1 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: Well, I invited you here, thought I made myself perfectly clear. 2 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 2: But you're a guest in my home. You gotta come 3 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 2: to me empty. 4 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 1: And I said, no, guests, your own presences presents enough. 5 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 1: I already had too much stuff, So how did you 6 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: dare to surbey me? 7 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 3: Welcome to? I said, no gifts. I'm Bridger Wineger. I 8 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 3: hope you're doing okay. I just shampooed the rugs, which 9 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 3: quickly became a very stressful situation. I should say my 10 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 3: boyfriend also helps because if I don't know, he's going 11 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 3: to be demanding credit at some point. It was horrible, 12 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 3: but the rugs have been washed. It's something you have 13 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 3: to do. I've learned. So think about that. Think about 14 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 3: shampooing your rugs. We need to get into the podcast. 15 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 3: I absolutely adore today's guest. Everybody adores today's guest. It's 16 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 3: Tig Nataro, Tig. Welcome to. I said, no gifts. 17 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 4: Well, thank you for having me. I want to correct you. 18 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 4: There's there's a handful of people out there, if not more, 19 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 4: that don't adore me. So for those that do, I'm thrilled. 20 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 3: People who don't adore Tig reach out comment on social 21 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 3: media to whatever you have. 22 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 4: To, and they have. But let's hear from you again. 23 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 3: Hound her relentless hounding. That's what everybody loves. 24 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 4: I love it. 25 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 3: How are you doing. What's going on? 26 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 4: Well, you know, the writer's strike is going on, and 27 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 4: my wife and I had some projects teed up that 28 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 4: we were doing together and so that's on hold. So 29 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 4: now it feels, you know, obviously it's not the pandemic, 30 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 4: but it's reminiscent of it in that there's time to 31 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 4: just hang out and have coffee together in the morning, 32 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 4: and we take walks, and our kids are in summer camp, 33 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 4: sports camp, and it's just our days are a little 34 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 4: not much of anything going on. 35 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 3: No, I feel the exact same way, like the long walks, picketing, 36 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 3: everything about it feels slightly pandemic adjacent. 37 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, of course, there's no struggle that we're going through. 38 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 4: So I don't want people to be confused that I am, 39 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 4: you know, suggesting that we're struggling in the way that 40 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 4: a pandemic causes struggle. But there are people that are 41 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 4: struggling because with the strike they're not able to work. 42 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 4: So there is that going on. But as far as 43 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 4: my day to day. There's just a lot of walking, podcasting, 44 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:11,519 Speaker 4: chatting with my wife, having some food. 45 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 3: You two are probably members of the guild. 46 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 4: We are. In fact, Stephanie was picketing today. 47 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 3: Oh, it's a lot, especially when it gets hot out there. 48 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 4: My god, and it does. It gets hot. Eventually, it 49 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 4: will get hot. It has not gotten terribly hot yet. 50 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 4: We've been having the June gloom. 51 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 3: I guess everybody was complaining about June gloom, but I was. 52 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 3: I mean, as far as picketing goes, I was just 53 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 3: so happy, especially with my complexion. 54 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm fine with it. I didn't even honestly didn't 55 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 4: even really notice it. I guess I did, but it 56 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 4: didn't really impact me. But Stephanie, man, she's been done 57 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 4: with it done, whereas I'm pretty flexible. 58 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 3: Well, I know what we're headed towards September through November, 59 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 3: which is one hundred and fifteen degrees. So if it's 60 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 3: cloudy for three weeks, I'm going to embrace it. 61 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 4: It's such a weird temperature during September and November October. 62 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 3: No, it's so confusing, especially if you didn't grow up 63 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 3: in Los Angeles. Yeah, the body just is so baffled. 64 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 3: By like an October tenth, one hundred and fifteen degrees. 65 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 3: You know, yeah, sweating during Halloween, right. I mean, I 66 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:29,919 Speaker 3: will say like I've kind of adjusted on Halloween specifically 67 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 3: when you go out at night. Not that I'm trick 68 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 3: or treating or anything, but there's something very interesting about 69 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 3: walking outside when it's supposed to be spooky and it's 70 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 3: summer weather almost even more unsettling or something. 71 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 4: That's pretty spooky. It's spooky. I have kids, So I've 72 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:50,039 Speaker 4: now started trick or treating again, dressing up, so I'm 73 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 4: back out there pounding the pavement for some lollipops and 74 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 4: candied apples. 75 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 3: And is trick or treating now as still door to 76 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 3: door because I know, like there they'll arrange like cars 77 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 3: in a circle. 78 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, that kind of thing. We haven't done that. We've 79 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:12,160 Speaker 4: We just go in the neighborhood with a group of 80 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 4: friends every year. Yeah, it's fun. 81 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 3: What's your dress up? 82 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 2: Ads? 83 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 3: Last year? 84 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 4: I always go as an aging lesbian every year. 85 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 3: An incredible costume. 86 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 4: Actually, actually I was, that's not true. This last year 87 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 4: I reused my uniform. I was in this movie called 88 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 4: Army of the Dead, and I played a helicopter pilot 89 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 4: and I wore that helicopter uniform. 90 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 3: Oh that's is it a jumpsuit? 91 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 2: What is it? 92 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, jumpsuit, but it's still an aging lesbian. 93 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 3: It's just an aging lesbian helicopter. 94 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, that's fair. 95 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:51,279 Speaker 3: You can be both and I am. 96 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 4: I am. 97 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 3: Do you usually get to take home wardrobe sometimes? 98 00:05:57,000 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 4: I uh the wardrobe people. They've all been oftentimes so nice. 99 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 4: Like when I left Army of the Dead, they had 100 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 4: put an extra uniform in my trailer to take home. 101 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 4: And then I did this movie called Your Place or 102 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 4: Mine with Reese Witherspoon and Ashton Kutcher. And when I 103 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 4: was on set and I came out in these pants 104 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 4: that honestly I would never have purchased for myself. When 105 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 4: I put them on, I was like, ooh, I like these. 106 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 4: The director immediately was like, that's it you these pants. 107 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:36,719 Speaker 4: Those are going home with you. Those look great, and 108 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 4: I was like awesome, And yeah they were price they 109 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 4: were like four or five hundred dollars pants. 110 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 3: Oh my god. Yeah, that's almost more valuable than the 111 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 3: job itself, exactly to find a pair of pants, a 112 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 3: new type of pants that you enjoy wearing. Nearly impossible. 113 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 3: I have my eye on some pants currently online. I'm 114 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 3: waiting for them to go on sale, just waiting, waiting, waiting, 115 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 3: hopefully they don't run out before they go on sale. 116 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 4: What sort of price range are they? 117 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 1: Now? 118 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 3: This is the completely humiliating thing, because they are not 119 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 3: expensive pants currently they're thirty three dollars. 120 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 4: But they used Levi's or Lee Jeans. 121 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 3: Lee Jeans. That feels about the price point for a 122 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 3: pair of And I'm sure almost every listener at this 123 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 3: point is just disappointed or confused in my behavior. And 124 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 3: I do I can recognize that this is a problem 125 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 3: for me. Thirty three dollars is not an expensive pair 126 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 3: of pants. I'm waiting for them to be sixteen dollars 127 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 3: and that just seems unrealistic. And I like these pants. 