WEBVTT - Living in a Rom-Com 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.600 Hell I Suck At Dating with Dean Angler and Dared Haben. 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:10.959 I hear radio podcast. Hey, welcome back to help buy 0:00:11.039 --> 0:00:13.840 Suck at Dating and I heard radio podcast. I am 0:00:13.880 --> 0:00:16.960 of course Jared have been joined by no one. Dean 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:20.320 Anglert will be coming whenever he shows up. He's running 0:00:20.320 --> 0:00:23.040 a few minutes late. I now listen. Everybody's a little 0:00:23.040 --> 0:00:26.520 shocked by it. He's usually always on time. This never happens, 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:28.600 so we'll give him the benefit of the doubt. But 0:00:28.680 --> 0:00:30.440 we're gonna start off the podcast and then Dean is 0:00:30.480 --> 0:00:33.519 going to be joining me very shortly. But I kind 0:00:33.520 --> 0:00:35.120 of wanted to talk about what's going on in my 0:00:35.240 --> 0:00:37.839 life anyway, because, as you guys, or some of you 0:00:38.040 --> 0:00:40.640 may know, I actually just recently moved from the West 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:43.520 Coast to the East coast. Ashley and I are officially 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:47.680 once again East Coasters. We were living in l A 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:50.680 for the past. I was there ever since late two 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:54.320 thousand seventeen, and Ashley had been there since two thousand fifteen. 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:57.880 So I moved over there. It's kind of a funny story. 0:00:58.040 --> 0:01:00.040 I'm sure I told about it on the podcast before it. 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:03.800 As you guys know, Nick Viall is a good friend 0:01:03.800 --> 0:01:07.080 of mine and he texted me in two thousand seventeens 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:09.080 was after he was the Bachelor and after things didn't 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:12.280 work out with Vanessa, and he was like, dude, just 0:01:12.440 --> 0:01:15.479 moved to Los Angeles. You never moved outside Rhode Island. 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:17.319 You don't know what the rest of the world is like. 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:19.920 Just come live with me in Los Angeles for a 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:22.160 little while, and if you hate it, you can always 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:24.319 move back. And I was like, all right, I guess 0:01:24.680 --> 0:01:27.399 I really have no reason not to like. My job 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:29.400 was super good to me. They were very flexible. I 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:32.160 always knew that if I left that I'd always have 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:34.600 some sort of position when I came back. So I 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:36.959 ended up quitting my job moving out to Los Angeles 0:01:37.000 --> 0:01:39.920 in October of two thousand and seventeen. Uh in Los 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:42.920 Angeles lived with Nick. Did not enjoy myself. I'm not 0:01:42.959 --> 0:01:45.280 a big l a guy. I It's so funny too, 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:48.000 because I'm such a movie buff and Hollywood has always 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:51.680 been a glitter in my eye, like Hollywood, you know, 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:55.040 and going to the Chinese Theater and and seeing the 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:58.400 Hollywood Hills and there was it was just so magical. 0:01:58.480 --> 0:02:01.560 I've watched La La Land millions of times because of 0:02:01.560 --> 0:02:04.680 my love of love for Hollywood. And then I got 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:07.960 to Los Angeles and I realized it's not like it 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:10.040 is in the movies. You know, they really do have 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:13.960 that movie magic, because when you get to Los Angeles, uh, 0:02:14.000 --> 0:02:16.320 you know, it has its issues and it's you know, 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:19.760 overly populated and it's crowded. In my opinion, there are 0:02:19.760 --> 0:02:22.960 a lot of areas that just feel dirty. Uh you know, 0:02:23.000 --> 0:02:26.920 there's all cracks in the sidewalk from from earthquakes, not 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:29.120 crack addicts. I mean there may be some too, but 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:32.280 we're not going to talk about that. Um, but it 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:35.640 just wasn't it wasn't my vibe. It wasn't my what 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:39.000 I wanted. But uh, of course I went back for 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:41.200 Christmas break to Rhode Island to visit my family. And 