1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: Wind down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast. 2 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:11,959 Speaker 2: Okay, hi guys, hi girls, would you like to come 3 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 2: in with what you just came in with? No, No, 4 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:17,759 Speaker 2: We're going to take a minute to process a process 5 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 2: and everyone's safe and fine. Okay, all right, anything, Well, 6 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 2: I have an update. 7 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know you're there. 8 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: I feel like I have to. I don't ever peer 9 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 2: pressure you, but I feel like you have to because 10 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 2: the amount of questions I'm getting and it's not even 11 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 2: me right, okay, well, like inquiring minds, I'd like to know. Okay, Well, 12 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 2: so I figured out why my scalp was a ching. 13 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:54,319 Speaker 3: I want to know first of all, before you say it. 14 00:00:55,480 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 3: Did a lot of people guess this zero? Wow, that's 15 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 3: brot one DM. Did I get that one? Which is 16 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 3: crazy and people are invested? 17 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yes, So let's roll the tape back. So I 18 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 2: went to started itching on December sixteenth, seventeenth is what 19 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 2: I could trace it back to. It was because it 20 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 2: was afore Allen's parents came in town for Christmas, and 21 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 2: then I remember when they were here, I was like, God, 22 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:37,919 Speaker 2: I can't sap, scratching my head. So then I tracked 23 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 2: back a little more okay. Uh Like, then I went 24 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 2: to my dermatologist. She's like, I see nothing on your scalp. 25 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 2: Your scalp as completely clear, no dan driff no, nothing 26 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 2: like You're like, no lice nothing. I'm like, okay, don't 27 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 2: have that. So then she's like, it could be you know, 28 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 2: then I thought was scabies. Then we thought it was 29 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: like you thought it was a lot of things. I 30 00:01:58,080 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 2: thought it was a lot of things, a lot of dying. 31 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 2: I need to google. Connected her with Nate and the text, 32 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 2: and I said, for what it's worth, I need you 33 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 2: to not google and Nate. I need her in as 34 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 2: quickly as she can get in. Well, I'm pretty convinced. 35 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 2: I thought I had MS too, which I didn't know. 36 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 2: If you wanted to share that, I'm not going to 37 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 2: like completely bust you, but you did. 38 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 3: She thought she had MS from the itchy scalpers all 39 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:24,519 Speaker 3: like that. 40 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 2: Have so many things like it's like my eyes are blurry. 41 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 2: So then I started putting all the symptoms together, and 42 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 2: all of them sure lead me to really bad things, 43 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 2: which freaked me out. There's a positive to all of this. 44 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: I just want to say there's a I'm really glad 45 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 2: I went down this train because I didn't, I wouldn't 46 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 2: have realized a few of mothers. She said, I'm going 47 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 2: happening and I'll tell you which I had no idea about, 48 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:52,239 Speaker 2: which Nate thinks it's because of the baby. But anyways, okay, 49 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,519 Speaker 2: so itching, itching, itching, and then I go and to 50 00:02:55,560 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 2: see Nate and your extensions out. I mean, hello, you 51 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 2: switch shampoos, I mean everything, So trying to figure out 52 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 2: what it was right, so, but mainly like the scalp 53 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 2: was driving me nuts, so got on a bunch of supplements, 54 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 2: YadA YadA. So then I have a birthday party for 55 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 2: Jolie where it was her eighth birthday party, and they 56 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:21,839 Speaker 2: it's like this little mobile fairy thing and they come 57 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 2: over and they do their hair, they do their makeup, 58 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 2: and you missed it. It was really cute. I know, 59 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 2: I saw it was cute. Love was sick, right, and 60 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 2: then she gave it to the baby. Oh bummer. Sleep 61 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 2: Lesson Nashville is the name of the game. That's the worst. Okay, 62 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 2: I mean she I'm talking about But anyways, so you know, 63 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 2: it's such a cute party. It was. The girls looked adorable, 64 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 2: but the very end of the party, the lady goes, 65 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 2: I have some bad news, and I was like, okay, 66 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 2: like what's Like, what's wrong. She's like a few of 67 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 2: the girls had lice, and I was like, oh, that's disgusting. 68 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 2: I was like that is so gross. I was like 69 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 2: ew who, like just kind of like a little judge. 70 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 3: I'm gonna pin this for a second. 71 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 2: And so I was like gross, Like who, I love 72 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 2: your honesty because I was like, I know how you reacted, 73 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 2: but I needed it's gross. Okay. 74 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 3: Can we go back to a few days before that? 75 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:26,479 Speaker 3: So you were judging, okay, I judging you. 76 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 2: It's it's gross. Life is gross. 77 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, go ahead. 78 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 2: Like I'm not judging our child. I'm just saying like 79 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 2: it's gross. I mean like, it's disgusting. 80 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 4: It is. 81 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 2: So I'm like, oh, gross, who and so because life 82 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 2: is gross? And so she's like and I'm not going 83 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 2: to name the other kids, but she's like she said 84 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 2: a few kids and then like couldn't spit it out, 85 00:04:55,360 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 2: and I'm like who. She's like Jollie and I was like, oh, 86 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 2: I got it, okay. And so I like go upstairs, Uh, 87 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 2: this is like after the party or whatever, and I'm like, baby, girl, 88 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:10,799 Speaker 2: have you know? And she's been itching but not crazy, 89 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,359 Speaker 2: you know, So I said to her, you know what's 90 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 2: let me can I just look in your hair really fast? 91 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 2: And then I saw some and I was like, like 92 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 2: out of my skin crawling. The other mom's kid that 93 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 2: had it too, we made an appointment to go together 94 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 2: and uh, I wasn't actually going to bring jas, but 95 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 2: I did because right before we left, I was like, baby, 96 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 2: let me just check your hair really fast. And I 97 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:36,359 Speaker 2: looked and there was I saw one in there and 98 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:40,479 Speaker 2: I was like, get in the car immediately, please please 99 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 2: put on this pod? Can pass? Please kindly get. 100 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: In the car. 101 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 2: I would like to hear. And I was like, and go. 102 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 2: But I checked my hair. I was like, Alan, can 103 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 2: you look through my hair? He's like, I don't see anything. 104 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:53,040 Speaker 2: So I'm like, this is just so strange. So when 105 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 2: I go there, I'm like, well, I'm obviously going to 106 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 2: get checked because I've been having crazy scalp itching. So 107 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 2: lo and behold I head lice. That is why my 108 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 2: sculf was it ching. So so did Jay, so did Jolie. 