WEBVTT - Recovery Run: T.J. Gets His First and Last Pedicure 0:00:01.639 --> 0:00:05.559 Hey, there are folks. It is Saturday, July nineteenth, and 0:00:05.720 --> 0:00:10.120 we preach, but we ain't practicing. And welcome to this 0:00:10.320 --> 0:00:13.239 Saturday Recovery Run edition of Amy and TJ. I say 0:00:13.240 --> 0:00:15.840 that suppose to practice what you preach. And we started 0:00:15.880 --> 0:00:18.680 doing these recovery run episodes robes because we're trying to 0:00:18.680 --> 0:00:20.640 get people to understand you gotta take a break, you 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:23.479 gotta do something for yourself, something to look forward to, 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:28.240 something to recharge. We have failed miserably at that task, 0:00:28.360 --> 0:00:30.640 to the point I struggled to come up with anything 0:00:30.640 --> 0:00:31.320 to talk about it. 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:35.280 Yes, we started this three weeks ago, four weeks ago, 0:00:35.600 --> 0:00:38.559 and in a way it was hopefully to inspire everyone 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:42.800 to schedule time for themselves, to schedule times as a couple, 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:46.760 scheduled times for your personal and just to prioritize it. 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:49.120 And so we thought by doing this podcast every week, 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:52.559 we would be doing that very same thing ourselves. We 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:58.120 would be prioritizing downtime, relaxation, rest. And this week we 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:00.960 have it's been the worst that we've it's been the 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:02.840 worst week we've ever had. I feel like I feel 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:07.120 like all we did was work from three o'clock in 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:09.840 the morning until nine o'clock at night. 0:01:09.640 --> 0:01:12.040 And that was parenting involved in the middle. There was 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:14.160 a lot happening. I think I think we messed up. 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:15.959 I think we launched it when things were going well. 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:17.759 I think we might have been on vacations. 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:18.640 Right like this is easy. 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:20.360 Oh yeah, I think that might have been. I think 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:21.120 we actually were. 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:23.759 And so now that we're back in the real world 0:01:23.880 --> 0:01:27.000 and grinding, and this is a grind. Anyone who is 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:32.000 starting up a small business or employed for themselves or 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:36.360 trying to improve their lives have a side hustle. You 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:39.119 guys know exactly what we're talking about, and so, yes 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:42.120 we are. We feel like we work around the clock. 0:01:42.200 --> 0:01:46.200 So I put this in our recovery run script. What 0:01:46.200 --> 0:01:50.000 do we do to recover this week? Almost nothing? That 0:01:50.400 --> 0:01:54.720 was my reaction to that. Now, we tried to go 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:57.920 see Superman. What happened to that? We actually looked up 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:01.000 the times, had a date and a plan. 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:03.200 I actually don't know, but we got too busy to 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:07.600 do so something happened. We had a few appointments, and 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:10.520 we absolutely because we wanted to see the movie so 0:02:10.560 --> 0:02:12.880 that we could actually do a an episode of the 0:02:12.880 --> 0:02:14.960 podcast on it. Can't do it because it didn't see 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:15.519 the movie. 0:02:15.360 --> 0:02:17.400 So we scratched that plan, and then we thought, hey, 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:20.800 you know what is coming out. I know what you 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:24.080 did last summer right up a rally horror movie. Let's 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:26.359 let's try to see that one. And so we looked 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:28.920 up the times. We actually had an idea when we 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:32.680 might go, and then life happened, didn't happen, and we 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:33.200 didn't go. 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:35.080 And that's something we have been looking forward to that 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:37.320 movie of a months because we know it's coming out. Obviously, 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:40.000 anybody who listens to us knows we're horror movie buffs. 0:02:40.080 --> 0:02:42.440 And so so it does seem like we will be 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:45.240 seeing it later today on Saturday, and if we do, 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:48.480 we will we will jump on and do an episode 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:50.119 about it because we want to let y'all know how 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:52.640 it is, what we thought of it. Just you know, 0:02:52.720 --> 0:02:55.360 we love our horror movies. Now our only downtime that 0:02:55.400 --> 0:02:57.120 I could think of. There are a few, there are 0:02:57.320 --> 0:03:01.720 few and far between. But you you did prioritize watching 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:04.000 FIFA Women's World Cup this week. 