1 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to the Official Yellowstone Podcast. We 2 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 1: are so glad you can join us again. I'm Jen 3 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: Landon and I am joined us always by my very 4 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:17,919 Speaker 1: good friend mister Jefferson White. 5 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 2: Hey, Jen, how you doing. I am happy as always 6 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 2: to be here with you today, but also especially today. 7 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 2: So this is typically where we tell you, We tell 8 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 2: the audience a little bit about what we've got planned 9 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 2: for the day, We perhaps let them know who our 10 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 2: guest of the day is. However, this week just so 11 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 2: happens to be a very special week Valentine's Days this week, 12 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 2: so I thought I might put together a little something special. 13 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:48,559 Speaker 2: Me and the producers have put together a little something special, 14 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 2: and we're going to be surprising you with our guest, Jen. So, 15 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 2: like our audience, you're also going to have to sit 16 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 2: tight for just a little bit longer. 17 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: Jeff, This makes me incredibly nervous. This could be very 18 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: very good or very very awkward. 19 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 2: I'm guessing it's going to be a little bit calm, 20 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 2: a little bit calm be Jen. Listen, you're gonna find 21 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 2: out soon, but for now you're gonna have to sit 22 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 2: and stew and sweat, and we're gonna come right back after. 23 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: This, Jeff. That was the longest commercial break of my life. 24 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:30,639 Speaker 1: Can I can I now know who my Valentine's guest 25 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 1: is for the day? 26 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 2: Listen? This is an audio format, so the audience can't 27 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 2: know how gleefully, how gleefully I'm raising my eyebrows, and 28 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:42,400 Speaker 2: how sort of you know how much I'm insinuating by 29 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 2: rubbing my hands together sort of fiendishly. Listen. You gotta 30 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 2: be patient, Jen, We're gonna get to that. This is 31 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 2: our Valentine's Day episode. However, so let's talk romance. 32 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: Huh yeah, Please distract me with some other romances from 33 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: the Yellowstone nineteen twenty three eighteen three universe. So I can, 34 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: you know, not sit here and sweat? 35 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 2: Well, it is funny. I mean, this is a show 36 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 2: that is in a lot of ways really built on 37 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:11,239 Speaker 2: these relationships. You know, we see over and over again 38 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 2: amongst the Dutton generations, we see these pairs, these partnerships, 39 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 2: these two partners that support each other in many ways. 40 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:24,519 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's support each other physically, you know. Sometimes it's 41 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 2: you know, carry each other to safety. Other times it's 42 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:31,359 Speaker 2: helping each other manage responsibilities. It's a really beautiful thing. 43 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 2: We see these really rich partnerships, and it also casts 44 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 2: in a new light the tragedy of John Dutton Junior, 45 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 2: our John Dutton, you know, in Yellowstone, the John Dutton 46 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 2: that we first got to know, the tragedy that he 47 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 2: has no partner. He is bereft from the moment we 48 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 2: meet him. He is without that partnership, and he's seeking 49 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 2: to sort of cobble together what he's missing by calling 50 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,399 Speaker 2: on his children, by sort of giving more and more 51 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 2: responsibilities to his children. But it really, over and over 52 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 2: again we hear him saying, if my wife only saw 53 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 2: the mess I've made of his family, if only I had, 54 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:11,519 Speaker 2: you know, the kind of support that I needed to 55 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 2: keep this ranch going and also to care for these kids. 56 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 1: Right. And so you bring up an interesting point of 57 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:22,239 Speaker 1: the sort of difference between the partnership that we're talking 58 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: about in terms of the women holding down for it, 59 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: which is what John lost, and the romance that like 60 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: John is obviously bringing in his life through Senator Perry 61 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: through Summer, but that those romances are different than the 62 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: kind of partnership that the relationships in the Yellowstone universe 63 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: are built on. 64 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, we've seen both on Yellowstone we've seen hot and heavy, 65 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 2: We've seen you know, we've seen infatuation. Everybody's talking about 66 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 2: Spencer and Alexandra. Spencer and Alexandra before Spencer and Alexander, 67 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 2: well after, but before or in terms of the show's hearing, 68 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 2: what about Jimmy and Mia. Everybody everybody's talking about Spencer 69 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 2: and Alexandra like they're the coolest, hottest couple. Before Spencer 70 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 2: and Alexandra, we had Casey and Monica, Jimmy and Mia, 71 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 2: Bethan rib and Laramie, Beth and Rip. And that's amazing 72 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 2: because we've seen that that relationship grow and change over 73 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 2: the years from one that was perhaps based on you know, 74 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 2: mutual in fascin, mutual infatuation, based on perhaps a degree 75 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:38,359 Speaker 2: of lust, and now we've seen it mature into that 76 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 2: kind of partnership that you're describing, this real sort of 77 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 2: walking side by side. Another one of my favorite relationships 78 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 2: on the show is Casey and Monica. I feel like 79 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 2: Casey and Monica they've been through so much. You know, 80 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 2: Beth and Rip have been through lots of ups and downs. 