1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: Friends, the biggest stories of the day, boy texting. It's 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 1: called snuggling. Fred, Yes, I'm aware. I don't have a 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: problem with a snuggle. It's just a time and a 4 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: place for a snuggle. 5 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 2: You saying that word, don't don't get him started on 6 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 2: handholding either. 7 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 3: You guys are gonna be shook. 8 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:18,439 Speaker 1: There's a time and a place for a snuggle, and 9 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 1: there's a time and a placer. There's a time and 10 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 1: a place for interlocked finger hand holding. It doesn't have 11 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 1: to be a type of like just like just sort 12 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: of like holding fingers, Like if I hold you the 13 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: ends of your fingers, that's not cupping necessarily, that's just 14 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. 15 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:36,240 Speaker 3: The ends of my fingers. 16 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 1: No, like this, like if I grit, like if I'm 17 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 1: walking or whatever, I think that's kind of a g handhold. 18 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: That's kind of like come on, come hither, Come here, 19 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 1: Come here, girl. You know, let's not snuggle later. Could 20 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:52,520 Speaker 1: I get too hot? 21 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:53,480 Speaker 3: Yeah? 22 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: You all making me seem colder than I am. I'm 23 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: not a cold human being hot. I'm hot. That's the problem. Look, 24 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: that's exactly what the issue is. I'm hot in benness. 25 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: So I've everyone been saying all over the Apps. Hot 26 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 1: Fret's hot in bed. They're not talking about my moves either. Jason, 27 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 1: this was not a good week. O, this was not 28 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 1: a good week. No, let me go through who won 29 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: and who lost, and then we'll tell you how Jason's 30 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: picks did overall, Okay, Chargers over the Vikings, Jets over 31 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: the Bengals, Ravens over the Bears, Dolphins over the Falcons, 32 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: Patriots over the Browns, Broncos over the Cowboys, Packers over 33 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 1: the Steelers, Colts over the Titans, Buccaneers over the Saints, 34 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: Bills over the Panthers, Texans over the four nine Ers, 35 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: Eagles over the Giants, and tonight the Commanders and the Chiefs, 36 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: and Jason, your picks resulting in a win loss statistic 37 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 1: of two out of thirteen. Oh, are you sure? 38 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 4: It's not like I got thirteen right and too wrong? 39 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 2: And sadly, one of the picks I think is one 40 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 2: of the games that already happened, And he finally listened 41 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 2: to you and looked up the result when we picked 42 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 2: the next day, so I don't even know one of. 43 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: The already had taken place when they picked it. 44 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, the charge, Oh wow, Yeah, yeah, he wrote the 45 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 2: charges for someone. 46 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: You know what, So I'm gonna let this one go 47 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: this week because you were traveling. Yeah, you were on 48 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: assignment of game right, you didn't have time because you 49 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: were in Miami. You're hanging out with you know, the 50 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:24,799 Speaker 1: big celebrities down there, So I know you had other 51 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 1: things going on and you weren't able to really sit 52 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: down and do the normal kind of research that you 53 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 1: do for these. 54 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 4: Correct And I was also like my head was filled 55 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 4: with basketball because I was learning so much about the 56 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 4: Miami Heat while I was there. I see, yeah, I 57 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 4: got to walk, I got to touch their trophies. 58 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: You did have the golden trophies. They have golden trophies. Yeah, yeah, 59 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: I believe you're called the naysmith. Maybe that's not right. 60 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 1: Sounds right to me. 61 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 4: A championship they have a carpeted hallway that leads to 62 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 4: the trophies. 63 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: Is very boocheus. Why were you in the Miami Heat 64 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: locker room? No, I need to do in the locker room. 65 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,920 Speaker 4: But the show I was working took place at the 66 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 4: place that they played the basketball, the Larry O'Brien Championship. 67 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 3: You guys want to know about the Parsley, But yes, 68 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:03,959 Speaker 3: I do want to know about the Parcely please this 69 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 3: is really bad. 70 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:05,839 Speaker 5: Huh. 71 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 2: Okay, So first, the only player that actually played old 72 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 2: financed Jalen Hurts will run a score in no what 73 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 2: Jackson Smith, Jimba. 74 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 3: I'm trying to say, n J I B A G 75 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 3: B A girl. 76 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 2: I don't know where you found him, floods my basement 77 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: and it's going to catch five times. 78 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 3: He was on a bye week. 79 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: He was he was actually in Miami with you. 80 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 2: I'm proud of you for knowing Jamiir Gibbs. 81 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 3: I'm so proud of you. 82 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 2: And you said he and his luscious hair will score 83 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 2: one time, but also a bye week. 84 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 3: So you didn't get leg. 85 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: Do two teams have a bye week at the same time? 86 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 3: Well, who are they going to be bye with? 87 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 1: Oh that's a different question, question whoever they'd like. Okay, 88 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: it's an exclusive world. They can do whatever they want, right, 89 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Yeah, no judgment here. 90 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 4: So I need to look at five weeks. 91 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: You look at figure out, you need to look at 92 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: AI picking these, You need to look at GPT subscriptions 93 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: is what you need to look at. You might need 94 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: that two hundred dollars. When I was talking about last week, someone, 95 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 1: you know, give me the subscription. I like basketball now, though, 96 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: so okay, God, I can't wait to go through all 97 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: those There's like eighty seven games a night, so that'll 98 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: be good. 99 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 3: I want to get you talk about the gambling Ring. 100 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Oh my gosh, it was Yeah, that was 101 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: the news. 102 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 3: Is a movie that did? 103 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: That? Sets you back? I know you've been playing in 104 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 1: those poker games with those NBA players. He got indicted 105 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,679 Speaker 1: this week. Oh it was terrible. You weren't really in Miami, 106 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: you in prison. Yeah. Airports are feeling the effects of 107 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: the government shutdown around the country. They continue to experience 108 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 1: delays as the federal government shutdown continued. Several groundstops were 109 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 1: issued yesterday Newark, Boston, LA. Other airports were affected as well. 110 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:53,039 Speaker 1: The Transportation Secretary says that there were more than twenty 111 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 1: incidents of air traffic controller shortages on Saturday. Flight awhears website, 112 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 1: so there were more than five hundred US flight delays 113 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: on Saturday alone. Air traffic controllers continue to work without 114 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 1: pay during the shutdown, so many are calling on sick 115 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: to work other jobs. Shout out to all the air 116 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: traffic controllers. We got to have you very important job. 117 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you're not getting paid. You're gonna get 118 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: some monster checks when this whole thing's over, just monsters, 119 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:18,559 Speaker 1: just big, whopping huge. You're gonna be so rich. Forget 120 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 1: about the fact that you haven't been able to, you know, 121 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 1: pay your bills adequately for the last couple of months. 