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:44.520 then this was at the time when Ashley was on 0:02:44.560 --> 0:02:47.919 Winter Games she started dating someone else. I started realizing 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:50.000 I was a jackass. I mean I already knew I 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:52.280 was jackass, but you know, then I was actively like 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:55.600 telling people I was a jackass, including Ashley. And then 0:02:55.639 --> 0:02:57.359 that's when we started dating in early two thousand and 0:02:57.400 --> 0:02:59.600 eighteen and then lived in Los Angeles ever since. And 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:02.680 then we always had this five year plan. When Ash 0:03:02.720 --> 0:03:04.919 and I first got together, I told Ash, hey, listen, 0:03:05.400 --> 0:03:07.440 five years I'd like to be back in the East 0:03:07.480 --> 0:03:09.720 Coast to buy a house, graz of family. That's where 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:12.720 I permanently want to be, specifically in Rhode Island. And 0:03:12.760 --> 0:03:14.960 she was totally down for that. She wanted to go 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:17.639 back east as well. You know, her family's from northern 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:21.600 Virginia minus from Rhode Island. So having kids, we wanted 0:03:21.600 --> 0:03:23.799 to be close to grandparents and cousins and uncles and 0:03:23.840 --> 0:03:26.839 once and all that good stuff. And this past year 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:31.120 with COVID, it just kind of expedited the process because 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:34.359 everything we're doing, including what I'm doing right now recording 0:03:34.360 --> 0:03:37.920 our podcast, we're doing remotely. Everything we're doing we can 0:03:37.960 --> 0:03:41.480 do in Rhode Island. So there was really no purpose 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:43.480 or point for us to be in Los Angeles and 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:47.040 and more paying for Los Angeles prices and specifically especially 0:03:47.080 --> 0:03:50.240 with COVID in California, it's it's been a tough year 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:53.640 for everybody in the world, um, and then you know 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:58.120 for California obviously, UM. And so it just felt the 0:03:58.200 --> 0:04:00.320 right time for Ash and I to find they take 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:03.040 the next step. I feel like I'm from American pie 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:05.640 saying that to the next step. If anybody remembers that movie, 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:07.840 that was what they were cheers to anytime, like they 0:04:07.840 --> 0:04:13.440 would have sex or something. Um, but it just felt 0:04:13.480 --> 0:04:16.800 like the right time. And Ash and I had been 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:18.760 you know, on the East coast for half of the 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:23.000 past year because of COVID, So we went back packed 0:04:23.080 --> 0:04:25.720 up all our stuff and finally uh made the move. 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:29.239 And our stuff is currently being driven three thousand miles 0:04:29.240 --> 0:04:32.320 from Los Angeles to Rhode Island. Uh, and we're looking 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:34.400 at houses, We're looking at land. We've been looking at 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:37.320 a little you know for a few months at land 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:39.800 over in Rhode Island, and we're gonna end up over there. 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:43.400 Right now, we're in Virginia. Uh. We flew in to 0:04:43.480 --> 0:04:45.200 be with her parents for a little while before we 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:47.960 made our way north. And so it's pretty crazy. It's 0:04:47.960 --> 0:04:50.279 pretty crazy to think that we have no ties to 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:53.159 Los Angeles anymore after three years of living there in 0:04:53.200 --> 0:04:56.360 five years for aush. She moved there as soon as 0:04:56.360 --> 0:04:58.520 she got off her first season of Bachelor. So this 0:04:58.600 --> 0:05:01.600 was you know, in ring of two thousand and fifteen, 0:05:01.760 --> 0:05:05.279 right before I met her on Bachelor. In paradise. Um, 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:07.599 so it's crazy to think that there's just no more 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:10.240 ties to Los Angeles. We don't pay rent there anymore, 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:13.080 we don't have cars there anymore, none of our stuff 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:16.320 is there anymore. Um, of course we'll be back, but 0:05:16.440 --> 0:05:20.360 it's just, uh, it's pretty insane. Um. So that's kind 0:05:20.360 --> 0:05:25.400 of like my spiel about moving to Rhode Island. Uh, 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:27.920 you know, we're we're in with the in laws once again. 