WEBVTT - A Moving Target with Adam Doleac

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<v Speaker 1>Wind down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, hi guys, hi girls, would you like to come

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<v Speaker 2>in with what you just came in with? No, No,

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to take a minute to process a process

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<v Speaker 2>and everyone's safe and fine. Okay, all right, anything, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I have an update.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I don't know you're there.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I have to. I don't ever peer

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<v Speaker 2>pressure you, but I feel like you have to because

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<v Speaker 2>the amount of questions I'm getting and it's not even

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<v Speaker 2>me right, okay, well, like inquiring minds, I'd like to know. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>so I figured out why my scalp was a ching.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to know first of all, before you say it.

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<v Speaker 3>Did a lot of people guess this zero? Wow, that's

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<v Speaker 3>brot one DM. Did I get that one? Which is

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<v Speaker 3>crazy and people are invested?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yes, So let's roll the tape back. So I

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<v Speaker 2>went to started itching on December sixteenth, seventeenth is what

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<v Speaker 2>I could trace it back to. It was because it

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<v Speaker 2>was afore Allen's parents came in town for Christmas, and

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<v Speaker 2>then I remember when they were here, I was like, God,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't sap, scratching my head. So then I tracked

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<v Speaker 2>back a little more okay. Uh Like, then I went

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<v Speaker 2>to my dermatologist. She's like, I see nothing on your scalp.

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<v Speaker 2>Your scalp as completely clear, no dan driff no, nothing

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<v Speaker 2>like You're like, no lice nothing. I'm like, okay, don't

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<v Speaker 2>have that. So then she's like, it could be you know,

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<v Speaker 2>then I thought was scabies. Then we thought it was

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<v Speaker 2>like you thought it was a lot of things. I

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<v Speaker 2>thought it was a lot of things, a lot of dying.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to google. Connected her with Nate and the text,

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<v Speaker 2>and I said, for what it's worth, I need you

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<v Speaker 2>to not google and Nate. I need her in as

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<v Speaker 2>quickly as she can get in. Well, I'm pretty convinced.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought I had MS too, which I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 2>If you wanted to share that, I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 2>like completely bust you, but you did.

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<v Speaker 3>She thought she had MS from the itchy scalpers all

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<v Speaker 3>like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Have so many things like it's like my eyes are blurry.

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<v Speaker 2>So then I started putting all the symptoms together, and

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<v Speaker 2>all of them sure lead me to really bad things,

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<v Speaker 2>which freaked me out. There's a positive to all of this.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to say there's a I'm really glad

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<v Speaker 2>I went down this train because I didn't, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>have realized a few of mothers. She said, I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>happening and I'll tell you which I had no idea about,

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<v Speaker 2>which Nate thinks it's because of the baby. But anyways, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so itching, itching, itching, and then I go and to

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<v Speaker 2>see Nate and your extensions out. I mean, hello, you

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<v Speaker 2>switch shampoos, I mean everything, So trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 2>what it was right, so, but mainly like the scalp

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<v Speaker 2>was driving me nuts, so got on a bunch of supplements,

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<v Speaker 2>YadA YadA. So then I have a birthday party for

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<v Speaker 2>Jolie where it was her eighth birthday party, and they

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<v Speaker 2>it's like this little mobile fairy thing and they come

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<v Speaker 2>over and they do their hair, they do their makeup,

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<v Speaker 2>and you missed it. It was really cute. I know,

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<v Speaker 2>I saw it was cute. Love was sick, right, and

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<v Speaker 2>then she gave it to the baby. Oh bummer. Sleep

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<v Speaker 2>Lesson Nashville is the name of the game. That's the worst. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean she I'm talking about But anyways, so you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's such a cute party. It was. The girls looked adorable,

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<v Speaker 2>but the very end of the party, the lady goes,

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<v Speaker 2>I have some bad news, and I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>like what's Like, what's wrong. She's like a few of

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<v Speaker 2>the girls had lice, and I was like, oh, that's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like that is so gross. I was like

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<v Speaker 2>ew who, like just kind of like a little judge.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna pin this for a second.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I was like gross, Like who, I love

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<v Speaker 2>your honesty because I was like, I know how you reacted,

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<v Speaker 2>but I needed it's gross. Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Can we go back to a few days before that?

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<v Speaker 3>So you were judging, okay, I judging you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's gross. Life is gross.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm not judging our child. I'm just saying like

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<v Speaker 2>it's gross. I mean like, it's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 4>It is.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, oh, gross, who and so because life

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<v Speaker 2>is gross? And so she's like and I'm not going

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<v Speaker 2>to name the other kids, but she's like she said

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<v Speaker 2>a few kids and then like couldn't spit it out,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like who. She's like Jollie and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I got it, okay. And so I like go upstairs, Uh,

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<v Speaker 2>this is like after the party or whatever, and I'm like, baby, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>have you know? And she's been itching but not crazy,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, So I said to her, you know what's

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<v Speaker 2>let me can I just look in your hair really fast?

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<v Speaker 2>And then I saw some and I was like, like

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<v Speaker 2>out of my skin crawling. The other mom's kid that

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<v Speaker 2>had it too, we made an appointment to go together

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<v Speaker 2>and uh, I wasn't actually going to bring jas, but

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<v Speaker 2>I did because right before we left, I was like, baby,

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<v Speaker 2>let me just check your hair really fast. And I

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<v Speaker 2>looked and there was I saw one in there and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, get in the car immediately, please please

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<v Speaker 2>put on this pod? Can pass? Please kindly get.

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<v Speaker 1>In the car.

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<v Speaker 2>I would like to hear. And I was like, and go.

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<v Speaker 2>But I checked my hair. I was like, Alan, can

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<v Speaker 2>you look through my hair? He's like, I don't see anything.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, this is just so strange. So when

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<v Speaker 2>I go there, I'm like, well, I'm obviously going to

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<v Speaker 2>get checked because I've been having crazy scalp itching. So

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<v Speaker 2>lo and behold I head lice. That is why my

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<v Speaker 2>sculf was it ching. So so did Jay, so did Jolie.

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<v Speaker 2>But here's here's the like deep dive that I'm really

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<v Speaker 2>happy with. Through all of this doing blood work and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I sat down with Nate. He was like, you

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<v Speaker 2>are so hormonally messed up. He's like, your thyroid is awful.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, which is you're gonna probably if you don't

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<v Speaker 2>get this, Like you'll start gaining weight because it's like

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<v Speaker 2>the way your thyroid is working. He's like, it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>the wrong way. He's like, so you'll start to gain weight.

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<v Speaker 2>Your estrogen, your testosterone obviously, like I talked about last episode,

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<v Speaker 2>is really low. And he goes and also he's like,

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<v Speaker 2>you're you have an you're allergic to soy. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god. I was like, I had at a

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<v Speaker 2>mommy the other night and I remember scratching, oh wow randomly.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I have a soy a reaction allergy. Wow. So

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot eat soy anymore, which is also pretty common postpartum.

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<v Speaker 2>Really interesting, so soy and estrogen are linked. Ish, oh whoa,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I I also I did the food sensitivity.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been in the deep deep Yeah, and soy comes

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<v Speaker 2>up for me too, And that sucks because we love

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<v Speaker 2>like sushi, Asian anything. Yeah, we can slay sushi. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't like soy sauce. Oh, I do. But

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<v Speaker 2>the problem is is soy is in everything that I eat.

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<v Speaker 2>And also the other thing too that I'm not allowed

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<v Speaker 2>to eat anymore is munk fruit, which is in all

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<v Speaker 2>my protein bars, which is in oh it's on my

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<v Speaker 2>severe like I can never have it again. It's in

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<v Speaker 2>all of my protein powders.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so random, and which is protein.

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<v Speaker 2>Which causes the gut, the leaky gut, all of that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So now I've like deep dove and all that, and

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<v Speaker 2>then like my cortisols are like super off. And he's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how You're not like sleeping in a

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<v Speaker 2>bed right now all day. He's like, you are, just

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<v Speaker 2>like it's so bad. So I'm like, I'm so grateful

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<v Speaker 2>that I went down this to like find this out.

