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Speaker 1: dating is like running a marathon. You gotta pace yourself,

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Speaker 1: and finish line is located in my bed sheets. Oh

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Speaker 1: but DEDI, who's on the phone with us for a

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Speaker 1: second date update? Today? She decided to turn her dating

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah she did. You'll understand what I mean in

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Speaker 1: just a minute. But first, let's meet our decathlete, DEDI.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Hi, guys, still honored. It's like

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I didn't really look at it like that,

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Speaker 1: but now I feel really accomplished. Yeah, you should be

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Speaker 1: really proud of yourself. So tell us a little bit

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Speaker 1: about why you called in. Okay. So I got divorced recently, like,

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Speaker 1: my friends they've been like pressuring me, like to get

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Speaker 1: doing this thing called the ten for ten Challenge. Have

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Speaker 1: you guys heard of that? No? Is it? Okay? So

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Speaker 1: you go on ten Tinder days. It was ten different

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Speaker 1: like the normal Tinder life. No way, that sounds exhausting

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Speaker 1: to be for. Okay, So, which one of the ten

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Speaker 1: today's second date update, we're on the phone with d D.

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Speaker 1: Who's f D and DDD what freshly, freshly divorced and

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Speaker 1: which is where you go out on ten tender dates

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Speaker 1: her eighth date is the one that really stuck. His

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Speaker 1: a meetup since then. Indeed, we never asked you this.

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Speaker 1: Tony a call for you and get your second date update.

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Speaker 1: All right. Yeah, it seemed like a really good idea

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Speaker 1: until this moment now freaking out, So let's do this,

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Speaker 1: Excuse me? Never? Sorry? Uh yeah, okay, So Tony, this

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Speaker 1: the Morning, Young Jeffrey from where. Don't worry about it. Actually,

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Speaker 1: forget it, Hi, it's not going to help you. Everything

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey say is confusing. We're a radio show. Yes, why

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Speaker 1: So we're calling on behalf of a woman named Dedid Oh. Okay, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: so I'm on the radio right now. Yeah. Yeah, But

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Speaker 1: well that's not of your business. Well, we're not trying

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Speaker 1: the bust scamp. What does that mean? Is it like

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Speaker 1: I think Tony, that that was on me. We shouldn't

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Speaker 1: Oh did you lean into it or did you not? So, like,

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Speaker 1: DEDI are you not interested in him anymore? Because he's

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Speaker 1: accusing you of being a bus scammer? I can't believe

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Speaker 1: Oh come on, Tony, this is a positive thing. Like

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Speaker 1: I see this as an opportunity for like a romantic

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Speaker 1: Clyde scamming d buses across the country, taken home millions. Tony,

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Speaker 1: think about it, two people who hate each other currently,

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Speaker 1: if honestly reverse, I would be gating him just for

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Speaker 1: so you should really consider it. And if you say

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Speaker 1: pay for it, not just the dinner, but the bus

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Speaker 1: fair too, because yeah, it's like a date scam. Now

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Speaker 1: she's scamming everybody. Yeah not at this time. It was

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Speaker 1: really nice meeting you, d D. And I know people

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Speaker 1: say this all the time, but I really mean it.

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Speaker 1: Try very hard not to get hit by a bus.

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Speaker 1: Stage advice. Yea, thank you. If you really wished me well,

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Speaker 1: by a bus again. Oh yes, broken jewel in the morning.