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Speaker 2: Is your girl lex Pete? And is your girl Dre

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Speaker 2: and the code and you are tuned in to another

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Speaker 2: episode of Poor Mine where.

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Speaker 1: We got a guest today. We gotta guess today. I

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Speaker 1: am so excited. I am excited.

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Speaker 2: And then you said you listened to the show a

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Speaker 2: poor crew in the building.

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Speaker 1: So y'all, today we have Siha to friends tonight.

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Speaker 2: First of all, so usually you know when we have

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Speaker 2: a guest on, always let him like introduce herself.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna introduce you.

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Speaker 1: Oh so if you don't know.

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Speaker 2: If you live under a rock and you don't know

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Speaker 2: who he is, he is a rapper, artist, musician, producer, right,

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Speaker 2: all that shit, all your favorite songs. I guarantee you

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Speaker 2: he dont wrote on them host period. A long list

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Speaker 2: of song crazy, a long long list. So let me

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Speaker 2: ask you this real quick and we're gonna get into it.

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Speaker 2: Just being someone who writes like for rappers, is it

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Speaker 2: like like a low key thing? Like you can't really

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Speaker 2: say it because you know, it's like everybody likes to

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Speaker 2: be like, I'm a rapper.

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Speaker 1: I write my own stuff, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: I try to keep it low key. Because I can't

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Speaker 3: explain to more.

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Speaker 4: You know, a lot of regular people, like not regular

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Speaker 4: people I don't want to call it.

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Speaker 1: But not people in the industry.

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Speaker 4: I don't understand the process of it, right, Like to

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Speaker 4: tell you, it's like, it's not like I'm writing a

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Speaker 4: song like for the people I wrote for. It's not

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Speaker 4: like I'm writing a song for somebody who can't do

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Speaker 4: it themselves.

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Speaker 3: It's just you want it at the highest level.

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Speaker 4: So we kind of just developed this think tank, got

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Speaker 4: kind of help them through it. And I have a

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Speaker 4: fulk graphic memory why I could just go in the

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Speaker 4: and demo it for him, right, Okay, gotcha. It gives

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Speaker 4: them the skeleton of like, okay, is it a good idea?

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Speaker 4: Or the battle before I waste my billion?

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Speaker 3: All the time? I know that's right, that's how they feel.

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Speaker 4: They'd be like, let me just started to come out

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Speaker 4: here work on some stuff, and then he'll give us

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Speaker 4: a general sense of what it does sound like, and

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Speaker 4: then we'll be like, Okay, that's gonna be hit. All right,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna go in and do it now.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever walked in the studio and like you

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Speaker 2: heard something and it was just like trash, and they

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Speaker 2: let me just switch it up.

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Speaker 1: And you ended up switching the whole song.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't say it was nothing that was completely trash,

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Speaker 4: but in the age of two thousand and twenty, they'll say,

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Speaker 4: twenty twenty, it's hard to judge art.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that makes it like, yeah, it's like.

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Speaker 4: It's like a person for a person, right people who

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Speaker 4: like ugly people like people, people like pretty people, people

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Speaker 3: It's like it's a market for everything.

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Speaker 2: It's literally a market for everything. Like anybody can make

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Speaker 2: music right now. I just saw that Capitol Records came

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Speaker 2: out with an AI artist, Like it's not real, it's

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Speaker 1: It's so it's really kind of just surprising that what

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Speaker 1: is that called the metaverse? Yeah, a lot of people

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Speaker 1: really be It.

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Speaker 2: Was on one of my favorite albums ever, one of

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Speaker 2: my favorite songs on Kanye's Twist.

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Speaker 1: It was on Soul Paul.

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Speaker 2: That was like one of my favorite songs. When I

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Speaker 2: was in a colleague. You're gonna run that album into

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Speaker 2: the ground as soon as she getting the gol.

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Speaker 1: Ever facts, I agree. I can agree with that. So

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Speaker 1: I was it working with Kanye. You know, we like

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Speaker 5: We're gonna sit here.

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Speaker 3: It's super dope.

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Speaker 4: It's definitely challenging, it's definitely inspiring. It ain't no games,

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Speaker 4: it ain't like, you know, he's a he's a.

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Speaker 4: So if it's if it's gonna be some females in

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Speaker 4: reason to get their vibe and like that. Other than that,

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Speaker 4: we just be working hard. We all be in our

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Speaker 3: Kind of listen to demos and listen to what people did.

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Speaker 3: So it's super dope.

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Speaker 4: You meet some of the biggest artists, some of the

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Speaker 4: biggest people in the world.

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Speaker 3: Should I met everybody from Kobe Bryant.

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Speaker 6: To y Z.

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Speaker 4: You know, the list goes on right right Elon Musk, Like,

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Speaker 4: I know that's right.

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Speaker 2: The real BDB rooms, So b B we're probably gonna

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Speaker 2: be saying BDB a lot. So I know you've heard

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Speaker 2: the girl. So you've heard the girl say. Yeah, the

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Speaker 2: girls stay BD. You know, big big energy, we say

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Speaker 2: big big baller because we don't care about the energy.

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Speaker 5: Is you balling or on?

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Speaker 1: That's what we want to know, you know.

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Speaker 2: So a b B I know that's right, he said, absolutely,

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Speaker 2: don't question me. See sometimes the guys will come on

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Speaker 3: He's like, hey, yeah, I'm a BDB. Let him know. Period.

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Speaker 1: So where are you originally from?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: You from Atlanta? Okay, Okay, I just get around to

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Speaker 2: that's right, Okay, Okay. So I want to get into

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Speaker 2: these topics today because I know we're gonna start rambling

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Speaker 2: on and rambling. So we actually talked about this a

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Speaker 2: know what, that's flattering and Dre was like, no, the fuck,

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Speaker 2: it's not.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not. Period. Get who we are. So I

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Speaker 2: The thin line between inspiration and like you just flat

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Speaker 2: because I know you deal with that a lot, you know,

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Speaker 1: So how do you feel about that?

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Speaker 4: You know, you have innovators and you have people who

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Speaker 4: go with things that work. It's like some people see

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Speaker 4: like Steve Johns didn't make the telephone. He made the

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Speaker 3: Right, right.

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Speaker 4: So sometimes it's like a young lady asked me before,

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Speaker 4: I was like, what you mean? Then I had to

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Speaker 4: always can be somebody better than the best. But if

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Speaker 3: You know I want to be the best.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you can be the best, but eventually you ain't

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Speaker 2: I feel like I look at it like this because

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Speaker 2: we were talking about like Beyonce, for example, we feel

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Speaker 2: Why I wouldn't compare her to Michael Jackson because I

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Speaker 2: all of them are super talented, but they're in their

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Speaker 1: They don't remind me of each other. Beyonce definitely gives

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Speaker 7: On me and maybe this may be, but I like

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Speaker 3: I don't think anybody gonna try to imitate y'all.

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Speaker 4: They gonna try to do their version of it, and

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Speaker 4: it may be to y'all standard, or that may be

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Speaker 3: So it kind of gives y'all that feeling of trying

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Speaker 2: But I mean you feel when you see somebody like

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Speaker 1: Who you are or I ain't never heard of this now.

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Speaker 2: And you see them literally doing what you do? How

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 4: Unfortunately, it ain't too many people who can do what

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Speaker 3: I solute them. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: So because you know you follow me some great but

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Speaker 4: you can't be the great that That's.

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Speaker 1: That's the truth.

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Speaker 2: That's why I said I would rather be the best,

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Speaker 2: cause it's like I don't care what you create, what

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Speaker 3: You can't be big mom.

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Speaker 2: No, I agree with that because I would rather be

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Speaker 2: the best too, just because it's like, we weren't the

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Speaker 2: first people to do a pocas of women to start

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Speaker 2: our own podcast. However, you better talk? Yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: That, be like, well, people watching them because they look

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Speaker 1: good and dude, but the content is good too. Don't

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Speaker 1: get about then? So what inspires you?

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Speaker 3: Life? Life inspires me? Family and Christ?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so when you get in the studio though, like

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Speaker 2: is what we're about to talk about today, because why

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Speaker 2: du niggas be liking the X pictures?

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Speaker 3: Like a lot of the stuff we talking.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's just random topics. You know, it'd be something

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Speaker 2: be good.

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Speaker 1: To talk about on the show.

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Speaker 2: But a lot of ship that we talk about on

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Speaker 2: the show is definitely inspired by true true. Yes, So

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Speaker 2: talk about a song that you wrote that was inspired

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Speaker 2: by something that really happened.

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Speaker 3: Hmmmm.

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Speaker 4: As far as myself, man, that might be every song

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Speaker 1: What's up y'alls? Your girl leg see and it's Sugarl

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Speaker 2: Unfortunately, we are postponing all of our Florida day so

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. That means Tampa, Miami, and Orlando. We will

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Speaker 1: We are definitely coming back.

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Speaker 8: It's just a lot of things going online now, but

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Speaker 1: You a lie a lot, but I'm not lying right now.

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Speaker 2: We're coming back, So just stay tuned and keep your

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Speaker 1: You're gonna get to afore mind show, I'll promise you,

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Speaker 1: Were coming back.

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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, but stay tuned and when we come,

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Speaker 2: it's gonna be lead. Y'all already know about it, period.

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Speaker 4: I got a quote when I usually say this to

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Speaker 3: I really I didn't say, rather, I'll be at your

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Speaker 1: Wouldss me off?

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Speaker 3: Either one? I could be either one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because it's like, why would I be mad that

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Speaker 2: But see, this is why I'm fucked up when I'm dating,

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Speaker 3: Tell me that lot of me. I'm gonna be your husband?

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Speaker 4: No, No, why are you telling me gonna be at

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna be a nig.

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Speaker 4: If you find another dude like you might fucking around

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Speaker 4: the running and Kevin Dury, we got courtside tickets, we

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Speaker 6: Cousin out, my cousin now.

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Speaker 3: To start Yeah, we're trying to start a company.

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Speaker 1: All.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 2: If I win a nigga that and he started calling

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Speaker 4: That would cry why, Like, because what I'm saying you,

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Speaker 4: if you was from me, you would have You wouldn't even.

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Speaker 6: You would have been you would have been like, Hey,

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, hey, nice to meet you.

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Speaker 3: You like girlfriend energy?

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Speaker 1: Have girlfriend I love girlfriend energy.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm a relationship type person though I've always.

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Speaker 2: I am learning to communicate better too, because I do

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Speaker 1: What I fucked up.

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Speaker 3: Out, that we'll know that before we Yeah, I.

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Speaker 4: I don't I need to be like somebody that's like

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Speaker 3: Like you get half of this, it's gonna you get

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Speaker 4: Ain't like a street nigga they got a million and

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Speaker 3: I gotta really like you, so you.

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Speaker 2: Feel like if you met the right girl, you're not

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Speaker 1: It off the bat and you're not gonna really wait.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean if I want to make if I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not. I don't take girls to like Saint

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm out here.

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Speaker 4: With a thought, like to have fun. She got to

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: I want to hold hand. We gonna make love on

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Speaker 4: Move and me like you go out there with your

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Speaker 3: He remember when he came out here with six lady.

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Speaker 4: I don't even do that.

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Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I like that emotional part. I think for me, I

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Speaker 2: of like relationships.

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Speaker 1: I love that bond.

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Speaker 2: I like the serious conversations. I like the late night

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Speaker 1: Like that's fun to me. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You don't got to be in a relationship for that's

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Speaker 1: be in a relationship. It could be whatever it is,

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Speaker 1: it can be.

449
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Speaker 2: But like I said, this is what a lot of

450
00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 2: people mess up at though, y'all are really doing relationship things.

451
00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:24,959
Speaker 2: Y'all just think that putting a title on it all

452
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Speaker 2: of a sudden changes something. But a lot of times

453
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Speaker 2: you're spending time with this person, y'all, going out to eat, y'all,

454
00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 2: going on trips, y'all, sharing emotional things.

455
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Speaker 1: That's a relationship, y'all.

456
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Speaker 3: Y'all, But you know, because if.

457
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Speaker 4: You're in a relationship for six and more years, is

458
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Speaker 4: coming law marriage period.

459
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Speaker 2: And let me tell you it would never be in

460
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Speaker 2: a damn relationship me because why we ain't married, and

461
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Speaker 2: like it's not going with But no what I'm saying though,

462
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Speaker 2: but sometimes we do that, like we'll be talking to

463
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Speaker 2: somebody for six months and we're doing all these things. Yeah, y'all,

464
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Speaker 2: but six months you done went on a truck with

465
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Speaker 2: this nigga, y'all late night talking, sharing emotional things. You

466
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Speaker 2: know everything about him, he knows everything about you.

467
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Speaker 1: That's a relationship.

468
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Speaker 2: You it's a form of a relationship. But to me,

469
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Speaker 2: that's no different from like me and you. Besides, we

470
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Speaker 2: don't be fucking.

471
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Speaker 3: Boy. We had a time last night, but no.

472
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Speaker 2: For like, to me, it's no difference between like that's

473
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Speaker 2: a friendship, it's in a friendship. Is a form of

474
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Speaker 2: a relationship, it is, But I'm saying, like, honestly, I

475
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Speaker 2: feel like we're saying the same thing.

476
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Speaker 4: What you're saying is to me, I just think if

477
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Speaker 4: you got the same stipulations as a marriage, you should just.

478
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Speaker 3: Go to bed, don't handle it.

479
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Speaker 2: And I guess yeah, because to me, a relationship if

480
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Speaker 2: me and somebody decides that we're in a relationship, to me,

481
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Speaker 2: that means exclusive, yeah, fact, and we're just dating and

482
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Speaker 2: we never had a conversation. I can have feelings for you,

483
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Speaker 2: you could have feelings for me and we're relationship. But

484
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 2: like I can still technically going another day, you can

485
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Speaker 2: still technically go on another day or fuck somebody else.

486
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Speaker 1: And you're not wrong for this, and that's what I like.

487
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Speaker 1: You like your freedom.

488
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Speaker 4: No, I like for her to do it, because if

489
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Speaker 4: she could fuck three four niggas and still come back

490
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Speaker 4: and be talking to me, then that means she's getting

491
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Speaker 4: closer to me.

492
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Speaker 1: What. Yeah, I ain't never heard I sing you agree?

493
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Speaker 6: Yeah to me?

494
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Speaker 4: Like, if you go fuck another nigga, don't call me

495
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Speaker 4: no more, that means he did a hell of a job.

496
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Speaker 3: That means you more in tune him.

497
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Speaker 2: No, you don't care if somebody was talking to it's

498
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Speaker 2: sucking with somebody else, somebody.

499
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Speaker 3: I mean I care if you haven't it protected. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

500
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Speaker 3: I ain't finna be like nah.

501
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Speaker 2: Okay, So if you're dating somebody, she goes fucking somebody

502
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Speaker 2: else and she don't like it. If she comes back

503
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Speaker 2: to you, you feel like that makes her closer to

504
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Speaker 2: a year back, and you want her to like.

505
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Speaker 4: That means that section of niggas is out of limits.

506
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 4: That means she ain't fucking with these type of niggas.

507
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Speaker 4: So okay, we're down the sixty. Like her work, Yeah,

508
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Speaker 4: I like she say, And she says I don't like

509
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Speaker 4: and she's like, I don't like this basketball nigga. All

510
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Speaker 4: the basketball niggas I deal with. That means, okay, now

511
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Speaker 4: you gotta worry about football and basement. When she telling

512
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Speaker 4: me baseball born cool, extend we getting closer the home plate.

513
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Speaker 3: I ain't gonta work now, I just gotta worry about future.

514
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Speaker 3: That's you only like nig you're gonna keep away from raffles.

515
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Speaker 3: I'm good, you know what I'm saying. I have never

516
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Speaker 3: heard this theory.

517
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Speaker 1: Crazy, I have never heard this theory. I never heard

518
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Speaker 1: that before either.

519
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Speaker 2: But then I feel like, what do you would you

520
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Speaker 2: want to be in a relationship with somebody where you

521
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Speaker 2: feel like you got to keep them away from other people?

522
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Speaker 3: But okay, let me say this.

523
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Speaker 4: On a flip end like it's almost like, as a female,

524
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Speaker 4: I feel like if I was to go to club

525
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Speaker 4: with you, and you know I like big booty, fucking

526
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Speaker 4: dog skin bitch.

527
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Speaker 3: You should go get me every one of them.

528
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Speaker 4: Let me experience all I need to experience in this

529
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Speaker 4: phase of our friendship relationship.

530
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Speaker 3: So I don't I'm nothing. I don't cheat on my wife.

