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Speaker 3: We talk back where we encourage you to hustle, hard, laugh,

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Speaker 3: letter and always keep it cute. So grab your coffee,

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Speaker 3: cocktail and crown because it's about to go Down's talk.

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Speaker 1: Talk two unapologetically black women with an opinion to talk back.

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Speaker 3: What's up, y'all? Is your girl a j holiday? What's up? Big?

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Speaker 3: Tim Bam boom boom would say, your booty on the

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Speaker 3: ground big.

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Speaker 1: I love y'all, man, I love y'all so much. I

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Speaker 1: extra love y'all this week, y'all was in my das.

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Speaker 1: First of all, it was a lot of y'all talking

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Speaker 1: about I was looking on toes. I did not lick

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Speaker 1: that nigga toes. That is a lie, y'all. Stopped y'all

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Speaker 1: running out talking about your teeth. Your teeth too pretty

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Speaker 1: to be looking a nigga's feet. I never put that

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Speaker 1: nigga foot in my mouth. Let's let that go, okay.

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Speaker 3: I wish we had the video, man, Oh, it be

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Speaker 3: more funny so they could see your face when he

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Speaker 3: started saying that shit.

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Speaker 1: Y'all, we filmed all this shit, and then the filmographer

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Speaker 1: ran off with the.

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Speaker 3: Footage, not filmographer, videographer. Shame creaking work ran off, y'all.

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Speaker 1: It's just we try, okay, and we're gonna keep trying.

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Speaker 3: But and we're gonna keep trying with black people too.

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Speaker 3: We ain't giving up on yall.

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Speaker 1: Niggas not giving up on y'all. But I love y'all

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Speaker 1: so much. I do. How was your weekend? AJ, you

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Speaker 1: saw me?

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Speaker 3: I was outside a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I see you outside with some bad bitches girls.

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Speaker 3: I was outside with some girls. I reconnected with one

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Speaker 3: of my friends and she lived right down the street

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Speaker 3: from me. Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Damn.

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Speaker 3: One of my friends, Courtney, So I hung up with

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Speaker 3: her and some of her friends and we went outside

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Speaker 3: to the hood.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I love a good hood.

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Speaker 3: And it's hard being the cutest people in the fucking club.

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Speaker 1: I like it.

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Speaker 3: I don't. I prefer because I feel like every girl

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Speaker 3: want to fight.

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Speaker 1: And somebody want to fight.

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Speaker 3: The niggas just we be praying. They don't even come over,

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Speaker 3: but we do want y'all to stow by drinks.

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Speaker 1: Though I did not come over. Its crazy.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm over, but like come to buy drinks

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Speaker 3: like we paid. Like, first of all, it was pissed

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Speaker 3: because we paid thirty dollars a piece of get into

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Speaker 3: this shit R and B night in the hood. If

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Speaker 3: pay to get any place, get in any white establishments

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Speaker 3: you go in and.

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Speaker 1: As much for it is hard.

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Speaker 3: I mean mixed crowds.

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Speaker 1: No, mixed crowds can be fun, but if it's an

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Speaker 1: all white crowd, I'd be feeling in danger. No shade

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Speaker 1: to white people, but I'll be the same way y'all

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Speaker 3: I don't be comfortable nowhere, because when I'm in the hood,

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Speaker 3: I be like and that is really really ain't too much.

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Speaker 3: It's not that much of the hood, but enough, it's enough.

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Speaker 1: I don't go nowhere, that's to to hood now. I'll

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Speaker 3: But this is like old wayans, like the old street niggas.

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Speaker 1: This place, Oh they're not. You can still get popping.

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Speaker 1: Why you can't be an old y n It means

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Speaker 3: An old young nigga. We know there's to be some

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Speaker 3: grown ass boys out here. Okay, Look, I told look,

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Speaker 3: I told list nigga. I'm about to start calling him.

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Speaker 3: Whyian Limb, because you be around here thinking you a

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Speaker 3: little boy, a young guy, old last niggas, Hyan Limb.

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Speaker 3: What's up? Whyian Limb, don't do that.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a fun child. We have funny. And

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Speaker 3: I went over to one of my uh, one of

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Speaker 1: I think it's mercury.

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Speaker 3: Uh, girl, shut up, it's mercury retrograde. And it did

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Speaker 3: start on the fifteenth.

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Speaker 1: Girl, I tell you, every nigga avenue in my life

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Speaker 1: slid this weekend, Like was trying to cause.

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Speaker 3: You put that ass on the ground. You already know,

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Speaker 3: but even before reminder, okay, oh but.

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Speaker 1: All right, So they really started rolling in when our

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Speaker 1: posted that picture, but prior to that, they was already

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Speaker 1: like in the DMS, in the text like just it

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Speaker 1: was weird because you know, niggas circle back. We already

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Speaker 1: know that's gonna happen, but I having them all. It's

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Speaker 1: who who this bitch gonna text back first? That's what. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: I went outside on Saturday night shout out the Stats

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Speaker 1: in Charlotte, North Carolina. I went there and they had

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Speaker 1: their patio open. I've never been to Stats since it

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Speaker 3: Went to they got a pati on Now I hear that.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, they they are. If you ever been to

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Speaker 1: like camp in Houston, their patio is given that kind

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Speaker 1: sat out there and you know, had a little cocktails,

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Speaker 1: a little hookah, a little you know, that's that's not cocaine. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that might have sounded like cocaine.

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Speaker 3: That's cocaine. When we say, whoo, that's cocaine. Cokine speaking

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Speaker 3: a fucking cocaine. Hold on. So we get to the bar,

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Speaker 3: my homeboys spot, and a nigga who was buying us

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Speaker 3: So you take his glass dot. He was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, damn really be outside rolling? Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: never knew you will be so yes, I know, right,

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Speaker 3: but I'm always those shocked at people who do cocaine.

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Speaker 1: Right, you too?

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Speaker 3: Okay, the hell is happening?

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Speaker 1: Yes, speaking of that, I used to like want to

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Speaker 1: try you know, really, I listen, I want to try everything.

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Speaker 1: That's my problem. That's been my problem in life. I

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Speaker 1: will to try everything. Once i'd be like, I just

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Speaker 1: So no cocaine for me and then be dropping dead

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Speaker 1: all the time, like you literally dropping dead. So I

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Speaker 3: It's not clean coke anymore. You don't know what you're getting.

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Speaker 3: You don't know what you getting with the weed, the pills,

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Speaker 3: the coke, like fittanol is mixed and every damn thing.

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Speaker 1: So have you ever put on something and you're like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it's giving and then you go

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Speaker 1: what happened. I'm about to order that little outfit and

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Speaker 3: So you was feeling yourself this weekend?

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Speaker 1: Yes, I was Saturday night.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't too because I don't be going outside for real.

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Speaker 3: So I haven't been like in a environment with music

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Speaker 1: Wow me neither because my foot was broken and I

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Speaker 3: Eat or I want to go I want to go

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Speaker 1: So I know everybody's been asking this. In the DMS too.

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Speaker 1: so hopefully date we live that. Oh well, I guess

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Speaker 1: it's not that far Georgia to New York, not across

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Speaker 3: Coast, all right, so good luck to that. Okay, don't

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Speaker 3: pop the balloon on a nigga.

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Speaker 1: I will pop a balloon quick. I love In that episode,

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Speaker 1: I see the text message of a red balloon and

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Speaker 1: a safety depending to a nigga real quick and then

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Speaker 1: be done.

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Speaker 3: Oh, hold on before we get into stupid in that news.

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Speaker 3: So you are saying that you've never sucked toes before.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm never suck all of y'all right, never put

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Speaker 1: nobody foot in my mouth me neither.

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Speaker 3: I be like looking at nigga sideways when they put

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Speaker 3: my feet in their mouth, like I expect the nigga

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Speaker 3: to lick my toes while my legs in the air.

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Speaker 3: But I'm also looking like nigga, I was just tiptoe

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Speaker 3: across your floor like winned to Pooh, Like what are

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Speaker 3: you doing? My position?

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Speaker 1: What I have had to been in to be putting

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Speaker 1: where am i am? I?

