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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all.

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Speaker 2: It's your girl, lix Page and it's Sugarl Dria Nicole,

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Speaker 2: and you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine,

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Speaker 2: where a drunk mind speaks sober you look gekly today.

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Speaker 2: I am maa no, I had so much wine today

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Speaker 2: for real, me too.

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Speaker 1: I'm fucking you know what I was thinking about the

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Speaker 1: other ballum with mine too. I don't know what I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna do.

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Speaker 2: I'm dead, so you know what I was thinking about

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Speaker 2: today for some reason. You know how when like people

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Speaker 2: become known for something and then like people want you

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Speaker 2: to do that when they meet you.

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Speaker 1: Like imagine like if.

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Speaker 2: You see Jelille White, that was arcle, You're gonna be like,

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Speaker 2: oh say that.

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Speaker 1: You're like, then I ain't do that, you know, Like

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Speaker 1: I don't want people to come. He's like fifty now,

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Speaker 1: so I wouldever it.

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Speaker 3: Never asked him.

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Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is like, I'm scared that people

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Speaker 2: are gonna walk to me like saying girl saying I

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Speaker 2: gotta be like.

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Speaker 3: I'm dead, you know what I mean? I wonder what

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Speaker 3: people would expect me to say.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but I just feel like I need

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Speaker 2: to stop saying that so much, But I do you

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Speaker 2: do say it a lot. I say it occasionally, but

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Speaker 2: you say it a lie.

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 1: I do, But I just like, I just hope people

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Speaker 1: don't walk up to me and be like girls saying, girl, stay,

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Speaker 1: I'm dead. Stay I'm dead. Girls say you do be dead.

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Speaker 1: I thought about that because you remember that. You know

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Speaker 1: I would be annoyed.

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Speaker 2: But you know, the dude, that's the he plays like

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Speaker 2: he's an administrator somebody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody saw him in a restaurant and he's just

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Speaker 1: sitting there enjoying his margarita and they was like, dude,

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Speaker 2: He was like, oh you And I'm not like, I

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Speaker 2: commend him because he was very happy to do it.

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Speaker 1: He was smiling, he was waving.

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Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna lie, bitch if I'm seeing at

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Speaker 2: the are having me a nice little mark rita.

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Speaker 3: And be like say, I'm dead, bitch.

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Speaker 2: Like if you come ask for a picture or you

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Speaker 2: want to just talk to me and we can chop

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Speaker 2: it up, cool, But to actually ask me to perform

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Speaker 2: and do something.

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Speaker 1: I think maybe that's the equivalent to me saying at

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Speaker 1: the end of the day, yeah, yeah, Like I feel

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Speaker 1: like why I love.

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Speaker 3: To say this, so stay at the end, say, at the.

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Speaker 2: End of the day, like I wouldn't feel some type

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Speaker 2: of way like, but I'm commend him because he did it.

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Speaker 3: He was like, oh he funny. No, he's fucking hilarious.

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Speaker 1: Does he really? I felt my body jump out of

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Speaker 1: my body.

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Speaker 3: Y'all don't understand.

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Speaker 1: I'm so skinned white.

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Speaker 3: Everybody here drunk. I just want y'all know we drunk high, drunk.

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Speaker 1: It's been a long day.

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Speaker 3: But what the fuck, y'all.

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Speaker 2: I literally I'm so deathly terrified of bugs. Like I

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Speaker 2: don't give a fun how big cosmallities.

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Speaker 3: I'm scared of bugs. I didn't know that. I mean,

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Speaker 3: we've never been around bugs period.

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Speaker 2: Let these hoes. No, we don't live any road and

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Speaker 2: fifty establishments. You got an apartment of establishment. But now yeah,

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Speaker 2: like I'm very afraid. Like if we were ever like

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Speaker 2: to be around the road, you.

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Speaker 3: Bro, chill bro, chill bro.

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Speaker 1: The people that really live watching the already know what

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Speaker 3: Chill bro.

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Speaker 2: But no, for real, if we were ever around the

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Speaker 2: roach and it was like closer, I would be like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, kill probably jump in your arm, my

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Speaker 3: Yes, you would because I swallow about around you.

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Speaker 1: It's like an innate thing. You would just be like.

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Speaker 3: I got you, girl. It's like as soon as I jump,

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Speaker 2: I think. I'm not worried about frogs. I'm definitely afraid

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Speaker 2: of spiders. I'm not scared of bugs.

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Speaker 3: I'm not scared of a lot of things.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know what the lions and tigers and.

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Speaker 3: Big but I'm scared of love. You sound like do

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Speaker 3: you remember that? We know? Do you remember?

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Speaker 1: No? I was definitely not about to say that.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember that episode of Martin where he had

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Speaker 2: this this is about to be.

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Speaker 1: A long episode because get it, spin it out me, Marty,

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Speaker 1: where you had that man on the song and he

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Speaker 1: was like, it's the Barnail Mansion.

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Speaker 4: Here.

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Speaker 3: That's how you sing all the time.

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Speaker 1: That's really how you sing.

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Speaker 3: Please, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I don't don't know what the episode was called.

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Speaker 2: Well please go find an episode, and I promise y'all,

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Speaker 2: that is exactly how they seen every time.

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Speaker 3: She's what you been up to?

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Speaker 1: I'm dead?

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Speaker 2: Did you watch Space Jam. Mm hmm, you haven't watched

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Speaker 2: it yet, No, damn. Shout out to Lebron. I enjoyed

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Speaker 2: Space Jam. I thought it was a good movie. Like

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Speaker 2: I'll say this, it's a kid's movie. I think everybody

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Speaker 2: was a kid's movie when they came out the first time, right,

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Speaker 2: But everybody was like writing because you know, people like

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Speaker 2: to compare him and Michael Jordan and all this piece.

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Speaker 1: And think pieces.

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Speaker 3: I was like, y'all, this is movie for six year old,

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Speaker 5: They were like, well, actually, because the plot of the

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Speaker 5: make sense that Bucks Bunny made the layup when he

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Speaker 5: was supposed to actually dunk. So like, bro, what Because

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Speaker 5: that's how I imagine people when they write think pieces.

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, bro what, Bugs Bunny did his thing?

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Speaker 2: Shout out to bugs, Bugs he did his thing.

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Speaker 3: Lo little Bunny, Elmore Floyd like.

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Speaker 1: They came through it. I enjoyed it.

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Speaker 2: I was I was at home like this, Oh, where

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Speaker 2: can you watch it?

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Speaker 1: HBO?

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Speaker 3: Max All you got to send me your password.

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Speaker 1: I don't have hb bitch, you got everything? Enough is enough?

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Speaker 3: You got more money than me? And how you got

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Speaker 3: my passwords?

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Speaker 2: Everything?

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Speaker 3: No? Lie, the other reason I got everything is because

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Speaker 2: Like I'm logged into Netflix because uh, I'm logged in

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Speaker 2: Hulu because of you.

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Speaker 3: Disney Plus. Everybody has my Disney Plus.

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Speaker 2: Now actually, now that I'm thinking about it, I don't

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Speaker 1: Oh everybody has my dis So My whome girl actually

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Speaker 1: text me out that.

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Speaker 3: Was like, at yo, you ordering the black what over?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 1: Nigga?

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Speaker 3: That shouldn't be at all.

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Speaker 1: I need that Disney Plus stuff because I want to

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Speaker 1: watch Mulan.

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Speaker 6: You singing girls stuff and street Man cading me.

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Speaker 3: Yes. But yeah, Space Jam was good. I enjoyed it.

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Speaker 3: I've really been chilling.

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Speaker 1: I'm yeah with the girls on.

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Speaker 3: I know we want to know about you with your na.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, every going out with you. I'm not gonna lie

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Speaker 2: to y'all the way I've been acting lately. I had

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Speaker 2: a good conversation with my homegirl last night. Shout out

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Speaker 2: to Killa. I was just talking to her before we

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying that we want to get married or

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Speaker 1: Marriage is not like one of our main goals. We've

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Speaker 2: But I was like talking to my friend last night,

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Speaker 2: I was like, bro, I don't know, am I the

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Speaker 2: type to get married?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: Am I wifey type?

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Speaker 3: I feel like every time I'm tight.

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Speaker 1: But I feel that way.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like the only kind of girl that's

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's the problem.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's why so many people are not married,

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Speaker 2: feel like I'm not gonna lie to you. It's not

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Speaker 5: It ain't like I got hell a lot of bodies

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Speaker 2: But I feel I'm not gonna lie to you. I

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Speaker 2: feel like niggas don't marry women like me. I'm career driven.

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Speaker 2: My career comes first. I'm not about to Uh just

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Speaker 2: I'm not a maid, I'm not a chef. I don't

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Speaker 2: like to I like to travel. I like to travel,

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Speaker 2: I like to turn up. I like to have a

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Speaker 2: I feel like women like that really don't get married. Bro,

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Speaker 2: That's why I feel the way I feel. Yep, I mean,

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Speaker 2: like I said, I want to have a good time.

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Speaker 2: There are plenty of women who are like you, similar

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Speaker 1: I feel like I still got a chance.

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Speaker 2: I feel like everybody got a chance to get married,

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Speaker 2: because it's literally I do truly believe this. And maybe

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Speaker 2: that's just me being young, like still thinking with a

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Speaker 2: not You haven't found your professional marriage was like being

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Speaker 2: to work. That's not let me tell you something. I

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Speaker 2: feel like you just haven't found your person yet. There

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Speaker 2: are people who got married in the twenties, but guess

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Speaker 2: what they married, and that's not even a person. Ooh,

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying, Oh, that's the tea that's the.

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Speaker 3: Tea, like people be marrying people and that's not even

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Speaker 2: You were just doing some shit because you feel like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I'm supposed to have kids, I'm supposed to be married

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Speaker 2: by this age. I'm supposed to have dcn sits accomplished

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Speaker 2: by this age. So let me just do this because

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Speaker 2: I found a person who somewhat fits the aesthetic and

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Speaker 2: But then that's why ten years, twenty years later, people

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Speaker 2: marriages don't end up like fucking work.

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Speaker 3: But I'll say this, you know, because that was not

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Speaker 2: But people always be like, oh, marriage is a business

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Speaker 2: contract Like no, it is.

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Speaker 1: Married, we still need to do a prenut. And I

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Speaker 2: You're not just okay, I don't want you because you

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Speaker 2: Agree with what you're saying, but I'm not talking about

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Speaker 3: But that's what that's why it's a business.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, that's just protecting protecting yourself. What I'm

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Speaker 1: I don't need another nigga in my business.

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Speaker 3: Girl, you love me down?

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Speaker 1: Why not enough for me? We're about to go have

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Speaker 3: Ahead of it. I'm trying to make a point. It

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Speaker 2: Bigga got Damn, it's a lie for me.

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Speaker 3: I don't all.

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Speaker 2: All I'm saying is like, honestly, I feel like if

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Speaker 3: To be fun.

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Speaker 2: I'm not trying to argue about whose turn it is

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Speaker 2: I don't want to have those arguments about oh, we

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Speaker 2: that who First of all, who the fuck is sweeting mortgage?

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Speaker 3: They are? They ain't are? That ain't a concern. I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about real problems that real married people have

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Speaker 2: I know what goes on, but that ain't what's gonna

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Speaker 3: Anymore, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Or in order for me to marry you, I would

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Speaker 1: You're my ideal man.

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Speaker 2: But obviously, once we get in the marriage and we're

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Speaker 3: Things might not go.

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Speaker 2: Probably not gonna go how I'm expecting it to go.

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Speaker 2: But I fuck with you enough to marry you, so

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Speaker 2: we're gonna figure the rest of that ship.

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Speaker 3: I really feel like I'm not paying on.

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Speaker 1: Mortgage with no nigga.

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Speaker 3: That's me.

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Speaker 1: I'm not marrying no nigga that I gotta pay mortgage.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Well, basically, back to the question, you asked me how

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Speaker 2: Everybody has been cut off, everybody. I don't fuck with nobody.

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Speaker 2: Everybody's done. Only nigga, Big Papa.

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Speaker 3: That's it.

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Speaker 1: That's the only nigga that's getting any of my time.

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Speaker 3: With somebody else to who? What's pretty? Come on?

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Speaker 4: Who?

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Speaker 2: I fucked him? I'm not fucking with him. That's a difference.

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Speaker 2: You fucked him because I wanted some dick. That's a difference.

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Speaker 2: I'm not fucking with him. I fucked him, that's a difference.

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Speaker 2: I needed some dick. Tom's gets all believe that though I'm.

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Speaker 1: That's that unfinished besness type of relationship.

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Speaker 3: No, it's not.

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Speaker 2: I don't talk to him unless we the only time

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Speaker 2: we talk to you, like y'all like that type of

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Speaker 2: then y'all still gonna be fucking because y'all got But

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Speaker 2: I don't fuck with him. I just fuck him like him.

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Speaker 2: I love him, he alright.

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Speaker 4: He alright.

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Speaker 2: He.

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Speaker 1: I don't do it like I said. I don't love

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Speaker 1: these homes like you love him, and I really could

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Speaker 1: see y'all like, girl, we had a conversation. We literally

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Speaker 1: had a conversation about this other that was off here.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, talk about exactly.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm talking to you because you're my.

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Speaker 2: Friend, and if you want to bring this shit on

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Speaker 2: Pope Mines and Ship, I'm I got.

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Speaker 1: A fucking uh what's it called? With your personality with

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Speaker 1: people reputations? Thank you to uphold God damn it. I'm sorry, friend,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that you didn't want me to talk

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Speaker 2: I want to.

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Speaker 3: Get into these goddamn topics. Okay, So of the first,

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Speaker 2: Is your girl lex P and the sugarl Dray in

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Speaker 2: all about green Ship.

