?

567
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 6: And she like she had showed me her stuff and

568
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 6: I was listening to it after I got back from Sweden.

569
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 6: I was listening to it, and I was like, we

570
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 6: should do this together. And so I kind of pressured

571
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:15,399
Speaker 6: her into this and.

572
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 1: Forced yourself into her group. We need to do this

573
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 1: together exactly.

574
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Speaker 6: I always loved her, So I was like, because we

575
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 6: weren't best friends yet we like became best friends over

576
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 6: are shy, But I was like, I love her and

577
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 6: I adore her.

578
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 7: She's very dope.

579
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:34,360
Speaker 5: I'll give it a shot, and I.

580
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Speaker 1: Was like, let's do it. And now it's the best

581
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:36,240
Speaker 1: decision ever.

582
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:37,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was a great decision.

583
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 2: What was your what were your solo names when you're

584
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 2: a solo artist?

585
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: Falyan okay, I mean Falyans is like that's pretty fly.

586
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: Like you said that your your name is Nigerian. Did

587
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 1: you grow up in a traditionally Nigerian householder?

588
00:25:54,600 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 6: Like yeah, like traditionally Pan African Nigerian Jason m.

589
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 1: I heard you say that your dad was not that

590
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 1: supportive of the type of music that you're doing now,

591
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: but he was supportive of you doing music. Yeah, he was.

592
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 6: He's like a nomad artist himself as well, Like he

593
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 6: did jewelry making and stuff, singing, dancing, all those things too.

594
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 1: But he's a bubble lao. It was like a religious

595
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 1: like a yeah African religious thing anyway. So he wanted

596
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Speaker 1: me to do that.

597
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,360
Speaker 6: You didn't want me to like be up there rapp

598
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,160
Speaker 6: into Jay Dilla and stuff like that.

599
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 1: She was doing boom I was like a boom back rapper,

600
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 1: but he didn't want me to do that. What's a

601
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: boom ba? J Dilla common like woke, like the backbeat back?

602
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 1: What about you? What has been your journey with with

603
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 1: your artistry and how you grew up?

604
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 5: I grabbed this sooner? Did you ask me this?

605
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 6: My parents are big music fans. All my family loves me.

606
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,400
Speaker 6: Nobody did it. I didn't know if you could do it,

607
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 6: and then I figured out you can actually make music.

608
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 6: And I started making it when I was like fifteen mm. Yeah,

609
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 6: and not just like finding my way figuring it out.

610
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 6: But yeah, my parents are pretty supportive. Like my dad's like, girl,

611
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 6: you say crazy stuff.

612
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she worked at the Motown Museum.

613
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 6: Oh she knows every single fact about Motown and music

614
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 6: in general.

615
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

616
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm a little rusty now, but yeah, I worked

617
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 6: at the Motol Museum as my first job.

618
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:30,440
Speaker 1: That's cool.

619
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're telling the future. You knew you're gonna be

620
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:35,160
Speaker 2: here in the front seat.

621
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 5: I didn't.

622
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 1: I was listening to your Sothy and meet over were

623
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 1: listening to your new single that's coming out on Halloween

624
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 1: called try Me. I love your style. You guys like

625
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 1: are like a bridge between like like hip hop, rock,

626
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,120
Speaker 1: like punk, R and B. Like what would you like?

627
00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 8: What?

628
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:56,640
Speaker 1: John?

629
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 8: I mean?

630
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 1: I think you're like genre crossing, but like what genres

631
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,160
Speaker 1: we you say, like your style falls under.

632
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, we're like all black girl Yeah like pop pop, yeah,

633
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 6: hip hop, hip hop?

634
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: Have you already shot a music video yet? Just you know,

635
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: Miila and I are top notch video hosts, are you seriously?

636
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 1: We have been in about seven music videos. So if

637
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 1: you need a music video, ho for hire. Okay, if

638
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 1: you want a host, No, We've been featured in Duran

639
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 1: Bernard's videos. We've been featured in Jessica Rose's music videos.

640
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 1: What are the new.

641
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 2: Videos, Melanie Fiona, We're like a duo music video like

642
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 2: collective thing that is going on, So just throwing it

643
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 2: out there.

644
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 1: We haven't seen her dance moves yet.

645
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 5: We right around the street, we write down we're shooting.

646
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 2: My daughter would be very proud like so today, Yes,

647
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 2: late late in life video hosts, but we're still doing

648
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 2: Its never too late.

649
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 1: To be video. I know how how challenging it can

650
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: be to be an artist and just be independent artist.

651
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: Are you guys independent artists? That's what I thought. Me

652
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: and Mila were independent podcasters for many, many years until

653
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: we signed to Black Effect. Our family at Black Effect,

654
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: ihearty five year anniversary, What do you think is like

655
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 1: been the biggest challenge being independent? And then like what

656
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: has been like the best part about being independent?

657
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 6: The best part about being independent is that we don't

658
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 6: have to like show ship to a label or like

659
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 6: to an A and R, and they don't have to

660
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 6: like micromanage or like.

661
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 5: Cut it on our ship.

662
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, cut us into pieces and then dissect that

663
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 1: and then analyze it.

664
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Speaker 7: Yeah.

665
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 6: The worst part is it's expensive. Yeah, everything costs.

666
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 1: So god damn much, everything, everything, especially in La.

667
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 7: Yeah.

668
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 2: Yes, but likely you have a producer who's allso your husband. Yes,

669
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 2: that's cutting down a little bit of cost.

670
00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, that's that's true.

671
00:29:59,120 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 1: That's ful.

672
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 5: He comes in a lot of it on the back end.

673
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 1: He's like, I got the back end. I got him

674
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 1: on the back end.

675
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 5: She really did a big one with that one.

676
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 1: You know what. That's that's that's not talked about enough.

677
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 2: Like when you have like a we call my man

678
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 2: the tribe husband, and when he shows up for like

679
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 2: the whole tribe, like teaches the kids to ride bikes,

680
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 2: he cooks for us. But then like when it's time

681
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 2: to repay, make the payment back, you got it's me.

682
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 1: I'm an independent label, Like I've got to do it

683
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 1: brick by brick.

684
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 9: Yeah, a bike riding last week, I got a ride

685
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 9: bike teaching.

686
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 2: This is gonna trump too many fucking friends. You gotta

687
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 2: pay back something his favors.

688
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 5: Somebody's got to do it.

689
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 3: I understand.

690
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 2: I understand where you're coming from. Oh my goodness, And

691
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 2: how's your partner or with the scene in music or

692
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 2: what is how is that?

693
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 6: He's an actor and screenwriter but he also coaches kids basketball.

694
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 5: Oh nice, But he came on tour with us.

695
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 6: And shot footage because somebody had to get up there

696
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 6: and let's make this money family affair.

697
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, we need the footage exactly.

698
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 6: We opened up for Gene Moo name the Most Amazing Dreams.

699
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 6: But yeah, you can see him on stage. He's like there,

700
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 6: he's like six two and like lanky soth's there with

701
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 6: the camera bending down.

702
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 2: Well, okay, make sure you can invite us to the

703
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 2: Jenelle Money's Halloween party.

704
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

705
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 2: We're usually usually sneaking and we get him. We have

706
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 2: him with a friend of a friend.

707
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: But now that we know you guys, yeah, we're gonna you.

708
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 5: Probably can use our names if you.

709
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, I'm flying. Yes, it's like, okay, she's at home.

710
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 1: Other baby, she's not gonna mind. Don't wry.

711
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 6: But no, her Halloween parties are epic. Yeah, it's so good,

712
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 6: like she goes all out. I know.

713
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 1: I love you guys Halloween, but just like we are.

714
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 1: Is that your what's your favorite holiday? Hmm?

715
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 6: I like New Year's real because it's like a fresh start.

716
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving I think, what? What the what? In the colonizer,

717
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 1: I'm from the South California. We call it indigenous people stay.

718
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 1: I'm from Dallas, tex And people love Thanksgiving. Put that

719
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 1: spread out my smoke.

720
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 2: A joint dressing or stuffing dressing that's down south.

721
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the same ship. But I love do you say?

722
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 2: I say stuffing because I'm from a l A l

723
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 2: A thing, But also like why don't we eat.

724
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 3: Stuffing all year around? Like why do we have to

725
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 3: wait for the holiday.

726
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:45,719
Speaker 5: My mom makes him good dressing.

727
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: I don't want it all year round?

728
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 3: I do.

729
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,959
Speaker 1: I don't either. I want it on Thanksgiving.

730
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 2: For me. I will make it myself because we are

731
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 2: not leaving Thanksgiving Day without this god damn stuffing that

732
00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 2: I've waited eleven and.

733
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 1: A half months for you mean Indigenous People's Day. Indigenous

734
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:03,239
Speaker 1: People shout out to them.

735
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 6: We support all, it, says the coordinates.

736
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love Indigenous People's Dame love food.

737
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 2: I guess when you dress up every day, Halloween is

738
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 2: not your like, doesn't have to be your favorite Halloween.

739
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 1: Enjoy it.

740
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 5: But yeah, we like to dress up no matter what.

741
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 5: Were not.

742
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna adopt that.

743
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna take a page out of you

744
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 2: guys's book, and I'm not gonna wait until I mean,

745
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna wait to the week of Halloween to

746
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 2: do it all year long.

747
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 5: Okay, you must express Yeah.

748
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 2: I'm feeling feline. I mean I had to wear my

749
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 2: ears on a regular basis. I saw the little bitches

750
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 2: in high school doing it. I was like, oh, I

751
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 2: could do it too, and you can.

752
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 3: And then I.

753
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 1: Also got some motorized fairy wings. Yes they were going like.

754
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 7: That's fun.

