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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl, Lex Peete, and it's

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Speaker 1: Sugarls right in the cold, and.

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Speaker 2: You are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine.

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Speaker 1: Whereas your mind speaks, so as y'all can see, obviously

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Speaker 1: our girl is. I missed him so much. I know

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Speaker 1: we had to do another episode. I love y'all.

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Speaker 2: So let me say this first of all, we just

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Speaker 2: had such a tough time, so let me just let

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Speaker 2: y'all know we are going through hell and hot water

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Speaker 2: to make sure we get these episodes to y'all. So

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Speaker 2: if y'all can just do me a favor. If there's

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Speaker 2: anything wrong with the audio or the visual, just don't complain.

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Speaker 2: Just be happy that you got some poor girls with

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Speaker 2: you this week. Okay, because it's it has been such

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Speaker 2: a struggle. We are not in the studio. We don't

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Speaker 2: have Marine here to help us. But let me give

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Speaker 2: a big shout out to Kiki because Kiki done came

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Speaker 2: through when the clutch.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Welcome to my studio here.

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Speaker 1: We had Kiki studio period.

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Speaker 3: Now, don't be sending me a whole bunch of messages

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Speaker 3: talking by how fuck they should have we've been trying

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Speaker 3: for two hours.

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Speaker 1: Seriously, we've been out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I would ask y'all what y'all been up

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Speaker 2: to this past week day.

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Speaker 3: On a lighter note, what what?

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Speaker 1: Oh, drag and drink again? Looking at you with me,

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about it.

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Speaker 3: I can finally drink again, y'all, cheating, cheers, get a

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Speaker 3: little programming finally.

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Speaker 2: I hope everybody's been doing good during the quarantine. This

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Speaker 2: has really been a struggle for me. Honestly, I've been

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Speaker 2: like tweeting and you know, being my normal funny self.

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Speaker 2: But a lot of people are like, oh, Lex, how

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Speaker 2: are you keeping in hot spirits? And I'm being real

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Speaker 2: with y'all, I really haven't been happy. What's been wrong.

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Speaker 1: I'm just I'm sad.

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Speaker 2: I'm in the house, I'm not around the BDBS, I'm

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Speaker 2: not spending money, I'm not shopping. I'm not on my

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Speaker 2: lavish vacations like I usually am.

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Speaker 1: That's depressing, it is, and.

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Speaker 3: I'm really sad because y'all know my birthday coming up

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Speaker 3: and unfortunately we're gonna have to be inside.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like we're still gonna do what we

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Speaker 1: have to do.

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Speaker 2: The cell BRD have fun and then whenever we can

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you something, My birthday month is gonna

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Speaker 3: be whatever month that we back outside, as long as

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Speaker 3: it's my mind, it's gonna be you maybe yours soup girl.

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Speaker 1: We still September? Well, how is in August? I'm about

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Speaker 1: to escape? Let gonna be a runaway slave. I don't

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Speaker 2: It really is crazy. So I really just want to

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Speaker 2: send all my loves to people out there because I

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Speaker 2: know a lot of people have family members that have

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Speaker 2: been affected by this. A lot of people are still

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Speaker 2: having to go to work, and it's just.

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Speaker 1: A stressful time right now. She just getting real.

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Speaker 2: So we're just gonna go ahead and go ahead and

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Speaker 2: get into the topics. Y'all, let's get this ship started.

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Speaker 2: Because I'm a little teeny.

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Speaker 1: We ain't gonna needs to talk about what we've been

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Speaker 1: doing because it ain't nothing. We really have to excel.

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Speaker 2: Why did you watch it? Oh my god? Which one

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Speaker 2: did we say I was?

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Speaker 1: Who did she say I was? Whitney's character?

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Speaker 2: Right? That's so good because he was married, and y'all

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Speaker 2: know I have my tea with the married men. So yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm definitely Savannah.

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Speaker 1: Who are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm a mix between Bernardine and Gloria. I got a

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Speaker 3: little bit of that craziness inside. I really don't act.

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Speaker 1: On it too much. But I would have stormed up

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Speaker 1: in a board meeting or whatever. Yeah, I would have. Well,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I would have slapped her, because

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Speaker 3: She go call the police, just like all of call

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Speaker 3: the police. Girl friend from I would have slapped his ass.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, book her, but she had already burned.

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Speaker 3: He got money, and you're gonna tell me to sell

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Speaker 3: You live really very much a mix between because Gloria

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Speaker 1: I'll Gloria be throwing it down to make a sweet

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Speaker 2: You would have been one of the other ones, minus

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Speaker 2: fucking broke ass niggas. I'll say this. Let me say this, Robby.

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Speaker 2: I haven't watched Waiting to Excel since I was like younger,

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Speaker 2: because women are still going through the same shit with

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Speaker 1: Man, these niggas been ain't sheet since the beginning.

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Speaker 2: When I tell y'all, I was watching Waiting to Excel

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Speaker 2: I was like, this shit is crazy because nothing has changed.

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Speaker 3: Need one of them Bible stories. It wasn't no, it

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Speaker 2: Couldn't be me, won't be me? Okay, So let's get

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Speaker 2: and basically the girl is facing jail time for assault

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Speaker 2: with a daily weapon. So I wanted to talk about, like,

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Speaker 2: when is it okay to fight for your nigga like

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Speaker 2: it's okay.

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Speaker 1: When you're dreaming, but not in real life. That yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's never okay.

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Speaker 2: Crazy Okay, So let me say this because I had

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Speaker 1: My stance on it is period.

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Speaker 2: Bad bitches don't fight, And that's I honestly stand behind that.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, if.

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Speaker 2: You look a certain way, and you carry yourself a

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Speaker 2: a man is gonna make sure that a woman doesn't

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Speaker 1: He does, then that's not the man for you, right.

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Speaker 3: I mean, if a nigga really fuck with you, he's

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Speaker 3: not gonna let no beach come at you.

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Speaker 2: Right, That's how I feel.

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Speaker 1: It's just not about to go down like that. But

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Speaker 2: Well, not only that, a lot of people were saying,

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Speaker 2: you're pussy.

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Speaker 1: Uh, pretty bitches.

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Speaker 2: I always want to talk about let's say, like I'm pussy, Like, oh,

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Speaker 1: You don't want to fight at the end of the day.

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Speaker 2: Girls always want to talk about I'm too pretty and

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Speaker 2: I'm too cute to fight. Well, don't be sitting there

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Speaker 2: talking shit one thing about me. I'm never worried about

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Speaker 2: another bitch. Ever, I never asked a man about other

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I give a fuck sometimes, but I'm just way too

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Speaker 3: I ain't got an in me to like streach no

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Speaker 3: feel a little intimidating right well, I'm a little.

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Speaker 1: Difference in the both of you.

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Speaker 3: Now, I'm not gonna say anything to her because my

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Speaker 3: talk to him about it. It's not even so much

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Speaker 1: Deal with her. Just go deal with her.

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Speaker 3: I don't like playing no games for board games, so

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Speaker 3: that many other women in my family pretty girls don't fight.

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Speaker 3: And people can feel however they feel about us, saying

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Speaker 3: what you look like in fighting, but if.

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Speaker 1: You do it a bit, she'll try and slide your

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Speaker 3: Dj Envy's wife that wasn't even over Ado, but she

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Speaker 3: I talked about this before, I think on the show,

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Speaker 3: is just crazy as hell. Beaches really do be trying

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Speaker 3: a question, like when think of every time you've ever

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Speaker 3: had an issue with a woman, has it ever been

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Speaker 3: last time? I've been in two fights in my entire life.

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Speaker 3: First time I got in a fight. The girl is gay.

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Speaker 3: Now she's a she's a full blown dyke.

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Speaker 2: So that not saying that dykes are unattractive, but she's

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Speaker 2: no yeah, but she's a white dyke. No offense to

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that's an off stud. Okay, so

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Speaker 2: stud I do find like black stud attractive, but I've

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Speaker 2: of let you know how she looks and how she

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Speaker 1: Second fight, I got into.

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Speaker 2: The girl. She's just ghetto trash, really honestly like, she's

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Speaker 2: just a trashy ass girl.

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Speaker 1: And when you look at her and you look at.

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Speaker 2: Me, especially how our lives turned out, now it makes

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Speaker 2: sense and.

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Speaker 1: It's with you. Every girl I've ever gotten into I

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Speaker 1: got into.

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Speaker 3: I got a few fights, actually more than two, like

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Speaker 3: some mogm in elementary, some in middle school. But the

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Speaker 3: main ones that I can remember was the last ones

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Speaker 3: I got into, which was in high school.

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Speaker 1: In two fights in high school, both.

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Speaker 3: Of them beaches was trash. Neither one of them houses

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Speaker 3: looked better than me. And they still get o trash

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Speaker 3: these days.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure.

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Speaker 4: You can.

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Speaker 1: Hell no, I couldn't stand by what I said. I'm

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Speaker 1: not getting in a fight. You've never been in a fighting.

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Speaker 1: Never so like.

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Speaker 3: Even when you had like you was cluxed up with somebody,

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Speaker 3: you ain't never get heated to that point.

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Speaker 3: I will talk to somebody because this is really how

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Speaker 3: But ain't nobody you just look, haven't never got hit first?

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Speaker 3: I'm just like confused, like are you speaking English? Are

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Speaker 3: But I would just talk to the people because I

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Speaker 1: But guess who's gonna come check on me? Yo? Nigga.

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Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying. I'm not at women.

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Speaker 3: Women really be clexed up with you and want to

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Speaker 2: I honestly believe that the reason I don't get in

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Speaker 2: talk to him. I've never I've never been that girl

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Speaker 1: And honestly, I feel like all three of us are

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Speaker 3: Like if my nigga is doing some files, she my

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Speaker 2: It's never.

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Speaker 1: Because you don't want fucking me.

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Speaker 3: You the one that I've been dating you, the one

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Speaker 3: So why fuck I'm gonna.

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Speaker 1: Have beef for hood?

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Speaker 2: She's just out here fucking with a nigga who's trying

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Speaker 2: to fuck with Hord exactly. And that's what I think

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Speaker 2: a lot of women need to realize. Stop fighting these women.

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Speaker 2: You know how many women are in jail right now

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Speaker 2: because they didn't stab somebody, They done killed somebody, they

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Speaker 2: didn't kill they men. Why are y'all losing y'all's freedom?

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Speaker 2: And let me tell you something, because these.

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Speaker 1: Is gonna feel me fucking bitches while your ass is locked.

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Speaker 2: Not only is that girl in the hospital recovers, which

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Speaker 1: In their accounting checking my accounts. What's the money looking like?

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Speaker 1: But her dad?

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Speaker 2: I really feel like her dad cut her off.

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Speaker 3: And right, bitch, like what the pug I'm worth five

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Speaker 2: That's not even worse, not even worse, nothing compared to

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Speaker 2: what he's working. Oh, it's all this respect.

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Speaker 1: Well, I just feel like, you know, he's accomplished what

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. I don't care if your hood, corporate,

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter, because I've met hood niggas that has

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Speaker 2: showed me nothing but respect. He has no respect for women.

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Speaker 2: He has no respect for women. So everything that I

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Speaker 3: Nothing, well not nothing, but how much you're worth at

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Speaker 3: the end of the day with something like this, when

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Speaker 3: you are stabbing somebody over a nigga and fighting somebody

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Speaker 3: over a nigga, none of that really matters.

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Speaker 1: You need to go back to the basis.

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Speaker 3: How does this man treat you? You over here chasing

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Speaker 3: maybe he is, but he's also worried about five other bitches.

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Speaker 3: And if you don't want to be a part of

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Speaker 1: Why are you fighting?

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Speaker 3: What do you I just really wish I could get

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Speaker 3: inside of her head and understand, Okay, you think you

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Speaker 3: stabbed that bitch, and what's gonna happen. He's gonna stop

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Speaker 3: fucking with her.

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Speaker 2: No, talk about it.

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Speaker 1: That's the mother. Let's talk about it. Even if she wasn't.

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Speaker 3: Let's be livable here. Going back to your nineteen twenty

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Speaker 2: Never no, I did, you said you I stabbed him,

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Speaker 2: not her, But.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying you do.

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Speaker 3: Indeed, someone that could have landed you for some prison

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Speaker 3: time if it would have came today.

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Speaker 1: Luckily that nigga didn't pray started that could have happen.

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Speaker 2: But let me tell you I stabbed a man before.

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Speaker 2: But let me tell y'all the story. Let me tell

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Speaker 2: y'all the story got damn y'all. The nigga was still crazy.

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Speaker 2: Let me no, no, no, I'm not crazy though, because

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Speaker 2: this is the thing, this is exactly how it happened.

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Speaker 2: Right hand to god, I would have this nigga calling

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Speaker 2: in my face. I went not grabbed a knife. I said,

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Speaker 2: if you take one most step, I'm going to stab you.

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Speaker 2: He took a step. I said, keep playing with me.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to stab you. He took another step. Why

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Speaker 2: would you keep walking towards somebody who I'm warning you.

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you, I am angry right now, and I

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Speaker 2: He did not back the fuck up, so he got stabbed.

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Speaker 3: Well, he was playing chicken, and I personally don't like

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Speaker 3: to play chicken. Yeah, none of those damn games. If

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Speaker 2: Exactly, I have a knife in my head, and I

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Speaker 2: warned him. I wasn't chasing him. I remember I was

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Speaker 1: He backed me into the wall.

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Speaker 2: Exactly.

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Speaker 1: I would have been free as a motherfucking bird. But

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Speaker 1: but all.

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Speaker 3: I'm saying is just looking back on some of the

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Speaker 1: Bitches crazy, don't get me wrong.

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Speaker 2: But what I'm.

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Speaker 3: Saying is just looking back on some of the decisions

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't.

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Speaker 1: Do now at my leg age because I just know

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Speaker 2: I do agree with you, But I feel like a

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Speaker 1: No, but it's not an excuse. That's just to me,

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Speaker 2: But let me tell you something.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give her cool.

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Speaker 2: But I was never seventeen eighteen thinking I'll kill this

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Speaker 1: Never. Yeah, I feel listening, I ain't.

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Speaker 2: That thought has never crossed my mind. My mind either

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Speaker 2: I'm so you're stupid, he's got you, but her like, she's.

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Speaker 3: Stupid to be coming at the other woman. And never,

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Speaker 3: that's not who it is. Never, it's a person because

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Speaker 1: But he's showing you that he want to be with

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Speaker 1: both of y'as. Not only that up and if you don't.

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Speaker 2: Choose, and not only that, but let me take it

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Speaker 2: all different times are okay. You have podcasts like this one,

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Speaker 2: There's so many examples of how these niggas gonna play

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Speaker 2: you every time that women can reach out to other

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Speaker 2: We didn't have that shit growing up, and we were

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Speaker 2: still smarter than that. So the fact that it's twenty

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Speaker 2: but I can see Kiki from cocktails and I could

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Speaker 2: be like, oh, I'll relate to her. Let me reach

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Speaker 2: There's no fucking excuse.

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Speaker 3: Do you ever feel do y'all ever feel like sometimes

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Speaker 3: I'm different, these niggas don't treat me different. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: he's going on, oh absolutely yeah, or maybe I won't

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Speaker 2: Well, I'll say this, as far as the social status thing,

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Speaker 2: always felt like I was above people and I was

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Speaker 2: do not fucking care, you could be Jesus' daughter right

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Speaker 2: from his fucking balls, bitch, and these niggas don't give

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you something more importantly, it's not even

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Speaker 3: about that nobody is.

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Speaker 1: Above the law.

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Speaker 3: WHOA No, nobody is above the law. Like, if you

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Speaker 3: do some crazy ass sheet, no amount of money, in

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Speaker 3: my opinion, really will save you.

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Speaker 1: Donald Trump exactly, I wonder.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if you can afford a good enough team,

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Speaker 2: you can definitely get off.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, some people, some people can't.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of people that have got off. There's

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Speaker 2: a lot of people that got off.

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Speaker 1: Above the law. Yeah, it's just gonna cost you.