122 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: You're gonna be rich. It's like when the check hits 123 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 1: on Friday, but the direct deposit doesn't come out till, like, 124 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: you know, Sunday night or Monday, so all weekend you're like, yeah, baby, 125 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:34,159 Speaker 1: I got I got big dough, but you don't because 126 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 1: well I have no dough because they have they haven't 127 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: pulled all the bills out of yet. But we love 128 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 1: your air traffic controllers and many of you who are 129 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: working well not getting paid right now. There is a 130 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 1: TikTok deal and it will be finalized on Thursday, apparently, 131 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 1: and apparently China is aware of it because they'll be 132 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 1: involved in the final finalizing of the deal. So that's 133 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 1: good because the deal is being finalized in China, so 134 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: I'm assuming that they're aware now of whatever we came 135 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 1: up with. For this. The deal was first announced last 136 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 1: month when Trump, our president, signaled an order allowing TikTok 137 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: to keep operating in the US under a new setup 138 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 1: with American investors. So that's all being finalized. Then a 139 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: French police have two suspects in custody who say that 140 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 1: they're linked to last weekend Crown jewel heights at the 141 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: Louver Museum. Authorities tracked down the suspects using their DNA. 142 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 1: One man was arrested at Charles Sigaull Airport in Paris 143 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 1: while trying to leave the country. I hope he wasn't 144 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 1: trying to fly to New York and there was an 145 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: air traffic controller to lay and that's why there weren't 146 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 1: an air traffic controllers had to sit there for a while. 147 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: They came and got him. I don't know where he 148 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:37,559 Speaker 1: was going. Another guy went to his house I guess 149 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 1: in some Parisian suburb where both men were from. Dozens 150 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: of investigators had been involved in chasing down at least 151 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: four suspects who targeted the Louvers Apollo Gallery and a 152 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 1: brazen daylight raid. Fleeing with jewelry were tens of millions 153 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: in a matter of minutes. Local authorities saved at least 154 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 1: two other suspects remained at large. It's unclear if any 155 00:06:56,400 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 1: of the jewels were recovered. So can you imagine, and 156 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 1: that'd be something I would do that? You know. I 157 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 1: watch a lot of well, yeah, yeah, yeah, I watched 158 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 1: a lot of Dayline, a lot of you know, forty 159 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: eight Hours Mystery, Yes, a lot of Twenty twenty, you know, 160 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: And I don't like twenty twenty as much because it's 161 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 1: really more just David Mirror being David Mirror. I'm sexy hot, yeah, yeah, 162 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 1: he takes himself very it's very serious. I don't know, oh, 163 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 1: very very serious, this guy. But nonetheless, I feel like 164 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: I would commit the perfect crime until I like drooled 165 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 1: on something accidentally, you know, because I like was too 166 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,679 Speaker 1: busy thinking of my perfect crime forgot to swallow drool. 167 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 1: Do you ever do that? Do you ever forget to swallow? 168 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 3: I forget to breathe? 169 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: I did do Sometimes I feel like I would sneeze somewhere, 170 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 1: I would do something or it would be perfect. Then 171 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: I'd go, you know what I haven't had in a while, 172 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: a cigarette, Let's celebrate, and then I you know, I 173 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: don't know It's like I would do something. I would 174 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: do one thing. I would do one thing that was 175 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 1: just stupid, you know, like the whole thing would be 176 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: perfectly planned out, and then I'd get cocky and I'd 177 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: make one wrong move and they'd be showing up at 178 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: my Parisian suburban house and arresting me, like they got 179 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: DNA off of a helmet. I guess now, granted, I'm 180 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 1: not throwing things I wore, you know, I'm keeping everything, 181 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 1: I'm taking it with me, but I guess these dudes 182 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: like they got DNA off of something that they left behind. 183 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: You know, that's something I would do, just something ridiculous, 184 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: and then I'd be in jail. 185 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 2: I feel like it's like the Roaring twenties, Like is 186 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 2: prohibition coming back like this? I don't know, like a 187 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 2: jewel heist, really the mafia. 188 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:35,959 Speaker 3: Like a gamble we got poker games. It feels very weird. 189 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 3: Great depression. 190 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, and now we have a penny shortage because 191 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 1: they don't make pennies anymore. The penny shortage affecting retailers nationwide. 192 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: I never really thought about this, but I guess this 193 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: is an issue. I don't know who's still using pennies. 194 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: My grandfather died sadly many years ago. He was the 195 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: guy who always had perfect change in his pocket. He 196 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: was the only guy that I know, and my and 197 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: my nana had a little change purse. The only people 198 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 1: I knew that if the bill was twenty one dollars 199 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 1: and seventeen cents, they somehow had the seventeen cents or 200 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 1: my grandfather would make he would do it in his 201 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 1: head so that he got dollar bills back. Oh yeah, 202 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: he'd do the thing where it was like, you're supposed 203 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: to get eighty six cents, but I'll give you fourteen 204 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 1: and then you give me a dollar back. He'd do 205 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: this off the flaw, on the fly. It was incredible. 206 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: I don't know where he got this mathematical ability, because 207 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 1: I don't have it. 208 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 2: I still use change because they give it back to 209 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 2: they give me cash to the dispensary. That's the only 210 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 2: time I ever get it. And sometimes it's not even 211 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:34,199 Speaker 2: I get changed. So I still do this too. Really, Yeah, okay, 212 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 2: so round it up. 213 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 1: Why don't you go to get right checks together? 