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<v Speaker 1>dating is like running a marathon. You gotta pace yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>take it nice and slow and steady so you can

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<v Speaker 1>make it all the way to the end. Brothers, they

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<v Speaker 1>treat dating like a sprint to the finish line. Weird,

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<v Speaker 1>and finish line is located in my bed sheets. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>but DEDI, who's on the phone with us for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update? Today? She decided to turn her dating

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<v Speaker 1>life into a full blown decathlon. Oh what does that

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<v Speaker 1>even mean? She got sponsors hydration stall set up, she's pro.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah she did. You'll understand what I mean in

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<v Speaker 1>just a minute. But first, let's meet our decathlete, DEDI.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show. Hi, guys, still honored. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>we have a true olympiad on the phone right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I didn't really look at it like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but now I feel really accomplished. Yeah, you should be

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<v Speaker 1>really proud of yourself. So tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about why you called in. Okay. So I got divorced recently, like,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was just finalized. I was refusing to date

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<v Speaker 1>until it was actually final, okay, And now that it is,

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<v Speaker 1>my friends they've been like pressuring me, like to get

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<v Speaker 1>back out there, and a couple of them have been

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<v Speaker 1>doing this thing called the ten for ten Challenge. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you guys heard of that? No? Is it? Okay? So

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<v Speaker 1>you go on ten Tinder days. It was ten different

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<v Speaker 1>guys ten days in a row. Whoa, that just sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like the normal Tinder life. No way, that sounds exhausting

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<v Speaker 1>to me. It's a lot, quite honestly. But at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, I have a bit of a competitive spirit,

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<v Speaker 1>so I decided I was going to do it. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't been on date in almost a year at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, So if you're calling us, I'm guessing you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't win the competition. Well, I mean I at least

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<v Speaker 1>finished the race, Okay. So how many of these guys

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<v Speaker 1>are we going to be calling today? We're only calling

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<v Speaker 1>the one. But in order to get to ten dates,

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<v Speaker 1>I told a little bit of a white lie on

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<v Speaker 1>my profile and said that I was a yoga instructor

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<v Speaker 1>because I thought, you know, that's like, yeah, just a

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<v Speaker 1>step below acrobat. I'm like the sexy scale, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and men are so predictable, aren't they. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're flexible girls. Yeah, I almost put on flexible

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<v Speaker 1>and then I was like, that's too much. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming a lot of quality options hit you up. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's really more about volume than anything else.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like the seven eleven of dating. You just want

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people through the door. Honest. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was my most honest, genuine tender experience because I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even read profiles. I was like, for once in

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<v Speaker 1>my life, I'm using this app for what it's supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be for. Okay, So, which one of the ten

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<v Speaker 1>guys did you actually connect with? Well? This guy, he

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<v Speaker 1>was date number eight. So I was like pretty sick

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<v Speaker 1>of dating at this point. Yeah, things were looking pretty bleak, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but number eight was awesome, Like so awesome that I

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<v Speaker 1>actually told him the truth. Wait, you told him about

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<v Speaker 1>the ten for ten or that you were divorced or

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's a lot of truth here. Oh my god. No, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I did not tell him I'm out the ten for

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<v Speaker 1>ten and five. Thank you for remind me. Please please

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<v Speaker 1>please don't say that to him, Like I want to

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<v Speaker 1>call him, but I don't want him to know that

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<v Speaker 1>he was number eight of ten. I thought, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>you at. No, No, I told him I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>yoga instructor. Oh my god, there were so many things

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<v Speaker 1>in our lists there. No, and he knows I'm divorced,

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<v Speaker 1>like that was no secret. But okay, No, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell him about the ten for ten. I just figured

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<v Speaker 1>like he was really sweet and I'm going to tell

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<v Speaker 1>him the truth because I want to see him again.

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<v Speaker 1>And he laughed it off like no, big whoops. Everything

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<v Speaker 1>was fine. But wow, what a good guy to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to look past not dating a yoga instructor. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't find a lot of guys like these days. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>to be fair, I am very flexible. Yeah, So what

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<v Speaker 1>were some of the highlights with Tony? You know that

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<v Speaker 1>montage and Ferris Bueller where they like go to the

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<v Speaker 1>museum and it saw like artsying deep and so it

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<v Speaker 1>felt like that, like I felt like a grown up date.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really remember that montage. I'm gonna be awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like it was like the kind of date

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<v Speaker 1>you see in the movie. Usually my dates are more like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we go and eat something real quick, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>smoke something, and then that's it. Maybe watch a movie.