128 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 3: I already own a pair. I don't know. Maybe when 129 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 3: I log off of this zoom, I just pulled the 130 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 3: trigger because I don't know what's wrong with me. I 131 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 3: certainly can find thirty three dollars to buy a pair 132 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 3: of pants. 133 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 4: And what has led you to believe they will be 134 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 4: sixteen dollars at some point? 135 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 3: Well, this is the thing. They are Levi's and Levi 136 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:09,119 Speaker 3: I'm on their email, subscription list or whatever, truly every day, 137 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 3: and I hope this doesn't ruin their system. Every day 138 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 3: they're saying exclusive sale, and it's like a slightly different sale, 139 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 3: a different percentage every single day. Yesterday it was like 140 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 3: members only, secret sale. It was a bad sale. Today 141 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 3: there's like kind of a one of those sales. It's 142 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 3: like everything almost fifty percent off or up to which 143 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 3: means nothing. Yeah, I'm waiting for just the fifty percent 144 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 3: off free shipping, which might not come, and then what happens. 145 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 4: I don't know what you're gonna do. Honestly, I don't 146 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 4: know what the hell you're going to do. It sounds 147 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 4: like you are in a serious pickle. 148 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 3: My friend, what kind of shopper are you? 149 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 4: I am not a shopper. I am, you know. I'm 150 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 4: I'm an action movie star and I get handed pants 151 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 4: after pay jumpsuits. 152 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 3: When you have to buy clothes, what do you do? 153 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 3: Do you get online or do you go to a store? 154 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 4: I really don't shop. I'm not a shopper. I mean 155 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 4: I will hold on to a piece of clothing forever 156 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 4: and it shows, or I'll wait until I'm doing some 157 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:22,079 Speaker 4: sort of press where they're like, Okay, we got to 158 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 4: get you some clothes to go on talk shows, and 159 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 4: I'm like, great, shopping done. I really do not shop, 160 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 4: you asked Stephanie. I am not out there shopping. 161 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 3: That's incredible. I mean outside of clothing, do like do 162 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 3: grocery shopper? Is that just off the menu for you? 163 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 4: I do enjoy grocery shopping. Although you know, in my marriage, 164 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 4: we kind of have naturally fallen into different jobs and 165 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 4: roles in our partnership, and Stephanie really I think she 166 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 4: fell into the role of grocery shopping because I tour 167 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 4: so much much that you know, we have these hungry 168 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 4: little roommates living with us and so having to keep 169 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 4: them fed. She's just in that habit of getting the 170 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 4: food for the family, right. 171 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 3: And which one of you cooks? Do you both cook? 172 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 4: I would say Stephanie is more of the cook, although 173 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 4: we're a vegan family and I get very into when 174 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 4: I'm in town preparing the just squeaky clean, whole food, 175 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 4: plant based meals for them. So it's more so not 176 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 4: as much cooking as it is preparing when it's that 177 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 4: kind of food. It's salads and fruits and nuts and 178 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 4: seeds and all those types of things that they do love. Luckily, 179 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 4: our kids eat like that, but then they also will 180 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 4: indulge in the typical kid kind of pizza, burritos. They're 181 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:59,559 Speaker 4: all vegan, but usually once a day they have the prepared, 182 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,959 Speaker 4: very healthy version of a meal. 183 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 3: Do you struggle to get them to eat that or 184 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 3: is it just like a natural thing for them. 185 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 4: It's natural. I mean they've been vegan almost There was 186 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 4: six months of their life when they were six to 187 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 4: twelve months. I guess when they were off breast milk 188 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 4: that they were eating dairy and meat, and then they 189 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 4: became vegan when they were one, and so they grew 190 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 4: up eating kale and arugula and kiwis and nuts and 191 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 4: all of that. We tell them though that they can 192 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 4: eat and try whatever they want if they're at school 193 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 4: or at a party, because we don't want them to be, 194 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 4: you know, freaks or anything or seen as that or 195 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 4: a revolt exactly, but they choose not to. It's really remarkable, Yeah. 196 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 3: For a child to show self control. I mean I 197 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 3: don't have children, but I assume it's harder for a 198 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 3: child to have some level of self control or to 199 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 3: make a definitive choice like that. 200 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's more of a definitive choice rather 201 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 4: than self control, because whenever people ask me about eating 202 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 4: a plant based diet or veganism and is it hard, 203 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 4: like you know, oh, if I'm eating a burger in 204 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 4: front of you, or is that hard for you? And 205 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:26,199 Speaker 4: I'm like no, because I switched my diet for health reasons, 206 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 4: so my focus is so rooted in I don't want 207 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 4: to be sick anymore, and I believe that my diet 208 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 4: is helping me because I don't have as much pain anymore, 209 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 4: and I just feel better. Whereas my children, their connection 210 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 4: to eating that way is solely for you know, animal cruelty. 211 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 4: And so they I think they were maybe two or 212 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 4: three when they heard somebody order chicken. 213 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 3: Oh. 214 00:12:56,960 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 4: And they turned to me and they said, why heat 215 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 4: ordered chicken? And I said, I said, oh, well, sometimes 216 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 4: people eat chicken. They laughed so hard they thought I 217 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 4: was kidding. They're like, people don't eat chickens. People don't 218 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 4: eat animals. That's an animal. And I was like, no, 219 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 4: I know, it was so crazy. They were true. They 220 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:22,359 Speaker 4: thought I was pranking them. 221 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 3: Of course, because all they know of a chicken is 222 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 3: it's like this crazy bird. 223 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 4: Yeah. But also they have animals, and so they were 224 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 4: just like, why would you eat an animal? So their 225 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 4: connection to being vegan is they would never eat an animal. 226 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 4: So when when we go eat anywhere, you know, ever 227 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 4: since they were two or three, they'll be like, if 228 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 4: somebody offers them something, they're like, is that vegan or vegan? 229 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 4: And I remember actually one time we were at a 230 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 4: restaurant and the waitress came up and thought she was 231 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 4: being funny, and she said when she took our order, 232 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 4: she turned to our son and said, and I'll be 233 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 4: right back with your salads. And they turned to us 234 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 4: they said they have salad because they had ordered something else. 235 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 4: And the woman was like, oh, did you want salad 236 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 4: and they said yes please, they arugala salad. 237 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 3: And so anyway, that's incredible. 238 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 4: Well, but it's it's truly, it's not that you have 239 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 4: self control, it's that it has to be rooted in. 240 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 4: Are you doing this for health reasons? Are you doing 241 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 4: this for animal rights? Are you doing it for environmental reasons? 242 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 4: And oftentimes whatever you start as it all ends up 243 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 4: bleeding into the next you know, of animals, environmental and health. 