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Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janna Kramer and I heard radio podcast

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Speaker 1: It's time to wind down. Okay, So producer Jenna is

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Speaker 1: eating Kuffin's right now? What is there so good? And

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Speaker 1: this isn't This is not an ad, by the way,

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Speaker 1: but it's a hybrid of a chocolate chip cookie and

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Speaker 1: a muffin. Where do you get him at? I have

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Speaker 1: no idea. Amy, my friend Natalie, her kid Lane invented them.

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Speaker 1: Amy is in a studio with us today because she's

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Speaker 1: obsessed with our guests that we have on today. Um,

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Speaker 1: and I'm really obsessed to because Blossom Guys, Like I

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Speaker 1: grew up watching that show. And she's like, she's a neuroscientist,

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Speaker 1: she's an author, she's an actress, she's a mom, kick

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Speaker 1: ass mom. Yeah, she's like she's everything. And Amy is

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Speaker 1: obsessed with her. So that's why she's here. I'm totally

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Speaker 1: obsessed with her, her brain, for her brain. Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: fascinates me. Girl crushed. What was she impeating? It's right.

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Speaker 1: I'll never forget when I watched Beaches and I was

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Speaker 1: in the back of my bus and I was I

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Speaker 1: can't remember which tour I was on, but one of

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Speaker 1: my band guys came back and he's like, are you okay?

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Speaker 1: And I was like it's a good cry, bawling like

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Speaker 1: and he was just like, okay, we gotta go on

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Speaker 1: in like five minutes. So, like my eyes are tearing

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Speaker 1: up just thinking about them. Yeah, I guess they had

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Speaker 1: a remake, but I couldn't watch it. I was like, no, nothing,

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Speaker 1: absolutely Beaches like number one, but I cannot. Oh my goodness,

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Speaker 1: I love that, like I love Beaches. I know it's

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Speaker 1: so good and good cry. I do too. I kind

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Speaker 1: of feel like a good cry. Yeah, why you I

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Speaker 1: don't you know? Just I don't know. Life, it's hard.

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Speaker 1: So it was just Father's Day. What did you? What

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Speaker 1: did you get my Father's Day? So he got a

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Speaker 1: new set of golf clubs and so he's like, babe,

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Speaker 1: all I want to do is I just want He

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Speaker 1: wants to perfect his golf swing because his dream, like

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Speaker 1: he's his dream is for me to get on like

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Speaker 1: a hit show and then he can quit his job

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Speaker 1: and then he'll be a professional golfer. That's a great train.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you like, I can't even hit the ball.

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Speaker 1: I've tried. He's like, no, that's not really. He loves

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Speaker 1: his job just in case any of his bosses are listening.

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Speaker 1: But no, Um, he loves his job. He's just obsessed

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Speaker 1: with golf and he just like his dream is to

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Speaker 1: be in the p g A. And I'm like, great,

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Speaker 1: I get more naptime because I just will asleep when

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Speaker 1: I watch golf. It's so slow. It's slow. Yes, it's

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Speaker 1: kind of boring, but as he loves it. That's his thing,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, cool, babe, awesome, So golf lessons and um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we just had a really nice relaxing day. He played

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Speaker 1: golf in the morning, so I didn't see him and

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Speaker 1: it was nice and relaxing morning. And then he came

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Speaker 1: back and we just hung out. He loves to cook,

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Speaker 1: so we had some steak. It was good. What it

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Speaker 1: was Rocco with daddy. Yes, so he was with his dad.

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Speaker 1: And that was one thing, you know, he didn't give me.

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Speaker 1: He didn't take Rocco to get me a Mother's Day gift.

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Speaker 1: So I know, although Rocco made me the most beautiful

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Speaker 1: card and a painting at school, which I thought was

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Speaker 1: even it was so special. Um, but I got him

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Speaker 1: something so that Rocco could give to him. Maybe that's

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Speaker 1: like a hey, hint for next year right now exactly exactly.

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Speaker 1: But also my birthday is this week? What when it's

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Speaker 1: one and I'm turning forty four, So I scheduled um

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Speaker 1: a LiPo suction appointment? What for my birthday? That's my

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Speaker 1: birthday gift to me. It's my divorce gift and birthday gifts.

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Speaker 1: Why are you getting LiPo because I think it's going

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Speaker 1: to be fantastic. No, I am. I'm going to debate

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Speaker 1: this with you because it's not about I mean, okay,

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Speaker 1: it's all about just good eating and working out. It's

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Speaker 1: not just about working out, but it's about healthy diet.

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Speaker 1: I know I do have a healthy diet. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: then and I work out. I'm just old. You will

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Speaker 1: see when you end up getting in your forties. Is

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Speaker 1: it a tummy tuck? No? No, like you're actually going

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Speaker 1: to do sucking out like life bye bye. You know

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Speaker 1: what he said? He said, I can even if you want,

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Speaker 1: I can put it in your button. And I was like, no,

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Speaker 1: like that, like what amber Rose does and then those

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Speaker 1: they put the fat in there. He said, everyone's doing it.

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Speaker 1: I said, I don't care. I'm asking you to take

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Speaker 1: the things that could happen now Like no, no, it's

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Speaker 1: nothing you should do. And I think we should actually

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Speaker 1: all shame her. It's not. The whole show is to

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Speaker 1: not shame. Yeah, that is the whole point of the

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Speaker 1: show is do not shame. But I am just advising

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Speaker 1: you as your friend. I don't I think is if

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Speaker 1: you just continue to maintain a healthy diet and some

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Speaker 1: exercise on top of But the diet is my trainer says,

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Speaker 1: you can work out every single day, but if you're

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Speaker 1: eating doesn't change you. Your body will not change. I

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Speaker 1: just you know what, I'm vegan, and I'm not a

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Speaker 1: crappy vegan. There's crappy vegans. I'm not that person. I

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Speaker 1: um is it just waits from over because I you

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Speaker 1: don't like I literally, I'm like, where are you going

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Speaker 1: to suck it out from its? We have a great

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Speaker 1: I'm just getting my torso sucked out just bye bye.

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Speaker 1: And it's from being older and I had a baby

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Speaker 1: later in life and I'm turning forty four and it's

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Speaker 1: my birthday gift to myself. I never brought my birthday

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Speaker 1: and it's smart it's smart light BO. So it's not

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Speaker 1: I'm not fully under it's smart light bo. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm getting a smart light. Those section well, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I will say this if it's going to it's an investment,

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Speaker 1: which means look, I'll say I'll say this if that

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Speaker 1: don't think that's the way you should go. But if

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Speaker 1: it's going to make you feel better, then you need

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Speaker 1: to do what you want to do. Like my mom

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Speaker 1: always said, She's like, I want to tell me talk

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, Mom, put down the M and m's

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Speaker 1: and then you know, fine, But you know over time

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Speaker 1: again I don't. I don't when my metabolism it's I

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Speaker 1: can already tell it's changing, but it is harder for

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Speaker 1: me to lose weight when I want to. But again,

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Speaker 1: like if you start to eat crappy after your liposection,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to be mad at you and not I won't.

