WEBVTT - Come Take A Trip With Us

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Mela.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's Wednesday, it's hump Day, and it is the

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<v Speaker 2>first week of August. Welcome to August, you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to August. Wow, this summer is it's almost over,

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<v Speaker 1>almost over.

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<v Speaker 2>Crazy, I can't believe it. So you guys know that

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<v Speaker 2>we have been, you know, diving into themes all year

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<v Speaker 2>and we've been reflecting, We've been sletvering, we've been celibant,

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<v Speaker 2>we've been tribing, we've been what else, money money, all

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<v Speaker 2>the manifesting, manifesting, and so I don't know, we've been

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<v Speaker 2>doing all this work and I've been thinking, and Milam,

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<v Speaker 2>I've been like, what is August? What is the vibe

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<v Speaker 2>of August? And I'm feeling like the vibe of August

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<v Speaker 2>is designing your own life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, welcome to design your life, August.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, me and Mila just came back from a

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<v Speaker 2>trip of Costa Rica, which we'll get into. But I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's really inspired us to really rethink what our

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<v Speaker 2>lives look like. And I think we've already been kind

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<v Speaker 2>of designing our lives in general. But like, I think

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<v Speaker 2>we're like excited about this new part of the design.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's when you start to manifest your life

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<v Speaker 1>and then you start to see it take mold. Then

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh shit, I can really design this motherfucker.

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<v Speaker 1>Couch goes there, Jack goes there. House in Brooklyn goes there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like a little a new little casito over there,

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<v Speaker 1>and jungle house over here. So like now it gets

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<v Speaker 1>into like the specifics of the design. You know what.

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<v Speaker 2>I just had this thought because Irie I've been like

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<v Speaker 2>making her listen to like just old school, like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>soul and funk, and there's this Diana Ross song that

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<v Speaker 2>I fucking love, and like I played it for her

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm just like gonna be really hurt if she

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<v Speaker 2>didn't like it, because I fucking love this song. But

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<v Speaker 2>I forgot about it. And then I recently, like in

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<v Speaker 2>the last two days, and we're having this conversation just

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<v Speaker 2>popped into my head. It's called it's my house, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, it's my house and I live it's not house,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's talking about like designing her house. Like see

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<v Speaker 2>that table over there, Like I put it there, I

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<v Speaker 2>put this shit there, I put that there, and I

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<v Speaker 2>placed that there and everything is perfectly put where the

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<v Speaker 2>fuck I want it.

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<v Speaker 1>And she was talking about designing her house.

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<v Speaker 2>She is, and she was saying, you really want to

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<v Speaker 2>come over, you really want to come over, but you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna have to show me that you you're not gonna

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<v Speaker 2>fuck my house up. And when you're thinking about designing

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<v Speaker 2>your house, you're thinking about the guests too that you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna have at your house and who can set at

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<v Speaker 2>the table. I really you know what, guys, go listen

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<v Speaker 2>to that song. It's Bomb. I'm gonna put it in

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<v Speaker 2>the link here. It's Bomb now.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta listened to it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really good and I re's been requesting it like

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<v Speaker 2>this morning. She was like, can we hear like that

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<v Speaker 2>it's my house.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yes we can, but it's true. She

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<v Speaker 1>was right, and maybe that's our affirmation for the day.

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<v Speaker 1>My life is my house, and I design it exactly

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<v Speaker 1>the way I mother fucking see it beautifully.

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<v Speaker 2>Bomb. My life is my house and I designed it

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<v Speaker 2>exactly the motherfucking way I see it beautifully. Mm hmm

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<v Speaker 2>amen amen.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, Costa Rica Inspired designed my life August and

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<v Speaker 1>what are the.

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<v Speaker 2>Cards gonna say about our August designing life. Ah, let's see,

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<v Speaker 2>so I pulled the page of cups upright. Creative opportunities,

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<v Speaker 2>intuitive messages, curiosity, possibility. The page of cups weares a

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<v Speaker 2>blue tunic with a floral print and a beret on

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<v Speaker 2>his head with a long flowing scarf. He stands on

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<v Speaker 2>the shore with the wavy sea behind him, holding a

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<v Speaker 2>cup in his right hand. Surprising, a fish pops its

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<v Speaker 2>head out of the cup and looks at the young man.

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<v Speaker 2>The fish and sea behind him represent the element of

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<v Speaker 2>water and all things to do with creativity, intuition, feelings,

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<v Speaker 2>and emotions. The page of cups suggests a new idea

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<v Speaker 2>or opportunity has come to you out of the blue.

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<v Speaker 2>Your creative energy is flowing, and now the question is

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<v Speaker 2>how will you express it. Will you snap up this

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<v Speaker 2>new idea and turn it into something, or will you

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<v Speaker 2>let someone else bring it to fruition. It's up to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Spend time exploring the idea to see if you want

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<v Speaker 2>to move forward. I feel like this is like speaking

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<v Speaker 2>to our possible shift into a network. Possibly. This card

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<v Speaker 2>often appears when you're being called to trust your intuition

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<v Speaker 2>and be open to the multitude of intuitive messages coming

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<v Speaker 2>your way. Look for synchronicities. I'm when to start using

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<v Speaker 2>that word and signs from nature that will guide you

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<v Speaker 2>on your path. They may come from an unexpected places,

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<v Speaker 2>or they may not even make sense to your rational mind.

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<v Speaker 2>Be open to the possibility and ready to discover new

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<v Speaker 2>aspects of yourself. Page of cups can indicate that you

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<v Speaker 2>will receive an unexpected or pleasant surprise. The pages are

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<v Speaker 2>often known as the messenger cards. My God. It says

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<v Speaker 2>it might be the birth of a baby, relax, an

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<v Speaker 2>engagement or marriage, a new love interest. Susan said, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna find love you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Susan also said that I'm going to have a really

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<v Speaker 1>good idea in the beginning of August.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, wait she did.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh there's a lot of pressure on me. Susan.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, if you guys don't know Susan is. She's a

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<v Speaker 2>world renowned astrologer, Susan Miller, and I've been following her

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<v Speaker 2>since like I was thirteen. Go to astrologyzone dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>This is not an ad. This is just pure love

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<v Speaker 2>and go reach your horoscope. She does these like monthly

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<v Speaker 2>horoscopes or they're like nine pages long. Anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, this is something you missed. Oh and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't hear it needs to be repeated. Open

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<v Speaker 1>your mind to all possibilities, especially those of a creative

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<v Speaker 1>or intuitive nature. You will be pleasantly surprised. Be ready

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<v Speaker 1>to dream the impossible, dream and explore the magic of

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<v Speaker 1>your fullest potential, even if it seems out of reach.

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<v Speaker 1>Design your mother fucking life. Okay, now I've biddy said it.

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<v Speaker 2>It must be sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Susan said it, the card said it. I believe it

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<v Speaker 1>tis the season. Bitches. If it's not working, leave it behind.

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<v Speaker 2>Amen.

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<v Speaker 1>Amen. Oh my god, you guys. Wow, it's been a

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<v Speaker 1>really long time since we've sat here together alone. So

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<v Speaker 1>much has happened. You know. Sometimes I'm like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously this is a divine meeting. But one of our

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<v Speaker 1>friends told Eric on the phone the other day, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you don't live, like, say, a normal life.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, you know, you guys just don't live a

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<v Speaker 1>normal life. And then Erica told me, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't. The shit that me and Erica get into together,

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<v Speaker 1>I swear to God, it's the best shit ever. It's

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<v Speaker 1>almost like God is like, you want content, you want

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<v Speaker 1>some shit to talk about? How about now? Anyway, A

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<v Speaker 1>long long time ago, four weeks or so ago, Erica

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<v Speaker 1>and I decided we were going to take a journey

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<v Speaker 1>to the jungle.

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<v Speaker 2>And we did, and we did, we did. We journey

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<v Speaker 2>it did. We drove hours into the deep jungle to

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<v Speaker 2>be isolated, because that was the goal, like complete isolation.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go as far as we can.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and who cares how we get there? Even if

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<v Speaker 1>you spend two thousand dollars in a mental car, go

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<v Speaker 1>through fourteen farms, three hundred fruit stands, it was all

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<v Speaker 1>worth it. Transported an ounce of weed in nature's pocket.

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<v Speaker 2>Only to find out that all we had to do

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<v Speaker 2>was put it in a continer. Yeah, well that's a problem.

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<v Speaker 2>Shout out to my pussy. True thanks pussy. The major

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<v Speaker 2>shutdown the whole the whole ounce that Jamila put in

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<v Speaker 2>Nature's pocket lasted the whole trip, and she was quite

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<v Speaker 2>worried it wouldn't. But literally the last day we were there,

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<v Speaker 2>we had enough to take with us in the car

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<v Speaker 2>to the ride to the airport.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the perfect amount of pussy weed. So how

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<v Speaker 1>much weed can your pussy supply? You? Two weeks worth.

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<v Speaker 2>After that, it's on you. Dog.

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<v Speaker 1>My pussy personally can supply about two people for two

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<v Speaker 1>weeks worth. If all the supermarkets, all the dispensaries go

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<v Speaker 1>onto some my personal dangerous pocket two weeks impressive. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we had a really beautiful trip. We flew to Costa Rica.

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<v Speaker 1>That was gonna that's I almost said for sure, that's

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<v Speaker 1>my last time flying coach, but fuck it's not. We

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<v Speaker 1>have two coach flights booked. After those two, I'm done.

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<v Speaker 1>It was not very comfortable. Fuck was it United? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Was that Delta?

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<v Speaker 2>It was No, it was United.

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<v Speaker 1>It had but I thought we went to the special

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<v Speaker 1>check in when we checked in, its Delta. Wow, I'm disappointed.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow the airlines are going downhill.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I don't know if a far. I think Delta

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<v Speaker 1>brought it in a United plane. It was very, very small.

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<v Speaker 1>They added a row and there was a regular sized

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<v Speaker 1>man next to me, and I felt so bad for

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<v Speaker 1>him because I'm like a below average small woman, and

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like I was gonna fucking kill myself. So

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, God, this is like slave labor.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not good. Relax, No, coach is not it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not kidding Anyway, we made it to Costa ricad

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<v Speaker 1>and early at six am. We thought we had thought

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<v Speaker 1>everything through very well, but we didn't because we arrived

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<v Speaker 1>at We arrived at six am, but we booked a

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<v Speaker 1>flight to the other coast at three pm.

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<v Speaker 2>We thought we were going to go explore the city,

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<v Speaker 2>but then apparently it's not that easy.

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<v Speaker 1>There's nothing really to do in San Jose. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>San Juan, no sand It was just like too.

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<v Speaker 2>Risky to go there. Come back, we're gonna miss Everyone

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<v Speaker 2>made it seem like it was just don't leave there.

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<v Speaker 1>No, nobody made it seem like it did. Yeh. Trip

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<v Speaker 1>Advisor said, listen, we didn't do any research until we

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<v Speaker 1>literally were landed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Well, first of all, we almost missed the flight.

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<v Speaker 2>Just so you know, guys, if you ever go to

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<v Speaker 2>Costa Rica, you need travel insurance. They won't let you

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<v Speaker 2>board the flight and soil you prove that you have insurance,

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<v Speaker 2>which we bought the insurance as the flight was born.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we get there, the guy is talking so slow.

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<v Speaker 1>We're checking in. He's like, oh, yeah, you need it,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to download this thing. But I'm gonna let

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<v Speaker 1>you guys go through for right now. And we're just

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<v Speaker 1>like okay, but he keeps talking and so I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>it must not be important. He's letting us through whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>We get to the gate, We're sitting there. This is

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<v Speaker 1>two bitches that shouldn't travel together because we don't do

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<v Speaker 1>enough research during COVID or at all. And so we

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<v Speaker 1>get there and we just start hearing announcements like if

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<v Speaker 1>you do not have travelers insurance proof, you will not

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<v Speaker 1>board this flight. I said again, if you think you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get on this flight without travel able to get

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<v Speaker 1>here and they get mad, The people get here and

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<v Speaker 1>get mad and they have to go home because they

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<v Speaker 1>did not get troubling it. I was like, what the

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<v Speaker 1>so here we're gonna meet and Erica looking at each other,

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<v Speaker 1>excuse me start did you get travel insurance to go?