244 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to ask you something else. And I 245 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 3: keep every time I bring up something about parenting or children, 246 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 3: like I should preface it with I don't have children, 247 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 3: and I shouldn't comment on it at all. But I'm 248 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 3: curious what you like with music. My sister is now, 249 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 3: she has three daughters, and she's trapped listening to the 250 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 3: worst music world. But when I go back home, like 251 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 3: the last time I was there, I took my niece 252 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 3: somewhere and she's like, put on this horrible song, and 253 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 3: I just said, oh, my phone doesn't get that song, 254 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 3: and then I listened to it. At the time, I 255 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 3: think she was six, Okay, So I just feel like 256 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 3: situation like that, just tell them your phone doesn't get 257 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 3: the music, because I feel like that's fair. 258 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, you kind of have to. Our our 259 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 4: sons had found something on YouTube that was just a 260 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 4: dumb show and they loved it, and so we removed 261 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 4: YouTube and we told them that our TV and our 262 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 4: phones don't get YouTube. But luckily, as far as music goes, 263 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 4: our kids for sure have picked up whatever pop music 264 00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 4: is cool, you know, through friends and their teachers. But 265 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 4: Stephanie's father is very, very involved in He's our childcare. 266 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 4: We call them the triplets because they're so close and 267 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 4: between him and us, And they go to bed listening 268 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 4: to our musical taste, which they've luckily taken on between 269 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 4: like Simon and Garfunkle and Bob Dylan, And they have 270 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 4: a playlist that Stephanie's put together that they even listen 271 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 4: to and from school when we pick them up, and 272 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 4: so it's always really Oh, our son, Finn is so 273 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 4: into Sam Cook. I don't know if you're. 274 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 3: Oh, I love Sam Ook? I mean, have you a 275 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 3: recommendation for the listener Live at Harlem Square? Have you 276 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 3: ever heard this album? 277 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:38,119 Speaker 4: I have not. It's UNBELI Okay. 278 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 3: After you hear that Sam Cook album, the rest of 279 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 3: his music doesn't sound us good. 280 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 4: Okay, what is it called again? 281 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 3: I think it's called Live at Harlem Square Club? Maybe? 282 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I have to let Finn though, because that's 283 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 4: what they each have CD players in their rooms. And 284 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 4: our son Max. Stephanie's very into musical theater and Broadway 285 00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 4: and all that, and she's been trying desperately to get 286 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 4: our sons into musical theater and Broadway, and it took 287 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:10,680 Speaker 4: with Max. But he's like I only like musicals if 288 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 4: they're about orphans. So he's into like Annie Newsi's. 289 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Lucy's is about a bunch of orphans. 290 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 4: Right, yeah yeah, and then what is that Oliver? 291 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, of course yeah, so. 292 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 4: He's he he doesn't just love musical theater. He there 293 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 4: has to be an orphan involved. 294 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 3: I mean, it's incredible that there he has three choices. 295 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,640 Speaker 3: That's such a specific ask for something. 296 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 4: I always tell everyone he was born sixty years old, 297 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 4: and that's very much his a. He's very like, Yes, 298 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 4: I love musicals, but is there an orphan in there? 299 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 3: I feel like I would feel like a real slob 300 00:17:56,119 --> 00:17:58,640 Speaker 3: around your kids, just like an idiot. 301 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:03,920 Speaker 4: Listen, I don't know what your definition of a slob is. 302 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 4: Is that what you said? Yes, I do think they 303 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 4: might be really smart. But I do feel like everyone 304 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 4: thinks their kids really smart. But this is and this 305 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 4: is I won't go on about my kids, but I 306 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:16,879 Speaker 4: just have to tell you this is one of my 307 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:21,359 Speaker 4: favorite stories about my sixty year old child. During the pandemic. 308 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 4: There was me, Stephanie. Her dad was living here. We 309 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 4: have Max, Finn, our sons, and we have three cats. 310 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 4: We're all sitting around watching TV and Max, the sixty 311 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:37,920 Speaker 4: year old child and at the time he was four. 312 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:41,159 Speaker 4: This was his delivery. He got up off the couch. 313 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:45,440 Speaker 4: He said, I'm getting the hell out of here all 314 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 4: these damn cats, and then walked out of the TV. Incredible, 315 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:56,680 Speaker 4: not being funny, he just he's truly like Jesus. 316 00:18:56,440 --> 00:19:01,919 Speaker 3: Christ holding a beer to the Yeah, I'm gonna smoke. 317 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 3: Let me ask you, you have three cats? Yeah, where 318 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:06,679 Speaker 3: is the litter box? 319 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:07,439 Speaker 2: Uh? 320 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:11,479 Speaker 4: We have two litter boxes in our laundry room, and 321 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 4: we cut we had our maintenance guy cut a little 322 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:18,199 Speaker 4: kitty door on the door of the laundry room, so 323 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 4: the cats go in and out of there, and that 324 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 4: door pretty much always stays closed, and that's that's where 325 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:26,679 Speaker 4: it is. 326 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 3: I feel like it's a pretty The laundry room is 327 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:32,199 Speaker 3: a maybe the safest place in the house, I think so. 328 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 4: I mean, if we had a basement, it'd probably be 329 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 4: down there. If for our garage was attached to our house, 330 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 4: it'd probably be in there. But for now, it feels 331 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:42,200 Speaker 4: like we have a civilized kitty litter situation. 332 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 3: I am just I am continually shocked that someone hasn't 333 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 3: been able to crack like just the situation with cat litter. 334 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 4: Well, they have in that some cats are trained to 335 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:55,600 Speaker 4: use toilets. 336 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 3: My great grandma trained her cat to use the toilet. 337 00:19:58,560 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 4: Okay, I thought, you're going to tell me that you're 338 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 4: great grandmother uses a toilet. 339 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:05,200 Speaker 3: My great grandma just learned to use an It took 340 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 3: her a while. 341 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 4: Yeah. 342 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 3: No, she trained her cat to use the toilet, which 343 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 3: seems like it requires a pretty big amount of patience 344 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:14,120 Speaker 3: for sure. 345 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 4: And I would think that you would need to have 346 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 4: a second bathroom in your house because I don't know 347 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 4: if I just personally wouldn't want to be using the 348 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 4: same bathroom as my cat. And I love my cats. 349 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 4: I mean, our house is called kitty City. You know 350 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 4: this is all about cats and sixty year old kids 351 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 4: sixty year old seven year old. 352 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 3: Well, I mean I brought you here to talk about 353 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 3: cat litter, but there's probably something else we should talk about. 354 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 3: I was so excited to have you here on the podcast. 355 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,639 Speaker 3: I thought, takes wonderful. We're going to have a nice time. 356 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 4: Have we had a nice time? Were you letdown? 357 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 3: I'm having a very nice time. But the situation might 358 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,159 Speaker 3: take a turn. Okay, there may be a turn The 359 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 3: podcast is called I said no gifts, You've clearly showed 360 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 3: up with a gift. I don't even know what to say. 361 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:05,639 Speaker 3: Should I open the gift? Here on the podcast? 362 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:06,520 Speaker 4: I think you should. 363 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 3: So we're opening a green little box. It's it's like 364 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 3: a little it's almost like a paper lunch pail green. 365 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 4: It almost looks like a happy meal actually, which we 366 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:38,439 Speaker 4: know it's not. 367 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:43,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, where did this come from my son's school? Oh? Wow, 368 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 3: it's beautiful. 369 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:45,199 Speaker 4: Thank you. 370 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 3: We're opening the box. We're getting into the little lunch 371 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 3: pail and what is this? It's like a green tube. 372 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it's a bubbles Oh my. 373 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 3: God, it's a the most medical looking bubble tube I've 374 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:04,120 Speaker 3: ever seen. It looks like a syringe. 375 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:08,480 Speaker 4: Well, yeah, you can pull that out and then blow bubbles. 