531
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Speaker 4: I already know I'm not one of them niggas who

532
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Speaker 4: gonna be like bro, Nah, I did everything I needed

533
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Speaker 4: to do boss right, to be absolutely because I had

534
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:35,399
Speaker 4: the freedom. Like most of time niggas get a girlfriend

535
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 4: and got a maneuver to try to hit something I ain't.

536
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 4: I've been able to do whatever the fun I want

537
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:46,239
Speaker 4: to the twenty years you live, I'm actually experienced. NA

538
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:52,640
Speaker 4: get too much pussy. It'd be like, I'm cool, mom,

539
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Speaker 4: I can't do the attitude.

540
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Speaker 3: Or I today.

541
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Speaker 5: A nigga get too much.

542
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Speaker 2: I never I would hear anigat a chance.

543
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 3: To get they always got a sneak.

544
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 4: Or it's like because having a girlfriend is a plus though,

545
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:17,959
Speaker 4: because it eliminates like the miscellaneous ship. Yeah, you got

546
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 4: my old lady waiting on me, or a night you

547
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Speaker 4: would think you're gonna go to the club and go

548
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Speaker 4: fuck off. You be like your girl call me like

549
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 4: come over here, like Damn, guys, I gotta I'm going

550
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 4: to see the old lady, so it be like that.

551
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 3: But with me, it's just I've been able to travel.

552
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Speaker 4: Experience things where when I know what I want, I'm

553
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 4: kind of like, I'm cool on it. I hadn't experienced

554
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Speaker 4: i'ld have been in every country of every card, and.

555
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Speaker 3: Unfortunately it was like being with a billionaire like buddy

556
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Speaker 3: like mine. I had the chance to you.

557
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Speaker 1: Something that I never call me his old lady. I

558
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Speaker 1: don't like that you're like that, No, that's not cute

559
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 1: and it's not sixty the old lady.

560
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Speaker 6: I mean, you know what, not old e l L

561
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Speaker 6: like like, oh what is that that liquor called?

562
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 3: Like it ain't like O l D Like you're old.

563
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Speaker 1: About my mom when I used to be like I am.

564
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

565
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Speaker 3: If you say that means.

566
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Speaker 1: So you don't take your girl your friends on trips.

567
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean we get to go to like the

568
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Speaker 4: Likeney Love you know, you know, ship Hawaii ship, he said,

569
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Speaker 4: But we ain't going Saint Barks scene Like yeah.

570
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Speaker 1: Bitch, that's sorry for Jamaica. We can.

571
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Speaker 3: You just ain't gonna be like that. You know, they

572
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Speaker 3: ain't gonna get the south of friendship.

573
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Speaker 1: Of this next topic.

574
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Speaker 2: His friends, all his friends are watching like, oh my god,

575
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Speaker 2: he did take me to Jamaica.

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Speaker 2: Talk about because I've noticed these a lot online, like

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Speaker 2: when women, like, first of all, I hate the conversation

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Speaker 2: of what do you bring to the table?

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Speaker 1: Women asking I mean men asking women what do you

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Speaker 1: bring to the table. But I do see a lot

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Speaker 1: of women.

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Speaker 2: Always bringing up like their success and their accolades, which

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Speaker 2: are things that I feel like most men don't really

638
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Speaker 2: give a fuck about this.

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Speaker 1: She like, it's a plus if you.

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Speaker 2: Have these things, if you smart and you have a

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Speaker 2: degree and you have a successful business and all of that.

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Speaker 2: I think that's a plus to a man. But I

643
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Speaker 2: don't really think they care about that. But women don't

644
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Speaker 2: ever bring up things like, you know, are you a

645
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Speaker 2: fectionate or you are or you organized?

646
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Speaker 1: Are you smart, Are you a are you a good cook?

647
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Speaker 1: Are you a good lover? Pay attention?

648
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Speaker 2: Are you sensitive? Those type of things. So I wanted

649
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Speaker 2: to kind of talk about that. I wanted to suspens

650
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Speaker 2: on it because I feel like a lot of women

651
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Speaker 2: really do think that, like success is something that men

652
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Speaker 2: care about. But let me tell you all though, I

653
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Speaker 2: think it's because the culture that we're in right now,

654
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Speaker 2: it was such a thing of like, you know, back

655
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Speaker 2: in the day, it was like the man takes care

656
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Speaker 2: of the household, you know, he does this, the woman

657
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Speaker 2: stays home and cooks and cleans. So now in twenty

658
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Speaker 2: twenty two, we're in this era up and I'm not

659
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Speaker 2: gonna lie. We have been a part of that culture,

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Speaker 2: but we're we've also That's why I wanted to talk, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because we've grown on this show, because I'm not gonna lie.

662
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Speaker 2: In the beginning, we were like, oh, fuck with a

663
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Speaker 2: nigga with money and that seat, that seat, And now

664
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Speaker 2: that we've grown as women and we have gone through

665
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Speaker 2: life and experience it like cool, you can get a

666
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Speaker 2: man with money, but what else as a man do

667
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 2: you bring to the table. That's what I look at.

668
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 2: So I'm looking at me as a woman, like, do

669
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 2: I listen to him? And do I bring him peace?

670
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 2: If he's dealing with the world and he comes home,

671
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 2: does he feel like, Man, I've been waiting to get

672
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 2: home to you because I gotta tell you about my day,

673
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 2: Like you're supposed to be a safe space for your partner.

674
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 2: And when everybody talks about what they bring to the table,

675
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 2: it's all about money finances. I can cook a steak,

676
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 2: I can make a burger that's so fucking good, you

677
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 2: gonna slap your mama.

678
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: Nobody gives a fuck. I care about that burger, maybe

679
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: not you. And we can order hold that's just as good.

680
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 1: I just don't care about yes, yes, because you cannot

681
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: find that.

682
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 4: I'll be saying to it's so disappointed. When I have

683
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 4: to put a bad bitch out.

684
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 3: They be like you just you just and this annoying.

685
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: Tell us about the time.

686
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 2: You tell us about time you have to put a

687
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 2: bad bitch out because I got to want to hear.

688
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 4: I mean, I mean it's just countless time probably forgot,

689
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 4: but I mean it's not countless where it's like it

690
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 4: just gets irritating. They want to go, you know, they

691
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 4: just want to just go do a bunch of ship

692
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 4: and you know, you're talking about nothing, and you feel

693
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 4: like because I'm watching the game, ain't playing.

694
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 3: You know, attention, It's like just let's leave.

695
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 4: Not because sometimes like as a like, I'm a professional thinker,

696
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 4: so for a living, I have to think.

697
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 3: So sometimes I have to like have a peace of

698
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 3: mind and not be worried about.

699
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 4: Outside things that I feel like you should be able

700
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 4: to handle, right, you know what I'm saying.

701
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 3: So I think that's the biggest thing with me is

702
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 3: just like I haven't had like to really put a

703
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 3: y'all had to put bitches out. But it's just like

704
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 3: it's respectful.

705
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, respect, it's about hashtag respect.

706
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 3: Respectful.

707
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 1: But I feel like a lot of.

708
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 2: Times people don't appreciate being in people's space as well.

709
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie if I let you in my

710
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:30,720
Speaker 2: home in my space. Like like I like, we travel

711
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,800
Speaker 2: a lot, we're always going, we're working a lot. So

712
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 2: when I'm at home and like you said, if I'm

713
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 2: watching TV or I'm just chilling in silence and I'm

714
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 2: not paying attention, that don't mean I don't want you here.

715
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 1: Can we just chill?

716
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 2: I think sometimes the energy a lot on my mind,

717
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 2: Like you be going through a lot of sheet that

718
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 2: you don't even talk to people about it, not I know,

719
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 2: especially with me, and they kind of like retreat and

720
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 2: they don't want to talk about it, like they hold

721
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 2: everything in.

722
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 1: And it's not about you.

723
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 2: It's like I might not be talking to you or

724
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,600
Speaker 2: giving you that much attention, but it's like it's nothing.

725
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 1: That you did.

726
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 2: I just got a lot of sheep going on, and

727
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 2: I don't really feel like talking about it right now.

728
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,839
Speaker 1: So I'm playing my game or I'm doing whatever I'm doing.

729
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,439
Speaker 2: But you taking a shit personal is making it even

730
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 2: worse because I'm already dealing with a lot of other

731
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 2: sheep that I haven't even discussed what you eat. So

732
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 2: it's like, just be cool and when I'm ready to

733
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 2: talk to you about it, I'll be ready.

734
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 4: To talk to you.

735
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 3: Like to put it back off.

736
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 4: What you was saying was like, you know, like when

737
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 4: you come to divorce, like most men get divorced, like

738
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 4: cause you probably got.

739
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 3: Caught sucking another woman. You know what I'm saying.

740
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 4: Fact, it's hard to like divorce your wife because she

741
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 4: got a bad attitude or like you know, she's not

742
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 4: supportive of something like you know what I mean. So

743
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 4: a lot of those like intangible that force a man

744
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 4: to be like, I'm gonna go have sex with this

745
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 4: chick has that emotional test that he.

746
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:58,240
Speaker 3: Owes his ass for everything because.

747
00:35:58,360 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 1: You couldn't get the emotions.

748
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 2: But I do feel like on the opposite end though,

749
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 2: I feel like with dealing with black men because I

750
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:10,360
Speaker 2: only they black men, so I can only seek so

751
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:10,840
Speaker 2: I'm not.

752
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 1: All on attack me now.

753
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 2: But it's black men in their emotions. It is so

754
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 2: hard to get to that point with y'all. It's like

755
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 2: you gotta work so hard for a man to let

756
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 2: down his guard and to even get there, you know

757
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, for him to feel vulnerable and safe and.

758
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 1: Things like that. So it's just like it's a lot

759
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 1: to deal with, Like women go through a lot, Like

760
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 1: we try to take on that baggage for y'all so much,

761
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 1: but it's just like it's a war, it really is.

762
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 3: It's hard, Like you can't do it as a girlfriend.

763
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 3: You gotta you know what you want, you know what.

764
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 3: Something I hate I hate when.

765
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:54,399
Speaker 4: I see star athletes have a black girlfriend in high

766
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 4: school and then go to college and have a white girl.

767
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,359
Speaker 3: But but I was the only one.

768
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 4: I think what we've been like, we've been done wrong

769
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 4: so much in our life that we don't know how

770
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 4: to be partners to each other.

771
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:11,359
Speaker 5: We don't know how.

772
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 4: We don't like even in African American culture, we don't

773
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 4: have like investment groups, things where we.

774
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 3: Work together on things.

775
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 4: So if you know your it's eighteen year old, nineteen

776
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,760
Speaker 4: year old athlete, dude that's going to conquer the world.

777
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 4: It's like, instead of worrying about who he fucking make

778
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 4: sure did he eat today? Make sure it's his calories? Right,

779
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 4: did you go to the weight room? What's your fucking

780
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 4: with your grades? Look right, that's what the white girl do.

781
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 4: She ain't give it, I'm trying to tell you. But

782
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 4: she's sucking them off and making sure he's getting his

783
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:45,200
Speaker 4: homework done.

784
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 1: Eating.

785
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 3: She's not making well.

786
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 2: But it's a difference though, she's not making sure he's

787
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:51,840
Speaker 2: doing his homework.

788
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: She is doing his homework.

789
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 2: But that ain't no better though, because now you thirty

790
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 2: six and dumb, because she's not been doing everything now,

791
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 2: but she's creating a child though, And that's the difference though,

792
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 2: because we act like white women do so much. No,

793
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 2: they don't, But I was about to say I was

794
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 2: about to say that, but I feel like vulnerability is

795
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 2: and something you should have to work towards though, Like

796
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 2: I feel like if you're dealing with the right nigga

797
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:21,760
Speaker 2: and he fuck with you, he's gonna start being vulnerable anyway. Friendship,

798
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 2: like the goal should never be Oh, I want this

799
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 2: nigga to be vulnerable with me. I want him to everything.

800
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 2: It's like, because that's naturally gonna come anyways as the

801
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 2: relationship grows.

802
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:31,439
Speaker 5: Yeah.

803
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 2: No, I feel like you're saying hard sometimes for people

804
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:36,879
Speaker 2: to pull that out of somebody because they don't want

805
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 2: to get it to you from jump, like they're not

806
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 2: looking to.

807
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 1: Be vulnerable with you.

808
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is black men in general, it

809
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 2: doesn't even matter. You can take a black man to

810
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 2: a therapist and he still don't want to be vulnerable,

811
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 2: and that's her job to help. Like literally, I don't

812
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 2: think every black men is like, no, I'm not say

813
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:56,959
Speaker 2: like that. But the reason, well, the reason I'm saying

814
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 2: this is because a therapist actually went viral the other

815
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 2: day and got fired from her job because she was saying, like,

816
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:05,839
Speaker 2: black men go get fucking help. Y'all need to talk

817
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:10,320
Speaker 2: to somebody. Not don't no mean shit like decompressed. The

818
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 2: world is against y'all. Y'all need to talk to someone.

819
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 2: Y'all are holding in these emotions. And literally people were

820
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 2: so mad at her for being honest because she's literally

821
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,720
Speaker 2: a therapist. This is what she does for a living.

822
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:24,839
Speaker 2: And she sees black men and she says they come

823
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 2: into her office and they still won't even talk to her.

824
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 1: So she's like, y'all need to get some fucking help.

825
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 3: You know what I think it is.

826
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 4: I think we're in a generation where the black man

827
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 4: is the most sought out the man on the planet

828
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 4: at his peak. On at it peak though, I mean

829
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 4: I think at his peak right now, like black men

830
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 4: are very sought at.

831
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 3: Like you got to think like back when.

832
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:51,839
Speaker 4: The slave masters had slaves, right, they would take one

833
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 4: of the slave women off the plantation and have sex

834
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 4: with a rape on whatever, and they wife would be

835
00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 4: down there making food like ain't nothing happen because they knew,

836
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 4: my man.

837
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 3: Is conquering the world. This is his time to conquer

838
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 3: whatever he comfort.

839
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,839
Speaker 4: So whatever come along with that. That's how they look

840
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 4: at it now. Fast forward twenty twenty. You got Lebron's,

841
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 4: you got rappers. Black men are just successful. But one

842
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 4: thing they teach women are black women to do is man,

843
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 4: if he fucking has a girl or getting.

844
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 3: You leave them. Yeah, so now his support system gone.

845
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 3: That's what it be like Dick and Puss. It be

846
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 3: like the downfall of Like I just.

847
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 2: Feel like I feel like everybody have they non negotiables though, right,

848
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 2: So I do think that black women have been taught that.

849
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:42,399
Speaker 1: But I think for some people that's just a non

850
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: negotiable thing.

851
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 2: It's like that nigga cheat on me, he fucking with

852
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 2: other beeches.

853
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:46,800
Speaker 1: I'm leaving.

854
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 2: It's different if you have an open relationship or you

855
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 2: get into a relationship with somebody with the woman who

856
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 2: you know for sure, she's like, oh, I'm cool with

857
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 2: that shit.

858
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:56,919
Speaker 1: I ain't trippy. That's different. And I feel like those

859
00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 1: are the type of women that men who want to.

860
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 4: Saying, you know, I'm saying a whole race, Like you

861
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 4: gotta think like if we're developing, you know, rappers, we're

862
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:11,839
Speaker 4: developing artists, were delipant athletes, and we have this think

863
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 4: tank and we have these different millionaires that could come

864
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 4: together and it's about that. It ain't really abound y'all.

865
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:23,839
Speaker 4: Relationship like that because you see that we're catapulted. Black

866
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 4: men is just at its high as at this point,

867
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 4: we got the most opportunity we probably ever had since what.

868
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 3: Tulsa or some ship, you know what I mean.

869
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 4: Whatever, But yeah, but I think we don't have our

870
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:39,840
Speaker 4: original women with us that we grew up because I

871
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 4: can agree with that. As I'm conquering the world to

872
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 4: the victor goes to spoils, I'm knocking it down to

873
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 4: I'm like this white girl your boom and let.

874
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 5: Me say this too.

875
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 2: And I don't have we have we have some some

876
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 2: we have a lot of white listeners. Now I didn't

877
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 2: know I said something.

878
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:57,879
Speaker 3: But we're conquering though.

879
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:00,359
Speaker 2: But what I will say is I think a lot

880
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:03,360
Speaker 2: of men, black men with money don't realize. And this

881
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 2: is things that I've seen I always talk about. I

882
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 2: didn't have my first black friend till I was sixteen.

883
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 2: I went to all white school growing up. Like one

884
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 2: thing that I think is very weird, I didn't I

885
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 2: never experienced white people saying, oh I need some black friends.

886
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 2: I want to hang out with black people. When I

887
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 2: moved to Houston, I was around like black people that

888
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 2: they were like, Oh, I need some white friends.