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:31.000 As you guys might remember, this is where we quarantined 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:34.800 from March until June during COVID last year. So it's 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:37.839 not that awkward. It feels like I'm kind of at home. Uh, 0:05:37.880 --> 0:05:40.880 It's it's me ash and and the in laws. It's 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:44.599 sometimes a little awkward because, uh, you know, ash and 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:47.920 I are two adults. We like to have our alone time, 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:51.360 and uh, this is the house that Ashley grew up in, 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:54.960 so a long time is sometimes a little awkward. You know, 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:59.159 I'm sure anybody going back to their parents house. Doesn't 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:02.520 me just say this, It doesn't really you know, uh 0:06:02.800 --> 0:06:05.359 give off sexy time vibes. Let me just put it 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:08.520 that way, you know, like it's come on now. But 0:06:08.560 --> 0:06:10.000 at least we get to sleep in the same bed 0:06:10.800 --> 0:06:13.800 because we're married. So you know, at first when we 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:16.919 got together, before we were engaged, excuse me, before we 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:19.359 got married, we were not allowed to sleep in the 0:06:19.360 --> 0:06:21.279 same bed. It was definitely a meet the parents moment 0:06:21.400 --> 0:06:23.000 where it was like, you know, hey, Jared, keep your 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:24.920 snake in a cage for twenty four hours in this 0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:29.320 case for three months. But regardless, before we were married, 0:06:30.120 --> 0:06:33.039 uh we I wasn't allowed to sleep in the same 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:35.200 bed as ash which was actually quite nice. It got 0:06:35.240 --> 0:06:36.800 to spread my legs a little bit. You know, I 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:40.280 had the whole bed to myself. Ashley definitely hogs the comforters, 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:42.719 so it's really nice, just kind of like spreading my wings. 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:44.599 You know, I got the best night's rest I've gotten 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:48.200 in years back then. So now I understand why some 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:49.920 couples sleep in several beds. You know. It's just kind 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:55.120 of nice. Um, but it's good. It's all great, and um, 0:06:55.200 --> 0:07:00.920 it's it's I'm excited. I'm very excited to be back home, um, 0:07:01.080 --> 0:07:03.640 or at least making the move back home. UM, because 0:07:03.640 --> 0:07:05.279 I'm sure a lot of people out there too can relate. 0:07:05.320 --> 0:07:06.680 You just want to be close to family. As you 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:08.880 get older, you realize family is the most important thing 0:07:08.880 --> 0:07:11.280 in this world, and it's the only thing you can 0:07:11.320 --> 0:07:14.160 rely on, you know. Like even my dad is helping 0:07:14.200 --> 0:07:15.640 me with the move. Right now. My car is being 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:17.600 shipped to Rhode Island. Just got dropped off today and 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:19.040 he went to go pick it up. And it's just 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:22.480 it's nice knowing that you know, you have people that 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:25.320 you can rely on. Life is very difficult, and uh, 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:27.600 it's good to know that you have a team with you. 0:07:28.280 --> 0:07:32.720 But any who, that's kind of my spiel a little bit, like, 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:36.600 have we heard anything from Deaners? Is he on his way? 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:42.880 Any word out there? Nada, nada. He hasn't responded. What 0:07:43.040 --> 0:07:46.560 is his excuse today? He said he's finishing up a podcast, 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:51.800 So this is the second priority, this podcast. I know. 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:54.440 So for three years, you think he'd have some investment 0:07:54.440 --> 0:07:56.800 in here, and we just texted and deemed question mark, Well, 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:58.600 we do have a great podcast coming up. I do 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:00.240 want to tell you about the guests that we have. 0:08:00.640 --> 0:08:04.760 It is Tiffany Paulson. Now, Tiffany Paulson. Everybody is excited 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:06.480 for Tiffany to come on this podcast. You can hear 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:09.520 my dogs freaking out in the background there, like Tiffany. Holy, 0:08:10.080 --> 0:08:12.680 no way, you got Tiffany Poulson on the podcast today. 