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Speaker 1: I promise we'll see Okay, No, I don't know, cramise,

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Speaker 1: don't eat crappy. That's the thing. It's everything also, it's

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Speaker 1: like you know, it's the genes. Just I think everything

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Speaker 1: in moderation. Again, like for me, like I always said,

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Speaker 1: can't change me if you're I'm telling you, but like no, again,

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Speaker 1: it's about like if that's what's going to make you

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Speaker 1: feel pretty, I'm not for it. But I think there's

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Speaker 1: other ways I've been doing the other ways. Let's just

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Speaker 1: were good? Oh my god, I wonder if we can

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Speaker 1: get a deal three because too um all right, well sorry, Amy,

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Speaker 1: took me a week to make the decision. One week, well,

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Speaker 1: because I have someone who I grew up watching and idolizing.

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Speaker 1: have known that girl. No, I'm almost thirty five. Wow. Yeah, Okay.

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Speaker 1: The joke is I slept in my makeup last night,

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Speaker 1: it like being a divorced mom? Why am I a

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Speaker 1: religious person who also believes in evolution? What's that like?

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Speaker 1: You know? So making these videos has been a way

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Speaker 1: to share a bigger part of myself. Um. And it's

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Speaker 1: something that you know, is I don't mean to say

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Speaker 1: like it's my passion project, but its literally something I

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Speaker 1: feel passionately about that I you knows, as we were

429
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Speaker 1: talking about, it doesn't really make a lot of money,

430
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Speaker 1: but it's something that I believe in putting out into

431
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Speaker 1: a world that is consuming information in a way that

432
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Speaker 1: none of us dreamed of when we were kids or teenagers. Um,

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Speaker 1: I write, you know, I just boing. I just released

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Speaker 1: Bowing Up, which Bowing up. Yeah, your fourth, just for

435
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Speaker 1: so many questions about us. She's a mom to a boy. Yes, yes,

436
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Speaker 1: I have a six year old. That's a year Oh yeah,

437
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Speaker 1: so much fun. Oh yeah, I am waiting for my

438
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Speaker 1: PhD in civil engineering to arrive in the mail. From

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Speaker 1: all of the legos, I've felt like, I'm sure you're

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Speaker 1: pretty much an expert because when my boys were that age. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I mean, my favorite thing to do, just because this

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Speaker 1: is my personality. We organized the lego by type. What

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Speaker 1: does that mean? By color? There are several ways to

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Speaker 1: do it. You can do it by color and by

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Speaker 1: type like they do in the Lego store. But what

446
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Speaker 1: we do is it was just it was out of

447
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Speaker 1: control and I needed to take control. So we have

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Speaker 1: we have a little kind of like a little dresser

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Speaker 1: that we keep all our legoing. So I keep all

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Speaker 1: of the standard sized pieces in one and all of

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Speaker 1: the unusual sized pieces, and then I have separated bodies

452
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Speaker 1: by a type, like so you can have like you

453
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Speaker 1: can mix and I know it's so much fun. And

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Speaker 1: then wheels are separation. Yes, it's super fun. Can you

455
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Speaker 1: come over to my house because I still we will

456
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Speaker 1: make that YouTube video of me organizing your lego. There's

457
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Speaker 1: nothing I love more than organizing. I'm a Laurel Canyon,

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Speaker 1: Canyon perfect. Next Monday, makeup and drink a martini in

459
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Speaker 1: the background. I promised to post a picture of Rocco's

460
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Speaker 1: lego disaster because my legos look nothing like that. Right.

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Speaker 1: I'm terrified to have a boy because my husband, I mean,

462
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Speaker 1: when I was pregnant with Jolie, he got like he's

463
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Speaker 1: he is a grown man. He's thirty one years old,

464
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Speaker 1: and he gets he buys legos and my people it's okay,

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Speaker 1: but I don't. I'm like, babe, like, why are you

466
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Speaker 1: building a star trek lego thing? And because he can?

467
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Speaker 1: But why because we don't have you just started to

468
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Speaker 1: be don't ask. Just just accept him the way he is.

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Speaker 1: There's plenty of people who understanding just sitting there, pieces everywhere,

470
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Speaker 1: and I'm just like, no, you can contend. No, no,

471
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Speaker 1: you need to contain it. There are boundaries we can

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Speaker 1: put need the boundary. Um, he likes Yeah, but he's

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Speaker 1: like a lego geek, yes, and does he like dungeons

474
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Speaker 1: and dragons? No? Did I lose you? I was gonna

475
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Speaker 1: make I was gonna make enough friend. I mean maybe

476
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Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe in his weird like Lego world

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Speaker 1: he likes sdungeons and dragons to be grateful for a

478
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Speaker 1: moment that he likes to build legos because that means

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Speaker 1: you don't have correct if you love a boy, Oh good,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Some girls like to build too. Let's just

481
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Speaker 1: put it out there. I did into loving the lease

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Speaker 1: medotato of when I opened the bottle of wine, and

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Speaker 1: then I couldn't Friday night. You know, eight thousand pieces?

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Speaker 1: Oh see that, I get overwhelmed and I get pissed,

485
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Speaker 1: and then I'm just like, I'm like, I don't understand

486
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Speaker 1: where does this piece go? And then he's that's what

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Speaker 1: the diagram is for. Its confusing. I have a silver

488
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Speaker 1: Lego for my small brain, like I am the Lego mom.

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Speaker 1: It's a little silver Lego block on a on a

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Speaker 1: silver chain. Do you drink wine? I do. I drink

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Speaker 1: other things as well. Wine past a certain age gives

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Speaker 1: some people headaches. I'm one of those people, because clearly

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Speaker 1: evolution is like, we don't need you anymore, Like we

494
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Speaker 1: don't need you to be attractive. We're gonna make like

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Speaker 1: weird skin gather weird ways We're gonna put like dark

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Speaker 1: spots on your face. Your breasts will never be at

497
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Speaker 1: attention anymore. And also you can't go on roller coasters

498
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Speaker 1: or drink wine without getting a headache. Is that not

499
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Speaker 1: what it's like being a humans? Also, if you sprain

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Speaker 1: your ankle, you will be out of commission for eight months.

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Speaker 1: For you just you turned and all of a sudden

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Speaker 1: for three d You're like, how old are you? Don't

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Speaker 1: you laugh? But something? Also your eyes will go like

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Speaker 1: you don't need to see anymore. You have already given

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Speaker 1: us your eggs were done. We're done. You don't need

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Speaker 1: to read anything or go anywhere or see a menu.

