WEBVTT - Second Date Update: It's No Picnic

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<v Speaker 1>Second day. When you see an attractive person online, what's

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<v Speaker 1>your best move to start the conversation. I know for

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<v Speaker 1>our technical director Ashton, he starts with two words, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is true. He opens with, hey, trouble. The success

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<v Speaker 1>raid is probably under twenty percent, maybe even under two percent,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know it's not going to stop him from trying.

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<v Speaker 1>Worked on. One of our listeners, Spence says he connected

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<v Speaker 1>with a very attractive woman on a dating app and

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<v Speaker 1>it was purely coincidental. So let's talk to him and

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<v Speaker 1>hear about it. Hey troublemaker, welcome to the trouble Bubble. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>trouble happens on this show. I took the right dat

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<v Speaker 1>to fall, that's for sure. Yeah. I think it's so

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<v Speaker 1>weird that you're saying you coincidentally met somebody online. Isn't

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<v Speaker 1>it all purposeful when you're online dating? Tell us what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>So I met Robin on a dating app, and the

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<v Speaker 1>whole reason that we met is because under hobbies she

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<v Speaker 1>had listed glass blowing. Coincidentally, I've actually taken a glassblowing class,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I thought that I would strike up a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation about that. Oh, I took one of those two

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<v Speaker 1>did you make a little dish to put your like

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<v Speaker 1>paper clips in, because that's what I made. That sounds

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<v Speaker 1>really fun, you know. I made like, you know, those

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<v Speaker 1>glass balls you can buy it like pier One, those

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of well they used to, you know, but I

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<v Speaker 1>made stuff like that. Okay, your item was even more

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<v Speaker 1>useless than mine. Yeah, and here's a weird thing about it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I messaged her about the glass blowing and she

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<v Speaker 1>tells me that she doesn't even know what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>She's never done glass blowing, and chat's not in their profile.

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<v Speaker 1>And I realized that we're chatting. I think I was

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<v Speaker 1>talking about like a different girl. Oh but she wrote

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<v Speaker 1>you back, which means she thinks he had a cute picture. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just glad we're talking at this point, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean, because like half the battle of online

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<v Speaker 1>dating is getting them to respond, and that's tough. So

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<v Speaker 1>what did you do like rush over to robaio and

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<v Speaker 1>be like, ha ha, what a Joe car That was funny.

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<v Speaker 1>We just kept chatting and uh, we're getting along pretty well.

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<v Speaker 1>And I decided, well, you want to meet up? And

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<v Speaker 1>she said sure she would love to. All right, good work,

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you end up doing for the date? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we did a picnic in the park. And I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a picnic is kind of a cheap date.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I was literally think in my head. But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's not negative cheap, but I'm just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to save a little money. Yeah, but you could

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<v Speaker 1>still make it cute even if it's not that expensive. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was. It was kind of cute. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I also brought like a frisbee so we could play

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<v Speaker 1>frize be a little bit. I played at ukulele, so

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<v Speaker 1>I brought back. I went to the like there's a

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<v Speaker 1>comedian store, and you know how they have like food prepared.

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<v Speaker 1>No stood, I thought you were talking like a shortcootery

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<v Speaker 1>board or something. Oh no, no. And they had like

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<v Speaker 1>top with potana salad spoons. And that's a date. It's

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<v Speaker 1>funny that you should bust me in a potato salad

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<v Speaker 1>because actually I forgot to pack forks and knives and stuff. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's gonna be a problem. Scoop it with your hair

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<v Speaker 1>at that point, just straight in, just air dropping it

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<v Speaker 1>from the top. Yeah, that was a little awkward. So

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<v Speaker 1>we had to actually like scoop some of that out

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<v Speaker 1>using like the lid of the container and then put

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<v Speaker 1>it on each of the plates from the Did she

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<v Speaker 1>do that or was it just you that did that?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we both did it, but it was my idea,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, creative. She was down with it, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she had a good sense of humor too,

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<v Speaker 1>because at one point, like I pretended to feed her

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<v Speaker 1>like with the potato solid from my hand, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was you know, she knew I was joking. She laughed,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was actually in your hand at one point.