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:16.240 They're losing their minds over there. Uh, sorry about that. Hey, 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:18.560 this is what happens when you record virtually sometimes you know, 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:21.360 you've got dogs freaking on the background for god knows why. 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:24.000 Sure it's some sort of mailman or package that they're 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:26.520 losing their minds over. But anyway, Tiffany Poulson is on 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:29.360 the podcast today. She is the writer of the Netflix 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:33.000 movie Holiday, which came out last year with uh it 0:08:33.120 --> 0:08:35.280 is who is it? Emma Roberts stars in it. Yeah, 0:08:35.480 --> 0:08:38.400 Emma Roberts stars in it. Uh and Tiffany Polson wrote 0:08:38.400 --> 0:08:40.600 that movie for a Netflix, so it's pretty impressive. She 0:08:40.679 --> 0:08:46.319 also wrote a uh, the sequel to Adventures in Babysitting 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:49.280 back in two thousand sixteen. Now, I don't know if 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:51.120 you guys know Adventures and Babysitting, but that was one 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:53.080 of my favorite movies growing up. I used to watch 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:56.319 that all the time, and I had the biggest crush 0:08:56.360 --> 0:08:58.600 on the Elizabeth Show. I'm not gonna lie like she 0:08:58.880 --> 0:09:01.560 is just she's a good looking gal. Let me just 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:06.920 say that. Hollow Man. Anybody's seen hollow Man in here. Oh, 0:09:06.960 --> 0:09:09.559 Easton's raising his head when she has her short haircut. 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:14.480 Not some good stuff right there. And she's um. She's 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:19.880 Jennifer Marty McFly's um girlfriend. Back to the Future two 0:09:19.880 --> 0:09:22.880 and three, two and three, Yeah, she replaced the other one. 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:25.240 I forget the original actress's name, but that's right. Yeah, 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:27.840 she's Martin Fly's girlfriend. And two and three that's she's 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:30.680 Alley with an Eye from Karate Kid and Cobra Kai. 0:09:30.920 --> 0:09:34.439 Oh my god, Elizabeth show. That's right. I forgot is 0:09:34.480 --> 0:09:36.199 she and Cobra Kai at all? In the new series 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:40.880 season three? Okay? How good is Cobra Kai? I loved 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:43.160 it and I was not a huge Karate Kid fan, 0:09:43.320 --> 0:09:45.280 Like I was like, whatever, taking or leave it. I 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:46.640 liked it when I was a kid. It was fine. 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:49.360 So I started watching it and I think it's fantastic. 0:09:49.400 --> 0:09:51.560 I got way into it, and I've heard it's really good. 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:54.040 I want to check it out. I just love a 0:09:54.120 --> 0:09:57.400 show that can do flashbacks and it's the same actors 0:09:57.400 --> 0:10:00.440 when they were young. You know, they're not fake hashbacks. 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:02.160 They didn't hire your other kids to play them that 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:04.400 kind of look like the adults. They actually gonna flash 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:09.680 back to themselves. It's awesome. Yeah, alright, well, oh, Becky, 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:11.959 so our producer, Becky's texting us right now saying that 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:14.640 we're going to try to call Dean on air. Yeah, 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:18.000 I mean if we have the technological blue technological capability 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:20.400 of doing that. Easton's raising his eyebrows. All on you, bro, 0:10:22.240 --> 0:10:23.880 I'm just a guy with the mic. I just talk, 0:10:24.040 --> 0:10:29.120 That's what I do. Oh oh like, oh okay, I 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:31.200 got you? Now? Never mind that the best way to 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:33.800 pull off some radio stuff over here where we're gonna 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:35.559 get Dean like on the mic. No, I'm going to 0:10:35.640 --> 0:10:37.160 call from my phone and then put my phone next 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:41.400 to the mic. Never mind? All right, hold on, what 0:10:41.440 --> 0:10:43.360 do I have him saved? I think I have him 0:10:43.400 --> 0:10:47.320 saved as Dean Bachelor? I do. Oh that's hilarious. Yeah, 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:50.520 well you know you get one of my sad mark 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:57.280 I heart. I think I'm curly haired. I heard producer 0:10:57.280 --> 0:11:01.720 and Jana Camber's pond. All right, here we go. Hold on, 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:08.360 where are you Dean? Alright, Dean Bachelor and calling. He's 0:11:08.400 --> 0:11:10.720 definitely not gonna pick up. He's a hunter. Percent I'm 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:15.280 gonna pick up. He's gonna see me calling and really 0:11:15.280 --> 0:11:17.160 and be like, oh, should I forgot I'm supposed to be. 