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Speaker 3: So it's either gonna cost you money or it's gonna

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Speaker 3: cost you time and freedom. But let's think about God,

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Speaker 3: and let's also think about all the niggas in the

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Speaker 3: past who like God, hell of fucking money and a

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Speaker 3: niggas still have to serve jail time. Look at Lil Wayne,

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Speaker 3: look at t I, look at all these people.

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Speaker 1: These niggas have bridge. I'm sure they had top of

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Speaker 1: the line lawyers. They still have to do this.

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Speaker 3: They also had top of the line crime, so top top.

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Speaker 2: But let me tell you something, if a regular, if

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Speaker 2: a regular, if a regular person did with t I,

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Speaker 2: Gucci Man, and Little Wayne did, they would have got

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445
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Speaker 2: right now. I'll tell you that.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna be repeat offenders. Ain't nobody gonna be cutting

447
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Speaker 2: I definitely feel like money like money definitely, especially in America,

449
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Speaker 2: money rules the justice system. It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I got I know.

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Speaker 3: He got at least five DUIs that I know of,

452
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Speaker 1: The no the berthalizer where he has to and when

501
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Speaker 1: he get pulled over, he just say who he is?

502
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Speaker 1: He sought him some money.

503
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Speaker 2: But I'm not trying to be funny. Well can we

504
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 2: talk about your situation. That's because I'm not trying to

505
00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 2: be funny. But you paid a lot of money. Think

506
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Speaker 2: about the people who wouldn't have a lot of money.

507
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Speaker 2: That's because me with my three dollars, I would have

508
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Speaker 2: been in jail with my three dollars.

509
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Speaker 1: I actually was. I actually was about to speek on that.

510
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Speaker 3: I was about to say, like when I got pulled

511
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Speaker 3: over from I du situation or whatever, because I did

512
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Speaker 3: get pulled over in a contract to give me a buy. Luckily,

513
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Speaker 3: at the time, I did have enough money to get

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Speaker 3: a really good lawyer, and I had to come up

515
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Speaker 3: off for like six banions for a lawyer.

516
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Speaker 1: And I don't feel like if I wasn't able period

517
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Speaker 1: money run and I had to get a quarter pointy lawyer,

518
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Speaker 1: I definitely would have got to be UI.

519
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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Money runs are just our justice

520
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:25,120
Speaker 2: system is not based off of facts. If you're innocent,

521
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Speaker 2: if you're guilty, it doesn't run money, lawyer money. Yeah,

522
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:31,679
Speaker 2: it's all so it's like it's the money.

523
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Speaker 1: You know what you got.

524
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 2: So we got the day at the day. What's y'all

525
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 2: opinion on the hollow situation? Like, how do y'all feel

526
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:45,680
Speaker 2: about in that situation? I don't feel nothing about her

527
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 2: because she's not ugly or nothing. But I'm talking about

528
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 2: real every day, like I'm getting ugly because of what

529
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:56,360
Speaker 2: I'm about to say. Only ugly bitches fight, period.

530
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Speaker 1: But she grew up learning like she had to fight off. No,

531
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:06,120
Speaker 1: she did not looking at her to Eddy fight fights.

532
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:09,959
Speaker 2: Because he's getting paid thirty million dollars for ten minutes.

533
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 2: That ain't that's different from flight, from fighting in the

534
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:14,480
Speaker 2: local MEDUSA, bitch.

535
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 1: Not the local.

536
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Speaker 3: I just wish that these niggas who feel like they

537
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 3: can beat on these women and do whatever they want

538
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 3: to do to these women, fuck all of them and

539
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 3: then have people stabbing people over you. I wish that

540
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Speaker 3: they had the same fear that I had of jail,

541
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,120
Speaker 3: because it don't make no sense, Like we can sit

542
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 3: here and talk about snaps and stuff. They don't give

543
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 3: a fuck about that. They just be like, oh well,

544
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Speaker 3: if I get stabbing gets stabbed, it's my time. They

545
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 3: don't be scared to die, and then people don't.

546
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Speaker 2: I hate that time.

547
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Speaker 1: I say it sometimes, but not over no.

548
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Speaker 2: Fights, not over no flight. I say that too because

549
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,680
Speaker 2: I agree. I feel like, you know what is show

550
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 2: time to go? It's your time ago.

551
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, to me, prising

552
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 3: stripes and orange just ain't my color.

553
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 1: Like I'm not just trying to be it's not my time.

554
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Speaker 2: I promise. If a bitch stabbed me over nigga, God

555
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 2: gonna be like they wasn't supposed to go down like that,

556
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 2: my badge.

557
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Speaker 3: If I die, if I get stabbed to this over

558
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 3: a nigga, I'm gonna be like, I know you fuck

559
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,399
Speaker 3: your line. I am on my last words.

560
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 2: I swear if a bitch come to me about a nigga.

561
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 2: If a bitch come to me and about a nigga,

562
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Speaker 2: I'm like, see it. Honestly, you can have him. As

563
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 2: long as he got a friend, we can go on

564
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 2: a double date, double day. Key. I'm going about nigga.

565
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 2: If you got enough money, I'm going to fight me.

566
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 2: If he got enough money, I'm on side. She fucking

567
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:34,679
Speaker 2: turn up, turn up. Okay, okay, okay, So let us

568
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Speaker 2: know how y'all feel about women fighting, especially over men,

569
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 2: because honestly, I got really attacked on Twitter the other

570
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Speaker 2: day because I said bad bitches don't fight. So I

571
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,719
Speaker 2: want to know how y'all feel about that. Like always,

572
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 2: So this next topic I wanted to talk about, Shout

573
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Speaker 2: out to Joe Budden, shout out to Mandy. Everybody's in

574
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:57,639
Speaker 2: going live the homies. So basically, Joe and Mandy went

575
00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 2: on live the other day and I just got a

576
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Speaker 2: little excerpt from it, and basically he was saying, women

577
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:06,640
Speaker 2: will invite yourself, invite themselves over five times a week.

578
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 2: They'll let you fuck raw. They be calling you every day,

579
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,479
Speaker 2: they be cooking and cleaning and doing all that. But

580
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,439
Speaker 2: just because you doing all that doesn't mean that I

581
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 2: fuck with you like that or I want you to

582
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 2: be my girlfriend.

583
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 3: That is just because he's a Because I'm a nice person,

584
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 3: I'm not an asshole.

585
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:21,360
Speaker 2: I'm not an asshole.

586
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 3: I'm gonna he said, so I'm He was like, I'm

587
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 3: not an asshole. So of course, like if you call

588
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 3: me and you want to talk, we could talk. But

589
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 3: you are creating a scenario. Are you creating a situation

590
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 3: that I never said I wanted to be a party in?

591
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 2: Basically, m h And this is why I said, Ladies,

592
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 2: stop giving these niggas so much for so little, Ladies

593
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 2: be so fucking excited shoulders, cause I'm mad. I'm fucking

594
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 2: mad because the fact that he went on this platform

595
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,360
Speaker 2: and said this just lets me know that women are

596
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 2: really out here doing this. And we've said this time

597
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 2: and time and time again, Ladies, stop giving these niggas.

598
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 1: The upper hand. Do you realize, pussy Room, I picked

599
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: the bottom of the bottom of.

600
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,640
Speaker 2: These men. They want to They want y'all to feel

601
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 2: like they're the prize, and they manipulate you into believing

602
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 2: that everything that he named is stuff that men want,

603
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 2: especially niggas with money.

604
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 1: They don't, they won't.

605
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 2: They want your time, they want your raw pussy, They

606
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,400
Speaker 2: want your conversation.

607
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 1: They want you over there cooking and cleaning.

608
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:40,879
Speaker 2: They want all of that ship and y'all are giving

609
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,360
Speaker 2: all of that to them, and you get nothing in return.

610
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 1: What is your definition nothing in return?

611
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 2: Is this nigga is picking up your phone calls because

612
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 2: he's being nice. I want a nigga to pick up

613
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 2: my phone call because he's excited to talk to me

614
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 2: because he didn't have a long fucking day and he

615
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 2: needs somebody to talk to that makes him feel better.

616
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 2: I need him to feel like, Oh, I can't wait

617
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 2: to see my baby. This is my vacation. Oh, let

618
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 2: me take her on a vacation. Oh, let me take

619
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,719
Speaker 2: her shopping. Let me make she always make sure I'm good. Well,

620
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 2: let me make sure she good.

621
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 4: Y'all be giving the oh wow wow, y'all with the

622
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 4: organ I'm telling y'all, y'all be doing so much for

623
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 4: these niggas that don't want to do shit for you.

624
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:26,199
Speaker 2: And he said it. He said it right there to

625
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 2: y'all's stage. Let this be a testimony to what we're saying.

626
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 2: I really been saying this, and the girls don't be listening.

627
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,439
Speaker 2: The girl I will say this. He said it to

628
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 2: Instagram Live after.

629
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 3: He had been through a situation. And this is what

630
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 3: I don't like. While I agree with you guys, okay, I.

631
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: Still feel like so much so women try to take

632
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: on all the.

633
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 3: Responsibility, whether it's good, bad, or indifferent, Everything is on us.

634
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: If a man is happy, it's on us. I cook

635
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: for him, I clean for him, I make him happy.

636
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: I'm his piece. That ain't never mean. I'm just saying

637
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 1: what the girls on the internet say because I be

638
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: a headache.

639
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 3: But then also it's like, if you do something fucked up,

640
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 3: he's gonna say, well, I never wanted a relationship. Okay,

641
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 3: maybe you didn't say that, but I also feel like,

642
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 3: just like I shouldn't be doing all of these things

643
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 3: for a man who never said that you shouldn't.

644
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 1: I still feel like.

645
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 3: There's some responsibility on the man to not lead a

646
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 3: woman of like, you know, if I said that I

647
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 3: want a relationship, you know, sometimes they're not that clear.

648
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: Maybe they didn't say they want a relationship.

649
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 3: But they say other things, not to let you think

650
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 3: that you're in a relationship, but to let you think

651
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 3: you're on that path. Okay, Okay, I feel like that's

652
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 3: fucked up, and so they shouldn't do that, just like

653
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 3: we shouldn't do things that are too much.

654
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 1: They don't need to do too much. Nobody needs to

655
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: do too much. Otherwise you're using somebody. But okay, but

656
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: say like that.

657
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 2: Okay, say you've been talking to somebody and it don't

658
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 2: even matter. Three weeks, two weeks, three weeks, and he'd

659
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 2: be like, he cash up you three bands.

660
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 1: Okay, thank you.

661
00:29:53,920 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 2: He cash up exactly. But what I'm saying, don't even

662
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 2: cash out. They do whatever. He gives you three bands,

663
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 2: thank you? Arent you know what I'm saying. You're not

664
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 2: gonna what you are? You gonna be like, oh, don't

665
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 2: do this because I don't like you like that.

666
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 3: No, you're not gonna say I don't feel like money

667
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 3: is a thing for that sets the tone that we're

668
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 3: in a relationship or we're heading towards a relationship.

669
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 1: I feel like niggas, some niggas spend money and some

670
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 1: niggas don't. Well, I feel like you feel that way.

671
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 3: But what about women, because I'm not gonna lie like

672
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 3: niggas do always talk about she like that they be

673
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 3: talking about for women who, like you know, never really

674
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 3: got certain shit before. So it's like when a nigga

675
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 3: really be doing shit, but then they just automatically assume

676
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 3: like she is more serious than what it really is.

677
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 3: That's why communication is can But I feel like all that,

678
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 3: but let's keep it one honey. Thieves and niggas and

679
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 3: sometimes it's women. Communication is not on points, it's not.

680
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 3: And I just never been in a position where I

681
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 3: felt like because somebody was spending money on me that

682
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 3: that meant that.

683
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 1: He really liked me.

684
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 3: I felt like he really had it. It didn't feel

685
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 3: special to me, honestly, the money asked like, Yeah, that's

686
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 3: how I really feel.

687
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 1: I feel like if a nigga want to spend money

688
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 1: on you, he'll spend money on you just because he

689
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: wants to spend money or because he wants to feel

690
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: like he's that nigga. It's never made me feel like

691
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 1: he liked me more.

692
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 3: But the thing that makes me feel like somebody likes

693
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 3: me more is like you said, well, you can tell

694
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 3: that they're excited to talk to you on the phone.

695
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 3: I'm not calling you all the time. You calling me,

696
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 3: you want to spend time with me, You don't want

697
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 3: to talk on the phone, you want to go take

698
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 3: me somewhere you want.

699
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 2: I guess I feel like this when somebody is doing

700
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 2: something for you that you want or that you need,

701
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 2: and they're not requiring nothing from you to get that.

702
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 2: Washut up. It's either what free money? Because washut up.

703
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 2: If you're giving me free money, I'm gonna let you

704
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 2: think what you want. I don't give a fuck. If

705
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 2: you're giving me free raw pussy, why am I gonna

706
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 2: be like, Oh, this is not what I want from you,

707
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 2: fucking you giving it to me. You coming over here

708
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 2: cooking fucking ribs and mashed potatoes and mac and cheese.

709
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 2: You think I'm gonna be like, oh, well, baby, I

710
00:31:58,000 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 2: don't want a relationship.

711
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 3: No, you wouldn't, But you wouldn't if you had the

712
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 3: proper morals to care about people don't.

713
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: People don't. But that's what I'm saying. It doesn't matter

714
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: any of those things.

715
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 3: None of the things that men or women do for

716
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 3: the other really matter in the grand scheme of things.

717
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 3: I like right now personally, I don't be cooking for niggas.

718
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 3: I like that you mean they are not deserving. I

719
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 3: cook for my friend and my family, and that's it.

720
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 3: The niggas be like, oh I heard she can cook,

721
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 3: but they don't know. Because you don't, you're not deserved.

722
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 3: I'm completely the same way, like I could throw the

723
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 3: fuck down, but like niggas that I be fucking we

724
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 3: don't know should about that? And let me reiterate what

725
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 3: I always says at the end, of the day, Like,

726
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,239
Speaker 3: bitches really got to understand. I'm sorry I used the

727
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 3: word beaches as a term of dear me.

728
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 2: Cause she called me a bitch all the time. You

729
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 2: broken beaches? Why are you lying to be You never

730
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,479
Speaker 2: call you? You said you brought up my three dollars

731
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 2: one time because I because I try.

732
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: You ain't multiplied. But I ain't never called you a.

733
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 2: Broke be draone wasn't complaining about my three dollars when

734
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 2: I had to go pick her up a few times pick.

735
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 1: Me up one time from jail.

736
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 2: I did I put that three dollars in my gas?

737
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: I kin even got your still.

738
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 3: Ain't moved the plot in two years later, But I

739
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 3: ain't call you broke though. But now if I was saying,

740
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 3: like I always like to reiterate, women have to understand too,

741
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 3: like niggas who got money and niggas who used to

742
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 3: spending money on beaches are used to paying for the

743
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 3: sheet that they really want, Like that shit don't mean

744
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 3: nothing to them. So you gotta stop thinking that that

745
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 3: shit is special or that you're important to a man

746
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 3: just because he's spending money on you. At the end

747
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 3: of the day, men gonna spend money or do whatever

748
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 3: they gotta do to get what the fuck they want,

749
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 3: and it's just really all it is. And then once

750
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 3: they get what they want you you might not be

751
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 3: getting this shit no more because now he done got

752
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 3: what he wants. Like, you just gotta stop thinking that

753
00:33:56,080 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 3: you're special because somebody is doing small things for you, right, And.

754
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 2: I also and I and that's.

755
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 3: All I was gonna say, because I understand some things

756
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 3: are big things. Yeah, so even big things. But you

757
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,720
Speaker 3: gotta understand if a nigga has worked like sixty.

758
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 2: Million dollars, that made way, they want to say.

759
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 1: Fifty because you know they running weedy.

760
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm not keep going not doing it.

761
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 3: Well, Yeah, but niggas worth like sixty million dollars and

762
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 3: he sends you like five bands, that's literally nothing to him, y'all,

763
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 3: I'll stop going over and beyond because it's like, don't

764
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 3: get me wrong, that's not a small amount for a

765
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 3: nigga to send you, or that's not something small for

766
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,320
Speaker 3: a dude to do for you, but in his mind,

767
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,239
Speaker 3: that's small. So you gotta stop over compensating.