81 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 2: But if you go back and watch Yellowstone again, so 82 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 2: of Casey and Monica, they have sort of they've come 83 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 2: really close to parting ways over and over again. They've 84 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 2: been through so many roller coasters as a couple. You know, 85 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 2: they started out with completely different goals. It felt like, 86 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 2: you know, they were young and in love, they have 87 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 2: a kid. But then when it came down to it 88 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 2: and they have to start making decisions about, you know, 89 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 2: where they're going to live, when both of their families 90 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 2: are putting pressure on them, they really feel like a 91 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 2: Romeo and Juliet to me in a way that I 92 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:30,359 Speaker 2: think is beautifully crafted. And those are also two of 93 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 2: my favorite actors on the. 94 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 1: Show same and while they do feel totally Romeo and 95 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 1: Juliette in origin, they also simultaneously have a relationship that 96 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: in many ways to me feels the most grounded and 97 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 1: you know that day in and day out relationship. I 98 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: don't know if we see that in another pairing. Do 99 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: we see that in another pairing on Yellowstone? In that 100 00:05:58,520 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: steady way. 101 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 2: The kid, right, I think part of it is having 102 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 2: Tate that brings them, that's this kind of unifying force 103 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 2: that means they have to come back together. They always 104 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 2: sort of have to return to each other for Tate's sake, 105 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 2: and I really think that's a dry thing that you know, 106 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 2: they've been through so many tumultuous ups and downs, and 107 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 2: I think Tate is one of the reasons that they've 108 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 2: always managed to navigate those those stormy waters. 109 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:27,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, that is actually a really good point, Jeff I 110 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: suddenly was struck with this this question, which is, how 111 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:37,039 Speaker 1: do we think the different couples on Yellowstone are celebrating 112 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day? You know, like, like how do they do it? 113 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:45,839 Speaker 1: So Monica and Casey since we started there, you know Monica, 114 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:48,799 Speaker 1: you know, Monica and Casey, I feel like are having 115 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 1: a supper at home or you know, they're sitting on 116 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: the porch a little quiet. 117 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're trying to be intimate. And Tate has a 118 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 2: question about. 119 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: What do we think Summer and are doing Summer. 120 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 2: And John they're also similarly, they're trying to be intimate, 121 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 2: and Beth is interrupting it and dragging Summer out of 122 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: the room by her hair. Yeah. Listen, Jen, speaking of 123 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 2: what various couples are doing on Valentine's Day, folks are 124 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 2: gonna wonder what it is we're up to on Valentine's Day. 125 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 2: I have no doubt you're wondering. 126 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 1: Okay, Jeff, I need to know who is the guest 127 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 1: for the day. All right, Jen, which ex? 128 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 2: I'm gonna put you out of your misery. I've got 129 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 2: all your ex you'r all your exes on this call. 130 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 2: No listen, and you're gonna so here's your happy surprise. 131 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 2: Over the course of this introduction, you will realize who 132 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 2: I'm talking about, because I could only be talking about 133 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 2: one man. We've got with us today, my dear friend 134 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 2: of six years. He's an actor, he's a writer, he's 135 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 2: a producer, he's a director, he's a businessman. He is 136 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 2: one of the most multi hyphenit talented people I've ever 137 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 2: met in my life and least interesting about him. He 138 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 2: plays your love and Yellowstone Colby. We've got with us today, 139 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 2: Denim Richards Denham, thank you for being here. 140 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 3: Oh man. I feel like I need to take you 141 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 3: and introduce me everywhere. When I go into grocery stores, 142 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 3: when I get to petrol, everything that's now, that's what 143 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 3: I need to do, literally anything. So it's great to 144 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 3: be It's great to hear you guys's voice. Jen, how 145 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 3: are you? Jen? 146 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 1: I'm always happy to see you, but I have to say, 147 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 1: I've never been more happy than I am right now 148 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: to see you because of the terror I experienced for 149 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: the last twelve minutes thinking that Jeff had brought some 150 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: X out of the closet to talk to you. 151 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 3: Do you imagine if there's like a roulette, imagine like 152 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 3: a roulette something that's happening, like live or we just 153 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 3: pulled in weird. 154 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 1: Xces to tell you there aren't that many, like, don't 155 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 1: make it roulette, there's like there's too many. 156 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 2: It's more like, yeah, we're bringing. 157 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 3: In I'm I'm clearly projected at this point. This is 158 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 3: this is, this is all all. 159 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 2: And now that we've got you here, Dnim, I'm so 160 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 2: excited to bring our. 161 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 3: Podcast right somebody that's dated. 