889
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 1: I need to hang out with white people. They don't

890
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:28,839
Speaker 1: ever do that. First of all.

891
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 2: And let me also say, and I'm not speaking for

892
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 2: every interracial relationship. I'm not, but it's a lot of

893
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 2: these athletes, these rappers, y'all are getting you know, these

894
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 2: white women and things like that.

895
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 1: But please believe that they're only there because of who

896
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:43,319
Speaker 1: you are.

897
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 2: A lot of the times, these type of women would

898
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 2: never date a black person if you didn't have money,

899
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:51,399
Speaker 2: and if you weren't because they're not bringing that home.

900
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 2: They can bring you home because you're in a tax pracket.

901
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:56,800
Speaker 2: That's the same as their dad and their grandfather. So

902
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 2: y'all can have similar conversations.

903
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:02,320
Speaker 1: So it's cool. So that's that's what I was getting on.

904
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 2: As far as like when he was saying earlier, I

905
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 2: hate when a nigga has a black girlfriend then goes

906
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 2: to get a white girl.

907
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:08,919
Speaker 3: And that's what I'm saying.

908
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 4: But at the same time, that's like I don infiltrated

909
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:15,479
Speaker 4: they structure. They ain't infiltrated minds, Like I'm conquering there,

910
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 4: there are you conquering.

911
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,439
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a little bit of both them.

912
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 5: But are you conquering?

913
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 1: Because if you have to think about it.

914
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 2: If he if you gonna marry a white girl right now,

915
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 2: and y'all have a child, you have a son, and.

916
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 1: He wants to do the same thing, get a white

917
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:29,280
Speaker 1: you're you're.

918
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 2: Guess what if he marries a white girl and they

919
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,919
Speaker 2: have a child that maybe is seventy five percent white,

920
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 2: you're you're You're not.

921
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:38,479
Speaker 4: I'm saying you ain't infiltrated. You know what I'm saying

922
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 4: is her daddy passed that business down, and that's my wife.

923
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 3: I'm my money now.

924
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:48,280
Speaker 5: I mean.

925
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 3: I got her older brothers ard You know what I'm saying,

926
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 3: They all inconclusive.

927
00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 4: If I'm like, you gotta think if one of these

928
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:02,800
Speaker 4: ball players making twenty something million year, his girl family

929
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 4: is worth roughly around the same amount.

930
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 3: They're having those conversations.

931
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 4: They're doing business with each other that is taken from

932
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 4: their investment pool.

933
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 1: But with them, so they might exile up and marry you.

934
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 1: But but but but what you're saying, I.

935
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 3: Like, and the feminist movie gonna come in for me

936
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 3: and she gonna be like, no, you can't take it

937
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 3: from us.

938
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 2: I feel what you're saying. I feel what you're saying

939
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 2: as far as that, But how often does that happen?

940
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 3: A lot?

941
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 1: Really?

942
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 4: Why you think all these you see all these athletes,

943
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 4: they like skin, You want skin because mama white.

944
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 3: Let me tell you, I'm just saying, you think about it.

945
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 4: The thing that girlfriend and boyfriend is the biggest thing

946
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 4: that kind of destroyed what we have because we're not

947
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 4: when you have to put that berry up, and I

948
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 4: for I got a lot of my best friend. That

949
00:44:58,239 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 4: right there starts a bad d.

950
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 1: So you feel like black men have to lot of

951
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:02,840
Speaker 1: black women.

952
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 4: More, they got a lot to him because y'all don't

953
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 4: understand the reason why we all these girls because to

954
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 4: the victor goes the spoils. When we come slaughter the

955
00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 4: motherfucking tribe, they they slaves. And that's just every you're.

956
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 1: Talking about girlfriend and boyfriend.

957
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

958
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 1: But by the time you're married, you're not doing that

959
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 1: anymore because you and you.

960
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,919
Speaker 4: Didn't allow him to really explore himself as a young man.

961
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 3: I'm twenty one, I'm in No, you shouldn't.

962
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 4: You don't know you that's your best friend. You still direct,

963
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 4: you still go on trips with you.

964
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:40,919
Speaker 9: See why you got friends and not because we break

965
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 9: we break our our race like we we kind of

966
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 9: like the reason why the little boys grow.

967
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 4: Up without their daddy is and shit, be like, be

968
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 4: over it. Don't be over no real situation. You know,

969
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:56,839
Speaker 4: you might have twenty it might be like domestic. He's

970
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 4: just y'all just got a bad energy to each other.

971
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 1: I'm not ready to be daddy.

972
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 3: Thank you.

973
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 4: Men don't not with the woman that they thought they

974
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:11,399
Speaker 4: would have a They don't want to be They don't

975
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:12,720
Speaker 4: want to be your husband.

976
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,320
Speaker 1: No, I don't think being a husband got anything.

977
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:20,359
Speaker 3: If we having sex without to come to team. We're

978
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:21,360
Speaker 3: super close, we.

979
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 1: Know and you know that it's the possibility that I

980
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 1: might eat.

981
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't have the type of possibility, but because

982
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 4: I ain't that close.

983
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 3: To no woman.

984
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 2: But this is you talking about people without daddy's There

985
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,759
Speaker 2: is nothing that will keep a real man away from

986
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 2: his child.

987
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 1: So we cannot say it's because let me say something.

988
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:43,359
Speaker 2: If I have a child with somebody, I'm fucking right now,

989
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:46,320
Speaker 2: I don't care and we break up, I don't care.

990
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,880
Speaker 1: Who you fucking come pick up your child and be

991
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 1: there for your child.

992
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 4: What a dude could A dude could be in love

993
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 4: with a woman and the relationship goes sour that he

994
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:59,359
Speaker 4: don't want nothing to do with the woman no more,

995
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 4: even if he have his kid.

996
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 2: But as long as you know what I'm saying, as

997
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 2: long as you take care of your kids, you know.

998
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 4: But what I'm saying is a lot of times when

999
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 4: you give women the power of the child, they kind

1000
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 4: of like it's their ownership in so many words, So

1001
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 4: dudes feel like, Okay, she got help from the government.

1002
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 3: She kind of like.

1003
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 4: What I'm saying that when that conflict in the relationship happened,

1004
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 4: most men kind of step away from it and go

1005
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,919
Speaker 4: do their own thing or have another girlfriend or whatever

1006
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 4: the case may be. But that don't mean because a

1007
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 4: lot of young men when they grew up and their

1008
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 4: daddy's ain't in their life and they grew up and

1009
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 4: become young men, they kind of be forgive forgiving of

1010
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 4: their father for a lot of things in relationship because

1011
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 4: now they starting to experience their own relationships themselves.

1012
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 1: So starting to because.

1013
00:47:57,360 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 4: Fail relationship with somebody that you had a bomb with

1014
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 4: to a man, you don't know, we don't talk to

1015
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 4: y'all about that like that. We're just gonna keep hard on,

1016
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 4: like na, that's the problem, but that could be devastating,

1017
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 4: Like if you was my girl and you look, it'll

1018
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:14,839
Speaker 4: be devastating.

1019
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 1: But I'm leaving you because you have these learned behaviors.

1020
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 6: You still gotta be there for your child, but I'm

1021
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 6: still devastating.

1022
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 5: Even when.

1023
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 3: I see him, I'm gonna be like I see your

1024
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 3: mama or even my daughter. I see your mama and.

1025
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 4: You, and it's hurting my feelings. Why, That's what I'm saying.

1026
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 4: But we don't get along.

1027
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 2: So it's like, but why do we Probably don't get

1028
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,840
Speaker 2: along because you have a mindset that you're not willing

1029
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 2: to change.

1030
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 3: We gotta both work on that, fag, And.

1031
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 1: I mean work that I can tell you because you ain't.

1032
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,719
Speaker 3: Gonna pick no no, I mean because you know it's

1033
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 3: the wrong. Sorry, I'm just saying.

1034
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 4: I'm just saying you didn't have a way of retreating

1035
00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:12,240
Speaker 4: like you said, they retreat from them, they yeah.

1036
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 1: Away from your is different.

1037
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:17,840
Speaker 2: You cannot retreat away from your kids because guess what,

1038
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 2: my feelings are hurt too.

1039
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:23,320
Speaker 1: But I can't retreat because I have him. I'm I

1040
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:24,720
Speaker 1: can't retreat, but you can't.

1041
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 4: And you know what happens.

1042
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:27,200
Speaker 3: You know what happens is like the government.

1043
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 4: That's why it's deep, because they put all these programs

1044
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,320
Speaker 4: together to make you feel comfortable enough.

1045
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:34,799
Speaker 1: To be without the man.

1046
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:36,399
Speaker 3: Yeah. I used to have to go to my sister

1047
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 3: house and she would have to hide all the men.

1048
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I didn't know when you're on section eight

1049
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 1: you can't have a man in the home. I know

1050
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 1: that you cannot have a.

1051
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 3: Man in the hall that the est closed.

1052
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: Yes, it's crazy, so it actually set you will come

1053
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:55,480
Speaker 1: in search you can't.

1054
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 3: So that's the thing.

1055
00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 4: It's like women can say I leave my man easily

1056
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 4: because they know they still got somewhat of support from

1057
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 4: the government. So a man kind of feel like, all right,

1058
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 4: well he got she got that support, she gonna be

1059
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:11,840
Speaker 4: all right. No man feel like, I ain't got no support,

1060
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 4: so I'm gonna go do what I gotta do. So

1061
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 4: a lot of times I don't want women to get

1062
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,799
Speaker 4: a missing screwed that they don't want to see their son.

1063
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 4: It's just sometimes the mental, the mental, you know, fortitude,

1064
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 4: you gotta have to make it through life as a

1065
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 4: black man, sometimes he just don't even want to go

1066
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:33,239
Speaker 4: over there and throw his energy off.

1067
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 3: Well, he gotta go pick up it.

1068
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 1: I mean.

1069
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 3: I pulled it. I was leaving this girl crib.

1070
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 4: I pulled back in the parking spot, and I was

1071
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 4: rolling the blunt right, and I've seen this guy he

1072
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:48,799
Speaker 4: had it was him in the front seat and son

1073
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 4: was in the back scene, and you know, I'm seeing

1074
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,480
Speaker 4: him talk to him like, man, you know whatever.

1075
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 3: I guess, you know, be good in school whatever. And

1076
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 3: I just see an explorer pull a word fast right,

1077
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 3: so he get out the car. Bom. You know, he

1078
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 3: walk up to the passenger door. She let that motherfucker

1079
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:07,800
Speaker 3: down like period.

1080
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 4: He like, I just see him doing something like this

1081
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 4: for like five seconds and the window go back up.

1082
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:16,400
Speaker 3: He turned around, walked to the back seat. He go

1083
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:17,040
Speaker 3: get the sun.

1084
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:20,320
Speaker 4: He's like, yo, man, you know, he kissed him on

1085
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 4: his fore head, opened the back door.

1086
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 3: He put him in the seat.

1087
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 4: I mean soon as he shut the door, he couldn't

1088
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 4: even kiss them.

1089
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:30,680
Speaker 3: I was like, brother, just sitting there like that. I

1090
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 3: got the chinse on, so he don't know. I'm like

1091
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 3: right here.

1092
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 4: He like, damn, I just seem like that shit was

1093
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 4: just so emotional for him. But he you know, he

1094
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:42,759
Speaker 4: just got back in the car, you know, drove off.

1095
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 4: But the see it on his face was like, bro,

1096
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,960
Speaker 4: I feel your brother because they relationship wasn't good.

1097
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 3: So it's like affecting.

1098
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 2: I mean, co parenting is hard, but I think at

1099
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:55,919
Speaker 2: the end of the day, when co parenting becomes hard

1100
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:59,640
Speaker 2: is because nobody is putting the child's feelings first. Right,

1101
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 2: even she pulled up like that and pulled off like that,

1102
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 2: she wasn't thinking about her child, you know what I'm saying.

1103
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,399
Speaker 1: So I felt like we involved a lot of time.

1104
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: That's a lot of people. Main problem is ego. If

1105
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 1: people remove ego from situations.

1106
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:14,239
Speaker 2: Then I just feel like it wouldn't be so much

1107
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 2: difficulties because, like you said, if you're putting the child first,

1108
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 2: and y'all both removing y'all ego from the situation. And

1109
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 2: I'm only speaking not from experience because we don't know,

1110
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 2: because we don't.

1111
00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 1: That's why I had to say that.

1112
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:35,399
Speaker 3: That's I said, I speaking like I know, I'm thinking

1113
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 3: none of don't listen up.

1114
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 1: Don't know if we're gonna let you see a little

1115
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 1: right right, either, I don't know you we got totally

1116
00:52:57,840 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: off top. We always do.

1117
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 4: I love it.

1118
00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 2: Okay, So before we move on, when you care about one,

1119
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 2: what what can a woman bring to the table for you?

1120
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:14,000
Speaker 1: Like what's important to you?

1121
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:24,080
Speaker 4: Education, patience, organization Like you said, definitely gotta be able

1122
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 4: to whip up some ship. She gotta be able to

1123
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 4: cook up songs. Okay, she gotta be motivating. That's the

1124
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:33,839
Speaker 4: biggest thing. I think a lot of times, a lot

1125
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 4: of relationships don't work because I think I told my

1126
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:40,000
Speaker 4: one home girl that I was like, you underestimating your

1127
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 4: power because she tryed to shoot for like the high

1128
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 4: tier me And I'm like, man, some nice men who

1129
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:48,440
Speaker 4: like you that you can put something in them and

1130
00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:49,720
Speaker 4: take them past the niggas.

1131
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:51,799
Speaker 1: But do you feel like she could get the hogh

1132
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 1: tier me?

1133
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:54,359
Speaker 3: And is that like knocking off?

1134
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 2: But I'm saying, do you feel like she could like

1135
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 2: really get one? Because I think it's a woman who

1136
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 2: can get one and get them to take them serious

1137
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 2: and be with one, and then it's the ones who

1138
00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 2: could get fucked by one.

1139
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:04,879
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

1140
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 4: I think I think most women who are with men

1141
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 4: at our highest status or got a lot of money

1142
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 4: helped them get there. They don't really buy bitches who

1143
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,240
Speaker 4: like come along, like why he already got some paper.

1144
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 3: He is gonna hit you, like you know what I mean,

1145
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 3: because you don't have no he don't have no attachment

1146
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:24,720
Speaker 3: to your use the journey.

1147
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 4: So that's why I said, like a lot of times

1148
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 4: we women, That's why I said, I don't like when

1149
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 4: they leave their boyfriend, because you part of that journey.

1150
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 3: You part of that like your nieces and nephews should be.

1151
00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 4: Able to get a full scholarship to go to school

1152
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:39,800
Speaker 4: off the behalf of with you and your best friend

1153
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:41,239
Speaker 4: or boyfriend.

1154
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:42,280
Speaker 3: Or whatever you want to call of them built.

1155
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:44,000
Speaker 4: So I think a lot of times we just have

1156
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:47,319
Speaker 4: to get over the barrier of you know, us as

1157
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 4: young adults dating and not taking it as.

1158
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 3: Serious as its marriage.

1159
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:55,400
Speaker 4: Right, a lot of times even if we brewing friendships,

1160
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 4: like you're mighty dated the dude that was probably be

1161
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:01,760
Speaker 4: a good business partner, but y'all had sex or whatever

1162
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,759
Speaker 4: or whatnot, and now y'all can't even function in the

1163
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 4: same environment.

1164
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 3: So it's like a lot of times that's those visual emotional.

1165
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:11,799
Speaker 1: But if you're emotional like that, you don't need.

1166
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,359
Speaker 3: To be y'all just look good.

1167
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 4: So on a on a good night, it'll be like

1168
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:19,279
Speaker 4: damn she Then you just up the friendship because now

1169
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:21,840
Speaker 4: you know what I mean, So it just be like that.

1170
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 4: But I think, you know, basically, you gotta have that motivation,

1171
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:29,359
Speaker 4: those intangible things, uh, you know, be able to cook

1172
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 4: a little something, have some education because you know, my

1173
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:33,880
Speaker 4: mama do all the paperwork.

1174
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 3: For my daddy. Okay, but you know what I mean,

1175
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:39,920
Speaker 3: my parents still together. That's where I'm speaking from.

1176
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:41,360
Speaker 5: So you grew up in.

1177
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:45,879
Speaker 2: But I laughed that you said that because that lets

1178
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 2: people know that you can grow up in the two person,

1179
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:51,920
Speaker 2: a two parent household, and still have a different perspect Yeah.

1180
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:54,000
Speaker 2: I feel like I say a lot of things sometimes

1181
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:55,279
Speaker 2: on the show and then people are be in the

1182
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 2: comments like, oh, you.

