1 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Batch. You're Happy Hour. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena, and we are here. 3 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 1: With another episode. We are going to be recapping episode 4 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 1: four and then our guests later on in the week 5 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: is Sarah Fina. But before we get into the recap, 6 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 1: we have to address the news that The Bachelorette is 7 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 1: on pause. Yes, and we spoke with our producer who 8 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: works with the show, and it's true it's on pause. 9 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: They are hopeful that it's coming back, but we like 10 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: to think that it's coming back, but we don't know 11 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 1: for sure. 12 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, we know that at this time the show's on pause. 13 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,240 Speaker 2: We know what you know. It does kind of feel 14 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 2: like what happened with Paradise last year, where they took 15 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 2: the year off, it didn't air, they didn't film, and 16 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 2: this year they're picking back up and we're gonna have 17 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 2: a twenty twenty five season. And I think there's an 18 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 2: additional level of excitement around Paradise this year because there 19 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 2: was that gap year and we know the Jens finale 20 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 2: was kind of a dumpster fire. There was a lot 21 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 2: of things going on with that season, you know, both 22 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 2: during airing and for months after. So maybe a little 23 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 2: pause and a refresh is gonna be a good thing. 24 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's that's the sugarcoated way to say it. 25 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: I disagree with you. I don't like that. It's that 26 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 1: it's on pause and I I like watching this show 27 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 1: looking for who's gonna end up with the lead and 28 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: who is going to be our next lead? Uh So 29 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: I find that to be disappointing personally. Yeah, I like 30 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: if I Yeah, I think it's a I think it's 31 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: a bummer, like all around. 32 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it'll be interesting watching the show, not really speculating. 33 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 2: I mean, it's if the show comes back. Who's to 34 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 2: say that one of these girls couldn't still one day 35 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: be the baucherette. But the odds are a lot lower. 36 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, And the difference with pausing Paradise is you add 37 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: a lot more players to the game by pausing it 38 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 1: because you add more seasons. You're not doing that with 39 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: like right. 40 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 2: But with Paradise there's just a bigger contestant pool to 41 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 2: choose from when casting if you take a pause. But 42 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 2: I think that maybe just additional time is needed, whether 43 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 2: it be to cast new men, to cast a new lead. 44 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 2: It definitely feels like a somber topic. Talking about this pause, 45 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 2: I think it came as a shock to everyone. It 46 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 2: definitely came as a shock to us. And we'll see 47 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 2: what happens. 48 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean all we could do is wait and see. 49 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: But as of now, Paradise is coming back, So that 50 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: will that will be the next show. 51 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 2: Yes, we'll finish off Grant season and then we'll be 52 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 2: looking forward to Paradise and we will also, just like 53 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 2: you guys are, stay tuned to find out what's going 54 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 2: to happen with the Bachelorette and when we can hopefully 55 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 2: expect it to be back on our screens. 56 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 1: All right, let's get into episode four. We are in 57 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: Madrid and we have ten women left. It's going pretty quick. 58 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 2: I know it's going really quick. So how do you 59 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 2: feel about Madrid? 60 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I love Madrid as a city. I've been 61 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: there twice, been pickpocketed there once, but I did catch 62 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: the guy, so that's that's good, thank god, because he 63 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: had he had my phone in his hand. 64 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was intense. It seems like these guys had 65 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 2: a way more relaxing first day in Madrid than we did. 66 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 2: Specifically Dina, who got the one on one date. 67 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: Yes, Dina gets the first one on one date. The 68 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 1: girls all meet Grant for or the girls are having 69 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: san Gria. Grant sits down as Dina for the date, 70 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: and I like the show going to Spain. I feel 71 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: like Spain's like the more or the most romantic city 72 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: in Europe. 73 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 2: Really you're a telling and you don't feel like it's Italy. 74 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: I actually know, I kind of think it's to me, 75 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: Spain is just a little a little more. I guess 76 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 1: it depends where you are. But like if you compare 77 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:17,919 Speaker 1: the like the bigger cities like Florence and Rome to 78 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 1: Barcelona and Madrid, I actually do find those cities to 79 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 1: be a little more romantic. 80 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 2: Okay, well I love that for you. 81 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: So Grant sits down. All the girls are having Sangria. 