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<v Speaker 1>This sounds like a disaster. The fact that you just

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<v Speaker 1>said she was laughing all time is actually good. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>is that the vibe that you were getting that you

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<v Speaker 1>and Robin were connecting during this entire day? So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean overall it felt really good. We especially started

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<v Speaker 1>to connect, I think too when I broke out the wine.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like everything's going pretty well. How did the

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<v Speaker 1>night end? Oh man? So we're at the park right

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<v Speaker 1>and we're just having a good time. The sun starts

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<v Speaker 1>going down, and I feel like it's getting kind of romantic,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, And I invited her to come over to

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<v Speaker 1>my place. Oh I told her it's like, look, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I only live like eleven blocks away, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean like we could we could totally walk. Whoa eleven

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<v Speaker 1>block walks a little? I mean, why why not just

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<v Speaker 1>get into Uber? Well, because again it's like I trying

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<v Speaker 1>to save a little money. Plus it's a nice night.

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<v Speaker 1>We could walk and it only takes like about maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a half hour at the most for you know, forty

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes. Those are big blocks or not. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and I get it. I wasn't trying to

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<v Speaker 1>push anything or rather, but the date ended like on

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<v Speaker 1>a really positive tip though, I mean like we hugged,

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<v Speaker 1>we said goodbye, we totally talked about getting together again,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, and then we kind of left it out there.

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<v Speaker 1>But if I ever been I've texted her a few

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<v Speaker 1>times and I haven't heard from her. Okay, so a

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<v Speaker 1>lot to process there. Yeah, yeah, and we need to

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<v Speaker 1>think about this a little bit more too. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Robin for you,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll ask her what she thought about your picnic

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<v Speaker 1>date in the park with the potato salad and no forks.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, sounds great salad. Yeah, we'll do it. Right

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<v Speaker 1>after this hold on it second, We're in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of a second day update with Spence, and he made

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<v Speaker 1>a point of telling us about his relatively inexpensive picnic

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<v Speaker 1>experience with Robin. He emphasized the inexpensive a lot where

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<v Speaker 1>he brought reasonably priced wine, a ukulele convenience store sandwiches,

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<v Speaker 1>and a tub of potato salad without any eating utensils whatsoever. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and right there, I'm thinking, if I'm out with this guy,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no way I'm not calling him back. Are you thinking?

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<v Speaker 1>For some reason, Robin is hesitant to accept love when

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<v Speaker 1>it's being hand fed to her with a creamy mayonnaise

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<v Speaker 1>soaked potato And all she had to do was going

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<v Speaker 1>to forty five minute walk back to his play is

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<v Speaker 1>so much to ask what's going on? So we're about

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<v Speaker 1>to call and find out what's wrong with her, isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that right, Spence? Yeah, that's what I want to know,

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<v Speaker 1>what's wrong with her. You may get a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of true back when we call her. That may hurt

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<v Speaker 1>your feelings a little bit. I just want you to

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<v Speaker 1>prepare you for that. It is what it is. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what could possibly hurt your feelings that she

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<v Speaker 1>could say, because I guess I've just tried to help him, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just set yourself up with a thick skin

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<v Speaker 1>right now, and hopefully we find just a really normal

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<v Speaker 1>reason she's calling you back. Normal. Okay, Well, I'm more

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<v Speaker 1>optimistic than I think. You sound thoughtful, You sound frugal.

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<v Speaker 1>How is he thoughtful? Well, okay, not completely thoughtful. I

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<v Speaker 1>brought the UK. Yeah, okay, I think there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of positive qualities you have and hopefully Robin can see them.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're going to call her right now and see

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<v Speaker 1>what she has to say. You ready, Yeah, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready. All right, man, We're gonna do this. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello. Hey, this is from Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. I'm looking for Robin. This is Robin. Hey, Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>Robin h R. Wait where did you say? What's from? Again?