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Speaker 3: We love some greens. Yes, Now, y'all know I'm not

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Speaker 1: I don't like to be in the kitchen like that.

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Speaker 2: I've been really trying to get back into the habit

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Speaker 3: So I really really loved.

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Speaker 2: The turkey tariocy ball so dely shit, it was good.

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Speaker 3: I was like, hold on, wait a minute, Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: I know, that's right.

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Speaker 3: Hundred and get your food. Y'all, get it together. I

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Speaker 3: don't loved you.

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Speaker 2: Hold So for the first topic, I wanted to talk

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Speaker 2: about time and timing and opportunity. I feel like a

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Speaker 2: lot of things that happen in your life, you know

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Speaker 2: what I mean, You'll get an opportunity, but it's not

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Speaker 2: the right time. So I wanted to talk about timing

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Speaker 2: of things that I feel like have happened in my

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Speaker 1: Didn't end up working out because it was not the

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Speaker 1: right time. And then can we get an example me

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, me having kids? Right? So, you have the opportunity.

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Speaker 2: I had the opportunity to have a kid, right well,

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Speaker 2: who with someone that I will not disclose, We won't

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Speaker 2: talk about that. But I had the opportunity to have

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Speaker 1: I don't been but something in me just didn't feel

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Speaker 2: Was the right time in my life or was it

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Speaker 2: the lex P and me? LEXP was definitely in my

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Speaker 2: we and that's kind of why we had our fall, Nolge.

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Speaker 2: We just wasn't on the same page.

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Speaker 1: So this is what I saw, go ahead ahead, I.

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Speaker 2: Was just saying, so yeah, So I just feel like

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Speaker 1: And I think that's very important to discuss.

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Speaker 2: Like even with us, we've talked about how we both

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Speaker 2: have tried our hand with doing different things with media

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Speaker 2: in the past.

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Speaker 1: Right, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like you you didn't you hosted?

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Speaker 1: Didn't you like you hosted? You were a host at

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Speaker 1: the BET Awards.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we're not a host.

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Speaker 2: I was.

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Speaker 1: I worked the red carpet bitch, I mean, but you.

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Speaker 3: Know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Like, and I had did like a little media stuff

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Speaker 2: little bit. You was an intern at a radio station

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Speaker 2: before it too. But then it's like those.

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Speaker 1: Working without QS too. And I was working with Kiyati

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Speaker 2: But it's just like those things that we were working

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Speaker 1: And I feel like it's just because it was not

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Speaker 2: An opportunity have to meet, they have to coexist together

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Speaker 2: in order for something to manifest and.

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Speaker 1: To be what he's supposed to be.

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Speaker 2: Like that's why now with our show and everything that's

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Speaker 2: going on, this is the time, this is what was

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Speaker 2: niggas like I have the opportunity to suck they dick,

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Speaker 2: but it wasn't my time to suck they dick. I

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Speaker 2: was supposed to wait to suck they dick, and I

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So with that being said,

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Speaker 2: I agree with you though, because I think about y'all.

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Speaker 2: I used to audition for everything, but you never would,

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Speaker 1: Get it, And I'm like, how am I not? I

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Speaker 1: am amazed.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 2: I've been thinking I was funny since I was like two,

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Speaker 2: Like you couldn't tell me I wasn't funny, bitch, Like,

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Speaker 2: I'll be confused. I'm like, you don't think I'm funny,

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00:19:53,200 --> 00:20:02,440
Speaker 2: You're like, nigga, oh, I'll be confused. So I auditioned

451
00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:07,920
Speaker 2: for like Real World, Bad Girls, Club, fucking anything, any

452
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:09,879
Speaker 2: kind of reality show that was popping in like the

453
00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:12,440
Speaker 2: early two thousands. I tried out for it, and it's

454
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:14,359
Speaker 2: like I would get right there, but they would like

455
00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:15,560
Speaker 2: never fucking choose me.

456
00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:17,760
Speaker 1: And I was like, I was so confused.

457
00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:20,960
Speaker 2: But now where my life is now, and I'm looking back,

458
00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:23,919
Speaker 2: no offense to anybody, and shout out to Megan for

459
00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:25,040
Speaker 2: Bad Girls Club, but she's.

460
00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:25,680
Speaker 1: Still doing her thing.

461
00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:29,359
Speaker 2: But yeah, but think about all the girls that were

462
00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:31,359
Speaker 2: on Bad Girls Club? How many of them are still

463
00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:36,720
Speaker 2: relevant outside of Meg Tuanisha and like Natalie and the

464
00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:37,560
Speaker 2: Claremont twit me.

465
00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:39,840
Speaker 1: But even with me like and I probably.

466
00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:42,439
Speaker 2: Actually should have used that as an example instead. But

467
00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:45,320
Speaker 2: like when I was supposed to be on Living Hip Ho, right,

468
00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:49,399
Speaker 2: it's just not your sometimes things, it's just about timing

469
00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:51,760
Speaker 2: an opportunity. And then when you really look at it

470
00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:53,800
Speaker 2: later down the line, like in that moment, you might

471
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:54,480
Speaker 2: be devastated.

472
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,760
Speaker 1: You'd be like fuck, like why didn't they choose me?

473
00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:59,440
Speaker 3: Like, oh my god.

474
00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:01,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, cause that's how I feel at the moment too.

475
00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:03,720
Speaker 2: When I was supposed to be going to live in

476
00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:05,840
Speaker 2: Hip Hop, I had signed a contract.

477
00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:08,600
Speaker 1: I hate, I never outstaw you. I had hired a lawyer.

478
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,080
Speaker 1: I had to pay a lawyer. Remember all types of.

479
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:12,840
Speaker 3: You paid that whole wreck?

480
00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 1: I said, how you got that?

481
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:15,639
Speaker 2: Yes? I had to pay a thousand dollars to a

482
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:20,480
Speaker 2: lawyer to look over the contract, had money. It was

483
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:23,159
Speaker 2: so many things I had to do, you know what

484
00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:25,600
Speaker 2: I mean, And then for that situation to not end

485
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 2: up coming to.

486
00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 1: Fruition, I was upset. I think we both were.

487
00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:32,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, I really wanted you to be on Love. I

488
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 2: really thought let me let me just I'm sorry, I

489
00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:39,119
Speaker 2: don't mean I really thought you going on Love and

490
00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:42,879
Speaker 2: hip Hop was gonna be like our chance. I was like,

491
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:44,760
Speaker 2: Dred's gonna go on the show. I know she's gonna

492
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,160
Speaker 2: bring me on there with her and we can really

493
00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:50,200
Speaker 2: like make something pop, Like this is our chance, this

494
00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:50,919
Speaker 2: is our shot.

495
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:53,480
Speaker 1: Like I was like, this is what I think.

496
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,640
Speaker 2: We both yeah, like we was really like banking on

497
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 2: you going on Love and hip Hop and that's just

498
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,600
Speaker 2: making everything and just the thought that was going to

499
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,719
Speaker 2: be the route and when I tell you, it's been

500
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,920
Speaker 2: completely opposite and it didn't work out, and I feel

501
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 2: like we were both like what the fuck? Like this

502
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:12,400
Speaker 2: is this sucks because I feel like I'm way more entertaining.

503
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 2: Meat and Licks are way more entertaining than a lot

504
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,439
Speaker 2: of the people that they've had on this showing.

505
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 3: Hold on now.

506
00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:24,160
Speaker 2: Don't do uh missus Jocelyn now Well, first of all, bitch,

507
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 2: I'm never Gonnock, Joscelyn or Temmy them. Those are those

508
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 2: are the beaches why love and hip hop is. Love

509
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 2: and hip hop is because of them. Two beaches period,

510
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 2: like anybody else, don't matter.

511
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 3: This is Johnson, We want, we want you. I would

512
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:38,640
Speaker 3: love for.

513
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:40,640
Speaker 1: Telling me to come on the show too like them.

514
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,280
Speaker 2: But yeah, but but in my personal opinion, those are

515
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 2: the only two beaches that really just ever shoot the table.

516
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 1: Don't do ca she literally shook the table, bitch. Okay,

517
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 1: I'll give it, Okay, I'll give it to show her too.

518
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 2: But yes, it's just like it was very It's very

519
00:22:57,680 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 2: few people on that show that I feel like are

520
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:03,399
Speaker 2: just very entertaining. So I couldn't understand why when I

521
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:05,920
Speaker 2: had the opportunity to be on there, they ended up

522
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 2: like telling me basically like she's not gonna be on here.

523
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,880
Speaker 2: But then it's so crazy because years later, now we're

524
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:16,439
Speaker 2: doing this and we're now we're more relevant than some

525
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:17,439
Speaker 2: people that have been on this.

526
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 3: Show, and we would not try.

527
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,439
Speaker 2: I know, my mom always tells me that she has

528
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 2: this thing where she says, never say never, because you

529
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 2: never know.

530
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,199
Speaker 3: I won't never say never.

531
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:32,159
Speaker 2: So i'ld say shout out to my mom because she's

532
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,360
Speaker 2: been telling me that my whole life, like never say never,

533
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 2: because you never know what you're gonna end up doing.

534
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,119
Speaker 2: But we're at a point to where I feel like

535
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 2: we would never probably go and live in hip hop

536
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 2: at this point. Let me not never say never. I

537
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,879
Speaker 2: would never like do it as like a main character.

538
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 2: But it's like if one of my homegirls got on

539
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 2: that show and they wanted me to come and like

540
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 2: have a drink on the patty, I'm gonna have a

541
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 2: drink on the pat I don't.

542
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 1: I feel like they would have to offer me a crazy.

543
00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 2: Amount of money for me to go on, whether BEG

544
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 2: nigga and I know from what I know that like that.

545
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 2: Well yeah, unless sure somebody who already has a name

546
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 2: for you, like Jock for example.

547
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: You know right, Well, I'll say this.

548
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 2: I think that it's because we carry ourselves a certain

549
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 2: type of way and to be on a lot of

550
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 2: these reality shows. That's why a lot of especially women

551
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 2: have quit these reality shows because all they want them

552
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 2: to do is fight and argue and do this and

553
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:26,919
Speaker 2: do that, Like I'm not gonna lie besh like I

554
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 2: would rather I love the Housewives, like I can't why

555
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 2: would go on real?

556
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 1: I can't wait to be port That's gonna be my

557
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 1: best friend, Like you know.

558
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:37,399
Speaker 2: What I'm saying, But I would love It's just so

559
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:41,199
Speaker 2: crazy all by the way, because I never like the

560
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 2: way looks loves Porsche.

561
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:46,199
Speaker 3: I never I just didn't think you would love her

562
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 3: because I'm not a fan of people.

563
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 1: I'm not a fan of people.

564
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,399
Speaker 2: And then I think Porsche is sometimes kind of opposite

565
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 2: of like you know who, Porscha acts like me exactly,

566
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 2: so why what not she you and Porsia act just

567
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 2: to like yes, because I feel like Portia is very

568
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 2: intelligent and she's very smart, but how she comes off

569
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:06,359
Speaker 2: to people is like she don't know that and she

570
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 2: just fine and that's it. But I feel like that's

571
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 2: how it was with you at first, like peoples like

572
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 2: why would Lex as funny as she is and as

573
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 2: crazy and as well she is, why.

574
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 3: Would she want to do with y'all with Drea's just fine?

575
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 2: And then once you opened up, people realize, oh, Lex,

576
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 2: really dumb one bitch If y'all see is not dumb,

577
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 2: these ass bitch because I can't pronounce a word, I

578
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 2: but like, hold on, we have.

579
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 3: To switch these lines. But I don't know how to

580
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 3: say circumference.

581
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: The fu What the thing is about? The thing about

582
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:39,399
Speaker 1: lex is please And you're very intelligent. You're very I mean,

583
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:40,960
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that I'm not.

584
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is I I.

585
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,480
Speaker 2: Think I think I'm just a little moored. What's the

586
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 2: word I'm looking for?

587
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 3: Technical?

588
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a little word like not No, it's not technical, y'all.

589
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 2: What's the word I'm looking for me?

590
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 3: You know, y'all know, I don't know.

591
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,199
Speaker 2: And it's not strategic. It's something in that same realm

592
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 2: that I'm trying to say. But it's just like I

593
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 2: just think I'm a little bit more.

594
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,120
Speaker 1: Like logical intail.

595
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 2: I am logical into detail. I'm a little more detailed. Okay, yeah,

596
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 2: but yeah.

597
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 1: That's all that I think it is. But you're super intellent.

598
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I'm not saying that.

599
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,879
Speaker 2: But like I said, I just feel like Timmy and

600
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 2: opportunity is so important. So I know we have a

601
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,199
Speaker 2: lot of young listeners that watched the show, listen to

602
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 2: the show.

603
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 1: I just want to tell y'all, if something.

604
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 2: Happens, that's the opportunity for you and you're passionate about

605
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,679
Speaker 2: what you're doing and you don't get something it's just

606
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 2: not your time.

607
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 3: But don't fucking quit.

608
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:40,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, if we I think about all day every day.

609
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 2: I think about what the fuck would I be doing

610
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 2: right now? Like I went to Europeo Wax Center yesterday,

611
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:48,919
Speaker 2: get my brows done. Yeah, I can say it now

612
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 2: because I don't word they Moore. I used to work

613
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:54,400
Speaker 2: at Europeo Wax Center for the longest, like, and.

614
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 3: I was like, I walked out of it.

615
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 1: I was like, man, don't get me wrong, it was

616
00:26:58,520 --> 00:26:59,400
Speaker 1: an amazing job.

617
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 3: I loved it. I didn't mind going to work.