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Speaker 1: We're going to break and I really want to talk

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Speaker 1: about the F word when we come back, not that one,

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Speaker 1: not the same fame. Okay, I was gonna well, never mind,

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Speaker 1: my um love you, but I gotta take a break,

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Speaker 1: baby for just one second to tell you about what

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Speaker 1: my husband is obsessed with and also me. But you know,

513
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Speaker 1: my husband does most of the cooking in the household,

514
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Speaker 1: and he's obsessed with Hella fresh groceries get delivered to

515
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Speaker 1: the door, Go online, you pick out the meals you want.

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Speaker 1: How many meals a week you want. It's fantastic because

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Speaker 1: there's no extra groceries and produce second way bad exactly.

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Speaker 1: And that's what I love about it because there's no

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Speaker 1: ways you get exactly what you need. And for me,

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Speaker 1: because I'm I'm just not good at new recipes, but

521
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Speaker 1: I want to learn. How do you know things? And

522
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Speaker 1: you don't have to come up with the idea I know,

523
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Speaker 1: and it's just appears and it's like and here's you

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Speaker 1: know this, these are the ingredients and this stu to

525
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Speaker 1: put in and I'm like, wow, this is fantastic. And

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Speaker 1: my husband's actually remade some of them on his own

527
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Speaker 1: because he knows, like he loves them so much. So

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Speaker 1: I'm a huge advocate for Hello Fresh and I think

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Speaker 1: they're fantastic. And again, you know, it's great for my

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Speaker 1: my daughter too. She loves she loves the meals and

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Speaker 1: it's great because it's fuss free and it's just makes

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Speaker 1: dinner so easy. It's thirty minutes, I mean, and it's fresh.

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Speaker 1: It's fresh fresh, And there's vegetarian boxes. There's which one

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Speaker 1: do you guys get? There's classic family and vegetarian and

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Speaker 1: we we do the classic family. Cool. Yeah, what kind

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Speaker 1: of like, what's your favorite what has been your favorite meal?

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Speaker 1: I love the balsamic burger, and my husband loves the

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Speaker 1: pineapple chicken with the rice and the green beans. But

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Speaker 1: Julie Jolie likes mac and cheese. But yeah, but she

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Speaker 1: really really liked the jasmine rice that was with the

541
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Speaker 1: pineapple chicken meal. Jasmine rice. That sounds really good. Which, um,

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Speaker 1: all the ingredients come pre measured in handy labeled meal cats.

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Speaker 1: It's so easy for thirty dollars off your first week

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Speaker 1: of Hello Fresh, visit Hello Fresh dot com slash cramer

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Speaker 1: slash Cramer thirty and enter cramer. Also, you know what's

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Speaker 1: really great about this, there's a ton of one pot

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Speaker 1: recipes that way less clean up. It's like one pot.

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Speaker 1: You're cooking everything in one pot. Oh I didn't know that.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's great. I thought it was like a one

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Speaker 1: pot like for the one Lonely one lonely divorced. No

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Speaker 1: one pot. But I think maybe I don't know if

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Speaker 1: there is just for one, but that would be kind

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Speaker 1: of great for my one Wednesday. I might get one day.

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Speaker 1: You guys, that's thirty dollars off your first week of

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Speaker 1: Hello Fresh. Visit Hello Fresh dot com slash Cramer thirty

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Speaker 1: and to Cramer thirty. Well then okay, girls, here I

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Speaker 1: will I will bring legos. No here, no time out,

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Speaker 1: y'all bring the legos and I'm gonna bringing it. Ay.

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Speaker 1: That's what happen in what's the word fame? What is

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Speaker 1: it like? How have you navigated? She navigated the back uh,

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Speaker 1: the back entrance of the extradited passport. I didn't even

563
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Speaker 1: ask for that. You know, there's that song, um, I

564
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Speaker 1: took a pill in a visa and it is about fame,

565
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Speaker 1: and I always like, I didn't take a pill in

566
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Speaker 1: a visa. Um, But you know, there are things in

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Speaker 1: that song that I talked about with my boys, because

568
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 1: he says, you don't want to be high like this

569
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Speaker 1: right like, and you don't want to be stuck up

570
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 1: on that stage saying all I know is sad songs.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, like, it gives me chills, because, um,

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Speaker 1: there are certain things that are amazing about fame, and

573
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Speaker 1: no one wants to hear famous people be like, oh man,

574
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Speaker 1: that is so hard. But there are aspects to the

575
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Speaker 1: loneliness you feel when everybody loves you, but you're still

576
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Speaker 1: a human. And I remember when I saw like the

577
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Speaker 1: Lady Gaga documentary that was it was super tough, but

578
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Speaker 1: there was something she said that struck me. So she said,

579
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 1: like everybody loves you, and you hang out with them

580
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Speaker 1: all the day, like you know, and everything's right. But

581
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Speaker 1: she said, then everybody goes home, you know, and like

582
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Speaker 1: and at this point in her life she's like, and

583
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Speaker 1: I'm alone, like, you know, and even if you have

584
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Speaker 1: someone to love, you know, there's that sense of being human,

585
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 1: you know, that touches all of us. So like when

586
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Speaker 1: my dad died three years ago, like that was still

587
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Speaker 1: think you that was still my dad dying and having

588
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Speaker 1: that experience as a human. Fame doesn't protect you from

589
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 1: being human, you know. It adds all these layers that

590
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 1: are really interesting. But when you have kids, that's like

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00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: a whole other conversation, you know, Like my older son especially,

592
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 1: like why can't I be on your Instagram page? All

593
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Speaker 1: my friends are on their mom's Instagram. It's like, because

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Speaker 1: you can't. That's why. Because you didn't choose this life,

595
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 1: and there are consequences of this life that you don't

596
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,200
Speaker 1: think about you don't get to play as freely at

597
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 1: the park because if I have to wonder that people

598
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Speaker 1: know what your face looks like, you know, you don't

599
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 1: want to scare them. But fame also comes with like

600
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Speaker 1: all these decisions about like security and blah blah blah.

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00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 1: You know, where you live, you have to do, you

602
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: have to be when you're traveling different. Yeah, it's different,

603
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 1: and it's and it's a scary world. And I don't

604
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 1: mean to like make people scared or make my children scared,

605
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 1: but yeah, fame, Fame provides people access to your life,

606
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 1: um that you can't take back, you know. And part

607
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Speaker 1: of my decision to to to work on crack Nation

608
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,480
Speaker 1: and to have this YouTube channel is the notion that

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Speaker 1: I'm going to kind of suspend a lot of that

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Speaker 1: fear in the belief that I can provide something that

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00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: might be entertaining or interesting or helpful to someone you know,

612
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Speaker 1: and also inspiring and helping the new generation. Right, And

613
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Speaker 1: like I can show you all the ways that I

614
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: cut an avocado, and that might get a million hits, um,

615
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: but that's not That's not what I'm interested in, you know.

