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Speaker 1: dating is like running a marathon. You gotta pace yourself,
Speaker 1: take it nice and slow and steady so you can
Speaker 1: make it all the way to the end. Brothers, they
Speaker 1: treat dating like a sprint to the finish line. Weird,
Speaker 1: and finish line is located in my bed sheets. Oh
Speaker 1: but DEDI, who's on the phone with us for a
Speaker 1: second date update? Today? She decided to turn her dating
Speaker 1: life into a full blown decathlon. Oh what does that
Speaker 1: even mean? She got sponsors hydration stall set up, she's pro.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah she did. You'll understand what I mean in
Speaker 1: just a minute. But first, let's meet our decathlete, DEDI.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Hi, guys, still honored. It's like
Speaker 1: we have a true olympiad on the phone right now.
Speaker 1: Thank you. I didn't really look at it like that,
Speaker 1: but now I feel really accomplished. Yeah, you should be
Speaker 1: really proud of yourself. So tell us a little bit
Speaker 1: about why you called in. Okay. So I got divorced recently, like,
Speaker 1: and it was just finalized. I was refusing to date
Speaker 1: until it was actually final, okay, And now that it is,
Speaker 1: my friends they've been like pressuring me, like to get
Speaker 1: back out there, and a couple of them have been
Speaker 1: doing this thing called the ten for ten Challenge. Have
Speaker 1: you guys heard of that? No? Is it? Okay? So
Speaker 1: you go on ten Tinder days. It was ten different
Speaker 1: guys ten days in a row. Whoa, that just sounds
Speaker 1: like the normal Tinder life. No way, that sounds exhausting
Speaker 1: to me. It's a lot, quite honestly. But at the
Speaker 1: same time, I have a bit of a competitive spirit,
Speaker 1: so I decided I was going to do it. I
Speaker 1: haven't been on date in almost a year at this point.
Speaker 1: So okay, So if you're calling us, I'm guessing you
Speaker 1: didn't win the competition. Well, I mean I at least
Speaker 1: finished the race, Okay. So how many of these guys
Speaker 1: are we going to be calling today? We're only calling
Speaker 1: the one. But in order to get to ten dates,
Speaker 1: I told a little bit of a white lie on
Speaker 1: my profile and said that I was a yoga instructor
Speaker 1: because I thought, you know, that's like, yeah, just a
Speaker 1: step below acrobat. I'm like the sexy scale, you know,
Speaker 1: you know, and men are so predictable, aren't they. Well,
Speaker 1: so you're flexible girls. Yeah, I almost put on flexible
Speaker 1: and then I was like, that's too much. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I'm assuming a lot of quality options hit you up. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's really more about volume than anything else.
Speaker 1: You're like the seven eleven of dating. You just want
Speaker 1: a lot of people through the door. Honest. I think
Speaker 1: it was my most honest, genuine tender experience because I
Speaker 1: didn't even read profiles. I was like, for once in
Speaker 1: my life, I'm using this app for what it's supposed
Speaker 1: to be for. Okay, So, which one of the ten
Speaker 1: guys did you actually connect with? Well? This guy, he
Speaker 1: was date number eight. So I was like pretty sick
Speaker 1: of dating at this point. Yeah, things were looking pretty bleak, yes,
Speaker 1: but number eight was awesome, Like so awesome that I
Speaker 1: actually told him the truth. Wait, you told him about
Speaker 1: the ten for ten or that you were divorced or
Speaker 1: I mean, there's a lot of truth here. Oh my god. No, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I did not tell him I'm out the ten for
Speaker 1: ten and five. Thank you for remind me. Please please
Speaker 1: please don't say that to him, Like I want to
Speaker 1: call him, but I don't want him to know that
Speaker 1: he was number eight of ten. I thought, that's what
Speaker 1: you at. No, No, I told him I'm not a
Speaker 1: yoga instructor. Oh my god, there were so many things
Speaker 1: in our lists there. No, and he knows I'm divorced,
Speaker 1: like that was no secret. But okay, No, I didn't
Speaker 1: tell him about the ten for ten. I just figured
Speaker 1: like he was really sweet and I'm going to tell
Speaker 1: him the truth because I want to see him again.
Speaker 1: And he laughed it off like no, big whoops. Everything
Speaker 1: was fine. But wow, what a good guy to be
Speaker 1: able to look past not dating a yoga instructor. You
Speaker 1: don't find a lot of guys like these days. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: to be fair, I am very flexible. Yeah, So what
Speaker 1: were some of the highlights with Tony? You know that
Speaker 1: montage and Ferris Bueller where they like go to the
Speaker 1: museum and it saw like artsying deep and so it
Speaker 1: felt like that, like I felt like a grown up date.