618
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:03,640
Speaker 2: It was cool, I made money, Like I was good

619
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:05,640
Speaker 2: at what I was doing. But I was like, man,

620
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 2: I couldn't imagine still being there. But it was like

621
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 2: at one point in my life, I was like, this

622
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 2: shit not working out with my friends. She get on

623
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 2: my nerves. I'm just about to move up within the

624
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 2: company and do what I do. But it's like that

625
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 2: wasn't what I was supposed to be doing, you know.

626
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 2: And we didn't quit and we kept going. I also

627
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 2: feel like too, you know what I mean, like going

628
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 2: back to what we were kind of talking about first

629
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 2: with the first example that I gave was like timing

630
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 2: an opportunity sometimes too as well. If something is nice,

631
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 2: if you getting a good feeling about something you like, Uh,

632
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,120
Speaker 2: I kind of feel like it would be a good

633
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 2: idea for me to do this, But it's something in

634
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 2: my good.

635
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 3: That's the idea. I said, A good idea. It's the

636
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 3: one y'all just please for real. We don't have a

637
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 3: lot of wine today, but no.

638
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 2: So it's like, if you know, you feel like something

639
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 2: is a good idea and you think you might do it,

640
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 2: you you should do it, or you might pursue it.

641
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 2: But something that YO good is just telling you no,

642
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:10,360
Speaker 2: don't do this. Follow ya good as well, because I'm

643
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 2: very thankful years later that I did not follow my

644
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,879
Speaker 2: like that I did follow my good instinct about a

645
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 2: lot of things. And I did, even though it was

646
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 2: something that me and Lex used to y'all when I

647
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 2: tell y'all.

648
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 3: Go back and forth, it you a hate on me.

649
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,360
Speaker 1: You that you thought I was hating on you.

650
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:30,120
Speaker 3: You thought I was.

651
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:33,439
Speaker 2: Jealous, and it wasn't that. But I just knew what

652
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 2: you could do, and it wasn't being somebody's baby.

653
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,160
Speaker 3: Mama, yeah, facts.

654
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 2: And so I feel like, years later, I'm very grateful

655
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 2: that I did kind of somewhat listen to that voice

656
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 2: of lex in the back.

657
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 1: Of my head, and I did me hey, hey, homie,

658
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: be cle.

659
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 2: And I did listen to my good instincts as well,

660
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 2: because now look at all of the things I'm doing,

661
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 2: and like my opportunities are limitless and.

662
00:28:58,760 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 3: I don't have it.

663
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 2: And don't give wrong, I'm not never saying, not trying

664
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 2: to say that, like a kid stops you from things,

665
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 2: but at that point, and I just feel like that's

666
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 2: not what was for me in my pad, Like I

667
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 2: do want to have kids, but I am thankful with

668
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 2: everything I have going on right now that I don't

669
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 2: have one right now, you know, so because the kids,

670
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Speaker 1: So we all go on to the next topic.

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Speaker 2: So, I wanted to talk about having a type when dating.

700
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 2: Is it hurting you or is it helping you, Okay,

701
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 2: And I'm probably about to kick myself and the ass

702
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 2: for this, but I feel like I have had an

703
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 2: interesting year with dating, y'all. Everybody knows I was dealing

704
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 2: with Throwback Bay, I was dealing with Rapper Bay, and

705
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 2: I ended those both situations and I had I've been

706
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 2: dating in between there. You know, I've talked about a

707
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 2: few characters on this show. I don't really like to

708
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 2: talk about talk about my dating life that much anymore,

709
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 2: but I'm not gonna lie to y'all.

710
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 1: I tried to date outside of my type.

711
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 2: I went for guys that I would never look twice

712
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 2: at because everybody was like.

713
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 3: Think outside the box.

714
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 2: You're being shallow. You're doing something wrong. If you want

715
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 2: to find the man that you want, you need to

716
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 2: stop dating the type of man that you think that

717
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 2: you're supposed to be with. Like I'm like, okay, bet

718
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 2: I did that shit, and fuck that shit, fuck that shit.

719
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 2: I'm not doing it no more. Let me tell y'all

720
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 2: my dating style. I'm the type of girl I have

721
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 2: to be physically attracted you. You have to be able

722
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 2: to take me on nice dates and do like it's

723
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 2: not what we know what we the type of meaning

724
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 2: that we like. I don't have to go down the list.

725
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 2: So I feel like, if I'm on a first date

726
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 2: with you and I'm not trying to slob you down

727
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 2: and kiss you down, I like to fall in love

728
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 2: within twenty four hours.

729
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,239
Speaker 1: I like to fall in love very quickly. If you're not.

730
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: If I feel like, damn, is this nigga gonna be

731
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 1: my husband?

732
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 2: If I don't feel that way by the time the

733
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 2: fucking crab legs come out, then you're probably not the

734
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 2: nigga for me and people it's like, you know, maybe

735
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,120
Speaker 2: you should go slower because that doesn't work for you. Well,

736
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 2: I try to do something different and that shit didn't

737
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 2: work either, so I might as well up date what

738
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 2: at least what I fucking like. I'm on a date

739
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 2: waiting for the crabs.

740
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 3: I'm waiting for the.

741
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 1: Tail because I'm ready to fucking go.

742
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 2: So I'm going to date my type until it fucking

743
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 2: works for me, because I'm not about to date my

744
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 2: type and try to force myself to like somebody that

745
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 2: I don't fucking like. Bro, We'll see. Like the thing

746
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 2: with me is I feel like I don't really have

747
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 2: a type.

748
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 1: I feel like I give. I mean, I don't have

749
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 1: a type physically. Okay, that's about say, because you definitely

750
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 1: have a type.

751
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 2: I have a type when it comes to other things money, money, yeah,

752
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 2: but I don't have a type physically, Like you don't

753
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 2: have to look a certain way. You don't have to

754
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 2: be like a super finess nigga because one thing about

755
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 2: me too, And I feel like les canatestities like if

756
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 2: I really start to like a nigga, I don't give

757
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 2: a fuck with people say about how you look. I

758
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 2: think you followed Bill Gates if I started to like him.

759
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 3: So if Bill Gates slitting your DMS right now, you going,

760
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 3: I would no, because he's white. You're lying.

761
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 2: N Bill Gates splitting your DMS right now was like, Dre,

762
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 2: I think you're a beautiful girl.

763
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 3: I would just like to go to dinner and pick

764
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 3: your mind.

765
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 2: I would probably go to dinner with him, but I

766
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 2: don't think I would really date him because I don't

767
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 2: want to be with the white men. I've said this

768
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 2: no offense to the white men. If you watch the

769
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 2: show Wow, I apologize.

770
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Speaker 1: I don't want doctor Umar would slap you right now.

771
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 2: I don't want to offend you. However, I don't see

772
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 2: myself ended up with a white man.

773
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 3: I'm not saying ended up with him.

774
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: I'm just asking on a date with Bill Gates, I

775
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:08,359
Speaker 1: would would you.

776
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:14,399
Speaker 3: Give him head? I just gotta know if he gave

777
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 3: me head?

778
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 2: Okay, Bill Gates, get that bread, get that head and

779
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 2: leave drug out riches. Fuck, he's gonna have to give

780
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 2: a little.

781
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 3: I have to give a little something for the head, though.

782
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna just give your head.

783
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 3: Off the rib for so are you? Are you with

784
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 3: dating outside of your type? Though? Like I'm not.

785
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to say nothing. But you like millionaires.

786
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 2: Let's just be clips, stay homie, be clip. You like millionaires.

787
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 2: So if somebody told you, okay, date this man he

788
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 2: makes eighty thousand dollars a year or whatever, would you

789
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 2: be open to that?

790
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 3: Honestly?

791
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:54,360
Speaker 2: Possibly, depending on how you treat me. Okay, not eighty thousand. No,

792
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,319
Speaker 2: I'm not going up to two hundred. I'm saying if

793
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 2: a man with so now, you wouldn't date a man

794
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 2: that makes eighty thousand dollars a year?

795
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 3: Wow? Because we make that. I don't know, but I may.

796
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 1: Make somebody been booked and busy without me exactly.

797
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 3: But no, but no, I mean I've touched.

798
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:26,280
Speaker 1: I'm just being honest.

799
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 2: In my life, I have touched over eighty thousand dollars

800
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 2: in a year before.

801
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 1: So.

802
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:36,839
Speaker 2: It's kind of like that just ain't gonna work for me.

803
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 2: That ain't gonna work for me.

804
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 3: No, I feel you, I feel you.

805
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:42,799
Speaker 1: But nothing is wrong with that.

806
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with like to me, a man who

807
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 2: makes eighty thousand dollars a year, that's a great living.

808
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: Well, I'm not gonna lie to you.

809
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm at the point in my life

810
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 2: like I can take care of myself right. I'm good financially,

811
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 2: So I'm at the point to where, honestly, I'm not

812
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 2: gonna say money isn't a factor, because it is is

813
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 2: because I like to do certain type of things. But honestly,

814
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 2: like if you're if I'm not physically attracted to you

815
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:11,240
Speaker 2: and we don't have a connection, I'm gonna be shallow

816
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 2: in those areas because I'm not gonna be as shallow

817
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,920
Speaker 2: as I used to be about money. I used to

818
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:18,400
Speaker 2: be super shallow about how much a nigga made because

819
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:19,799
Speaker 2: I need a nigga to help me.

820
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:21,320
Speaker 3: Nigga, I was struggling.

821
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:25,359
Speaker 1: I'm like, help me, nigga, I got bills to pay.

822
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 1: I'm broke.

823
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 2: I need a nigga that I can fuck with that

824
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:29,359
Speaker 2: can help me pay myself on bill, that can help

825
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 2: me pay my rent, that can help me pay my

826
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 2: card out. Now I'm not in that area, So I

827
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:38,399
Speaker 2: feel like, honestly, I just I just want somebody that

828
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 2: I can connect with and we can do the things

829
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 2: I want to do. And I agree with you to

830
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 2: a certain thing because at one point, I feel like

831
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 2: that's why I wanted to date certain type of niggas too,

832
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 2: just because.

833
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 3: I needed certain things.

834
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:52,279
Speaker 2: But at the same time, though, honestly, even now now

835
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 2: that I'm making more money, I still just want to

836
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 2: be with the nigga that make a certain amount of

837
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 2: money too, because it's like, I just I want certain things,

838
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 2: and if you ain't making any kind of money, you

839
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 2: can't get it right. You can't do it right. I mean, honestly,

840
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 2: I hate when you can't do it. I'm not gonna

841
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 2: lie to you. I hate when men talk to me

842
00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 2: about finances though. I mean, you don't even want to

843
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 2: know how much you make. I just want to see

844
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 2: what you're gonna do for me and what we about

845
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 2: to do. But when dudes that all day, we never

846
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:20,359
Speaker 2: have a discussion about finances because I already know what

847
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 2: you do. I literally cut a nigga off because he

848
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:24,840
Speaker 2: started telling me how the pandemic was hard for him

849
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 2: and how he had lost.

850
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: This amount of money in his business. I said, my

851
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: pussy is dry.

852
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 2: Are you sure you want to continue with this conversation?

853
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 2: You feel like like I said, I mean, I don't know,

854
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 2: like having a type. It's okay to have a type.

855
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 2: I don't feel like it hinders you or anything like that.

856
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:42,800
Speaker 2: I just feel like, because at the end of the day,

857
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 2: you want to end up with who you want to

858
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 2: end up with. You don't want to be unhappy. Life

859
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 2: is too short to be unhappy. That's why should I settle?

860
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:50,840
Speaker 4: For?

861
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,919
Speaker 1: Why should I settle if this is not the type

862
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 1: of person that I want to be with. But that's

863
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:56,840
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I don't want to end up with

864
00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 1: a rich nigga that I'm gonna attract it to.

865
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 2: But I also don't want to end up with a

866
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 2: nigga that I'm super attractive that don't have nothing going

867
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:03,840
Speaker 2: for himself.

868
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: Like but see if I really like a nigga.

869
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 2: Like, if me and a nigga really be fucking with

870
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 2: each other, I become attracted to people. I might not

871
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:14,320
Speaker 2: be attracted to you initially, but I can become attracted

872
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 2: to you.

873
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,960
Speaker 1: If you have money. No, if I don't know, no,

874
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 1: I'm asking, I wasn't.

875
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 3: Well, you're gonna have money regardless.

876
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:22,399
Speaker 2: So the money ain't the issue because I don't fock

877
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 2: with niggas get a lot of money or just put

878
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 2: that out there. So the money is not the problem.

879
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 2: You gonna have money either way it go.

880
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 3: But if I really start to like you, because.

881
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 2: There's men niggas that I've dated who had money and

882
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 2: I still did not like them, right because I just

883
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 2: don't like you.

884
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:38,280
Speaker 3: You corny, you laying.

885
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie like you.

886
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 2: My type I have, y'all know. I love Love Island, USA.

887
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:48,760
Speaker 2: I love Love Island's period, the whole franchise. Love Island

888
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 2: is so good because you get to really see how

889
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 2: people are when they're like dating somebody and when they

890
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 2: start off. So I hate when they're like coupling up

891
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 2: with people. They're like, oh, what's your type? They're like, Oh,

892
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 2: I really don't have a type. And everybody has a

893
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 2: fucking type, whether it's physical, financial, emotional, mental, everybody.

894
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 1: Has a certain type of person that they like.

895
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:11,839
Speaker 2: Like I'm not gonna lie if you a nigga that

896
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 2: doesn't listen to R and B music, I really don't

897
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 2: like niggas that don't if we can't vibe on my

898
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,879
Speaker 2: I love music so much, it's such an important part

899
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,359
Speaker 2: of my life. If you don't vibe with the type

900
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 2: of music I listen to, even if you've never heard

901
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 2: of it, and I try to put you on and

902
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 2: you don't like it, the vibes don't be right.

