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Speaker 1: Tell us about the guy you want to meet today.

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Speaker 1: What's his name? Nico? N As you're asking it sounds

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Speaker 1: how did I meet Nico? We met through a mutual

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Speaker 1: list that she remembered she needed, Butter, suddenly, are you good? Now? No? No,

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to give a little outsider input. Look,

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. Second update, Dear Diary. Today I

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Speaker 1: Nico sounds like a swell guy according to Kayla's diary.

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Speaker 1: Dear Diary, is anybody else reading my diary right now?

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Speaker 1: Ok Okay, you know what that is? No, I don't

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Speaker 1: even worse, like a serial killer, like scared. Frankly, I'm worried. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Is that a no? Nico? Yeah, that's a heart. That's

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Speaker 1: only thing I learned here, Brooke, was not to trust

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Speaker 1: second day. I hate your show, especially when Brook's on it.

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Speaker 1: I listen again, all right, but can I read I

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Speaker 1: want to read your journal sometime. Can I just read it? No,

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Speaker 1: you jubil. Okay, you sarcastic pizza, but I actually wasn't

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Speaker 1: you will. I'll give you like twenty dollars if you

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Speaker 1: the morning,