1183
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:00,880
Speaker 1: Have her daddy and I grew up in a two

1184
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:03,080
Speaker 1: parent house. So my parents were married my whole life.

1185
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 1: I've seen real love.

1186
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:07,799
Speaker 2: My mom was there for my dad all four years

1187
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:10,359
Speaker 2: he was sick until he passed away on his dead

1188
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 2: to be like, I've seen real love. But I just

1189
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:16,240
Speaker 2: have the perspectives that I have and I'm entitled today.

1190
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 2: But I'm laugh that you said that because yeah, I

1191
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:19,920
Speaker 2: think people think that when you grow up in a

1192
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 2: two parent household, you're just supposed to feel like, no,

1193
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 2: I have to be with this person and I have

1194
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 2: to stay down for.

1195
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:28,279
Speaker 1: Them, and I'm gonna go through whatever whenever we too

1196
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 1: it's like, no, it's nice.

1197
00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, so with fake But that's why I.

1198
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 1: Don't get in relationships like that, because.

1199
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:47,799
Speaker 3: It's people love each other. Yeah, but I'm not gonna.

1200
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 1: I think one thing.

1201
00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 2: I'm a Leo and what we said, my moon is

1202
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,759
Speaker 2: in Pisces. I am, I'm a tourist, but my moon

1203
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:54,319
Speaker 2: is in Leo.

1204
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:59,759
Speaker 1: Yes, throw back Bay is a Virgo. Y'all know who

1205
00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 1: throw so we already right.

1206
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 2: But I feel like the thing about me is like

1207
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:20,000
Speaker 2: I am emotional and I love love.

1208
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 1: I am I am passionate to the max.

1209
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 2: Like my passion is out of this world and it's

1210
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 2: actually a little it gets a little overbearing sometimes I.

1211
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 1: Feel like you be chasing a high. Yes for me,

1212
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 1: it's like but not even that with love.

1213
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 2: It's just with anything any type of hide when it

1214
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:39,919
Speaker 2: comes to emotions, whether it's good emotions better.

1215
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:43,920
Speaker 1: I just like passion, you know, Like I'm into everything.

1216
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 2: Even like when I'm on the show. I'm extra when

1217
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 2: I'm on stage.

1218
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 1: Yes, it's giving.

1219
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:51,920
Speaker 5: Hello, you know what I'm saying.

1220
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 1: So that's just me.

1221
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 2: So I think for me, that's what it comes from.

1222
00:57:55,080 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 2: It's not necessarily that I am. I don't force relationships ever. Ever,

1223
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 2: every time I've been in a relationship, it's because the

1224
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 2: man was like, Oh, let's do this.

1225
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:05,520
Speaker 1: I want to be with you.

1226
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:10,880
Speaker 3: Yeahship, Yeah, But.

1227
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 2: You know what, my friend me and my friend was

1228
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 2: having a conversation the other day and she was talking

1229
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 2: to one of her male bes friends who was engaged,

1230
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 2: and she was telling him about her frustration about like

1231
00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 2: dating and how it's hard to date out here right

1232
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 2: now and she's annoyed because she can't find somebody that

1233
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 2: she really like.

1234
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: And he was like, that's because you need to start

1235
00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:33,640
Speaker 1: dating people that you like, not just people that like you.

1236
00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:36,840
Speaker 1: And I think that a lot of people do this.

1237
00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 2: Do you think, Okay, but do you think because we

1238
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 2: said we don't shoot our shot at men.

1239
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:46,960
Speaker 1: Dating, Oh I can't.

1240
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:50,400
Speaker 2: Every man that I ever took series in the past

1241
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:54,080
Speaker 2: few years have been somebody who chased me down, was

1242
00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 2: trying to pursue for a long time, and then I

1243
00:58:56,840 --> 00:59:00,920
Speaker 2: finally was like, Okay, well why not because he showed

1244
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 2: that he's procesting, he showed.

1245
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 1: That he's interesting, so why not give him a chance.

1246
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 2: But it wasn't nobody that I was like, oh I

1247
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 2: won't really like this nigga, Like I really want this nigga.

1248
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 1: Never feel like it could be something.

1249
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:14,880
Speaker 2: And it ain't even necessarily that you gotta shoot your

1250
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 2: shy because I feel like, because I feel like sometimes

1251
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, it's weird, because I do feel like

1252
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 2: times that I did like somebody and I didn't want

1253
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 2: to shoot my shot, they still the way shit aligned.

1254
00:59:27,120 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 1: They still ended up trying to holler at me.

1255
00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, so maybe sometimes you just gotta be right. I

1256
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 2: feel like, I mean, that don't happen, like you following

1257
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 2: up in a room with him, y'all like, man, let

1258
00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:39,840
Speaker 2: me get your number.

1259
00:59:39,880 --> 00:59:42,959
Speaker 1: But I'd be like, okay, like yeah, but she always happen.

1260
00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 1: But it's never been like, oh I like this nigga,

1261
00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:48,440
Speaker 1: let me Yeah. But I think it is different.

1262
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 2: I think you'll have a whole completely different outcome if

1263
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 2: you dating somebody where you like I'm feeling this nigga,

1264
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 2: like I like him too, So are you gonna do it.

1265
00:59:56,880 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 3: But money, nigga, much money. I don'e blew through trying

1266
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 3: to you know, you don't never know who like you.

1267
01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:04,880
Speaker 4: It's like, man, you've been on dates all type of ship,

1268
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:07,720
Speaker 4: you sell them eight thousand a whole. You actually find

1269
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 4: out y'all don't even like each other. I'm weak, Yeah,

1270
01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 4: not step Yeah. I mean you you know you're going

1271
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 4: to dinner, you're e you're going to the movies, then

1272
01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 4: the strict club, you're gonna suck up.

1273
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,840
Speaker 6: And it was like you do that two three times?

1274
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:27,040
Speaker 3: Like I don't really even like this.

1275
01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:30,720
Speaker 2: I have seen, but I have seen a post to

1276
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:34,360
Speaker 2: the other day on social media where he said this

1277
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 2: girl was like don't she was like stop dating people

1278
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 2: who wait, damn never mind, I forgot damn.

1279
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 1: So so you think we should start shooting our shop?

1280
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:49,880
Speaker 1: I think we should. Oh my god, this goes against

1281
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 1: everything we've ever said for not shooting it necessarily, but.

1282
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 3: Like trying to try find school waits them to start.

1283
01:00:59,640 --> 01:01:02,240
Speaker 1: That that the woman was shooting her shot at you.

1284
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:03,080
Speaker 1: What would you want her to do?

1285
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 3: What I want her to do?

1286
01:01:04,880 --> 01:01:05,080
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1287
01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 2: Like if like a woman is trying to hit on

1288
01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 2: you and like she's trying to shoot her shot?

1289
01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 1: What do you want her to do?

1290
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:12,439
Speaker 4: I mean kind of. I think it should be kind

1291
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:16,439
Speaker 4: of like an interview style conversation. Okay, hey, what's going

1292
01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 4: on where you coming from?

1293
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 1: Should just walk up to you?

1294
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:20,680
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1295
01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:24,960
Speaker 1: Would you want her to buy you a drink? No? Nobody?

1296
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 3: But I just think she should just tell me what

1297
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 3: she likes about me.

1298
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 7: Mmm.

1299
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 3: I think you're doing this. I think I like the

1300
01:01:31,880 --> 01:01:34,720
Speaker 3: way you do this. Okay, if I was around you,

1301
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 3: I can help you do this, this and this.

1302
01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:38,520
Speaker 1: Oh so you want to hear how she can upgrade?

1303
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 4: It's about all my probers who got wives and married

1304
01:01:42,400 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 4: rich as fuck.

1305
01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 1: They married the right woman. That's important though.

1306
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I've got to marry.

1307
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:52,800
Speaker 2: But a lot of time now you're saying that, I

1308
01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:54,560
Speaker 2: do look at things like that. When I look in

1309
01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 2: a partner, like how can we make money together? That's

1310
01:01:57,480 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 2: my first thought when I'm like now, when I look

1311
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:02,280
Speaker 2: at partners, I'm like, how can you upgrade me?

1312
01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 1: And how can I upgrade you? What can we do that?

1313
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:08,040
Speaker 1: Because what I'm doing right now it is lit over here.

1314
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:11,400
Speaker 5: It's always so what can you do for me?

1315
01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:15,160
Speaker 4: And what can I do for It's always about money.

1316
01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 4: Even to do philanthropy, you need money.

1317
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 6: Yes, even if you want to change the.

1318
01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 1: World, somebody, it gotta make sense, makes sense. I agree.

1319
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:33,959
Speaker 2: I feel like it's crazy when people be saying money

1320
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:35,200
Speaker 2: don't matter in a relationship.

1321
01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 3: It definitely does.

1322
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:40,880
Speaker 2: I feel like you can't have, you can't have, and

1323
01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:42,479
Speaker 2: I don't care what nobody say. You can talk about

1324
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:46,920
Speaker 2: your green, You're gonna talk about your No, you cannot

1325
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:50,880
Speaker 2: have a happy marriage if y'all are struggling too much.

1326
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 2: It's like you will stay together, like you gonna stay

1327
01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 2: with that person and work through things with them. But

1328
01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 2: I also think that's because back in the day it

1329
01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 2: was limited resources, Like you gonna stay with this nigga,

1330
01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 2: because bitch, where are you gonna find another one?

1331
01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 1: Bitch? We can get on Instagram a five six of

1332
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 1: them right now.

1333
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:11,200
Speaker 2: We live. We live in Memphis, Tennessee. Like where are

1334
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 2: you about to buy another nigga? In nineteen thirty two,

1335
01:03:14,680 --> 01:03:16,480
Speaker 2: So I think a lot of people and then we

1336
01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 2: got seven kids already, Like yeah, I'm gonna stay with

1337
01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:19,760
Speaker 2: this nigga.

1338
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:21,440
Speaker 1: But I don't think it was like that's.

1339
01:03:21,360 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 3: Why she don't like me calling the old lady.

1340
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 5: But this nigga, this.

1341
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 3: Nigga, I'm girl.

1342
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 1: We already got seven kids? Why not say?

1343
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1344
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:35,960
Speaker 1: But where were you gonna find somebody else?

1345
01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 2: Limited resources, but not truly off of happiness, because I

1346
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,280
Speaker 2: don't think you can be happy if you're in.

1347
01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:44,200
Speaker 1: A situation where you're struggling because life is beating your ass.

1348
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:47,320
Speaker 4: Well, I think that was the goal back in those days,

1349
01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:50,800
Speaker 4: was to have a lot of kids because you get.

1350
01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:54,920
Speaker 3: More opportunity, like right now, Like my MoMA probably never

1351
01:03:55,040 --> 01:03:58,400
Speaker 3: thought that she would be living how she I know,

1352
01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:01,560
Speaker 3: that's right behind I'm bad. I was bad as fuck

1353
01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:02,080
Speaker 3: growing up.

1354
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:03,439
Speaker 1: I was, you know what I'm saying.

1355
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:05,480
Speaker 4: So they probably like my son ain't he's gonna be

1356
01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:08,520
Speaker 4: in jail, gonna be and you know that this right

1357
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 4: when Rapp?

1358
01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:12,080
Speaker 3: You know, Rap is only forty years old, that's right.

1359
01:04:12,200 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 3: So it's like your mom probably.

1360
01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:18,040
Speaker 4: Rap, you're trying to do what you come home and

1361
01:04:18,120 --> 01:04:22,200
Speaker 4: bills paid, mother coming you singing baby.

1362
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:24,680
Speaker 1: Something?

1363
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:26,880
Speaker 8: So so.

1364
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:35,440
Speaker 1: Are you the only child you got? I got three sisters,

1365
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:37,320
Speaker 1: you got three sons older, you got a hurry boy.

1366
01:04:38,520 --> 01:04:43,080
Speaker 2: Oh and look whoever this guy you're getting beat up,

1367
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:46,920
Speaker 2: don't mess with him. Okay, So now we go on

1368
01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:50,440
Speaker 2: because we don't talk too much, we're gonna get into.

1369
01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 1: The bow bow bow bow.

1370
01:04:56,600 --> 01:04:58,720
Speaker 3: It's the big Yeah, I got something. Don't to.

1371
01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 1: Thank you, okay for the bad topic today. I wanted

1372
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:06,160
Speaker 1: to talk about this.

1373
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:08,760
Speaker 2: Because I feel like, you know, we're all experienced in

1374
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 2: the bedroom.

1375
01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:14,760
Speaker 1: You know, we we're adults here exactly, so I wanted to.

1376
01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 2: Talk about I feel like we should all give two things.

1377
01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:21,040
Speaker 2: If you could teach your younger self something about sex,

1378
01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:22,160
Speaker 2: what would it be.

1379
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:25,040
Speaker 5: You want to start?

1380
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:26,479
Speaker 1: I will definitely start.

1381
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:32,320
Speaker 2: The first one is you don't have to pretend like

1382
01:05:32,960 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 2: you taking that dick. You don't have to take that dick.

1383
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:37,960
Speaker 6: Girl, You don't have.

1384
01:05:39,560 --> 01:05:40,760
Speaker 1: Let me tell you what I'm laughing at.

1385
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:45,720
Speaker 2: Okay, you want to talk about I was thinking about

1386
01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:49,200
Speaker 2: a time where I was a young taught and I

1387
01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:51,800
Speaker 2: was like getting hit front the back and it hurts

1388
01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:56,760
Speaker 2: so bad. You gotta, girl, because if you don't take it,

1389
01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 2: you don't know what you're doing.

1390
01:05:57,960 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 1: Your pussy not good shit hurt. You're hurting me. So

1391
01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 1: I would have told stop. I would have told young

1392
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 1: legsby to turn around, stop hold it hurts. So, yeah,

1393
01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:15,440
Speaker 1: you don't have to take that dick.

1394
01:06:15,480 --> 01:06:17,080
Speaker 3: I don't know a fuck what these niggas say.

1395
01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:19,520
Speaker 1: You do not have to take that dick?

1396
01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:20,400
Speaker 3: Oh man.

1397
01:06:21,000 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 1: So yes, that's the first thing I would teach my

1398
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:23,840
Speaker 1: younger self.

1399
01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:27,680
Speaker 2: Second thing I would teach my younger self is to

1400
01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:28,800
Speaker 2: stop faking it.

1401
01:06:29,280 --> 01:06:31,919
Speaker 1: Stop faking these orgasms. Then I'll make you nothing. Yeah,

1402
01:06:33,000 --> 01:06:37,560
Speaker 1: a liar, you know, stop lying? I did not, nigga, No,

1403
01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:38,280
Speaker 1: I didn't.

1404
01:06:38,840 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 3: It didn't feel good.

1405
01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:42,480
Speaker 1: I don't like this shit. Why are you here?

1406
01:06:43,240 --> 01:06:43,280
Speaker 6: You?

1407
01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:49,920
Speaker 1: What's your name? So I feel like, in all my lesson.

1408
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:53,400
Speaker 2: To my younger self is stop lying, stop acting like

1409
01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:56,880
Speaker 2: that dick, feel good when it hurt, and stop faking orgasms.

1410
01:06:57,560 --> 01:07:01,920
Speaker 1: That's what I would have told eighteen year old period.

1411
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:08,000
Speaker 5: I in the moment, I was like, you don't you

1412
01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:08,520
Speaker 5: off me?

1413
01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:15,320
Speaker 2: So for me, I wouldn't say probably intimacy, That intimacy

1414
01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:17,160
Speaker 2: and a connection is important.

1415
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:19,520
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, because I feel like when I've had.

1416
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:22,080
Speaker 2: Sex with people and it was like real intimacy and

1417
01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:25,120
Speaker 2: a real connection involved sex, like that is so much

1418
01:07:25,200 --> 01:07:28,720
Speaker 2: different from just like that passion, you know what I mean,

1419
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:33,680
Speaker 2: it's a passion. And then also yeah, like being able

1420
01:07:33,760 --> 01:07:36,520
Speaker 2: to vocalize what you like and don't like. So I

1421
01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:38,800
Speaker 2: guess that kind of goes into what you just said,

1422
01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:41,320
Speaker 2: because I feel like when you're young, you be scared

1423
01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:43,920
Speaker 2: to tell a nigga like I don't like that, stop

1424
01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 2: doing it?

1425
01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:45,800
Speaker 1: Yes, And it's like it's.

1426
01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:47,680
Speaker 2: Okay to tell him like I don't like that shit

1427
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:49,640
Speaker 2: that doesn't feel good to me. Actually, you need to

1428
01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 2: do this because I feel like when you're younger, you're

1429
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:55,840
Speaker 2: not so much focused on your pleasure as the other person.