903
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 1: It be certain things. Like I do have a type.

904
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,240
Speaker 1: I like niggas that like R and B music.

905
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 2: I like niggas that got a decent body. I'm not

906
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 2: saying that you gotta be fucking Captain America in this.

907
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 3: Whole, but you gotta look like a little you know

908
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. I look like a little some. You

909
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 3: look like a little some. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

910
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:53,840
Speaker 2: I don't want no nigga with no crazy ass hairline dirty.

911
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 1: Now, my nail's not dirt day long, but they're not dirty, right,

912
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:01,279
Speaker 1: and my nail six feet long? How you got dirt

913
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,920
Speaker 1: under your nails, and I don't you know what I'm saying.

914
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 2: So, yes, I definitely have a type and I'm not

915
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 2: going outside of my type anymore.

916
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: I feel like this is what I deserve. I've worked

917
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 1: to get here.

918
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 2: People always like I was talking to my friends, she

919
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 2: was like, lex, I don't know what you need to

920
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 2: do as far as your dating life. Just focus on yourself,

921
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 2: just grow, focus on your career, bitch.

922
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 3: I did that.

923
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 1: I went to therapy.

924
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 2: I focused on myself. I'm making money now, I'm happy,

925
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 2: I'm good. I focused on myself long enough.

926
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 3: What a hose? And where are the holes?

927
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 1: And I'm tired of focusing on myself.

928
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:38,280
Speaker 3: I don't went to therapy.

929
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: I did what I was supposed to do, right. So

930
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 1: I just.

931
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:44,439
Speaker 2: Feel like dating outside of my type, I'm not doing

932
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 2: that shit. I want what I want and I like

933
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 2: what I like. That's what it's gonna be. I'm not

934
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,720
Speaker 2: doing that shit no more. That'shit trash.

935
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, I feel you friend.

936
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 1: Happy, but you haven't dated outside your type yet. You

937
00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: haven't tried it.

938
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 2: I dated outside my type the whole early twenties of

939
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:03,399
Speaker 2: my life. The fuck is you talking about I'm talking

940
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 2: about your tight now as a grown woman.

941
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 3: Bitch. I was grown when I was in my early twenties.

942
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 3: I was try it now.

943
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:13,439
Speaker 1: You need to try it now. You say you're telling

944
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 1: me to day the broke niggas.

945
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 3: I say that, you're saying no.

946
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 2: I think you just said no, that you can date

947
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 2: a man that's making eighty thousand, one hundred thousand a

948
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,399
Speaker 2: year that can maybe get you the stuff you want,

949
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,320
Speaker 2: that's gonna treat you like a queen. That's what I'm saying,

950
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 2: and that's not broke. You just need to try it.

951
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 2: I really would love for you to date a regular nigga.

952
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 2: You haven't tried it. You don't think I date regular nigga. No,

953
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:36,920
Speaker 2: you absolutely don't.

954
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 3: He'd be like, Yeah, I'm dating this whole I'm dating

955
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 3: this little nigga. I meet the nigga. It's fucking a.

956
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 2: Grammy Award winning actor with OSCAR nominations. Yeah, this little

957
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 2: niggay hood bab ain't regular.

958
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 3: Why that nigga that caught sixteen bidies? They got the hood?

959
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,320
Speaker 1: That nigga e fucking run an army or hood niggas

960
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: out a come but show doing that right? Fucking now, Yeah,

961
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 1: it's just a little nigga something that's not serious. Nigga

962
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 1: got fifteen bricks in his trunk. I got a regular nigga,

963
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 1: bitch he fucked what.

964
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:16,480
Speaker 2: But I when I say regular, I mean like, no,

965
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 2: I'm talking about a regular man that makes her honest, living, that.

966
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 1: Does well, honest about what them bodies.

967
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 3: He coat, he confessed he did his jail time. What bro,

968
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:36,440
Speaker 3: I'm just saying saying all.

969
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,359
Speaker 2: I'm saying you like you date at least once, because

970
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 2: I feel like as long as we've been friends, you've

971
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 2: never I've dated outside of my type.

972
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 4: No you have, Yes I have, But what is your

973
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 4: dick exactly? So no, you have a no?

974
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 1: Yes I have, Yes I have.

975
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 3: All these niggas got no no.

976
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,319
Speaker 2: But I'm serious, like, I have dated outside my type?

977
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 2: So who outside of your side? I can't get into

978
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 2: it because you know, my niggas be watching the show.

979
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 3: The niggas that they don't know if their nicknames though,

980
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,400
Speaker 3: let's stay due. Yes they very much do.

981
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,319
Speaker 2: But I will say, we're gonna have a conversation after this.

982
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:13,959
Speaker 2: But you know I've talked out so you don't feel

983
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 2: like outdated. Anybody else in the past. No niggas showing

984
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 2: up on first day with row lexes and fucking Chanel

985
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 2: based nigga.

986
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 1: No, you haven't no not to put you on Blessed.

987
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 1: So you had sent me to settle for a listener.

988
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you can.

989
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 2: Settle for Joe, saying, maybe try something different, see if

990
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 2: it didn't work for me.

991
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 1: But let's just see if it works for you. That's

992
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 1: all I'm saying. I just want to see you.

993
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 3: I don't nick. We're gonna get into the bow Bow

994
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:48,759
Speaker 3: Bow Bow bow. What's up?

995
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 1: Y'all's your girl lex pee and it's your girls in

996
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 1: the call. Now, one thing about us.

997
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 3: We're gonna control the birth.

998
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 2: We gonna control the birth. Ain'tybody shoots? Okay, that's why

999
00:43:58,600 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 2: we'd be using the beautiful you.

1000
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

1001
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 2: I like that. So we have partnered with the Pill

1002
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 2: Club to get y'all discounted birth control. So if you're

1003
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 2: on birth control, like, remember taking your pill, remember to

1004
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 2: set your appointment.

1005
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 1: All that stuff is so hard. The Pill Club is

1006
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: a subscription service.

1007
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 2: It delivers birth control straight to your door and discrete packaging,

1008
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:24,280
Speaker 2: and they also offer over twenty FBA approved birth control.

1009
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 3: Oh you know what I'm saying.

1010
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 2: That's why we'll club.

1011
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

1012
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,319
Speaker 2: So, also, when you become a patient of the pill

1013
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 2: club dot Com, they're offering a ten dollars donation to

1014
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 2: help low come individuals get access to birth control. So

1015
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 2: now only are you controlling your birth, but you're helping

1016
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,400
Speaker 2: other people control birth day birth. Yes, so make sure

1017
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 2: y'all go to the pill club dot com backslash poor

1018
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 2: minds and get you some birth control, y'all. That's vpill

1019
00:44:55,280 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 2: Club dot com Backslash poor Minds. So I wanted to

1020
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 2: talk about pay pigs today. Shout out to Weezy from

1021
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:06,800
Speaker 2: sex Seals.

1022
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 3: I love girl.

1023
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 2: Weezy has a show called sex Sales on Bice and

1024
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 2: they had an episode where the first episode, I.

1025
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 1: Think they were talking about pay pigs and they were

1026
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:16,920
Speaker 1: talking about.

1027
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 2: How men just really get off literally sexually get off

1028
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 2: on giving women money. Like some women literally meet up

1029
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 2: with men at atm machines. All they do is get

1030
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,400
Speaker 2: out their money and hand them the money and walk away,

1031
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 2: and they get off on that. Some men would show

1032
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 2: up to women's houses knocking on the door and just

1033
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 2: handing the money they don't want nothing. They just literally

1034
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 2: get off on giving you money. So I want to

1035
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 2: talk about a pay pig situation. I realized that I

1036
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 2: had that. I didn't know that.

1037
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 3: I was in cool.

1038
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 1: It's not anotherbody.

1039
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 2: I mean, I know you're not gonna say no, it's

1040
00:45:57,239 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 2: not a whole person because I don't know this man.

1041
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 3: I don't know him. How do you not know him?

1042
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:03,760
Speaker 1: He was just sending money.

1043
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:04,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, he was just.

1044
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 2: Sending me money, like we were talking. I had honestly,

1045
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 2: he had found me on Instagram. But what's crazy is

1046
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 2: I was sending him pictures that were on my Instagram,

1047
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 2: but he just felt like it was important because I

1048
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 2: sent it to him directly, Like it would be a

1049
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 2: picture of like me and you, and I'll send it

1050
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 2: to him and be like, oh my god, baby, you

1051
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 2: look so beautiful. Even though it will be on my Instagram.

1052
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 2: I would send it to him and he would just

1053
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 2: send me money, and I was like, damn. But that

1054
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 2: was when I was super like I couldn't. I'm not

1055
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 2: gonna lie to you, Like I would have to talk

1056
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 2: to him like all day long, you know. And I

1057
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 2: think that's one side of the pay pig things that

1058
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:43,279
Speaker 2: people don't understand like you do be having to talk

1059
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 2: to these niggas.

1060
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 3: I never felt like I.

1061
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: Was in a situation like that before.

1062
00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I don't.

1063
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:50,799
Speaker 2: Honestly, I've never seen this man's face. He has like

1064
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 2: a scripture or something for his avvy. He has like

1065
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:58,839
Speaker 2: one hundred followers. I know all I know about this man.

1066
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 2: I don't even know his name. I know that he

1067
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 2: lives in Houston. What kind of money was he sending him?

1068
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 3: I mean, he wasn't sending.

1069
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 2: Me like big bread, you know, but at the time

1070
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:08,279
Speaker 2: I was poor, so he would like give me money

1071
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 2: for my cell phone bill. He would give me money

1072
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 2: for like my light bill, shit like that, Like you know,

1073
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 2: like you was sending like two hundred dollars, one hundred dollars,

1074
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:19,359
Speaker 2: fifty dollars some time, like you know, just like little shit.

1075
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna lie.

1076
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 2: Like, being a person, especially in Atlanta, Atlanta is expensive.

1077
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 3: So moving to Atlanta and.

1078
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 2: You working at European wafting and you're just trying to

1079
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:29,799
Speaker 2: make sure it work, like nigga, it was helping me,

1080
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 2: So I was like I had to pay that. That's

1081
00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 2: so crazy because you really haven't ever talked about the

1082
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 2: face that you worked at EUROPN.

1083
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 3: Oh, I can talk about now today. I ain't that

1084
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 3: on MO. That's crazy.

1085
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 1: I mean we were working with EUROPN. Remember when we

1086
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:41,959
Speaker 1: did that.

1087
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 2: Collaboration, collaboration with ya. Why can't we think of worse today?

1088
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 2: I don't know she's the one, but yeah, have you

1089
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:54,360
Speaker 2: ever had a pay pinck situation or would you have

1090
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 2: a pay pick situation?

1091
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 3: Now?

1092
00:47:55,920 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 1: I don't think I have. Okay, I don't think I have.

1093
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 2: I haven't never had a situation where Nigga was just

1094
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 2: constantly sending me money and I was not fucking with

1095
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:09,320
Speaker 2: him or doing anything, you know what I mean, sexual

1096
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:12,439
Speaker 2: with him or nothing like that. I've had Nigga send

1097
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 2: me money, like send me money like one time.

1098
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:16,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a pay pig.

1099
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:19,280
Speaker 3: That's a pay pig technically.

1100
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 2: But see, I guess in my mind, I'm thinking like

1101
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 2: a pay pig. It's like somebody who does it constantly.

1102
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: Okay, you know you're right. It is somebody that doesn't

1103
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 1: come like.

1104
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 2: Y'all, and he gets off and he knows and he

1105
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 2: doesn't know whether or not it's ever gonna be like

1106
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 2: a in person type of life. He's just always sending

1107
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,840
Speaker 2: you money because that's something that gets him off. No,

1108
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever been in a situation like that.

1109
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 2: I feel like I've always just been in situations where

1110
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:44,319
Speaker 2: like a nigga will send me money because something, yeah,

1111
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:47,800
Speaker 2: or do something initially like one time because he's like, Okay,

1112
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 2: I'm trying to see where he's gonna get do this,

1113
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 2: but to keep doing it and you still not giving

1114
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:56,400
Speaker 2: a response that you're trying to get or whatever the

1115
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 2: case may be. Now, well, I'll say this the reason

1116
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 2: I cut my little pay hig situation off because I'm

1117
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 2: not gonna lie. I did send him some pictures, but

1118
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 2: then like I was like an abathing suit type shit,

1119
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:12,319
Speaker 2: you know, like normal chick, No bitch, I wasn't eating

1120
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:12,879
Speaker 2: chicken wing.

1121
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 1: That's what Lake said, y'all. By the way, that's what

1122
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 1: Lake said she was gonna do if she ever created.

1123
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 3: The only thing she was gonna.

1124
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 2: St a bikini top and eat chicken wan absolutely am.

1125
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 2: But yeah, So I sent him some like bikini pictures

1126
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 2: one time, and then like time went on, I didn't

1127
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:33,960
Speaker 2: feel comfortable doing it no more, and I was just like, no,

1128
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 2: let me just like stop this because this is weird.

1129
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 1: Then you know, shit started happening. I met Nigerian Bay.

1130
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 2: Nigerian Bay was doing his things, so I was like, cool,

1131
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 2: I don't need to fuck with this nigga no more.

1132
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 1: And you know, things just started.

1133
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 2: Getting better with poor minds, the brand started growing. I

1134
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:49,720
Speaker 2: just didn't need him anymore.

1135
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 1: So girl, y'all, he got mad at me.

1136
00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 2: He was like, oh, somebody hasted into my email. I

1137
00:49:55,440 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 2: guess these photos are gonna leak. I said, I'm just

1138
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 2: saying I was so scared. I was scared because, honestly,

1139
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 2: it wasn't about the photos liking because you couldn't see anything.