376 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:11,120 Speaker 4: And it's compact. You can travel with it. 377 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 3: Have Can I take it on a plane? It feels 378 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 3: like three ounces or less. 379 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you can take this on the plane. And 380 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 4: that would be fun to blow bubbles on the plane. 381 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 3: Imagine sitting in a plane and suddenly bubbles float past you. 382 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:29,639 Speaker 3: I don't know how I would be able to react 383 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 3: to that. Actually, that would feel so foreign. 384 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:36,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, I might be irritated, but I would be happy 385 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,159 Speaker 4: to know that you did it. Oh and there's a 386 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,920 Speaker 4: little dinosaur on the top. I didn't realize that. 387 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,919 Speaker 3: It's very cute. It's a little stegosaurus. 388 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. 389 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 3: Why did you bring this to the podcast? 390 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 4: It's the only thing I could really find. 391 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 3: That's a decent reason. 392 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, is this? I told you I don't shop. Shop 393 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 4: and with kids, we have garbage all around the house, 394 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 4: and I thought, well, this is perfect. 395 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 3: Are your kids at the bubble blowing age? 396 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:09,959 Speaker 4: Yes, And we also have a bubble blowing machine. And 397 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 4: we're very close with our next door neighbors and they 398 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,959 Speaker 4: have teenage daughters that have friends in their yard and 399 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,479 Speaker 4: they are jumping on the trampoline and playing volleyball. And 400 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:23,359 Speaker 4: our sons are also at the age where they like 401 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:31,879 Speaker 4: to prank people, and their pranks are not great, but 402 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:36,359 Speaker 4: they are very like, look what I've done. They set 403 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 4: up the bubble machine on our side of the fence 404 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 4: and pointed it so that they would go over to 405 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 4: our neighbors side of the fence. While the teenage girls 406 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,919 Speaker 4: are hanging out with their friends and Max and Finn 407 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 4: are cackling on our side of the fence, where they're like, come, look, 408 00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 4: the bubbles are going over to Owen and Linuse and 409 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 4: it's and they don't realize that. It's not like the 410 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:09,720 Speaker 4: teen girls don't care or notice. They're like talking about boys. 411 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 3: And volleyball side. 412 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, they don't care for me. 413 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 3: That is the ultimate version of a prank, something that 414 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 3: doesn't even feel like a trick or anything, where it's just. 415 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:19,640 Speaker 4: Like or that anyone notices. 416 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:20,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, nobody. 417 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 4: Nobody's noticing their prank. It's bubbles that are just flying 418 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 4: away in the wind. 419 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 3: See. That's exactly what I if I were to prank someone, 420 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 3: I would just want to know that something had slightly changed. 421 00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 3: I don't care if it affects the other person's life 422 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 3: at all. I don't need to upset or surprise anybody. 423 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 3: It's just like, oh, something slightly different. Who cares? 424 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 1: Well. 425 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:47,239 Speaker 4: We also have a situation where they're very you know, 426 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 4: of course, with their age, are very into whoope cushions, 427 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 4: and so they will lure us their grandparents, you know, 428 00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 4: their grandmother will come over and they're like, Nana, come 429 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:07,160 Speaker 4: sit over here, and it's and and they deliver these 430 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:11,680 Speaker 4: types of sentences in the most revealing way. 431 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,159 Speaker 3: Why do yet it's like, why do you care so 432 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 3: much about where I'm seated exactly? 433 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,919 Speaker 4: And they don't realize that that they're giving everything away. 434 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 4: They think that they that they're hiding the prank that 435 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 4: they're about to do where it's all delivered with no 436 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:32,160 Speaker 4: we think you should sit over here, sit on sit 437 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 4: on this. And there's like on the couch under a 438 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 4: blanket is like a little bump which is the inflated 439 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 4: whoopee cushion, and their poor nana goes over there, it 440 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 4: sits on it. We all know what that sounds like. 441 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 4: And that's what I'm up to, that's my life. 442 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:56,199 Speaker 3: I give them credit for putting a blanket over it. 443 00:25:56,760 --> 00:26:02,159 Speaker 4: Just know, when you're watching your jeans online go up 444 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 4: and down in price, I'm over here with a nana, 445 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 4: a poor nana sitting on a whoopee cushion. 446 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,080 Speaker 3: I mean, what a good sport. What does she react 447 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 3: when she doesn't? 448 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, of course she's like she's like, oh my goodness, 449 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:23,080 Speaker 4: I didn't see that sitting there. And they are rolling 450 00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 4: around dying, laughing, and then out the door with their 451 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 4: bubble machine on and. 452 00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 3: The thinking everyone's such an. 453 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:36,680 Speaker 4: Idiot, disappearing into the wind and they're like, we got them. 454 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:38,440 Speaker 4: I don't know. 455 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 3: I feel like I've heard of the things like billions 456 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,359 Speaker 3: of bubbles or something like this touring act. Are you 457 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:44,119 Speaker 3: familiar with this? 458 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:45,480 Speaker 4: No? 459 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,400 Speaker 3: No, I feel like there's some sort of thing that's 460 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 3: like a real rage among kids where And I don't 461 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:52,920 Speaker 3: even know why I bring it up because I cannot 462 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 3: describe what it is. But I imagine it's like a woman 463 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 3: in an arena blowing a ton of bubbles in different ways. 464 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 3: But I just make that up. That feels like something 465 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 3: that could sell tickets. 466 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 4: I don't know what you're talking about. You could be right, 467 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:10,639 Speaker 4: you could be wrong either way. I think my sons 468 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 4: would be all in right. 469 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 3: Oh, Analyse is sending me a chat here, and it 470 00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 3: looks like I was close enough. There's something called and 471 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 3: I'm not looking to advertise this because who knows what 472 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,960 Speaker 3: the politics of Gazillion Bubble Show is, but it does 473 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:30,880 Speaker 3: look like there's essentially a magic show where that's kind 474 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:35,120 Speaker 3: of like Blue Man Group for children, bubbles, this sort 475 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,919 Speaker 3: of thing. So that might be something you think about 476 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 3: for the boys. 477 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:39,560 Speaker 4: Thank you. 478 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,639 Speaker 3: I mean back to like giving gifts and you not 479 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 3: being a shopper. What do you do when you're going 480 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:46,680 Speaker 3: to give somebody a gift. 481 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 4: You know, I'm not real big on getting gifts, so 482 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,720 Speaker 4: I think selfishly, I don't really put a lot of 483 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 4: importance on giving gifts. And I feel like that's that 484 00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:03,879 Speaker 4: weird thing where when people go all out and like 485 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:07,199 Speaker 4: really do it up, it's kind of a reflection of 486 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,200 Speaker 4: what they would want. 487 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 3: Right, you know what I mean, setting an example for everyone, or. 488 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 4: Just I don't even think they consciously mean to. It's 489 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 4: just that they want a nice dinner cooked for them, 490 00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 4: they want flowers, they want a surprise trip they and 491 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,560 Speaker 4: so they do that for you, and You're like, oh 492 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,160 Speaker 4: my god, this is so nice. I I didn't get 493 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:34,160 Speaker 4: you anything. It is a lot of times what I'm 494 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:38,560 Speaker 4: caught in the middle of. No, but I do realize 495 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 4: that that might be true, and so I need to 496 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 4: kind of step up to what other people might want. 497 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 4: And I don't remember what your question was. 498 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,280 Speaker 3: Just like as farn just as far as giving, like 499 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 3: what was the last like decent gift you gave. Do 500 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 3: you give on birthdays or holidays or anything? 