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Speaker 1: our call line. John, what's the number four four five

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Speaker 1: So let me share a story with you. Once upon

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Speaker 1: My mother has some extreme views and believes that doctors

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Speaker 1: accusing her of being promiscuous and implying that her current

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Speaker 1: more like congrats. Wow. Same technical meeting with two very

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Speaker 1: college funds. What would you call that? What would you

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Speaker 1: it's not fair that she got to f up, get

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Speaker 1: who the baby daddy is something she told me, but

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Speaker 1: that sucks, Yeah, it sucks. Mom's been texting, calling, trying

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