Speaker 1: All right, guys, buen and welcome to your show, my show,
Speaker 1: Exactly A Mada. This is your girl, Adela, and I
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Speaker 1: and you guys are helping me do that. So Anyways,
Speaker 1: today's topic is one of the most important topics um
Speaker 1: that I've ever done on the show, because I really
Speaker 1: felt that it was important for you guys to know
Speaker 1: what is happening down in my kiddy cat, which is nothing.
Speaker 1: I am currently not having sex. Okay, So today's topic
Speaker 1: is juicy with a mata, which it should actually be
Speaker 1: dry with spider webs with a mata. Um. And you
Speaker 1: know what, but I don't say well because I know
Speaker 1: that he was the one helping me, helping me break
Speaker 1: this down biddle before I get to it. Um my producer,
Speaker 1: friend banda, Amigo, Coole and all that good stuff. Alex
Speaker 1: had to come through to help me, um go through
Speaker 1: this because I'm I'm really going through it right now,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like I wanted to be juicy,
Speaker 1: and it's juicy right now, but nobody's getting it. Alex.
Speaker 1: Where you at, bro, I'm over here in Jersey just
Speaker 1: keeping it, keeping it man, keeping it, yo, Yeah, Alex,
Speaker 1: Like this is hard. I really thought that now that
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant, this would have been like the perfect time
Speaker 1: because this is a perfect time for you to get
Speaker 1: it in and get freaky and and you know you
Speaker 1: have nine months where you can't get pregnant because you're
Speaker 1: ready pregnant, so you don't live your best life and
Speaker 1: get it in. Bat I haven't gotten it in. I
Speaker 1: haven't gotten it in, and I'm so sad about it.
Speaker 1: And is it my choice for you? What's going on here?
Speaker 1: The the audience would really like to know for a
Speaker 1: mad because you're a very good looking woman, You've got
Speaker 1: it going on, you have a great career, you have
Speaker 1: a lot of things going for you. Is this my
Speaker 1: choice or are you being very selective? Like what is
Speaker 1: going on? So? Because what happened was when I before
Speaker 1: I got pregnant, I had a man, and then I
Speaker 1: got pregnant and I didn't have man. So then I
Speaker 1: just had to do myself. But that's fine though, because
Speaker 1: I played DJ all the time, because let me tell
Speaker 1: you something, I do be horny. I'd be hornie all
Speaker 1: the time. I just have to wander, wake and wink
Speaker 1: and handle second play DJ. That is the very first
Speaker 1: time I've been on this earth for a very long time,
Speaker 1: and this is the first I'd be like winking and
Speaker 1: I just handled it myself. I'd be scratching the tables.
Speaker 1: You know, and I'll be doing it to myself. What
Speaker 1: am I supposed to do? I'm not gonna be out
Speaker 1: here in these streets giving up my good you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, giving up to the people now, not
Speaker 1: to men, to the fact that now as a mother,
Speaker 1: because I am a mother, i am protecting the temple
Speaker 1: of my children, and I'm just gonna let anybody come
Speaker 1: stick it to me, Helena. So better safe than sorry
Speaker 1: and eat rank. Like you know, do I have my moments,
Speaker 1: my freaking moments. Of course, I'm a woman, regardless of
Speaker 1: being pregnant or not. You know, I have my moments
Speaker 1: where I'm like, I want to be sexually active. And
Speaker 1: it's not just sexually. I think it's more the intimacy
Speaker 1: part that I miss, Like I want to be cut
Speaker 1: on me, So let's play foot season. Lie to me,
Speaker 1: because that's what men do. Not all of them, but
Speaker 1: most of them. Lie to me. Tell me I'm beautiful
Speaker 1: that you never love to be like me? I'm really,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love it. Yes, So that's what
Speaker 1: I missed the most. Fat Other than that, then the doctor,
Speaker 1: the doctor told me something, Hey, look, don't memink and
Speaker 1: I one of my placenta is actually dropped towards my uterus,
Speaker 1: So I'm not supposed to be getting it in because
Speaker 1: I can bleed or it can affect the uterus. Blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. So not even that. My girls won't even
Speaker 1: let me get freaking go for the questions. Let's get
Speaker 1: juicy on this show. We get freaky, we get crazy.
Speaker 1: We understand this is the nature of the show. But
Speaker 1: there's certain questions that we have not answered. This is
Speaker 1: one of them. What doesn't mean to be good in bed?