214 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 3: No, I don't have a check book that I would 215 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 3: never get. 216 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: Show, but Shell, he's your check writer. She likes to 217 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: write checks. 218 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 4: No, we're not doing that. My astra has like in 219 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 4: my car, has a ton of like change in any 220 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 4: drifters all the time. Okay, seven nif pennies in there. 221 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, so anyway, well there's this short there's two hundred 222 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 1: and fifty billion pennies in circulation. I guess that's not 223 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: enough because we don't make anymore as of August. Here's 224 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: what to expect when paying cash of that penny. Some 225 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 1: stores are rounding the total to benefit the customer, and 226 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:04,680 Speaker 1: others are saying, we don't expect correct change. If you 227 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: have a stash, go ahead and spend those pennies. Okay, 228 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 1: so I don't know, get rid of them, my guess. 229 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 1: Le Boo Boo will be on a float at the 230 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 1: Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade. Is that exciting? Which one the 231 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:20,959 Speaker 1: Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade? I don't know them all? The 232 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 1: viral Live Wait on It says the viral La Boo 233 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: Boo character just says the will be among the new 234 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 1: editions at the ninety ninth annual Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade. 235 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 1: Pop Mart, the Chinese company, says La Boo Boo will 236 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: be featured on its friends Giving in Pop City float, 237 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 1: along with many of each other characters Skull Panda and 238 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:45,439 Speaker 1: Peach Riot. Leboobos is certainly having a moment with people 239 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: forking over thousands to get their hands on one of 240 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: these dolls. So I love this. I might be going, well, 241 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: maybe we'll see you're one of the Macy's Thanksgiving Day parade. 242 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 3: I'm trying to sell new traditions. You're going to Detroit 243 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:56,440 Speaker 3: for things. 244 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 6: No, that's not happening, but I want to go. No, 245 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 6: but I want to go to New York just for that. 246 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 6: I want to bring my daughter and like just how 247 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 6: I watch the parade and then go home after you 248 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 6: guys know, hyperball Thanksgiving Like, I'm not, I'm in no rush. 249 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: That's because you were always deprived of good Thanksgiving food 250 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 1: because your mom was an immigrant and didn't know how 251 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 1: to make it. Actually, you need to go to someone's 252 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:17,319 Speaker 1: house who knows, like a pilgrim, how to make You 253 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 1: need to go to a pilgrim's house, Okay, and they 254 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 1: know what's up. You know, you need to go to 255 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 1: someone's house who really takes his like our friend Tony Coles. 256 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 1: You know who, Tony Tony Cole's is a suit in 257 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 1: this company. He's probably the only suit I like who 258 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: I adore. Okay, this man, though, has been preparing for 259 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving since the summer. Wow. It takes him like an 260 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: entire weekend to make the gravy and then he freezes 261 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 1: it like this, guys, it's extremely serious. I think he 262 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 1: makes the pies like oh this is this is like 263 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: his thing. Everybody knows Thanksgiving is his thing, and he's ready. 264 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 1: And he's never one time invited me to come over there. 265 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: But I can imagine the food is stellar. Because if 266 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: you're making gravy for a whole weekend months in advance 267 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 1: to make sure that it's like perfect chein or whatever, 268 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: then you got it. You know, you need to go 269 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: to Tony Cole's house for Thanksgiving. I'm sure. I'm sure 270 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 1: he'd love to have you. 271 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 3: I would love to go. 272 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:10,680 Speaker 6: I need experience a good Thanksgiving for once in my life, 273 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 6: just a good one. 274 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 1: But I always I see that Macy's Thanksgiving Day parade 275 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 1: on TV, and I think that's that's that looks okay, 276 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 1: But like that, that is not what I would want 277 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 1: to do on Thanksgiving morning. Like I'm not waking up 278 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 1: at five in the morning to get on a train 279 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 1: with a million other people to go to the city 280 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 1: and then like you know, have to be cold, and 281 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 1: then and then watch these things, you know, down go 282 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 1: down the road. That's that is an experience for television 283 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 1: you can very easily just watch on TV and everything 284 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 1: it's I can't imagine it's that much better in person. 285 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 6: It probably isn't, But I want to give it a 286 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 6: trib I always wanted to do that and one year 287 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 6: not now, But I want to see the ball drop too. 288 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 3: I know that's going to be a horrible, horrible I'm 289 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 3: gonna wear a diaper. 290 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 1: Well, you basically have to. No, yeah, you got to 291 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 1: be out there all day if you want to get 292 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: like a good. 293 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 6: Vehicle trench coad just like drinks in there, Oh, I 294 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:01,560 Speaker 6: have to with like pockets. 295 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 1: That's another one that doesn't look like fun to me 296 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 1: or And I understand, you know, I certainly understand saving money, 297 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: but eating Thanksgiving dinner and then going and getting a 298 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 1: line at Target to go wrestle someone for a flat 299 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 1: screen TV like that also doesn't sound And again, you 300 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 1: can save a lot of money, I understand that, but 301 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 1: like then if I'm doing that, then we're not eating 302 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner, you know, like we're just we're having like 303 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 1: taco bell or something or maybe not that if I 304 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 1: have to go wait in line, we're having something else soup, 305 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: but I'm not going to eat an entire Thanksgiving meal. 306 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 1: And then like all right, put on your Parka, let's 307 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: go wait in line so we can get the switch to. 308 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 3: You know, it's online. Now you don't have to do that. 309 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true, that's true, But that's not that's not happening. Cohler. 310 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:43,959 Speaker 1: I want to you guys think it is. They're trending 311 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 1: today that they make the bathroom fixtures no strangers to 312 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: the bathroom, but it has historically provided ways for people 313 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:51,840 Speaker 1: to deal with their weights not analyzed. But now the 314 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 1: company is venturing into the world a personal health tech 315 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 1: with the Dekoda, which is a device that clamps to 316 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:00,680 Speaker 1: the rim of your toilet and will analyze the contents 317 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 1: of your toilet bowl with health in Mind six hundred bucks. 