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like, oh yeah, yeah, we got that shit

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<v Speaker 1>two weeks ago. I'm like, do you mind sharing the

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<v Speaker 1>link with us because these two dumb bitches didn't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're in there, of course, the airport WiFi is fucking

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<v Speaker 1>up there, the line is boarding. Me and Erica are

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<v Speaker 1>sweating because we are.

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<v Speaker 2>Sweating, like and they're supposed to get a QR code

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<v Speaker 2>that they like they're supposed to message you. It might

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<v Speaker 2>take a few minutes or maybe hours, who knows, but

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<v Speaker 2>it finally went through, literally with the last people to

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<v Speaker 2>board the flight, like we almost didn't even make it.

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<v Speaker 1>To air We're just looking over my shoulder, like look

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<v Speaker 1>at the lass, like stop, relax, just your fucking yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We boarded the flight, only I have a fucking ounce

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<v Speaker 1>of weed in my pussy. We almost think it off.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sweating bullets. Then we get on this tiny ass

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<v Speaker 1>fucking whack ass low grade delta fucking seating. We take

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<v Speaker 1>the Red Eye because we're gonna have the whole day there.

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<v Speaker 1>We get there tired, tired, and for some reason, international

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<v Speaker 1>and domestic airport is next door to each other, but

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<v Speaker 1>not like we had to push our big ass fucking

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<v Speaker 1>huge all of our bags from like neighboring airports, which

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<v Speaker 1>was not fun at six am, only to get to

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<v Speaker 1>the smaller airport to be like, are there any other

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<v Speaker 1>flights that are not at three pm? No? No, And

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<v Speaker 1>you can't check into this one for about four more

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<v Speaker 1>hours because it's six am. And then there's like three

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<v Speaker 1>sad rocking chairs in the airport. So I'm like, we're

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<v Speaker 1>just sitting on the rocking chairs. I'm like, we can't

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<v Speaker 1>sit here for eight hours. It's just not realistic. We

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<v Speaker 1>read trip Advisor. When we got to the airport, everyone's like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't leave the airport. You're gonna miss your flight. There's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing to do. And then it's just twenty minutes away

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<v Speaker 1>there's a mall. There's nothing to do. So we're like,

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<v Speaker 1>fuck it, let's see if you can get a rental

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<v Speaker 1>car and just drive. How many hours is it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like three and a half hours, right, So we're like, fine,

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<v Speaker 1>fuck it, we're gonna rent a car and drive. We

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<v Speaker 1>get the car, we have to like put somebody's credit

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<v Speaker 1>card up.

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<v Speaker 2>To like six thousand dollars hold on the car. It

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<v Speaker 2>was just a lot. It was a lot, but we

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<v Speaker 2>did it.

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<v Speaker 1>We did there. We got in a car. Ic did

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<v Speaker 1>all that bitching about me bringing weed, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>bitch wants a blunt. Now that a bitch wants a blunt.

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<v Speaker 2>I told you that I will be smoking that weed

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm just not going to put it in my

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<v Speaker 2>nature's pocket. I'm gonna let you handle that. You seemed

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<v Speaker 2>fine with it, so I was like, Okay, what you

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<v Speaker 2>wanna smoke alone. I knew you weren't going to smoke alone,

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<v Speaker 2>so I knew that either way, you're gonna be pissed.

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<v Speaker 2>I was still gonna get that wheat.

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<v Speaker 1>Luckily we had weed for the three and a half

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<v Speaker 1>hour trip that we It was.

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<v Speaker 2>A beautiful drive.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very jungle.

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<v Speaker 2>We found like we went a night this like which

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<v Speaker 2>stopped in this tiny town, ate breakfast and then all.

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<v Speaker 1>These delicious fruits. Yeah, we ate at it. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a school bus converted into highway restaurant. I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 1>I saw the cook try the food with the spoon.

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<v Speaker 2>That's pretty standard.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, I guess. Then we drive through farms and

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<v Speaker 1>backwoods and jungles and they were like, I'm like the GPS,

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<v Speaker 1>oh God, the GPS says we're almost there, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't see any ocean. I don't see any mountains.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, so before we also went, we researched

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<v Speaker 2>where like, I don't know how this came up. It

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<v Speaker 2>was a search was like where do famous people live

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<v Speaker 2>in Costa Rica? And it was like Juanacoste, Mel Gibson,

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, so Mel Gibson lives.

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<v Speaker 1>Where we're going, Like mel Gibson has a house here.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, I say.

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<v Speaker 2>As we're driving getting closer, I'm like, this seems like

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<v Speaker 2>where mel Gibson would live, Like it seems very mel gibsony.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yeah, it's getting richer for sure, very rich

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<v Speaker 2>over here, big mountains, gates I see, like I can't

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<v Speaker 2>see the houses, but I know they're there. And then

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<v Speaker 2>it says we've arrived, but we're at an intersection and

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<v Speaker 2>a farm, and I'm like, where are we from? When

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<v Speaker 2>we call the airbnb host and she's like, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know where the fuck you are, but if you go

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<v Speaker 2>four miles past the palm tree, make right.

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<v Speaker 1>Should the gas station.

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<v Speaker 2>She's a gas station. It's on the left with a

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<v Speaker 2>tree next to it, and you make it right, and

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<v Speaker 2>you go down four miles and.

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<v Speaker 1>Make Then she's like, send me a picture where you're at.

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<v Speaker 1>It's literally just a farm.

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<v Speaker 2>But we were about an hour and a half from

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<v Speaker 2>where we're supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 1>We had driven three and a half hours to nowhere,

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<v Speaker 1>only to have to drive another hour and a half

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<v Speaker 1>to wherever the fuck we were going because we were

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<v Speaker 1>not in that place. So yeah, it was about a

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<v Speaker 1>total of a six hour drive after a six hour flight,

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<v Speaker 1>after a change of plans from a flight to a car,

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<v Speaker 1>and but you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what, when we got to the fucking airbnb, it

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<v Speaker 2>was so goddamn beautiful that it was all worth it.

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<v Speaker 2>And so yeah, we stayed in I'm not even gonna

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<v Speaker 2>say what town we stayed in because I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>anyone to go, but we stayed in a really small

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<v Speaker 2>town that no one should know about except us unless

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<v Speaker 2>you're our friends. And we met like a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>Canadian people. We met some really cool people. Like what

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<v Speaker 2>I will say about Costa Rica is that no matter

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<v Speaker 2>what side of the island it's on island, the country

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<v Speaker 2>that you're on, there's like real sense of like peace

0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:54.840
<v Speaker 2>and like community over there, like people want to help you.

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<v Speaker 2>We met these guys that like didn't know us from

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<v Speaker 2>a canapaign and like we're fucking assisting us in all

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<v Speaker 2>all things possible, and I just, I don't know, just

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<v Speaker 2>the vibe there really made me rethink too, like be

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<v Speaker 2>appreciative of my tribe, but like how important like community

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<v Speaker 2>is and out there like you. That's why so many

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<v Speaker 2>people I think are moving out there too, because you

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<v Speaker 2>don't get that here people are like like hey you people.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, how can I help you? What do you need? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. And it's just quiet and chill and like

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<v Speaker 1>you saw the same ten people every night. And we

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<v Speaker 1>took surf lessons for the first time. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>my first time we stood up on the board. It

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<v Speaker 1>was we had a really peaceful, chill time. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like a grown ass adult for sure. Was a grown up.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a very grown up.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like it was like raining. One day, we

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<v Speaker 2>like ran to a blog. I was like, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like Carl Thomas Summer Rain was about to start playing.

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<v Speaker 1>Like and we're about to We're about to go. We

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<v Speaker 1>just ran out to get wine and then we just

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<v Speaker 1>hear like this beautiful voice calling us.

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<v Speaker 2>A siren and the.

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<v Speaker 1>Range and we were like about like literally back right

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<v Speaker 1>at the car and I was like should we go

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<v Speaker 1>in there? She was like, yeah, yeah we should. We

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<v Speaker 1>like followed the mystical voice and then met two best friends,

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<v Speaker 1>two girls. Could ever have Chuck and Simon, Yeah we did.

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<v Speaker 1>Chuck and Simon were so nice to us and they

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<v Speaker 1>talked to us.

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<v Speaker 2>And like I danced a little bit, drove the Sirmon home.

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<v Speaker 1>We always drove her home because she needed to ride

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<v Speaker 1>home and it was raining so she couldn't drive her bike.

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<v Speaker 1>We looked at property we don't have to do. We

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<v Speaker 1>went to like a lot of adult dinners. Eric had

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<v Speaker 1>drugg me one morning with a microdose of mushrooms along

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<v Speaker 1>with some vitamins, and then I forgot I took them

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like sweating at breakfast. I'm like, are

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<v Speaker 1>you feeling weird? She's like, nah, I'm fine. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, then she gave me mushrooms. You knew it.

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot, So that was weird. Eric, I got a

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<v Speaker 1>happy ending.

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<v Speaker 2>I did. It was great.

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<v Speaker 1>And the night after that long drive, long flight, we

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<v Speaker 1>got a massage and she went, all I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Is I look. I share the story on our episode

0:18:03.640 --> 0:18:06.000
<v Speaker 2>of Horrible Decisions that actually comes out this week. So

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<v Speaker 2>if you want to hear my massage story, go check

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<v Speaker 2>out go check us out on Horrible Decisions. But basically,

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<v Speaker 2>what I have confirmed is that all massages should end

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<v Speaker 2>in coming. It's not complete unless you came, because it's

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<v Speaker 2>the ultimate release. Why have I not known this? And

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<v Speaker 2>I was also I was kind of drunk when it happened,

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<v Speaker 2>but I couldn't wait to tell someone because I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like I had like just fucking discovered gold.

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<v Speaker 1>She thought she was in like the good old boys clubs.

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<v Speaker 2>I did. Actually, I group text a group text that

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<v Speaker 2>we're on with full of men because I felt like

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<v Speaker 2>Nicka's been doing this shit forever, Like what now I'm

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<v Speaker 2>part of the group and now I get it. I understand.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, you, guys, guess what.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally like eleven o'clock at night, Like I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>just did, like, bitch, relax. Then she comes in like

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<v Speaker 1>you should do it too.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh no, she was pissed because she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want him to touch my pussy. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>he's not going to touch your pussy.

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<v Speaker 1>Relaxed, you should if you've tried, you should let him

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<v Speaker 1>because oh it was great.

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<v Speaker 2>It was great.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's all drunk and all happy. I'm like, real, Las,

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<v Speaker 1>it was great.

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<v Speaker 2>It was you know, it was consensual and it was

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<v Speaker 2>wonderful and I highly recommend.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to get them on the bucket list anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I am.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure there's a few spots here in the good

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<v Speaker 2>old Woodland hills that can support your Yeah, the valley

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<v Speaker 2>is the place. Is the porn massage capital.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well I'll keep it there.

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<v Speaker 2>Also is that website I can remember what it's called,

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<v Speaker 2>like reb maps and that for women though just rub

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<v Speaker 2>maps me. I don't think it's specify for any I'm

0:19:31.920 --> 0:19:34.280
<v Speaker 2>sure mostly men around red maps, but I'm sure women

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<v Speaker 2>can go on reb maps too and find local massage

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<v Speaker 2>parlors that can rub it out for them.

0:19:37.920 --> 0:19:40.960
<v Speaker 1>There's always those sexy massage therapists online. Now, during that

0:19:41.040 --> 0:19:41.919
<v Speaker 1>all that extra shit.

0:19:41.840 --> 0:19:43.920
<v Speaker 2>You can find a sexy motherfucker on Instagram that will

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<v Speaker 2>rub it out.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, if anyone knows anyone's led in, my dam.

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<v Speaker 2>Pays them for their services. Jamila, my wife tipped him

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<v Speaker 2>for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I did. I was like, here you go, I'll sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>I was rocking cass bitch. Anyway. Oh, I turned thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt very adult. We went to dinner and just

0:20:04.160 --> 0:20:09.200
<v Speaker 1>chilled and it was very adult, like, very quiet and calm,

0:20:09.520 --> 0:20:13.679
<v Speaker 1>and there were monkeys and lots of foliage, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was wonderful.