501 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 4: Or you just I do give. I just it doesn't 502 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:08,520 Speaker 4: come naturally, not because I'm not thoughtful or kind to 503 00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 4: my loved ones. It's just that, you know. What made 504 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:16,640 Speaker 4: me burst into tears one year was that Stephanie bought 505 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 4: she gave me for Christmas. I love this charity called 506 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 4: of course now I can't remember it, but she gave 507 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 4: me a gift certificate right right this charity, and I 508 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:37,160 Speaker 4: was just floored. I was just absolutely beside myself that 509 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:40,240 Speaker 4: we had given money to this charity. It's like this 510 00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 4: organization that helps these kids and gives them an after 511 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:48,080 Speaker 4: school program that just kind of don't have anywhere to 512 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 4: go or anything to love, a place called home, a 513 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 4: place it's really great. But I would say what I 514 00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 4: gave Stephanie one time that she really loved, and it 515 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 4: was just such a ridiculous experience that we did together. 516 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 4: She's fifteen years younger than me, and she was a 517 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 4: little more aware of the Britney Spears time period. Oh sure, sure, 518 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 4: whereas I'm a little more Indigo girls. Of course, of course, 519 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:21,960 Speaker 4: I mean look at me. 520 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 2: And so. 521 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,719 Speaker 4: For Christmas when Britney spears and maybe she still is 522 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,600 Speaker 4: performing in Vegas, I don't really know, but I got 523 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 4: tickets to her Vegas show and we went and spent 524 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:38,960 Speaker 4: I think a night or two in Vegas to see 525 00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 4: Britney Spears. And I just knew that that would completely 526 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:43,080 Speaker 4: surprise her. 527 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 3: Oh that's an incredible gift. 528 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, And so her mother came and stayed with Max 529 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 4: and Finn and we were off watching Britney Spears. 530 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 3: And for you, emotionally, what is a Britney Spears concert? 531 00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:59,560 Speaker 3: Like as like someone who doesn't have any nostalgia attached 532 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:00,080 Speaker 3: to it. 533 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 4: I was more like, this is so fascinating. Well, first 534 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,040 Speaker 4: of all, when we walked into the theater, I saw 535 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,720 Speaker 4: a lot of people with hats that said bitch on it, 536 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:13,640 Speaker 4: and I remember thinking, I just thought it was so 537 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,840 Speaker 4: bold to have like a hat that said bitch. Maybe 538 00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 4: it wasn't a lot of people, it was like one 539 00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 4: person and I was thinking what's that about? Until I 540 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 4: realized she has that you Gotta work Bitch song right right, 541 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 4: which I think that's what it was attached to. So 542 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,440 Speaker 4: that was a moment where I was like, Oh, how funny. 543 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 4: I'm such a nerd that I'm like, oh, what is this? 544 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 4: Why is this person have a hat on that says bitch? 545 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 4: There were also the weird men that were by themselves 546 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:45,680 Speaker 4: and like sixty Oh wow, taking a lot of pictures 547 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,840 Speaker 4: of her. Oh no, where I. 548 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,720 Speaker 3: Was like their phones were cameras. 549 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 4: I think their phones. But it's like they're not even 550 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 4: there with their daughter, they're not there with a girlfriend. 551 00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:01,720 Speaker 3: They're just sort of describing a gay couple. No, certainly, No. 552 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 4: I'm just like a straight man, like a creepy old 553 00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 4: man taking a picture of Britney's spears, like how it felt. 554 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,440 Speaker 4: And then there were just like young people and but 555 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,960 Speaker 4: it was I was really just taking it in and 556 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:24,960 Speaker 4: it was fun to see Stephanie in this environment of 557 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 4: It's kind of like when I, you know, my musical 558 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 4: taste ranges from van Halen to the Indigo Girls to 559 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:37,920 Speaker 4: you know, Gladys Knight, and so if I were to 560 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 4: bring Stephanie or Willie Nelson, if I brought her into 561 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 4: that world, which she she's gone with me to these 562 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:49,560 Speaker 4: concerts or you know, listen to these albums with me. 563 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:54,280 Speaker 4: But it was interesting. It felt similar to seeing her 564 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:57,720 Speaker 4: at a van Halen concert. We went to Orange County, 565 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 4: which is the place to see van Halen Concertuse it's 566 00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 4: just like, you know, that's of course, that's that's where 567 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 4: you want to see him. 568 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 3: And van Halen, like Van Halen and Britney Spears, I 569 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:12,840 Speaker 3: think are good like because it's such an an event. Yeah, 570 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 3: it's a spectacle. It's not if you were to take 571 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,520 Speaker 3: somebody to a full concert, there's a good chance if 572 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,360 Speaker 3: they're not a fan, they're going to be bored to death. 573 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:24,000 Speaker 4: Right. Yeah, it's not a spectacle going to see the 574 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:27,600 Speaker 4: Indigo Girls right at all. It's just like, oh, this 575 00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:32,560 Speaker 4: is such a beautiful song. Listen to those harmonies, and 576 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,640 Speaker 4: then there's maybe an intermission and you go get a 577 00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:36,520 Speaker 4: tee and you come back. 578 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 3: Do the Indigo Girls do an intermission? 579 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 4: No, but they might as well. It feels very right 580 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 4: for them and the audience, and you go, you have 581 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,000 Speaker 4: a tee and you come back and you talk about, 582 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 4: you know, that last song that they played and what 583 00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 4: did it mean, and then the curtain rises and they 584 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:59,440 Speaker 4: start again after everyone's rested and had their tea taking 585 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,600 Speaker 4: care of them. 586 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 3: That sounds lovely introspection. You certainly have interacted with the 587 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 3: Indigo Girls at this point, right, because there was a 588 00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:11,360 Speaker 3: long time that you were at your shows like faking 589 00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,320 Speaker 3: that you would be bringing out the Indigo Girls. But yeah, 590 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,360 Speaker 3: they clearly are aware of that at this point. 591 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 4: All I have to say is, if you have Netflix, 592 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:24,080 Speaker 4: watch my Happy to Be Here special. That's all I'm 593 00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:24,720 Speaker 4: gonna say. 594 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:27,920 Speaker 3: That's all I'm going to say. Oh my god, I 595 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:28,640 Speaker 3: have to see this. 596 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 4: Yes, Yes, Happy to Be Here on Netflix. 597 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:38,239 Speaker 3: That's really lovely. And has Stephanie been with you to 598 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:39,680 Speaker 3: see an Indigo Girls concert? 599 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:46,080 Speaker 4: Oh? Yes, many times. She's she's a fan's she she 600 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:51,280 Speaker 4: loves them now And I don't know how somebody alive 601 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:54,920 Speaker 4: on this planet doesn't love them. I just it's probably 602 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:56,720 Speaker 4: how Britney Spears fans feel. 603 00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:57,760 Speaker 3: Huh. 604 00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 4: You know I can appreciate Britney Spears. 605 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:05,239 Speaker 3: Sure, you know pop music? Sure yeah, sure, dancing, yeah, 606 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,240 Speaker 3: big beats, that sort of thing, or if. 607 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 4: Not dancing, just standing there wondering when intermission will be 608 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:15,440 Speaker 4: so I could have a tea and really think about 609 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 4: why this ten year old has a hat on that 610 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:18,960 Speaker 4: says bitch. 611 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 3: An intermission at a Britney Spears concert to get a 612 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,520 Speaker 3: t would be the most emotionally jarring thing. I could imagine. 