1430
01:07:56,280 --> 01:08:00,520
Speaker 1: Right, you feel like to please him and then not you,

1431
01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:02,960
Speaker 1: because as he said, I ain't never had an orgasm.

1432
01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:04,480
Speaker 1: That's what society teaches us.

1433
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:07,800
Speaker 2: Please the man, please be like because we feel like

1434
01:08:07,920 --> 01:08:10,720
Speaker 2: the first time a nigga don't know or something happens, something.

1435
01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 1: Wrong with broken, we don't have good pussy. But really,

1436
01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 1: you're not on enough. Garfield is functioning very well. It's not.

1437
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:26,760
Speaker 3: Garfield. Garfield is.

1438
01:08:28,280 --> 01:08:29,400
Speaker 1: Garfield. He's clear.

1439
01:08:30,240 --> 01:08:30,719
Speaker 3: That's sorry.

1440
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:37,839
Speaker 1: Garfield works very well. So if you ever had a problem,

1441
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:39,080
Speaker 1: it's not me, it's you.

1442
01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:41,040
Speaker 2: He ain't had no problem.

1443
01:08:41,640 --> 01:08:41,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1444
01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:44,760
Speaker 2: So I feel like with sex, we need I'm not

1445
01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:46,800
Speaker 2: saying we need to blame men, but we need to

1446
01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:49,680
Speaker 2: be more comfortable with letting men know this is not

1447
01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:52,479
Speaker 2: it I feel like, yes, it's like different things like

1448
01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 2: even with like squirting orgasms.

1449
01:08:55,240 --> 01:08:58,280
Speaker 1: Yes, if you're not doing that, it's not it's that.

1450
01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:04,840
Speaker 1: And we told you not everybody can squirt. Yeah, that's

1451
01:09:04,880 --> 01:09:08,000
Speaker 1: not that mean coach you bad if you didn't.

1452
01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:10,760
Speaker 2: If you can I squirt, it's your granny fall. We

1453
01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:16,320
Speaker 2: talked about it already. Squirting its hereditary. Gertrude couldn't squirt,

1454
01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:17,320
Speaker 2: so you can't either.

1455
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 1: Facts points were made. If you look at your family tree,

1456
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:27,000
Speaker 1: you got somebody to blame.

1457
01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:29,599
Speaker 3: Yes, it's your granny fall.

1458
01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:36,560
Speaker 1: And if you had the plastic on the sofa was

1459
01:09:37,479 --> 01:09:46,840
Speaker 1: all that's what they said. Mister Jean was beating it

1460
01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 1: down a period.

1461
01:09:48,400 --> 01:09:51,360
Speaker 2: Okay, So if you could teach the younger self something

1462
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:52,439
Speaker 2: about sex, what would it be?

1463
01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 4: M hm ah.

1464
01:09:56,720 --> 01:09:57,280
Speaker 3: Is important.

1465
01:09:59,040 --> 01:10:02,080
Speaker 4: That's a great invite the woman over make your house clean,

1466
01:10:02,240 --> 01:10:04,439
Speaker 4: and she got some nice can yeah.

1467
01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:10,320
Speaker 2: I know that, and.

1468
01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:15,920
Speaker 3: Mm hmm, may could getting a shower.

1469
01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:22,519
Speaker 10: The reason I said that, I'm just saying, like when

1470
01:10:22,560 --> 01:10:31,760
Speaker 10: you you know, I mean, I'm just saying no, no, yeah,

1471
01:10:31,880 --> 01:10:33,280
Speaker 10: thats right there.

1472
01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:36,240
Speaker 1: It's like this much, it's this many degrees of separation

1473
01:10:37,160 --> 01:10:39,800
Speaker 1: between But I mean, let me.

1474
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:43,920
Speaker 3: Tell you something. Usually when I have a girl, she'd

1475
01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:46,000
Speaker 3: be so ready to fuck me. It don't even really be.

1476
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:50,559
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, because you know you don't

1477
01:10:50,600 --> 01:10:53,280
Speaker 4: got to do you know what I'm saying, I can't.

1478
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:55,200
Speaker 3: But that's reserves for.

1479
01:10:58,200 --> 01:11:02,360
Speaker 1: But you ain't did for We're playing twenty years he

1480
01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:05,240
Speaker 1: said fifteen. He said fifteen.

1481
01:11:06,240 --> 01:11:08,760
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, like what I'm saying is like, if

1482
01:11:08,800 --> 01:11:11,439
Speaker 4: the ambiance is right, usually when the girl want to

1483
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:13,519
Speaker 4: come up, we're gonna watch something. We're gonna eat some

1484
01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:15,600
Speaker 4: fruit snacks or something, watching.

1485
01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:18,120
Speaker 3: Scooby Doo, Yeah, and the Gold Stairs and do what

1486
01:11:18,200 --> 01:11:20,160
Speaker 3: we do, and she might spend it out. She might

1487
01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:21,920
Speaker 3: leave in the morning and leave right after that.

1488
01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:25,200
Speaker 4: But if it's somebody you really like, you know you're

1489
01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:28,120
Speaker 4: gonna have your candles. You're crat no boy, right, Yeah,

1490
01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:28,679
Speaker 4: I'm gonna.

1491
01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:39,920
Speaker 3: Have the music. I either I'm gonna play. It depends.

1492
01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:45,400
Speaker 3: If it's somebody really like, I'm gonna play like Chemistry Kim.

1493
01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:48,680
Speaker 3: But if it's like a little I'm fucking with, I'm

1494
01:11:48,760 --> 01:11:50,120
Speaker 3: playing Drip or drum.

1495
01:11:52,040 --> 01:12:04,200
Speaker 4: Lamp lay Off like a Gunna is the best album

1496
01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:06,920
Speaker 4: to play. Artists to play when you with a little ship.

1497
01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:07,920
Speaker 4: You're about to dock off.

1498
01:12:08,080 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 5: Gunner.

1499
01:12:08,600 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 3: Always I to a.

1500
01:12:13,040 --> 01:12:15,320
Speaker 1: Nigga house and he playing drip leaving.

1501
01:12:15,360 --> 01:12:19,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, dripple drunk. I'm playing dripple drunk. It's six years later.

1502
01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:27,280
Speaker 3: I'm still put out four the albums, Like I told

1503
01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:28,040
Speaker 3: me what this about.

1504
01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 1: So if y'all going ahead house and he.

1505
01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:31,760
Speaker 3: Playing Gunner, you already know what.

1506
01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:37,479
Speaker 4: If it's a rap song, that means y'all cool. If

1507
01:12:37,520 --> 01:12:38,920
Speaker 4: it's a slow song, that means.

1508
01:12:38,840 --> 01:12:41,240
Speaker 1: He really like it. Oh, so that's how we can

1509
01:12:41,360 --> 01:12:45,639
Speaker 1: tell I like that. Well, you know what, that's gonna

1510
01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:46,240
Speaker 1: put me on some game.

1511
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:47,599
Speaker 3: I'm gonna switch it up for everybody.

1512
01:12:48,360 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 4: I mean, because you know, back in the day, you

1513
01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:52,960
Speaker 4: just dive in something and you know she might have

1514
01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:55,680
Speaker 4: been out all day, you know, moving around and it

1515
01:12:55,920 --> 01:12:58,720
Speaker 4: wasn't you know back in the day.

1516
01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:01,560
Speaker 1: We like the Coochie was in our first Back in

1517
01:13:01,640 --> 01:13:06,000
Speaker 1: the day, yeah, y'all wipe up. I mean, if you

1518
01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:07,800
Speaker 1: got to the club and you.

1519
01:13:07,960 --> 01:13:11,840
Speaker 2: Dancing still though when I get yeah, well, honestly, I'm

1520
01:13:11,880 --> 01:13:12,360
Speaker 2: not gonna lie.

1521
01:13:13,280 --> 01:13:15,760
Speaker 1: But we used to keep the little white Yeah we did,

1522
01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:17,320
Speaker 1: But I feel like that's when it was younger.

1523
01:13:18,840 --> 01:13:19,639
Speaker 5: At this age.

1524
01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:22,519
Speaker 1: If I go to your house because the niggas, the

1525
01:13:22,640 --> 01:13:23,200
Speaker 1: niggas were.

1526
01:13:23,479 --> 01:13:25,799
Speaker 2: Now they got houses and they got a nice bathroom

1527
01:13:25,840 --> 01:13:26,080
Speaker 2: and ship.

1528
01:13:26,160 --> 01:13:27,920
Speaker 3: Back then, it was just kind of like we take

1529
01:13:27,960 --> 01:13:28,240
Speaker 3: a shower.

1530
01:13:29,280 --> 01:13:33,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I know that.

1531
01:13:35,120 --> 01:13:40,840
Speaker 1: It's time to go to the club. Okay, what's up y'all?

1532
01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:43,439
Speaker 1: Is your girl likes pee and it's sugarl tray and

1533
01:13:43,479 --> 01:13:45,320
Speaker 1: the call and we are here to talk to y'all

1534
01:13:45,360 --> 01:13:49,559
Speaker 1: about Upside. Who doesn't like saving money and getting money back?

1535
01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:52,800
Speaker 2: First of all, I love saving me some money, and

1536
01:13:52,880 --> 01:13:54,920
Speaker 2: that's why I love to get upside out. Yeah, So

1537
01:13:55,080 --> 01:13:57,880
Speaker 2: every time you swipe your cards, you're gonna get cash back.

1538
01:13:58,200 --> 01:14:00,920
Speaker 2: And the good thing about Upside is it three times

1539
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:03,800
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Speaker 1: Into the A A Bow.

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Speaker 2: The Bob of the week is this song that we've

1576
01:15:57,120 --> 01:16:00,000
Speaker 2: been jamming this week. What music have you been listening to,

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01:16:00,880 --> 01:16:03,600
Speaker 2: dre you want to go first first? Yeah, I've been

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01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:06,599
Speaker 2: listening to Staying Alive by Drake Like he's the DJ

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01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:09,759
Speaker 2: Kelly new album just about to drop, and I'm fucking

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01:16:09,800 --> 01:16:10,639
Speaker 2: weed that's my song.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think it got a lot of backlash because of

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Speaker 1: the sample.

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01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:17,200
Speaker 2: Why though, because they were just like, oh, y'all are

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01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:21,400
Speaker 2: trying to take a classic song and make it into

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Speaker 2: something that it's not and trying to force something.

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01:16:24,600 --> 01:16:27,240
Speaker 1: But that's what music is. You create and you make

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Speaker 1: things into something that you never thought it could be.

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Speaker 2: Men's been doing that for years, Like so many of

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Speaker 2: our favorite songs are samples.

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Speaker 3: I just realized a lot of Lauren Hill songs were covered.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, upgrade you was a sample.

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Speaker 2: Like, it's a lot of stuff that were that was

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Speaker 2: samples that we didn't even know about like that. Yeah,

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01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:51,600
Speaker 2: it got a lot of backlash, but I like the

1596
01:16:51,680 --> 01:16:56,760
Speaker 2: song grow a little bit, but period what you've been

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Speaker 2: listening to?

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Speaker 3: I think that's I've been listening to that. I know

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Speaker 3: Jim got a new album that just came out.

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Speaker 1: Yes, ye who else?

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01:17:11,600 --> 01:17:13,439
Speaker 3: I heard a Little Baby coming out Friday, so.

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01:17:13,520 --> 01:17:16,680
Speaker 1: We got he just dropped his documentary. Have y'all watched it?

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Speaker 3: Part of it?

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01:17:18,640 --> 01:17:21,200
Speaker 1: Okay? Okay, cool, Okay, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean, I'm just I don't have a favorite, I'm just

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01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:24,479
Speaker 3: keeping my.

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01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:26,320
Speaker 1: What was your favorite artist though?

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01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:30,839
Speaker 3: Like, who do you oh about? Classic? Classic?

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01:17:31,080 --> 01:17:34,160
Speaker 11: I would say jay zay z is your favorite? Okay,

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01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:41,200
Speaker 11: my favorite, but new it would have to be it's

1611
01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:41,880
Speaker 11: two dudes.

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01:17:41,960 --> 01:17:44,720
Speaker 3: That's kind of like battling out. It's really three. But

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01:17:45,040 --> 01:17:51,880
Speaker 3: my top two is not a wick and like to me,

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01:17:52,040 --> 01:17:54,000
Speaker 3: I like, I like rapper rappers.

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01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:56,800
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and he's young, so think about how he's

1616
01:17:56,800 --> 01:17:58,439
Speaker 2: going to be in like five years, you know.

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01:17:59,200 --> 01:17:59,360
Speaker 5: Yeah.

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01:18:00,840 --> 01:18:07,240
Speaker 2: I like that song that him and Lakiah had the Yeah, yeah,

1619
01:18:07,320 --> 01:18:09,080
Speaker 2: that was a good when I was with him. So

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01:18:10,040 --> 01:18:13,160
Speaker 2: I don't have one bop of the week. This album

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01:18:13,320 --> 01:18:15,840
Speaker 2: is so good, and you know what I love. I

1622
01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:18,559
Speaker 2: love when people underestimate somebody and they feel like, oh,

1623
01:18:18,680 --> 01:18:22,160
Speaker 2: her time has came and went Meg the Stallion dropped

1624
01:18:22,360 --> 01:18:27,720
Speaker 2: Traumazine and it is fire. She ate from start to

1625
01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:32,800
Speaker 2: finish NDA Hard, She got budget with Lotto is Hard.

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01:18:33,200 --> 01:18:35,200
Speaker 2: One of my favorite songs on the album is actually

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01:18:35,320 --> 01:18:39,120
Speaker 2: Scary with Rico Nasty. Rico Nasty is so creative and

1628
01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:41,280
Speaker 2: her voice is so different, and it was like the

1629
01:18:41,479 --> 01:18:42,240
Speaker 2: perfect song.

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01:18:42,600 --> 01:18:44,280
Speaker 1: It's like a Halloween type of song.

1631
01:18:44,680 --> 01:18:47,120
Speaker 2: And then Rico Nasty came up there talking about zombie

1632
01:18:47,200 --> 01:18:50,840
Speaker 2: holes and scary niggas. It was just perfect. So I

1633
01:18:50,920 --> 01:18:53,559
Speaker 2: feel like Megan got really creative on this album.

1634
01:18:53,720 --> 01:18:54,479
Speaker 1: She got vulnerable.

1635
01:18:54,560 --> 01:18:57,400
Speaker 2: She has a song called Anxiety where she talks about like,

1636
01:18:57,479 --> 01:19:00,000
Speaker 2: you know, losing her mom and how she just feels

1637
01:19:00,160 --> 01:19:03,000
Speaker 2: was like nobody can understand her and it's hard for her.

1638
01:19:03,000 --> 01:19:03,559
Speaker 1: To talk to people.

1639
01:19:03,640 --> 01:19:05,880
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people need to realize, like

1640
01:19:06,439 --> 01:19:09,000
Speaker 2: when you listen to artists, like they're human, you know,

1641
01:19:09,120 --> 01:19:12,560
Speaker 2: they're they're trying to create and it's hard, and you know,

1642
01:19:12,720 --> 01:19:14,800
Speaker 2: y'all y'all standards be up here, and y'all would listen

1643
01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:16,559
Speaker 2: one time and be like, oh, this is not good,

1644
01:19:17,080 --> 01:19:19,479
Speaker 2: you know, But I could listen to it from the

1645
01:19:19,560 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 2: first go and I was like, oh, this is it.

1646
01:19:21,200 --> 01:19:22,960
Speaker 2: She got a song with Keith lock on there that's

1647
01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:29,040
Speaker 2: hard Lucky that Yeah, like hard. Her album is good.

1648
01:19:29,160 --> 01:19:32,200
Speaker 2: She got Lucky Day on there, Janee I echo, it

1649
01:19:32,400 --> 01:19:36,519
Speaker 2: is a good Yes future on there. It is a

1650
01:19:36,680 --> 01:19:39,120
Speaker 2: good fucking album. And I just I had to give

1651
01:19:39,160 --> 01:19:40,360
Speaker 2: it up for our htown.

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01:19:40,200 --> 01:19:42,960
Speaker 1: Girl because she did that. Because a lot of people

1653
01:19:43,080 --> 01:19:45,000
Speaker 1: just keep wanting to They want her to be a

1654
01:19:45,040 --> 01:19:46,840
Speaker 1: one hit wonder, They want her to go away. This

1655
01:19:47,040 --> 01:19:47,479
Speaker 1: girl was.

1656
01:19:49,439 --> 01:19:54,960
Speaker 2: She was performing in Japan. Bro in Japan. A lot

1657
01:19:55,000 --> 01:19:56,920
Speaker 2: of your faves cannot perform in Japan.

