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Speaker 1: Hey, what's up. We're back. It's slip service, I mean

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Speaker 1: as lay. I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm g G McGuire and

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Speaker 1: we have our sex Bert Michelle Hope. What's up everybody?

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Speaker 1: Hey girl, we need your help. You know. We start

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Speaker 1: off with the tip of the day. All right, today's tip.

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Speaker 1: How do you have sex with a guy with a

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Speaker 1: small penis? Now, let's be clear, we're trying to help

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Speaker 1: you small penis guys out there as well. Right, we're

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Speaker 1: not at all, but it's a little different. I think

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Speaker 1: having sex with a guy with a small one, well,

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Speaker 1: I think that what we have to remember is, first

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Speaker 1: and foremost, there is no nerve endings inside of the vagina.

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Speaker 1: I've always said to all these men out here talking

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Speaker 1: about you're gonna blow my back out where you might

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Speaker 1: really slip a disk. So let's not do that, and

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Speaker 1: let's focus where my pleasure point is, which my claturus. Alright,

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Speaker 1: so so you don't have to have a big dig

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Speaker 1: to reach the clatorius motion in the ocean bubble Kidi,

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Speaker 1: not the size of the ship because that Titanic went down, Okay,

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Speaker 1: but also you have to remember that your g spot

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Speaker 1: is only an inch to an inch and a half

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Speaker 1: inside the vagina on the upper part right, So that

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Speaker 1: does not make me want an inch long penis, no, hell, okay,

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Speaker 1: but I would suggest the crossover. I'm a big fan

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Speaker 1: of the crossover move. Somebody can't see me, but like

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Speaker 1: where you're kind of scissoring each other's legs and he

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Speaker 1: got you right here and he might be spanking it.

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Speaker 1: That's a really great move for let me see scissoring.

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Speaker 1: So that's basically your legs are kind of closed, right,

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Speaker 1: so like he might be like this and like one

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Speaker 1: of your legs, so if he's standing, one of your

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Speaker 1: legs would go in between. Isn't that how lesbians have sex?

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Speaker 1: So basically a guy with the small penis is a lesbian.

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Speaker 1: Similarly they have the trip, you have the trip, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, and men with small penis should eat it

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Speaker 1: and should eat it. But in particularly if you have

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Speaker 1: a small penis, you gotta start up with that, let

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Speaker 1: her come from that, and then slide in right or

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Speaker 1: take it to the booty back door. Betty it that

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Speaker 1: always works too. You know, I'm so scared. It ain't

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Speaker 1: all no matter what size it is, right, But if

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Speaker 1: a guy have you ever had sex with a guy

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Speaker 1: with it's my penis? Yes? Okay, So what is your

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Speaker 1: recommendation to make that I don't know. I need help

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Speaker 1: because I don't I feel like I feel like my

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Speaker 1: best sexual experiences are guys were bigger dicks, and you know,

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Speaker 1: like a small dick is like I feel like I

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Speaker 1: can't like bounce on it the way because it might

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Speaker 1: you might slide out, Like you have to get grind it,

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Speaker 1: like you have to grind it, and I don't feel

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Speaker 1: like guys like to get grinded on you, Like I

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Speaker 1: can't move too much because it might not so it's

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Speaker 1: like a little short bound. The only way for me

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Speaker 1: to rise is like a first cow girl, Like you

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Speaker 1: have to be like sitting up and like I have

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Speaker 1: to be like on my knees and reverse, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. But that seems like you might move

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Speaker 1: up too far and then have to come back down

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Speaker 1: and then you can't see it. Are you doing your

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Speaker 1: kegel exercises while you're having didn't like my key goes

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Speaker 1: because he has a small PENI that's not my fault

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Speaker 1: because one time I had a man with a small

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Speaker 1: penis during sex. Say to me oh, you're trying to clench.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to stop the whole show right there. In

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Speaker 1: my mind, I was like, I kind of need to

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Speaker 1: trying to feel something right. Doesn't have nothing to do

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Speaker 1: with me, because my vagina is not a hallway. But

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Speaker 1: what you got is a baby Karen, all right, well

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Speaker 1: do you have you you've been with a small penis guy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've actually had a small penis boyfriend. And so what's

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Speaker 1: your tip for two women dealing with that and for man?

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Speaker 1: What can you do to make the experience more pleasurable? Well,

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Speaker 1: we had a lot of anal. There was a lot

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Speaker 1: of oral. Um. I didn't hate. I didn't hate like

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Speaker 1: just regular vaginal sex with him, um, but it was

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Speaker 1: um man, So he had to do other stuff. Basically,

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Speaker 1: vibrators are great. Sometimes I can't He use his finger,

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Speaker 1: and well I don't. I'm personally not a fan of fingers.

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Speaker 1: But some times guys that are that have smaller penis is,

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Speaker 1: if they know what they're doing with it, because like

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Speaker 1: you said, what the g spot is, it can be

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Speaker 1: think rationally because most guys don't think that their penis

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Speaker 1: where Oh my god, that's the worst. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Instead of trying to put a sagnum on that little

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Speaker 1: tiny thing, you should just embrace the fact that you

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Speaker 1: have a small penis and learn how to work with

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Speaker 1: if you have. That would be my advice to a man.

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Speaker 1: And you know, we were talking about this earlier, but

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Speaker 1: a lot of times guys, if they have a small penis,

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Speaker 1: they're not trying to have sex with you. And you

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Speaker 1: were saying, who said one of their friends had a

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Speaker 1: problem with a guy not wanting to have stout. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: one of my close friends. Um, she's in a new

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Speaker 1: relationship and he won't have sex with her. Well, they

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Speaker 1: tried a couple of times and he kind of like,

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Speaker 1: don't touch my penis now, and then when they finally

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Speaker 1: did do it, it was like a guy's a big

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Speaker 1: dick as soon as you're working proud exactly, but it

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Speaker 1: is belly would you round her a long that's funny,

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Speaker 1: A long pencil dick, shorter, girthier, yeah, right, not too short.

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Speaker 1: I like my man short and thick, like my men

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Speaker 1: like they're win. No, not too short though, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 1: gonna lie. I do like I do like a bigger dick.

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Speaker 1: I really do like it. Have you ever had it?

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Speaker 1: We all like it, but I like pain. Okay, have

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Speaker 1: you ever had a penis so big? He turned it down?

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Speaker 1: I did, yes, yes, a couple of times, like I

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Speaker 1: don't think they can fit in mouth? No in your mouth?