82 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 1: Very romantic, he asked Dina on the one on one date, 83 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: which they did have a connection when they went on 84 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: the group date with the three women. I was a 85 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: little shocked to see her get the first date in Spain, 86 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:48,919 Speaker 1: but it's also a very I think it's a very 87 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 1: important date to get. 88 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 2: The week for one on one I feel like is important. 89 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 2: It's like the first week they're traveling, you know, the 90 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 2: relationships are really starting to deve, and if you're someone 91 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 2: that has started to get momentum going, like this can 92 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 2: be a perfect time to take a relationship to the 93 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 2: next level. I was only surprised about Dina getting it, 94 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 2: and I guess this supplies to Sara Fina as well. 95 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 2: Is they both were recipients of that second group date 96 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 2: last week where they got that special extra time because 97 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 2: of what happened with Beverly, So I'm surprised that he 98 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 2: immediately went for both of them as well, because you know, 99 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 2: Letia got that night portion. I don't know. It was 100 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 2: very telling to me that, like, he clearly picked those 101 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 2: three to go on the dog date because he has 102 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 2: really strong feelings for them, because I actually thought that 103 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 2: this was maybe going to be a week for like 104 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:41,799 Speaker 2: Zoe or Carolina get to get a one on one 105 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:46,039 Speaker 2: only because they haven't gotten that extra time. 106 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, what is your opinion of Dina? 107 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 2: I really like her. I think she just seems really normal, 108 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 2: immature and down to earth. 109 00:05:54,960 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I think I think those the the 110 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 1: people that are very normal and mature and have their 111 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 1: shit together don't always make for the most entertaining television 112 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: because it's reality TV, and then the people that are 113 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 1: a little more eccentric tend to be the ones that 114 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: get a little more screen time and the ones that 115 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 1: actually are making more television. But for a partner, a 116 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: life partner, I think like Dina checks the box. 117 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 2: Yes, I agree, And she kind of touches on her personality, 118 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 2: which is that she has been called a bit of 119 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 2: an ice queen. She was kind of raised with this 120 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 2: understanding of like feelings make you weak. I like what 121 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 2: she said though, she said the right man will make 122 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:46,359 Speaker 2: you feel safe enough to get those feelings out of you. 123 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 2: But she's obviously not someone that is openly expressive about 124 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 2: her emotions or like a motes outward very easily. She 125 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 2: definitely has like a drier personality. 126 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: I know, what's the fastest way to get that out 127 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 1: of her? Playing soccer with a bunch of little kids. 128 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was so random. 129 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 1: Let's show Dina's softer side. But no, I I listen. 130 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't judge anyone for basically anything, but 131 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: like for being someone that like doesn't want to show 132 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: her feelings, especially doesn't really want to show them on 133 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: on reality TV. Like I get it, Like I. 134 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 2: Was that person Yeah, it's very relatable. 135 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: She's from she's from Chicago, she's one of eleven. 136 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, whoa big family. 137 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: She's an attorney, So that's not like a that's a 138 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 1: that's a tough road. I'm assuming it's even tougher for 139 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 1: a woman. So if she's a little bit of an 140 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: ice queen, like I get it. 141 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean her her explaining her history definitely gives 142 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 2: more insight into her and her personality. But I actually 143 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 2: thought this date was some of the most meaningful conversations 144 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:05,679 Speaker 2: surround like relationship, give and take sacrifice that I've seen 145 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 2: on this show, like maybe period or at least in 146 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 2: a while. I thought she was asking really thoughtful questions 147 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 2: I just want Yeah. Well, the day portion, they talk 148 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 2: about the fact that they're both givers, and Dina kind 149 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 2: of restructures gram. 150 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop. I'm gonna I'm gonna stop you there. 151 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: Nobody will ever go on this show and be like, 152 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: I'm not a giver, I'm actually a taker. 153 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 2: I think there's been girls on the show that are like, 154 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 2: I want to be with someone that is like a provider. 155 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I take that back, you're right. 156 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 2: And it seems like Dina's like, look, I'm looking for 157 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 2: more of a give and take equal partnership than I 158 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 2: am for someone to like fully step into the caretaker role. 159 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 2: But she seems like she's someone that really knows herself, 160 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 2: Like she really knows who she is as a person, 161 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 2: what she brings to the table, what she is like 162 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 2: in a relationship. And yeah, I thought I thought that 163 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 2: the way they connected and their conversation was really cool 164 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 2: and really nice. 165 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:06,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think Grant really likes her. They make sense 166 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 1: to me. 167 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 2: I don't know if I feel the most like sexual 168 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 2: chemistry between them, but there's definitely a good vibe going. 