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<v Speaker 2>But the itching was the lice disgusting.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just so crazy. So rewind too, But how does

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<v Speaker 3>the dermatologists find it?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, so I call her. She's like what what? She's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't see anything. I'm like, well they were there.

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<v Speaker 3>Rewind of four or five days before that, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>obviously Emmy had been itching also. We talked about that

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<v Speaker 3>on here. I was like, if you figure it out. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>I got a call when we were working out from

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<v Speaker 3>the nurse. This was days before it happened to her,

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<v Speaker 3>and they were like, you need to come get Ramsey.

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<v Speaker 3>She has lice. And I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>Emmy does have lice, like I've been looking, that's it.

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<v Speaker 3>So we go. So that's where I go back to

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<v Speaker 3>you were judging.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not judging. I'm judging the lights.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there a pr rep for life anyway?

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<v Speaker 3>And no one wants to talk about it because everyone

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<v Speaker 3>has it, but no one else to talk about it

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<v Speaker 3>because it's gross. But anyway, so I took Ramsey.

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<v Speaker 2>Either of you dealt with this before, because I know.

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<v Speaker 3>Amy had to deal Emmy. I got a call from

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<v Speaker 3>the nurse for Emmy when she was probably in second

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<v Speaker 3>or third grade, and I really freaked out then, like

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<v Speaker 3>I literally was disgusting. But they told me neither. But

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<v Speaker 3>they told me then how common it is and people

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<v Speaker 3>just don't talk about it, you know. So so I

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<v Speaker 3>Ramsey get her or whatever, and then we do this

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<v Speaker 3>party and I'm like, dear lord, she's getting rechecked today

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<v Speaker 3>because I'm like, she was around.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone and newslash. So we texted all the moms and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, hey, just f yi, Joly had lice

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<v Speaker 2>and a few other girls headlights. You should maybe get

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<v Speaker 2>your dar checked. Everyone but two head lice that were

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<v Speaker 2>at the party.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's probably Ramsey was probably one of them. But

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<v Speaker 3>she had already had it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I would like to thank you Jesus for the

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<v Speaker 2>congestion they kept me home from the party. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>they've already had it though, which is as wild. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like they didn't get it from the party. Well I know,

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<v Speaker 2>but right, wouldn't someone anyway? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, but side note to all that, and he

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<v Speaker 3>didn't have it, so I still haven't figured her out.

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<v Speaker 2>So you should do a food sensitive sensitivity test for her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's because it's it's very wild. Yeah, it does, and

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<v Speaker 2>it ruins like postpartum were so susceptible because our immune

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<v Speaker 2>is our immunity is down, our thyroids are taxed, our

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<v Speaker 2>adrenal glands are taxed. Oh that's what you said. He's like, you,

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<v Speaker 2>your adrenal glands are just like awful. So I'm on

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<v Speaker 2>like fifty million different supplements. But he's like, it's only

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<v Speaker 2>temporary for the eight next, like eight weeks until you

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<v Speaker 2>get everything back up. Yes, I had to order.

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<v Speaker 3>Allt it all started coming in today.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was like fifteen to twenty supplements. But he's like,

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<v Speaker 2>it's only for guys. He's changing my life. Yeah, like

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<v Speaker 2>I have energy. I cannot wait for all of those

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<v Speaker 2>things to start happening. It's happened, Like it's good. He's incredible. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I mean it's just one of those things where

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I'm glad I went down the rabbit hole.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm glad. It was just the life for the scratching

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<v Speaker 2>and hopefully everything else can kind of fall into place.

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<v Speaker 3>My favorite was the text from the other person that

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<v Speaker 3>you were there with, because I was like, I just

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<v Speaker 3>need to know if Jana has it, like she has

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<v Speaker 3>to have it, and then the other person was like,

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<v Speaker 3>she's crying, she's so happy.

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<v Speaker 2>I was really I was crying, Oh you're dying. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, thank you so much. So it was a

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<v Speaker 2>funny thing because it was it was driving me mad.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's easily taken care of. Yes, So it's.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just blown away that anyone else saw it before

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<v Speaker 2>this well, because I said I got checked and it

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't there, so then that's why I also, no one said.

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<v Speaker 3>But I mean I have checked Ramsey like two or

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<v Speaker 3>three times. I was like, she does not have it.

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<v Speaker 3>Nurse calls, and then as soon as they say she

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<v Speaker 3>has lights, I look at her head. I'm like, oh

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<v Speaker 3>there they are like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I got to be honest, I don't even think I

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<v Speaker 2>know what I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, having said that, Ramsey didn't have it very long,

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<v Speaker 3>but just.

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<v Speaker 2>Google it and look, I could not google anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually it's like, you know you can tell.

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<v Speaker 2>But I will say, but that has been solved, mystery solved,

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<v Speaker 2>and I will report back on all the supplements. But

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<v Speaker 2>I will say when I was going through my severe

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<v Speaker 2>list and then things that I shouldn't have, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what to eat because I eat it's

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<v Speaker 2>they're all on there.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't do the food one sab same and.

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<v Speaker 2>It's my favorite to have almonds, avocado, eggs, eggs. I

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<v Speaker 2>have all those butt eggs I get to eat and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't eat meat. So I'm like, well, yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 2>been something. So anyways, I'm over. We're back on that.

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<v Speaker 2>But the scratching go get your head jacked. My dermatologist

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I'm gonna either if I don't see anything,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to have people go to an actual life place.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, that's best.

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<v Speaker 3>Well because of that comb. Yeah, I really think that

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<v Speaker 3>that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish you guys could see Catherine's hands because it

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<v Speaker 2>looks like the comb is great. It's the key to

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<v Speaker 2>really figuring that all the time. Now on ONOBA, this

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<v Speaker 2>season is called life Lights Baby.

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<v Speaker 3>And hey, there are plenty moms out there that are like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel better because my kids had it too.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly. All right, We're going to take a quick little

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<v Speaker 2>lice break, and then we're going to get Adam on,

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<v Speaker 2>who is an American country singer. He's got a song

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<v Speaker 2>out called Ain't She. We're going to talk about touring,

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to talk about soon to be dad life,

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<v Speaker 2>and uh, we'll get a month, but let's first take

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<v Speaker 2>a break.

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<v Speaker 4>What's up y'all? Hi?

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<v Speaker 3>Adam?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, this is obviously your wife in the famous music video.

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<v Speaker 1>Well if she's in it, but that also might be

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<v Speaker 1>Cassie Randolph because Colton and Cassie were in that video.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's that, so maybe well not to I love Cassie.

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<v Speaker 2>I did a movie with Cassie. But now I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>that just registered in my brain.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, no, it's funny you say that.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually texted Colton probably I don't know, three months

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<v Speaker 1>ago and I was like, hey, man, what if we

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<v Speaker 1>add one scene to this video and at the end,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're walking out of the grocery store, you just

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<v Speaker 1>walk out and you see you get in the car

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<v Speaker 1>with Jordan or something. We just had one scene to

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<v Speaker 1>the video because it didn't age well at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well.

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<v Speaker 2>Age, Well neither does my book The Good Fight. So

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<v Speaker 2>whatever with my ex husband, so you know his musical influences,

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<v Speaker 2>John Mayer, and there was a few listed.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you see?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, your jobs. That's great, Adam. Than to bring that up,

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<v Speaker 2>HI show that is wind down. How are you welcome

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<v Speaker 2>to the story house, Adam. We're glad to have you, Adam.

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<v Speaker 2>How long? How long were you grinding in Nashville?

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<v Speaker 4>Still currently grinding in Nashville?

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<v Speaker 2>If you tell me one year, I'm going to just

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<v Speaker 2>get really no, not at all.