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Speaker 3: Right. I don't know how many men that once you

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Speaker 1: But y'all, I think I'm like a bad bitch. Don't

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Speaker 3: If y'all looking for what's wrong with tay.

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Speaker 3: Picking up rocks and throwing them. I just got a

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Speaker 1: Allegen you be musty sometime.

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Speaker 3: But one of the girls, who was what us not,

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Speaker 3: I'm just meeting these lovely young ladies, she was like,

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Speaker 1: So right now I'm using the Donna Karenna so good.

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Speaker 3: It's supposed to just try to cut the smell something right,

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Speaker 1: That's the purpose of your armpit sweatness to release those toxins.

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Speaker 3: I really don't sweat that much. It's like, but the

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Speaker 3: It's bacteria. So we don't get into it. Because this, y'all,

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Speaker 3: which which basically like you know, what you eat, what

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Speaker 1: Okay, hello, on before we leave, God, damn, well, you

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Speaker 1: you know, very earthy nigga. And he don't wear no deodorant.

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Speaker 1: Baby. When I tell you that, man came to my

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Speaker 3: Black women have a lot of trauma. Black men have

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Speaker 3: Like do I want somebody who looks like me?

433
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:30,399
Speaker 1: Yeah?

434
00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 3: So I feel like a lot of these niggas y'all

435
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,600
Speaker 3: go have the babies. Also because y'all, y'all are insecure

436
00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 3: about y'all about how y'all look, so you want to

437
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 3: make sure you don't replicate yourself. So this shit just

438
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:43,440
Speaker 3: get real, real deep. This weekend, sitting in this spot,

439
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,399
Speaker 3: a little thirty six year old nigga came over to

440
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 3: chat M. He's asking me if I'm submissive? Do I

441
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:54,200
Speaker 3: let my man lead all these things? I'm like, listen,

442
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 3: I need you to get off of YouTube. Okay, you

443
00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 3: want some red pill shit? I said, are you a

444
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 3: Samuel because you're coming over here like, what a dude

445
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 3: with Samuel the guy who passed away. Yeah, you coming

446
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,639
Speaker 3: over here and talking to me asking me all these

447
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:17,919
Speaker 3: podcasts fucking questions. I am a real woman, right, and

448
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 3: I cook, I clean, I pack bags, I do all

449
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 3: those things, right, But I have to feel loved to

450
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,879
Speaker 3: do those things. If I'm not feeling loved, you're gonna

451
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:31,439
Speaker 3: you might get a little bitch. You might, right, And

452
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,920
Speaker 3: I think men respond better from bitches, like you get

453
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:39,159
Speaker 3: better treats when you treating a man bad. Sometimes I

454
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 3: swear to god, they do not like nice women. They

455
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 3: run over nice women, and then you go cuttle up

456
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 3: under the bitch.

457
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:47,960
Speaker 2: Mm.

458
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 3: So you gotta have like you cannot let these niggas

459
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 3: get away with anything.

460
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 1: You can't. Literally, I had a conversation with I was like,

461
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 1: he was like, don't talk to me like that, and

462
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,160
Speaker 1: I was like, look, when I was saying it nice,

463
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 1: last week, you did some bullshit and then ended up

464
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 1: having to apologize. Now when I called you a motherfucker, No,

465
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: you did it five minutes later. You know you did.

466
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,919
Speaker 1: You did what I was asking in five minutes. But

467
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: last week I was doing the same thing and being

468
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: calm and pleasant and peaceful and you never did this ship,

469
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 1: you know. And then you said, I apologized this week,

470
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 1: same fucking scenario, but I call you a motherfucker and

471
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:28,679
Speaker 1: you did it in five.

472
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 3: Men learn from hurt, they learned from pain, They learned

473
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 3: they really got to bump their heads before they actually

474
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 3: do the thing. So it only to come nag.

475
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 1: My mama having the same conversation with me, the same

476
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:47,880
Speaker 1: conversation several times when I said, get your motherfucking asked

477
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 1: up and wash the dishes. You went and do it.

478
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have to talk to you like that to

479
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:54,879
Speaker 1: get you to do things. And it was like, I

480
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 1: can remember my mama having that conversation with me as

481
00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 1: a child, and I'm having the same.

482
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 3: As a child. So these are grown men we're dealing

483
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 3: with who have the same characteristics as children. It can

484
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 3: get pretty frustrating. They call it nagging. I call it

485
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 3: why the fuck you ain't do what I ask you

486
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 3: to do the first time? Because if you ask me

487
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 3: to do something as an adult the first time, one time,

488
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 3: that's all it takes. I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna

489
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 3: bide by whatever it is that my mate wants. But

490
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 3: you gotta ask them a thousand times about some shit.

491
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 1: Or at least communicate as to why I'm not doing

492
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,160
Speaker 1: it in this moment, you know, right, one of the two.

493
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 3: It's emotional intelligence. It's just lacking, you know, amongst the

494
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 3: black community. And it's just easier to go and date

495
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 3: somebody who's not familiar with your bullshit, So go ahead

496
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,879
Speaker 3: and do it. And furthermore, the comments was eating his

497
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,919
Speaker 3: ass up somebody who must be dated him, which I

498
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:54,920
Speaker 3: also personally know somebody who dated this Jamal Wollard, okay,

499
00:25:55,240 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 3: and her comments he better worry about his fucking beetes

500
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:05,479
Speaker 3: and taking that insulin because that dick ain't dickon. And

501
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 3: then another girl in the comments was saying she went

502
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 3: out with him and she had to wind the windows

503
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 3: down because his breath was so funky. Damn, you might

504
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 3: want to go get a bit from a third world

505
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 3: country to deal with all that stupid shit. Next on

506
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:23,639
Speaker 3: a docket, Lord, have mercy, God, damn, what do you

507
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 3: call him? Passport boy, passport passport bro? Go on bunch

508
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 3: of business.

509
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:32,640
Speaker 1: So do you want to go with the because we're

510
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:36,680
Speaker 1: thirty minutes saying already, m hm, let's talk about Caleb

511
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 1: Wilson in the Hazing death. Let's carry on with these

512
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:48,640
Speaker 1: fool figgured niggas. God the Umar blame baby. We're being

513
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,119
Speaker 1: real shady today. I'm sorry.

514
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 3: I love it.

515
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,439
Speaker 1: Doctor Umar said he wasn't about to choose who to

516
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 1: spend the rest of his life with just because of

517
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 1: a pregnancy, and then call his baby mama's arrogant for

518
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:02,160
Speaker 1: expecting marriage. They're having his child, so it goes on

519
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 1: to say, It goes on to say, so, let's get

520
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: this straight. You didn't know them well enough to marry them,

521
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 1: but you knew them well enough to get them pregnant.

522
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,719
Speaker 1: Make it make sense? And you know, I hear this

523
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: a lot. I hear like, guys, be ready to I

524
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,199
Speaker 1: put a baby in you right now, But will you

525
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 1: marry me right now?

526
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 3: Right?

527
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: No, that's just that's that's too much. That's a commitment.

528
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 1: A kid is not a commitment, I.

529
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 3: Feel like a good commitment.

530
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:30,679
Speaker 1: It's a huger commitment. That's a lifetime commitment, whether we

531
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: like each other or not. It seems like you would

532
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:36,360
Speaker 1: want to marry me before the kids. But no, niggas

533
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 1: feel like a kid is much less of a commitment

534
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:40,119
Speaker 1: than marrying you.

535
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it says that he no, I watched the video.

536
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:47,200
Speaker 3: I saw this video. He actually said if they were

537
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 3: a little bit more patient, he probably would have married

538
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:51,719
Speaker 3: either one of them, you know, because they had it.