0:20:14.800 --> 0:20:16.479
<v Speaker 2>Mangoes on the floor, you pick up, you eat them.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just great.

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<v Speaker 1>I never felt like fruit was so sexual and orgasmic.

0:20:21.200 --> 0:20:23.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean I did feel that way once in Mexico

0:20:23.720 --> 0:20:27.800
<v Speaker 1>on acid, but this was confirmed sober that fruit is

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<v Speaker 1>in fact next to sex yet migraine. It's very orgasmic.

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<v Speaker 1>And then after that very chill time on the Pacific

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<v Speaker 1>side for one week, we got back into our rental

0:20:40.680 --> 0:20:45.920
<v Speaker 1>car and journeyed back to the center of the country

0:20:46.480 --> 0:20:49.280
<v Speaker 1>so that we could go to the Caribbean side, which

0:20:49.280 --> 0:20:50.879
<v Speaker 1>we heard that the black people were at, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we had to swing over there. We took a fourteen

0:20:53.359 --> 0:20:56.800
<v Speaker 1>passenger plane which was very was kind of fun but scary.

0:20:57.119 --> 0:20:59.840
<v Speaker 1>It stopped on like another little island, literally the jetway on.

0:20:59.840 --> 0:21:02.600
<v Speaker 2>The people were flying in like onto the water.

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<v Speaker 1>It was beautiful. I want to get to that island,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever the fuck island that was we stopped at. And

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<v Speaker 1>then we made it back and we rented another.

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<v Speaker 2>Car and this time we drove five and a half hour.

0:21:12.920 --> 0:21:15.959
<v Speaker 1>This time drove five and a half hours and on

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<v Speaker 1>a one road, one lane road, run lane road highway

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<v Speaker 1>for five nimes and like someone had already worned. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like it's only one road in and out of that place,

0:21:25.080 --> 0:21:28.439
<v Speaker 1>and if a tree falls or oh there's a smug flide.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, what, I'm glad I didn't hear about

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<v Speaker 2>this till after we did it.

0:21:32.000 --> 0:21:32.920
<v Speaker 1>No, he told us before.

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<v Speaker 2>I has not been listening.

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<v Speaker 1>You drove five and a half hours to the Caribbean side,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But when we got there, it was like we unlocked

0:21:40.200 --> 0:21:43.720
<v Speaker 2>the fucking magic of Coast I mean Coast Rica's magical period.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was like unleash the dragon. The only reference.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that was an amazing reference. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>if you missed that. So we go. First of all,

0:21:56.560 --> 0:21:59.040
<v Speaker 1>there's no addresses in Costa Rica. They literally drop a pin.

0:21:59.160 --> 0:22:02.080
<v Speaker 1>There's like pop number seven, and we just like drove

0:22:02.119 --> 0:22:04.720
<v Speaker 1>down the road. There was a beautiful black woman greeting

0:22:04.800 --> 0:22:07.439
<v Speaker 1>us in a beautiful dress, which was beautiful, and like

0:22:07.480 --> 0:22:11.199
<v Speaker 1>you couldn't see the house, but bitch, when she opened

0:22:11.240 --> 0:22:13.440
<v Speaker 1>up the gates to this house, you could not mot

0:22:13.440 --> 0:22:16.200
<v Speaker 1>the fucking tell me, I was not princess mother fucking Jasmine. Okay,

0:22:16.720 --> 0:22:19.800
<v Speaker 1>the house was motherfucking Jasmine. It was a magic carpet

0:22:19.800 --> 0:22:22.480
<v Speaker 1>in that bitch. It was like the secret Garden. Jungle

0:22:22.560 --> 0:22:26.119
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, you've made it. I was like, I

0:22:26.160 --> 0:22:27.800
<v Speaker 1>was like, we're rich, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, how do we afford this girl? And it coastres

0:22:31.280 --> 0:22:33.119
<v Speaker 2>is not that very it was very not no, it

0:22:33.160 --> 0:22:36.639
<v Speaker 2>wasn't It wasn't expense it was very affordable, which was amazing.

0:22:37.040 --> 0:22:39.040
<v Speaker 1>God was on our side, like literally everything.

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<v Speaker 2>And then and then like we went out that night and.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, no, you're like just going over so much.

0:22:44.160 --> 0:22:44.679
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a beautiful, magical pool, there was a magical house.

0:22:48.119 --> 0:22:50.239
<v Speaker 1>There was an outside shower. It looked like we were

0:22:50.240 --> 0:22:53.399
<v Speaker 1>living in Bali. The kitchens outside, the living room's outside,

0:22:53.640 --> 0:22:56.520
<v Speaker 1>it was living outside. It was sexy as fuck. And

0:22:56.560 --> 0:22:58.359
<v Speaker 1>then we're like, let's go get dinner on the town.

0:22:58.680 --> 0:23:01.480
<v Speaker 1>And then we're just like amazing, host who's from La,

0:23:01.960 --> 0:23:04.600
<v Speaker 1>a black woman from La and she owns this beautiful house.

0:23:04.640 --> 0:23:06.480
<v Speaker 1>What a lucky bitch, Like, wow, I'm so happy you

0:23:06.520 --> 0:23:12.600
<v Speaker 1>own this house. Then it's true. Then we drove to

0:23:12.600 --> 0:23:14.439
<v Speaker 1>the town and like as we like creep up to

0:23:14.440 --> 0:23:17.760
<v Speaker 1>the town, I hear like Caribbean tunes. I'm like, bitch,

0:23:18.000 --> 0:23:19.720
<v Speaker 1>I think we're on the right side of the island.

0:23:19.880 --> 0:23:21.800
<v Speaker 1>I can feel that. I can just feel the jungle people.

0:23:21.800 --> 0:23:23.199
<v Speaker 1>I can feel the black people in the air. I

0:23:23.200 --> 0:23:25.920
<v Speaker 1>could feel them I was like, cuckck col cock co

0:23:28.600 --> 0:23:31.520
<v Speaker 1>We're here. We made it. And then so like right

0:23:31.560 --> 0:23:33.120
<v Speaker 1>before we get out the car, I was like really

0:23:33.160 --> 0:23:37.320
<v Speaker 1>feeling it. I was like, Erica, I just hope and wish, Like, honestly,

0:23:37.359 --> 0:23:39.679
<v Speaker 1>if I just get to have one's like sweaty dance

0:23:39.760 --> 0:23:43.560
<v Speaker 1>with a stranger, I'll be so motherfucking happy, just like

0:23:43.640 --> 0:23:44.760
<v Speaker 1>one sweaty dance.

0:23:44.800 --> 0:23:45.439
<v Speaker 2>She did say this.

0:23:45.520 --> 0:23:47.520
<v Speaker 1>I was just like, one just dance, it's one sweaty stranger.

0:23:48.000 --> 0:23:49.960
<v Speaker 1>So of course she was just like, yeah, okay, whatever, bitch,

0:23:50.040 --> 0:23:53.840
<v Speaker 1>let's go eat. We go to the beach. We watched

0:23:53.840 --> 0:23:58.120
<v Speaker 1>this beautiful sunset and have this delicious to bomb ass meal.

0:23:58.480 --> 0:24:01.600
<v Speaker 1>We're like in deep romance with each other. I'm staring

0:24:01.640 --> 0:24:03.720
<v Speaker 1>into each other's eyes, telling each other how much we

0:24:03.800 --> 0:24:06.000
<v Speaker 1>love each other and how grateful we are, like taking

0:24:06.040 --> 0:24:07.439
<v Speaker 1>turns going to the beach. All we wait for our

0:24:07.440 --> 0:24:10.960
<v Speaker 1>food and drink delicious cocktails. And right before we met

0:24:11.000 --> 0:24:13.400
<v Speaker 1>everyone sitting next to us, including the owner of the restaurant.

0:24:13.440 --> 0:24:16.080
<v Speaker 1>He gives us our check and he's like, are you

0:24:16.119 --> 0:24:19.800
<v Speaker 1>guys gonna go to the party, And I'm like, what

0:24:19.800 --> 0:24:22.480
<v Speaker 1>what did you say? He said, you guys going to

0:24:22.520 --> 0:24:26.440
<v Speaker 1>the party next door. I was like, done, I didn't

0:24:26.440 --> 0:24:28.159
<v Speaker 1>know there was a party. He's like, yeah, Johnny's that's

0:24:28.200 --> 0:24:31.800
<v Speaker 1>a really good party. I was like right now, He's like, yep,

0:24:32.119 --> 0:24:35.639
<v Speaker 1>about to get started right now. I was like, I

0:24:35.720 --> 0:24:40.000
<v Speaker 1>am a motherfucking manifesto. Okay, And what do you know,

0:24:40.080 --> 0:24:42.840
<v Speaker 1>the party just starts getting it cracking right there in

0:24:42.880 --> 0:24:45.960
<v Speaker 1>front of our eyes on the beach under the full moon.

0:24:46.600 --> 0:24:51.520
<v Speaker 1>And what do you see some niggas sweat and dancing. Yep, yep.

0:24:52.240 --> 0:24:57.840
<v Speaker 1>I was like, haircut, I made this party happen. She

0:24:58.040 --> 0:25:02.560
<v Speaker 1>was like, I know, And I sweaty danced on some strangers.

0:25:02.720 --> 0:25:04.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we did. We sweaty danced on some stranger. There

0:25:04.720 --> 0:25:07.600
<v Speaker 2>were some fine strangers there too. There were some unexpected

0:25:07.600 --> 0:25:09.800
<v Speaker 2>future friends there that we made friends with later that

0:25:09.840 --> 0:25:12.080
<v Speaker 2>we were like, who are these motherfuckers?

0:25:12.160 --> 0:25:14.880
<v Speaker 1>Like Gilly stood out to Gilly the gods shout out

0:25:14.920 --> 0:25:19.119
<v Speaker 1>to Gilly the motherfucking god, Like we judged Gilly. We

0:25:19.160 --> 0:25:20.120
<v Speaker 1>saw Gilly on the beach.

0:25:20.160 --> 0:25:22.280
<v Speaker 2>She was wearing his tin had timberlands in the sand,

0:25:22.400 --> 0:25:24.320
<v Speaker 2>and then he had like his like the cool trendy

0:25:24.400 --> 0:25:26.720
<v Speaker 2>like wangling the dangling cross earring.

0:25:26.520 --> 0:25:28.520
<v Speaker 1>You know that like and like the wife beat her

0:25:28.560 --> 0:25:29.760
<v Speaker 1>with the mussels.

0:25:29.320 --> 0:25:32.199
<v Speaker 2>And a girl and a grill and chains. I was like,

0:25:32.200 --> 0:25:33.200
<v Speaker 2>this nigga does not live.

0:25:33.119 --> 0:25:34.680
<v Speaker 1>Here, Like this nigga is visiting.

0:25:34.760 --> 0:25:37.840
<v Speaker 2>He's from He's a Tami or somewhere the Bronx.

0:25:38.359 --> 0:25:42.000
<v Speaker 1>He's from La for sure. And then we're also talking

0:25:42.040 --> 0:25:44.159
<v Speaker 1>about this other gid. We're like, he's like the ladies

0:25:44.280 --> 0:25:45.960
<v Speaker 1>man of Costa Rica. I could tell he's trying to

0:25:46.040 --> 0:25:47.920
<v Speaker 1>run game and all the bitches. She was like, yeah,

0:25:48.160 --> 0:25:52.280
<v Speaker 1>he's a fuck boy for sure. Fast forward to about

0:25:52.320 --> 0:25:56.720
<v Speaker 1>twenty hours later. The next day, because the town is

0:25:56.800 --> 0:25:59.560
<v Speaker 1>very small, I met up with one of my girlfriends,

0:25:59.600 --> 0:26:01.959
<v Speaker 1>Oh who was on the show last month. Shout out

0:26:02.000 --> 0:26:05.440
<v Speaker 1>to Monique, and then you know, the fuck boy joined

0:26:05.520 --> 0:26:08.359
<v Speaker 1>us and he became our friend. Later on, Gilly the

0:26:08.359 --> 0:26:11.080
<v Speaker 1>God joined us. He actually they both lived there. They're

0:26:11.119 --> 0:26:14.119
<v Speaker 1>not to he's lived there for like five years. It

0:26:14.240 --> 0:26:18.719
<v Speaker 1>was just pretty magical to see like young people just

0:26:18.840 --> 0:26:21.040
<v Speaker 1>say up and leave America and say fuck it and

0:26:21.080 --> 0:26:23.960
<v Speaker 1>like shut up shop and like this beautiful place where

0:26:24.000 --> 0:26:26.720
<v Speaker 1>like it's just the things you think are important are

0:26:26.760 --> 0:26:29.760
<v Speaker 1>really not important. And like when I say community, like

0:26:29.880 --> 0:26:33.040
<v Speaker 1>everyone loves on each other. It's kind of like a

0:26:33.080 --> 0:26:36.320
<v Speaker 1>little culty, like a culty love fest. So everyone's just

0:26:36.359 --> 0:26:39.680
<v Speaker 1>like really touchy feely and really like kind to each other.