1658
01:19:57,840 --> 01:20:03,439
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. She doing our things. Yeah,

1659
01:20:03,840 --> 01:20:07,679
Speaker 1: So shout out to make Traumasine album is fire. Shout

1660
01:20:07,720 --> 01:20:09,880
Speaker 1: out to Consistent.

1661
01:20:10,720 --> 01:20:13,360
Speaker 2: That's all about consistency, and we always tell people that,

1662
01:20:13,600 --> 01:20:16,920
Speaker 2: like the biggest thing about being successful and working.

1663
01:20:17,040 --> 01:20:19,560
Speaker 1: No matter what you're doing, is being consistent.

1664
01:20:19,760 --> 01:20:22,680
Speaker 2: Like, you can't expect anybody to take you seriously if

1665
01:20:22,720 --> 01:20:26,519
Speaker 2: you don't take yourself yourself seriously. So I fucked we

1666
01:20:26,640 --> 01:20:29,640
Speaker 2: made the album is amazing. Shout out to Maide Stallion.

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01:20:32,160 --> 01:20:32,559
Speaker 1: Period.

1668
01:20:33,400 --> 01:20:36,080
Speaker 2: So now it time to get into our favorite segment

1669
01:20:36,200 --> 01:20:37,960
Speaker 2: of the show for your heart out. So you know,

1670
01:20:38,040 --> 01:20:40,080
Speaker 2: if you have any questions. You can send them to

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Speaker 2: ask More Minds at gmail dot com. It's a s

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Speaker 2: k P O you R M I N d is

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Speaker 2: at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 1: So, Lex, you want to get into this first question,

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01:20:52,360 --> 01:20:54,960
Speaker 1: I'll go ahead and start. I'll start.

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01:20:55,400 --> 01:20:57,599
Speaker 2: Okay, So the first one, and make sure if you're

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Speaker 2: a Patreon member, you put in the subject that you're

1678
01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:00,439
Speaker 2: a patron I remember.

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01:21:00,800 --> 01:21:04,000
Speaker 1: So the first one actually came from a Patreon.

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01:21:04,240 --> 01:21:07,640
Speaker 2: It says, Hey, ladies, I just started fucking with this

1681
01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:10,360
Speaker 2: nigga who got so much going on. He works a

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01:21:10,439 --> 01:21:14,320
Speaker 2: regular nine to five, runs two businesses, and is focused

1683
01:21:14,439 --> 01:21:17,200
Speaker 2: on his music career. I don't fuck with my share

1684
01:21:17,240 --> 01:21:20,719
Speaker 2: of SoundCloud rappers, but this nigga is different. He's actually

1685
01:21:20,840 --> 01:21:24,800
Speaker 2: really good and definitely going places. I know that's right, girl,

1686
01:21:24,840 --> 01:21:29,920
Speaker 2: that be good, Okay. I say all that to say

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01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:33,360
Speaker 2: that his mind is often occupied with other things going on,

1688
01:21:33,680 --> 01:21:37,240
Speaker 2: like work, his family, his friends. When we're having sex,

1689
01:21:37,640 --> 01:21:39,920
Speaker 2: his mind is often racing, and I want to help

1690
01:21:40,000 --> 01:21:43,120
Speaker 2: him forget about everything else focus on me and both

1691
01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:46,160
Speaker 2: of our pleasures. Basically, I want to be his sense

1692
01:21:46,200 --> 01:21:48,720
Speaker 2: of calm outside of everything else he has going on.

1693
01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:52,000
Speaker 2: Since y'all be fucking with bdb's who be working a lot.

1694
01:21:52,400 --> 01:21:55,320
Speaker 2: How do y'all get them to forget about everything else.

1695
01:21:55,720 --> 01:21:57,200
Speaker 5: And be in a moment with you.

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01:22:01,000 --> 01:22:02,040
Speaker 3: I don't go ahead.

1697
01:22:02,320 --> 01:22:04,040
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, I just like you gotta

1698
01:22:04,080 --> 01:22:06,880
Speaker 1: be peaceful and be calm and just be cool. And

1699
01:22:07,040 --> 01:22:09,320
Speaker 1: like a nigga will feel like he can talk to

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01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:10,680
Speaker 1: you like you can't force that.

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01:22:10,960 --> 01:22:11,479
Speaker 6: They just do.

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01:22:12,040 --> 01:22:14,280
Speaker 1: It's either gonna be something where he suck with you

1703
01:22:14,439 --> 01:22:15,000
Speaker 1: or he don't.

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01:22:15,040 --> 01:22:18,000
Speaker 2: And sometimes I think especially niggas like that, they be

1705
01:22:18,080 --> 01:22:20,560
Speaker 2: having a lot of be cheese and so sometimes you

1706
01:22:20,800 --> 01:22:22,040
Speaker 2: just be one of the v cheese.

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01:22:24,000 --> 01:22:26,280
Speaker 1: That can be the case. But also I want to

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01:22:26,320 --> 01:22:28,120
Speaker 1: allow boyfriend.

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01:22:29,040 --> 01:22:32,000
Speaker 2: Oh well, I mean maybe that is your boyfriend, but

1710
01:22:32,680 --> 01:22:35,799
Speaker 2: maybe he was just No, I don't think it's that Honestly,

1711
01:22:37,920 --> 01:22:40,360
Speaker 2: what she said he has a regular nine to five,

1712
01:22:40,560 --> 01:22:43,240
Speaker 2: runs two businesses, and he does music.

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01:22:43,800 --> 01:22:45,240
Speaker 1: This is a busy man.

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01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:47,640
Speaker 2: But she didn't say that's her boyfriend. She said she

1715
01:22:47,720 --> 01:22:49,120
Speaker 2: started sucking with this nigga.

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01:22:49,600 --> 01:22:51,640
Speaker 3: She said, the nigga work a nine to five O

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01:22:51,920 --> 01:22:57,760
Speaker 3: two businesses, and this nigga were not judging im, just

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01:22:57,880 --> 01:23:01,760
Speaker 3: saying like he doing a lot. Yeah, and I feel

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01:23:01,800 --> 01:23:05,400
Speaker 3: like you run the two businesses. You shouldn't be working

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01:23:05,439 --> 01:23:09,280
Speaker 3: the nine to five. You wouldn't have time, you know.

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01:23:09,439 --> 01:23:13,080
Speaker 1: And Okay, but that's not what she's asking. That is

1722
01:23:13,240 --> 01:23:13,680
Speaker 1: not what she.

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01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:17,960
Speaker 5: Job.

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01:23:18,120 --> 01:23:20,760
Speaker 4: I liked what she's doing though. She sound like the

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01:23:20,840 --> 01:23:22,800
Speaker 4: girl I told you you said, how was she? How

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01:23:22,840 --> 01:23:26,200
Speaker 4: would it exactly? That's encouraging, that's encouraging.

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01:23:26,320 --> 01:23:28,680
Speaker 3: And my girl wrote this, liby like, babe, I appreciate that.

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01:23:28,880 --> 01:23:31,080
Speaker 2: Okay, And let me say this. She said, how do

1729
01:23:31,200 --> 01:23:33,720
Speaker 2: you forget them? To forget about everything else and be

1730
01:23:33,760 --> 01:23:36,040
Speaker 2: in the moment with you? So I feel like whenever

1731
01:23:36,120 --> 01:23:39,120
Speaker 2: y'all relax, like she said, be peaceful.

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01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:40,840
Speaker 1: How was your day, baby? What you got going on?

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01:23:41,080 --> 01:23:42,160
Speaker 1: What happened today at work?

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01:23:42,360 --> 01:23:42,439
Speaker 3: Well?

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01:23:42,479 --> 01:23:45,599
Speaker 1: How did the studio session go? But what you're working on? Asking?

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01:23:45,880 --> 01:23:47,880
Speaker 1: Just let him, poor poor out.

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01:23:48,479 --> 01:23:51,320
Speaker 3: What I would tell her is be creative. No, I

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01:23:51,400 --> 01:23:53,599
Speaker 3: mean that too, but I mean some studio equipment.

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01:23:53,760 --> 01:23:56,800
Speaker 1: Okay, nigga want to buy saying that's what.

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01:23:56,840 --> 01:24:00,720
Speaker 3: The nigga, that's if you're trying. If I'm trying to

1741
01:24:00,720 --> 01:24:00,880
Speaker 3: be a.

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01:24:00,960 --> 01:24:03,559
Speaker 4: Rapper, and I loove you, bring me a fucking pro

1743
01:24:03,680 --> 01:24:06,160
Speaker 4: tools were together together.

1744
01:24:06,360 --> 01:24:09,040
Speaker 1: But if you if you got five and two businesses,

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01:24:09,080 --> 01:24:10,000
Speaker 1: youredy about that.

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01:24:10,400 --> 01:24:14,000
Speaker 4: But I'm saying the creativity of Okay, what can I

1747
01:24:14,120 --> 01:24:15,519
Speaker 4: do to exercise his.

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01:24:18,200 --> 01:24:20,320
Speaker 2: But that's why I said, ask him even when he

1749
01:24:20,400 --> 01:24:22,080
Speaker 2: got going on in his business, maybe.

1750
01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:22,679
Speaker 1: You can help.

1751
01:24:24,160 --> 01:24:25,080
Speaker 3: Make these hats.

1752
01:24:25,439 --> 01:24:28,559
Speaker 4: If his girl bought him a whole T shirt print presser,

1753
01:24:28,640 --> 01:24:31,360
Speaker 4: motherfucker we ended together.

1754
01:24:31,200 --> 01:24:33,240
Speaker 2: For But how is he gonna know that he doesn't

1755
01:24:33,240 --> 01:24:34,960
Speaker 2: even talk to her and let her know what's going on.

1756
01:24:35,160 --> 01:24:35,920
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

1757
01:24:36,320 --> 01:24:39,439
Speaker 3: She just told you she do two jobs, and I

1758
01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:41,840
Speaker 3: feel like, I don't know you have.

1759
01:24:42,840 --> 01:24:44,360
Speaker 2: I feel like if people don't want to talk to

1760
01:24:44,400 --> 01:24:47,080
Speaker 2: you about stuff, they just ain't in you, like right,

1761
01:24:47,560 --> 01:24:49,599
Speaker 2: That's really how I feel at this point in my life.

1762
01:24:49,600 --> 01:24:52,000
Speaker 1: And I'll be tired of sugar coating me for people.

1763
01:24:52,840 --> 01:24:55,080
Speaker 1: Something you just gotta like.

1764
01:24:55,200 --> 01:24:58,719
Speaker 4: I feel like girls aren't created, like when the nigga

1765
01:24:58,760 --> 01:25:00,599
Speaker 4: feel like I want this girl, he could be sitting

1766
01:25:00,680 --> 01:25:02,599
Speaker 4: like I know I'll be. I'll be like, Okay, get

1767
01:25:02,640 --> 01:25:05,360
Speaker 4: my assistem over there, all right, call all the fluorensis.

1768
01:25:05,920 --> 01:25:08,200
Speaker 3: I want nothing but these colored roses.

1769
01:25:08,320 --> 01:25:12,719
Speaker 4: Okay, put the reservations at motherfucking NaN's for eight o'clock.

1770
01:25:13,200 --> 01:25:14,720
Speaker 4: Then know what I'm saying, when you get that hat

1771
01:25:14,760 --> 01:25:18,040
Speaker 4: of balloons already there, this just be a girl I'm

1772
01:25:18,160 --> 01:25:20,720
Speaker 4: dating like a girl I'm talking to, so you you know,

1773
01:25:21,320 --> 01:25:23,880
Speaker 4: to me, dudes have to be creative or you know,

1774
01:25:24,120 --> 01:25:26,519
Speaker 4: naturally to be able to win over a woman. But

1775
01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:28,519
Speaker 4: at the same time, if you already got a guy

1776
01:25:29,120 --> 01:25:31,800
Speaker 4: and you feel like he's in his field, what you

1777
01:25:32,000 --> 01:25:34,920
Speaker 4: have to do is find creative things in his field.

1778
01:25:34,920 --> 01:25:37,759
Speaker 4: If it's a keyboard to say, if he doing the podcast,

1779
01:25:37,840 --> 01:25:40,680
Speaker 4: a certain kind of camera showing some information about that,

1780
01:25:40,840 --> 01:25:42,479
Speaker 4: email it to him. A I was looking at these

1781
01:25:42,520 --> 01:25:45,120
Speaker 4: four five cameras. I heard you on the phone saying

1782
01:25:45,160 --> 01:25:46,400
Speaker 4: you was looking for a new camera.

1783
01:25:46,720 --> 01:25:49,280
Speaker 3: He go five of them. I think you're like, it's like,

1784
01:25:49,400 --> 01:25:52,200
Speaker 3: oh damn, okay, they check on this second one.

1785
01:25:52,120 --> 01:25:54,080
Speaker 4: That you sent me, you know what I mean, looking

1786
01:25:54,240 --> 01:25:56,840
Speaker 4: like that, And that's how he start opening up and

1787
01:25:57,160 --> 01:25:59,559
Speaker 4: start telling you more about, Hey, this is what I need,

1788
01:25:59,600 --> 01:26:00,599
Speaker 4: That's what I'm going through.

1789
01:26:01,120 --> 01:26:03,839
Speaker 3: But sometimes we just don't feel like y'all understand, so we'll.

1790
01:26:03,720 --> 01:26:05,519
Speaker 1: Just be like, yeah, you won't say nothing, you know

1791
01:26:05,560 --> 01:26:06,000
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

1792
01:26:06,040 --> 01:26:08,599
Speaker 4: But if you show that you understand and you interesting,

1793
01:26:08,760 --> 01:26:09,960
Speaker 4: and I could be an asset.

1794
01:26:10,640 --> 01:26:18,640
Speaker 1: Well, you hard to strike from the babb mount, So

1795
01:26:18,840 --> 01:26:19,439
Speaker 1: try that girl.

1796
01:26:19,560 --> 01:26:21,400
Speaker 3: Let us know how it work. Creative.

1797
01:26:21,640 --> 01:26:23,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know I always feel that way.

1798
01:26:23,640 --> 01:26:27,320
Speaker 2: I feel like, you know, you can talk to somebody,

1799
01:26:27,400 --> 01:26:29,640
Speaker 2: figure out what they need help and just communicate.

1800
01:26:29,720 --> 01:26:31,600
Speaker 1: I feel like that's so that'd be a lot of

1801
01:26:31,640 --> 01:26:32,479
Speaker 1: things that be missing.

1802
01:26:32,560 --> 01:26:35,640
Speaker 2: You don't know, you know, what he needs help on

1803
01:26:35,920 --> 01:26:37,360
Speaker 2: or things that you could talk to him about.

1804
01:26:37,720 --> 01:26:38,480
Speaker 3: It's equations.

1805
01:26:38,560 --> 01:26:42,240
Speaker 4: Sometimes you just gotta find that X variable, right because

1806
01:26:42,280 --> 01:26:44,000
Speaker 4: if you just keep asking that, he don't feel like

1807
01:26:44,000 --> 01:26:45,960
Speaker 4: you're annoying sometimes when I.

1808
01:26:46,000 --> 01:26:50,040
Speaker 2: Say no, But I feel like sometimes it's like, you know,

1809
01:26:50,680 --> 01:26:52,960
Speaker 2: people come home, okay, okay, what's going on with your day?

1810
01:26:53,040 --> 01:26:55,320
Speaker 2: So if you say, man, I went to the studio today,

1811
01:26:55,760 --> 01:26:57,479
Speaker 2: like you said, I don't have a keyboard, and this

1812
01:26:57,600 --> 01:27:00,200
Speaker 2: nigga showed up, So that could be to let her know, Okay,

1813
01:27:00,240 --> 01:27:02,200
Speaker 2: this will happened in the studio today, so let me

1814
01:27:02,360 --> 01:27:03,360
Speaker 2: pull up some things like that.

1815
01:27:03,880 --> 01:27:05,960
Speaker 1: She can't know exactly what you need, because what if

1816
01:27:05,960 --> 01:27:08,320
Speaker 1: I just decide to buy you a mic. Y'all already

1817
01:27:08,320 --> 01:27:08,840
Speaker 1: got the five.

1818
01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:10,479
Speaker 2: Hundred dollars mice in there, and y'all need a keyboard

1819
01:27:10,920 --> 01:27:13,280
Speaker 2: that I have one thousand dollar. But I'm just saying,

1820
01:27:13,640 --> 01:27:16,519
Speaker 2: if you community, it's okay to communicate, Hey, how was

1821
01:27:16,560 --> 01:27:17,720
Speaker 2: your day, how did this go?

1822
01:27:18,080 --> 01:27:21,080
Speaker 1: And then yeah, yeah, it's yeah.

