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Speaker 1: Calling all my sweeties to the forefront.

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Speaker 2: I'm your host, CHRISTOPHINEE. Hazel, and this is the Keep

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Speaker 2: It Positive, Sweetish Show.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Keep It Positive, Sweetish Show, a space

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Speaker 1: where we slow down, reflect and grow through honest conversation.

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Speaker 1: Today's episode feels especially meaningful because I'm sitting down with

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Speaker 1: two women who represent different seasons of becoming yet share

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Speaker 1: powerful bond through storytelling and sisterhood. My sisters kJ Smith

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Speaker 1: Black and Jordan Coleman. First, we have the incredible kJ

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Speaker 1: Smith Black, an actress, executive producer, entrepreneur, and mother who

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Speaker 1: has spent ten seasons bringing the Carriage of Andy Barnes

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Speaker 1: to life. Through her work on Tyler Perry's Sisters and Beyond,

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Speaker 1: she continues to champion stories that center working women, community

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Speaker 1: and purpose, all while stepping into one of the most

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Speaker 1: transformative chapters of her personal life. And alongside her is

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Speaker 1: Jordan Coleman, a rising voice in television and film, now

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Speaker 1: stepping into the world of sisters at Cheyenne Barnes. Jordan

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Speaker 1: brings a fresh energy to the sisterhood on screen, embody

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Speaker 1: a character who is bold.

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Speaker 2: And emotionally layered.

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Speaker 1: Together, they represent what it looks like when legacy meets

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Speaker 1: new beginnings, when experience and discovery sit at the same table.

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Speaker 1: Today's conversation is less about titles and more about growth, sisterhood,

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Speaker 1: and what it means to keep evolving in a world

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Speaker 1: that is watching.

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Speaker 2: Kis Famley, please give a very.

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Speaker 1: Warm welcome to my sisters, kJ Smith Black and Jordan Coleman.

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Speaker 2: Kis Hanley, please give a very.

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Speaker 1: Warm welcome to my sisters, kJ Smith Black and Jordan Coleman.

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Speaker 2: Sisters, Hey, welcome back, kJ. We've had you here before.

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Speaker 2: Welcome Jordan's.

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Speaker 3: I'm so good, I'm so good.

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Speaker 2: I do you Oh my goodness. Gon'll just say we

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Speaker 2: fight over Jordan. We love her so much. Look you

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Speaker 2: gotta hear. Yesterday we were like, we both have braids.

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Speaker 4: They had braids the same color on, but.

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Speaker 2: You have the same but I kind of took it

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Speaker 2: up and not.

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Speaker 3: With the braids cohesive unit. We are we really we

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Speaker 3: always end up.

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Speaker 1: Dressing like we do, except that y'all came in here

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Speaker 1: looking like golden globes and I'm in here.

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Speaker 4: You were like you always look amazing.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, but y'all likes stunning.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for showing up for me.

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Speaker 4: Of course always always.

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Speaker 1: So before we get into the conversation, I want to

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Speaker 1: do a quick rapid fire with you guys.

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Speaker 2: All right, break the ice.

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Speaker 1: So the first thing that comes to your mind is

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Speaker 1: what you're gonna say, and kJ you can go first

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Speaker 1: in Georgian.

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Speaker 4: So we okay, So you know this is dangerous for me?

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Speaker 3: Are you not good at rapid?

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Speaker 2: She just says the first thing because I know.

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Speaker 4: That let's wrap it.

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Speaker 2: I need to think before I'm excited. That's problem. Let's

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Speaker 2: wrap it, please.

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Speaker 4: Please, Okay, I'm all right.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna go starting with trailer vibes, dressing room vis at, TPS,

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Speaker 1: music playing or quiet focus, quite focus music playing.

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Speaker 2: I knew this, I knew it.

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Speaker 1: Your favorite self care, after a long day of shooting, massage, yes, sauna,

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Speaker 1: sna that's good. kJ treated me to a Kyo practor

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Speaker 1: after we finished shooting last season. She just came to

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Speaker 1: see me. Actually just posted it on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Baby. When I say do shout out to her. She

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Speaker 2: got me all the way together A.

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Speaker 3: Line after you haven't done it.

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Speaker 1: We have the best, Oh my goodness. So when you

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Speaker 1: come to Atlanta, don't worry about it. Yeah, but Alex,

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Speaker 1: you just have. That's another one one up to me. Now,

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Speaker 1: I got to figure out something.

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Speaker 4: I mean lived.

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: The first and you text after a great scene my husband.

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Speaker 2: Of course I do that was here with us today?

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Speaker 3: Single? Yes?

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Speaker 2: One thing you always have in your trailer bag toothbrush? Yes? Yes?

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Speaker 2: Are you a morning person or a night isle.

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Speaker 4: Our morning?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Morning me too?

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Speaker 2: Lip gloss or mad lip.

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Speaker 4: I'm a gloss girl, Matt.

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Speaker 1: I love because I'm trying to switch it up, but

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Speaker 1: I love a good mad Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I'm the same way.

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Speaker 1: Your favorite comfort movie that you can watch over and

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Speaker 1: over again coming to America.

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Speaker 3: Yes, fiction okay, some very comforting, but ride like some

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 1: A song that feels like your main character's anthem.

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Speaker 2: Oh, we have so many, say.

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Speaker 5: You, I've seen you. I have so many.

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Speaker 2: Many make you come alive.

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Speaker 3: I'm like this is this is stressful because I love you.

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Speaker 3: Go first that lady and lady she oh yeah, anything,

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Speaker 3: Olivia Deans, She's everything, everything.

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Speaker 4: Everything right now, Cardi B Hello, it's me yes, yes,

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Speaker 4: And the last one, caj This might be a little risky.

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Speaker 1: For you, but we're gonna ask it anyway. Who would

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Speaker 1: your dream kiss scene be?

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Speaker 4: With my husband.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I'm gonna pass.

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Speaker 2: That's baby.

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Speaker 3: That's such a cop out. I can't say that right,

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Speaker 3: dream kiss.

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Speaker 2: There's so many.

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Speaker 3: People not that like I want to, but there's just

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Speaker 3: so many people in the world. Okay, I'm gonna go

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Speaker 3: with an actor. Okay, I'm gonna go with my first

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Speaker 3: celebrity crush. Are you ready? It's gonna blow everyone's mind.

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Speaker 3: Aaron Paul from Breaking Bad. Oh really, it was like

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Speaker 3: my I think it was my first celebrity crush. And

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Speaker 3: maybe I don't know. I don't know. Jesse Pinkman, you

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Speaker 2: Maybe that will take you a good choice.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna he's definitely gonna see it.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you two play sisters on sisters on sisters. That's

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Speaker 1: all right, And that is a very layered scenario when

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Speaker 1: you have two sisters are playing. kJ Andy has been

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Speaker 1: there since season one. We're in season ten, and here

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Speaker 1: comes shining, lighting things up everywhere, not just in your house,

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Speaker 1: but everywhere as we've seen as of late. Let's talk

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Speaker 4: I think our chemistry was right right off the bat,

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Speaker 4: Like our vibes are immaculate, Like we can go from

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Speaker 4: like it's great. Our chemistry was great off the bat. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's just a freaking angel, so you know, and I

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Speaker 4: It was very easy. And I am a little sister,

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Speaker 4: I'm able to see what I actually did to my sister,

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Speaker 4: and so it's actually fun. It's fun to be like, okay, Tyrant,

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Speaker 4: I was terrible. I was terrible, and my mom would

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Speaker 4: let me get away with it. She'd be like, hell,

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Speaker 4: your sister with our homework. And I was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: so you like didn't want to.

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Speaker 3: Help like figure it out, because I did like one

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Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, I'm the baby sister. Okay, well

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Speaker 4: I'm not the baby sister anymore, but I was the

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Speaker 4: a very long time. Okay, my baby sister is now fourteen, so.

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Speaker 3: Do I remind you of her at all on the

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Speaker 4: No? You do not rhy remind me.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 4: I'm a little no, no, no no, you remind me

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Speaker 4: of my former self. That's what I'm trying to tell.

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Speaker 2: I see you.

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Speaker 4: Merror, Yes, yes, yes, yes, and let's.

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Speaker 2: Talk about that.

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Speaker 1: It's I feel like it does have a mirror that

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Speaker 2: How has played a big sister and now younger sister?

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Speaker 2: Do you have siblings?

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Speaker 3: Only child? But it's interesting because that's an only child,

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Speaker 3: you are always looking for someone to either look up

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Speaker 3: nothing to pull from it in real life. But what

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Speaker 3: so desperate in Cheyenne. Whether people see it or not,

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Speaker 3: I'm just pulling from that. I just don't know how

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Speaker 3: to ask you for anything. I just ruin it. I

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Speaker 3: remember we just posted it on Instagram. I said a

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Speaker 3: down to show you that they like you, and that's

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Speaker 4: Yeah it's great, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I know, really good at it. Let's talk about day one.

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Speaker 2: I'm sick.