613 00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:30,400 Speaker 3: Everyone would have a heart attack. Right, the entire audience 614 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:34,759 Speaker 3: is killed. Well, I think it's probably time to play 615 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 3: a game. Okay, let's play a game called gift to 616 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:39,279 Speaker 3: a curse. I need a number between one and ten 617 00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:42,279 Speaker 3: from you. Sure, eight, Okay, I have to do some 618 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,000 Speaker 3: light calculating right now to get our game pieces. So 619 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,640 Speaker 3: you have the mic. You can recommend something, promote something, 620 00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:49,479 Speaker 3: do whatever you want. I'll be right back. 621 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:55,920 Speaker 4: Okay. Well, I would like to promote my special that 622 00:35:56,040 --> 00:36:00,799 Speaker 4: I already mentioned. Happy to be here on Netflix. Well, 623 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,720 Speaker 4: I know for sure I'll be on the Morning Show, 624 00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:07,120 Speaker 4: and I believe it starts since September. I'm on the 625 00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:09,600 Speaker 4: I mean, I've been on the other seasons of Star 626 00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:13,759 Speaker 4: Trek Discovery, but the final season of Star Trek Discovery 627 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:17,880 Speaker 4: will be airing. I'll be taping my next comedy special 628 00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:23,000 Speaker 4: this November fourth in Brooklyn at King's Theater. There's an 629 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 4: early and late show. I believe the early show is 630 00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:28,200 Speaker 4: sold out. Get your tickets at the late show. I 631 00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:33,120 Speaker 4: have a podcast called Don't Ask Tig and I actually 632 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,640 Speaker 4: have a new podcast. It's going to be starting soon 633 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:40,200 Speaker 4: and it's pretty darn exciting. I also want to promote 634 00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,200 Speaker 4: all the Indigo Girls albums. 635 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:46,279 Speaker 3: That was great, you managed to get all of your 636 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:49,440 Speaker 3: own things then give a little away for somebody else. 637 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,480 Speaker 4: Well, and I'm not finished. I also have a book 638 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:56,080 Speaker 4: called I'm Just a Person. I have another special called Well. 639 00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:59,400 Speaker 4: I have Knock Knock Its Tig Notaro on Showtime. I 640 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 4: have the Tig Documentary on Netflix. I've got boysh Girl 641 00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 4: interrupted on HBO. I've got Drawn on HBO. I've I'm tired. 642 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:12,240 Speaker 3: I don't want you to miss anything. 643 00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:13,160 Speaker 1: Oh. 644 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:18,319 Speaker 4: I was on Premium Blend in nineteen ninety nine. 645 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:25,280 Speaker 3: Find it. Find the Premium Blend clip. Seek it out. Okay, 646 00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:27,239 Speaker 3: this is how we play the game. I'm gonna name 647 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:28,719 Speaker 3: three things. You're gonna tell me if there are a 648 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:32,359 Speaker 3: gift or a curse and why, and then I'll tell 649 00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:34,640 Speaker 3: you if you're right or wrong, because there are correct 650 00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,000 Speaker 3: answers and you can lose the game. 651 00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:36,720 Speaker 4: Wow. 652 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,280 Speaker 3: So does that feel crystal clear to you? 653 00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:39,480 Speaker 2: No? 654 00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:40,480 Speaker 4: But let's do it. 655 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:45,319 Speaker 3: Okay. Number one This is from a listener. Julia has 656 00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:49,879 Speaker 3: suggested gift or a curse people referring to adult possessions 657 00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:54,920 Speaker 3: as quote unquote toys e g. Boat, sports car, et cetera. 658 00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,880 Speaker 4: Is it a gift or a curse to call them toys? 659 00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,520 Speaker 3: Just the a curse? Why? 660 00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:06,680 Speaker 4: I don't know, I think it it just found. It 661 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,520 Speaker 4: feels a little stunted. Why does it have to be 662 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:13,279 Speaker 4: a toy? You know, I mean it brings me back 663 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:17,080 Speaker 4: to the feeling of, you know, listening to a beautiful 664 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:21,439 Speaker 4: song and taking an intermission, having a tee. It feels like, well, 665 00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,760 Speaker 4: I have a boat and I'm going to sail around 666 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:28,120 Speaker 4: and and it just doesn't it does. I don't know. 667 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 4: I would never say, you know, look at my toy. 668 00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 3: Tig You're starting off the game and a horrible note. 669 00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:40,960 Speaker 3: It's a gift when you when somebody calls those things toys, 670 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,160 Speaker 3: you know, you know you're you're dealing with a very 671 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:46,239 Speaker 3: specific type of person. I love it. I would never 672 00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 3: personally never going to call a boat one of my 673 00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:52,360 Speaker 3: toys or you know, my motoration toy. 674 00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:55,439 Speaker 4: I'm sorry I have to interrupt you. There's no world 675 00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:57,759 Speaker 4: you have a boat. If you're waiting for Levi's to 676 00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,520 Speaker 4: go down to sixteen dollars. 677 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,319 Speaker 3: I will tell you I could have fifty boats and 678 00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,840 Speaker 3: I would still be waiting for the Levi's to go 679 00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:06,560 Speaker 3: sixteen dollars. 680 00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:06,879 Speaker 2: Yeah. 681 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:08,880 Speaker 4: Actually that might be the reason you're waiting for the 682 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,080 Speaker 4: genes to go down to sixteen dollars, is you have 683 00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:12,240 Speaker 4: so many boats. 684 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,600 Speaker 3: I've got so many toys. 685 00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:15,240 Speaker 4: So many toys. 686 00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:20,799 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean you're wrong, unfortunately, and you hate 687 00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:22,400 Speaker 3: to see somebody start the game off like that. 688 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:26,560 Speaker 4: I'm I'm always wrong, So what's next? 689 00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 3: Okay? Number two? This is from somebody named Mark, after 690 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:33,920 Speaker 3: a curse flower petals on food. 691 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:39,480 Speaker 4: I would say it's a gift. Why, well, it makes 692 00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 4: your meal look beautiful, and oftentimes those are edible, the 693 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:49,960 Speaker 4: flowers and garnishes that have been placed on there. So 694 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:55,439 Speaker 4: how's that not a gift? More plants to eat? Said 695 00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:55,960 Speaker 4: the vegan. 696 00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,279 Speaker 3: Of course for me, I love when I have a 697 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,880 Speaker 3: little flower, because what other situation am I going to 698 00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:05,400 Speaker 3: feel safe eating a flower? It's a gift. I'm not 699 00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:07,719 Speaker 3: gonna you know, if I'm in the garden, I'm not 700 00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:10,560 Speaker 3: going to pluck a flower to eat. But if it's 701 00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,720 Speaker 3: served on a plate, what a delightful thing. It's pretty. 702 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 3: I have no problems with. 703 00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:19,000 Speaker 4: This wonderful So am I back? Am I winning? 704 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 3: Or out of two? You've got one out of two 705 00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:24,319 Speaker 3: so far, so you have one more? And this is 706 00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 3: a This is simply on the dock. This is not 707 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,120 Speaker 3: from a listener. It says, gift to a curse when 708 00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:31,240 Speaker 3: a bee's in the car. 709 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,719 Speaker 4: Well, I know the answer to this, and it is 710 00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:39,880 Speaker 4: for sure a curse. My wife and I were driving somewhere. 711 00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,480 Speaker 4: She was driving, I was in the passenger seat. She 712 00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:47,520 Speaker 4: is so scared of bees, and we were sitting at 713 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,760 Speaker 4: a red light and a bee flew into our car 714 00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:55,880 Speaker 4: and she jumped out of the car. And if you recall, 715 00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,359 Speaker 4: when you're driving and you're stopped at a red light, 716 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,440 Speaker 4: you're not in part, you're just your foot's on the 717 00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:05,040 Speaker 4: brig She opened the door and jumped out of our 718 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,120 Speaker 4: car while I was in the passenger seat, and I 719 00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:12,040 Speaker 4: was just looking at her saying, I'm rolling away as 720 00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:18,279 Speaker 4: the car was driving slowly by itself, and I was 721 00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:21,799 Speaker 4: in the car with a bee buzzing around, while she 722 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:23,960 Speaker 4: was on the street going. 723 00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:25,399 Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my god. 724 00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,600 Speaker 4: I was like, I'm the one in a car without 725 00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:32,600 Speaker 4: a driver and a bee. You we can't both jump 726 00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:33,440 Speaker 4: out of the car. 727 00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,080 Speaker 3: What How did that situation resolve itself? 728 00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:40,680 Speaker 4: The bee got out, She jumped back in the car 729 00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:45,719 Speaker 4: and did not fully clock that I was. I was 730 00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:48,880 Speaker 4: driving away by myself very slowly. 731 00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:54,160 Speaker 3: Yes, a car and drive is going probably five miles 732 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,680 Speaker 3: an hour, headed into an intersection. 