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<v Speaker 4>I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've been here for about ten years now,

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<v Speaker 1>so everybody A common question and interviews is when was

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<v Speaker 1>the moment that you made it or when did you

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<v Speaker 1>know you made it? And my answer is always like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still waiting on it.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I mean, it was like a constant,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, it got a little bit better all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>It's still doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just been a constant, steady getting a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>better every year. So there hasn't been like a just

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<v Speaker 1>one thing that made it. It's just been kind of

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<v Speaker 1>slowly grounded the whole time.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, There is something so to that, because

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<v Speaker 2>it's never at least when I was doing country radio

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<v Speaker 2>or country music, you just never felt safe. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like why you want to you know, was obviously

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<v Speaker 2>top three on the charts. Got the Boy was top three,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's like, but then the next one would not

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<v Speaker 2>do great. It would be like twenties thirties, and you're

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<v Speaker 2>like not safe, it's over, everything's over. And then it's

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<v Speaker 2>just you don't ever really get comfortable until you're that

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<v Speaker 2>one percent. I guess that that's no matter what you

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<v Speaker 2>put out, there is a number one, you know, and

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<v Speaker 2>that's that's the hard piece because it's like you can

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<v Speaker 2>never really get comfortable, which I think is a good thing,

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<v Speaker 2>but also that's the struggle and the balance with doing

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<v Speaker 2>what you love right. We would like to feel comfortable

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<v Speaker 2>in my house, just I mean, I think I think

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<v Speaker 2>everyone would love to be comfortable. But then it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>then what are you striving for if you when you

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<v Speaker 2>get comfortable? And I think that's the piece that I

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<v Speaker 2>always remind myself of. It's like, all right, so when

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<v Speaker 2>you have everything you want, you're always gonna want something

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<v Speaker 2>more than that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think that's been the biggest thing for me

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<v Speaker 1>is just first of all, I mean this is I

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<v Speaker 1>think we had songs on the radio about the same

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<v Speaker 1>time because I had Famous That was twenty nineteen going

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<v Speaker 1>into twenty I think I know we're on Serious XM

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time at least I remember that.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, I think that.

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<v Speaker 1>And since then, so many people have been added and

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok's been added, and there's just so much, so much music,

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<v Speaker 1>so many faces on Instagram. It's really hard to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you try to keep up with everybody, you're kind

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<v Speaker 1>of in trouble. And so for me, I've just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of leaned in on just trying to be Adam Doleiak,

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to sound like Adam doliak and not chasing.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I feel like everybody's trying to sound like

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<v Speaker 1>Morgan Wallin right now. I feel like everybody just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of chases the next thing. And I think I realized

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<v Speaker 1>a little while ago, like I.

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<v Speaker 4>Love what I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really lucky to get to do what I do

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<v Speaker 1>and only that, Like I make music and play music

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<v Speaker 1>for a living and can make a good living and

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<v Speaker 1>support my family, which is really cool. And when I started,

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<v Speaker 1>that was the dream, right Like if I if I

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<v Speaker 1>just told myself I was right where I am right now,

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<v Speaker 1>when I started, i'd been like, sweet, that's great. So

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<v Speaker 1>just leaning into that, and you're right, it's always it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to get comfy. And I agree with you, like

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<v Speaker 1>we would love to feel completely comfort like we were

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<v Speaker 1>in the one percent of Morgan Wallen or something, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's just hard to do.

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<v Speaker 4>And so.

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<v Speaker 1>I think just taking it day by day and continuing

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<v Speaker 1>to make music that I love and do things that

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<v Speaker 1>I love has been the most important.

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<v Speaker 4>Thing for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I kind of learned all that during COVID, which

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<v Speaker 1>was a terrible thing but allowed me to actually slow down.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about you guys, but I'm the type

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<v Speaker 1>that just kind of never stops. I work, I work,

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<v Speaker 1>I love working, but I never really slow down. And

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<v Speaker 1>that let me do that and so I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>learned a lot about myself in that and it's helped

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<v Speaker 1>the last few years for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>And you have a baby on the way. Is it

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<v Speaker 2>your first?

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<v Speaker 4>It's our first? I saw all of you have three?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that is that right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Correct?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so this is this is our first. She's due

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<v Speaker 1>early in March, and yeah, any advice you guys want

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<v Speaker 1>to get made.

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<v Speaker 4>Of time.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually just need her phone number directly because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>the wife of the artist and so that's the piece

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<v Speaker 2>where I need to we need to connect. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>and I will say, we'll give you some good advice.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think once you have that baby too, how

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<v Speaker 2>you do your career and you're gonna I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 2>just your why becomes a totally totally different why, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and the purpose that you have is is uh, I'll say,

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<v Speaker 2>how do I say this for me? Once I had kids,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, Okay, this is not the most important thing

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<v Speaker 2>anymore music or acting or it's like it's my kids,

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<v Speaker 2>and your purpose kind of shifts a little bit, which

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<v Speaker 2>is it's a weird it's it's a cool feeling, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's definitely different.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like, obviously everybody I talked to right now,

0:18:42.280 --> 0:18:43.959
<v Speaker 1>us having a kid comes up, and so everybody kind

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<v Speaker 1>of gives you these little pieces of advice or these

0:18:47.200 --> 0:18:49.040
<v Speaker 1>little slogans or things to be scared of. And so

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<v Speaker 1>one thing I get a lot is, well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's normally guys, and I'm like, we'll get ready to

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<v Speaker 1>have no time for yourself and that actually I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's I think it's intended to scare me, but it

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<v Speaker 1>actually kind of excites me. I mean, I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm thirty five, and I've done a lot

0:19:06.320 --> 0:19:09.440
<v Speaker 1>of played college baseball and then moved into the music world,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've kind of done a lot of me things,

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<v Speaker 1>right like, every my life has revolved around me for

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<v Speaker 1>kind of long enough, if that makes sense, And so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually a little bit excited for that flip and

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<v Speaker 1>to have a different why and a different purpose and

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<v Speaker 1>so and we haven't even had our child yet and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm already feeling that.

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<v Speaker 4>So I know, I know it's coming, but I'm kind

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<v Speaker 4>of excited about that.

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<v Speaker 2>I might but it's a boy.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, yeah, it's a boy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, king best piece of advice you can give

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<v Speaker 2>him as a new daddy.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, that's so hard.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I got a list. I think it's probably

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<v Speaker 2>I just had a baby life's phone number.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm out of the baby stage. Mine are older, so

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<v Speaker 3>mine has just shifted so much. You know, like if

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<v Speaker 3>I go back to like baby stage, it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>sleep and you can you know, it's like all the

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<v Speaker 3>obvious stuff. But gosh, the best advice I think is

0:19:59.400 --> 0:20:02.840
<v Speaker 3>like getting so caught up in a single moment. Like

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<v Speaker 3>it's like you, Kristen, were a little stressed earlier about

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<v Speaker 3>something with your child, Like that will pass. It's just

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<v Speaker 3>it's a moment. Look at the bigger picture. What is

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<v Speaker 3>the bigger picture. What's the biggest goal for your children?

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<v Speaker 3>That's one thing I've really just been having to learn.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's kind of like a bigger.

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<v Speaker 2>Picture than like the d dat nights won't last, Like

0:20:21.440 --> 0:20:24.040
<v Speaker 2>that will not last, Like that's over, that's not in

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<v Speaker 2>my life.

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<v Speaker 3>Like my kids go to their rims on their own

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<v Speaker 3>and they're in their rims. I'm like, all right, did

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<v Speaker 3>anyone go to sleep or like good night, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it just changes so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, and as a new dad, I know, you're on

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<v Speaker 2>the road probably a lot, and you're going off on

0:20:38.960 --> 0:20:42.879
<v Speaker 2>tour and all those things. But the one thing that

0:20:43.080 --> 0:20:45.400
<v Speaker 2>my fiance did for me that was just I thought

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<v Speaker 2>was the sweetest, most incredible thing was because I had

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<v Speaker 2>a C section, And even so, I think he would

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<v Speaker 2>have still done this, but he would not let me

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<v Speaker 2>get up in the middle of the night to feed

0:20:57.080 --> 0:20:58.879
<v Speaker 2>the baby like I did a couple times, but like

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<v Speaker 2>he was always like, you need you need rest, you

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<v Speaker 2>need to you know, you're the mother, Like you need

0:21:03.280 --> 0:21:05.840
<v Speaker 2>to have sleep and you need to be you know,

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<v Speaker 2>be okay. And so the fact that he he did

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<v Speaker 2>primarily the middle of the night shifts so that I

0:21:11.680 --> 0:21:16.359
<v Speaker 2>could recover, I thought was like such a beautiful thing. So, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that did not happen at my house for how long?

