WEBVTT - Gavin a Good Time Part 2 0:00:00.920 --> 0:00:04.360 This is How Men Think with Brooks Like and Gavin 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:09.080 DeGraw and I heard radio podcast. Welcome to another episode 0:00:09.080 --> 0:00:11.360 of How Men Think. My name is Brooks, Like, Yes 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:14.360 it is? And your name good sir, just co host, 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:18.040 Mr Mr Gavin DeGraw. What's your middle name? What's your 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:24.680 middle name? Um? It rhymes with name name lame dame, 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:31.760 nailed it. That's Gavin. That's our producer. What is your 0:00:31.760 --> 0:00:35.120 middle name? How come I don't know this? Shane Gavin, 0:00:35.240 --> 0:00:41.400 Shane de Graw, Shane doesn't run with name, okay, but 0:00:41.520 --> 0:00:47.960 singer songwriter. Yeah, it's a soft ru My middle name 0:00:48.000 --> 0:00:51.760 is Brooks. Oh yeah, your first name is something else. 0:00:51.800 --> 0:00:54.080 We know this and so that's perfect because it's just 0:00:54.760 --> 0:00:57.960 boss like, I love very easy. Makes you really like 0:00:58.040 --> 0:01:01.080 the name Brooks? Producer Dan, what is it? What is it? 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:04.920 Evan Brooks like because we've had the book Flights for you. Yeah, 0:01:04.920 --> 0:01:07.640 no kidding. My very first name is Evan, but you 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:12.760 can call me Brooks keV. Let's call you ev True story. 0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:14.200 When I was in like grade three, I changed my 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:16.080 name to Evan for like a week. I was like, mom, 0:01:16.480 --> 0:01:17.720 I was going through I think I went through like 0:01:17.760 --> 0:01:20.319 an identity crisis grade three because I changed my name 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:22.039 from Brooks. I was like, Mom, I want you to 0:01:22.040 --> 0:01:24.640 call me Evan. And I also changed from wanting to 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:26.880 be a professional hockey player to wanting to be a 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:29.320 professional tennis player. Why did you go by Brooks? By 0:01:29.319 --> 0:01:33.160 the way, true story. My dad's favorite baseball player was 0:01:33.200 --> 0:01:36.080 Brooks Robinson, and he thought he'd he'd love you more 0:01:36.120 --> 0:01:37.720 if he went by Brooks. I don't know, and so 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:40.520 he wanted to call me Brooks, and my mom wanted 0:01:40.520 --> 0:01:44.319 the name Evan, and they thought that Evan Brooks sounded 0:01:44.360 --> 0:01:47.360 better than Brooks even who wouldn't fight Evan or Brooks 0:01:47.680 --> 0:01:52.280 Brooks stuffer Evans Evan sounds a little more studious. But 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:54.240 true story, So I don't want to have a spelling 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:58.720 be against him. Do you know who Brooks Robinson is? 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:00.680 Do you know who? He was? Hall of Fame third 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:03.800 baseman for the Baltimore Orioles. He was my dad's favorite 0:02:03.800 --> 0:02:05.760 baseball player back in the day when my dad was 0:02:05.760 --> 0:02:08.320 in in school, he used to take a radio into 0:02:08.320 --> 0:02:12.120 class and listen to the Baltimore Oriole games, and Brooks Robinson, 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:15.480 oddly enough, was his favorite baseball player. Like this is 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:19.360 in like the sixties and uh he my dad said. 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:21.560 I was like, what, what did you love about Brooks Robinson. 0:02:21.600 --> 0:02:24.280 He's like, I loved his approach to the game. And 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:26.200 I was like, what, this is really interesting. And then 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:28.680 I got to meet Brooks and I got to throw 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:30.919 at the first pitch at Camden Yards in Baltimore, and 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:34.280 I got to meet Brooks and he was he was awesome. 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:36.520 I phoned my dad right after. It was like, Brooks 0:02:36.639 --> 0:02:39.079 Robinson is one of the most humble men I've ever met. 