768
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 2: But let's talk about it on the other end.

769
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,800
Speaker 1: Though, even if he don't have a lot of money.

770
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 1: Some niggas will give a bitch their whole check. It

771
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:48,799
Speaker 1: don't mean he's gonna be You had a conversation like

772
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: that earlier today. Oh, I showed it. I forgot about that.

773
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 3: A friend of mine was going to send this girl

774
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:56,799
Speaker 3: that he used to date some money.

775
00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:00,040
Speaker 1: I told it. I don't do it. Sorry, ladies. No,

776
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 1: Normally I.

777
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 3: Would be on the women's side and I'd be like,

778
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,319
Speaker 3: get that money, sis, But because this guy is my friend,

779
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't want you to end up like

780
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:09,760
Speaker 3: a sucker, Like I feel like she's not dating you anymore.

781
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 3: I'm sure that you still care about her, and because

782
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 3: your heart is you know, decent, you want to do

783
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 3: something nice, that's cute and everything, but she is using you.

784
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:21,840
Speaker 3: If it was me, I'm gonna put if I was

785
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 3: a bartender right now, I'm gonna put on my sub face.

786
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real short on every conversation I have

787
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 1: with a nigga, maybe even a bitch. It depends on

788
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: the day of the week, but I gonna have a

789
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 1: sad face on. I'm gonna have my sad tone on.

790
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real short on. I don't really talk.

791
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: I'm stressed out. I don't know what I'm gonna do.

792
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 1: This karma shit is really fucking up my money. I

793
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 1: don't know how to pay my bills.

794
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 3: It's already sixt they inviction when the courts come up

795
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 3: my apartment complex, not.

796
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 2: Let me do nothing.

797
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 1: I would be doing all that shit so that she

798
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 1: would send me some money.

799
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 3: But if I'm talking to a niggas, the nigga i'm

800
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:50,760
Speaker 3: talking to better give me some money.

801
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 1: And if he doesn't, why would you be this person

802
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 1: on the outside that's her old nigga that she used

803
00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 1: to deal with what even boyfriend? But why would you

804
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 1: deal with that? I just don't think that you shouldn't.

805
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 1: So I guess I forgot the point that.

806
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 3: Man is comfortable, but he's not wealthy by any means.

807
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:15,720
Speaker 1: But maybe but jokes.

808
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, So you him spending a lot of money or

809
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,799
Speaker 3: any money and he doesn't have a whole lot of

810
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 3: money doesn't mean well, never mind, that's a horrible point, dragon,

811
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 3: now that I thought like to it.

812
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 1: He does really like her.

813
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 2: Mom, Okay, But that's what I was saying sometimes and

814
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 2: sometimes I'm telling you, Drea, you're coming from a perspective

815
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 2: that not a lot of women have lived as is

816
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 2: because you have niggas that spend a lot of money

817
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 2: on you because that's what they do, but they also.

818
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 1: With you make it seem like it's multiple.

819
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 2: No, I'm no, We're gonna keep it real. You a

820
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 2: bad big.

821
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:57,240
Speaker 1: Talking about in the past.

822
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying. I'm not talking about

823
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 2: you know, I'm just saying, but let's keep it real.

824
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 2: Eighty percent of the time, these niggas really don't. These

825
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 2: niggas aren't worth fifty sixty million dollars. Okay, most the

826
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 2: average dating couple is a man making sixty to eighty

827
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 2: thousand dollars a year.

828
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 3: Why do you feel like my perspective even this is

829
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 3: a thing because it's not all about money.

830
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 1: So like, Okay, the nigga who don't have that much money,

831
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 1: he has time.

832
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:28,279
Speaker 3: A lot of people have time to spend, especially the

833
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:29,760
Speaker 3: one about time exactly.

834
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: Maybe that's not what excites you.

835
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 3: But some people feel like, because this man spends so

836
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,399
Speaker 3: much time with me, I don't see how he could

837
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 3: be with anyone else.

838
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 2: Right, you know, I've.

839
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,319
Speaker 3: Been in a situation like that where I felt like

840
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 3: I was spending so much time with somebody. We did

841
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 3: so many things together. It wasn't only time, it was

842
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 3: other factors in that. But I was just kind of

843
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,280
Speaker 3: blindsided when I found out he had a bunch of hole.

844
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: Shit going on.

845
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 3: Like you's sappy ass nigga. You me on the phone

846
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 3: crying to me, talking about how much you care about.

847
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 1: Me and all this stuff.

848
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 3: We spend all this time together, and you still sometime

849
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 3: between when I was sleeping shit and cooking, you was

850
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 3: trying to figure out how to go this way.

851
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: With another woman.

852
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:08,400
Speaker 3: Ex So you can't just get caught up on whatever

853
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 3: is happening.

854
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,239
Speaker 1: For some people, actions speak louder than words.

855
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 3: But like that matters to me too.

856
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 2: But you're talking about rich niggas. The reason I said

857
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 2: what I said as far as I said, if a

858
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 2: man spends money on you and you don't like him

859
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,399
Speaker 2: like that, so you just decided to use him because

860
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 2: most of the time, eighty percent of the time, if

861
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 2: a man is I won't even say hey, y'all, say

862
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 2: fucking ninety ninety percent of a time, if a man

863
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 2: is spending money on you, he fucked with you. Because

864
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 2: you have to realize, my niggas is not out here

865
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 2: like the niggas that we fuck like. That's what I

866
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 2: was about to say, though, I feel like in the beginning, when.

867
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,919
Speaker 3: A nigga spends money on you, niggas is sending money

868
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:51,760
Speaker 3: on you just because they trying to get what they want,

869
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 3: like you something. Yeah, Like if I seen you somewhere

870
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 3: and I'm like, damn, like this girl, Kiki is a

871
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 3: beautiful girl like you, gotta nice personality, I'll fuck with her.

872
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:03,879
Speaker 3: I really want to get to know her. I'm gonna

873
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 3: spend that bread if I got eat just so I

874
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:08,720
Speaker 3: forget to know you. But after I know what ill

875
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,439
Speaker 3: but after I get what I want. It's like even

876
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 3: if I get the pussy and a pussy is fire

877
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,720
Speaker 3: or whatever, I mean, if I'm a nigga with money,

878
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 3: but when sorry, when the pussy is fired, you know

879
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 3: what I mean. If I'm a nigga with money, I

880
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 3: don't got a lot of fire pussy, so that shit

881
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 3: doesn't matter to me. It has to be something else

882
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:29,280
Speaker 3: to sustain me staying in your life or keeping me around.

883
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:31,800
Speaker 3: So I feel like later down the line, when a nigga,

884
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 3: like after you've been doing a nigga for like years

885
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 3: and he's still fuck with you.

886
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 1: With a nigga with money, he really fuck with you.

887
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 2: But we're not talking about this niggas with money. That's

888
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 2: why I said, because because eighty percent of these niggas

889
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 2: really don't got money like that. I'm just being real.

890
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 2: I'm right. I'm not saying money when I say money

891
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 2: like that, I'm just saying, like we're talking, you're talking

892
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:55,240
Speaker 2: about a millionaires, bro, I'm talking about that average, the average,

893
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 2: the average Joe. If he's spending money on you, he

894
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:02,760
Speaker 2: really fucks with you. That's what I'm saying, friends, exactly.

895
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 3: But because a nigga fucks with you doesn't mean you're

896
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:08,560
Speaker 3: the only one. So you have to open up your

897
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 3: mouth and talk, and sometimes you're gonna have to have

898
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:14,320
Speaker 3: difficult conversations and sometimes you're gonna get your feeling.

899
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 2: Let's get back to the topic. Let's get back to

900
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 2: the topic. So basically, what I'm saying is, just like

901
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 2: Joe said, you're giving your all. You're giving your all

902
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 2: and doing all for these niggas. Stop it because they're

903
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:27,720
Speaker 2: gonna take it vice versa.

904
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 1: These niggas empty.

905
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 2: These niggas that are average Joe's that are making a

906
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:35,319
Speaker 2: normal amount of money. You trying to spend money to

907
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 2: impress a woman A lot of times. Yeah, these women

908
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,839
Speaker 2: are using you. I'm breaking cold and I'm spending I'm

909
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 2: telling them.

910
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 1: But it's the truth. It's the truth. You've all done it.

911
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:47,279
Speaker 2: I think if you're looking for something deep and you're

912
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 2: looking for something serious, serious, stop approaching it with your

913
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 2: best cards.

914
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: Ladies.

915
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 2: Stop it. What do you mean though, Because I feel

916
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 2: like when you're dating, and this is just women and men,

917
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 2: everybody put that beast foot forward in the beginning. I

918
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 2: mean I have fun a lot.

919
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 1: No, you don't put your best foot forward.

920
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 3: I'm not like cookie for niggas and she, but like,

921
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 3: let's say the little crazy things, the little quirks about

922
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 3: your personality and she that you know is living.

923
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,720
Speaker 2: That's just why I am in the beginning.

924
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: Let's see.

925
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:20,919
Speaker 2: I'm being honest once.

926
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,839
Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes I can't help because I'm gonna

927
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:25,919
Speaker 3: have drinks on my first day and it's gonna come out.

928
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

929
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:30,319
Speaker 1: I can't hoe who I am. They gonna know who

930
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 1: I am either.

931
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 3: But I do feel like in the beginning, when you

932
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 3: first start getting to know each.

933
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 1: Other, you'd be way more conscious.

934
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 2: Not at this age. No, no, no, I don't. I

935
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 2: don't when we're not gonna first day I'm single, when

936
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:46,840
Speaker 2: I go the first day when Nigga, I'm inviting my bitches,

937
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 2: I'm getting sucked up and you're about to see how

938
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:52,840
Speaker 2: we get down. Yep, did you not mean Nigerian bay

939
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 2: in the early stages, No idea.

940
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 1: But it wasn't on the first day.

941
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 2: But it was after you Okay. But that night, Diamond,

942
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:00,960
Speaker 2: when I would mean he came out with me, and

943
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 2: this was the first day we hung out. This is

944
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 2: what you're getting into and this is my lifestyle. You

945
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,760
Speaker 2: either fuck with me or you don't. I'm old, Okay,

946
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,840
Speaker 2: I'm thirty years old. I don't have time to pretend

947
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 2: like I'm something I'm not right. I'm not hiding nothing now.

948
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 2: I used to recently when I first moved out here,

949
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:18,800
Speaker 2: I got in a relationship and I was trying to

950
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 2: hide who I was. But but I don't feel that way.

951
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:22,719
Speaker 3: I don't feel like he was ever trying to hide

952
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 3: who you were with that person. I tried to change

953
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 3: who I was, Yeah, maybe change, And I realized you

954
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 3: don't eve knew what the fuck was going on. He

955
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:31,840
Speaker 3: didn't know what the fuck was going on.

956
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 1: Everything was on Front Street.

957
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 2: So I just feel like trying to change and trying

958
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,839
Speaker 2: to be something that you're not is no benefit from that.

959
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 2: You're not gonna be happy. If I can make you

960
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 2: happy with who I am, we both gonna benefit from

961
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 2: the shit. Cause let me tell you something, You're gonna

962
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 2: want to run them bands up and I'm gonna keep

963
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 2: you fucking laughing.

964
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: I like to be a nigga vacation. I will say that.

965
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 3: I feel like that's the only reason why I have

966
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 3: gotten the sheet that I've gotten out of niggas.

967
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 1: It's just because like I make niggas like feel like

968
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 1: they on a baker, like they call me that.

969
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:03,800
Speaker 2: He said. Every time I'm with you, I feel like

970
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 2: I'm on vacation.

971
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 3: They having fun, Like it's like and it's like as

972
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 3: soon as they think, like all these be crazy.

973
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with and what they do

974
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 1: with some other beaches and they'd.

975
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 2: Be like they be bored.

976
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 1: They do.

977
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 3: But do you feel like niggas would be like running

978
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 3: back to you because they be bored because you just

979
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:21,880
Speaker 3: so I think so I think they enjoy my crazy.

980
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 3: I don't know that they ever felt like I was

981
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 3: a vacation. I definitely think they feel like I'm a

982
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:27,279
Speaker 3: piece of work, but I think they enjoy it.

983
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 1: It's like, you have a job that you love. You

984
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:31,799
Speaker 1: a job, Yes, we have a.

985
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 3: Job that you love, and you know it's gonna take

986
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,360
Speaker 3: some work, some sacrifice, and it's gonna give you a headache.

987
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, you don't want

988
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:38,760
Speaker 1: to go work in McDonald's.

989
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 3: You want to work with Kia Carry because they all

990
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 3: come back.

991
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:47,279
Speaker 2: And this is what I say at the end of

992
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,720
Speaker 2: this conversation, because we're gonna move on to the next topic.

993
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,320
Speaker 2: We are the prize. If you haven't noticed yet, it

994
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 2: doesn't matter how much a nigga has. We gotta make

995
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:58,320
Speaker 2: these We make these niggas feel good. Everything a nigga

996
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 2: does is for us. Trust me when I tell you,

997
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 2: trust please listen.

998
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 1: Let me say something real quick. I'm always the one

999
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 1: that will for the fuss.

1000
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 3: It's always the beaches of all motherfucking Twitter and she

1001
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 3: they'd be like, Oh, you need to be a bitch

1002
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 3: that bring in your own money and you need to

1003
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 3: do the cities and that's sex.

1004
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: One hundred percent agree with that. Bring in your own money.

1005
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 1: But if a nigga really fuck with.

1006
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 3: You and he's going to fuck with you the long way,

1007
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna keep it real with it's like real niggas,

1008
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:38,359
Speaker 3: like niggas would money, like it is a price. It

1009
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 3: makes you more of a prize to be a woman

1010
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 3: who has your own streams of and doing your own thing.

1011
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,760
Speaker 3: Niggas love that absolutely, But a real man who already

1012
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 3: bread don't give a y'all don't recognize that souse. Y'all

1013
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 3: ain't folks with them type of niggas yet. And that's

1014
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:57,880
Speaker 3: when I'm gonna leave the conversation.

1015
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 2: You know what, I'm gonna add my little two pieces too,

1016
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 2: because you know, I love to say I got three dollars.

1017
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,320
Speaker 2: I love to say I got three dollars. But trust

1018
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 2: and believe Big Mama is very good. And I'm gonna

1019
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,839
Speaker 2: leave it at that. Because everybody be saying, we got

1020
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 2: a nasty email, real nasty email. Somebody was so nasty,

1021
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:21,320
Speaker 2: and oh they were so nasty and so rue, and

1022
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 2: they were like, oh, Lex is not about this lifestyle.

1023
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 2: She copying off Andrea. Baby, I didn't copy off Andrea.

1024
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 2: Drea educated me and put me on game and let

1025
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 2: me know what I what the fuck I needed to know.

1026
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 1: And now baby university, roll roll enroll email.

1027
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:43,240
Speaker 2: So y'all can say, y'all gonna.

1028
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 1: Come in to the movie. You gonna get it for

1029
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 1: the freedom.

1030
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 2: Because that's because at end the day. No, Yes, absolutely,

1031
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 2: because we're working on this book. And let me tell

1032
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 2: you something, Drea, I'm not gonna ever take away from

1033
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 2: her or killer and the game that they don't put

1034
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 2: me on. Absolutely. I love to talk shit, be like,

1035
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 2: oh I got three because it's a running joke. It's funny.

1036
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 2: But trust them, trust, but trust and believe Big Mama

1037
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,560
Speaker 2: be good. So whoever wrote that fucking email, oh lex Ho,

1038
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:17,280
Speaker 2: trust me. My niggas here and they love to stay

1039
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 2: and they can't get enough a big Mama.

1040
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 1: And can I give them one more thing?

1041
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 3: Okay, So this is the other thing I'll say about

1042
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 3: working and having a nigga with some money, don't be

1043
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:30,279
Speaker 3: afraid to chase a passion and lie a little bit

1044
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 3: because they're gonna watch you a whole lot of bit.

1045
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 3: So I'm saying, like the men that I've dated who

1046
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 3: had some money, they never knew how much money I

1047
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 3: had him, but they always gave me enough that I

1048
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 3: felt like was good.