162 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: Both of us. At some point, it had to happen, 163 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: you know. 164 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 3: It's like unbelievable. What's going on? Guys, how's everything? How's 165 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 3: how's everything going? 166 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 2: We're good man, We're chilling, We're spending today, we're talking 167 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 2: about we're diving in. So at the core of the 168 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 2: Yellowstone Universe, as we know, is family, and at the 169 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 2: core of those families, it's couples, it's relationships. We're doing 170 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 2: our our touchy feely intimate Valentine's Day episode of the 171 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:40,079 Speaker 2: Official Yellowstone Podcast. So we're talking about all the incredible 172 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 2: couples of Yellowstone eighteen eighty three and nineteen twenty three. 173 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 3: Okay, so naturally, when you were thinking super loving, super intimate, 174 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 3: just romantic youth every week, it screamed whole Holby and Tea. 175 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 2: Yes, but also we can't discount Colby and Jimmy's romance. Right, 176 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:02,440 Speaker 2: there's another You know, intimacy takes a lot of forms. 177 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 3: It's true, this is true, This is true. 178 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 2: Okay, before we get into all of that, we're going 179 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 2: to step aside really fast, so don't go away. So 180 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 2: listen this season to Yellowstone, particularly in season five of Yellowstone, 181 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 2: we've got more relationships popping off in the workplace than 182 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:30,319 Speaker 2: ever before. Everybody on the show is booed up at 183 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 2: this point. We've got Teeter and Colby, We've got Ryan 184 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 2: and Abby, we've got Walker and Laramie. That's just in 185 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 2: the bunk house, Jake and Ethan. 186 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 3: And that to me is like the couple that everybody 187 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 3: is kind of trying to get to be. 188 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:51,839 Speaker 2: Like exactly that level of that level of intimacy. 189 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 3: We're all striving for that. I think like Lloyd and 190 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 3: his gun, I got my gun. 191 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 2: You know, Lloyd in the Life, the Cowboy Life. You know, 192 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 2: it's like fishermen are married to see Lloyd is married. 193 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 3: He's married to the title, He's married to the right. 194 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 3: Like I think, no, this is I think it's fascinating, right, 195 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 3: Like watching kind of all of these things, you know, 196 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 3: it seemed like season one, it seemed like you would 197 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 3: never be able to have relationships. And you know, the 198 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 3: way that it's kind of been woven in in a 199 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 3: very kind of organic way, it doesn't none of it 200 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 3: feels forced. But I do think it's going to be 201 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 3: fascinating because you know, us as individuals, we don't want 202 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 3: our hearts broken. And then when you play that, you know, 203 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 3: because we talk about this all the time that like 204 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:37,680 Speaker 3: you know, if a character leaves or if there's a 205 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 3: split up, that person actually leaves. Yeah, right, So like 206 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 3: we as individuals we feel even what the characters are feeling, 207 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 3: because they're like, damn, this person's gone. I think hopefully 208 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 3: these couples will stay strong and vibrant for many, many 209 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 3: seasons to come. 210 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 2: I mean, speaking of romance and the Dutton's right, So 211 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:59,679 Speaker 2: all of these all of these Dutton kids at this point, 212 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 2: these relationships, and this season we also saw Jamie. Jamie 213 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 2: developed this beautiful relationship, this amazing thing for Jamie. But 214 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 2: I think the whole time we were all kind of 215 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 2: grimacing and gritting our teeth with fear because this is, 216 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 2: you know, it's the other it's the flip side of this. 217 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 2: It's intimacy as a weapon, right, you know. 218 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 3: The shoes on the other foot, you know, And I 219 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 3: think that's you know, that's the Sometimes I think that's hard. 220 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 3: You know, you don't never know if you're being used, 221 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 3: what that looks like. You know, you get comfortable and 222 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 3: then they cut your head off, you know. And I 223 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 3: think that that's something with Jamie. I think that that's 224 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 3: something he could could potentially be experiencing. Which is why 225 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 3: more and more, as these relationships go, I feel more 226 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 3: and more confident about the Colby and Teeters relationship because 227 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 3: as weird as it is, the foundations of it are 228 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 3: very unique and genuine. And I think that's it's fascinating 229 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 3: because it seems like our relationship is kind of like 230 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 3: a cockroach, right, where it's just no matter what you 231 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 3: throw at it, We're still going to just kind of 232 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:06,080 Speaker 3: weirdly be together. 233 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: Uh, Denim. Do you think that Colby and Teeter had 234 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 1: a conversation about like consent in terms of bringing the 235 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:17,719 Speaker 1: third into their relationship, which is the bear. Do you 236 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: think that like they talked about consciously bringing in a 237 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: third or do you think that was just sort of 238 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:24,960 Speaker 1: spur of the moment. 239 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. 