Speaker 1: What does it mean to be good in bed? I
Speaker 1: think that good is being able to find that connection
Speaker 1: with your partner. And when I mean connection, it doesn't
Speaker 1: necessarily have to be emotional, because now we're talking about
Speaker 1: being good in bed specifically, it's just the chemistry. It's
Speaker 1: important to have sexual chemistry. Um, that's why I don't
Speaker 1: like people. Oh I have the best big and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tear yourself and all these things I'm gonna do
Speaker 1: to you. Shut up. First of all, shut up, because
Speaker 1: if the chemistry sexually is not there, I feel like
Speaker 1: it's like it's like a key and a key lock.
Speaker 1: You gotta find the right key that fits to you.
Speaker 1: So that's just what it is. Some girls like, oh,
Speaker 1: I have the best do though whatever is, and that
Speaker 1: you may have a good dought to someone that has
Speaker 1: a very big penis, for example, but for someone that
Speaker 1: has a little one, you maybe too white, like it's
Speaker 1: you may be loots like you know, she said the
Speaker 1: right key for you have to find the right key.
Speaker 1: Once you find it, that's what makes it good, you know.
Speaker 1: And some people like to please, some people like to
Speaker 1: be pleased. It's just finding that connection when you're in
Speaker 1: that space. Um, And I've definitely had a not a lot,
Speaker 1: but I've had some people that are not good in bed,
Speaker 1: and I've had something that are good. And let me
Speaker 1: tell you something. If I were to find my perfect
Speaker 1: man and he wasn't to be the gay, the perfect
Speaker 1: key to my luck, oh my god, this is so corny.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to be my best behavior. And
Speaker 1: I say, you know, but if he weren't to be
Speaker 1: the perfect key to my to my situation, meaning like
Speaker 1: if he wasn't he rude, to be small, whatever, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't leave him. I was still rock. I was still
Speaker 1: right right with him. Because I think there's another thing,
Speaker 1: especially now, in this generation and with society these days,
Speaker 1: we're so concerned just about the sexual part that we
Speaker 1: forget all the amazing other things that we're supposed to
Speaker 1: look for in a partner. You know, it's not just
Speaker 1: about the sex. Yes, it's sex important, we obviously know
Speaker 1: that there is, but sex is not just about you know,
Speaker 1: stick it in and just banging it out. There's intimacy,
Speaker 1: there's many other things that you can do. And then
Speaker 1: you know that leads me right to my next question.
Speaker 1: No matter what, does your ideal one night stand look like?
Speaker 1: I'm are you? Are you a one nice stand type
Speaker 1: of girl? Like? Has that ever happened? Shout outs, shout
Speaker 1: outs judgment free zone, my mom, judgment free zone by
Speaker 1: the girls that you know what, I'm gonna go out
Speaker 1: to the club tonight. I'm gonna finally like I'm gonna
Speaker 1: get stabbed with it battle. In my case, I'm not
Speaker 1: a one nice stand girl. You gotta lie to me
Speaker 1: like me like they all do. Come tell me, take
Speaker 1: me out to lunch, to dinner, buy me flowers, buy
Speaker 1: me a bag, do something you know and don't say.
Speaker 1: The more you do, the more my legs open like
Speaker 1: a scissor right and don't say it is there battle?
Speaker 1: Oh how you These days you don't even ask what
Speaker 1: people's names are. It's just like, oh, you're hot too.
Speaker 1: Instagram handle, that's what I know you buy. I'm not
Speaker 1: exactly what's what's your Instagram? No, I'm not doing it
Speaker 1: so personally, I don't think I have like a dream
Speaker 1: one night stand because that's just not me I should afterwards,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna feel dirty. What's your what's your ideal date? Then? Like?
Speaker 1: What what gets you all worked up? And you're like,
Speaker 1: all right, let's do this? Man? Like, are you the
Speaker 1: type of person that needs super extravagant you know dinners
Speaker 1: like you know you need to go out to the
Speaker 1: best restaurants? Are you more low key where you just
Speaker 1: want to have fun and get to know the person
Speaker 1: one on one? I if I really like you, um,
Speaker 1: you don't have to do all the craziness, of course
Speaker 1: I want. My biggest thing is always effort. When I know, like,
Speaker 1: if you don't get it like that, but I know
Speaker 1: that you went out of your way. I love that.