733 00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 4: Oh, I was for sure I was. I was in 734 00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 4: and in intersection. You know, I have another and this 735 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,160 Speaker 4: is me plugging something else in my career. But I 736 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,960 Speaker 4: have an album called Live, and I have a joke 737 00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,640 Speaker 4: on that album about how I was in the carpool 738 00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:15,440 Speaker 4: lane and a b oh. I was in traffic, I 739 00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:20,359 Speaker 4: was a standstill and be flew past me, and the 740 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,520 Speaker 4: b was I think, in the carpool lane. I haven't 741 00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:27,680 Speaker 4: listened to the album in years, but I remember seeing 742 00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:32,279 Speaker 4: the bee fly by and thinking like, how crazy that 743 00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:37,239 Speaker 4: the bee is taking the four o five freeway. Just 744 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:41,800 Speaker 4: that concept of a bee just like flying perfectly down 745 00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:46,760 Speaker 4: a lane on the four oh five. It's like, Wow, 746 00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,600 Speaker 4: I'm stuck in traffic and this bee just flew past 747 00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:50,040 Speaker 4: me on the. 748 00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:55,640 Speaker 3: Past. Yeah, I had no idea. You had so much 749 00:42:56,360 --> 00:43:00,200 Speaker 3: b experience. This is incredible, Oh my god, so much. 750 00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,439 Speaker 4: My son was stung by a bee the other day, 751 00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:03,920 Speaker 4: a lot. It's endless. 752 00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 3: Wow. Well, unfortunately you don't get the point. I think. 753 00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:11,120 Speaker 3: I mean, just from this alone a gift. Look at 754 00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:14,320 Speaker 3: all these life experiences that are happening with bees and automobiles. 755 00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:17,480 Speaker 4: Well, I'm fifty two, I'm more than halfway to one hundred. 756 00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:20,440 Speaker 4: I have a lot of experience. 757 00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,320 Speaker 3: With bees in particular. 758 00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:25,239 Speaker 4: Life and bees and all of it. 759 00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,279 Speaker 3: Uh yeah, I love what well a b in the 760 00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:32,319 Speaker 3: car turns you into a hyper focused driver. There's an 761 00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:33,640 Speaker 3: extra level of thrill. 762 00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:37,000 Speaker 4: Now you're wrong, You're wrong. 763 00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:39,600 Speaker 3: You are laser focused. When the bee is in the car. 764 00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:41,680 Speaker 3: All you want to do is get to your destination. 765 00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:47,279 Speaker 4: Show you're looking around in a panic, in a panic, I. 766 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:49,000 Speaker 3: Start to look around in a panic. 767 00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:53,560 Speaker 4: I was driving the other day Stephanie's father somewhere and 768 00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:57,560 Speaker 4: a spider was walking on the steering wheel of the car, 769 00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:00,680 Speaker 4: and I pointed to him, I said, can you imagine 770 00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:03,440 Speaker 4: if Stephanie was driving right now and a spider was 771 00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:07,040 Speaker 4: walking on the steering wheel and I safely drove us 772 00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 4: home And he was having a laugh of like, oh 773 00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:13,960 Speaker 4: my god, Yeah, this would have been insanity. 774 00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:15,920 Speaker 3: And the spider remained on the steering wheel. 775 00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,680 Speaker 4: I guess, I just you know how spider they walked 776 00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:20,799 Speaker 4: so fast, and I just I don't know where it went, 777 00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:23,120 Speaker 4: but I was I wasn't going to like jump out 778 00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:24,879 Speaker 4: and abandon my father in law. 779 00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:26,680 Speaker 3: What would you have done if you if it was 780 00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:27,960 Speaker 3: like a black widow spider. 781 00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 4: Well, I don't know spider's that well, so that might 782 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:34,040 Speaker 4: have been, and so I would do nothing different. 783 00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:38,720 Speaker 3: Wow. Yeah, well then I mean for me, a spider 784 00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:41,040 Speaker 3: in the car is a whole different situation. I feel 785 00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:44,400 Speaker 3: like a spider. You know, you can't tell what it is. 786 00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:46,560 Speaker 3: It could be, you know, one of these highly venomous 787 00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:48,320 Speaker 3: spiders and now you're really in danger. 788 00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,120 Speaker 4: Well, if it's one of those huge, fat, hairy ones, 789 00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:55,839 Speaker 4: that's like out of my way, I'm coming through here 790 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,400 Speaker 4: and you're all going to die. I would for sure 791 00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,719 Speaker 4: freak out if it was big and hairy, but like 792 00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:05,120 Speaker 4: one that's like really fast running around and like, oh 793 00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:08,400 Speaker 4: where'd it go? I'm like whatever, I doubt this is 794 00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:09,160 Speaker 4: gonna be the end of me. 795 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,040 Speaker 3: Well, I'm sorry that you only got one point in 796 00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:15,960 Speaker 3: the game, but I feel like you don't care. That's 797 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:19,080 Speaker 3: a good attitude. That's an excellent attitude when you're playing 798 00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 3: a game you. 799 00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:20,840 Speaker 4: Just can't nothing matters. 800 00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,440 Speaker 3: Well, you know, now the attitude is shifted in a 801 00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:27,200 Speaker 3: bad direction. 802 00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,200 Speaker 4: But no, it's freeing. That's what people don't understand. You 803 00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:32,560 Speaker 4: can hear it however you want to hear. 804 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:34,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess if you just say it with a 805 00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:38,520 Speaker 3: smile on your face. Nothing matters, right, nothing matters. You 806 00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:39,239 Speaker 3: get to let go. 807 00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 4: It's depressing and freeing. Nothing matters. 808 00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:50,319 Speaker 3: Just shaking your hair out, nothing matters. Well, this is uh. 809 00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:52,400 Speaker 3: I'm proud of how you played the game. But we 810 00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:55,120 Speaker 3: need to head into the final segment of the podcast. 811 00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:58,839 Speaker 3: This is called I said no emails, people right into 812 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:02,800 Speaker 3: I said no gifts at gmails. The listeners have problems, 813 00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:08,200 Speaker 3: they have social concerns. How to deal with various situations 814 00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:11,200 Speaker 3: with gifts or whatever? Yeah, the listener, I mean, my 815 00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 3: listeners are just their lives are riddled with problems. Will 816 00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:19,840 Speaker 3: you help me answer a question? Okay, let's get into 817 00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:24,680 Speaker 3: the document here. This is dear Sage Bridger. That's a 818 00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:28,879 Speaker 3: hard thing to say, Dear Sage Bridger and wise disobedient guests. Okay, 819 00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:31,520 Speaker 3: so that's for you. That's a hard sentence to say. 820 00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:34,880 Speaker 3: This is going to sound like the most privileged thing ever. 821 00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:38,600 Speaker 3: But whatever. Oh, my husband and I are expecting our 822 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,680 Speaker 3: first baby in a couple of months. There's already loads 823 00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:44,600 Speaker 3: of children in my family and his, so we've been 824 00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:48,080 Speaker 3: receiving everyone's second hand clothes and goods. On top of this, 825 00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:50,799 Speaker 3: my mom and sisters. Is this a British person? We 826 00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:54,240 Speaker 3: don't know. My mom and sisters have gone totally bonkers 827 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:57,360 Speaker 3: shopping for more clothes for this baby, because she'll be 828 00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:00,160 Speaker 3: the first girl born in my family this generation, after 829 00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:02,600 Speaker 3: a bunch of boys, and everyone wants to buy tiny 830 00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:06,839 Speaker 3: dresses and pink things. That sentence is fifty lines long, 831 00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,759 Speaker 3: long story short. We currently have more baby stuff than 832 00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:11,480 Speaker 3: we can store. 833 00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:12,560 Speaker 2: Now. 834 00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:15,400 Speaker 3: My friends and colleagues are hinting at all the cute 835 00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:18,200 Speaker 3: clothes and goods they're planning. I'm not sure how to 836 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,319 Speaker 3: tell them that I'd rather get stuff that will help 837 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:23,560 Speaker 3: us as new parents, like a cleaner groceries or a 838 00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:27,200 Speaker 3: recovery belly band for me. How can I politely steer 839 00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:30,560 Speaker 3: people to gifting me things I actually need rather than 840 00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,799 Speaker 3: stuff that the baby might use once before they grow 841 00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:36,800 Speaker 3: out of it without sounding ungrateful? Cheers? And that's from Joe. 842 00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:40,600 Speaker 3: So Joe, she's I mean, right off the bat, I 843 00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:42,960 Speaker 3: think we can just say Joe is a deeply ungrateful person. 844 00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:43,839 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. 845 00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:49,040 Speaker 3: But you are actually a parent here. Do you have 846 00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:50,320 Speaker 3: any advice for this person? 