1823
01:27:23,439 --> 01:27:23,679
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1824
01:27:24,520 --> 01:27:27,200
Speaker 3: Sometimes tell her what that ex is.

1825
01:27:28,640 --> 01:27:32,160
Speaker 2: But but that's the women's intuition. Though we know we

1826
01:27:32,320 --> 01:27:34,439
Speaker 2: know how to get ship done, so you don't even

1827
01:27:34,479 --> 01:27:37,680
Speaker 2: have to say anything specific. We gonna hear the conversation

1828
01:27:38,200 --> 01:27:39,639
Speaker 2: and something with women.

1829
01:27:39,520 --> 01:27:40,320
Speaker 3: Get that ship done.

1830
01:27:40,360 --> 01:27:50,120
Speaker 2: We need assistance, we need help organization, like she said, okay,

1831
01:27:50,160 --> 01:27:53,679
Speaker 2: go ahead a question to gross number two high ladies.

1832
01:27:53,760 --> 01:27:55,639
Speaker 2: I need your advice. I have been with my man

1833
01:27:55,760 --> 01:27:58,000
Speaker 2: for eight years. In the beginning of our relationship, I

1834
01:27:58,120 --> 01:28:00,200
Speaker 2: found out he had a kid and the mother was

1835
01:28:00,280 --> 01:28:02,800
Speaker 2: pregnant during the time that we met. We ended up

1836
01:28:02,840 --> 01:28:05,800
Speaker 2: working it out and I stayed. Shortly after finding this out,

1837
01:28:05,880 --> 01:28:08,120
Speaker 2: we were at a family gathering and his cousin asked

1838
01:28:08,160 --> 01:28:10,639
Speaker 2: me if I have met his baby mama. Yeh, she knew,

1839
01:28:10,720 --> 01:28:12,760
Speaker 2: damn well I have not, So I went off on

1840
01:28:12,880 --> 01:28:15,400
Speaker 2: her for asking because why the fuck she asked me

1841
01:28:15,520 --> 01:28:18,439
Speaker 2: that I'm here for y'all and y'all questioning me about

1842
01:28:18,479 --> 01:28:21,400
Speaker 2: another female. A year goes by and I'm thinking my

1843
01:28:21,479 --> 01:28:24,080
Speaker 2: boyfriend never knew about this situation until he brought it

1844
01:28:24,160 --> 01:28:27,560
Speaker 2: up during an argument. He wanted an apology and I refused.

1845
01:28:28,080 --> 01:28:30,640
Speaker 2: Fast forward to now it's been about four years and

1846
01:28:30,720 --> 01:28:33,280
Speaker 2: I haven't seen his family since. I'm getting to my

1847
01:28:33,400 --> 01:28:35,519
Speaker 2: breaking point because I don't like the feeling of being

1848
01:28:35,600 --> 01:28:38,680
Speaker 2: hidden or ashamed of Should I get over it? Or

1849
01:28:38,840 --> 01:28:41,880
Speaker 2: is he wrong for punishing me for saying something? Or

1850
01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:44,280
Speaker 2: is he wrong for punishing me for something his family

1851
01:28:44,400 --> 01:28:45,080
Speaker 2: members started?

1852
01:28:46,960 --> 01:28:48,360
Speaker 3: Y'all read good? That's good.

1853
01:28:49,360 --> 01:28:55,400
Speaker 6: Education have.

1854
01:29:01,960 --> 01:29:07,720
Speaker 1: Been high, ladies, I need no.

1855
01:29:08,280 --> 01:29:10,840
Speaker 2: I feel like when it comes to family drama, I'm

1856
01:29:11,040 --> 01:29:13,439
Speaker 2: very like, okay, how can we resolve? How can we

1857
01:29:13,560 --> 01:29:17,479
Speaker 2: resolve it? I hate harping on problems. I Am not

1858
01:29:17,640 --> 01:29:19,800
Speaker 2: that type of person. Why are we gonna sit here

1859
01:29:19,840 --> 01:29:22,439
Speaker 2: and talk about what this person did, what this person did,

1860
01:29:22,520 --> 01:29:23,800
Speaker 2: what you did to me, what I did to you?

1861
01:29:23,920 --> 01:29:26,120
Speaker 1: Okay, fuck it, let's just say we all and wrong.

1862
01:29:26,240 --> 01:29:28,680
Speaker 2: Let's all hold accountability. How are we going to get

1863
01:29:28,720 --> 01:29:31,760
Speaker 2: to the park where we are in a relationship? You

1864
01:29:31,920 --> 01:29:33,840
Speaker 2: have this baby, mama, and this is your family. How

1865
01:29:33,880 --> 01:29:37,320
Speaker 2: can we all coexist? Because we have to, so let's

1866
01:29:37,360 --> 01:29:40,400
Speaker 2: get to the solution. Stop talking about the problem because

1867
01:29:40,400 --> 01:29:41,519
Speaker 2: you're like, should I get over it?

1868
01:29:41,880 --> 01:29:44,040
Speaker 1: Was he wrong? No, stop talking about all of that.

1869
01:29:44,280 --> 01:29:45,439
Speaker 1: Let's talk about a resolution.

1870
01:29:45,680 --> 01:29:47,920
Speaker 2: And I wouldn't have let four years go by this

1871
01:29:48,200 --> 01:29:50,920
Speaker 2: loan like that's too long to have not seen his

1872
01:29:51,040 --> 01:29:53,000
Speaker 2: family or talk to his family. And now you want

1873
01:29:53,000 --> 01:29:56,040
Speaker 2: to vocalize that you got an issue. I wouldn't let

1874
01:29:56,040 --> 01:29:57,519
Speaker 2: it be that long. You could have been five months.

1875
01:29:57,560 --> 01:30:01,040
Speaker 2: I would have been like, yeah, two months, Mommy, right,

1876
01:30:01,520 --> 01:30:05,799
Speaker 2: exactly what's going on, Charlie.

1877
01:30:06,240 --> 01:30:07,439
Speaker 1: She don't want to mean, she don't want to be

1878
01:30:07,520 --> 01:30:11,120
Speaker 1: around me. That's what I'm saying.

1879
01:30:11,600 --> 01:30:12,040
Speaker 3: What's up?

1880
01:30:14,360 --> 01:30:15,200
Speaker 1: Solve the problem?

1881
01:30:15,320 --> 01:30:17,280
Speaker 4: A lot of times, I'm trying to tell a lot

1882
01:30:17,320 --> 01:30:21,040
Speaker 4: of the relationships be about creativity. Like if I had

1883
01:30:21,120 --> 01:30:23,080
Speaker 4: that same conversation with a girl that I got into

1884
01:30:23,120 --> 01:30:25,720
Speaker 4: a plan, I'm gonna definitely, you know, send me some

1885
01:30:25,840 --> 01:30:28,439
Speaker 4: flowers over there a couple of times. Then I'm you know,

1886
01:30:28,640 --> 01:30:32,280
Speaker 4: reach out and invite them out to and be able

1887
01:30:32,280 --> 01:30:35,800
Speaker 4: to have that conversation with them and yeah, and that relationship.

1888
01:30:36,040 --> 01:30:38,200
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's a good idea.

1889
01:30:38,400 --> 01:30:40,160
Speaker 2: So you can try to mend the relationship with mom,

1890
01:30:40,280 --> 01:30:47,160
Speaker 2: maybe take her out to a little happy hour, you know, creative.

1891
01:30:47,280 --> 01:30:48,360
Speaker 1: That's why you're right.

1892
01:30:48,439 --> 01:30:53,559
Speaker 3: I like that creativity always always win.

1893
01:30:54,680 --> 01:30:58,599
Speaker 2: Too far, you always say too far? What you take

1894
01:30:58,680 --> 01:31:00,640
Speaker 2: that to take on a little true, y'all go to

1895
01:31:00,680 --> 01:31:02,519
Speaker 2: Blue Red not Blue Red.

1896
01:31:04,040 --> 01:31:04,880
Speaker 3: Dan Beach.

1897
01:31:07,000 --> 01:31:07,280
Speaker 1: You know.

1898
01:31:09,760 --> 01:31:14,439
Speaker 3: The South Beach you want to take to? South Beach.

1899
01:31:16,080 --> 01:31:16,800
Speaker 1: Is actually very.

1900
01:31:18,760 --> 01:31:19,320
Speaker 3: Beautiful.

1901
01:31:21,760 --> 01:31:32,719
Speaker 1: Universal Studio Universal Okay. Question three? Okay, Hadria and Alex

1902
01:31:32,800 --> 01:31:33,719
Speaker 1: love you both down.

1903
01:31:33,880 --> 01:31:35,880
Speaker 2: I'm a twenty eight year old woman from Houston and

1904
01:31:35,920 --> 01:31:38,920
Speaker 2: I've been listening since Wine Down Wednesday, at the start

1905
01:31:38,960 --> 01:31:41,560
Speaker 2: of the pandemic, I downloaded Hinge hoping to catch a

1906
01:31:41,640 --> 01:31:43,600
Speaker 2: bad b or someone to fuck on.

1907
01:31:44,200 --> 01:31:44,760
Speaker 1: I have been on.

1908
01:31:44,920 --> 01:31:48,640
Speaker 2: Countless, fruitless dates that go nowhere. What I've learned is

1909
01:31:48,880 --> 01:31:52,240
Speaker 2: a lot of men stink. They don't put in any

1910
01:31:52,320 --> 01:31:54,560
Speaker 2: effort of how they present themselves, and I'm starting to

1911
01:31:54,640 --> 01:31:56,720
Speaker 2: wonder if I'm the only one going through this.

1912
01:31:58,960 --> 01:32:02,960
Speaker 4: Oh I guess what I thought she meant too, just

1913
01:32:03,040 --> 01:32:04,040
Speaker 4: meant like the ted.

1914
01:32:07,200 --> 01:32:08,000
Speaker 1: I really thought.

1915
01:32:08,360 --> 01:32:10,120
Speaker 2: I like the most recent guy I went on a

1916
01:32:10,200 --> 01:32:12,679
Speaker 2: date with. We both work in tech, live on our own,

1917
01:32:12,760 --> 01:32:15,720
Speaker 2: and have great conversations. I was excited to meet him.

1918
01:32:16,040 --> 01:32:19,439
Speaker 2: When we met, I noticed his breath stink and he wasn't.

1919
01:32:19,280 --> 01:32:24,679
Speaker 1: Wearing cologne and with mother you means thank social, my bab.

1920
01:32:25,640 --> 01:32:26,599
Speaker 1: This pissed me off.

1921
01:32:26,840 --> 01:32:31,920
Speaker 2: Before days, I shower, moisturize, brush floss, and adorn myself

1922
01:32:31,960 --> 01:32:36,679
Speaker 2: with perfume, not to mention making sure my hair, nails lashes,

1923
01:32:36,720 --> 01:32:39,560
Speaker 2: an outfit is on point. I do that naturally, but

1924
01:32:39,640 --> 01:32:41,320
Speaker 2: I for damn sure I am not about to look

1925
01:32:41,479 --> 01:32:44,280
Speaker 2: unpolished on a date. To make matters worse, he was

1926
01:32:44,320 --> 01:32:48,000
Speaker 2: wearing the same outfit he had on in his profile picture.

1927
01:32:48,680 --> 01:32:51,000
Speaker 1: Like, damn, nigga, were you trying to make sure I

1928
01:32:51,120 --> 01:32:51,720
Speaker 1: knew it was you?

1929
01:32:54,800 --> 01:32:54,840
Speaker 6: No.

1930
01:32:57,400 --> 01:33:00,240
Speaker 2: I'm starting to think maybe I'm not portraying myself in

1931
01:33:00,320 --> 01:33:02,640
Speaker 2: the best way and think that's why men think they

1932
01:33:02,680 --> 01:33:05,280
Speaker 2: can play on my headtop. I feel like a nigga

1933
01:33:05,280 --> 01:33:07,200
Speaker 2: would know better to show up hot and funky for

1934
01:33:07,280 --> 01:33:10,960
Speaker 2: someone like Drea, the type of woman who men wouldn't

1935
01:33:11,040 --> 01:33:13,960
Speaker 2: dare fumble. I know I'm beautiful, but I'm wondering if

1936
01:33:13,960 --> 01:33:16,080
Speaker 2: I'm not bad enough to have niggas act right or

1937
01:33:16,120 --> 01:33:19,200
Speaker 2: they're naturally filthy. I would ask y'all to ask the

1938
01:33:19,280 --> 01:33:21,440
Speaker 2: crew if niggas do this intentionally.

1939
01:33:21,840 --> 01:33:24,320
Speaker 1: But Ryan's Asian? Where is Ryan?

1940
01:33:24,439 --> 01:33:24,840
Speaker 3: Are right?

1941
01:33:24,960 --> 01:33:27,680
Speaker 2: And I know they take hygiene very seriously. Can you

1942
01:33:27,760 --> 01:33:31,519
Speaker 2: please tell the poor boys to watch their ass? Thanks, ladies,

1943
01:33:31,680 --> 01:33:35,040
Speaker 2: any advice would help. I don't think that you'll be

1944
01:33:35,160 --> 01:33:37,120
Speaker 2: in beautiful have nothing to do with it, because I'm

1945
01:33:37,120 --> 01:33:38,240
Speaker 2: sure you're really beautiful.

1946
01:33:38,360 --> 01:33:39,160
Speaker 1: I just feel like that.

1947
01:33:39,240 --> 01:33:43,240
Speaker 2: Niggas is dirty like and let me not even say dirty,

1948
01:33:43,280 --> 01:33:45,519
Speaker 2: because I feel like a lot of the time some

1949
01:33:45,680 --> 01:33:48,479
Speaker 2: people really do not smell theyselves, and that is really

1950
01:33:48,560 --> 01:33:49,280
Speaker 2: a real thing.

1951
01:33:50,200 --> 01:33:50,960
Speaker 1: That's wild.

1952
01:33:51,120 --> 01:33:53,080
Speaker 2: I feel like people be having like writ and teeds

1953
01:33:53,200 --> 01:33:55,080
Speaker 2: all type of sheep. They birth be funky, they don't

1954
01:33:55,080 --> 01:33:58,519
Speaker 2: be noid. Maybe he don't know, or maybe when he

1955
01:33:58,640 --> 01:34:00,519
Speaker 2: left his house his sheet was free. Then when he

1956
01:34:00,600 --> 01:34:04,040
Speaker 2: got there, let me say this, it started oozing out.

1957
01:34:04,160 --> 01:34:06,320
Speaker 2: I know, but okay, but I want to say this though,

1958
01:34:06,400 --> 01:34:08,360
Speaker 2: because this is what women talk about when we go

1959
01:34:08,439 --> 01:34:10,760
Speaker 2: out on dates. And this is why you know that

1960
01:34:10,880 --> 01:34:13,400
Speaker 2: two three hundred dollars day conversation always comes up like

1961
01:34:13,520 --> 01:34:15,080
Speaker 2: men feel like, oh why I got to spend this

1962
01:34:15,200 --> 01:34:15,880
Speaker 2: on a first day?

1963
01:34:15,960 --> 01:34:19,080
Speaker 1: This and that. But this is why though this we

1964
01:34:19,320 --> 01:34:19,880
Speaker 1: as women.

1965
01:34:20,200 --> 01:34:23,679
Speaker 2: I don't leave the house unless I'm moisturized, hair done,

1966
01:34:23,760 --> 01:34:28,160
Speaker 2: nails done, everything did, period because It's all about presentation

1967
01:34:28,360 --> 01:34:28,519
Speaker 2: to me.

1968
01:34:29,120 --> 01:34:31,160
Speaker 1: So I feel like, if I'm spending all this time,

1969
01:34:31,240 --> 01:34:33,880
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure she got ready for this date.

1970
01:34:34,680 --> 01:34:36,879
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. She spent money on her outfit.

1971
01:34:37,320 --> 01:34:39,280
Speaker 2: You know, she may have bought a new perfume that

1972
01:34:39,439 --> 01:34:43,160
Speaker 2: day and not her specifically, but somebody. So we take

1973
01:34:43,360 --> 01:34:47,200
Speaker 2: pride in smelling good. That's the best compliment. That's the

1974
01:34:47,240 --> 01:34:49,479
Speaker 2: most compliment I get all the time is how I smell.

1975
01:34:49,920 --> 01:34:52,920
Speaker 2: So as a woman, we take pride in that. So, yeah,

1976
01:34:53,000 --> 01:34:54,880
Speaker 2: I understand your frustration, but I don't.

1977
01:34:55,080 --> 01:34:57,320
Speaker 1: I don't think it's you. Some of these niggas just

1978
01:34:57,400 --> 01:34:58,200
Speaker 1: really don't care.