240 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 3: I think that in the moment, Colby felt like there 241 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 3: was a lot of people that were around and he 242 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 3: didn't want to make like a scene. And then I 243 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 3: think what just kind of naturally ended up happening was 244 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 3: the bear just became part of it. It's there at breakfast, right, 245 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 3: it's bathing. It's weird, you know, but I think, you know, 246 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 3: for Colby, I think Teeter loves it, and I think 247 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:54,439 Speaker 3: Colby is learning to love whatever Teeter loves from afar 248 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 3: though right more. 249 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 2: I don't know. 250 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 1: I think that bear. I didn't see that bear on 251 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 1: that truck when she drove out of there, so I'm 252 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 1: pretty sure that bear is back. 253 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 3: And it's like it's like it's like a it's weird. 254 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 3: It's like an easter egg. Like nobody ever said, like hey, 255 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 3: when he went back into we didn't see the bear 256 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 3: in the bunk house. Where is the bear in the truck? Like, 257 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 3: where is is the bear walking there? Like? 258 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 2: I think that means Colby still has the bear, Dude, 259 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 2: I think that means Colby held on to the beard. 260 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 1: And before I uh uh lowered the conversation bar by 261 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: bringing the bear and the threatle into it, you were 262 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 1: actually hitting on like an interesting point you both were, 263 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 1: which is about relationships that you know are maybe don't 264 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 1: they're not right for everyone, but they're really right for 265 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: that person. So for example, like Jeff, I was thinking about, 266 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 1: of course, you know, there's this whole Mia and Emily thing, right, 267 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 1: and I felt like what Jimmy had with Mia was 268 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 1: so special, right, But it was one of those times 269 00:14:57,240 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 1: in life where what they wanted and the circle stances 270 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 1: of life were taking them in different directions. 271 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 2: I think at the end of the day, Jimmy and 272 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 2: Mia really didn't have a chance because Jimmy was ordered 273 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 2: by his boss to leave this state, you know, like 274 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 2: it's long distance relationships are incredibly difficult, punishingly difficult. Jimmy 275 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 2: doesn't really he didn't have much control over his own fate. 276 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 2: Mia certainly doesn't have a lot of control over Jimmy's fate, 277 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 2: so it feels like circumstances pulled them apart. And then 278 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 2: meeting Emily, it felt like that was the first time 279 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 2: in his life that he actually had he got to 280 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 2: make some decisions, he got to make some choices, He 281 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 2: got to sort of, you know, be in the driver's 282 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 2: seat and have some agency in his life, which I 283 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 2: think is very empowering. I think that's a very empowering 284 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 2: feeling to feel as though you're making your own choices. 285 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 2: Because Mia pursued Jimmy from the beginning of their relationship, 286 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 2: you know, Jimmy didn't make a lot of choices there either. 287 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 2: I think he was really into it, but she kind 288 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 2: of came up to him at a rodeo and hit 289 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 2: on him. You know, she really was making the calls, 290 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 2: which is intoxicating in its own way. But I think 291 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 2: for Jimmy to actually get any sense of control, any 292 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 2: sense of agency in his own life, it makes a 293 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 2: lot of sense to me that that is a powerful 294 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:15,360 Speaker 2: a powerful factor in driving people together, you know. 295 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 3: And I think it's interesting too, like speaking on that, like, 296 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 3: you know, I think with Mia it also became a 297 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 3: good break between kind of the rough and tumbleness of 298 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 3: the bunk house, but just giving a little bit of 299 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 3: different energy somebody that's trying to let you see that 300 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 3: you can be empowered, but because of your circumstance that 301 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 3: you're in, it's impossible to act on that. And then, 302 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 3: of course when you get to Texas, you're in an 303 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 3: entirely different environment where you have the opportunity to a 304 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 3: certain degree to become a little bit more empowered independently. 305 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 3: And now you can kind of start to see what 306 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 3: Mia saw in you before you saw it, but now 307 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 3: the circumstances are different. I think Jen, what you were 308 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 3: saying that sometimes the person that you end up ultimately 309 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 3: in up with in life is not necessarily the person 310 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 3: that you fell so deeply in love with and imagined, 311 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 3: but it was somebody that in these circumstances and you 312 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 3: learn that type of love. But there's so many different 313 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 3: versions of love, right, And I think that we always 314 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 3: just think that love is just a blanket thing like 315 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:17,560 Speaker 3: love is love, and there's so many different versions. There's 316 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,439 Speaker 3: loving in a situation and a circumstance depay on your 317 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 3: social and economic standings, like it's so I think it's 318 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 3: so multi layered and leveled and very complicated, and I 319 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 3: think what's interesting about this show, and I think it's 320 