1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 1: Second data day. If there's a cute girl and she's 2 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:08,559 Speaker 1: on a dating app, okay, you can imagine she's probably 3 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 1: being hit on by what a hundred guys a day? Oh, 4 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: two hundred guys a day? Yea, even just not a 5 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 1: dating app. If you're like on social media and you're cute, yeah, 6 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: you probably have or just two hundred ms from Jose alone. 7 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 1: You see it. You know it's gonna be a lot. 8 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 1: And Jose, I mean, in your experience, how do you 9 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:31,159 Speaker 1: cut through to make yourself stand out from all the 10 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: other guys? Like what do you say? You say like, oh, 11 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: I think I found your wallet. No, that's actually a 12 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 1: good idea. Yeah, I like that something that works. You're 13 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: really basic. I have a blue check mark. So people 14 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: just tend to be like, oh, who are you? Don't 15 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 1: know who I am? You can just say hi, look 16 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 1: at my blue check mark. No, I'm just like hi 17 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 1: this wy don't you know? You're beautiful? And then most 18 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: girls will go, thanks, leave me alone. Okay, so it's working. Yeah, well, 19 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: they respond. Apparently something worked on one of our listeners 20 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: that made a guy stand out to her, and now 21 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,399 Speaker 1: she's on the phone with us looking to get back 22 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: in touch with him. Her name's Ashley. Ashley, how are 23 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: you doing? Heyam, I'm good. How are you? I think 24 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: I found your wallet? By the way, would you like 25 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:22,960 Speaker 1: it back? You can keep it. I'm so curious with 26 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 1: this guy saying to get your attention, what's his name? 27 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 1: His name is Benjamin. We have to ask, well, I 28 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: didn't meet him like on Tony, I mean him, I 29 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 1: met him on a dating app, that's right, my bas 30 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: so what did what did he do to stand out 31 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 1: from everybody else? So basically he was talking about how like, 32 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: oh I'm so beautiful, there's no ambryum, like you got 33 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: to be a catfish, and so we face times like 34 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: immediately it's like it's like reverse psychology. Yeah, and then 35 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: you want to prove to him, no, I am real. 36 00:01:56,280 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 1: See look at my boot. Yeah that's pretty stereotypical. Yea. 37 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: You feel like kind of negging you and and bating 38 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: you into I don't know, basically talking day. Yeah. It's 39 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 1: almost like being like I don't even want you to 40 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 1: reply to this. Yeah, yeah, I guess I'm too competitive. 41 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 1: So I was immediately like I would challenge accepted. Okay, 42 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:22,799 Speaker 1: that's crazy that you FaceTime? Yeah, what did he look 43 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,839 Speaker 1: like he's really cute, he's cold, he's got dark hair, 44 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: blue eyes, like all the things I'm into. Okay, okay, 45 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: so that's good, and you know he's real too. What 46 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:33,959 Speaker 1: do you guys do for a date? We decided to 47 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: go to a bar. All right. Yeah, it was great. 48 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 1: We had a good time, but so one thing happened. 49 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 1: It was like kind of embarrassing, but I don't think 50 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 1: he was really upset by it. But we're sitting there 51 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: talking like we've been on the date for a thirty 52 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:48,119 Speaker 1: minutes at this point, and one of my girlfriends came 53 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: into the bar and she came over to say hi, 54 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 1: and I completely forgot his name. Oh no, oh, And 55 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: it's like happens when you're mid sentence. This is oh 56 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: my god, and you delight. Oh man. He must have 57 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: just been mortified, Like what what was his reaction? Well? 58 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 1: I felt terrible and I was super embarrassed that he 59 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: kind of laughed it off and was cool about it, 60 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: and then we just like kept going and had a 61 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: really good night. He was able to brush it off. 62 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: You guys, he's only thirty minutes into a date. Yeah, 63 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: but still, it's just a shot to the ego. I know, 64 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 1: like I totally gived, but honestly, like he's the one 65 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: that brought it up