WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Date Diary

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jewels second dat day. You know, sometimes on the

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<v Speaker 1>first date you're confronted with a red flag, you can

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<v Speaker 1>just ignore it, you know, like you walk into their

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<v Speaker 1>place and they have pictures of you all over with

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<v Speaker 1>your eyes all carved out, and you're just like, is

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<v Speaker 1>that a red flag? Maybe they just don't like my

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<v Speaker 1>eye color and I should change it for them. I

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<v Speaker 1>can change my eye color for them. That's evidence in

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<v Speaker 1>a future crime. I want to pay attention to that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. But Kayla's on the phone today to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second date update. Kayla, how are you hey?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you hey? Not too bad? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I just ask you that. Yeah, I'm not paying attention

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<v Speaker 1>to anything. Let's just ask how we are for a while. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about the guy you want to meet today.

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<v Speaker 1>What's his name? Nico? N As you're asking it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like a question. Is that his name? Nico? Yeah? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is right. Tell us about Nico. How did you

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<v Speaker 1>meet Nico? Kayla? Sorry, I'm just flipping through here. Hold on, um, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how did I meet Nico? We met through a mutual

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<v Speaker 1>friends Okay, you met through mutual friends, And tell us

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about your date if we can somehow

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<v Speaker 1>get this thing back on track. DT. Yeah, what is

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<v Speaker 1>going on? Oh? Sorry the date? Yes, it feels what

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<v Speaker 1>are you doing? We want to know about the date.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a second date update. Um, it was good,

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<v Speaker 1>we got dinner, it was a good time, it was fun. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you called us for help, right, like, I'm just establishing this.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait say that again. We're inconveniencing you by asking you

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<v Speaker 1>about the date, Like, no, hold on, I just gotta

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<v Speaker 1>jot something down. Hold on, Okay, obviously very busy, trying

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<v Speaker 1>to multitask, maybe do some work and a second date

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<v Speaker 1>list that she remembered she needed, Butter, suddenly, are you good? Now? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I just remembered something and I have this

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<v Speaker 1>like relationship diary, and I just wanted to like jot

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<v Speaker 1>it down before I forgot. You've a relationship, Darry, what's

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<v Speaker 1>that about. It's kind of like this thing that I

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<v Speaker 1>just like keep all my dates in and I just

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<v Speaker 1>like dropped down to notes and stuff. What kind of notes,

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<v Speaker 1>just like how a date was, if there are any

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<v Speaker 1>red flags like what he was wearing, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>just like to keep it for reference, so like I

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<v Speaker 1>remember what dates are good, what we did, what worked,

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<v Speaker 1>what didn't work, and like even maybe like I will

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<v Speaker 1>meet the man of my dreams and like it'll be cute,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we can look back on my diary and any

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<v Speaker 1>guy wants to look back on your dating diary. Well

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<v Speaker 1>that's cute. Some people might like it. But you're on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with us right now, so can we take

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<v Speaker 1>a break from journaling. I just wanted to write that

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<v Speaker 1>one thing down, I apologize. Well, it should be a

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<v Speaker 1>good recap of your date. Then do you have it

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<v Speaker 1>all written down in your dating diary? I do, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Well tell us let me go back to that day.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, you're gonna tell us about your date from

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<v Speaker 1>your diary? Yes, yeah, I have everything written down. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so go for it. Then tell us about your started

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<v Speaker 1>with dear diary too, that'd be awesome. So okay, seven

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<v Speaker 1>thirty four pm. We don't need those details. Nko is

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<v Speaker 1>four minutes late. He's wearing a blue button up and

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<v Speaker 1>gray jeans. He's looking really cute, but he tells me

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<v Speaker 1>he was looking for a parking spot for a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>Hashtag red flag. Yeah, hashtag in my journal, I just

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<v Speaker 1>talk like how I dayd like, I know your email

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<v Speaker 1>says I'm about red flags, That's why I opened it