0:26:39.760 --> 0:26:41.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, is this a cult or is this real?

0:26:41.960 --> 0:26:44.960
<v Speaker 2>No, that is not a cult. I don't get cult vibes.

0:26:45.000 --> 0:26:46.560
<v Speaker 2>But the one I said was a fuck boy? Who

0:26:46.600 --> 0:26:48.119
<v Speaker 2>is I don't think it's a fuck boy. He's actually

0:26:48.119 --> 0:26:50.600
<v Speaker 2>really sweet. He was actually in a cult, though I did,

0:26:50.640 --> 0:26:51.879
<v Speaker 2>we did actually meet someone who was in.

0:26:52.280 --> 0:26:54.040
<v Speaker 1>That's a trigger warning. I shouldn't just say cult. Ol

0:26:54.080 --> 0:26:55.960
<v Speaker 1>willynally like that. I mean like a love fest.

0:26:56.080 --> 0:26:59.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, everyone just really supportive and it's continued like even

0:27:00.160 --> 0:27:03.040
<v Speaker 2>past being there. Like I can't believe that I didn't

0:27:03.080 --> 0:27:05.440
<v Speaker 2>know that this place existed, But I also know that,

0:27:05.520 --> 0:27:08.560
<v Speaker 2>like everything shows itself when it's supposed to, and I

0:27:08.680 --> 0:27:12.320
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0:27:12.440 --> 0:27:22.199
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<v Speaker 1>And like even the party we went to, like there

0:29:22.880 --> 0:29:26.200
<v Speaker 1>was moms on the beach with their kids. The kids

0:29:26.280 --> 0:29:29.320
<v Speaker 1>are dancing, running around. That's what I love watching them.

0:29:29.360 --> 0:29:32.720
<v Speaker 1>The kids are just just like the water free free,

0:29:32.800 --> 0:29:35.959
<v Speaker 1>just free living their best fucking lives. And people are

0:29:35.960 --> 0:29:39.120
<v Speaker 1>smoking weed. Nobody's worried about none of the shit that

0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:41.560
<v Speaker 1>we'd be worried about. No one drives cars, everybody has

0:29:41.600 --> 0:29:42.080
<v Speaker 1>a bike.

0:29:42.280 --> 0:29:43.600
<v Speaker 2>Everyone's eating from the earth.

0:29:43.800 --> 0:29:47.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, everybody's eating fruits and like everything's from local sourced,

0:29:48.000 --> 0:29:51.360
<v Speaker 1>mothbucking places. You just feel healthy and bliss and your

0:29:51.400 --> 0:29:53.880
<v Speaker 1>skin feels good. I was feeling so sexy there, I

0:29:53.920 --> 0:29:56.040
<v Speaker 1>told you, Okay, like five times, I'm like, I am

0:29:56.120 --> 0:29:58.640
<v Speaker 1>so sexy in Costa Rica, Like Coasta Rica makes me

0:29:58.680 --> 0:30:02.920
<v Speaker 1>sexier and It's true. I was sexier there. I mean sexier.

0:30:03.080 --> 0:30:06.160
<v Speaker 1>I was like, my skin was sexier. I felt kinder,

0:30:06.840 --> 0:30:09.320
<v Speaker 1>kinder I did. I was happier. I was giving way

0:30:09.320 --> 0:30:11.800
<v Speaker 1>more hugs. It was just great. We made a lot

0:30:11.880 --> 0:30:14.880
<v Speaker 1>of friends. We thought we were locals. Even one night,

0:30:16.520 --> 0:30:19.360
<v Speaker 1>I begged Erica to go to this party. We're like,

0:30:19.640 --> 0:30:22.960
<v Speaker 1>they're like, yeah, Devin's parties, tonight's open. Dorian whatever you

0:30:23.000 --> 0:30:26.520
<v Speaker 1>always call her name. She was kind of mean to us.

0:30:27.720 --> 0:30:30.880
<v Speaker 1>She was nice later, Okay, Dorian. We went to Dorian's

0:30:30.920 --> 0:30:33.680
<v Speaker 1>party because we're locals. Now we have five friends, so like,

0:30:33.800 --> 0:30:35.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell Dorian you're coming. We met up a

0:30:35.600 --> 0:30:38.600
<v Speaker 1>shout out to Island Brewja. We met up with Island Breuja,

0:30:38.680 --> 0:30:40.880
<v Speaker 1>who found us before we got there. She's living in

0:30:40.880 --> 0:30:43.960
<v Speaker 1>Costa Rica. She found good Moms because someone shared the

0:30:44.000 --> 0:30:46.080
<v Speaker 1>hat and she liked the hat. And then like weeks later,

0:30:46.120 --> 0:30:47.800
<v Speaker 1>we're going to Costa Rica. She meets up with us.

0:30:48.040 --> 0:30:49.400
<v Speaker 1>She's like, oh, you can go to Dorian's. How does

0:30:49.480 --> 0:30:52.360
<v Speaker 1>text her tell you're coming. I'm like, okay, I like

0:30:52.360 --> 0:30:54.160
<v Speaker 1>I really don't feel like going. I'm like, come on,

0:30:54.680 --> 0:30:56.520
<v Speaker 1>it's open mic night, Like in my head it was

0:30:56.520 --> 0:30:57.760
<v Speaker 1>like a full going party.

0:30:57.800 --> 0:31:00.840
<v Speaker 2>Eila was gonna fucking make her fucking open debut. That's

0:31:00.840 --> 0:31:02.760
<v Speaker 2>what this ship was. She couldn't wait.

0:31:02.960 --> 0:31:09.480
<v Speaker 1>So we drive to Jorian's in the night and I

0:31:09.600 --> 0:31:11.960
<v Speaker 1>drive and we're all.

0:31:11.480 --> 0:31:13.880
<v Speaker 2>Like, Lily, never happens. I don't trust remas driving.

0:31:14.120 --> 0:31:17.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm a great driver. I'm a great driver. Bitch. Yeah, well, bitch,

0:31:17.560 --> 0:31:21.200
<v Speaker 1>this is not my fault. So we're driving and I'm like,

0:31:21.240 --> 0:31:22.920
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, like there's the house. We're like a

0:31:22.920 --> 0:31:25.440
<v Speaker 1>deep conversation and I'm like, there's the house right there.

0:31:25.520 --> 0:31:30.600
<v Speaker 1>And literally as soon as I say right there, we

0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:34.520
<v Speaker 1>drive into a ditch, but not like a regular ditch,

0:31:34.600 --> 0:31:35.720
<v Speaker 1>Like the back of the.

0:31:36.520 --> 0:31:38.120
<v Speaker 2>Whole car was off the ground.

0:31:38.200 --> 0:31:40.320
<v Speaker 1>The back two wheels were off like the nose of

0:31:40.360 --> 0:31:41.960
<v Speaker 1>the car. I don't know what kind of ditch. How

0:31:42.120 --> 0:31:44.040
<v Speaker 1>was that cliff? It was like a cliff baby cloth.

0:31:44.120 --> 0:31:46.800
<v Speaker 1>She's like, no boom, and I was like, we just

0:31:46.840 --> 0:31:49.840
<v Speaker 1>look at this. I was like, oh my god, she's

0:31:49.920 --> 0:31:52.680
<v Speaker 1>gonna kill me. I'm like, oh, no, is the car broken.

0:31:52.840 --> 0:31:55.560
<v Speaker 1>This seems I'm like lifted off the car, opened the

0:31:55.640 --> 0:31:57.840
<v Speaker 1>car door and it's like swinging and I have to

0:31:58.000 --> 0:32:02.760
<v Speaker 1>jump down. So we're both We've put like six thousand

0:32:02.800 --> 0:32:05.320
<v Speaker 1>dollars in the credit card to cover with their insurance,

0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:11.920
<v Speaker 1>so we're like not saying much. It begins to rain,

0:32:13.600 --> 0:32:14.920
<v Speaker 1>so then we have to go. Also, we're in the

0:32:14.920 --> 0:32:16.280
<v Speaker 1>middle of the street. We're in the middle of the street.

0:32:16.280 --> 0:32:17.720
<v Speaker 1>So then we have to go into Dorian's house, where

0:32:17.720 --> 0:32:20.240
<v Speaker 1>we don't really know Dorian because we thought we're locals

0:32:20.400 --> 0:32:25.080
<v Speaker 1>two hours ago. And we get in there so mellow,

0:32:25.760 --> 0:32:28.640
<v Speaker 1>and everyone's sitting on the floor and there's like candles

0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:31.520
<v Speaker 1>lit and there's like poetry going and it's like I

0:32:31.560 --> 0:32:36.880
<v Speaker 1>am me, she is she, I am deep as the sea,

0:32:38.120 --> 0:32:39.960
<v Speaker 1>and everyone's like and then it's like and then it

0:32:40.000 --> 0:32:42.440
<v Speaker 1>really doesn't rhyme. It's like and then it's so deep

0:32:42.480 --> 0:32:44.480
<v Speaker 1>because you know, I don't have any friends, but I

0:32:44.520 --> 0:32:47.840
<v Speaker 1>do have friends, but I'm in Costa Rica. And then

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:50.400
<v Speaker 1>it's like a guitar playing. It's like do doo doom,

0:32:50.600 --> 0:32:53.480
<v Speaker 1>do doo doo. And then here we come in, Like

0:32:55.640 --> 0:33:00.680
<v Speaker 1>first we're like, who the fuck are YouTube bitches. I'm like, hi, Dorian.

0:33:02.680 --> 0:33:06.360
<v Speaker 1>They're like it's like an abrupt stop to this terrible poetry,

0:33:06.360 --> 0:33:10.520
<v Speaker 1>and they're like like, our our car is stuck in

0:33:10.560 --> 0:33:13.360
<v Speaker 1>a ditch. Can you do you know what? Tow truck?

0:33:13.360 --> 0:33:15.400
<v Speaker 1>And they're all looking at us, like a tow truck, bitch,

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:18.320
<v Speaker 1>you're in the jungle, and they're like, can you someone

0:33:18.400 --> 0:33:20.719
<v Speaker 1>just I'm like this, give me someone could just come

0:33:20.960 --> 0:33:23.840
<v Speaker 1>out and look at it. So two guys like no

0:33:23.920 --> 0:33:26.120
<v Speaker 1>one's on any press time and coast three kids like

0:33:27.800 --> 0:33:31.000
<v Speaker 1>there's nothing to do. You're literally there's nothing happening. Shul

0:33:31.000 --> 0:33:33.560
<v Speaker 1>They come out, they look at it. Then I discovered

0:33:33.560 --> 0:33:34.680
<v Speaker 1>that there's killer ants.

0:33:34.840 --> 0:33:37.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, the killer ants on the floor.

0:33:37.160 --> 0:33:39.360
<v Speaker 1>The rain, the killer ants. The car is in a ditch,

0:33:39.640 --> 0:33:42.840
<v Speaker 1>biting our feet in the air, and these two guys

0:33:42.840 --> 0:33:47.120
<v Speaker 1>are like huh yeah, like push it down a little

0:33:47.160 --> 0:33:47.720
<v Speaker 1>bit to like.