later in the date, like joking around. Okay, 66 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: everyone was like he wait, what's your name? Again? Not 67 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: passive aggressive, two really old people at breakfast, like what's 68 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: your name? Who are you? He's been serious, He's like, no, 69 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: what time is it? I don't know. I guess that's 70 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 1: romantic in away? Is that how you felt about it? 71 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: I was really embarrassed at first, but then like he 72 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: made me feel more comfortable and he, like I said, 73 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: he poked on at it later in the date, and 74 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: so I felt like it was fine. Yeah, because like 75 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: I know, like I know, the rest of the date 76 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: went well because after the day we left and we 77 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 1: walked around for a little bit and then he called 78 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: an aber for me, and like literally right as I 79 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: was like welcome to the uber and like this is 80 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: gonna sound so corny and so cheesy, and I know it, 81 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:18,279 Speaker 1: but I swear it happened. I was looking up and 82 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 1: it's like the clouds was just kind of cleared away 83 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:22,359 Speaker 1: and like you could see like the stars. So it 84 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:25,160 Speaker 1: was like super sweet and romantic, and like right then 85 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 1: is when he went in and kissed me good night, 86 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: oh buddy, and you like thanks Dylan, Oh my god. 87 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,599 Speaker 1: Well thank god I didn't call him that name, like 88 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 1: that would have been even more affairit thing. All right, 89 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: that's sweet. I mean, like you have this sweet moment, 90 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 1: you already have an inside joke together, Like you sound connected. 91 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 1: I'm guessing you were totally expecting to call back from him. Yeah, 92 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 1: And so like we've been texting and like I've been 93 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: very slurty with my text and like obviously like dropping 94 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 1: his tense. Hey, I'm definitely interested, but like he hasn't 95 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: been as kind of talkative back with his text and 96 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 1: he hasn't called me or asked me for another date. 97 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:14,280 Speaker 1: And it's been a week now. Are you missing any 98 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:17,039 Speaker 1: teeth you could have felt with his tongue while he 99 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: was in there and he wouldn't notice that earlier. Well 100 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,600 Speaker 1: it could be in the back brook Okay, Yeah, I 101 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: mean I thought you were a catfish. 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Minimum monthly payments required. 130 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 1: See sleep number dot com. For date you've just joining us. 131 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: We're talking with one of our listeners, Ashley, who's worried 132 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: that maybe her date Benjamin is ghosting her because she 133 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: accidentally blanked on his name thirty minutes into their first day. 134 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: And Ashley, I know that makes you feel bad and 135 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: probably kind of embarrassed, but if it's any consolation, Brooke 136 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: has gone to bed with hundreds of men without ever 137 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: knowing their names, So you're in really good company right now, 138 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: ash I just didn't think it was that important. Yeah, 139 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: I mean, that's not why I was there, so save 140 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 1: that for more useful information. Anyway, Benjamin was a really 141 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 1: good sport about it, and they even had a kiss 142 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 1: at the very end of the night as the clouds 143 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 1: parted and the stars came out, which is why it's 144 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 1: such a mystery why Benjamin has been kind of avoiding her, 145 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: still texting, but not asking her out on another date. 146 00:07:58,520 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: So we're going to help he figure out the reason 147 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: why that would be awesome. Yeah, I mean I'm just 148 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: worried that. I mean, he just almost sounds like too smooth. 149 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: Like that's why I think that maybe there's somebody I'll 150 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 1: always talking about a few girls exactly, like it's just 151 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: like it's too good. We'll see. I'm gonna dial Benjamin's 152 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 1: number right now, though, and we're going to try and 153 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: get you your second date Update. Are you ready? Oh gosh, 154 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:22,119 Speaker 1: I don't know. Yes, okay, yes, you're ready. You're ready? 