WEBVTT - Second Date Update: What's Your Name Again?

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<v Speaker 1>Second data day. If there's a cute girl and she's

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<v Speaker 1>on a dating app, okay, you can imagine she's probably

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<v Speaker 1>being hit on by what a hundred guys a day? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred guys a day? Yea, even just not a

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<v Speaker 1>dating app. If you're like on social media and you're cute, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you probably have or just two hundred ms from Jose alone.

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<v Speaker 1>You see it. You know it's gonna be a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>And Jose, I mean, in your experience, how do you

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<v Speaker 1>cut through to make yourself stand out from all the

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<v Speaker 1>other guys? Like what do you say? You say like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I found your wallet. No, that's actually a

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<v Speaker 1>good idea. Yeah, I like that something that works. You're

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<v Speaker 1>really basic. I have a blue check mark. So people

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<v Speaker 1>just tend to be like, oh, who are you? Don't

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<v Speaker 1>know who I am? You can just say hi, look

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<v Speaker 1>at my blue check mark. No, I'm just like hi

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<v Speaker 1>this wy don't you know? You're beautiful? And then most

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<v Speaker 1>girls will go, thanks, leave me alone. Okay, so it's working. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>they respond. Apparently something worked on one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>that made a guy stand out to her, and now

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<v Speaker 1>she's on the phone with us looking to get back

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<v Speaker 1>in touch with him. Her name's Ashley. Ashley, how are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing? Heyam, I'm good. How are you? I think

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<v Speaker 1>I found your wallet? By the way, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>it back? You can keep it. I'm so curious with

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<v Speaker 1>this guy saying to get your attention, what's his name?

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Benjamin. We have to ask, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't meet him like on Tony, I mean him, I

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<v Speaker 1>met him on a dating app, that's right, my bas

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<v Speaker 1>so what did what did he do to stand out

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<v Speaker 1>from everybody else? So basically he was talking about how like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh I'm so beautiful, there's no ambryum, like you got

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<v Speaker 1>to be a catfish, and so we face times like

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<v Speaker 1>immediately it's like it's like reverse psychology. Yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you want to prove to him, no, I am real.

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<v Speaker 1>See look at my boot. Yeah that's pretty stereotypical. Yea.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel like kind of negging you and and bating

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<v Speaker 1>you into I don't know, basically talking day. Yeah. It's

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<v Speaker 1>almost like being like I don't even want you to

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<v Speaker 1>reply to this. Yeah, yeah, I guess I'm too competitive.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was immediately like I would challenge accepted. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's crazy that you FaceTime? Yeah, what did he look

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<v Speaker 1>like he's really cute, he's cold, he's got dark hair,

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<v Speaker 1>blue eyes, like all the things I'm into. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's good, and you know he's real too. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you guys do for a date? We decided to

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<v Speaker 1>go to a bar. All right. Yeah, it was great.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a good time, but so one thing happened.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like kind of embarrassing, but I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>he was really upset by it. But we're sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>talking like we've been on the date for a thirty

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<v Speaker 1>minutes at this point, and one of my girlfriends came

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<v Speaker 1>into the bar and she came over to say hi,

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<v Speaker 1>and I completely forgot his name. Oh no, oh, And

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<v Speaker 1>it's like happens when you're mid sentence. This is oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, and you delight. Oh man. He must have

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<v Speaker 1>just been mortified, Like what what was his reaction? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I felt terrible and I was super embarrassed that he

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<v Speaker 1>kind of laughed it off and was cool about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we just like kept going and had a

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<v Speaker 1>really good night. He was able to brush it off.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys, he's only thirty minutes into a date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but still, it's just a shot to the ego. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I totally gived, but honestly, like he's the one

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<v Speaker 1>that brought it up later in the date, like joking around. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone was like he wait, what's your name? Again? Not

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<v Speaker 1>passive aggressive, two really old people at breakfast, like what's

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<v Speaker 1>your name? Who are you? He's been serious, He's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>what time is it? I don't know. I guess that's

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<v Speaker 1>romantic in away? Is that how you felt about it?