169 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think I could definitely get there. 170 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 1: I think it's still pretty early. 171 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, they're both very attractive people, so it's 172 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 2: not hard. 173 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 1: And I think, like sexual chemistry is sometimes difficult when 174 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: there's cameras in front of your face, and that's very true. 175 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: So yeah, I think I could definitely get there. And 176 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: I think he really likes her, and that's kind of 177 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: what like matters at this point in the show. Yeah, 178 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 1: so I think she'll be around for a while. And 179 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: then we we get back to the rest of the girls, 180 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: and Carolina. 181 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 2: Is annoyed Carearlina's annoyed. She does say, you know, I 182 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:53,320 Speaker 2: know I can't complain because I've had a one on one, 183 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 2: but she expresses that she's having a hard time seeing 184 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 2: his other connections and the girls are not sympathetic to her. 185 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 2: They're not feeling it, And I feel like this is 186 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 2: just kind of teeing up for the drama that we're 187 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 2: going to see later in the episode. But yeah, we 188 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:10,839 Speaker 2: find out that, you know, Sarah Fina is gonna be 189 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 2: getting the one on one later and the rest of 190 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 2: the girls are going on the group date. 191 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 1: I will say, like agree or disagree with Carolina. You 192 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: need Carolina on the show. 193 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, because if the show was all Dinas, it would 194 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 2: just go way too smooth. Then it would just, you know, 195 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 2: you need someone that is spicing things up and creating 196 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 2: conflict and adversity in the house. 197 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 1: And I get that the other girls are annoyed with 198 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 1: Carolina because she got the time they didn't, but she 199 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 1: also has the right to feel the way she wants 200 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: to feel. And if she's bummed out because she got 201 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: one date a couple of weeks ago, and it seems 202 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: like their connection really isn't going anywhere from there, She's 203 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: allowed to be like, oh this this sucks. 204 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 2: My thing with Carolina and we can get into this 205 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 2: more later when everything kind of unfolds with her. Is 206 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 2: what she's feeling is totally valid and from my experience 207 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:14,319 Speaker 2: on the show, very normal for people that get these 208 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 2: early one on one dates and develop these quick connections 209 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 2: and then are kind of left with very very little 210 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:23,439 Speaker 2: time to continue building what you started. So I really 211 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 2: actually get where she's coming from, especially someone who had 212 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 2: you know, I had a week two one on one. 213 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:34,439 Speaker 2: But she's just sharing it with the wrong people because 214 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 2: the girls that haven't had those one on ones yet 215 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 2: are clearly feeling disheartened and frustrated about it, which I 216 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 2: also understand. 217 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that. 218 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 2: Okay, So we have the group date. They're on donkey is. 219 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 2: It's actually hilarious. I was like, Carolina's donkey is like 220 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:57,079 Speaker 2: literally a pay producer right now, just hanging like way 221 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 2: back from the rest of the group, like of everyone 222 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 2: to get that donkey, of course it was her. 223 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: And she's funny. She's funny on this like like watching 224 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 1: this group that you'd like, you're you're starting to like 225 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 1: root for Carolina. 226 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:12,200 Speaker 2: No she's like cracking me up. Like her interviews, she's hilarious. 227 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 2: So I'm also like, I'm also like frustrated because I'm like, 228 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 2: you're clearly very funny and you're beautiful and you have 229 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 2: like a great personality, but we're just seeing like so much. 230 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 2: She's having such a hard time, and it's just like God, 231 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 2: like that puzzle piece for her in this journey is 232 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 2: just like not fitting, you know what I mean. 233 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, the bullfight. They're practicing for the bullfight. We see 234 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:40,199 Speaker 1: Latia packs him like a like the it wasn't he 235 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 1: I wouldn't even consider it a kiss. It was a 236 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: pack in that. And then like we kinda we see 237 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 1: the other girls like roll their eyes. If they're rolling 238 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:47,680 Speaker 1: their eyes at that or not, I don't know, but. 239 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 2: I would assume yeah they are. 240 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:51,839 Speaker 1: But like good for her. 241 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:57,200 Speaker 2: We have the mechanical ball, which honestly I loved. I 242 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:58,959 Speaker 2: was glad that they threw that in. I was like, 243 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 2: are we gonna have to sit watch these girls like 244 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:05,079 Speaker 2: run around and try to like wrangle animals or like 245 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 2: play with bulls. The fact that they brought a mechanical ball, 246 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 2: I was like, this is super fun and I'm into 247 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 2: it so bullshit? 