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<v Speaker 1>up like that. But I didn't realize that looking for

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<v Speaker 1>a parking spot would be a red flag. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>a red flag because like, was he not prepared to

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<v Speaker 1>come get me? And I don't know if he should

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<v Speaker 1>have been on time? Gotcha? Okay? Okay, So what else

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<v Speaker 1>happened on the date? This is going to be the

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<v Speaker 1>most detailed second date update ever. Then I go on

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<v Speaker 1>some forty six pm. He complimented me on my necklace,

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<v Speaker 1>huh okay, And then I told him a story about

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<v Speaker 1>my dad and he listened to my story, which was

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<v Speaker 1>really great, And I like that, right, that's nice. As

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<v Speaker 1>you're writing all these times down, are you documenting it

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<v Speaker 1>while you're on the date in front of him? Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I do, and sometimes like I just remember the timing

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<v Speaker 1>because like I look at the clock and make a

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<v Speaker 1>mental note of it, and then I go write it

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<v Speaker 1>down later. Okay. So it's a little bit of both.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's next? Hold on, I gonna flip the page

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<v Speaker 1>and trying to give us the important details. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like you might down seven fifty eight, I

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<v Speaker 1>told NKO how I was a former gymnast and to

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<v Speaker 1>see if he had any thoughts about that. Okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>would his thoughts be? Okay, So I want to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you though, like that was kind of like a bait

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<v Speaker 1>situation because I'm not a gymnast. Well, because I want

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<v Speaker 1>to see what their reactions are, like if I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>flexible or like I can get kinky or okay. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean guy's minds do kind of go there when

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<v Speaker 1>they're about a gymnast, like yeah, all right, she's bendy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah totally. So he thought he didn't take the bait.

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<v Speaker 1>Um I wrote down he didn't take the bait. So

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<v Speaker 1>red flag turned pink, got red flag turned peak. So

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<v Speaker 1>there's different shades of read. Any other details maybe just

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<v Speaker 1>about how you guys bonded and stuff, Okay, Yeah. Eight

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<v Speaker 1>twenty three pm Nico gets up, walks by the hostess

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<v Speaker 1>San and says something to hostess. Is he trying to

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<v Speaker 1>pick her up? Question Mark? What why would you assume that?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to ask him, but I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>come across as crazy. Yeah, I'm glad you didn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to let you know there may have been

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<v Speaker 1>a little sense of crazy just because you're journaling. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>assuming every once in a while during your date like

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<v Speaker 1>that feels a little type a, a little controlling. Journaling

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<v Speaker 1>is something that I've been doing for years and I

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<v Speaker 1>like doing it. So just backed off, like this is

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<v Speaker 1>just what I do. Okay, okay, okay, sorry. Nine twenty one,

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<v Speaker 1>we called it a night. I wrote, he kissed my

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<v Speaker 1>lips ever so softly, like in the movie twenty seven Dresses.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, wow, like Katherine Heigel where she's a

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<v Speaker 1>bridesmaid over and over again. That movie. I love that movie. Okay, right,

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<v Speaker 1>then that must have been a good kiss. Then if

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<v Speaker 1>it's one of your favorite movies on e I watch

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<v Speaker 1>it whenever it's on. Okay, all right, well you ended

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<v Speaker 1>the date with a kiss. That's got to be a

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<v Speaker 1>good thing. Could he be my new boyfriend? Question mark?