109 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 2: But here's here's the like deep dive that I'm really 110 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 2: happy with. Through all of this doing blood work and everything. 111 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 2: Because I sat down with Nate. He was like, you 112 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:18,239 Speaker 2: are so hormonally messed up. He's like, your thyroid is awful. 113 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 2: He's like, which is you're gonna probably if you don't 114 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 2: get this, Like you'll start gaining weight because it's like 115 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 2: the way your thyroid is working. He's like, it's it's 116 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 2: the wrong way. He's like, so you'll start to gain weight. 117 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 2: Your estrogen, your testosterone obviously, like I talked about last episode, 118 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 2: is really low. And he goes and also he's like, 119 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 2: you're you have an you're allergic to soy. And I'm like, 120 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 2: oh my god. I was like, I had at a 121 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 2: mommy the other night and I remember scratching, oh wow randomly. 122 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 2: Now I have a soy a reaction allergy. Wow. So 123 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:52,599 Speaker 2: I cannot eat soy anymore, which is also pretty common postpartum. 124 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 2: Really interesting, so soy and estrogen are linked. Ish, oh whoa, 125 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 2: and so I I also I did the food sensitivity. 126 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 2: I've been in the deep deep Yeah, and soy comes 127 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 2: up for me too, And that sucks because we love 128 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 2: like sushi, Asian anything. Yeah, we can slay sushi. Yeah, 129 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 2: And I don't like soy sauce. Oh, I do. But 130 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 2: the problem is is soy is in everything that I eat. 131 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:24,239 Speaker 2: And also the other thing too that I'm not allowed 132 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 2: to eat anymore is munk fruit, which is in all 133 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 2: my protein bars, which is in oh it's on my 134 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 2: severe like I can never have it again. It's in 135 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 2: all of my protein powders. 136 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 3: That's so random, and which is protein. 137 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 2: Which causes the gut, the leaky gut, all of that stuff. 138 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 2: So now I've like deep dove and all that, and 139 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 2: then like my cortisols are like super off. And he's like, 140 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 2: I don't know how You're not like sleeping in a 141 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 2: bed right now all day. He's like, you are, just 142 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 2: like it's so bad. So I'm like, I'm so grateful 143 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 2: that I went down this to like find this out. 144 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 2: But the itching was the lice disgusting. 145 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 3: It's just so crazy. So rewind too, But how does 146 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 3: the dermatologists find it? 147 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 2: Well, so I call her. She's like what what? She's like, 148 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 2: I didn't see anything. I'm like, well they were there. 149 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 3: Rewind of four or five days before that, you know, 150 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 3: obviously Emmy had been itching also. We talked about that 151 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 3: on here. I was like, if you figure it out. Well, 152 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 3: I got a call when we were working out from 153 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 3: the nurse. This was days before it happened to her, 154 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 3: and they were like, you need to come get Ramsey. 155 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 3: She has lice. And I was like, oh my god, 156 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 3: Emmy does have lice, like I've been looking, that's it. 157 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 3: So we go. So that's where I go back to 158 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 3: you were judging. 159 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 2: I'm not judging. I'm judging the lights. 160 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 3: And it's disgusting. 161 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:37,079 Speaker 2: Is there a pr rep for life anyway? 162 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 3: And no one wants to talk about it because everyone 163 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 3: has it, but no one else to talk about it 164 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 3: because it's gross. But anyway, so I took Ramsey. 165 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 2: Either of you dealt with this before, because I know. 166 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 3: Amy had to deal Emmy. I got a call from 167 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 3: the nurse for Emmy when she was probably in second 168 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 3: or third grade, and I really freaked out then, like 169 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 3: I literally was disgusting. But they told me neither. But 170 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:57,079 Speaker 3: they told me then how common it is and people 171 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 3: just don't talk about it, you know. So so I 172 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,680 Speaker 3: Ramsey get her or whatever, and then we do this 173 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 3: party and I'm like, dear lord, she's getting rechecked today 174 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:06,959 Speaker 3: because I'm like, she was around. 175 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 2: Everyone and newslash. So we texted all the moms and 176 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 2: I was like, hey, just f yi, Joly had lice 177 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 2: and a few other girls headlights. You should maybe get 178 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:17,600 Speaker 2: your dar checked. Everyone but two head lice that were 179 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 2: at the party. 180 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 3: And it's probably Ramsey was probably one of them. But 181 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 3: she had already had it. 182 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 2: So I would like to thank you Jesus for the 183 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 2: congestion they kept me home from the party. Yeah, but 184 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:28,839 Speaker 2: they've already had it though, which is as wild. It's 185 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 2: like they didn't get it from the party. Well I know, 186 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 2: but right, wouldn't someone anyway? Yeah? 187 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:35,679 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but side note to all that, and he 188 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 3: didn't have it, so I still haven't figured her out. 189 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:41,079 Speaker 2: So you should do a food sensitive sensitivity test for her. Yeah, 190 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 2: it's because it's it's very wild. Yeah, it does, and 191 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 2: it ruins like postpartum were so susceptible because our immune 192 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 2: is our immunity is down, our thyroids are taxed, our 193 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 2: adrenal glands are taxed. Oh that's what you said. He's like, you, 194 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 2: your adrenal glands are just like awful. So I'm on 195 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 2: like fifty million different supplements. But he's like, it's only 196 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 2: temporary for the eight next, like eight weeks until you 197 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 2: get everything back up. Yes, I had to order. 198 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 3: Allt it all started coming in today. 199 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like fifteen to twenty supplements. But he's like, 200 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 2: it's only for guys. He's changing my life. Yeah, like 201 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 2: I have energy. I cannot wait for all of those 202 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:19,959 Speaker 2: things to start happening. It's happened, Like it's good. He's incredible. Yeah. 203 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 2: So I mean it's just one of those things where 204 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 2: you know, I'm glad I went down the rabbit hole. 205 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 2: I'm glad. It was just the life for the scratching 206 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 2: and hopefully everything else can kind of fall into place. 207 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 3: My favorite was the text from the other person that 208 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 3: you were there with, because I was like, I just 209 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 3: need to know if Jana has it, like she has 210 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 3: to have it, and then the other person was like, 211 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 3: she's crying, she's so happy. 