248 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: Are not for Zoe copying Alex's bull ride? 249 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:20,319 Speaker 2: No, not bullshit? 250 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:22,720 Speaker 1: Okay, that's just you the No. I agree. 251 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 2: I agree as the most like has the best situation. 252 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 2: If I watch Alex face down, ass up, stay on 253 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 2: for thirty seconds, I would be an idiot to go 254 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:35,199 Speaker 2: on and do the exact same thing that girl number 255 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 2: one did when she fell after six seconds. 256 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, and ze Zoe. I would have 257 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: bet big money Zoe was gonna win this, but she wins. 258 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 2: She's just so competitive. There's like she's really hard to 259 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 2: not bet on. On these group dates. 260 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 1: She gets the extra time. 261 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 2: It's pretty quick. We don't see much of it. 262 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna say it wasn't really whatever the 263 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: extra time. 264 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 2: I feel like Alex, we're not seeing much of her 265 00:13:57,160 --> 00:14:00,320 Speaker 2: connection with Grant anymore. We're not seeing them chat very much. No, 266 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:03,680 Speaker 2: we're not. We're not getting a lot. Since that first 267 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 2: first Impression Rose, first impression Ros and first one on 268 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:07,319 Speaker 2: one date. 269 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 1: Who was Joey was the last Bachelor, I feel like 270 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: there was someone out there's there's there's been a few 271 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 1: first impression Rows people that once they like once they 272 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 1: just like they. 273 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 2: Just kind of they just fall off. I mean Abigail 274 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 2: on my season never got a one on one date. 275 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 2: She got the first impression Rows. But yeah, it's kind 276 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 2: of like one one or the other. I feel like 277 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 2: you either get the first impression Rows and unfortunately it 278 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 2: just like doesn't pan out, or it's the opposite and 279 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 2: they go really really far. 280 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: But we're seeing like zero interaction from now. 281 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 2: Well that's the thing. We're not even seeing. Like we're 282 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 2: seeing more of like Grant Parisa, I would say, on 283 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 2: a weekly basis than we are of Hymenolex, who ends. 284 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 1: Up going home at the end of this episode, which 285 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: I was a little a little surprised by because the 286 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 1: night portion of the bull Date, Grant goes out of 287 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 1: his way to do something nice for Parisa. Yeah, which 288 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: he hasn't done for anyone. 289 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 2: No, we haven't seen him do a lot of that. 290 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 2: I mean, maybe he has been doing it and it 291 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 2: just hasn't been shown. But yeah, I mean we saw 292 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 2: they did the chubby Bunny with the Rice Krispy squares 293 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 2: last week on the group date, and then he brought 294 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 2: her the rock on this one. If I'm Priza, I'm like, 295 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 2: keep your rock. Don't be doing sweet things for me 296 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 2: if I'm probably going home this week. 297 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 1: Well, I'm it seems like Grant it's more of a 298 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 1: friend zone at this point because he seems to like 299 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 1: really find her entertaining and like funny. Yes, and they may. 300 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 2: Just not have that, They just have more best friend vibes. 301 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, Zoe has a conversation where she talks about like 302 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 1: Zoey's had a tough life. 303 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 2: This conversation was so heartbreaking to me to hear her talk, 304 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 2: and I mean she did talk about it on the podcast, 305 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 2: but just to see her pain and opening up about 306 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 2: her experience being adopted, being raised in a predominantly white 307 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 2: community in the South, and me to feel like she 308 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 2: wasn't beautiful or desirable because she's a black woman while 309 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 2: she was growing up. I mean, that's a real experience 310 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 2: for a lot of people, but it must have just 311 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 2: felt so isolating and being black is so beautiful and 312 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 2: I just, honestly my heart broke for her and she's 313 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 2: I thought it was really brave of her to open 314 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 2: up about that because I'm sure it's not an easy 315 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 2: thing to talk about. 316 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, and Grant also like he can relate and he 317 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: he seems to really like Zoe, which is which is 318 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 1: which is good? Which is all Zoe needs? 319 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 2: You know what? Also, Zoe in the last week or 320 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 2: two has pulled herself out of the drama. She was 321 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 2: doing a lot, she was doing a lot right up 322 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 2: front that she didn't necessarily need to be doing, and 323 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 2: she's taken a step back. 324 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 1: Zoe's doing it good for a competitive person, for a 325 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 1: very competitive person. Zoe's doing a good job. 326 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 2: Yes, of like kind of holding back that, Like, yeah, probably, 327 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 2: I'm sure she still feels the urge to like be 328 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 2: doing more frankly because she's so competitive. 