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<v Speaker 1>But this was like a date date, like you were

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<v Speaker 1>looking at arts. So, yeah, did you go to museums?

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<v Speaker 1>And is that what you're saying? Yeah, we walked around

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<v Speaker 1>downtown and then we went to the museum and we're

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<v Speaker 1>like holding hands. I think it's got so mushy. You

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<v Speaker 1>danced in the parade as it went by, like I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen that Ferris Bueller movie. We almost ran into his dad.

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<v Speaker 1>It was super ten. I think that in some ways,

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<v Speaker 1>holding hands is even more intimate than like kissing someone. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, dude, what I'm saying. I just got divorced.

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<v Speaker 1>We hated each other, but we still slept together occasionally

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<v Speaker 1>because we're human beings and we have needs. But we

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<v Speaker 1>have not held a ham in like six years. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so how did the day end? It was just really sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Honestly, I maybe gave him a little more

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<v Speaker 1>info than he needed on a first date, because, like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I did get really kind of mushy, like

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<v Speaker 1>we're holding hands. That felt like we were to get

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<v Speaker 1>it together for a while. So I started talking about

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<v Speaker 1>my actual job or job that I'm trying to get.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I'm an aspiring author. I'm a writer. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not yet published, so I'm sort of in that like

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<v Speaker 1>super Broke, I'm not sure if I actually have any talent.

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<v Speaker 1>Days with my career, it's very stressful. I have to

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<v Speaker 1>tell myself every day that, like, this is my purpose,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm born to do this, but I don't have any

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<v Speaker 1>evidence yet. So what do you think went wrong on

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<v Speaker 1>the day? Why do you think this guy isn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back? I'm a woman, so like my first thought

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<v Speaker 1>as he met someone, he'd rather have sex within me.

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<v Speaker 1>But my second thought would be that I I think

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<v Speaker 1>I may have frightened them off and maybe come off

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<v Speaker 1>a bit crazy because I did, you know, lie on

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<v Speaker 1>my profile about the yoga thing, and then I got

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit vulnerable. Let's say, talking about my career.

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<v Speaker 1>May have got a little bit misty for a moment,

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<v Speaker 1>too much, too soon. Yeah, guys don't like missty, so

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<v Speaker 1>they love moist but not misty. Yeah, now that's a

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<v Speaker 1>bumper sticker. Yeah, you're speaking about truth here, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>d Well, we're gonna play a song, come back and

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<v Speaker 1>call Tony for you and get your second date update. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody crossed your fingers and your toes. Okay, we got

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<v Speaker 1>them all crying. All right, hold on brooking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Second update. If you're just joining us for

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update, we're on the phone with d D.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's f D and DDD what freshly, freshly divorced and

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<v Speaker 1>down to date. I don't think that that's what that was.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure that's a popular saying that all the

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<v Speaker 1>teens are using nowadays. Yeah, put that in your profile, DD,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll get some swipes. Yeah, the nineteen year old are

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<v Speaker 1>big into the divorce days. Oh yeah, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the divorce teams are using this now. Anyway, DD's friends

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<v Speaker 1>got her to try something called a ten for ten challenge,

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<v Speaker 1>which is where you go out on ten tender dates

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<v Speaker 1>over ten days with ten different dudes. Yes. Wow, and

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<v Speaker 1>her eighth date is the one that really stuck. His

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<v Speaker 1>name's Tony, and she had a great time exploring the city.

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<v Speaker 1>Ferris Bueller style with him, but there has not been

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<v Speaker 1>a meetup since then. Indeed, we never asked you this.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you actually tried to contact him yet after the day,

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<v Speaker 1>or is this the first time you're reaching out? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've texted him, he just hasn't texted me back.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, I'm in a place now I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know if he's not interested or if he you know,

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<v Speaker 1>fell off the face of the earth. Okay, all right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what's interesting, though, You could actually call your

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<v Speaker 1>ten for ten challenge a success because at least you

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<v Speaker 1>met one dude you really liked. I was looking at

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<v Speaker 1>as a success because I actually put up with all

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<v Speaker 1>ten of them. Like I didn't give up. You persevered,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's all that matters the dating world. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I held on to hope in the face of no

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<v Speaker 1>hope at all. All Right, all right, all right, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna keep that positive attitude going, and we're gonna give

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<v Speaker 1>Tony a call for you and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. Yeah, it seemed like a really good idea

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<v Speaker 1>until this moment now freaking out, So let's do this,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, We're gonna make this work for you, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call him right now. Hello, Hi, can I

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<v Speaker 1>speak to Tony please speaking? Is this number eight? Tony?