318 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 1: It's a poopcam. Basically, it will use discrete optics to 319 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 1: track the frequency, consistency, and shape of your waist, scan 320 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: for blood in the bowel, and evacuate evaluate rather your 321 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: hydration levels based on your urine. And then there's a 322 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 1: subscription seventy bucks a year if you want to use 323 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 1: this thing, So six hundred bucks for the little device 324 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 1: and it clamps onto your toilet seat, and then sixty 325 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: bucks a year or one hundred and thirty bucks annually 326 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 1: for up to five members or roommates. So then we 327 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: can all log in and look at our you know, 328 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 1: what's going on with that stuff. You can review that 329 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 1: your health trends, daily summaries on the Cooler Health app. 330 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 1: They say that there's no way that the censors would 331 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 1: be able to sense anything but what's in the toilet bowl, 332 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: because I can see this going a ride too, which 333 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 1: it's like a camera staring up at my ugly butt 334 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 1: and I can't have that. But lord knows, if people 335 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 1: could take pictures of their button share them, they would 336 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 1: because now you know, people are buying crap with cameras 337 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 1: attached to everything. Yes, I just like what I see, 338 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,120 Speaker 1: uh Mark Zuckerberg yesterday and some video these new meta 339 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 1: there's like a newer version of the ray band. Metaglasses 340 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: are cool. And then you wear like uh, you wear 341 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 1: like a wristband. And then the glasses and then like 342 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: you basically just walk around and move your arms around 343 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 1: and it does everything. Like you know, if you want 344 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 1: to turn the volume up on your music, then you 345 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 1: actually like just twist a knob. I would think maybe 346 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 1: someone was having a seizure or like maybe somebody was 347 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 1: like dealing with some kind of issue. If I saw 348 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 1: people just walking around just twisting knobs and they're warning 349 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 1: knobs there, I mean, I'm worried. But like, how hard 350 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: is it just to turn the knob up on it 351 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 1: or you know, click on the thing. Yeah, I don't know, 352 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: But why do we have to record everything? I mean, 353 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,240 Speaker 1: this is interesting. I guess the older you get, the 354 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 1: more you pay attention to stuff like that. Yeah do this, 355 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 1: like don't make sure health knowledge? You can't tell me 356 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 1: that you'd maybe like when I was younger, I didn't. 357 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 1: But now like when that when that event occurs, been 358 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 1: a rare occasion because you know, it's just very dust. 359 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 1: It just disappears into the ether when I number two. 360 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: But when I do I do evaluate Now, Oh yeah, 361 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 1: I take. I mean, like I can. I'm proud of myself. 362 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 1: If it's like there's certain characteristics that we're looking for 363 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 1: you know, if you're well hydrated and you've eaten enough 364 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 1: fiber and like you're you're eating well, then it's supposed 365 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 1: to look a certain way and you're like, I did it. 366 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 1: Same with urine. If your urine's clearer, that's good, yeah, 367 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:30,600 Speaker 1: you know, but if it's not, it's like what am 368 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 1: I doing? 369 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 6: You know? 370 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 1: And drinking enough water today? This is the kind of 371 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 1: stuff that people do that when they get older. You guys, 372 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 1: you guys do this all the time. 373 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:39,640 Speaker 3: If I have a ghost poop, I like, I'm so 374 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 3: proud of myself. That is the aim. We don't talk 375 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 3: about she's she's for clempsed I did. 376 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 1: We don't talk about that enough. 377 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 3: No, when you look down, there's nothing there, but you 378 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 3: know you did work. 379 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I need to understand the science of that 380 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 1: because I agree with I don't know, but I don't 381 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 1: I don't know why. No, it's the best. 382 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, I guess it means like you ate like the 383 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:00,160 Speaker 6: fiber and all that and it literally yeah, I went 384 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 6: away and it was smooth. 385 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know her. I think there's 386 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 1: I think it has more to do with the buoyancy 387 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:10,439 Speaker 1: or like the big contact anyway, whatever, And finally, one 388 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 1: more poop story for you. A Sharman is making headlines 389 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:17,479 Speaker 1: again with a colossal Forever roll. It's a seventeen hundred 390 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 1: sheet toilet paper roll the company claims is big enough 391 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:22,879 Speaker 1: to last an entire month, and tall enough, if unspooled, 392 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 1: to rival the Washington Monument. It was first of novelty. 393 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: Now apparently you can buy this thirty three ninety nine. 394 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 1: You have to have a coupon too, which lets you 395 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 1: get two Forever rolls and a special stand because you 396 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 1: would need it because it's like, and you guys can't 397 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 1: see this at home, but it's like this big round. 398 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 1: It's ugly. It's how hard easy just to replace a 399 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:45,239 Speaker 1: little one that's on there, Just replace the little one 400 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:47,880 Speaker 1: that's on there. Yeah, the built in I don't need 401 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 1: it's it's huge. It's ugly. It's like if I saw 402 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 1: that in someone's house, I'd be like, are you okay? 403 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:56,120 Speaker 1: Like why do you need that much? Right now? 404 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 7: Yeah? 405 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:59,199 Speaker 4: Like at one time, I mean I I mean I 406 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 4: want it just to have it, since. 407 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:06,439 Speaker 1: I made me that much more a special holder for 408 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 1: this thing. Yeah, that's where its National black Cat Day 409 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 1: and National cranky co worker's day, which is me before 410 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 1: six am most days. So it's Kiki's court, all right, 411 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 1: all right, the Honorable Paulina. Wow, wow, the Honorable Judge 412 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:27,159 Speaker 1: Paulina in for Kiki. Uh, Judge Paulina, take it away. 413 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. 414 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:31,119 Speaker 1: I hit the gavel. I guess the gable has been struck. 415 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 3: It's been struck helping make you proud girl. Okay, yeah, 416 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:36,359 Speaker 3: so here we go. Are you guys ready? 