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:41.920 And he signed a bat for me. Said two, Brooks 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:44.760 honored to meet you. See you soon, Brooks Robinson Hall 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:47.600 of Fame. Three. He was inducted into the Hall of Fame, 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:50.280 which was the year I was born. That's amazing. There 0:02:50.280 --> 0:02:52.640 you go. I just made that whole intro about me. 0:02:53.320 --> 0:03:01.600 That's amazing. Next time someone who cares. I had to 0:03:01.639 --> 0:03:04.639 feel some space today. I had to feel some space 0:03:05.080 --> 0:03:10.519 because GAV guess what mission? Mission, beautiful story, mission accomplished, Buddy. 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:13.560 I think we should high five. We finally accomplished our mission. 0:03:13.639 --> 0:03:17.760 Have you washed your hands first? Huh? No flue season? Okay, no, 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:23.240 our secret mission of getting rid of Rick secret mission. 0:03:23.480 --> 0:03:28.840 Ryan Dmitri are these guys today we're missing our other 0:03:28.880 --> 0:03:31.120 three dudes, Rick, Ryan and Dmitri are not here, so 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:33.919 producer amys in with us. But this is I think 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:36.760 the first show that you and I have ever done 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:40.240 just solo. Is that is that true? Yeah, because we've 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:41.960 always when it just was the two of you, we 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:45.880 had like Freddie Prince, Yeah, we had a guess Yeah. Yeah. 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:52.040 So finally, Buddy, we did it Boris on this radio island. Yeah. 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:54.560 So that means I have to do even more lifting 0:03:54.560 --> 0:03:58.080 on this show because by all means have at it. 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:00.680 But today we're doing. Today, we're doing one of my 0:04:00.720 --> 0:04:03.360 favorite things we've ever done. About a month and a 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:06.040 half or two months ago, whatever it was, we did 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:12.960 an episode called Gavin A Good Time So creative I love. 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:15.960 And what we did is we took all our listener questions, 0:04:16.320 --> 0:04:18.039 we printed them out, we cut them up, and we 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:20.080 put him in a hat and then we drew from 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:22.960 the hat. And there were two rules when we played 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:25.240 this game. There were two rules. The first rule you 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:29.400 cannot skip a question. Whatever question you draw, you cannot skip. 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:31.760 And the second rule is you have to be honest. 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:34.120 And it was amazing. That was when we got done 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:37.520 that podcast. I don't even if you remember it. Um, 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:39.640 we all like high five and fifth bump right after 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:41.839 we'd like, damn it, that was amazing. We had some 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:46.280 amazing value today and the listener questions were awesome. So 0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:49.120 this is round two of Gavin A Good Time or 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:53.680 if you guys had any other I call it come 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:55.720 to things, maybe we should do Evan a Good Time. 0:04:57.680 --> 0:05:00.839 We could do something close to that. Amy, do you 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:03.440 want to lead this up? Okay? Amy? So, Amy, you 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:06.400 are the judge, jury and court martial and all of this. 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:09.760 You are. You are the host of this, So you 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:12.160 dictate who gets the question because you're pulling them out 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:14.719 of the hat. You both get them. Well, who's this leader? 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:18.160 Who's who's first one? Who are you leading? With you? Okay? 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:22.000 So I can't pass on this. There's no pass Okay, 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:27.279 dating than breaking up, then reuniting years later and getting 0:05:27.320 --> 0:05:31.839 back together. Thoughts, can it be better the second time around? Sure? 