755
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 3: But I was knocking people over.

756
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 6: But I loved every seconds. Sometimes I wear them and yeah,

757
00:33:56,880 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 6: you'd just be knocking. Sorry, you have to stop caring

758
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 6: after a while. I don't say sorry.

759
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 1: Fairy doesn't care.

760
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 3: Fairies don't apologize.

761
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, I don't care over, just keep walking.

762
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:09,320
Speaker 5: You're a mission.

763
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 1: Now, you're a mission, ladies.

764
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 2: We usually play a game called trigger, so basically like,

765
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:17,959
Speaker 2: well you hear these press on nails, bitch?

766
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:18,359
Speaker 1: Shut up?

767
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:25,279
Speaker 5: Oh shut up, press on too.

768
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: I'm on my non toxic journey and I have taken

769
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:33,919
Speaker 1: off my gels and I've put the press ons. And

770
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,319
Speaker 1: I've had these press ons on for three weeks. If

771
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 1: you've been watching this, you've been watching us for three weeks.

772
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 1: We've been recording these lives. Okay, this is these are.

773
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 3: Days before they come out.

774
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 1: So I have had the same ones on since I

775
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:53,280
Speaker 1: started my non toxic journey, and the pinkiest fucking come off, okay,

776
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: and I've literally I'm trying not to rip them off. Today.

777
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 1: I have to go to the drug store and get

778
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 1: some acid tone and so pinkies in there because it's

779
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 1: just spinky. The brand is the brand, Impress, this is

780
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: no this is lamine.

781
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 5: Oh I like, Oh so it's glue.

782
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 1: Yes, they have the they have the sticker ones. Yeah,

783
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 1: I didn't think those were gonna last. Not those things

784
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 1: the best you'll ever in your life. Impress, y'all need

785
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 1: to pay I've seen impressss. They come with the sticker

786
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 1: already on them, so you just peel it off and

787
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 1: and those last for two weeks with washings and I

788
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 1: washed dishes all the time, but then we want to

789
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: take them off. Is a bitch.

790
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:35,760
Speaker 5: It's way easier than the glue.

791
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:37,959
Speaker 6: Like I've been doing that too, because the press songs

792
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 6: like with the glue was like tearing my nails.

793
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm like, this is what I might as well

794
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 10: just get the jails and exactly maybe if all like,

795
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 10: do we need to just like as a as a

796
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,439
Speaker 10: community of women, just reject the things that we've been doing,

797
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:51,919
Speaker 10: Like just fuck the nails.

798
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:52,760
Speaker 3: We're not doing anymore.

799
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 1: You have said this literally fabulous twenty two times.

800
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 6: I know, with your long nails on your you're saying

801
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 6: that nail she's been.

802
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 1: Trying to grow to her armpit hair out I did.

803
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,359
Speaker 1: I grew up my legs hair, my armpit hair, my

804
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:05,919
Speaker 1: pissy hair.

805
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 3: I did them all.

806
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 1: And then I was like, this is not.

807
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 5: Gonna work out, do you.

808
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:11,799
Speaker 1: Yeah?

809
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 2: You know, I played with it, like the idea, and

810
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,280
Speaker 2: then I was like, I'm going in public with people.

811
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 3: Let me even even remember back in the day, like.

812
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 2: I don't know how you hold your mom's are my

813
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 2: mom's from Philly. She used to like lay down the

814
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 2: like used to put the lotion and lay down the

815
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,240
Speaker 2: leg hair and it looked like nice.

816
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 5: Oh I don't know about that trend.

817
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 1: My hair wasn't laying down. It was just like laying

818
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: down for a little Nivia shave control. When it was

819
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:42,319
Speaker 1: laid down, it looked cute. Maybe that's the creation like.

820
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 2: Age control, like a thick thing leg shake shake control.

821
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 1: We can make some trend. I'm telling you that people

822
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 1: would do it.

823
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 3: I'm kind of with it.

824
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 2: I've been lasering viral and TikTok bringing back leg hair.

825
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: She lasers everything on her body.

826
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 5: I was from the belly button down.

827
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,399
Speaker 2: I was going to enjoying laser because my homegirl works

828
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:02,799
Speaker 2: at a laser place, and she said, if you just

829
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:04,280
Speaker 2: book legs, I'll do everything.

830
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 1: So I was like, I want to. I don't know.

831
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 5: I don't believe.

832
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: You're fired. You know what. I already did laser and

833
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: then all grew back. So I'm.

834
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:20,799
Speaker 5: How long did you do it for?

835
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 1: I did like eight sessions and it was gone. But

836
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 1: then I had a baby and then it all came back.

837
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:28,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but I'm.

838
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 5: Like, I'm on twelve sessions, so I'm gonna keep going.

839
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 1: To But I will say that the texture changed it's better,

840
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 1: so now it's more manageable. So I don't even really

841
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 1: need to do laser. I don't get ingrowns like I

842
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:42,800
Speaker 1: used to. I don't mind shaving. That's fine. I like

843
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 1: even when I lasered it, I was like, damn, I'm

844
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: never gonna have pussy hair. Am I pussy again?

845
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 8: Like?

846
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 6: Not?

847
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 1: Was I sure about this decision? I literally thought that

848
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 1: I like everything. I didn't keep anything, whole thing.

849
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, something I'm grown.

850
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was also like twenty four when I did this,

851
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:05,879
Speaker 1: twenty three, so I was going full bald one star style. Yeah.

852
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 2: Wait, now that there's headphones on in the main room,

853
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 2: what did your baby daddy?

854
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 1: Dude? That was Oh my god, it's stupid, but it's

855
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 1: it's just dumb. I don't he just you know, he's

856
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 1: a Gemini, so he'd be getting in weird, like sometimes

857
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:20,920
Speaker 1: he's cool, sometimes he's not. And I never know how

858
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,879
Speaker 1: to read this nigga. So I took Iri to go

859
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 1: to Dick's Sporting Goods to get her some shoes, and

860
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: I told him I was going there. I said, hey,

861
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: can you please send some money? Says to pay for

862
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 1: the shoes, So of course he sends it to her. Whatever.

863
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck, I don't care who you

864
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 1: send it. Yes, yes, so let me get there. And

865
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, she's going anymore. This is not enough. So

866
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 1: then I was like, hey, can you send more money?

867
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 1: Like we need more money? And he was just like

868
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: I sent her money and I was like it's not

869
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 1: enough and he was like, okay, well i'll send it

870
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,839
Speaker 1: to you later. And I was like, okay, cool. So

871
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 1: then I sent a screenshot of what I spent and

872
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,399
Speaker 1: then he sent it to Iri and I'm like, why

873
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 1: the fuck are you sending this to Iri? It's my money?

874
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 1: Like why are you? Like what the fuck are you doing?

875
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 1: And so then I texted him. I was like I

876
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,959
Speaker 1: didn't even say why. I just said, did you send

877
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 1: the money to Iri? I was like, can you you

878
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 1: need to send it to me? It was there confusion,

879
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:14,799
Speaker 1: and he was like no, and I was just.

880
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 2: Like, she's not paying any bills over here.

881
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 1: He's like. I was like, I'm the one spending the money.

882
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:19,879
Speaker 1: He's like, no, I'm the one spaying the money.

883
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 6: I'm like, okay, well she didn't knock it out give

884
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 6: me that bag.

885
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: You bad choice of the days for you to be.

886
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take IRI's phone and I'm gonna fucking send

887
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 1: that money to my fucking self and now. But then

888
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, then she's gonna be like,

889
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:39,719
Speaker 1: my mom stole my money. No, it's the shoes you

890
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 1: saw me pay for. She knew that he was. She

891
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:43,399
Speaker 1: knew that he was also to send me some money

892
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 1: because she was like, you wanted to ask him to

893
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 1: send more. And then I was like, no, it's cool.

894
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: He said he's gonna send it, and then he sent

895
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 1: it to her and he called her in the car.

896
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 1: I was like, hey baby, and then I couldn't hear

897
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: what he said, and she's like, okay, thank you, love you,

898
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 1: And that's what I realized. I was like, thank you.

899
00:39:56,120 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 2: Who right, money, It's an opportunity to learn the term reimbursement.

900
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:06,360
Speaker 1: Let me tell you what reimburse me? Okay, Okay, I

901
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:06,839
Speaker 1: like that.

902
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 2: I like that, okay because if someone pays for something,

903
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 2: you have to reimburse them. And because I paid, I'm

904
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 2: the one getting reimbursed.

905
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 1: Yeah spelled our eyes Yeah, No, it's just it's just dumb, stupid.

906
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know the best part about like because we've

907
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 2: been in this for a long time. We started at

908
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 2: the very beginning where like our kids, we were just getting

909
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 2: out of relationships with their kids' dads, and it's just

910
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 2: really nice to see like the growth and just like

911
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:42,920
Speaker 2: the lack of like the control you don't have over me,

912
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 2: Like your emotions are less tied. You can laugh about

913
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 2: ship that used to like boil you, and now I'm

914
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:50,760
Speaker 2: just like, God, this would have never worked out between

915
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 2: us when this stuck.

916
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,839
Speaker 1: Was I thinking, you know, it's like such an easeful one.

917
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,919
Speaker 2: You can be like whatever niggat I have to deal

918
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 2: with you. It's such a beautiful Like I know everyone says, uh,

919
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 2: time heals the baby, does it heal?

920
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: Yeah? No, I mean it's still annoying, but this probably

921
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 1: would have boiled my blood ten times more like five

922
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: years ago. But it's just like anything, it's like all

923
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 1: the things, like even like you're in your first year

924
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 1: of mothering right now, and I don't know, how how

925
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:21,880
Speaker 1: are you feeling? Actually, how are you doing? Are you tired?