1979
01:34:58,360 --> 01:35:00,880
Speaker 2: But I hate when people say you are with your

1980
01:35:01,040 --> 01:35:02,680
Speaker 2: track no, because there'd be a lot of niggas that

1981
01:35:02,760 --> 01:35:04,800
Speaker 2: hit on me that I'm thinking, why would you ever?

1982
01:35:07,520 --> 01:35:10,960
Speaker 1: So you don't don't blame yourself. But also I don't

1983
01:35:12,280 --> 01:35:14,880
Speaker 1: for real because why what did you think?

1984
01:35:15,439 --> 01:35:16,400
Speaker 3: Why why you thought?

1985
01:35:17,520 --> 01:35:21,280
Speaker 2: But I will say I think these are conversations that

1986
01:35:21,360 --> 01:35:23,040
Speaker 2: you need to have with people. That's why I'm all

1987
01:35:23,080 --> 01:35:25,920
Speaker 2: about asking questions and getting to know people. I'm not

1988
01:35:26,000 --> 01:35:29,240
Speaker 2: having no conversation with you about No, you don't, but

1989
01:35:29,280 --> 01:35:32,439
Speaker 2: you canna find as if somebody asked you, Oh, what

1990
01:35:32,600 --> 01:35:33,560
Speaker 2: what kind of gifts do you like?

1991
01:35:33,680 --> 01:35:33,800
Speaker 8: Or what?

1992
01:35:34,000 --> 01:35:34,040
Speaker 1: What?

1993
01:35:34,240 --> 01:35:37,840
Speaker 2: What you would say, Oh, I like perfume, I like this,

1994
01:35:38,000 --> 01:35:39,439
Speaker 2: I like that. That's gonna be one of them. So

1995
01:35:39,479 --> 01:35:41,080
Speaker 2: they know, oh, she likes to smell good. So you

1996
01:35:41,120 --> 01:35:43,080
Speaker 2: can ask people, oh, what kind of stuff are you into?

1997
01:35:43,520 --> 01:35:46,120
Speaker 2: If you have conversations with people, you already know what

1998
01:35:46,200 --> 01:35:47,280
Speaker 2: type of time that they own.

1999
01:35:47,960 --> 01:35:53,080
Speaker 1: Like, That's what I'm saying. But you wasn't about to

2000
01:35:53,120 --> 01:35:58,280
Speaker 1: have no, Yeah, I'm not about to be like no,

2001
01:35:58,400 --> 01:35:59,320
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about that.

2002
01:35:59,439 --> 01:36:01,519
Speaker 3: You already you like them, but I think.

2003
01:36:01,439 --> 01:36:01,840
Speaker 6: I don't like.

2004
01:36:04,040 --> 01:36:08,360
Speaker 4: They do have a you know, I'm not giving them

2005
01:36:08,360 --> 01:36:11,280
Speaker 4: any excuse, but you know, when they trying to tech

2006
01:36:11,400 --> 01:36:13,439
Speaker 4: us like apps, so it's like a lot of them

2007
01:36:13,479 --> 01:36:16,519
Speaker 4: guys be sitting there trying to cold this app.

2008
01:36:16,680 --> 01:36:22,240
Speaker 3: Yeah it's three hundred million dollars, goddamn, you know, sales pitch.

2009
01:36:22,360 --> 01:36:25,400
Speaker 4: So they just be sitting there and she might have

2010
01:36:25,439 --> 01:36:27,439
Speaker 4: got a dude who just got up and because I

2011
01:36:27,479 --> 01:36:31,000
Speaker 4: mean I was in Denver and a lot of the

2012
01:36:31,200 --> 01:36:34,280
Speaker 4: tech guys kind of felt like that they didn't shave

2013
01:36:35,080 --> 01:36:37,479
Speaker 4: shower because they just sitting at home on his computer

2014
01:36:37,600 --> 01:36:40,519
Speaker 4: trying to unlock this cold and they not even thinking

2015
01:36:40,520 --> 01:36:42,120
Speaker 4: about how they look.

2016
01:36:42,400 --> 01:36:44,000
Speaker 1: Or because I'm not gonna lie.

2017
01:36:44,040 --> 01:36:45,479
Speaker 2: If I met a guy we went on a day

2018
01:36:45,479 --> 01:36:48,160
Speaker 2: and he smelled or I didn't his breast sunk, I'm

2019
01:36:48,200 --> 01:36:49,160
Speaker 2: never going to see him again.

2020
01:36:49,560 --> 01:36:52,920
Speaker 3: That's not Yeah, so y'all not gonna tell him. No

2021
01:36:53,360 --> 01:36:53,800
Speaker 3: if it's not.

2022
01:36:54,680 --> 01:36:56,400
Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna see you again if it's the

2023
01:36:56,439 --> 01:36:58,320
Speaker 2: first day, I'm not even telling you because I don't

2024
01:36:58,360 --> 01:37:03,400
Speaker 2: care about y'all funky, not your shooting.

2025
01:37:03,520 --> 01:37:04,519
Speaker 1: But something like that.

2026
01:37:04,680 --> 01:37:07,479
Speaker 2: What did David Manner say bringing his sweating because I

2027
01:37:07,560 --> 01:37:08,400
Speaker 2: love it when his phone?

2028
01:37:08,400 --> 01:37:13,280
Speaker 1: Okay, he did say that I ain't doing He said that, Yeah,

2029
01:37:13,280 --> 01:37:13,680
Speaker 1: I don't know.

2030
01:37:14,600 --> 01:37:17,880
Speaker 3: I ain't hitting nothing. It ain't twenty eight years old.

2031
01:37:19,240 --> 01:37:19,719
Speaker 4: Your heads.

2032
01:37:21,200 --> 01:37:24,240
Speaker 1: That's wild, But that's wild. You're still hitting.

2033
01:37:24,320 --> 01:37:29,040
Speaker 3: It's crazy saying that because I'm already here. But something,

2034
01:37:29,120 --> 01:37:32,880
Speaker 3: I'm already a round, I'm already in. I'm hidding. I'm thinking, like, Okay,

2035
01:37:33,000 --> 01:37:35,719
Speaker 3: is this the rubber meeting the what is the meeting

2036
01:37:35,760 --> 01:37:36,120
Speaker 3: the road?

2037
01:37:38,720 --> 01:37:41,599
Speaker 1: That's what we need to name this episode. The rubber meeting,

2038
01:37:41,680 --> 01:37:42,560
Speaker 1: the roma.

2039
01:37:43,080 --> 01:37:48,719
Speaker 3: The roll, the rubber meeting the road. So I'm thinking

2040
01:37:48,800 --> 01:37:50,720
Speaker 3: like that that she wasn't going away. I was just

2041
01:37:50,840 --> 01:37:53,519
Speaker 3: like man going and got the hair up and get

2042
01:37:53,600 --> 01:37:53,960
Speaker 3: out of this.

2043
01:37:54,200 --> 01:37:55,400
Speaker 1: I can't do it, can't do it.

2044
01:37:55,760 --> 01:37:58,120
Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't playing with yourself, sister girl. But

2045
01:37:58,680 --> 01:38:00,519
Speaker 2: I think maybe you probably could have figure that out

2046
01:38:00,520 --> 01:38:02,360
Speaker 2: maybe looking at his pictures. We just gotta do a

2047
01:38:02,400 --> 01:38:04,800
Speaker 2: little more research. Some people look good, it's fucking they

2048
01:38:04,920 --> 01:38:08,519
Speaker 2: still be musty. They don't mean nothing. They be mad

2049
01:38:08,560 --> 01:38:11,200
Speaker 2: people who'll be out here putting that ship on icy.

2050
01:38:11,479 --> 01:38:14,880
Speaker 2: Fucking how you icy and musty.

2051
01:38:14,880 --> 01:38:18,799
Speaker 3: Because you ain't cold enough. Niggas don't be brushing their tongue.

2052
01:38:20,120 --> 01:38:22,960
Speaker 2: The nigga don't have tongue scrapers. I love my tongue scraper.

2053
01:38:23,080 --> 01:38:25,000
Speaker 2: Y'all gotta get y'all investing all a tongue scraper.

2054
01:38:25,000 --> 01:38:28,880
Speaker 1: It's gonna change. And you was mouthwise bloss loss. That's

2055
01:38:29,080 --> 01:38:31,000
Speaker 1: very niggas, is not of If you.

2056
01:38:30,960 --> 01:38:34,320
Speaker 2: Don't like to get you a water, you really should

2057
01:38:34,439 --> 01:38:35,600
Speaker 2: use both an alternative.

2058
01:38:35,760 --> 01:38:36,200
Speaker 4: You should.

2059
01:38:36,880 --> 01:38:39,640
Speaker 2: Okay, So we're gonna wrap this shit up because we

2060
01:38:39,680 --> 01:38:43,600
Speaker 2: are going over time. Okay, So let the girl's about to.

2061
01:38:43,600 --> 01:38:46,120
Speaker 1: Be in your dan. I'm letting you know right now

2062
01:38:46,760 --> 01:38:49,720
Speaker 1: they're about to be in your dem so the girl.

2063
01:38:49,800 --> 01:38:52,640
Speaker 2: The girls don't embarrass. It's like you said, they can

2064
01:38:52,680 --> 01:38:53,320
Speaker 2: shoot the shot.

2065
01:38:54,160 --> 01:38:55,160
Speaker 3: Was looking for a wife though.

2066
01:38:55,400 --> 01:38:58,000
Speaker 1: He looking for a wife though, ladies, so shoot your.

2067
01:38:57,920 --> 01:38:59,639
Speaker 3: Shot right anybody bring me a wife?

2068
01:38:59,680 --> 01:39:00,000
Speaker 1: I got.

2069
01:39:01,760 --> 01:39:04,760
Speaker 3: Were about to be on it right now, I got

2070
01:39:05,280 --> 01:39:06,920
Speaker 3: you ain't saying nothing but a word.

2071
01:39:07,479 --> 01:39:09,200
Speaker 2: Okay, let them know, Okay what Let us know what

2072
01:39:09,280 --> 01:39:11,040
Speaker 2: you're working on, what you got coming up, and where

2073
01:39:11,040 --> 01:39:11,559
Speaker 2: the people.

2074
01:39:11,360 --> 01:39:11,840
Speaker 1: Can find you.

2075
01:39:12,479 --> 01:39:15,880
Speaker 4: Well, the story got is being finished right now. We

2076
01:39:16,040 --> 01:39:19,759
Speaker 4: just got a couple more samples were clearing. I'm working

2077
01:39:19,800 --> 01:39:22,080
Speaker 4: on films. I'm doing a lot of screen writing right now.

2078
01:39:22,840 --> 01:39:25,040
Speaker 4: I'm also a songwriter, so I do that on my

2079
01:39:25,160 --> 01:39:25,839
Speaker 4: own period.

2080
01:39:27,520 --> 01:39:29,120
Speaker 3: Other than that, I'm just a normal guy.

2081
01:39:30,040 --> 01:39:31,160
Speaker 1: There ain't nothing normal about you.

2082
01:39:32,200 --> 01:39:34,320
Speaker 2: But before we close out, can you let the people

2083
01:39:34,439 --> 01:39:36,320
Speaker 2: know what you said about my voice before we close?

2084
01:39:36,800 --> 01:39:37,840
Speaker 3: You do have a great voice.

2085
01:39:38,479 --> 01:39:40,120
Speaker 4: I mean, like if you had to tell her, like

2086
01:39:40,280 --> 01:39:42,160
Speaker 4: you're gonna be a singer, you're gonna have to get

2087
01:39:42,160 --> 01:39:42,880
Speaker 4: with this vocal coach.

2088
01:39:42,920 --> 01:39:44,720
Speaker 3: You're gonna have to actually sing on this album. She

2089
01:39:44,800 --> 01:39:47,880
Speaker 3: could actually sing you, but I think we'll just be

2090
01:39:48,000 --> 01:39:51,280
Speaker 3: hearing it. She just be playing And don't be playing.

2091
01:39:52,479 --> 01:39:53,840
Speaker 1: Sing and that's where you should be.

2092
01:39:58,360 --> 01:40:02,080
Speaker 3: O for the rest of my life.

2093
01:40:02,160 --> 01:40:05,680
Speaker 1: Do you understand what you just did? I'm never not

2094
01:40:05,840 --> 01:40:06,600
Speaker 1: gonna bring this up.

2095
01:40:06,680 --> 01:40:11,720
Speaker 2: So since you said I can sing, I've.

2096
01:40:10,280 --> 01:40:11,519
Speaker 1: Been waiting to sing this one.

2097
01:40:12,120 --> 01:40:12,680
Speaker 5: Did you get it?

2098
01:40:19,120 --> 01:40:22,639
Speaker 2: Since you said I could sing, you ready you sing?

2099
01:40:23,160 --> 01:40:25,360
Speaker 2: I don't need no help one thing.

2100
01:40:25,680 --> 01:40:30,679
Speaker 1: I ain't no such things as friends, my nigga, only

2101
01:40:30,800 --> 01:40:35,640
Speaker 1: a period all ready for me to sing. I need

2102
01:40:35,720 --> 01:40:38,000
Speaker 1: y'all to snap with me. I like a little snap

2103
01:40:38,040 --> 01:40:38,719
Speaker 1: in the background.

2104
01:40:39,320 --> 01:40:40,200
Speaker 3: Everybody snapped.

2105
01:40:41,840 --> 01:40:45,600
Speaker 1: I don't know what he is atty you've done to me.

2106
01:40:49,840 --> 01:40:57,800
Speaker 12: I didn't such a crazy way. Whatever he is that

2107
01:40:57,960 --> 01:41:00,160
Speaker 12: you do and you can do what you do.

2108
01:41:00,200 --> 01:41:03,080
Speaker 5: You weed you feeling up?

2109
01:41:04,320 --> 01:41:11,719
Speaker 13: It's feeling that I to stand m because my heart's

2110
01:41:11,840 --> 01:41:16,960
Speaker 13: dunch beat and treadful. Time we thought loving you on

2111
01:41:17,200 --> 01:41:21,160
Speaker 13: my mind. I can't figure out just want you.

2112
01:41:22,360 --> 01:41:33,040
Speaker 5: We're not calling you, so we get at me.

2113
01:41:33,479 --> 01:41:37,280
Speaker 1: I can hardly speak. I lose, I can try, and

2114
01:41:37,560 --> 01:41:42,640
Speaker 1: something tastes some of me. In a day, I was amazing.

2115
01:41:43,080 --> 01:41:46,560
Speaker 3: It's not a fact. I want you to stay with

2116
01:41:46,680 --> 01:41:47,920
Speaker 3: me by my side.

2117
01:41:48,080 --> 01:41:51,760
Speaker 1: I follow my brideer. Love is so sweep it.

2118
01:41:52,080 --> 01:41:54,200
Speaker 5: Knocks me right off from my feet.

2119
01:41:56,280 --> 01:41:59,080
Speaker 1: Say that ship. Can you say right?

2120
01:41:59,360 --> 01:42:03,600
Speaker 8: Love? Then makes meving you'll hurt the harmony. Let me

2121
01:42:03,640 --> 01:42:11,840
Speaker 8: gonna skip board duom. No way, cannot deny.

2122
01:42:13,439 --> 01:42:21,760
Speaker 1: You're love so sweet it knocks me off my feet. Yes,

2123
01:42:23,200 --> 01:42:26,000
Speaker 1: week in and I can hardly speak.

2124
01:42:26,400 --> 01:42:31,400
Speaker 3: I lose our control and something for me and I'm like,

2125
01:42:31,800 --> 01:42:33,680
Speaker 3: I got so amazing.

2126
01:42:34,040 --> 01:42:35,240
Speaker 5: It's not a bad.

2127
01:42:35,600 --> 01:42:38,759
Speaker 1: I want you to stay with me. O my side,

2128
01:42:38,920 --> 01:42:42,560
Speaker 1: I follow my pride. Your love is so sweet it

2129
01:42:42,800 --> 01:42:44,360
Speaker 1: knocks me right off of my.

2130
01:42:46,560 --> 01:42:47,879
Speaker 3: Long month freeze.

2131
01:42:48,800 --> 01:43:01,599
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, my good you want to see y'all next week.

2132
01:43:01,800 --> 01:43:02,320
Speaker 5: Bye, y'all.

2133
01:43:03,880 --> 01:43:07,360
Speaker 3: She had a follow on Phanie that was just everything,

2134
01:43:08,360 --> 01:43:08,600
Speaker 3: so I.

2135
01:43:08,760 --> 01:43:10,479
Speaker 2: Was going I said, oh, he said, I could say

2136
01:43:10,960 --> 01:43:11,320
Speaker 2: saying this.

2137
01:43:11,880 --> 01:43:12,799
Speaker 1: She's up any