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Speaker 1: But oh no, no no. I went somewhere. I was

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Speaker 1: and you know, it came to shoot or get off

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Speaker 1: the pot, and we was making I was like, tonight

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Speaker 1: the night he's so fine. Girl. He pulled that out,

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Speaker 1: I said, lights came on real fast. I was like,

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Speaker 1: I can't do it? But you could put it in

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Speaker 1: and I put it in the whole way. No, girl,

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Speaker 1: I could not tip one fitting. Furthermore, I was like,

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Speaker 1: need to know what the pain is because when you

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Speaker 1: health things that I would worry about, and some things

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Speaker 1: what we know is cervical cancer. Somebody getting an abnormal paps.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I saw that on Survivor's Remorse. The

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Speaker 1: they break up? Um? I mean I don't think it

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Speaker 1: he had it or not. Well, that's very true. Can't

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Speaker 1: men so men are usually carriers and there are no

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Speaker 1: usually pain during intercourse. Now, but on the flip side

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Speaker 1: which is very normal. You can get, um, something called

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Speaker 1: like when you would get an psotomy. Now, that will

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Speaker 1: heal quickly. Um. But what I can suggest is loop

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Speaker 1: which is the process where we get wet. So in men,

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Speaker 1: So I always advise a lot of four play and

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Speaker 1: if you got to spit on it, telling you guys,

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Speaker 1: you got to play, you know. Yeah, you can't just

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Speaker 1: on your dick. That's not lick a nipple. But it

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Speaker 1: does four play for you. He does four play for you.

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Speaker 1: Ladies start in the bedroom because for me, like I'm

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, I want it to start at dinner.

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Speaker 1: Will you pick me up? Yes? I get to that

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Speaker 1: as soon as I get to the guy that I'm

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Speaker 1: for it, I definitely recommend some for a plague because right,

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Speaker 1: I have heard a lot of times in talking to

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Speaker 1: right then they have to go through this refractor period

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Speaker 1: Sometimes people's refractor periods is very quick, so it could

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Speaker 1: day versus you creating some type of closeness or bond

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00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,680
Speaker 1: with someone else. I think that that kind of thing

425
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:30,120
Speaker 1: your hopes, your dreams, your ambitions, that's mine. If we're

426
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 1: in a committed relationship sexually, we're sexual beings. Our bodies

427
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 1: are designed to do four things, eat, sleep, ship, and procreate,

428
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 1: not in that order, hopefully, but you know that's what

429
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,080
Speaker 1: our bodies are designed to do. So all this like

430
00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 1: thinking and processing, and that's things we've given. My dude,

431
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:51,600
Speaker 1: No two weeks either you you ain't. You can't be

432
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 1: with nobody else. We got married, that's it. I'll put

433
00:22:54,480 --> 00:23:01,760
Speaker 1: a wig on, like switch it up. I'll do some

434
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 1: new exercises, maybe get a little more flexible. I have

435
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 1: sex somewhere new way, act like you don't know each

436
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 1: other meeting. But all right, now here's the next question

437
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 1: from DJ Plug. He said, did your girl guy be

438
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 1: willing to have sex whenever you went to or do

439
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:19,679
Speaker 1: you have to be considered? What's the point of being

440
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 1: in a relationship if the smash ain't guarantee whenever you

441
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 1: want it? I think that, Um, I think when you're

442
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 1: in a relationship, yeah, you should. You should be able

443
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 1: to get it whenever you want it. For sure. The

444
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 1: only times I would say no to sex is if,

445
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:33,920
Speaker 1: like I'm not feeling well. Yeah, unless she's sick and

446
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 1: it's not God forbid, somebody really out of you. Right,

447
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,880
Speaker 1: even though even though when I am when I'm sick,

448
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: I still I'll still have sex as long as I'm

449
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: not throwing up. If my man wants to have sex,

450
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:54,679
Speaker 1: it makes me want to have sex, right, even if

451
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 1: I don't feel like it at first, you know, But

452
00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,479
Speaker 1: are these things that we should talk about as we're

453
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 1: getting into the relationship, Like when you're like, I'm somebody

454
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: on a date and maybe this is why I'm single, Like,

455
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, so in a relationship, how many times a week? Like,

456
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 1: what do you think it's a good amount of times?

457
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: I will ask that, But what do I think it's

458
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: It's varies for the couple, Like there are some couples

459
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:19,159
Speaker 1: that don't feel like actual intercourse is a part of

460
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: intimacy and maybe we just want to cuddle. And maybe

461
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 1: I'm somebody who just really likes to cuddle and I

462
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 1: only want sex one night a week, or you know,

463
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 1: maybe I'd like it every day the ends and y,

464
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 1: I think every day except that you had a week

465
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:37,360
Speaker 1: off when you have your period. It ain't stopping me

466
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 1: because actually, did you know that during your menstrual cycle

467
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 1: you are more aroused? And I know that you know

468
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 1: that you can get blood all over your sheets and

469
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 1: your math. I'm not doing or hopping the shower. Listen,

470
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 1: that's my week off. I agree, I mean, I mean

471
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 1: week yeah, and I like giving every day. But I'm

472
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. The guy's willing to run the red light.

473
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, you whatever you or the last two days,

474
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:18,119
Speaker 1: because yeah, I would rather heavy than the last two

475
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 1: days because I'm not feeling so like I feel like

476
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 1: the aroma on heavy because when you look like when

477
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 1: you turn the light on it. But I think in

478
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 1: a blood clot Yeah, that's funny. I think the only

479
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 1: time I would say, the only time in a relationship

480
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,919
Speaker 1: or something of this nature that I would say sex

481
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,959
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be every day or whatever is you have

482
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: to be much more mindful when you're in your first

483
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: trimester of pregnancy. Yeah, very mindful. Um. And I think

484
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 1: in that situation first trimester of pregnancy, if a woman

485
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: is like, you know, I'm not really feeling well or whatever,

486
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 1: you don't want to have um intercourse because there are

487
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: some things that can happen to the fetus born fetus. Also,

488
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 1: oral sex during pregnancy, especially that first trimester, you have

489
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 1: to be very very careful because you don't want to

490
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 1: get you don't want to get what an air bubble

491
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 1: in your uterus because that can cause extreme complications. Right. Um. So,

492
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 1: if a woman is pregnant and you're in your first

493
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 1: trimester and your partner wants to have sex and you're like,

494
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 1: or you start to have sex and then sex becomes uncomfortable,

495
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,920
Speaker 1: you need to stop having sex because it can really

496
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: impact your pregnancy. Um. But those are conversations you should have, like, oh,

497
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,199
Speaker 1: can I give you a blowjob instead, I'm kind of

498
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 1: having some morning sickness, or I'm not really feeling bad,

499
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 1: feeling good, or I'm having some cramping, uh due to

500
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 1: the pregnancy. You want to try to like that. You

501
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 1: have to listen to your body whenever I feel like

502
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: I'm like my body doesn't want to have dick in

503
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: my vagina. I'm definitely kind of first time messages jergraph

504
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 1: on me. I don't think whatever I think, you cannot

505
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 1: just give you hit. I think I just give head

506
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: until they come and don't stop, and then they're exactly

507
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. If you ever get a

508
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: head and don't have sex like as women do, we

509
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 1: absolute la. I see it out and then I dismissed

510
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 1: someone like no, because I like how to get up,

511
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 1: like I like to make a I like to make

512
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: a guy come with my mouth. So yeah, I definitely

513
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 1: without having sex, but I want a new person now

514
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,959
Speaker 1: I'm talking about this. He go down on you and

515
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: you come, and then you're like, Okay, no sex, Oh no,

516
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 1: not for me, because I want to dick after a

517
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:33,959
Speaker 1: call right after you come. There's no better feeling than

518
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: you come and and that boom. I like it, Dili, Yeah, no,

519
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 1: I don't. I want it. There's nothing better than the

520
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:43,880
Speaker 1: guy that's like, let me just take care of you,

521
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 1: do this for you and then but then I'm like,

522
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: why don't you want to suck me? What you're gonna

523
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:52,239
Speaker 1: go for the next bit? I didn't even do that

524
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: for you and be rewarded for that. No, I was.