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:20.760 I hope I suck a dating right now? Hey, this 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:22.800 is Dean. I'm so sorry I missed your phone call. 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:25.000 But leave him at pitch and I'll go back to you. Thanks. 0:11:25.760 --> 0:11:28.880 I'll leave a message from him. It's amazing, how good 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:31.040 God nobody wants to hear that. It's amazing how his 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:33.400 answering machine is so sweet. I'm so sorry I missed 0:11:33.400 --> 0:11:36.920 your call. Dean. It's Jared. We're live on help I 0:11:36.920 --> 0:11:39.480 suck a dating And leaving you a voicemail, just letting 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:41.120 you know that we were supposed to start the podcast 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:43.760 about twenty four minutes ago. Just curious as to where 0:11:43.840 --> 0:11:47.480 you are because you blocked sharing your location on Easton's phone. 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:49.600 So if you could just give us a call back 0:11:50.600 --> 0:11:52.319 whenever you can, that be great. Or if you just 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:53.840 want to sign in the zoom and join us on 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:55.719 the podcast, that would be great too. All right, talk 0:11:55.720 --> 0:11:59.120 to you soon, buddy, Love you bye. All right, Dean 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:06.400 anglert Ladies and lem Oh Boy every week. Uh, there's 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:08.600 no way he's a podcast. He's definitely golfing. He golf 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:10.280 every I think he's got to be like an elague 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:13.560 because he got every Friday. Well, then we shouldn't move 0:12:13.640 --> 0:12:15.719 the day of the podcast, Like, there's no reason we 0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:17.760 do it on Fridays other than that's when you guys 0:12:17.760 --> 0:12:19.920 can do it. Listen. My schedule is, well, it's not 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:21.960 wide open because I'm back in school, so we'd have 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:25.280 to work with that. But it's fine. You guys know that. No, 0:12:26.360 --> 0:12:29.079 So I never finished my bachelor's like an idiot. I 0:12:29.160 --> 0:12:31.280 dropped out. I got my associates, transferred to a four 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:34.120 year school, went to school. Then I started moving up 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:36.280 in restaurants. I really liked it, so I didn't finish. 0:12:36.320 --> 0:12:39.079 I had five classes to go, and then this past year, 0:12:39.120 --> 0:12:40.719 Actuley has always been on me to finish, which I 0:12:40.760 --> 0:12:43.360 don't blame her. And then with COVID, it was just 0:12:43.400 --> 0:12:45.439 like all classes are virtual. This is perfect because I 0:12:45.480 --> 0:12:47.000 don't want to go in a classroom anyway. I don't 0:12:47.000 --> 0:12:48.640 want to be the old guy being like on the 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:51.320 thirty two year old surrounded by eighteen year olds. What's up, guys, 0:12:51.360 --> 0:12:55.840 welcome to college. Um so, uh not there's anything wrong 0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:59.559 with that, but I but so, yeah, I'm going back. 0:12:59.600 --> 0:13:01.800 I'm getting my degree in history Liberal Arts with a 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:04.480 minor and political science, and then I have five classes left. 0:13:04.480 --> 0:13:07.040 I'm taking four right now to history class is a 0:13:07.040 --> 0:13:10.720 geography course in an Italian course, and it's going pretty 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:14.679 well so far. I assume I have straight a's um. 0:13:14.800 --> 0:13:16.360 Has there been a moment where someone else in the 0:13:16.440 --> 0:13:19.040 zoom is like, that's the guy from Bachelor in Paradise? Not? 