212 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 2: I was really I was crying, Oh you're dying. I 213 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 2: was like, thank you so much. So it was a 214 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 2: funny thing because it was it was driving me mad. 215 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 3: And it's easily taken care of. Yes, So it's. 216 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 2: I'm just blown away that anyone else saw it before 217 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 2: this well, because I said I got checked and it 218 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 2: wasn't there, so then that's why I also, no one said. 219 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 3: But I mean I have checked Ramsey like two or 220 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 3: three times. I was like, she does not have it. 221 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 3: Nurse calls, and then as soon as they say she 222 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 3: has lights, I look at her head. I'm like, oh 223 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 3: there they are like, I don't know. 224 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 2: I got to be honest, I don't even think I 225 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 2: know what I'm looking for. 226 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 3: Well, having said that, Ramsey didn't have it very long, 227 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 3: but just. 228 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 2: Google it and look, I could not google anyway. 229 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 3: I actually it's like, you know you can tell. 230 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 2: But I will say, but that has been solved, mystery solved, 231 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 2: and I will report back on all the supplements. But 232 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:35,319 Speaker 2: I will say when I was going through my severe 233 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 2: list and then things that I shouldn't have, I was like, 234 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 2: I don't know what to eat because I eat it's 235 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 2: they're all on there. 236 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 3: I didn't do the food one sab same and. 237 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 2: It's my favorite to have almonds, avocado, eggs, eggs. I 238 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,719 Speaker 2: have all those butt eggs I get to eat and 239 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:57,599 Speaker 2: I don't eat meat. So I'm like, well, yeah, it's 240 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,839 Speaker 2: been something. So anyways, I'm over. We're back on that. 241 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:03,680 Speaker 2: But the scratching go get your head jacked. My dermatologist 242 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 2: was like, I'm gonna either if I don't see anything, 243 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 2: I'm going to have people go to an actual life place. 244 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 2: And I'm like, that's best. 245 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 3: Well because of that comb. Yeah, I really think that 246 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:12,320 Speaker 3: that's it. 247 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:16,439 Speaker 2: I wish you guys could see Catherine's hands because it 248 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 2: looks like the comb is great. It's the key to 249 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 2: really figuring that all the time. Now on ONOBA, this 250 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:25,199 Speaker 2: season is called life Lights Baby. 251 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 3: And hey, there are plenty moms out there that are like, yeah, 252 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 3: I feel better because my kids had it too. 253 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 2: Exactly. All right, We're going to take a quick little 254 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 2: lice break, and then we're going to get Adam on, 255 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 2: who is an American country singer. He's got a song 256 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 2: out called Ain't She. We're going to talk about touring, 257 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 2: We're going to talk about soon to be dad life, 258 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 2: and uh, we'll get a month, but let's first take 259 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 2: a break. 260 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 4: What's up y'all? Hi? 261 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 3: Adam? 262 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 2: Wait, this is obviously your wife in the famous music video. 263 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 1: Well if she's in it, but that also might be 264 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 1: Cassie Randolph because Colton and Cassie were in that video. 265 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 2: Oh that's that, so maybe well not to I love Cassie. 266 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 2: I did a movie with Cassie. But now I'm just 267 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 2: that just registered in my brain. 268 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 4: Sorry, no, it's funny you say that. 269 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 1: I actually texted Colton probably I don't know, three months 270 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 1: ago and I was like, hey, man, what if we 271 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 1: add one scene to this video and at the end, 272 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 1: when you're walking out of the grocery store, you just 273 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:39,559 Speaker 1: walk out and you see you get in the car 274 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 1: with Jordan or something. We just had one scene to 275 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 1: the video because it didn't age well at all. 276 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, well. 277 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 2: Age, Well neither does my book The Good Fight. So 278 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 2: whatever with my ex husband, so you know his musical influences, 279 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 2: John Mayer, and there was a few listed. 280 00:13:58,800 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 3: What do you see? 281 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:03,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, your jobs. That's great, Adam. Than to bring that up, 282 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 2: HI show that is wind down. How are you welcome 283 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 2: to the story house, Adam. We're glad to have you, Adam. 284 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 2: How long? How long were you grinding in Nashville? 285 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 4: Still currently grinding in Nashville? 286 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 2: If you tell me one year, I'm going to just 287 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 2: get really no, not at all. 288 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 4: I was. 289 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 1: I mean I've been here for about ten years now, 290 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 1: so everybody A common question and interviews is when was 291 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 1: the moment that you made it or when did you 292 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: know you made it? And my answer is always like 293 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: I'm still waiting on it. 294 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 4: I don't know. I mean, it was like a constant, 295 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 4: you know, it got a little bit better all the time. 296 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 4: It's still doing it. 297 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:39,880 Speaker 1: It's just been a constant, steady getting a little bit 298 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 1: better every year. So there hasn't been like a just 299 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 1: one thing that made it. It's just been kind of 300 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 1: slowly grounded the whole time. 301 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 2: You know what, There is something so to that, because 302 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 2: it's never at least when I was doing country radio 303 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 2: or country music, you just never felt safe. You know. 304 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 2: It's like why you want to you know, was obviously 305 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 2: top three on the charts. Got the Boy was top three, 306 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 2: but it's like, but then the next one would not 307 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 2: do great. It would be like twenties thirties, and you're 308 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 2: like not safe, it's over, everything's over. And then it's 309 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 2: just you don't ever really get comfortable until you're that 310 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 2: one percent. I guess that that's no matter what you 311 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 2: put out, there is a number one, you know, and 312 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 2: that's that's the hard piece because it's like you can 313 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 2: never really get comfortable, which I think is a good thing, 314 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 2: but also that's the struggle and the balance with doing 315 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 2: what you love right. We would like to feel comfortable 316 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 2: in my house, just I mean, I think I think 317 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 2: everyone would love to be comfortable. But then it's like, 318 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 2: then what are you striving for if you when you 319 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 2: get comfortable? And I think that's the piece that I 320 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 2: always remind myself of. It's like, all right, so when 321 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 2: you have everything you want, you're always gonna want something 322 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 2: more than that. 323 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's been the biggest thing for me 324 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 1: is just first of all, I mean this is I 325 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 1: think we had songs on the radio about the same 326 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: time because I had Famous That was twenty nineteen going 327 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 1: into twenty I think I know we're on Serious XM 328 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 1: at the same time at least I remember that. 329 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 4: But yeah, I think that. 330 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 1: And since then, so many people have been added and 331 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 1: TikTok's been added, and there's just so much, so much music, 332 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 1: so many faces on Instagram. It's really hard to you know, 333 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 1: if you try to keep up with everybody, you're kind 334 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 1: of in trouble. And so for me, I've just kind 335 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 1: of leaned in on just trying to be Adam Doleiak, 336 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: just trying to sound like Adam doliak and not chasing. 