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't almost in the entire time. I mean I'd

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<v Speaker 2>get up a couple times. But I mean, why he

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<v Speaker 2>was the mother Oh okay, yeah, because he's sleeping through

0:21:26.760 --> 0:21:28.639
<v Speaker 2>the night. Now yeah, well yeah, now we're sleeping through

0:21:28.640 --> 0:21:30.720
<v Speaker 2>the night. He's two months, almost three months, and now

0:21:30.720 --> 0:21:33.359
<v Speaker 2>I was sleeping through the night, but sleep train. And

0:21:38.040 --> 0:21:45.120
<v Speaker 2>my advice is really simple, maybe too simple. I don't

0:21:45.200 --> 0:21:47.960
<v Speaker 2>have advice because I think God gives you the people

0:21:48.040 --> 0:21:50.879
<v Speaker 2>that are meant for you specifically. So this little puzzle

0:21:50.920 --> 0:21:55.480
<v Speaker 2>piece boy that's coming, you already know instinctually how to handle,

0:21:55.800 --> 0:21:59.720
<v Speaker 2>what to do. My advice would just be to trust yourself,

0:21:59.800 --> 0:22:04.160
<v Speaker 2>you gut, and each other. It's not as complicated as

0:22:04.320 --> 0:22:07.160
<v Speaker 2>people love to make you feel. There's so many opinions,

0:22:07.240 --> 0:22:09.360
<v Speaker 2>and I think I used. I started to get worn out.

0:22:09.800 --> 0:22:12.840
<v Speaker 2>I was pregnant with our daughter. My husband his first

0:22:12.880 --> 0:22:15.040
<v Speaker 2>single actually like went up the charts and he was

0:22:15.440 --> 0:22:18.800
<v Speaker 2>gone gone, like right gone, and there was so much

0:22:18.840 --> 0:22:20.760
<v Speaker 2>advice coming at me, and I'm like, all I know

0:22:20.920 --> 0:22:23.200
<v Speaker 2>to do right now is kind of like hunker and

0:22:23.359 --> 0:22:25.520
<v Speaker 2>just hear each other's heartbeat and try to figure this out.

0:22:25.680 --> 0:22:29.440
<v Speaker 2>So I think you're already more than qualified. And I

0:22:29.600 --> 0:22:31.320
<v Speaker 2>just hope you get to enjoy it because it does.

0:22:32.080 --> 0:22:35.080
<v Speaker 2>I know everyone tells you goes fast. It's like crazy fast,

0:22:35.160 --> 0:22:36.760
<v Speaker 2>and I'm trying to freeze the third one because I

0:22:36.840 --> 0:22:40.359
<v Speaker 2>know better and it's still fast. Right, Wait, when do

0:22:40.400 --> 0:22:42.000
<v Speaker 2>you go on tour? Adam?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I was going to tell you guys. So we March,

0:22:44.480 --> 0:22:47.000
<v Speaker 4>we were supposed to do in March, start we're supposed

0:22:47.040 --> 0:22:49.120
<v Speaker 4>to start. We did our best to kind of schedule.

0:22:49.240 --> 0:22:52.159
<v Speaker 1>We originally had like six shows scheduled and then a

0:22:52.200 --> 0:22:55.119
<v Speaker 1>six week break and then more shows after that. And

0:22:55.840 --> 0:22:58.760
<v Speaker 1>something that's been really heavy on me and my wife's

0:22:58.800 --> 0:23:01.960
<v Speaker 1>mind is just an actually hers is I was supposed

0:23:01.960 --> 0:23:03.879
<v Speaker 1>to be on tour for the really up until the

0:23:03.920 --> 0:23:07.879
<v Speaker 1>last week of her pregnancy kind of situation. And we actually,

0:23:08.280 --> 0:23:11.200
<v Speaker 1>right before I hopped on this call, actually I announced

0:23:11.240 --> 0:23:13.120
<v Speaker 1>that we are actually going to pick up the first

0:23:13.160 --> 0:23:15.520
<v Speaker 1>six shows and move them to the back of the tour,

0:23:16.160 --> 0:23:17.760
<v Speaker 1>and so the tour is actually going to start April

0:23:17.800 --> 0:23:20.879
<v Speaker 1>twenty fifth in Boston now. And that was again just

0:23:20.960 --> 0:23:23.720
<v Speaker 1>kind of being with her and us getting together and

0:23:23.800 --> 0:23:25.760
<v Speaker 1>talking with it, something that just brought her a lot

0:23:25.800 --> 0:23:27.560
<v Speaker 1>of peace knowing that I would be here, we won't

0:23:27.560 --> 0:23:30.440
<v Speaker 1>have to worry about me being in Rootstown, Ohio and

0:23:30.480 --> 0:23:32.440
<v Speaker 1>getting a call that she's going into labor.

0:23:32.600 --> 0:23:36.119
<v Speaker 4>Just that peace of mind of having that we actually

0:23:36.280 --> 0:23:38.040
<v Speaker 4>just decided to do that and move the tour.

0:23:38.160 --> 0:23:40.800
<v Speaker 1>So just a good example of kind of making work

0:23:41.280 --> 0:23:44.040
<v Speaker 1>still still work, but keeping family first. I think and

0:23:44.200 --> 0:23:46.639
<v Speaker 1>so that's been kind of a big weight off of

0:23:47.119 --> 0:23:48.000
<v Speaker 1>both of our shoulders.

0:23:48.080 --> 0:23:50.440
<v Speaker 2>So well, I'm buying all your songs because I just

0:23:50.680 --> 0:23:54.000
<v Speaker 2>have that, like you're putting your marriage and your wife

0:23:54.280 --> 0:23:57.320
<v Speaker 2>and all of that at peace, and just I just

0:23:57.400 --> 0:23:59.240
<v Speaker 2>love that. Now I'm work will still be a fan.

0:23:59.440 --> 0:24:01.320
<v Speaker 3>Work will still be Yeah, and like you said, you

0:24:01.359 --> 0:24:02.120
<v Speaker 3>can put it in there.

0:24:02.400 --> 0:24:05.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're getting rescheduled and they'll be better because I'll

0:24:05.480 --> 0:24:07.480
<v Speaker 1>have my little buddy with me at the shows now,

0:24:07.560 --> 0:24:10.080
<v Speaker 1>and so it'll it'll be it'll be a good time.

0:24:10.119 --> 0:24:11.840
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, it was. It was a big deep breath

0:24:11.960 --> 0:24:12.680
<v Speaker 4>for her for sure.

0:24:13.280 --> 0:24:16.160
<v Speaker 2>Kristen. Does that make you a little bitter like angry

0:24:16.200 --> 0:24:19.399
<v Speaker 2>and I ate bitter like little a little little angry angry, No,

0:24:20.600 --> 0:24:24.240
<v Speaker 2>no it doesn't. We we're in the duo. So my

0:24:24.320 --> 0:24:25.560
<v Speaker 2>husband's half of low Cash.

0:24:26.119 --> 0:24:27.399
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I know your husband.

0:24:27.800 --> 0:24:29.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know he knows you, but I didn't know

0:24:29.520 --> 0:24:31.920
<v Speaker 2>if you like you know. Yeah, here, I'm just KB.

0:24:32.240 --> 0:24:36.920
<v Speaker 2>So I just kick at KB style. But we you know,

0:24:37.080 --> 0:24:39.280
<v Speaker 2>those guys have been doing this for like twenty years.

