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Speaker 1: You've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show, Dakota, Welcome to the program. How are you.

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Speaker 1: I'm good. How you guys doing doing? Okay? What's going

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Speaker 1: on with this woman? Vanessa on waiting by the phone?

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Speaker 1: You feel like you're being ghosted? Tell us kind of

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Speaker 1: about how you met, any dates you've been on, and

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Speaker 1: where things are now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean exactly right, right, Like we feel

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Speaker 2: like I'm being ghosted.

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Speaker 1: We met on bumble week.

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Speaker 2: Sin's numbered pretty quick, first date, really great, right, amazing

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Speaker 2: things where things are really promising. We were already planning

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Speaker 2: our second date and Lynn like out of nowhere, just

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Speaker 2: like just.

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Speaker 1: Nothing all right. So that's always frustrating. I mean we

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Speaker 1: hear it all the time, is you have one impression

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Speaker 1: of the date, and even on the date, you're talking

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Speaker 1: about future plans. Except then once the date's over and

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Speaker 1: you guys go your separate ways. Now you can't get

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Speaker 1: a hold of this person, and you're like, wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: we talked about another date and I thought it went well,

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Speaker 1: So what happened? And you start kind of beating yourself

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Speaker 1: up and you want at least the closure, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And to be fair.

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Speaker 2: We talked about plans for second date after the first

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Speaker 2: date ended, So it's not like it's not like that

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Speaker 2: just that night, like the conversation continued, like like I thought,

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Speaker 2: I really thought we were going places.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well, let's I'm gonna play a song,

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Speaker 1: come back in a couple of minutes, going to call Vanessa.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone at the same time, Dakota,

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Speaker 1: And the hope is that we can figure out what's

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Speaker 1: going on, straighten it all out, set you guys up

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Speaker 1: on in this case, that second date, and pay for it.

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Speaker 1: All right, amazing, Thank you much. Let's see what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Part two of waiting by the phone. After this song

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Speaker 1: the Weekend, Cry for me back in two minutes Fred's

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Speaker 1: show The Weekend and the Fred Show is on. Hey

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Speaker 1: to Coody, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call this

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Speaker 1: woman Vanessa, who you met on Bumble You guys exchange numberies.

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Speaker 1: You went in a great date, you felt like everything

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Speaker 1: was going well, things were very promising, you were even

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Speaker 1: planning a second date, and then now you're being ghosted.

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Speaker 1: You feel like you can get ahold of her now.

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Speaker 1: So we go from a good date and plans for

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Speaker 1: a second date to nothing, and you want to know why?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's call Vanessa now, good luck Dakota. All right, thanks? Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Vanessa? Hey Vanessa, good morning. My name

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Speaker 1: is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the morning

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Speaker 1: radio show. The whole crew is here, and I do

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Speaker 1: have to tell you that we are Oh okay, so

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Speaker 1: well let me finish here, just to get this out

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Speaker 1: of the way. We are on the radio, and I

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Speaker 1: would need your permission to continue with the call. Can

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Speaker 1: which have for just a second?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Perfect? Well, this is a very agreeable person. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: We're calling up we half of a guy named Dakota

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Speaker 1: who you met on bub and you went out with

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Speaker 1: Dakota recently. Do you remember him?

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Speaker 3: Uh huh, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Well, he called us, Vanessa, and he told us that

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Speaker 3: Well, he's crazy, first of all, but yeah, he's also right.

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Speaker 3: We did have a great date, like that was fun

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Speaker 3: he showed up at my house. Yeah, so.

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Speaker 1: Like you didn't you didn't want him there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like the next weekend after we had had a

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Speaker 4: Like checking in my phone once I was at home,

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Speaker 4: and then I got this random knock on my door

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Speaker 1: Like, okay, had you given did he pick you up

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Speaker 4: Or like, oh he got my address from when he

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Speaker 3: Give me to get me a RIF home after a date.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you he was like, let me get you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And he also was like, oh, who's over there?

