1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com. 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:08,960 Speaker 2: Brandon is on the phone today for your First Date 4 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Sarah. So in 5 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 2: a few minutes we're gonna call her and see if 6 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get 7 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:16,799 Speaker 2: him another date. But first, Brandon, how long has it 8 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 2: been since you heard from Sarah? 9 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 3: Close to a week now? 10 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:23,599 Speaker 4: That's say, yeah, have you been trying to hit her up? 11 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 3: I did? 12 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:28,479 Speaker 5: I I I messaged her the day after, you know, 13 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 5: make sure she got home safe, and no response, And 14 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 5: then you know, a couple of days later, hit her 15 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 5: up again and nothing. 16 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 4: Let's talk about your date. Why are you trying to 17 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:39,840 Speaker 4: get a hold of her? Was it a good date? 18 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 3: I thought it was, I really did. 19 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 5: I felt like, you know, we were reviving and went 20 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 5: to the went to the. 21 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 3: Mountains, went to mountains and had a great time. We 22 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 3: shredded the pop out a little bit, you know, the 23 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 3: time in the hot thug. You know, I was looking 24 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 3: nice little. 25 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 5: You know. 26 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 4: Was it like a weekend king? 27 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 3: No, I was like a you know night that's overnight. 28 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 4: So you guys stayed the night together. 29 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 6: Well, I stayed there overnight. 30 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 3: You know, I got the. 31 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 5: Place like just in case, very very wishful thinking. But 32 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 5: obviously I wasn't, like, you know, expecting her to stay. 33 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 4: Okay, was she into it? 34 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 3: I thought so. 35 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 5: I usually still like I had a pretty good read 36 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 5: on chicks too, at least like you know, in that respect. 37 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 5: But yeah, I mean we're vibing, like, you know. 38 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 3: We we were laughing, we're joking. 39 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 5: You know, we had a couple of drinks, snowball fighting, 40 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 5: and I knocked her over and were fighting snowboard with 41 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 5: the snowballs looked but you know, those kind of playful 42 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 5: and she went in the snow and like you know, 43 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 5: she went to the hospital. 44 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 3: So like, I don't know, I mean, if. 45 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 4: You knocked her over. 46 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 3: State, you know, I didn't. I don't want to be 47 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 3: sexist tonight. It's the true, Okay. 48 00:01:54,720 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 2: Once she regained consciousness from your snowball, was okay, I. 49 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 4: Laughed, laughing, this is okay. 50 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 3: Willed me right in the face with one that's just 51 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 3: just said that it was over. So yeah, I mean, 52 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 3: I don't know. 53 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 4: Is that what you think could have gone wrong? 54 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 7: Like, was there any other moments that might have been 55 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 7: a little bit awkward after she got knocked out. 56 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 3: I mean I didn't feeling the awkwardness, but you know, 57 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 3: I mean who knows. 58 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 5: Like maybe I said something that was like, you know, 59 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 5: like when we're in the hot tub, Like I might 60 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 5: have gotten a little sit confident, like you know, like 61 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 5: you know, making a joke about her appearance, like one 62 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 5: really a joke, but it was like I said she 63 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 5: was too pretty to be good at snowboarding, you know, 64 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 5: like one of those like sort of like hot to 65 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 5: nice scale like. 66 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 3: Sloke thing like I think, you know, kind of coil 67 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 3: its to that. 68 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 5: I guess, no way, you're that hot and you're just 69 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 5: nice and single like that sort. 70 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 2: Of thing like a snowboard and gets pegged in the 71 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 2: face with snowballs in the hot tub and your beautiful wall. 72 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 2: Complete package, right, except saying like you're too hot to 73 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 2: be able to do this, I don't think comes off 74 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:00,959 Speaker 2: right when dude, it's kind of it's. 75 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 4: Almost just like that whole why are you single? 76 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 5: Like yeah, I kind of felt like an idiot like 77 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 5: right after I said that. 78 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 4: But how does she react to it? 79 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 6: Uh? 80 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 3: It is kind of like like a weird laugh. 81 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 4: Okay, thank you. Yeah, how'd you end with her? 82 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 3: I walked her to a car and hugged a goodbye. 83 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 4: Center back down the mountain. 