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Speaker 1: It is time for you, Steve. People want to ask

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Speaker 1: you questions.

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Speaker 2: The l O.

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Speaker 1: Here we go, Cheyenne and Raleigh writes, for my thirtieth birthday,

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Speaker 1: I invited my cousin to come to visit. She brought

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Speaker 1: her boyfriend, and she had just met him a week

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Speaker 1: before she came. So I told her that he couldn't

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Speaker 1: stay in my house. She got mad and drove back home.

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Speaker 1: Was that wrong for this?

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Speaker 2: No? No, absolutely not. It's your house. She don't even

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Speaker 2: know him.

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Speaker 3: You don't know him, and she just told her he's

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Speaker 3: staying at your staying at your house.

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Speaker 2: That's not how it works, man.

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Speaker 3: Manam, people don't even understand orders and and and just

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Speaker 3: being civil towards one another. You bring a stranger to

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Speaker 3: your cousin's house talking about he's staying.

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Speaker 2: Here with me. I just met him last week.

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Speaker 3: Nobody waking up standing, nobody with no over there bed,

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Speaker 3: with no acc in the hands.

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Speaker 2: What come on? High?

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Speaker 3: You know y'all ain't going out of here, no MODI?

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Speaker 3: Now come on, put your duct tape on your arms,

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Speaker 3: mouth shut up crying now you know you don't know me.

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Speaker 2: Nobody do that?

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Speaker 1: No, that's crazy, that's really all right, Sammy and Tribeca says,

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Speaker 1: I'm a thirty nine year old married man, and I

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Speaker 1: have to share my wife with her male best friend,

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Speaker 1: which is very annoying. His husband is just as irritated

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Speaker 1: as I am with their friendship. And I had plans

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Speaker 1: to see a movie and she'd already seen it on

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Speaker 1: her lunch break with her bestie. How do I set

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Speaker 1: boundaries without offending them?

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Speaker 2: Okay, excuse me, I'm missing all right something.

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Speaker 1: Married man, married man. His wife has a best friend

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Speaker 1: who's also married to a man. It's a gay couple.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't give it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the husband is irritated because the wife spends more

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Speaker 1: time with the bestie with their best friend.

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Speaker 3: I don't give it. If he married to several men,

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Speaker 3: that ain't none of my bis. You do what you want, right,

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Speaker 3: But do you spending so much time with him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? The thing?

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Speaker 3: You know, man, you'll find something else to do. He

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Speaker 3: got a husband, Go to movie with him. You got

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Speaker 3: a husband, Go to the movie with your husband. It's

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Speaker 3: gonna make no sense. Man.

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Speaker 1: I keep man, okay, yeah, keep male and female.

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Speaker 3: The opposite sex friendships lead to problems. That's your best man.

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Speaker 3: Get another bestie. Where girl is at.

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Speaker 1: So the question is he wants to know Steve. How

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Speaker 1: does he set boundaries? He he's worried about offending them?

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Speaker 1: How do I set boundaries without Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Don't give it who offenished? No? No, no, no. I

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Speaker 2: tell you what we're gonna do, all of us be.

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Speaker 3: There, you go. I'm I'm gonna treat that that offensive

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Speaker 3: thing gonna fit to be like peanut butter.

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Speaker 2: Don't finn to get something on. Everybody breaths, spread it around.

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Speaker 3: You know, when I make my peanut butter sandwich, I

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Speaker 3: put the peanut butter all all the.

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Speaker 2: Way to the egg.

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Speaker 3: You can't see no bread for myself. I spreads my panu.

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Speaker 3: But now I don't get to jelly all the way

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Speaker 3: to the edge because I don't want to leak it out.

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Speaker 2: But they peedup on a thick.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm spreading this offical. He don't want to feel

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Speaker 3: nobody man leave.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right. Moving on to Joanne and Indiana,

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Speaker 1: Joanne writes, my husband was ill for three years before

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Speaker 1: he died. Before he died, I started dating someone else.

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Speaker 1: My marriage had been over for years, but I stayed

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Speaker 1: with my husband because he was sick. My boyfriend moved

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Speaker 1: in two weeks after my husband died. His mom thinks

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Speaker 1: I'm dead? Wrong, Do I owe her an explanation?

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Speaker 2: Well, i'm gonna tell you right now. Ain't a good.

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Speaker 1: Look, right two weeks I'm just.

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Speaker 2: Telling you right now. Now.

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Speaker 3: I know the man was probably six sick, incapacitated or something,

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Speaker 3: and you should have gave it a little more time

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Speaker 3: because of the way it looked.

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Speaker 2: But two weeks after he moved.

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Speaker 4: In, Yeah, what was all the neighbors saying, Well, they

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Speaker 4: ain't even.

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Speaker 2: Lowered the casket in the ground yet.

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Speaker 3: They ain't even put all the dirt on it, right,

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Speaker 3: it's still got that green AstroTurf round it. And well,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, here's the key word. He isn't even

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Speaker 3: cold yet. Well that's where people wrong. Oh he ice cold?

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Speaker 3: Quitch saying that if I ain't even cold, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: the fact when you die you called that first morning goods.

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Speaker 2: About your finger?

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Speaker 1: Does she owe the mom an explanation?

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Speaker 2: Who's mother?

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Speaker 1: His mother? His mother? Does she owe her an explanation?

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Speaker 2: His mama tripping?

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Speaker 1: Like what two weeks after my son?

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Speaker 2: She already knows this was going on while he was sick.

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Speaker 3: But Nobody understands that about life.

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Speaker 2: So you just gotta tell her mom.

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Speaker 3: Look, you might, you might, but no matter what you say,

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Speaker 3: how you think it's gonna.

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Speaker 4: Go with his mother, she'd have lost her son. Yeah

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Speaker 4: a year, she's gonna hate you forever.

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Speaker 2: Why did you move in with him? There you go.

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Speaker 3: He ain't got nothing now, he all up in her son. Girl,

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Speaker 3: You fore to be involved in.

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Speaker 2: The drive.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, yeah, that when they started flying shots.

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Speaker 2: Up in the house.

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Speaker 3: If I was here, I moved back to my house.

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Speaker 3: I had to lest some time.

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Speaker 2: Cool.

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Speaker 3: That ain't an Yeah, every time they pulled out the driveway,

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Speaker 3: go to church, our shopping.

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Speaker 1: Peter's kit forever?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on last one. Camy in Toronto says, I'm a

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Speaker 1: beginning swimmer. My boyfriend is a professional diver. I learned

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Speaker 1: to swim, but I hate being in water. We're going

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Speaker 1: on vacation. He's planning water activities for us. He's forcing

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Speaker 1: me to face my fears. Should I make my own plans?

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Speaker 2: Well, you're gonna die on this vacation, ye say that?

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Speaker 3: Hall water sport.

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Speaker 2: What is he doing there? Man? I love going onder

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Speaker 2: the water?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh?

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Speaker 3: In all the water trips, out and took out a

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Speaker 3: jet ski three times.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Last time, I just went circle the boat came right

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Speaker 3: on back.

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Speaker 2: We saw it on you. Yeah all right.

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Speaker 1: Thanks.

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Speaker 2: Hello, we gotta wrap this up.

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