0:33:47.640 --> 0:33:51.840
<v Speaker 2>Barely barely tryl. I'm like, what the fuck is going on?

0:33:52.000 --> 0:33:53.920
<v Speaker 1>So you know, we're like la bitches. We're like, we

0:33:53.960 --> 0:33:56.280
<v Speaker 1>gotta get the fucking solution. What's the fun? Who on

0:33:56.360 --> 0:33:59.040
<v Speaker 1>a tow truck? Cow? Many help us? And everyone's like.

0:34:00.680 --> 0:34:01.360
<v Speaker 2>Just come sick.

0:34:01.600 --> 0:34:03.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's like pull some card. Yeah, so let me

0:34:03.960 --> 0:34:06.600
<v Speaker 1>come in. They literally do nothing, and we're like, okay, well,

0:34:06.600 --> 0:34:08.200
<v Speaker 1>I guess they're like the toe check's not going to

0:34:08.239 --> 0:34:09.080
<v Speaker 1>be open. On Sunday.

0:34:09.120 --> 0:34:11.280
<v Speaker 2>So then someone starts honking outside because they were blocking

0:34:11.320 --> 0:34:13.400
<v Speaker 2>the street. So we go back in.

0:34:13.640 --> 0:34:16.439
<v Speaker 1>They proceed like nothing just fucking happened. We're not having

0:34:16.480 --> 0:34:21.279
<v Speaker 1>an urgent matter. They continue the terrible fucking poetry. Someone

0:34:21.320 --> 0:34:23.480
<v Speaker 1>starts honking outside, Erica goes and then she comes back

0:34:23.520 --> 0:34:26.080
<v Speaker 1>and she's like, Yo, the guy said he can help us.

0:34:26.120 --> 0:34:29.000
<v Speaker 1>We just had to get like ten friends, and he

0:34:29.040 --> 0:34:31.640
<v Speaker 1>sees like he's seen it a hundred times. He said

0:34:31.680 --> 0:34:34.359
<v Speaker 1>he can help us. I'm like, so everyone's still like

0:34:34.840 --> 0:34:38.719
<v Speaker 1>and then we went to the tree the party, so.

0:34:38.960 --> 0:34:42.080
<v Speaker 2>They were intentionally ignoring me. I was like, that's why I.

0:34:42.040 --> 0:34:45.600
<v Speaker 1>Was getting picked. I could feel Eric's energy rising and

0:34:45.640 --> 0:34:48.160
<v Speaker 1>it was stressing me out because A I forced her

0:34:48.160 --> 0:34:50.120
<v Speaker 1>to come to the party. B I drove into this

0:34:50.200 --> 0:34:52.800
<v Speaker 1>dumbass diage. See her credit card is on this fucking

0:34:52.840 --> 0:34:56.319
<v Speaker 1>stupid ass four hundred million dollar fucking insurance and I

0:34:56.320 --> 0:34:59.480
<v Speaker 1>can just feel her getting irritated. But I'm like, okay, me, no, me.

0:34:59.600 --> 0:35:01.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm like trying to fill the room. I'm like, there's

0:35:01.560 --> 0:35:03.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna be a perfect opportunity to rally everybody up. This

0:35:04.080 --> 0:35:06.319
<v Speaker 1>is just not it. I'm like, okay, we've abruptly walked into

0:35:06.360 --> 0:35:09.719
<v Speaker 1>their then zen ness, whatever the fuck is happening here,

0:35:10.040 --> 0:35:12.480
<v Speaker 1>and now we're like pushing them to help us, even

0:35:12.520 --> 0:35:14.239
<v Speaker 1>though they clearly don't give a fuck. But let me

0:35:14.320 --> 0:35:16.800
<v Speaker 1>just go about this. I'm just trying to be the buffer.

0:35:17.800 --> 0:35:20.359
<v Speaker 1>So then they pull out some fucking cards and they're

0:35:20.360 --> 0:35:24.479
<v Speaker 1>like everybody feeling cards. They're like feeling hard. We're gonna

0:35:24.480 --> 0:35:25.960
<v Speaker 1>pull some in a second, so as we're talking, shit,

0:35:26.080 --> 0:35:28.120
<v Speaker 1>don't worry, we have some here. But then like I

0:35:28.200 --> 0:35:30.239
<v Speaker 1>feel like, who's your best friend? They're like me, I

0:35:30.280 --> 0:35:32.880
<v Speaker 1>am my own best friend. And I realized that I

0:35:33.000 --> 0:35:35.720
<v Speaker 1>love being my own best friend because I'm best friends

0:35:35.719 --> 0:35:35.960
<v Speaker 1>with me.

0:35:36.080 --> 0:35:37.840
<v Speaker 2>Like sometimes I talk to myself in the line and

0:35:38.200 --> 0:35:39.759
<v Speaker 2>people wonder what I'm talking to if it didn't talk

0:35:39.800 --> 0:35:41.200
<v Speaker 2>to me because I'm checking with myself.

0:35:41.239 --> 0:35:42.960
<v Speaker 1>And then I had this really judging I had this

0:35:43.040 --> 0:35:45.760
<v Speaker 1>really judging thought at this moment. After like three cards,

0:35:45.800 --> 0:35:48.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm like this costa Rica full of like American like

0:35:48.680 --> 0:35:53.200
<v Speaker 1>loners because everyone's like a leone and I'm great, I'm

0:35:53.200 --> 0:35:57.120
<v Speaker 1>like are you? And then Eric is pissed, like she's fuming,

0:35:57.160 --> 0:35:58.800
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like trying not to look at her. Because

0:35:58.800 --> 0:36:02.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm stressed. So finally I'm like, the cards get to us,

0:36:02.200 --> 0:36:04.120
<v Speaker 1>and you would think that they would skip us, but no,

0:36:04.239 --> 0:36:06.440
<v Speaker 1>they wanted us to go even though we're having an emergency.

0:36:07.560 --> 0:36:10.359
<v Speaker 1>So Erica's cards come and she's like, oh the time.

0:36:10.480 --> 0:36:12.400
<v Speaker 1>It was like, when have you felt the most the

0:36:12.400 --> 0:36:13.080
<v Speaker 1>most adrenaline?

0:36:13.160 --> 0:36:15.360
<v Speaker 2>Yea, the most adrenaline, and I said probably birth. And

0:36:15.360 --> 0:36:17.040
<v Speaker 2>when my car got stuck in a ditch in the

0:36:17.040 --> 0:36:18.320
<v Speaker 2>front of the party and no one.

0:36:18.200 --> 0:36:22.320
<v Speaker 1>Helped, I'm like, if you guys could just please you guys,

0:36:22.640 --> 0:36:24.839
<v Speaker 1>there's a guy out there that can help us.

0:36:25.040 --> 0:36:28.120
<v Speaker 2>I really appreciate. As soon as she got the pissed,

0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:29.839
<v Speaker 2>I was like, there's like seven men in this room.

0:36:29.960 --> 0:36:31.160
<v Speaker 2>There was like, fuck, you're not gonna go.

0:36:31.360 --> 0:36:33.160
<v Speaker 1>Total of ten people at this love.

0:36:33.600 --> 0:36:35.680
<v Speaker 2>Most of them were men, get your ass up and

0:36:35.719 --> 0:36:37.160
<v Speaker 2>get on this goddamn car, but.

0:36:37.120 --> 0:36:38.399
<v Speaker 1>They were so zend out.

0:36:38.520 --> 0:36:40.200
<v Speaker 2>I know a fuck. I was like one of them

0:36:40.239 --> 0:36:42.680
<v Speaker 2>and like intentionally was purposely. I was like, is this

0:36:42.800 --> 0:36:45.680
<v Speaker 2>some fake tribe shit? I was like, these motherfuckers don't

0:36:45.680 --> 0:36:47.000
<v Speaker 2>want to help us. I was pissed.

0:36:47.080 --> 0:36:48.640
<v Speaker 1>So she's like, the guys that if you just get

0:36:48.719 --> 0:36:51.319
<v Speaker 1>nine people, I'm like, can you please, if you all

0:36:51.400 --> 0:36:55.040
<v Speaker 1>can just please just come outside, everyone right now, please

0:36:55.360 --> 0:36:57.200
<v Speaker 1>all at one time, if we could just just give

0:36:57.239 --> 0:36:59.879
<v Speaker 1>us five minutes of your weight. So then she goes

0:37:00.120 --> 0:37:02.239
<v Speaker 1>knocks on the guy's door and he's like, he's done

0:37:02.280 --> 0:37:04.040
<v Speaker 1>this before, because I don't know who the fuck allowed

0:37:04.080 --> 0:37:05.759
<v Speaker 1>this ditch to be this deep into the middle of

0:37:05.800 --> 0:37:08.880
<v Speaker 1>the street. He comes out. We all jump on the

0:37:08.960 --> 0:37:13.319
<v Speaker 1>back of this car. I'm in the front seat on

0:37:13.440 --> 0:37:16.239
<v Speaker 1>the fucking reverse. So, please God, please gotta get this

0:37:16.320 --> 0:37:17.600
<v Speaker 1>fucking crowd of here so I don't have to hear

0:37:17.680 --> 0:37:24.640
<v Speaker 1>him out. I'm like, they're like pushing, I'm like, please God.

0:37:25.200 --> 0:37:30.160
<v Speaker 1>And then finally and it fucking backs out because twenty

0:37:30.200 --> 0:37:33.040
<v Speaker 1>people are sitting on the back right corner and there's

0:37:33.080 --> 0:37:36.560
<v Speaker 1>not a fucking scratch on this fucking vehicle.

0:37:36.640 --> 0:37:37.160
<v Speaker 2>A miracle.

0:37:37.280 --> 0:37:38.360
<v Speaker 1>It was a goddamn miracle.

0:37:38.920 --> 0:37:42.120
<v Speaker 2>Anyway we got out. The moral of the story is

0:37:42.520 --> 0:37:44.839
<v Speaker 2>they came and helped the more of the stories. They

0:37:44.840 --> 0:37:46.960
<v Speaker 2>were on some tribe shit. They were just very mellow

0:37:47.000 --> 0:37:49.000
<v Speaker 2>about it. We're just pressed.

0:37:49.560 --> 0:37:52.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the la and us was coming out really quickly.

0:37:52.280 --> 0:37:54.520
<v Speaker 1>I was like, we're in Costa Rica. You gotta relax.

0:37:55.640 --> 0:37:57.680
<v Speaker 2>But then like you know after leaving there and then

0:37:57.680 --> 0:37:59.760
<v Speaker 2>I feel like we went from like the real jungle

0:37:59.840 --> 0:38:02.720
<v Speaker 2>to the concrete jungle, back to work, back to our kids,

0:38:03.120 --> 0:38:06.120
<v Speaker 2>but even still like seeing like I'm even like when

0:38:06.120 --> 0:38:07.480
<v Speaker 2>I was there, I was like, Wow, I'm here with

0:38:07.520 --> 0:38:10.840
<v Speaker 2>my best friend. I am, I'm putting my daughters in

0:38:10.880 --> 0:38:13.800
<v Speaker 2>camp or recording, I'm following my dreams. I'm interviewing fucking

0:38:14.400 --> 0:38:17.360
<v Speaker 2>dynamic guests that like who else is going to have

0:38:17.400 --> 0:38:20.120
<v Speaker 2>a conversation with like a dominatrix on a Tuesday at

0:38:20.160 --> 0:38:22.759
<v Speaker 2>twelve pm with her sub Like those are the kind

0:38:22.760 --> 0:38:25.520
<v Speaker 2>of conversations like I want to be having, Like I

0:38:25.520 --> 0:38:26.800
<v Speaker 2>wouldn't want to be doing it. I don't want to

0:38:26.840 --> 0:38:28.520
<v Speaker 2>be up in an office, No offense to those that are,

0:38:28.560 --> 0:38:30.400
<v Speaker 2>but that's just not the way I'm designing my life.

0:38:30.440 --> 0:38:33.480
<v Speaker 2>And I'm realizing that I truly have designed my life.