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<v Speaker 1>I was really embarrassed at first, but then like he

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<v Speaker 1>made me feel more comfortable and he, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>he poked on at it later in the date, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I felt like it was fine. Yeah, because like

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<v Speaker 1>I know, like I know, the rest of the date

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<v Speaker 1>went well because after the day we left and we

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<v Speaker 1>walked around for a little bit and then he called

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<v Speaker 1>an aber for me, and like literally right as I

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<v Speaker 1>was like welcome to the uber and like this is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna sound so corny and so cheesy, and I know it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I swear it happened. I was looking up and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like the clouds was just kind of cleared away

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<v Speaker 1>and like you could see like the stars. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was like super sweet and romantic, and like right then

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<v Speaker 1>is when he went in and kissed me good night,

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<v Speaker 1>oh buddy, and you like thanks Dylan, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Well thank god I didn't call him that name, like

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<v Speaker 1>that would have been even more affairit thing. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's sweet. I mean, like you have this sweet moment,

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<v Speaker 1>you already have an inside joke together, Like you sound connected.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing you were totally expecting to call back from him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And so like we've been texting and like I've been

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<v Speaker 1>very slurty with my text and like obviously like dropping

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<v Speaker 1>his tense. Hey, I'm definitely interested, but like he hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>been as kind of talkative back with his text and

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<v Speaker 1>he hasn't called me or asked me for another date.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's been a week now. Are you missing any

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<v Speaker 1>teeth you could have felt with his tongue while he

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<v Speaker 1>was in there and he wouldn't notice that earlier. Well

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<v Speaker 1>it could be in the back brook Okay, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I thought you were a catfish. You didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>any teeth. Us. I have all of my teeth. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you got to the bottom of that mystery. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he may have met somebody else or something. Maybe it

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<v Speaker 1>was Ashley's friend that she was introduced to Oh, go

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<v Speaker 1>to her, Dude, I definitely want to get that tea.

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<v Speaker 1>If that's the case. Yeah, let's find down. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to play a song, will come back. We're gonna call

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<v Speaker 1>Benjamin for you, and we'll try and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>See sleep number dot com. For date you've just joining us.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking with one of our listeners, Ashley, who's worried

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe her date Benjamin is ghosting her because she

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<v Speaker 1>accidentally blanked on his name thirty minutes into their first day.

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<v Speaker 1>And Ashley, I know that makes you feel bad and

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<v Speaker 1>probably kind of embarrassed, but if it's any consolation, Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>has gone to bed with hundreds of men without ever

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<v Speaker 1>knowing their names, So you're in really good company right now,

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<v Speaker 1>ash I just didn't think it was that important. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's not why I was there, so save

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<v Speaker 1>that for more useful information. Anyway, Benjamin was a really

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<v Speaker 1>good sport about it, and they even had a kiss

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<v Speaker 1>at the very end of the night as the clouds

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<v Speaker 1>parted and the stars came out, which is why it's

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<v Speaker 1>such a mystery why Benjamin has been kind of avoiding her,

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<v Speaker 1>still texting, but not asking her out on another date.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're going to help he figure out the reason

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<v Speaker 1>why that would be awesome. Yeah, I mean I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>worried that. I mean, he just almost sounds like too smooth.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's why I think that maybe there's somebody I'll

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<v Speaker 1>always talking about a few girls exactly, like it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like it's too good. We'll see. I'm gonna dial Benjamin's

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<v Speaker 1>number right now, though, and we're going to try and

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<v Speaker 1>get you your second date Update. Are you ready? Oh gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Yes, okay, yes, you're ready. You're ready?

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<v Speaker 1>This will be good. Okay, are you sure because we

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to do this? No, no, no no, do it? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>just like all right before here we go. I'm down

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<v Speaker 1>on the number right now. Hello, Hey, is this Benjamin?

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<v Speaker 1>This Benjamin? Who's this? My name's Jeff from the radio

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<v Speaker 1>show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. What are you

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? Radio? It's a form of entertainment that a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people listen to and we do a morning

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<v Speaker 1>show on it. And one thing that we do on

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<v Speaker 1>our show is this segment called a second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh yeah, y'all like a podcast, right, yeah. If

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<v Speaker 1>that makes it easier for you to understand than sure, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's but something that we do on this radio podcasts. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>is we help our listeners reach out to people that

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<v Speaker 1>they've been on a date with when they can't get

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<v Speaker 1>back in touch with them. Okay, and you went out

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<v Speaker 1>with a woman recently, Ashley. Yeah, absolutely, Ashley. That sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like a good memory that just popped into your head.

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<v Speaker 1>Of Ashley. We spoke to Ashley about you, and there

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<v Speaker 1>were some pretty positive reviews. She says, you're a really

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<v Speaker 1>nice guy, attractive and kind of a smooth talker. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I could be a leagues killer. Oh yeah, did you

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<v Speaker 1>like Ashley a lot um? In the words of Shakespeare,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say it was the best of times and

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<v Speaker 1>the worst of times. Oh I don't think that was Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was a far reach, you know, but you ended

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<v Speaker 1>up going out. You must have had a good time

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<v Speaker 1>on the date then, right, it without a doubt, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a blast, you know even I even loved

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<v Speaker 1>the part when she almost forgot my name like thirty