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<v Speaker 1>Excuse me? Never? Sorry? Uh yeah, okay, So Tony, this

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<v Speaker 1>is young Jeffrey from the radio show Brooken Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning, Young Jeffrey from where. Don't worry about it. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>forget it, Hi, it's not going to help you. Everything

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey say is confusing. We're a radio show. Yes, why

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<v Speaker 1>are you a radio show? And why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 1>We were hired by some people. Yeah, don't ask us

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<v Speaker 1>why we're a show. It's we don't have a good

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<v Speaker 1>answer for you. But barely. The reason that we're calling

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<v Speaker 1>you is because we're doing something called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever heard of that before? No? I have not. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to turn you into a listener. What are

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<v Speaker 1>we talking about. We're talking about the second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>someone and they're not calling you back, you can reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to us to try and figure out why that is.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're calling on behalf of a woman named Dedid Oh. Okay, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm on the radio right now. Yeah. Yeah, But

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<v Speaker 1>more importantly, you went out with DD like maybe a

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<v Speaker 1>week or so ago, and she really likes you, and

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to know why you haven't gotten in touch

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<v Speaker 1>with her since then. So she had a radio show

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<v Speaker 1>call me. Well, you weren't answering her text messages. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well that's not of your business. Well, we're not trying

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<v Speaker 1>to like pry or anything. Did he just feels like

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<v Speaker 1>you guys had a real connection and your date sounded

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<v Speaker 1>pretty awesome. Okay, Well what she thought it went really well?

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<v Speaker 1>You're saying, yeah, do you think it went well? Or

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<v Speaker 1>do you not think it went well? Like, we want

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<v Speaker 1>to know a little bit more about it so that

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<v Speaker 1>we can help DD he understand why she's getting blown off. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if you must know, I think it went well to

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<v Speaker 1>like a point. You know, we went out like to

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<v Speaker 1>a museum, We walked around. It was a really it

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<v Speaker 1>was a really relaxing date. I would say, Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>what changed? So? Um, I guess towards the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the date, we started talking more in depth about I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>our personal lives and our backstories. And then at that

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<v Speaker 1>point kind of a big red flag came up. She

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<v Speaker 1>told us that she came clean about lying to you

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<v Speaker 1>on her dating profile about being a yoga and struck

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<v Speaker 1>or is that what you're talking about? No, not that

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<v Speaker 1>that was That was perfectly fine and funny. Okay, a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people tell lies on Tinder, so that No,

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't anything big, not in comparison to what she

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<v Speaker 1>ultimately did tell me, though, Can you share what that is?

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<v Speaker 1>She seems like a pretty open person. I mean, right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what she told you guys. But so

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<v Speaker 1>she's trying to become an author. Perhaps she's mentioned this, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she said she's not published yet, but it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>dream of hers. So you know, she's writing and it's

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<v Speaker 1>very stressful for her, and she hasn't been able to

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<v Speaker 1>really work or make much money for a while. But

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<v Speaker 1>she said as of now, she's been covered financially due

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<v Speaker 1>to the bus scam. Would you say the bus scam? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>the bust scamp. What does that mean? Is it like

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<v Speaker 1>some pyramid scheme where she's selling cosmetics at a bus stop,

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<v Speaker 1>if only it's a little more deep. The gnat she

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<v Speaker 1>ul basically cun the city into giving her a settlement

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<v Speaker 1>due to getting hit by a city bus. What did

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<v Speaker 1>you just say, like a lot of money. She got

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<v Speaker 1>hit by a bus to get money from the city. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's she's been living office for years now. You're

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<v Speaker 1>saying she did it on purpose, Yeah, something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>What did she tell you that? Or was she joking?

