1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's 2 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 1: the Fred Show. Hi Michelle, good morning, Welcome, good morning, 3 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: Thank you for having me. It's our pleasure. So welcome 4 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: to waiting by the phone. And nobody really wants to 5 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: be here. But every now and again we have a 6 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: happy ending, and we're trying to figure out why a 7 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:22,479 Speaker 1: guy who you met might be ghosting you. So the 8 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:24,600 Speaker 1: guy's name is Ralph, I know that much, But then 9 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: what happened from there to fill us in on all 10 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: the kind of the backstory and where we're at. 11 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 2: Okay, So I met Ralph on match dot com, right, 12 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 2: and so we started talking and. 13 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 3: We were viving and we ended up, you know, chatting 14 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 3: back and forth, exchanging numbers, we started texting a few 15 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:48,879 Speaker 3: phone calls, and then he basically asked me out on 16 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 3: a date, you know, real life. So we ended. 17 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 2: Up going to this really fun bar and we had 18 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 2: a good time and we had a lot of stuff 19 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 2: in common. So, you know, I thought that we were 20 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 2: going to continue talking and hanging out and he ended 21 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 2: up ghosting. 22 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: So you look back on this date and you felt 23 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: like everything went really well. I always asked the question, 24 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: but like the connection was good, and the conversation was 25 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 1: good and all of that. 26 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:17,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, we were. 27 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 3: Having a good time. We were talking the whole night. 28 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 3: I mean, I had so much fun. So I was 29 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 3: just shocking when I'm texting him the next day, the 30 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 3: day after that, the day after that and nothing. O. 31 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 1: Huh. All right, well, Michell, let's see if we can 32 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:35,639 Speaker 1: get Ralph on the phone here in just a second, 33 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: and we'll ask questions for you. You'll be on the 34 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:38,960 Speaker 1: phone as well, and you're welcome to jump in at 35 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: some point after we get you some info. And the 36 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: hope is that we can straighten things out and then 37 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date that we paid for. 38 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: All right, Okay, I'm gonna play one song. I'll be 39 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: back in two minutes and we'll do it. Stay right there, Michelle, 40 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: Let's see what happens next. After Jojia Cat Partuo A 41 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: waiting by the phone, then Sight twin in Vegas. We'll 42 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: hook you up the Frend Show twenty in Vegas. All 43 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 1: expenses paid, went in less than ten minutes. It's the 44 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: Fred Show. It's Friday. Good morning, Hey, Michelle, welcome back. 45 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: Let's call it Ralph. This is a guy that you 46 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: met recently went on a date with and you met 47 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: on match dot com, which I do think matters because 48 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 1: I know you can get on match dot com for free, 49 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: but a lot of people pay for it, and I 50 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:20,119 Speaker 1: feel like once you're paying for it, you maybe take 51 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: things a little bit more seriously. I mean Match dot 52 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: com that's where you would go. That's where you go 53 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: if you're serious, right, Like, we're not messing around swiping, 54 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: we're like looking looking, right. Have you ever been on there? 55 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 3: No, my mind. 56 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 1: Your mom's been yes, well i'll see there. 57 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 3: You go serious? 58 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: This is serious, all right? So she's intentional about it. 59 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 1: But anyway, you reached out to this guy, or you 60 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 1: met this guy and had a drink with him and 61 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: you thought it went really well. His name is Ralph, 62 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:46,679 Speaker 1: except you have not heard from him since the date, 63 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 1: and you want to know. 64 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 4: Why we got it. 65 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 2: That's what I want to know, all right, Let's. 66 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:50,959 Speaker 1: Call him now? Good luck? 67 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 3: Hello? 68 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 1: Is this Ralph? Yeah? 69 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 4: This is Ralph? 70 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: Hey Ralph, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling 71 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: from the Fred Show of the morning radio show, and 72 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 1: I have to tell you that we are on the 73 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,519 Speaker 1: radio right now and I would need your permission to 74 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: continue with the call can which out for just a second. 75 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what about. I just need you to say, Okay, okay, 76 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: did I win something? 77 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 3: No? 78 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: You didn't? Actually well, and I always say no. My 79 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 1: first direction is no. But you may have depends how 80 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 1: you look at it. But so we're calling on behalf 81 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 1: of this woman named Michelle who says she met you 82 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: on match dot com and you guys went out recently. 83 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 3: She's the worst. 84 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 1: Okay, well why because. 