1049
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: They just felt like I was hard working, and so

1050
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:48,439
Speaker 1: they gave me so much.

1051
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 3: And if I said, all, I'm working on this but

1052
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 3: trying to figure this out, well, what you.

1053
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 1: Need, baby, like you need? You need a program, you

1054
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 1: need a computer, you need to take a class? Do

1055
00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:58,720
Speaker 1: you need me to pay for something?

1056
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 3: And they're always willing to do it, and they gonna

1057
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:02,319
Speaker 3: give the money straight to you, so you don't have

1058
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:03,959
Speaker 3: to even funnel them through nowhere else.

1059
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 1: That's just your income, you know. So don't be afraid

1060
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,839
Speaker 1: to tell a man what it is that you're working on.

1061
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 3: And cares about you, even if you are part of

1062
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:15,799
Speaker 3: a heram, because sometimes it ain't that bad.

1063
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say.

1064
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 2: Before we all been a part of it.

1065
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 3: Do you want to be the genie in the bottle

1066
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:26,880
Speaker 3: who rides to the top like Jazmine or do you

1067
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 3: want to be one of the mother bitches like es

1068
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 3: Morel still scrabb.

1069
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 1: Still being a gypsy on the back of a wagen

1070
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 1: with quasi moto not quasi hunch back? Your name? Is

1071
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 1: that what you want to buy? Fire it out?

1072
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 3: Because Jasmone said what she want to you tell them

1073
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 3: what you want. You want to be a bitch on

1074
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 3: a on a magic carpet.

1075
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:50,320
Speaker 1: That's done. But you can go do it.

1076
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 3: Or you can tell him about your real dreams and

1077
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:53,840
Speaker 3: maybe he'll invest in it.

1078
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,879
Speaker 2: But really, at the end of the day, I think

1079
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 2: it all just boils down to when I think all

1080
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 2: three of us ladies agree, you just have to be

1081
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:03,879
Speaker 2: very vocal and.

1082
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: Let these men know what you want.

1083
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:09,239
Speaker 3: And women are scared for they are and to let

1084
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 3: me and know what they want. The way I feel

1085
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:15,439
Speaker 3: about it is this, you cannot say what you want

1086
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 3: and never get anything. Or you can say what you

1087
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:20,359
Speaker 3: want and you might get something. Or you can say

1088
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:21,880
Speaker 3: what you want that nigga might not want.

1089
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:24,439
Speaker 2: To do but open your mouth.

1090
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 3: But you ain't gonna never know what the result gonna

1091
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 3: be if you don't say.

1092
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 2: But but but but but but but.

1093
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 1: Did you say close? But don't you see close?

1094
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 2: But let me let me, let me, let me close

1095
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 2: this out, Let me close this out. So one be one.

1096
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 2: But we're saying, ask for what you want, but don't

1097
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:47,399
Speaker 2: be no begging as bitch. Oh please don't be don't yes,

1098
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 2: don't be a beggy Bundy. So we're not gonna get

1099
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 2: into that type of but don't be begging to stop

1100
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 2: giving all these niggas so much for so little. Stop

1101
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,439
Speaker 2: sucking him wrong, stop asking him to come over, stop

1102
00:48:57,480 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 2: blowing up his phone. Stop going over there and cooking

1103
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 2: if you're not getting nothing in return.

1104
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 1: Makes the question real quick, because I know he's gonna

1105
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 1: knock y'all off.

1106
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:07,839
Speaker 2: Y'all right, Oh move on?

1107
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 1: When When When is it okay for you to fucking

1108
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: nigga all?

1109
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 2: Like?

1110
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 1: When is it like okay?

1111
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 2: It's cool when y'all when y'all have established some it

1112
00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 2: needs to be normalized to get test results, to see

1113
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 2: test results.

1114
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: So you be.

1115
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 2: Not every time on my last head that I was

1116
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 2: fucking with like raw, like yeah, absolutely, I showed him,

1117
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 2: momy he should, I.

1118
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 1: Swear I put this on earthing.

1119
00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 2: I love everything.

1120
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 1: I love. You ain't saying when does it happen? He said?

1121
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: When should it be? Yeah? Like win does.

1122
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 2: Because if we're doing it a lot, if we're fucking

1123
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 2: raw a lot, okay, we need to I need to

1124
00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 2: see some tests and keep it one money.

1125
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 1: The last nigga that I fucked raw, I got ben boozed.

1126
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 2: You got the cramp you got being boozed. I thought

1127
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 2: you caught something. How the fuck well, I thought that's

1128
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:09,360
Speaker 2: what she was saying, clean this swissy squeeze. Oh words,

1129
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 2: nigga mina.

1130
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:15,359
Speaker 3: Like, No, all I'm saying is I got bamboozled. Like

1131
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 3: it was just kind of like I was never planning

1132
00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:20,439
Speaker 3: on fucking him raw. It just ended up being something

1133
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:22,360
Speaker 3: that happened in the moment because we was drunk.

1134
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that happens. But I'm saying, if we continuously are

1135
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:27,920
Speaker 2: fucking raw, but how do you stop? I guess that's

1136
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 2: what I'm trying to Who what's your fucking nigga row?

1137
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: Who the fuck? Like? Oh no, we're about to put

1138
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 1: the cut in the back off? Really?

1139
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:39,360
Speaker 2: Yes? Absolutely? Yeah, absolutely, I imagine.

1140
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:39,919
Speaker 1: You get bamboozled.

1141
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 3: That means every time from now on, we don't have

1142
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 3: to have the conversation we should have had already.

1143
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 2: You know, Rapper band, I feel last time me and

1144
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 2: Rapper Bay he came to Atlanta, I said, we was

1145
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 2: in a moment about the fuck he was about to

1146
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:54,399
Speaker 2: slide it in. I got my ass up drunking all

1147
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 2: and I went to the store and I got some condoms.

1148
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck you've been doing, and

1149
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 2: I've been fucking with this nigga for going on four

1150
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:03,919
Speaker 2: years at that time, I don't fuck with him no more.

1151
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:07,280
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is absolutely, my health comes first.

1152
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:10,359
Speaker 2: I'm never at this point in my life. I'm never

1153
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 2: in that heat of the moment that much anymore. And

1154
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 2: the last dude like I was like constantly fucking raw, like,

1155
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:19,319
Speaker 2: we definitely like because I go to the you know,

1156
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,279
Speaker 2: playing parenthoods right down the street from my house, so

1157
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 2: it's easy for me to go get tested, honestly, so

1158
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 2: when I go get my pat smear, and I actually

1159
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 2: definitely asked him for his test results. Now he got

1160
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 2: to go to the doctor because I think he got

1161
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 2: CTE and that's why he beginning his little test. But

1162
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:43,799
Speaker 2: that's street. But I'm not gonna talk about that too much.

1163
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 2: But definitely, the last nigga like I was fucking raw,

1164
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 2: I saw his test results and he saw mine.

1165
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 1: For sure the last ning it didn't happen with him,

1166
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 1: but it has happened before, and I was just like.

1167
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, you.

1168
00:51:59,480 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 1: Conversation.

1169
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 3: I was just like, God, you gotta be careful, saw too.

1170
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 2: Oh God, Okay, y'all, ladies, we got her. Okay, So

1171
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 2: this topic, what we're saying is stop giving, stop giving

1172
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 2: so much of these niggas because Joe Budden, we love you, Joe,

1173
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 2: but Joe's like what Joe's like what forty two? Joe

1174
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 2: is forty two, and he's telling y'all what the fuck

1175
00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 2: is going on?

1176
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 1: Shout out to a little.

1177
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 2: Son, like y'all, we're gonna get into.

1178
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:40,880
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm getting into my voice that I'm about to

1179
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:41,839
Speaker 3: do because.

1180
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 2: I told you don't have to do a boys, I

1181
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 2: know the topic. Okay, So last week the topic was

1182
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:54,319
Speaker 2: we gave you ready, I'll be ready. So last week,

1183
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 2: I mean, we little tipsy at this point. So last

1184
00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:00,240
Speaker 2: week the topic was sex tips to make sure you

1185
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:04,279
Speaker 2: your pussy is phenomenal to your man. So this week

1186
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:09,319
Speaker 2: we decided because talking during sex is very important. It

1187
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 2: is and being very sexual and talking dirty is very important.

1188
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 2: So I decided that this this episode, I just want

1189
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:23,160
Speaker 2: to do two lines every single every single one of us,

1190
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 2: two lines per person. Two things that you have to

1191
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:30,360
Speaker 2: say during sex that just makes that ship go on

1192
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:31,240
Speaker 2: another level.

1193
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 1: You first God met you. The topic to prepare, I'm

1194
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:39,760
Speaker 1: not actually prepared.

1195
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:44,319
Speaker 2: I'm actually not prepared because I'm just like thinking of

1196
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 2: the moment, so I'm thinking of the last time I

1197
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 2: had sex. So one important thing is you have to

1198
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:53,279
Speaker 2: let that nigga know how much he's turning you on. Okay,

1199
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:56,280
Speaker 2: So one thing I like to do is to grab

1200
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:59,600
Speaker 2: his head and make him look at the you know,

1201
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:02,319
Speaker 2: look at the penetration going on. And I like to

1202
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 2: be like, you see how wet you're making me. Look

1203
00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:10,800
Speaker 2: what you did to me, what you've done me, what

1204
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:17,839
Speaker 2: you've done to me. So you don't say it like that,

1205
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 2: but you'd be like, you see how wet it is.

1206
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 2: You see what you need period. Okay, So that's my

1207
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 2: first line. You gotta let him know, like look at

1208
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 2: the pussy. Look, look look how wet it is. And

1209
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:33,200
Speaker 2: another one that I like to do is especially like

1210
00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 2: when they're hitting that ship and you about the nut,

1211
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:38,800
Speaker 2: you definitely gotta you have to stroke a man's ego,

1212
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 2: so you have to let you have to stroke that

1213
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 2: ego like he's stroking that pussy. So you have to

1214
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 2: let him know this dick feels so good, all that

1215
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 2: shit feels so good.

1216
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:52,839
Speaker 1: That's my favorite line. I actually say that.

1217
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 2: I had a flashback when I said that just now,

1218
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 2: because that's what That's the exact shit I say. I'd

1219
00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:00,240
Speaker 2: be like, oh, that shit feels so good, like this

1220
00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 2: this shit crazy, like this dick feels so good. So

1221
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 2: you have to let them know how good the ship feels.

1222
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 2: So one, let them know how wet your pussy is,

1223
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 2: and two, let them know how good their dick feels.

1224
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:15,800
Speaker 1: So those are my two lines.

1225
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 2: You definitely have to say, why you're fucking somebody?

1226
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna piggyback off of your number two, somebody

1227
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:25,880
Speaker 3: know how good it is. When you let them know

1228
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:27,360
Speaker 3: how good it is, you got to throw in a

1229
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 3: pet name. I personally prefer Zaddy or Daddy. Yes, the name,

1230
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 3: it depends on how fine they are. If they're not

1231
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 3: that fine, but the dick heading right, it's just a

1232
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 3: d If they real.

1233
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:44,359
Speaker 1: Fine, you hit them with the z good pets.

1234
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 3: Yes, and then I also like to get very breathy.

1235
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,960
Speaker 3: And then what what I think really excites the man,

1236
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 3: I'm like.

1237
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 1: Take my phone, I need to watch this get home.

1238
00:55:56,840 --> 00:55:59,320
Speaker 3: You gotta try now before they get over there. Bonus,

1239
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:02,279
Speaker 3: bonus before they come over This is what I say

1240
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:04,080
Speaker 3: every time I want some dig and it usually works.

1241
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:05,319
Speaker 3: I mean a couple of times I had a fail,

1242
00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:07,879
Speaker 3: but usually it works. I just send a simple three words,

1243
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 3: I want you, and they be so surprised because they'd

1244
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:13,640
Speaker 3: be thinking, I'm real, prim and proper, real classy basis

1245
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 3: I am, but now when I be having sex. But yeah,

1246
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:18,680
Speaker 3: you gotta give him the zaddy or the daddy depending

1247
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:19,320
Speaker 3: on the category.

1248
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:22,080
Speaker 1: And then what was that one? I said, pick up

1249
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:23,360
Speaker 1: the phone recorded.

1250
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 3: I love that record this, and then you haven't recorded

1251
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:30,400
Speaker 3: on your phone And if you trust him enough, you

1252
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:31,160
Speaker 3: can send it to him.

1253
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:33,560
Speaker 1: I want to save it for a rainy day. And

1254
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 1: I just sent it to him in the middle of

1255
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:36,560
Speaker 1: the day while he had work looking at stocks.

1256
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 2: I love that. You know, whatever I'm gonna I'm gonna

1257
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 2: use that phone one. Now, I gotta piggyback off. We

1258
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 2: all pay, that is, we all piggybacking off of each other.

1259
00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 2: So I feel like, you know, for my fine biggs.

1260
00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:58,759
Speaker 1: I'd be like k So yeah, of course, you know,

1261
00:56:59,880 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 1: I like should.

1262
00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 3: Be niggas sometimes, okay, so I call my should be niggas.

1263
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:08,840
Speaker 2: Poppa like Papa John, like Big Papa.

1264
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 1: I think about Popa on the shin, so.

1265
00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:13,280
Speaker 2: You with the pet names.

1266
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:15,839
Speaker 3: I'm with the pet names for sure, Like I love

1267
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 3: the pet names. I like to grab niggas ass too.

1268
00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 3: I did that when a missionary because you have far

1269
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:27,400
Speaker 3: grab your ass and like well throw back bag, got

1270
00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 3: a muscle b and then like lick on your.

1271
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 2: Ear and then breathing and real heavily y'all and be

1272
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 2: like older ship feels. So you like to be breathy,

1273
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 2: I like to be So, how do y'all feel about moon?

1274
00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 1: So?

1275
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 2: How do y'all feel about moans? Because I feel like

1276
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 2: from me, from us, because I like a woman is

1277
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 2: supposed to mom. But sometimes because you know, sometimes when

1278
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:57,520
Speaker 2: you're watching poor and women be doing too much, like

1279
00:57:57,560 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 2: I feel like you're like, that's but I feel like

1280
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 2: I feel like it.

1281
00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 1: Can definitely get to a point to where it's too animated. Yeah,

1282
00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 1: but like I feel.

1283
00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 3: Like when you really into the sheep, you don't get

1284
00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 3: today it be bread because trying to catch your mother

1285
00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 3: bro hold on.

1286
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, let me know.

1287
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 3: My second thing that I'll be saying recently in the past,

1288
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:25,320
Speaker 3: in the past year or so, it's nutty me daddy.

1289
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 3: I feel like that's the old fashion. It's very toxic.

1290
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 3: That's the toxic is toxic that's the.

1291
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 1: Mean.

1292
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:38,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm not.

1293
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:39,840
Speaker 1: I haven't said a very long time.

1294
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 2: I haven't said that in a long time either, Am

1295
00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:43,240
Speaker 2: I saying true?

1296
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie.

1297
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 3: I didn't say it for a while, but I started

1298
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:48,600
Speaker 3: saying it recently. The last time I said none of

1299
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 3: me was definitely. But when I say that, sheet I

1300
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 3: mean and I'm prepared for what to come.

1301
00:58:56,520 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 2: Jobs. I don't say that she blindly like I might

1302
00:59:01,160 --> 00:59:03,479
Speaker 2: tell Najeriam Bay nutted me next time, but he really

1303
00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 2: might do it.

1304
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:06,840
Speaker 1: So do y'all tell niggas? Do y'all like to get No?

1305
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 1: I do the last.

1306
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 2: But like I said, the last time I was like

1307
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 2: doing that, that was with uh Rapper Bay. But that

1308
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 2: was when we was really fucking with tough, So I

1309
00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:17,720
Speaker 2: was definitely telling him that nothing was letting him.

1310
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:19,440
Speaker 1: He wasn't even shoot up the club.

1311
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 2: He no, he never did. He will always pull out

1312
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 2: last minute.

1313
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:27,520
Speaker 1: Let me tell you the same things with me.

1314
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 2: We we're not gonna say yes the niggas.