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 3: interesting in General's like art does imitate life, right, And 321 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 3: so for us as individuals, we've all been in love 322 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:39,680 Speaker 3: with somebody that we thought that, you know, we can 323 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 3: never imagine a life without them, and so naturally we 324 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 3: thought we're good, and then something happens and then all 325 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 3: of a sudden that person's gone and you're like, okay, 326 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:51,600 Speaker 3: well now what And then you go and you fall 327 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:53,359 Speaker 3: in love with somebody else and you're like, okay, damn it. 328 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:55,239 Speaker 3: So it's this notion that it's like, yes, you can 329 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:57,680 Speaker 3: be in love, but that doesn't mean that if something 330 00:17:57,720 --> 00:17:59,480 Speaker 3: goes wrong, that you can't be in love with somebody 331 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:02,720 Speaker 3: else and love some a different version because as we're growing, 332 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 3: we're getting older and we have different versions of ourselves. 333 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:09,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's very much a like right person, wrong time, 334 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:13,440 Speaker 2: wrong person, right time, and a relationship we've seen go 335 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:16,640 Speaker 2: through that whole spectrum is Beth and Rip. We've seen 336 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:19,359 Speaker 2: Beth and Rip at a time when they couldn't like 337 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 2: they maybe had a sort of connection to each other 338 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:25,120 Speaker 2: that they didn't quite understand, but it wasn't the right 339 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,919 Speaker 2: time for them to explore that intimacy. It wasn't the 340 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 2: right time for them to sort of partner up. And 341 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 2: we've seen them over the course of the show like 342 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 2: it was it was maybe the right person from the beginning, 343 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 2: but it took them decades to find the right time, 344 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 2: you know, and it was just that circumstances kept them together. 345 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:46,239 Speaker 1: There are these things though, if we look back in it, 346 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 1: that they share that, like that Rip is always going 347 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 1: to want, you know, cowboying is always going to come 348 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 1: first for him on some level. Right, there's a freedom there, 349 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 1: and we've talked about that a lot on the show. 350 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:02,399 Speaker 1: And there's something about Beth that will forever remains sort 351 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:06,959 Speaker 1: of wild, and so those two things sort of match together. 352 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 1: And I was hearing some version of the thing that 353 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:14,679 Speaker 1: she said about all she really wants is, you know, 354 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:19,479 Speaker 1: a little house with like a little pasture that is 355 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:23,640 Speaker 1: like just her own or whatever, that the big expanse 356 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: is too much for her, and there was and there's 357 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 1: something about the Rip character that feels very much like 358 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 1: that is true for him as well. You know, this 359 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:34,399 Speaker 1: is a guy who doesn't want to take over the 360 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:37,399 Speaker 1: Yellowstone Ranch. There's never been an inkling of that, like 361 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: he just wants to serve, if that makes sense. There's 362 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 1: a there's a simpleness in both their aspirations. 363 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 3: And I think what's interesting too is like the question 364 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:53,400 Speaker 3: that you asked is that you know how like we'll 365 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 3: be on set sometimes in like these kind of these 366 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 3: hectic weeks or a month of DISCNECTICU, and we're like, 367 00:19:58,119 --> 00:19:59,639 Speaker 3: you know what we're going to do when we wrap, 368 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,440 Speaker 3: We're going to go to an island for three weeks. 369 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 3: We're gonna turn off our phones and we're just gonna 370 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:07,639 Speaker 3: be present. And then the moment where we wrap her, 371 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:09,639 Speaker 3: like what show do we get on? What do we do? 372 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 3: We gotta work. So there's always a part of me 373 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 3: that I wonder, like, can Beth actually just do a 374 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 3: small house and you know, with a little pastor can Rip, 375 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:23,919 Speaker 3: you know, just wake up at nine am, you know, 376 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 3: pour a coffee and just sit on the porch, Like 377 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 3: can you do that? Or is it just kind of 378 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:31,400 Speaker 3: a fun thing to talk about. I think that's fascinating. 379 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 2: I think you're so right. I think Rip could do it. 380 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 2: I don't think Beth could do it. When Beth said 381 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 2: that on the show. I was like, I believe that 382 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:42,919 Speaker 2: Beth feels that way right now, but I think she 383 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 2: would be itching. She would be itching to get back 384 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:49,159 Speaker 2: in the boardroom, to get back on a plane. I 385 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,120 Speaker 2: think she would be itching to get back in the ass. 386 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:54,119 Speaker 1: I want to throw like, I think you guys are right, 387 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:56,440 Speaker 1: but I just want to like play Devil's advocate here 388 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 1: a little bit. And just because this is a character 389 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 1: as well who has like cannot shake the grief and 390 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 1: rage that she feels over being robbed of being a mother, 391 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:18,199 Speaker 1: right And I'm wondering if she like was able to 392 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 1: have kids, you know, if if actually like the raising 393 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 1: of that child and pouring all of that energy into 394 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 1: that would be the thing that would sort of ground her. 395 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 1: And because so many some of Beth's impulses to like 396 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 