155 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: This will be good. Okay, are you sure because we 156 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: don't have to do this? No, no, no no, do it? Okay, 157 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 1: just like all right before here we go. I'm down 158 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: on the number right now. Hello, Hey, is this Benjamin? 159 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 1: This Benjamin? Who's this? My name's Jeff from the radio 160 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 1: show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. What are you 161 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: talking about? Radio? It's a form of entertainment that a 162 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:55,839 Speaker 1: lot of people listen to and we do a morning 163 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: show on it. And one thing that we do on 164 00:08:57,880 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 1: our show is this segment called a second Date Update. 165 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, y'all like a podcast, right, yeah. If 166 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 1: that makes it easier for you to understand than sure, yeah, 167 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: it's but something that we do on this radio podcasts. Yeah, 168 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 1: is we help our listeners reach out to people that 169 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: they've been on a date with when they can't get 170 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:19,959 Speaker 1: back in touch with them. Okay, and you went out 171 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: with a woman recently, Ashley. Yeah, absolutely, Ashley. That sounds 172 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 1: like a good memory that just popped into your head. 173 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 1: Of Ashley. We spoke to Ashley about you, and there 174 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 1: were some pretty positive reviews. She says, you're a really 175 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: nice guy, attractive and kind of a smooth talker. Yeah. 176 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: I could be a leagues killer. Oh yeah, did you 177 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:53,320 Speaker 1: like Ashley a lot um? In the words of Shakespeare, 178 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 1: I would say it was the best of times and 179 00:09:55,360 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: the worst of times. Oh I don't think that was Yeah, 180 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 1: that was a far reach, you know, but you ended 181 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 1: up going out. You must have had a good time 182 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:11,439 Speaker 1: on the date then, right, it without a doubt, man, 183 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: I had a blast, you know even I even loved 184 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 1: the part when she almost forgot my name like thirty 185 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 1: minutes into the date. Didn't bother you, no, I mean, hey, like, 186 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: you know, just were meeting people. It's not like how 187 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 1: it used to be, just like speed dating on steroids. Yeah, 188 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: the vibe is very chill. You seem very positive about everything, 189 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 1: so I guess I'm a little bit confused why you're 190 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 1: not talking to Ashley anymore? All right, So here's the 191 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 1: worst of times. Okay. So she let me know where 192 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: she worked at. So two days after I was like, 193 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna pop up on her with 194 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 1: some roses at work. So when I went to our 195 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: office talk to the receptionist, she said, yeah, are you Dave? 196 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, I am not Dave. Wait is 197 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 1: this a joke that she's playing because she's gotten through 198 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 1: the wrong name on your date too. But it was 199 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:10,959 Speaker 1: a receptionist that said this. So then then she went 200 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:13,560 Speaker 1: to go check and then she said, oh yeah, she 201 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: already went to lunch with Dave already. Oh wow, so 202 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: she had a lunch date with Dave. Yeah, And then 203 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 1: the receptionists had this weird looked on her face, like 204 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 1: kind of like she didn't want to tell me that 205 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 1: obviously you're like standing there holding flowers, but you're not 206 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 1: in a relationship, like you're both open and free to 207 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: date right now. After a cletely amazing date like that, 208 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 1: she's the only woman on my mind. I can't like, 209 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: you know, for twenty four hours later, she's on another 210 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 1: date with another Do you that, like, Yeah, that's crazy 211 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, I mean I don't know, Like it's 212 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 1: like she could have had it planned way before. You 213 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:58,679 Speaker 1: don't really like it sounds like a boyfriend thing to 214 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 1: take it up to lunch them. Do you think it's 215 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:02,679 Speaker 1: a boyfriend. I think it sounds like she just had 216 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: another lunch date. She's like dating right now. Well, let's 217 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 1: just ask her then, because Benjamin, I gotta let you 218 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 1: know that Ashley has been on the other line listening 219 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:15,559 Speaker 1: this entire time. She wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, Ashley, 220 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 1: you there. Oh I'm so embarrassed. Oh why are you embarrassed? 