525
00:27:55,160 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 1: I was acting as I wanted them. What's the reward

526
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: if you've going down on me? And I'm I'm feeling like, oh,

527
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:09,119
Speaker 1: I need to reward you. What's a reward if you don't?

528
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: Don't we do it for guys though, Yeah, like just

529
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: take care of them and no, no, no, I take no,

530
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 1: not for a reward. I just want to reclaim power

531
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: and remind you like who you with. I just want

532
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 1: to reclaim But I just want to snitch that all

533
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: right now, let me ask you this. Say you're dating

534
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,400
Speaker 1: a guy. Things are going great, he's really into you,

535
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 1: You're really into him, perfect man. Right before y'all have

536
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: sex for the first time, he tells you, just so

537
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: you know, it's hard for me to tell you I

538
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: have herpes. You know that never goes away. But a

539
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 1: lot of people have it. Yeah, a lot of people

540
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 1: have it. Probably most of the people you slept with.

541
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: You don't even know they have it, and they don't

542
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 1: know that. Hey, if I'm not having an outbreak, it's fine.

543
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: You can't get able to protect ourselves. What do you do? No,

544
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: I'm not having sex with you. I'm sorry, past, thanks

545
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 1: for telling me. Thanks for telling me. What do you

546
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: have to say about Okay, so, um, I'm not having

547
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: sex with somebody knowing they have herpes. That girl, I'm

548
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 1: gonna tell you right now, you've had sex with someone

549
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 1: knowing they've had herpes. They just didn't tell you. No,

550
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 1: I didn't know. They have not ever had sex with

551
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 1: somebody that has herpes. You don't know that. You know.

552
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,239
Speaker 1: I know. I'm telling because i know what it looks like.

553
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You know that break is. Here's

554
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: here's the thing. People have herpes. I just want to

555
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 1: say very clearly now because there's six of us and somebody,

556
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 1: I just want to say clearly. I just want to

557
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 1: say this very clear. I just want to say this

558
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: very clearly while we're recording. I have not ever had

559
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 1: sex with somebody that has her know that I don't

560
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 1: have herpes. I do people have STDs, and I can

561
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 1: count on one hand how many people have I've gone

562
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 1: royal with so and with that without skin to skin.

563
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: I was. I was dating a guy before and and

564
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 1: I went, I was in like snooping in his bathroom

565
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: and I found Valt trucks and I found something Valt

566
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: track and yeah, and I kind of ended it after that. Really,

567
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 1: but you already had had sex with him? No, you

568
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 1: had it? Yeah, I think I saved myself from maybe

569
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 1: getting it. Well, now you tell us Michell was a

570
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: sex sex pert? Okay, when you can, you should? You

571
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 1: would you have sex with some money that is that

572
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: has herpes? Okay? So I want to kind of really

573
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: give you, um some facts. First and foremost, a person

574
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: can have herpes, right, I hate to break your heart. No,

575
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 1: you're not breaking my heart. I know for sure, because

576
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I don't just I know the

577
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: people that don't have a sex. I know for sure

578
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: that I have not had sex with somebody. Okay, So

579
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: herpies first and foremost can lay dormant in your system

580
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 1: for twenty I'm not taking that there's no way I'm

581
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:15,959
Speaker 1: taking out right. So I just got a call from Africa.

582
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 1: Somebody saw me speaking in a number way and a

583
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 1: girl calls me. She's like, I just tested positive for

584
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 1: an I g G for HVS two. So an I

585
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: g G is a blood test that they can take.

586
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,719
Speaker 1: First of all, I want everyone that is listening to

587
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 1: know when you go to the doctor to get a

588
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 1: check up and you get tested for STDs, herpes is

589
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 1: not a test that they do. It is a test

590
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: you have to ask for. It is not great. You

591
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: will not know unless you have an outbreak. If you

592
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: think you have herpies. What a clinic will tell you

593
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: is they'll say, you know what, we need you to

594
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 1: come back when you're having an outbreak so we can

595
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: test the fluid. If you get a blood test and

596
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: you've had chicken pox. And this is why they don't

597
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: test for herpes via blood test because you get a

598
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 1: lot of false positives. Right now, an I g G test,

599
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 1: which is a blood test about chicken pox. No, chicken

600
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: pox is herpies. It's a it's herpies has a bunch

601
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: of different pos twice. Isn't that like herpes? They well,

602
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 1: you're not probably gonna get chicken pox twice. Now, what's

603
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 1: the other thing. It's chicken pox, and it's shingles, oral herpies.

604
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: It is herpies and it's oral herpies, and it's so

605
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 1: of the adult American population has oral herpes, has HVS one.

606
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 1: They get cold source. So that's one I I don't have,

607
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 1: y'all y'all know me a minute, y'all know two years.

608
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 1: Have y'all ever seen me with anything on my mouth

609
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 1: one time? No? That's not me. No, And that's and

610
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: that's great, right. But also what you have to understand

611
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 1: the dormant thank you, not in me, maybe in y'all,

612
00:32:52,920 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: not me, nerpies. Her can lay dormant in your system forever.

613
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 1: Like you can have the herpies virus and never will

614
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: never get an outbreak because your immune system is strong

615
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 1: enough to fight it off. Now, what herpies really is

616
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: is a really inconvenient fucking virus, okay, because and it's

617
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: a barometer of your health. Because if you've been exposed

618
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: to herpies and you have the herpies complex virus in

619
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 1: your system, and you are healthy and you have a

620
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: strong immune system, you will not get an outbreak. You'll

621
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 1: never get an outbreak, but um, and I've had gynecologists

622
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 1: and um, you know, eurologists talk to me about herpes.

623
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: Is kind of barometer for your health. If you get

624
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: an outbreak, that means your immune system is not where

625
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 1: it is so weak it cannot fight off the outbreak.

626
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: You see an emergency emergency up honey or valtrack or lycing.

627
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: So lysing is an over the counter amino acid that

628
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: you can buy at the drug store, all right, and

629
00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 1: lycing you can add to your daily vitamin regiment. And

630
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: if you have either been exposed to her pies or

631
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: you're dating someone, if you're dating somebody who has disclosed

632
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 1: to you that they have herpes, I would immediately tell

633
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 1: you to start taking lycene because it will fight off.

634
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: It will fight off your body getting um an outbreak.

635
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: And then to understand that there are the times that

636
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 1: someone is most contagious is the the few days prior

637
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,319
Speaker 1: to an outbreak. And people who have herpies, no, because

638
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 1: they're gonna get a tingling sensation. It's a nerve it's

639
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 1: a nerve virus, so your nerves it's gonna tingle in

640
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: the spot where the outbreak will come, not A, not a.