417 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:39,879 Speaker 6: I am to your Kiki. I need your ruling because 418 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:42,920 Speaker 6: I'm about to lose it. I throw my baby's seventh 419 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 6: birthday at a trampoline park. I said invites two months 420 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 6: in advanced confirmed RSVPs and that was twelve yeses. I 421 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:52,639 Speaker 6: bought matching jump socks, custom cupcakes with every kid's name 422 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:55,719 Speaker 6: on it. The whole Pinterest setup thing. Party day comes 423 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 6: and guess how many kids. 424 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:57,680 Speaker 3: Actually showed up? 425 00:18:58,320 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: Three? 426 00:18:59,520 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 8: Three? 427 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 6: It's the rest hit me with the last minute, something 428 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:04,919 Speaker 6: came up text one of their kids was tired and 429 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 6: another one just posted from a whole nother birthday party 430 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 6: at the same time. 431 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:12,199 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, double booked and blessed, So I cancel. 432 00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 1: You can't you can't play posts and stuff? 433 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:15,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, some people just don't know. 434 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:16,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't. Can't be saying all I can't make 435 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:18,679 Speaker 1: it and then show up you don't to other persons. 436 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:19,359 Speaker 1: You can't do that. 437 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:21,639 Speaker 6: Come on now, now, I'm standing there with enough pizza 438 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 6: to feed a small village and a birthday boy asking 439 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 6: why his friends didn't come so Geeky or Paulina everybody else? 440 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 3: Am my petty? 441 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:32,159 Speaker 6: If I them no or Zell request these parents for 442 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 6: their no show fees, or at least call them out 443 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:35,719 Speaker 6: for their no shows? 444 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:36,720 Speaker 3: What should I do? 445 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 1: Why y'all call them out? 446 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 3: Like I'm the old Instagram you know, I can find 447 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 3: a way. 448 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 6: One thing about me is I'll find a way square 449 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 6: and or anything they're saying, like text them and just 450 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 6: be like, hey, that wasn't cool, which I've seen people 451 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 6: do that too before, Like that's very. 452 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 1: Mad, super rude. But I don't know what you're gonna 453 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 1: do about it. Yeah. 454 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 6: See, this is tough because I feel that when it 455 00:19:57,119 --> 00:20:00,120 Speaker 6: comes to kids, like you can't do that to a child, 456 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 6: especially if the kid's excited about their birthday party and 457 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 6: you know everything's you know, the cupcakes and the Spider 458 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 6: Man themes and whatever is going on. You don't want 459 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 6: to disappoint a child, right, So I think at least 460 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 6: you can do is bring your kid, because I don't 461 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:14,560 Speaker 6: think that'd feel good. If that was your child's birthday 462 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 6: and only three kids showed up out of twelve, the 463 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 6: old me would probably say, yes, call them out, you know, 464 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 6: send all the requests, do it all. But I think 465 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:25,159 Speaker 6: my friends have told me recently that I am growing, 466 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:26,679 Speaker 6: that I'm experiencing growth. 467 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:30,399 Speaker 3: Wow, And I know this is hard. It's hard not 468 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 3: to go lower than low. It's hard. It's really hard 469 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 3: for me. You guys understand that. 470 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 6: Well. 471 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 2: If you have a relationship with any of the other pimes, 472 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 2: I think it's okay to say, hey, you know that 473 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:42,360 Speaker 2: didn't make me feel great, or let's talk about this 474 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:43,440 Speaker 2: or what happened there. 475 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 3: I think that's fair too. 476 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:46,639 Speaker 6: But I also think we should put our energy into 477 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 6: the ones that did show up. And if you're gonna 478 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 6: be at least a little petty, I would just post 479 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 6: something and say, you know, thanks everyone for coming to 480 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:54,520 Speaker 6: Brandon's birthday party, for those. 481 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 3: Who made it. 482 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 6: And I think you should also just truly give thanks 483 00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:00,240 Speaker 6: and appreciation of those who do show up, because because 484 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 6: I do feel like you're focusing on the ones that 485 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 6: came versus the ones that didn't come. 486 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 1: So financial commitment too. I mean, I will how very 487 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:08,360 Speaker 1: much it costed to accommodate twelve kids. It's a lot 488 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 1: of money all the rest of it. So it's just 489 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 1: kind of it's kind of rude, not even I mean, yeah, 490 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 1: it's rude like that your kid's not there, the presence 491 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 1: and whatnot or lack thereof, but it's really rude for 492 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:19,400 Speaker 1: someone to plan an event and then but I want 493 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 1: to know why out of twelve kids, like the vast 494 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:25,359 Speaker 1: majority didn't show up. Yeah, it got to me, is sauce, like, 495 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 1: it's probably not the kid. I don't think this is 496 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,119 Speaker 1: the parents. I don't know. That's weird. That's weird to me, 497 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 1: like one or two kids dropping out last minute. I 498 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:35,879 Speaker 1: get that kids get sick or whatever gonna happen, but 499 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 1: why did nobody come? 500 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 6: Right, You're talking about what like eight nine kids not coming? 501 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 6: So I do have a theory that we are in 502 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 6: a epidemic of people not showing up. I don't know 503 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:47,879 Speaker 6: what you'd call that, and I've been guilty of it. 504 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 6: So I want to personally take this moment to hoologize 505 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,120 Speaker 6: to my friend Caitlin on my left because I did 506 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,159 Speaker 6: this year recently. I was supposed to come to your 507 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 6: birthday and you had your birthday back in August and 508 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:57,879 Speaker 6: you had an event at your house. You had people 509 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:01,400 Speaker 6: over and I was gonna come, but I never showed up. 510 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 6: And then I hit her with see like, hey, sorry, 511 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,159 Speaker 6: I couldn't make a thing. And I know that that 512 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 6: doesn't feel great, especially when you think someone's coming. 513 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:08,920 Speaker 3: I know you didn't plan your party. 514 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,680 Speaker 1: Around me, and you brought this up because Kaylen behind 515 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 1: the scenes has been and it's like she's been waiting 516 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,920 Speaker 1: for this moment where you were going to acknowledge. 517 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 6: I just don't get it, though, Like I don't get 518 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,440 Speaker 6: people to do that, and I know what happens and 519 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 6: we've all done it, so I'm not going to play 520 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,400 Speaker 6: like I've never you know, you've done this so many 521 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:31,399 Speaker 6: you weren't coming like before I say you didn't, but 522 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:31,919 Speaker 6: that's all right. 523 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:33,639 Speaker 3: The nne of rings, she was like, sorry, I wasn't there. 