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Speaker 1: You're walking in with this seasoned actress kJ Smith Black

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Speaker 1: who's been dominating and.

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Speaker 2: Carrying this show for ten seasons. Yes, seriously, my gosh

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Speaker 2: see that.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I want to know what did that, because I mean,

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Speaker 1: I know I started. Cag's been my stinging partner since

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Speaker 1: was like and what I feel as Fatima walking into

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Speaker 1: Andy Barnes's office on day one, mister Barnes wants to

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Speaker 1: see you in the.

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Speaker 3: Room.

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Speaker 2: We all were like, yeah, just get the lines out.

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Speaker 3: It's always like the easiest line down, and you're.

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Speaker 2: Like little black Bob. I remember, yes, girl, I was

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Speaker 1: But I want to know what was that first day

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Speaker 3: The first day was the biggest day. The first two

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Speaker 3: into where am I am. I definitely a little bit

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Speaker 3: of imposture syndrome, and I prepared so much just learning

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Speaker 3: really the hardest part. They've been doing this, they're so

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Speaker 3: like I was literally like this because the first scene,

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Speaker 4: It feels amazing, Like you know, Season nine is when

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Speaker 4: Please?

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Speaker 2: You gotta fight anybody?

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Speaker 3: Please? Windows you're busting out this week the tissue, I'm

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Speaker 3: Now, I think the difference that would be between mine

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that makes sense.

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Speaker 4: it's like I can't. I can't do that freely. I

443
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 4: can't be It's a disservice to myself, the character, and

444
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:41,359
Speaker 4: everyone watching. So when when I think, oh, I know

445
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:43,360
Speaker 4: what my character to do, I know how they would

446
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:45,879
Speaker 4: do it, I have to kind of just try to

447
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:49,919
Speaker 4: pray about it and remove it because there's somebody who's like, no,

448
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:51,439
Speaker 4: I am exactly like this.

449
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, Because for.

450
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,440
Speaker 4: Years I was like, man, Anny, it's such a smart dummy.

451
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 4: It's such a smart dummy, And I'm like, hold on,

452
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 4: I'm also sometimes oops.

453
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:09,400
Speaker 3: I had to.

454
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:13,439
Speaker 4: Acknowledge my own faults and I wanted to be so

455
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 4: self righteous about who I am and like, I would

456
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 4: never do that and I will never be put in

457
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 4: that situation. I would never do that to a friend,

458
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 4: and I would never you know, And it's like, man,

459
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 4: Then then I look at my life and I'm like,

460
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 4: why could have handled that differently? Why didn't I see

461
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:32,119
Speaker 4: that coming. Why was I so naive about this? You know,

462
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:35,679
Speaker 4: we educated and it was like, you know, we're still

463
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 4: making interesting choices, right.

464
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:42,399
Speaker 1: I love that, Jordan, your life is taking a new turn.

465
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 2: This is a new season.

466
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 1: How have you adjusted to the Sisters world and being

467
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:50,400
Speaker 1: pushed out even further because you've been acting, You've been

468
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 1: on other shows, but I know this is a different,

469
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 1: different beast.

470
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:55,120
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

471
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,920
Speaker 3: I mean going up further and further on the call

472
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 3: sheet is no Joe because like everybody else in LA,

473
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 3: normally you start off background after right, and I went

474
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,919
Speaker 3: to a PA. Yeah, and then try to get like

475
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 3: a day player role. Then you try to get that

476
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 3: reoccurring and then when you get that series regular role,

477
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:18,919
Speaker 3: it's to be celebrated of course. And then you're like,

478
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 3: oh my gosh, the responsibility just got way bigger. I

479
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 3: am now helping carry a show. It is. It was

480
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 3: very nerve wracking, but I will say, coming in with

481
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 3: this ensemble, you guys, you've made it easy. I want

482
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:40,359
Speaker 3: to I want to say the word easy. And like

483
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 3: every time I think I have to do something alone

484
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 3: or figure out something, I'm like, wait, I can just texts.

485
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:46,400
Speaker 2: I could just text kJ.

486
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 5: I could just text because why did you say her first?

487
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 2: I don't know, but it's.

488
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 3: It is a really big adjustment. You have more eyes

489
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 3: on you. But I feel like everything happened at the

490
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,119
Speaker 3: right time and it prepared myself to be able to

491
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,439
Speaker 3: handle all these new responsibilities. I think if I was

492
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 3: thrown into it eight years ago, I don't know. I

493
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 3: don't know, because there's so much that goes on, not

494
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 3: just on screen. There's agents, and there's more people you

495
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 3: have to talk to, and there's things that you have

496
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 3: to handle behind the scenes that no one is there for.

497
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:31,640
Speaker 3: And it actually kind of feels more lonely sometimes because

498
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 3: all your friends that are still say doing background or

499
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 3: they're still doing day player roles, and it's like I'm

500
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,120
Speaker 3: here and like I'm still with them, but I can't

501
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 3: always talk to some people about certain things. It starts

502
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 3: getting fewer where you're at. So having you guys, oh

503
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:53,239
Speaker 3: my gosh on and offset because we don't really get

504
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 3: to talk that much on set, is it's like wow,

505
00:25:56,560 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 3: but boy, like you guys answer my text within thirty seven.

506
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:02,919
Speaker 3: Sometimes I don't feel like I'm ever alone, and I

507
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 3: feel like I just have great leadership, great sisterhood, legit, legit.

508
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 3: I don't feel alone at all, and that's because it

509
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 3: can be.

510
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you said something that was very poignant. If

511
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 1: I had a guy in eight years before you would

512
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: have mishandled it and then also understand and being mature

513
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 1: enough to understand that things come in the proper timing.

514
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 1: And then it does feel lonely sometimes, kJ have you

515
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,879
Speaker 1: dealt with it as your start continuing to rise, and

516
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: you were like, yes, I feel more isolated this season.

517
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 4: I feel like this is my isolation. Season really is

518
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 4: absolutely I feel like I have to recalibrate. I think,

519
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:47,400
Speaker 4: you know, I've been hustling for I don't even want

520
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 4: to say the number. Okay, twenty years maybe just grinding

521
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 4: and you know, working my butt off, and then you

522
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,400
Speaker 4: you know, Tyler gives us this opportunity in twenty nineteen,

523
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 4: and you know, by that time, my nervous system is

524
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 4: still not regulated. I'm still in grime mode, and I

525
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 4: still had thoughts that were not that were sabotaging me

526
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 4: and not serving me. You know, like, oh, this could

527
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 4: go away any moment, or you know this this is

528
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 4: fly by night, or this is this opportunity never happen again,

529
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 4: or this this show, you know, just thoughts that were

530
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 4: not supportive of my dreams. And then of course you

531
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 4: get in therapy and you start to dismantle all those things.

532
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 4: And now I'm in a family dynamic where I'm having

533
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 4: to learn not about career things per se, because I

534
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,199
Speaker 4: feel very settled in who I am and who I

535
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 4: am in my career and our show and what we

536
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,880
Speaker 4: do and what we love to do. But now it's

537
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 4: a whole family thing where I'm like, Okay, you know,

538
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 4: now it's leadership of a household, and now it's planning

539
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 4: of a legacy and my children and my children's children

540
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 4: and understanding what rear and family and friendship looks like. Yeah,

541
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 4: because when I was hustling, it was friends all day.

542
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 4: It was it was like we were leaning on each other,

543
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 4: we had each other's back. And then you're now you

544
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 4: have a partner, Now you have a baby. Now you

545
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 4: take care of your mother and your grandmother, and so

546
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 4: it's kind of like, Okay, I have to manage this part.

547
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 4: I have to figure this part out and then I can.

548
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 4: And I'm telling my friends, I'm being very transparent. I'm like, hey,

549
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,919
Speaker 4: I am I'm not in the space right now, but

550
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:33,919
Speaker 4: when I am, we're back on it. I love you,

551
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 4: checking on you, are you well, how's the family? Happy

552
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 4: New Year? You know, things like that. But I can't

553
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 4: be as present with that space in my life. And

554
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 4: of course I'm gonna work. I love working, Yes, So

555
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 4: when it's time to work, it's like, listen, I can.

556
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 4: I love what we do. I really love what we do.

557
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 4: I think what we do changes the world and I

558
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 4: truly believe that, and I feel like we've gotten feedback

559
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 4: for that. We talk about the sweeties. You have changed

560
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 4: people's lives with this show. You have changed people's lives

561
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 4: with this show. Imagine if you had not gone through

562
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 4: your own journey of healing and figuring yourself out and

563
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 4: sharing it with people. You've inspired me to share more,

564
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 4: and I'm like, oh, I can share, yeah, yeah, wow,

565
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 4: I can be myself yes, yes, oh okay, You're never

566
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 4: getting rid of me now.

567
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 1: It really comes back, all right, Schyanne, Right, Jordan, Schyenne

568
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: comes in boldly shaking things up, but she's also searching

569
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: for something. How did you approach that balance and being

570
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 1: the one that's the firecracker and spicing things up, but

571
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 1: also showing no, I'm in need of something as well.

