1 00:00:01,520 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: This is my rest forever. Here will I dwell, for 2 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:10,479 Speaker 1: I have desired it Psalm one thirty two fourteen. Thank 3 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: you Lord for longing to rest within me. Thank you 4 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: for your desire to refresh and bless me. I am 5 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: grateful for your delight in my love. You designed me 6 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 1: for fellowship with you and desired to commune with me 7 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: in all things. What an honor it is to know 8 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 1: how much you love me and want to hear my 9 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: heart and needs. You are my benevolent father who cares 10 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 1: for me. You desired to be with me so much 11 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: you sent your son to pay the price for my 12 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: sins so I could come into your presence. I give 13 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: you all the praise and glory for your exquisite love. Amen. 14 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: Thank you for listening to pray dot COM's nightly prayer 15 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: to experience a pocket of peace before you go to sleep. 16 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: Stay tuned for our free meditative prayer after this quick 17 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: word from our sponsors. 18 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 2: Welcome to your meditative prayer on better Marriage. To get 19 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 2: the most out of your spiritual journey, usepray dot com 20 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:35,040 Speaker 2: every day and make prayer a priority in your life. 21 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 2: Our goal for today's meditative prayer is better Marriage. Go 22 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 2: to a place where you can relax and let your 23 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 2: guard down. Now take a few minutes to disengage from 24 00:01:50,320 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 2: all distractions, disentangle yourself from everything else. Take a deep breath, exhale, repeat, 25 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 2: ready your heart, and open your mind to receive what 26 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 2: God's Holy Spirit has for you. We will be meditating 27 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 2: on Ephesians chapter five, verses twenty five through twenty nine 28 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 2: from the King James version. Husbands, love your wives even 29 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:33,079 Speaker 2: as Christ also loved the Church and gave himself for it, 30 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 2: that he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing 31 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 2: of water by the word, that he might present it 32 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 2: to himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle 33 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 2: or any such thing, but that it should be holy 34 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:54,359 Speaker 2: and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives 35 00:02:54,360 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 36 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 2: For no man ever yet hated his own flesh. But 37 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:09,239 Speaker 2: nourisheth it, and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the Church. 38 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 2: Take a moment to pour out your adoration to God 39 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:21,239 Speaker 2: for his great love. God, I praise you, for your 40 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 2: love is unquenchable and unending. Jesus, you loved me while 41 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:32,239 Speaker 2: I was yet a sinner and gave your life for mine. 42 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 2: I worship you, for you washed me clean selfless servitude. 43 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 2: As marriages are created in the image of God, husbands 44 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 2: are to love their wives as Christ loved the Church. 45 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 2: Jesus says that the greatest love one can have is 46 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 2: to lay down his life for another. He modeled this 47 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 2: when he died for our sins on the cross. When 48 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 2: husbands love their wives selflessly, they follow in the path 49 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 2: Christ laid out for them, putting their wife's well being 50 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 2: above their own. Christ loved the Church unconditionally, laying aside 51 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 2: her failings and weaknesses. The Bible says that Jesus loved 52 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 2: us while we were still sinners. As a result of 53 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 2: God's attitude toward us, we are continuously drawn to him 54 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 2: by his faithful and steadfast love. And marriages are built 55 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 2: on the firm foundation of God's word. As the wife 56 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 2: is to submit to her husband's authority. The husband is 57 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 2: to love his wife unconditionally and more than he loves himself. 58 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:53,919 Speaker 2: And in serving God and following his commandments, you fortify 59 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 2: your relationship with your spouse and build a better future. 60 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 2: The husband's love will nourish his wife and the wife 61 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 2: will flourish when she is cherished. A wife who is 62 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 2: loved and cared for as Christ loved and cared for 63 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 2: the Church, is a blessing and an honor unto the 64 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 2: man she serves for. A wife who is treasured becomes 65 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 2: a crown for her husband. As husband and wife serve 66 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 2: each other not out of rivalry, but out of love, 67 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 2: they will strengthen their bond and walk in unity with 68 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 2: each other and with the Holy Spirit. Perhaps your love 69 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 2: for your spouse has been restricted. Perhaps you have failed 70 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 2: and have not loved your wife as you have been 71 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 2: loved by God. This is your opportunity to present yourself 72 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:51,279 Speaker 2: before the Lord, confess to him your sins, and commit 73 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 2: to walking in his ways. Now consider for a moment 74 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 2: God's sacrificial love for you. Thank Jesus for loving you 75 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 2: and dying in your place, for loving you while you 76 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 2: were still a sinner. Thank God for his unconditional love 77 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:20,119 Speaker 2: independent of your actions or beliefs. Think for a minute 78 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:24,359 Speaker 2: on past experiences where you were drawn in by God's love. 79 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 2: Thank Him for his care for you and his selfless 80 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 2: offering on the cross. God is present and he is 81 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:40,280 Speaker 2: listening to you. Loving your spouse as you love yourself. 82 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 2: Is difficult, but it can be done. The Holy Spirit 83 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 2: is on your side wanting to help you, so be 84 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 2: bold and ask him. Ask for grace, patience, and humility. 85 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 2: Ask to help you love God and your spouse well. 86 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 2: Ask the Holy Spirit to help you overlook your spouse's flaws, 87 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 2: to see them as God sees them, and to honor them. Remember, 88 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 2: husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the Church, 89 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 2: love them as they love themselves, and to treasure them. 90 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 2: Doing this goes against our selfish nature, but be encouraged. 91 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 2: The Holy Spirit is your heavenly helper who will sustain 92 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 2: and strengthen you. Thank you for completing today's meditative prayer 93 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 2: on pray dot com. By incorporating this healthy habit as 94 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 2: a daily practice, you are making prayer a priority and 95 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 2: strengthening your walk with God