1140
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 2: It was just about having people knowing that I was

1141
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 2: sending a man like pictures and trying to get to

1142
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 2: make money because that's what I had to do to

1143
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 2: make ends meet. So I was more embarrassed because like,

1144
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:20,719
Speaker 2: I'm on this show and I'm like, you know, I

1145
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:23,799
Speaker 2: wasn't where I was. I was so scared, Drea, it

1146
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 2: was so scary, so honestly, and who was this man?

1147
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 3: You never talked?

1148
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 1: I never told anybody this story.

1149
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 3: It was so weird.

1150
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:34,160
Speaker 2: Honestly, I cussed him out, and you know, it's crazy

1151
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 2: to this day, he still comments like, under my pictures

1152
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:36,959
Speaker 2: and stuff.

1153
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: He like, he didn't block him after he threatened you, no,

1154
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 1: because I'm scared he still might drop that shit. I

1155
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:42,799
Speaker 1: gotta keep up.

1156
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 2: We gonna we still with you, Like hey, you know

1157
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:51,359
Speaker 2: he still be like sending pictures of your TV.

1158
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:52,359
Speaker 3: No, not on my TV.

1159
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 2: Is like like in a swimsuit top and I'm just

1160
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 2: like sitting there, never send him any videos. It was

1161
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:02,040
Speaker 2: all swimsuit pictures, like nothing, nothing crazy. But it was

1162
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:04,359
Speaker 2: more so the fact that I was having having to

1163
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,359
Speaker 2: send a man pictures to make ends meet, and.

1164
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:10,800
Speaker 3: Like, Nigga, I'm good now, like I'm cool.

1165
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 2: Like so I was more so embarrassed, so like I

1166
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 2: didn't block him, but he still.

1167
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 3: Be like, Lex, I'm so proud of you. Look at your.

1168
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:21,759
Speaker 2: Because I was scared because I know how you be

1169
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:23,799
Speaker 2: going off. So I didn't want you to go off

1170
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:25,799
Speaker 2: on him and be like I don't want you to

1171
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 2: add him and be like, nigga, fuck you, you got my

1172
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,400
Speaker 2: whole fuck up. And he'd be like, well, I've seen

1173
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:33,319
Speaker 2: them titties and a leopard burg brawl, So is it

1174
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 2: really fucked me or is it really fuck you?

1175
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:39,320
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I just didn't want to

1176
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 3: set him off.

1177
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 2: I didn't really would have said that because I don't

1178
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 2: like that. I don't like no nigga like you being scared.

1179
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:48,320
Speaker 2: I was really thread by somebody I was fighting about. What.

1180
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:50,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like that.

1181
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 2: So but that's why I said, if y'all are out

1182
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 2: there thinking about doing like a pay pig situation, that's

1183
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 2: why I want to talk about this for the bad

1184
00:51:57,640 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 2: because some men.

1185
00:51:58,560 --> 00:51:59,359
Speaker 1: I really think he.

1186
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 2: Got off by feeling like I needed him, because at

1187
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:05,360
Speaker 2: the time I did need him. I did because he

1188
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 2: was like my phone would have been off, lights would

1189
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 2: have been off, like when I was when I first

1190
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 2: moved out here. I lived with you for a while,

1191
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:15,279
Speaker 2: but when I got my apartment, I wasn't ready for

1192
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 2: my apartment yet. Like I was basically working and all

1193
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 2: my checks would go to pay my rent and I

1194
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:22,319
Speaker 2: would have a little money left over for food and

1195
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:26,880
Speaker 2: gas as far as my cell phone, lights, doing anything extra,

1196
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:29,719
Speaker 2: Like he was pretty much paying for that. Don't know

1197
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 2: what this man looks like. He could walk in here

1198
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:34,240
Speaker 2: right now, I'll be like, hello, nice to meet you. Seriously,

1199
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:36,560
Speaker 2: never seen this man, So yeah.

1200
00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 1: I got scared, bitch. I was like I don't want

1201
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 1: him to like put it out there. And I was like,

1202
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,400
Speaker 1: sending in bikini pictures.

1203
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:44,719
Speaker 3: That's whatikini pictures. I would have cared. I mean, do it,

1204
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 3: But like I said, it's not about the bikini pictures.

1205
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:49,040
Speaker 3: It's not the fact of what I was doing.

1206
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 2: So if y'all are out there and y'all gotta pay pig,

1207
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:53,360
Speaker 2: just be fucking careful.

1208
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, be careful. Anything like that is weird. Anyways.

1209
00:52:57,560 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 2: I feel like, to me, a niggas sending you money

1210
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 2: one time because he trying to fuck with you and

1211
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:04,399
Speaker 2: he feels like that's what he gotta do to fuck

1212
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 2: with you.

1213
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,480
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, cool, whatever, you send me some you

1214
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:08,280
Speaker 1: sent me some bread.

1215
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 2: But if a nigga is constantly doing it and he

1216
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:13,840
Speaker 2: has no intentions of like trying to link or he's okay,

1217
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:15,839
Speaker 2: we're not linking, and he okay, we're not seeing you

1218
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:19,160
Speaker 2: in person, that's a very weird situation. And I feel

1219
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:20,920
Speaker 2: like you should be cautious because it's like, why is

1220
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:24,080
Speaker 2: this nigga just constantly sending me money?

1221
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 3: Nothing is coming.

1222
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 2: From me, all right, So now we're gonna get into

1223
00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 2: the bout aout a.

1224
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:37,480
Speaker 1: What's up y'all, is your girl lex paid? And it's

1225
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: sure girls right in the call.

1226
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 2: So I'm about to put y'all on game right now.

1227
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 2: Y'all know, I got three dollars, but I want some.

1228
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 3: I want to be listening to stuff too, you know

1229
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. I want some nice air. Yeah, So, y'all,

1230
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:51,440
Speaker 3: Raycon has some like air pods.

1231
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:56,000
Speaker 2: They're sticking your air premium premium and they work so good.

1232
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,400
Speaker 2: They work so good, and they're half the price of

1233
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:01,520
Speaker 2: a lot of the other premium y'all. Yes, And the

1234
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 2: good thing about it is they have a thirty two

1235
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:04,919
Speaker 2: hour battery life, so you.

1236
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 1: Charge them, you good for a whole day. You can fall.

1237
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 2: Asleep with the men, fly to your boot when you

1238
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 2: get fluid out where you want to go. And you

1239
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 2: have a forty five day happiness guarantee on them as well,

1240
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:17,319
Speaker 2: so you can send them back if you don't like them,

1241
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 2: but we know you gonna like them, yes, And they

1242
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 2: don't stick out, you know how, some of them sticking

1243
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 2: out your ears, and they're really comfortable.

1244
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:25,480
Speaker 3: They have like the little jail things you know. You know.

1245
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:27,839
Speaker 3: So I love mine. I love mine too.

1246
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:30,000
Speaker 2: You be working out and mine I read too, and

1247
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:31,239
Speaker 2: I like read this one of my fads.

1248
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:33,880
Speaker 1: Come on, sparsy Red, y'all be working out them. I

1249
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 1: know that's right.

1250
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 2: So make sure if you want to get your right

1251
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 2: coon earbuds, you got to buy raykon dot com backslash

1252
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 2: pour minds. You're gonna get fifteen percent off of your

1253
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:43,280
Speaker 2: brand new earbuds.

1254
00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:44,760
Speaker 1: Don't say we never got y'all nothing.

1255
00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:48,279
Speaker 2: That's b U y R A y c O N

1256
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 2: dot com backslash four months.

1257
00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 3: You heard it here first period.

1258
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 2: Okay, So I don't want to say her name wrong.

1259
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:59,319
Speaker 2: So uh, she follows me on Twitter. Her name is

1260
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 2: read by I don't know if her name is Shade.

1261
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 2: I really don't honestly know her name. But we talked

1262
00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:05,719
Speaker 2: all the time of my DMS and she sent me

1263
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 2: some She sends me music all the time, and she

1264
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 2: actually sent me this song and I absolutely fell in

1265
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 2: love with it.

1266
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 3: I love when y'all send me music. Let me just

1267
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:15,360
Speaker 3: say that.

1268
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:17,279
Speaker 2: I know I don't respond to everybody, but y'all send

1269
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 2: me music so much. And what I'm gonna do in

1270
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:23,839
Speaker 2: the link in this bio, y'all always ask me about

1271
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 2: my playlist, I'm gonna put all the playlists that I've

1272
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:26,759
Speaker 2: ever made.

1273
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:29,720
Speaker 1: No, seriously, the playlists have already made. They just be asking

1274
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:30,359
Speaker 1: where they at.

1275
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:32,399
Speaker 2: They be asking me the same thing, but we say

1276
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:34,080
Speaker 2: every week we're gonna put it in there, you know.

1277
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:35,480
Speaker 2: But I'm gonna put it in it because I have

1278
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 2: my like my eclectic playlist, I have my R and

1279
00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 2: B playlist, and I have my sex rap music playlist.

1280
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:43,839
Speaker 2: All those have been done and been posted, but they

1281
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 2: just don't know where to find them. So I'm gonna

1282
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:47,720
Speaker 2: put all three of my playlists that I've ever made.

1283
00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 3: Have you made the playlist yet? Yes? I have a

1284
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 3: workout play last.

1285
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:52,440
Speaker 2: Okay, so you can send it. I'm gonna put that

1286
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 2: all in the bio. So the playlists are going to

1287
00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 2: be down here. So anyways, she sent me a song.

1288
00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 2: Her name is Zenia man I say, I hope I'm

1289
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:05,320
Speaker 2: saying that right, But she has a song called Loki.

1290
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 2: It's definitely given me vibes, like afro punk vibes, you know. Uh.

1291
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:16,120
Speaker 2: She talks about just like being low key with a nigga,

1292
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 2: and we can keep it that way because that's how

1293
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:20,359
Speaker 2: she like it. We can be low key as long

1294
00:56:20,360 --> 00:56:22,239
Speaker 2: as you still turning up on me and we like

1295
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 2: this shit, this is where we're supposed to be.

1296
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 3: I like that shit. I love a low key nigga.

1297
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 3: I'm tired of you niggas being like, yeah, I want

1298
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:33,920
Speaker 3: to fuck with you. I'd be like, okay, we can

1299
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:38,800
Speaker 3: fuck around. What you're gonna name me on the show, though, nigga?

1300
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:42,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like niggas that just like, at least

1301
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:46,520
Speaker 2: if you not being genuine with your interest, like try to.

1302
00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:48,960
Speaker 3: Hide eat what you're gonna name me on the show?

1303
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:51,640
Speaker 3: My nickname gonna be shaty yo.

1304
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:58,359
Speaker 1: Hell no, thirst bucket blame what what one you want?

1305
00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 3: Thirsty as nigga? Yeah, So shout out.

1306
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 2: To Zenia Mina say low key because I love a

1307
00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 2: loki nigga. I decided I don't want to date no

1308
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:09,359
Speaker 2: more like crazy trying to be funny and keep up

1309
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:12,479
Speaker 2: with niggas. I like a chill loki, laid back nigga.

1310
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 2: Always like the low key niggas.

1311
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:14,840
Speaker 1: Yeah that's for me.

1312
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 3: It's just what's your hunt?

1313
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 2: So my bop of the week is this song called

1314
00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 2: Picture This by Sonta.

1315
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 3: And inn Marie.

1316
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 2: What.

1317
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my little bob.

1318
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:30,400
Speaker 1: Where is it?

1319
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:33,480
Speaker 3: Oh? I know the girl. Yeah, so.

1320
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:37,240
Speaker 1: We ain't gonna talk about that. We're just gonna talk

1321
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 1: about so.

1322
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 2: You know, so I like the song. It's like an

1323
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:45,440
Speaker 2: R and B song or whatever. It's something like cool

1324
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 2: little chill sheet you could listen to. And it's not

1325
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 2: of freaky too. You know, maybe you could put it

1326
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 2: on your place.

1327
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 3: She makes a lot of freaky music.

1328
00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 2: You can put it on your little fuck play least,

1329
00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 2: that's what you you know, do I don't fuck some music.

1330
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:58,120
Speaker 1: So it's called picture This by Sonta.

1331
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:02,960
Speaker 2: All right, So now we're gonna get into our favorite

1332
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:06,560
Speaker 2: segment of this. Y'all know what our favorite segment is,

1333
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 2: Pour your heart Out. If you have any questions, you

1334
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 2: can tend them to ask poor minds at gmail dot com.

1335
00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 2: That's ask pou r in my mbs at gmail dot com.

1336
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 1: Sure that we answer all of your questions.

1337
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna go ahead and read the first question,

1338
00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 2: and the first question says it and I don't like it.

1339
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:30,479
Speaker 1: Hey, ladies, I.

1340
00:58:30,400 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 2: Love the show and the show hold on wait love

1341
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 2: y'all and the show y'all my favorite bitches. I consider

1342
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 2: my sister my best friend. I'm twenty four and she's thirty.

1343
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 2: We have the same job, but I don't have any kids.

1344
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:44,800
Speaker 2: In December, her baby daddy wricked her car and her

1345
00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 2: deductiblet was seven fifty him, being a broke, jobless Nigga

1346
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 2: didn't have the money, and she asked me for five

1347
00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 2: hundred dollars. She asked my nieces and nephews, who I

1348
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 2: consider to be my own, So of course I gave

1349
00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:57,880
Speaker 2: it to her. I told her to take her time

1350
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 2: paying me back because she wasn't working. Conces leave this beach,

1351
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 2: gonna say, oh, I'm not paying you bag. He her

1352
00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:07,520
Speaker 2: baby daddy paying you back? Get pisced me off because

1353
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 2: bach I gave you the money, not him. He ain't

1354
00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 2: got a job. How he gonna pay me back? Now

1355
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 2: it's been six months, they both are working and making

1356
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 2: a nice little penny. But having said she about paying

1357
00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:20,400
Speaker 2: me back, I wouldn't trip, but they have been making

1358
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 2: money and spending it faster. He's a weed head, and

1359
00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:24,920
Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck she doing with her.