0:38:33.560 --> 0:38:36.160
<v Speaker 2>And I think going to Costa Rica was a reminder

0:38:36.200 --> 0:38:38.600
<v Speaker 2>too of like not only like career wise, how I

0:38:38.640 --> 0:38:41.560
<v Speaker 2>want to be and like my goals and you know,

0:38:42.080 --> 0:38:46.200
<v Speaker 2>having access which sometimes correlates with having income, but like

0:38:46.320 --> 0:38:49.280
<v Speaker 2>how I want to live, how my body to feel.

0:38:49.600 --> 0:38:51.440
<v Speaker 1>Literally, that's what I kept telling. I was just like

0:38:51.520 --> 0:38:55.160
<v Speaker 1>I feel my body feels better. I'm literally were naked,

0:38:55.200 --> 0:38:58.280
<v Speaker 1>like ninety percent of the trip. I'm mostly peeed outside.

0:38:58.280 --> 0:39:02.040
<v Speaker 1>I mostly showered outside the Eight Fruits, like I felt

0:39:02.040 --> 0:39:03.719
<v Speaker 1>connected to the earth, and you know when I felt

0:39:03.760 --> 0:39:06.839
<v Speaker 1>like such a powerful download, like a message of like

0:39:07.440 --> 0:39:10.200
<v Speaker 1>everything that you need, there's an abundance of it. Like

0:39:10.360 --> 0:39:13.279
<v Speaker 1>everything in Costa Rica is so plush and so like

0:39:13.320 --> 0:39:15.640
<v Speaker 1>that you could see that so rich. You could see

0:39:15.719 --> 0:39:18.319
<v Speaker 1>the earth bearing its fruit, you know, and I just

0:39:18.360 --> 0:39:21.319
<v Speaker 1>felt so cared for and protected and like everything I

0:39:21.360 --> 0:39:23.920
<v Speaker 1>needed right there I had, and everything else that I

0:39:23.960 --> 0:39:25.839
<v Speaker 1>was worried about didn't have to be worried about. And

0:39:25.880 --> 0:39:28.880
<v Speaker 1>even to the point of me manifesting a sweaty dance party,

0:39:29.239 --> 0:39:33.000
<v Speaker 1>and like even you know, when we got there, we're like, God,

0:39:33.040 --> 0:39:35.640
<v Speaker 1>I really want to share this experience with our community,

0:39:35.719 --> 0:39:37.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, like other people have to come here. And

0:39:37.640 --> 0:39:40.200
<v Speaker 1>even to the point where, after like three days, I

0:39:40.239 --> 0:39:43.239
<v Speaker 1>was like, it is so fucking necessary that moms go

0:39:43.360 --> 0:39:46.280
<v Speaker 1>on trips without their kids, because you know, we're moms.

0:39:46.280 --> 0:39:48.480
<v Speaker 1>We were having guilt of not bringing our kids. We

0:39:48.480 --> 0:39:51.800
<v Speaker 1>were having you know, the scheduling at home wasn't going smoothly,

0:39:51.880 --> 0:39:53.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, niggas say they're going to show up, they

0:39:53.480 --> 0:39:56.040
<v Speaker 1>don't show up, and you have to you feel guilty

0:39:56.040 --> 0:39:58.320
<v Speaker 1>should I be here doing this for this extended amount

0:39:58.320 --> 0:40:00.880
<v Speaker 1>of time. But I'm like, this is so fucking necessary,

0:40:00.880 --> 0:40:02.960
<v Speaker 1>and honestly, like I encourage it right after you have

0:40:03.040 --> 0:40:05.000
<v Speaker 1>a baby, Like it should be normalized to go on

0:40:05.040 --> 0:40:09.240
<v Speaker 1>a long vacation every year without your family. You should

0:40:09.280 --> 0:40:11.200
<v Speaker 1>have to do it because you have to be able

0:40:11.280 --> 0:40:13.520
<v Speaker 1>to and for an extended time. Because it took Eric

0:40:13.560 --> 0:40:16.239
<v Speaker 1>and I at least like four or five days to

0:40:16.320 --> 0:40:19.759
<v Speaker 1>like decompress, decompress and then like really be in it,

0:40:19.800 --> 0:40:22.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, And like I was even talking about, like

0:40:22.560 --> 0:40:25.040
<v Speaker 1>how do we bring our community here? How do we develop,

0:40:25.200 --> 0:40:28.440
<v Speaker 1>like do a trip together where we can manifest because

0:40:28.560 --> 0:40:31.000
<v Speaker 1>Eric and I have had the blessing of being able

0:40:31.040 --> 0:40:34.600
<v Speaker 1>to really see our manifestations come to life to the

0:40:34.600 --> 0:40:37.000
<v Speaker 1>point like I'm looking over at my best friend like

0:40:37.400 --> 0:40:40.759
<v Speaker 1>I can't believe, like we did this, you know, like

0:40:41.080 --> 0:40:43.279
<v Speaker 1>we didn't win this on the radio. We paid for this,

0:40:43.600 --> 0:40:46.200
<v Speaker 1>weird adults. And then like how do we find the

0:40:46.200 --> 0:40:48.879
<v Speaker 1>best air following our dreams to follow like just being

0:40:48.960 --> 0:40:50.840
<v Speaker 1>us and just like we went to New York and

0:40:50.920 --> 0:40:53.800
<v Speaker 1>had these crazy conversations with our friends and we're smoking

0:40:53.800 --> 0:40:56.399
<v Speaker 1>weed and we're we're interviewing a dominatrix and then we're

0:40:56.400 --> 0:40:58.600
<v Speaker 1>turning it over and interviewing best friends and crying and

0:40:58.600 --> 0:40:59.680
<v Speaker 1>about how much we love each.

0:40:59.600 --> 0:41:01.840
<v Speaker 2>Other, out with our kids, and then we're just like,

0:41:02.440 --> 0:41:04.440
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I realize. And then so you saying, like

0:41:04.480 --> 0:41:06.440
<v Speaker 2>my friend was like, you guys don't live normal lives.

0:41:06.480 --> 0:41:09.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I mean, I think everyone's version of normal

0:41:09.400 --> 0:41:11.719
<v Speaker 2>is different, but no, I don't, and I've never wanted to.

0:41:11.840 --> 0:41:13.879
<v Speaker 2>And that's the life that I want to continue to live.

0:41:13.960 --> 0:41:15.600
<v Speaker 1>I want to be able to be one hundred percent

0:41:15.680 --> 0:41:19.480
<v Speaker 1>myself and be authentic and fuck up and cry and

0:41:19.520 --> 0:41:22.280
<v Speaker 1>be vulnerable, and when I'm not being vulnerable, check myself

0:41:22.280 --> 0:41:24.480
<v Speaker 1>and my friend be able to tell me, and also

0:41:24.719 --> 0:41:27.360
<v Speaker 1>like just be able to put our kids in camp

0:41:27.400 --> 0:41:30.120
<v Speaker 1>together and get a babysitter and you know, go to

0:41:30.160 --> 0:41:32.120
<v Speaker 1>the sex party at night and laugh about it the

0:41:32.160 --> 0:41:35.080
<v Speaker 1>next day, and like still be good moms and still

0:41:35.120 --> 0:41:38.239
<v Speaker 1>do the things and it's such a beautiful journey and

0:41:38.320 --> 0:41:42.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm just I love it here. No same, but I

0:41:42.200 --> 0:41:44.799
<v Speaker 1>mean I think too, like going back to you know,

0:41:45.560 --> 0:41:49.120
<v Speaker 1>being able to connect to yourself and to nature and

0:41:49.160 --> 0:41:52.440
<v Speaker 1>wanting to bring our tribe there. Like I'm just so

0:41:52.520 --> 0:41:54.879
<v Speaker 1>excited because we were like, how do we do this?

0:41:55.200 --> 0:41:57.480
<v Speaker 1>And like, when I tell you the power of like

0:41:57.560 --> 0:41:58.920
<v Speaker 1>me and Jamila's.

0:41:58.520 --> 0:42:02.520
<v Speaker 2>Entity is it's something really special and like you too

0:42:02.600 --> 0:42:04.840
<v Speaker 2>can have that with your friend, like with your soulmate

0:42:04.960 --> 0:42:07.360
<v Speaker 2>or whatever that looks like. But me and Jamila were

0:42:07.480 --> 0:42:09.000
<v Speaker 2>we were like, we need to do this, and then

0:42:09.040 --> 0:42:10.680
<v Speaker 2>we met a woman and then.

0:42:10.640 --> 0:42:13.359
<v Speaker 1>Literally we're like, we need to post a retreat in

0:42:13.440 --> 0:42:15.840
<v Speaker 1>Costa Rica. It should be all of these things that

0:42:15.840 --> 0:42:18.560
<v Speaker 1>we're experiencing. And literally, like that day, I went to

0:42:18.560 --> 0:42:21.680
<v Speaker 1>go eat lunch with my friend who lives in Costa Rica, Monique,

0:42:21.760 --> 0:42:24.480
<v Speaker 1>and then she introduced me to this woman. She's like, hello,

0:42:25.040 --> 0:42:28.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, like I coordinate retreats. I've done it for years.

0:42:28.080 --> 0:42:30.160
<v Speaker 1>I did it on a major level and like Abiza

0:42:30.239 --> 0:42:33.400
<v Speaker 1>or some shit. I'm like, oh did you Well, thanks God,

0:42:34.080 --> 0:42:35.839
<v Speaker 1>I'll take it, you know, And I told her. I

0:42:35.880 --> 0:42:38.399
<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, it's crazy that I'm meeting you right now.

0:42:38.440 --> 0:42:40.279
<v Speaker 1>Like I was just talking to my partner about this,

0:42:40.360 --> 0:42:44.120
<v Speaker 1>and it's literally every single thing that we wanted that

0:42:44.200 --> 0:42:47.279
<v Speaker 1>we got, like to the very small, even down to

0:42:47.320 --> 0:42:50.200
<v Speaker 1>our friends when we got there, we were just talking, eh,

0:42:50.440 --> 0:42:52.839
<v Speaker 1>look at them, like, and we asked for those friendships.

0:42:53.800 --> 0:42:57.839
<v Speaker 1>Even in our like very small virtual manifestation full moon

0:42:57.960 --> 0:43:00.799
<v Speaker 1>thing that we did, we had people come, you know,

0:43:00.960 --> 0:43:03.279
<v Speaker 1>write in and say like I manifested this and this

0:43:03.360 --> 0:43:06.239
<v Speaker 1>came to fruition. And I do believe there's power in

0:43:06.320 --> 0:43:09.560
<v Speaker 1>doing shit together. I do like when you harness your energy, Like,

0:43:09.600 --> 0:43:12.920
<v Speaker 1>first of all, femine energy is so fucking divine and goddess.

0:43:13.360 --> 0:43:16.560
<v Speaker 1>It's literally creative energy. We create life. And when we

0:43:16.680 --> 0:43:19.480
<v Speaker 1>put that shit together like the red tent style in

0:43:19.520 --> 0:43:22.879
<v Speaker 1>a tropical holy place like Costa Rica, and you come

0:43:22.960 --> 0:43:26.160
<v Speaker 1>vulnerable and you come like open and ready to connect,

0:43:26.440 --> 0:43:30.880
<v Speaker 1>that shit is motherfucking powerful. So like, yeah, I'm super

0:43:31.080 --> 0:43:34.480
<v Speaker 1>super excited to announce that we are doing a retreat

0:43:34.680 --> 0:43:38.839
<v Speaker 1>hey in January in Costa Rica, twenty twenty two.