Speaker 1: I don't really remember that montage. I'm gonna be awesome.
Speaker 1: It was like it was like the kind of date
Speaker 1: you see in the movie. Usually my dates are more like,
Speaker 1: you know, we go and eat something real quick, maybe
Speaker 1: smoke something, and then that's it. Maybe watch a movie.
Speaker 1: But this was like a date date, like you were
Speaker 1: looking at arts. So, yeah, did you go to museums?
Speaker 1: And is that what you're saying? Yeah, we walked around
Speaker 1: downtown and then we went to the museum and we're
Speaker 1: like holding hands. I think it's got so mushy. You
Speaker 1: danced in the parade as it went by, like I've
Speaker 1: seen that Ferris Bueller movie. We almost ran into his dad.
Speaker 1: It was super ten. I think that in some ways,
Speaker 1: holding hands is even more intimate than like kissing someone. Really,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, dude, what I'm saying. I just got divorced.
Speaker 1: We hated each other, but we still slept together occasionally
Speaker 1: because we're human beings and we have needs. But we
Speaker 1: have not held a ham in like six years. Okay,
Speaker 1: so how did the day end? It was just really sweet.
Speaker 1: You know, Honestly, I maybe gave him a little more
Speaker 1: info than he needed on a first date, because, like
Speaker 1: I said, I did get really kind of mushy, like
Speaker 1: we're holding hands. That felt like we were to get
Speaker 1: it together for a while. So I started talking about
Speaker 1: my actual job or job that I'm trying to get.
Speaker 1: I guess I'm an aspiring author. I'm a writer. I'm
Speaker 1: not yet published, so I'm sort of in that like
Speaker 1: super Broke, I'm not sure if I actually have any talent.
Speaker 1: Days with my career, it's very stressful. I have to
Speaker 1: tell myself every day that, like, this is my purpose,
Speaker 1: I'm born to do this, but I don't have any
Speaker 1: evidence yet. So what do you think went wrong on
Speaker 1: the day? Why do you think this guy isn't calling
Speaker 1: you back? I'm a woman, so like my first thought
Speaker 1: as he met someone, he'd rather have sex within me.
Speaker 1: But my second thought would be that I I think
Speaker 1: I may have frightened them off and maybe come off
Speaker 1: a bit crazy because I did, you know, lie on
Speaker 1: my profile about the yoga thing, and then I got
Speaker 1: a little bit vulnerable. Let's say, talking about my career.
Speaker 1: May have got a little bit misty for a moment,
Speaker 1: too much, too soon. Yeah, guys don't like missty, so
Speaker 1: they love moist but not misty. Yeah, now that's a
Speaker 1: bumper sticker. Yeah, you're speaking about truth here, all right,
Speaker 1: d Well, we're gonna play a song, come back and
Speaker 1: call Tony for you and get your second date update. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: everybody crossed your fingers and your toes. Okay, we got
Speaker 1: them all crying. All right, hold on brooking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. Second update. If you're just joining us for
Speaker 1: today's second date update, we're on the phone with d D.
Speaker 1: Who's f D and DDD what freshly, freshly divorced and
Speaker 1: down to date. I don't think that that's what that was.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that's a popular saying that all the
Speaker 1: teens are using nowadays. Yeah, put that in your profile, DD,
Speaker 1: you'll get some swipes. Yeah, the nineteen year old are
Speaker 1: big into the divorce days. Oh yeah, a lot of
Speaker 1: the divorce teams are using this now. Anyway, DD's friends
Speaker 1: got her to try something called a ten for ten challenge,
Speaker 1: which is where you go out on ten tender dates
Speaker 1: over ten days with ten different dudes. Yes. Wow, and
Speaker 1: her eighth date is the one that really stuck. His
Speaker 1: name's Tony, and she had a great time exploring the city.
Speaker 1: Ferris Bueller style with him, but there has not been
Speaker 1: a meetup since then. Indeed, we never asked you this.
Speaker 1: Have you actually tried to contact him yet after the day,
Speaker 1: or is this the first time you're reaching out? No,
Speaker 1: I mean I've texted him, he just hasn't texted me back.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I'm in a place now I don't
Speaker 1: even know if he's not interested or if he you know,
Speaker 1: fell off the face of the earth. Okay, all right, Well,
Speaker 1: you know what's interesting, though, You could actually call your
Speaker 1: ten for ten challenge a success because at least you
Speaker 1: met one dude you really liked. I was looking at
Speaker 1: as a success because I actually put up with all
Speaker 1: ten of them. Like I didn't give up. You persevered,
Speaker 1: and that's all that matters the dating world. I was like,
Speaker 1: I held on to hope in the face of no
Speaker 1: hope at all. All Right, all right, all right, we're
Speaker 1: gonna keep that positive attitude going, and we're gonna give
Speaker 1: Tony a call for you and get your second date update.