847 00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:54,080 Speaker 4: I think that you know obviously I don't know this person. 848 00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,160 Speaker 4: I don't know the family and friends, but I feel 849 00:47:56,200 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 4: like being straightforward relieves you and honest relieves you from 850 00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:09,040 Speaker 4: more entanglements and trying to figure out another way to 851 00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:13,560 Speaker 4: do something or say something or lead them to believe 852 00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:15,920 Speaker 4: this or that. Like the very end of that email 853 00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:20,160 Speaker 4: feels like what you should tell people is there, we 854 00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:23,959 Speaker 4: have all these things. I don't think we need any more. 855 00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:27,800 Speaker 4: We're so grateful for all of that. Doesn't that seem 856 00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:28,840 Speaker 4: like to me? 857 00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,839 Speaker 3: That feels it feels like this person. I mean, and 858 00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,960 Speaker 3: now not only has she done it via podcast, she 859 00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:38,200 Speaker 3: can do it in person. The honesty is out there. Yeah, 860 00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:41,960 Speaker 3: it feels but the problem now, it seems like she's 861 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:44,640 Speaker 3: allowed these people to make all these hints and is 862 00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:46,520 Speaker 3: now going to have to backpedal in a huge way. 863 00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:49,040 Speaker 3: Gifts are going to have to be returned. But it 864 00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:52,319 Speaker 3: feels like she's brought this upon herself. Yeah, I mean, 865 00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:55,640 Speaker 3: isn't don't you do you register when you're having a baby? 866 00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:57,040 Speaker 3: Is that a possibility? 867 00:48:57,480 --> 00:49:02,560 Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, you register? And I think that's it kind 868 00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:06,919 Speaker 4: of really helps to weed this issue out right. 869 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,200 Speaker 3: So to me, it feels like Joe is not only ungrateful, 870 00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:14,320 Speaker 3: but unprepared to be a parent. She's made two giant 871 00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:15,359 Speaker 3: mistakes so far. 872 00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:20,319 Speaker 4: I'm sure she's made more than that. I highly doubt 873 00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:21,200 Speaker 4: these are the only two. 874 00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,959 Speaker 3: I mean, writing into this podcast, there's another on the list. 875 00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:26,879 Speaker 4: It's you know what, I have to say? 876 00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:27,200 Speaker 1: What? 877 00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:30,160 Speaker 4: And I know this is not fully on topic, but 878 00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:32,719 Speaker 4: on topic but not quite, but it is is that, 879 00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:37,120 Speaker 4: you know, whenever we know of somebody having a little girl, 880 00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:42,160 Speaker 4: you know, we always immediately buy what a dump truck? 881 00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:47,640 Speaker 4: Incredible choice, and everyone it makes them so happy when 882 00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:49,839 Speaker 4: they corse, Yeah. 883 00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:52,840 Speaker 3: Little girls can be dump truck drivers too, of course, 884 00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:55,799 Speaker 3: and that actually, to me is a more fun toy 885 00:49:55,880 --> 00:50:01,160 Speaker 3: than a doll or you know. It's a functioning, wheeled, bigun. 886 00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:04,600 Speaker 4: And everybody sends us videos and pictures they're like, oh 887 00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:08,799 Speaker 4: my god, she loves the dump truck so much. It's 888 00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,520 Speaker 4: such a cute, fun thing to give to people. 889 00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:15,200 Speaker 3: And truly, everybody loves a dump truck. I think even 890 00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:18,759 Speaker 3: adults are. It's a giant truck that's dumping a lot 891 00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:20,960 Speaker 3: of stuff or carrying a lot of stuff. 892 00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,839 Speaker 4: Well she's sand and dirt and rocks, you know. 893 00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a very satisfying vehicle to look at. 894 00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:26,879 Speaker 2: It's good. 895 00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:31,960 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, maybe Joe reaches out to everyone and 896 00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:36,360 Speaker 3: hints dump truck belly band cleaner seems like an expensive gift. 897 00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,919 Speaker 3: But look, we don't know who she's friends with. 898 00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:43,440 Speaker 4: No, we don't know anything about this person except she's 899 00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:47,560 Speaker 4: made mistakes, she has regrets. 900 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:51,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, if she could go back and do it all over, 901 00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:52,240 Speaker 3: she probably would. 902 00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:54,759 Speaker 4: But actually I know she wouldn't. And that's her other 903 00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:56,560 Speaker 4: mistake is she wouldn't change a thing. 904 00:50:56,960 --> 00:51:00,400 Speaker 3: She simply is incapable of making a decent decision. This 905 00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:02,040 Speaker 3: woman's life is out of control. 906 00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:05,000 Speaker 4: She's so frustrating by now. 907 00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:06,919 Speaker 3: By the time she hears this, I mean, she could 908 00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:11,120 Speaker 3: be dead. Yeah, she could be absolutely dead. And our 909 00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:15,960 Speaker 3: thoughts go out to her family and the newborn baby 910 00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,120 Speaker 3: who is now I mean speaking of orphans. 911 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:24,000 Speaker 4: God, yeah, Flip Max now musical. 912 00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:29,440 Speaker 3: Well, we answered the question more than perfectly. We kind 913 00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:32,680 Speaker 3: of hit all of the points that Joe was looking for, 914 00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:35,279 Speaker 3: you know, just laid out her life in a way 915 00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:38,120 Speaker 3: that she probably hasn't been able to see until now. Right, 916 00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:40,880 Speaker 3: and now I have this bubble blower which I'm going 917 00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:43,720 Speaker 3: to be able to, you know, add a little whimsy 918 00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:45,480 Speaker 3: to my life. Go out in the yard. I haven't 919 00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:46,959 Speaker 3: blown bubbles in years. 920 00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:48,839 Speaker 4: And prank your neighbors that. 921 00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:50,280 Speaker 3: You're going to be freaked out. 922 00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:53,880 Speaker 4: You should come over to our fence and blow them 923 00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:56,520 Speaker 4: over and Max and Finn will lose. 924 00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,799 Speaker 3: Their minds, absolute hysteria. 925 00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:02,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, like what clown is over here pranking us. 926 00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:08,760 Speaker 3: As I'm being dragged away by the police or something. Yeah, 927 00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,319 Speaker 3: bubbles are the ultimate prank. I think that's really the 928 00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:15,640 Speaker 3: lesson we've learned here. Well, I'm so glad you were 929 00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:17,920 Speaker 3: able to come and bring these bubbles. 930 00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:20,960 Speaker 4: I was very happy to get rid of them. 931 00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:23,960 Speaker 3: It's such a small object, tig. 932 00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:27,600 Speaker 4: We don't like a lot of clutter around here. 933 00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:32,160 Speaker 3: Well, you're clearing out, and thank you for being here, 934 00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:36,480 Speaker 3: Thank you for having me listener. We're here at the 935 00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:40,319 Speaker 3: end of the podcast. You know it's over. There's no 936 00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:42,960 Speaker 3: stopping this. It's just going to end. There will be 937 00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,520 Speaker 3: the theme song and the credits. Listen to the credits 938 00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:48,000 Speaker 3: for once in your life. You know other people work 939 00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:51,640 Speaker 3: on this podcast and you owe them that much. I'm 940 00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:59,440 Speaker 3: going to let you go. I love you, goodbye, I 941 00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:02,880 Speaker 3: said no. Gift is an exactly right production. It's produced 942 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:06,360 Speaker 3: by our dear friend Annalise Neilson and it's beautifully mixed 943 00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:09,520 Speaker 3: by Leona Squilatchi. And we couldn't do it without our 944 00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:14,000 Speaker 3: guest booker, Patrick Cottener. The theme song, of course, could 945 00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:18,320 Speaker 3: only come from miracle worker Amy Mann. You must follow 946 00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:21,040 Speaker 3: the show on Instagram. At I said, no gifts. I 947 00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:23,359 Speaker 3: don't want to hear any excuses. That's where you get 948 00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:25,680 Speaker 3: to see pictures of all these gorgeous gifts I'm getting. 949 00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:27,480 Speaker 3: And don't you want to see pictures of the gifts? 950 00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:31,360 Speaker 2: And I invit? Did you hear? 951 00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,400 Speaker 1: Funa man myself perfectly clear. 952 00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:42,960 Speaker 2: When you're a guess to Ma, you gotta come to 953 00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:44,200 Speaker 2: me empty. 954 00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:51,719 Speaker 1: And I said, no, guests, Your presences presents enough and 955 00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:57,120 Speaker 1: I'm already too much stuff, So how do you dare 956 00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:58,880 Speaker 1: to survey me? 957 00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:04,320 Speaker 2: Became within