616
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: I'm interested in talking about issues that are important that

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00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 1: make people think and that start conversations. And you know

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Speaker 1: in the research that that my team does you know

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Speaker 1: that that might well know he's sitting right there, um

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Speaker 1: that that. But there's there's research that has to be

621
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Speaker 1: done about what do people want? What do people want

622
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Speaker 1: from you and from your people don't right, and they

623
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Speaker 1: don't need to see you know, my like morning toothbrush

624
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 1: like routine, but like to see parts of me that

625
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 1: are that are hard to share is not something that

626
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Speaker 1: we do for ratings, right, It's something like it's trying

627
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: to make the world smaller in healthy ways, you know,

628
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Speaker 1: using the internet to connect in ways that that don't

629
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Speaker 1: make fame. This kind of like isolating burden you because

630
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Speaker 1: I don't want it to be. I don't want to

631
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Speaker 1: live my life like that. Life is with people, you know,

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Speaker 1: but it has its parks too. Yeah, Well, like the

633
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: passport expositing thing, I didn't know there's a thing. But

634
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 1: also I think they were concerned that not that I

635
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 1: would start a riot in the federal building, you know,

636
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: but like there's a lot of people and like it

637
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: could be distracting, absolutely if that became a thing. But

638
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 1: I still like I go out, I mean, you know,

639
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 1: being an unadorned woman when you choose to be actually

640
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 1: has its perks, you know, like there are ways to

641
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 1: be more recognizable, there are ways to be less recognizable.

642
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 1: I happened to be in full hair and makeup when

643
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 1: I went to the Federal Building because I had a

644
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 1: day of publicity and I literally was like squeezing it

645
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 1: in between three interviews. So my kids aren't used to

646
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: be looking like that. I mean while I walk into

647
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: the Federal Building like you know, in my like crappy

648
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 1: espadrils and like a crappy T shirt. But with full

649
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 1: hair and makeup, you're more recognizable that way for sure,

650
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: and yours were very thrilled the Federal Building. Is it

651
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 1: harder to date? Um? Yes, I mean some would say

652
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: it's impossible the date unless you use like one of

653
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 1: these sites like Rya or whatever. Um is that how

654
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: you met your No? No, I'm friends with eliza'schlessinger, who

655
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 1: did you know, very publicly meet her her wonderful husband

656
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 1: on Riya. And the funny story about that is that

657
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 1: I tried to get on Riya and they wouldn't answer

658
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 1: my emails. What my publicist email? So the way you

659
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,919
Speaker 1: get people there. Don't don't don't because I like there's

660
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 1: something on there, like why is this person? Are you

661
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 1: not happen? I will take that straight to my therapist,

662
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: but like, why would they have all these people? But

663
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,839
Speaker 1: we literally my publicist email twice. I email. We never

664
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:39,400
Speaker 1: got a response back, and I was like, Okay, I

665
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:42,320
Speaker 1: guess I won't do that. Have got to be kidding

666
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,359
Speaker 1: and I feel like, well, we probably need to reach

667
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 1: out and do something with them, But yeah, I have.

668
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 1: I actually just wrote a script for my YouTube channel

669
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: about I did try online dating and it was hilarious.

670
00:34:56,120 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 1: BIA is basically celebrities. It's a celebrity dating site, so

671
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 1: you have to have the blue check mark and you

672
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 1: have to have so many followers in ye, but they

673
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 1: also verify you if you have a very large bank account,

674
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,879
Speaker 1: and there's a certain with all due respect to all

675
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 1: kinds of people in the industry, there's a certain kind

676
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 1: of woman in particular and man that they want on

677
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:20,240
Speaker 1: that site, of course, raise the profile of their site.

678
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 1: It's fascinating. But I tried using a different um online

679
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 1: dating service. It was it was not that I did.

680
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 1: I did, Okay, keep it and someone was like, why

681
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 1: are you using Jenna Gramer's photo, and I'm like, it

682
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 1: is a little awkward. There's also there's a I think

683
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 1: there's a Jewish online dating site called saw You at

684
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 1: Sinai because the notion is that the mystical notion is

685
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 1: that all of the Jewish people stood at the base

686
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: amount sign I win the ten Commandments were handed down,

687
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 1: which is just like a cool mystic, but a notion

688
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 1: that someone was like, that's the name, like saw you

689
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:58,840
Speaker 1: at Sinai? It's a Dorb's and him where did you

690
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 1: meet them? I don't. I don't tell about how I

691
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 1: met him. Was it romantic? Um? It was romantic in

692
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: like a start of a poor no script kind of way.

693
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 1: I like it. He's a carpenter. He's a carpenter anyway,

694
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 1: So I don't. I haven't ever, you know, talked more

695
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 1: about it. But but I've been divorced for it will

696
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 1: be six years is great, so sometimes, you know, So

697
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:36,360
Speaker 1: I've I've heard about this from from married friends of mine,

698
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:39,959
Speaker 1: and especially from from women who who got married young

699
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 1: and not didn't necessarily get to do the things that

700
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:47,360
Speaker 1: they wanted to. And with the much needed progress of

701
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 1: the women's movement, which is progressing every day. Still, you know,

702
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: we're still learning new ways to assert our needs and

703
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: our desires. I do hear this from some friends of mine,

704
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 1: like what's it like? You know, what's it like to

705
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 1: be alone in your home and get to do whatever

706
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 1: you need to do with no one interrupting? You know, Um,

707
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 1: it's a very strange sense of independence. And you know,

708
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: my ex husband we were married when we were together

709
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 1: almost fifteen years and we were married for almost ten

710
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 1: of them. And you know, my ex husband is the

711
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:21,759
Speaker 1: at home dad. You know, I'm the working parent, which

712
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 1: is what it was like when we were married. But um,

713
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 1: you know, he homeschools our boys, like he gives his

714
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 1: life for them. It's really it's really incredible. But you know,

715
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 1: our lives are very different. Like we're we're with our

716
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,240
Speaker 1: kids a lot, and um, you know when your homeschool,

717
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,719
Speaker 1: they're kind of around a lot. But um, you know,

718
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 1: we've both kind of learned new ways to to exercise

719
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: things about ourselves that that weren't exercised, you know, and

720
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:49,799
Speaker 1: didn't work. Um, there were a lot of things. And

721
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 1: you know, it's not something I have talked about and

722
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 1: probably may not plan to unless I read a book

723
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: about it, which might happen. Um, but five million. But

724
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,879
Speaker 1: also I mean I think that, you know, I think

725
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 1: that we were friends before we started dating. We were

726
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: friends for a year and a half, and right now

727
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 1: it does feel like we're best friends raising kids together

728
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 1: because even though we've been divorced for six years, like

729
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 1: we are still we're still responsible for them together, and

730
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: that's amazing. That's the dream. Yeah, I mean, but and

731
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: again and it right, but it comes with also this

732
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 1: like other life that you get to have, you know.