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:36.159 I've never done that in my life. I've never ever 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:38.520 done that, But sure, why couldn't it be? I think 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:40.360 you change as humans. I think you have a great 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:44.600 foundation of Uh, there's some history there. Um, there's obviously 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:47.560 some fond memories. There was attraction for one purpose or 0:05:47.760 --> 0:05:50.320 for whatever purpose at some point in time, and then 0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:52.360 maybe it just wasn't the right time of your lives. 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:56.000 Maybe the attraction is there, but maybe individually and as 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:58.280 a couple, you just weren't mature enough you had ever 0:05:58.320 --> 0:05:59.880 at the right phase of your life to really under 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:04.080 stand and also have the ability to communicate what you want, 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:06.680 because I think I think that goes overlooked, is that 0:06:07.279 --> 0:06:10.320 what you want in life needs to be communicated, and 0:06:10.360 --> 0:06:13.200 sometimes we just lack the skill or ability to properly 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:17.120 communicate or even process what thoughts we have. And so, um, 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:20.920 maybe these people have evolved, grown matured and then come 0:06:20.960 --> 0:06:23.320 back into each other's lives at the appropriate time. So 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:30.120 I'm all for it, Shane. Yes, Mr Shane, what do 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:33.600 you said? I couldn't agree more. I think that's so 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:37.279 well said. Um yeah, coming back into someone's life. I 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:39.080 think that second time around is great, but you know, 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:43.240 a third time is the charm? Really, guys, Okay, I 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:46.760 won't go back in it doesn't work that second time. 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:49.400 Go back the third time when you really got it 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:52.440 together and be like, all right, I think this is Legitimately. 0:06:53.000 --> 0:06:56.039 We can't live like this, we like each other. Yes, 0:06:56.120 --> 0:06:58.320 I'll tell you a quick story. So Tanya rad our friend, 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:00.640 Tanya Rab, that host scrubbing in love telling you her 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:03.039 parents were married. I forget for how many years? Let's 0:07:03.040 --> 0:07:10.360 say fifteen years, divorced for ten years, remarried each other, 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:13.480 have been back together and completely in love for another 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:18.520 ten years, like better the second time around? Even they 0:07:18.520 --> 0:07:21.800 split up again yet and I don't think they will. 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:28.000 Next question, why do guys constantly rest their hands in 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:38.520 their pants? GeV E d previous elisode. All right, that's cool, 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:42.280 but what is this question in their pants? Like where 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:44.640 when we're standing, when we're sitting, when I think just 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:47.440 having our hands And this was honestly an Instagram question, 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:49.720 and I think it's how boys sort of sit, you know, 0:07:49.720 --> 0:07:52.440 when you're watching TV and you kind of sit with 0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:54.800 your hands down your pants a little bit. Oh that's 0:07:54.840 --> 0:07:58.440 a whole Okay, if you see guys in a movie 0:07:58.520 --> 0:08:00.960 and they're sitting there with like ears on the on 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:03.800 the coffee table and they're watching sports and their hands 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:07.080 are jammed down their pants and their crotch, that's total bolt, 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:12.240 really it is. Dudes don't do that. Dudes don't just 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:15.480 sit there like that. If they are, they're trying to 0:08:15.560 --> 0:08:18.040 be something. They're trying to prove something or show something. 