1 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this is from Rosa and Porter Ranch. 2 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: Rosa says, uh, my wife and I are opening a 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: tapas bar, and I want her to be behind the 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 1: scenes like we plan from the start. Stopless no, no 5 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: tapas tapas. It's not topless top us. 6 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 2: Man, What does that not? 7 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:24,799 Speaker 1: Topless? 8 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 2: Top up? Food? 9 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:32,239 Speaker 1: Yeah? Small, small portions, all right food? Yeah, all right. 10 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 1: My wife and I are opening a tapas bar, and 11 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,519 Speaker 1: I want her to be behind the scenes like we 12 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 1: planned from the start. She thinks it's cute that she 13 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: has no patience and brags at customer service is not 14 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: what she does because she has a short fuse. Our 15 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 1: silent partner invested a lot of money and he is 16 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: putting pressure on me to keep my wife out of 17 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: the way. What do I need Who do I need 18 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: to check first? Our partner or my wife? 19 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 3: Nah, you got to talk to your wife, man, she's 20 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 3: finna mess this business up. She think it's cute to 21 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 3: have poor customer service. That ain't cut, That ain't c 22 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 3: That ain't what this is. 23 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:11,960 Speaker 2: Right. No, it's like you new. 24 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, man, say hey, baby, listen to me. Listen to me, 25 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 3: Sit down and don't talk to it when you're mad. 26 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 3: Talk to it before y'all go to work. I need 27 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 3: to talk to you, baby. I need you to step 28 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 3: aside and let us run this and do what we 29 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 3: agreed to do, because you are offending people and it's 30 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 3: affecting the business and we're gonna mess around to be 31 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 3: broke if you ain't got a woman that's supporting you 32 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 3: in that area right there, All right, now. 33 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, good advice. 34 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 3: Hey, check your partner, because your partner, he got his money. 35 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 3: He came to you. He didn't go to her. He 36 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 3: came to you like he wire. Hey, bro, we need 37 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 3: to talk man, and you know she messing up business. 38 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 3: So what you're gonna check the partner for? 39 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right? Moving on to this one's from Georgia 40 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: and Mobile. Georgia says, my husband found out that I've 41 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 1: been secretly ordering things online. 42 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 2: Oops. 43 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 1: I have the packages sent to a locker close to 44 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: our house, and I load up my trunk once a 45 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: week with purchases. He said, it's the start of me 46 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: hiding other things. Why is he making this such a 47 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: big deal? 48 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 2: Packages come to the house. That's not the case though. 49 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 3: If it ain't a big deal, it's not well. But 50 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 3: if you're keeping secrets what you want him to do. 51 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 3: If a man was doing that, Okay, let's. 52 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: Reverse shopping online. 53 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 3: Let's say, hey, hey, hey woman, yes, go if your 54 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 3: husband was purchasing stuff and having it sent somewhere else. 55 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 2: The lady you found out about. 56 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: It, Yes, there's no comparison. 57 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 2: I don't think. 58 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 1: I don't think that's because women like to shop, you know, 59 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: we like to shop. 60 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 2: Men don't like to shop like that. If your man. 61 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 3: Was ordering some stuff and having it sent to another 62 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 3: location and going over there to pick it up without. 63 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 2: Your knowledge, and then you find out you'd be tripped, how. 64 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 3: Would you feel? Why is he making such a big 65 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 3: deal out of this? Well, if it ain't a big deal, 66 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 3: why you hiding it? 67 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 2: Hello, just in it. 68 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: Don't think it's the same thing. I just don't think 69 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: it's the same thing when it's with men and women. 70 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 2: Don't nobody care what you think. 71 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: Well, I'm telling you what I think. You just put 72 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: it out. 73 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 2: There when they wrote, when they wrote this question, they 74 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 2: ain't ask you. 75 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: For me to answer because I don't agree with you. 76 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 3: Is always take the woman's side even if it's wrong, 77 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 3: And that's wrong. 78 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 1: That through first of all, Okay, let women. Women do that. 79 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: That's what we do, is shop. 80 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 2: That makes it right. 81 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 1: We hide things, We put them in the trunk because 82 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: we don't always want you to see what we're buying. 83 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 2: Has Men don't do that, they don't. 84 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: That's that's what they normally do. 85 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, we had stuff now. Yeah, but it's. 86 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: Not the same. Women and men shop differently. It's just 87 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: not it's double standard. 88 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 2: Just you know what a double standard. 89 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: Anyway, we'll have more of this crazy show coming up 90 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening 91 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 2: Hard Morning Show