0:24:39.440 --> 0:24:45.560
<v Speaker 2>So we just there's two families, right, Like essentially I

0:24:45.640 --> 0:24:49.320
<v Speaker 2>have two husbands and I have a wife. So there's

0:24:49.400 --> 0:24:52.679
<v Speaker 2>just a lot of and and quite honestly, like Caitlin

0:24:52.720 --> 0:24:53.800
<v Speaker 2>and I for a while, we're just having a lot

0:24:53.840 --> 0:24:55.639
<v Speaker 2>of babies. Like it was like she has three, I

0:24:55.720 --> 0:24:58.560
<v Speaker 2>have three, you know. And so I think for us,

0:24:58.760 --> 0:25:00.840
<v Speaker 2>we've done the best we could do. I mean, Hindsight's

0:25:00.880 --> 0:25:03.600
<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty, Adam, if we could really kick it for

0:25:03.640 --> 0:25:05.240
<v Speaker 2>an afternoon, I would share a lot of stories with you.

0:25:05.400 --> 0:25:08.240
<v Speaker 2>But I think you're just doing great. I mean I

0:25:08.320 --> 0:25:12.159
<v Speaker 2>would say what you're doing is everything that needs to

0:25:12.200 --> 0:25:14.240
<v Speaker 2>be done. I think this industry has a way of

0:25:14.800 --> 0:25:17.960
<v Speaker 2>scooping you up and pushing you along. I think it

0:25:18.080 --> 0:25:20.520
<v Speaker 2>has a way of making things look really shiny, and

0:25:20.720 --> 0:25:23.240
<v Speaker 2>that can sometimes leave a lot of resentment and some

0:25:23.400 --> 0:25:26.679
<v Speaker 2>hurt feelings behind. I think there's great places for therapy

0:25:26.760 --> 0:25:28.800
<v Speaker 2>like Porter's Call and the Refuge Center for counseling if

0:25:28.840 --> 0:25:31.440
<v Speaker 2>you need some deep dives into untangling some things. But

0:25:31.520 --> 0:25:33.679
<v Speaker 2>I feel like we've kind of learned and loved at

0:25:33.720 --> 0:25:36.760
<v Speaker 2>the same time. I think for me, I know too

0:25:36.800 --> 0:25:39.040
<v Speaker 2>much about our industry because I worked for Big Machine.

0:25:39.480 --> 0:25:43.760
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and so I can tell you do I sometimes I.

0:25:43.920 --> 0:25:46.240
<v Speaker 2>Know, But see I sometimes give too much grace when

0:25:46.240 --> 0:25:48.120
<v Speaker 2>I should just dig my heels in and say stay

0:25:48.200 --> 0:25:51.840
<v Speaker 2>with me. But I know what's important. Amen, And I couldn't.

0:25:51.920 --> 0:25:55.320
<v Speaker 2>I would be livid if he left. Yeah, in the hospital,

0:25:55.600 --> 0:25:57.920
<v Speaker 2>you know. Yeah. You also, oh, we had to go

0:25:57.960 --> 0:25:59.960
<v Speaker 2>wrap up the Kane Brown tour. That's a huge opportunity.

0:26:00.320 --> 0:26:03.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, And there's there's you know, the music industry

0:26:03.160 --> 0:26:05.840
<v Speaker 1>is really the whole thing is just opinions and nobody's

0:26:05.880 --> 0:26:09.159
<v Speaker 1>doing this. There's no correct answer for almost anything. So

0:26:09.960 --> 0:26:12.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, there is something to be said for they

0:26:12.400 --> 0:26:14.000
<v Speaker 1>have been grinding for a long time, and so when

0:26:14.040 --> 0:26:16.080
<v Speaker 1>they do get a song that's running up the charts

0:26:16.119 --> 0:26:18.240
<v Speaker 1>and they're getting these asks that they've always been wanting

0:26:18.320 --> 0:26:20.040
<v Speaker 1>to do, that's a different situation.

0:26:20.240 --> 0:26:22.000
<v Speaker 4>You know, sometimes you have to go do that, but

0:26:22.119 --> 0:26:24.520
<v Speaker 4>it is I can tell that you are.

0:26:24.760 --> 0:26:26.880
<v Speaker 1>You would love talking to my wife because she kind

0:26:26.920 --> 0:26:30.719
<v Speaker 1>of can see it all from nothing's really shiny to her, right,

0:26:30.800 --> 0:26:32.800
<v Speaker 1>it's all shiny to the hardest more so, but she

0:26:32.920 --> 0:26:34.760
<v Speaker 1>can see right through it. And she's been really great

0:26:34.800 --> 0:26:37.760
<v Speaker 1>for me in that and that's probably the reason that

0:26:37.800 --> 0:26:40.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm able to just kind of calmly move shows and

0:26:40.720 --> 0:26:42.040
<v Speaker 1>be like, you know what this is best for?

0:26:42.600 --> 0:26:45.359
<v Speaker 2>Well, you know what's the most important too. With that's like,

0:26:45.800 --> 0:26:49.040
<v Speaker 2>that's you know, family is the most important piece, and

0:26:49.119 --> 0:26:52.080
<v Speaker 2>without that, your career is not going to go to

0:26:52.200 --> 0:26:54.040
<v Speaker 2>the lengths that it will because of your career can

0:26:54.080 --> 0:26:57.639
<v Speaker 2>go away tomorrow anyway's career ken, but your family, it's like,

0:26:57.760 --> 0:27:01.720
<v Speaker 2>that's those are the people you need to cherish. And yeah,

0:27:01.760 --> 0:27:04.280
<v Speaker 2>it's just such a crazy lifestyle.

0:27:03.920 --> 0:27:06.680
<v Speaker 1>You know, like it's is it is not normal, and

0:27:06.920 --> 0:27:09.560
<v Speaker 1>we forget about that right like it does seem normal

0:27:10.160 --> 0:27:12.879
<v Speaker 1>to me or whoever it might be. It gets to

0:27:12.920 --> 0:27:15.840
<v Speaker 1>the point where it's just normal and outside looking in,

0:27:15.920 --> 0:27:19.000
<v Speaker 1>there's really nothing normal about it. And so she's always

0:27:19.000 --> 0:27:21.359
<v Speaker 1>a good reminder of that. And also, I'm not you know,

0:27:21.480 --> 0:27:24.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't. I didn't get discovered on TikTok six months ago,

0:27:24.680 --> 0:27:26.960
<v Speaker 1>and I'm going out on a headlining arena to work

0:27:27.240 --> 0:27:30.680
<v Speaker 1>next week. You know, I've been around, I've seen the

0:27:30.800 --> 0:27:33.119
<v Speaker 1>shiny bells and whistles. I've been in and out of

0:27:34.000 --> 0:27:36.080
<v Speaker 1>bad record deals. I've kind of seen all of that.

0:27:36.240 --> 0:27:39.560
<v Speaker 1>So I do know how it works and behind the scenes,

0:27:39.560 --> 0:27:41.200
<v Speaker 1>and so that's made it a lot easier too, to

0:27:41.320 --> 0:27:44.680
<v Speaker 1>really prioritize what needs to happen. Here and so it's

0:27:45.040 --> 0:27:46.879
<v Speaker 1>it's been great, and like I said, I think it

0:27:46.920 --> 0:27:48.000
<v Speaker 1>was a great decision for us.

0:28:00.840 --> 0:28:05.320
<v Speaker 2>Is Ain't She? Your newest song? One of your favorite

0:28:05.359 --> 0:28:07.480
<v Speaker 2>songs to sing because it's about your lady?

0:28:08.240 --> 0:28:09.879
<v Speaker 4>A lot of my songs are about my lady. But

0:28:10.119 --> 0:28:12.119
<v Speaker 4>I have actually not really gotten to sing it. That

0:28:12.240 --> 0:28:12.800
<v Speaker 4>came out in.

0:28:12.920 --> 0:28:16.480
<v Speaker 1>January and we haven't been out on the road yet

0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:18.280
<v Speaker 1>to play that song, so that's kind of going to

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:18.840
<v Speaker 1>be a new thing.

0:28:19.280 --> 0:28:20.399
<v Speaker 4>I do love that song, though.

0:28:21.359 --> 0:28:25.680
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that is the ultimate compliment as a guy.

0:28:26.119 --> 0:28:28.320
<v Speaker 1>It's something I say all the time, ain't She? And

0:28:28.920 --> 0:28:30.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm from Mississippi, so it kind of rolls off the.