539
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 3: They did have a child for him, And it's very

540
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 3: telling when a man only has girls also, Okay, you know,

541
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 3: he's probably a womanizer. So he's saying, and they weren't

542
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 3: patient enough, and I guess probably given him ultimatums and

543
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 3: things like that, like you literally disturb these women's piece

544
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,679
Speaker 3: by giving them a child that they have to be

545
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 3: the primary caregiver for while you on the internet for

546
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 3: how many years now talking bullshit? The more doctor Moore,

547
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 3: Umar be having some good points. But then sometimes that

548
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 3: nigga shows up, right, the other nigga. I don't know

549
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 3: what his other name is. I know Umar probably ain't

550
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:31,919
Speaker 3: his first name. Okay, it just shows up and I

551
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 3: just have the Nike check lip looking at him like

552
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 3: just eugh, okay, because why and you know, women we

553
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 3: gotta take responsibility and at this you know point too,

554
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 3: like we know what should be hitten for before we

555
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 3: get pregnant oftentimes and we think that I don't even

556
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 3: want to say this that it's a conscious thought that

557
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 3: we think this person is going to stay. But in

558
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 3: the moments these men are telling you they love you,

559
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 3: they are saying they want a child with you, and

560
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 3: the baby comes and they just flip a switch. It's

561
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 3: like you're unattractive now that you haven't had a baby. Yeah,

562
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 3: and I just gotta wait, I got a child to

563
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 3: think about. Like, and you know, that's that's really when

564
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 3: women just walk away because now you are not the

565
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 3: most important thing to me, right I don't. I don't

566
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 3: really have to. I don't consider you that much anymore

567
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 3: because something else now is trumping me, fighting for a

568
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 3: relationship of you know, pushing for marriage from you.

569
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 1: And a child like will either bring y'all closer together

570
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 1: or switch y'all up now, it'd be hard. I had

571
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: someone say that to me that him and his girl

572
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 1: they they got three kids now, and he was like, man,

573
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 1: them kids really like change shit. Like she lost herself.

574
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 1: I lost myself and we lost each other in the

575
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: midst of trying to raise these kids. And it's difficult.

576
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 3: That's why you have to really be in love with

577
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 3: the person you have in a family with. You know,

578
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 3: I didn't hear him take any accountability for creating these

579
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 3: broken homes. Yet you're always talking about the black family

580
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 3: structure and what we need to do better in the future,

581
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 3: and you created two broken families. Yeah, yeah, shut the

582
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 3: fuck up for ever, doctor Umar. I'm so sick of

583
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 3: these niggas well.

584
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 1: Maybe so I try to give grace, like maybe he's

585
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: speaking from a place of brown kids knowing after the fact,

586
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 1: you know how, like sometimes you got to go through

587
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 1: it the you know no better. Yeah, that's that's what

588
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 1: I have to, you know, attribute it to, Like.

589
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 3: We don't be pointing your finger at people who kind

590
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 3: of doing the same thing when you did the same thing. Finally,

591
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 3: find a more graceful way than also to talk to

592
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 3: your male counterparts. Yeah, okay, because you really be talking

593
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 3: real greasy whole time. I didn't even know he had children.

594
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: Like how we try to do on the show. We

595
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 1: don't be trying to run nobody down. Be better than

596
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 1: what I was. You know, the hell who knew.

597
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 3: He even had kids until his daughter went live the

598
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 3: other day?

599
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 1: Right?

600
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, slim dog. Anyway, y'all, we got to get into

601
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 3: today's episode. Y'all listen. I am on a super duper

602
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 3: holistic kick. Okay, it kind of started at the beginning

603
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 3: of the year. So now I've recently added my calonics

604
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 3: back to my regimen. And I used to get colonics

605
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 3: all the time years ago, but they were much less

606
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 3: expensive in the Midwest. Down South is like only a

607
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 3: few people that do them, so they just the prices.

608
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 3: The prices are just outrageous. But I want to talk

609
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 3: about shit. The ship we keep, the ship we need

610
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 3: to let go and they come back when we come

611
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 3: back after this commercial.

612
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 1: All right, we got paid for this ship. We'll be

613
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: right back. First of all, before we get into this ship,

614
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 1: I want you to know how close aj thinks that

615
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: we are, clearly because she sent me three shitty videos

616
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: over the weekend and look at her, dookie, y'all. That's

617
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 1: how close we are. Apparently I was, And here I

618
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 1: am like, ooh, that was a lot. Oh wow, maybe

619
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 1: I should do that too. Oh we should talk about this.

620
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 1: That was the purpose of doing that. I sent that

621
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 1: shit to a lot of people. I sent that shit

622
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 1: to a lot of people. You are very comfortable. I

623
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: would not send my dukie all over the place like that. Yeah,

624
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 1: I have.

625
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 3: Okay, So when I went to Puerto Rico one Yeah,

626
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 3: my homegirl, Shelley birthday.

627
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 1: Hey Shelley.

628
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 3: We went to Puerto Rico for her birthday one year,

629
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 3: and the whole time it might have been there for

630
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 3: like four days. I never used the bathroom until the

631
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 3: night before we were flying out and I let out

632
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 3: the biggest piece of shit I had ever seen.

633
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 1: You talk about this. You sent me that too, So every.

634
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 3: Year on her birthday, I sent her that picture of

635
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 3: her lost two thousand. This is two thousand and I

636
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 3: hate you. Eleven girl, gonna send me her dookie every day.

637
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:14,880
Speaker 1: My birthday is.

638
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 3: Crazy because when I took when I when I did,

639
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, Shelley, you want to see this donkey is

640
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 3: so big? She was like yeah, she read in the

641
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 3: bathroom to see it. It was like wrapped in there

642
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 3: like a snake. I felt so relieved, though.

643
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 1: No I saw in the Salon Loss. When I was

644
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 1: in Salon Loss, there's barbershops and there's men salons in there,

645
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: and this man came out of the bathroom before me,

646
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 1: and I guess he didn't flush. It was the biggest

647
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 1: turn I've ever seen in my life. In there, I

648
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: didn't even know dookie could be that big, and it

649
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: was the width. It was so wide around. I was like,

650
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 1: oh my god.

651
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 3: Somebody.

652
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: Like I had just I haven't spent time around a

653
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 1: lot of men. I haven't lived with a lot of

654
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: men in my life. And my dad and my mom

655
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: had a separate I never was in their bathroom, so

656
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: if he left a turn, I never got to see it.

657
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 1: I did not know a dukie could be that big.

658
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:23,439
Speaker 3: I can't say I've ever seen a man some man

659
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:24,320
Speaker 3: poop either.

660
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 1: Like, bruh, that log.

661
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 3: Good God, there was a whole size of this large intestine.

662
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: Probably it was like the size of my forearm. Y'all, like,

663
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: that's how wide that log was around?

664
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 3: Interesting, Good God, almighty, that thing open?

665
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:42,760
Speaker 1: He loose.

666
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 3: I don't know what it is, but it's loose.

667
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 1: It was. It was a solid log.

668
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 3: Though.

669
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 1: I was like, I didn't know this could happen, all right,

670
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:51,359
Speaker 1: but get into your ship.

671
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I want to talk about colonics and just

672
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 3: like the whole listic.

673
00:34:58,160 --> 00:34:58,760
Speaker 1: Having lunch.

674
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 3: I'm sorry if y'all are, but I do suggest you

675
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 3: could you know, because I don't even eat like the

676
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 3: hard harsh meats, right, I mean, seafood is people may

677
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 3: consider seafood to be no different than eating steak, but

678
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 3: I do right, it's easier to digest, so imagine that

679
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 3: I'm not even eating all this crazy ass meat for real.

680
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:24,919
Speaker 3: I do eat seafood occasionally, well a couple times a week.

681
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:29,360
Speaker 3: But I had actual parasites come out. So I started

682
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 3: on Wednesday, Yes, on the window, in the window so

683
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 3: I so I actually ordered h detox, not a detox,

684
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 3: but a I guess essentially a de warmer right parasite

685
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:47,879
Speaker 3: cleanser from Jamaica. And I had been putting off taking

686
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 3: it on taking it, had been putting off taking it,

687
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 3: so I finally took it on Tuesday. I scheduled the

688
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 3: calonics for Wednesday, so before I would like separate the days,

689
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 3: like I'll go like go once a week or something

690
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,359
Speaker 3: like that, but if you get a klonic, do that

691
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 3: ship three consecutive days minimum. The first day was just

692
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:10,840
Speaker 3: like loosening some ship up, right, And I had to

693
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 3: use the bathroom immediately after, and you could tell it

694
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 3: was some old ship coming out. Okay, I just everybody

695
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 3: full of shit, that is the point, right, So everybody

696
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 3: is full of shit. So then day two was like,

697
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 3: oh shit, like it's really moving. That's the videos you've

698
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 3: seen like going down.

