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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Mela.

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Speaker 2: And it's Wednesday, it's hump Day, and it is the

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Speaker 2: first week of August. Welcome to August, you guys.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to August. Wow, this summer is it's almost over,

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Speaker 1: almost over.

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Speaker 2: Crazy, I can't believe it. So you guys know that

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Speaker 2: we have been, you know, diving into themes all year

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Speaker 2: and we've been reflecting, We've been sletvering, we've been celibant,

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Speaker 2: we've been tribing, we've been what else, money money, all

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Speaker 2: the manifesting, manifesting, and so I don't know, we've been

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Speaker 2: doing all this work and I've been thinking, and Milam,

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Speaker 2: I've been like, what is August? What is the vibe

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Speaker 2: of August? And I'm feeling like the vibe of August

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Speaker 2: is designing your own life.

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Speaker 1: Yes, welcome to design your life, August.

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Speaker 2: You know, me and Mila just came back from a

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Speaker 2: trip of Costa Rica, which we'll get into. But I

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Speaker 2: think it's really inspired us to really rethink what our

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Speaker 2: lives look like. And I think we've already been kind

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Speaker 2: of designing our lives in general. But like, I think

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Speaker 2: we're like excited about this new part of the design.

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Speaker 1: I think it's when you start to manifest your life

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Speaker 1: and then you start to see it take mold. Then

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Speaker 1: you're like, oh shit, I can really design this motherfucker.

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Speaker 1: Couch goes there, Jack goes there. House in Brooklyn goes there.

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Speaker 1: You know, like a little a new little casito over there,

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Speaker 1: and jungle house over here. So like now it gets

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Speaker 1: into like the specifics of the design. You know what.

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Speaker 2: I just had this thought because Irie I've been like

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Speaker 2: making her listen to like just old school, like you know,

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Speaker 2: soul and funk, and there's this Diana Ross song that

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Speaker 2: I fucking love, and like I played it for her

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Speaker 2: and I'm just like gonna be really hurt if she

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Speaker 2: didn't like it, because I fucking love this song. But

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Speaker 2: I forgot about it. And then I recently, like in

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Speaker 2: the last two days, and we're having this conversation just

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Speaker 2: popped into my head. It's called it's my house, and

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Speaker 2: it's like, it's my house and I live it's not house,

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Speaker 2: and she's talking about like designing her house. Like see

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Speaker 2: that table over there, Like I put it there, I

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Speaker 2: put this shit there, I put that there, and I

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Speaker 2: fuck I want it.

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Speaker 1: And she was talking about designing her house.

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Speaker 2: She is, and she was saying, you really want to

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Speaker 2: come over, you really want to come over, but you're

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Speaker 2: gonna have to show me that you you're not gonna

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Speaker 2: fuck my house up. And when you're thinking about designing

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Speaker 2: your house, you're thinking about the guests too that you're

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Speaker 2: gonna have at your house and who can set at

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Speaker 2: the table. I really you know what, guys, go listen

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Speaker 2: to that song. It's Bomb. I'm gonna put it in

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Speaker 2: the link here. It's Bomb now.

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Speaker 1: I gotta listened to it.

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Speaker 2: It's really good and I re's been requesting it like

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Speaker 2: this morning. She was like, can we hear like that

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Speaker 2: it's my house.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yes we can, but it's true. She

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Speaker 1: was right, and maybe that's our affirmation for the day.

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Speaker 1: My life is my house, and I design it exactly

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Speaker 1: the way I mother fucking see it beautifully.

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Speaker 2: Bomb. My life is my house and I designed it

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Speaker 2: exactly the motherfucking way I see it beautifully. Mm hmm

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Speaker 2: amen amen.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, Costa Rica Inspired designed my life August and

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Speaker 1: what are the.

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Speaker 2: Cards gonna say about our August designing life. Ah, let's see,

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Speaker 2: so I pulled the page of cups upright. Creative opportunities,

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Speaker 2: intuitive messages, curiosity, possibility. The page of cups weares a

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Speaker 2: blue tunic with a floral print and a beret on

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Speaker 2: the shore with the wavy sea behind him, holding a

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Speaker 2: cup in his right hand. Surprising, a fish pops its

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Speaker 2: head out of the cup and looks at the young man.

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Speaker 2: The fish and sea behind him represent the element of

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Speaker 2: water and all things to do with creativity, intuition, feelings,

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Speaker 2: Your creative energy is flowing, and now the question is

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Speaker 2: how will you express it. Will you snap up this

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Speaker 2: new idea and turn it into something, or will you

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Speaker 2: let someone else bring it to fruition. It's up to you.

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Speaker 2: Spend time exploring the idea to see if you want

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Speaker 2: to move forward. I feel like this is like speaking

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Speaker 2: to our possible shift into a network. Possibly. This card

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Speaker 2: often appears when you're being called to trust your intuition

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Speaker 2: that word and signs from nature that will guide you

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Speaker 2: on your path. They may come from an unexpected places,

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Speaker 2: or they may not even make sense to your rational mind.