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Speaker 3: Any guys here like cause they saw cars out front.

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Speaker 1: It's some weirdo stuff. There's some big time of weirdo stuff.

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Speaker 1: You can't do that, now, No, you can't do that.

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Speaker 1: I forgot to mention the Dakota. Now, I gotta get

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Speaker 1: I gotta get Dakota on the line. I got to

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Speaker 1: be completely transparent here because that's some weird stuff. Dakota

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Speaker 1: is here, Dakota. Yeah, women game. Yeah, we don't show

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Speaker 1: the people's houses uninvited. We don't do we don't.

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Speaker 2: Like I wasn't. She wasn't answering anymore after everything had

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Speaker 2: okay like I was. I was doing like a like

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Speaker 1: Oh you're doing a wellness check. That's so nice of you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she has every right not to respond to you in

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Speaker 1: up at her house. That's not that's not why she

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Speaker 1: She didn't put the address in there for you to

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Speaker 2: And I wasn't. I wasn't like planning on showing up

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's for you to have to worry about.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like this one date, I'm sure she's okay.

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't have to get a newspaper or

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Speaker 1: something turn on the dateline. I don't know. I mean, like,

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Speaker 1: don't know if you do that really kind of ever, honestly,

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Speaker 1: And then for you to did you really show up

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Speaker 1: like that to me is not giving the joke. Yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: Like I wasn't like whatever, that's not giving I'm checking

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Speaker 2: I mean no, like that's but that's not what I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a good guy doesn't sound like it, Vanessa,

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Speaker 1: Are you buying any of this that he You know,

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Speaker 1: he had good intentions.

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Speaker 3: It was only not defending myself because you guys are

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Speaker 3: doing it for me. So he's clearly crazy and creepy.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, crazy, I'm a concerned person, Like I liked

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Speaker 2: crazy person behavior. That's like carrying person behavior.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but not on normal does that. But yeah, if

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Speaker 1: in fact that was your intention, it doesn't give that

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Speaker 1: It wasn't like, hey, you can stop buying any time

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Speaker 1: you may be you may be the mass murderer. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. But like, you can't just show up at

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Speaker 1: people's houses I don't even know. I mean, there are

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Speaker 2: I mean, my my whole family like is like we've

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Speaker 2: always grown ups just kind of dropping by each other's houses.

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Speaker 1: Like your family, that's not and even my family sometimes

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Speaker 1: I think would probably not answer the door. Finally, so

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. You can't just show up at

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Speaker 1: people's houses uninvited. You can't do that. And especially this

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Speaker 1: is creepy, Like she did not give you her address

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Speaker 1: with the purpose of you having it to come over there.

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Speaker 2: She gave that.

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Speaker 1: Well do you right? Right? Right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course I do, Like I didn't. That's why

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Speaker 2: I didn't go there like the next day. And it

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Speaker 2: wasn't just like, hey, let's have a second date. No,

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Speaker 2: like when I had hurt for her for a while,

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Speaker 2: Like that's when I was like concerned that something was wrong.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: You guys are totally misery to misery.

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Speaker 1: All of us, sorry, everybody in quitting Vanessa. Vanessa looks so, hey, Vanessa,

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Speaker 1: we got this all wrong. I'll just ask the question, then,

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Speaker 1: would you like to go out with him again? He

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Speaker 1: had good intentions, he says, no, not interested, Okay, not

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Speaker 1: gonna happen. So look da Kota. My thing to you is,

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Speaker 1: even if you do have good intentions, never do that again. Please.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean I think you guys are wrong, but sure, okay, Okay, he's.

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Speaker 1: Gonna do it again, so that's right.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: Well, Vanessa, thank you for answering for your time, and

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Speaker 1: Dakota good for trying. Yeah, and good luck to you, Dakota.

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Speaker 1: The Entertainment Report is next seven hundred and fifty bucks

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Speaker 1: in the showed that a timee Breaker versus Carissa. That's next,

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. I want to be a