641
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: It's gonna itch and tingle and then you're gonna get

642
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 1: the outbreak. So if you have a strong enough immune system,

643
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 1: you cannot have I actually had a gynecologist I worked

644
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 1: with once who said, my my husband, I've been with

645
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 1: him twenty two years, he is HBS too positive. He

646
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 1: has herpies. I have had two children with him, and

647
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: she has never had an outbreak. Right, So it was

648
00:34:56,719 --> 00:35:00,080
Speaker 1: her that really explained to me the understanding. Off you

649
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: keep your immune system healthy, you will not have outbreaks.

650
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 1: It is an inconvenience. Chlamydia, gnarrhea, if that is not treated,

651
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 1: that can kill you and make you sterile. Right, herpies,

652
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 1: and it's just yes, and make it juice out green stuff.

653
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 1: You know, dicks don't start dripping. Great, but herpes is

654
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 1: not gonna kill you. It's just super inconvenient. Right. And

655
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 1: And I think that I think statistically, and I'm trying

656
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: to look it up on my phone so I don't

657
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 1: sound like an idiot. I want to say it's like

658
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 1: one in three sexually active adults in America has herpes.

659
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 1: And we're not even talking about minority or a a

660
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:41,800
Speaker 1: minority demographic because yeah, we're talking about gen pop. But

661
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: if we looked at ethnic into ethnic people of ethnic

662
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: backgrounds Latino African American, the numbers would be like two

663
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 1: out of three. You somebody with harpies everything or not.

664
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 1: I'm I don't funk with these. Disgusted already as God's father,

665
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 1: I was with my son's father, checked this out. I

666
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,320
Speaker 1: was with my son's father for almost a decade and

667
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:17,439
Speaker 1: then even cheating on him. I'm like, I don't go raw,

668
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: I don't play game has herpes, but we are steping

669
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 1: her out. Not is making me never want to have

670
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 1: sex again. I swear to God, I'm a very paranoid person.

671
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: Well think about it. Like, so here's the deal. Use

672
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,800
Speaker 1: a condom, but the condom doesn't always protect you against

673
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,360
Speaker 1: her pies because it's skin to skin and more times

674
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 1: than not, herpies and genital warts they don't grow on

675
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 1: the penis shaft. You can get them in that space

676
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 1: between the penis and the testicles. The taint that it

677
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 1: can grow there, or it can grow like on the

678
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: pubist moand which is right above pictures of like I

679
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 1: remember seeing a picture of a baby who got a

680
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:02,399
Speaker 1: herpie all over that because as somebody a family member

681
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 1: like kiss the baby. Yes, never like, yes, I should

682
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 1: not herpies all over his back. It was so often,

683
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: it's awful. So you should never let strangers kiss your babies.

684
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 1: No please. I was so paranoidal with my son. I

685
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 1: didn't even let anybody my family members to kiss my

686
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,399
Speaker 1: baby or touched my baby. I'm like, go wash your hands,

687
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: don't breathe on him. You can only home for about

688
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 1: fifteen seconds. But you know the best way to kind

689
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 1: of prevent herpies or even HPV because that's also a

690
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: skin to skin You don't need a body fluid for that.

691
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 1: You could fingerpop somebody and give them herpes or that. Um. So,

692
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:39,400
Speaker 1: if you're going to do intercourse, female or internal condoms

693
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 1: are the best because they sit outside of um the

694
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 1: vagina and kind of cover. I mean, you can use them.

695
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: Have you used I am familiar with how they work

696
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 1: and might have a used one. I am familiar with

697
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: how they work, and I can tell you that they

698
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 1: are a big cumbersome when you first start using them.

699
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 1: But you have to remember a female condom and be

700
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 1: put in eight hours prior to sex, and the longer

701
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 1: it's in the vagina the way it starts to mold

702
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 1: to a woman's walls. So I have had clients who

703
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: have said that it is much more enjoyable for a

704
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:18,479
Speaker 1: man and for women. You're safer, you're more protected because

705
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: your volva, the outer area is covered by the outer

706
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 1: part of the How many people really use people see

707
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,320
Speaker 1: they don't. I don't know if it's because they don't know,

708
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 1: or it does sometimes make a sound during sex like sound.

709
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 1: It's not a farting sound. It's kind of a it's

710
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 1: you know, what's what I wish I would have known

711
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:40,840
Speaker 1: we were going here because I have my vagina and

712
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 1: my penis and my condoms in my bag. Girl, I

713
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 1: brought shoot, I brought Rhonda with me. Loving it. It

714
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 1: does make a little it makes a little bit of

715
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:58,399
Speaker 1: a kind of sound, squashy sound. It makes a little

716
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 1: bit of a sound, but makes a squashy song. You

717
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 1: want to like it because literally it's no mess, no fuss,

718
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: no muss, you can use, you can yo red wings.

719
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 1: You don't even have to worry about a mess. Because

720
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: that's interesting. Yeah, what should pussy smell like? We were

721
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 1: talking early and we like, you know, people be like

722
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: pussy stings. But pussy should have a sent. It definitely

723
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: should have a sent. So it should have aroma a roma,

724
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 1: right like, So we give our pheromones and we give

725
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 1: off these kinds of different smells. I used to call

726
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 1: that freemones. Yes, honey, get your freemones on. We could

727
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 1: bottle freemones. We got over here. That could be your freemones.

728
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 1: We could bottle yo freemons and start selling it. Um,

729
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 1: but you're you wanted to have, it's gonna have a scent,

730
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 1: it's going to have an a roma. Um. You want

731
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 1: it to be not fishy. If it's fishy, you got

732
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 1: a problem, Give it a doctor. It's fishy. There's a

733
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 1: high likelihood of bacterial vaginosis, which is phoebe um. Sometimes

734
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 1: yeast infections can cause a little bit of a smell.

735
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 1: It probably won't be fishy, right, but what's not fresh?

736
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 1: But that's gonna come along with a cottage cheesy discharge

737
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 1: and and some itching and burning and swelling. Um. If

738
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: it smells like something has died in your pussy, bitch,

739
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 1: check your tampon. Do you have a tampon? Oh my god,

740
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 1: you know they happened to one of my friends. Sometimes

741
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 1: people did. She was having she started dating a new

742
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 1: guy and they were about to have sex and it

743
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 1: smells so bad. She was humiliated and embarrassed. He didn't

744
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: know what was going on. He was like, you know what,

745
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 1: you need to find out what's the problem. She forgot

746
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:47,279
Speaker 1: its tampon. I know, but do you understand that that

747
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 1: you can get very, very sick from that toxic That

748
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: can kill you. So if you smell like rotting carcass,

749
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:58,800
Speaker 1: you need you might have a tamp you might have

750
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 1: left that obi in there. And if you smell like

751
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:06,879
Speaker 1: garlic or oniony or something like that, take a shower, yeah,

752
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:11,400
Speaker 1: like a body. And then also as women, you really

753
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 1: need to tune into the fact that you are what

754
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 1: you eat. So if you eat high amounts of garlic,

755
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:20,320
Speaker 1: your vagina could smell like garlic um. And you know, water,

756
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,320
Speaker 1: eat eat, drinking a lot of water, flushing your system.