1315
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:32,720
Speaker 1: No.

1316
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:34,160
Speaker 3: I don't want no kids, so I feel like they'd

1317
00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 3: be feeling real comfortable, so usually have to ward them off.

1318
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 2: Yeah me too.

1319
00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 3: Where I've been fucking somebody for a long time and

1320
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 3: I just really enjoy and we already aren't using condents,

1321
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:47,160
Speaker 3: and maybe that time we're not using cond I'll say it,

1322
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:48,240
Speaker 3: but it's rare.

1323
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:50,280
Speaker 1: Y'all have to make.

1324
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 2: A couple of times where I was like, you know,

1325
00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 2: you got to push him off hold on?

1326
00:59:58,600 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, because they be.

1327
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:05,720
Speaker 3: Getting to be ready to excited about it, and oh

1328
01:00:05,800 --> 01:00:08,760
Speaker 3: hell no, because just in case my birth's control don't work,

1329
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 3: you don't have enough. I like to say money and

1330
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 3: me daddy, because I'm very toxic. However, I don't really

1331
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:18,160
Speaker 3: like the niggas to know in me, Like I literally

1332
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 3: it's clearly been like two niggas.

1333
01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 2: Ever, I'm like that ship in my mouth or net

1334
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 2: on my face. Yes my face, my mouth, give me

1335
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 2: the good. Don't let me.

1336
01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to hang old baby, I'm not gonna

1337
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:34,360
Speaker 1: have you. I'm getting real horned.

1338
01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:39,280
Speaker 2: Let's change the topic, please. Yeah, So I got another episode,

1339
01:00:39,640 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So we're gonna get into

1340
01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 2: the item of the wing. So this is something that

1341
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:45,120
Speaker 2: I want to talk about because y'all know that I'm

1342
01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:49,640
Speaker 2: the three dollars queen. Okay, I don't like.

1343
01:00:51,240 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 1: So just wants to sing the song.

1344
01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:54,640
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I don't have to learn it. I'm gonna

1345
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 2: do I was singing next week. So there's this new app.

1346
01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 2: Y'all listen to me. There's this new app. It's called Current,

1347
01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 2: So it's like cash app on steroids. It's real fucking good.

1348
01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 2: So the good thing is like imagine like having a

1349
01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 2: cash app, but like with a bank account. And not

1350
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 2: only that, but they let you like overdraft, like up

1351
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:16,600
Speaker 2: TI one hundred dollars with no fees. Bitch, no fees.

1352
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:19,040
Speaker 1: That's the current time to open an account.

1353
01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:21,760
Speaker 2: Right, So I feel like you Now, I feel like everybody,

1354
01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:23,880
Speaker 2: like everybody has more than one account, Like we all

1355
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:25,600
Speaker 2: have more than one account, but we all have that

1356
01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 2: like some big volume.

1357
01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, like was making my ends smoking Big Killer getting.

1358
01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 2: High in the Being Big Balls Nash, it breaking my

1359
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 2: ends smoking Big Killer getting high in the Being Egg.

1360
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:42,080
Speaker 2: So I feel like Current is a good app because

1361
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 2: it's right directly on your phone. You can hook up

1362
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 2: cash up to it, venmo everything. It's like a normal

1363
01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:53,080
Speaker 2: bank account, but it just has normal benefits. But the

1364
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 2: best thing about it is once you hook up, like

1365
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:59,360
Speaker 2: your direct deposit from your job, you get paid two

1366
01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 2: days earlier. Yes, girls, so I'll be geting my little

1367
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 2: checks earlier.

1368
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:04,360
Speaker 1: Job.

1369
01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, exactly, we for the normal working girls.

1370
01:02:10,400 --> 01:02:14,600
Speaker 2: It works just like cashup posit we direct you can't do.

1371
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:17,479
Speaker 2: But you can't do direct your job.

1372
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:21,760
Speaker 1: It's not available job.

1373
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 2: But yeah, so I like the Current app because, like

1374
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:25,959
Speaker 2: I said, I feel like a lot of people put

1375
01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 2: so much into fucking cash up, and cash Up is

1376
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:30,440
Speaker 2: really trash.

1377
01:02:30,160 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 1: Bro because not Zel is really well, I'll.

1378
01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:43,120
Speaker 2: Say this Zel is an upgrade from cash Up, but

1379
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:47,680
Speaker 2: Current Current it's an upgrade because not only that, with

1380
01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:51,440
Speaker 2: Current you have the bank account. You can do direct deposits.

1381
01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:54,440
Speaker 2: It's a whole and then anything. Once you sign up

1382
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:57,280
Speaker 2: for it, you can get your cards sent directly to

1383
01:02:57,320 --> 01:03:00,320
Speaker 2: you and it'll be to you in like two three days. Yeah,

1384
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:01,960
Speaker 2: so you get a card, you can hook it up

1385
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:03,720
Speaker 2: to your phone, you can use it like a normal

1386
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,960
Speaker 2: bank account. But my main thing is getting that paycheck early,

1387
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,680
Speaker 2: Like as soon as they process your paycheck, it goes

1388
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:10,360
Speaker 2: to me account.

1389
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:11,840
Speaker 1: So shout out to Current.

1390
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:15,000
Speaker 2: Y'all know I had three dollars, but I told y'all

1391
01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 2: earlier the show I got a lot more now and

1392
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:20,520
Speaker 2: it's the shout out to Little Current, so make sure

1393
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 2: yes download y'all. Current account is so list So yeah,

1394
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 2: shout out to a little Current.

1395
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 1: So we're gonna do the bops.

1396
01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 2: Okay, all damn, youn't even let me get off ready,

1397
01:03:38,120 --> 01:03:42,560
Speaker 2: you're still she is horny.

1398
01:03:42,600 --> 01:03:44,680
Speaker 1: She was trying to steal my vibrator that was still

1399
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 1: trying to get picked up later.

1400
01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 2: So okay, so I've been listening to like old school music.

1401
01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 2: We all have this.

1402
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:58,400
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like you might as well listen

1403
01:03:58,440 --> 01:04:01,440
Speaker 3: to the old school She so the other night me

1404
01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 3: he was just sitting here.

1405
01:04:02,720 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 1: At the island, per usual, and I.

1406
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 2: Forgot how much of a bye Views by Drake was

1407
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:13,920
Speaker 2: and that came out in twenty sixteen. Like I can't

1408
01:04:13,960 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 2: even name one specific song because the whole motherfucking.

1409
01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:23,040
Speaker 1: Album was about. So yeah, that's my bout of the week.

1410
01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:28,480
Speaker 3: Views by Drake and Kevin Gates, who one of my

1411
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 3: favorite songs by Kevin Gates.

1412
01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 1: Going up the phone she seen me call Oh God.

1413
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:38,000
Speaker 1: I like that song where he says something like she just.

1414
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:41,960
Speaker 2: Want me from hey, hey my ship don't.

1415
01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:47,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I like to seeing now. The song

1416
01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 1: that I like, I couldn't be like, I ain't gonna lie.

1417
01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 3: This's flisally good and make me feel like stalking of

1418
01:04:52,920 --> 01:04:55,520
Speaker 3: I felt that we now saw.

1419
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:00,760
Speaker 1: But you know a box of the leak.

1420
01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:03,840
Speaker 3: I don't have no like current new box because honestly,

1421
01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 3: you know what the quarantine music?

1422
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:11,040
Speaker 1: Okay, I was trying to look up the name of

1423
01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:14,000
Speaker 1: the song. Okay. My Bop of the Week is the

1424
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 1: hit song by Real Housewives of Atlanta superstar Meaningly.

1425
01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:25,760
Speaker 3: She released you Play Honey or Honey, Yes, Honey, honey yes.

1426
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:27,720
Speaker 1: If you haven't heard, it's still available on.

1427
01:05:27,640 --> 01:05:30,040
Speaker 3: Her Instagram right now. She didn't pay for an ass

1428
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:33,400
Speaker 3: that's it, but she has an ad. It's a I mean,

1429
01:05:33,440 --> 01:05:35,320
Speaker 3: she has a song. It's a dish track.

1430
01:05:36,680 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: Like Diamonds Diamonds.

1431
01:05:39,080 --> 01:05:40,040
Speaker 2: I love she's in.

1432
01:05:40,120 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 3: There was a Lady Luck and she was producing the

1433
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 3: track after she cuts her son out.

1434
01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:49,200
Speaker 2: Lady a rapper and producer's I think Jamaican, right, I don't.

1435
01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:52,240
Speaker 1: Know, but she's done in her thirties. I was trying

1436
01:05:52,240 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 1: to find a song that we might all know. I

1437
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: don't know it. I love this Bop of the Week.

1438
01:05:56,640 --> 01:06:00,120
Speaker 3: I really don't like the song that much, but I

1439
01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:02,160
Speaker 3: like it for what it is because this is this

1440
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:04,360
Speaker 3: is what you do when you're on a reality show.

1441
01:06:04,440 --> 01:06:07,160
Speaker 1: You want to be a queen, messy bitch and you

1442
01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:09,160
Speaker 1: lay a track down and then put it out there.

1443
01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:17,000
Speaker 1: Look at what Kim did but actually did that. I

1444
01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:22,440
Speaker 1: just think we just all stay nini like I I

1445
01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 1: don't stand her.

1446
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 2: But I am. But she actually rapped. She didn't sound

1447
01:06:27,960 --> 01:06:29,800
Speaker 2: bad on the It's not bad.

1448
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:31,200
Speaker 1: It's a very catchy song.

1449
01:06:31,480 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 2: So I have two bops of the week I'm gonna do.

1450
01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do my first one to get it out Madonna.

1451
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:42,960
Speaker 1: I said, I have to locky because we got a home.

1452
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,080
Speaker 2: Y'all gotta hurr up and get to the mail. So

1453
01:06:46,160 --> 01:06:48,400
Speaker 2: my first bop of the week is gonna be really

1454
01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:50,160
Speaker 2: weird for me because I've never had this man. That's

1455
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:52,080
Speaker 2: actually both of my bops a week are gonna be

1456
01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 2: weird for me. My first bop of the week is

1457
01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:58,200
Speaker 2: actually Drake the TSI Slide. I actually like it.

1458
01:06:58,280 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 1: I get thinking about that, but I think that it's

1459
01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:03,000
Speaker 1: a cute little song.

1460
01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 2: I like how in the lyrics he's actually talking about

1461
01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:08,600
Speaker 2: popping niggas, but on the courus he talking about dancing.

1462
01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:11,600
Speaker 2: Drake done, did it again, like you can't deny it.

1463
01:07:11,640 --> 01:07:14,720
Speaker 2: At this point, Drake is in his career where he

1464
01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 2: can rap about taking a piss and it's gonna sell.

1465
01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 2: So I like it. Drake is a genius.

1466
01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 1: Right left for slide left right.

1467
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:30,760
Speaker 2: You. I like it, just be s And my second

1468
01:07:30,920 --> 01:07:33,920
Speaker 2: bop of the week is because I had to humble

1469
01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:38,720
Speaker 2: myself and do this because no, because honestly, whenever I

1470
01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:41,400
Speaker 2: used to talk about this guy, I never had nothing

1471
01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:43,160
Speaker 2: to say about him because I really did not like

1472
01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 2: his music. But everybody knows me, knows that I'm a

1473
01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:51,400
Speaker 2: huge Migos fan. Like I love Migos, yea, I love

1474
01:07:51,680 --> 01:07:54,600
Speaker 2: Shake the Room by pop Smoke recipe pop Smoke.

1475
01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:57,680
Speaker 1: Like that's why you said that because he used to

1476
01:07:57,760 --> 01:08:00,520
Speaker 1: be hating on I don't like music.

1477
01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:07,680
Speaker 2: I still don't, but I love Shaped the Room. I don't,

1478
01:08:08,720 --> 01:08:17,120
Speaker 2: but but I'm telling you Shape the Room.

1479
01:08:17,240 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 1: I love it.

1480
01:08:18,200 --> 01:08:20,679
Speaker 2: It's such a vibe because bitch I bet I shake

1481
01:08:20,760 --> 01:08:21,200
Speaker 2: the Room.

1482
01:08:21,960 --> 01:08:25,080
Speaker 1: I see you with that picture you need.

1483
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:27,479
Speaker 2: I bet I bet I shaped the Room.

1484
01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:28,320
Speaker 1: I will shoot.

1485
01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 2: Okay, So now so those are my bop of the week.

1486
01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:34,760
Speaker 2: Drake to s Slide pop Smoke feature in Quabo Shake

1487
01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:36,960
Speaker 2: the room. So now we're gonna get into the advice

1488
01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:38,960
Speaker 2: of the week. I'm gonna read the first one.

1489
01:08:39,240 --> 01:08:43,040
Speaker 1: Their one yeah so yes, because I don't have my

1490
01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 1: phone carry out.

1491
01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:46,840
Speaker 2: So it's gonna be by I don't know if she

1492
01:08:46,880 --> 01:08:48,640
Speaker 2: wants me to read her name, let me do it.

1493
01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:49,320
Speaker 1: Let me get.

1494
01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:54,080
Speaker 2: This so it says, oh, make sure if you want

1495
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:57,080
Speaker 2: your question answered on the show, it's gonna be ask

1496
01:08:57,320 --> 01:09:01,320
Speaker 2: poor minds at gmail dot com. That's a skpo. You

1497
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:04,599
Speaker 2: are in my mds at gmail dot com. I'm sorry,

1498
01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 2: y'all pick you little okay, so in discreetly, so good afternoon, ladies.

1499
01:09:14,439 --> 01:09:16,599
Speaker 2: I hope y'all are doing well and staying safe as

1500
01:09:16,600 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 2: possible out here in these streets. I have recently been

1501
01:09:19,439 --> 01:09:22,160
Speaker 2: put onto your podcast from an old school mate, and

1502
01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:27,120
Speaker 2: I'm obsessed. I've been being listening to the episodes from

1503
01:09:27,200 --> 01:09:29,479
Speaker 2: the newest to the oldest for the last two weeks.

1504
01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:32,639
Speaker 2: Thank you for the realness, the unending advice, and all

1505
01:09:32,680 --> 01:09:34,479
Speaker 2: of the info on what it is to own our

1506
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:38,360
Speaker 2: womanly zest and all the energy and power it holds. Oh,

1507
01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:41,840
Speaker 2: thank you. I also appreciate that y'all are answering relationship

1508
01:09:41,920 --> 01:09:45,800
Speaker 2: questions that were in my head. Y'all shine light on

1509
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:49,800
Speaker 2: topics that hit home. I have a brief question curiosity

1510
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:55,719
Speaker 2: on masturbating, So it says, Lex, I know you're open

1511
01:09:55,760 --> 01:09:58,760
Speaker 2: about playing with yourself and thoroughly enjoying it, and I

1512
01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:01,960
Speaker 2: feel the same set of The Funny thing to me, though,

1513
01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:06,160
Speaker 2: is when I'm pleasuring myself, it's being banged boom, I'm done.

1514
01:10:06,439 --> 01:10:09,160
Speaker 2: I know exactly where I need to apply pressure and

1515
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:12,080
Speaker 2: motion to bust a quick nut for that quick high

1516
01:10:12,120 --> 01:10:14,840
Speaker 2: feeling is all a girl needs sometimes and I can

1517
01:10:15,040 --> 01:10:17,280
Speaker 2: put and I can keep pushing through the day, or

1518
01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:19,719
Speaker 2: I can relax and lay in my bed for longer.

1519
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 2: What I sometimes wonder is should I show my body

1520
01:10:23,360 --> 01:10:26,040
Speaker 2: more love by taking more time with it instead of

1521
01:10:26,040 --> 01:10:29,519
Speaker 2: being a quickie most time? What are both of your thoughts?

1522
01:10:29,680 --> 01:10:31,800
Speaker 2: Does the duration you do it vary or do you

1523
01:10:31,840 --> 01:10:34,840
Speaker 2: always take your time? Or are you a quickie like me?