337 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: You know, I feel like everybody's trying to sound like 338 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 1: Morgan Wallin right now. I feel like everybody just kind 339 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 1: of chases the next thing. And I think I realized 340 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 1: a little while ago, like I. 341 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 4: Love what I do. 342 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 1: I'm really lucky to get to do what I do 343 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 1: and only that, Like I make music and play music 344 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 1: for a living and can make a good living and 345 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 1: support my family, which is really cool. And when I started, 346 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 1: that was the dream, right Like if I if I 347 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: just told myself I was right where I am right now, 348 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 1: when I started, i'd been like, sweet, that's great. So 349 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 1: just leaning into that, and you're right, it's always it's 350 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 1: hard to get comfy. And I agree with you, like 351 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 1: we would love to feel completely comfort like we were 352 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 1: in the one percent of Morgan Wallen or something, but 353 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 1: that's just hard to do. 354 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 4: And so. 355 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:08,119 Speaker 1: I think just taking it day by day and continuing 356 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:10,199 Speaker 1: to make music that I love and do things that 357 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,479 Speaker 1: I love has been the most important. 358 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:12,399 Speaker 4: Thing for me. 359 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,920 Speaker 1: And I kind of learned all that during COVID, which 360 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 1: was a terrible thing but allowed me to actually slow down. 361 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 1: I don't know about you guys, but I'm the type 362 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 1: that just kind of never stops. I work, I work, 363 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:25,080 Speaker 1: I love working, but I never really slow down. And 364 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 1: that let me do that and so I kind of 365 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 1: learned a lot about myself in that and it's helped 366 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:30,879 Speaker 1: the last few years for sure. 367 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 2: And you have a baby on the way. Is it 368 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 2: your first? 369 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,640 Speaker 4: It's our first? I saw all of you have three? 370 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 4: Is that is that right? 371 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 2: Yeah? Correct? 372 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, so this is this is our first. She's due 373 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 1: early in March, and yeah, any advice you guys want 374 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 1: to get made. 375 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 4: Of time. 376 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:53,640 Speaker 2: I actually just need her phone number directly because I'm 377 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 2: the wife of the artist and so that's the piece 378 00:17:57,560 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 2: where I need to we need to connect. I mean, 379 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 2: and I will say, we'll give you some good advice. 380 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 2: But I think once you have that baby too, how 381 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:12,400 Speaker 2: you do your career and you're gonna I mean, it's 382 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:16,639 Speaker 2: just your why becomes a totally totally different why, you know, 383 00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:20,600 Speaker 2: and the purpose that you have is is uh, I'll say, 384 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 2: how do I say this for me? Once I had kids, 385 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:27,440 Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, this is not the most important thing 386 00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:30,639 Speaker 2: anymore music or acting or it's like it's my kids, 387 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 2: and your purpose kind of shifts a little bit, which 388 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 2: is it's a weird it's it's a cool feeling, but 389 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 2: it's it's definitely different. 390 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like, obviously everybody I talked to right now, 391 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:43,959 Speaker 1: us having a kid comes up, and so everybody kind 392 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 1: of gives you these little pieces of advice or these 393 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: little slogans or things to be scared of. And so 394 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: one thing I get a lot is, well, you know, 395 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,119 Speaker 1: it's normally guys, and I'm like, we'll get ready to 396 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 1: have no time for yourself and that actually I think 397 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 1: it's I think it's intended to scare me, but it 398 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 1: actually kind of excites me. I mean, I feel like, 399 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm thirty five, and I've done a lot 400 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 1: of played college baseball and then moved into the music world, 401 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 1: and I've kind of done a lot of me things, 402 00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:14,639 Speaker 1: right like, every my life has revolved around me for 403 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 1: kind of long enough, if that makes sense, And so 404 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 1: I'm actually a little bit excited for that flip and 405 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:21,679 Speaker 1: to have a different why and a different purpose and 406 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 1: so and we haven't even had our child yet and 407 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 1: I'm already feeling that. 408 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 4: So I know, I know it's coming, but I'm kind 409 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 4: of excited about that. 410 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:30,160 Speaker 2: I might but it's a boy. 411 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 4: Sure, yeah, it's a boy. 412 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:36,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, king best piece of advice you can give 413 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 2: him as a new daddy. 414 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that's so hard. 415 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, I got a list. I think it's probably 416 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 2: I just had a baby life's phone number. 417 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:47,359 Speaker 3: I'm out of the baby stage. Mine are older, so 418 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 3: mine has just shifted so much. You know, like if 419 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 3: I go back to like baby stage, it's like, you know, 420 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:54,879 Speaker 3: sleep and you can you know, it's like all the 421 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 3: obvious stuff. But gosh, the best advice I think is 422 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 3: like getting so caught up in a single moment. Like 423 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,880 Speaker 3: it's like you, Kristen, were a little stressed earlier about 424 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 3: something with your child, Like that will pass. It's just 425 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 3: it's a moment. Look at the bigger picture. What is 426 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 3: the bigger picture. What's the biggest goal for your children? 427 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:16,680 Speaker 3: That's one thing I've really just been having to learn. 428 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 3: But that's kind of like a bigger. 