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:24.680 I know, I feel like, is that is that? Is 0:13:24.679 --> 0:13:29.320 that the dude that's married to Ashley? I no, not, Yeah, 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:31.560 I was kind of expecting it. But it's all virtual, 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:33.760 which is great. So I just literally wake up, go 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:35.640 to the next room and turn the light on my 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:39.280 pajamas and I'm in class. So yeah, it's pretty cool. 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:41.400 I mean, it's it's definitely fun. It has aspects that 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:43.640 are fun, but other aspects that suck, Like you know, 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:46.560 term papers and I've had to write a few papers 0:13:46.559 --> 0:13:50.360 and it's like, oh, I forgot just researching, organizing paper, 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:56.120 getting an outline done, writing a rough draft, sourcing my material, footnotes, bibliographies, 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:58.680 like you forget that, just like there's all this nuance 0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:03.079 to it, which is fine whatever, but it's cool. It's good. Well, 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:05.839 we're very proud of you, Jared. Thanks guys, I appreciate it. 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:07.320 Don't be proud of me. Yeah, I still have plenty 0:14:07.360 --> 0:14:09.920 of time to fail. Um. I think we are going 0:14:09.960 --> 0:14:13.160 to bring Tiffany in on the podcast. Tiffany Paulson, like 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:16.800 we're talking about earlier, the writer of the Netflix movie Holiday, 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:20.840 also the movie Adventures and Babysitting, the reboot, not the original. 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:23.400 She's much younger than that. So Tiffany Paulson is going 0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:26.240 to join us right after this break. First, let's get 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:37.120 a word from our sponsor. Hey, this is Becky Tilly 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:40.280 and Tanya rad Rad that's me. Yeah, and we have 0:14:40.320 --> 0:14:43.320 a podcast called scrubbing In. Yeah, we do. We are 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:48.200 two best friends and we love Grey's Anatomy, hence the 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:52.360 name scrubbing In exactly. 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So listen to scrubbing In on 0:15:27.440 --> 0:15:30.360 the I Heart Radio app, on Apple podcasts or wherever 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:35.360 you get your podcasts. All right, welcome back to help 0:15:35.400 --> 0:15:38.640 I suck at dating. Dean is uh still m I A. 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:42.000 I'm sure he's going to show up at some point 0:15:42.040 --> 0:15:44.800 before the podcast ends. I guess we'll find out. But 0:15:44.840 --> 0:15:47.120 we just really wanted to welcome in our wonderful guest, 0:15:47.680 --> 0:15:50.320 who is the writer of the Netflix movie Holiday, which 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:52.440 came out last year but again is a great rewatch 0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:55.160 because it's not just about Christmas or New Year's but 0:15:55.200 --> 0:15:57.480 it's also I see an Easter. I remember there was 0:15:57.480 --> 0:16:00.160 an Easter holiday in there as well this seasonal at 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:02.640 them All Cover Tiffany Paulson. Tiffany, thank you so much 0:16:02.640 --> 0:16:05.960 for joining us today. Thank you, Jared. I am so 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:08.800 incredibly excited to be here. I'll try to not take 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:11.680 it personally that Dean is standing me up. Yeah, this 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:14.080 is bs. I'm I'm mad at him for you. But 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:16.040 I did text Ashley. I said she needs to come 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:18.480 in here and say hello. Oh my god, that would 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:21.800 be amazing perfect. She's so it's funny because her sister 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:24.240 is a hair h Here she comes, Oh, you haven't 0:16:24.240 --> 0:16:26.640 gotten your hair done yet. So her sister is a 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:30.240 is a hairdresser, and she's getting we're all getting like 0:16:30.360 --> 0:16:34.960 haircuts today. Oh my god, Ashley, I'm so excited to 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:38.080 meet you here. Put that on. Uh So, Ashley, this 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:40.480 is Tiffany. Tiffany, This is Ashley. Tiffany is a big 0:16:41.000 --> 0:16:43.280 Bachelor fan, and I'm big a big fan of Tiffany. 0:16:43.560 --> 0:16:46.520 She wrote the Holiday it was so cute. I loved it. 0:16:46.760 --> 0:16:49.240 I mean any movie that comes out that's a chick flick. 