85 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 4: She really really made my day with this Oh god. 86 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: Well she had a whole different impression of this night 87 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: apparently what happened, Ralph, because she liked you, I mean, 88 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 1: very good. 89 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 4: Looking girl, but she's crazy. I mean she's like really 90 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 4: into sports, Like she was talking about the Patriots and 91 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 4: and I thought she was the mascot that she was 92 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 4: actually working for the Patriots, because if she talked about 93 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 4: him so much about stats and betting me, and she 94 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 4: got real aggressive in my face, was spitting in my face, drinking. 95 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 4: I was like, I don't even like sports. I was 96 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 4: like something got to be totally walking. 97 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: To bet you, trying to bet you. 98 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean like I mean, she got she got 99 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 4: so aggressive, like you know, she knows stats, about all 100 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 4: the players, and I don't like football. 101 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: And she's not even from Boston. 102 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 2: In a second, I was born in Boston. 103 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 1: She's like me. I claim I was born in Boston too. 104 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:33,160 Speaker 1: I was there for about twenty minutes, and I claim 105 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 1: you're not. But I'm not a Patriots fan. No, no, uh, 106 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:38,280 Speaker 1: Michelle is here, by the way, Ralph, I forgot to 107 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:41,359 Speaker 1: mention Michelle is here. Were you really disaggressive spitting in 108 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: his face about the Patriots? 109 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 2: I don't recall sitting in his face. I mean, I 110 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 2: am excited about my Patriots. 111 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 1: Of court, were you trying to bet him. 112 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 2: Date joking around? 113 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 1: Yeah? 114 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 3: Come on, yeah, of court? 115 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: Bet him play. You know, there are certain sports fans 116 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: from certain teams that can be a little bit obnoxious. 117 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 1: I think we would agree. Uh, Packers fans could be obnoxious. 118 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 1: Packers fans would say, Bears fans can be obnoxious. Patriots fans, 119 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: Cowboys Cowboys fans. Oh my god, my brother in law. 120 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: I love him, but he's not obnoxious about it. But 121 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want them to win a Super 122 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: Bowl because I'd never hear the end of it. But anyway, 123 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: Michelle would are you willing to admit that maybe you're 124 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: one of those people that you're just you're really passionate 125 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 1: about it. 126 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm passionate about it. I didn't know that 127 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 2: I'm annoying about it. 128 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 3: I mean to hear him his reaction, I just can't believe, Like, 129 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 3: why didn't you say something that night in my face? 130 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 4: Well, you made sure to tell me that, hey, I 131 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 4: missed my fantasy football just to come have a drink 132 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 4: or two, and you started like, what the hell's going on? 133 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 4: I came to you know, talk. 134 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: About not football? Well, what would you like to talk about, Ralph? 135 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 1: I'd like to know what what are your interests? What 136 00:05:56,800 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 1: would you have gotten erected with her? About life and traveling. 137 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 4: Music, arts, not about I didn't go. I didn't go 138 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 4: to have a date with howel. 139 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:12,279 Speaker 1: Yo Picasso is the best ever? Don't you tell me differently? 140 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,919 Speaker 1: Have you ever traveled to Boston? Have you ever traveled 141 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 1: to a Patriots game? I think Michelle will take you 142 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 1: there if she likes to. For her, it's an art, 143 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 1: It's a moment of real life living arts. It's it's 144 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 1: the mecca. She stands in front of Gillette Stadium it 145 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 1: and just begins to weep. Every time. Look round, I. 146 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:39,039 Speaker 4: Think I think you guys think I'm not lying. She 147 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 4: was even talking about tailgating, and that's the next date. 148 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 4: I was like, this is not going to work. 149 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 1: Well I don't work. I don't think you're lying. I 150 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 1: just I mean like it was so aggressive that you 151 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: you couldn't find any other common ground, none, none at all. Okay, 152 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 1: all right, well look Michelle, this guy. You were having 153 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: a good time, I guess because you were so into 154 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 1: your subject matter here that the New England Patriots, but 155 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:08,599 Speaker 1: em betting him and among other things. But this was 156 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: like two different dates because you had a great time 157 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: and you wanted to know why he's not calling you again, 158 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 1: and this guy is like it was it was torture. 159 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: So you guys were on basically two different dates. You 160 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: were in two different places. 161 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 2: I guess. 162 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 3: I guess. 163 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 2: So I thought we had a great time. 164 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 3: But he's telling one of those Sealers fans. 165 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 4: You see what I'm talking about. 166 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 2: I beg you the Patriots this season. 167 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 4: Here we go. 168 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 1: I'm starting to understand. 169 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 3: Now. 170 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: Okay, look guys, it's not going to be a match. 171 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: I wish you guys both the best of luck and 172 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 1: thanks for your time, thank you,