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Speaker 1: Second day. When you see an attractive person online, what's

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Speaker 1: your best move to start the conversation. I know for

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Speaker 1: our technical director Ashton, he starts with two words, and

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Speaker 1: this is true. He opens with, hey, trouble. The success

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Speaker 1: raid is probably under twenty percent, maybe even under two percent,

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Speaker 1: but you know it's not going to stop him from trying.

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Speaker 1: Worked on. One of our listeners, Spence says he connected

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Speaker 1: with a very attractive woman on a dating app and

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Speaker 1: it was purely coincidental. So let's talk to him and

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Speaker 1: hear about it. Hey troublemaker, welcome to the trouble Bubble. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: trouble happens on this show. I took the right dat

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Speaker 1: to fall, that's for sure. Yeah. I think it's so

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Speaker 1: weird that you're saying you coincidentally met somebody online. Isn't

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Speaker 1: it all purposeful when you're online dating? Tell us what happened.

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Speaker 1: So I met Robin on a dating app, and the

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Speaker 1: whole reason that we met is because under hobbies she

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Speaker 1: had listed glass blowing. Coincidentally, I've actually taken a glassblowing class,

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Speaker 1: and so I thought that I would strike up a

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Speaker 1: did you make a little dish to put your like

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Speaker 1: paper clips in, because that's what I made. That sounds

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Speaker 1: really fun, you know. I made like, you know, those

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Speaker 1: glass balls you can buy it like pier One, those

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Speaker 1: made stuff like that. Okay, your item was even more

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Speaker 1: useless than mine. Yeah, and here's a weird thing about it.

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Speaker 1: So I messaged her about the glass blowing and she

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Speaker 1: tells me that she doesn't even know what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 1: She's never done glass blowing, and chat's not in their profile.

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Speaker 1: And I realized that we're chatting. I think I was

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Speaker 1: talking about like a different girl. Oh but she wrote

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Speaker 1: I'm just glad we're talking at this point, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, because like half the battle of online

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Speaker 1: dating is getting them to respond, and that's tough. So

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Speaker 1: what did you do like rush over to robaio and

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Speaker 1: be like, ha ha, what a Joe car That was funny.

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Speaker 1: We just kept chatting and uh, we're getting along pretty well.

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Speaker 1: And I decided, well, you want to meet up? And

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Speaker 1: she said sure she would love to. All right, good work,

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Speaker 1: So what did you end up doing for the date? Well,

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Speaker 1: we did a picnic in the park. And I feel like,

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Speaker 1: you know, a picnic is kind of a cheap date.

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Speaker 1: That's why I was literally think in my head. But

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's not negative cheap, but I'm just you know,

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Speaker 1: trying to save a little money. Yeah, but you could

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Speaker 1: still make it cute even if it's not that expensive. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and it was. It was kind of cute. You know.

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Speaker 1: I also brought like a frisbee so we could play

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Speaker 1: I brought back. I went to the like there's a

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Speaker 1: board or something. Oh no, no. And they had like

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Speaker 1: top with potana salad spoons. And that's a date. It's

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Speaker 1: funny that you should bust me in a potato salad

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Speaker 1: I mean, we both did it, but it was my idea,

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Speaker 1: after this hold on it second, We're in the middle

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Speaker 1: a point of telling us about his relatively inexpensive picnic

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Speaker 1: For some reason, Robin is hesitant to accept love when

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Speaker 1: so much to ask what's going on? So we're about

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Speaker 1: that right, Spence? Yeah, that's what I want to know,

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Speaker 1: I'm ready. All right, man, We're gonna do this. Here

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Speaker 1: we go. Hello. Hey, this is from Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm looking for Robin. This is Robin. Hey, Robin,

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Speaker 1: From Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we are

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Speaker 1: calling you with a once in a lifetime opportunity here

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Speaker 1: that I think is actually true. Yes, the opportunity I'm

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Speaker 1: mid to low tier morning radio show, and as a bonus,

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Speaker 1: we can't and won't pay you anything. You realize this

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Speaker 1: sounds a scam. Does that sound fun to you? I

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Speaker 1: guess amazing. Yeah, you do sound like a good time

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Speaker 1: our listeners recently named Spence. Oh yeah I did. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So Spence has asked us to reach out to you

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Speaker 1: you know. And after that he was like over for me,

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Speaker 1: I am so embarrassed, Robin, I was so embarrassed that

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