1524
01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:38,360
Speaker 2: I feel sometimes we need to practice more self love

1525
01:10:38,439 --> 01:10:41,640
Speaker 2: and take time to caress our body parts and concentrate

1526
01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:44,160
Speaker 2: on how we make ourselves feel as a way of

1527
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:48,920
Speaker 2: self healing and owning our womanhood slash sexuality. Are there

1528
01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:52,880
Speaker 2: any practices you both use? Our advice on process of

1529
01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:56,200
Speaker 2: making your self climax. It's funny. I feel like this

1530
01:10:56,240 --> 01:10:58,040
Speaker 2: is too much to ask, but it's y'all, so it

1531
01:10:58,120 --> 01:11:01,120
Speaker 2: must not be. I hope this was. I love y'all

1532
01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:03,759
Speaker 2: and pray you and your families are safe and sound

1533
01:11:03,840 --> 01:11:08,719
Speaker 2: as possible. Have a great day, Eat your greens, drink water, ginger,

1534
01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:12,080
Speaker 2: lemon tea, and wash your hands with soap and handitizer. Love,

1535
01:11:12,200 --> 01:11:16,880
Speaker 2: Vanessa A Georgia Masers. Okay, so no, that's what she said.

1536
01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:21,080
Speaker 2: He had said hanitizer, hand sanitizer. That's yeah, you said handitized.

1537
01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:24,400
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, so let me say this.

1538
01:11:24,680 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

1539
01:11:25,280 --> 01:11:28,960
Speaker 2: I talked. I talked about this on the past episode.

1540
01:11:29,040 --> 01:11:32,800
Speaker 2: It's very important to not just masturbate to get your

1541
01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:35,640
Speaker 2: nut off. It's very important to masturbate on what you

1542
01:11:35,760 --> 01:11:39,519
Speaker 2: expect in sexual relationships with men. And let me say

1543
01:11:39,600 --> 01:11:42,880
Speaker 2: this because that's what That's how I learned to have

1544
01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:46,720
Speaker 2: orgasms with men. Honestly, when I first started masturbating, I

1545
01:11:46,760 --> 01:11:48,720
Speaker 2: was just masturbating because I didn't I was like, I

1546
01:11:48,720 --> 01:11:52,519
Speaker 2: can't orgasm, Like I was like, I'm broken. But now

1547
01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:54,679
Speaker 2: when I orgasm, I know I can have an orgasm

1548
01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:58,320
Speaker 2: with a man. So definitely, sometimes when i'm masturbating, I

1549
01:11:58,360 --> 01:12:02,360
Speaker 2: take my time, I'm rob with my I'm fantasizing about

1550
01:12:02,360 --> 01:12:04,679
Speaker 2: a man on top of me. I told y'all, whenever

1551
01:12:04,760 --> 01:12:06,880
Speaker 2: i'm really fucking with a nigga and I know we

1552
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:09,200
Speaker 2: about to have sex or I'm about to see him soon,

1553
01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:11,960
Speaker 2: I imagine him. So when I have my orgasm, I

1554
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:14,800
Speaker 2: always say his name when I'm masturbating because it just

1555
01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:16,560
Speaker 2: makes me in tune with him.

1556
01:12:16,600 --> 01:12:18,679
Speaker 1: A little more, and I tell him what I'm doing.

1557
01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 2: So I feel like, you definitely need to do to

1558
01:12:22,040 --> 01:12:24,599
Speaker 2: yourself what you want to be done to you.

1559
01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:28,880
Speaker 1: Right, Does that make sense? I agree? I agree when

1560
01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:30,000
Speaker 1: you have the.

1561
01:12:30,000 --> 01:12:32,600
Speaker 2: Time, Yeah, when you have the time. But sometimes I

1562
01:12:32,640 --> 01:12:36,040
Speaker 2: don't really do be just trying to No, Yeah, I do.

1563
01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:38,280
Speaker 1: This is what I prefer to do in the morning.

1564
01:12:38,400 --> 01:12:40,640
Speaker 1: That's when you do your quick one. Be doing this

1565
01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:43,720
Speaker 1: while I'm here.

1566
01:12:49,360 --> 01:12:51,240
Speaker 3: I feel like me ki ki both. We have not

1567
01:12:51,320 --> 01:12:54,719
Speaker 3: been masturbating as much because we've been like staying together

1568
01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:56,880
Speaker 3: because I've been quarantined with her, so I've been over

1569
01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:59,840
Speaker 3: here at her house, and I definitely haven't been masturbating

1570
01:12:59,880 --> 01:13:01,080
Speaker 3: as much as I normally do.

1571
01:13:02,240 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I can't wait to see a man.

1572
01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:07,320
Speaker 3: But you were like, I mean, if I hear you,

1573
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:13,439
Speaker 3: be like, because yeah, I don't want anybody to hear me. Yeah,

1574
01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:15,960
Speaker 3: not fucking like you can just I mean, if you

1575
01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 3: hear me, you hear me. But I just prefer not

1576
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:20,679
Speaker 3: to do it that way. But in the morning time,

1577
01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:22,760
Speaker 3: that's not I like to do it quick, even if

1578
01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:25,799
Speaker 3: it wasn't quarantine time, like work.

1579
01:13:25,600 --> 01:13:27,160
Speaker 1: Out, I like to do it quick in the morning.

1580
01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:29,320
Speaker 1: Now at night, that's where you can rub on.

1581
01:13:29,320 --> 01:13:31,719
Speaker 3: Your tit in the bathtub and pull out your waterproof

1582
01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:34,479
Speaker 3: toys and your lick and wax and all the extras

1583
01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:36,160
Speaker 3: and figure out what you really like. I do think

1584
01:13:36,160 --> 01:13:38,400
Speaker 3: it's important at some point, even if it's not an

1585
01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:39,519
Speaker 3: everyday thing.

1586
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:41,600
Speaker 1: To figure out what it is that you like that

1587
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:42,800
Speaker 1: somebody else could do.

1588
01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:46,160
Speaker 3: Because sometimes I think girls will use the vibrators and

1589
01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:48,240
Speaker 3: the toys and things to figure out what they like.

1590
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:51,519
Speaker 3: It's like a person could never emulate this. Use the

1591
01:13:51,600 --> 01:13:53,040
Speaker 3: toy as a stand in.

1592
01:13:53,439 --> 01:13:53,639
Speaker 4: Yes.

1593
01:13:53,920 --> 01:13:56,160
Speaker 3: Sometimes, Now, if you ain't got nobody, don't just be

1594
01:13:56,240 --> 01:13:58,320
Speaker 3: running out there hopping on all the dicks because most

1595
01:13:58,320 --> 01:13:58,880
Speaker 3: of them sick.

1596
01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:01,719
Speaker 1: So just get on something that you like and they're.

1597
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:06,280
Speaker 2: Not only that, but you have to your vagina. Your vagina.

1598
01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:10,439
Speaker 2: Your vagina is a muscle. So if you're fucking rubbing

1599
01:14:10,439 --> 01:14:14,160
Speaker 2: that motherfucker and putting these vibrators on high, when you

1600
01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:16,320
Speaker 2: get with the man, you're gonna be so upset. But

1601
01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:18,479
Speaker 2: stop rubbing.

1602
01:14:19,360 --> 01:14:22,519
Speaker 3: I don't know about y'all, but like, it's been times

1603
01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:25,440
Speaker 3: where I've masturbated so much that my pussy.

1604
01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 2: Was Yeah, that's what I say them, stop rubbing your pussy.

1605
01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:33,560
Speaker 1: And I couldn't even know. It's got air pulsations. And

1606
01:14:33,920 --> 01:14:36,200
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, that's nothing on it, it's just hair.

1607
01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:39,400
Speaker 2: I stop putting your vibrators on the highest setting. That's

1608
01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:40,000
Speaker 2: all I'm saying.

1609
01:14:40,240 --> 01:14:43,120
Speaker 1: I don't know about that, but I hear you.

1610
01:14:42,800 --> 01:14:43,519
Speaker 2: All the time.

1611
01:14:43,840 --> 01:14:46,120
Speaker 1: I don't never like mine on the highest city.

1612
01:14:46,040 --> 01:14:49,200
Speaker 2: Sometimes I do when those twikies in the morning. You

1613
01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:50,800
Speaker 2: gotta put it on high and get it going.

1614
01:14:50,920 --> 01:14:52,280
Speaker 1: Go ahead and get it out there, get.

1615
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:52,679
Speaker 2: It out the way.

1616
01:14:52,760 --> 01:14:56,040
Speaker 1: But if it's like, I don't masturbate as much because.

1617
01:14:55,840 --> 01:14:59,000
Speaker 2: I noticed that it was affecting my sex life because

1618
01:14:59,439 --> 01:15:01,920
Speaker 2: I was mastimating so much, I wasn't having an organic

1619
01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:03,639
Speaker 2: I wasn't.

1620
01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:06,559
Speaker 1: But then I realized it was the nigga. It wasn't

1621
01:15:06,560 --> 01:15:08,240
Speaker 1: my toy. So I was like, why am I turning

1622
01:15:08,240 --> 01:15:09,720
Speaker 1: my back on my toy? I need to turn my

1623
01:15:09,760 --> 01:15:16,760
Speaker 1: back on this nigga. What I'm not giving them that ship?

1624
01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:21,920
Speaker 1: I might need to de case of emergency fucking she orgasm?

1625
01:15:22,520 --> 01:15:26,960
Speaker 3: Oh yes, you got get your peels because they're still

1626
01:15:26,960 --> 01:15:29,639
Speaker 3: telling that they have the ones. If your pussies start

1627
01:15:29,680 --> 01:15:33,080
Speaker 3: to sting because you got the BBC people.

1628
01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:35,479
Speaker 1: It's no don't pay age in her. It's no shame

1629
01:15:35,600 --> 01:15:36,920
Speaker 1: that sometimes you fuck the wrong.

1630
01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:41,680
Speaker 3: Sometimes you was using soap and you weren't supposed to

1631
01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:43,719
Speaker 3: and you need to get your pH back balance.

1632
01:15:44,120 --> 01:15:48,160
Speaker 1: So you get those sheet fresh to refresh your girl.

1633
01:15:48,479 --> 01:15:50,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, we need the she fresh, so not that sheet

1634
01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:52,519
Speaker 3: That's what I was saying, that she freshes for it.

1635
01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:54,479
Speaker 1: But I don't want to know why you orgasm if

1636
01:15:54,479 --> 01:15:59,599
Speaker 1: that thing's thing is what Kiki said.

1637
01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:07,760
Speaker 2: So to answer your question, So to answer your question, yes,

1638
01:16:07,800 --> 01:16:10,600
Speaker 2: I definitely Sometimes I do a quick masturbation, but a

1639
01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:13,439
Speaker 2: lot of times, especially now, I take my time with

1640
01:16:13,520 --> 01:16:15,160
Speaker 2: it because I know next time I fuck my man,

1641
01:16:15,280 --> 01:16:15,959
Speaker 2: it's gonna.

1642
01:16:15,720 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 1: Be extra good.

1643
01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:16,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1644
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:18,560
Speaker 1: Just separated, yea separated.

1645
01:16:18,640 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 3: I'm gonna keep it one, honey, to answer the question,

1646
01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:24,280
Speaker 3: I always like we ease mm hmmm.

1647
01:16:27,400 --> 01:16:29,439
Speaker 2: What with mat with math with Matt?

1648
01:16:34,600 --> 01:16:35,479
Speaker 1: No next question?

1649
01:16:36,200 --> 01:16:40,000
Speaker 2: No, let me pull up the next question for you.

1650
01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:44,840
Speaker 1: I got the right one. I got it. Thank you missed?

1651
01:16:45,840 --> 01:16:50,960
Speaker 1: I got it. Okay, help me high ladies.

1652
01:16:51,120 --> 01:16:53,680
Speaker 3: I'm a thirty one year old woman and I've been

1653
01:16:53,720 --> 01:16:55,840
Speaker 3: missing with the man ten years older than me for

1654
01:16:55,880 --> 01:16:56,879
Speaker 3: about three years.

1655
01:16:57,240 --> 01:16:59,960
Speaker 1: He's in the music industry and his network it's thirty new.

1656
01:17:01,040 --> 01:17:04,919
Speaker 3: He's single and very promiscuous, and he has two children already.

1657
01:17:05,560 --> 01:17:09,040
Speaker 2: Anyway, long story short, I found out I'm pregnant with

1658
01:17:09,080 --> 01:17:09,639
Speaker 2: his child.

1659
01:17:10,640 --> 01:17:15,200
Speaker 3: We have, in quotations or had at this point, such

1660
01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:18,360
Speaker 3: an amazing friendship, and I'm the only one he hits

1661
01:17:18,439 --> 01:17:20,360
Speaker 3: up when he comes to my city for work.

1662
01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:22,200
Speaker 1: He doesn't want me to keep it.

1663
01:17:22,640 --> 01:17:25,200
Speaker 3: But to be honest, I never had an abortion before,

1664
01:17:25,479 --> 01:17:28,080
Speaker 3: and I believe I'm too old for that. I also

1665
01:17:28,120 --> 01:17:31,160
Speaker 3: have always wanted a child. If you were in my position,

1666
01:17:32,000 --> 01:17:34,559
Speaker 3: would you kick the baby and hope he comes around later.

1667
01:17:35,360 --> 01:17:37,840
Speaker 3: I know he won't be a debbie dad in terms

1668
01:17:37,840 --> 01:17:40,800
Speaker 3: of finances, but I don't want him to resent our

1669
01:17:40,880 --> 01:17:43,720
Speaker 3: child in the future because he doesn't want him slash her.

1670
01:17:44,280 --> 01:17:49,519
Speaker 1: I could really use your advice. What I'll let you

1671
01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:52,400
Speaker 1: go first, I am said the right one to looking vice.

1672
01:17:53,400 --> 01:17:58,760
Speaker 1: So Hm, I feel like.

1673
01:18:01,360 --> 01:18:03,920
Speaker 3: I don't keep it one hunting with you niggas with

1674
01:18:04,120 --> 01:18:06,720
Speaker 3: money who got money and they want like and you

1675
01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:09,880
Speaker 3: get pregnant or whatever. That's cool, But I never feel

1676
01:18:09,880 --> 01:18:11,320
Speaker 3: like you should keep a nigga child if he.

1677
01:18:11,320 --> 01:18:14,320
Speaker 2: Don't want period. Oh my god, I was so scared

1678
01:18:14,479 --> 01:18:15,439
Speaker 2: you was about to go with this.

1679
01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:18,800
Speaker 1: Why because I don't know, you don't really know me.

1680
01:18:19,280 --> 01:18:23,519
Speaker 1: Oh pick that point you're going to pick the point about.

1681
01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:26,800
Speaker 1: I know he won't be a bad dad, Absolutely not,

1682
01:18:27,040 --> 01:18:29,240
Speaker 1: because I feel like for me.

1683
01:18:29,240 --> 01:18:33,400
Speaker 3: Personally, I don't been in certain situations, but I would

1684
01:18:33,400 --> 01:18:35,280
Speaker 3: never have a baby for a nigga who don't want

1685
01:18:35,320 --> 01:18:36,160
Speaker 3: me to have his baby.

1686
01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:39,320
Speaker 1: And that's just the bottom line. That's how I'm confused.

1687
01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:42,400
Speaker 1: Like y'all don't know. I'm just saying I didn't think

1688
01:18:42,400 --> 01:18:43,760
Speaker 1: that that was the point that you were going to

1689
01:18:43,800 --> 01:18:44,719
Speaker 1: pick talk about.

1690
01:18:44,960 --> 01:18:46,600
Speaker 3: I wouldn't know that was the point that I was

1691
01:18:46,600 --> 01:18:49,120
Speaker 3: gonna pick to talk about. Absolutely, because I feel like

1692
01:18:50,160 --> 01:18:53,599
Speaker 3: if a man, let you know that he not ready

1693
01:18:53,640 --> 01:18:55,760
Speaker 3: to be a father and he not ready to to

1694
01:18:55,840 --> 01:18:56,519
Speaker 3: raise a child.

1695
01:18:56,640 --> 01:18:58,120
Speaker 1: It don't matter if you he doesn't.