Speaker 1: Now if you get it like that, don't be taking
Speaker 1: me to the around the corner. No, No, I want
Speaker 1: to see you billys in what your your bill should
Speaker 1: be my rent? And then I'd be like Guancho if
Speaker 1: Devomina he's serious, Okay, let's go for But I like
Speaker 1: I like efforts. So so a Manna comes over to
Speaker 1: New York to do some business and let's go, let's
Speaker 1: go grab Let's go grab some dinner, right, and I
Speaker 1: take you out to a a really nice pizzeria. You know,
Speaker 1: we just have a slice and hang out and talk.
Speaker 1: Is that you like? Is that something? Is that it
Speaker 1: might not be the best effort in the world, but
Speaker 1: the person is still having effort in wanting to see
Speaker 1: you and talk to you and get to know you're
Speaker 1: still Is that still good enough for you? Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: still That's definitely still good enough for me. I just
Speaker 1: think I'm in a different place in life where I'm
Speaker 1: not looking for all the extra extra bougie stuff. I
Speaker 1: just want to know if this is real, like this
Speaker 1: is gonna go anywhere? Do you feel that? And what
Speaker 1: I definitely have learned for my past experience is I'm
Speaker 1: no longer doing build a bay. I'm not building a bay.
Speaker 1: If you don't get your stuff together, faba is a
Speaker 1: rap I feel like we're gonna do this together. Are
Speaker 1: we're gonna fight for love together? No, baba, the days
Speaker 1: is over. We're in the pandemic time meta, the what
Speaker 1: are dying? We don't have time for this seems to
Speaker 1: be the most reoccurring thing here. People are dying. Let's
Speaker 1: get this on, Let's get this Okay, what is uh? Now?
Speaker 1: You know, if you haven't, if you're not really into
Speaker 1: the into the one night standing, are you into the
Speaker 1: hookup scene? Like? What was what has been the most
Speaker 1: embarrassing thing that has happened to you while hooking up?
Speaker 1: If you know, because I'm pretty sure, so you know,
Speaker 1: make making out, you know, getting a little frisky, doesn't
Speaker 1: you don't go all the way right? Maybe second base
Speaker 1: into third base? Has anything embarrassing has happened to you
Speaker 1: while you're making that transition from like okay, cool, put
Speaker 1: your hand on my lap too full on making out
Speaker 1: or whatever. I've definitely had like bad kissers. That's like
Speaker 1: an embarrassing moment to me because you automatically expected, if
Speaker 1: you really like someone, you have these high expectations of
Speaker 1: what it is going to be like to kiss them,
Speaker 1: to have sex with them, how they're gonna smell, how
Speaker 1: they're going to touch you, all these things, and sometimes
Speaker 1: it doesn't it not to be that way. Um, I've
Speaker 1: had really slimy kissers. I hate it. Can you explain
Speaker 1: to the crowd who's listening right now so intensely, like
Speaker 1: into their headsets, can you explain to us what what sloppy?
Speaker 1: You know, slobbery kissing? I've had cold kissers. The cold
Speaker 1: kissers are the people that kiss you and their mouth
Speaker 1: is so cold, like they just ate like a frozen juice. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like why is your blood temperature so cold? What is
Speaker 1: wrong with you? Like no, or maybe I'm too hot,
Speaker 1: So that's a no. Slimy kissers like that saliva and
Speaker 1: they say they be trying to do the most just
Speaker 1: and then you have to wipe the bottom of your
Speaker 1: child and the top of your lip, like, watch, don't
Speaker 1: do it. You don't have to do all of those things.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of grown people that don't know how
Speaker 1: to kiss. There's a lot of grown people that don't
Speaker 1: know how to touch you, caress you properly. You know,
Speaker 1: these are things that you learn in high school. Where
Speaker 1: were you, I don't know. Anyways, a lot of just
Speaker 1: sloppin us. They want to spend There's there's a place
Speaker 1: in time for that. Um, that's right, Alex. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm talking do you do you want to know
Speaker 1: how many sexual partners someone you're dating has had. I
Speaker 1: know we kind of talked about this once before, but
Speaker 1: it's become more of a recent topic where people were
Speaker 1: kind of like they don't care. Some that do are
Speaker 1: looking for that marriage material, so they want to know,
Speaker 1: you know, how much, how many miles has been traveled basically,
Speaker 1: but you know, for you is that is that a
Speaker 1: deal breaker? I don't want to know how many sexual
Speaker 1: points you've had. You know what I'm saying going out
Speaker 1: with how long we can make it happen. We can survive,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. If you have some soap
Speaker 1: and water, we can survive. You know, and you're dangling,
Speaker 1: it's not gonna break. I don't want to know how
Speaker 1: many people you stuck it to. Don't tell me. I
Speaker 1: don't you know what I'm saying, Like, I just don't
Speaker 1: um out. What I do want to know is like,
Speaker 1: if for any reason we're somewhere and there's someone you smashed,
Speaker 1: it would be nice if you know the little be like, oh,
Speaker 1: by the way, you don't feel no type of way,
Speaker 1: but I used to date this person. You're okay with that,
Speaker 1: You're okay with the whole communication, Like, all right, that's
Speaker 1: a girl that I know, she's gonna be her back out.