757
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 1: You a lot of fruits. That pineapple, If you drink pineapple,

758
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: your vagina is gonna taste good. That's really not the

759
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:34,879
Speaker 1: essence of that things. It's like, hey and perfect, I'm

760
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,800
Speaker 1: glad kettle one doesn't have a taste. Vodka doesn't have

761
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 1: a taste. Um, but yeah, so you want to smell,

762
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: but it should and it probably will smell musty but

763
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 1: kind of sweet. It should have it. And for men,

764
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 1: because I think that this is important. Men, your sperm

765
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 1: or your male ejaculation should smell like bleach or ammonia

766
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 1: because it's a base. If it smells like if it

767
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:02,919
Speaker 1: smells like weeds, I love the backwards down. You should

768
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 1: clean things your no, and I think it's good. Like

769
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 1: you know, you're good when you um. When a guy

770
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:09,839
Speaker 1: goes down on you and then you kiss him, you're like, oh,

771
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:12,359
Speaker 1: i'd tastes pretty good. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that happens a lot.

772
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:16,759
Speaker 1: And I drink so much water. I drink like a lot.

773
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 1: I drink like a gallon of water a day, drink water.

774
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 1: I drink mad water. I mean Hennessey has to come

775
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 1: from water, right, yeah, and it's like in it and

776
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 1: you see the ice is melted, so now it's water.

777
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: Therefore there's water in me. Well that's good. Can guys

778
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 1: be like taste nasty and stuff? Yes, sunk, sunk, funky spunk. Yeah,

779
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 1: you are what you eat when you swallow and it

780
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 1: you want to throw it right back up because it

781
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 1: tasted gross going down. Yeah, it should be sweet too,

782
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 1: because seminal fluid. So semen right there like little individual tadpoles, right,

783
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: they have to have the energy to swim to the

784
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:56,839
Speaker 1: egg and it's it's a journey, okay. So for them

785
00:42:56,920 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: to have energy, they have to eat something. So when um,

786
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:04,800
Speaker 1: the semen goes through the epididymus and the vast deference,

787
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:07,840
Speaker 1: it passes through the prostate, which we can move on

788
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 1: to prostate next. Um, when it goes through the prostate,

789
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:14,240
Speaker 1: it picks up like prosthetic fluid and all these extra fluids.

790
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 1: Some of the fluid is fruitcost which is sugar. Because

791
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,760
Speaker 1: sperm has to eat to have energy. So sperm should

792
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 1: taste sweet. It should smell kind of bleachy or ammonia eat,

793
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,760
Speaker 1: but it should have a sweeter taste. But I should

794
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 1: not be bitter. Me and my booie sat there, we

795
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: were eating a bunch of sour pasts kids and then

796
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 1: I sucked a zick and swallow his comba and it

797
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 1: tasted like sugar. I was like, what all that mean?

798
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:40,239
Speaker 1: Does he probably doesn't do drugs or drink a lot

799
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 1: of alcohol. Then that's why, because that prostate fluid, that's

800
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:47,399
Speaker 1: helping that seemen get to where it's gonna go. It's

801
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 1: supposed to be fruit. Was it like a yellow sour

802
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 1: patch kid? Or all? Right? Now we have another question

803
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 1: on my instagram, m La mont Bobwin wants to know

804
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: can holeness be deleted? What is hohleness? You know, it's

805
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 1: like you used to be at home, but now you're

806
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 1: in a relationship and all of that. Can we forget

807
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 1: my past and move on? I mean, I guess you

808
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:14,280
Speaker 1: have to ask not only your partner but also yourself,

809
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 1: because I think a lot of times what we do

810
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 1: as individuals is we don't allow time to forgive ourselves.

811
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 1: So then we go ahead and we sabotage the relationships

812
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 1: because we're still living in that space of quote unquote honess,

813
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: and we're letting all of these negative things that all

814
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 1: the shitty relationships we were in before cloud this individual

815
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 1: who's here, who's accepting me for everything that you're saying? Okay,

816
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 1: So I was reading about this interview that Lara Galoora

817
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: did a Global grind. You know, she was getting she

818
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 1: read that right they broke up, and she was saying

819
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: part of the issue the first time they broke up

820
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 1: was that there was a picture she posted she was

821
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: in the strip club where she worked with Meek Mill,

822
00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 1: and that pictures circulated everywhere. And then there were some

823
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 1: old tweets she posted about other rappers. You know that

824
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 1: she loved quote unquote loved or whatever when she was

825
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 1: seventeen years old, and she was like, the first time

826
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 1: we broke up, I didn't think he could. She was like,

827
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 1: it was hard for him because everybody was tagging him

828
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 1: and all of this stuff, and she felt like he

829
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 1: couldn't handle it. And then they ended up getting back together,

830
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 1: but ultimately it didn't work out. But I think that

831
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 1: in that that's her not leaving the past in the past.

832
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 1: But it's hard when everyone keeps bringing it up and

833
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 1: tagging your man in it. But but was but Whendy,

834
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 1: But was she with her man when she brought up

835
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:33,960
Speaker 1: all this old stuff. Well, she didn't bring it up.

836
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:35,919
Speaker 1: I think everybody else did a lot of other people

837
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 1: were digging it up. She said, it was a publicly relationship,

838
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 1: and you know, people don't want to see you happy,

839
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 1: so you started posting stuff and then there everybody's trying

840
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 1: to embarrass you. Going on you kind of be degrading

841
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,120
Speaker 1: it's hard for a guy to handle something like that,

842
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: it would be hard for a woman. That's part of

843
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 1: the reason why. And we've had this conversation before. Um

844
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 1: part of the reason why I kind of uh put

845
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:01,840
Speaker 1: myself out there with my guy in the beginning because

846
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 1: I never wanted anything to come back and haunt me.

847
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: I never wanted anybody to come back and throw anything

848
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: in his face. And if anything ever came up about

849
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 1: my past, I wanted him to have an idea of

850
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 1: it already or kind of already knowew what's going on? Nothing. Yeah,

851
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 1: so anybody anything that, anything anybody said to him, it

852
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 1: don't matter because it's already know. You're not telling me

853
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 1: nothing already know, so we know if you can handle

854
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,439
Speaker 1: it or not. From the beginning. If you can't handle it, hey,

855
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:27,760
Speaker 1: you know, I'm sorry. Not me. I feel like nobody

856
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 1: ship because I've experienced it, and I'm telling you'll be

857
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 1: dating guy and somebody comes on the radio and they're like, nah,

858
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,399
Speaker 1: you know, I have a friend like what they want

859
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 1: to bring it up. I have a a friend on

860
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 1: the radio changed the channel. I have a friend who

861
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 1: is in a relationship now when she just had a

862
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 1: baby with her boyfriend who's just a regular mega guy,

863
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 1: and and um, she told him about a couple of

864
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,480
Speaker 1: you know, maybe rappers or whoever in her past, and

865
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 1: it's been thrown up in her face, crying like I

866
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 1: just I wish he would just leave it alone, Like

867
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:08,719
Speaker 1: I'm with you now, we have a baby, we have

868
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 1: a family. Feel like she wishes she wouldn't have told

869
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: him she does because he would have never found out, right, Yeah,

870
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 1: that's how And that's how I feel like. If I'm

871
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:20,360
Speaker 1: dating someone and I see that they're hanging out with

872
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 1: somebody that I slept with, I'll be like, hey, you

873
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 1: know x y Z happened, right, But see the difference

874
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 1: in her situation. Need to be dating someone who doesn't

875
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: even work in entertainment. I told them, Hey, I stopped

876
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 1: with x y Z. That does x y Z and entertainment.