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:06.200 That was earlier in the week. I think it might 0:03:06.200 --> 0:03:08.400 have been Monday or something. I remember giving you a 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:12.880 heads up saying, hey, this is coming Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:16.520 three o'clock every day quarterfinal game and didn't miss one. 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:20.200 You haven't all week and they have delivered like crazy 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:24.000 watching the euro Cup, rooting for women's soccer from countries 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:26.840 that I ain't from. That has been the fan. 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:27.320 You know what. 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:29.320 I even gained a little energy talking about it right 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:30.400 now because that has been fun. 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:33.880 So that fueled you. You got to do something you love, 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:37.720 which is watched sports. I watched two of the three matches, 0:03:37.760 --> 0:03:40.800 and that does remind me that on Wednesday, I did 0:03:40.840 --> 0:03:44.800 go and make some time for myself with an anesthetician 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:50.280 and I introduced myself to extreme pain with something that 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:52.680 some person told me that I should do because I'm 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:57.040 fifty two. It's called Morpheus eight I think anyway. All 0:03:57.080 --> 0:04:00.440 I know is it's super painful, and they tell me 0:04:00.480 --> 0:04:04.040 that my skin will naturally tighten and lift because of 0:04:04.040 --> 0:04:07.040 all the pain that it went through the trauma of 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:11.120 the Morpheus every run. Yeah, but this was right. But 0:04:11.160 --> 0:04:14.400 this is something I did for myself. I chose pain. 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:18.080 I chose to introduce pain into my body so that 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:20.720 I would look more rested and refreshed. 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:23.440 You look great, baby, really, no, no, no, if even 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:25.560 if you didn't, I would tell you did what you 0:04:25.600 --> 0:04:26.359 do look great. 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:30.920 That's funny. Now we got so we should be doing 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:33.280 more napping, and I actually think they don't. They say 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:35.720 like a thirty minute nap, a ninety minute nap. That 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:39.320 is like the holy grail of recovery. How is your 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:41.320 sleep this week? How is your because this should be 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:43.440 a part of the recovery run. And we do have 0:04:43.480 --> 0:04:44.360 our aura rings on. 0:04:44.640 --> 0:04:46.240 That's a good point. This is some of the worst 0:04:46.279 --> 0:04:49.680 sleep and I might I might have gotten the lowest 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:51.400 sleep score I've ever gotten this week. I think it 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:53.679 was a forty one or something. If you won't familiar 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:55.200 with the aura of rings and they give you a 0:04:55.200 --> 0:04:58.279 sleep score. But yeah, it's been a rough week of sleep. 0:04:58.320 --> 0:05:01.320 I even feel like I sound you're dragging right now. 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:05.080 I'm driving a little bit. Yeah, I'm really not sure why. Yes, 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:07.120 it has been a stressful week. We are we have 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:10.080 a lot of we're juggling a lot of things right now. 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:13.800 And yes, there has been an increased load with kids 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:17.039 in parenting the last few weeks in the summer in particular, 0:05:17.080 --> 0:05:18.240 and that's just what it is. 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:21.560 It's funny because I remember when my kids were younger 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:25.200 and back to school would happen in September, but you know, 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:26.760 the summer was always hectic. What do you do with 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:29.200 the kids? They're always around, they want your constant attention. 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:33.160 They're very needy. And I remember Al Roker when back 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:35.440 to school happened on the Today Show, would saying it's 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:39.520 the most wonderful time of the year for parents, right 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:41.600 when kids go back to school. And I thought those 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:44.480 days were over because my kids are older. Na, they're 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:48.719 both back in the apartment with us at the age 0:05:48.760 --> 0:05:52.200 of nineteen and twenty two. Now Eva did just we 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:55.359 hope and think she just got her apartment. She's going 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:58.159 to be moving to Brooklyn and that's happening actually in 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:00.279 a month. And I do think it's funny. I love 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:03.720 my girls, We love our children, but man, it's a 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:07.359 it tests you. Even when they're older, they still they're needy, 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:08.280 aren't they. 