1360
00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:27,440
Speaker 2: She my birthday is next month and I'm taking a

1361
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 2: little vacation and my sister asks what I want for

1362
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 2: my birthday? Would it be petty if I ask for

1363
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:34,160
Speaker 2: my money back? Am I wrong for feeling good way

1364
00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 2: towards her? It's just five hundred dollars, But Beach, that's

1365
00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:39,120
Speaker 2: five hundred dollars. It ain't no such thing as just

1366
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:41,560
Speaker 2: five hundred dollars a lot of money.

1367
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:43,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can do something with some five hundred.

1368
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:46,680
Speaker 2: You're gonna get you a whole new hell done. That's

1369
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:50,920
Speaker 2: half a month's rent something. No, that's your best You

1370
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:53,400
Speaker 2: said your sister was your best bitch, Give me my money.

1371
00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:55,640
Speaker 2: And if that's your best friend, she would care about

1372
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 2: giving you your money bag.

1373
00:59:58,280 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 3: Yeah she should.

1374
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 2: But as I'm getting older, I'm starting to realize too

1375
01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:07,960
Speaker 2: that sometimes you just shouldn't give out sheet that you

1376
01:00:08,160 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 2: need back.

1377
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 3: That's true as well.

1378
01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:13,800
Speaker 2: If you need that five hundred dollars, don't give it

1379
01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:15,720
Speaker 2: out my mown, like, because I'm at a point in my

1380
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 2: life where if I love all of my friends, I

1381
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:21,160
Speaker 2: do like and I want them all to be straight

1382
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 2: and be good. But like, if somebody asks me for

1383
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 2: a certain amount of money and I just know that

1384
01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:28,440
Speaker 2: I can't give it to you without like expecting you

1385
01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 2: to give it back to me, I'm just not gonna

1386
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:33,240
Speaker 2: give it to you, Like I'm just and it sucks

1387
01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 2: because it's like, yeah, now you kind of got to

1388
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:37,680
Speaker 2: figure out another way to get what you need. But

1389
01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:40,760
Speaker 2: I'm also not about to put myself because I come first,

1390
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 2: So I'm not about to put myself in a harle

1391
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 2: trying to help you out.

1392
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 1: If I need that money bag.

1393
01:00:47,080 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 2: Now, it's different if you ask me for five hundred

1394
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,440
Speaker 2: dollars and I'm like beat your m ub, like here

1395
01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 2: go whatever.

1396
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:56,800
Speaker 1: Roth Lauren Teddy Bell, this's not pool right.

1397
01:00:56,960 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 2: But it's like if I just I'm like, I'm up

1398
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 2: and I could just give it to you, then cool,

1399
01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:05,080
Speaker 2: you gotta agree. But and I would like for you

1400
01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 2: to pay me back. But whether you do or not,

1401
01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:10,160
Speaker 2: I'm not really worried about it. But if you worried

1402
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:12,080
Speaker 2: about it, like if clearly you want your money bag,

1403
01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:15,760
Speaker 2: so I feel like going forward, like yeah, I would

1404
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:18,160
Speaker 2: say something to hrrybody and no, I don't think it's pity.

1405
01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 2: I would say something to Hrry about it to be like, hey,

1406
01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 2: I would want my I want my money bag for

1407
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:23,800
Speaker 2: my birthday. But then if she don't give it back

1408
01:01:23,840 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 2: to you, use this opportunity and just.

1409
01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 3: Don't laying money no more when you know you need

1410
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 3: a bag. So yeah, I agree, all right questions.

1411
01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 2: So hey, ladies, I got so much love for y'all

1412
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 2: and support y'all in all you do.

1413
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 1: I love those messages, right.

1414
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:46,200
Speaker 2: I've recently moved back to d C after living in

1415
01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 2: Chicago for three years. After being here for five months,

1416
01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:51,920
Speaker 2: I'm convinced I damn near need to sell some pussy

1417
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:54,120
Speaker 2: just so I can have some extra money.

1418
01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:55,480
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna do.

1419
01:01:55,520 --> 01:01:57,640
Speaker 2: That, but I recently got a gig at a high

1420
01:01:57,720 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 2: end club to be about a girl on the weekend.

1421
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:02,440
Speaker 2: My brother said I should look into another job because

1422
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 2: I'm too busted to be.

1423
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, sorry, I wasn't. I wasn't laughing at you.

1424
01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:12,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what you look like.

1425
01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:15,080
Speaker 2: My brother said I should look into another job because

1426
01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 2: I'm too busted to be a Say.

1427
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 1: What advice do you have to a new bottle girl?

1428
01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:21,640
Speaker 3: How should I look?

1429
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 1: Well? My personality or looks? Give me more tips your looks?

1430
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:28,160
Speaker 2: It's yours, but it's a combination of like, you have

1431
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 2: to look the partsies.

1432
01:02:29,400 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 1: I don't know what did it happen? Let me tell

1433
01:02:31,280 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 1: you something.

1434
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:34,800
Speaker 2: When I first started like waiting tables and doing that shit,

1435
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:40,640
Speaker 2: I wasn't super super fine, but I was fuckable. Nigga's

1436
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 2: not trying to make you or the wife, but you

1437
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 2: need to look like a nigga want a fantasy. Niggas

1438
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:49,040
Speaker 2: like to have a fantasy. And that's why niggas are stupid,

1439
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:51,280
Speaker 2: because as long as you look good, you can get

1440
01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 2: whatever you want out of a nigga. I was not

1441
01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 2: giving niggas nothing. I was just handing them niggas lemon

1442
01:02:56,280 --> 01:02:59,320
Speaker 2: pepper and hot honey barbecue wings. But they was giving

1443
01:02:59,320 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 2: me literally a.

1444
01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:01,320
Speaker 1: Hunt the dollars to bring them that shit because they

1445
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 1: just off the hope of.

1446
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:03,120
Speaker 3: Damn, she looked good.

1447
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:04,800
Speaker 1: Maybe if I keep coming to here and tip the

1448
01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:06,200
Speaker 1: hundred dollars, she's gonna fuck with me.

1449
01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 2: So yes, you have to look a certain way. But

1450
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 2: also they like that personality. I'd be like, oh, hey, boom,

1451
01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:13,520
Speaker 2: you came and see me again. You gotta have that

1452
01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 2: rapport with people. So honestly, being a waitress, a bottle girl,

1453
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:19,360
Speaker 2: all that shit is super hard because you have to

1454
01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:20,280
Speaker 2: have clientele.

1455
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:20,680
Speaker 3: Now.

1456
01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:22,640
Speaker 2: It used to be like niggas just come in and

1457
01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:25,400
Speaker 2: they fuck with you or whatever, but now you have

1458
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:26,160
Speaker 2: to have clientele.

1459
01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 1: Niggas is not just going in a month in the club.

1460
01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:31,440
Speaker 3: And so they'll be fucking with you one week and

1461
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 3: it'll be fucking with another bit.

1462
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:36,160
Speaker 1: So yes, it's get that get them looks together. Yeah,

1463
01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:39,080
Speaker 1: it's definitely about to look like personally.

1464
01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 2: Like I used to make a lot of money when

1465
01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:44,320
Speaker 2: I worked in the club, but after a while it

1466
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 2: started to become a chore for me because I hate

1467
01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:49,040
Speaker 2: being friendly with people that.

1468
01:03:49,120 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 3: You got to like ma a Google number, texting niggas.

1469
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 1: Now you coming to the Yes, it's like I got you.

1470
01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:57,280
Speaker 2: Hated everything else they came with having to work in

1471
01:03:57,320 --> 01:03:59,280
Speaker 2: the club, like having to be friendly with these niggas,

1472
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:02,960
Speaker 2: having to keep up conversation. It just wasn't for me.

1473
01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 2: So going into that profession, you have to know that

1474
01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 2: that's what comes with you, Like you need to be cute,

1475
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:11,680
Speaker 2: but you also got to know how to like work

1476
01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:14,640
Speaker 2: these niggas and work the situation and finished sheet. And

1477
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:17,400
Speaker 2: sometimes it's just not for everybody. You know, I can

1478
01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 2: finance one. Yeah, so I would say, may make sure

1479
01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 2: you hear nothing, make sure your face be make sure

1480
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 2: you always looking nice in your outfits, Like you definitely

1481
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:28,720
Speaker 2: have to have the look today. If a nigga walk

1482
01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:32,640
Speaker 2: into the walk into a club, he can't see your

1483
01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 2: personality or he can't see how good of a waitress

1484
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:36,360
Speaker 2: or bottle girl you are.

1485
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 3: So if you walk.

1486
01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:39,439
Speaker 2: In and you look in the mess and this girl

1487
01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 2: looks good, you may get better service. But she looked good,

1488
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 2: he's gonna be like, oh, I want her just because

1489
01:04:44,560 --> 01:04:47,440
Speaker 2: of all she looks and she may be a terrible bottle.

1490
01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:48,480
Speaker 1: War That's what I was gonna say.

1491
01:04:48,520 --> 01:04:50,840
Speaker 2: For me, I feel like I was a terrible bartender,

1492
01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:52,479
Speaker 2: but I used to make a lot of money because

1493
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 2: of what I looked like. But then it was girls

1494
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:56,440
Speaker 2: in the club that worked in the same club with

1495
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 2: me who was not that cute. But them holes used

1496
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 2: to make Hilla bread too cause they had the client

1497
01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:02,840
Speaker 2: tele and they was coolest fuzz And I'm not gonna

1498
01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 2: lie that was me, bitch, But you was cute. I mean,

1499
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:07,240
Speaker 2: I was all right, but bitch, I used to make

1500
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:08,880
Speaker 2: the fuck out of some long islands and I'm a.

1501
01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:09,880
Speaker 3: Crack these jokes.

1502
01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:12,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, niggas was like coming to that.

1503
01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,080
Speaker 2: It would be some big body bitches on that in

1504
01:05:14,240 --> 01:05:17,160
Speaker 2: my bar before and she'd be like, yeah, bitch, because

1505
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 2: you don't know how to make a fucking bahama mama, bitch.

1506
01:05:20,480 --> 01:05:20,760
Speaker 2: Like me.

1507
01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 1: That's how we became cool. We talked about it before.

1508
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 2: She used to make my drinks because niggas would come

1509
01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 2: fuck with me because I was cute but drink and

1510
01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:34,080
Speaker 2: then and then we started busting that shit down. Yeah,

1511
01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 2: so maybe you need to find you a partner. That's

1512
01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:40,120
Speaker 2: another altern So okay, let's go to the next question. Hey, ladies,

1513
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 2: I'm twenty four years old with one child, and this

1514
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:44,680
Speaker 2: may sound absurd, but sometimes i feel like I'm going

1515
01:05:44,720 --> 01:05:47,560
Speaker 2: to be alone forever and it's depressing. I no longer

1516
01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:49,680
Speaker 2: get offended when people tell me it's my fault with

1517
01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 2: the type of men I choose, because honestly, they're right.

1518
01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:54,840
Speaker 2: I do choose nothing but losers that are only looking

1519
01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:57,760
Speaker 2: to have sex. I've only been in two real relationships

1520
01:05:57,800 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 2: to my whole life, and my last one was exactly

1521
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 2: three years ago.

1522
01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 3: And these three single years.

1523
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:07,160
Speaker 2: I've had booty calls, situationships, CRUSH's been used and ghosted

1524
01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:09,320
Speaker 2: a few times. I've had my ups and downs, and

1525
01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:11,400
Speaker 2: it was even fun for a moment, but now I'm

1526
01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:13,840
Speaker 2: at a point where it isn't fun anymore. I want

1527
01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:16,680
Speaker 2: to be taken seriously. I want to be taken on dates.

1528
01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:19,640
Speaker 2: I want to be a girlfriend again. Sometimes I feel

1529
01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 2: like with all the patients in the world and choosing

1530
01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:24,200
Speaker 2: better men, it's not going to happen. As There's been

1531
01:06:24,280 --> 01:06:26,400
Speaker 2: times I feel like I actually had a good guy,

1532
01:06:26,440 --> 01:06:28,920
Speaker 2: but I ended up getting played in the end. My

1533
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 2: question to you, ladies is am I being over dramatic?

1534
01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:34,040
Speaker 2: Do you guys think that this? Do you guys ever

1535
01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 2: feel like this at my age? How do you both

1536
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:39,360
Speaker 2: feel being in your thirty single and still dating.

1537
01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:41,440
Speaker 3: Reality?

1538
01:06:42,520 --> 01:06:45,480
Speaker 2: Reality is kicking my ass because nothing is coming out

1539
01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 2: the way I wanted or planned it to.

1540
01:06:47,760 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 1: How do I code well?

1541
01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:51,000
Speaker 2: I feel like we just talked about this at the

1542
01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:53,560
Speaker 2: beginning of the episode. What I was talking about. I

1543
01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:58,440
Speaker 2: feel like you have to be confident within yourself, Like honestly,

1544
01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:00,880
Speaker 2: I still ask myself that question.

1545
01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:01,720
Speaker 3: To this day.

1546
01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:04,760
Speaker 2: I'll still be wondering, like where is my man, bitch?

1547
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:07,360
Speaker 2: But it doesn't make me feel like less of a woman.