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:21.080 Most if you're a if you're a guy, that's what happens. 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:24.080 Trust me, your nuts, your balls, whatever it gets itchy 0:08:24.160 --> 0:08:25.320 or you need to move it around, you give it 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:27.920 a scratch. You don't sit there with your hand down 0:08:28.000 --> 0:08:31.200 your pants for thirty minutes. Everybody knows guys really just 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:33.760 rest with their fingers in their noses. Isn't that what 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:38.960 you're trying to say? You are throwing some in depth 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:42.560 comments today. I don't disagree with you. I rested my hands, 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:46.400 I mean kind of in the protective position, but not 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:49.880 on top of it necessarily not jammed in the pants. No, 0:08:49.960 --> 0:08:53.480 not jammed in the pants. Who does that? Yeah? I don't. Yeah, 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:55.320 that's you know what that is. That's sort of like 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:59.680 um sitcom culture too. It's sort of, you know, the 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:03.439 way men are portrayed to be some kind of just 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:08.720 over the top slob um, which is I think a 0:09:08.800 --> 0:09:12.240 typical I started the way men tend to be portrayed. 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:13.920 And also on top of that, I think you're right, 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:17.679 there are certain guys that celebrate their slabbed them in 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:24.120 that regard of They think that's the most uh vile 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:29.600 yet attractive, primal version of self, and that's what should 0:09:29.600 --> 0:09:32.280 be portrayed, you know what I mean. It's actually funny. 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:37.280 Having having spent my whole life in locker rooms, it's 0:09:38.080 --> 0:09:42.920 it's funny to see it's funny. Yeah, it's funny to 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:46.920 see guys try and act like guys because they think 0:09:46.960 --> 0:09:49.920 that's what locker room guys do. Like, even even if 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:51.800 you're at a public gym and somebody's in the men's 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:55.160 locker room walking around with no towel on, just dick 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:58.520 swinging everywhere, it's like, put a towel on, man. I mean, 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:01.000 in my whole life, in professional law rooms, you shower 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:02.720 and then you come out and you put a towel on. 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:05.440 It's just respectful. It's nobody wants to see your jumping. 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:06.840 They're like, oh, there's a locker room, I can do 0:10:06.840 --> 0:10:09.079 what I wanted to get. Yeah, I get that, but 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:11.800 there's be a gentleman like I have some respect for 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:14.520 people around. Do you want to stare at my junk? 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:17.400 Like why are you walking around with no twel or 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:19.560 something like that? A guy like sticking his hands down 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:22.760 his pants pretending to be a dude that's not a man. Yeah, 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:25.760 I agree enough that. No, let's keep talking about this 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:28.480 because I think you're right. I think you're spot on. 