733
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 1: And my son said to me the other day, he

734
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 1: was like, Wema, remember when we used to travel all

735
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 1: the time. We used to all get on an airplane

736
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 1: and go to New York. I missed those days. I

737
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, we we can't do that. We

738
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,839
Speaker 1: are taking a divorced family trip to Israel next week,

739
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:38,759
Speaker 1: which is how long are you do? Um, we're going

740
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 1: for ten days. My kids have been before, but my

741
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 1: older son's going to be bitsfod here in September, and

742
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 1: we wanted to like my X and I are taking

743
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 1: our mom's and we want that picture of like we

744
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 1: went to Israel for man friend and I went three

745
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 1: months ago to Israel, Like, so this is not a

746
00:38:55,080 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: trip for um, no girlfriend. I won't speak to that

747
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:03,360
Speaker 1: because he gets to have his privacy, Like I wouldn't

748
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 1: violate his privacy. But I know that, like what I

749
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 1: most want is for him to be happy. And I

750
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 1: never like knew I could feel that so deeply, you know. Um,

751
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 1: and yeah, and there's not you know obviously, like all

752
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 1: sorts of gossipy places have things to say about like

753
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 1: you know, oh it must be because they slept with

754
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 1: their kids in their bed. It's like no, plenty of

755
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,879
Speaker 1: people you know, share sleep with their kids and don't

756
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,280
Speaker 1: get divorced. Like it's not really you know, the business

757
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 1: of the gossip universe and and you know, and everything

758
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 1: that I've said, you know about our marriage, and you

759
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 1: know on grack nation and on YouTube. Um, those are

760
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 1: things that he approves. He approves every post, every video

761
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:40,840
Speaker 1: that is even vaguely about him or the boys. We

762
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 1: made the decision to have them on the cover together.

763
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: And if he would have said, you know what, I

764
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 1: don't want them on the cover, I would have respected that.

765
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 1: But I think that's great that you guys are working

766
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,800
Speaker 1: together like that. We're told that we're the most amazing

767
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: divorced couple of people now, like it's kind of crazy.

768
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:56,720
Speaker 1: I think that's great. My situation is a little different.

769
00:39:56,880 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 1: I have to say. Yeah, I hope in five years

770
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:04,800
Speaker 1: it gets to that place definitely. And I'm not saying

771
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 1: it's all like like there are a lot of times

772
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,239
Speaker 1: that I'm frustrated. He clearly like there's a lot about

773
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: my energy that annoyed him when we were married. It

774
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 1: still annoys him. You know, there's a lot about his personality,

775
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 1: like you know, but it's but again, it's like we're

776
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 1: just humans. Like we're humans and there's no dress, like

777
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 1: this is the dress rehearsal. This is our kid's life.

778
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 1: They get it once they get one opportunity to learn

779
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 1: how to speak about other people and to learn how

780
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 1: to like work through adversity and to be heard, you know,

781
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 1: like yeah, and like when my sons saying like I

782
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 1: missed blah blah blah. Yeah I missed that too, you know,

783
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 1: I missed data. It's hard. Yeah, it's hard. Did you

784
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: ever consider staying together for them? Not that I think

785
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: that's the right thing. Yeah, I mean, like you know,

786
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 1: it's like Louis Kay says, like, no, happy couple gets divorced.

787
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:47,839
Speaker 1: You know, don't be sad when people get divorced. It's

788
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:51,879
Speaker 1: like that's that's because they've tried everything in their experience

789
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 1: UM and those things didn't work. And you know a

790
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 1: lot of people, like the celebrities, they just think it's like, no,

791
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 1: we're people. We did all the things. We went to there,

792
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 1: like we do all those things. We went to therapy

793
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 1: through our divorce, which is really interesting and I think

794
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 1: it's really probably really helpful. It was very help It

795
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 1: was very helpful. We still speak to a family therapist UM,

796
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: sometimes together, sometimes separate if things come up, because we

797
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 1: need that support. It's not that like, oh we're so

798
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 1: rich we afford it. No, like we we seek out

799
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 1: support even from you know, people that do it, meaning

800
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: from people who have been through it. It's so important

801
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 1: to find what worked for other people and then to

802
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,439
Speaker 1: adjust it to make you know what works for you.

803
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,319
Speaker 1: I find that people when I say, oh, no, I'm

804
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: getting divorced, they'll say, oh, I'm so sorry, and I'm like, no, no, no, no,

805
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 1: no, no no, I'm so happy. Exactly right, okay, Amy, Sorry,

806
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: She's like she needs this is where I sitting on

807
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 1: my lap, right now, everyone's straddling me, and her nose

808
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 1: is like a centimeter from my nose. This is what

809
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 1: I want to sort of understand. I don't even know

810
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 1: if I'm gonna be able to ask it right, and

811
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 1: hopefully you can help me through it. Just so you

812
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: guys know, Amy is really smart and super mar and

813
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 1: I think it's my downfall because I try to like

814
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 1: overthink everything, Like I spend a lot of time googling

815
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 1: how to stop overthinking, like so then I you should

816
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: google how to stop googling things. And I spend two

817
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 1: hours reading about how to not think, how to think

818
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 1: myself out of thinking right. And I think that's I mean,

819
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 1: part of the works, part of the you know, blessing

820
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 1: of having an active mind, um is that we want

821
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: to work through everything and we want to believe there's

822
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 1: a solution to everything. And I think one of the

823
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: things that I've gained with you know, experience and hopefully maturity,

824
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 1: which I'm a very immature person, you know, Like I

825
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 1: still think burping is funny, um as I'm doing it

826
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 1: literally right now and I'm trying no, But I think

827
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 1: one of the things I've learned is that, um, there

828
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: are certain things that cannot be figured out by the

829
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 1: power of my brain. And what it is. What it

830
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 1: is a lot of times is that we want to

831
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: control something because it feels so unpleasant to not be

832
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 1: able to and that's the thing that we try and do.