1548
01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:10,080
Speaker 2: I don't feel like less of a person. I feel

1549
01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:12,600
Speaker 2: like my person hasn't found me. Just like Drean said,

1550
01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 2: like y'all be looking at these people. They be in

1551
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:18,360
Speaker 2: whole relationships and married and they are unhappy because they

1552
01:07:18,440 --> 01:07:21,000
Speaker 2: just failed somebody they married to person, right, they're not

1553
01:07:21,040 --> 01:07:22,480
Speaker 2: married to their person. So I feel like if you

1554
01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:25,680
Speaker 2: just be patient and you need to find confidence within

1555
01:07:25,720 --> 01:07:30,280
Speaker 2: yourself because even you mentioning that you had one child,

1556
01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:32,440
Speaker 2: you mentioned you had one child that had nothing to

1557
01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:34,920
Speaker 2: do with anything that you said. You feel like you

1558
01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:37,960
Speaker 2: being a baby mama is hindering you. So I already

1559
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:40,200
Speaker 2: know that your confidence is not where it should be

1560
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:42,160
Speaker 2: because you didn't have to mention you having one child

1561
01:07:42,160 --> 01:07:44,440
Speaker 2: because what do they have to do with breaker? But

1562
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:48,000
Speaker 2: you feel like that's a deal breaker. So I feel

1563
01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:50,680
Speaker 2: like you have to let people know what your intentions

1564
01:07:50,680 --> 01:07:54,440
Speaker 2: are and what you're looking for. And if that person says, no,

1565
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:57,480
Speaker 2: I'm not looking for that, cool fuck it. Yeah, weed

1566
01:07:57,520 --> 01:07:59,600
Speaker 2: out those people because it's like you said, you've had

1567
01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 2: a lot of situationships, booty calls, all this stuff, you

1568
01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:04,280
Speaker 2: only had that type of ship because that's what you

1569
01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:07,720
Speaker 2: be doing, like accepting I'm not gonna lie to you,

1570
01:08:08,080 --> 01:08:10,440
Speaker 2: not trying to use just you know, use us as

1571
01:08:10,480 --> 01:08:12,000
Speaker 2: an example or anything like that. But it's like I

1572
01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:13,800
Speaker 2: haven't had a booty call in a really long time,

1573
01:08:13,960 --> 01:08:16,800
Speaker 2: just either just because I don't accept those type of

1574
01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:20,120
Speaker 2: relationships in my life anymore. I don't even participate in

1575
01:08:20,160 --> 01:08:23,240
Speaker 2: booty calls, like if I'm yeah, it's like if a

1576
01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:25,840
Speaker 2: nigga only want to fuck me, and that's see, I'm

1577
01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:27,760
Speaker 2: not interested in it. Like, no, we're gonna have to

1578
01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:33,519
Speaker 2: go on dates. We need to be dating. You need

1579
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:35,920
Speaker 2: to be courting me, like we need to be dating.

1580
01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:38,679
Speaker 2: We're not going to just be fucking. I'm not interested

1581
01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:41,439
Speaker 2: in that. So if that's all you into, then we're not.

1582
01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:45,880
Speaker 2: We're just not about to do this. Let these niggas know, like,

1583
01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:48,679
Speaker 2: I'm not just trying to fuck you, but I'm not gonna,

1584
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:51,160
Speaker 2: Like I do be feeling like lonely at night sometimes

1585
01:08:51,200 --> 01:08:53,280
Speaker 2: I was so yeah, y'all, a lot of y'all was

1586
01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:57,599
Speaker 2: laying in bed last night. I'm rewatching love is blind.

1587
01:08:57,680 --> 01:08:59,559
Speaker 2: I'm like looking at all these women get married. My

1588
01:08:59,560 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 2: phone was Ryan telling me to be on time today.

1589
01:09:03,600 --> 01:09:09,880
Speaker 1: I said, oh fuck, so I do get tied.

1590
01:09:08,479 --> 01:09:10,840
Speaker 2: My feelings is really hard too about the situation because

1591
01:09:10,880 --> 01:09:14,880
Speaker 2: Ryan did not call me, Ry, do.

1592
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:16,599
Speaker 1: You not like me as much as it's like lex

1593
01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:22,439
Speaker 1: like Ry loves me because Ryan knows. But that's why

1594
01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:24,439
Speaker 1: you should have called me, because you should have been.

1595
01:09:24,280 --> 01:09:27,760
Speaker 3: Like, look, but no, I'll say this.

1596
01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:30,120
Speaker 2: I'm in my thirties and sometimes I still feel like, damn,

1597
01:09:30,160 --> 01:09:32,000
Speaker 2: I wonder if I'm gonna find my person. But I'm

1598
01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:36,120
Speaker 2: confident in myself. I'm whole within myself. I don't I'm

1599
01:09:36,160 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 2: looking for somebody that can add like icing to my cake.

1600
01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:42,200
Speaker 2: The cake has been baking now, like so, cain't no

1601
01:09:42,280 --> 01:09:43,040
Speaker 2: nigga ever made me.

1602
01:09:43,040 --> 01:09:44,719
Speaker 3: Feel bad about myself period.

1603
01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 2: I agree, Yes, see, you just gotta you know, everybody

1604
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:50,080
Speaker 2: feels different about different things. It was a point in

1605
01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:51,840
Speaker 2: my life, like you're twenty four and you already have

1606
01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:53,360
Speaker 2: a kid. It was a point in my life where

1607
01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:57,000
Speaker 2: I felt like I was supposed to have a kid already,

1608
01:09:57,439 --> 01:09:59,640
Speaker 2: you know, like I felt like I was supposed to

1609
01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:02,760
Speaker 2: have a kid by now. And now because I have

1610
01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 2: a whole different perspective on life, I realized, like, I

1611
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:05,479
Speaker 2: don't have.

1612
01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:07,559
Speaker 1: Kids yet because it's just not what was planning for

1613
01:10:07,600 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 1: my life.

1614
01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:10,200
Speaker 2: But when it's time, I'm gonna have So, you know,

1615
01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:12,880
Speaker 2: I know we're both watching Shawn's of Sunset right now

1616
01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:16,080
Speaker 2: because I'll be seeing you. But Lily, what's her name,

1617
01:10:16,280 --> 01:10:19,760
Speaker 2: Lily galan Can, But she just had her baby two

1618
01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:21,280
Speaker 2: years ago, she's thirty eight.

1619
01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:23,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, I had her first kid. It's a lot of people.

1620
01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:27,240
Speaker 2: I was watching First Wife's Clubs, which is a Tyler

1621
01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:30,040
Speaker 2: Perry show whatever, and it's this lady that's on there,

1622
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:32,600
Speaker 2: the light skinned lady with the big hair, and I

1623
01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:35,519
Speaker 2: can't remember her name. Her name is like Michelle Botu

1624
01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:38,559
Speaker 2: or something like that. But she couldn't have kids because

1625
01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:42,280
Speaker 2: she had pco is and she's forty and then her

1626
01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:45,400
Speaker 2: and her husband just had twins like maybe a year ago.

1627
01:10:45,600 --> 01:10:48,240
Speaker 2: Be a seria. Okay, So it's just like it just

1628
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:50,360
Speaker 2: goes to show you. And I don't have any like

1629
01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:52,920
Speaker 2: reproductive issues or anything like that, but it just goes

1630
01:10:52,960 --> 01:10:54,760
Speaker 2: to show you whatever is supposed to happen in your

1631
01:10:54,760 --> 01:10:57,599
Speaker 2: life is gonna happen when he's supposed to happen, Like,

1632
01:10:57,640 --> 01:10:59,519
Speaker 2: don't straight se I'm not gonna lie.

1633
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:02,719
Speaker 1: I probably due I think you have reproductive man. Probably

1634
01:11:02,720 --> 01:11:04,000
Speaker 1: show up at my alreays.

1635
01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:07,839
Speaker 3: Like not this bitch, not the fucking serial killer.

1636
01:11:08,439 --> 01:11:11,400
Speaker 2: Well that's because bach you show up in my oars

1637
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:13,480
Speaker 2: like not the grim raper.

1638
01:11:14,600 --> 01:11:18,719
Speaker 3: On line damn down.

1639
01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:22,320
Speaker 2: Well, for my understand I'm believe this speaking from my

1640
01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:25,200
Speaker 2: understanding for me going to the doctor every year for

1641
01:11:25,280 --> 01:11:29,679
Speaker 2: my annual I don't have like endometriosis, are pcoas, which

1642
01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:31,519
Speaker 2: is a lot of things that women suffer from, then

1643
01:11:31,600 --> 01:11:32,559
Speaker 2: makes them all right.

1644
01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 3: Now let me go to the last question.

1645
01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:37,599
Speaker 2: Hi Alex Andrea. I've been with my boyfriend for eight years.

1646
01:11:37,960 --> 01:11:41,040
Speaker 2: We've basically grown up together, starting from seventh grade. I'm

1647
01:11:41,080 --> 01:11:43,720
Speaker 2: currently twenty four and we live together. He's the only

1648
01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:46,800
Speaker 2: guy I've ever been with sexually and have dated. I've

1649
01:11:46,840 --> 01:11:48,840
Speaker 2: dealt with a lot of bs in this relationship, but

1650
01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:52,000
Speaker 2: I've always stayed by his side, and honestly, I'm tired.

1651
01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:54,519
Speaker 3: I have recently decided I would like to get my

1652
01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:55,160
Speaker 3: own place.

1653
01:11:55,479 --> 01:11:57,840
Speaker 2: He's upset about me moving, saying that I'm just moving

1654
01:11:57,920 --> 01:12:00,960
Speaker 2: to having other men around, and that's not the case.

1655
01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:03,400
Speaker 2: I have the sense of guilt for deciding to move

1656
01:12:03,439 --> 01:12:05,360
Speaker 2: out because we've always done things together.

1657
01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:07,400
Speaker 3: Am I wrong for making this decision?

1658
01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:09,880
Speaker 5: M bro?

1659
01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:12,240
Speaker 1: It's so crazy how y'all be going through things that

1660
01:12:12,280 --> 01:12:13,080
Speaker 1: I'll be talking about.

1661
01:12:13,240 --> 01:12:14,920
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something because I wasn't talking about

1662
01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:18,400
Speaker 2: this is that situation? You know what's crazy about women?

1663
01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:21,479
Speaker 2: Because guess what if your nigga wanted to move out

1664
01:12:21,520 --> 01:12:23,960
Speaker 2: and find his own place. You're supposed to be okay

1665
01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:26,519
Speaker 2: with that, and he's gonna do his thing. If a

1666
01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:29,679
Speaker 2: man wants to move the fucking up Arkansas, we're supposed

1667
01:12:29,680 --> 01:12:31,200
Speaker 2: to be okay with that and pick up our shit

1668
01:12:31,400 --> 01:12:33,760
Speaker 2: and go do that with him. But when a woman says,

1669
01:12:33,800 --> 01:12:35,720
Speaker 2: you know what, let me slow this down. I want

1670
01:12:35,760 --> 01:12:37,879
Speaker 2: to do my whole thing, it's a fucking problem.

1671
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:40,640
Speaker 3: No, you need to live for you. You've been with

1672
01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 3: this man for eight years. You twenty four. Do the math.

1673
01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:49,200
Speaker 3: What's that sixteen? She said seventh grade, so they was

1674
01:12:49,320 --> 01:12:53,000
Speaker 3: like twelve twelve, But she said eight years.

1675
01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:56,800
Speaker 2: So you adding up like me, bitch, I don't know.

1676
01:12:56,840 --> 01:12:58,760
Speaker 2: It's been alone fucking time. This is the only man

1677
01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:01,000
Speaker 2: you've been with, This only man you dated, and you're

1678
01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 2: twenty four. Don't feel bad about doing what you want

1679
01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:05,680
Speaker 2: to do for yourself.

1680
01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:07,559
Speaker 3: Let me tell y'all something. Y'all need to go watch

1681
01:13:07,600 --> 01:13:09,840
Speaker 3: Eat Pray Love. That's a good movie.

1682
01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:12,040
Speaker 1: Y'all need to go watch Eat Pray Love, because you

1683
01:13:12,120 --> 01:13:13,160
Speaker 1: know what you're gonna wake up.

1684
01:13:13,320 --> 01:13:15,280
Speaker 2: You're gonna be forty five and still with the same

1685
01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:17,880
Speaker 2: nigga that you've been with for twenty seven years, and

1686
01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 2: you'll be like, damn, I don't want this dick no more.

1687
01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:21,439
Speaker 1: And then you're gonna be like, damn, but I'm a

1688
01:13:21,479 --> 01:13:24,280
Speaker 1: little older. Go do what you supposed to do.

1689
01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:24,599
Speaker 2: Girl.

1690
01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:27,360
Speaker 3: Don't feel bad for making yourself happy.

1691
01:13:27,880 --> 01:13:30,519
Speaker 2: Women, we always put our partners first, but when men

1692
01:13:31,400 --> 01:13:33,000
Speaker 2: put themselves first, it's.

1693
01:13:32,960 --> 01:13:33,599
Speaker 3: Not a problem.

1694
01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:35,400
Speaker 2: And I feel like the older you get, the harder

1695
01:13:35,479 --> 01:13:39,600
Speaker 2: dating years. Yeah, me and Jordan were talking about that,

1696
01:13:39,760 --> 01:13:42,200
Speaker 2: if it is. We were kind of talking about my mom, like,

1697
01:13:42,320 --> 01:13:43,880
Speaker 2: you know, with my dad passing away. He was like,

1698
01:13:43,920 --> 01:13:45,880
Speaker 2: do you think that your mom will ever start dating again?

1699
01:13:45,920 --> 01:13:47,960
Speaker 3: And I was like, I don't know. She said she's not.