221 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry, benj them Like, I 222 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: just want you to know that I did feel the 223 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 1: same way, like accardy, you were the only man on 224 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: my mind too. So so who's Dave. Yeah, Like, he's 225 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: not my boyfriend, there's nothing serious. He's just a guy. 226 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 1: Like I just I wish you would have told me 227 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 1: that you were coming, Ashley, to be honest. That's not 228 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:48,719 Speaker 1: good enough, man, And you gotta be a little bit 229 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 1: more honest and upfront if you know you want to 230 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 1: move forward or hang out with me. I mean, actually 231 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:55,559 Speaker 1: you're saying two different things. You're saying after the date, 232 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 1: I had no other guy in mind, and then literally 233 00:12:57,520 --> 00:13:00,320 Speaker 1: the next day you're with another guy twenty four hours later. 234 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 1: I am sorry. All of you need to get off 235 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 1: of her back. Okay. When I met my husband, I 236 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: was like seeing other dudes. I was hanging out with 237 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 1: an ex because I had another date on the side, 238 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: and like, you know, telling your husband you're the only 239 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 1: guy that I'm thinking about right now on the very 240 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 1: first date. No, I wasn't telling him that. Brook. She's 241 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 1: saying that to us right now. She's saying that Benjamin 242 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 1: is the only person that I want to see, but 243 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: I also want to see Dave. Yeah, but you can 244 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 1: actually be out on a date with Dave and still 245 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:29,200 Speaker 1: be thinking about Benjamin, like maybe it was already planned. Yeah, 246 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: I mean you could be right. The only way to 247 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: know is by asking Ashley, Hey, who is Dave? What 248 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:37,440 Speaker 1: is his relationship? See just another guy that you're also 249 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: seeing or is there something more? Have you guys hooked up? 250 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 1: You don't have to get that far, but is it romantic? 251 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 1: You know what? I don't want to go into all 252 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: kind of details about I will just tell you this 253 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 1: and like, seas, do you not over react? But he's 254 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 1: just sugar daddy, Like what that's all good? Okay, now 255 00:13:56,679 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 1: it makes sense. I was worried this was a big deal. Yeah, 256 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 1: so we're fine, okay, but listen, I just like Benjamin, 257 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: like please just listening for a second. Like I feel 258 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 1: like y'all are not getting right image of what this is. 259 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 1: Like he to like stuff like that, like nothing else. 260 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 1: That's literally the extent of our relationship. Like you know 261 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 1: more about me in the one date that we have 262 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 1: than he does, and we have like you and I 263 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: have a real connection, all right, So like so he 264 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 1: does all that nice stuff for you, and but do 265 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: y'all do anything more than it or any more stuff? 266 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: I just I feel like we're getting really far away 267 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 1: from it. And the point is that, like I care 268 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: about you. Oh I want an answer to that, Oh 269 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 1: you don't. We don't need an answer, sugar daddy for free. 270 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 1: But you can stop the sugar daddy and can't you 271 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: can't you just like cut her off. I'm saying she 272 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 1: could just end that and then she could be into 273 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 1: relationship with you, Benjamin. She made a mistake going to 274 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: a no sugar dating diet. You guys are making such 275 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: a huge deal of this, and it's like it's not 276 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: a big deal. All of my friends have these, and 277 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 1: like it's expensive being a single woman paying for is 278 00:15:08,480 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 1: women can't have it all. It's not like you, like, 279 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 1: we can have somebody that we care about, and we 280 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: can have somebody that pays our bills. I wish I 281 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 1: could have that. Okay, So what you would keep the 282 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: sugar daddy and you would get you'd have it all. 283 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, we can do that. Well, what do 284 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 1: you think about the idea of Benjamin giving you both 285 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 1: just splitting them into two people. Benjamin can be the 286 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 1: guy that gives you things and is also romantically connected 287 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 1: to you at the same time like a boyfriend. Let's 288 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 1: not get too crazy. Can you do that? Like that's 289 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 1: a lot for one person? What do you think? I 290 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: just think for me, I feel like it's her loss. 291 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 1: You know why, because for one, I make good money. 