877
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:36,879
Speaker 1: That's what I was feeling. Every time that guy comes,

878
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 1: I feel like the radio on the TV. He's feeling

879
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 1: away for no reason because he would have never found

880
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,360
Speaker 1: out about that anyway, Right, And that's the main reason

881
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 1: why I told my guys, because he's in the entertainment.

882
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 1: So I feel like, you know these people, or you

883
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: might know these people, or you might come across some

884
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 1: of these people, and I don't want it to be

885
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 1: an issue. Now, if he was a regular guy, I

886
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: probably would not have told him, because you're never gonna

887
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:01,360
Speaker 1: find out you don't know the person unless I tell you.

888
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:03,840
Speaker 1: But I feel like even because it wasn't like anything,

889
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 1: but it could be something that ends up on the

890
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 1: bloods and he finds out about it, and maybe you know,

891
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 1: I walk like the catburg I keep. I mean, I

892
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:18,080
Speaker 1: just and now today I feel like, even with me

893
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:21,839
Speaker 1: dating guys and entertainment, I still don't feel like it's

894
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 1: any of their business. I wouldn't want anybody who has

895
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:27,359
Speaker 1: slept with me to tell whoever they're dating that they

896
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: were with me. You know what I mean. And I'm

897
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 1: going to keep it to myself. Now, if like you said,

898
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 1: something comes out on the blog, is that true or

899
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: is it not true? Yes, it's true and not moving forward,

900
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:40,320
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? But what if they ask you,

901
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:44,239
Speaker 1: like listen before I find out anything about you, I

902
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 1: wouldn't know what I do. I will observe the situation

903
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 1: and see who he knows and who he doesn't. I

904
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 1: tell you what you feel like he needs to know

905
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 1: exactly he's arrested myself. You don't know, won't hurt you

906
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: full disclosure or no. I mean, I'm always a full

907
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: disclosure person. But I don't have as exciting of a

908
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 1: sex life as you guys do, So I mean, it's

909
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 1: never gonna come up like, oh you was with that one. However,

910
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 1: there have been moments where I've been with like a

911
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 1: regular guy. I tend to like kind of nerdy guys,

912
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 1: and I'm like sitting and we're watching a TV show

913
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: and after living in l A for ten years, there's

914
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 1: like actors on and I just start cracking up on

915
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 1: the screen and they're like what And I'm like, oh, yeah,

916
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 1: I dated that guy. I just think it's funny. But

917
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,399
Speaker 1: I mean they're so square bots. I mean, I date

918
00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 1: squares and the oka whatever I do. Why do you

919
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:40,400
Speaker 1: date squares? What is it? What is it about squares?

920
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 1: If you feel like I mean, I would identify myself

921
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: as sapio sexual, which is someone who, yeah, I'm really

922
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:52,239
Speaker 1: attracted to people mentally. UM. I also have come to

923
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:55,399
Speaker 1: the conclusion with my experiences that most people are bad

924
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 1: in bed, so I'm going to have to make it good. Um.

925
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:00,879
Speaker 1: And so I don't look at it like and then

926
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 1: I've never like and don't think I haven't been out

927
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:07,360
Speaker 1: to the parties into this into that. I just ballers

928
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:11,360
Speaker 1: are not nobody's ever like, I'm not that smart with

929
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:14,800
Speaker 1: who people are. Like. I think I've had basketball players

930
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:17,719
Speaker 1: or football players try to talk to me, but you know,

931
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 1: I'm so like, so you feel like the ballers are dumb. Well,

932
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,440
Speaker 1: I think they just think I'm snobby, is what like

933
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 1: they kind of think, and I'm not like, I'm trill.

934
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 1: I'm still like the ground that I gotta be a

935
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:35,320
Speaker 1: trial nigga. What people don't always what I present, so

936
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:40,400
Speaker 1: people think Honestly, I find that, um, you know, dating

937
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:44,800
Speaker 1: uh rapper or basketball player a football player. You know

938
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 1: a lot of times you know, rappers are a really

939
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 1: good with words, so they're they're smart, they're intellectual. And

940
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 1: then you know the basketball players and the football players

941
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 1: there they went to college, so of course, but I'm

942
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: also but I'm also i feel like it's these drug

943
00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 1: dealer niggas that are dumb that you really like, they

944
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 1: don't love, but they definitely don't like me. But even

945
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 1: that they don't like me, I'm also not that time

946
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 1: like them to like call people like, I'm like, if

947
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:14,640
Speaker 1: you're not, like, if you're not calling me, Yeah, I

948
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 1: don't do that. I'm not I'm not calling you. Nobody likes.

949
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 1: Let's just be real. I'm not gonna end up the

950
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:25,759
Speaker 1: cat lady. That's that's what it's gonna be. No, what's

951
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 1: wrong with the regular guy? What's wrong with and I like, Um,

952
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 1: what's a regular guy? What is that? Somebody that works?

953
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 1: You know? Have you ever been in a boring relationship? No?

954
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 1: You think boring is good? You're boring is great. No,

955
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 1: because even my even my son's father is not a square.

956
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 1: But drama. Drama is not gonna get you a thirty

957
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:50,200
Speaker 1: year marriage. Yeah, No, I mean I think with um.

958
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 1: With Derek and I, we didn't have a lot of

959
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:56,360
Speaker 1: dramas for the end when I started acting crazy. But

960
00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 1: with the last one, the last one, it was just

961
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: it was a mess. We were fighting all the time.

962
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:04,800
Speaker 1: We loved each other, are added to the fighting? No,

963
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 1: I hate it. It's awful. Do you what's that? Miserable?

964
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 1: You were miserable. But I also feel like some people

965
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:12,680
Speaker 1: think that when you argue and fight all the time,

966
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:15,759
Speaker 1: that's what love is. It's passion. He's so passible. Really

967
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:18,879
Speaker 1: believe that. Some people don't know any other way other

968
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 1: than I'm in a relationship. This is what we do.

969
00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 1: He loves me, and that's why we fight all the time.

970
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:26,440
Speaker 1: I check your phone, You're gonna check my phone? Like that?