1696
01:18:57,920 --> 01:19:00,720
Speaker 3: Want to or he doesn't want a child to specifically

1697
01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:03,880
Speaker 3: a child with you, because that's what he's will and

1698
01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:06,680
Speaker 3: you don't want it's pregnant. So if he does not

1699
01:19:06,840 --> 01:19:10,280
Speaker 3: want a child with you, why have a child for

1700
01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:12,360
Speaker 3: a man who has been very vocal about the fact

1701
01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:13,559
Speaker 3: that he don't want a child with you.

1702
01:19:13,880 --> 01:19:15,920
Speaker 2: And I'll say this, a lot of times people think

1703
01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:18,600
Speaker 2: that having a baby is going to bring y'all closer.

1704
01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:22,720
Speaker 2: Trust me, I have my sister has two kids, and

1705
01:19:23,040 --> 01:19:24,840
Speaker 2: she has a kid by my best friend. Shout out

1706
01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:26,720
Speaker 2: to him because he's an amazing father to both of

1707
01:19:26,760 --> 01:19:29,679
Speaker 2: my nephews. And but that's because they have a connection

1708
01:19:30,080 --> 01:19:33,200
Speaker 2: that has nothing to do with the children. So if

1709
01:19:33,479 --> 01:19:36,120
Speaker 2: y'all already have a connection like that and he's telling

1710
01:19:36,200 --> 01:19:38,240
Speaker 2: you he doesn't want a baby, like when my sister

1711
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:40,040
Speaker 2: told my best friend she was pregnant, he was like,

1712
01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:42,160
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm about to be a daddy like

1713
01:19:42,240 --> 01:19:44,600
Speaker 2: he was. He called me, he was like, bro like

1714
01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:48,519
Speaker 2: so excited. So I feel like we need to get

1715
01:19:48,560 --> 01:19:50,639
Speaker 2: back to understanding that, Yeah, we a bout our bread

1716
01:19:50,680 --> 01:19:52,400
Speaker 2: and we want to run these niggas bands up. But

1717
01:19:52,400 --> 01:19:53,960
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, children are supposed to

1718
01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:56,200
Speaker 2: be made out of love, and they're supposed to be

1719
01:19:56,240 --> 01:19:59,880
Speaker 2: made out of two people that want a child, right

1720
01:20:00,120 --> 01:20:01,519
Speaker 2: and at the end of.

1721
01:20:01,479 --> 01:20:04,879
Speaker 1: The day, most importantly, like when you're pregnant.

1722
01:20:05,479 --> 01:20:08,920
Speaker 3: If you tell a nigga, oh, I'm pregnant, and he's

1723
01:20:09,000 --> 01:20:11,080
Speaker 3: like reaction he is and like, oh my god, I'm

1724
01:20:11,080 --> 01:20:12,200
Speaker 3: so happy like you.

1725
01:20:12,840 --> 01:20:14,040
Speaker 2: And not only that, but money.

1726
01:20:15,000 --> 01:20:17,080
Speaker 1: And I understand that you're thirty one years old and

1727
01:20:17,120 --> 01:20:21,519
Speaker 1: you want a baby. But having a baby with a

1728
01:20:21,560 --> 01:20:24,599
Speaker 1: man who doesn't want it, doesn't want it, we choose.

1729
01:20:24,640 --> 01:20:27,880
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter if he's an industry nigga, it doesn't matter.

1730
01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:29,960
Speaker 3: None of that Shit's like, yeah, you can get that money,

1731
01:20:30,000 --> 01:20:31,479
Speaker 3: you can get that little bit of child support.

1732
01:20:31,720 --> 01:20:37,840
Speaker 1: But to be honest, I have something. Let me step up.

1733
01:20:38,400 --> 01:20:41,599
Speaker 1: Like you said, you know, having a baby. What did

1734
01:20:41,600 --> 01:20:43,599
Speaker 1: you say about having a baby. It's not enough because

1735
01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:44,479
Speaker 1: you want a baby?

1736
01:20:44,720 --> 01:20:48,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, out of love, out of money, whatever the case

1737
01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:50,839
Speaker 3: may be, why you want to have a baby. Sometimes

1738
01:20:50,840 --> 01:20:53,479
Speaker 3: people will tell you that they want you to have

1739
01:20:53,520 --> 01:20:55,559
Speaker 3: a baby. They will tell you they want to come

1740
01:20:55,600 --> 01:20:58,560
Speaker 3: inside of you so that y'all can make a baby together,

1741
01:20:58,720 --> 01:20:59,639
Speaker 3: and they love you and.

1742
01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:01,519
Speaker 1: They'll love you forever. But guess what when.

1743
01:21:01,360 --> 01:21:03,439
Speaker 3: That baby get here and that little niggas start crying,

1744
01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:05,000
Speaker 3: it's a different story.

1745
01:21:05,200 --> 01:21:07,639
Speaker 1: Which sit hits the fan, even if they did want

1746
01:21:07,640 --> 01:21:08,439
Speaker 1: it at one point.

1747
01:21:08,640 --> 01:21:10,680
Speaker 3: Think about how often you've changed your mind about the

1748
01:21:10,680 --> 01:21:12,759
Speaker 3: things that you want in your life, whether it's kids,

1749
01:21:13,200 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 3: a family, marriage, you're nail polished color, whatever you want,

1750
01:21:18,280 --> 01:21:19,840
Speaker 3: you change your mind A lot of times.

1751
01:21:19,880 --> 01:21:21,240
Speaker 1: People change their minds.

1752
01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:23,120
Speaker 3: If a man is telling you now before the baby

1753
01:21:23,160 --> 01:21:25,240
Speaker 3: gets here, when you still have an option, you're writing

1754
01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:27,519
Speaker 3: in so you feel like you have options. If you

1755
01:21:27,560 --> 01:21:29,639
Speaker 3: feel like you have an option, I would honestly say

1756
01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:31,360
Speaker 3: not just because I don't want to have children on

1757
01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:33,559
Speaker 3: my own, because it's too much a fucking headache. But

1758
01:21:34,600 --> 01:21:37,160
Speaker 3: don't do it because you never know how he's going

1759
01:21:37,240 --> 01:21:38,960
Speaker 3: to be. You're saying you know that he'll be an

1760
01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:42,639
Speaker 3: awesome father. He has two other children, like Kersa already.

1761
01:21:42,800 --> 01:21:45,040
Speaker 3: She's pregnant already. But she asked me what she should do,

1762
01:21:45,200 --> 01:21:47,679
Speaker 3: so she still got taught. But y'all, let me speak

1763
01:21:47,960 --> 01:21:50,800
Speaker 3: as someone I will say this, I do agree with that,

1764
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:55,880
Speaker 3: but I am also a person who necessarily not so said,

1765
01:21:55,960 --> 01:21:58,599
Speaker 3: I don't believe in abortions, but luckily I've never been

1766
01:21:58,640 --> 01:22:00,240
Speaker 3: in the position to where I had some make a

1767
01:22:00,280 --> 01:22:04,720
Speaker 3: decision to get one. I just don't know, because an

1768
01:22:04,760 --> 01:22:05,839
Speaker 3: abortion is a big.

1769
01:22:05,680 --> 01:22:09,040
Speaker 2: Decision, is a big decision, is bringing somebody into this world.

1770
01:22:12,439 --> 01:22:14,599
Speaker 2: But let me tell you it's harder. Let me tell

1771
01:22:14,600 --> 01:22:17,320
Speaker 2: you what's harder because I see this shit going on.

1772
01:22:17,680 --> 01:22:20,720
Speaker 2: You know how hard it is for a mom to

1773
01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:23,799
Speaker 2: be dropping you off. This happened to my friend Okay,

1774
01:22:24,160 --> 01:22:26,800
Speaker 2: on the way to drop her son off, and your

1775
01:22:26,880 --> 01:22:29,840
Speaker 2: daddy not answering the phone because he avoiding, y'all. That

1776
01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:33,920
Speaker 2: is much harder to go through. Now to tell your child, oh,

1777
01:22:34,040 --> 01:22:36,400
Speaker 2: daddy can't see you, and you have to make up lies.

1778
01:22:36,680 --> 01:22:39,080
Speaker 2: You're making up lies and lies after lie after lie

1779
01:22:39,160 --> 01:22:42,120
Speaker 2: because you don't want to make their dad seem like

1780
01:22:42,160 --> 01:22:45,519
Speaker 2: a bad person. So growing up this kid is like, oh,

1781
01:22:45,600 --> 01:22:48,000
Speaker 2: he mad at the MoMA, not even realizing yo, daddy

1782
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:51,599
Speaker 2: don't want you. That is much harder. And I'm I'm

1783
01:22:51,640 --> 01:22:53,960
Speaker 2: talking about this because I've seen my I see my

1784
01:22:54,200 --> 01:22:57,600
Speaker 2: friend go through this all the time. Thank God, my

1785
01:22:57,720 --> 01:23:00,240
Speaker 2: nephews don't have to go through that. But what I'm

1786
01:23:00,240 --> 01:23:03,040
Speaker 2: saying is that's a much harder thing to go through

1787
01:23:03,200 --> 01:23:05,480
Speaker 2: than have an abortion, in my opinion.

1788
01:23:05,200 --> 01:23:07,280
Speaker 3: And I've seen it happen with my own family members,

1789
01:23:07,320 --> 01:23:08,560
Speaker 3: family and friends.

1790
01:23:08,200 --> 01:23:11,080
Speaker 1: And it's just like I would never This is where.

1791
01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:14,000
Speaker 3: I come from when I say ended, if you're okay

1792
01:23:14,040 --> 01:23:16,920
Speaker 3: with that ended, because the hurt that I see in

1793
01:23:16,920 --> 01:23:20,519
Speaker 3: a little kid's eyes is the worst ever, whether they

1794
01:23:20,640 --> 01:23:23,280
Speaker 3: know what's going on, I have an idea or totally

1795
01:23:23,280 --> 01:23:27,000
Speaker 3: oblivious when that other parent, whether it's the mom or

1796
01:23:27,080 --> 01:23:29,759
Speaker 3: the daddy, doesn't want to come around, makes up excuse

1797
01:23:29,800 --> 01:23:31,120
Speaker 3: after excuse, big.

1798
01:23:31,120 --> 01:23:35,600
Speaker 1: Questioning stuff I'll never forget. I was younger, probably.

1799
01:23:35,360 --> 01:23:38,519
Speaker 3: Twelve or thirteen, and I grew up with my mother

1800
01:23:38,560 --> 01:23:41,800
Speaker 3: and stepfather being married. My grandfather raised me, then my stepdad.

1801
01:23:41,840 --> 01:23:43,800
Speaker 3: My dad was there, but he wasn't there like that.

1802
01:23:44,200 --> 01:23:47,320
Speaker 3: But my sister's dad was never really there until she

1803
01:23:47,360 --> 01:23:50,120
Speaker 3: got older, and it broke my heart. And I'm just

1804
01:23:50,160 --> 01:23:51,760
Speaker 3: her sister, two years older than her. She was like,

1805
01:23:51,800 --> 01:23:53,719
Speaker 3: why does here have three daddies and I have two?

1806
01:23:54,000 --> 01:23:56,000
Speaker 3: Because there were all these different men in my life,

1807
01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:58,160
Speaker 3: but she knew that she was missing that other person,

1808
01:23:58,479 --> 01:24:01,920
Speaker 3: and as much love and affection and everything that you

1809
01:24:01,960 --> 01:24:03,800
Speaker 3: can give to a child. They will miss that if

1810
01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:05,639
Speaker 3: the dad is not there. And even if the dad

1811
01:24:05,760 --> 01:24:07,280
Speaker 3: is there, do you really want to be fighting with

1812
01:24:07,360 --> 01:24:10,040
Speaker 3: him over that? And you know, I know why you

1813
01:24:10,040 --> 01:24:13,240
Speaker 3: brought up the money. Well, I don't consider the money

1814
01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:16,640
Speaker 3: because guess what, No matter how good of a financial

1815
01:24:16,680 --> 01:24:20,360
Speaker 3: decision of financial advisors and everything that somebody has, somebody

1816
01:24:20,439 --> 01:24:23,120
Speaker 3: can always make a mistake. Somebody can always make a

1817
01:24:23,160 --> 01:24:25,519
Speaker 3: bad choice. They can always make a bad investment and

1818
01:24:25,560 --> 01:24:27,400
Speaker 3: lose it off. Don't bake on that money and let

1819
01:24:27,439 --> 01:24:29,479
Speaker 3: me That's why I think I want to kind of

1820
01:24:29,560 --> 01:24:32,960
Speaker 3: chime into it, because you know, I kind of grew

1821
01:24:33,040 --> 01:24:35,400
Speaker 3: up in a situation where I don't know if I've

1822
01:24:35,680 --> 01:24:38,200
Speaker 3: been super vocal with our listeners about the facts that

1823
01:24:38,280 --> 01:24:41,760
Speaker 3: you know, I'm adopted, so my parents that raise me

1824
01:24:41,800 --> 01:24:44,880
Speaker 3: are not my biological parents, and I kind of always

1825
01:24:44,920 --> 01:24:48,679
Speaker 3: had an issue with the fact that I didn't really

1826
01:24:48,680 --> 01:24:51,519
Speaker 3: know my dad and that I felt like he didn't

1827
01:24:51,520 --> 01:24:54,120
Speaker 3: never really try to have a relationship with me. So

1828
01:24:54,200 --> 01:24:59,280
Speaker 3: that really really bothered me. And yeah, I just feel

1829
01:24:59,320 --> 01:25:01,800
Speaker 3: like it took a time on my life. It's just

1830
01:25:01,920 --> 01:25:04,720
Speaker 3: an adult and everything and how I move in relationships

1831
01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:07,200
Speaker 3: and all of that, and then now being an adult.

1832
01:25:07,280 --> 01:25:10,680
Speaker 3: You know, I did end up meeting somebody in the

1833
01:25:10,720 --> 01:25:13,360
Speaker 3: past few years while I've been living in Atlanta who

1834
01:25:13,439 --> 01:25:14,400
Speaker 3: actually wanted me to.

1835
01:25:14,360 --> 01:25:17,120
Speaker 1: Have a child, and I wasn't ready because I just

1836
01:25:18,200 --> 01:25:21,000
Speaker 1: literally was not ready at the time.

1837
01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:26,880
Speaker 3: But I just feel like, I don't know, Like I

1838
01:25:26,920 --> 01:25:29,040
Speaker 3: just feel like if you not, if a nigga is

1839
01:25:29,080 --> 01:25:31,040
Speaker 3: not ready to be a dad, you don't.

1840
01:25:31,160 --> 01:25:32,680
Speaker 1: You should never want to put a man in.

1841
01:25:32,640 --> 01:25:35,880
Speaker 3: A position to have to take on that responsibility when

1842
01:25:35,920 --> 01:25:38,679
Speaker 3: he's not ready to do that. It should only be

1843
01:25:38,680 --> 01:25:41,320
Speaker 3: because a man is ready to be a dad that

1844
01:25:41,439 --> 01:25:43,080
Speaker 3: he should be in a position to be a dad,

1845
01:25:43,160 --> 01:25:45,400
Speaker 3: Like you shouldn't be because of a monetary sheet.

1846
01:25:45,479 --> 01:25:46,760
Speaker 1: And I'm only speaking to you.

1847
01:25:48,240 --> 01:25:51,200
Speaker 2: I don't know, Like I said, I just get a

1848
01:25:51,240 --> 01:25:53,479
Speaker 2: little weird about speaking about stuff like this. I feel

1849
01:25:53,479 --> 01:25:56,280
Speaker 2: like lex is definitely way more transparent than I.

1850
01:25:56,200 --> 01:25:59,439
Speaker 3: Am sometimes on the show. But I have been in

1851
01:25:59,439 --> 01:26:02,840
Speaker 3: a position where I could have had a baby for

1852
01:26:02,920 --> 01:26:05,160
Speaker 3: somebody who had a lot of money, and I just

1853
01:26:06,040 --> 01:26:06,960
Speaker 3: felt like it wasn't the.