699
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 1: All of that coming out of you. Yes, yes, it

700
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:43,720
Speaker 1: was day three.

701
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 3: It was more that so I guess the first day

702
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 3: like loosen things up, day two was come day three, child,

703
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 3: the parasites yeast was coming through the window.

704
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

705
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,320
Speaker 3: So you know those sugar cranv things you be having

706
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 3: craving for bread, the gluten, the carbs. That's these little

707
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 3: motherfuckers in your gut telling you to eat these things.

708
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 3: And you know those tapeworms can even get to your brain.

709
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 1: Well, you're brighter up under your eyes too.

710
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 3: I don't know if they my skin, Yes, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday,

711
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 3: My skin looks better today. I looked in the mirror yesterday.

712
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 3: I'm like, Dad, my skin look clear as hell, like

713
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 3: in a real way, just that quick.

714
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 1: I can see it.

715
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 3: And I know I got some more ship to let go.

716
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 3: And I'm saying ship, but I'm talking about other things too.

717
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,400
Speaker 1: Your eyes looked brighter, and I just thought maybe you

718
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 1: took a clem shot to the face over the weekend,

719
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: But look at you. It was you got rid of

720
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: all that shit. Amen, go ahead, I'm sorry.

721
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 3: Not a bit you like toes face come in the face, y'all.

722
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 3: I didn't you told said something.

723
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 1: I never put that motherfucker foot in my I did

724
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 1: not do that.

725
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 3: Shame, So I wanted to like, Okay, so women in particular,

726
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 3: like we hold a lot of I hate, I want,

727
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 3: I really want to just discard the term trauma. And

728
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 3: I know I've said it three times on this episode,

729
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,800
Speaker 3: but we hold a lot of you know, ill energy

730
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 3: in our gut. Right, So when you look at like

731
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 3: your chakras and stuff like that, that's your solar plex,

732
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 3: like the space in between like your breastplate and your abdomen, like,

733
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 3: so we're holding all of that. We're just holding on

734
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 3: to things since forever, right, bad energy, bad relationships, job stress,

735
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 3: all the things. We're literally holding on to it in

736
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:54,360
Speaker 3: our in our guts. So doing like a spiritual cleanse

737
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:58,439
Speaker 3: along with a like a real detox and adding this

738
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 3: to it, you'll probably have a lot more mental clarity

739
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 3: to actually deal with with life at that point. But

740
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 3: I don't think people a lot of times they really

741
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 3: don't connect the too. So some practitioners believe that colon

742
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 3: cleansing can help to release stagnant energy and toxins, which

743
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:22,920
Speaker 3: may contribute to imbalances in your Mani par Manipara chakra

744
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 3: is what it's called the solar plex and there is

745
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:30,400
Speaker 3: scientific evidence also. Now you know, doctors they want you

746
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 3: to be alive and sick, so your your primary healthcare

747
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 3: doctor probably won't be the person to suggest to you

748
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 3: to go get a colonic. That's why we're here, okay,

749
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,439
Speaker 3: because they want you to keep coming just to get

750
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 3: medication when a lot of times even with mental health issues,

751
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 3: Like one of my friends, she's starting her own her

752
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 3: own clinic and she wants to do like more holistic

753
00:39:55,680 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 3: approach to mental health. She's a psychologist and and I'm

754
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 3: trying to link her now with the lady who did

755
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 3: my colonics, Chucktown Colonics, Holly at Chucktown Colonics. She's a

756
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:08,840
Speaker 3: fun time. I actually was trying to get her to

757
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 3: come on the show, but she's afraid to talk for

758
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 3: whatever reason. Girl. Yeah, so we could have had, like,

759
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 3: you know, the actual professional, but I'm linking them to

760
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 3: so they can do some referrals, because really mental health

761
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 3: starts in the gut too, everything all diseases. You know,

762
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 3: a lot of people haven't had a breast cancer diagnosis.

763
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 3: Now lupus. When I first started colonics in Saint Louis, Missouri,

764
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 3: the hydrotherapist she showed me pictures of how she was

765
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 3: wheelchair bound, like on her you know, last leg, literally

766
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 3: on no leg, you know. And she started studying veganism

767
00:40:55,880 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 3: and she started getting the colonics done on herself. So

768
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 3: now she has a has a clinic. But the colonics

769
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 3: actually saved her life, just cleaning her gut. Because we

770
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:11,799
Speaker 3: have years and years, you literally can have some shit

771
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 3: in there from five years old.

772
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:16,720
Speaker 1: I haven't. I had one before. I did a kolonic

773
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: when I was living in Atlanta. That was the last

774
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 1: time I did that, and that was twenty ten. So

775
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: I know I got some shit I need to let go.

776
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:29,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, and even when I used to get it, still

777
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 3: it depends on who's doing it. I did not have

778
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 3: these results, you know. I've always still felt sluggish this

779
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 3: time and day. Right now, I would be one to

780
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 3: lay down or taking an energy drink to stay up

781
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 3: in the afternoons. Right after a meal, you should not

782
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:50,720
Speaker 3: be sleepy. If you eat anything and start feeling sleepy

783
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 3: immediately after, you probably should never eat that thing again.

784
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 3: I love Chick fil a French fries and one day

785
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:58,760
Speaker 3: I ate that shit and it almost fell asleep driving home.

786
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 1: Damn, So I stopped eating.

787
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 3: Them because why the hell do I feel this sleepy?

788
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 3: This is the only thing I've ate today? Why do

789
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 3: I feel sleepy heading home?

790
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:12,359
Speaker 1: I like I like being I like going to sleep.

791
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 1: I can't say that.

792
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:16,480
Speaker 3: I would make some T shirts that say, bitch, I

793
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,839
Speaker 3: love it lay down. I do love to lay down.

794
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: You gotta get up at nap. I enjoy a good

795
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:26,400
Speaker 1: like nothing makes me happier. So with food, does that

796
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 1: to me?

797
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:31,360
Speaker 3: I'd be like, yes, shut down, that's not good. Like,

798
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 3: you know, food's supposed to give you energy, not take it.

799
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 3: So if you eating a lot of foods, that's just

800
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 3: just taking energy. You probably shouldn't get wrong.

801
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 1: I heard that Girl Scout cookies got like, yeah, some

802
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:47,359
Speaker 1: really toxic bad shit in it. Yeah.

803
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 3: BJ bought two boxes in here and I did not

804
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 3: open them. I said, hey, I said, those cookies don't

805
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 3: This is before those articles came out. I said those

806
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,359
Speaker 3: cookies ain't taste good. In years, like, I never buy

807
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 3: Girl Scout Cookies cookies in years like a long time.

808
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: I'll run a Girl Scout down, Like where is these

809
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 1: bitches that could really be outside.

810
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 3: The cookies haven't been good at least since I was

811
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:09,840
Speaker 3: a kid out of your life.

812
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 1: Box.

813
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, so they got hard metals, all these crazy ass

814
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 3: toxins in them.

815
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 1: I then hate to see me come.

816
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 3: So let's get into what a colonic is. So it's

817
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:28,320
Speaker 3: a colonic or a colon. Hydro Therapy is a procedure

818
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 3: where warm, filtered water is gently gently flushed into the

819
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:35,839
Speaker 3: colon to remove build up, waste and toxins. Is done

820
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 3: by a trained professional used using a closed system. So

821
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 3: she has, lady I have. She has like a reverse

822
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 3: osmosis machine. So this is gonna get you the best

823
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 3: alkaline water possible. Right, So the waists was removed through

824
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 3: a tube, ensuring a clean, odor free process. Some people

825
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 3: compare it to an internal shower for your digestive track,

826
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 3: and it is this it is safe to do multiple

827
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 3: days consecutively. Also on the digestive system and waste build up.

828
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:13,879
Speaker 3: Like the colon, you're large intestine is responsible for observing

829
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:18,760
Speaker 3: water and ectra electrolytes while forming stools, so over time,

830
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 3: undigested food, toxins and mucus can build up, especially with

831
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 3: the poor diet and high processed foods now we in America.