329 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I could see like like, yeah, she's she's 330 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 1: doing a good job someway. 331 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:05,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, she seems to be like on at least like 332 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:08,640 Speaker 2: okay terms with the girls now. 333 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, Because if you if you watch. 334 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:12,400 Speaker 2: The I want this for her, you know, if you. 335 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:15,200 Speaker 1: Watch the first two episodes, you, I would say most 336 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:18,640 Speaker 1: people are would be under the impression that Zoe is 337 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:22,400 Speaker 1: locked in on the drama the whole time. 338 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:26,119 Speaker 2: No, it's so rare to see someone and this happens 339 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 2: a lot in the show. Excuse me, is once someone 340 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:40,719 Speaker 2: picks up the shovel, they can't stop digging or like 341 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 2: they can't take their foot off the gas. So for 342 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 2: Zoe to like hit the gas so hard from the 343 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:50,360 Speaker 2: beginning and then realize, like, maybe this isn't working as 344 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 2: well as I hoped, and like my camarati were with 345 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:56,199 Speaker 2: the girls is at risk. I don't know if it 346 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:58,879 Speaker 2: was helping necessarily her relationship with Grant at the time. 347 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 2: I think she did the more strategic thing to chill 348 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 2: out a little, and I think it's helped her relationship 349 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:11,720 Speaker 2: with Grant, and I see her going like, I actually 350 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 2: really thought she was gonna get a one on one 351 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 2: this week. I won't be surprised if she gets it 352 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 2: next week. 353 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 1: Okay, So then we see Carolina again. She's really like 354 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 1: I'm watching this like she just is having a really 355 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 1: hard time with the process of the way this show works. 356 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's having a hard time with the show structure. 357 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:33,439 Speaker 1: And then Juliana calls her out, they go outside, they 358 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 1: have a weird conversation. 359 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:39,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, the I don't know if it was just really 360 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 2: chopped up, or if Juliana maybe just wasn't being as 361 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 2: direct in her approach with Carolina as she was in 362 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 2: her in her interviews. Because I feel like, based on 363 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:58,880 Speaker 2: her interviews, it was very clear what her problems were, right, 364 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 2: But then when they sat down to the conversation, I 365 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 2: was like, what's going on? 366 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:04,920 Speaker 1: Is the problem? 367 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 2: What's the problem? 368 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: The problem is? For my understanding, Yes, the problem is 369 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 1: Carolina got a one on one date. Since the one 370 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:20,439 Speaker 1: on one date, she has kind of been negative and 371 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 1: somewhat complaining about the fact that she hasn't spent enough 372 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:28,919 Speaker 1: time with Grant. But the other girls in the house 373 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 1: are like, we'dn't even get a one on one time, 374 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 1: so we don't want to hear you. That's that's the argument, right, 375 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 1: That's that's what the problem is. 376 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 2: Yes, that is the problem from my understanding as well. 377 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:43,879 Speaker 2: And Juliana basically just feels unsettled by her comments. We 378 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:46,680 Speaker 2: see Letia and Rose both say that she's been really, 379 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:49,200 Speaker 2: really negative when everyone else is trying to be positive, 380 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 2: and yeah, it's just I think what Juliana was hoping 381 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,119 Speaker 2: to gain from the conversation was just Carolina to have 382 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 2: a little bit more under standing of how her words 383 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 2: and comments are impacting the rest of the group's energy, 384 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:10,120 Speaker 2: and also they are trying to be positive and when Carolina, 385 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:13,040 Speaker 2: someone who's had a one on one date, is being 386 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 2: so vocal about her concerns, and you know, it sounds 387 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 2: like she's being very negative. It's hard for them to 388 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 2: receive that and support her and feel sympathy for her 389 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 2: when they haven't had these one on one dates. I 390 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 2: just don't know if the communication between the two of 391 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 2: them ever really landed. It just felt like they were 392 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:34,920 Speaker 2: kind of on two different pages during the conversation. It 393 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 2: also felt like Carolina was pretty defensive and Juliana wasn't 394 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 2: being totally clear with like, Hey, this is the problem, 395 00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 2: this is like the solution I'm hoping we can come to. 396 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,439 Speaker 2: It kind of felt like more of like she was 397 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:55,359 Speaker 2: trying to bring awareness to something and Carolina was like, well, 398 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 2: what's your question. I don't know, I'm kind of just 399 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 2: like regapping the conversation now away. 400 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 1: Okay, So yeah, the conversation just didn't really go well 401 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 1: for either of them. It was just a weird conversation. Yeah, 402 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:12,360 Speaker 1: Grant walks in. This is pretty funny because it's awkward, 403 00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 1: like the worst. 