429 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 2: Picture than like the d dat nights won't last, Like 430 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 2: that will not last, Like that's over, that's not in 431 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 2: my life. 432 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 3: Like my kids go to their rims on their own 433 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:28,679 Speaker 3: and they're in their rims. I'm like, all right, did 434 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 3: anyone go to sleep or like good night, you know. 435 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,040 Speaker 3: I mean, it just changes so much. 436 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 2: Right, and as a new dad, I know, you're on 437 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 2: the road probably a lot, and you're going off on 438 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 2: tour and all those things. But the one thing that 439 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:45,400 Speaker 2: my fiance did for me that was just I thought 440 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 2: was the sweetest, most incredible thing was because I had 441 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 2: a C section, And even so, I think he would 442 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,680 Speaker 2: have still done this, but he would not let me 443 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 2: get up in the middle of the night to feed 444 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 2: the baby like I did a couple times, but like 445 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:01,080 Speaker 2: he was always like, you need you need rest, you 446 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 2: need to you know, you're the mother, Like you need 447 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 2: to have sleep and you need to be you know, 448 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 2: be okay. And so the fact that he he did 449 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,639 Speaker 2: primarily the middle of the night shifts so that I 450 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:16,359 Speaker 2: could recover, I thought was like such a beautiful thing. So, yeah, yeah, 451 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:19,200 Speaker 2: that did not happen at my house for how long? 452 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,480 Speaker 2: You didn't almost in the entire time. I mean I'd 453 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 2: get up a couple times. But I mean, why he 454 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 2: was the mother Oh okay, yeah, because he's sleeping through 455 00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:28,639 Speaker 2: the night. Now yeah, well yeah, now we're sleeping through 456 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 2: the night. He's two months, almost three months, and now 457 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,359 Speaker 2: I was sleeping through the night, but sleep train. And 458 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:45,120 Speaker 2: my advice is really simple, maybe too simple. I don't 459 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 2: have advice because I think God gives you the people 460 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 2: that are meant for you specifically. So this little puzzle 461 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 2: piece boy that's coming, you already know instinctually how to handle, 462 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 2: what to do. My advice would just be to trust yourself, 463 00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:04,160 Speaker 2: you gut, and each other. It's not as complicated as 464 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:07,160 Speaker 2: people love to make you feel. There's so many opinions, 465 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,360 Speaker 2: and I think I used. I started to get worn out. 466 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 2: I was pregnant with our daughter. My husband his first 467 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 2: single actually like went up the charts and he was 468 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 2: gone gone, like right gone, and there was so much 469 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 2: advice coming at me, and I'm like, all I know 470 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,200 Speaker 2: to do right now is kind of like hunker and 471 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 2: just hear each other's heartbeat and try to figure this out. 472 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:29,440 Speaker 2: So I think you're already more than qualified. And I 473 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 2: just hope you get to enjoy it because it does. 474 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 2: I know everyone tells you goes fast. It's like crazy fast, 475 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 2: and I'm trying to freeze the third one because I 476 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 2: know better and it's still fast. Right, Wait, when do 477 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 2: you go on tour? Adam? 478 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 4: Well, I was going to tell you guys. So we March, 479 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 4: we were supposed to do in March, start we're supposed 480 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,120 Speaker 4: to start. We did our best to kind of schedule. 481 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:52,159 Speaker 1: We originally had like six shows scheduled and then a 482 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:55,119 Speaker 1: six week break and then more shows after that. And 483 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: something that's been really heavy on me and my wife's 484 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 1: mind is just an actually hers is I was supposed 485 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:03,879 Speaker 1: to be on tour for the really up until the 486 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:07,879 Speaker 1: last week of her pregnancy kind of situation. And we actually, 487 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 1: right before I hopped on this call, actually I announced 488 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,120 Speaker 1: that we are actually going to pick up the first 489 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,520 Speaker 1: six shows and move them to the back of the tour, 490 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 1: and so the tour is actually going to start April 491 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,879 Speaker 1: twenty fifth in Boston now. And that was again just 492 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 1: kind of being with her and us getting together and 493 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 1: talking with it, something that just brought her a lot 494 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 1: of peace knowing that I would be here, we won't 495 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 1: have to worry about me being in Rootstown, Ohio and 496 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,440 Speaker 1: getting a call that she's going into labor. 497 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 4: Just that peace of mind of having that we actually 498 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 4: just decided to do that and move the tour. 499 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 1: So just a good example of kind of making work 500 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 1: still still work, but keeping family first. I think and 501 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 1: so that's been kind of a big weight off of 502 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:48,000 Speaker 1: both of our shoulders. 503 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,440 Speaker 2: So well, I'm buying all your songs because I just 504 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 2: have that, like you're putting your marriage and your wife 505 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 2: and all of that at peace, and just I just 506 00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 2: love that. Now I'm work will still be a fan. 507 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,320 Speaker 3: Work will still be Yeah, and like you said, you 508 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:02,120 Speaker 3: can put it in there. 509 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're getting rescheduled and they'll be better because I'll 510 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 1: have my little buddy with me at the shows now, 511 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 1: and so it'll it'll be it'll be a good time. 512 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 4: But yeah, it was. It was a big deep breath 513 00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:12,680 Speaker 4: for her for sure. 514 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,160 Speaker 2: Kristen. Does that make you a little bitter like angry 515 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 2: and I ate bitter like little a little little angry angry, No, 516 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 2: no it doesn't. We we're in the duo. So my 517 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 2: husband's half of low Cash. 518 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know your husband. 519 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:29,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know he knows you, but I didn't know 520 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,920 Speaker 2: if you like you know. Yeah, here, I'm just KB. 521 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:36,920 Speaker 2: So I just kick at KB style. But we you know, 522 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,280 Speaker 2: those guys have been doing this for like twenty years. 523 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 2: So we just there's two families, right, Like essentially I 524 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 2: have two husbands and I have a wife. So there's 525 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:52,679 Speaker 2: just a lot of and and quite honestly, like Caitlin 526 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 2: and I for a while, we're just having a lot 527 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:55,639 Speaker 2: of babies. Like it was like she has three, I 528 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 2: have three, you know. And so I think for us, 529 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 2: we've done the best we could do. I mean, Hindsight's 530 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 2: twenty twenty, Adam, if we could really kick it for 531 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:05,240 Speaker 2: an afternoon, I would share a lot of stories with you. 532 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 2: But I think you're just doing great. I mean I 533 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:12,159 Speaker 2: would say what you're doing is everything that needs to 534 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 2: be done. I think this industry has a way of 535 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 2: scooping you up and pushing you along. I think it 536 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 2: has a way of making things look really shiny, and 537 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 2: that can sometimes leave a lot of resentment and some 538 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,679 Speaker 2: hurt feelings behind. I think there's great places for therapy 539 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 2: like Porter's Call and the Refuge Center for counseling if 540 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 2: you need some deep dives into untangling some things. But 541 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,679 Speaker 2: I feel like we've kind of learned and loved at 542 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 2: the same time. I think for me, I know too 543 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,040 Speaker 2: much about our industry because I worked for Big Machine. 