572
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I had to sit and think about this character

573
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 3: because I've done it a lot when I was younger,

574
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 3: especially like usually the people that laughs the most, tells

575
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 3: the most jokes, those are the people that people say

576
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 3: check on them, because a lot of times they're masking

577
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 3: for things, you know, And with Cheyenne, she exudes confidence.

578
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 3: Her makeup is beat, her hair is laid, her clothes

579
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 3: are slad, but within herself there's it's chaos, you know

580
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 3: what I mean. So she tries to perfect her her

581
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 3: looks and she tries to pretend like she's okay. And

582
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 3: normally those are the people that need the most help.

583
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 3: And I think every episode we're going to start seeing

584
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 3: the way that she's lashing out on you, the way

585
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 3: that she is overly promiscuous with men that she just met,

586
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 3: it's all a cry for help. The way that I

587
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 3: reached for certain substances to take my mind off of things,

588
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 3: those are all signs of someone that is really in

589
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 3: need of a sister, family, friends, And that's the beauty

590
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 3: of you know, watching the show is obviously we're going

591
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 3: to see her transition into a woman hopefully you know

592
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 3: of you and because of the sisters on the show.

593
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 3: It's going to take a minute because she is a

594
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 3: hot mess. But you know that is womanhood, right, and

595
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 3: going from a little girl and learning and making mistakes

596
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 3: and having people around you. So that's my vision for her.

597
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:20,200
Speaker 3: I understand why she's doing what she's doing, and I

598
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 3: understand that it's going to change for sure.

599
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, just a little arrested development. A little bit of

600
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:31,719
Speaker 4: arrested development. She still want. In my opinion, I feel

601
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 4: like she's still, like you said, a little girl. But

602
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 4: it's like, honey, you're twenty five, right, you should be

603
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 4: looking for a job, right, should not? You should not

604
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 4: be risk.

605
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 3: Because you say it to me in the show. You're like,

606
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 3: how did we become so different?

607
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 2: Right?

608
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 3: But I'm holding trauma with you leaving, and I create

609
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 3: more trauma for myself by seeing what you made of

610
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 3: yourself because I didn't do it, you know. And I'm

611
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 3: jealous when I see the law firm. I'm jealous when

612
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 3: I see the pet house, and so I use those

613
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 3: words and I attack you rather than celebrating you and

614
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 3: just asking for your help and guidance. I'm coming off

615
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 3: as snarky and I pretend like I'm okay, and really

616
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 3: it's jealousy.

617
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 2: That's so good. She touched on, how do.

618
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: You so well spoken and eloquent, just smart and wise?

619
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 3: Keep going much you turn? Thank you?

620
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 2: What do you say?

621
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 3: I received that?

622
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like a lot of people are

623
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 1: crying for help. So many people are like the ones

624
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 1: who are normally laughing and trying to make everybody else laugh.

625
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 1: A lot of comedians are like, yeah, then Kevin Hart

626
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: did laugh at my pain, like so many people. Funny

627
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 1: Marco said he pulled from pain to be funny. You know,

628
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 1: so I agree with you on that those are the

629
00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 1: people need to check on. And a lot of times

630
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: their outlashes are the things that they say that aren't

631
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: so kind.

632
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 2: It's really a cry for help.

633
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,479
Speaker 3: I mean see people like Anthony Bourdain and I mean

634
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 3: a bunch of celebrities that gave the world happiness, but

635
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 3: they were never happy within themselves.

636
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 2: That's so true that it just sucks. That was good.

637
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 1: I hope I know there's somebody that's gonna take something

638
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 1: from that.

639
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 2: That was really good. We have watched you and Andy grow.

640
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: Yes, how did the character evolving affect your personal life

641
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 1: and how kJ has evolved.

642
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 4: Oh man me and Andy, Yeah, that's my girl. I love Andy.

643
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 4: I would not have changed if I didn't play Andy. Wow,

644
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 4: I would not have changed because I just I was stubborn,

645
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 4: I was sucking my ways. I took pride in my trauma.

646
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 4: I took pride in my victimhood. I took pride and

647
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 4: oh pride, that's my baby's name. You know. I really

648
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 4: took the drama of my life, you know, and olive

649
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 4: it had become cyclical, so you know, I would create

650
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 4: chaos and then I would cry to my friends and

651
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 4: they would tell me how great I am and how

652
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,919
Speaker 4: it's not my fault, and then I wouldn't learn from

653
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 4: my mistakes. And Andy forced me to hold myself accountable

654
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 4: and in a way that I don't think any of

655
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 4: my friends could have. I don't think my mom could have.

656
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 4: My mom has told me you need to do this

657
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 4: or this or this, and it's like she's my mom.

658
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 4: So I didn't listen. And my friends they didn't feel

659
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 4: like I was in the space to learn, or they

660
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 4: didn't know it themselves, you know, because of course you

661
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:46,800
Speaker 4: form bonds where you're at and so in playing Andy,

662
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 4: I was just like, girl, you are a hot mess.

663
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:53,720
Speaker 4: And then I had to look at myself and be like, girl.

664
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:55,839
Speaker 2: You are a hot mess.

665
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 4: I was a hot mess, and I'm not ashamed of

666
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 4: it anymore. I'm very I'm I take pride in the

667
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 4: person I was because that person made me who I

668
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 4: am now exactly, and it was I think Andy every

669
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 4: day for changing so much of my life. She's just

670
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 4: changed my whole. I mean, without Andy, I wouldn't have

671
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 4: met my husband. Yes, I would not have had my baby.

672
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 4: I would not have been afforded the opportunity to retire

673
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 4: my mother. And so she she's everything. I love her,

674
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:31,720
Speaker 4: and she's still teaching me lessons. Playing her is still

675
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 4: teaching me lessons to just stay.

676
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:34,320
Speaker 2: Is that crazy?

677
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 4: It's crazy. It's crazy, and I'm so grateful. Yes, like, yeah,

678
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 4: you talk about how Fatima, Yeah.

679
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:46,280
Speaker 1: Yes, definitely has changed how I approach relationships.

680
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 2: You know, she's a hot head. You know, she's like,

681
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 2: I'm going to fix it. She's a fixer.

682
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: She's like, so whatever it is, I'm ready riding. And

683
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 1: sometimes you gotta just who's gonna ride for me? You know,

684
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 1: you gotta like take a step back to just make

685
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 1: sure that the people that you're going so hard for,

686
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,879
Speaker 1: because Fatima goes hard for everybody, you know what I'm saying,

687
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: even on your your friends who I wasn't really friends

688
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: on the show, just by association to you.

689
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, what they need?

690
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 1: Okay, what you need, but not saying that like Danny

691
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 1: doesn't reciprocate that. But even in real life, when you

692
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:17,399
Speaker 1: go hard for everybody else, you have to make.

693
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 2: Sure that people are pouring into you like that in

694
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 2: real life.

695
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, And it's so interesting because Fatima Fatima is your

696
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,479
Speaker 4: like Fatima in some ways, but you know, you don't,

697
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 4: You're not you know, you know like that, but but

698
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 4: you genuinely ride for people. You have the heart to

699
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 4: help people and to make sure their lives are better.

700
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 4: Like I if I need, I go to your the

701
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 4: first person I'm do you have a dentist like I need?

702
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 4: She's like, oh, yeah, this is who I go to. Like,

703
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 4: you're just very much.

704
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:56,440
Speaker 2: That girl gatekeeper.

705
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 4: You're not a gatekeeper and I'm not a gate keeper. No,

706
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 4: you're not, you know. And so it's just kind of

707
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 4: like our synergy has just evolved and who we are.

708
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 4: It just keeps elevating, and I think our characters because

709
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 4: how would we have seen our I don't want to

710
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 4: say that we would have never seen it because God,

711
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 4: you know, God reveals it. Probably have been trying to

712
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 4: tell us for years.

713
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:26,240
Speaker 1: Let me just get you know what's Here's this mayor right?

714
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 4: Because this is I have to give you the message

715
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 4: and the where you're going to receive it because you

716
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 4: didn't receive it x y Z way.

717
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 2: Come on, Yes, that's so good. I love that.

718
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 1: If you could gently nudge your character in a different

719
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 1: direction this season, what would what direction would you try

720
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 1: to push her into?

721
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 4: I would try to push her into more empathy for

722
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 4: her sister. I think. I think she's very close minded

723
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:57,760
Speaker 4: in in her idea of what her sister is supposed

724
00:37:57,800 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 4: to be. She wants her to be what she wants

725
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 4: to be, and she has to love her where she is.

726
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 4: And I think that's a lesson for for a lot

727
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:09,359
Speaker 4: of people, is you have to love people where they are,

728
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,280
Speaker 4: you know. And so I would nudge her into showing

729
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 4: her sister more empathy, more grace, really sitting down and

730
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:19,399
Speaker 4: talking to her. She hasn't, she hasn't said, what has

731
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 4: been going on with you? How has your life been.