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<v Speaker 1>Stay tuned dot dot dot when you're teasing your own dates.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that, right, So besides, besides, it's a journal

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<v Speaker 1>all in all, was it a good date? Well? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean this is like one of my best dates.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean my other entries. You should just flip through this.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's been horrible. Yeah, Kayla, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>think that it's great that you journal. I also journal,

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<v Speaker 1>But you say like you're taking the life out of

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<v Speaker 1>a date. You're not like giving yourself a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>really get to know somebody because you're so concerned with

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<v Speaker 1>timelines and things that happened. Brook. It sounds like you

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<v Speaker 1>have a stick up your ass. So I told you

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<v Speaker 1>this is what I do. I've been doing this for

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<v Speaker 1>a year. Yeah, and I'm not going to make change

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<v Speaker 1>just now. You call for some help to try to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out what this guy has it called you back.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to give a little outsider input. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to see what happened and reach him,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't need help with you judging me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>this is just a different kind of second date update

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<v Speaker 1>than we've experienced before. I'm gonna play a song and

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<v Speaker 1>then we'll come back and call him and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay, Okay, great, Okay, hang on brooking

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning. Second update, Dear Diary. Today I

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<v Speaker 1>did the first part of a second date update. It

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<v Speaker 1>was with a woman named Kayla who also has a diary.

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking one day we could get together and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe be diary pals. I haven't asked her about that yet,

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<v Speaker 1>but I might Entry number two, Dear Diary. Now it's

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<v Speaker 1>time for the second part of today's second Date Update,

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<v Speaker 1>where we're gonna talk to Kayla and see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can get her a second date with a guy named Nico.

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<v Speaker 1>Nico sounds like a swell guy according to Kayla's diary.

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<v Speaker 1>They even into the night with a kiss, just like

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<v Speaker 1>in the movie twenty seven Dresses talking to each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Dear Diary, is anybody else reading my diary right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Your Diary? I hate you, Dear Diary. I love you,

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<v Speaker 1>Dear Diarie. I'm sorry about lashing out. Just tuning in

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<v Speaker 1>for today's second date update. Kayla is on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and she also keeps a diary, and she keeps a

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<v Speaker 1>diary of all her dates. In the first part of

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<v Speaker 1>the day second Date Update, she actually read straight from

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<v Speaker 1>her diary some excerpts about the date that she went

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<v Speaker 1>on with Nico. Everything, according to her, seemed pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>He showed up a bit late, she thought that might

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<v Speaker 1>be a red flag. At the end of the night

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<v Speaker 1>with a kiss, she was very excited about it, but

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<v Speaker 1>now she's not sure why he's not calling back. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to get him on the phone and find

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<v Speaker 1>out why. Kayla, are you ready? Yeah, I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>nervous though. Okay, Kayla, I know you don't want any

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<v Speaker 1>of my theories on why this guy isn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to know what your theory is. Why

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<v Speaker 1>do you think he's not calling you back? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>maybe because I was like too fun for him? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>these for anybody? That day was awesome. If we didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have so much fun, yeah, too much fun. Well, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>find out. I'm gonna give me a a call right now, Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it is, so this could be interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, here we go. Well, hi, might I speaks

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<v Speaker 1>to Nico? Please speaking? Hey, what's up? Man? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Ok Okay, you know what that is? No, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think so. Okay, I'll tell you Brooke and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. It's a radio show, okay, Okay. Not a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of faces you. It sounds like you calls from

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<v Speaker 1>radio stations all the time. Now it's diffused, Okay. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he just has the same emotional range that you have.

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel Possible and Niko, I'm calling you today because we

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<v Speaker 1>got an email about you from somebody that listens to

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<v Speaker 1>our show. Oh well, what did it say? Well said

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<v Speaker 1>some very nice things. We do a segment on our

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<v Speaker 1>show called the second Date Update. It's where if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with somebody and then don't

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<v Speaker 1>call them back after, they can email us to get

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<v Speaker 1>you on the phone to try to figure out what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>And you recently went with a girl named Kayla. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>yes I did. Yeah. Well, Kayla emailed us because she

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<v Speaker 1>said that she thought the date went great, but now

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<v Speaker 1>you're not calling her back and she wants to know

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<v Speaker 1>why said the day weren't great? Yeah, yeah, I was

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<v Speaker 1>she wrong about that. I just can't believe she remembers