292 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 1: I'm a millionaire. Oh. Second point is that the first 293 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 1: gesture I did anything nice to you to show my 294 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 1: my romance or my positive affirmations towards you, I come 295 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 1: to your job you with a whole Another dude, I 296 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 1: learned on this phone call that's your sugar daddy. I'm 297 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: okay at all I heard was that he's a millionaire, 298 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 1: and then my eyes went completely blank. And I don't 299 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: know how Ashley feels about it. Ashley, what do you 300 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: think now, knowing that he is an extremely successful, extremely 301 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: rich guy that's also of smooth talker, would you want 302 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 1: to see him again? And we would pay for that date? 303 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I just feel like that like solves all 304 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 1: of our problems. Like I feel like we don't really 305 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 1: have a problem here, Like, oh no, actually I think 306 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 1: I think a good paying job for yourself and being 307 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: an independent you're disgusting can be good on your help. 308 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 1: At the end of the day, Benjamin, we had a 309 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 1: really good time together. I don't see why they has 310 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: to stop. I could see why I could stop. It's 311 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:07,800 Speaker 1: called trust. I mean, look, Benjamin, she's seeing the air 312 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 1: of her ways here. Obviously, I could see this relationship 313 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 1: working out, especially if you're willing to pay a little 314 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:14,640 Speaker 1: bit more money on your dates. And you won't even 315 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 1: have to on this first one because we're gonna pay 316 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:20,639 Speaker 1: for it. Come on, Benjamin, one more chance, might as 317 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 1: well take the frame. Come on, it'll be fine. Now 318 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 1: we're gonna have with all your money. Remember, you're the 319 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 1: only one that she's been thinking about since your dates. 320 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 1: Those are her words. I'm gonna say, I'm okay, I'm not, 321 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm good on the second dude. Yeah, I 322 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 1: don't know. I just feel like all really judging me 323 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:46,680 Speaker 1: really hard right now. Oh I'm not ask your daddy 324 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:51,160 Speaker 1: if you wants two babies. Jeffrey in the morning, text 325 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 1: into seven eight five nine to tell us did Brooke 326 00:17:53,600 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: get owned or really? Okay, listen, they were in a relationship, 327 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 1: but the sugar daddy thing threw me for a loop. Yeah. Yeah, 328 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 1: that dude, I don't know what to do with that. 329 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:09,159 Speaker 1: I don't think any of us knew what to do 330 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:12,239 Speaker 1: with it. But it was extremely hypocritical of her. If 331 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:15,399 Speaker 1: you ask me to literally come on here and tell 332 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:18,760 Speaker 1: us that she wasn't thinking about anybody else after their 333 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 1: date and then within twenty four hours going on another 334 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:26,080 Speaker 1: date with a different guy a business exchange, Yeah, I 335 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 1: mean it's lunch like, she doesn't think about other guy 336 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 1: until her venmo goes off. Yeah, exactly, So yike. Even 337 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 1: though we I want to say we tried, I did try. 338 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:39,479 Speaker 1: I don't think I still don't think that she's doing 339 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:44,919 Speaker 1: anything wrong. No oh, I just think that, like it 340 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: just is really complicated and her life would be a 341 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 1: lot more simple if she just made her own money work. 342 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 1: Yeah true, Yeah, I don't like that. But texting in 343 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 1: seventy five nine two, tell us what you thought about 344 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 1: the second date up date, and remember, if you want 345 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 1: to get one for yourself, you can always email the 346 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:03,160 Speaker 1: show and we'll call the person who wasn't calling you back.