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Dear Stephen Shirley, I am a 17 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 1: thirty year old, beautiful and successful woman and I'm in 18 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: love with a forty four year old, well educated hunk 19 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:09,759 Speaker 1: that swept me off my feet when I met him. 20 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: He told me that he was seeing someone in a 21 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 1: long distance relationship, but I still started dating this man 22 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: despite the news. After six months of dating, I did 23 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: some research and found out that he proposed to this 24 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: woman and she has set a wedding date. I never 25 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 1: confronted him about it, but it tore me apart emotionally. 26 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: I figured if I started an argument about it, I 27 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 1: would push him away and his fiance would win. So 28 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: I have kept the news to myself. I'm trying my 29 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 1: best to make him fall in love with me and 30 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: leave her. I know the old saying if he cheats 31 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: on her, he'll cheat on you. But I believe in 32 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:50,279 Speaker 1: love and I know we have something special. The loving 33 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: is so good, and he takes me on some amazing 34 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: trips all across the world. We are always together when 35 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: he's not out of town visiting the other. I am 36 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: overly jealous, so I just need to know how I 37 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 1: can win him over before his fiance orders the wedding invitations. 38 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: The holidays are coming up and I don't want to 39 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: spend them without him, so time is of the essence. 40 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 1: How do I tell this man that I am in 41 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: love with him and will take any and every risk 42 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: when it comes to getting him to myself, It's totally 43 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 1: possible to be in love with two people. At the 44 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 1: same time, So he's probably struggling internally with who he 45 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: should be with. Maybe if I tell his fiance about 46 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: our relationship, she will just break up with him and 47 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 1: go away. It may make him mad, but in the 48 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: end he will still have me, and I know we 49 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 1: can be happy together. I'm head over heels for this man, 50 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: and I'm planning to invite him to Thanksgiving dinner so 51 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: my family can meet him. How shall I handle How 52 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 1: should I handle this love triangle? Do you hear yourself? 53 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: Do you hear yourself? Because listen closely. This is this 54 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: is the sound of desperation, all right, This is the 55 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: sound of delusion in this letter. So I want you 56 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:14,920 Speaker 1: to hear yourself. You are so short changing yourself in 57 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 1: this relationship. You are number two. That's it, that's all. 58 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: You are the side piece, and you're okay with that. 59 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: I think you're really okay with it. Because he told 60 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,959 Speaker 1: you his status when you, guys, you know, first got together. 61 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: He told you he was in a long distance relationship. 62 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: You even researched it, you did your research and your words. 63 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: You still dated him despite the news. You started dating him. 64 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: And that's the problem. I mean, really, what is his 65 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: incentive to leave his fiance and get with you. Number two, 66 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: What is it He's getting everything from you without having 67 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 1: to change a thing he's doing. I mean the question 68 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: then becomes, when are you going to wake up and 69 00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: realize that if he was going to leave her for you, 70 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: don't you think he would have waited to propose to her. 71 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: I mean, you know you did all the research. You know, 72 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: maybe he would kind of see where the relationship could 73 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: go with you and him, or maybe that you would 74 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: have won him over by now. You think it's a 75 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: competition between the fiance and you because you're you're willing 76 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: to take any and every risk to get him. You know, 77 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, please, don't bother inviting him to 78 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 1: dinner because you know where he's gonna be. He's gonna 79 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:30,600 Speaker 1: be with his fiance and her family kicking it over 80 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: there for Thanksgiving because they're planning a wedding. They're getting married. 81 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 1: You are the side piece, all right, Steve, Well, I 82 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: don't know what Shirley's done a really excellent job with this. 83 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 1: All you can do is just get it worded in 84 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: a different way. So here we go. Well, my man, 85 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:52,359 Speaker 1: choose me for the holiday? The answer to that question 86 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:55,479 Speaker 1: is no one. And the answer to that question no 87 00:04:55,839 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: is simply because number twos don't get holiday You don't 88 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 1: get Christmas, don't get Thanksgiving, you don't get Fourth of 89 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: July barbecues. Those are the holidays. You don't get the 90 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 1: whole Valentine's dating, you can't get them days right there. 91 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 1: You don't get anniversaries. You don't get none of that 92 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 1: because you will never have an anniversary. Number two don't 93 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 1: get anniversary dates. Number ones get anniversary dates. And you 94 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: don't even have to be married to your number one 95 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 1: half an anniversary just the third year we've been knowing 96 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: each other. You don't do that to number twos. You 97 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: don't go we've been seeing each other for three years. Now, 98 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 1: let's go out and celebrate. No, there's no celebration. You 99 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: don't celebrate number twos. When I met him, he told 100 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: me he was seeing someone in a long distance relationship. 