926
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 1: Are you are you are you like well rested? Are

927
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 1: you thriving. Did you experienced a postpartum I think I

928
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 1: don't know, Like I've always been like an emotional person

929
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 1: in general, so I'm not sure like what that shows

930
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 1: in me now. But my husband's parents live five minutes

931
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 1: from us, and they're the best grandparents on the planet Earth.

932
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 1: So I am like, very fortunate. Did I get right try? Yeah,

933
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: like literally, they're the best. They watch her all the time,

934
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 1: and that's how it's supposed to be. Yeah, beautiful. I

935
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 1: couldn't imagine it not being that way. I probably would

936
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 1: like lose my mind. I was just having this conversation

937
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,279
Speaker 1: yesterday with my my aunt and she was saying, like,

938
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: we need to just get a farm. I was like,

939
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 1: I've been trying to tell people that and I'm like,

940
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 1: but it's like but like you know, some people are

941
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 1: totally like think that that's insane, like that's and I'm like, no,

942
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 1: that's how That's how it was, and that's when people

943
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 1: were feeling better, like you know, And so I think

944
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:21,399
Speaker 1: that it's beautiful that you're with the grandparents live so close,

945
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,399
Speaker 1: because that's kind of like the same thing. Yeah. Yeah,

946
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 1: but these grandparents and we've talked about this You're lucky

947
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:30,759
Speaker 1: because these modern grandparents they don't really want to like

948
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 1: take the kids for that one. They don't they're not

949
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 1: making grand they're not the old grandparents. No, they don't

950
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 1: make them like they got the old kind, got the

951
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 1: old model.

952
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,799
Speaker 6: Friend of ours said that their grandparents or like their

953
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 6: parents watch the baby, but they don't change poop divers.

954
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 1: And I was like, so they don't there, So what happened.

955
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:57,399
Speaker 5: Do you come back?

956
00:42:58,800 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: Confused?

957
00:42:59,200 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 6: I was just.

958
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 1: Fifteen minutes are under? I don't even know. He was like, yeah, oh,

959
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 1: we have our our parents here too and training the baby,

960
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:12,360
Speaker 1: don't you ship? So you only go out for like

961
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:13,399
Speaker 1: dates and come back.

962
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:17,319
Speaker 5: I don't know that's anyway you change your baby you have.

963
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 1: It's because that's what you have to do if your

964
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:24,799
Speaker 1: baby sitting. Yeah, that's included in the job. Yeah, these

965
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:31,480
Speaker 1: new grandparents. Yeah, so hashtag blessed hashtags not hashtag blessed

966
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: especially might be God's favorite. I don't know. Yeah, that's true.

967
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 1: You are sounds about right because I know that if

968
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,359
Speaker 1: I have another baby, and this next baby and gonna

969
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 1: get the same care that my first daughter did, it's

970
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 1: gonna be fucked up for them, actually.

971
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:46,320
Speaker 2: But you're gonna have more time and like compassion and patient,

972
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 2: I think, and you're gonna like you have more.

973
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:51,880
Speaker 1: Space, you get more clear about it. I need help.

974
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 1: It's not about clear hands on deck.

975
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, you realize that we have a baby,

976
00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,879
Speaker 2: like me and you. This is a kid right now,

977
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 2: they go to another family part time. I was like,

978
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:03,759
Speaker 2: if we have a.

979
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: Kid, it's just us. This baby won't go any more.

980
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 2: I was like, no, breaks, are you sure you want

981
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:13,360
Speaker 2: to do this because we have one right now. Look,

982
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,719
Speaker 2: she's fine, and then she's gonna leave and then we're

983
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 2: gonna like her.

984
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 3: She gonna come back.

985
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:20,279
Speaker 2: But it's me and you do it, just me and you,

986
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 2: none of this. He's like, yeah, yeah, I won't do it.

987
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, all right, sure, yeah.

988
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 1: Babysitter y try full time, but you can drop that baby.

989
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 3: Yeah we're going to.

990
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 2: But I just realized, like honestly, I was talking to

991
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,760
Speaker 2: one of my friends as newly single, she just got divorced,

992
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 2: and she was like, honestly, having my kids, having like

993
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:47,120
Speaker 2: a part time being a part time mom is a blessing.

994
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 2: I was like, matter friend was like, people are always

995
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 2: like feeling bad for single people. She was like, I

996
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 2: feel bad for not single people. I was like, I

997
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 2: feel you.

998
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:56,720
Speaker 1: She's like, as a single mom, this is the best

999
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: we have that realization early on, we were like, this

1000
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: is the that crows ourselves relationships.

1001
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 2: I was like, it was crazy. I'm like, we're having

1002
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 2: the best time. Like I still get to some time

1003
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 2: with my kid, but then I get to drop you off.

1004
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 2: It's also your responsibility. It's like kind of.

1005
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: You guys get isolated one on one time with the

1006
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 1: person that created you.

1007
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:21,760
Speaker 2: It's important, which doesn't sometimes happen if you're not careful

1008
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 2: in the same household because it's just systematically the men

1009
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 2: think like.

1010
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 1: Oh, go to your mom, Go to your mom, go

1011
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 1: to your mom, and then they get to like back

1012
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 1: out but be there but not be doing shit. Yeah,

1013
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 1: so you got to get in that ass.

1014
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 6: I really didn't know my dad till my parents got

1015
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 6: divorced and we started talking. I was like, really, he

1016
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 6: was in the house, but I was just always with

1017
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 6: my mom or he was at work. You were always

1018
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 6: with your mom, yeah, Like we would watch our shows

1019
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:45,439
Speaker 6: and stuff, and then they got divorced and like she'd

1020
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:46,320
Speaker 6: be like, call your dad.

1021
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 5: Then I got to know him.

1022
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:48,839
Speaker 1: It was pretty cool.

1023
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 2: Wow, that's crazy that you had that realization.

1024
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 1: I didn't know my dad, Like, do you think that

1025
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 1: you were hijacking your mom?

1026
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 5: I think he thought that.

1027
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 1: I'm just wondering, like what that feels like, honestly, like

1028
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 1: now that I'm thinking about it that way, like what

1029
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: a partner might feel like, because I know my mom

1030
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 1: kind of feels like that with my brother and her

1031
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 1: husband's dynamic. They're like the best of friends, my brother

1032
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 1: and her dad, and she's like, I'm like the odd

1033
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 1: man out, Like.

1034
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 6: Oh, yeah, that's how my dad felt because I'm like,

1035
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:16,319
Speaker 6: I'm like a surprise baby. They had me late in life,

1036
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 6: so I had like older siblings, so just the three

1037
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 6: of us in the house. I think my dad felt

1038
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 6: ganged up on, like excluded from this stuff.

1039
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 1: Damn. That's dope.

1040
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's unfortunate that divorce led you here, but yeah,

1041
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:34,319
Speaker 2: that's something important to be like to be aware of

1042
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 2: as a father or you know whatever, like in the

1043
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 2: household that Like I think people get confusion that like

1044
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 2: if you're all in the household, things you're going to

1045
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 2: be perfect.

1046
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:43,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like there's still.

1047
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 2: Things that need to be like you still need to

1048
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 2: spend time, you still need to be present. Just because

1049
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:49,200
Speaker 2: you didn't leave or you don't physically live somewhere else,

1050
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 2: it does not mean that there is not opportunity to

1051
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 2: like spend actual quality time to like try.

1052
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, try and stuff. I know the affirmation try

1053
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: and I'm not trying. I'm taking my sister. My little

1054
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 1: sister is much younger than me, Like we didn't grow

1055
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 1: up in the same household, Like I was off in

1056
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: college when she was like a baby. So it's taken.

1057
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 1: It's we don't really have a relationship. And so tomorrow

1058
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 1: I'm taking her to lunch, and I'm nervous. I'm like,

1059
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:17,359
Speaker 1: this is my sister. Why am I nervous to take

1060
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:19,920
Speaker 1: my little sister to lunch? Like meeting her again, like

1061
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 1: getting to know her now? Well yeah, like really just

1062
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: getting to know her at all. Like she's kind of

1063
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 1: just been like almost like a a fantasy or something,

1064
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:29,399
Speaker 1: or like a cartoon character.

1065
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 2: Just like a but she's so much younger a cartoon character.

1066
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 1: Maybe my imagination. Yeah hey bye, Hey, I mean I

1067
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 1: wonder what I'm like to her. I'm like, I'm like

1068
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:51,320
Speaker 1: a mystery, You're not a over the internet. No, but

1069
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 1: you're probably still a mystery. Yeah.

1070
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know you always say when I think

1071
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 2: of it, you are on the internet saying like kind

1072
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 2: of jarring things if you compare it to like a

1073
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 2: very Christian twenty year old.

1074
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:07,360
Speaker 1: Oh she's religious, and that's what I.

1075
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:08,879
Speaker 7: Feel like, that's a big thing.

1076
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 1: I don't but still she's still hanging out with like

1077
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 1: her boyfriend's like a rapper or sorry, fiance she is

1078
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: like a rapper and.

1079
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 6: Likewy twenty one, what was twenty and she's a fiance

1080
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:25,959
Speaker 6: nineteen d I think she just might have just turned

1081
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 6: twic she's just turning twenty last month.

1082
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 1: She just turned twenty.

1083
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:36,439
Speaker 2: Oh I would say something yes, same, No, for real,

1084
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:38,919
Speaker 2: I don't think and this is not personal any mine,

1085
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 2: just I just know overall, I think because we're older

1086
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 2: that we can say and you know, when you're younger

1087
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 2: and people tell you shit and you're like, shut the

1088
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:49,720
Speaker 2: fuck up. I really don't feel like anyone should even

1089
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 2: consider being in a serious relationship under like thirty two.