0:43:39.640 --> 0:43:42.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm so excited it's January two because I feel like,

0:43:42.719 --> 0:43:44.560
<v Speaker 2>I mean, we all know, like beginning of the year,

0:43:44.600 --> 0:43:46.759
<v Speaker 2>we're always focusing on like, Okay, what are the things

0:43:46.800 --> 0:43:50.279
<v Speaker 2>that we're reevaluating about last year ourselves, But sometimes it

0:43:50.400 --> 0:43:54.240
<v Speaker 2>takes like a few weeks into January for some reason

0:43:54.360 --> 0:43:56.719
<v Speaker 2>to like really like, Okay, what is it that I

0:43:56.760 --> 0:43:58.520
<v Speaker 2>really want to do? You know, And like I just

0:43:58.560 --> 0:44:01.880
<v Speaker 2>feel like making this commitment to yourself really and coming

0:44:01.920 --> 0:44:03.799
<v Speaker 2>back to yourself and saying I'm going to do this

0:44:03.880 --> 0:44:08.080
<v Speaker 2>for me, Like there's something so powerful about that and

0:44:08.080 --> 0:44:10.640
<v Speaker 2>then us all coming together. I'm just really excited to

0:44:11.560 --> 0:44:14.839
<v Speaker 2>meet the people that you know are committed to themselves,

0:44:14.880 --> 0:44:17.000
<v Speaker 2>because those are the people I want to be attached to,

0:44:17.080 --> 0:44:18.480
<v Speaker 2>those not attached but connected to.

0:44:18.719 --> 0:44:21.160
<v Speaker 1>You know, well, when you're manifesting, yeah, you need people

0:44:21.160 --> 0:44:23.000
<v Speaker 1>who are on the same page as you. And we

0:44:23.080 --> 0:44:26.160
<v Speaker 1>need to nurture our dreams and nurture each other and

0:44:26.200 --> 0:44:28.279
<v Speaker 1>like take time to do that. It's important. Even in

0:44:28.320 --> 0:44:31.120
<v Speaker 1>Costa Rica, It's like it feels good to just do

0:44:31.239 --> 0:44:34.640
<v Speaker 1>whatever I want, like just nurture myself, listen to my body.

0:44:34.920 --> 0:44:38.239
<v Speaker 1>And the times I've experienced the most like shift in

0:44:38.320 --> 0:44:40.719
<v Speaker 1>my energy and in my like in myself, like my

0:44:40.800 --> 0:44:43.640
<v Speaker 1>ability to reflect and dig deeper is when I'm most

0:44:43.680 --> 0:44:46.640
<v Speaker 1>silent and most in nature. So like doing that as

0:44:46.680 --> 0:44:48.040
<v Speaker 1>a community is going to be nice.

0:44:48.080 --> 0:44:50.800
<v Speaker 2>And there's such magical people and healers out there, you guys,

0:44:50.840 --> 0:44:53.640
<v Speaker 2>I can't wait for you guys to see what's out

0:44:53.640 --> 0:44:56.560
<v Speaker 2>there and meet the people out there. It's just like

0:44:56.960 --> 0:44:59.240
<v Speaker 2>it's oh my god, I miss Lanie.

0:44:59.640 --> 0:45:04.400
<v Speaker 1>Miss yeah, we have a Coasta Rican grandmother. Thank you

0:45:04.480 --> 0:45:06.760
<v Speaker 1>Monique for retaking all your people.

0:45:07.880 --> 0:45:08.279
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah.

0:45:08.320 --> 0:45:11.880
<v Speaker 1>We went to visit this like magical Divide. It was

0:45:11.880 --> 0:45:13.400
<v Speaker 1>like going to meet God. It was like, hey, you

0:45:13.480 --> 0:45:15.759
<v Speaker 1>want to come meet God, come with us, come up

0:45:15.760 --> 0:45:18.279
<v Speaker 1>the mountain, then come meet her. And we did. We

0:45:18.360 --> 0:45:23.120
<v Speaker 1>like the mountain. Lani sent us with her friend from

0:45:23.160 --> 0:45:27.000
<v Speaker 1>Germany or Sweden. She like, we just went through like

0:45:27.200 --> 0:45:30.920
<v Speaker 1>back jungles, muddy back jungles down a hill up until

0:45:31.000 --> 0:45:35.520
<v Speaker 1>we found this beautiful untapped into waterfall and we just

0:45:35.600 --> 0:45:40.080
<v Speaker 1>like sat there and it was just so purifying powerful.

0:45:40.120 --> 0:45:42.960
<v Speaker 1>It was loud, it was and it was like you

0:45:42.960 --> 0:45:44.560
<v Speaker 1>couldn't even go under it because it was just heavy,

0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:46.920
<v Speaker 1>would probably break your back, and it was it just

0:45:47.040 --> 0:45:51.280
<v Speaker 1>rained and we screamed and we yelled and we cried,

0:45:51.600 --> 0:45:53.960
<v Speaker 1>and we just like sat in that bitch for a minute,

0:45:54.120 --> 0:45:57.360
<v Speaker 1>like to absorb but like whatever energy we wanted to absorb,

0:45:57.480 --> 0:46:02.680
<v Speaker 1>and it was it's powerful anyway.

0:46:02.480 --> 0:46:05.560
<v Speaker 2>So should we do? Do you want to?

0:46:05.640 --> 0:46:05.719
<v Speaker 1>Just?

0:46:06.239 --> 0:46:07.840
<v Speaker 2>Did you do what you pull one of these cards.

0:46:08.040 --> 0:46:09.080
<v Speaker 1>Okay, go ahead quickly.

0:46:09.480 --> 0:46:11.719
<v Speaker 2>So we have this game. We've heard us talk about it.

0:46:11.719 --> 0:46:14.280
<v Speaker 2>It's called We're Not Really Strangers. And in the spirit

0:46:14.440 --> 0:46:18.120
<v Speaker 2>of designing your life, I think a lot that comes

0:46:18.160 --> 0:46:22.880
<v Speaker 2>with designing your life is reflection. You must reflect, figure

0:46:22.880 --> 0:46:24.640
<v Speaker 2>out what it is that you want, what it is

0:46:24.680 --> 0:46:26.359
<v Speaker 2>that you need, what is that you don't need? And

0:46:26.400 --> 0:46:28.360
<v Speaker 2>so there's a reflection card in here. So I'm just

0:46:28.360 --> 0:46:31.600
<v Speaker 2>going to pick anyone. Hopefully it's not crazy.

0:46:32.400 --> 0:46:33.080
<v Speaker 1>It's so deep.

0:46:34.320 --> 0:46:36.520
<v Speaker 2>In one word, describe how you feel right now?

0:46:37.840 --> 0:46:43.239
<v Speaker 1>Hi, Hi, happy, grateful. I can't do one word. I

0:46:43.360 --> 0:46:46.600
<v Speaker 1>talk a lot. Where'd you pick from? This is reflection

0:46:46.719 --> 0:46:49.520
<v Speaker 1>and then this is a perception and what's the middle

0:46:49.560 --> 0:46:52.839
<v Speaker 1>one connection? Okay, I'm should do another reflection. Since we're

0:46:52.880 --> 0:46:56.880
<v Speaker 1>designing your lives, we have to reflect. Okay, this is interesting.

0:46:58.080 --> 0:47:03.600
<v Speaker 1>What can we create together? What can't we create together?

0:47:03.680 --> 0:47:04.399
<v Speaker 2>Anything we want?

0:47:04.480 --> 0:47:08.759
<v Speaker 1>Anything we fucking want? Oh that was a good one. Okay,

0:47:08.840 --> 0:47:10.359
<v Speaker 1>Let's try another one, because that's just.

0:47:10.719 --> 0:47:11.399
<v Speaker 2>That's for the enterity.

0:47:11.480 --> 0:47:12.920
<v Speaker 1>This is for this is for the entitude.

0:47:12.960 --> 0:47:14.960
<v Speaker 2>Okay, h.

0:47:16.440 --> 0:47:19.040
<v Speaker 1>What is it a wild card? No, it's not a

0:47:19.080 --> 0:47:19.359
<v Speaker 1>good one.

0:47:19.440 --> 0:47:19.960
<v Speaker 2>It's good.

0:47:22.480 --> 0:47:24.040
<v Speaker 1>What you admire most about me.

0:47:25.800 --> 0:47:28.279
<v Speaker 2>Your capacity for love.

0:47:29.600 --> 0:47:31.800
<v Speaker 1>I admire most about you. There's a lot I admire

0:47:31.800 --> 0:47:37.000
<v Speaker 1>about you. I admire your ability to have boundaries.

0:47:40.440 --> 0:47:44.360
<v Speaker 2>So the opposite capacity to love you, your capacity to

0:47:44.360 --> 0:47:45.040
<v Speaker 2>say fuck you.

0:47:46.719 --> 0:47:47.640
<v Speaker 1>It's a beautiful thing.

0:47:47.719 --> 0:47:50.120
<v Speaker 2>It's thank you, I thank you. I receive that.

0:47:52.440 --> 0:47:53.000
<v Speaker 1>Do we have it?

0:47:53.120 --> 0:47:56.680
<v Speaker 2>Horri? Yeah, let's read our horri and then will if

0:47:56.719 --> 0:47:57.320
<v Speaker 2>you guys.

0:47:57.120 --> 0:47:59.279
<v Speaker 1>Want to hear more about things we're not going to

0:47:59.280 --> 0:48:02.040
<v Speaker 1>talk about about New York. Oh, yeah, in more detail.

0:48:02.120 --> 0:48:04.839
<v Speaker 1>Because we did go to a sex party, we did

0:48:04.840 --> 0:48:05.760
<v Speaker 1>some field research.

0:48:06.040 --> 0:48:09.480
<v Speaker 2>We went to study. It was a group study. It.

0:48:09.680 --> 0:48:10.800
<v Speaker 1>We went out into the field.

0:48:10.920 --> 0:48:12.000
<v Speaker 2>We got into the field.

0:48:13.760 --> 0:48:15.080
<v Speaker 1>You needed to collect some data, and.

0:48:15.239 --> 0:48:16.920
<v Speaker 2>She wrote some things down notes.

0:48:17.040 --> 0:48:19.560
<v Speaker 1>We're journalists, so of course we had to do the

0:48:19.600 --> 0:48:20.760
<v Speaker 1>research in the field.

0:48:20.920 --> 0:48:23.120
<v Speaker 2>Did a lot of field work. But yeah, you can

0:48:23.120 --> 0:48:25.920
<v Speaker 2>hear that on our Patreon, we talk about our experience

0:48:26.160 --> 0:48:30.560
<v Speaker 2>at a party that was pretty life changing for me.

0:48:31.040 --> 0:48:31.960
<v Speaker 1>It was life changing.

0:48:32.080 --> 0:48:35.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, it looks solidified some things for me.

0:48:36.960 --> 0:48:41.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I could see that. I can understand that, Like, yeah,

0:48:41.160 --> 0:48:43.400
<v Speaker 1>there's an openness that has to come with.

0:48:43.480 --> 0:48:45.239
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know, I'm not even gonna refeel what

0:48:45.239 --> 0:48:47.520
<v Speaker 2>it is, but just go listen to our patreon. It's

0:48:47.560 --> 0:48:50.399
<v Speaker 2>patreon dot com slash Good Mom's Bad Choices. We have

0:48:50.640 --> 0:48:54.319
<v Speaker 2>that little story among other stories that we don't share here,

0:48:54.520 --> 0:48:57.320
<v Speaker 2>so check that shit out. But we do have a

0:48:57.360 --> 0:49:00.279
<v Speaker 2>whoorry and I thought it was a good one. Let

0:49:00.280 --> 0:49:08.359
<v Speaker 2>me see where is it? Who stories? Well? I thought

0:49:08.360 --> 0:49:10.880
<v Speaker 2>I'd take this story to the grave, but apparently things change.

0:49:11.440 --> 0:49:13.680
<v Speaker 2>I was twenty four when my first marriage ended. On

0:49:13.719 --> 0:49:15.840
<v Speaker 2>the first weekend my daughter spent with her dad's family,

0:49:15.920 --> 0:49:18.280
<v Speaker 2>my friends planned a girl's night so I wouldn't be sad.

0:49:18.719 --> 0:49:20.760
<v Speaker 2>I put on clothes I never would have been abled

0:49:20.760 --> 0:49:22.600
<v Speaker 2>to while I was with him, and we headed to

0:49:22.640 --> 0:49:25.560
<v Speaker 2>the club. Two hours in. I was feeling really nice,

0:49:25.560 --> 0:49:28.160
<v Speaker 2>and that's when I met him. He had thick Haitian

0:49:28.200 --> 0:49:31.040
<v Speaker 2>accent that turned me on. We danced and made out

0:49:31.160 --> 0:49:33.719
<v Speaker 2>like drunk lovers. At the end of the night, my

0:49:33.800 --> 0:49:35.919
<v Speaker 2>scary ass tried to leave, but he gave me his ID,

0:49:36.040 --> 0:49:38.439
<v Speaker 2>driver's license, and social Security cards so that I would

0:49:38.480 --> 0:49:43.000
<v Speaker 2>trust him. Wow, I drove what we were going to

0:49:43.040 --> 0:49:44.360
<v Speaker 2>do with those cards. If it's like you went.