833
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:04,719
Speaker 1: And it can ruin relationships. It can ruin your relationship

834
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 1: with your kids. It was really hard on my relationship

835
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 1: with my parents. And it wasn't until my dad was

836
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 1: dying that I was like, oh, I best figure this

837
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 1: out in these three years. Right now. I figured out

838
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 1: that sometimes you have to The expression is like let

839
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 1: go and let God, you know, no, But the fact

840
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 1: for me as a person of faith, like I actually

841
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 1: do resonant and it doesn't have to be a religious

842
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: or a Judeo Christian or a patriarchal faith. But the

843
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 1: notion that there are things we can't explain and sometimes

844
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:36,439
Speaker 1: they have an organic existence that is beyond our need

845
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: to control them that can be really empowering. You know,

846
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 1: a lot of people feel like, oh, surrenders a sign

847
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: of weakness. For me, surrenders a sign of strength, because

848
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 1: it's literally like, that's the point that that's why people

849
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 1: structured religion the way we did, because like I can't

850
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 1: hold this, I can't think my way out of my pain.

851
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 1: Sometimes you just have to feel your feelings and like

852
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 1: that's that's therapy. And that's what we were told with

853
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 1: the divorce and particular, when your children are crying for

854
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: their father, don't have them make a card for him,

855
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 1: don't have them watch a movie, don't give them a snack,

856
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: because that's setting them up for a lifetime of eating.

857
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:15,800
Speaker 1: What I was told to do is say, yes, it hurts,

858
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 1: it's sad. Can I hold you? That's it? And it's

859
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 1: so hard because I want to be like, oh, here's

860
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: the key chain I'll make you that makes you not

861
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:25,839
Speaker 1: miss your father, and like, oh, wait a second. They

862
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 1: miss him because they're human, and if I try and

863
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:32,919
Speaker 1: interrupt it, it teaches them to substitute. It teaches them like, oh,

864
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 1: is there a drink that makes it better? Is there

865
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 1: a pill that makes it better? Is there a TV

866
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 1: show that makes it better? Is there a food that

867
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 1: makes it? Oh? You so badly want to feed them

868
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 1: when they're sad. Oh you do, But that's messed up

869
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 1: because when I'm sad, it's really important message because I

870
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:50,359
Speaker 1: do that to them, and that's why sometimes I drink wine.

871
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is my ing it. That's that's we

872
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 1: all self medicating in some way. It's either TV or

873
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: or its video games, or it's sacks or it's or

874
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 1: it's flirting. You know. Some men to some some women

875
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 1: really love like that energy of like he wants me,

876
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't think, oh maybe he does,

877
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,880
Speaker 1: like oh you're that woman, right, everybody's got their things.

878
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:12,000
Speaker 1: She's smart and she's sexy. I might be that because

879
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: like even today, I'm like I want to text him

880
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 1: so bad, and so I'm just like I want to

881
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: not text so that I'm not like an addict. It

882
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: feels addict. Well, you're that's a love addiction, which I

883
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,319
Speaker 1: cannot wait to talk about at some point. But oh,

884
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:27,359
Speaker 1: it's going to be so juicy. Sea gives me that like, yeah,

885
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 1: that hits or very good smart, don't say that. No,

886
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: it's feeding your endorphins every single time you because that's

887
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 1: your hit that you're trying to get back. You need it. Yeah,

888
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 1: And it's like yeah, and that's love addiction. What I

889
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:45,879
Speaker 1: learned because I'm a love addict things is that hit

890
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 1: doesn't last because that will last a week last like

891
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 1: a couple hours doesn't last, and then themes just a second,

892
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: it's so bad. And then the other thing I learned

893
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 1: I'd love to hear you talk about when she's still

894
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 1: sitting in her lap, you're inviting me back. I think

895
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 1: you're inviting me back her because you're smart and spiritual

896
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:13,399
Speaker 1: and emotional, which you don't usually get all that. I'm

897
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 1: the whole package. Would you like a room women women,

898
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: and don't don't touch me? There? You can be on

899
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:24,879
Speaker 1: my lap, but don't touch I. Men tend to say

900
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 1: like everything would be great if he only would do

901
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:29,840
Speaker 1: the Yeah, that's called the heaths, and that's like literally

902
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:33,719
Speaker 1: the worst thing you can do. Okay, Well, well, I

903
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:36,720
Speaker 1: mean honestly, that's that's a that's a symptom of any

904
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 1: addiction or any codependency, like and there's science behind this

905
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 1: that like I would be okay if you know, and

906
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 1: a lot of these things are you know, codependency is

907
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:47,319
Speaker 1: kind of like you know, it's this term like, oh,

908
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 1: I'm codependent, But the truth is that codependency, by definition,

909
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 1: if you take the quizzes online, you know, codependency by

910
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:56,720
Speaker 1: definition is I'm only okay if you're okay, or meaning

911
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:58,920
Speaker 1: if like, if you're doing what I want you to do,

912
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:01,840
Speaker 1: like that's okay, and that I mean honestly, that's the

913
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 1: root of what drives a lot of people to drink,

914
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 1: to use drugs, to use sex, because the idea is

915
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 1: I don't like what it feels like to not have that.

916
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 1: So people say, like for people who are alcoholic, right, um,

917
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,880
Speaker 1: the problem is not drinking. The problem is sobriety. Like,

918
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 1: people don't like what it feels like to be sober,

919
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:19,720
Speaker 1: so they drink. So people don't like what it feels

920
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,279
Speaker 1: like to be alone, so they keep pursuing people. People

921
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 1: don't like what it feels like to have to live

922
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 1: as a human, so we take drugs. You know, I mean,

923
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: whatever it is, I think a lot of women and

924
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 1: I'm sure men, but I can only speak for women

925
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 1: like text there significant other whatever they text. But I've

926
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 1: learned what I'm really saying is like, am I okay? Ye?

927
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:43,439
Speaker 1: Make me happy? Am I good enough? Am I okay? Yeah?

928
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 1: We need also need a whole episode on codependency and

929
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 1: love addiction, because yes, and part of it is how

930
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 1: we're raised. I was raised. I mean, my mom was

931
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 1: a very old fashioned you know. She was born in

932
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:56,400
Speaker 1: the forties, very old fashioned. I was raised that the

933
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 1: way you please a man is to cook for him,

934
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:01,360
Speaker 1: to iron his handkerchiefs, to make sure every like food's

935
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:03,399
Speaker 1: on the table, don't disturb and when he gets home,

936
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:05,880
Speaker 1: like my dad, my dad was a public school teacher, um,

937
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 1: and he would come home and it was like, do

938
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 1: not speak to your father for the next ninety minutes.

939
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: He needs to lay down and relax. And it's like,

940
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:13,560
Speaker 1: but mom, you've been scrubbing toilets all day and teaching,

941
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,239
Speaker 1: making us breakfast and lunch, and now you're going to

942
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 1: make dinner and he needs a nap. You need a nap. Yeah,

943
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:26,360
Speaker 1: So I don't marriage. That's the thing. Like we're programmed

944
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 1: like that. And people are like, oh, women's movement, we

945
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 1: still got a long way to go forget about like

946
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 1: me too and all this which is so important. There

947
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:35,359
Speaker 1: are basics in our home of how we think about

948
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:37,760
Speaker 1: like I still want to approval from my ex husband

949
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:40,240
Speaker 1: about like what I'm gonna wear to our kids photo

950
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: exhibits up bringing your childhood try And then we ended

951
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: up dressing like twins. Accidentally. I'm like, this is awkward.

