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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Ren and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio podcast. All right, you guys, so our guests

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Speaker 1: today we are very excited about because how many messages

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Speaker 1: did you get about having them on? So many? So

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Speaker 1: I posted one of these videos I like, reposted it

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Speaker 1: Instagram story and it was from a couple of Rachel

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Speaker 1: and Tom and this beautiful story of kind of how

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Speaker 1: for his wife that we're just unparalleled, like brought a

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Speaker 1: tear to my eye, and so many scrubbers reached out

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Speaker 1: have them on the podcast. And guess what we did.

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Speaker 1: They're on the pod. So please welcome Rachel and Tom

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Speaker 1: just coming in. So Rachel and Tom Sullivan, Rachel and

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Speaker 1: Tomas have a last name. Yeah, I will say, y'all,

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Speaker 1: this is the definition of if he wanted to, he would, right.

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Speaker 1: We get that a lot online of people who say that, um,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know. I kind of think it's just like,

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Speaker 1: if you have a good partner, it's what you should

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Speaker 1: so I don't want to. I do want to get

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Speaker 1: back to kind of and like share your story of

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Speaker 1: just kind of like none of how you went viral,

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Speaker 1: but like kind of where it all started. Because I

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Speaker 1: was really touched by this um I recently and I'm

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Speaker 1: But my dactor told me that I have Hashimoto's disease,

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Speaker 1: and unbeknownst to me, my boyfriend starts making these like juices.

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Speaker 1: He started getting really crazy into juicing and I was

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Speaker 1: where's all this juicing coming from? And he was like, well,

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Speaker 1: was like you, look you how do you know that?

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Speaker 1: And he's like, well, I researched it and like looked

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Speaker 1: it up and I like literally just started bawling right

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Speaker 1: I felt like it's something like I feel like, you know,

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Speaker 1: you probably didn't Rachel, you didn't expect him to to

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's not the norm. Yeah, that I

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Speaker 1: will say, like Tom Tom's great. Um. That all started

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Speaker 1: and she was doing her own research UM and from

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Speaker 1: She'd had days of debilitate, debilitating periods when it get

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Speaker 1: And it's just like that was the like you exercise

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Speaker 1: And it felt comfortable because we were on Rachel Rain

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Speaker 1: we had a little bit of a social media platform.

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Speaker 1: I felt like, you see where real people and not

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Speaker 1: just more or store. I just said we're gonna have

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Speaker 1: always have like vegetarian and vegan options, and so we

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Speaker 1: did like califlower wings and chicken wings, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: kids like three, three or four game and one of

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Speaker 1: the girls though like sends us the sweetest message like

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Speaker 1: paragraph and like just how much it meant tour. And

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Speaker 1: after that we're like, we have to keep doing this,

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Speaker 1: like like just struck us. And so went from like

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Speaker 1: four to fifteen to five to forty and then we

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Speaker 1: were using Rachel Ray's girl streets this whole time, and

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Speaker 1: we're like, we can't keep doing this. So we just

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Speaker 1: said as long as we get fund well doing it.

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Speaker 1: We were doing it every Sunday or every other um

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Speaker 1: and we threw up a go fund me and it

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Speaker 1: was filled in like two hours. So now we have

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Speaker 1: there's eight universities in this triangle area, so Duke, U,

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Speaker 1: several students that are like computer classes. We have over

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Speaker 1: we have over a thousand signed up that get an

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Speaker 1: invite and we tell them what the menu is and

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Speaker 1: then they say I can come. I'm bringing this many friends.

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Speaker 1: And then they give us their dietary restrictions and I

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Speaker 1: cook for two days. We have a couple of students

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Speaker 1: that help us. But yeah, it's it's the best that

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Speaker 1: is so has so many like cousins and like people

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Speaker 1: to the point where you're like, I think I need

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Speaker 1: a babysitter. You have endless opens. It's like you can

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Speaker 1: just tell them that you guys have such big hearts,

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Speaker 1: Like you just really have big hearts. I mean it's

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Speaker 1: really cool. It's it's really in this like day of

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Speaker 1: you know, viral videos and stuff too for it to

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Speaker 1: be people like you guys who are doing what you're doing,

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Speaker 1: and also just like spreading joy and like, honestly, hope

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Speaker 1: and love is really a beautiful thing. So yeah, I

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Speaker 1: feel I was like so excited when they said they

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Speaker 1: all were coming on the podcast because Tanya talked about it.

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Speaker 1: I get away from those because of my size. I

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Speaker 1: feel like being a big guy is coming in no, honestly,

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Speaker 1: I really and obviously because your new parents, So I

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Speaker 1: feel like taking the time to be here with us,

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Speaker 1: it's the law right now. I'm sure you're not sleeping.

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Speaker 1: So thank you so much for taking the time to

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Speaker 1: be with us. We love you, guys, And if there's

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Speaker 1: anything we can do to help or support, let us know,

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Speaker 1: Like where can people find the go fund me? Everything

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Speaker 1: is everything Instagram, Yeah, and make sure you add the

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Speaker 1: s under meals because I went to meal she eats

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Speaker 1: and it was three very grainy photos and I thought this,

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Speaker 1: it can't be the one. It's meals, so it's doubles

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Speaker 1: double s. Yeah. And if people want to follow you

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Speaker 1: guys you have can you share your instagrams? Also? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: then my TikTok is the same thing. Yeah, go follow them.

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Speaker 1: You guys were so happy for you, congratulations so much,

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Speaker 1: thanks for having us. Yeah, I'm gonna say I am

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Speaker 1: not leaving until I see oh the big stretch. I

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Speaker 1: can't drop you off. Just have blue eyes and mom's

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Speaker 1: like reddish strawberry blond hair. Look said, did you have

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Speaker 1: a good nap? Oh my, oh my goodness. I mean

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Speaker 1: she is like tiny, it's just so tiny. It doesn't

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Speaker 1: help ye, my hands are like the size. She is

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Speaker 1: so so tiny. She has like the little scrunch, a

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Speaker 1: little scrunch. I saw someone say make sure you film

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Speaker 1: the scrunch because I said, I did it yesterday because

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Speaker 1: I was nervous that it wasn't gonna happen anymore. At

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Speaker 1: this this girl posted one and she was like, someone

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Speaker 1: told me to film the scrunch and then she picked

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Speaker 1: her but she didn't do it, and it was like

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Speaker 1: such I know, I stated for her. Oh she's beautiful. Yeah, congratulations,

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Speaker 1: So happy for you guys. It was so great meeting y'all. Alright,

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Speaker 1: thank y'all, Thank you guys, Thank you. Good Bye. That

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Speaker 1: little curl right there, that's the best. Thank you, guys.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome, all right, Bye bye