732
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 4: What's your favorite color? Well, you know what, what nothing

733
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,839
Speaker 4: besides when are you gonna get a job? Are gonna

734
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 4: get out of my house? And yes? And I think

735
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 4: it's it's not love. It's not love based. It's very

736
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 4: task oriented. It's very gold riven. Because that's it's very parental.

737
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 4: And that's not what Chyenne needs from Andy. Syenne needs love, Yeah,

738
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 4: that's what she's seeking. And Andy needs love too. If

739
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 4: Andy would just if Annie would just sit with her sister,

740
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,919
Speaker 4: she would see how they're the same. Andy is promiscuous.

741
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 4: Andy will meet somebody and be like, we going to poundtown.

742
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, yes, Andy, Yeah, maybe she's not

743
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 4: taking drugs, but she's gonna sip some wine every night

744
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 4: or whenever she's yeah, whenever she's you know, doesn't want

745
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 4: to deal with her emotions. She's gonna get lit and drunk,

746
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 4: and you know. So I just really think that if

747
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 4: she had more empathy for her sister, she'll see herself

748
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 4: in her and then she'll want to change, she'll want

749
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 4: to grow and shift. Right now, it's very parental.

750
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 3: It's very you're almost noticing the differences more rather than

751
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 3: trying to understand the similarities because you're like, why are

752
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 3: we so different? We came from the same house. Well,

753
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 3: let's see why. You're like, that's because we came from

754
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:47,360
Speaker 3: the same house, you know how the two different conversations.

755
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:49,479
Speaker 4: And and what you know I can share here though,

756
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 4: is there's obviously some trauma between Cheyenne and Andy that

757
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 4: no one wants to address. Yes, it's the elephant in

758
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 4: the room that no one wants to address. And you know,

759
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 4: her mom asked, she said, what happened between you two

760
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 4: and Andy deflex.

761
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

762
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:11,719
Speaker 4: Everyone's like, I'm not going to talk about that.

763
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

764
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:15,240
Speaker 4: And instead of her, instead of there them coming together

765
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 4: because of the trauma, they just I mean oil and water.

766
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 4: So I can't I would love to see that. I

767
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 4: would love to see that. And I want us to

768
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 4: show what sisterhood means. I have a great sister. I

769
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 4: have my two sisters are with my baby right now.

770
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,879
Speaker 4: Because I was like, I'm I'm going to work, yes,

771
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 4: and they're with my baby right now. I have great sisters.

772
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 4: And so I'm really happy about this arc, this storyline

773
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 4: because I'm like, yes, I want the world to see

774
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 4: great sisters and I want everyone to have great sisters

775
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:50,799
Speaker 4: like me, you know. Yeah, So you know, I hope

776
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:51,760
Speaker 4: we bring that to the world.

777
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 2: I love that.

778
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 1: And you talked about something that is very prominent in

779
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: the black culture, and that's deflection, especially when it comes

780
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 1: with trauma.

781
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 2: And I hope that. I'm not courty, I'm not telling

782
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 2: you how to write the next.

783
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 1: Season, but I hope that there is something that can

784
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:10,280
Speaker 1: shift that for the black culture so we can start talking.

785
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 1: I know, we therapy has become a thing that we're

786
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 1: used to.

787
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 2: Now we go to.

788
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 1: Therapy and we're not ashamed of it like we used

789
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 1: to be used to be such.

790
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 2: A stigma behind therapy.

791
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 1: But I do hope that we can get behind that

792
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 1: family trauma that we try to brush under the rug

793
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 1: and not address, so that families can start healing.

794
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I hope that we can also touch on that.

795
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 3: I agree.

796
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:34,359
Speaker 2: We're gonna go behind the scenes. Now, this is your

797
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 2: first season.

798
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:38,399
Speaker 1: The show is about sisterhood, but I want to know

799
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 1: how you felt sisterhood in real life behind the scenes

800
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 1: on Sisters My goodness.

801
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 3: I mean, I always talk about it from day one

802
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 3: when you called me when I booked the role, Like,

803
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 3: can I call her now? They're like, not yet, but

804
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 3: she said, can I call her now? They're like just

805
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 3: wait a second. She's like, I'm calling her. She's kj's right,

806
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:02,279
Speaker 3: And it just from there I knew what was going

807
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 3: to be fantastic. And then you know, I'm I'm looking

808
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 3: at all y'all's instagrams and I'm like, no, I'm not

809
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 3: going to press follow yet.

810
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 2: I don't want to be that person.

811
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 3: And then we get on set. There's gifts. You guys

812
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 3: are welcoming us with open arms, We're dancing, we're singing

813
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 3: because I think we did a gallery shoot first. We didn't. Yeah,

814
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 3: it was it was fantastic. We weren't. We didn't meet

815
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 3: on set. We met in a fun environment where we

816
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 3: got to just be laid back a little bit. And

817
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 3: that was my first, you know, kind of introduction to

818
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:37,359
Speaker 3: you guys. And it was nerve wracking. Being at Tyler

819
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 3: Perry Studios is beautiful, massive acres and acres of land,

820
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:45,120
Speaker 3: and everything is so professional, and I'm like, I just

821
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 3: hope I can fit in. Then Season ten comes out

822
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 3: and we're on press tours and we're That was another

823
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 3: thing I was almost a little nervous about. I was like,

824
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 3: how does this go like, is it just very you know,

825
00:42:57,719 --> 00:42:59,399
Speaker 3: I get in. If we get into the sprint room,

826
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:03,359
Speaker 3: We're like, where'd you get your nails done? What magnesium

827
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 3: do you take? And I'm like, yeah, it's like I

828
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:11,280
Speaker 3: found my group of people. Because you never know until

829
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 3: until you know, how people are gonna be. You took

830
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 3: me to a Broadway show. When we left Broadway shows,

831
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 3: we had dinner oysters and I never see.

832
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 4: It's a battle.

833
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,839
Speaker 3: And that got to so much in that time too.

834
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 3: We can just talk talking woman stuff, business stuff, health stuff.

835
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 3: That's what a sisterhood is about. And to be able

836
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:52,880
Speaker 3: to have someone that you can talk to about anything

837
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 3: and everything, no judgment. Gosh. I mean, I'm so grateful,

838
00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 3: totally grateful. I know a lot of women don't get this.

839
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,319
Speaker 3: So you joining a cast An ensemble that's been going

840
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:05,399
Speaker 3: on for ten years. Some people don't even talk on set.

841
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 3: It's like I'm here to do you. Hey, what's up?

842
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:10,920
Speaker 3: But with you guy? I mean we're in multiple group chats,

843
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 3: you know. I was like, I left my foundation. Chris

844
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 3: was like, I got you.

845
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 2: It's my sister. I don't know if.

846
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 3: Fatima wants me as her sister.

847
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:27,840
Speaker 2: Right right now? The way you're going. I don't know

848
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 2: the next time, it's not gonna be tissue.

849
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:31,560
Speaker 4: No, No, it's gonna be big.

850
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 3: Yeah.

851
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 2: Well no, But I.

852
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:39,319
Speaker 1: Love that there's been your experience seriously, because we take

853
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: pride in making sure that the energy and the vibes

854
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:45,439
Speaker 1: on set are positive and uplifting from I'm talking about

855
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: from the PA to the top. That we want to

856
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: make sure that everyone feels love and that we appreciate

857
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:53,319
Speaker 1: them because without everybody, they.

858
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 2: Couldn't go on.

859
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 1: But to know that you came on and felt that

860
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 1: love definitely makes me feel happy.

861
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, love complaints amazing, I love it.

862
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 1: Sisters has an extension called We Got You Sis, and

863
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 1: you two recently did a nail salon activation in Atlanta.

864
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:13,919
Speaker 2: Tell me about that experience.

865
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 4: Do you want to go worth?

866
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 3: It was so much fun. My favorite thing is not

867
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 3: expecting anything and then just being blown away. To have

868
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 3: a whole salon transformed all of our photos. I think

869
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 3: where we were set up getting our nails done, it

870
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 3: was you. Fatima was just like looking down on us.

871
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:33,960
Speaker 3: It was so much funny. Yeah, I was like, oh,

872
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 3: I was like, she's here, but my face, everyone's faces.

873
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 3: We had cupcakes with our show on it, and we

874
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 3: have these beautiful women coming in receiving massages, getting their

875
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 3: nails done and just chit chatting. It wasn't like a

876
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 3: very upscale It was very like we were just roaming around,

877
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 3: we were dancing. People were able to just chat with

878
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 3: us take photos. I love it's very behind the curtain

879
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 3: type of or do all absolutely, and I love that

880
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 3: type of stuff because it really lets the fans know

881
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:06,799
Speaker 3: like we're just like you. We're just telling stories exactly,

882
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 3: and that's our job. But look at us right here.

883
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:12,400
Speaker 3: Let's let's take some selfies. Let's talk. Yeah, that was

884
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 3: my favorite part.

885
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 2: I love that you've done a lot of these.

886
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,359
Speaker 1: So is there a most memorable moment that you can

887
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 1: remember from all that we got you sisters, that you've done.