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:33.319 Bro good answers. What makes you you, Gavin you Brooks 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:38.480 feel sexy or desirable as men? Not what do you 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:41.679 like about a woman, but what makes you feel like, oh, hey, 0:10:41.760 --> 0:10:47.520 I'm sexy? Um? Is it supposed to be an object 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:52.960 like that nice watch, you're like, some kind of clothing 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:56.000 or could be anything. It's a great compliment makes you 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:59.440 feel sexy. I think you know when somebody comes over, 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:01.240 when they make the point to tell you, you know, 0:11:01.280 --> 0:11:04.800 you're looking dynamite, or you know, like the other day 0:11:04.800 --> 0:11:07.280 when when Amy was real nice and she said hey, 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:10.679 what did you do? And I said what did I do? 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:16.120 It's just like no man looking good? You know, I say, hey, 0:11:16.120 --> 0:11:18.480 thanks you. I really appreciate that. That makes you feel good, 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:21.640 It makes you feel sexy, it makes you you know. UM, 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:26.920 I think I think men really respond to verbal compliments. UM. 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:29.600 I can't speak for women, of course, but I'm assuming 0:11:29.640 --> 0:11:34.600 women also respond in that regard similarly similarly, Um, But 0:11:34.760 --> 0:11:37.200 men like to be complimented just like anybody else. You know, 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:40.840 just like just like the females he went. You went 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:42.679 a totally different way with that than I was gonna go. 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:44.720 I was gonna are you gonna go? What can I 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:48.320 do that makes me feel sexy? That's how it us, 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:51.960 That's how I interpreted the question. Mine is honestly training, Like, 0:11:52.000 --> 0:11:56.240 I don't train, I don't work out to look a 0:11:56.320 --> 0:11:59.520 certain way, Like I'm not a physique athlete. I trained 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:01.800 for perform it's to be in amazing shape. I don't 0:12:02.040 --> 0:12:05.200 do body building or like that kind of stuff, like 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:07.479 if you look at my body, I'm not an Instagram 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:09.199 model of what you think of like a body. I 0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:10.960 always think that every time you put up something really 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:18.000 short up like Instagram model exactly. So I don't. I 0:12:18.040 --> 0:12:21.160 don't train for physique, but knowing that I can perform 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:25.319 athletically just makes me feel I feel sexy. I feel primal, 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:29.520 I feel athletic, I feel masculine. I feel like yeah, 0:12:29.559 --> 0:12:33.400 I just I feel super comfortable. And I think comfortable, 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:37.160 feeling comfortable and feeling confident make you feel sexy. I 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:39.960 think that's interesting Also that you say that you you 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:46.959 train to be essentially capable, not not beautiful, right, um, 0:12:47.000 --> 0:12:49.439 and I think that's it's ironic too, because I think 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:52.000 that a lot of people who a lot of the 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:57.680 sort of uh instagrammable physiques like you, like you mentioned, 0:12:58.480 --> 0:13:02.199 they're not that functional as far as athleticism is concerned, 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:04.200 and and and just all you have to do is 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:08.400 like the body of somebody who's like a you know, 0:13:08.440 --> 0:13:11.200 a boxer typically or you know a lot of these 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:15.760 guys who play professional sports. It's not necessarily the sexiest 0:13:15.800 --> 0:13:18.640 what we are, what we're sold as a sexy zeke. 0:13:19.200 --> 0:13:21.840 But that's functional. But also I mean, but I don't 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:24.960 have any judgment against that. It's it's not no, no, 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:27.840 I mean neither. But it's interesting that there's people work 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:31.640 out for different reason essentially. You know, if somebody wants 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:34.720 to do yoga if fitness and wellness and is yoga 0:13:34.760 --> 0:13:37.840 to them perfect? If somebody wants to just run long 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:41.840 distances like American runner, which doesn't build muscle, but that's 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:46.280 how they feel confident and comfortable perfect. Like I I 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:49.679 don't judge how anybody lives their life. I'm just saying 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:54.080 for mine, I love the functionality of performance athleticism. Uh, 0:13:54.080 --> 0:13:57.760 and that makes me feel confident, which makes me feel sexy. Right, 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:01.120 So if I was to apply that to life, if 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:04.480 I thought, like you, with my workout routine, I feel 0:14:04.559 --> 0:14:11.000 not confident. All you got a voice of an angel? 0:14:11.880 --> 0:14:15.920 This is a good one. Why do guys hate quote 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:19.560 dating labels? Like if you say, oh, we're dating or 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:23.200 we're seeing each other or we're exclusive, they don't like that. 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:26.600 And they also don't like to be you're my boyfriend 0:14:26.960 --> 0:14:29.840 or are you my boyfriend? They don't like labels? Why 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:32.800 hold on? Maybe I disagree with all of that. I 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:37.120 completely disagree with that. So in my life and in 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:39.800 my mind, this is just me. I'm speaking for me. 0:14:41.120 --> 0:14:47.040 Dating somebody is boyfriend girlfriend? So like when you when 0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:51.240 if if I say I'm dating her, Like when Julianne 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:55.040 and I started dating, I asked Julianne to be my girlfriend, 0:14:55.200 --> 0:14:59.560 like I asked her, will you be my girlfriend? And 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:01.800 so they're was no gray area. It wasn't like are 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:04.200 we a couple? Are we not? Like we went on 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:07.400 dates and then I wanted to be dating her and 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:09.600 I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes. 0:15:09.960 --> 0:15:13.520 So what happens when someone's dating multiple people? That's going 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:16.280 to me, that's going on dates? I like when people 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:19.920 This always confused me because somebody that people have different 0:15:20.920 --> 0:15:24.200 descriptions or definitions of the word dating. So when somebody says, oh, 0:15:24.200 --> 0:15:26.840 well she's dating him, I'm like, what does that mean? 0:15:26.880 --> 0:15:28.880 Like are they boyfriend girlfriend? Oh? No, they just went 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:31.640 on some dates. It's like, okay, I just I don't 0:15:31.640 --> 0:15:34.200 know what. So I'd love to hear from our listeners dating. 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:36.880 Does it mean you're just casually going on dates with somebody? 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:40.240 Or does it mean you are exclusive boyfriend girlfriend? What 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:44.600 does dating mean to you guys? I mean my interpretation 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:49.680 of it, culturally speaking, dating was always a less serious 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:54.760 thing versus someone distinction distinctively saying we're going out, we're 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:58.480 boyfriend girlfriend? Oh so going we're going out that. It 0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:00.640 was always kind of that. That was always the way 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:02.960 I've heard it, you know what I mean? When people 0:16:02.960 --> 0:16:05.880 are like, oh, were I date this someone? A date? 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:09.120 And that's someone I date, it sounds almost like very 0:16:09.480 --> 0:16:14.040 very casual, you know what I mean? Um? Is it interesting? 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:18.640 Maybe upbringing was the complete opposite. Yea, um, but unless 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:21.640 you're saying, yeah, we're like we're a couple. Like to me, 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:25.640 but I don't know. I think these millennials call it talking. 0:16:26.880 --> 0:16:29.680 They say, oh, we're talking, and I think that means 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:36.880 they're going on dates. Hook Danielle, a millennial, just answered 0:16:37.080 --> 0:16:40.480 that means hooking up. Talking means hooking up. I don't 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:42.680 know this is you know what I meant? Is that 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:48.280 the less serious term for dating nowadays it's called hooking up? Oh, 0:16:48.400 --> 0:16:51.160 or just hooking up, or or just texting each other. 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:54.760 Like dating essentially is kind of hooking up versus going 0:16:54.760 --> 0:16:57.880 out with somebody and we're seeing each other. We're seeing 0:16:57.880 --> 0:17:01.080 each other. Is that before dating or that's that's going 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:07.240 on dates? Is dating? I'm seeing this girl? I hear that. 0:17:07.359 --> 0:17:09.080 It's like I made a commitment to you and I 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:13.520 are exclusive. That's dating. Like to me, dating starts once 0:17:13.560 --> 0:17:16.080 I get the phone number. I'm like, hey, what's your name? 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:20.080 Can I get your phone number? Cool? You're my girlfriend? Wait? 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:25.400 Where are you going? I didn't know, but I'm now 0:17:25.480 --> 0:17:32.719 your boyfriend? Come back? Everyar the pickup line, like, can 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:38.439 I at least get a wrong number? Next? What is 0:17:38.520 --> 0:17:45.400 your favorite food someone has cooked for you? M favorite 0:17:45.440 --> 0:17:49.320 food somebody has cooked for me. We're talking like the 0:17:49.359 --> 0:17:51.879 best meal anyone's ever cooked for you. We're talking about 0:17:51.920 --> 0:17:54.200 a romantic data. We're talking about like my mom's cooking, 0:17:54.240 --> 0:17:57.159 because my mom's amazing cook. My wife's amazing. Whatever you 0:17:57.200 --> 0:18:01.040 make of the question I of my mom's cooking. She 0:18:01.119 --> 0:18:06.560 makes this thing called cooking. It's a German pie. It's awesome. 0:18:08.000 --> 0:18:13.960 We're really cooking now, we're cooking here that My wife 0:18:14.040 --> 0:18:16.600 is a great cook too. She's a really good cook. 0:18:16.680 --> 0:18:19.159 So what's something she makes that you just love? She 0:18:19.440 --> 0:18:22.040 here's the thing I bought her, like this recipe box 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:23.760 thing because we wanted to do some more cooking. So 0:18:23.800 --> 0:18:26.240 you got this like custom recipe box is a long 0:18:26.280 --> 0:18:29.800 time ago. Um, but she's a wizard. She just goes 0:18:29.840 --> 0:18:32.480 in the fridge, grabs a bunch of stuff, puts it 0:18:32.480 --> 0:18:34.800 all together, and it's different every time she cooks, and 0:18:34.840 --> 0:18:37.400 it's amazing. So I can't even pick one. I don't 0:18:37.400 --> 0:18:42.679 even know as Also, my buddy Christie Swan isn't amazing. 0:18:42.960 --> 0:18:47.560 She does all this Italian stuff. She's an amazing cook. Yeah, 0:18:47.840 --> 0:18:50.199 what could someone cook for you, Gavin? That could like 0:18:50.960 --> 0:18:54.720 be the way to your heart asking for a friend? 0:18:55.960 --> 0:19:02.520 Asking for a friend, Well, first of all, I can't cook. 0:19:03.000 --> 0:19:05.639 I'm pretty useless. In the kid, someone's cooking for you. 0:19:06.040 --> 0:19:10.639 So everything is pretty impressive to me. You know, like 0:19:10.760 --> 0:19:20.120 meat loaves, spaghetti and meatballs, steak, chicken, salad. Cook, let's 0:19:20.119 --> 0:19:25.920 cook that salad. Um man, I don't know. Uh, my 0:19:26.000 --> 0:19:30.440 brother is about the best cook I know. Um so, 0:19:31.760 --> 0:19:34.520 damn man. Pretty much whatever my brother is cooking, you 0:19:34.560 --> 0:19:37.040 know what I mean? Just food in general, you know, 0:19:37.520 --> 0:19:40.480 but I like really flavorful food, spicy. Some people like 0:19:40.560 --> 0:19:43.720 bland more bland food, I like. I like very well 0:19:43.800 --> 0:19:54.320 seasoned food. I like a lot of flavors. Not counting 0:19:54.359 --> 0:19:57.720 your job or your career, what trait do you have 0:19:57.800 --> 0:20:00.399 that you're the most proud of? So I'm assuming whoever 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:03.199 wrote this that means Gavin can't say singing and you 0:20:03.240 --> 0:20:07.600 can't say hockey. Yeah, mine is easy. I've I've said 0:20:07.600 --> 0:20:09.560 it on this show before, I said, what's I've asked 0:20:09.560 --> 0:20:12.320 the question to um. I think it was when Derek, 0:20:12.359 --> 0:20:14.120 my brother in law, Derek was on. I asked, I said, 0:20:14.200 --> 0:20:16.399 what is your greatest success? And then I asked myself 0:20:16.480 --> 0:20:20.879 that question. Mine is following my instincts. So that is 0:20:20.920 --> 0:20:24.000 my favorite character trait is that I trust myself and 0:20:24.040 --> 0:20:28.959 I follow my instincts. I like that you know what 0:20:29.000 --> 0:20:36.680 I had to say. That's a that's a really special one. Um. Um. 0:20:36.680 --> 0:20:39.439 Picking up on people's vibes. I really picked up on 0:20:39.520 --> 0:20:43.960 people's Um. I can't say that I know everybody's intent 0:20:44.080 --> 0:20:47.480 when I'm dealing with them, but oftentimes I really, I 0:20:47.520 --> 0:20:50.720 really do catch it pretty accurate vibe on what what 0:20:50.760 --> 0:20:54.800 their what their intentions are when I when I meet them, 0:20:54.920 --> 0:20:57.199 or if I feel like they're a good or a 0:20:57.240 --> 0:21:01.240 bad person, or if they're extremely awesome or just conniving. 0:21:01.320 --> 0:21:06.200 You know what I mean. Character Um, A lot of times, 0:21:06.400 --> 0:21:08.720 you know, I get lucky with that. Go hold on, 0:21:08.800 --> 0:21:12.359 Can I pay you a compliment? Yes? Please? Um, you 0:21:12.400 --> 0:21:18.240 look good in black today. So I believe in every 0:21:18.480 --> 0:21:22.000 in every interaction between two people, there's an exchange of energy. 0:21:22.080 --> 0:21:25.840 Either I get give energy or I take energy. And 0:21:25.920 --> 0:21:28.159 same for you, like either you give me energy or 0:21:28.200 --> 0:21:31.760 you take energy from me. In the time I've known you, 0:21:31.760 --> 0:21:35.760 you've never taken energy from me. You've always given energy. 0:21:36.160 --> 0:21:38.040 So every time I see you, and I hope it 0:21:38.040 --> 0:21:40.800 comes through on this podcast, like we have an awesome 0:21:40.880 --> 0:21:43.480 time to get and we laugh before the show, we 0:21:43.560 --> 0:21:46.199 laughed during the show, we laugh after the show. But 0:21:46.240 --> 0:21:51.320 I think It's an amazing, amazing character trait for a 0:21:51.440 --> 0:21:54.080 human when every time you think of that person and 0:21:54.119 --> 0:21:56.920 that's you in this case, you think of somebody that 0:21:57.160 --> 0:22:01.000 gives you energy than man and to me, you're very 0:22:01.119 --> 0:22:05.359 You really take my energy, and boy, boy, do you 0:22:05.440 --> 0:22:11.800 block me down? An energy vampire? Then you just keep 0:22:11.800 --> 0:22:15.920 coming around for the compliments of your clothes. But but 0:22:16.000 --> 0:22:18.240 this is, but this, I think is why you and 0:22:18.280 --> 0:22:25.600 I work you. Um you you're such a positive guy, 0:22:25.760 --> 0:22:28.480 and I find that so refreshing in the in the 0:22:28.600 --> 0:22:33.520 sort of alpha realm that we rub shoulders in so 0:22:33.640 --> 0:22:37.760 much of the time. It's nice to simply experience positivity 0:22:37.800 --> 0:22:40.280 when you're meeting meeting up with somebody. Know, it's always 0:22:40.280 --> 0:22:44.840 so complimentary, and it's and sincere. You know what I mean. 0:22:44.920 --> 0:22:51.160 You're so genuine. I would say you're You're genuine demeanor 0:22:51.800 --> 0:22:56.199 is one of your greatest attributes. You are a genuine 0:22:56.320 --> 0:23:00.440 person and that's a beautiful quality for real man. It's 0:23:00.520 --> 0:23:05.720 very special. Appreciate you. This one's kind of juicy. I 0:23:05.760 --> 0:23:08.399 did not write it. Would a threesome be something you 0:23:08.400 --> 0:23:15.320 would agree to if your partner asked, wanted it? M okay, 0:23:16.080 --> 0:23:19.080 Vin is eating ice cream. Right now, while we're doing 0:23:19.080 --> 0:23:27.480 the show Man, there's doubling exploding. This is technically it's 0:23:27.520 --> 0:23:30.840 called mochi, and he's eating it and just exploded all 0:23:30.880 --> 0:23:43.679 over his hands. As I'm asking this important questions, I 0:23:43.760 --> 0:23:48.560 don't think I could. I I just no. I It's 0:23:50.760 --> 0:23:53.520 ask a question again, because all I can think about 0:23:53.600 --> 0:24:04.600 right now is this graba you've had that orge. Okay, 0:24:04.640 --> 0:24:09.160 here's the question. Would a threesome be something you would 0:24:09.160 --> 0:24:13.439 agree to if your partner asked or wanted it? So 0:24:13.520 --> 0:24:16.920 here's the thing, Like, it's amazing, that's pretty, it's amazing. 0:24:17.680 --> 0:24:21.800 Question right, they're going right? Also, what does your bedroom 0:24:21.840 --> 0:24:26.120 look like? It's amazing? Like how you learn and grow 0:24:26.160 --> 0:24:28.720 and how in a relationship some some things that you 0:24:28.800 --> 0:24:32.800