404 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 2: Time to send him in. They're like in the middle 405 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 2: of all fighting. 406 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:21,639 Speaker 1: The temperature in the room is very negative and Carolina's crying. 407 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 1: Grant kind of picks up on it. Are you okay? 408 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 1: And then he's like, okay, I have to stop and 409 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:27,399 Speaker 1: I'll check on Carolina. And now the other girls are like, 410 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:28,160 Speaker 1: here we go again. 411 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, like he has to, like he walked in, Like 412 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 2: I get, I get they're annoyed because she's gotten a 413 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:34,880 Speaker 2: lot of special time from Grant, but also like he's 414 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 2: sitting there and she's sobbing in the corner, like he 415 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:39,120 Speaker 2: has to pull her aside. It would be so awkward 416 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 2: if he just moved on and pretended he didn't see 417 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:42,159 Speaker 2: her sobbing. 418 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:46,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, so they have a conversation and then Grant's just 419 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:48,200 Speaker 1: kind of you could tell he's like in his head 420 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 1: hold the rose. 421 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,679 Speaker 2: And yeah that was the right move. Are you going 422 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 2: to give the rose to? At this point, you don't 423 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:55,679 Speaker 2: even know what's going on. 424 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 1: I think it was a fun group date. Unfortunately it 425 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 1: just really didn't end well. But that you know, that happens. 426 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,200 Speaker 1: And then we go to the Sara Fina one on 427 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 1: one date, which I really like Sarah Fina. I think 428 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 1: she's I think she's great. I think they're really good together. 429 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:15,920 Speaker 1: Bungee jumping in the rain. She seemed to be more 430 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 1: down than he was. 431 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:21,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, he was literally freaking out. He was being really 432 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 2: funny death certificate. 433 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I wouldn't have wanted to do that. 434 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,400 Speaker 1: It seemed seemed horrible. 435 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to do that either. And honestly, if 436 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:29,880 Speaker 2: you were the lead and I was on that date 437 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:32,719 Speaker 2: with you, I'd be like, I won't think less of 438 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 2: you if you tell production that we're gonna pass on 439 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 2: this activity. If anything, I'm gonna be really happy because 440 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 2: I don't want to jump off this bridge. 441 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, but I do think situations in dates that 442 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:53,160 Speaker 1: are a little more high stakes like bring two people 443 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 1: closer together, which I do feel like I saw that 444 00:22:56,600 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 1: with them. It seemed he seemed to be very comfortable 445 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:01,119 Speaker 1: with her. 446 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well she was bringing a lot of positive energy 447 00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:03,919 Speaker 2: to the date. 448 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 1: Too, and then we you know, jumping to like the 449 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 1: night portion, which like, personally, I think people are going 450 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 1: to really like Sarah Fina, especially after this when she 451 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:19,480 Speaker 1: was like He's like, yeah, well, you know when I 452 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 1: kiss you, She's like, oh, that's just because my mom's watching. 453 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought that was a good moment. She's like, 454 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 2: don't it's not that deep. I just don't want my 455 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 2: mom to see me kissing you. 456 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:31,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, And he was like laughing, and I think I 457 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,360 Speaker 1: like them both together. Like, I think she's going pretty far. 458 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, she said that she's falling in love with him. 459 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:38,879 Speaker 2: He said he could see himself falling in love with her, 460 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,239 Speaker 2: and we're going to talk to her more about it 461 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 2: in our interview with her this week. 462 00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, out of the two, out of the two that 463 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,480 Speaker 1: had dates, who do you think has a stronger connection? 464 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 1: Sarafina or. 465 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,720 Speaker 2: That's hard. I actually feel like they're kind of tied 466 00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 2: for me right now. I feel like they're actually on 467 00:23:58,560 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 2: the same level. Who do you think? 468 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 1: Uh? I think Sarah Fina. Yeah, yeah, but but I 469 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:08,359 Speaker 1: don't know. 470 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:13,159 Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know. I I think I'll 471 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 2: go Dina just to play devil's advocate. And I actually 472 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,159 Speaker 2: think that their connection is a little bit underrated right now. 473 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:21,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so then we go, let's go just go 474 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 1: back to the house. 475 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 2: Cocktail party. 