84 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 3: Sorry, no, no, we were I just can't under on 85 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 3: the top of the slopes. We were down the bottom 86 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 3: by blah blah. 87 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 6: I don't know. 88 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:41,119 Speaker 5: I mean, I guess, like I didn't really get any 89 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 5: kiss me vibe, but like I don't know, I just 90 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 5: I mean, it was just really confusing, just from like 91 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 5: the end of the night, like you know. 92 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 3: The hug and then now just not responding at all. 93 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 4: Like I don't know. Okay, well, we'll see if we 94 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 4: can figure it out. 95 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 2: For you'll play a song, come back and then call 96 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you, 97 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 2: and then maybe get to another date if you still 98 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 2: want one. Okay, all right, plays, so come back and 99 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 2: get your first Day follow up, Next. 100 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 1: First date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 101 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com. 102 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up. 103 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 2: Brandon is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Sarah. 104 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll 105 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him. But first, Brandon, why 106 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 2: don't you break down your date again real quick. 107 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 5: We went out to the slope, had a great time, 108 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 5: had some snowball fighting, not chocolate. 109 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 4: Not just though you hit her so bad with a 110 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 4: snowball that she fell down. That's an important note. 111 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 5: We had a very a vicious snowball fight and help 112 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 5: me out on the hot tub and night, you know, 113 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 5: said some dumb awful cliche thing, and I didn't get 114 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 5: a kiss sign. 115 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 3: At the end of the night. 116 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 2: Right, So you think it's because you said you're how 117 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:59,039 Speaker 2: did you learn a snowboard because you're too hot to snowboard? 118 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:00,840 Speaker 3: I'm sure that didn't help. 119 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 2: All right, you're ready for us to call her? Okay, 120 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 2: here we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Sarah. Please, 121 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 2: Hi Sarah. This is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show. 122 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 5: Hi. 123 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 4: I am Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jeubele. 124 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 4: How are you. 125 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 3: I'm being called on the radio right now? 126 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 7: Yeah? 127 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, for real? Is this a prank? 128 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 4: No, it's not, actually and not this time. Yeah, I'm sorry. 129 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 3: Can you explain please? 130 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 2: Yes, I'd be happy to. We do a segment on 131 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 2: the show and it's called the First Date. 132 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 4: Follow up. So that's where if you go out. 133 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:44,359 Speaker 2: On a date with somebody and then you end up 134 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 2: ghosting them, that person can ask us to get you 135 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:48,600 Speaker 2: on the phone and find out why are you ghosting them? 136 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 2: And we got an email about you from Brandon. 137 00:05:52,400 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 8: Oh oh, okay, okay, okay, wait, so Brandon asked you 138 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 8: to call me because I ghosted him. 139 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 4: Yes, he liked you mind telling us why you're ghosting it? 140 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 6: No? I mean does he really want to do this 141 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 6: on the radio. I mean, if he does, I can 142 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 6: talk about it. 143 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 2: It's just you know, everybody who does these we tell 144 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 2: them that they have to be prepared to hear whatever 145 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 2: somebody says. 146 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 3: So okay, all. 147 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 6: Right, okay, Brandon was nice, but he's like, I don't know, 148 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:27,679 Speaker 6: he's like a lot. 149 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 3: He's a lot. 150 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 6: He was just a lot for. 151 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 3: Me, like a lot. 152 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 6: Well, I mean you've talked to him. 153 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 4: A little bit, right, Yes, you did talk to him 154 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 4: about your day? 155 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:40,479 Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, So he like we went we went to 156 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 6: the mountain and he told you all this, he said. 157 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, he said, you guys went on the date like 158 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 2: snowboarding and stuff, and uh, you got in a snowball fight. 159 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:50,719 Speaker 2: He was worried that he hit you a little too 160 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 2: hard with the snowball. Then you guys said, you guys 161 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 2: hung out in hot Tup for a little while, and 162 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 2: then you left, and that's the last he's seen or 163 00:06:57,839 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 2: heard of you. 164 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 6: Okay, Well, for of all, the thing that really unsettled 165 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 6: me to begin with was that it was our first 166 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 6: date and he started, you know, he started talking about 167 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 6: how well I would get along with his sister, and 168 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 6: he started talking about all of us going on a 169 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 6: ski trip together, like after after, this was after. 170 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 2: That's why, that's Brandon. He's actually on the phone listing 171 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you. I couldn't wait, obviously, Okay. 172 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 6: That was one of the reasons why it wasn't the 173 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 6: reason why it was weird that you were already planning 174 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 6: another date, this one with your family while we were 175 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 6: still on our first date. It wasn't even the end 176 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 6: of the date. It was like I was trolling. I 177 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 6: was just throwing out a year or you get along 178 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 6: with my sister. Don't know why that's such a bad thing. 