971
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:30,520
Speaker 1: All that a lot of people. No, that's one thing

972
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:32,480
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm not a digger. I feel like, if

973
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 1: you're looking for a song, you'll find oh, of course.

974
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:37,359
Speaker 1: But like, I have a girlfriend who dated athletes, who

975
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 1: did all this, and then she found this nice guy.

976
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 1: She had, like this nice dude she was dating, and

977
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 1: she would call me and be like, he's boring, ring,

978
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:48,240
Speaker 1: And I'm like, girl, since we've been in high school,

979
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: we've been running drama on your boyfriend's whether it was

980
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: stealing a dog or beating up somebody's girl. But so

981
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 1: she got so used to the drama and identifying that

982
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:01,800
Speaker 1: the drama was loved. That's not love. Love is sitting

983
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 1: on the couch on a Tuesday night after somebody cooked dinner,

984
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:10,399
Speaker 1: arguing over not even Netflix. Even more boring, arguing over

985
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 1: who the best voice was on the voice tonight. I

986
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 1: just feel like, for me, athlete is a regular guys.

987
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 1: Everybody's aular girl. Everybody's regular because that's her. I don't

988
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,759
Speaker 1: think dating an athlete is dating an average guy, you know.

989
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 1: I don't think dating a rapper or R and B

990
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 1: singer is an average person. But I think they're regular. Okay,

991
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:38,840
Speaker 1: So let me ask you a question. So let me

992
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 1: ask you a question. Let me ask a question. Would

993
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 1: you rather an NBA player or a man who graduated

994
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 1: from Yale Law School? Assumed to come laude. Is he

995
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 1: a lawyer if you graduated? Listen, I don't care about

996
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 1: what a guy does, because I'm gonna do good for

997
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 1: myself no matter what, whoever's gonna treat me right, say,

998
00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:00,800
Speaker 1: everything was the same except one the NBA player, and

999
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 1: one went to Yale and his lawyer and a lawyer

1000
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 1: or has his own business he has. I mean, if

1001
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:09,080
Speaker 1: I had to choose NBA, everything is the same as

1002
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 1: the same character, the same type of perfect one one

1003
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 1: plays basketball, one as a lawyer. I would take the

1004
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:16,799
Speaker 1: lawyer just because I know the lawyer is probably gonna

1005
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:18,839
Speaker 1: have more time for me. You know what I mean?

1006
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 1: You busy lawyers are, But I mean he's not going

1007
00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:26,160
Speaker 1: to be traveling. No, that's no, not only trying not

1008
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:29,840
Speaker 1: to be honest with you. I have wait, I have

1009
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 1: dated UM, and in my mind, I'm thinking of someone

1010
00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:36,839
Speaker 1: specifically who went to Yale Law School and UM has

1011
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:39,320
Speaker 1: their own business. That man is on the road seventy

1012
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 1: five percent of the time. Literally, it's the same. It's

1013
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 1: literally it's the exact same. But the difference is what

1014
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: the experiences when we're together. Like so for us trying

1015
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 1: to squeeze time in might have been, Hey, let's wake

1016
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 1: up at six in the morning and go to the

1017
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 1: gym together, or I see the face I wish you

1018
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 1: could see. Hi. No, I would do that with my

1019
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 1: athletic boyfriend. I'm just saying, like, if I had an

1020
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:10,799
Speaker 1: athletic boyfriend, I would do that with him. I would

1021
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:13,320
Speaker 1: do his workout with him in the morning. And the

1022
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 1: attorney's workouts are way easier. Yes, that I don't know.

1023
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 1: And you know. The thing with a lawyer, and the

1024
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:23,800
Speaker 1: difference between a lawyer and a basketball player is that

1025
00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 1: a basketball player is going to have a lot of

1026
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:28,800
Speaker 1: groupies because he's really famous. But you don't think, Okay,

1027
00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: so I had to break it to you, he's gonna

1028
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 1: have groupies too. But it's not gonna be it's it's

1029
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:37,400
Speaker 1: not no word like. That's one thing about dating and

1030
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 1: entertainment is that if I take somebody entertainment, he's gonna understand.

1031
00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:43,840
Speaker 1: He's gonna understand all the guys, all the groupies I have,

1032
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, the naturally Yeah, just just

1033
00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: me living my life. I feel like anybody has you

1034
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 1: would understand why you have guys, the guys that are

1035
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 1: not in entertainment. There my last boyfriend, if I took

1036
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:01,239
Speaker 1: a picture with a promoter, he was taking my head off.

1037
00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 1: I couldnt post photos with promoters who pay me to

1038
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 1: show up out their event, right, you know what I mean?

1039
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 1: Dating and entertaining, It's like, but that's because he has

1040
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 1: a little penis. No, I'm not gonna say all of that. Well,

1041
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 1: that means he's insecure about something. What I'm saying, I'm

1042
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 1: just saying, you know, um, dating and entertainment. A guy

1043
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 1: dating me and entertainment, it's gonna know like, oh yeah,

1044
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:31,359
Speaker 1: she took a picture with two chains, or she took

1045
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 1: a picture with this one because they just took a

1046
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:37,360
Speaker 1: picture together, not because she's like fucking the nigga. You know.

1047
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:39,799
Speaker 1: But sometimes it's haired to for guys in entertainment because

1048
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:43,919
Speaker 1: those are their peers. So it was like me, look crazy, dude,

1049
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 1: Yes some of them are yes pictures. Are you on

1050
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 1: your knees in the picture? What I'm saying, No, I was.

1051
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 1: I was accused of dating somebody because or having slept

1052
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:55,960
Speaker 1: with somebody because we took a picture and that person

1053
00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:58,279
Speaker 1: had their arm around me and try to wrap it.

1054
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:01,440
Speaker 1: My gosh, I can't And I literally just sat down

1055
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 1: for the picture like let's take a pick, click, and

1056
00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 1: kept it moving. But the picture looked like it was

1057
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 1: so much more that he really accused me, like, oh

1058
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:13,120
Speaker 1: did I definitely did that, experienced definitely dated a guy

1059
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 1: who got mad about every picture and told me that, okay,

1060
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 1: when you take pictures with people, you can't do this.

1061
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:22,440
Speaker 1: You can't do that. You can was this was this

1062
00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 1: pures with these rappers? That? Yeah, because that's see again,

1063
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 1: all of these relationships revolve around power and control, and

1064
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 1: it also makes me look at you crazy like that insecure, right,

1065
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:38,960
Speaker 1: it's not that that security is not attractive, but it's

1066
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 1: not always If I take if I take a picture

1067
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 1: dribbing a guy's crotch or you know, licking his face,

1068
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 1: then you have a reason to questions. But if I

1069
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 1: take a picture with somebody in his hand ends up

1070
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:53,640
Speaker 1: on my lap for the picture, that quick doesn't mean.

1071
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:56,400
Speaker 1: But I think that what again, I want to go

1072
00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 1: back to power and control. All of our relationships are

1073
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 1: run by power and control, roll and everything I just

1074
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:04,680
Speaker 1: heard all of you ladies speak on was men trying

1075
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:08,120
Speaker 1: to use their power to control you as a woman.