476 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:27,359 Speaker 1: Cocktail party. Juliana and Grant have a convo here. Juliana 477 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 1: really expresses how she feels much more. 478 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 2: Yes, she comes out very clear and concise. I don't 479 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 2: know if she was just much less nervous than in 480 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:39,639 Speaker 2: her conversation with Carolina, but she articulated herself very well. 481 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:42,159 Speaker 2: She basically says, coming back from the one to one, 482 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,840 Speaker 2: Carolina was ungrateful, had nothing but negative things to say 483 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:50,320 Speaker 2: about the date. And to me, Carolina's behavior kind of 484 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,920 Speaker 2: seems like it's starting to come across like it's maybe 485 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 2: a protective measure. Like she went on this date, she 486 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 2: had a great connection, she really liked him, and she 487 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,959 Speaker 2: had his undivided attention and opened up about her experience 488 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:04,160 Speaker 2: with epilepsy and all these things. And now she's kind 489 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 2: of watching him give his time to all these other women, 490 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 2: and maybe it's creating some insecurities and instead of I 491 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:14,760 Speaker 2: would say, she's expressing that she's having a hard time, 492 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 2: and she does definitely go into it, but I feel 493 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 2: like maybe her negativity and her criticism and concerns about 494 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,160 Speaker 2: this process come for her just being like I really 495 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:24,919 Speaker 2: like this guy and I'm feeling scared that I'm going 496 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:25,440 Speaker 2: to get hurt. 497 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 1: Well, it's unfortunate because then her and Grant have a 498 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 1: conversation and he's a little he seems to now be 499 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:34,760 Speaker 1: a little annoyed, and it just for Krolina. This is 500 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 1: unless she's going to do something to turn it around. 501 00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 1: It really just seems like it's kind of the beginning 502 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 1: to the aging to the end. 503 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, a little bit, because Grant basically says, like, it 504 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 2: hurts to hear that you're going to the other women 505 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 2: and saying all these negative things about our time together. 506 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,680 Speaker 2: And it's totally valid that she has concerns at this point, 507 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 2: which I agree with. I mean, you know, it's a 508 00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 2: short process, it's very fast normal to you know, have 509 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:05,399 Speaker 2: some doubts and concerns. But I think he's one hundred 510 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 2: percent right by saying you should be coming to me 511 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 2: and we should be working through those things together versus you, 512 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:13,320 Speaker 2: you know, because to him it probably just sounds like 513 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 2: she's talking about him constantly in the house. 514 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 1: Yeah right, Yeah, definitely. And then we see we see 515 00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:24,440 Speaker 1: Rose send herself home, you know, before she sends herself home, 516 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:27,520 Speaker 1: she kind of has a little argument with Carolina where 517 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:31,199 Speaker 1: she says, like, you backstabbed me, which I don't know, like, 518 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 1: I like Rose, but I think it was probably the 519 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 1: right decision for her to leave. I don't really see 520 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:42,600 Speaker 1: the backstabbing aspect of it, only because like you you 521 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:47,720 Speaker 1: she said, while you were dancing with him, Carolina, he 522 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 1: was thinking of me that information is kind of like, 523 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 1: you know, that is going to be hard for her 524 00:26:56,720 --> 00:27:01,359 Speaker 1: to keep that to herself. Yeah, Like that's just I mean, 525 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,480 Speaker 1: because because she's gonna want to call the guy out 526 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 1: that she's dating to be like, hey, you were thinking 527 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:09,359 Speaker 1: her when I was dancing with. 528 00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 2: You, and then you also went and told her about 529 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,000 Speaker 2: it kind of thing, which is yeah, I don't know, 530 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:17,359 Speaker 2: Like I think Rose obviously felt like they were having 531 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 2: a private conversation and that everything that was said would 532 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 2: remain between the two of them. But that piece of 533 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 2: information information, I can totally understand why Caroline is like, 534 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,879 Speaker 2: I have to confront him about this because it's going 535 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,439 Speaker 2: to weigh on me and I want to get to 536 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,119 Speaker 2: the bottom of if he said this to you, and 537 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:39,399 Speaker 2: if he did, I don't know if I want to 538 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 2: be with this person. Yeah, I think she's in a 539 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 2: hard position. 540 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,440 Speaker 1: I just think Rose made a mistake and just and 541 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 1: just said too much, Like she just shouldn't have shared that. 542 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 2: That was the one thing I feel kind I feel 543 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:54,680 Speaker 2: bad for her because it's like she obviously slipped up, 544 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 2: she said something she shouldn't, but unfortunately that has resulted 545 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 2: in kind of like well, you know, it unraveled and 546 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:05,520 Speaker 2: it's going to basically end her time on the show. 547 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,080 Speaker 1: And I think Grant really liked Rose, and I think 548 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:11,680 Speaker 1: if Rose didn't get if Rose never had that conversation 549 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,680 Speaker 1: with Carolina, I would bet that she would still be here. 550 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I think so too. 551 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,199 Speaker 1: So that was just that's unfortunate. 