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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Jake is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Olivia. So we're

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Speaker 2: gonna see if we can figure out why he's getting

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Speaker 2: ghosted and maybe get him another date. If he still

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Speaker 2: wants one. We'll call her in a second. But first, Jake,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Olivia?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's about three weeks now, So okay, let's go

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Speaker 3: back to your date. How did that go?

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Speaker 4: It's interesting, it wasn't so much as a data as well.

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Speaker 5: I met Olivia at a bar. We're both happened to

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Speaker 5: be there at the same time. My department recently got

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Speaker 5: a raise at work, so we all went out to celebrate,

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Speaker 5: and I saw Olivia there with her you know, her girls,

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Speaker 5: just having a girl's night.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So then how did you and Olivia start talking?

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Speaker 5: I overheard her talking about a concert she went to

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Speaker 5: a long time ago. I think it was a Post

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Speaker 5: Malone at a venue that's been since demolished.

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Speaker 4: Then I was at that concert too, so.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it felt like, I don't know, it felt like

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Speaker 5: she's I mean, she's obviously cool if she likes malone.

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Speaker 4: So I went over and I started talking to her,

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Speaker 4: and it just kicked off from there.

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Speaker 3: Did what do you guys do for your date? Or

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Speaker 3: was this the date?

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Speaker 4: This was the date? So you know, my friends left,

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Speaker 4: her friends left.

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Speaker 5: We just ended up talking to each other all night,

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Speaker 5: you know, getting to know you type stuff. I was

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Speaker 5: telling her about my experiences at the office when she

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Speaker 5: wasn't that interested in. But we got on talking about

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Speaker 5: like Jim's stuff, you know, shows, we liked music we like.

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Speaker 5: Obviously it didn't hurt that she was you know, she's

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Speaker 5: a knockout, like definitely ten out of ten.

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Speaker 3: So then did you guys stay at the bar the

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Speaker 3: whole time? Did you close it out? Or didn't you

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Speaker 3: guys go somewhere else?

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Speaker 4: Were we closed it down?

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Speaker 5: We were the last ones there and we were still talking.

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Speaker 5: There was no pressure. It wasn't like, let's go back

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Speaker 5: to my place, even though I'm only like a few

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Speaker 4: But she called it huber.

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Speaker 5: But we decided to stand outside, you know, the bar,

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Speaker 5: keep talking and we started making out.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, I love a good outside bar makeout.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 5: We stopped per second and she was like, you know,

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Speaker 5: is this a date? And I kind of laughed it

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Speaker 5: off at first, but then I was like, I mean

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Speaker 5: I like it to be okay. You know, we kept

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Speaker 5: we kept, we kept making out. You know, to celebrate

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Speaker 5: the date.

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Speaker 3: I have to celebrate the date. Let's celebrate making I

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Speaker 3: love that. That's a great way to celebrate a date.

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Speaker 4: So we're hanging out to her Uber shows.

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Speaker 5: We're still talking and it was getting fun, and you know,

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Speaker 5: she has to go home, but we exchanged numbers and

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Speaker 5: she left. She said she texted me later, and I've

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Speaker 5: texted her a few times since, but nothing.

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Speaker 3: Is there anything that you think might be the reason

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Speaker 3: that she's ghosting you.

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Speaker 5: I mean, she's a lot smarter and funnier than I am.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if she I don't know if it

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Speaker 5: was like she was just really drunk that night.

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Speaker 3: If she's embarrassed, don't cut yourself down like that. Maybe,

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Speaker 3: like you could just say she's smart and funny, right,

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Speaker 3: that's the same.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, that's true.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't take that away from yourself. You might be

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Speaker 3: smart and funny too, right. Maybe maybe the kiss was

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Speaker 3: just too slobbery. I don't know. That's happened.

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Speaker 4: I was, I was wasted. I was I can't Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I was, I was a little gone.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well we'll see if we can figure out. We'll

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Speaker 3: play song come Back and then call her and ask

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Speaker 3: her why she's ghosting you, and then maybe get you

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Speaker 3: another date if you still want one.

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Speaker 4: Okay, awesome, thank you?

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Speaker 3: All right? Play song come Back. Get your first Day

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Speaker 3: follow up.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: But Jake is on the phone and he's getting ghosted

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Speaker 2: by Olivia. So we're about to call her and see

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Speaker 2: if we canigure out why he's getting ghosted and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him another date if he still wants one. But first, Dake,

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Speaker 2: before we do that, why don't you refresh everybody's memory

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Speaker 2: about your experience with Olivia.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I met Olivia at a bar.

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Speaker 5: We were both there for different reasons, but we really

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Speaker 5: hit it off and it ended up in a really

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Speaker 5: hot makeout session. We exchanged numbers, but every time I

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Speaker 3: They made out in everything.