1090
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 1: Oh, you've got to practice.

1091
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 5: That's that's long.

1092
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:01,959
Speaker 2: Maybe marriage I should be no engagement or marriage talk

1093
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 2: before like thirty to thirty two and I'm saying this

1094
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,680
Speaker 2: because I had to go through a bunch of I

1095
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 2: had to do a lot of host shit. I got

1096
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,799
Speaker 2: a lot of stupid relationships to be like yeah, and

1097
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:13,840
Speaker 2: even I had a conversation with my mom recently and

1098
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:15,840
Speaker 2: we got into a huge not a huge dargon, but

1099
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 2: an argument over something fucking ridiculous about me wanting to

1100
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,280
Speaker 2: get another car because I didn't want to take Orlando

1101
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 2: to work at five am. And she's like, you don't

1102
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 2: need to get another car. I took your dad to

1103
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:27,879
Speaker 2: work at five am. I was like, I was like, no,

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Speaker 2: is this about you? And I'm like I don't care,

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Speaker 2: Like I don't want to struggle. I don't want I

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Speaker 1: And she was like, and you shouldn't do that. And

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Speaker 2: And I don't know why I said that, and I

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1150
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Speaker 1: you know everyone's path is different, Like do I believe

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it is probably a good time to get

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Speaker 1: I can do this. I'm really craving a vagina. Interesting.

1319
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 1: I was a lesbian for a long time, at least

1320
01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 1: four years stream straight I went consecutively.

1321
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 2: Okay, one more lesbian question. Have you ever taken a

1322
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 2: strap on?

1323
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:44,400
Speaker 1: Yes?

1324
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:48,240
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't even ask that because you're.

1325
01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 1: Not a real lesbian. I don't know. You don't know

1326
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 1: a lesbian asked.

1327
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 5: I was like, maybe, I was, actually.

1328
01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 1: She knows the question to ask.

1329
01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 2: Okay, when you do women or what kind of women

1330
01:00:59,880 --> 01:01:04,480
Speaker 2: attracted to? Like a stem, a stud, a feminine girl, lipstick, feminine.

1331
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 1: I've never had a stud before in my life, but

1332
01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 1: I try. Maybe, yeah, because I'm attracted to like a

1333
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:18,640
Speaker 1: like a soft stud. Is that also thing for young

1334
01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 1: mo to? And she's not a what's her name? She's

1335
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:27,920
Speaker 1: a hard she's hard, a soft stem like a samur.

1336
01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:29,840
Speaker 2: A soft stud would be like like kind of like

1337
01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:31,600
Speaker 2: the girls I would say, like Kailani. I was gonna

1338
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:35,360
Speaker 2: ask killan Okay, but the one she dates like they're

1339
01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 2: kind of the Kailanie lipstick.

1340
01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 1: She's masculine.

1341
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:41,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, sometimes she's smashed.

1342
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 1: She looks like she can maybe be liken't lipstick like

1343
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 1: fully all the time, like girly.

1344
01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:49,240
Speaker 5: Right, yeah, so she's like a switch would mean.

1345
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 2: She was like, I don't think she wears like boy clothes. Yeah,

1346
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 2: she's not gonna get a lineup like that.

1347
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,840
Speaker 1: I don't know if she did that, I would get

1348
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 1: so wet. Oh my god, if Kaylanie came on the

1349
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:06,640
Speaker 1: Kailani listen, she won't she could get that fade the girl.

1350
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:08,440
Speaker 5: I can see it.

1351
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 1: I can see it because you know you want it.

1352
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 1: No it one time, just once, like I just want

1353
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:17,040
Speaker 1: to see it one time. Then like curls and.

1354
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:18,000
Speaker 5: She has like some masculine energy.

1355
01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 1: She's she's yeah, she's I would be on Instagram. She

1356
01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:26,680
Speaker 1: probably not us, like she's walking with all of us,

1357
01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:31,000
Speaker 1: confusing us. Why she'd be like put her little wife

1358
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:32,960
Speaker 1: beater on and that's what I'm saying. I like that,

1359
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 1: and then liked no makeup on, lips moisturized and ship

1360
01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:38,800
Speaker 1: hair looks short and stuff like I'm like, damn, okay,

1361
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 1: yeah it's good, she can get it.

1362
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:43,040
Speaker 2: I don't come out of retirement for k was that

1363
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:44,200
Speaker 2: your strictly?

1364
01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 1: I dated a lot of like soft studs like for

1365
01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:48,680
Speaker 1: the women now, so you'd have to go, Okay, she

1366
01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:51,880
Speaker 1: doesn't do anymore, she said, she said that.

1367
01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 2: I said that too, and then I was like it

1368
01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 2: She like a crackhead, like I want to dig with

1369
01:02:57,200 --> 01:02:57,800
Speaker 2: blood in it?

1370
01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, pump exactly that.

1371
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:07,160
Speaker 2: It's not the same as a toy. I'm going to

1372
01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:09,320
Speaker 2: be keep it a hundred as a former lesbian. I

1373
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:12,280
Speaker 2: just need to make a PSA announcement. The strap bonds

1374
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 2: don't feel the same as an actual pulsing blood filled So.

1375
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:18,080
Speaker 1: It's been a long time. I might have done some

1376
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:18,480
Speaker 1: other things.

1377
01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 2: They don't get hot, they're not warm. And then also

1378
01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 2: and then they have come that nut, but it's just

1379
01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:30,640
Speaker 2: they don't I'm what do you put in?

1380
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 1: Why would they do it in that way? But imagine,

1381
01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 1: I don't know why.

1382
01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:37,120
Speaker 3: I don't get that.

1383
01:03:37,160 --> 01:03:40,120
Speaker 1: Fine, I don't want it. Can you imagine? Have to

1384
01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:41,360
Speaker 1: go heat up your dick right quick?

1385
01:03:41,840 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 8: Right?

1386
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 1: No, you're not exists already. I'll very bad. I'm gonna

1387
01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 1: heat it. There's already massagers the heat up.

1388
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 5: You know, there's got to be heated. There are yeah,

1389
01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 5: like you know those those massagers.

1390
01:03:53,720 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I feel like that would be understand

1391
01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:02,960
Speaker 1: what kind where?

1392
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,880
Speaker 2: I think fire hazard. They can't tell you something that

1393
01:04:06,880 --> 01:04:09,680
Speaker 2: gets hot. And also I'm going to go to romantics. Yeah,

1394
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 2: there's a new something new that just dropped it a heated.

1395
01:04:13,960 --> 01:04:17,960
Speaker 1: Vibrant It gets if you have it on for long enough.

1396
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 3: You know, told me about it's not here.

1397
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:23,160
Speaker 1: Now she told me she came to this location line.

1398
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:24,960
Speaker 5: It was not invented that we should invent.

1399
01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 2: We should as one and a half lesbians, we should

1400
01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:28,000
Speaker 2: be the first.

1401
01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:30,120
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1402
01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:37,200
Speaker 1: Anyway, okay, speaking of sex, let's let's talk about it.

1403
01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:39,600
Speaker 1: Do you guys? We have a little segment on our

1404
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:42,040
Speaker 1: show called Hori's where we ask our guests to share

1405
01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:43,640
Speaker 1: a little hotel.

1406
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:55,520
Speaker 5: Who stories? Yeah, I mean I don't. I mean I do,

1407
01:04:55,560 --> 01:04:56,520
Speaker 5: but it's like I'm boring.

1408
01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:57,960
Speaker 1: What do you go first?

1409
01:04:58,600 --> 01:05:01,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, have a real whole face.

1410
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:05,760
Speaker 1: You can literally have the worry with your with your man.

1411
01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:08,920
Speaker 1: I know you never the nasty ship like I bent

1412
01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 1: over by the I don't know.

1413
01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:10,480
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1414
01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:12,760
Speaker 1: Also like yeah.

1415
01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:17,080
Speaker 2: Groupies, Yeah, getting like on the road groupiest.

1416
01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:20,919
Speaker 6: We've been in relationships the whole time, like when we

1417
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:22,960
Speaker 6: they were there, this would be a perfect time.

1418
01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:24,560
Speaker 3: I have a threesome. Trust right now?

1419
01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, you're like, hey, groupies, brokay, no fans, No, because

1420
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 6: I feel like our fans are like so passionate. Yea,

1421
01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:35,840
Speaker 6: they all have self diagnosed like something some everything?

1422
01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:37,480
Speaker 1: What do you all of them? But are you say

1423
01:05:37,480 --> 01:05:39,600
Speaker 1: they're all like emore you.

1424
01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 6: You know, or like self diagnosed involuntary mudism?

1425
01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:52,200
Speaker 1: Wait? Who fan fans is a bad fans? Is a

1426
01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:55,000
Speaker 1: bad bad idea? She said they are self diagnosed.

1427
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 5: Something, all of them. Sorry, some of them are just

1428
01:05:58,400 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 5: like not self diagnosed.

1429
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 1: Actually die you No, No, we love our fans, no

1430
01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:02,680
Speaker 1: we do.

1431
01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:05,080
Speaker 6: But some of them, they they'd be hitting on me

1432
01:06:05,120 --> 01:06:07,479
Speaker 6: in the d all of them, the girls, the boys.

1433
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:08,720
Speaker 6: I mean that was a good girl to try.

1434
01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 1: I guess because just right there, I say, no fans,

1435
01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 1: I think let me get let me go ahead and

1436
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 1: tell you we're gonna go no fans, Okay, don't don't

1437
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:20,400
Speaker 1: do it. I don't recommend it. I think it's not man,

1438
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 1: we went too far. You guys have way more fans

1439
01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:26,600
Speaker 1: than so. We thought we were rock star moms. We are,

1440
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: but that was it was.