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<v Speaker 1>the date. She was on the phone the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>Once she was on her phone the whole time, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I mean, like the whole date. She wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling anybody, but she was like texting I assume, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it wasn't just like looking. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>typing constantly. And I don't know if she was texting

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<v Speaker 1>like a different guy or setting up like a date

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<v Speaker 1>aftermind or what, but it was distracting. I couldn't get

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation in at all. It was rude. All right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we talked to her about your date. She

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<v Speaker 1>said that she actually had a great time and thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was one of the best dates she's had. That's impossible.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she was. I mean, I mean, like the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time she was typing, it was weird, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>the weirdest part. So I thought like, Okay, well this

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<v Speaker 1>was a bust. She must have seen me, wasn't into

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<v Speaker 1>me doing something else. But then walking back to the car,

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<v Speaker 1>she just like, I mean, out of nowhere, just kissed me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh she kissed you. She kissed me. What did you

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<v Speaker 1>think about that? I was shocked, Like I wasn't even

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go for a kiss or even a hug. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought this was gonna be like a piece whatever. And

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, she just like lunges at me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not gonna say no, but I was just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like a mannequim, just kind of still her

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<v Speaker 1>doer thing. She thought the kiss was great. She told

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<v Speaker 1>us about that. She also thought that you kissed her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's impossible because I was stationary. I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>she hadn't been on her phone. Were you attracted to her? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's definitely cute, but like all I really saw was

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<v Speaker 1>her forehead because she was bent over texting the whole time,

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<v Speaker 1>her phone the whole time. All right, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>you're self restraint that you didn't say anything on the date.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I at some point would have been like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>can you put the phone away? I'm just not that

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<v Speaker 1>type of person. If that's your thing, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to make a big deal about it. You

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<v Speaker 1>do your thing. I'll eat this hamburger. So basically, your

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<v Speaker 1>date was you hanging out with someone who was on

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<v Speaker 1>their phone the whole time. Yeah, and then you were

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<v Speaker 1>sexually assaulted after what you kissed you. I wouldn't say that,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was aggressive. All right. Well, thanks for telling

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<v Speaker 1>us why you don't want to call her back. I

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<v Speaker 1>also should tell you this though, she's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and wants to talk to you. Wait

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<v Speaker 1>what No, Yeah, did you hear what I just said?

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<v Speaker 1>Unless she was buried in her phone again, texting or something,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Kayla, are you still there? Oh? Yeah, Nico,

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<v Speaker 1>I loved hanging out with you. I was so interested

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<v Speaker 1>in my tea. I really liked you. How can you

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<v Speaker 1>let her you were typing the whole time. That's because

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<v Speaker 1>I was taking notes about the date on my phone

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<v Speaker 1>so then I can transfer it into my relationship diary

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<v Speaker 1>when I get home. That is so much right now. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very confused. What do you mean you were taking

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<v Speaker 1>like notes? It's what I do every time I go

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. I just I have this relationship diary

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<v Speaker 1>because I want to write down like red flags and

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<v Speaker 1>pluses and minuses about the dates and details so that

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<v Speaker 1>way I can remember things. Why do you have memory

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<v Speaker 1>problems or something? No, I just think it'll be really

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<v Speaker 1>cute to, like, one day look back on it all

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<v Speaker 1>and reminisce about everything. So you thought she was being

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<v Speaker 1>super rude and because she was actually super listening to you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's that's my normal. I've never gone on a

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<v Speaker 1>date and the next day been like, oh, did I

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<v Speaker 1>have a good time on that date? I should have

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<v Speaker 1>written it down. And Kaitlin, I mean, you're listening, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're not hearing what he's saying. Like he thought you

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<v Speaker 1>were into him because your face was buried into your

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<v Speaker 1>phone screen the entire time. Don't you see that as

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<v Speaker 1>a problem. Brook back off. I'm talking to him about this,

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<v Speaker 1>not you. I don't know why you just keep it