524 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, well, no, yeah, we saw that, and it's 525 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 2: not right. 526 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 6: It's not right, and I feel like I've had done 527 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 6: to me and I do it to people and one 528 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 6: thing I'm trying to do is be a villager for 529 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:44,640 Speaker 6: other people. I'm really big on that right now because 530 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,119 Speaker 6: I want to show up for people who show up 531 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 6: for me. And I think when it comes to this 532 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,919 Speaker 6: kid thing, you're right, friend, one kid getting sick, it's. 533 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 3: Gonna happen, right, maybe two. But I think. 534 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 6: Parents truly just like don't care anymore now that their 535 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:56,720 Speaker 6: argument is like parents are juggling so much. 536 00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 3: Yes, yes we are. 537 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 6: But I think you can go to Timmy's birthday party 538 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 6: for two hours on a Saturday that you committed to 539 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 6: you by putting it in your calendar to show up 540 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:04,919 Speaker 6: for this child. 541 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:06,919 Speaker 3: Bring your kid, to show your kid what it's like 542 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:07,280 Speaker 3: to show up. 543 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:08,919 Speaker 1: That's the thing you got us like if you you 544 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:11,199 Speaker 1: agreed to do it, so you have to show your 545 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 1: kid that, hey, we made a commitment and we're gonna 546 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,679 Speaker 1: see the commitment through and you know, And then the 547 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,040 Speaker 1: parent can't be lazy because I think you're right to 548 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 1: some extent, it's karma when you throw a party for 549 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: your kid. You'd be upset if this happened for a 550 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 1: lot of the kid. Maybe, I mean, you said the 551 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 1: kid pointed out, like where are my friends. I mean, 552 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:31,919 Speaker 1: there were some kids there and they were They probably 553 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 1: had a good time, I'm sure it was. It probably 554 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 1: hurt more for the parent who has more perspective on 555 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:41,719 Speaker 1: what this all means. Hey, Brittany, Hi Brittany, So this 556 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,640 Speaker 1: happened to you. 557 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:45,640 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, so, I mean it happened to me as 558 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,480 Speaker 7: the aspect of like kids not showing up. But the 559 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 7: big thing for me was I hired a face painter 560 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:55,440 Speaker 7: from my daughter's party a couple of years ago and 561 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,160 Speaker 7: everything was good. She confirmed the day before the day 562 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,879 Speaker 7: of I put down a deposit. She was also a 563 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,920 Speaker 7: tattoo artist. So ten minutes before the party. 564 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:05,879 Speaker 1: So the kids can choose, they could choose a face 565 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:10,439 Speaker 1: face painting or a permanent tattoo. That's truel like the versatility. 566 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, right. 567 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, So ten minutes before the party, she texted me 568 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 7: and said that she oh, indeed and was in the 569 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,639 Speaker 7: hospital and could not make it, But then an hour 570 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:24,439 Speaker 7: later posted that she was at the tattoo Convention in 571 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 7: Rosemont tattooing for people to come here. 572 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 3: Wow, you can't lie about it. 573 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 1: Oh, you don't say stuff like you can't say stuff 574 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 1: like that. 575 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,439 Speaker 7: That's what I said, that's what I said. Had she 576 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 7: been truthful and gave me the deposit back, it would 577 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:44,320 Speaker 7: have been fine. But she that's a big thing to lie. 578 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,360 Speaker 3: About, insane And why is that your first go to? Like, 579 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 3: that's insane? 580 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 7: Honestly, Like, bro, you could have said you had diarrhea. 581 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, that's a very that's that. Not only 582 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 1: is that very serious, but it draws sympathy out of 583 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:03,160 Speaker 1: the people in a way that you that's bad. That's 584 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 1: that talking about cars the thing. 585 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's the thing that bothered me the most is 586 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 7: that she was trying to like make me feel bad 587 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,679 Speaker 7: for her, and I did it first, of course, But 588 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,439 Speaker 7: then you go and publicly posted on Facebook where I 589 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:15,200 Speaker 7: have you as a friend. 590 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,200 Speaker 1: That's dumb because you're gonna lie. You know, everyone knows. 591 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 1: It takes a little while to get you know what. 592 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 1: I can't even tell a joke about ODC because I'm 593 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 1: not even going to. I'm not going to. That's that's terrible. 594 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 1: That is bad. You cannot No, don't lie about tragedy, 595 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 1: never because because you're extracting emotion out of people that 596 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 1: you don't deserve. And that's a bad thing in my opinion. 597 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,280 Speaker 7: And now yeah, so no, And then then I was 598 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:42,360 Speaker 7: stuck with like a whole birthday party full of kids, 599 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 7: and my daughter had been asking for a face painter 600 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,720 Speaker 7: for years and I was finally so excited that I 601 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:50,040 Speaker 7: had the space and stuff to get. 602 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:50,199 Speaker 5: It for her. 603 00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:53,520 Speaker 7: And yes, it was very disappointing. But also when you 604 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,960 Speaker 7: have your birth well your kid's birthday party at places 605 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 7: they charge no show fee, right, thing is is like, 606 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 7: like you said, tell me, you can't make it firsthand 607 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:06,399 Speaker 7: because people are SVP and then you mark those people 608 00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 7: and kids down and places like you know, like fun 609 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:13,000 Speaker 7: places or jumping places they do charge no shell fees. 610 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:17,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Brittany, thank you for that happen. Have 611 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:22,680 Speaker 1: a good day. Glad you called. Yeah, no, I'm yeah. 612 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 1: I mean you can't go Venmo. And I think you 613 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 1: do assume some risk when you have to have account, 614 00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 1: you know, and you have to assume there's going to 615 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:32,760 Speaker 1: be people that don't come. But I mean as far 616 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 1: as more than half of the people not coming, that's 617 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,399 Speaker 1: super rude. But what see Venmo them like, I don't. 618 00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 3: Know, I think just got to let it go. 619 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 1: You look, you look kind of cat's that's a bad situation. 