Speaker 1: All right. Yeah, it seemed like a really good idea
Speaker 1: until this moment now freaking out, So let's do this,
Speaker 1: all right, We're gonna make this work for you, Okay,
Speaker 1: We're gonna call him right now. Hello, Hi, can I
Speaker 1: speak to Tony please speaking? Is this number eight? Tony?
Speaker 1: Excuse me? Never? Sorry? Uh yeah, okay, So Tony, this
Speaker 1: is young Jeffrey from the radio show Brooken Jewil in
Speaker 1: the Morning, Young Jeffrey from where. Don't worry about it. Actually,
Speaker 1: forget it, Hi, it's not going to help you. Everything
Speaker 1: Jeffrey say is confusing. We're a radio show. Yes, why
Speaker 1: are you a radio show? And why are you calling me?
Speaker 1: We were hired by some people. Yeah, don't ask us
Speaker 1: why we're a show. It's we don't have a good
Speaker 1: answer for you. But barely. The reason that we're calling
Speaker 1: you is because we're doing something called the Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard of that before? No? I have not. Well,
Speaker 1: we're about to turn you into a listener. What are
Speaker 1: we talking about. We're talking about the second Date Update.
Speaker 1: That's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: someone and they're not calling you back, you can reach
Speaker 1: out to us to try and figure out why that is.
Speaker 1: So we're calling on behalf of a woman named Dedid Oh. Okay, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: so I'm on the radio right now. Yeah. Yeah, But
Speaker 1: more importantly, you went out with DD like maybe a
Speaker 1: week or so ago, and she really likes you, and
Speaker 1: she wants to know why you haven't gotten in touch
Speaker 1: with her since then. So she had a radio show
Speaker 1: call me. Well, you weren't answering her text messages. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well that's not of your business. Well, we're not trying
Speaker 1: to like pry or anything. Did he just feels like
Speaker 1: you guys had a real connection and your date sounded
Speaker 1: pretty awesome. Okay, Well what she thought it went really well?
Speaker 1: You're saying, yeah, do you think it went well? Or
Speaker 1: do you not think it went well? Like, we want
Speaker 1: to know a little bit more about it so that
Speaker 1: we can help DD he understand why she's getting blown off. Well,
Speaker 1: if you must know, I think it went well to
Speaker 1: like a point. You know, we went out like to
Speaker 1: a museum, We walked around. It was a really it
Speaker 1: was a really relaxing date. I would say, Okay, so
Speaker 1: what changed? So? Um, I guess towards the end of
Speaker 1: the date, we started talking more in depth about I guess,
Speaker 1: our personal lives and our backstories. And then at that
Speaker 1: point kind of a big red flag came up. She
Speaker 1: told us that she came clean about lying to you
Speaker 1: on her dating profile about being a yoga and struck
Speaker 1: or is that what you're talking about? No, not that
Speaker 1: that was That was perfectly fine and funny. Okay, a
Speaker 1: lot of people tell lies on Tinder, so that No,
Speaker 1: that wasn't anything big, not in comparison to what she
Speaker 1: ultimately did tell me, though, Can you share what that is?
Speaker 1: She seems like a pretty open person. I mean, right, well,
Speaker 1: I don't know what she told you guys. But so
Speaker 1: she's trying to become an author. Perhaps she's mentioned this, Yeah,
Speaker 1: she said she's not published yet, but it's like a
Speaker 1: dream of hers. So you know, she's writing and it's
Speaker 1: very stressful for her, and she hasn't been able to
Speaker 1: really work or make much money for a while. But
Speaker 1: she said as of now, she's been covered financially due
Speaker 1: to the bus scam. Would you say the bus scam? Yes,
Speaker 1: the bust scamp. What does that mean? Is it like
Speaker 1: some pyramid scheme where she's selling cosmetics at a bus stop,
Speaker 1: if only it's a little more deep. The gnat she
Speaker 1: ul basically cun the city into giving her a settlement
Speaker 1: due to getting hit by a city bus. What did
Speaker 1: you just say, like a lot of money. She got
Speaker 1: hit by a bus to get money from the city. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it's she's been living office for years now. You're
Speaker 1: saying she did it on purpose, Yeah, something like that.
Speaker 1: What did she tell you that? Or was she joking?