888
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 2: You know.

889
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:26,360
Speaker 4: I just love the community. I love that it feels

890
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:30,719
Speaker 4: like community. I feel like when we're there, we're not

891
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 4: actresses from.

892
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 2: The show systems.

893
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like we're with our systems. And that's

894
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 4: the part that I love the most and that I'm

895
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 4: gonna feel every time we do this. Yes, you know,

896
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 4: so I feel like that's we got your sis is

897
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 4: one of my favorite because we get to reach out

898
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 4: and touch people who watch our show, support our show,

899
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 4: feel inspired by our show. Who watch who? Because what

900
00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:00,840
Speaker 4: has happened now is not only do they love Fatima,

901
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 4: they love Crystal. Not only do they rock with Andy,

902
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 4: they rock with and so and and soon it's going

903
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:08,359
Speaker 4: to be not only do they.

904
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 1: Rock which I am, they rock with Jordan, Like, how

905
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 1: I get my life?

906
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:15,880
Speaker 4: Yes? I told her, I'm saving all my my fitness

907
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 4: tips and when I'm going to use them, I don't know,

908
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 4: but I'm saving.

909
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 2: I know what we should do a collapse because I do.

910
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 4: Did you move today?

911
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:23,919
Speaker 2: I can move?

912
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 4: I can and I can take vitamins and made juices.

913
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,319
Speaker 4: I want to be a part of the group. I

914
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 4: want to join. I want to be a party of the.

915
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 3: Y It writes itself.

916
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:46,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, but they will they know you beyond the character.

917
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:49,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's my favorite part. And that's that's every week

918
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 4: Got You activation that we do in all the different cities.

919
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:54,399
Speaker 4: So we're doing one in New York.

920
00:47:54,680 --> 00:48:01,880
Speaker 3: Yes today, Oh my gosh. So many of my family

921
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 3: members they're like, oh my gosh, I love today. And

922
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:05,359
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, you use her like when you're

923
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 3: riding and they're like, no, she's too hard, but I

924
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:09,760
Speaker 3: love her, and I'm like, oh no.

925
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 1: Listen, tunic had me second guess, and why did I

926
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:12,919
Speaker 1: click on the butt.

927
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, listen, and we're gonna be there lives. I'm like,

928
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 3: don't stand up.

929
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, I gotta stand standing.

930
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 3: I'm really gonna need some to have me since there

931
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 3: because I know she's gonna she's.

932
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 5: Gonna exactly take you ready there, you just got on

933
00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 5: the bike recently.

934
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:31,920
Speaker 2: I love.

935
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:37,920
Speaker 4: But see here's the thing. At home, Yes, you get

936
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 4: to do what I want, but if I'm tired, I

937
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:41,360
Speaker 4: can risk.

938
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 3: No one's watching, no one's who will never know, never know,

939
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:47,879
Speaker 3: they'll never know.

940
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 2: But here.

941
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:53,920
Speaker 1: It's a different type of pressure when you're in studios,

942
00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 1: like I gotta show up and show up.

943
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 3: Does it almost become easier though, because you're like, I'm

944
00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 3: gonna look good, Like that's.

945
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,480
Speaker 1: Why I take group classes, like you know what, you

946
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: hit this like like you hit the hill top of

947
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 1: the hills where it's like part and then I feel

948
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 1: like it just like.

949
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 3: When you're.

950
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:11,839
Speaker 4: You should try.

951
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 2: She's like, yeah, great, you you can be fun.

952
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 4: Peop, don't understand I I am healthy for aesthetics only.

953
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 4: I don't this is not a lifestyle we got.

954
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 3: Okay, I'll go work out one day, So maybe you

955
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 3: do need to be a part of the did you

956
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:31,720
Speaker 3: move today?

957
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 2: Yes, we'll let you. For sure.

958
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 3: We're gonna talk. We'll have our people call your people.

959
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 1: You'll have the supplements and everything that she needs to

960
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 1: take after the workout.

961
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:42,360
Speaker 2: We get the program together.

962
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 4: Yes, fire, because I can talk for days.

963
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 3: It'd be great. It's gonna be great, amazing, look like

964
00:49:52,719 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 3: you yes, you already look yes in the legs, like

965
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 3: that's that proteins protagrams of protein every day.

966
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 2: But I love that you count your protein.

967
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 3: It's the only thing I count, Like, I don't really

968
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 3: calorie track, and I well, I'm so ridiculous that I

969
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 3: just know how much sugar is in almost everything down

970
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 3: with sugar, in a pack of.

971
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 2: Sugar and pumps of syrup.

972
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,879
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, yeah, different granola bars. I can tell

973
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 3: you how much is anything on the shelf.

974
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:28,359
Speaker 2: So then it's just we're gonna partner. We got Yeah,

975
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 2: you gotta do it.

976
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta do it, and you're gonna be there

977
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:31,880
Speaker 1: with us.

978
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:33,239
Speaker 2: Yes, we get you.

979
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 1: But you eat very healthy baby, this woman especially, I.

980
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 4: Don't have to work.

981
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 3: But that's half the they said. The abs are made

982
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 3: in the kitchen. You can train seven days a week

983
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 3: and if you have a horrible diet, I mean, forget it.

984
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 2: This. I love this. We Got each Other.

985
00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:01,280
Speaker 1: Also with We Got You Sis, we also has conversations

986
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 1: where we as black women, like we are now we're

987
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 1: seeing each other and we're like, okay, let me help.

988
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,240
Speaker 2: I see some synergy here. We can do different things together.

989
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 1: But it also brings conversations where women are able to

990
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:13,719
Speaker 1: open up, yes, and talk to us about things that

991
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:16,359
Speaker 1: they be struggling with or things that they may see

992
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 1: in our characters that they identify with and want to

993
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:21,359
Speaker 1: talk to you personally. kJ this is probably more for you.

994
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 1: Has there ever been a moment where somebody came to

995
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 1: you and told you something that really just stayed with.

996
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:31,360
Speaker 4: You all the time, honestly. I mean, I've had women

997
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 4: tell me that they're being physically harmed by someone they love.

998
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:40,800
Speaker 4: And you know, when we first started doing the show,

999
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:45,839
Speaker 4: there was a scene with Gary and Andy and yes,

1000
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 4: you remember, like he's holding her, but it crossed the line.

1001
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:57,280
Speaker 4: There was a line that was crossed to abuse and

1002
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 4: that resonated with her and she you know, at a

1003
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:04,880
Speaker 4: live event. She pulled me to the side and was like, hey,

1004
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:07,120
Speaker 4: you know that really resonated with me because I have

1005
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 4: a partner, like currently have a partner, and it really

1006
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:15,880
Speaker 4: challenged me because how do how much do you get involved?

1007
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,000
Speaker 4: Right you have a community, how much do you get

1008
00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:25,279
Speaker 4: involved with matters like that? And so that was a

1009
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 4: pinnacle moment for me because I had to realize all

1010
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 4: of this is bigger than me. Yeah, and I think

1011
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:38,440
Speaker 4: you get in this and everyone's like, oh, I want

1012
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 4: to be famous. Oh I want to be popular, and

1013
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:42,919
Speaker 4: I want to have the nice cars, and I want

1014
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:46,799
Speaker 4: to have the nice things. But are you going to

1015
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 4: do what's right for the community that supports you. Are

1016
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 4: you going to offer resources? Are you going to help

1017
00:52:55,080 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 4: when people need you? And and that was that was

1018
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:05,320
Speaker 4: really heavy for me. And since then it's been pretty

1019
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 4: very frequent and so you know, our obligation is to

1020
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:11,759
Speaker 4: you kind of got to start deciding how you're going

1021
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:18,479
Speaker 4: to get involved, because then then you're risking yourself as well.

1022
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 4: So that was the most. That was the most. That

1023
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 4: was the first time. I'm not going to say the

1024
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:28,839
Speaker 4: most because I've heard a lot of stories that really

1025
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:32,360
Speaker 4: affected me. But that was the first time when I said,

1026
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 4: oh this is yeah, this is important. What I do

1027
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 4: is important, and how I respond, how I affect change

1028
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:46,840
Speaker 4: in this person's life. Yeah, it matters because the words

1029
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 4: I say next or the number that I give out,

1030
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:52,719
Speaker 4: or the email or the message or the follow up

1031
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 4: can change this person's life. And that's when I realized

1032
00:53:56,120 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 4: like our power and how to step been to them

1033
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 4: because I was scared.

1034
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, I was.

1035
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 4: I was scared. I think I think, you know, we

1036
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 4: are gifted with something. I think God wouldn't have blessed

1037
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 4: us with this if we couldn't handle it. But at

1038
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 4: first it was like this is too much, and I

1039
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:17,879
Speaker 4: feel like we've all kind of had that moment where

1040
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:19,920
Speaker 4: we're like, I'm outside, I'm outside, I want to help,

1041
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:22,760
Speaker 4: I want to do this. And then we go whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

1042
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:26,160
Speaker 4: This is this is this is a lot to manage because.