Speaker 1: You can just you can just let me know that
Speaker 1: that's cool. You know what I'm saying, because I never
Speaker 1: wanted it to feel like she has the upper hand
Speaker 1: on from far away, she's giving you winksy and I'm like,
Speaker 1: what's going on? No, But I don't want to know
Speaker 1: the guy. And that's another thing. I think it's such
Speaker 1: a horrible question. Guys, think listen to me. Whatever you do,
Speaker 1: stop being so insecure and so crunchy asking the gay.
Speaker 1: Oh so, how many guys have you been before me? Yo,
Speaker 1: with the whole neighborhood, with everybody. I don't think I've
Speaker 1: ever asked that question, man, And you know, like, I
Speaker 1: don't think I've ever even cared. That's immature to me,
Speaker 1: because like, before you existed, there was other people in
Speaker 1: my life and that should be fine. The only thing
Speaker 1: that you should be concerned is that I'm clean. That
Speaker 1: there's nothing you know that if you stick it to me,
Speaker 1: you're gonna you're gonna survive, you're gonna be okay, and
Speaker 1: that's it. But other than that, I don't think those
Speaker 1: should be questions that should be asked. Now, flip the script.
Speaker 1: What if they ask you, are you like open to
Speaker 1: saying yeah, this is how many people have been or
Speaker 1: do you just diet it right then? And you're like, listen,
Speaker 1: I don't want anything about this. I did it because
Speaker 1: I don't want you to judge me. If I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I've been with guys, I don't want to be like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you're a hort Like maybe I would
Speaker 1: never because then they want you to lie. Then they
Speaker 1: want you to lie, and I don't want to. Like
Speaker 1: if I had to start a relationship lying, I don't
Speaker 1: want to do it. Like how many guys have you
Speaker 1: been with? Oh, I've only been with five guys? M
Speaker 1: you mean that year in a couple of months. Wait,
Speaker 1: I don't understand. I've even seen someone say like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, like after they hooked up and had sex
Speaker 1: for the first time, they were like, you know, they
Speaker 1: were like, oh, you're you're my third Like whoa or second? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: how do you feel about that like if the guy
Speaker 1: were to like turn around and tell you, oh my god,
Speaker 1: that was great. You know, I just want to tell
Speaker 1: you right now you you're my third one I've ever
Speaker 1: had in my life. Like what would you Would you
Speaker 1: be like, oh, um, great, like whatever, or you'd just
Speaker 1: be like, let's not talk about that, bro Um. I
Speaker 1: would probably not want to talk about it. And if
Speaker 1: I am your third in life, that could be like
Speaker 1: a turn off to me. Wow, Okay, that's a little
Speaker 1: bit of a turnoff, only because I feel like I
Speaker 1: have to teach you a lot of things. It could
Speaker 1: be good or it could be bad. It could be
Speaker 1: good because I can feel like I can mold you.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna fee I'm gonna show you all the things
Speaker 1: I like. That's right, And but I'm being you don't
Speaker 1: have too much experience. And if you don't have too
Speaker 1: much experience, that means you still have a lot of
Speaker 1: sucking to do. And I need you to get it
Speaker 1: out of your system. I'm out of the cougar. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I want you to go out there and have sex
Speaker 1: with everybody. Jo I like guys that are older. That
Speaker 1: means you've already been around the world. Yeah, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, you're the first one to say that. I
Speaker 1: know lots of females that love their men, you know.