179 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 6: It's not a bad thing. But you were talking about 180 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 6: getting us steven passes, Like during our first day. If 181 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 6: you had said getting you and me season passes while 182 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 6: we were still on our first date. 183 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 3: I would have felt that was. 184 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 6: A bit much, But saying you were wanted to get 185 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,239 Speaker 6: it for me and your sister and you all together 186 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 6: while we're still on our first date, that was kind 187 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 6: of claustrophobic to me. 188 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 5: Okay, I can see how that might sound a little crazy, 189 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 5: but I just really sawt she was vibe with my sister, 190 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 5: Like I. 191 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 6: Didn't even think me like I might with your sister, 192 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 6: but like, don't, don't while we're in the middle of 193 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 6: our first date. That's when you, you know, mentioned that 194 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 6: you have a sister, not try to get me see him. 195 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 7: Kind of nice to know that he's thinking about seeing 196 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:32,839 Speaker 7: you again, Like there's definitely future dates in his mind, 197 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 7: Like he's there, I mean, not necessarily getting married or anything, 198 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 7: but like that he just wants to see you again. 199 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 6: I don't know, I feel like that a marriage would 200 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 6: be easier to get out of than a pie with 201 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 6: his sister. 202 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 3: I've never you know what I mean. 203 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 6: He said something to me that made me kind of uncomfortable, 204 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 6: which I don't know if you want to talk about that, right, Yeah, Brandon, 205 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 6: you kind of got me into this, but. 206 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 3: That one point give it to me. 207 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 4: He made a. 208 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 6: Comment about me that I thought was kind of sexist, 209 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 6: and I didn't appreciate it. He said something about like, 210 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:13,319 Speaker 6: I'm so hot I couldn't possibly be good at snowboarding 211 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 6: or something like that. 212 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 3: He said, I, Uh, he said. 213 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 6: I was too hot to be good at snowboarding. 214 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 3: Okay. 215 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 5: I immediately realized right after that that I probably sounded 216 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 5: like an idiot, but. 217 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:28,959 Speaker 3: I was just compliment But you're too hot to be 218 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 3: annoyed by something like that. Right down on that right now. 219 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 6: To be honest with you, I think it's totally weird 220 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 6: that you got a radio station involved in this conversation. 221 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 6: But I'm trying to be real with you, and you're 222 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:47,080 Speaker 6: still deflecting with a joke. 223 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, yeah, I mean dumb jokes. Yeah, I get it, 224 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 3: But can we just maybe chalk it up to bad 225 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:57,559 Speaker 3: date first nerves. I felt like we had a great. 226 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:59,680 Speaker 5: Time, man, and you know we're re vibe it and 227 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 5: you doesn't season passing. 228 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 3: I just kind of wanted to tell you without sounding 229 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 3: like a jerk. 230 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 5: I'm sorry if I explained, uh more appropriate for everyone 231 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 5: involved here, So I kind. 232 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:15,559 Speaker 3: Of show you that I had a decent job and he. 233 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:17,679 Speaker 5: Wasn't a bomb, you know, I wanted to trying to 234 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 5: say that without sounding a good jerk. 235 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 4: And they are extensive, they're very I don't know, it 236 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 4: sounds like kind of a dream to me. Whatever you want, Sarah, 237 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 4: but I admit that Brandon, like warding on Bucks, just 238 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:34,319 Speaker 4: footed down more than that. 239 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:36,680 Speaker 2: Are you crazy, Sarah? Would you like to go with 240 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 2: Brandon again? We'll pay for it. 241 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:40,079 Speaker 3: I don't think so. 242 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 4: I not being personal. 243 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:45,439 Speaker 6: I mean, I actually think Brandon's a really nice person. 244 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:48,079 Speaker 6: I just wasn't feeling it with him, and. 245 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 3: It seems to me. 246 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 6: It seemed to me on the day, and now it 247 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 6: seems to me in this conversation like he's focusing too 248 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 6: hard on how he can flex, you know, like saying 249 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 6: a thing to me, buying a thing to me, whatever. 250 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 6: Like Brandon, sincerely, I would recommend on future dates, just. 251 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 3: Get to know the person. 252 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 6: Don't be focusing so hard on how you're going to flex, 253 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 6: or what the right thing to say to them is, 254 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 6: or what you're trying to convey, Like. 255 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 3: Just be real with them. 256 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 6: People will appreciate that if you're just real, If you're 257 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 6: real and from the heart. It's not about saying a line. 258 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 6: It's not about having a flex, it's not about, you know, 259 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 6: coming on too strong because you're trying to show them 260 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 6: that you're not scared a commitment. I mean, I appreciate 261 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 6: all these things at their root. I think that you 262 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 6: just need to be more in the moment and picking 263 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 6: up what your date is putting down. 264 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 4: All right. 265 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 1: Ju Will's first day follow up powered by the Advocates 266 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:48,959 Speaker 1: Injury Attorney online at advocateslaw dot com.