544 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, and so I can tell you do I sometimes I. 545 00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,240 Speaker 2: Know, But see I sometimes give too much grace when 546 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,120 Speaker 2: I should just dig my heels in and say stay 547 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 2: with me. But I know what's important. Amen, And I couldn't. 548 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 2: I would be livid if he left. Yeah, in the hospital, 549 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 2: you know. Yeah. You also, oh, we had to go 550 00:25:57,960 --> 00:25:59,960 Speaker 2: wrap up the Kane Brown tour. That's a huge opportunity. 551 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And there's there's you know, the music industry 552 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 1: is really the whole thing is just opinions and nobody's 553 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:09,159 Speaker 1: doing this. There's no correct answer for almost anything. So 554 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 1: you know, there is something to be said for they 555 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,000 Speaker 1: have been grinding for a long time, and so when 556 00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 1: they do get a song that's running up the charts 557 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 1: and they're getting these asks that they've always been wanting 558 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 1: to do, that's a different situation. 559 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 4: You know, sometimes you have to go do that, but 560 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 4: it is I can tell that you are. 561 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:26,880 Speaker 1: You would love talking to my wife because she kind 562 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:30,719 Speaker 1: of can see it all from nothing's really shiny to her, right, 563 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 1: it's all shiny to the hardest more so, but she 564 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 1: can see right through it. And she's been really great 565 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 1: for me in that and that's probably the reason that 566 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 1: I'm able to just kind of calmly move shows and 567 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 1: be like, you know what this is best for? 568 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:45,359 Speaker 2: Well, you know what's the most important too. With that's like, 569 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 2: that's you know, family is the most important piece, and 570 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 2: without that, your career is not going to go to 571 00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 2: the lengths that it will because of your career can 572 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:57,639 Speaker 2: go away tomorrow anyway's career ken, but your family, it's like, 573 00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 2: that's those are the people you need to cherish. And yeah, 574 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 2: it's just such a crazy lifestyle. 575 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,680 Speaker 1: You know, like it's is it is not normal, and 576 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: we forget about that right like it does seem normal 577 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,879 Speaker 1: to me or whoever it might be. It gets to 578 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 1: the point where it's just normal and outside looking in, 579 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 1: there's really nothing normal about it. And so she's always 580 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,359 Speaker 1: a good reminder of that. And also, I'm not you know, 581 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't get discovered on TikTok six months ago, 582 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:26,960 Speaker 1: and I'm going out on a headlining arena to work 583 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 1: next week. You know, I've been around, I've seen the 584 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 1: shiny bells and whistles. I've been in and out of 585 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,080 Speaker 1: bad record deals. I've kind of seen all of that. 586 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:39,560 Speaker 1: So I do know how it works and behind the scenes, 587 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:41,200 Speaker 1: and so that's made it a lot easier too, to 588 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,680 Speaker 1: really prioritize what needs to happen. Here and so it's 589 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:46,879 Speaker 1: it's been great, and like I said, I think it 590 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 1: was a great decision for us. 591 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 2: Is Ain't She? Your newest song? One of your favorite 592 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 2: songs to sing because it's about your lady? 593 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:09,879 Speaker 4: A lot of my songs are about my lady. But 594 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 4: I have actually not really gotten to sing it. That 595 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 4: came out in. 596 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: January and we haven't been out on the road yet 597 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,280 Speaker 1: to play that song, so that's kind of going to 598 00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 1: be a new thing. 599 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:20,399 Speaker 4: I do love that song, though. 600 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:25,680 Speaker 1: I feel like that is the ultimate compliment as a guy. 601 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 1: It's something I say all the time, ain't She? And 602 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:30,879 Speaker 1: I'm from Mississippi, so it kind of rolls off the. 603 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 4: Tongue a little bit. 604 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 1: But the ultimate compliment as a guy to me is 605 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 1: just like to be at the bar with one of 606 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 1: your buddies and your girlfriend's there too, and you look 607 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 1: across the room and you're just kind of having a 608 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 1: beer and you look over and you go, yeah, she's 609 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,040 Speaker 1: way too good for me, ain't she. That's like the 610 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,640 Speaker 1: ultimate compliment, I think, And so that's what we're all 611 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 1: trying to find a girl we could say that about, 612 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 1: and that's her for me. 613 00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 2: So that's kind of where I cannot wait until March, 614 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 2: because you are going to be it's going to be 615 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,320 Speaker 2: through the roof. It'll be that at times a gazillion 616 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 2: once you see her move into that other season of life. 617 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's already been that too a little bit, even 618 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 4: just being pregnant. It's been fun to watch. 619 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can tell you're just such an intuitive, like 620 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:15,720 Speaker 2: intentional guy. So I think it'll be really cool for 621 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 2: you to sing that on stage. Well, you've got a 622 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:19,240 Speaker 2: baby in headphones. 623 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,960 Speaker 4: Oh my god, there's nothing cuter in the entire world 624 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 4: in a baby and nothing. 625 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, babies all day, right, And do you plan on 626 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 3: bringing him on the road, him and on the road, Yeah. 627 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:30,760 Speaker 4: For sure, we have. 628 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 1: We've kind of already decided it. I mean, I guess 629 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:35,120 Speaker 1: you have to kind of wait and meet the guy 630 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 1: and see how he does with it. But we've just 631 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 1: seen we've seen a lot of people have babies and 632 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,959 Speaker 1: kind of hunk her down and not have lives afterwards, 633 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,480 Speaker 1: and we've kind of committed to not doing that. We 634 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 1: want to just be as active as we can. We 635 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 1: still want to take trips, even if they're not on tour, 636 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:50,920 Speaker 1: just just trips for us. 637 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 4: That kind of thing. So we are definitely going in 638 00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,960 Speaker 4: with that mindset. Hopefully that'll stay the same, but that's 639 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 4: that's the goal. 640 00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 2: I think it will. We did that like I love 641 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 2: and I are. I mean, we were gone all the time, 642 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:03,240 Speaker 2: and I think they. 643 00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 4: Just know that. 644 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 2: Yeah I had I had a crib on our bus side, 645 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:11,240 Speaker 2: a second bus. Yeah, a little little baby crip for Jolie. 