Speaker 1: And I went to college late in my life, right,
Speaker 1: I was a marine, so I spent a lot of time,
Speaker 1: you know, thank you, between between being in a war
Speaker 1: and coming back and being a parent. Um, you know.
Speaker 1: So I went to college late, and I noticed that
Speaker 1: a lot. I noticed that a lot girls in college
Speaker 1: are like, they could be with the buff you know,
Speaker 1: whatever dudes that play football, whatever, soccer, but they see
Speaker 1: an older dude, you know, but dad, Bob, they don't
Speaker 1: mind jumping on them. Yeah, I don't mind because it's
Speaker 1: less stressed. They've already been there, done that. They already
Speaker 1: know how to treat you because they've already been around
Speaker 1: you already, you know. And that's another thing, not for nothing,
Speaker 1: but if you're with somebody that works from far away,
Speaker 1: let's say you're with a marine, or you're with somebody
Speaker 1: that that hasn't had a chance to really get it in,
Speaker 1: that's a tough one too. You know. I want you
Speaker 1: to go out there and go funk the whole neighborhood,
Speaker 1: and then when you're tired, then we can do this
Speaker 1: because you still have you still have some things to
Speaker 1: get out of your system. The same thing goes for women.
Speaker 1: If a woman, if a woman dates you and she
Speaker 1: just had finished a relationship, they had viva soda. If
Speaker 1: if he just got divorced, he needs to get some
Speaker 1: things out of his system that he's been holding in
Speaker 1: for you know what I'm saying. I think people need
Speaker 1: to go through their stages in life. Wow, that's uh,
Speaker 1: that's pretty good, you know. UM. Now for you, for you,
Speaker 1: do you how or have you ever, oh my goodness, UM,
Speaker 1: been interrupted while doing the deed with a gentleman. Has
Speaker 1: anybody ever walked in on you, whether a parent or
Speaker 1: a family member, or or a friend or anything? How
Speaker 1: do you? How do you handle that at that moment?
Speaker 1: My mom's in my life all day, every day since
Speaker 1: the day that Um, I you know, she gave birth
Speaker 1: to me. What she hasn't cut down political cord yet.
Speaker 1: Let me saying something. I love her to the end
Speaker 1: of me, but UM, sometimes it's a little bit hard
Speaker 1: because I want to have my privacy and she's never
Speaker 1: literally opened the door because I've locked it. But she's
Speaker 1: tried to open the door without knowing or she'll be
Speaker 1: like ahma or whatever. She would just like kill the mood.
Speaker 1: And then I obviously already know that for the most
Speaker 1: part in my life, I've always had to have sex
Speaker 1: on mute. So I've always had to do the put
Speaker 1: the TV or whatever. And then sometimes my partner doesn't
Speaker 1: want to have the TV. You know, you want to
Speaker 1: hear it. You want to hear the you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Do you want to do? You want to
Speaker 1: do the sound effects? He wants to and don't say
Speaker 1: if you want to hear so you can get excited.
Speaker 1: I'm like, bah blah, I can't do it right now
Speaker 1: because as usual, my mom's right next door, so you
Speaker 1: have to be like a mute all the time. So
Speaker 1: I've learned and let me use some that's kind of bad.
Speaker 1: It's kind of bad. And I realized the more I've
Speaker 1: gone older, I realized how not having the correct intimacy
Speaker 1: and being able to feel free sexually vocally, Um, can
Speaker 1: I not come even It makes you not feel completely
Speaker 1: sexually open, and that's not good either. So um, so yeah,
Speaker 1: have you have you ever been on a date or
Speaker 1: not feeling someone you're out with them and lied to
Speaker 1: that person? So you can go see someone else. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I did it. I did it. I did it. Is
Speaker 1: that do you do you feel differently now or would
Speaker 1: you like go back in time and tell yourself like
Speaker 1: hey man, or like hey listen, live life, go get that. Well.
Speaker 1: I I left just because I was over it, um
Speaker 1: and I felt more interested in the other person I
Speaker 1: was gonna go see, but not because I was like
Speaker 1: having sex with one person. Then was either or no.