1441
01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:30,240
Speaker 3: Not a good idea we have. I take responsibility for that.

1442
01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:34,040
Speaker 5: But maybe one fan like like worship King.

1443
01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 1: We went all the way, yeah, maybe will tell the

1444
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:38,240
Speaker 1: story you get on Patreon. We were like, hey, everybody

1445
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:43,240
Speaker 1: wants to come with us, join Patreon dot com, backslash,

1446
01:06:43,240 --> 01:06:47,919
Speaker 1: good Moms choices. You want to hear our groupie because

1447
01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 1: that's it kept going. It's extended because like updates, it's horrible.

1448
01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:54,720
Speaker 1: It actually fucked up three years later.

1449
01:06:54,800 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 3: I can fuck you.

1450
01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:57,680
Speaker 1: Fan if you're listening to this, fuck you.

1451
01:06:57,960 --> 01:07:00,160
Speaker 2: I can finally talk about it for three years in

1452
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:03,840
Speaker 2: the sealed files of never to be Spoken again, I'm about.

1453
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:04,720
Speaker 5: To join this Patreon, but.

1454
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:07,360
Speaker 1: Now we're gonna write I'm finally ready.

1455
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:13,400
Speaker 2: I've heeled Yeah, okay, I won't get it and get

1456
01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 2: back to your horries ago.

1457
01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 5: Oh you think what is mine?

1458
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 1: Then the Ethiopian Ethiopian tell me more.

1459
01:07:23,680 --> 01:07:25,720
Speaker 6: This is not the most whole thing, because I like

1460
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 6: to get to know people, like their personality exactly.

1461
01:07:29,920 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 5: But then this time I was like I was like

1462
01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:32,480
Speaker 5: a year celibate because I was.

1463
01:07:32,440 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 6: Like in between relationships, and like I made out with

1464
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:37,880
Speaker 6: this guy at a bar and we ho and it

1465
01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 6: was like such a good kid. So it was just random,

1466
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:41,320
Speaker 6: like I was just dancing and he came up behind

1467
01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:42,520
Speaker 6: me and he was like really cute.

1468
01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:45,680
Speaker 5: Then I turned around and we just like and then

1469
01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:47,920
Speaker 5: he asked me on a date. So then we went

1470
01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:49,400
Speaker 5: on a date. It was cute. Then he was like,

1471
01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:50,360
Speaker 5: do you want to come back to my house?

1472
01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:52,160
Speaker 6: And I was like, actually, I'm trying to continue out

1473
01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:54,160
Speaker 6: this year celibate, so I don't know if that's a

1474
01:07:54,160 --> 01:07:54,680
Speaker 6: good idea.

1475
01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:56,800
Speaker 5: And he says, okay, we can just watch a movie.

1476
01:07:57,080 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 5: And then he was like, why am I telling this story?

1477
01:07:59,640 --> 01:08:02,640
Speaker 1: Don't She was like, okay, well this save space.

1478
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:05,160
Speaker 6: So we were back at his house watching a movie,

1479
01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:08,400
Speaker 6: making out a little bit, and he's like, I really

1480
01:08:08,440 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 6: want to.

1481
01:08:08,720 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 1: Fuck really bad, said.

1482
01:08:12,640 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 5: Please, mom, what it is remember?

1483
01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:19,559
Speaker 6: And I'm like no, I'm just I'm almost there, like

1484
01:08:19,560 --> 01:08:21,559
Speaker 6: when it was October and I'm like, I'm almost there

1485
01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:22,679
Speaker 6: to the year somebody as well.

1486
01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:25,479
Speaker 5: Just wait, yeah, if you care about me.

1487
01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:27,920
Speaker 6: At all, yeah, And then he.

1488
01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:29,800
Speaker 5: Was like, but will you suck my dick?

1489
01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:32,120
Speaker 1: You talking like this?

1490
01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:33,439
Speaker 7: Well you please?

1491
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:34,840
Speaker 5: Just he was kind of nerve.

1492
01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 6: He was a mathematician, and I was like, well, I

1493
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:42,200
Speaker 6: try to be a hole a little bit.

1494
01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 5: So then I sucked his dick. It was pretty good

1495
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:46,479
Speaker 5: because I'm so good at it.

1496
01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:48,280
Speaker 1: You know what you're a professional.

1497
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:51,240
Speaker 2: You know, I'm gonna have to know these moves when

1498
01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:52,559
Speaker 2: this That's what I'm gonna need to know.

1499
01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:54,280
Speaker 1: Wait, when you were sucking this dick? I only asked

1500
01:08:54,280 --> 01:08:56,479
Speaker 1: because I've had a situation like this where I was

1501
01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:58,240
Speaker 1: sucking the dick and I was like feeling like should

1502
01:08:58,240 --> 01:09:00,280
Speaker 1: I be doing this? Yeah? Yeah, I was thinking.

1503
01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:03,000
Speaker 6: I was very present in the moment. I don't know him.

1504
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:06,320
Speaker 6: I just met him to before, like, so I didn't.

1505
01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:09,040
Speaker 6: I was thinking like, oh, actually, maybe I should stop now.

1506
01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:11,559
Speaker 6: So it was like literally like one minute of dick sucking.

1507
01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:14,639
Speaker 2: Then he was like, oh that was That was the episode.

1508
01:09:14,800 --> 01:09:17,240
Speaker 1: The inner the inner thoughts of the Diary of a

1509
01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:20,400
Speaker 1: conflicted Home. The diary of that was me. I was

1510
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:24,680
Speaker 1: having very conflicted thoughts about my my wholeness. It was

1511
01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 1: because mine was for different reasons. It wasn't because I

1512
01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:28,559
Speaker 1: was a celibate.

1513
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:30,320
Speaker 3: She just really wanted it.

1514
01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:34,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was. My friend had dated this guy sort of,

1515
01:09:34,439 --> 01:09:37,000
Speaker 1: but they broke up like a long time ago, and

1516
01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 1: then we just hung out one time and then I

1517
01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:40,960
Speaker 1: was like, it was all this chemistry and it was fine.

1518
01:09:41,320 --> 01:09:42,559
Speaker 3: Let me tell you, it was so fine.

1519
01:09:42,640 --> 01:09:46,200
Speaker 1: That's OK. Then I started to makes bitches tweak and

1520
01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:48,960
Speaker 1: you got me so high. I was confused and we're

1521
01:09:48,960 --> 01:09:54,360
Speaker 1: watching a weird movie with cats. Yeah, you had sex

1522
01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:58,280
Speaker 1: after don't. It was crazy, it was too much, it

1523
01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:02,839
Speaker 1: was raining, it was just fu Oh, I'm sorry anyway

1524
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:03,960
Speaker 1: I can relate.

1525
01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:07,519
Speaker 5: That's a good story. Yeah, no, I just instantly regretted it.

1526
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:10,800
Speaker 5: And that's the worst. And that's why why I was

1527
01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 5: scared not to be anymore.

1528
01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:15,000
Speaker 2: But you learn if you learn, Like, Okay, if I wouldn't,

1529
01:10:15,080 --> 01:10:17,120
Speaker 2: I said not to begin with, I should have just left.

1530
01:10:17,600 --> 01:10:18,719
Speaker 1: You learn in the hoeing.

1531
01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:21,200
Speaker 2: There's always lessons. Not to encourage the hoeing for the lessons.

1532
01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:22,760
Speaker 2: But you know, I think you should just be.

1533
01:10:22,720 --> 01:10:24,599
Speaker 6: A confident hoe and I just wasn't ready for that.

1534
01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:26,879
Speaker 6: But if I were to hoe now, I'll be super confident,

1535
01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:27,960
Speaker 6: Like I know what I'm holling about.

1536
01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:30,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm clear. I want to hold with you, yes tonight,

1537
01:10:30,680 --> 01:10:33,800
Speaker 1: and I'm holding for me, and then we're hoing for life.

1538
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:37,200
Speaker 1: Ho for your hold him, yes for you. Don't hold

1539
01:10:37,240 --> 01:10:38,200
Speaker 1: for him, but.

1540
01:10:38,560 --> 01:10:40,320
Speaker 5: Be an empowered hole. Don't be a sad home.

1541
01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:44,040
Speaker 1: Don't really sad, stand but you know why, because you

1542
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:45,960
Speaker 1: can't shame an unashamed hoe.

1543
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:48,760
Speaker 2: Exactly, But if you're ashamed, If you're a shamed ho,

1544
01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:49,960
Speaker 2: it just doesn't work.

1545
01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 1: Anywaying it for all the empowered hose you.

1546
01:10:53,400 --> 01:10:55,479
Speaker 2: Got, like, you gotta have like put some ship on

1547
01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:56,320
Speaker 2: your chest to be a home.

1548
01:10:57,400 --> 01:10:58,360
Speaker 5: Put the whole your chest.

1549
01:10:59,360 --> 01:11:01,800
Speaker 2: Put the whole your chest, you whole, Like, yeah, I'm

1550
01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 2: a whole nigga.

1551
01:11:02,640 --> 01:11:05,840
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, I cannot steal.

1552
01:11:06,000 --> 01:11:07,800
Speaker 5: They cry, what's your body count?

1553
01:11:08,240 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 1: A lot? Nigga?

1554
01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:09,479
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1555
01:11:09,560 --> 01:11:13,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like, why I do that? I got enough, nigga.

1556
01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:16,640
Speaker 1: You know how to suck For the first time, I

1557
01:11:16,680 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 1: sucked from.

1558
01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:19,639
Speaker 3: The moment he touched my lips.

1559
01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:26,839
Speaker 1: Niggas more for this. You got to have in you.