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<v Speaker 1>minutes into the date. Didn't bother you, no, I mean, hey, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just were meeting people. It's not like how

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<v Speaker 1>it used to be, just like speed dating on steroids. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the vibe is very chill. You seem very positive about everything,

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<v Speaker 1>so I guess I'm a little bit confused why you're

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<v Speaker 1>not talking to Ashley anymore? All right, So here's the

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<v Speaker 1>worst of times. Okay. So she let me know where

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<v Speaker 1>she worked at. So two days after I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm gonna pop up on her with

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<v Speaker 1>some roses at work. So when I went to our

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<v Speaker 1>office talk to the receptionist, she said, yeah, are you Dave?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, no, I am not Dave. Wait is

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<v Speaker 1>this a joke that she's playing because she's gotten through

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong name on your date too. But it was

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<v Speaker 1>a receptionist that said this. So then then she went

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<v Speaker 1>to go check and then she said, oh yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>already went to lunch with Dave already. Oh wow, so

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<v Speaker 1>she had a lunch date with Dave. Yeah, And then

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<v Speaker 1>the receptionists had this weird looked on her face, like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like she didn't want to tell me that

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<v Speaker 1>obviously you're like standing there holding flowers, but you're not

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship, like you're both open and free to

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<v Speaker 1>date right now. After a cletely amazing date like that,

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<v Speaker 1>she's the only woman on my mind. I can't like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for twenty four hours later, she's on another

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<v Speaker 1>date with another Do you that, like, Yeah, that's crazy

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Yeah, I mean I don't know, Like it's

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<v Speaker 1>like she could have had it planned way before. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't really like it sounds like a boyfriend thing to

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<v Speaker 1>take it up to lunch them. Do you think it's

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<v Speaker 1>a boyfriend. I think it sounds like she just had

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<v Speaker 1>another lunch date. She's like dating right now. Well, let's

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<v Speaker 1>just ask her then, because Benjamin, I gotta let you

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<v Speaker 1>know that Ashley has been on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>this entire time. She wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, Ashley,

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<v Speaker 1>you there. Oh I'm so embarrassed. Oh why are you embarrassed?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry, benj them Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>just want you to know that I did feel the

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<v Speaker 1>same way, like accardy, you were the only man on

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<v Speaker 1>my mind too. So so who's Dave. Yeah, Like, he's

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<v Speaker 1>not my boyfriend, there's nothing serious. He's just a guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I just I wish you would have told me

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<v Speaker 1>that you were coming, Ashley, to be honest. That's not

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<v Speaker 1>good enough, man, And you gotta be a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more honest and upfront if you know you want to

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<v Speaker 1>move forward or hang out with me. I mean, actually

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying two different things. You're saying after the date,

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<v Speaker 1>I had no other guy in mind, and then literally

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<v Speaker 1>the next day you're with another guy twenty four hours later.

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<v Speaker 1>I am sorry. All of you need to get off

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<v Speaker 1>of her back. Okay. When I met my husband, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like seeing other dudes. I was hanging out with

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<v Speaker 1>an ex because I had another date on the side,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, you know, telling your husband you're the only

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<v Speaker 1>guy that I'm thinking about right now on the very

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<v Speaker 1>first date. No, I wasn't telling him that. Brook. She's

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<v Speaker 1>saying that to us right now. She's saying that Benjamin

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<v Speaker 1>is the only person that I want to see, but

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<v Speaker 1>I also want to see Dave. Yeah, but you can

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<v Speaker 1>actually be out on a date with Dave and still

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<v Speaker 1>be thinking about Benjamin, like maybe it was already planned. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you could be right. The only way to

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<v Speaker 1>know is by asking Ashley, Hey, who is Dave? What

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<v Speaker 1>is his relationship? See just another guy that you're also

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<v Speaker 1>seeing or is there something more? Have you guys hooked up?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to get that far, but is it romantic?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what? I don't want to go into all

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<v Speaker 1>kind of details about I will just tell you this

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<v Speaker 1>and like, seas, do you not over react? But he's

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<v Speaker 1>just sugar daddy, Like what that's all good? Okay, now

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<v Speaker 1>it makes sense. I was worried this was a big deal. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're fine, okay, but listen, I just like Benjamin,

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<v Speaker 1>like please just listening for a second. Like I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like y'all are not getting right image of what this is.

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<v Speaker 1>Like he to like stuff like that, like nothing else.