832
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:30,959
Speaker 3: I don't know for whatever reason people have been hating

833
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 3: on RFK, but he, you know, he's in charge of

834
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 3: the health now, and he wants to take all the

835
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 3: bullshit out of foods. I remember, like a couple of

836
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 3: years ago, Burger King put an article out saying that

837
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 3: they were removing like one hundred and forty ingredients ingredients

838
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:48,320
Speaker 3: from their burgers. From their food. It's supposed to be beef.

839
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 1: What else?

840
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 3: What else should be added to that? Like why do

841
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 3: French fries from Chick fil a or McDonald's have all

842
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 3: these other chemicals other than potato?

843
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 1: Right in Greece, that's really all you need is yes,

844
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 1: potato and grease. But they got all these preservatives in

845
00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 1: it to make their product last longer so they can

846
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:10,240
Speaker 1: sell it for longer.

847
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 3: You know, is it really to last longer or is

848
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 3: it really to make us sick? Because really, the companies,

849
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 3: the restaurants aren't cahoots with the pharmaceutical companies. So the

850
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 3: more we eat the bullshit, the more we got to

851
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,839
Speaker 3: go to the doctor for diabetes and insulin and all

852
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,320
Speaker 3: the things and stay on medication so that the whole

853
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:29,320
Speaker 3: system needs to be dismantled as far as I'm concerned,

854
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 3: I agree, you know, because even the word organic isn't

855
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 3: what we think it is. Like you can have like

856
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:39,439
Speaker 3: a let's say you got a whole at us about

857
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 3: everything everything. I know that a lot of that ship

858
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 3: that say human hair.

859
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 1: I need you to.

860
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 3: Know it's not because bitch, I'm battling a closure right

861
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:55,919
Speaker 3: now on my other wig, Like why is this hair

862
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 3: so ratty on this closure? And the rest of the

863
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 3: hair is fine, Like the bundle is fine, but that

864
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 3: closure is definitely polyester blend.

865
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 1: It's polastic.

866
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 3: Because after a while that you gotta just throw that

867
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 3: shit in the trash because it started getting nappy at

868
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 3: the at the grid, at the root, at the root.

869
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 3: So so how does detoxing work. The body naturally detoxifies

870
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 3: through the liver, kidneys, colon, but lifestyle factors such as diet, stress, medications,

871
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 3: and environmental toxins can slow down these processes. Colonics and

872
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:37,359
Speaker 3: detoxing support the body's elimination process by helping clear out

873
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 3: old waste, bacteria, and toxins, and this can lead to

874
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 3: better digestion, improved energy levels, and it just to reset

875
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 3: your gut micae micro what's the word I'm trying to say,

876
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 3: you know it.

877
00:46:55,480 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck you're talking about, Jackson, hold.

878
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 3: On, let me get the scientific See, this is why

879
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 3: we needed a professional one. You got to do it

880
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:10,959
Speaker 3: yourself sometimes, hold on, reset the ship in your gut,

881
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 3: all right, so you know better, better digestion, improved energy

882
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 3: levels and just like to reset all the good bacteria

883
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 3: in your gut again. People don't associate like the do

884
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 3: people even think about the ship when when they're sick. No.

885
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,319
Speaker 3: I remember as a child, my mama like if I'm sick,

886
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:40,840
Speaker 3: the first thing she would ask me is when the

887
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:44,319
Speaker 3: last time had a bio movement? So I think innately, right,

888
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 3: we know it, But it may not just be conscious

889
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:49,240
Speaker 3: like I always.

890
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't specifically think about my First of all,

891
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: I'm extra regular, I go at least. But just just

892
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 1: because you go, that doesn't mean you're write down that

893
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 1: stuff that's just lodged in my colon and as tests

894
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 1: is not coming out. But what I'm thinking about is

895
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 1: when I get sick, I just want to fill up

896
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 1: with fluid. Flush, flush, flush, flush, That's what I think

897
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: about it. I don't think about like necessarily my poop.

898
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 1: But do I guess war to help you do that too, though, right?

899
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, warm water, like when I first wake up in

900
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 3: the morning, either I'm doing a tea or I'm just

901
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:25,800
Speaker 3: doing a cup of hot water, like just six ounces

902
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:28,720
Speaker 3: and six eight ounces of water, you know, because people

903
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 3: wake up and.

904
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:31,680
Speaker 1: I would say warm lemon water is the best way

905
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 1: to start your day or.

906
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,319
Speaker 3: Key lime. So now we wake up and America has

907
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 3: trained us that you have to have three meals a day.

908
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:43,919
Speaker 3: So you waking up doing breakfast. But it's break you're fast, right,

909
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:47,439
Speaker 3: so you've been sleep for eight hours hopefully you guys

910
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:49,920
Speaker 3: get I don't know five to eight hours of sleep.

911
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:53,319
Speaker 3: I try to stop beating at eight o'clock, and I

912
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 3: might not have my first I might not have my

913
00:48:56,120 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 3: first meal and so and this is just natural. I

914
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 3: don't beat intermittent fast at all. It's just naturally. I

915
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 3: don't want to eat breakfast, like I feel sluggish after

916
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 3: I eat something in the morning. So just a couple

917
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 3: of waters all you need.

918
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: Really, first thing I do when I wake up is

919
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 1: think about what I'm about to eat. I just but

920
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:20,120
Speaker 1: I don't think it's because I'm hungry. I just think

921
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:24,359
Speaker 1: it's you're bored. Yeah, it's a mental thing. I just

922
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 1: associate life with food, you know.

923
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:31,840
Speaker 3: So yo're about food. I'm tired of thinking about it.

924
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 1: Was just talking to my mama. I was like, she

925
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:35,319
Speaker 1: was like, I just don't know what to eat. I

926
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:36,920
Speaker 1: don't know what to cook. I don't want no more

927
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 1: it is, I don't want to know. I was like, God,

928
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:39,839
Speaker 1: need to come out with a new meat.

929
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:43,799
Speaker 3: You got some human out there.

930
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 1: Human y'all already think I sucked toes. I ain't eat

931
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:54,959
Speaker 1: no people. I ain't never liked the nigga that much.

932
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:58,279
Speaker 3: Shame. So some of the common myths and facts about

933
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 3: klonis people think that you're gonna flush out all the

934
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:06,400
Speaker 3: good bacteria. You know, it's not like dushing. You know,

935
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:07,879
Speaker 3: when you douche.

936
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 1: Your dish, no more, dish don't exist no more.

937
00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 3: Do it dush for your vagina?

938
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes they still sell that.

939
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 3: Yes, yes you still do that. No, but they definitely

940
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:23,760
Speaker 3: still sell dush.

941
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 1: Boy. I remember, like I remember, my mama used to

942
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:29,839
Speaker 1: have that little bottle of little holes on the top,

943
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:33,799
Speaker 1: and she she would leave it in the tub sometimes

944
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,840
Speaker 1: and I remember filling it up with water and squirting

945
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 1: it in my face.

946
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:40,560
Speaker 3: She's like, no, give me that.

947
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:43,399
Speaker 1: Maybe it's not a toy.

948
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 3: Now you've been stupid your whole life. Your ay, it's crazy, man,

949
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:53,720
Speaker 3: What the fuck? I might doush? I might dush maybe

950
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 3: one to three times a year, and you know it's

951
00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 3: usually after cycle, you know what I'm saying. So dushing

952
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 3: isn't a bad thing. But if you have to always

953
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,240
Speaker 3: dush your vagina, you might need to go to the doctor.

954
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 3: Because there's a reason why you score and stuff up

955
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:09,759
Speaker 3: ya kuchi, and you need to figure out why you

956
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 3: think you need to be doing that so frequently.

957
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: Vajina is such a very sensitive.

958
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 3: Mine is very sensitive. That's why I can't do nothing

959
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 3: with it. Yeah, yeah, it's like you know, and then

960
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:24,400
Speaker 3: you know, young girls, young girls, young girls, and listening

961
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 3: to the show, you know, it does take some time

962
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 3: to learn how to care for the vagina. It does,

963
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,279
Speaker 3: and adding all them extra shit to it's just gonna

964
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 3: mess it up even more. It is a self cleaning organism. Okay,

965
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 3: so if it's not cleaning properly, make an appointment to

966
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 3: go to the doctor. My chrobium, if you hear that.