1: get out there and do things and whatnot, it doesn't 397 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:44,320 Speaker 1: feel just like it comes from drive. It feels sometimes 398 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:48,680 Speaker 1: like it comes from deep, a deeply unsettled place, you know, 399 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 1: from her mother passing, from the loss of her ability 400 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 1: to have kids. You know, there's a version of Beth 401 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 1: that I see, like with a more less traumatizing child, 402 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 1: where it's like, yeah, it almost I could see a 403 00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:05,680 Speaker 1: version of her if it feels a little bit more 404 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:09,880 Speaker 1: like Helen Mirren's character in twenty three, you know, which 405 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:13,119 Speaker 1: is still wild and filled with independence and adventure, but 406 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:17,440 Speaker 1: also more rooted in a life like that. 407 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a fascinating point. And also you know that 408 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:28,639 Speaker 2: that beast in her, that tornado in her, simmering underneath 409 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 2: the surface. Should it be called upon, because as we 410 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:36,159 Speaker 2: see in nineteen twenty three, you know, she's got that 411 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 2: dog in or two when the time comes when it 412 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 2: needs to wake up and bark and bite a little. 413 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:45,639 Speaker 1: You guys, we're gonna we're gonna take a quick break, 414 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:47,880 Speaker 1: but when we come back, we're going to talk more 415 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,680 Speaker 1: about our favorite relationships in the Yellowstone Universe and maybe 416 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:57,359 Speaker 1: some of our relationships in our own personal lives. WHOA, 417 00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 1: We'll be right back. 418 00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 2: You know, another relationship that I'm watching like a hawk 419 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 2: develop because I'm really enjoying nineteen twenty three is Spencer 420 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 2: and Alexandra. That's a fascinating one. They found each other 421 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 2: in the middle of nowhere. That might be a true 422 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:28,119 Speaker 2: star crossed lovers situation because they found themselves sort of, 423 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 2: they found each other kind of against all odds, like 424 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 2: on Safari, she was engaged to be married. He was 425 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 2: chasing this death drive, like sort of trying to get 426 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:46,119 Speaker 2: himself run over by a rhinoceros. It's amazing that they 427 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,000 Speaker 2: found each other and in each other they find this 428 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:49,879 Speaker 2: kind of redemption. I think that's a bit of a 429 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:55,200 Speaker 2: Beth and Rip situation too, a different kind of connection 430 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,879 Speaker 2: and a different sort of they're at a different chapter 431 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 2: in their lives. But I really think that's an amazing 432 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,119 Speaker 2: sort of star cross lover's relationship. 433 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:06,200 Speaker 1: I feel like Taylor's writing about that relationship that maybe 434 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,199 Speaker 1: we haven't seen yet in the sense of when you know, 435 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:12,639 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, there was nothing about Spencer that 436 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:18,439 Speaker 1: was even looking for relationship or or wanting one. And 437 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 1: and it's it's that story of when when that thing 438 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,880 Speaker 1: walks into your life, no matter how much you don't 439 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 1: want it, that's it, you just know. And that's what 440 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 1: it feels like. 441 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 2: He was really looking for the opposite, you know, if 442 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 2: love is life. It really seemed like he was chasing 443 00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 2: his own death. And you know, his life a life, 444 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:41,199 Speaker 2: a different life, a different path walked in. Oh and 445 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:44,439 Speaker 2: now he's down a completely different path. Oh, Spencer. I know, 446 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 2: we spend a lot of time. We spent a lot 447 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:52,080 Speaker 2: of time on this podcast talking about the big Man, 448 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:54,840 Speaker 2: Spencer Dunton. He's an icon. 449 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:57,800 Speaker 1: He's an icon because of the way he's written, and 450 00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 1: he's an icon because of the way he's portrayed. Between 451 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 1: season four and season five, your life changed a lot. 452 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 1: Do you want to talk a little bit about where 453 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 1: you live now and how your life looks different than 454 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:11,479 Speaker 1: it did before. 455 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:12,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. 456 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:14,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was living in Orange County and now I 457 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 3: live in Botswana, which is in Sub Saharan Africa, which 458 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 3: is where I'm doing this podcast. So clearly that means 459 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 3: that there's internet and as you guys can see the 460 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 3: layers of electricity and you know, wow, what a surprise. 461 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,640 Speaker 3: It's funny when people are like, uh, wow, running water, 462 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, guys, I'm fine, but you know it 463 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,399 Speaker 3: was important for me. And I think that, you know, 464 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 3: with the world being more interconnected with different opportunities to 465 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 3: for zoom, there's planes go everywhere, you know, you can be. 466 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,439 Speaker 3: I could be in Los Angeles if I needed to 467 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 3: within twenty hours, you know. So I think that at 468 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,080 Speaker 3: a certain point you have to kind of figure out, 469 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:53,639 Speaker 3: like what you want to do with your life, what 470 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 3: you want your life to look like. If you want 471 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 3: to have a family, what does that family structure look like, 472 00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,199 Speaker 3: and just kind of just do it. And the end 473 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 3: of the day, like as we all know, production and 474 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 3: being able to do thisseulf is such a blessing. But 475 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,040 Speaker 3: also with that, like at any given moment, things to 476 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,719 Speaker 3: just change. And then you sit there and you ask yourself, 477 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 3: what the hell did I like? What was I doing? 