101 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 1: Then you know what you said right after that. But 102 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 1: I still dated this man despite the news. Okay, so 103 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: you stupid all you just did what you wanted to do. 104 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: You dated Demand anyway. Demand told you I got somebody. 105 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: It's a long disrelationship. Got somebody. You started dating the 106 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 1: man anyway, Then after some six months of dating, you 107 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 1: did some research and found out that he proposed to 108 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 1: this woman as she has set a waiting date. What's 109 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: the surprise. I never confronted him about it, but it 110 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 1: told me a party. Mostly. I figured if I started 111 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 1: an argument about it, I pushed him away and this 112 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 1: fiance will win. The fiance has already went in. She 113 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:30,840 Speaker 1: the fiance. Six months in you found out they set 114 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 1: a date for a when he asked her, she just 115 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: put this date on Facebook. He asked the woman to 116 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 1: marry him. Has he asked you? Has he mentioned marriage 117 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: to you? He said nothing? By no, damn family with you, stupid. 118 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: Let him make me sick and to tell the rest 119 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 1: of him right after this. Shut up you're listening. Come on, 120 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,799 Speaker 1: let's recap today's drum letter. Subject. Well, my man choose 121 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: me for the holidays. This woman to met, she thirty, 122 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:07,040 Speaker 1: She met just for the year old, well for the 123 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 1: four year old, well educated hunk sweep you off your feet. 124 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 1: When you met him, he told me he was seeing somebody. 125 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 1: You still dated the man. Bam. Six months later, you 126 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 1: did some research, that's social media, found out that he 127 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 1: proposed to this woman. She even set a wedding date. 128 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: You ain't never said nothing to him about the man? 129 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 1: Figure if you started argument and push him away. Now 130 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: you want to know in the letter where my man 131 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: choose me for the holidays? I'm telling you know because 132 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: number twos don't get holidays. Holidays a reserved for number one. 133 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: You can't be number two and get a holiday. You 134 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 1: can get some fridays, get the sandy hearing that, Wait, 135 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: what is that? What do they get? Steve? You can 136 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 1: get some Fridays and occasional Saturday, but that's it. Usually 137 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:00,080 Speaker 1: it's the same day or the week that he and 138 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: told his wife on number one that he does a 139 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: certain thing on a certain night, and that turns that 140 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 1: night into YO night. I play poking with the boys 141 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: on Tuesday nights and I'd be home late. Then that 142 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 1: night is YO night. You don't get in the night 143 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: you want. Now here's a delusional part, like Shirley say, 144 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 1: I'm trying my best to make him fall in love 145 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: with me and leave her. What let me ask something, 146 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 1: how do you do that? How as the number two 147 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,319 Speaker 1: do you make the man fall in love with you 148 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 1: and leave the number one? I know the old thing. 149 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 1: If he cheats on her head, cheat on you, that 150 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to do with this. No, he's cheating 151 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: on her with you. You the you tell my head, 152 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 1: cheat on you? You to you, But I believe in love. 153 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 1: Stop it, you just say you believe in love. He's 154 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: marrying a woman, and I know we have something special. 155 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 1: You all this is in your mind. You have nothing special. 156 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 1: Your number two twos ain't special? Ain't you a? And 157 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 1: all this here ain't no two A two plus? This 158 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 1: ain't a seat an economy that's ain't it economy super 159 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: with extra leg room. You're still in the back Economy plus. 160 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 1: You're still in the back, but it's more. Room is 161 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: still good. But you in the back door. You're not 162 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 1: the first class seat. And you can't come up here 163 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 1: with the Economy plus ticket. Can sit on the exit 164 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: row and get you a little bit of extra if 165 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: that's what you want. But look at that as a 166 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 1: lot of people on the exit row. The loving is 167 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: so good, and he takes me on amazing trips all 168 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 1: across the world. You'dn't been to the but who ain't 169 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 1: been there? Down bigger than it is hers across the 170 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 1: world stopped San Diego. Ain't all across the world. Then 171 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 1: here's another line. We are always together when he's not 172 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 1: out of town. Hello, do you understand this? You're always 173 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 1: together when he's not out of town. You just said 174 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: he take you all around the world. Girl, When are 175 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,439 Speaker 1: you out of town? He would hull. You ain't been 176 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 1: nowhere flying to Atlanta. Ain't across the world when he's 177 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 1: not out of town visiting the other woman. I'm overly jealous. 178 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: So I just need to know how can I wein 179 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 1: him over before his fiance orders to wear an invitation? 180 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: Way too late for that. They the sect the date. 181 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: They aren't putting money down on places. She brent dress shopping. 182 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 1: Damn these invitations. The holidays are coming up, and I 183 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 1: don't want to spend them without him. You are this 184 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 1: is your first holiday. It's only been six months. You've 185 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: never been to the holidays before. You're spending those holidays alone? 186 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:13,959 Speaker 1: You're number two. It's only been six months. Hell, it's November. 