1854
01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:09,800
Speaker 2: Right time, right And I'm glad that you can tell

1855
01:26:09,840 --> 01:26:13,080
Speaker 2: her because you're in that position to tell her that

1856
01:26:13,240 --> 01:26:18,680
Speaker 2: from the right, but I can tell you it from

1857
01:26:18,840 --> 01:26:23,559
Speaker 2: a child. I can talk about it from a child's perspective,

1858
01:26:23,600 --> 01:26:26,200
Speaker 2: and I'm not going to get emotional. But when I

1859
01:26:26,280 --> 01:26:28,360
Speaker 2: was younger, my dad passed away. When I was younger,

1860
01:26:29,280 --> 01:26:32,840
Speaker 2: my mom got a relationship with somebody who said that

1861
01:26:32,880 --> 01:26:35,400
Speaker 2: he wanted to step in and be a father to us,

1862
01:26:35,479 --> 01:26:38,400
Speaker 2: and this and that, and you know, when shit got

1863
01:26:38,439 --> 01:26:41,920
Speaker 2: tough between our relationship. My sister was never in on it.

1864
01:26:42,000 --> 01:26:44,120
Speaker 2: She was never okay with calling him dad. But I

1865
01:26:44,160 --> 01:26:46,120
Speaker 2: was younger, I was little, So I started calling this

1866
01:26:46,200 --> 01:26:49,599
Speaker 2: man dad and he was like, oh, I'm okay with it.

1867
01:26:49,800 --> 01:26:51,320
Speaker 2: And then it got to the point to where they

1868
01:26:51,320 --> 01:26:54,120
Speaker 2: broke up and he was like, he didn't want to

1869
01:26:54,160 --> 01:26:54,920
Speaker 2: see me no more.

1870
01:26:55,520 --> 01:26:59,559
Speaker 1: He didn't want to see us no more. And that's

1871
01:26:59,640 --> 01:27:01,200
Speaker 1: kind of make you want to hit a nigga with

1872
01:27:01,240 --> 01:27:01,960
Speaker 1: a carry, And.

1873
01:27:01,920 --> 01:27:06,680
Speaker 2: That's the type of so to get back into it,

1874
01:27:06,680 --> 01:27:09,760
Speaker 2: it's like growing up, I was I was mad at

1875
01:27:09,760 --> 01:27:13,759
Speaker 2: my mom because my mom decided to protect him because

1876
01:27:13,800 --> 01:27:14,799
Speaker 2: she didn't want us.

1877
01:27:14,640 --> 01:27:17,000
Speaker 1: To hate men or hate him.

1878
01:27:17,640 --> 01:27:21,439
Speaker 2: And it wasn't until I was in junior high I

1879
01:27:21,520 --> 01:27:24,080
Speaker 2: was realizing how much of a shit person he was

1880
01:27:24,560 --> 01:27:28,000
Speaker 2: because his actual family members started coming to me and

1881
01:27:28,040 --> 01:27:30,280
Speaker 2: telling me like, it was never your fault, it was

1882
01:27:30,280 --> 01:27:33,400
Speaker 2: in Jazzma's fault, and this and that. And it's funny

1883
01:27:33,400 --> 01:27:36,200
Speaker 2: because when I got into high school and my sister

1884
01:27:36,240 --> 01:27:38,840
Speaker 2: has graduated, she was doing her thing. I was good

1885
01:27:38,840 --> 01:27:41,519
Speaker 2: at volleyball. I was on the news all the time,

1886
01:27:41,920 --> 01:27:44,599
Speaker 2: and he popped up to my volleyball game girl and

1887
01:27:44,760 --> 01:27:47,360
Speaker 2: was like, oh, yeah, this is my daughter. And then

1888
01:27:48,760 --> 01:27:50,360
Speaker 2: and this is the point, I will never forget this

1889
01:27:50,400 --> 01:27:52,599
Speaker 2: till the day I die, because I've told my friends.

1890
01:27:52,600 --> 01:27:55,360
Speaker 2: At this point, I'm seventeen, so I'm telling my friends, yeah,

1891
01:27:55,400 --> 01:27:57,920
Speaker 2: my dad passed away cause I didn't even I haven't

1892
01:27:57,920 --> 01:28:00,360
Speaker 2: seen you since I was seven, And then you up

1893
01:28:00,360 --> 01:28:03,360
Speaker 2: at my game like you're my dad, and he wanted

1894
01:28:03,400 --> 01:28:05,360
Speaker 2: to be like, oh yeah, this is my daughter now,

1895
01:28:05,600 --> 01:28:08,479
Speaker 2: and I was like, I was so embarrassed because my

1896
01:28:08,479 --> 01:28:10,479
Speaker 2: friends were like, oh, I thought your dad died, Like

1897
01:28:10,560 --> 01:28:14,160
Speaker 2: who is this? You know? So I feel like you

1898
01:28:14,200 --> 01:28:20,800
Speaker 2: cannot give that man, any man, any power over your

1899
01:28:20,880 --> 01:28:24,920
Speaker 2: child's life. You have to have somebody involved that wants

1900
01:28:24,960 --> 01:28:26,439
Speaker 2: to be there and understands it.

1901
01:28:26,479 --> 01:28:27,639
Speaker 1: I guess that's what I'm trying.

1902
01:28:27,479 --> 01:28:30,120
Speaker 3: To say, yeah, but it's not even to me about

1903
01:28:30,240 --> 01:28:34,160
Speaker 3: giving somebody power over your child. It's just more so

1904
01:28:34,439 --> 01:28:36,360
Speaker 3: like I'm gonna keep it one honey with you, because,

1905
01:28:36,400 --> 01:28:38,800
Speaker 3: like I said, I was literally in a position where

1906
01:28:38,800 --> 01:28:41,439
Speaker 3: it's like I had just met somebody and they wanted

1907
01:28:41,479 --> 01:28:42,840
Speaker 3: me to have a kid for them, and I was

1908
01:28:42,920 --> 01:28:46,479
Speaker 3: not ready because I just literally was not ready. But

1909
01:28:46,520 --> 01:28:48,719
Speaker 3: it's like if I wanted to do it for monetary gain,

1910
01:28:48,840 --> 01:28:51,040
Speaker 3: I could a dead this sheep. Having a baby for

1911
01:28:51,200 --> 01:28:52,360
Speaker 3: money is never.

1912
01:28:52,160 --> 01:28:52,679
Speaker 2: The right way.

1913
01:28:52,720 --> 01:28:55,599
Speaker 3: It's never deciding to bring a child into the world. Like,

1914
01:28:55,800 --> 01:28:57,759
Speaker 3: if you're going to bring a child into the world,

1915
01:28:58,000 --> 01:29:00,400
Speaker 3: it needs to be for the right reason, and the

1916
01:29:00,479 --> 01:29:04,519
Speaker 3: right reasons being you really care about these persons, they

1917
01:29:04,640 --> 01:29:07,599
Speaker 3: really care about you, or like not trying to be funny,

1918
01:29:07,600 --> 01:29:09,800
Speaker 3: but just on some real she like y'all just kind

1919
01:29:09,800 --> 01:29:10,920
Speaker 3: of ended up sleeping up you.

1920
01:29:11,400 --> 01:29:14,040
Speaker 1: Well, I just because if she end up happening, you

1921
01:29:14,040 --> 01:29:14,840
Speaker 1: can't control this.

1922
01:29:15,040 --> 01:29:17,000
Speaker 3: I just feel like you need to have a baby

1923
01:29:17,040 --> 01:29:20,320
Speaker 3: with somebody, and like it's for a monetary game, like

1924
01:29:20,360 --> 01:29:21,120
Speaker 3: that's on weekends.

1925
01:29:21,200 --> 01:29:24,080
Speaker 2: I just feel like it needs to be a decision

1926
01:29:24,720 --> 01:29:26,160
Speaker 2: that y'all make together.

1927
01:29:26,040 --> 01:29:28,679
Speaker 1: Because I feel like it ain't gonna go right.

1928
01:29:30,280 --> 01:29:32,639
Speaker 2: Like I said, it just needs to be a decision

1929
01:29:32,640 --> 01:29:33,479
Speaker 2: that y'all made together.

1930
01:29:33,680 --> 01:29:36,599
Speaker 1: She's pregnant now, don't want to be you don't want

1931
01:29:36,640 --> 01:29:38,560
Speaker 1: to be a fatherly.

1932
01:29:37,800 --> 01:29:39,760
Speaker 3: I think you need to cancel this or prepare to

1933
01:29:39,800 --> 01:29:42,120
Speaker 3: be a I don't want to necessarily tell her you

1934
01:29:42,360 --> 01:29:47,720
Speaker 3: have to get an abortion, be prepared. I feel like

1935
01:29:47,760 --> 01:29:50,000
Speaker 3: you need to do. But definitely you need to plan

1936
01:29:50,560 --> 01:29:51,520
Speaker 3: your life.

1937
01:29:51,880 --> 01:29:52,960
Speaker 1: Because I'll just say this.

1938
01:29:53,040 --> 01:29:55,960
Speaker 2: I'll just say this, action speak louder than words, because

1939
01:29:55,960 --> 01:29:58,000
Speaker 2: a man, a man will tell you a lot of things.

1940
01:29:58,280 --> 01:29:59,680
Speaker 2: You see a lot of times men'll be like, oh,

1941
01:29:59,680 --> 01:30:01,280
Speaker 2: I'm real to be a daddy, and then when the

1942
01:30:01,280 --> 01:30:03,519
Speaker 2: shit comes down to it, they disappear. Because that's what

1943
01:30:03,560 --> 01:30:05,800
Speaker 2: I felt what happened in my mom's situation. So I

1944
01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:08,320
Speaker 2: feel like, unless y'all are married and y'all are in

1945
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Speaker 2: this for the long haul, and he's like you sure

1946
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Speaker 2: about what it is at the end of the day,

1947
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Speaker 2: it needs to be something that you're sure about that

1948
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Speaker 2: you were sure about that. So if something happens like

1949
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Speaker 2: when my dad had me and my sister, he if

1950
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Speaker 2: he could be here for us, he would be That

1951
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Speaker 2: wasn't his choice that he's not here, you know what

1952
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Speaker 2: I'm saying. So whenever she decided to bring this man

1953
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Speaker 2: in our lives, she didn't even want to introduce us

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Speaker 2: to him. He put it on hisself and then he

1955
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Speaker 2: couldn't handle that pressure. So it's like, you have to

1956
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Speaker 2: have somebody in your life that you are sure that

1957
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Speaker 2: wants to be a father.

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Speaker 1: Oh, and I take.

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Speaker 3: That shit very seriously to what I'm glad we speak

1960
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Speaker 3: on these cause I feel like I don't know about you,

1961
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Speaker 3: but like sometimes on like Twitter and like Instagram and

1962
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Speaker 3: SASU when I go on live, and i'd be a

1963
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Speaker 3: lot of questions about like being a parent or like

1964
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Speaker 3: when am I gonna start a family and all that

1965
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Speaker 3: type of stuff.

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Speaker 1: Because I so you know, I'm not like in my

1967
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Speaker 1: younger twenties and she anymore. So I feel like I

1968
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Speaker 1: get a lot of questions about she like that.

1969
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Speaker 3: It's just like I just really be wanting people to know,

1970
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Speaker 3: like I take I definitely want to have kids, but

1971
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Speaker 3: I take being a parent and like bringing another life

1972
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Speaker 3: into the world seriously. So I really be thinking about

1973
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Speaker 3: that she deeply. And I think a lot of y'all

1974
01:31:22,560 --> 01:31:25,040
Speaker 3: should too, Like you shouldn't be bringing our child into

1975
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Speaker 3: the world from money, teary game and if you don't

1976
01:31:27,680 --> 01:31:30,240
Speaker 3: know what type of father these things as I like

1977
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Speaker 3: fucking text message and said we are recording to come

1978
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Speaker 3: in quiet.

1979
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Speaker 1: Like to me, that's just kind of some some weaksh

1980
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Speaker 1: it really is.

1981
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Speaker 3: And I just feel like that's the wrong reason to

1982
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Speaker 3: bring a child into the world.

1983
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Speaker 1: That she's ever about.

1984
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Speaker 3: Money, right, I definite, you know what I mean, And

1985
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Speaker 3: especially just seeing how emotional that you.

1986
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Speaker 2: Oh, absolutely, because growing up I never wanted anything like

1987
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Speaker 2: my my my dad. Whenever he passed away, he make

1988
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Speaker 2: sure my mom was straight. She ain't never wanted for nothing.

1989
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Speaker 2: It was never let me say, but that's why I said.

1990
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Speaker 2: It still wasn't enough.

1991
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Speaker 1: Sure it was straight, but like just the fact of

1992
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Speaker 1: you not having.

1993
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Speaker 3: That meal, That's what I'm saying. There was like a

1994
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Speaker 3: whole other things to have to deal with.

1995
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Speaker 2: Yeah, That's what I'm saying. So it's like, you can

1996
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Speaker 2: have all the money in the world, but till the

1997
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Speaker 2: day I die, I'm always gonna wonder like how my

1998
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Speaker 2: life would have been if my daddy was alive.

1999
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

2000
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Speaker 3: No man, I don't want no man to father a

2001
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Speaker 3: child for me that I feel like it's not gonna

2002
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Speaker 3: really be there active and in his life or her life.

2003
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's the answer.

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Speaker 2: Girl.

2005
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Speaker 3: We're a little emotional because kind of got daddy issues

2006
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Speaker 3: to a certain exty, I definitely know.

2007
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Speaker 1: So let me go ahead of them. Yeah, we're gonna

2008
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Speaker 1: talk about.

2009
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Speaker 2: That on another show, so make sure y'all no, yeah,

2010
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Speaker 2: because we're at an hour and thirty at this moment,

2011
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Speaker 2: so if y'all emailed us, we're definitely gonna get to

2012
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Speaker 2: that next week. Make sure y'all go purchase the merchandise.

2013
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Speaker 2: We have poor Minds, shirts, phone cases, glasses, mugs, all

2014
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Speaker 2: that good stuff. So make sure y'all go get y'all's

2015
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Speaker 2: merch Thank you so much, Thank y'all for having me.

2016
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Speaker 2: Thank you exactly. And make sure y'all check out cocktails

2017
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Speaker 2: every Wednesday.

2018
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Speaker 1: Every Thursday, y'all.

2019
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Speaker 3: Sometimes we say Wednesday on SoundCloud, but I think that's

2020
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Speaker 3: because they're based in the UK or some ship or something,

2021
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Speaker 3: so they'll say Wednesday our episode Thursday.

2022
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Speaker 1: Don't hurt? Can you be sting you? Please?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

2024
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Speaker 3: Go ahead, go ahead, it's so hard, so okay, but yeah,

2025
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Speaker 3: please check out cocktails every week. We also have actually

2026
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Speaker 3: been uploading bonus contents to Patreon Dread.

2027
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Speaker 1: Oh well, we got to record some of dread and

2028
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Speaker 1: hopefully I get let to do.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I've got games, I've got I got got I

2030
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Speaker 3: got fun stuff to do. But I do want to

2031
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Speaker 3: do some bonus stuff with them and with other people

2032
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Speaker 3: friends in my life and all that.

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Speaker 1: And then also check out she organism.

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Speaker 3: Just make sure you use my Cokiki said so until

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Speaker 3: they get their own, so I keep my.

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Speaker 1: Money and you can get your nut.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Amen, thank y'all so much. We hopefully that we've

2038
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Speaker 2: been entertaining y'all during this quarantine. And make sure y'all

2039
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Speaker 2: share this. Thank y'all for sharing it with your friends

2040
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Speaker 2: and your family and everything. And we'll see y'all next week. No,

2041
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Speaker 2: go ahead, take us out with a song. I don't

2042
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Speaker 2: have no song to sing. You don't have no dude,

2043
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Speaker 2: because you oh sing, baddy, you gonna hurt your bad

2044
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Speaker 2: I'm dragging all them bad like that.

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Speaker 5: Hey, I guess nobody ever told you hire you us?

2046
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Speaker 2: Home? Is you?

2047
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Speaker 1: Is you?

2048
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Speaker 2: Is you?

2049
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Speaker 1: Who?

2050
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Speaker 5: One day all them bag is gonna get in your way.

2051
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Speaker 5: One day, autum bags gonna get in your way so

2052
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Speaker 5: tack clic.

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Speaker 2: Why Next Week by