0:16:49.360 --> 0:16:51.640 I mean I think I watched it within two days 0:16:51.680 --> 0:16:53.480 of it coming out. So O my god, Well you're 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:55.720 gonna live my next romantic comedy. And I really think 0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:58.360 you guys. You guys are like the ultimate rom com 0:16:58.360 --> 0:17:00.640 Can we just like do your movie and to Netflix? 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:02.480 I think we could sell it all day long. Tiffany, 0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:04.680 we are here for you. Okay. Well, I'm just I'm 0:17:04.760 --> 0:17:07.480 like ridiculously thrilled to meet both of you. I have 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:10.080 been follow your story forever. I was telling Jared, I'm 0:17:10.119 --> 0:17:13.800 ultimate Bachelor Nations. So you guys are like, literally, you 0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:18.800 are the dream? Does this say that Kenny Ortega is 0:17:18.840 --> 0:17:23.080 attached to direct your next movie? Kenny ortegas, I'm doing 0:17:23.119 --> 0:17:27.000 a big Christmas musical. But also, well, you know what, 0:17:27.040 --> 0:17:28.639 I'm gonna come say hi to you guys because my 0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:31.600 new movie is shooting in Boston in May. Oh my god, 0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:35.240 let'sen let up. Yeah, you guys should totally do cameos 0:17:35.240 --> 0:17:41.120 in the movie. We're in. Okay, we're going to make 0:17:41.160 --> 0:17:44.080 this happen. Are we really waiting for dinner right now? Oh? Yeah? 0:17:44.160 --> 0:17:46.080 That's He hasn't been on the podcast. He was supposed 0:17:46.119 --> 0:17:48.080 to be. We started at three. He hasn't been here yet. 0:17:48.640 --> 0:17:52.440 No message are Well, if you guys need me to 0:17:52.520 --> 0:17:56.000 fill in it, come sit down. I got sight in. Yeah. 0:17:56.040 --> 0:17:58.800 Well I don't know what you've talked about yet. We haven't. 0:17:58.920 --> 0:18:03.200 Literally you walked in like okay, okay, great, and I said, 0:18:03.280 --> 0:18:05.680 can I please say I absolutely? My god, that's so 0:18:05.680 --> 0:18:09.119 sweet we offered you up. It was so lovely. Thanks. 0:18:09.200 --> 0:18:12.200 I mean, somebody who has an affinity for rom comes 0:18:12.240 --> 0:18:15.760 somebody I always want to meet, So certificate, I want 0:18:15.760 --> 0:18:17.720 to ask, because you wrote the holiday this is a 0:18:17.840 --> 0:18:20.680 dating podcast, what inspired you to make a wrong calm 0:18:20.760 --> 0:18:23.960 like that? The idea of all right friends and benefits 0:18:24.000 --> 0:18:27.520 never work. So let's have of friends with no benefits 0:18:27.600 --> 0:18:31.159 that just show up as each other's dates, you know, 0:18:31.320 --> 0:18:33.919 I think, I mean, you guys were single forever, you 0:18:33.960 --> 0:18:36.120 always had you know, especially kind of I think it's 0:18:36.119 --> 0:18:38.399 got vibes of your romance, which just like such this 0:18:38.520 --> 0:18:43.240 amazing friendship, right, I mean, I've always had that person 0:18:43.320 --> 0:18:45.160 that one or two, I mean one in particular that's 0:18:45.200 --> 0:18:48.120 just the guy that's like such your good friend, um, 0:18:48.160 --> 0:18:50.480 but he's like your step in, right, it's I don't 0:18:50.520 --> 0:18:53.080 know how many New Year's Eves we've spent together or 0:18:53.440 --> 0:18:55.639 Valentine's Day. Just come over, we'll get take out. So 0:18:55.680 --> 0:18:58.000 I'm not a loser of being by myself. And so 0:18:58.040 --> 0:19:01.119 I think that that kind of is the inspiration for 0:19:01.240 --> 0:19:03.720 that friend that's like your right or die of the 0:19:03.760 --> 0:19:07.720 opposite sex, right that you're you're kind of guaranteed to 0:19:07.720 --> 0:19:10.760 have a date for those holidays. I feel like there's 0:19:10.800 --> 0:19:13.520 been a rom com drought right, like, ever since two 0:19:13.560 --> 0:19:17.679 thousand and ten, nothing has come out that's like, I 0:19:17.680 --> 0:19:20.679 feel like a classic, right, the last classic? What do 0:19:20.680 --> 0:19:23.080 you think the last classic rom com was made? And 0:19:23.119 --> 0:19:25.320 do you think that the drought is on its way out? 0:19:25.359 --> 0:19:29.080 Because I think it is between between your movie and 0:19:29.119 --> 0:19:32.000 then like Emily in Paris, which is a long form 0:19:32.400 --> 0:19:35.720 rom com. I do think that people are craving that 0:19:35.880 --> 0:19:40.520 lightness in the love, in the humor in today's day 0:19:40.520 --> 0:19:44.919 and age. Well, absolutely mean streaming totally changed, you know, 0:19:45.080 --> 0:19:47.800 change the game, right, because I've been like romantic comedy 0:19:47.800 --> 0:19:49.960 girl forever and they're like studios don't want to make them. 0:19:50.040 --> 0:19:53.639 But I would say my last like super favorite is 0:19:53.680 --> 0:20:00.280 probably The Proposal. Okay, mine is something borrowed. It's a 0:20:00.320 --> 0:20:02.879 good one too. Do we count crazy? Stupid? Love is 0:20:02.880 --> 0:20:07.440 a wrong comin one of the all time greatest scripts 0:20:07.600 --> 0:20:10.240 ever written. I think that movie got me on The Bachelor. 0:20:11.200 --> 0:20:13.320 I'm not joking because I'll never forget. When I first 0:20:13.320 --> 0:20:16.840