187 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 1: So you met him prior to the summer. You're not. 188 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 1: They don't get holidays, sweetie. I'm sorry, and I don't 189 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 1: want to spend them without him. So time is of 190 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 1: the essence girl, Thanksgiving, Dawn Giving. It's day after tomorrow. Yeah, 191 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 1: but they said nothing to you about Thanksgiving yet, because 192 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: he ain't gonna be held he go, he got to 193 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 1: go out of town. They gonna tell his fiance I 194 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 1: ain't coming to wonder what is your fen to do? 195 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 1: Then to I tell this man that I'm in love 196 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:56,079 Speaker 1: with him and will take every risk he cans to 197 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 1: getting him. To myself, You've already taken the risk. The 198 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 1: man told you the relationship, and you dated him anyway. 199 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: You took the risk. You've taken all the risks now, 200 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:10,080 Speaker 1: and then you go right here. It's possible to be 201 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:12,199 Speaker 1: in love with two people at the same time. So 202 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 1: I know he's probably struggling internally with who he should 203 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:19,200 Speaker 1: be with, little girl. The struggle isn't with who she 204 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: should be with. The struggle is how to tell you 205 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: he's with her and fitting to get married. Remember that 206 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 1: he has not told you this for a reason, because 207 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 1: the only struggle is when and how to tell you 208 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: this is over Because I'm finn to move this woman 209 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: in my house. That's the struggle to struggle. Ain't with 210 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 1: your love, sister, pack your bags of He ain't coming 211 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 1: over for Thankgiving, and do not call that woman because 212 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: you could get shot. All right, those of my closing 213 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 1: remarks today, y'all have a great weekend, all right. You 214 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:00,679 Speaker 1: can post your comments on today's Strubberry Letters Steve RVFM 215 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:03,679 Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook, and please don't forget to check 216 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up 217 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:09,319 Speaker 1: at forty six after the hour. I think Steve had 218 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 1: more to add to this Strawberry Letter, writes Steve. We're 219 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 1: gonna do a little bit more. Yeah, let's let this 220 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 1: you're listening to show. All right, Steve, you said you 221 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 1: had some more to add to the Strawberry Letter subject, 222 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 1: why my will my man choose me for the holidays? 223 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:28,679 Speaker 1: For thol of you that don't know, this girl is 224 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: thirty years old dating this forty four year old man 225 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 1: swept off his feet. He told her on day one 226 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: he's in seeing someone in a long relationship. But you 227 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 1: dated this man anyway despite the news or six months 228 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 1: of dating. Did some research found out the woman has 229 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 1: setting wedding date that he proposed to this woman. Now, 230 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: this girl who wrote the letter hasn't said anything to 231 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: him about it, but she's torn up. She's scared to 232 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 1: start argument because it'll push him away and his fiance 233 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 1: will win. So she's kept the news to the same 234 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 1: to kept it all to himself. She's trying to figure 235 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: out the best way to make this man fall in 236 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 1: love with her and he leave her. I know the 237 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 1: old saying, if he cheats on her, here cheat on you. 238 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 1: But I believe in love. Now that she's talking about 239 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 1: the man take on some amazing trips all across the world. 240 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 1: The girl had been in San Diego, and how she 241 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 1: be all around the world. San Diego, it's just close 242 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: to Mexico. You then you saw the sign, see, but 243 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 1: you didn't actually go to Tiawan. He don't want to go, 244 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 1: No damn way, Coach, it's crazy Now anyway, how do 245 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: I wear him over before the fiance orders to wed 246 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 1: an invitation? Holidays is coming up. I don't want to 247 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 1: spend him with him, so times of the elsenes. How 248 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: do I tell this man I'm in love with him 249 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 1: and would take every risk into getting him to myself. 250 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 1: Totally possible. Well, now he's probably struggling with who he 251 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 1: should be with. Then here was the line the girl said, 252 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 1: Maybe if I tell his fiance about our relationship. She 253 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 1: would just break up with him and go away. It 254 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: may make him mad, but in the end he would 255 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: still have me, and I know we can be happy together. 256 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 1: Pump your brakes a little girl. You've obviously never gone 257 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 1: to a woman to tell her that you are the 258 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 1: other woman. They do get mad and it dude mess 259 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 1: the dude up with his girl for a while, but 260 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 1: they usually recover. Now he is going to hate you 261 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 1: for the rest of your life and you will have 262 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 1: no relationship with him, none whatsoever. And it is due. 263 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 1: So long as you know that, good luck. I'm planning 264 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 1: on inviting him to Thanksgiving. Don't do that. That man 265 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: can't do that turkey over there by yourself. They're gonna 266 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 1: have a place sitting with somebody. Ass ain't gonna be there. 267 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 1: And when thanks Giving up Thanksgiving Thanksgiving the day after 268 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 1: the month Thanksgiving. To me, he ain't saying nothing to 269 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 1: you about thanks You. I like my Thanksgiving on Thanksgiving? 270 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 1: Thank you. No. No, hold on a second, you don't 271 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 1: have enough turkey though, coming up more of the Steve 272 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to the 273 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: Stan Harvey Morning Show.