1043
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:27,279
Speaker 3: You can't pour it from an empty cup.

1044
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 4: Yes exactly, but yeah, we we That's why I said

1045
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 4: we changed lives, you know, when.

1046
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 3: You said, you know, we have the responsibility. As an actor,

1047
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 3: they say they want to do these things. Well, when

1048
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:41,400
Speaker 3: you're on a show, and your character is dealing with

1049
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:43,319
Speaker 3: this whether you like it or not, you become an

1050
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 3: advocate for whatever is happening. If I'm abusing drugs, well

1051
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 3: now I have a story to tell and it's going

1052
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 3: to be wrong and it's going to be dark. Yes,

1053
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 3: and those people watching and listening are going to now

1054
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 3: look at me for some of those answers. I actually

1055
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:01,440
Speaker 3: I had a coworker that other day. I was posted

1056
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:03,279
Speaker 3: something that we were doing, and he doesn't post a

1057
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 3: lot on social media, and he just goes, do you

1058
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 3: ever get tired of like posting everything? Like he wouldn't

1059
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 3: even say it to me, and he was just like

1060
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 3: genuinely wondering, like do you just is it exhausting? And

1061
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:18,200
Speaker 3: I was like no, because the amount of dms, like

1062
00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:20,400
Speaker 3: before the show and it was just health and wellness,

1063
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:25,680
Speaker 3: the amount of people like I almost committed suicide or

1064
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:28,359
Speaker 3: I've been struggling with my health and my wellness, And

1065
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:31,279
Speaker 3: every time I see you post it makes me a

1066
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:33,839
Speaker 3: reminder to just take things slow, to go to the gym,

1067
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:35,840
Speaker 3: or just do what I can. Because I'm big on

1068
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:38,359
Speaker 3: if you got five minutes, do five minutes. You don't

1069
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:41,399
Speaker 3: have to do the hour you know, and I can't

1070
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 3: stop posting if I know that it's helping someone, is

1071
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 3: you know, getting help from that. I feel like now

1072
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 3: I just have an obligation to keep going. But you

1073
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:52,960
Speaker 3: just have to continue to make sure you do what

1074
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:54,840
Speaker 3: you need to do for yourself because I want to

1075
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:57,680
Speaker 3: continue helping, but you cannot pour from an empty cat.

1076
00:55:58,360 --> 00:55:59,240
Speaker 3: You will be of service.

1077
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that's so true.

1078
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 1: And I think I got to a point and I

1079
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:08,120
Speaker 1: feel like you have two where social media did become

1080
00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 1: a lot. Yes, you know, and you may reach this one,

1081
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 1: you may not, but I know for me, it got

1082
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:14,600
Speaker 1: to a point where I had to find a balance

1083
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 1: because it was a lot, and the comments were a lot.

1084
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:19,399
Speaker 2: And I've had conversations with.

1085
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 1: You and with de Val about just the comments and

1086
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 1: what people say, and I'm just like, oh my goodness,

1087
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:28,759
Speaker 1: you know, it's just a lot, and I've had to

1088
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 1: like learn to balance it and take a step back.

1089
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 2: Sometimes.

1090
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 1: I do my September sabbatical where I completely log off, Yeah,

1091
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 1: just to do a cleanse.

1092
00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:39,800
Speaker 2: Because we're so like everything is thrown in our faces.

1093
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:42,560
Speaker 2: We come to sensitize the things where it's like.

1094
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: Every time you turn on your phone, you see in

1095
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:48,320
Speaker 1: something so graphic that you wouldn't see you know otherwise,

1096
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 1: yeah unless you were there, you know. Like, but they're

1097
00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:52,879
Speaker 1: like putting everything is online now.

1098
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 2: So I love that you don't feel that way.

1099
00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:57,439
Speaker 1: But I definitely have had moments where I'm like, Okay,

1100
00:56:57,440 --> 00:56:58,960
Speaker 1: I got to log off.

1101
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 3: It can be a lot. The comments. Yeah, it's exhausting.

1102
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 3: It's I say, people just don't have consequences anymore.

1103
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 1: Comment we can talk about that's talked about. You're a

1104
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:15,400
Speaker 1: newcomer on the show, and we've seen like the comments,

1105
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 1: and some of them are not so nice, like how

1106
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:19,160
Speaker 1: has it made Jordan feel.

1107
00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:22,960
Speaker 3: I never think of it as a personal attack. I

1108
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 3: always it goes back to when people are mean, I

1109
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 3: think that they're projecting or I think they may be unhappy.

1110
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 3: Because I've never went to social media and wanted to

1111
00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 3: publicly bash someone that I don't know. I think that

1112
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:36,920
Speaker 3: it's crazy. So if someone is getting to that point,

1113
00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:39,440
Speaker 3: then I would rather just reach out and be like, hey, like,

1114
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 3: this isn't the space for that. And what I really

1115
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:44,480
Speaker 3: don't like is when it's you know, other women, are

1116
00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 3: other black women doing it to us? Because I feel

1117
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 3: like that's the thing that we've been trying to get

1118
00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 3: over for decades and decades. They want us to be

1119
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 3: against each other, and now we have social media that's

1120
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:57,480
Speaker 3: almost making it easier for them to just you know,

1121
00:57:57,720 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 3: Twitter finger and I just I know, I never want

1122
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 3: to snap. It's hard. Sometimes if I catch it, I

1123
00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:06,479
Speaker 3: just log out. But I'm just like, hey, like, let's

1124
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 3: just keep it chill, Let's just keep it nice. And

1125
00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 3: I see you sometimes you're.

1126
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 1: Like you're blocked, and I like to block people because

1127
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:15,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't that's bad energy.

1128
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 3: Block because I don't want you anywhere around the people

1129
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 3: that I love, Like, why are you bashing people that

1130
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 3: are just doing their job?

1131
00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 2: And you say that, You're like, this is somebody's job.

1132
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 3: When they're like canceled the show, and I'm like, this

1133
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:33,840
Speaker 3: is my livelihood. But I'm like, this isn't affecting you

1134
00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 3: in your life, but it would affect mine. And you're

1135
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 3: putting that energy out there, Let's tone it down a

1136
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 3: little bit. So it's like, I want to stay on

1137
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 3: Instagram to keep a positive outlook to people, because the

1138
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 3: more positive people that leave Instagram, well, now it's just

1139
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 3: toxic and you have little girls watching. So if you

1140
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 3: can handle it. It is always nice to try. You

1141
00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 3: just have to know the balance because you can just

1142
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 3: get into fights on Instagram and then that's just nowhere.

1143
00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:03,880
Speaker 2: We do not want that. Yeah, I love that.

1144
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 4: No no, no.

1145
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: No, I was just gonna say, I love that you

1146
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 1: don't take it personally. But I love that you get

1147
00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 1: in the comments sometimes. And because usually when it's about

1148
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:13,040
Speaker 1: other people you know.

1149
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 3: Don't do that.

1150
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 4: I have to. I have to say something. People just

1151
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 4: get really out of pocket, and I feel like I

1152
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 4: feel like I would be doing a disservice to myself

1153
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:26,840
Speaker 4: to allow people to talk about any of you, especially

1154
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 4: and me or anybody else like. Do not because because

1155
00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:34,240
Speaker 4: what I have to do, I have to set a

1156
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:37,480
Speaker 4: standard that this is not acceptable to me. What you

1157
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:39,920
Speaker 4: do with that information, that's on you. You can go

1158
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 4: back and forth with yourself because you're blocked, but I

1159
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 4: have to at least let you know that I will

1160
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:49,720
Speaker 4: never allow this ever. Yeah, So if you want to

1161
00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 4: continue to do that, please do it. But I'm not

1162
00:59:52,120 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 4: going to let you talk about her or you or

1163
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:58,760
Speaker 4: Mignon or toun day Ye at all on no level.

1164
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:03,680
Speaker 4: Leave it alone. Stop it because that's not okay. And

1165
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 4: what you're doing is not okay, and I'm going to

1166
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 4: let you know it's not okay. You can you may,

1167
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:09,760
Speaker 4: you may want to go back and forth. I'm not

1168
01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 4: there I want to I'm not going to be there

1169
01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:13,919
Speaker 4: to go back and forth with you because you're also

1170
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 4: a block. And so to me, that's what I have

1171
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:25,600
Speaker 4: to do for me because now you know that kJ

1172
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:28,960
Speaker 4: does not allow that. I'm not going to be kumbaya

1173
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 4: with you. Like I said, I'm a soldier in the

1174
01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 4: army of the Lord. Okay there listen, like there there

1175
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 4: are boundaries that I feel like it's necessary to say

1176
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 4: because what I feel like happens is we're ten seasons.

1177
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 4: In the first season, I let you slide. You can

1178
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 4: say whatever you want. Second season, I let you slide.

1179
01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:51,439
Speaker 4: I was everyone was telling me, don't go back and forth,

1180
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 4: don't say nothing, leave them alone. That's what we've been taught.