478 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 3: Did I get anything done in this court in the 479 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,480 Speaker 3: course of this time, or did I build a life 480 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 3: that I always wanted to live or did I live 481 00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 3: a life that everybody else wanted me to live. 482 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,879 Speaker 1: That's awesome, you guys. I know our listeners are going 483 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 1: to be disappointed if we don't talk about our on 484 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,520 Speaker 1: set relationship stuff, under our dynamic. 485 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:28,680 Speaker 3: With each other. 486 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 1: They will be They will be it because and I 487 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,280 Speaker 1: don't know if we've like I'm sure we've painted this 488 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 1: on the podcast before, but they see us on camera 489 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 1: having fun, playing poker, you know, doing all the things 490 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 1: that we do, and I feel like we do a 491 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 1: lot of that stuff into varying degrees off camera, whether 492 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 1: it's in between takes or on our free time. 493 00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:53,439 Speaker 3: I think that's why we're not talking about it as 494 00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,439 Speaker 3: much because we kind of like do a lot of 495 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 3: the stuff that we do on screen off screen, like 496 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 3: so I think maybe it's that's reason why we're not 497 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 3: diving deep down because we spend time together. We go 498 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 3: out to dinner together, some of us gym together, we 499 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,439 Speaker 3: play poker, we you know, we go to music events, rodeos, 500 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:14,600 Speaker 3: like all the stuff. The dynamics that we do on 501 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,359 Speaker 3: the camera are a lot of the stuff that we 502 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 3: do outside of it. The difference is there's just not 503 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:23,160 Speaker 3: six hundred people, you know, they're filming us while we're 504 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:23,680 Speaker 3: doing it. 505 00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 1: Do you guys have any favorite memories from on set 506 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 1: or offset hangs from the last four or five years? 507 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:31,960 Speaker 1: Uh huh. 508 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,680 Speaker 2: I think season one we went bowling and Wes Bentley 509 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 2: got so mad because he lost in bowling that he left. 510 00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,120 Speaker 3: He didn't leave, he did, he just left. 511 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:41,919 Speaker 1: He did. 512 00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 2: It was like it was like one of our first 513 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,200 Speaker 2: big group hangs as a cast, and it's like, everybody, 514 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 2: are we keeping the vibes good? No? No, no, Wescott 515 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:50,159 Speaker 2: in his car and fucking. 516 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 3: Lie and you know it's hard in bowling. The thing 517 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,199 Speaker 3: that sucks and bowling is it's like it's only you. 518 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 3: So then like naturally, as a competitor, I'm like, I 519 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,680 Speaker 3: want everyone to fail. But then you see the way 520 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 3: that somebody's gonna take you, Like, I really hope they 521 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,360 Speaker 3: get a strike, Like I really hope that it goes well. 522 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,840 Speaker 2: For them, and then we're hard to let somebody win 523 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 2: in bowling, right, I think I can do that. 524 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 3: By the I can't make the ball it not go 525 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:15,440 Speaker 3: into the gutter. I don't know. 526 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 2: We're all sitting there like just like praying, trying to 527 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,360 Speaker 2: manifest West getting a strike. 528 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:22,200 Speaker 3: That was so funny. 529 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,200 Speaker 2: It was a big because Wes is a really good athlete. 530 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 2: Everything very seriously, He's an incredibly pleasant, very smart guy, 531 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 2: and we all of us have our days where we're 532 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:38,480 Speaker 2: a few bad roles away from uh yeah, that's you bad. 533 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 3: Gutter balls away from being I mean, I think we've had, 534 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:43,720 Speaker 3: you know, I think some of the events, you know, 535 00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 3: that we've been able to go to together, Like I 536 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 3: think one of the things exciting, you know, when we 537 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,000 Speaker 3: took a year off of Yellowstone and then we all 538 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 3: kind of came back, you know for a cowboy camp. 539 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,360 Speaker 3: You know, I think that was nice just to kind 540 00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 3: of reconnect again. I think sometimes that it's just like man, 541 00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 3: we're like we're here, like we're doing it again. Like 542 00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 3: we didn't know. Oh, we didn't know that we were 543 00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 3: going to get the opportunity to come back, and you know, 544 00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 3: here we are. So I think it's always just it's 545 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 3: exciting when we finally get that opportunity. 546 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 2: To do so. I wasn't there. 547 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:12,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's all I'm saying. That's all I was saying. 548 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 3: It was a highlight. 