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<v Speaker 1>interrupting me. It's really pissling me off. Like I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get this across to him that Nico, I really

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<v Speaker 1>like you. Okay, I guess that makes sense in a way, Nico,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll prove it to you here at the next thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Eight thirty five. You had showed me those pictures of

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<v Speaker 1>your family, and I noted that your brothers are hot

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<v Speaker 1>and that you guys have really good genes. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that is so weird. No, I wanted to take note that,

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<v Speaker 1>like you are a good person to have babies with. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's real quick. You guys don't understand. These are things

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<v Speaker 1>that everybody thinks of on a date, and like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just writing them down. I'm writing down the thoughts that

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's thinking of. Anyway, that's the only difference. Don't you understand, Nico,

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<v Speaker 1>You understand right? Don't you understand? No, none of this

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense to me. Why are you saying my brothers

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<v Speaker 1>are hot? Why are you saying you want to have

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<v Speaker 1>babies with me? I mean, I leans think we've made

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<v Speaker 1>eye contact for this is higher date. Nico, you are

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<v Speaker 1>taking this way out of context, like I'm documenting this

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<v Speaker 1>because one day you're gonna appreciate all the details that

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<v Speaker 1>I've put down here in this diary and you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>look back on it and be like, Wow, she's awesome

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<v Speaker 1>that she wrote all this down and that she did that,

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<v Speaker 1>and we can look at this together. There you go. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think, Nko you want a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with Kayla? Will pay for it? Go on a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>make some babies a second date, or yeah, how did you?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so she can finish this novel? Who's writing

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<v Speaker 1>about our This is the weirdest. If it makes you

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<v Speaker 1>feel better, Nico, it's not just about you. She does

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<v Speaker 1>it for every day she goes on. That makes it

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<v Speaker 1>even worse, like a serial killer, like scared. Frankly, I'm worried. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that seems a little Come on, Nico, that's not fair.

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<v Speaker 1>And Broth, you are not helping things where you go

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<v Speaker 1>out with her all more time. Brook is the only

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<v Speaker 1>one making spend right now, I wouldn't good to have

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<v Speaker 1>been there on the date to tell you to get

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<v Speaker 1>out of your phone. Fine, I won't even bring my

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<v Speaker 1>phone on the next date. Are you happy? Go Nico?

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<v Speaker 1>Are gonna take notes with like a pen and paper

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<v Speaker 1>instead or yeah whatever, I'll just write it down. I

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<v Speaker 1>won't use my phone at all, use the napkin next

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<v Speaker 1>to me. God. Yeah, she'll take notes the old fashioned way, Nico.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you go out a second date with her? We'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. Look, I think you're very attractive, and

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<v Speaker 1>shut up. I know what I'm trying to do, and

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<v Speaker 1>like it's not You're just sugarcoating it and this is

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<v Speaker 1>bulk and like, just get to the point. Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that your intentions are sweet, but what your Nico.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd get to the point before she stabs you. I

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<v Speaker 1>think what he's trying to get out is a no.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a no? Nico? Yeah, that's a heart. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a hearty. Did you learn anything from this experience? The

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<v Speaker 1>only thing I learned here, Brooke, was not to trust

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<v Speaker 1>you with anything. I mean, you have done nothing for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I'm trying to help you. Just sorry, Kayla, No

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<v Speaker 1>second day. I hate your show, especially when Brook's on it.

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<v Speaker 1>I listen again, all right, but can I read I

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<v Speaker 1>want to read your journal sometime. Can I just read it? No,

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<v Speaker 1>you jubil. Okay, you sarcastic pizza, but I actually wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>making sarcastic. I really do want to read it whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you will. I'll give you like twenty dollars if you

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<v Speaker 1>just slap Brooke across the face right now. I'll only

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<v Speaker 1>do that if you're in here journaling, because I want

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<v Speaker 1>to see what you say about it. Broken Jul in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning,