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Speaker 2: Brandon is on the phone today for your First Date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Sarah. So in
Speaker 2: a few minutes we're gonna call her and see if
Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
Speaker 2: him another date. But first, Brandon, how long has it
Speaker 2: been since you heard from Sarah?
Speaker 3: Close to a week now?
Speaker 4: That's say, yeah, have you been trying to hit her up?
Speaker 3: I did?
Speaker 5: I I I messaged her the day after, you know,
Speaker 5: make sure she got home safe, and no response, And
Speaker 5: then you know, a couple of days later, hit her
Speaker 5: up again and nothing.
Speaker 4: Let's talk about your date. Why are you trying to
Speaker 4: get a hold of her? Was it a good date?
Speaker 3: I thought it was, I really did.
Speaker 5: I felt like, you know, we were reviving and went
Speaker 5: to the went to the.
Speaker 3: Mountains, went to mountains and had a great time. We
Speaker 3: shredded the pop out a little bit, you know, the
Speaker 3: time in the hot thug. You know, I was looking
Speaker 3: nice little.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 4: Was it like a weekend king?
Speaker 3: No, I was like a you know night that's overnight.
Speaker 4: So you guys stayed the night together.
Speaker 6: Well, I stayed there overnight.
Speaker 3: You know, I got the.
Speaker 5: Place like just in case, very very wishful thinking. But
Speaker 5: obviously I wasn't, like, you know, expecting her to stay.
Speaker 4: Okay, was she into it?
Speaker 3: I thought so.
Speaker 5: I usually still like I had a pretty good read
Speaker 5: on chicks too, at least like you know, in that respect.
Speaker 5: But yeah, I mean we're vibing, like, you know.
Speaker 3: We we were laughing, we're joking.
Speaker 5: You know, we had a couple of drinks, snowball fighting,
Speaker 5: and I knocked her over and were fighting snowboard with
Speaker 5: the snowballs looked but you know, those kind of playful
Speaker 5: and she went in the snow and like you know,
Speaker 5: she went to the hospital.
Speaker 3: So like, I don't know, I mean, if.
Speaker 4: You knocked her over.
Speaker 3: State, you know, I didn't. I don't want to be
Speaker 3: sexist tonight. It's the true, Okay.
Speaker 2: Once she regained consciousness from your snowball, was okay, I.
Speaker 4: Laughed, laughing, this is okay.
Speaker 3: Willed me right in the face with one that's just
Speaker 3: just said that it was over. So yeah, I mean,
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Is that what you think could have gone wrong?
Speaker 7: Like, was there any other moments that might have been
Speaker 7: a little bit awkward after she got knocked out.
Speaker 3: I mean I didn't feeling the awkwardness, but you know,
Speaker 3: I mean who knows.
Speaker 5: Like maybe I said something that was like, you know,
Speaker 5: like when we're in the hot tub, Like I might
Speaker 5: have gotten a little sit confident, like you know, like
Speaker 5: you know, making a joke about her appearance, like one
Speaker 5: really a joke, but it was like I said she
Speaker 5: was too pretty to be good at snowboarding, you know,
Speaker 5: like one of those like sort of like hot to
Speaker 5: nice scale like.
Speaker 3: Sloke thing like I think, you know, kind of coil
Speaker 3: its to that.
Speaker 5: I guess, no way, you're that hot and you're just
Speaker 5: nice and single like that sort.
Speaker 2: Of thing like a snowboard and gets pegged in the
Speaker 2: face with snowballs in the hot tub and your beautiful wall.
Speaker 2: Complete package, right, except saying like you're too hot to
Speaker 2: be able to do this, I don't think comes off
Speaker 2: right when dude, it's kind of it's.
Speaker 4: Almost just like that whole why are you single?
Speaker 5: Like yeah, I kind of felt like an idiot like
Speaker 5: right after I said that.
Speaker 4: But how does she react to it?
Speaker 6: Uh?
Speaker 3: It is kind of like like a weird laugh.
Speaker 4: Okay, thank you. Yeah, how'd you end with her?
Speaker 3: I walked her to a car and hugged a goodbye.
Speaker 4: Center back down the mountain.
Speaker 3: Sorry, no, no, we were I just can't under on
Speaker 3: the top of the slopes. We were down the bottom
Speaker 3: by blah blah.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I mean, I guess, like I didn't really get any
Speaker 5: kiss me vibe, but like I don't know, I just
Speaker 5: I mean, it was just really confusing, just from like
Speaker 5: the end of the night, like you know.
Speaker 3: The hug and then now just not responding at all.
Speaker 4: Like I don't know. Okay, well, we'll see if we
Speaker 4: can figure it out.
Speaker 2: For you'll play a song, come back and then call
Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you,
Speaker 2: and then maybe get to another date if you still
Speaker 2: want one. Okay, all right, plays, so come back and
Speaker 2: get your first Day follow up, Next.
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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.
Speaker 2: Brandon is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Sarah.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him. But first, Brandon, why
Speaker 2: don't you break down your date again real quick.
Speaker 5: We went out to the slope, had a great time,
Speaker 5: had some snowball fighting, not chocolate.
Speaker 4: Not just though you hit her so bad with a
Speaker 4: snowball that she fell down. That's an important note.
Speaker 5: We had a very a vicious snowball fight and help
Speaker 5: me out on the hot tub and night, you know,
Speaker 5: said some dumb awful cliche thing, and I didn't get
Speaker 5: a kiss sign.
Speaker 3: At the end of the night.
Speaker 2: Right, So you think it's because you said you're how
Speaker 2: did you learn a snowboard because you're too hot to snowboard?
Speaker 3: I'm sure that didn't help.
Speaker 2: All right, you're ready for us to call her? Okay,
Speaker 2: here we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Sarah. Please,
Speaker 2: Hi Sarah. This is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show.
Speaker 5: Hi.
Speaker 4: I am Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jeubele.
Speaker 4: How are you.
Speaker 3: I'm being called on the radio right now?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, for real? Is this a prank?
Speaker 4: No, it's not, actually and not this time. Yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: Can you explain please?
Speaker 2: Yes, I'd be happy to. We do a segment on
Speaker 2: the show and it's called the First Date.
Speaker 4: Follow up. So that's where if you go out.
Speaker 2: On a date with somebody and then you end up
Speaker 2: ghosting them, that person can ask us to get you
Speaker 2: on the phone and find out why are you ghosting them?
Speaker 2: And we got an email about you from Brandon.
Speaker 8: Oh oh, okay, okay, okay, wait, so Brandon asked you
Speaker 8: to call me because I ghosted him.
Speaker 4: Yes, he liked you mind telling us why you're ghosting it?
Speaker 6: No? I mean does he really want to do this
Speaker 6: on the radio. I mean, if he does, I can
Speaker 6: talk about it.
Speaker 2: It's just you know, everybody who does these we tell
Speaker 2: them that they have to be prepared to hear whatever
Speaker 2: somebody says.
Speaker 3: So okay, all.
Speaker 6: Right, okay, Brandon was nice, but he's like, I don't know,
Speaker 6: he's like a lot.
Speaker 3: He's a lot.
Speaker 6: He was just a lot for.
Speaker 3: Me, like a lot.
Speaker 6: Well, I mean you've talked to him.
Speaker 4: A little bit, right, Yes, you did talk to him
Speaker 4: about your day?
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, So he like we went we went to
Speaker 6: the mountain and he told you all this, he said.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he said, you guys went on the date like
Speaker 2: snowboarding and stuff, and uh, you got in a snowball fight.
Speaker 2: He was worried that he hit you a little too
Speaker 2: hard with the snowball. Then you guys said, you guys
Speaker 2: hung out in hot Tup for a little while, and
Speaker 2: then you left, and that's the last he's seen or
Speaker 2: heard of you.
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, for of all, the thing that really unsettled
Speaker 6: me to begin with was that it was our first
Speaker 6: date and he started, you know, he started talking about
Speaker 6: how well I would get along with his sister, and
Speaker 6: he started talking about all of us going on a
Speaker 6: ski trip together, like after after, this was after.
Speaker 2: That's why, that's Brandon. He's actually on the phone listing
Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you. I couldn't wait, obviously, Okay.
Speaker 6: That was one of the reasons why it wasn't the
Speaker 6: reason why it was weird that you were already planning
Speaker 6: another date, this one with your family while we were
Speaker 6: still on our first date. It wasn't even the end
Speaker 6: of the date. It was like I was trolling. I
Speaker 6: was just throwing out a year or you get along
Speaker 6: with my sister. Don't know why that's such a bad thing.
Speaker 6: It's not a bad thing. But you were talking about
Speaker 6: getting us steven passes, Like during our first day. If
Speaker 6: you had said getting you and me season passes while
Speaker 6: we were still on our first date.
Speaker 3: I would have felt that was.
Speaker 6: A bit much, But saying you were wanted to get
Speaker 6: it for me and your sister and you all together
Speaker 6: while we're still on our first date, that was kind
Speaker 6: of claustrophobic to me.
Speaker 5: Okay, I can see how that might sound a little crazy,
Speaker 5: but I just really sawt she was vibe with my sister,
Speaker 5: Like I.
Speaker 6: Didn't even think me like I might with your sister,
Speaker 6: but like, don't, don't while we're in the middle of
Speaker 6: our first date. That's when you, you know, mentioned that
Speaker 6: you have a sister, not try to get me see him.
Speaker 7: Kind of nice to know that he's thinking about seeing
Speaker 7: you again, Like there's definitely future dates in his mind,
Speaker 7: Like he's there, I mean, not necessarily getting married or anything,
Speaker 7: but like that he just wants to see you again.
Speaker 6: I don't know, I feel like that a marriage would
Speaker 6: be easier to get out of than a pie with
Speaker 6: his sister.
Speaker 3: I've never you know what I mean.
Speaker 6: He said something to me that made me kind of uncomfortable,
Speaker 6: which I don't know if you want to talk about that, right, Yeah, Brandon,
Speaker 6: you kind of got me into this, but.
Speaker 3: That one point give it to me.
Speaker 4: He made a.
Speaker 6: Comment about me that I thought was kind of sexist,
Speaker 6: and I didn't appreciate it. He said something about like,
Speaker 6: I'm so hot I couldn't possibly be good at snowboarding
Speaker 6: or something like that.
Speaker 3: He said, I, Uh, he said.
Speaker 6: I was too hot to be good at snowboarding.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 5: I immediately realized right after that that I probably sounded
Speaker 5: like an idiot, but.
Speaker 3: I was just compliment But you're too hot to be
Speaker 3: annoyed by something like that. Right down on that right now.
Speaker 6: To be honest with you, I think it's totally weird
Speaker 6: that you got a radio station involved in this conversation.
Speaker 6: But I'm trying to be real with you, and you're
Speaker 6: still deflecting with a joke.
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, yeah, I mean dumb jokes. Yeah, I get it,
Speaker 3: But can we just maybe chalk it up to bad
Speaker 3: date first nerves. I felt like we had a great.
Speaker 5: Time, man, and you know we're re vibe it and
Speaker 5: you doesn't season passing.
Speaker 3: I just kind of wanted to tell you without sounding
Speaker 3: like a jerk.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry if I explained, uh more appropriate for everyone
Speaker 5: involved here, So I kind.
Speaker 3: Of show you that I had a decent job and he.
Speaker 5: Wasn't a bomb, you know, I wanted to trying to
Speaker 5: say that without sounding a good jerk.
Speaker 4: And they are extensive, they're very I don't know, it
Speaker 4: sounds like kind of a dream to me. Whatever you want, Sarah,
Speaker 4: but I admit that Brandon, like warding on Bucks, just
Speaker 4: footed down more than that.
Speaker 2: Are you crazy, Sarah? Would you like to go with
Speaker 2: Brandon again? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 3: I don't think so.
Speaker 4: I not being personal.
Speaker 6: I mean, I actually think Brandon's a really nice person.
Speaker 6: I just wasn't feeling it with him, and.
Speaker 3: It seems to me.
Speaker 6: It seemed to me on the day, and now it
Speaker 6: seems to me in this conversation like he's focusing too
Speaker 6: hard on how he can flex, you know, like saying
Speaker 6: a thing to me, buying a thing to me, whatever.
Speaker 6: Like Brandon, sincerely, I would recommend on future dates, just.
Speaker 3: Get to know the person.
Speaker 6: Don't be focusing so hard on how you're going to flex,
Speaker 6: or what the right thing to say to them is,
Speaker 6: or what you're trying to convey, Like.
Speaker 3: Just be real with them.
Speaker 6: People will appreciate that if you're just real, If you're
Speaker 6: real and from the heart. It's not about saying a line.
Speaker 6: It's not about having a flex, it's not about, you know,
Speaker 6: coming on too strong because you're trying to show them
Speaker 6: that you're not scared a commitment. I mean, I appreciate
Speaker 6: all these things at their root. I think that you
Speaker 6: just need to be more in the moment and picking
Speaker 6: up what your date is putting down.
Speaker 4: All right.
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