967
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 3: It just finally told me how to say the word

968
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:44,440
Speaker 3: my chrobium.

969
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,759
Speaker 1: If you're listening to your koochie a little twinkie right now,

970
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,400
Speaker 1: it's okay, baby, we all been there. Just go to

971
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:54,799
Speaker 1: the doctor figure out why doing that, or if you

972
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 1: already know, do the things still get it together?

973
00:51:57,480 --> 00:51:59,520
Speaker 3: And usually the things that get it together is stop

974
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,560
Speaker 3: fucking on that man, okay, because he's mixing your bacteria

975
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:05,399
Speaker 3: and somebody else shit and just going back and forth

976
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:08,240
Speaker 3: in between y'all so a lot of times, or changing

977
00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:11,919
Speaker 3: your soap, I personally ow you really do you in? Yes,

978
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 3: I only use Dove white soap, and then I don't

979
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,440
Speaker 3: like put soap in my vagina, right you know what

980
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:20,960
Speaker 3: I'm saying. So you can clean the labia and stuff

981
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 3: like that, but you don't want to get it inside

982
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 3: though it's hard.

983
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,839
Speaker 1: To not though I'd be feeling I'll be struggling not

984
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 1: to like get it inside me, you know, like I'd

985
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 1: be struggling because I'd be down there scrubbing that thing.

986
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 3: So girl, I must have put the doctor Bronner's peppermint

987
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 3: one on it. Oh my god, ah, oh my god.

988
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 1: Yes, that's how the domb ask what's the past?

989
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 3: By oh hot hot pot.

990
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 1: Hot pocket, that's what they need to call him.

991
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 3: What is it called? I use him.

992
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 1: My friend encouraged me to get that ship, and I

993
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:00,720
Speaker 1: put that ship on. I was it down the street.

994
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 3: I like them burn.

995
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 1: No, that burned my koochie up.

996
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 3: It doesn't after a while, so once you use them

997
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 3: more often, it does help with the cramping and stuff

998
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:08,480
Speaker 3: like that.

999
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 1: Baby, I took that ship off and went in the

1000
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 1: bathroom and with a water tissue up there till I

1001
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:15,040
Speaker 1: got home, because ain't no way I'm gonna have this

1002
00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 1: fire shooting up my pussy all day. No, ma'am, what's

1003
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: the ship called? Something? Hot? Hot?

1004
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 3: Some some pot one of them honey pot pot, that's

1005
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 3: what it is, honey pot.

1006
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 1: Call it hot pot. Because that ship burns.

1007
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:34,400
Speaker 3: She said, Yeah, it's like eucalyptus and stuff is like herb,

1008
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 3: herbal and fuse paths, and yeah, I like it.

1009
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 1: I like it.

1010
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 3: But she loves it. Does sue that when you first

1011
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 3: start using it, of course, it's like your body's like,

1012
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 3: but your body gets used to it, and I promise

1013
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 3: it really really does help with cramps and stuff. But

1014
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:54,840
Speaker 3: I started talking about vagina just to say, like dushing,

1015
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 3: I'm not excusey, dushing and colonix is just not the

1016
00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:00,919
Speaker 3: same thing. Okay, you are not going to wash away

1017
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 3: the good bacteria by getting the kalonic, so that is

1018
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 3: not the truth. The fact is, while some bacteria are

1019
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 3: washed away, a healthy diet replenishes beneficial gut flora. Many

1020
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:16,399
Speaker 3: people take probiotics postclonic for balance. Yes, a good probiotic

1021
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:18,719
Speaker 3: is always necessary.

1022
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:23,799
Speaker 1: Ooh, I like that ollipop. Have one of those every

1023
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:24,359
Speaker 1: now and then.

1024
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I use those.

1025
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. It's like a little soda, but it's a probotic.

1026
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 3: M good too.

1027
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:30,840
Speaker 1: It takes.

1028
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 3: Another myth is the body detox is naturally, so calonics

1029
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:40,320
Speaker 3: aren't necessary. And the fact is the body does detox naturally,

1030
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 3: but due to modern diets and lifestyles, it can sometimes

1031
00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 3: use extra support, just like a car benefits from an

1032
00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 3: oil change. Like our like twenty twenty five is not

1033
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 3: the same as nineteen twenty five. You know, the food

1034
00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:56,640
Speaker 3: is different, the air is different. It's more. People is

1035
00:54:56,719 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 3: just more and more and more like our parents or skinny.

1036
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:03,799
Speaker 3: Do you remember seeing pictures of real fat people back then?

1037
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:08,839
Speaker 1: No, like everybody was smaller, and the sizing system, like

1038
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:13,360
Speaker 1: the size two now is a size was a size four,

1039
00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:17,480
Speaker 1: So they even changed the sizes to reflect how fat

1040
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:19,480
Speaker 1: we are to make us not feel as fat as

1041
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:19,839
Speaker 1: we are.

1042
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 3: And it's really just in America. So while we're we

1043
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 3: supposedly supposedly have the best medical system, we have the

1044
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 3: sickest people in the world in America. Imagine that. Yeah, okay,

1045
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 3: another mythod is calonics can make and testines dependent on them.

1046
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 3: I feel like maybe I used to take a lot

1047
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:44,920
Speaker 3: of a lot of diuretics, like a laxative and stuff

1048
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:46,880
Speaker 3: like that, and I do feel like I might have

1049
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 3: fucked my gut health up a little because I wasn't

1050
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 3: using the bathroom like I should, so I was using laxatives.

1051
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 3: And then it almost seemed like if I didn't use

1052
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 3: a laxative, I didn't wouldn't go at all.

1053
00:55:58,280 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1054
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 3: Right, But with the diet.

1055
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:01,919
Speaker 1: Did you use the roads too much? You're not gonna

1056
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: come with a man?

1057
00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:09,280
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, Tammy, that's exactly what we can liken it too. Yeah,

1058
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:15,440
Speaker 3: you're right, girl, always right. But okay, so it says.

1059
00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:18,960
Speaker 3: The fact is, when done properly and not except excessively,

1060
00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 3: colonics can help train the digestive system to work more efficiently,

1061
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 3: not weaken it. I'm gonna give y'all my I got

1062
00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:30,840
Speaker 3: a whole diet regimen I created out of vitamins, and

1063
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 3: the ship been working. I use the bathroom at least

1064
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:36,400
Speaker 3: twice in the morning, at least twice in the evening,

1065
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 3: you know, after I eat. That might be why my

1066
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:45,480
Speaker 3: skin is a little bit clear. I don't know. Go ahead, girl,

1067
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 3: I had no come on me in a while. I'm

1068
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:55,400
Speaker 3: gonna be honest. Okay, I had come nowhere on me

1069
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:58,960
Speaker 3: in a long time, So I don't know what you

1070
00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 3: talk about. Girls. Did I lead my ship just now?

1071
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:06,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get one. Yeah, I'm gonna get on group

1072
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:08,840
Speaker 1: on for mine. You're rich. I ain't. I can't. I

1073
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:12,360
Speaker 1: ain't got no three. I ain't got three hundred invest in, dookie.

1074
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:14,880
Speaker 3: It's not that expensive.

1075
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 1: First of all, you said it was three hundred dollars.

1076
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 3: Was two seventy five. That's for three sessions.

1077
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 1: That's three hundred dollars.

1078
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 3: What else do you, bitch? Let's run down what you

1079
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 3: be spending money on. How much you spent on damn

1080
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 3: uber eats a week?

1081
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 1: Girl, mind your fucking business.

1082
00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, while you full of shit, that's.

1083
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 1: The door dash. First of all, okay, I do. I

1084
00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:43,960
Speaker 1: have been getting meal preps, so I have not been

1085
00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:46,919
Speaker 1: spending as much on door dash. But in New York,

1086
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 1: I don't have a car, so DoorDash is more convenient.