0:28:30.880 --> 0:28:31.520
<v Speaker 4>Tongue a little bit.

0:28:31.640 --> 0:28:35.080
<v Speaker 1>But the ultimate compliment as a guy to me is

0:28:35.200 --> 0:28:36.840
<v Speaker 1>just like to be at the bar with one of

0:28:36.880 --> 0:28:39.800
<v Speaker 1>your buddies and your girlfriend's there too, and you look

0:28:39.800 --> 0:28:42.480
<v Speaker 1>across the room and you're just kind of having a

0:28:42.520 --> 0:28:44.840
<v Speaker 1>beer and you look over and you go, yeah, she's

0:28:44.920 --> 0:28:47.040
<v Speaker 1>way too good for me, ain't she. That's like the

0:28:47.160 --> 0:28:49.640
<v Speaker 1>ultimate compliment, I think, And so that's what we're all

0:28:49.680 --> 0:28:51.240
<v Speaker 1>trying to find a girl we could say that about,

0:28:51.360 --> 0:28:52.640
<v Speaker 1>and that's her for me.

0:28:52.800 --> 0:28:55.560
<v Speaker 2>So that's kind of where I cannot wait until March,

0:28:55.760 --> 0:28:58.600
<v Speaker 2>because you are going to be it's going to be

0:28:58.680 --> 0:29:01.320
<v Speaker 2>through the roof. It'll be that at times a gazillion

0:29:01.800 --> 0:29:04.840
<v Speaker 2>once you see her move into that other season of life.

0:29:05.360 --> 0:29:07.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's already been that too a little bit, even

0:29:07.560 --> 0:29:09.240
<v Speaker 4>just being pregnant. It's been fun to watch.

0:29:10.160 --> 0:29:12.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I can tell you're just such an intuitive, like

0:29:12.840 --> 0:29:15.720
<v Speaker 2>intentional guy. So I think it'll be really cool for

0:29:16.320 --> 0:29:18.240
<v Speaker 2>you to sing that on stage. Well, you've got a

0:29:18.280 --> 0:29:19.240
<v Speaker 2>baby in headphones.

0:29:19.800 --> 0:29:21.960
<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, there's nothing cuter in the entire world

0:29:22.000 --> 0:29:23.000
<v Speaker 4>in a baby and nothing.

0:29:23.400 --> 0:29:26.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, babies all day, right, And do you plan on

0:29:27.000 --> 0:29:30.120
<v Speaker 3>bringing him on the road, him and on the road, Yeah.

0:29:29.960 --> 0:29:30.760
<v Speaker 4>For sure, we have.

0:29:32.000 --> 0:29:33.840
<v Speaker 1>We've kind of already decided it. I mean, I guess

0:29:33.880 --> 0:29:35.120
<v Speaker 1>you have to kind of wait and meet the guy

0:29:35.160 --> 0:29:36.560
<v Speaker 1>and see how he does with it. But we've just

0:29:36.600 --> 0:29:38.920
<v Speaker 1>seen we've seen a lot of people have babies and

0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:41.959
<v Speaker 1>kind of hunk her down and not have lives afterwards,

0:29:42.080 --> 0:29:44.480
<v Speaker 1>and we've kind of committed to not doing that. We

0:29:44.600 --> 0:29:46.400
<v Speaker 1>want to just be as active as we can. We

0:29:46.480 --> 0:29:49.800
<v Speaker 1>still want to take trips, even if they're not on tour,

0:29:49.960 --> 0:29:50.920
<v Speaker 1>just just trips for us.

0:29:51.000 --> 0:29:52.720
<v Speaker 4>That kind of thing. So we are definitely going in

0:29:52.840 --> 0:29:55.960
<v Speaker 4>with that mindset. Hopefully that'll stay the same, but that's

0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:56.560
<v Speaker 4>that's the goal.

0:29:57.240 --> 0:29:59.360
<v Speaker 2>I think it will. We did that like I love

0:29:59.440 --> 0:30:02.240
<v Speaker 2>and I are. I mean, we were gone all the time,

0:30:02.520 --> 0:30:03.240
<v Speaker 2>and I think they.

0:30:03.240 --> 0:30:03.680
<v Speaker 4>Just know that.

0:30:04.760 --> 0:30:07.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah I had I had a crib on our bus side,

0:30:07.320 --> 0:30:11.240
<v Speaker 2>a second bus. Yeah, a little little baby crip for Jolie.

0:30:11.360 --> 0:30:11.920
<v Speaker 2>That was fun.

0:30:12.640 --> 0:30:15.040
<v Speaker 1>That's definitely the goal for the next year is to

0:30:15.200 --> 0:30:19.360
<v Speaker 1>get to the second bus. The second bush made no money.

0:30:20.480 --> 0:30:24.360
<v Speaker 2>Second guys, we're also single hands in on three everybody else.

0:30:24.560 --> 0:30:26.080
<v Speaker 2>It was a fun year, but then that year I

0:30:26.120 --> 0:30:28.920
<v Speaker 2>also made zero money. My second bus is always going

0:30:28.960 --> 0:30:30.160
<v Speaker 2>to say it, but I was gonna let use it.

0:30:30.320 --> 0:30:32.920
<v Speaker 3>All the artists always want that second bus. And I'm

0:30:33.200 --> 0:30:35.600
<v Speaker 3>coming from the management side, and I'm like, can we

0:30:35.720 --> 0:30:37.520
<v Speaker 3>look at the money of the second bus?

0:30:37.680 --> 0:30:38.320
<v Speaker 4>It makes.

0:30:40.120 --> 0:30:42.480
<v Speaker 2>You guys, but nothing makes sense. We just have to

0:30:42.560 --> 0:30:46.440
<v Speaker 2>soak up the living inside of the lives we're creating exactly,

0:30:47.400 --> 0:30:50.160
<v Speaker 2>So what do you do with so Like, Okay, you're

0:30:50.160 --> 0:30:54.320
<v Speaker 2>out on the road, how do you maintain the healthy relationship?

0:30:54.360 --> 0:30:56.200
<v Speaker 2>Are you good at communicating? Like what would your what

0:30:56.240 --> 0:30:58.000
<v Speaker 2>would your wife say? Is your best quality? And your

0:30:58.040 --> 0:31:02.000
<v Speaker 2>worst quality I am.

0:31:02.160 --> 0:31:05.800
<v Speaker 1>I would say maybe a couple of years ago, communication

0:31:05.880 --> 0:31:08.360
<v Speaker 1>would have been on the worst side of qualities.

0:31:08.440 --> 0:31:08.840
<v Speaker 3>I was not.

0:31:10.280 --> 0:31:13.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm a big I'm a romantic, which an intentional and

0:31:13.600 --> 0:31:15.080
<v Speaker 1>that kind of thing that you were picking up on

0:31:15.120 --> 0:31:16.960
<v Speaker 1>a little bit, which are some of my best qualities.

0:31:17.040 --> 0:31:19.080
<v Speaker 1>But it also made me like, for the first couple

0:31:19.120 --> 0:31:22.000
<v Speaker 1>of years, I didn't like to just directly communicate things.

0:31:22.080 --> 0:31:25.200
<v Speaker 1>I would rather surprise you and pick you up, or

0:31:25.520 --> 0:31:27.360
<v Speaker 1>I would rather make plans that you know, it all

0:31:27.400 --> 0:31:29.080
<v Speaker 1>had to be kind of a little bit more grand

0:31:29.160 --> 0:31:32.600
<v Speaker 1>for me to be excited about it. And McKinnon has

0:31:32.680 --> 0:31:38.200
<v Speaker 1>definitely taught me communication. She is the most straightforward, honest,

0:31:38.320 --> 0:31:40.920
<v Speaker 1>loyal person I've ever met in my entire life.

0:31:40.760 --> 0:31:43.400
<v Speaker 4>And she's been that way since our first date.