1181
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:59,520
Speaker 4: The third season. Fourth you still you still think you

1182
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:01,160
Speaker 4: can talk to me any kind of way you want,

1183
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:03,720
Speaker 4: Like I'm not a human, Like I'm not a person.

1184
01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:09,640
Speaker 4: Like I'm not your sister, your niece, your cousin, your auntie.

1185
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 4: I mean you you don't know someone who looks like me.

1186
01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:19,000
Speaker 4: Acts like me? Who reminds you of me? You don't

1187
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 4: know anybody like that? Would you talk to them that way? No,

1188
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:23,920
Speaker 4: you wouldn't, So why you feel like you can talk

1189
01:01:23,960 --> 01:01:26,280
Speaker 4: to me like that? And I just I just don't

1190
01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:31,080
Speaker 4: accept it. And so I posted something recently. Yeah I

1191
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 4: lost weight after the baby pretty rapidly.

1192
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 2: But can we give it up for the snap?

1193
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:40,000
Speaker 4: But see that? So a little bit louder, please next time?

1194
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:40,960
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1195
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you everyone, I know, actually, thank you. That's better. Wow,

1196
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:00,200
Speaker 4: I lost I ended up losing my baby. Wait, I

1197
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:02,600
Speaker 4: don't know how it happened. I was burastfeeding and yeah,

1198
01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:05,240
Speaker 4: they that helps too. Yeah, but I just lost it.

1199
01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:07,520
Speaker 4: I told you I work out once a week. Maybe

1200
01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 4: I don't know. Whenever I feel like I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

1201
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:15,160
Speaker 4: I know it, I know it. It's but what I've learned,

1202
01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 4: and we talked about this. I had hormonal balance issues, yes,

1203
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 4: and my doctor told me it's better to get at

1204
01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 4: least one extra hour of rest than it is to

1205
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:28,720
Speaker 4: train for an extra hour this morning. So I started

1206
01:02:28,880 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 4: to just rest more, regulate my nervous system more. And

1207
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 4: that has been helping you.

1208
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 2: I see it.

1209
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:40,800
Speaker 4: Thank you. Iived this semester to all my sisters. You know,

1210
01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:43,120
Speaker 4: we don't have to take on the world. Let's delegate

1211
01:02:43,160 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 4: responsibilities if you can, or release some responsibilities if you can.

1212
01:02:48,360 --> 01:02:50,280
Speaker 4: I understand the privilege that we have, so I will

1213
01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 4: never tell anybody that you go hire and assistant or

1214
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:56,600
Speaker 4: work or whatever. But I posted a video where I

1215
01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:59,560
Speaker 4: felt like I look damn good, and if I post it,

1216
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:03,520
Speaker 4: I like it, okay, and so it don't matter if

1217
01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 4: you like it. And under the comments, it was like,

1218
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 4: this is a filter, this is not real. You're way

1219
01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:11,720
Speaker 4: too skinny. This this is it.

1220
01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:12,600
Speaker 3: The one in the black dress.

1221
01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like green is like a dark green in.

1222
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:18,240
Speaker 3: The mirror a mirror. Yes, yes, I remember that.

1223
01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:19,000
Speaker 4: You know my work.

1224
01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:21,000
Speaker 3: I saw the comments.

1225
01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:21,880
Speaker 2: It was crazy.

1226
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:25,320
Speaker 4: They went they went a wall. And so what happens

1227
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:28,000
Speaker 4: is a pylon happens. So one person will write a

1228
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:30,520
Speaker 4: comment and then there is a pylon. Then everyone goes

1229
01:03:30,600 --> 01:03:33,480
Speaker 4: under that person comment and they write the same comment

1230
01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:36,200
Speaker 4: or get worse. And so I have to nip it

1231
01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:38,880
Speaker 4: in the bud by saying, hey, this is my body.

1232
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:42,880
Speaker 4: I chose to put this up because I felt confident

1233
01:03:42,920 --> 01:03:46,720
Speaker 4: it doesn't matter how you feel about my body. And also,

1234
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:49,000
Speaker 4: you don't get to talk about my body, just like

1235
01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 4: I don't get to talk about your body. I would

1236
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:52,440
Speaker 4: never do that. I would never go to your page

1237
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 4: and say what to do, what you have on or

1238
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:57,520
Speaker 4: what I don't. I would never do that to you.

1239
01:03:57,840 --> 01:04:02,480
Speaker 4: And if I do, I'm gassing you up a baby.

1240
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:05,040
Speaker 4: You wearing that, you're looking good, you look fired, Oh

1241
01:04:05,080 --> 01:04:09,720
Speaker 4: my gosh, beautiful premium, you know. So for me, I'm like,

1242
01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:13,240
Speaker 4: I don't. I'm not gonna allow you to do to

1243
01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 4: me what I would never do. Right, So I was.

1244
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:20,800
Speaker 4: I kept a cute. I just informed them not to

1245
01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:24,919
Speaker 4: do it again, and how this is not acceptable and

1246
01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:27,960
Speaker 4: you should you should not do this to any other woman.

1247
01:04:28,200 --> 01:04:28,480
Speaker 2: Right.

1248
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 3: It's just flat out wrong, it means and not progressive

1249
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:35,200
Speaker 3: at all, Like what is this helping? It's I can't

1250
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:37,560
Speaker 3: wrap my head around why people do it, but it's

1251
01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:40,960
Speaker 3: people just get too comfortable and when they see one

1252
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 3: comment like he said, and it just keeps going, and

1253
01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:45,720
Speaker 3: it keeps going. People hurt people hurt people, which is

1254
01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 3: why I always say, don't take it personal. But at

1255
01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:49,840
Speaker 3: the end of the day, we're human. And when you

1256
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:52,120
Speaker 3: just keep seeing a negative comment after a negative comment,

1257
01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:54,920
Speaker 3: you almost don't see the positive comments sometimes because the

1258
01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:59,040
Speaker 3: negative comments are meant to stink. That's why they're doing it,

1259
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:01,600
Speaker 3: and so it's hard just keep seeing them. So I

1260
01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:05,280
Speaker 3: understand why you are letting them know that. It's just

1261
01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:06,920
Speaker 3: it's just I just wish it would stop.

1262
01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, now just getting to the point where you know,

1263
01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:12,200
Speaker 4: they know, they know I'm gonna come for them. But

1264
01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,600
Speaker 4: if they come for y'all, they know, they're like, kJ,

1265
01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:16,720
Speaker 4: don't play that, don't put this stop, don't do that.

1266
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:19,680
Speaker 4: kJ gonna get tube, you know, And they know because

1267
01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:22,160
Speaker 4: because we're a supportive group, we have great energy, we

1268
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:25,000
Speaker 4: have great synergy, We love each other. I don't want

1269
01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:28,800
Speaker 4: any shred of doubt or insecurity to seep in any

1270
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 4: of our cast, crew, director writer's hit.

1271
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:35,320
Speaker 3: You should be able to post a cast photo without

1272
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:38,520
Speaker 3: just being torn apart for how we just look for

1273
01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:39,080
Speaker 3: who we are.

1274
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:40,960
Speaker 2: Seriously, it's insane.

1275
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:42,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, what do you want us to post? What

1276
01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 3: is okay with you? At one? Two three? Bad girl?

1277
01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:48,160
Speaker 3: Like you know what I mean, Like, what would you like?

1278
01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:51,560
Speaker 3: Because it seems like I can't do anything right? You know,

1279
01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:54,400
Speaker 3: it's what it feels like. And I'm like I'm like

1280
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:55,720
Speaker 3: to be an open book and I like to be

1281
01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:59,320
Speaker 3: my authentic self and it doesn't matter. Sometimes you just

1282
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 3: get kind of torn apart. But we shall persevere, yeah,

1283
01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:05,560
Speaker 3: by hitting the pod.

1284
01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:11,880
Speaker 1: Seriously, thank you guys for both opening enough about that,

1285
01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 1: because I know it's something we all deal with, struggle with.

1286
01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:16,480
Speaker 2: I'm sure other women watching deal with the same thing.

1287
01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:18,560
Speaker 1: But thank you for being open because I know you're

1288
01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:21,480
Speaker 1: a newcomer into this world and we've seen it and

1289
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:24,840
Speaker 1: I've definitely been blacking people, letting right because we're not

1290
01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:25,160
Speaker 1: doing it.

1291
01:06:25,200 --> 01:06:25,760
Speaker 2: We're not doing this.

1292
01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:28,600
Speaker 4: It's twenty twenty six, it's really and but also I

1293
01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 4: feel like whatever energy you put on into the world,

1294
01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:33,400
Speaker 4: you're going to get back, you know, and we should

1295
01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:34,120
Speaker 4: be putting out.

1296
01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:35,800
Speaker 2: Because it's enough.

1297
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:39,240
Speaker 4: It's enough going on. Let's all keep it cute and

1298
01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:41,920
Speaker 4: happy social media, it should be a happy place, be

1299
01:06:41,920 --> 01:06:43,000
Speaker 4: a social puppy.