1087
00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:55,600
Speaker 3: But what happened prior to now, because you've only been

1088
00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 3: in New York about two months now, right a month

1089
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:02,120
Speaker 3: and a half, were talking about out last year, the

1090
00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 3: year before last, the year before since motherfucking door dash

1091
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 3: was created. Basically, how much money? How much salary have

1092
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:15,160
Speaker 3: you paid them? People that you can't pay this money

1093
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 3: for your health.

1094
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:17,920
Speaker 1: I put somebody through school, That's all I will say.

1095
00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 3: And then you have an autoimmune disease, right, so I

1096
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:21,360
Speaker 3: think this would.

1097
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:23,320
Speaker 1: Be I don't find that I don't have that.

1098
00:58:23,560 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 3: Well, there there's this there's this audio autoimmune disease in

1099
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 3: the air, and that they keep saying that no I

1100
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,240
Speaker 3: don't believe it. I don't believe it.

1101
00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 1: I feel okay, but okay, yeah, but and then I

1102
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:40,080
Speaker 1: do want to get one, but I'm gonna look on

1103
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 1: groupon and there's what.

1104
00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 3: That's why I found my place in Saint Louis, like

1105
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:47,080
Speaker 3: I do groupon all the time so to this day.

1106
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 1: Because I don't want to pay three hundred dollars with

1107
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: dookies just sound crazy.

1108
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 3: It's not for donkie, it's for your life, it's for

1109
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 3: your health, it's not just for Donkie.

1110
00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but if I can get my dukie out for cheaper,

1111
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it.

1112
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:03,800
Speaker 3: But to me, like, honestly, I have been getting calonics

1113
00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:07,560
Speaker 3: and this is like the cheapest is probably gonna get. Honestly,

1114
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 3: eighty dollars eighty some dollars per session as the cheapest

1115
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 3: you gonna get.

1116
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:14,480
Speaker 1: I've seen one on group home right here in Brooklyn

1117
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:15,640
Speaker 1: for forty five dollars.

1118
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 3: Oh shit, oh shit, Well that's Brooklyn because it's probably

1119
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 3: a lot more place, a lot of places to do.

1120
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 3: Oh okay, well yeah, go get go, get your azz

1121
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 3: clean up for forty five.

1122
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna send you a video, a video on

1123
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 1: my dookie to you.

1124
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 3: And I love to see it, Okay, I like to

1125
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 3: see I want to see you let that shit go.

1126
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna let it go. Okay, we all love

1127
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 1: the ship.

1128
00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:44,480
Speaker 3: I didn't let go, all right, So these are just

1129
00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 3: some of the benefits. And I kind of already went

1130
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 3: over like we you know, been talk about it at

1131
00:59:49,160 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 3: nauseum at this point, so increase energy levels and mental clarity,

1132
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 3: skin benefit benefits, clear complexion, weight loss, and bloating reduction.

1133
00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 3: So before y'all go get that with GOVI ozempic all

1134
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 3: that shit, trying to clean your damn stomach out first, okay,

1135
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 3: because really, you know what she told me. She said

1136
01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:09,439
Speaker 3: a lot of her clients have been coming and they

1137
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 3: their stomach is messed up now after having taken those medications,

1138
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:18,840
Speaker 3: because really it's starving you. So they they their bowels

1139
01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:21,960
Speaker 3: aren't working as it like it's supposed to at this point,

1140
01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 3: and a lot of people have stomach issues after using ozempic.

1141
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 1: I just feel like anything that you taken, you haven't

1142
01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 1: watched them drug commercials and they'd be like the people

1143
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:34,480
Speaker 1: all smile and walking down the street and they got

1144
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:38,480
Speaker 1: this is medication is for psoriasis. But then the person

1145
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 1: all the side effects, all the side effects. It's like, goodness,

1146
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 1: is it even worth it to take any of this shit?

1147
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:46,479
Speaker 1: You're going to create a new problem fixing one.

1148
01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 3: The weirdest thing is about like when you tell somebody

1149
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 3: about a supplement, a natural something, they always question it.

1150
01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:55,640
Speaker 3: But you get all the side effects of all this shit.

1151
01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 3: Your doctor give you. You take it willingly, you don't care.

1152
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:02,360
Speaker 1: I'm just not a fan of no drugs me neither.

1153
01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:05,880
Speaker 1: It's week. That's it. That's the only thing I like.

1154
01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 1: Everything else, I'm like, I'm scared.

1155
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:15,520
Speaker 3: And then also says a boosted immune system. And another

1156
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 3: benefit is emotional and mental benefits of letting go physically

1157
01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 3: and metaphorically.

1158
01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:26,760
Speaker 1: Okay, so let that ship go, y'all. I encourage everybody

1159
01:01:26,800 --> 01:01:29,040
Speaker 1: to go get their booty sucked out and not the

1160
01:01:29,080 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 1: way you're used to your nasty and.

1161
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:35,080
Speaker 3: Just imagine niggas be licking ass. You got parasites back there.

1162
01:01:35,840 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 1: I remember I talked about that who went to y

1163
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:43,120
Speaker 1: theyself in the hospital for two weeks from eating booty hole.

1164
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:47,600
Speaker 3: Yes, so yeah, like everybody has parasites. You just don't

1165
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:52,120
Speaker 3: want to over growth a real life infestation of these things,

1166
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 3: even with like the yeast. You know, sugar feeds all

1167
01:01:55,640 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 3: of these things. So if you think you just a

1168
01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 3: sugar addic and you just like liquor so bad because

1169
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:04,200
Speaker 3: that's just stray alcohol, you probably need to clean your

1170
01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 3: fucking gut out.

1171
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:07,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go do it. I'm gonna you have inspired

1172
01:02:07,120 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 1: me to go clean my gut out and see what

1173
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 1: comes out of there, because I do love sugar.

1174
01:02:13,040 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 3: And then I need a whole lot of gangs.

1175
01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 1: When I was young, I did not care like I

1176
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:21,040
Speaker 1: wasn't a sugar person. I remember being a kid. I

1177
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:24,080
Speaker 1: always been built like this right, just a little thicker.

1178
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:29,440
Speaker 1: Oh life, whole life. And I remember being at kids'

1179
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 1: birthday parties and they cutting the cake and they'd be like,

1180
01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 1: you want a slice of cake, and I'd be like, nah,

1181
01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:37,680
Speaker 1: give me another one of them hot dogs. I didn't

1182
01:02:37,680 --> 01:02:39,800
Speaker 1: want no fucking cake. I wanted another.

1183
01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:41,040
Speaker 3: Dog or a burger party.

1184
01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:47,520
Speaker 1: And that's but once I got like late thirties, something changed,

1185
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:51,480
Speaker 1: and now I would rather just have desserts and no meat.

1186
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:55,840
Speaker 3: I like fresh baked goods. I don't like packaged items.

1187
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 3: So like you talk about the girls like cookies, like, damn,

1188
01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 3: my shit, I'm gonna go mix some shit from scratch

1189
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 3: or like you know, buy like some organic cookies from

1190
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:06,760
Speaker 3: Whole Foods to cooking, which I just realized because I

1191
01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:10,920
Speaker 3: read a pack the ship got gmo from Whole Foods.

1192
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:17,720
Speaker 3: What are y'all doing? Us ain't nothing whole nothing anyway, Yeah,

1193
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:21,880
Speaker 3: y'all let that shit go. If you want mental clarity, right,

1194
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:25,040
Speaker 3: If you want to feel better about life and living,

1195
01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:28,480
Speaker 3: it starts with the ship in your stomach, before you

1196
01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 3: can let go of that man, before you can let

1197
01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:32,920
Speaker 3: go of that job, where you can let go on

1198
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:37,440
Speaker 3: bad relationships, girl friendships, whatever it is that you need

1199
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:41,560
Speaker 3: to let go. It starts with the gut and.

1200
01:03:41,640 --> 01:03:43,240
Speaker 1: Seeing y'all dooky videos to AJ.

1201
01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:45,040
Speaker 3: She want to see it, And if y'all want to

1202
01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:47,320
Speaker 3: see my parasitic videos, I'll send it to you. If

1203
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:49,040
Speaker 3: y'all want to see this shit video like, it's a

1204
01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 3: million of them online, but if you want to see

1205
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 3: one for somebody that you semi know, I'll send it

1206
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 3: to you. I'll sing you this shit.