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:10.760 Well they're your kids, right, they will always you know, 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:12.960 no matter what. If I go home right now, they 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:14.840 say you went back home on my parent You just 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:17.560 there's an expectation that your parents are going to take 0:06:17.600 --> 0:06:20.160 care of you, and they expect to do it. You 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:23.360 don't take advantage of it, of course, but I don't know. 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:25.240 There is something kind of cool and will forever be 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:28.680 cute about that that when I go home my parents, 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:31.359 you were there last time with me. They insisted we 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:33.440 have to cook for you. Yes, you have to come 0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:36.360 over because we have to prepare a meal. We have 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:37.240 to take care of you. 0:06:37.440 --> 0:06:40.680 Speaking of that, so you have been You are the 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:46.160 family chef for sure, and I've gotten used to it, 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:48.159 and you're amazing at it. And now my daughters are 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:50.560 even like, yeah, TJ's better than you because they grew 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:54.800 up with my cooking. But you cooked the last three 0:06:54.880 --> 0:06:56.760 nights in a row, and last night I don't think 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:58.760 we realized both girls were going to come in and 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:01.160 be as hungry as they were, and you didn't actually 0:07:01.160 --> 0:07:04.360 even get to have much food because everybody ate it 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:04.800 for you. 0:07:04.920 --> 0:07:07.479 I swear to god, I've lost weight this summer. No, 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:11.000 not that I actually have, for I am losing weight 0:07:11.040 --> 0:07:13.160 because I wake up and I don't realize I really 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:16.640 didn't get to eat dinner. Everything's fine with the girls, 0:07:16.920 --> 0:07:19.600 we all. This is my problem with the girls. Okay, 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:23.920 this is my problem. Just tell me that you want 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:26.720 to eat, that's all. Just let me know that I 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:29.680 have an extra mouth to account for. There's plenty of food. 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:32.480 I can make it happen, that's all. Just tell me 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:34.480 you're gonna be back for food. What happens is I 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:38.160 make dinner for the two of us, and then everybody 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:41.000 comes in like a tornado. And then next thing you know, 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:42.640 all the food's gone. 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:44.040 Like actually, all the food. 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:46.160 Is got like crazy people. And this is not a 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:48.080 sit down. Let me give me a plate. They see 0:07:48.120 --> 0:07:50.400 the plate in front of you and they just gobble 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:50.720 it up. 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:52.960 Your food's that good? 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:56.280 And next thing you know, I haven't eaten. That's happened 0:07:56.360 --> 0:07:57.640 several this week. 0:07:57.760 --> 0:08:00.280 So when we do our morning runs, I always no 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:03.960 because I can actually hear your stomach growling in the 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:07.840 morning as we're typing and researching, and I know, I'm like, wow, 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:09.800 did you not eat last night? Again? 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:15.040 Just tell me so, like an account for another mouth 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:16.840 to feet. It's no problem, that's fair. 0:08:16.880 --> 0:08:19.120 We'll do better on that. So there was a first. 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:22.040 This was at the very beginning of the week. You 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:26.320 I have been trying for years actually to get you 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:30.400 to come and either get a foot massage or a 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:34.920 manny petty with me, and you've always resisted. But I 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:37.120 think you saw your feet when we were on vacation 0:08:37.240 --> 0:08:39.600 and you looked at me, and you looked at me 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:42.000 and you said, Okay, I'm gonna get a ped of here. 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:46.280 You have a like a major callous. It's like a 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:48.240 really gnarly callous. 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:50.920 Okay, on the right toe and then on the heel 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:53.840 on the right foot. It was, what's the best way 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:54.440 to describe it. 0:08:54.440 --> 0:08:56.880 It looks like the Sahara desert. 0:08:58.679 --> 0:08:59.560 Okay, Yeah, it's. 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:00.720 Dry and cracking. 