Speaker 1: But I have You know, I'm a very nice person,
Speaker 1: and sometimes it's hard for me to say no, especially
Speaker 1: if I see you're very sweet, and it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to take advantage of that whenever we
Speaker 1: have to cord I'm so nice. Let's record today. So
Speaker 1: um so, Yeah, I've done it. But at the same time,
Speaker 1: I haven't felt bad because I'm sure they've done it
Speaker 1: to me too. You know. Yeah, that's that's a tough one,
Speaker 1: right when you flip the script and you're trying to
Speaker 1: figure things out yourself. You know, these guys do it
Speaker 1: to girls all the time. Oh I gotta go, I
Speaker 1: gotta go to work, or you know, something just happened.
Speaker 1: You know when that happens a lot too, when they
Speaker 1: when they smash you. Guys said that all the time
Speaker 1: after they dick you down and be like, oh, you know,
Speaker 1: I have to go see my homeboy. I gotta go
Speaker 1: do this, And they don't be going nowhere. They just
Speaker 1: want you to get the funk out. So it's kind
Speaker 1: of crazy, right, Like, I know, that's why I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't like the one that stands. They come, they
Speaker 1: smash you, they hang and throw the all stretched out
Speaker 1: and white out and everything, and they say they send
Speaker 1: you on an uber battle. If you look at the
Speaker 1: feminist side, women will be like, no, I had sex
Speaker 1: with him. You know, I'm the one that's empowered. I
Speaker 1: wanted it, I got it boom, and you're the one
Speaker 1: that's on the uger going home. You ever called some
Speaker 1: on an uber? Have you been in that position where
Speaker 1: even if you've been dating for a while and you've
Speaker 1: been you know, doing your thing for a while, you
Speaker 1: kind of were just like, all right, you need to
Speaker 1: go home today, like now, because you've been here for
Speaker 1: the last couple of days. So like you called them
Speaker 1: an uber to go home. I never did, but I've
Speaker 1: always wanted to. I'm not gonna lie. I've been in
Speaker 1: the situations where I'm made bah bah yeah, Like I'll
Speaker 1: give you all the signs like I have my mom
Speaker 1: called me. You know, I'll be acting like I'm tired,
Speaker 1: comes up, sits in the room to watch TV with you.
Speaker 1: She's done it seems done it literally with the guy
Speaker 1: under the seats right there like like and the person
Speaker 1: won't leave it. So yeah, guys, learn how to get
Speaker 1: your cues together, and girls too, learn when you're not wanted.
Speaker 1: When you're not wanted in the space, you can feel it.
Speaker 1: You don't have something. You don't have to have somebody
Speaker 1: tell you, oh Amy, yeah that when or get out.
Speaker 1: You don't need that. You know when to get out,
Speaker 1: So just do it. Read the room, read the room, everywhere.
Speaker 1: It's not that hard. Mom is sitting on the same
Speaker 1: bed you. Guys just smashed it, you know, have you
Speaker 1: This is a tough one. Uh And I know people
Speaker 1: that have said yes to this. Have you ever been
Speaker 1: so tired or the person has been so boring and
Speaker 1: you've probably either fell asleep or we started yawning in
Speaker 1: the middle of being with someone. Yeah, um, I found it.
Speaker 1: I found in asleep in the middle sex way. How
Speaker 1: did this happen. Oh yeah, no, because what had happened
Speaker 1: was is like, first of all, any story that starts
Speaker 1: like that, you know, it's interesting turn your volumes up
Speaker 1: a lot of times if you're going a lot of times,
Speaker 1: if you're asleep and your partner wants it but you're not,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, they'll just roll you over,
Speaker 1: or they'll do the side like thing. They get one
Speaker 1: leg up to the side and you're just like, you know,
Speaker 1: so you could just go to sleep and just have
Speaker 1: that one leg and just go handle it, get it
Speaker 1: out of your system and let me go to sleep.
Speaker 1: I got shipped to do it in the morning, so
Speaker 1: they'll be that. Or if they roll you over comp lately,
Speaker 1: you just lay there like you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Hot at me when you're done. As a matter fact,
Speaker 1: don't even hot at me. When you're done, go get
Speaker 1: the white bees and everything. You handle everything for me.
Speaker 1: Just that one has come to remember when we were younger,
Speaker 1: we would like probably die for moments like that. Just
Speaker 1: let's do this. And now it's just like listen, man,
Speaker 1: I got three recordings tomorrow morning, and I gotta go,
Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta go. Watch the car dead ass.