552 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 2: It is unfortunate. 553 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:20,720 Speaker 1: It goes home. 554 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,199 Speaker 2: You know what's interesting we see Latia chime in on 555 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:27,159 Speaker 2: the Carolina stuff. 556 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so I was gonna I was gonna make 557 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:34,480 Speaker 1: a point about that because Letia. In my mind, I 558 00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 1: feel like almost every season we get someone who's that narrates, 559 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 1: who is. 560 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:43,200 Speaker 2: Not involved in the drama, but they're narrating it in 561 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 2: their interviews kind of like from their perspective and. 562 00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 1: Their trustworthy Like like I don't know Latia. 563 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 2: No, but we're made to feel like we can trust her. 564 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:55,720 Speaker 1: But the show. I watched the show, and I trust 565 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:59,120 Speaker 1: what Leatia is saying. Yes, right or wrong, I don't know, 566 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 1: but that's that. That's just how I feel when I 567 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 1: watch it. So and Letilla seems to really be fed 568 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 1: up with the Carolina show. 569 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, she basically says she's pissed. It's been the Carolina Show. 570 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 2: She says, the way she has chosen to further her 571 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:16,040 Speaker 2: relationship with Grant is at the expense of others, and 572 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 2: it feels really unfair, which is a strong statement to make. 573 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 2: And I would say, God, I want to know with 574 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 2: what is going on in this house off camera, Like 575 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 2: I just feel like it's kind of a shit show 576 00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 2: in there, and there's like way more that we're not seeing. 577 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 2: And I feel that more this season than I usually do. 578 00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 1: Well, maybe when they take a break from doing the Bacheorette, 579 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 1: they will realize they need to start filming more shit 580 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 1: that goes on in the house. 581 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:45,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like get me some, get me some some wall 582 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:49,600 Speaker 2: camera footage, Like, get me some behind the scenes. Like 583 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 2: I just feel like there we're seeing a lot. But 584 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,640 Speaker 2: these women are really fed up with Carolina and you 585 00:29:56,680 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 2: can tell, and they're being vocal about it amongst themselves 586 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 2: anti Grant. 587 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 1: To the point where now I'm starting to feel a 588 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 1: little bad for Carolina because I don't know what's really 589 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:09,040 Speaker 1: going on, because it's like, like she said, like I'm 590 00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 1: I'm allowed to feel the way I feel totally. 591 00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 2: But my advice to her would be pull someone that's 592 00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 2: been on a one on one date that's maybe able to, 593 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,600 Speaker 2: you know, share your feelings and relate to what you're 594 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 2: going through because they've also been in your shoes, you know, 595 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 2: like find the other girls that have had a lot 596 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 2: of time, so you're not venting to the girls who 597 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 2: are desiring what you have, or like go find a producer, 598 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 2: you know, go vent to a producer. I just think 599 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 2: she's not picking the right moments, and I think she's 600 00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,840 Speaker 2: a really emotional person and a very expressive person, and 601 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 2: it's unfortunately hindering her relationships in the house. She did 602 00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 2: have a really nice moment with Dina where Dina basically 603 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,480 Speaker 2: just said like kind of summed up what it seems 604 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 2: like Carolina's been feeling and really connected with her. But 605 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 2: then we see in the tea Dina and Carolina are 606 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 2: going at it so like Dina, who's extending a helping 607 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:08,200 Speaker 2: hand to Caroline in this episode, by next week seems 608 00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:09,720 Speaker 2: like she's fed up with her too. 609 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: Well, we'll see, we'll see, I don't know. And then 610 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:18,440 Speaker 1: so Parisa, who is very likable and Natalie, who comes 611 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 1: across like very sweet, like you feel bad when she 612 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,640 Speaker 1: goes home. They both go home, but it's like that 613 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 1: time on the show where you know the most of 614 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,960 Speaker 1: the people that are going home you have grown to like. 615 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 2: And yeah, and at the end of the day, I 616 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 2: feel bad for both of them, But I don't think 617 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,600 Speaker 2: as much as I was maybe a little surprised, I 618 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:42,360 Speaker 2: don't think I would have been predicting I would see 619 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:44,680 Speaker 2: either of those two in the final four based on 620 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 2: what we've seen from the show so far. So you know, 621 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 2: sad to see them go, but we're flying through the season. 622 00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 2: You know, there's only so much time. 623 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, that that is it with the recap. Thank 624 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 1: you guys so much for tuning in to Bets or 625 00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:00,760 Speaker 1: Happy Hour. We'll be back every week. Make sure you 626 00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 1: download and subscribe. 627 00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:04,120 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening. 628 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:08,360 Speaker 1: Bye m