1560
01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:29,400
Speaker 2: Some people have the hoe in them, some people don't.

1561
01:11:29,439 --> 01:11:32,160
Speaker 2: And if you can't see that your chest, don't do

1562
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 2: it for real.

1563
01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:37,400
Speaker 6: Yeah some mine was underdeveloped. Yeah, but now you've developed it.

1564
01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:37,880
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1565
01:11:37,880 --> 01:11:39,439
Speaker 5: If my man sucked up.

1566
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:43,120
Speaker 1: Oh, these streets streets are calling. The streets are calling.

1567
01:11:43,200 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna start like a boot camp for

1568
01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:47,280
Speaker 2: the hose. If you want to have some hoe in

1569
01:11:47,320 --> 01:11:50,000
Speaker 2: your chest. You joined Mila's boot camp.

1570
01:11:51,160 --> 01:12:00,960
Speaker 1: An I'm scared your chest. Who would buy this course?

1571
01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:01,240
Speaker 7: Who?

1572
01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:04,480
Speaker 1: If you're a weak ass side hoe.

1573
01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:07,080
Speaker 2: I have tips for you if you want to put

1574
01:12:07,080 --> 01:12:09,400
Speaker 2: the hole in your chest, if you want to be

1575
01:12:09,439 --> 01:12:13,920
Speaker 2: an unashamed hoe and not ashamed, and you want to

1576
01:12:13,960 --> 01:12:19,160
Speaker 2: read good Mom's Corinthians one and two that says that

1577
01:12:19,320 --> 01:12:20,840
Speaker 2: shall hold with thy chest.

1578
01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 1: Without shame, without without judgment.

1579
01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:28,439
Speaker 11: Lord, just holding for the pussy and for the pleasure, Lord,

1580
01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:29,080
Speaker 11: for the healing.

1581
01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:31,160
Speaker 5: Yes, won't you do it?

1582
01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:34,639
Speaker 2: If I got numbers, it's because I got different area codes.

1583
01:12:36,680 --> 01:12:39,320
Speaker 1: We're not a powerful hole. I'm manifest with this.

1584
01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:44,000
Speaker 11: Hold them, amen, No one can tell me ship about

1585
01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:50,720
Speaker 11: this pussy. This pussy brought life, and this pussy brought

1586
01:12:50,760 --> 01:12:53,160
Speaker 11: come all right, the.

1587
01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:55,680
Speaker 1: Church, you get a hallelujah, hallelujah.

1588
01:12:55,920 --> 01:12:59,120
Speaker 6: I'm sold, amen, Amen, I really think you gotta cut

1589
01:12:59,200 --> 01:13:00,439
Speaker 6: that as a peace.

1590
01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 1: This is part of this is part of the buffett has.

1591
01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:04,000
Speaker 8: To be.

1592
01:13:05,840 --> 01:13:12,960
Speaker 1: Past. My hair is getting sweated, that's right, yes, one

1593
01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:15,559
Speaker 1: right out of me. The Holy Spirit, the.

1594
01:13:15,640 --> 01:13:18,280
Speaker 5: Holy Spirit is coming through Lord spirits.

1595
01:13:19,040 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 3: We would rebuke all anti hoes and cels.

1596
01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:29,639
Speaker 2: Yes, rebuke all the Kevin Samuel's followers, all the niggas

1597
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:31,200
Speaker 2: acted like Christians.

1598
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:34,479
Speaker 1: But they hoen in the streets floor and them away

1599
01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:41,000
Speaker 1: from the Lord away. I don't. I only want the

1600
01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:43,200
Speaker 1: men of God that understand the hold them.

1601
01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:46,600
Speaker 5: Lord, the whole kingdom, Lord, hole kingdom.

1602
01:13:47,360 --> 01:13:47,439
Speaker 6: The.

1603
01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:54,560
Speaker 1: Kingdom. Let us be in peace. But Holy Dix that

1604
01:13:54,720 --> 01:14:00,519
Speaker 1: respects our hold them. Yes, hallelujah. Amen, Amen that beautiful

1605
01:14:02,720 --> 01:14:09,120
Speaker 1: chandling your candle. You channeled an ancient home channel and

1606
01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:13,400
Speaker 1: the whole house channel married. It was part of Egypt.

1607
01:14:13,479 --> 01:14:15,479
Speaker 1: But I feel, I feel, I felt the ham come through.

1608
01:14:17,320 --> 01:14:18,840
Speaker 1: Let me hate that, let me.

1609
01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:22,880
Speaker 5: Deserve that. I got some bitches. I can send that

1610
01:14:22,920 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 5: shoot too, right now, right now.

1611
01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:30,120
Speaker 2: Send the tone right now, because a sad ho yeah clip, okay,

1612
01:14:30,200 --> 01:14:31,520
Speaker 2: now what's your horror?

1613
01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:35,920
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, okay, first time moving here. I'm from Dallas, Texas.

1614
01:14:35,960 --> 01:14:40,120
Speaker 6: Everyone's so like kind and sweet, okay. And I'm walking

1615
01:14:40,160 --> 01:14:42,360
Speaker 6: down Hollywood Boulevard because I live off like lost Pomas

1616
01:14:42,400 --> 01:14:45,920
Speaker 6: in Hollywood. It's me and my friend Taylor, and we're

1617
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:48,639
Speaker 6: just walking down the street and we see these guys

1618
01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:51,519
Speaker 6: and they're dressed like kind of like weeping hipster.

1619
01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:52,040
Speaker 7: You know.

1620
01:14:52,439 --> 01:14:54,240
Speaker 1: They got the poncho that you can buy from like

1621
01:14:54,280 --> 01:14:56,880
Speaker 1: the smoke shop type of poncho, like the roster man

1622
01:14:56,960 --> 01:14:59,240
Speaker 1: poncho and I'm like, oh my god, period like hipsters.

1623
01:14:59,320 --> 01:14:59,720
Speaker 5: I love it.

1624
01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:03,320
Speaker 1: And we start talking to them a little bit. They're like,

1625
01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:03,880
Speaker 1: do you smoke?

1626
01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:08,000
Speaker 6: We were like yeah, we uh, we have this really

1627
01:15:08,080 --> 01:15:12,120
Speaker 6: cool apartment actually right here, all by ourselves. We're when

1628
01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:15,280
Speaker 6: to come over, and we invite these men over, and

1629
01:15:17,200 --> 01:15:19,840
Speaker 6: we later on in the day figure out that they

1630
01:15:20,120 --> 01:15:20,799
Speaker 6: were homeless.

1631
01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:24,880
Speaker 1: I knew it because he really we didn't want to know,

1632
01:15:25,120 --> 01:15:27,120
Speaker 1: because he had like he had made a comment of

1633
01:15:27,240 --> 01:15:31,800
Speaker 1: like nowhere to go, and I'm like, oh, we know

1634
01:15:31,840 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 1: where to go.

1635
01:15:34,400 --> 01:15:36,080
Speaker 6: He was like, oh yeah, we're like kind of homeless.

1636
01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:40,880
Speaker 6: And I'm like, okay, like on someone's couch and he's

1637
01:15:40,960 --> 01:15:43,080
Speaker 6: like yeah, he's like yeah.

1638
01:15:43,080 --> 01:15:45,000
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, can you go there? And he's

1639
01:15:45,080 --> 01:15:47,360
Speaker 1: like no, not right now, not right now. So we

1640
01:15:47,439 --> 01:15:48,200
Speaker 1: let them sleep over.

1641
01:15:48,439 --> 01:15:50,960
Speaker 5: Oh my god, lord, I feel like I don't I

1642
01:15:51,120 --> 01:15:51,519
Speaker 5: know this story.

1643
01:15:52,200 --> 01:15:57,160
Speaker 1: This is the under twenty five story, twenty four Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

1644
01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:05,160
Speaker 1: I did this last week right here, right now, just

1645
01:16:05,400 --> 01:16:09,160
Speaker 1: two vulnerable girls, okay, And then we had to kick

1646
01:16:09,320 --> 01:16:12,599
Speaker 1: we didn't. I didn't. I didn't you care the homeless

1647
01:16:12,800 --> 01:16:19,240
Speaker 1: I was on my period. If I wasn't on my period, homeless.

1648
01:16:18,920 --> 01:16:20,479
Speaker 3: Man I've seen them, fine homeless man.

1649
01:16:24,080 --> 01:16:29,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're insane. Then the next day, because we let

1650
01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:32,800
Speaker 1: them sleep over you, you're kind of brocking peacefully with

1651
01:16:32,880 --> 01:16:33,559
Speaker 1: your eyes closed.

1652
01:16:35,120 --> 01:16:39,960
Speaker 6: One of them took a bath. There was a black

1653
01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:45,240
Speaker 6: ring around the bad Take that.

1654
01:16:47,040 --> 01:16:47,360
Speaker 3: You did?

1655
01:16:47,520 --> 01:16:53,880
Speaker 1: You really did? Who cares? And who cares? One of

1656
01:16:54,000 --> 01:16:59,840
Speaker 1: their brothers came storming through the door next day, ask

1657
01:16:59,880 --> 01:17:01,720
Speaker 1: you where his brother was?

1658
01:17:02,280 --> 01:17:02,439
Speaker 5: Wait?

1659
01:17:02,560 --> 01:17:04,680
Speaker 1: Was his brother spend the night too? Or yeah, he'd

1660
01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:07,600
Speaker 1: spent the night he was. It was two guys. My

1661
01:17:07,760 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 1: friend had the other. I'm before he got in the

1662
01:17:12,240 --> 01:17:14,679
Speaker 1: bed though I think it was after.

1663
01:17:17,160 --> 01:17:17,720
Speaker 7: She was young.