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:04.040 Those two things needed treatment. That's what my problem was. 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:06.360 It wasn't a toe game situation that was. 0:09:06.480 --> 0:09:08.760 It was, Yeah, you actually have very nice tonyails. You're 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:12.720 very very good about that type of hygiene. 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:14.600 But I asked, how can I get this take care 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:18.800 because it was annoying me. So that's what you all recommended, pedicure. 0:09:19.160 --> 0:09:21.720 So here we are talking about recovery run and we're 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:25.839 talking about taking someone to a salon to be pampered 0:09:26.240 --> 0:09:29.920 with a pedicure. So that sounds like it should be 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:31.080 a part of. 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:33.760 Our recovery, right exactly. And that's why I wanted to 0:09:33.760 --> 0:09:36.360 include this because I was thinking to myself, this is 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:39.280 so fun, Like I love going and getting many petties, 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:41.319 and I would love to have you come with me. 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:45.000 I see plenty of men in the salons or the 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:47.960 spas these days, so it's kind of an accepted thing now, 0:09:48.000 --> 0:09:50.280 so it's cool. He's gonna go. He is gonna love it. 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:53.320 We go to sit down and you immediately say, no massage. 0:09:53.360 --> 0:09:56.400 I don't want anyone massaging my likes. By the way, 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:58.880 that's the best part of the pedicure. 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:00.760 Okay, I didn't know that. I thought it was a 0:10:00.800 --> 0:10:04.120 foot thing. No, that was a flop thing. Just deal 0:10:04.160 --> 0:10:04.600 with the feet. 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:07.520 Your feet looked good, but then your legs feel amazing. 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:09.839 Why wouldn't you get the massage? 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:12.240 Okay, I didn't want. I just need. I really didn't 0:10:12.240 --> 0:10:14.760 even want the petticure. I just wanted you to handle 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:15.679 the callous thing. 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:18.080 Yes, So here's the funny thing. We go to sit down, 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:21.480 he's like, will you tell them what I need? Like you, 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:25.040 you actually didn't even want to directly communicate. Was it 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:27.120 because you were embarrassed you were there or you didn't 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:27.800 know what to say? 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:30.880 No, I didn't understand. There was a menu that looked 0:10:30.880 --> 0:10:32.960 like I was about to eat at Benny Hannah, right. 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:34.640 Because you can get the elevated extra. 0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:36.000 It was too much. So that's what I'm saying. I 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:36.800 was overwhelmed. 0:10:36.800 --> 0:10:38.000 You want the Spa petticure. 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:39.600 Oh no, see I didn't know what that meant. So 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:41.360 you and Savine get some thing. 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:43.679 We get the green tea spaw pettic I don't know 0:10:43.720 --> 0:10:44.280 what that means. 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:46.840 See, everybody, you hear what I'm talking about. You didn't 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:49.199 want to communicate. I didn't know what the green tea. 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:52.600 So you get like extra moisturizers. And so you said, no, 0:10:52.679 --> 0:10:54.360 I don't want any of the bells and whistles. I 0:10:54.480 --> 0:10:55.959 just want them to do you know. 0:10:56.559 --> 0:10:57.280 The impression of me. 0:10:57.320 --> 0:11:00.160 Okay, sorry, I thought that was not too bad. I've 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:03.720 been worse before anyway. So so all of a sudden, 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:07.560 we're at the SPA and they start putting a mask 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.840 on our legs, onto Bean's legs and on my legs. 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:12.960 So what's going on? Why are they doing that to 0:11:13.000 --> 0:11:15.280 you guys? And we were laughing and we were trying 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:17.840 to explain this is a part of the SPA package, 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:21.560 the Spa pedicure that you opted out of. Were you 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:22.280 jealous at all? 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:24.800 But I still don't understand what it's for. Yourl's legs 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:26.960 just looked weird for a little while, and you got. 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:27.840 To put on it. 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:28.600 I don't understand. 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:31.839 So it's basically to infuse moisture. It's just to make 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:33.240 your skin more supple. 0:11:33.320 --> 0:11:35.440 Put it on. You want to put that on it, 0:11:35.520 --> 0:11:36.840 Give me a callous mask. 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:38.000 They have those. 