0:31:43.520 --> 0:31:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, she was just straight out of the gate,

0:31:45.560 --> 0:31:48.479
<v Speaker 1>blunt exactly who she was, and now that I know her,

0:31:48.520 --> 0:31:50.920
<v Speaker 1>i'd get that she's always been that way, But I

0:31:51.080 --> 0:31:52.880
<v Speaker 1>was not that way. I was kind of, you know,

0:31:52.960 --> 0:31:56.160
<v Speaker 1>I was raised, always put a smile on, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of be I was kind of the golden

0:31:58.600 --> 0:32:00.160
<v Speaker 1>child a little bit, so I was supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>good at everything, even if things are going bad, just

0:32:02.360 --> 0:32:05.120
<v Speaker 1>kind of keep the straight face going. And she has

0:32:05.840 --> 0:32:10.280
<v Speaker 1>kind of brought the more real, honest side of me out,

0:32:10.400 --> 0:32:12.560
<v Speaker 1>Like I enjoyed telling the truth these days. I used

0:32:12.560 --> 0:32:14.520
<v Speaker 1>to be a little on the shady side, Like there's

0:32:14.520 --> 0:32:16.400
<v Speaker 1>a lot of things that have changed about me, kind

0:32:16.440 --> 0:32:20.040
<v Speaker 1>of growing up in that way that sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a baseball player, it's just part of the.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, well, I don' want to trace

0:32:27.000 --> 0:32:29.080
<v Speaker 4>it back to Yeah, what else do I need to say?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, there's some baseball players are brutal, sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>Brutal sometimes a podcast for another.

0:32:37.880 --> 0:32:39.800
<v Speaker 1>There are some good ones, but there are also some

0:32:39.920 --> 0:32:44.160
<v Speaker 1>really bad ones. But that that has been kind of

0:32:44.560 --> 0:32:47.120
<v Speaker 1>the whole thing for us, I mean, figuring that out again.

0:32:47.320 --> 0:32:50.600
<v Speaker 1>Covid we had almost two years of time that we

0:32:50.640 --> 0:32:52.520
<v Speaker 1>would just have never had because I was used to

0:32:53.000 --> 0:32:54.840
<v Speaker 1>I had never dated a girl in the same city

0:32:54.920 --> 0:32:56.560
<v Speaker 1>as me until I met McKennon.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, I mean a little bit because I married

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<v Speaker 2>one of you, So.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I probably it probably was intentional. It was.

0:33:09.360 --> 0:33:11.360
<v Speaker 1>It was as much as I wanted to handle a

0:33:11.480 --> 0:33:13.920
<v Speaker 1>relationship kind of and but also I was you know,

0:33:14.360 --> 0:33:17.160
<v Speaker 1>I moved from Mississippi to Nashville, and so there was that,

0:33:17.440 --> 0:33:21.440
<v Speaker 1>there was that thing. But again, two years of COVID,

0:33:21.880 --> 0:33:24.560
<v Speaker 1>I had, I'm used to being gone every Wednesday night

0:33:24.680 --> 0:33:26.959
<v Speaker 1>or Thursday morning, and I liked it that way. Right,

0:33:27.080 --> 0:33:30.120
<v Speaker 1>there was the break I needed, and so this gave

0:33:30.240 --> 0:33:34.800
<v Speaker 1>us time to actually dive into one another and see

0:33:34.920 --> 0:33:36.880
<v Speaker 1>what was going to happen. I feel like COVID either

0:33:37.720 --> 0:33:41.560
<v Speaker 1>broke relationships or made them better, and luckily it made

0:33:41.640 --> 0:33:44.040
<v Speaker 1>us a lot closer. And it's kind of why you

0:33:44.080 --> 0:33:48.240
<v Speaker 1>see the relationship you see today. But I had, I

0:33:48.440 --> 0:33:49.920
<v Speaker 1>was I always tell Mac, I was like I was

0:33:50.000 --> 0:33:52.440
<v Speaker 1>not ready to meet you for sure, Like I needed

0:33:52.440 --> 0:33:55.480
<v Speaker 1>a couple of years to get to the point. So sorry,

0:33:55.520 --> 0:33:57.240
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't there when we first said hello, but I

0:33:57.480 --> 0:33:58.240
<v Speaker 1>eventually made it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, y'all come. It is tricky though. It's like I

0:34:01.520 --> 0:34:04.479
<v Speaker 2>watched in COVID, like the artist and artist couples fail first, right,

0:34:04.680 --> 0:34:07.560
<v Speaker 2>like the artist and artist marriages. I mean, our country

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:10.040
<v Speaker 2>music really went through it. I was like, we really did,

0:34:10.360 --> 0:34:13.520
<v Speaker 2>because we're all so used to living separate, and like, respectfully,

0:34:14.400 --> 0:34:15.799
<v Speaker 2>we are ready for you to go on the road

0:34:15.840 --> 0:34:17.360
<v Speaker 2>just as much as you probably are ready to go

0:34:17.440 --> 0:34:19.160
<v Speaker 2>on the road. Right, so like we're all used to

0:34:19.239 --> 0:34:21.320
<v Speaker 2>doing our own thing, and then all of a sudden,

0:34:21.640 --> 0:34:24.240
<v Speaker 2>I remember by June of that year looking at Preston

0:34:24.320 --> 0:34:25.840
<v Speaker 2>like do you need to get up on the counter

0:34:26.080 --> 0:34:28.319
<v Speaker 2>and sing and shake your money maker? And I can

0:34:28.400 --> 0:34:30.120
<v Speaker 2>just be down here in a crop top, like there's

0:34:30.200 --> 0:34:34.560
<v Speaker 2>validation that you get every day out there that you're

0:34:34.600 --> 0:34:37.240
<v Speaker 2>not getting here because you know the dice.

0:34:38.000 --> 0:34:42.080
<v Speaker 1>To me, it's so hard, the validation thing. Yeah, I

0:34:42.600 --> 0:34:45.040
<v Speaker 1>have to I call it re entry when I get

0:34:45.080 --> 0:34:49.560
<v Speaker 1>back home from the weekend. I actually started when the

0:34:49.600 --> 0:34:51.839
<v Speaker 1>bus pulled back into the lot. I would I would

0:34:51.880 --> 0:34:55.840
<v Speaker 1>take like ten minutes and just recenter my brain to like, Okay,

0:34:56.719 --> 0:34:58.600
<v Speaker 1>for the last four days, you've been in a world

0:34:58.600 --> 0:35:01.520
<v Speaker 1>where the whole entire thing around you, everybody out there

0:35:01.560 --> 0:35:04.600
<v Speaker 1>either plays for you or works for you, or you

0:35:04.680 --> 0:35:06.960
<v Speaker 1>know whatever. The fans are screaming at you, and they've

0:35:06.960 --> 0:35:09.520
<v Speaker 1>been they're there for you, and you're about to walk

0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:11.879
<v Speaker 1>into the house. And there were there were weekends where

0:35:11.880 --> 0:35:13.960
<v Speaker 1>I would walk back home and be like, well, why

0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:15.080
<v Speaker 1>aren't you excited to see me?

0:35:15.239 --> 0:35:15.880
<v Speaker 4>Like what's going on?

0:35:17.840 --> 0:35:21.520
<v Speaker 1>I had to like seriously after recenter, like no, no, no,

0:35:21.840 --> 0:35:24.680
<v Speaker 1>you she's probably wondering why you're not excited to see her, Like,

0:35:24.800 --> 0:35:27.680
<v Speaker 1>this is flipped. This is re entry back into normal life.

0:35:28.080 --> 0:35:30.360
<v Speaker 1>That was a hard thing, and you don't even you

0:35:30.400 --> 0:35:33.320
<v Speaker 1>don't even really realize it for a while. And I

0:35:33.400 --> 0:35:36.479
<v Speaker 1>think the music being an artist will turn you into

0:35:36.560 --> 0:35:38.960
<v Speaker 1>a complete if you like. It's set up to turn

0:35:39.040 --> 0:35:40.920
<v Speaker 1>you into an asshole if you let it. I think,

0:35:41.080 --> 0:35:43.120
<v Speaker 1>so being aware of it is really nice. So I'm

0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:45.680
<v Speaker 1>that's what I always re Entry is kind of my

0:35:45.760 --> 0:35:46.640
<v Speaker 1>thing when I get back home.