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<v Speaker 1>From Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we are

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<v Speaker 1>calling you with a once in a lifetime opportunity here

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<v Speaker 1>that I think is actually true. Yes, the opportunity I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about is for you to be featured on a

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<v Speaker 1>mid to low tier morning radio show, and as a bonus,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't and won't pay you anything. You realize this

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<v Speaker 1>sounds a scam. Does that sound fun to you? I

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<v Speaker 1>guess amazing. Yeah, you do sound like a good time

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<v Speaker 1>because you went out on a date with one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners recently named Spence. Oh yeah I did. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So Spence has asked us to reach out to you

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<v Speaker 1>on his behalf. Can you guys just tell him that

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<v Speaker 1>I have a boyfriend or something? Yeah, unless you actually

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<v Speaker 1>have one, then we can't really say that to him.

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<v Speaker 1>But we'd like to tell him something because he told

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<v Speaker 1>us a little bit about the date that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>went on with the picnic in the park, but we'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to hear what it was like from your perspective. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he didn't want to spend a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>money on the date first of all, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>saw when he opened the food. I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>hope I'm not going to regret this one later on

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<v Speaker 1>because it looked like he was from a convenience store.

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<v Speaker 1>And can't confirm or deny that fact, buddy. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>talked to Spence about this and he feels bad about that.

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<v Speaker 1>He hasn't regret he does. He understands that maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>could have done a little bit more or made some

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<v Speaker 1>different decisions. But at the end of the day he said,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys still laughed about it. You know, I was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of laughing with him when although like quirky and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, all that stuff happened during the date and

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<v Speaker 1>the ukulele when he brought it out, but something happened

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<v Speaker 1>something else. I'm not even sure if he knows about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Who oh, really, yeah, he definitely needs to know, don't

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<v Speaker 1>you think. Well, I don't know. It's kind of embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't seem like a guy who gets embarrassed very easily.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good point. And part of being on our

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<v Speaker 1>show here is that you agree, you're willing to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe some things you you wouldn't necessarily want to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's ready to accept whatever it is that he

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<v Speaker 1>messed up on. Okay, wow, what did you see? Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so this is what happened. Like at some point throughout

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<v Speaker 1>the date, he gets a phone call. Okay, so, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you didn't want to take it in front

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<v Speaker 1>of me. So he goes around, like with a tree

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<v Speaker 1>that was near us, and sorry, it's like a soundproof tree.

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<v Speaker 1>We're pretty close with a tree well, yeah, it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like rude to take a phone call during the date.

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<v Speaker 1>So he was actually nice about it, like he's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I really have to take this call. So

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was like a really important call, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, sure, yeah, okay, so what's the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>But that what happened is that I heard him saying, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I'm gonna make it tonight because I

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<v Speaker 1>have a good chance of getting laid. No. No, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounded like he was talking to one of his buddies,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And after that he was like over for me,

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<v Speaker 1>like absolutely a little presumptuous, totally, like what do you

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<v Speaker 1>think I am like gas station potato salad girl or else?

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<v Speaker 1>Give it up after you Exactly, that's exactly like we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know that that had happened on the date. Spence

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<v Speaker 1>didn't tell us about that. I'm sure he didn't him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And it's a great question to ask, because Spence is

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line right now. Yeah, he's on the

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<v Speaker 1>other side of this tree wanting to talk to you, Spence.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't think you're getting laid Spence. What's going on? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>I am so embarrassed, Robin, I was so embarrassed that

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<v Speaker 1>you heard that that I thought that I was behind

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<v Speaker 1>the tree. You couldn't hear what my conversation? Why would

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<v Speaker 1>you even say it, Spence? Why would you even say that? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I was kind of hoping, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you were cute and we had a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's nothing wrong with that, right, Like, there's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing wrong with hoping it'll go further. Well, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think there's thing wrong with hoping, but like talking to

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<v Speaker 1>your buddies about it, like, well, she's a few feet away. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't get one thing wrong about that though. I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't talking to one of my buddy Oh okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>was actually talking to my mom. No, tell us that

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't better. I'm close to my mom, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that like a good trait that you want? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you serious? You tell your mom, Hey, I think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get it into night. I'm not gonna make it

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<v Speaker 1>home for dinner. Not that explicit, but mom wants me