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<v Speaker 1>That's literally the extent of our relationship. Like you know

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<v Speaker 1>more about me in the one date that we have

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<v Speaker 1>than he does, and we have like you and I

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<v Speaker 1>have a real connection, all right, So like so he

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<v Speaker 1>does all that nice stuff for you, and but do

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<v Speaker 1>y'all do anything more than it or any more stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>I just I feel like we're getting really far away

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<v Speaker 1>from it. And the point is that, like I care

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<v Speaker 1>about you. Oh I want an answer to that, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you don't. We don't need an answer, sugar daddy for free.

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<v Speaker 1>But you can stop the sugar daddy and can't you

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<v Speaker 1>can't you just like cut her off. I'm saying she

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<v Speaker 1>could just end that and then she could be into

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with you, Benjamin. She made a mistake going to

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<v Speaker 1>a no sugar dating diet. You guys are making such

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<v Speaker 1>a huge deal of this, and it's like it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a big deal. All of my friends have these, and

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<v Speaker 1>like it's expensive being a single woman paying for is

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<v Speaker 1>women can't have it all. It's not like you, like,

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<v Speaker 1>we can have somebody that we care about, and we

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<v Speaker 1>can have somebody that pays our bills. I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>could have that. Okay, So what you would keep the

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<v Speaker 1>sugar daddy and you would get you'd have it all.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, we can do that. Well, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think about the idea of Benjamin giving you both

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<v Speaker 1>just splitting them into two people. Benjamin can be the

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<v Speaker 1>guy that gives you things and is also romantically connected

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<v Speaker 1>to you at the same time like a boyfriend. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>not get too crazy. Can you do that? Like that's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot for one person? What do you think? I

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<v Speaker 1>just think for me, I feel like it's her loss.

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<v Speaker 1>You know why, because for one, I make good money.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a millionaire. Oh. Second point is that the first

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<v Speaker 1>gesture I did anything nice to you to show my

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<v Speaker 1>my romance or my positive affirmations towards you, I come

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<v Speaker 1>to your job you with a whole Another dude, I

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<v Speaker 1>learned on this phone call that's your sugar daddy. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>okay at all I heard was that he's a millionaire,

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<v Speaker 1>and then my eyes went completely blank. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how Ashley feels about it. Ashley, what do you

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<v Speaker 1>think now, knowing that he is an extremely successful, extremely

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<v Speaker 1>rich guy that's also of smooth talker, would you want

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<v Speaker 1>to see him again? And we would pay for that date?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just feel like that like solves all

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<v Speaker 1>of our problems. Like I feel like we don't really

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<v Speaker 1>have a problem here, Like, oh no, actually I think

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<v Speaker 1>I think a good paying job for yourself and being

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<v Speaker 1>an independent you're disgusting can be good on your help.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of the day, Benjamin, we had a

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<v Speaker 1>really good time together. I don't see why they has

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<v Speaker 1>to stop. I could see why I could stop. It's

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<v Speaker 1>called trust. I mean, look, Benjamin, she's seeing the air

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<v Speaker 1>of her ways here. Obviously, I could see this relationship

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<v Speaker 1>working out, especially if you're willing to pay a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more money on your dates. And you won't even

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<v Speaker 1>have to on this first one because we're gonna pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. Come on, Benjamin, one more chance, might as

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<v Speaker 1>well take the frame. Come on, it'll be fine. Now

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna have with all your money. Remember, you're the

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<v Speaker 1>only one that she's been thinking about since your dates.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are her words. I'm gonna say, I'm okay, I'm not,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not I'm good on the second dude. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I just feel like all really judging me

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<v Speaker 1>really hard right now. Oh I'm not ask your daddy

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<v Speaker 1>if you wants two babies. Jeffrey in the morning, text

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<v Speaker 1>into seven eight five nine to tell us did Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>get owned or really? Okay, listen, they were in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>but the sugar daddy thing threw me for a loop. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that dude, I don't know what to do with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think any of us knew what to do

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<v Speaker 1>with it. But it was extremely hypocritical of her. If

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<v Speaker 1>you ask me to literally come on here and tell

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<v Speaker 1>us that she wasn't thinking about anybody else after their

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<v Speaker 1>date and then within twenty four hours going on another

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<v Speaker 1>date with a different guy a business exchange, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's lunch like, she doesn't think about other guy

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<v Speaker 1>until her venmo goes off. Yeah, exactly, So yike. Even

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<v Speaker 1>though we I want to say we tried, I did try.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I still don't think that she's doing

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<v Speaker 1>anything wrong. No oh, I just think that, like it

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<v Speaker 1>just is really complicated and her life would be a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more simple if she just made her own money work.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah true, Yeah, I don't like that. But texting in

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<v Speaker 1>seventy five nine two, tell us what you thought about

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<v Speaker 1>the second date up date, and remember, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to get one for yourself, you can always email the

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<v Speaker 1>show and we'll call the person who wasn't calling you back.