952
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 1: My ex husband and I were twins at the photo exhibit,

953
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 1: and I had to say in a man friend, I'm like,

954
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:57,360
Speaker 1: we didn't plan this. My ex husband and I are twins.

955
00:48:57,760 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 1: We didn't plan it. I think great. All three of

956
00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 1: you address the same serious Okay, I seriously want you

957
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 1: back because I think you're fantastic. But in the meantime,

958
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 1: where can our listeners find you? Our listeners can find me.

959
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 1: Let's see at grap nation dot com. I miss my

960
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 1: Oh sorry, g r okay Nation. To grack means to

961
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 1: understand something super, super deeply and intimately so that it

962
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 1: becomes part of you. When you say that, all I

963
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 1: think of this sassy, Oh well you should so, yes,

964
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 1: grap Nation, I miss my um on all my, what's

965
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:31,839
Speaker 1: it called social media? Everything? You have your right if

966
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:33,960
Speaker 1: you have if you have a boy or we're a boy,

967
00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:35,840
Speaker 1: but especially if you have a boy or want to

968
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 1: understand men. This is the process by which boys become men,

969
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:41,720
Speaker 1: and it actually informs a lot of adult male behavior

970
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 1: as well. And if you have a girl growing up?

971
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 1: Was its companion um that I wrote a year ago,

972
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 1: And that's also about the process of you know, it's

973
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,759
Speaker 1: the psychology and the sociology of being female, and then

974
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: I did basically the same for boys, with an emphasis

975
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 1: on the mixed messages girls get in our culture for

976
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 1: growing up um and then for bowing up the mixed

977
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,280
Speaker 1: messages the boys get like be aggressive, not too aggressive,

978
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:02,799
Speaker 1: you know it would be nice, not too nice. Be

979
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 1: sweet not too sweet, you know, like musical theater but

980
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:08,640
Speaker 1: not too much. Don't cry, don't cry or cry? You

981
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:11,799
Speaker 1: right right? I love it. Well, thank you so much,

982
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 1: thank you an interesting group of women, really really really nice. Dude.

983
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: She's awesome. I love her. If she really comes over

984
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 1: and organizes my my eight five thousand million legos that

985
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 1: are in five different areas of the house, it is

986
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 1: a game changer. My life will be changed. I want

987
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 1: to see four. She seems like she would. I think

988
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 1: she seemed like she was just like, hey, Amy, what,

989
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I just feel like I made me so happy.

990
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: I think she liked I know. I want to drink

991
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 1: Scotch with her. You're like that girl that's like, oh

992
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 1: my god, the popular girl like I'm gonna be fried

993
00:50:56,719 --> 00:50:59,840
Speaker 1: my hair? Can we get Drew barrymore in next? She

994
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:04,319
Speaker 1: is on my friend list, and he's like, Okay, but

995
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 1: she was curious. I just love how honest she is

996
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 1: about struggles, which is great because she's not like, oh yeah, Thames,

997
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 1: it's like Sames. Great. She's she keeps it real, which

998
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 1: I love, but she also keeps she keeps enough of

999
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 1: a wall to still be relatable. That makes absolutely She's

1000
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 1: so authentic. She's so authentic. She's so cool, you know,

1001
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 1: I was. There's something that she said though that made

1002
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 1: me question what I've been doing because my daughter is

1003
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 1: everywhere on Instagram. And she said that you know she

1004
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 1: does an Instagram or boys, because that's not the life

1005
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 1: that they chose. And I'm just like, wow, that really

1006
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 1: start a chord with me, because I will I'll never

1007
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 1: forget this. We were at Disneyland or no disney World

1008
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:55,399
Speaker 1: and someone went up to Joe Ling goes, Jolie, can

1009
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:57,840
Speaker 1: I have a picture with you? Did not even ask

1010
00:51:57,920 --> 00:51:59,560
Speaker 1: for a picture with me, Like I went to get

1011
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 1: into picture. No, no, just with Jolie and that's scary,

1012
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't like that. But but

1013
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 1: it's my fault because I've put her up on Instagram

1014
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 1: so much, but I've just wanted to like share motherhood

1015
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 1: and her But she didn't. She didn't ask to be

1016
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 1: on my Instagram, she didn't ask to be all over

1017
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:19,280
Speaker 1: my social So now I'm just like, am I doing

1018
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 1: something wrong? I don't think so, because I do it

1019
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 1: as well. Although I'm not famous, so it's very different.

1020
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 1: You're famous in a like, like a different way. I'm

1021
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 1: famous in my family. You're like, it's like they asked

1022
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 1: you like a million questions about Ryan Seacrest in Detroit.

1023
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:42,880
Speaker 1: I'm famous, yeah, because I'm from Detroit. You know that

1024
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 1: we're from Michigan. Oh yeah, I know, it's weird. It's air.

1025
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: But no, but so so you do the same thing. No,

1026
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:54,680
Speaker 1: I mean, he's all over my Instagram. And the only

1027
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:57,360
Speaker 1: thing I'm very careful about is I never post a

1028
00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 1: location with his picture or something that is recognizable, because

1029
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 1: I don't do that either. But I mean, it was

1030
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:08,479
Speaker 1: very clear that we were at Disney World, you know. Yeah,

1031
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 1: it's just you know, it's it's scary and in my

1032
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 1: daytime TV talk days when I worked at one of

1033
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,760
Speaker 1: those big shows that I used to have these guests

1034
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:22,560
Speaker 1: on and people would write it, I'm not going to

1035
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:27,440
Speaker 1: say a doctor. It's a it was a doctor. And anyways,

1036
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 1: there's only one, so it's fine as well, just say bill, okay.

1037
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:38,480
Speaker 1: I remember there's this one story that stood out. Um,

1038
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 1: somebody wrote in that she found a website and a

1039
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 1: Facebook page where somebody had stolen all of her family

1040
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 1: pictures and she was catfishing people and pretending to have

1041
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: this family with these children, and that freaks me the

1042
00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:00,760
Speaker 1: f out. Someone someone did a pay age for Jolie

1043
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 1: and I immediately sent it to my manager, Catherine. I

1044
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 1: was like, to have them take this down. She's like, well,

1045
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:07,879
Speaker 1: I mean it's kind of one of those things where

1046
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 1: it's like these photos are public, click they can do

1047
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:14,840
Speaker 1: somehow hover they want to shut down. But still, I

1048
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:18,320
Speaker 1: mean someone else could. So it's like, yeah, that's just scary.