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<v Speaker 1>Like that sounds like a big joke. Someone would say, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it was pretty serious. I did ask if she was joking,

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<v Speaker 1>but she said she was one hundred percent serious. What

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<v Speaker 1>Jose's coming up with? What public transit do I throw

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<v Speaker 1>myself in front of nat comes in six minutes? So

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<v Speaker 1>is that you better get down there? Okay, okay, I think, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to ask d D about this. D D,

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<v Speaker 1>did you jump out in front of a bus on

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<v Speaker 1>purpose to make some money? She's all, oh, no, wow, Tony,

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<v Speaker 1>that is not how I told you the story at all. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, what hold on that? That makes me

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<v Speaker 1>sound like a psycho. I can't believe you're on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and you had a radio show call me to

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<v Speaker 1>ask why I didn't call you back. That's psycho right there. Sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Tony, that that was on me. We shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have hit you like a bus like that. We have

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<v Speaker 1>them listening on the other line so that they can

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<v Speaker 1>know what's going on. So DD's been hearing everything you said,

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<v Speaker 1>but I need something because, like, this is the last

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<v Speaker 1>reason I thought he wasn't calling you back because this

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<v Speaker 1>is that's not exactly how it happened. Okay, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not like some scammer. I refer to it as

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<v Speaker 1>the bus scam because I think it's funny that I

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<v Speaker 1>happened to get hit by a city bus and get

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<v Speaker 1>a settlement. It's kind of good luck as far as

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<v Speaker 1>I can see, Like, why would you call it a

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<v Speaker 1>scam because it's funny, you know, I got hit by

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<v Speaker 1>a bus. That sounds ridiculous. It's and not for nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>In the artistic community, it's kind of everyone's dream. I

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<v Speaker 1>that's the perfect scenario. I got hit by a bus.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm totally fine. Well, you know, it doesn't sound

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<v Speaker 1>fine to me because I don't know if I could

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<v Speaker 1>be with somebody who just so openly cheated the system

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<v Speaker 1>that way the system I got hit by a bus.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't jump in front of a bus. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>But you pretended to be more hurt than you actually

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<v Speaker 1>were to get a bigger settlement. Wow, I think acting

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of assumptions about me Tony, especially considering like

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even ask for alimony or anything for my husband,

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<v Speaker 1>like the last thing I am as a scammer. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also an optimist, so I look at this as

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<v Speaker 1>a positive. I think this is a way I got

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<v Speaker 1>lucky and it's a jump start for my career. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's sort of different from the way you told it

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<v Speaker 1>to me when we were run on a gate. How

0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:48.800
<v Speaker 1>you saw the bus coming and you kind of leaned

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<v Speaker 1>into it. I was I was being flipping. I was

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<v Speaker 1>bragging about getting hit by a bus. For heaven's sakes.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh did you lean into it or did you not? So, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the truth story right now? Yeah, it's like she's

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<v Speaker 1>she's like Superman's the bus, like tried to stop it

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<v Speaker 1>with her shoulder. You lead into a baseball, not a bus. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really glad that we did call him, because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>Tony on the phone on the radio is so different

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<v Speaker 1>from Tony in the museum. Well, I'm not awful sandbagged

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio, So sorry about it. So wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>DEDI are you not interested in him anymore? Because he's

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<v Speaker 1>accusing you of being a bus scammer? I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>he thinks that I would purposely get hit by a bus, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I only think you purposely got hit by a bus

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<v Speaker 1>because you told me that you purposely got hit by

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<v Speaker 1>a bus. I was exaggerating. I'm a writer. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>it's hyperbolief. For DNA. Were you in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>writing when you got hit? Well, maybe that's why she

0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:50.000
<v Speaker 1>wasn't looking both ways. Her head was down in her paper.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh come on, Tony, this is a positive thing. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I see this as an opportunity for like a romantic

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<v Speaker 1>love story. You guys could be the next Bonnie and

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<v Speaker 1>Clyde scamming d buses across the country, taken home millions. Tony,

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<v Speaker 1>think about it, two people who hate each other currently,

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<v Speaker 1>if honestly reverse, I would be gating him just for

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<v Speaker 1>the story. Like, this is a really good story. It is, Tony,

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<v Speaker 1>so you should really consider it. And if you say

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<v Speaker 1>yes to going out on a second date, we will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it, not just the dinner, but the bus

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<v Speaker 1>fair too, because yeah, it's like a date scam. Now

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<v Speaker 1>she's scamming everybody. Yeah not at this time. It was

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<v Speaker 1>really nice meeting you, d D. And I know people

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<v Speaker 1>say this all the time, but I really mean it.

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<v Speaker 1>Try very hard not to get hit by a bus.

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<v Speaker 1>Stage advice. Yea, thank you. If you really wished me well,

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<v Speaker 1>you would say that you hope I do get hit

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<v Speaker 1>by a bus again. Oh yes, broken jewel in the morning.