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<v Speaker 1>to be happy. And well, your mom does sound kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sweet, so at least she cares about you in

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<v Speaker 1>your love life. What are you talking about? Jeff and

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation you have with your mother. Everybody has a

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<v Speaker 1>different relationship with their parents. You can't judge them for that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's also true Robin. Are you judging him? I am

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<v Speaker 1>judging him. Yeah, yeah, you're gonna do spence. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna take a forty five minute walk home and

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<v Speaker 1>then you guys are gonna, yeah, get on. Is this

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<v Speaker 1>a situation where you were going to be taking Robin

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<v Speaker 1>home to your mom? Is that where you live? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she lives next door, but okay, I don't know. That

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't I wasn't playing on coming over to mom. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why I was talking to her on the phone because

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<v Speaker 1>usually I go have dinner at my mom's house, and

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to know if I was on my way okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so that she could look through the window and wave

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<v Speaker 1>to you guys. This is weird then what I thought before,

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<v Speaker 1>And it was already kind of weird. I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 1>I want it's so weird. We had a nice time.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we connected. Well, it's weird to know that

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<v Speaker 1>that was your plans with me right even throughout the day,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's just it's it's horrible, like I wouldn't even

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<v Speaker 1>if you take me to a really expensive restaurant. If

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<v Speaker 1>I hear you say that, it's just resoctable. How about this, Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>if we hang out again and I won't tell my

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<v Speaker 1>mom about anything of our relationship. Okay, if we can

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<v Speaker 1>go out another time, mom doesn't have to know anything.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds like a big promise to him a man. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's gonna be upset, but you know it's just what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do. Yeah, it needs to get her own life.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. Usually he high fives his mom after he's

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<v Speaker 1>done with every date, So this is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>a big deal. If you're willing to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>him one more time, then we would pay for that date.

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<v Speaker 1>But why do you think I called you guys? Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a smart man. You mother raised him, right? His

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<v Speaker 1>mother did not raise him. Okay, that is the opposite. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>at least he's smart. But Robin, what do you say?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm feel sorry for him and I want a spect

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<v Speaker 1>for him, but I can't. I can't read with him.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Have we learned anything here, Spence? Yeah, good question.

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<v Speaker 1>Well let me tell you this. Next time I do

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<v Speaker 1>a pictic state, I'm bringing corn in a cob and

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<v Speaker 1>forget the data salad. Could you can eat corn in

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<v Speaker 1>a cop with your hands and there's a lesson. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't get a girl home with you. Yeah, Mom raised

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<v Speaker 1>him right, see brooking Jeffrey in the morning. You guys,

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<v Speaker 1>the more I think about it, having a close relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with your mom and telling your intimate details about what

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<v Speaker 1>you hope to do on a date isn't necessarily like

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<v Speaker 1>a bad thing to me. What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>You you hate talking to your memory, But I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 1>for Spence, like, if he really is a forty five

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<v Speaker 1>minute walk home, then mom can go buy the prophylactics

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<v Speaker 1>and leave him in his mailbox by the time he

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<v Speaker 1>gets And you know that mom wants grandbaby, she's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to do that. I don't know about that, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>But if anything, you sound jealous. Gross. You always say

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<v Speaker 1>that you have the closest relationship with your mom and

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<v Speaker 1>now that somebody beats you competition. We do not talk

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<v Speaker 1>about that. You guys, just show each other. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you've told us stories about your parents being intimate.

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<v Speaker 1>I walked into the house and I put them and

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<v Speaker 1>I was scarred for life, and I never came home

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<v Speaker 1>un and outs ever ever ever, you still rated in

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<v Speaker 1>that hallway for a good thirty seconds, dude, I was

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<v Speaker 1>on the first flour. They were upstairs. That's scarier. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of details are telling. Lets you think about

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<v Speaker 1>that for a little bit more. Meanwhile to seven, eight, five,

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<v Speaker 1>nine two, if you're interested in going out with Spence,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, gonna get in line behind Alexis. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if Spence's mom would approve of alexistly, but

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<v Speaker 1>if you ever want to get a second eight update

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<v Speaker 1>emailed the show, we can call the person wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>you that Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,