0:49:44.239 --> 0:49:46.000
<v Speaker 1>Missing, though, you could take a picture, you sent it

0:49:46.000 --> 0:49:46.439
<v Speaker 1>to your friends.

0:49:46.480 --> 0:49:49.280
<v Speaker 2>Oh, Okay, I got it, Okay, take it, okay credit Wow, Okay,

0:49:49.640 --> 0:49:51.840
<v Speaker 2>that's yeah, it's a good idea. Actually, I drove to

0:49:51.840 --> 0:49:53.759
<v Speaker 2>his house while he was sucking on my titties. He

0:49:53.800 --> 0:49:56.160
<v Speaker 2>didn't care who saw, and I didn't either. We went

0:49:56.200 --> 0:49:58.080
<v Speaker 2>back to his house and I got new Dick for

0:49:58.120 --> 0:50:00.000
<v Speaker 2>the first time in six years.

0:50:00.120 --> 0:50:03.839
<v Speaker 1>Who hellujah Bringham home from the club and dickham down.

0:50:03.920 --> 0:50:07.400
<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, amen, I support this message. I was feeling

0:50:07.680 --> 0:50:11.440
<v Speaker 2>so fucking liberated that I asked him if if his

0:50:11.560 --> 0:50:13.319
<v Speaker 2>fine ass roommate wanted to fuck me too?

0:50:13.960 --> 0:50:14.520
<v Speaker 1>I love it.

0:50:14.880 --> 0:50:19.719
<v Speaker 2>He did. At first, I was nervous because they would

0:50:19.719 --> 0:50:22.279
<v Speaker 2>switch back and forth between English and French. What wow.

0:50:22.480 --> 0:50:26.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, a lot of bilingual three something happening.

0:50:26.960 --> 0:50:30.080
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, speaking of speaking of the sex club, but

0:50:30.160 --> 0:50:32.640
<v Speaker 2>they both found ways to cater to me without getting

0:50:32.640 --> 0:50:34.759
<v Speaker 2>too close to each other. Come to think of it,

0:50:34.800 --> 0:50:38.040
<v Speaker 2>that's probably what most of the talking was about. They

0:50:38.040 --> 0:50:39.279
<v Speaker 2>wouldn't come close to each other or.

0:50:39.320 --> 0:50:41.080
<v Speaker 1>No, maybe because it had a pleasure her. I don't know.

0:50:41.160 --> 0:50:42.800
<v Speaker 2>Maybe maybe they were conspiring to please you, or that

0:50:42.840 --> 0:50:44.439
<v Speaker 2>would be great. That's a great thought to think about.

0:50:45.000 --> 0:50:46.840
<v Speaker 2>I slept over and the next morning I felt like

0:50:47.040 --> 0:50:49.400
<v Speaker 2>I needed to explain that that was actually my first

0:50:49.400 --> 0:50:53.080
<v Speaker 2>time doing something like that. Shame shame, creuptin the shame creeptain.

0:50:53.160 --> 0:50:59.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I'm God blessed me, verified slut. I thanked

0:50:59.120 --> 0:51:01.399
<v Speaker 2>him for treating me and told him that after all

0:51:01.400 --> 0:51:03.319
<v Speaker 2>I went through in my marriage, I felt so good

0:51:03.360 --> 0:51:05.400
<v Speaker 2>to be free. He told me that from now on,

0:51:05.480 --> 0:51:07.600
<v Speaker 2>whenever I wanted a safe space to do something new,

0:51:07.680 --> 0:51:08.520
<v Speaker 2>I could call him.

0:51:08.719 --> 0:51:11.799
<v Speaker 1>Wow, he's a fucking saint. I want to cry. I

0:51:11.840 --> 0:51:13.759
<v Speaker 1>know that was beautiful. I'm like, look at me, I'm

0:51:13.760 --> 0:51:16.720
<v Speaker 1>getting emotional. Sexual freedom is a gift.

0:51:16.840 --> 0:51:19.440
<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's you know, like you know, it's safety for me.

0:51:19.440 --> 0:51:21.239
<v Speaker 1>It is so important for like a man to say

0:51:21.239 --> 0:51:24.160
<v Speaker 1>you're yeh feel safe like that is a good I

0:51:24.239 --> 0:51:25.920
<v Speaker 1>never thought it was that word because you think of

0:51:25.960 --> 0:51:27.640
<v Speaker 1>it in a different way, but it is. It feels

0:51:27.680 --> 0:51:30.240
<v Speaker 1>safe to just be like the creepiest it's okay.

0:51:30.320 --> 0:51:31.520
<v Speaker 2>You know that you're gonna be good there.

0:51:31.600 --> 0:51:33.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like I don't I don't care about that. I

0:51:33.200 --> 0:51:33.520
<v Speaker 1>love you.

0:51:34.480 --> 0:51:35.920
<v Speaker 2>We were main friends. We'd go out.

0:51:35.960 --> 0:51:39.520
<v Speaker 1>She's really teario I know she's about to cry crying,

0:51:42.600 --> 0:51:42.799
<v Speaker 1>you know.

0:51:42.880 --> 0:51:44.680
<v Speaker 2>I just feel like it makes me happy to know

0:51:44.719 --> 0:51:45.800
<v Speaker 2>that exists, right.

0:51:45.760 --> 0:51:47.640
<v Speaker 1>Right, there's men out there who says, oh my god,

0:51:47.680 --> 0:51:49.680
<v Speaker 1>I love you enough to give you that.

0:51:49.800 --> 0:51:51.360
<v Speaker 2>You know what it is too. I cry because I

0:51:51.400 --> 0:51:53.680
<v Speaker 2>can't go back like I am who I am. There's

0:51:53.680 --> 0:51:55.960
<v Speaker 2>no going back. I've experienced too much. I've seen too

0:51:56.000 --> 0:51:59.840
<v Speaker 2>many things, and I can't go back to whatever normalcy,

0:52:00.040 --> 0:52:01.839
<v Speaker 2>whatever the fuck that looks like. I just know what

0:52:01.920 --> 0:52:02.319
<v Speaker 2>I like.

0:52:02.360 --> 0:52:03.680
<v Speaker 1>And are you with it or not?

0:52:03.800 --> 0:52:04.360
<v Speaker 2>Do you love me?

0:52:04.440 --> 0:52:05.400
<v Speaker 1>Every safe? Right?

0:52:05.480 --> 0:52:07.920
<v Speaker 2>Every safe? We remain friends. We'd go out to eat,

0:52:07.920 --> 0:52:09.680
<v Speaker 2>set up play dates for my daughter and his son,

0:52:09.880 --> 0:52:12.840
<v Speaker 2>even have sex when we were in between relationships, just

0:52:13.000 --> 0:52:15.200
<v Speaker 2>us to end with others too, even though we did

0:52:15.239 --> 0:52:17.640
<v Speaker 2>wild shit together. He held me in the highest regard,

0:52:17.640 --> 0:52:20.000
<v Speaker 2>and I always felt like he was an ally. I

0:52:20.080 --> 0:52:25.040
<v Speaker 2>recently found out that he was killed. Okay, now I'm

0:52:25.080 --> 0:52:25.719
<v Speaker 2>really gonna cry.

0:52:25.760 --> 0:52:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna cry too.

0:52:26.800 --> 0:52:32.359
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I'll never forget all the liberation he brought

0:52:32.400 --> 0:52:36.319
<v Speaker 2>into my life. Wow, wow, I never This is a first.

0:52:36.360 --> 0:52:38.440
<v Speaker 2>A horri is making me really emotional.

0:52:39.480 --> 0:52:40.800
<v Speaker 1>You know what, I just feel like I know what

0:52:40.840 --> 0:52:42.799
<v Speaker 1>I think for women too, and I think for free

0:52:42.840 --> 0:52:45.080
<v Speaker 1>women and sexual women, it is hard to come by,

0:52:45.080 --> 0:52:47.840
<v Speaker 1>and it is a gift and honestly shout out to

0:52:47.880 --> 0:52:51.319
<v Speaker 1>you for fucking saying, hey, I'm gonna try something and

0:52:51.400 --> 0:52:53.000
<v Speaker 1>saying it because no how many women want it, and

0:52:53.040 --> 0:52:54.600
<v Speaker 1>not say it because like it's gonna be a train,

0:52:54.640 --> 0:52:56.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be a slunt, They're gonna think I'm a hoe,

0:52:57.000 --> 0:52:59.480
<v Speaker 1>like all these things. You know, it's sad that we

0:52:59.560 --> 0:53:03.600
<v Speaker 1>have to live our sexuality in this quiet space. It's

0:53:03.640 --> 0:53:07.040
<v Speaker 1>sad that we have to go around our sexuality wondering

0:53:07.040 --> 0:53:09.200
<v Speaker 1>if it's offensive to anyone else, or if it's asking

0:53:09.200 --> 0:53:12.560
<v Speaker 1>for too much attention, or if it's slutty, because men

0:53:12.640 --> 0:53:15.440
<v Speaker 1>have the leeway to just sled it out even if

0:53:15.440 --> 0:53:19.360
<v Speaker 1>it's fucking downright violent and disrespectful, and it's accepted and

0:53:19.400 --> 0:53:23.120
<v Speaker 1>there's camaraderie around it. Like to be a woman is

0:53:23.160 --> 0:53:27.680
<v Speaker 1>to be sexual. You cannot remove the sex from femininity,

0:53:27.760 --> 0:53:31.000
<v Speaker 1>from the feminine from like that's who we are. So

0:53:31.040 --> 0:53:34.239
<v Speaker 1>it's just so hard to come by a man who

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<v Speaker 1>recognizes and sees who you are, is who you are,

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<v Speaker 1>and it respects you as such. It's sad. It's almost

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<v Speaker 1>to the point like do I have to am I

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be more a different way? Am I supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be less sexual? Am I not supposed to express

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<v Speaker 1>my sexual fantasies because it's too much for somebody and like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>But you do have to know that there are going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a lot of men that shame you, and

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<v Speaker 1>even less men that like wrap around you and love

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<v Speaker 1>on you and can hold you to a high regard,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, respect you and help you live out those fantasies.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really sad that he got killed.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why we have to teach our sons to be

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<v Speaker 2>good men.

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<v Speaker 1>We have to. I think we should be a school

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<v Speaker 1>for boys, a school for men to relearn. They're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>fuck that, that's a lot of work. Jesus. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>every man ever I've ever met anyway, that school is closed.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, thank you for sharing that. I appreciate you sharing that, Horri.

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<v Speaker 2>That was beautiful. But it's time for us to get

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<v Speaker 2>out of here, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>But one more thing I wanted to say that we

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<v Speaker 1>missed I don't know how we fucking missed this, but

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<v Speaker 1>in New York we had a fucking meet up.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, we met up.

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<v Speaker 1>And the horry made me think of it because the

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<v Speaker 1>most innocent, sweetest face in the whole party. Was like,

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<v Speaker 1>remember that the horry about the me pegging the white

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<v Speaker 1>man of Juneteenth. I was like, that was you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, girl, I would have not seen this

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<v Speaker 1>a little sweet face, never in a million years. You're

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<v Speaker 1>so it's so nice to put faces with whole sorries

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<v Speaker 1>you never know out here. I love you guys as

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<v Speaker 1>stories and I love you guys. It felt so good

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<v Speaker 1>to just like wrap my hands around you and like

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<v Speaker 1>chill and dance and vibe and eat and break bread.

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<v Speaker 1>And hopefully we get to do more of that in

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<v Speaker 1>each city, more dinners. So check that out. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know where to find us, rate and review us,

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<v Speaker 1>and we love you, love you, Bye bye Ella Solo

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<v Speaker 1>Recorder La La the Latter Days, Ranz. Thanks