549 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the you just that's the one time I 550 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 2: wasn't there. Jen, What do you got favorite memories? Oh, 551 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 2: we have to both be in them. We have to 552 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 2: both you and I have. 553 00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 3: I think for the same I know, I know, I know. 554 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,320 Speaker 1: But honestly, they're gonna act, they're going to exist a 555 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,640 Speaker 1: different listen, they're going to exist at different times because 556 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:38,720 Speaker 1: I think, honestly one of them. There was a hike 557 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 1: that we took looking for some berries. Jeff, you were there, Dunham. 558 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 1: You were not there, Dunham. You were like home or 559 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 1: something you had left. 560 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 3: That's pretty accurate. 561 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 1: But we went hiking for some berries and we were 562 00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 1: looking for the huckleberries that we never find, which I 563 00:29:58,200 --> 00:29:59,640 Speaker 1: don't even think are that hard to find, but we 564 00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 1: never find them as a group. There was, there's a 565 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 1: small group of us and done of my favorite like 566 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: offset stuff with you is always revolved around our obsession 567 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: with health. 568 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:11,680 Speaker 3: Health. 569 00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 1: So you're going to say, you know, like the the 570 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,440 Speaker 1: insane conversations that we have in the aisles of health 571 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:21,360 Speaker 1: food stores and also the time that you and Ian 572 00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 1: let me work out with you guys. 573 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:24,720 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I forgot. 574 00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 2: That was sweet. 575 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 1: I really enjoyed you guys were really nice about that. 576 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 1: You're incredibly sweet about that. 577 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 3: No, I think, but like I think, I think it's 578 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:36,000 Speaker 3: important for the audience to know, like, you know, as 579 00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 3: much as we are acting on you know, camera, that 580 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 3: we actually do spend time with one another, and that 581 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 3: you know, we are highly impacted by our relationships that 582 00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,800 Speaker 3: we have because, like Jeff, like you were saying, when 583 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 3: you're in that world, you know, in Montana, and it's 584 00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,719 Speaker 3: very because it's so small and because we've been very 585 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,400 Speaker 3: blessed that the show has gotten so big, there's not 586 00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,600 Speaker 3: that many places you can go and you kind of 587 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,880 Speaker 3: get that opportunity to kind of bond with one another. 588 00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:04,480 Speaker 3: It's not the same thing as being New York or Elis, Chicago, Florida, 589 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 3: where you can kind of just get lost in all 590 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 3: of these other things that are going on. And I 591 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 3: think that I think that our relationships on off camera 592 00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 3: really resonate on camera. I don't think that we're really 593 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 3: having to do that much acting. I think we're just 594 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 3: in the moment. I think sometimes we're just saying the 595 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,000 Speaker 3: words we happen to be saying the words, and a 596 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:24,040 Speaker 3: bunk house of saying the words, you know, on a horse. 597 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 3: But I think it's a It's a beautiful thing, the 598 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:27,400 Speaker 3: relationships that we built on the show. 599 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. Do you likes our friendship so much that he 600 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 2: moved content? 601 00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I left. I wanted to make sure that I 602 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 3: ran into people, so I got on a flight and 603 00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 3: left the country. 604 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. He loved the time we spent together so 605 00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 2: much that he got as far. 606 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 3: Away as far away from possible. 607 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:45,480 Speaker 2: I said, you said earlier, you were like, you know, 608 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:47,760 Speaker 2: I can be in LA within twenty hours. And I 609 00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,840 Speaker 2: was like, Bro, isn't it like exactly a twenty hour flight? Yeah, well, 610 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:52,720 Speaker 2: you mean like I can be there in twenty hours. 611 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 3: We one, like, I really have to think about it. 612 00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 3: I got to really want to. Well, the great thing 613 00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,520 Speaker 3: about being here is like nobody's just in the neighborhood. 614 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:01,960 Speaker 3: Nobody's just like, oh yeah, hey, Like I was just 615 00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 3: in Botswana and I'm like, no, you are, like, so 616 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,000 Speaker 3: you got to kind of tell me I'm just coming through. 617 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 2: I'm just popping. 618 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 1: Didn't we all decide? Didn't we all decide we're going 619 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,680 Speaker 1: to BUTS wanted to hang out at Dunham. Since there's 620 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:17,360 Speaker 1: there's such a between every time we shoot seasons, We're like, well, 621 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 1: might as well just go out. 622 00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 3: Of every season. We've also said that we're going to 623 00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,280 Speaker 3: go on some magical vacation with all of us and 624 00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 3: they we're like, yeah, we're gonna do that and then 625 00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:28,280 Speaker 3: we leave. But you guys, here's the reality. The good 626 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 3: thing is I'll be here and so anytime you guys 627 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 3: would like to come to Botswana, I'll be able to 628 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 3: host you. We're doing a lot of exciting things, uh 629 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 3: you know with my my company here, so uh yeah, 630 00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,120 Speaker 3: so anytime you guys want to come, it would be 631 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 3: it would be a blessing. 632 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:49,280 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for joining us today. 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