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:39.880 That's all I need. I swear to you. They just 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:42.319 would have worked in the two areas you do understaid. 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:44.679 This is how you your no frills always, like even 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:47.160 when you go in, like if we go shopping, we 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:50.079 have to get into the store exactly when it opens. 0:11:50.280 --> 0:11:52.440 We have to have a mission, what are you getting? 0:11:52.720 --> 0:11:55.920 Where is it? And then directly go to check out. 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:56.680 It's called shopping. 0:11:57.160 --> 0:12:00.640 None again, you're missing the experience and part a recovery 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:03.160 run is saying like it's not about having a mission 0:12:03.280 --> 0:12:06.679 or a goal. Get the callus off, get the shirt 0:12:06.720 --> 0:12:10.920 I want. It's about like walking in and taking in 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:14.559 all the beautiful sights and sounds and smells and saying 0:12:14.559 --> 0:12:17.679 what looks beautiful, like yes, that's the store. And then 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:21.880 even in the nails salon, pick your color, you appreciate 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:23.560 the pleasing music. 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:25.520 That's what it was. I didn't pick a color. I 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:26.320 should have got the color. 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:28.920 What color would you have put on your tone? 0:12:29.160 --> 0:12:32.599 Something outlandish that would have embarrassed you walking down the 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:35.080 street with me? Hot pink, that would embarrassed you. 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:40.120 Yes, okay, although I know it's cool now men polish 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:43.240 their fingernails, even a la hairy styles. Did he start 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:43.720 that going? 0:12:44.280 --> 0:12:45.880 I think so, it's been going for a little bit. 0:12:46.240 --> 0:12:46.760 I'm not there. 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:50.679 Seriously, would you do it fingernails? 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:54.000 No? No, it's just not me. 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:57.400 Would you rather get a massage in the pedicure or 0:12:57.800 --> 0:12:58.800 paint your toenails? 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:01.000 A massage and a I don't want any of it. 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:04.480 And you know why, folks, because we're talking about a 0:13:04.480 --> 0:13:07.760 pedicure at a salon as if it was a positive 0:13:07.840 --> 0:13:11.000 part of the recovery run, when in fact, it was 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:13.520 probably the worst part of my week. 0:13:22.720 --> 0:13:26.320 Welcome back everyone to our recovery run and what should 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:31.640 have been Wow, just a relaxing zen experience. TJ going 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:35.160 to the salon to get a pedicure with his two 0:13:35.240 --> 0:13:40.400 favorite gals, his girlfriend, his daughter. We're all there together. 0:13:40.960 --> 0:13:45.200 It's been a stressful week and TJ is not having 0:13:45.440 --> 0:13:46.120 the experience. 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:51.079 You were uncomfortable from the jump, I mean from absolute 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:55.480 jump street. I was so uncomfortable with everything that woman. 0:13:55.679 --> 0:13:57.720 How many times does she have to pull me to 0:13:57.840 --> 0:14:00.880 the side and say move it, oh, and do it. 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:02.600 It was one point she wrapped my foot in some 0:14:02.720 --> 0:14:05.520 plastic and had it propped up, and I put it 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:07.600 down in the water. She grabbed. 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:09.760 No, no, no, no no, I mean really it was his 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:12.200 first time. But the funny thing is, so you were 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:16.000 having a tough time when so they when you especially, 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:18.480 we specifically asked for callous remover, right, So that's how 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:21.800 they wrapped it up. Because they're putting an actual callous 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:26.400 remover gel on your areas, problem areas, and they let 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:29.000 it treat the area first, and then they take out 0:14:29.000 --> 0:14:30.320 what looks like a cheese grater. 0:14:30.480 --> 0:14:32.440 Sure, yeah, yeah, I love that part. That was fine. 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:33.480 Well you liked the cheese grader. 0:14:33.600 --> 0:14:34.240 It was just funny. 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:35.920 I love it. But I thought that was tickling you 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:36.600 or bothering you. 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:37.080 Oh it's not. 0:14:37.320 --> 0:14:38.320 Where were you sensitive? 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:48.479 My feet heel arch toe from the pinky to the everything. 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:52.400 I don't like my feet being touched. And so she's 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:57.400 down there. Clip clip, clip, clip clip, every clip was excruciating. 0:14:57.520 --> 0:14:59.160 You said it was like fingernails on a chalk war. 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:02.960 It was the the worst breaking experience. What's the thing 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:04.120 where the cuticle thing? 