1076
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 1: And and again, perhaps this is why I am squeal

1077
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: because I don't play that like. You ain't putting no

1078
00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:18,920
Speaker 1: money in my bank account, you ain't signing no checks, right.

1079
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, I came in

1080
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 1: this motherfucker alone and I'm gonna end up going alone.

1081
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 1: So at this point, I love you. I want to

1082
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 1: be with you, but I need you to recognize that

1083
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 1: I have my life and my autonomy and and the

1084
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:33,640
Speaker 1: other thing is called it's what I need. But the

1085
00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:36,880
Speaker 1: other thing is called the pig the Pigmailia effect. So

1086
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 1: there's this idea of the Pigmailia effects. So a man

1087
00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 1: likes you, Stephanie for this fearce wild wow, so underground

1088
00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 1: and she's gotta be a trip right right, But then

1089
00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: what happens is when they get you in a relationship,

1090
00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:52,600
Speaker 1: they want you to become that demure wife they want

1091
00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 1: you to make, and they try to turn you into

1092
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 1: this other person who you're not. And then let's say

1093
00:58:58,800 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 1: that you do end up be coming the person that

1094
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:03,040
Speaker 1: they want you to be. Next thing, you know, they're

1095
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 1: cheating on you with the girl you were right, she's

1096
00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:08,920
Speaker 1: just got a new name, right, So we have to

1097
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:12,600
Speaker 1: be aware of that. I don't play that. You're either

1098
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 1: gonna take it or you ain't gonna take it. Because

1099
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 1: and even with my last even within my last relationship,

1100
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 1: like you know, he and I knew each other for years,

1101
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: but when he got with me, he knew what was

1102
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:25,040
Speaker 1: going on in my life, you know, and just a

1103
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 1: couple of months down the line, I had to make

1104
00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:30,640
Speaker 1: a lot of changes and adjustments. Right, Stephany was like,

1105
00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about my ex. No one here we are,

1106
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 1: good morning. I see a new man about your ex

1107
00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:39,320
Speaker 1: like any guys you're dating, not at all. I don't

1108
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:41,600
Speaker 1: talking about him at all. The only reason we're talking

1109
00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 1: about him now that's relevant. Yeah, it's relevant to our conversation.

1110
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:51,160
Speaker 1: But please, new man about one thing, nothing, nothing, nothing,

1111
00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:56,439
Speaker 1: whether or not that's it, that's all or that's great

1112
00:59:56,680 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 1: exactly with my last relationship, and if you compare them

1113
01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:03,480
Speaker 1: to what's going on in my life now to the

1114
01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:07,480
Speaker 1: guys that I'm getting to know now, there's no interest there.

1115
01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 1: It's it's like, well, you say, I'm proud of Stephanie

1116
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:13,920
Speaker 1: because before she was like, that's it. I'm gonna be

1117
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 1: with him. I'm gonna wait till they can whatever. And

1118
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: I love him. I'm not doing anything and all my heart.

1119
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 1: I always love him for the rest of my life.

1120
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 1: But but but I mean compared to what I got

1121
01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:28,960
Speaker 1: going for me, for me to be talking about this

1122
01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 1: man with the guy that I'm sleeping with now, it's

1123
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 1: a waste of time because I'm just making myself look crazy.

1124
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 1: I think that's again not allowing yourself forgiveness for whatever

1125
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:42,640
Speaker 1: went wrong in that relationship. So you're bringing it up

1126
01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 1: in your new relationship, trying to overcompensate, to be like,

1127
01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 1: I don't want this to happen in our relationships, so

1128
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 1: I want to tell you all about this and what

1129
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 1: happened in our relationship and our last couldn't possibly happen exactly.

1130
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:57,360
Speaker 1: But if you plant seeds, you might see some type

1131
01:00:57,360 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: of variant. So really, I think leaving the past and

1132
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 1: in the past the past. Al right, two thousand sixteen,

1133
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 1: let's do it. Well, they're thank you so much for

1134
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 1: coming back this same time Residents sex Birt for lips service. Yeah,

1135
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 1: this was really really educational for me today. That's definitely

1136
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 1: rather she wants to admit it or not found out

1137
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 1: that she has not. I'm not. It's impossible. I am not. Okay,

1138
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 1: I'm most it's imposible, but in your world impossible, let

1139
01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:30,120
Speaker 1: me tell you. And I usually brag about my mute system,

1140
01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:37,959
Speaker 1: but later, your lip's nothing. I'm always is always bare.

1141
01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:43,720
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing on my mouth, you know all the time, Stephanie.

1142
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:46,360
Speaker 1: Stephanie's mouth is her favorite part of her that's right

1143
01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:51,000
Speaker 1: at my it is my other favorite parts. And I

1144
01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:54,960
Speaker 1: take a little both SuDS. She either doesn't have her

1145
01:01:55,040 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 1: peace or it's dormant. Yes, let me tell you what

1146
01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:01,840
Speaker 1: we're seeing my my mune system. And I usually think

1147
01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 1: my new sun's really good. But I got sick already.

1148
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:06,480
Speaker 1: I moved into my new apartment. I've been sick in

1149
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:12,040
Speaker 1: that apartment already three times. Well, if one day you

1150
01:02:12,120 --> 01:02:14,800
Speaker 1: get the chills and the shivers, and all of a

1151
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,439
Speaker 1: sudden you've got some itching and burning and one spot

1152
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 1: in your vagina. I will be dead because I will

1153
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 1: seeing get you some light seeing and somebody. I'm gonna

1154
01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:31,440
Speaker 1: kill myself straight the funk up if my pussy doesn't

1155
01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:34,080
Speaker 1: work no more. I'm just gonna It's like it's like

1156
01:02:34,160 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 1: a man for his penis, if you shoot his penis,

1157
01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 1: or if he's gonna want to die. No one is

1158
01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:40,840
Speaker 1: shooting up your a jay. That's how it sounds like.

1159
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't just scare her like that.

1160
01:02:45,520 --> 01:02:50,640
Speaker 1: It heels after seven days. No, man, you know what,

1161
01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:53,440
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to you know what. God bless everybody

1162
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:57,240
Speaker 1: who has her piece. I know. God, if you know

1163
01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:04,720
Speaker 1: one of my good friends has it, and God, but

1164
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:08,560
Speaker 1: you know, I just I don't want that in my life,

1165
01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:10,920
Speaker 1: you know what. But you know what's funny. A baby

1166
01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:13,959
Speaker 1: mama can kill you, herpies cannot. And a baby mama

1167
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:16,760
Speaker 1: can make your man broke as hell, but herpies cannot.

1168
01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 1: You can fuck a baby mom's up, you can't fuck

1169
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:25,880
Speaker 1: herpies up. You can't with some val All right, Well,

1170
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 1: thank you so much Michelle again. Ge Hey, we'll be

1171
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 1: back next week, we're back. I officially live back in

1172
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:39,080
Speaker 1: New York. I'm not missing any more episodes. Somebody's boot here,

1173
01:03:39,440 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 1: I'm here to start. Yes, let's service