620 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 1: I hate it when you're in the right, but anything 621 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 1: that you do that in order, like I want to 622 00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 1: call it retaliation, but anything you do to kind of 623 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,679 Speaker 1: stand up for yourself or like take a stand it 624 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 1: ultimately it gives people the opportunity to to to then 625 00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 1: further sort of criticize you. You know what I mean. 626 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 1: It's a bad situation to be and when like you, 627 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:06,159 Speaker 1: you know, I'm on the right side of this, like 628 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,040 Speaker 1: I would have every right to be, Like I invested 629 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 1: in all these kids coming you guys, all these parents 630 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 1: aresvped and then none of you showed up, Like this 631 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,880 Speaker 1: cost me hundreds of dollars. You should pay me back 632 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 1: for this, for your laziness or ineptitude or or whatever 633 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,399 Speaker 1: your issue is. But then you become the person in 634 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 1: the friend group that build everybody for the party, even 635 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:25,119 Speaker 1: though you have every right to do it. I think 636 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,760 Speaker 1: you have to ask yourself, like what do I really Yes, 637 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 1: I get my money back, I guess, but what am 638 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 1: I really gaining? 639 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:33,000 Speaker 2: It's very easy to communicate, Like that's all you have 640 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 2: to do if something came up, communicate. 641 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,720 Speaker 3: If you can't go, communicate, Yeah, I think it's pretty simple. 642 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 1: Hey, Ashley, hi, Hi, So just to recap here if 643 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,680 Speaker 1: you're just tuning in Pauline and for Kiki and Kiki's Court. 644 00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:45,919 Speaker 1: But essentially, a woman planned a birthday party for her 645 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 1: kid and like ten of the thirteen kids didn't show 646 00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:51,679 Speaker 1: up after rsvping that they would, and this woman's like, 647 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 1: I want to call them all out, I want to 648 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:54,600 Speaker 1: send them a bill, I want to do this and that. 649 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:55,280 Speaker 1: What do you do? 650 00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,439 Speaker 5: So I recently went to a party. A whole I 651 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,359 Speaker 5: think it's the whole class was invited. It was about 652 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:06,320 Speaker 5: twenty kids and only my child showed up. She said 653 00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:10,439 Speaker 5: that a handful did RSVP, they did not come. The 654 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 5: other handful just didn't say anything at all. But I've 655 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:17,639 Speaker 5: also worked in classrooms where you have to invite the 656 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 5: whole class. So the parents send the invitations, we put 657 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 5: these in their folders. There are so many parents that 658 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:27,119 Speaker 5: don't open their child's folder, so these invitations are sitting 659 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:31,600 Speaker 5: and sitting and just not opened. So there's a you know, 660 00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 5: a huge percentage of kids that the parents don't even 661 00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,920 Speaker 5: know there's a party because we don't tell the kids 662 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 5: we're putting invitations in there. 663 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 9: Because that also. 664 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:45,479 Speaker 5: Causes you know, chaos, okay, especially in smaller kids. So 665 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 5: there's you know, the invitation is not even getting opened 666 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,080 Speaker 5: by so many people, but yeah, it is. It's sucky 667 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 5: when you know, I felt so bad for the kid. 668 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 5: Thankfully it was at their house and he didn't really notice. 669 00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:00,480 Speaker 5: He's four or five and she was turning five, and 670 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 5: you know they had fun anyway. But being one out 671 00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 5: of twenties, I. 672 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 1: Guess it's one that nobody knew. Mad Yeah I would too. Yeah, 673 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 1: no one knew, that's one thing. But if everybody said 674 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 1: we're coming and then all these people didn't show up, 675 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 1: like that's that's messed up. 676 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,080 Speaker 3: And I think that's pure laziness. 677 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 6: I think. 678 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 5: You know, as a parent, you don't want. Yes, it's like, 679 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 5: oh I have to go sit at this party for 680 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 5: this little kid, but. 681 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:23,920 Speaker 1: For two hours exactly. 682 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:25,000 Speaker 5: It's not that much of your day. 683 00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and think of the impact it's having on the kid, 684 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 1: on the parents and everybody else too. Ashley, thank you, 685 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 1: no problem, have a good day. Now. Hadley is our 686 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 1: eleven year old contributor. Hadley calls every now and again. Now, Hadley, well, 687 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,760 Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on this? Because we come to you. 688 00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 1: Really when it comes to sort of how to how 689 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 1: to live our lives? And I want to know what 690 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: you Hadley, our eleven year old contributor, has to say 691 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 1: about this. 692 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 2: I have to. 693 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 8: Say that she shouldn't be petty because she'd be focusing 694 00:29:55,040 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 8: around like the kids that actually showed up. Yeah, because 695 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 8: if like she just circles around the people that didn't 696 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 8: show up, then what's the kid gonna have fun at 697 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:09,240 Speaker 8: the birthday party? 698 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 1: I think not Hadley. If we wanted to do something, though, like, 699 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,160 Speaker 1: if we wanted to get back at people, how would 700 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,600 Speaker 1: we do it? Do you think if we were so inclined? 701 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,280 Speaker 1: Now we're not, because you're you're a much better person 702 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,120 Speaker 1: than that. But if you wanted to, what would you do? 703 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 8: I'd maybe, like, if I didn't have the parents' phone number, 704 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 8: maybe go off like TikTok or Facebook message them and 705 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 8: be like, hey, so what was the big thing that 706 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 8: came up that you couldn't come to the party? 707 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 1: Right? And then you could go like maybe look at 708 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 1: all their social media and see what they did instead 709 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,240 Speaker 1: and be like, well, it's funny because I actually observed 710 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,560 Speaker 1: that you went to something else instead and you lied 711 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 1: to me, And now I'm gonna I'm going to extort you. 712 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:55,160 Speaker 1: I don't know. You would never do that badly, you 713 00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 1: wouldn't thank you for calling. I appreciate you. You're welcome 714 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 1: we spoking. She's better spoken than I have, and she's 715 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 1: eleven years old, so I'll just go ahead and step aside. 716 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 1: Let her take over the program. Hey, Tony, how you doing? Tony? 717 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 1: Just happened with your son's communion? You invited a bunch 718 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 1: of kids and then a bunch of kids backed at 719 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:15,360 Speaker 1: the last minute. Is that what happened? 720 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 6: Right? 721 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 9: It was family, It wasn't all children. 722 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:22,239 Speaker 1: That's even worse with children. Yeah, what'd you do about it? 723 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,160 Speaker 9: But you know, and honestly, I didn't do anything. I 724 00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 9: just felt bad for my son, and we tried to 725 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 9: make the best of the day. But like I said, 726 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 9: I ordered food for one hundred people because eighty six responded, 727 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,560 Speaker 9: and you know, about fourteen people showed up, So we 728 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 9: just had Chinese food for months. I threw it in 729 00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:40,840 Speaker 9: the freezer, and you know, just tried to make the 730 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 9: best of the base. 731 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,680 Speaker 1: Just messed up. I mean, you're planning on one hundred people, 732 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 1: and of those eighties, some told you they were coming, 733 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 1: So I mean that is no small undertaking, like you 734 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:53,600 Speaker 1: got to have enough stuff for eighty some people. Why 735 00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,120 Speaker 1: do you think what was the mass exodus about? 