646 00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 2: That was fun. 647 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,040 Speaker 1: That's definitely the goal for the next year is to 648 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:19,360 Speaker 1: get to the second bus. The second bush made no money. 649 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 2: Second guys, we're also single hands in on three everybody else. 650 00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 2: It was a fun year, but then that year I 651 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 2: also made zero money. My second bus is always going 652 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:30,160 Speaker 2: to say it, but I was gonna let use it. 653 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 3: All the artists always want that second bus. And I'm 654 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,600 Speaker 3: coming from the management side, and I'm like, can we 655 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 3: look at the money of the second bus? 656 00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:38,320 Speaker 4: It makes. 657 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 2: You guys, but nothing makes sense. We just have to 658 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 2: soak up the living inside of the lives we're creating exactly, 659 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:50,160 Speaker 2: So what do you do with so Like, Okay, you're 660 00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 2: out on the road, how do you maintain the healthy relationship? 661 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 2: Are you good at communicating? Like what would your what 662 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 2: would your wife say? Is your best quality? And your 663 00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 2: worst quality I am. 664 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,800 Speaker 1: I would say maybe a couple of years ago, communication 665 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 1: would have been on the worst side of qualities. 666 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 3: I was not. 667 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:13,520 Speaker 1: I'm a big I'm a romantic, which an intentional and 668 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 1: that kind of thing that you were picking up on 669 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 1: a little bit, which are some of my best qualities. 670 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 1: But it also made me like, for the first couple 671 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 1: of years, I didn't like to just directly communicate things. 672 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 1: I would rather surprise you and pick you up, or 673 00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 1: I would rather make plans that you know, it all 674 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 1: had to be kind of a little bit more grand 675 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 1: for me to be excited about it. And McKinnon has 676 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 1: definitely taught me communication. She is the most straightforward, honest, 677 00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,920 Speaker 1: loyal person I've ever met in my entire life. 678 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:43,400 Speaker 4: And she's been that way since our first date. 679 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:45,080 Speaker 1: I mean, she was just straight out of the gate, 680 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:48,479 Speaker 1: blunt exactly who she was, and now that I know her, 681 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 1: i'd get that she's always been that way, But I 682 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 1: was not that way. I was kind of, you know, 683 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:56,160 Speaker 1: I was raised, always put a smile on, you know, 684 00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 1: just kind of be I was kind of the golden 685 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 1: child a little bit, so I was supposed to be 686 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,280 Speaker 1: good at everything, even if things are going bad, just 687 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 1: kind of keep the straight face going. And she has 688 00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 1: kind of brought the more real, honest side of me out, 689 00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 1: Like I enjoyed telling the truth these days. I used 690 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,520 Speaker 1: to be a little on the shady side, Like there's 691 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,400 Speaker 1: a lot of things that have changed about me, kind 692 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 1: of growing up in that way that sometimes. 693 00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 2: You're a baseball player, it's just part of the. 694 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 4: And I was like, well, I don' want to trace 695 00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 4: it back to Yeah, what else do I need to say? 696 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 4: I mean, there's some baseball players are brutal, sometimes. 697 00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:37,440 Speaker 2: Brutal sometimes a podcast for another. 698 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 1: There are some good ones, but there are also some 699 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 1: really bad ones. But that that has been kind of 700 00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,120 Speaker 1: the whole thing for us, I mean, figuring that out again. 701 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 1: Covid we had almost two years of time that we 702 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 1: would just have never had because I was used to 703 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 1: I had never dated a girl in the same city 704 00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 1: as me until I met McKennon. 705 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:05,120 Speaker 2: Of course, I mean a little bit because I married 706 00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 2: one of you, So. 707 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, I probably it probably was intentional. It was. 708 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,360 Speaker 1: It was as much as I wanted to handle a 709 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,920 Speaker 1: relationship kind of and but also I was you know, 710 00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,160 Speaker 1: I moved from Mississippi to Nashville, and so there was that, 711 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 1: there was that thing. But again, two years of COVID, 712 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,560 Speaker 1: I had, I'm used to being gone every Wednesday night 713 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:26,959 Speaker 1: or Thursday morning, and I liked it that way. Right, 714 00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 1: there was the break I needed, and so this gave 715 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:34,800 Speaker 1: us time to actually dive into one another and see 716 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:36,880 Speaker 1: what was going to happen. I feel like COVID either 717 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:41,560 Speaker 1: broke relationships or made them better, and luckily it made 718 00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 1: us a lot closer. And it's kind of why you 719 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:48,240 Speaker 1: see the relationship you see today. But I had, I 720 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:49,920 Speaker 1: was I always tell Mac, I was like I was 721 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 1: not ready to meet you for sure, Like I needed 722 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:55,480 Speaker 1: a couple of years to get to the point. So sorry, 723 00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 1: I wasn't there when we first said hello, but I 724 00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 1: eventually made it. 725 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 2: Well, y'all come. It is tricky though. It's like I 726 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:04,479 Speaker 2: watched in COVID, like the artist and artist couples fail first, right, 727 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 2: like the artist and artist marriages. I mean, our country 728 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,040 Speaker 2: music really went through it. I was like, we really did, 729 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 2: because we're all so used to living separate, and like, respectfully, 730 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:15,799 Speaker 2: we are ready for you to go on the road 731 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,360 Speaker 2: just as much as you probably are ready to go 732 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:19,160 Speaker 2: on the road. Right, so like we're all used to 733 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,320 Speaker 2: doing our own thing, and then all of a sudden, 734 00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:24,240 Speaker 2: I remember by June of that year looking at Preston 735 00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:25,840 Speaker 2: like do you need to get up on the counter 736 00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,319 Speaker 2: and sing and shake your money maker? And I can 737 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 2: just be down here in a crop top, like there's 738 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 2: validation that you get every day out there that you're 739 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,240 Speaker 2: not getting here because you know the dice. 740 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:42,080 Speaker 1: To me, it's so hard, the validation thing. Yeah, I 741 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 1: have to I call