0:35:47.400 --> 0:35:49.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I give an unofficial twenty four hours for him

0:35:49.760 --> 0:35:52.280
<v Speaker 2>to come back, and I don't tell it's not guaranteed

0:35:52.320 --> 0:35:53.680
<v Speaker 2>because I don't want to have to give it because

0:35:53.680 --> 0:35:55.960
<v Speaker 2>then I'll get resentful, right right, But I'm trying to like,

0:35:56.000 --> 0:35:58.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, here's your quin waw, here's some water, here's

0:35:58.360 --> 0:36:01.440
<v Speaker 2>a bathroom with a flushing toilet. You know, people think

0:36:01.480 --> 0:36:03.759
<v Speaker 2>your life is glamorous, but sometimes it's tricky out there.

0:36:04.160 --> 0:36:06.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, sometimes we haven't showered since we left, you know.

0:36:07.200 --> 0:36:08.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then you want us to be excited to

0:36:08.920 --> 0:36:10.360
<v Speaker 2>see you. I want you to know you said that,

0:36:11.040 --> 0:36:15.239
<v Speaker 2>stanky Adam, oh Adam, Well, thank you for coming on

0:36:15.600 --> 0:36:20.120
<v Speaker 2>and just being authentic. Thank you for putting out amazing songs.

0:36:20.120 --> 0:36:22.760
<v Speaker 2>You're going out on the road in April, right.

0:36:24.239 --> 0:36:24.879
<v Speaker 4>Is now night one?

0:36:25.000 --> 0:36:29.359
<v Speaker 2>Yes, Boston, get ready and everyone download his news. We'll

0:36:29.360 --> 0:36:31.480
<v Speaker 2>download all of the songs, but download his newest song,

0:36:31.600 --> 0:36:35.040
<v Speaker 2>Ain't She because it's a good one. I'm your sweetheart.

0:36:35.360 --> 0:36:37.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh, thank you guys. It's great to talk with you guys.

0:36:37.800 --> 0:36:40.000
<v Speaker 1>And we are doing we're rescheduling it now, but we

0:36:40.080 --> 0:36:41.200
<v Speaker 1>are going to do a Nashville show.

0:36:41.280 --> 0:36:42.560
<v Speaker 4>So whenever that ends up, be.

0:36:44.680 --> 0:36:44.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:36:44.920 --> 0:36:47.000
<v Speaker 4>I'll let you guys. I'll let you guys know, and

0:36:47.200 --> 0:36:49.000
<v Speaker 4>we'll have you guys out. I'd love for you to coments.

0:36:49.080 --> 0:36:53.440
<v Speaker 2>Okay, where is it going to be at Brooklyn Bowl? Amazing?

0:36:53.480 --> 0:36:54.040
<v Speaker 4>So fun?

0:36:54.239 --> 0:36:58.359
<v Speaker 2>Lovin yeah, love love love, Okay, awesome, Well, good luck

0:36:58.440 --> 0:37:01.080
<v Speaker 2>with everything. Enjoy every minut it of it. I mean

0:37:01.440 --> 0:37:04.440
<v Speaker 2>I miss already the little and that was a few

0:37:04.520 --> 0:37:04.879
<v Speaker 2>months ago.

0:37:05.120 --> 0:37:07.440
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I told Mac, I was like, are you

0:37:07.520 --> 0:37:09.439
<v Speaker 1>going to miss having this little baby inside your belly?

0:37:09.520 --> 0:37:11.439
<v Speaker 1>Like it feels like, you know, sometimes you feel your phone.

0:37:11.640 --> 0:37:12.440
<v Speaker 2>I miss the kicks.

0:37:12.800 --> 0:37:14.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you feel like your phone like a phone in

0:37:14.600 --> 0:37:16.840
<v Speaker 1>your pocket that's not actually there. It's probably something like.

0:37:16.880 --> 0:37:18.480
<v Speaker 2>That, you know, But wed range.

0:37:19.040 --> 0:37:21.600
<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys for the advice. I will I'll get

0:37:21.640 --> 0:37:23.879
<v Speaker 1>you guys max numbers so you guys can talk. That'll

0:37:23.880 --> 0:37:24.960
<v Speaker 1>be that'll be more efficient.

0:37:25.040 --> 0:37:28.640
<v Speaker 2>She'll love it already. Thanks, Adam, have a great day,

0:37:28.760 --> 0:37:34.040
<v Speaker 2>all right. Well, And he just a doll like he

0:37:34.200 --> 0:37:40.840
<v Speaker 2>just like another she is. He's a sweetheart. He's so precious,

0:37:40.880 --> 0:37:43.839
<v Speaker 2>you guys. It is just it's crazy. I'm looking him

0:37:43.880 --> 0:37:47.320
<v Speaker 2>up right now. And oh the socials having babies in

0:37:47.480 --> 0:37:49.160
<v Speaker 2>the road and all of it. I just need to

0:37:49.200 --> 0:37:50.919
<v Speaker 2>see all put in the little face to the name.

0:37:51.040 --> 0:37:55.040
<v Speaker 2>Look at her. Let me see her, McKinnon, McKinnon, dole.

0:37:55.280 --> 0:37:59.920
<v Speaker 2>What a cute look, so cute little baby belly. I love.

0:38:00.080 --> 0:38:02.360
<v Speaker 2>I do miss the baby because the baby. We have

0:38:02.440 --> 0:38:06.200
<v Speaker 2>the baby's name on there, just baby dolea Okay, I

0:38:06.360 --> 0:38:11.000
<v Speaker 2>like it. I'm gonna heard it. Yeah, dad, that's my girl.

0:38:11.560 --> 0:38:14.680
<v Speaker 3>Speaking of real fast. Did you ever hear from anyone

0:38:14.800 --> 0:38:16.160
<v Speaker 3>or figure out this girl on the plane?

0:38:16.320 --> 0:38:18.359
<v Speaker 2>Well, no, we didn't put the teaser. They didn't put

0:38:18.360 --> 0:38:20.040
<v Speaker 2>the teasers up. So I just asked for a teaser.

0:38:20.120 --> 0:38:22.799
<v Speaker 2>So now I'm gonna now I'm gonna post about it. Okay. Yeah,

0:38:23.600 --> 0:38:30.560
<v Speaker 2>So she's not a listener. No, all right with the candlestick.

0:38:31.880 --> 0:38:38.200
<v Speaker 2>I know, same namesis some things, Yes, my love people

0:38:38.239 --> 0:38:40.440
<v Speaker 2>that you talked to on planes. I talked with Sarah

0:38:40.440 --> 0:38:43.120
<v Speaker 2>Gretzky this morning. What do you mean, oh, on the

0:38:43.160 --> 0:38:45.320
<v Speaker 2>plane or you talk to you miss her on the

0:38:45.360 --> 0:38:48.759
<v Speaker 2>plane because she was your non miss connection and it

0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:51.080
<v Speaker 2>was funny were we both got asked to do a podcast.

0:38:51.080 --> 0:38:52.839
<v Speaker 2>I know she did a podcast that I got asked

0:38:52.880 --> 0:38:56.239
<v Speaker 2>to do a mom's podcast. It's awesome, and so I

0:38:56.400 --> 0:38:58.399
<v Speaker 2>was like, hey, I was just checking in to see

0:38:58.440 --> 0:39:01.279
<v Speaker 2>and she she was just so funny, and I said,

0:39:01.320 --> 0:39:02.879
<v Speaker 2>I just feel like you're a good judge of character.

0:39:02.960 --> 0:39:05.360
<v Speaker 2>I mean, you did pick Janna, and so it was cute.

0:39:05.400 --> 0:39:08.239
<v Speaker 2>We were like, had a little moment. We need to

0:39:08.320 --> 0:39:11.120
<v Speaker 2>get her on again. So she's so funny, get her on.

0:39:12.360 --> 0:39:15.680
<v Speaker 2>But yes, okay, all things. Love you guys, I love you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>bye bye bye