Speaker 1: You know, like sometimes sometimes it's important to me. It's
Speaker 1: important to compromise when you're with someone, it's important to
Speaker 1: understand your other partner, your partner's sexual needs. You can't
Speaker 1: just think of you. So I think it's harder for
Speaker 1: men because men have well now, men are always ready
Speaker 1: to get it on, like it could be at any time.
Speaker 1: But sometimes men are tired too. We automatically assume that
Speaker 1: they're always ready to go, not necessarily. Sometimes they just
Speaker 1: don't want it. Just because they don't want it doesn't
Speaker 1: mean that they don't want you. It just means that
Speaker 1: right now they're tired and they don't want to put
Speaker 1: it on the work. Because for the most part, men
Speaker 1: have to be the ones to say, get that backworking,
Speaker 1: like bam bam. They gotta get the motion together. A
Speaker 1: lot of girls we could just lay there spread it.
Speaker 1: I just want to get it in real quick. Bumba woman.
Speaker 1: That's it unless you're like me, because once they start,
Speaker 1: I never want to start. That's my thing. To get
Speaker 1: me started. I'm like a car. It's like, oh oh
Speaker 1: my god. But once we're in, we have to do
Speaker 1: a couple of rounds before I can just relax. That
Speaker 1: sounds interesting. That sounds interesting taking notes for anybody who's
Speaker 1: keeping up right now, notes because I'm single, redom mingo.
Speaker 1: You never know, taking notes for am. I gotta go
Speaker 1: to Florida soon. Maybe bring a friends for her, someone
Speaker 1: that she can really uh fall in love with, and
Speaker 1: they get on one knee for her. As a previous episode,
Speaker 1: we spoke about have you ever injured yourself for someone
Speaker 1: else while being extremely kinky in the bedroom? I have.
Speaker 1: I I have been like my knee or something like that.
Speaker 1: You know, you'll be trying to do the moss or
Speaker 1: be the sexiest one because especially the first time, you
Speaker 1: wanted to get impressed them and show them like, oh
Speaker 1: I got some moves for you. Oh yeah, that's the worst, right,
Speaker 1: it's the first time and you're already out with an injury,
Speaker 1: like yeah. But the thing is you have to keep
Speaker 1: it together. You can't let him know, Okay, I just
Speaker 1: busting my ask like oh you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Oh this is so hard to You're like thin, I
Speaker 1: just my sip. But but those are the worst I've had.
Speaker 1: I've had my little situation here and there. I'm sure
Speaker 1: guys have to have you Oh yeah, yeah, like I
Speaker 1: pulled like my hamstring. It's just incredible. You can the
Speaker 1: immense amount of pain where you're like where you're paralyzed
Speaker 1: from one leg down your leg. It's like noding. You're like,
Speaker 1: you're like, you gotta go, man, you can't stop. Now.
Speaker 1: What're you gonna think of? You? Bro? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: It's crazy how sexually we go through so many things,
Speaker 1: and then we try to fake and keep it together
Speaker 1: for our partners because we're trying to you know, finans,
Speaker 1: we're trying to show that that we got it together,
Speaker 1: but we really don't. Oh my god, Alice, you know what,
Speaker 1: we should definitely have more shows than this because I
Speaker 1: love it. I feel like this is a great thing
Speaker 1: about exactly a matter, no taboos uncensored. This is as
Speaker 1: real as it gets because you've been through it. I've
Speaker 1: been through it. And why we got a sugarcoat it? It
Speaker 1: It is what it is is. The truth is just
Speaker 1: give me the truth, tell me the t ALEX. Thank
Speaker 1: you so much for joining me, for supporting me as usual.
Speaker 1: You are an amazing co host, no problem, and at
Speaker 1: least here I know that the only thing that could
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Speaker 1: if you like today's episode didn't make you feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: I hope it didn't because it didn't make me feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: I think it's important to talk about these things in
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Speaker 1: I definitely want to know. So let me know. Have
Speaker 1: you ever had a wax sex partner? Do you believe
Speaker 1: in one night stands? Um? Do you think sex is overrated?
Speaker 1: Would you have sex again with someone who who cheated
Speaker 1: on you? All these fun like what was the most
Speaker 1: kinkiest experience you've ever done? All those freaky stuff. I
Speaker 1: definitely want to know. Next episode I might get more serious,
Speaker 1: but today I just wanted to have some fun. So anyways,
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