1300
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:44,440
Speaker 3: Is TikTok dances?

1301
01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 2: Yes, got one for y'all.

1302
01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 3: Oh oh yes, TikTok dance for us for a long time.

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Speaker 3: That's only when I know I don't have to you

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Speaker 3: know what.

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Speaker 4: I want to do the uptown downtown Uptown.

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Speaker 2: Oh you got to teach you that way.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I just like watching it.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Well, in closing, I want to ask you both. The

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Speaker 1: podcast is called keep You Positive, Sweetie, right, he takes look,

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Speaker 1: but I want to know, in this season of your life,

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Speaker 1: how are.

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Speaker 2: You both keeping it positive?

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Speaker 3: How am I keeping it positive? Honestly, I think boundaries

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Speaker 3: have allowed me to keep things positive. Saying no to

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Speaker 3: certain things, saying yes to certain things. That allows me

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Speaker 3: to show up happier. I'm not spreading myself thin and

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Speaker 3: like actually choosing what is going to benefit me. It

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Speaker 3: goes back to the being able to pour from a

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Speaker 3: cup that's full. Yes, I become my most toxic and

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Speaker 3: negative self when I just feel like I'm spread that

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Speaker 3: and I'm telling everyone, yes, yes, I can do this

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Speaker 3: for you, Yes, i can do this for you. And

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Speaker 3: then I'm like, I haven't done anything for myself, and

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to be the best person to be

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Speaker 3: like she's a little off today, it's a little negative.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, because I haven't worked out yet or

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Speaker 3: have a journaled, and so I think the boundaries definitely

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Speaker 3: what about you?

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Speaker 4: kJ mine is definitely asking for help.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 4: It's my favorite. I just I love it and I

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01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:18,679
Speaker 4: just discovered it. I discovered it when I was pregnant

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Speaker 4: last year and just always needing help. I just always

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Speaker 4: needed help. And so when I had the baby, I

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Speaker 4: was like, oh, I still need help. And now that

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Speaker 4: I'm kind of still in my groove, I'm like, but

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Speaker 4: I still need help. Yes, and that's okay. So, you know,

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Speaker 4: I said earlier to my assistant this morning, he was like,

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Speaker 4: so he was giving me pointers and everything. You know,

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Speaker 4: this is what's going on. And I said, you know what,

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Speaker 4: I don't I don't have the capacity for that. I said,

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Speaker 4: can you go talk to my husband? I just don't

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01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:54,360
Speaker 4: have it. Could you can you take that up with him?

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Speaker 4: I just don't have.

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Speaker 2: I don't have the capacity for that.

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Speaker 4: Talk to about I'm just I'm just a pretty lady.

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Speaker 3: I'm just a girl girl.

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Speaker 2: Please.

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Speaker 4: The fifth questions did the most on the phone. First

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Speaker 4: of all, I cannot wait, I cannot wait for but

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Speaker 4: there was rather.

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Speaker 3: I love it, your sister, I'm here, maybe I can

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Speaker 3: quo alright, don't tell me like that.

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Speaker 4: I'm don't worry.

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Speaker 1: To tell our audience if there's anything you have coming

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Speaker 1: up that we can support, you know. The sweeties love

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Speaker 1: to support. Yes, kJ do you have anything coming up?

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01:09:57,320 --> 01:09:59,760
Speaker 1: But we can get behind They already behind it.

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Speaker 3: I love the girl.

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Speaker 4: You let me let me look at the camera. This

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Speaker 4: is my camera. I love y'all. Sweeties, y'all, y'all are amazing.

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Speaker 4: I've just I just love y'all and I love how

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Speaker 4: much you love my girl. You know, I mean you can.

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Speaker 4: I'm on all the socials. I I kind of keep

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Speaker 4: it low key. Uh, but we do have a coffee business.

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Speaker 4: My husband and I talk business, so you know we

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Speaker 4: can definitely. We love the support.

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Speaker 2: There is it online.

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Speaker 4: Everything.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's called it's a black it wasn't.

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Speaker 4: Black period coffee period. Yes, it's on shop red Bag

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01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:42,440
Speaker 4: right now, shopread bag dot com, which is a platform

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Speaker 4: for black creators with black merchandise and amazing yeah, and products.

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Speaker 4: So that's something amazing. But yeah, right now, I'm keeping

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Speaker 4: all the other endeavors kind of closer to my ch smart.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. We will definitely get our CoFe.

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Speaker 1: I don't drink coffee, but make sure you get yourffee,

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Speaker 1: your coffee drinker. My dad loves coffee, so I'll get

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Speaker 1: himself for when he comes to visit my house.

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Speaker 3: To get into the machic business.

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Speaker 4: I got to get into. Tell me more about.

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Speaker 3: It, ceremonial, did you macha?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I love what that?

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's fine. You don't.

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Speaker 4: Like is this the match?

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Speaker 3: Then we drink?

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Speaker 4: Where is the coffee?

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Speaker 3: Definitely?

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Speaker 4: Is this the that we drink?

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Speaker 3: I like Macha, but coffee is definitely my speed. I'll

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Speaker 3: have four.

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Speaker 2: No literally to breakfast.

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Speaker 4: Yes, She's like, can I get some more and some more? No,

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Speaker 4: You're not done for.

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Speaker 3: Because I'll get it like a latta and then if

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Speaker 3: I'm like halfway down, I like have them like just

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Speaker 3: filled up with black coffee. I am a girl, Okay,

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Speaker 3: I guess yell our sister. Yeah, but I do like macha.

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Speaker 2: Okay, there we go, Ballace, what about you? George?

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Speaker 3: You hi, guys, thanks for allowing me to come in.

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Speaker 3: I actually just finally produced my own short film. It's

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Speaker 3: action film, yes, and it's not out yet. It's we're

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Speaker 3: still literally filming, like the title sequence. We wanted to

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01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:11,400
Speaker 3: make it small, just really casting directors. I'm trying to

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01:12:11,400 --> 01:12:15,559
Speaker 3: become an action star. And then I'm like, this looks

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01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:18,840
Speaker 3: really good, like the cameras were using the lenses. Let's

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01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:21,720
Speaker 3: make it into something bigger, better. So I can't wait

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01:12:21,760 --> 01:12:23,519
Speaker 3: to drop it because hopefully we're going to maybe turn

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01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:26,840
Speaker 3: it into something, oh, something bigger. We'll see. But yeah,

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Speaker 3: when I drop that, just just support.

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Speaker 2: Support.

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Speaker 3: The more people that can share it, get more people's

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Speaker 3: eyes on it. I'm trying to be the next kill

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Speaker 3: Bill out here.

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Speaker 2: Speak. Definitely support that. Ladies. Thank you both. I have

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Speaker 2: enjoyed this time.

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Speaker 3: It really just feels like I forgot the mics were

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Speaker 3: here sometays because this is how we talk.

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Speaker 1: Because absolutely, thank you guys so much.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: You two women standing in completely different seasons, one expanding

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Speaker 1: legacy and stepping into motherhood and the other embracing new

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01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:06,559
Speaker 1: beginnings and finding her voice, yet both moving with grace

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01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:10,879
Speaker 1: of purpose and authenticity. Watching the dynamic between you reminds

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01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:13,599
Speaker 1: us that this sisterhood isn't about being in the same

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Speaker 1: place at the same time. It's about holding space for

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Speaker 1: each other as we grow, evolve, and step into.

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Speaker 2: Who we're becoming.

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Speaker 1: Your honesty, your presence, and your positivity truly reflects what

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01:13:24,479 --> 01:13:27,400
Speaker 1: this space is all about. Thank you both for showing

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01:13:27,479 --> 01:13:29,800
Speaker 1: us what it looks like to leave with heart to

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01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:33,679
Speaker 1: stay grounded through change and to keep choosing positivity even

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Speaker 1: while you're still becoming kJ and Jordan, I am so

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Speaker 1: grateful for this conversation and thank you for tuning in

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Speaker 1: to this special episode of the Keep It Positive Weety Show.

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Speaker 1: We are celebrating ten seasons of.

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01:13:44,960 --> 01:13:46,839
Speaker 2: Tyler Perry, Sis, Says and kIPS.

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01:13:47,160 --> 01:13:50,240
Speaker 1: Be sure to catch new episodes of Sisters every Wednesday

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01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:53,640
Speaker 1: on BT at nine to eighth Central, and also be

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01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:56,640
Speaker 1: sure to subscribe. Share this episode with someone who needs it,

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01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:59,640
Speaker 1: and if you need advice, positivity, or a question with

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01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:02,680
Speaker 1: something you're going through, please email us at Keep It

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01:14:02,720 --> 01:14:04,960
Speaker 1: Positive Outcomes at gmail dot com.

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01:14:05,000 --> 01:14:07,320
Speaker 2: As always, stay blessed, stay.

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01:14:07,200 --> 01:14:11,080
Speaker 1: Encouraged, and in the meantime in between time, keep it positive, Sweetie.

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Speaker 2: I'll see you guys next time.