Speaker 1: Like that sounds like a big joke. Someone would say, no,
Speaker 1: it was pretty serious. I did ask if she was joking,
Speaker 1: but she said she was one hundred percent serious. What
Speaker 1: Jose's coming up with? What public transit do I throw
Speaker 1: myself in front of nat comes in six minutes? So
Speaker 1: is that you better get down there? Okay, okay, I think, yeah,
Speaker 1: we need to ask d D about this. D D,
Speaker 1: did you jump out in front of a bus on
Speaker 1: purpose to make some money? She's all, oh, no, wow, Tony,
Speaker 1: that is not how I told you the story at all. Like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, what hold on that? That makes me
Speaker 1: sound like a psycho. I can't believe you're on the
Speaker 1: phone and you had a radio show call me to
Speaker 1: ask why I didn't call you back. That's psycho right there. Sorry.
Speaker 1: I think Tony, that that was on me. We shouldn't
Speaker 1: have hit you like a bus like that. We have
Speaker 1: them listening on the other line so that they can
Speaker 1: know what's going on. So DD's been hearing everything you said,
Speaker 1: but I need something because, like, this is the last
Speaker 1: reason I thought he wasn't calling you back because this
Speaker 1: is that's not exactly how it happened. Okay, first of all,
Speaker 1: I'm not like some scammer. I refer to it as
Speaker 1: the bus scam because I think it's funny that I
Speaker 1: happened to get hit by a city bus and get
Speaker 1: a settlement. It's kind of good luck as far as
Speaker 1: I can see, Like, why would you call it a
Speaker 1: scam because it's funny, you know, I got hit by
Speaker 1: a bus. That sounds ridiculous. It's and not for nothing.
Speaker 1: In the artistic community, it's kind of everyone's dream. I
Speaker 1: that's the perfect scenario. I got hit by a bus.
Speaker 1: But I'm totally fine. Well, you know, it doesn't sound
Speaker 1: fine to me because I don't know if I could
Speaker 1: be with somebody who just so openly cheated the system
Speaker 1: that way the system I got hit by a bus.
Speaker 1: I didn't jump in front of a bus. I don't know.
Speaker 1: But you pretended to be more hurt than you actually
Speaker 1: were to get a bigger settlement. Wow, I think acting
Speaker 1: a lot of assumptions about me Tony, especially considering like
Speaker 1: I didn't even ask for alimony or anything for my husband,
Speaker 1: like the last thing I am as a scammer. But
Speaker 1: I'm also an optimist, so I look at this as
Speaker 1: a positive. I think this is a way I got
Speaker 1: lucky and it's a jump start for my career. Well,
Speaker 1: it's sort of different from the way you told it
Speaker 1: to me when we were run on a gate. How
Speaker 1: you saw the bus coming and you kind of leaned
Speaker 1: into it. I was I was being flipping. I was
Speaker 1: bragging about getting hit by a bus. For heaven's sakes.
Speaker 1: Oh did you lean into it or did you not? So, like,
Speaker 1: what's the truth story right now? Yeah, it's like she's
Speaker 1: she's like Superman's the bus, like tried to stop it
Speaker 1: with her shoulder. You lead into a baseball, not a bus. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I'm really glad that we did call him, because I'm like,
Speaker 1: Tony on the phone on the radio is so different
Speaker 1: from Tony in the museum. Well, I'm not awful sandbagged
Speaker 1: on the radio, So sorry about it. So wait, wait,
Speaker 1: DEDI are you not interested in him anymore? Because he's
Speaker 1: accusing you of being a bus scammer? I can't believe
Speaker 1: he thinks that I would purposely get hit by a bus, Like,
Speaker 1: I only think you purposely got hit by a bus
Speaker 1: because you told me that you purposely got hit by
Speaker 1: a bus. I was exaggerating. I'm a writer. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: it's hyperbolief. For DNA. Were you in the middle of
Speaker 1: writing when you got hit? Well, maybe that's why she
Speaker 1: wasn't looking both ways. Her head was down in her paper.
Speaker 1: Oh come on, Tony, this is a positive thing. Like
Speaker 1: I see this as an opportunity for like a romantic
Speaker 1: love story. You guys could be the next Bonnie and
Speaker 1: Clyde scamming d buses across the country, taken home millions. Tony,
Speaker 1: think about it, two people who hate each other currently,
Speaker 1: if honestly reverse, I would be gating him just for
Speaker 1: the story. Like, this is a really good story. It is, Tony,
Speaker 1: so you should really consider it. And if you say
Speaker 1: yes to going out on a second date, we will
Speaker 1: pay for it, not just the dinner, but the bus
Speaker 1: fair too, because yeah, it's like a date scam. Now
Speaker 1: she's scamming everybody. Yeah not at this time. It was
Speaker 1: really nice meeting you, d D. And I know people
Speaker 1: say this all the time, but I really mean it.
Speaker 1: Try very hard not to get hit by a bus.
Speaker 1: Stage advice. Yea, thank you. If you really wished me well,
Speaker 1: you would say that you hope I do get hit
Speaker 1: by a bus again. Oh yes, broken jewel in the morning.