1664
01:17:17,960 --> 01:17:21,640
Speaker 1: Okay, No, that wasn't mine. By the way, did he

1665
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:22,280
Speaker 1: take a bath?

1666
01:17:26,600 --> 01:17:26,640
Speaker 8: No?

1667
01:17:30,680 --> 01:17:34,439
Speaker 1: Okay. So the next morning, the brother comes storming through

1668
01:17:34,479 --> 01:17:35,760
Speaker 1: the door. Where's my brother?

1669
01:17:35,880 --> 01:17:35,920
Speaker 8: Was?

1670
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:38,320
Speaker 1: My brother was? My brother? We also left the door unlocked,

1671
01:17:38,400 --> 01:17:42,599
Speaker 1: like it was like, I don't know, comes storm through

1672
01:17:42,600 --> 01:17:44,679
Speaker 1: the door, where's my brother? Were like, oh my god,

1673
01:17:44,920 --> 01:17:46,000
Speaker 1: you'll have to go right now.

1674
01:17:46,320 --> 01:17:46,840
Speaker 7: They left.

1675
01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:51,519
Speaker 1: We found little capsules of like a dark liquid left

1676
01:17:51,600 --> 01:17:56,200
Speaker 1: behind along with the ring in the tub, and they

1677
01:17:56,240 --> 01:17:58,160
Speaker 1: were like, oh my god. We like we think it

1678
01:17:58,280 --> 01:18:02,280
Speaker 1: was like hair on or something black. Yeah, it was

1679
01:18:02,400 --> 01:18:06,920
Speaker 1: like a dark were they nodding off? It was was

1680
01:18:06,960 --> 01:18:08,840
Speaker 1: there a word smelling? I thought it was like a

1681
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:11,400
Speaker 1: dark liquid. We had to like lock the doors. My

1682
01:18:11,560 --> 01:18:14,280
Speaker 1: brother lived in Los Angeles at the time, so I

1683
01:18:14,360 --> 01:18:15,240
Speaker 1: had to call him.

1684
01:18:15,160 --> 01:18:16,400
Speaker 3: And was he like, are you a dumb it?

1685
01:18:17,120 --> 01:18:17,320
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1686
01:18:18,320 --> 01:18:22,200
Speaker 1: And I said, we may have let the wrong guys over.

1687
01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:24,919
Speaker 1: They were homeless.

1688
01:18:25,120 --> 01:18:27,559
Speaker 5: Oh man, Okay, I thought.

1689
01:18:27,439 --> 01:18:32,360
Speaker 1: There was more to this. No, this is a horror

1690
01:18:32,360 --> 01:18:38,120
Speaker 1: story for Halloween. Okay, this is a story I've never heard.

1691
01:18:40,760 --> 01:18:42,519
Speaker 1: And then like after that, he just like, did you

1692
01:18:42,560 --> 01:18:45,439
Speaker 1: guys make out? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, okay, so something you

1693
01:18:45,479 --> 01:18:47,800
Speaker 1: got pets a little bit, Yeah happened. But I'm also

1694
01:18:47,880 --> 01:18:49,680
Speaker 1: I'm a pillow princess. So he didn't ask me to

1695
01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 1: suck his day. We're gonna have put the horror music

1696
01:18:52,520 --> 01:18:56,280
Speaker 1: behind this clim The homeless man didn't ask me to

1697
01:18:56,320 --> 01:18:59,400
Speaker 1: suck his homeless day, but he ate your No, they

1698
01:18:59,479 --> 01:19:04,160
Speaker 1: just because I was in my period, right, you can't

1699
01:19:04,320 --> 01:19:10,360
Speaker 1: you know the period roommate let him hit though I don't.

1700
01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:11,240
Speaker 1: I don't even know.

1701
01:19:11,320 --> 01:19:13,280
Speaker 7: I'm asking asked.

1702
01:19:13,560 --> 01:19:14,840
Speaker 1: She might have been on her period too, but I

1703
01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:17,640
Speaker 1: don't know. Actually I don't remember. We probably think that,

1704
01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:19,600
Speaker 1: but it reminds me of a movie. And she was

1705
01:19:19,720 --> 01:19:21,280
Speaker 1: like he was a wizard.

1706
01:19:21,680 --> 01:19:23,760
Speaker 3: She was he was like, he was homeless. She was

1707
01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:25,240
Speaker 3: like he had magical being.

1708
01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:30,200
Speaker 1: No, exactly, he got us weed. So he did have

1709
01:19:30,280 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 1: the weed. He was had weed. Yeah, hopefully it was weed.

1710
01:19:33,080 --> 01:19:34,719
Speaker 1: It's an offering. It's an offering.

1711
01:19:34,840 --> 01:19:35,000
Speaker 8: You know.

1712
01:19:35,240 --> 01:19:37,960
Speaker 1: You saved that man that back, I think, so he

1713
01:19:38,040 --> 01:19:40,040
Speaker 1: could have cleaned it after. But you know, yeah, we

1714
01:19:40,160 --> 01:19:42,240
Speaker 1: made out a little bit. It was a good kiss

1715
01:19:42,360 --> 01:19:45,040
Speaker 1: from what I remember. Lovely, if you live.

1716
01:19:44,960 --> 01:19:48,479
Speaker 2: In Hollywood, don't bring strangers home to your house ever. Ever,

1717
01:19:48,800 --> 01:19:51,200
Speaker 2: don't just just don't bring strangers that young. I bought

1718
01:19:51,200 --> 01:19:54,479
Speaker 2: a homeless person in my hospital, not not like that,

1719
01:19:54,760 --> 01:19:57,519
Speaker 2: like in the night. I just I was moving and

1720
01:19:57,720 --> 01:19:58,840
Speaker 2: he was on the street and I thought he was

1721
01:19:58,880 --> 01:20:00,240
Speaker 2: just a nice guy. And then I really as he

1722
01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:01,760
Speaker 2: was homeless and kept seeing him outside in the.

1723
01:20:01,800 --> 01:20:04,840
Speaker 1: Trash, and I was like, my damn, that type. I

1724
01:20:04,920 --> 01:20:06,320
Speaker 1: thought about it, and then I was like, you could

1725
01:20:06,320 --> 01:20:08,400
Speaker 1: get mad outside and fight another home, like there was

1726
01:20:08,400 --> 01:20:10,160
Speaker 1: like bum fighting, And then I realized that man was

1727
01:20:10,200 --> 01:20:10,680
Speaker 1: in my house.

1728
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:11,759
Speaker 3: Did you say bum fighting?

1729
01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:12,439
Speaker 1: Bum fights?

1730
01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:13,080
Speaker 5: Remember bump fight?

1731
01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:16,120
Speaker 1: I do, But it's the thing A world that was

1732
01:20:16,960 --> 01:20:21,559
Speaker 1: the thing. It is it is, Yeah, it's the first kind.

1733
01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:24,960
Speaker 3: Oh wow, that was like a really good tory. Thank you,

1734
01:20:25,080 --> 01:20:25,439
Speaker 3: really good.

1735
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:27,759
Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing, ladies, thank you. That was just lovely.

1736
01:20:28,920 --> 01:20:29,760
Speaker 7: Do like me?

1737
01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:35,160
Speaker 1: Okay, don't do like I say? Is that the affirmation.

1738
01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:37,439
Speaker 8: You're young?

1739
01:20:37,640 --> 01:20:41,320
Speaker 1: Moving somewhere? I say, not as I done.

1740
01:20:41,439 --> 01:20:43,600
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that was really funny. I think I

1741
01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:59,080
Speaker 2: had real tears. We picked a tarot card. Okay, upside

1742
01:20:59,080 --> 01:21:02,160
Speaker 2: down there the three of swords?

1743
01:21:02,240 --> 01:21:02,400
Speaker 1: Right?

1744
01:21:03,600 --> 01:21:08,720
Speaker 3: And what is that nine of one that was upside down?

1745
01:21:09,400 --> 01:21:10,160
Speaker 3: The three of swords.

1746
01:21:10,160 --> 01:21:12,240
Speaker 2: When the three of swords turns up in a terror reading,

1747
01:21:12,320 --> 01:21:14,760
Speaker 2: it signals that you are feeling deeply hurt and disappointed.

1748
01:21:15,120 --> 01:21:17,160
Speaker 2: Your heart has been pierced by the sharp blades of

1749
01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:20,599
Speaker 2: another's hurtful words, actions, and intentions, and they have inflicted

1750
01:21:20,640 --> 01:21:23,880
Speaker 2: intense emotional pain of sadness, grief, and heartbreak. These events

1751
01:21:23,920 --> 01:21:26,080
Speaker 2: are often unexpected and come out of the blue, making

1752
01:21:26,120 --> 01:21:29,360
Speaker 2: them even more painful. It's also about an emotional release

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Speaker 2: when you have suffered a major setback or loss. Now

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01:21:31,479 --> 01:21:34,439
Speaker 2: it's an excellent time to have a good cry, expressing

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01:21:34,520 --> 01:21:36,800
Speaker 2: your sadness as a part of the cleansing process. And

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01:21:36,920 --> 01:21:39,200
Speaker 2: letting it all out will help you move on to

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01:21:39,320 --> 01:21:42,679
Speaker 2: better times. Allow yourself the opportunity to experience these emotions

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01:21:42,760 --> 01:21:46,080
Speaker 2: no matter how painful. Cry, shout, or scream at the

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01:21:46,160 --> 01:21:48,599
Speaker 2: top of your lungs. Do whatever it takes to express

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01:21:48,640 --> 01:21:52,719
Speaker 2: your anger is pain, as this will help emotions flow

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01:21:53,000 --> 01:21:55,679
Speaker 2: through and out of you. Sometimes you have to confess

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01:21:55,760 --> 01:21:57,479
Speaker 2: of the internet about you. At one time you brought

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01:21:57,520 --> 01:21:59,240
Speaker 2: a homeless name was mine?