it re entry when I get 742 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:49,560 Speaker 1: back home from the weekend. I actually started when the 743 00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,839 Speaker 1: bus pulled back into the lot. I would I would 744 00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:55,840 Speaker 1: take like ten minutes and just recenter my brain to like, Okay, 745 00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,600 Speaker 1: for the last four days, you've been in a world 746 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,520 Speaker 1: where the whole entire thing around you, everybody out there 747 00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:04,600 Speaker 1: either plays for you or works for you, or you 748 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 1: know whatever. The fans are screaming at you, and they've 749 00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 1: been they're there for you, and you're about to walk 750 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,879 Speaker 1: into the house. And there were there were weekends where 751 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,960 Speaker 1: I would walk back home and be like, well, why 752 00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 1: aren't you excited to see me? 753 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:15,880 Speaker 4: Like what's going on? 754 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 1: I had to like seriously after recenter, like no, no, no, 755 00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 1: you she's probably wondering why you're not excited to see her, Like, 756 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 1: this is flipped. This is re entry back into normal life. 757 00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:30,360 Speaker 1: That was a hard thing, and you don't even you 758 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:33,320 Speaker 1: don't even really realize it for a while. And I 759 00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:36,479 Speaker 1: think the music being an artist will turn you into 760 00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,960 Speaker 1: a complete if you like. It's set up to turn 761 00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 1: you into an asshole if you let it. I think, 762 00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:43,120 Speaker 1: so being aware of it is really nice. So I'm 763 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 1: that's what I always re Entry is kind of my 764 00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 1: thing when I get back home. 765 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, I give an unofficial twenty four hours for him 766 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,280 Speaker 2: to come back, and I don't tell it's not guaranteed 767 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:53,680 Speaker 2: because I don't want to have to give it because 768 00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 2: then I'll get resentful, right right, But I'm trying to like, 769 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,319 Speaker 2: I'm like, here's your quin waw, here's some water, here's 770 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,440 Speaker 2: a bathroom with a flushing toilet. You know, people think 771 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,759 Speaker 2: your life is glamorous, but sometimes it's tricky out there. 772 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, sometimes we haven't showered since we left, you know. 773 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:08,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you want us to be excited to 774 00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:10,360 Speaker 2: see you. I want you to know you said that, 775 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:15,239 Speaker 2: stanky Adam, oh Adam, Well, thank you for coming on 776 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:20,120 Speaker 2: and just being authentic. Thank you for putting out amazing songs. 777 00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,760 Speaker 2: You're going out on the road in April, right. 778 00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:24,879 Speaker 4: Is now night one? 779 00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:29,359 Speaker 2: Yes, Boston, get ready and everyone download his news. We'll 780 00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,480 Speaker 2: download all of the songs, but download his newest song, 781 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 2: Ain't She because it's a good one. I'm your sweetheart. 782 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,719 Speaker 1: Oh, thank you guys. It's great to talk with you guys. 783 00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,000 Speaker 1: And we are doing we're rescheduling it now, but we 784 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:41,200 Speaker 1: are going to do a Nashville show. 785 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:42,560 Speaker 4: So whenever that ends up, be. 786 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:44,879 Speaker 2: Yeah. 787 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,000 Speaker 4: I'll let you guys. I'll let you guys know, and 788 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 4: we'll have you guys out. I'd love for you to coments. 789 00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:53,440 Speaker 2: Okay, where is it going to be at Brooklyn Bowl? Amazing? 790 00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 4: So fun? 791 00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:58,359 Speaker 2: Lovin yeah, love love love, Okay, awesome, Well, good luck 792 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,080 Speaker 2: with everything. Enjoy every minut it of it. I mean 793 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,440 Speaker 2: I miss already the little and that was a few 794 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:04,879 Speaker 2: months ago. 795 00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,440 Speaker 1: So yeah, I told Mac, I was like, are you 796 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,439 Speaker 1: going to miss having this little baby inside your belly? 797 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:11,439 Speaker 1: Like it feels like, you know, sometimes you feel your phone. 798 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 2: I miss the kicks. 799 00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:14,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, you feel like your phone like a phone in 800 00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,840 Speaker 1: your pocket that's not actually there. It's probably something like. 801 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:18,480 Speaker 2: That, you know, But wed range. 802 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,600 Speaker 1: Thank you guys for the advice. I will I'll get 803 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:23,879 Speaker 1: you guys max numbers so you guys can talk. That'll 804 00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:24,960 Speaker 1: be that'll be more efficient. 805 00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:28,640 Speaker 2: She'll love it already. Thanks, Adam, have a great day, 806 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:34,040 Speaker 2: all right. Well, And he just a doll like he 807 00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:40,840 Speaker 2: just like another she is. He's a sweetheart. He's so precious, 808 00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,839 Speaker 2: you guys. It is just it's crazy. I'm looking him 809 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:47,320 Speaker 2: up right now. And oh the socials having babies in 810 00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:49,160 Speaker 2: the road and all of it. I just need to 811 00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:50,919 Speaker 2: see all put in the little face to the name. 812 00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:55,040 Speaker 2: Look at her. Let me see her, McKinnon, McKinnon, dole. 813 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:59,920 Speaker 2: What a cute look, so cute little baby belly. I love. 814 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,360 Speaker 2: I do miss the baby because the baby. We have 815 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:06,200 Speaker 2: the baby's name on there, just baby dolea Okay, I 816 00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:11,000 Speaker 2: like it. I'm gonna heard it. Yeah, dad, that's my girl. 817 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 3: Speaking of real fast. Did you ever hear from anyone 818 00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:16,160 Speaker 3: or figure out this girl on the plane? 819 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:18,359 Speaker 2: Well, no, we didn't put the teaser. They didn't put 820 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:20,040 Speaker 2: the teasers up. So I just asked for a teaser. 821 00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,799 Speaker 2: So now I'm gonna now I'm gonna post about it. Okay. Yeah, 822 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:30,560 Speaker 2: So she's not a listener. No, all right with the candlestick. 823 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:38,200 Speaker 2: I know, same namesis some things, Yes, my love people 824 00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,440 Speaker 2: that you talked to on planes. I talked with Sarah 825 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,120 Speaker 2: Gretzky this morning. What do you mean, oh, on the 826 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,320 Speaker 2: plane or you talk to you miss her on the 827 00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:48,759 Speaker 2: plane because she was your non miss connection and it 828 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 2: was funny were we both got asked to do a podcast. 829 00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:52,839 Speaker 2: I know she did a podcast that I got asked 830 00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:56,239 Speaker 2: to do a mom's podcast. It's awesome, and so I 831 00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:58,399 Speaker 2: was like, hey, I was just checking in to see 832 00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,279 Speaker 2: and she she was just so funny, and I said, 833 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:02,879 Speaker 2: I just feel like you're a good judge of character. 834 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,360 Speaker 2: I mean, you did pick Janna, and so it was cute. 835 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:08,239 Speaker 2: We were like, had a little moment. We need to 836 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:11,120 Speaker 2: get her on again. So she's so funny, get her on. 837 00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:15,680 Speaker 2: But yes, okay, all things. Love you guys, I love you. Okay, 838 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:17,920 Speaker 2: bye bye bye