1049
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 1: It's scary. But I don't know what the balance is

1050
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Speaker 1: because I love sharing Jolie. I know she's so cute.

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Speaker 1: I mean her like dance recital, Like I loved every

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Speaker 1: moment of that, like sharing that with people. So I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I guess I just again like location thing,

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Speaker 1: which I don't do. But still, it's just but it's

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Speaker 1: just a very interesting. When she said that, that made

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Speaker 1: me kind of go, oh, you can always start. I

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Speaker 1: have a friend who is is a huge folloween. He's

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Speaker 1: a radio radio personality. He's a dad, his entire um fatherhood.

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Speaker 1: Of his daughters, he's always put something over their face

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Speaker 1: or made their hair cover their face, or put in

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00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: emoji over their face. I don't want to do that.

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Speaker 1: I know. I'm just saying, you have options, but again,

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Speaker 1: like I love it because she's so darn cute. So

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Speaker 1: you know what I will say this. I was watching

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Speaker 1: Regis and not Regis and Kelly's Louise Kelly and Ryan Sorry,

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Speaker 1: and Kelly Rippa said that her daughter Lola Um. She

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Speaker 1: was like, you cannot post my prom picture on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: And so I think when Julie comes to the age

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Speaker 1: where she says, mom, I don't want you doing this,

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Speaker 1: or I'll even ask her like is it okay? Like

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Speaker 1: if I post this photo like I want her to have,

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Speaker 1: then she can make she can make a say. But

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Speaker 1: until that, sorry, girl, you're getting plastered all my stuff.

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Speaker 1: I get the most likes when you're in it, right,

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Speaker 1: Puppies and babies, puppies and babies, Like I mean again,

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Speaker 1: I just I want to share that. But when she

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Speaker 1: gets that age where she says, Mommy, I don't want

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Speaker 1: you to do that. I'll not do it. But then

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Speaker 1: I just I love Kelly's relationship with Lola. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: oh man, that's gonna be me, and it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: me and Julie just going at it. You are going

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Speaker 1: to yeah, speaking of like you just have a different

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Speaker 1: relationship with girls and you do sons like daughters and

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Speaker 1: you do sons. Sons are very um just I mean,

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Speaker 1: I mean they're just mostly mama's like Mama boys, Mama's boy.

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00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 1: What is it Mama's boys, Mama boy, mama by mama's boys.

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Speaker 1: What did you take the most from mine? I love

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00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:28,840
Speaker 1: how grounded she is in how she walks through life,

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Speaker 1: Like her journey is so balanced with cognitive you know her,

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Speaker 1: like the way she weirdness, the way she thinks she's

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00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 1: scientific yet spiritual. Um, she just seems so grounded in

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Speaker 1: the way she makes decisions and walks through life. And

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Speaker 1: I love that. Um. I could really resonate with everything

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Speaker 1: she was saying, because I try and be that. I

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Speaker 1: try and be a rooted tree that just sways in

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Speaker 1: the wind. But were you kind of upset about not

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Speaker 1: upset but envious of the relationship that she has with her.

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Speaker 1: I'm not envious, but I'm I'm just fascinated by it,

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Speaker 1: like how they can be like so close because I

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Speaker 1: think you guys are just too new. I think it's

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Speaker 1: too new, and I don't. I mean, I was like

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Speaker 1: when I was thinking about it, I was like, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be maybe like not not now

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Speaker 1: it's I think it's too fresh. But yeah, and I

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Speaker 1: think Amy. What Amy mostly got out of it was

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Speaker 1: the fact that she's not going to text her man friend, right,

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Speaker 1: She's going to let that one she has a new ve. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: pretty much. Okay, so let's talk about brushing your teeth everybody.

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Speaker 1: The truth is most of us are brushing our teeth wrong.

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Speaker 1: And I I knew that. You. I know that you

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Speaker 1: have to brush your teeth for two minutes, but I

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Speaker 1: never do. I never do either. I try and sing

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Speaker 1: the alphabet in my head three times, like did you

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Speaker 1: give you trying to go really fast? Yes, but two

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Speaker 1: minutes is actually a long time. It's I mean, that's

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Speaker 1: a super long time. Yeah. So I like the fact

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Speaker 1: that this toothbrush holds me accountable for brushing my teeth

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Speaker 1: for two minutes. Um, it's really cute. It comes in

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Speaker 1: rose gold. It was also Oprah's favorite favorite things, which

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Speaker 1: I which if Oprah says she loves it, then I

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Speaker 1: love it. Well. She jumps, I jump whatever whatever she

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Speaker 1: does whenever she's brush with that. So UM, I think

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Speaker 1: of the cost of bulk your toothbrushes while still packing

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Speaker 1: just the right amount of vibrations to help clean your teeth.

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Speaker 1: And I love clean teeth. So Dennis recommended two minutes

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Speaker 1: amazing pulses. Um. The Equip subscription plans are for your health,

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Speaker 1: not just convenience. They deliver new brush heads on a

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Speaker 1: dentist recommended schedule every three months. And I know this

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Speaker 1: sounds gross, but like I never I ain't changed my teethbrush,

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Speaker 1: like feel hard toothbrush that you love, and then every

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Speaker 1: three months like that, but that's the dentist recommended. So

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Speaker 1: Quip also comes with amount that suctions right to your

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Speaker 1: hygienic travel wherever you take your teeth, so it's super easy. Again,

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Speaker 1: it's super small too, so it's just super convenient. Um

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Speaker 1: get quip dot com slash Jana. So next week, by

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Speaker 1: the way, I love today's show. I hope everyone liked

1146
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Speaker 1: it and laughed as much as we did. But next

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Speaker 1: week is going to be a very um important episode

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Speaker 1: for me and um Jenny, you don't even know that.

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Speaker 1: I don't even I have no idea there's I don't

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Speaker 1: believe I'm going to have to wait a whole week.

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01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 1: It's so unfair. Well, I told, I told Jen and

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Speaker 1: Amy the producers. I said, there's something that I need

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Speaker 1: to share and I it's a very big announcement and

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Speaker 1: I want to do it on the podcast. So next week, guys,

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Speaker 1: listen up because I want to share it with y'all.

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Speaker 1: So I cannot wait, you're gonna have to wait. I

1157
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 1: know it's torture. Yeah, I'm going to be time to you.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, what is tell me. I'm the

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Speaker 1: worst secret keeper of other people's secrets, but like with mine,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, nope, not telling you, but no, I'm really

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Speaker 1: excited to share uh, to share this with you guys. Um,

1162
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Speaker 1: but I just uh oh, she's excited. That means it's good. Um. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, we'll see awesome. All right, that's it.

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Speaker 1: Foo