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Speaker 3: So you can move on?

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01:22:01,320 --> 01:22:02,200
Speaker 1: I cry all the time?

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Speaker 5: That just makes sense.

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Speaker 2: Does that apply to anybody you know who you are? Yeah,

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01:22:11,000 --> 01:22:13,879
Speaker 2: maybe you're feeling something okay. The nine of wands reversed

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01:22:15,600 --> 01:22:19,640
Speaker 2: hum the nine of ones reverse suggest that you are

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01:22:19,640 --> 01:22:22,000
Speaker 2: struggling to keep working towards your goal. The challenges on

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01:22:22,040 --> 01:22:26,200
Speaker 2: the path are relentless, pummeling you with setback, and after setback,

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01:22:26,400 --> 01:22:28,320
Speaker 2: you don't know if you can cope with it anymore

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01:22:28,360 --> 01:22:30,519
Speaker 2: and may have to give up. Just know that you're

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01:22:30,600 --> 01:22:33,040
Speaker 2: oh so close to completing this challenge. Draw upon your

1775
01:22:33,080 --> 01:22:38,080
Speaker 2: internal resources, your resilience, innercourage, positive self talk, and mindset

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01:22:38,400 --> 01:22:40,920
Speaker 2: to keep you going. You have it in you to

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Speaker 2: turn this challenging situation into a fantastic success and to

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01:22:44,840 --> 01:22:46,879
Speaker 2: help others facing similar hurdles.

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Speaker 1: Keep fighting. You've got this spot on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah kay M The tarots never lie.

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01:22:55,240 --> 01:22:58,799
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no. Sometimes we need to be reminded

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01:22:58,880 --> 01:23:04,280
Speaker 1: to keep going. M gotta keep going, just keeps Life

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01:23:04,360 --> 01:23:07,560
Speaker 1: is good. Life is worth keep going, keep going. I

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01:23:07,680 --> 01:23:08,360
Speaker 1: was worth keep going.

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01:23:08,960 --> 01:23:11,360
Speaker 2: We don't really have a rough even if the aliens

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01:23:11,400 --> 01:23:13,439
Speaker 2: are coming, even if the world is maybe.

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01:23:13,720 --> 01:23:15,000
Speaker 1: I mean now, at this point, I just want to

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01:23:15,000 --> 01:23:19,160
Speaker 1: see what's gonna happen. At this point, I'm like, Okay, God,

1789
01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:22,559
Speaker 1: what's that show? But do you I really think I'm

1790
01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:24,840
Speaker 1: gonna be witnessing this would be epic. I would be

1791
01:23:25,200 --> 01:23:30,720
Speaker 1: We are the last generation of celebrities, celebrities to who

1792
01:23:30,800 --> 01:23:35,000
Speaker 1: if we're all dead, it does matter to us, And

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01:23:35,120 --> 01:23:35,479
Speaker 1: I wonder.

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01:23:35,560 --> 01:23:37,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, if aliens come right now, think about it

1795
01:23:37,320 --> 01:23:39,120
Speaker 2: in my head, Like I would be so in shock.

1796
01:23:39,200 --> 01:23:41,160
Speaker 2: I'll be like, it's a Project Blue Beam, Like I

1797
01:23:41,200 --> 01:23:42,640
Speaker 2: don't know about how I react.

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01:23:42,479 --> 01:23:47,000
Speaker 3: Project who Oh you don't know you know Project Blue Beam?

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01:23:47,240 --> 01:23:48,680
Speaker 1: Now you're just throwing this ship out here like we're

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01:23:48,680 --> 01:23:52,960
Speaker 1: sposed to know. You guys don't know any conspiracies? Where

1801
01:23:52,960 --> 01:23:57,479
Speaker 1: are you a rock? I'll tell you, Okay, tell me later.

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01:23:58,080 --> 01:24:02,400
Speaker 1: It's what the government's planning. Don't say y, don't let

1803
01:24:02,439 --> 01:24:05,280
Speaker 1: him know we know, Okay, nobody cut this out to Orlando.

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01:24:06,479 --> 01:24:10,360
Speaker 2: Hi, Okay, sorry, I'm just everybody knows except you guys.

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01:24:10,720 --> 01:24:12,040
Speaker 2: You guys have affirmation.

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01:24:13,560 --> 01:24:15,439
Speaker 1: Did we say sorry? Yeah?

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01:24:15,439 --> 01:24:15,560
Speaker 7: I know.

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01:24:15,680 --> 01:24:18,519
Speaker 6: Mine was don't do do as I say, Do as

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01:24:18,560 --> 01:24:21,040
Speaker 6: I say, not as I do as I say, not

1810
01:24:21,200 --> 01:24:22,600
Speaker 6: as I do, do as I say that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty much all you can do is I do.

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01:24:27,120 --> 01:24:31,439
Speaker 1: And to find out, I was very fortunate I didn't

1813
01:24:31,439 --> 01:24:33,479
Speaker 1: get killed. All of us were.

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01:24:33,520 --> 01:24:36,559
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure we've all done some like kidnapping, murder,

1815
01:24:36,960 --> 01:24:42,280
Speaker 2: like like voluntari situations that we're supposed to be here.

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01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:46,360
Speaker 1: We're supposed to like flirt with the edge. Yes, if

1817
01:24:46,400 --> 01:24:48,479
Speaker 1: you're not, you know this guy said to me one day.

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01:24:48,479 --> 01:24:50,599
Speaker 1: If you're not, if you're not on the edge, you're

1819
01:24:50,600 --> 01:24:57,719
Speaker 1: taking up space. That's okay, Yeah, maybe fall off. Maybe

1820
01:25:00,280 --> 01:25:02,160
Speaker 1: sometimes they like to be in the middle. Just find

1821
01:25:02,200 --> 01:25:03,320
Speaker 1: the balance between the edge.

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01:25:08,160 --> 01:25:09,479
Speaker 2: Do you want to tell our people where they can

1823
01:25:09,520 --> 01:25:12,479
Speaker 2: find you and your hit single that's coming out on Halloween?

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01:25:13,320 --> 01:25:16,559
Speaker 6: Our hit single, try Me, is coming out on Halloween. Okay,

1825
01:25:17,320 --> 01:25:17,600
Speaker 6: try me?

1826
01:25:17,680 --> 01:25:20,160
Speaker 1: If you dare exactly, and you can find us that

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Speaker 1: Flying the Boss on Everything.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, flying a Boss like Diana Ross.

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01:25:24,320 --> 01:25:24,720
Speaker 7: That song.

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01:25:24,920 --> 01:25:26,479
Speaker 1: That song is a hit. I was playing with that.

1831
01:25:26,600 --> 01:25:28,080
Speaker 1: I was playing that in the car with my daughter

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01:25:28,120 --> 01:25:29,240
Speaker 1: and she was already picking it up.

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01:25:33,360 --> 01:25:33,599
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And y'all know where to find us. Good Mom's

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01:25:37,000 --> 01:25:38,880
Speaker 1: Bad Choices. Make sure you check out the Good Vibe

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01:25:38,880 --> 01:25:43,200
Speaker 1: Retreat and follow us on Instagram. Rate and review this episode,

1837
01:25:43,600 --> 01:25:48,240
Speaker 1: and just join Patreon because we're gonna share some stuff specifically,

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Speaker 1: what was I sharing my horri our group?

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01:25:51,240 --> 01:25:54,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, juicy, I'm gonna join.

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Speaker 1: It's worth it, It'll be worth it. It was really

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01:25:57,120 --> 01:25:59,040
Speaker 1: worth it. Bye bye.

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01:26:00,120 --> 01:26:04,920
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I'm living so good. Can't you tell?

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01:26:05,200 --> 01:26:06,240
Speaker 1: I went through a drought.

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01:26:06,320 --> 01:26:08,080
Speaker 5: That's until I found out, Well maym have.

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01:26:08,160 --> 01:26:08,800
Speaker 1: Been known Earth?

1846
01:26:08,920 --> 01:26:11,160
Speaker 8: I used to be broken hell now got the blues

1847
01:26:11,200 --> 01:26:14,360
Speaker 8: Hanser like Beyonce Jasell throat shot or pop in his

1848
01:26:14,479 --> 01:26:17,320
Speaker 8: cow wearing her voices. Patriarchy kept it in the box

1849
01:26:17,400 --> 01:26:20,759
Speaker 8: to it'sploidis women put the pee and powers, so it's pointless.

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01:26:20,800 --> 01:26:23,400
Speaker 5: They want me to be good, so I made bad choices.

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01:26:23,560 --> 01:26:24,080
Speaker 1: Bad mom.

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01:26:24,240 --> 01:26:26,040
Speaker 5: Not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

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01:26:26,160 --> 01:26:29,120
Speaker 8: It He's in on put cannabis in their bathbon walked

1854
01:26:29,160 --> 01:26:31,960
Speaker 8: in bossas Cap and I blew his cat ball hot dog.

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01:26:32,080 --> 01:26:33,120
Speaker 1: Now I'm immune to.

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01:26:33,160 --> 01:26:35,560
Speaker 8: The cat called Herbie and the waisted straight to it

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01:26:35,760 --> 01:26:37,840
Speaker 8: like a dollar sign. Mother, rent the louver when too,

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01:26:37,880 --> 01:26:40,080
Speaker 8: It's like a water someone where you're rent the winter

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01:26:40,280 --> 01:26:42,960
Speaker 8: essential will when the summertime. I do what doll ain't

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Speaker 8: know when I need to run it by