1700
01:13:48,280 --> 01:13:48,880
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie.

1701
01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:51,120
Speaker 2: My dad passed away when I was younger, and my

1702
01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:53,200
Speaker 2: mom dated some men in between you, but she ain't

1703
01:13:53,280 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 2: never you know, took anybody really seriously.

1704
01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:58,320
Speaker 1: But I don't mean that to scare people. But all

1705
01:13:58,360 --> 01:14:00,240
Speaker 1: I'm saying is you just have to live for you.

1706
01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:02,760
Speaker 2: Yeah. But now what I was saying is he was

1707
01:14:02,840 --> 01:14:05,200
Speaker 2: just basically saying like he feels like, well, when you

1708
01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:09,000
Speaker 2: start dating at a certain age, it's also kind of like,

1709
01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:11,599
Speaker 2: well them, like the dating pool is so small because

1710
01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:14,160
Speaker 2: it's kind of like, are you just somebody that got

1711
01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:15,640
Speaker 2: picked over and nobody wanted you.

1712
01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:21,679
Speaker 3: Dangn But when you really think about it, it's kind.

1713
01:14:21,560 --> 01:14:24,760
Speaker 1: Of like, but honestly, I'm not gonna lie with my mom.

1714
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:27,360
Speaker 2: Obviously somebody wanted you. You're a divorce I mean not,

1715
01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 2: but you're your widow.

1716
01:14:29,240 --> 01:14:31,000
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie, though, Like what about people who

1717
01:14:31,080 --> 01:14:31,679
Speaker 3: never be married?

1718
01:14:32,240 --> 01:14:35,320
Speaker 1: But that's not my concern. I don't care who picked

1719
01:14:35,360 --> 01:14:38,240
Speaker 1: over you. If I want you, I want you, I

1720
01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:40,560
Speaker 1: don't care. I don't care. But I guess he was

1721
01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 1: just saying.

1722
01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:43,400
Speaker 2: It makes it harder today because you're thinking about those things,

1723
01:14:43,439 --> 01:14:45,160
Speaker 2: because it's like, well, why did nobody want you in

1724
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:50,479
Speaker 2: sixty five years? I mean I'm different, Yeah, I'm different.

1725
01:14:50,640 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I might want you the ship the other bitches

1726
01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:54,720
Speaker 1: don't like I might like that shit.

1727
01:14:55,080 --> 01:14:56,559
Speaker 3: I mean, you know what I'm saying.

1728
01:14:57,040 --> 01:14:58,760
Speaker 1: But I do feel like it gets a little more

1729
01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:00,760
Speaker 1: difficult time you're twenty four.

1730
01:15:00,800 --> 01:15:02,840
Speaker 2: This is the only man go out there and live.

1731
01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:05,520
Speaker 2: You better go get you some you better go experience

1732
01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:07,000
Speaker 2: that's seen.

1733
01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:09,679
Speaker 3: So many people that married.

1734
01:15:10,720 --> 01:15:14,080
Speaker 2: There are hosp there's hospital sweethearts. Y'all gotta understand. I

1735
01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:15,800
Speaker 2: went to all white school. They get married as soon

1736
01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:16,519
Speaker 2: as they graduate.

1737
01:15:16,760 --> 01:15:20,480
Speaker 1: When you went to a walk cross and get that diploma,

1738
01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:22,880
Speaker 1: and then they accept that ring and walk down the aisle,

1739
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:24,759
Speaker 1: they go to the hospital and have the baby.

1740
01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:28,479
Speaker 2: That's how white people live their life. You get your license,

1741
01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:33,160
Speaker 2: you go to school one more year, you graduate, get

1742
01:15:33,200 --> 01:15:37,120
Speaker 2: your diploma and ship, get your ring, have your baby.

1743
01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 3: It's all one motion.

1744
01:15:41,200 --> 01:15:43,960
Speaker 1: It's all one I don't live like that.

1745
01:15:44,560 --> 01:15:46,600
Speaker 3: And them, the same girls that did that be like,

1746
01:15:46,840 --> 01:15:51,840
Speaker 3: oh my lax, you're having so much fun. I see

1747
01:15:51,880 --> 01:15:54,080
Speaker 3: that girl your way. She has such a big butt.

1748
01:15:55,680 --> 01:15:57,920
Speaker 3: I swear that she has such a big butt.

1749
01:15:58,160 --> 01:16:01,479
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I like butts, and I cannot lie.

1750
01:16:03,920 --> 01:16:05,800
Speaker 3: I'd be like, she do she do? They'd be like,

1751
01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:08,080
Speaker 3: oh my god, I just would love to come with

1752
01:16:08,240 --> 01:16:15,439
Speaker 3: y'all and hang out. No, but you can't, Like you

1753
01:16:15,479 --> 01:16:17,639
Speaker 3: need to live your life. Yeah, Lydia life for sure.

1754
01:16:18,200 --> 01:16:20,160
Speaker 2: So yes, make sure if you want your question answered

1755
01:16:20,160 --> 01:16:21,920
Speaker 2: on the show, you email us at Export Minds at

1756
01:16:21,960 --> 01:16:24,120
Speaker 2: gmail dot com. If you're not a patreon remember make

1757
01:16:24,160 --> 01:16:26,760
Speaker 2: sure you sign up for the Patreon. Get you some

1758
01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:29,120
Speaker 2: march up and we outside period.

1759
01:16:29,400 --> 01:16:32,880
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to go. Yeah, yeah whatever, get past that part.

1760
01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:38,000
Speaker 1: You ready, So let me say this. I gotta y'all know,

1761
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:41,519
Speaker 1: I gotta give a speech before a song that, bro,

1762
01:16:41,920 --> 01:16:45,080
Speaker 1: you're the weirdest person, because I like to surpass you.

1763
01:16:45,640 --> 01:16:49,840
Speaker 3: S So let me say this.

1764
01:16:49,920 --> 01:16:51,360
Speaker 2: I want to sing this song because this is the

1765
01:16:51,479 --> 01:16:53,920
Speaker 2: most important song to her. She loves this song. And

1766
01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:55,880
Speaker 2: let me tell you, look at me, just do me

1767
01:16:55,920 --> 01:16:57,840
Speaker 2: a favor. Look at me, look at me, look at me.

1768
01:16:58,560 --> 01:17:00,800
Speaker 2: When I seen this, don't jump in and you're gonna

1769
01:17:00,840 --> 01:17:02,880
Speaker 2: have your turn. Let me sing the first verse. That's

1770
01:17:02,880 --> 01:17:03,479
Speaker 2: all I wanna say.

1771
01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:06,400
Speaker 1: Am I really gonna be that like excited to?

1772
01:17:07,240 --> 01:17:07,840
Speaker 3: I doubt you.

1773
01:17:10,439 --> 01:17:10,839
Speaker 1: Already.

1774
01:17:11,160 --> 01:17:18,360
Speaker 3: I'm scared letting girl don't know. I don't just know

1775
01:17:18,640 --> 01:17:22,840
Speaker 3: that he my man, but iose to letting him. You

1776
01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:30,479
Speaker 3: think that cab hold it in mur when nothing then.

1777
01:17:32,280 --> 01:17:38,160
Speaker 1: You don't know the words say, it's.

1778
01:17:36,320 --> 01:17:41,160
Speaker 3: Just thinking siding. He was a man enough for me.

1779
01:17:41,320 --> 01:17:45,880
Speaker 6: And if you don't know, now here's your change already. Yeah,

1780
01:17:50,000 --> 01:17:52,120
Speaker 6: and I'll be worried about him.

1781
01:17:52,400 --> 01:17:55,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's time you know the truth. I

1782
01:17:55,439 --> 01:17:57,880
Speaker 3: think it's just the man for you. Why are you

1783
01:17:58,200 --> 01:18:01,559
Speaker 3: making on my HUSBANDE things?

1784
01:18:02,439 --> 01:18:02,640
Speaker 2: You know?

1785
01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:08,080
Speaker 3: I don't her husband grandfriend. I'm thinking about him.

1786
01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:12,360
Speaker 2: But you married him, and you know how made him leave?

1787
01:18:13,080 --> 01:18:17,679
Speaker 2: And you know he makes us say he wasn't man

1788
01:18:17,920 --> 01:18:18,400
Speaker 2: enough for me.

1789
01:18:18,880 --> 01:18:24,599
Speaker 3: Listen, you know you know if nothing, what don't Julie

1790
01:18:24,680 --> 01:18:25,200
Speaker 3: ask him?

1791
01:18:25,600 --> 01:18:33,680
Speaker 1: Because you got so mad, because you.

1792
01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:38,479
Speaker 3: Got so bad, because I forgot the words, oh criage.

1793
01:18:38,800 --> 01:18:44,800
Speaker 3: So many reasons? Why of it through? What makes you

1794
01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:51,800
Speaker 3: think to you that she makes no sense because he

1795
01:18:52,040 --> 01:19:00,640
Speaker 3: would never change? Will better record notize your game? You

1796
01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:02,640
Speaker 3: think you don't know?

1797
01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:22,599
Speaker 1: First of all, you love me, she said. First of all,

1798
01:19:22,680 --> 01:19:24,160
Speaker 1: let me just shout out Tony because I love her

1799
01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:26,240
Speaker 1: to death. But you knew what was going down when

1800
01:19:26,280 --> 01:19:26,639
Speaker 1: she hit.

1801
01:19:26,600 --> 01:19:27,160
Speaker 3: That first ball.

1802
01:19:28,040 --> 01:19:33,519
Speaker 1: You it's the it's the vibrations for me, the low,

1803
01:19:33,840 --> 01:19:34,599
Speaker 1: it's the low.

1804
01:19:34,560 --> 01:19:39,120
Speaker 3: But it was this part too. You choose, but I choose.

1805
01:19:40,320 --> 01:19:42,560
Speaker 1: I think we both do a good Tony impersonation.

1806
01:19:42,800 --> 01:19:46,400
Speaker 2: First of all, you got Tony down this monest crazy

1807
01:19:46,479 --> 01:19:49,920
Speaker 2: because that's really the only impersonation I caught down because

1808
01:19:49,960 --> 01:19:51,800
Speaker 2: everybody else I can't do it, but you could do

1809
01:19:51,880 --> 01:19:57,280
Speaker 2: everybody else. But it's crazy because you look like Tony. Yeah,

1810
01:19:58,960 --> 01:20:01,160
Speaker 2: like y'all look like y'all could be family members.

1811
01:20:01,640 --> 01:20:04,320
Speaker 3: But I do a better Always ask me if I'm

1812
01:20:04,320 --> 01:20:04,919
Speaker 3: a Braxton.

1813
01:20:06,280 --> 01:20:08,560
Speaker 1: I'm not just saying this. I hate what people be like.

1814
01:20:08,600 --> 01:20:10,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god, people think I look like I hate that.

1815
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:14,920
Speaker 2: But people always asking me if I'm crazy because the.

1816
01:20:14,920 --> 01:20:19,439
Speaker 1: Braxtons don't even look like a Braxton. Thank you so

1817
01:20:19,680 --> 01:20:20,640
Speaker 1: much for tuning in.

1818
01:20:21,240 --> 01:20:23,639
Speaker 2: They don't look alike, That's all I'm saying. They don't

1819
01:20:23,640 --> 01:20:26,240
Speaker 2: look like but for me, they don't.

1820
01:20:27,160 --> 01:20:30,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't like.

1821
01:20:30,600 --> 01:20:31,400
Speaker 3: Tony, don't look like.

1822
01:20:31,600 --> 01:20:32,360
Speaker 1: They don't look like.

1823
01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:36,280
Speaker 2: You don't think Tony and Tamar look like No, not really.

1824
01:20:36,600 --> 01:20:38,120
Speaker 2: I don't think any of them look like. I think

1825
01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:40,120
Speaker 2: they're all beautiful, but I don't think they all look like.

1826
01:20:40,160 --> 01:20:44,040
Speaker 2: I don't think they look alike like to Wanda, all

1827
01:20:44,080 --> 01:20:44,639
Speaker 2: of them look.

1828
01:20:46,960 --> 01:20:47,439
Speaker 3: Like Tony.

1829
01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:48,400
Speaker 4: You think so?

1830
01:20:48,800 --> 01:20:50,240
Speaker 3: I think y'all favorite.

1831
01:21:03,320 --> 01:21:04,240
Speaker 1: And jealous.

1832
01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:09,360
Speaker 3: You hearty. It's it's only me.

1833
01:21:12,439 --> 01:21:18,280
Speaker 1: Bring you gotta ring back those nights.

1834
01:21:20,520 --> 01:21:34,400
Speaker 3: Me break my left me again. No, this is enough.

1835
01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:36,160
Speaker 3: You want enough.

1836
01:21:39,320 --> 01:21:42,960
Speaker 2: Hard? Wow?

1837
01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:46,160
Speaker 1: I cry so mean, mean and I.

1838
01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:53,240
Speaker 3: I'm crying inside right now, bright my Oh.

1839
01:21:55,600 --> 01:22:04,800
Speaker 1: Are you just couldn't No, I'm breakma.

1840
01:22:07,800 --> 01:22:16,200
Speaker 3: We'll see y'all next week. Thank you. A performance not tired,

1841
01:22:16,280 --> 01:22:21,400
Speaker 3: starting off with the remember that from not another teen movie?

1842
01:22:22,720 --> 01:22:25,120
Speaker 3: Oh I love Tony.

1843
01:22:26,439 --> 01:22:27,240
Speaker 1: Turny got burned.

1844
01:22:27,439 --> 01:22:31,000
Speaker 3: She said, oh, I've been knowing about b dB. It's

1845
01:22:31,040 --> 01:22:31,280
Speaker 3: something