1207
01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 1: Don't ask to see my dookie. I'm gonna do it,

1208
01:03:57,440 --> 01:03:57,960
Speaker 1: but don't ask.

1209
01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:00,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, let that shit go. We're going end that. I

1210
01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:02,480
Speaker 3: said ship like maybe a hundred times on this episode,

1211
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 3: But after this commercial, I got a simp story. Okay, okay, here,

1212
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 3: all right, y'all, we'll be back.

1213
01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:18,040
Speaker 1: Listen, y'all need to rewind this episode. Listen to it

1214
01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:20,000
Speaker 1: from the beginning with your friends, and take a shot.

1215
01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 1: Every time AJ says ship, y'all gonna be up, you

1216
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:27,480
Speaker 1: might be in the hospital. Don't do that. All right,

1217
01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 1: We'll be right back after this commercial.

1218
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:40,439
Speaker 3: Easy way to say this, but all right, y'all see

1219
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 3: we're back. Look, this is not a sam story that

1220
01:04:43,480 --> 01:04:46,160
Speaker 3: somebody said. This is some ship I saw online.

1221
01:04:46,680 --> 01:04:47,560
Speaker 1: Okay, let's hear it.

1222
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:50,920
Speaker 3: Let me read it right quick. So it says bruh,

1223
01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:54,360
Speaker 3: I did some dumb ship, took my baby Mama t Atlanta,

1224
01:04:54,520 --> 01:05:00,240
Speaker 3: went to swingers club and turned up Bruh, bruh, me

1225
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:03,880
Speaker 3: her and a fine ass red bone turning up. I'm done,

1226
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:06,960
Speaker 3: I done, tapped out. I caught me two good ones.

1227
01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 3: I'm drained. This big black six foot six musclehead nigga

1228
01:05:13,040 --> 01:05:15,640
Speaker 3: came over and wanted to join them, and I had

1229
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:19,560
Speaker 3: to agree because that's what we talked about beforehand. This

1230
01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 3: was both on our bucket list. Not getting too graphic,

1231
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:24,920
Speaker 3: but follow me. We had a towel on. I'm not

1232
01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:28,520
Speaker 3: the smallest down there, no Diddy, I'm a good seven

1233
01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:32,640
Speaker 3: plus plus inches. This dude pulled out an elephant trunk

1234
01:05:32,760 --> 01:05:37,120
Speaker 3: and laid it on the other girl's forehead. I told him,

1235
01:05:37,160 --> 01:05:41,560
Speaker 3: you're not putting that in my girl. This half a

1236
01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:49,280
Speaker 3: said I wanted. I took the hardest swallow and said, okay,

1237
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:52,640
Speaker 3: I had to watch my girl get slaughtered. I even

1238
01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:55,240
Speaker 3: went over there while he was doing it and rubbed

1239
01:05:55,280 --> 01:06:00,600
Speaker 3: her forehead to tell her it would be okay. She

1240
01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:04,480
Speaker 3: was yelling, begging for me. She was in a zone,

1241
01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 3: and I checked out mentally, it's okay when we do it.

1242
01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:10,479
Speaker 3: But that right there.

1243
01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 1: Nah.

1244
01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 3: Fast forward to this morning. I woke up this morning

1245
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:17,520
Speaker 3: in the mood like any guy would. I went over

1246
01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:21,520
Speaker 3: to her and started to strike it up with her.

1247
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 3: This motherfucker said, not right now. I'm still sore from

1248
01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 3: this weekend. He said, Who the fuck says that? He said,

1249
01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:32,480
Speaker 3: I can't get what I want because she's still sore

1250
01:06:32,920 --> 01:06:36,520
Speaker 3: from this motherfucker. Real shit. I thought I could take it,

1251
01:06:36,560 --> 01:06:41,040
Speaker 3: but this entire experience turned me completely off. I want

1252
01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:43,000
Speaker 3: to break up with her, but I love her. I

1253
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:46,360
Speaker 3: just don't think I could get ever get back to

1254
01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:49,200
Speaker 3: where it was. Any advice? Why you referring to her

1255
01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:51,640
Speaker 3: as your baby mama? First of all, y'all obviously live

1256
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:55,840
Speaker 3: together with a child that's already weird to me. And now, y'all,

1257
01:06:55,880 --> 01:07:00,479
Speaker 3: I introduced swinging basically into the relationship, and you can't

1258
01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:02,840
Speaker 3: handle of motherfucker swinging. And he probably was the one

1259
01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:03,640
Speaker 3: that suggested it.

1260
01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:08,080
Speaker 1: I bet you exactly he wanted to do. It ain't

1261
01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:09,160
Speaker 1: no fun when the rabbit got.

1262
01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 3: The good or So y'all got some advice, You got

1263
01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:11,960
Speaker 3: some advice.

1264
01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:17,320
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell this nigga, Like.

1265
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:20,360
Speaker 3: I just think he should motherfucker delete this ship and

1266
01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 3: never say that shit again. That's the only advice I got, Nigga.

1267
01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:28,520
Speaker 1: Just tell nobody and just thrill to break up with

1268
01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:32,080
Speaker 1: her because she got fuck better than you could fuck her,

1269
01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:35,640
Speaker 1: or harder or bigger than you could do. Like, that's

1270
01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:40,400
Speaker 1: not a I mean that she didn't cheat. You probably

1271
01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 1: suggested this ship.

1272
01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:44,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, you set her up. If he leave, he really

1273
01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:46,240
Speaker 3: set her up. I can understand what he's saying, Like

1274
01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 3: once somebody do some shit, like even if you might

1275
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:52,800
Speaker 3: have been okay with it's like I just can't look

1276
01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:56,280
Speaker 3: at this motherfucker no more. I understand. But no, nigga,

1277
01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:59,960
Speaker 3: you set her up for the okie dookie if you

1278
01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:03,360
Speaker 3: leave her with a child, because y'all you introduce you

1279
01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:06,080
Speaker 3: let her introduce some dickens. So y'all went to the

1280
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:08,640
Speaker 3: swingers club and you were just supposed to do a

1281
01:08:08,640 --> 01:08:12,800
Speaker 3: three cent with her and another woman. But obviously you

1282
01:08:12,920 --> 01:08:16,840
Speaker 3: okayed her getting slaughtered by another man if it came

1283
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:22,040
Speaker 3: up and the big dick came up. How you mad?

1284
01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 1: I could feel that, because all right, this is a

1285
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:27,439
Speaker 1: long time ago, y'all, this is.

1286
01:08:27,479 --> 01:08:28,719
Speaker 3: Has she going some bullshit.

1287
01:08:30,479 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 1: And I was dating this guy and I liked him

1288
01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:34,360
Speaker 1: a lot, but he said he just wasn't a big

1289
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Speaker 1: big on kissing, and I'm I love, I'm gonna kiss her,

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Speaker 1: like we need to be kissing. You need to tongue

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Speaker 1: me down. So finally he was like, we started kissing,

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Speaker 1: and then he started he sucked my tongue, but he

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Speaker 1: was sucking it like a dick, like up and down

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Speaker 1: on my tongue. And then I ain't like him no

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Speaker 1: more after that, just that quick, it is over. Why

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Speaker 1: like a dig get off.

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Speaker 3: Me do nothing without being gay? What why he can't

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Speaker 3: be sucking at like a clip? I like my shit sucked,

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Speaker 3: not like all aggressive now but like a low Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I like that.

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Speaker 1: Well there I should have sai the rolls do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, there, foolish, You are foolish, foolish, so yeah,

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Speaker 3: you can set up some ship that you don't and

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Speaker 3: find out you don't like it, well, I hope y'all

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Speaker 3: stay together, because we don't want no more broken families,

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Speaker 3: especially based off some bullshit like this.

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Speaker 1: This is You can get past this, sir. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have to.

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Speaker 3: Just don't do it again. You can't handle it.

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Speaker 1: You're just gonna have to cheat like the rest of

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Speaker 1: get no worse advice.

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