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Speaker 5: And the only reason I could think of her not

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Speaker 5: responding is maybe she got maybe she got sober eyes

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Speaker 5: and realize.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: All right, well we're about to call her. You ready,

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Speaker 3: all right? Okay, here we go. I may speak to Olivia.

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Speaker 6: Please, Yeah, Olivia, Hi, how are you?

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Speaker 3: My name is Jewbel and I host a radio show.

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Speaker 3: It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Olivia, the show's here.

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Speaker 3: My name's Nina. Hi, mine's Victoria. Hi him.

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Speaker 6: I'm good. Yeah, I mean, I've definitely heard of you

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Speaker 6: guys before.

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Speaker 3: But oh sweet, why.

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Speaker 6: Why are you calling me?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Well, you're late on a payment.

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Speaker 2: What we're calling you because we do a segment on

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Speaker 2: the show it's called the first Date follow Up. That's

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Speaker 2: where if you go somebody, that person can email us

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Speaker 2: to get you on the phone and ask why you're

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Speaker 2: ghosting them. So we got an email about you from

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Speaker 2: a dude named Jake.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I'm gone on a few dates, but I

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Speaker 6: mean I don't think I'm ghosting anyone.

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Speaker 3: He said that you met like three weeks ago. It

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Speaker 3: was at a bar. You guys hung out, and then

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Speaker 3: outside of the bar you made out, and then you

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Speaker 3: both were like, is this a date? I guess it's

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Speaker 3: a date, and then you made out some more for

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Speaker 6: Oh oh see, Okay, I don't I did not remember

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Speaker 6: his name. I don't remember Jake. I mean, okay, see,

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Speaker 6: I I got really drunk about three weeks ago and

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Speaker 6: I completely blacked out, and I just remember flashes of

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Speaker 6: talking to a guy. And I mean I definitely don't

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Speaker 6: remember everything. I remember how he looked, and I mean,

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Speaker 6: he looks good. I remember how he smelled. He smelled

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Speaker 6: really nice because I remember him being really sexy and

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Speaker 6: super smart, and but I mean, I just I didn't

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Speaker 6: remember his name. I didn't remember his name. So yeah,

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Speaker 6: now I'm surprised he reached out to you guys, because

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Speaker 6: I mean both of us were pretty wasted and he

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Speaker 6: was just throwing him back and I know I was too,

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Speaker 6: so I don't know he tried.

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Speaker 3: To get a hold of you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean I.

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Speaker 6: Remember I got text message text messages from somebody, but

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Speaker 6: because I didn't recognize who it was, I'm really like

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Speaker 6: bad if I don't know who a number is, like,

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Speaker 6: I just automatically send it to spam and I don't

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Speaker 6: want to deal with it because there's so many like

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Speaker 6: random numbers that pop up now. I just don't even

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Speaker 6: want to deal with that, so I didn't even look

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Speaker 3: We met out outside of the bar. Yeah whatever, I'm

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Speaker 3: not mind your sweater. I don't care. I thought you

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Speaker 3: were really great. I'd like to see you again.

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Speaker 6: Yeah whatever, out Like, I just remember hanging out with

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Speaker 6: this guy after this concert at this bar and it

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Speaker 6: was cool. But I just, you know, it's like one

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Speaker 6: of those things, like, man, I guess I missed out

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Speaker 6: on this guy, but I shouldn't drank so much. Lesson learned.

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Speaker 6: Hopefully I meet him again at some point.

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Speaker 3: Oh well, great, you can meet him right now because

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Speaker 3: he's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 4: Wait what Yeah, hey, hey, it's shake you think.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure that's all you are, see Jake, You're funny

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Speaker 3: and sexy too.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I've been trying to get in contact with you.

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Speaker 5: You're right, I mean, we we did pound a lot

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Speaker 5: of shots.

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Speaker 4: I'm kind of a professional drinker, so.

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Speaker 6: I see, and I'm very much a lightweight.

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Speaker 4: So can we go back to that sexy thing?

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Speaker 6: Though?

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Speaker 4: Can we're going to talk about that? I think I

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Speaker 4: think it's sexy too.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, no, I definitely enjoyed my time with you,

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Speaker 6: and I mean it's super sweet that you've reached out

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Speaker 6: so and you sought me out. I mean, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 6: I'm just really embarrassed that I don't I don't remember anything.

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Speaker 3: Would you like to go on another date with Jake

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Speaker 3: now that you know his name?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I just I mean, I don't said that,

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Speaker 6: I don't remember anything, but now we get to have

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Speaker 6: the date over again and just have you more fun.

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Speaker 3: It makes new memories. Just don't black out, yes, right, exactly, No, No,

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Speaker 3: we'll take it easy on the booze this time.

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Speaker 6: Good good, I mean yeah, yeah, And more kissing please,

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Speaker 6: because do you remember that? And it was amazing?

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Speaker 5: Ow oh definitely I plan on kissing you a lot,

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Speaker 5: all right, sweet

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