736 00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 8: Like? 737 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,360 Speaker 1: Why did so many people say they were coming and 738 00:31:58,360 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 1: then not show up? Do you think? 739 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 9: Honestly, I think we've planned it too far in advance, 740 00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 9: and then you know, coming up to the day, people's 741 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 9: lives they just get busy. Yeah. I mean, like, you know, 742 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,640 Speaker 9: I'm assuming the family wouldn't do that to me on purpose, 743 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,480 Speaker 9: but you know, honestly, I never looked at my family 744 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:14,960 Speaker 9: the same way. 745 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:15,240 Speaker 5: Again. 746 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:21,120 Speaker 9: Oh yeah, like other events, you know, I would plan 747 00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,440 Speaker 9: for let's say, you know, they responded with fifty five. 748 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 9: I'm like, realistically, let's say thirty, we'll show up. 749 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's bad. Yeah, I'm sorry, Tony. Thanks for calling, man, 750 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,120 Speaker 1: thanks for listening. Have a good day at a problem 751 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:36,000 Speaker 1: as well. So Kelly's got a theory too. Hi, Kelly, welcome, 752 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:38,320 Speaker 1: Good morning guys. 753 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 3: How are you hi? 754 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 1: Good morning? So what's your theory on this? The final say? 755 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,680 Speaker 10: So, I think this is across the board. I think 756 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:49,280 Speaker 10: the social media and everything else, everyone has constant somo. 757 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,959 Speaker 10: So we commit to everything right, we want to do 758 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 10: all the things, and we want to go to all 759 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:57,520 Speaker 10: the parties when we're humans, and so when it gets 760 00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:58,920 Speaker 10: to that day, we're. 761 00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 3: Burnt out, or we're sick, our kids are cranky. 762 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 10: And I think people really just need to take a 763 00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 10: deep look inside themselves before you commit and really prioritize, 764 00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,000 Speaker 10: Like what are the things that are important? 765 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:11,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're right. I think there are. And 766 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,200 Speaker 1: I have no problem with this personally, but a lot 767 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 1: of people have an issue saying no, they can't go me, 768 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 1: no issue whatsoever. I'll tell you no, that's good and 769 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 1: I know right away, and but be you right. People 770 00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 1: don't want to say no. They say yes and they 771 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 1: think that that's a nice thing, even though they have 772 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:31,160 Speaker 1: no intention of going, or they forget and then they 773 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 1: don't go, or they already are coming up with an excuse, 774 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 1: and you wind up probably hurting someone more that way 775 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 1: than you would if you just said, hey, I can't do. 776 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,240 Speaker 10: It one hundred percent, Like just be upfront and it's okay. 777 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 10: Like I don't even do big parties for my kids anymore, 778 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,360 Speaker 10: just because it's not worth it. I'll have like two 779 00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 10: or three friends, you know what I mean, And like 780 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 10: from the get go, that's just all we do, because 781 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:51,239 Speaker 10: I get it. 782 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:52,240 Speaker 3: People are busy. 783 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 7: Now everyone can spend. 784 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,280 Speaker 10: You know, you get invited when kids are small, especially, 785 00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 10: you'll get two, three, four or five six birthday party 786 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,680 Speaker 10: invitations a month, you know, and then you're trying to 787 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,080 Speaker 10: do the soccer games and you're trying to do you. 788 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 3: Know, this whole family stuff because it's hours to do 789 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:08,560 Speaker 3: all of the things. 790 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:09,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, Kelly, thank. 791 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:11,359 Speaker 3: You, Thank you guys so much. 792 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 1: Have a great game you took. Another thing you can 793 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 1: do is as annoying as it is, is you could 794 00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,880 Speaker 1: do the whole thing on one of those websites, you know, 795 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,799 Speaker 1: you know, evite or whatever, because not only then and 796 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 1: then if it's a kid's party or something, then make it, 797 00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:26,719 Speaker 1: make the make the invitation public or the at least 798 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,239 Speaker 1: the invitees, like for the people who are s vpdes, 799 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 1: they can see who else is there, and then it's 800 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,520 Speaker 1: almost like there's an accountability. And then it also sends 801 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,520 Speaker 1: out like little annoying reminders like hey, the party is 802 00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:38,239 Speaker 1: tomorrow or whatever. 803 00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 3: Because of those. 804 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, because in advance, you you it's easy to say like, hey, 805 00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,480 Speaker 1: in two months, we're doing this thing, and then people 806 00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 1: will forget if you don't say one more word about it. 807 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:49,480 Speaker 3: And I cannot. I cannot do this any longer. I 808 00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:50,160 Speaker 3: need to say this. 809 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,960 Speaker 2: We cannot send a picture of an invite in a 810 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,799 Speaker 2: text message. That is not a way a good way 811 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,799 Speaker 2: for me to remember your party. Use those online things 812 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:00,799 Speaker 2: so I can say, add to cal under because if 813 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 2: you send me a picture in text, I'm going to 814 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,040 Speaker 2: save it and then lose it and not know how 815 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:05,719 Speaker 2: the party is. 816 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,400 Speaker 1: We must start this some you said that to me actually, 817 00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 1: and I didn't go to the party, and they were like, 818 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:11,640 Speaker 1: you didn't go to the party. I'm like, well, you 819 00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,880 Speaker 1: didn't invite me. And then then it showed me deep 820 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 1: in the middle of a bunch of texts about something else, 821 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:18,840 Speaker 1: they popped in some picture about a Halloween pop Like 822 00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 1: what I can't do I didn't even see what that was, 823 00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 1: Like I was, We're talking about something totally different. You 824 00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,040 Speaker 1: can't just spring that on me and then be like 825 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,919 Speaker 1: where were you. I tried to guilt them a little 826 00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,960 Speaker 1: bit for not inviting me, you know, and then it 827 00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,719 Speaker 1: turned out I was invited, but it was the thing. 828 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,160 Speaker 1: It was a picture of an what's he doing? That's 829 00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 1: that's unacceptable.