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:06.800 Yeah, they push your cuticle down and then they cut it. 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:10.160 She almost got kicked in the face seven times. 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:16.040 You looked at me, almost within minutes of the pedicure beginning, 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:18.600 and you said, never, never again. 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:19.640 That will never happen again. 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:22.400 You You were like one and done. And we've been 0:15:22.560 --> 0:15:26.040 Sabina and I have been really pushing this and talking 0:15:26.040 --> 0:15:27.400 it up and saying you're gonna love it. And I 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:29.960 actually was convinced he's gonna go one time and he's 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:32.280 gonna say damn. That is good. I wait till we 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:32.720 go again. 0:15:33.240 --> 0:15:36.280 I said damn, And then is it wrong? 0:15:36.320 --> 0:15:39.560 I always forget the German term when you are finding 0:15:39.560 --> 0:15:41.800 some sort of pleasure in someone else's pain. It's a 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:43.880 I'll have to look it up, but there is that 0:15:43.920 --> 0:15:46.360 German word. Like when people fall and you laugh. It's 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:48.400 not like you want somebody to have any harm, but 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:52.480 there is something funny about someone watching you squirm in 0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:55.080 the pedicure chair. I have to say that I had 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:55.760 that experience. 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:59.960 I was laughing like maniacal call that. 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:04.280 I'm gonna get the word for you in a second. No, 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:06.960 it's an actual things. I'll get it. I always forget it. 0:16:06.960 --> 0:16:09.880 It's a very very German word and we don't have 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:12.440 the equivalent here in the English language. But you think 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:13.920 it's funny when people fall. 0:16:14.400 --> 0:16:16.560 Oh yeah, it's hilarious. Falls are the best thing ever. 0:16:16.640 --> 0:16:18.120 And I didn't see a lot of that this week 0:16:18.360 --> 0:16:21.120 for whatever reason. But that was my That's the highlight 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:22.800 of my wheel I did take. I told you it 0:16:22.800 --> 0:16:25.440 was maybe the best ride ever. If anybody's here in 0:16:25.480 --> 0:16:29.080 New York, you know traffic is hell. But on weekend mornings, 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:30.680 if you're in this city, there's a reason you see 0:16:30.680 --> 0:16:32.560 a lot of guys out riding motorcycles. But I guess 0:16:32.600 --> 0:16:36.120 that's the only time we can actually maneuver our way 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:37.840 around the city and not be stuck in traffic. You 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:39.720 can kind of open it up and ride the bike. 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:42.080 So I do it on the weekend mornings, and I 0:16:43.560 --> 0:16:49.520 I had I caught every light from downtown to Times Square, 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:54.359 and that just doesn't happen. I started in downtown Manhattan 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:58.120 and I didn't stop until I got to Times Square. 0:16:58.240 --> 0:16:59.120 That's a good morning. 0:16:59.240 --> 0:17:03.120 That sounds like will Smith character, and I am legend 0:17:03.640 --> 0:17:06.080 when he just can just ride the streets of anyone 0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:08.520 who lives here. Anyone who's been here knows that that 0:17:08.640 --> 0:17:11.040 just doesn't happen. It needs to be six o'clock in 0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:12.160 the morning on a Sunday morning. 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:16.000 That's where you went apocalyptic. I'm talking about a wonderful ride. Yeah, 0:17:16.000 --> 0:17:19.800 that reminds me of that doomsday movie. Yeah, just TJ 0:17:20.160 --> 0:17:22.520 another light skin Black Brotherhood. 0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:24.520 Right, I was joining that comparison as well. 0:17:24.680 --> 0:17:25.680 Forgive me with my. 0:17:25.720 --> 0:17:30.400 Dog, Yes, but just stay away from Grand Central because 0:17:30.400 --> 0:17:33.439 that was the scariest scene ever. But that's amazing. And 0:17:33.480 --> 0:17:35.720 by the way, while you were telling your wonderful motorcycle 0:17:35.760 --> 0:17:37.919 story of catching all green lights, which that is a 0:17:37.920 --> 0:17:40.480 good feeling, I found the German word for taking pleasure 0:17:40.520 --> 0:17:43.320 in the misfortune of others. It is called shoden freda Florida. 0:17:43.440 --> 0:17:47.120 Oh I did it, and I nailed It's yeah, I did. 0:17:47.160 --> 0:17:50.399 All of my ancestors very proud there with that one. 0:17:51.040 --> 0:17:55.800 Shut in froot freuda shudenfreuda, shudin freude. So shut in 0:17:55.960 --> 0:17:59.439 is harm or damage and freuda is joy. So the 0:17:59.520 --> 0:18:02.840 concept is not unique to German, but people who speak 0:18:02.840 --> 0:18:05.040 English say it a lot because we don't really have 0:18:05.080 --> 0:18:06.679 a word that also explains that. 0:18:07.160 --> 0:18:10.680 Okay, well, what a recovery run. This was this week 0:18:10.720 --> 0:18:14.239 and Savine just walked in. Hey, Savine, she just walked in. 0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:18.000 How would you describe your dad's pedicure experience? 0:18:20.880 --> 0:18:21.520 What did she say? 0:18:21.600 --> 0:18:23.040 You just said bad? 0:18:23.240 --> 0:18:26.240 I thought she was gonna say comical bad. We both 0:18:26.280 --> 0:18:27.640