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Speaker 2: Be open to the possibility and ready to discover new

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Speaker 2: aspects of yourself. Page of cups can indicate that you

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Speaker 2: will receive an unexpected or pleasant surprise. The pages are

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Speaker 2: often known as the messenger cards. My God. It says

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Speaker 2: it might be the birth of a baby, relax, an

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Speaker 2: engagement or marriage, a new love interest. Susan said, I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna find love you guys.

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Speaker 1: Susan also said that I'm going to have a really

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Speaker 1: good idea in the beginning of August.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, wait she did.

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Speaker 1: Oh there's a lot of pressure on me. Susan.

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Speaker 2: Okay, if you guys don't know Susan is. She's a

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Speaker 2: world renowned astrologer, Susan Miller, and I've been following her

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Speaker 2: since like I was thirteen. Go to astrologyzone dot com.

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Speaker 2: This is not an ad. This is just pure love

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Speaker 2: and go reach your horoscope. She does these like monthly

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Speaker 2: horoscopes or they're like nine pages long. Anyway.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, this is something you missed. Oh and maybe

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Speaker 1: I just didn't hear it needs to be repeated. Open

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Speaker 1: your mind to all possibilities, especially those of a creative

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Speaker 1: or intuitive nature. You will be pleasantly surprised. Be ready

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Speaker 1: to dream the impossible, dream and explore the magic of

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Speaker 1: your fullest potential, even if it seems out of reach.

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Speaker 1: Design your mother fucking life. Okay, now I've biddy said it.

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Speaker 2: It must be sure.

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Speaker 1: Susan said it, the card said it. I believe it

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Speaker 1: tis the season. Bitches. If it's not working, leave it behind.

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Speaker 2: Amen.

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Speaker 1: Amen. Oh my god, you guys. Wow, it's been a

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Speaker 1: really long time since we've sat here together alone. So

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Speaker 1: much has happened. You know. Sometimes I'm like, I mean,

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Speaker 1: obviously this is a divine meeting. But one of our

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Speaker 1: friends told Eric on the phone the other day, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, you don't live, like, say, a normal life.

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Speaker 1: It's like, you know, you guys just don't live a

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Speaker 1: normal life. And then Erica told me, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: we don't. The shit that me and Erica get into together,

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Speaker 1: I swear to God, it's the best shit ever. It's

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Speaker 1: almost like God is like, you want content, you want

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Speaker 1: some shit to talk about? How about now? Anyway, A

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Speaker 1: long long time ago, four weeks or so ago, Erica

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Speaker 1: and I decided we were going to take a journey

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Speaker 2: And we did, and we did, we did. We journey

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Speaker 2: it did. We drove hours into the deep jungle to

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Speaker 2: be isolated, because that was the goal, like complete isolation.

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Speaker 2: Let's go as far as we can.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and who cares how we get there? Even if

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Speaker 1: you spend two thousand dollars in a mental car, go

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Speaker 1: through fourteen farms, three hundred fruit stands, it was all

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Speaker 1: worth it. Transported an ounce of weed in nature's pocket.

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Speaker 2: Only to find out that all we had to do

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Speaker 2: was put it in a continer. Yeah, well that's a problem.

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Speaker 2: Shout out to my pussy. True thanks pussy. The major

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Speaker 2: shutdown the whole the whole ounce that Jamila put in

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Speaker 2: worried it wouldn't. But literally the last day we were there,

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was perfect.

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Speaker 1: It was the perfect amount of pussy weed. So how

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Speaker 1: much weed can your pussy supply? You? Two weeks worth.

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Speaker 2: After that, it's on you. Dog.

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Speaker 1: My pussy personally can supply about two people for two

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Speaker 1: onto some my personal dangerous pocket two weeks impressive. No,

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Speaker 1: we had a really beautiful trip. We flew to Costa Rica.

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Speaker 1: That was gonna that's I almost said for sure, that's

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Speaker 1: my last time flying coach, but fuck it's not. We

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Speaker 1: have two coach flights booked. After those two, I'm done.

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Speaker 1: It was not very comfortable. Fuck was it United? No?

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Speaker 1: Was that Delta?

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Speaker 2: It was No, it was United.

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Speaker 1: It had but I thought we went to the special

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Speaker 1: check in when we checked in, its Delta. Wow, I'm disappointed.

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Speaker 2: Wow the airlines are going downhill.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know if a far. I think Delta

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Speaker 1: brought it in a United plane. It was very, very small.

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Speaker 1: This is not good. Relax, No, coach is not it.

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Speaker 1: I'm not kidding Anyway, we made it to Costa ricad

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Speaker 2: We thought we were going to go explore the city,

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Speaker 2: but then apparently it's not that easy.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing really to do in San Jose. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Risky to go there. Come back, we're gonna miss Everyone

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Speaker 2: made it seem like it was just don't leave there.

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Speaker 1: No, nobody made it seem like it did. Yeh. Trip

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Speaker 1: Advisor said, listen, we didn't do any research until we

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, first of all, we almost missed the flight.

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Speaker 2: Just so you know, guys, if you ever go to

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Speaker 2: Costa Rica, you need travel insurance. They won't let you

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Speaker 2: board the flight and soil you prove that you have insurance,

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Speaker 2: which we bought the insurance as the flight was born.

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Speaker 1: No, we get there, the guy is talking so slow.

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Speaker 1: We're checking in. He's like, oh, yeah, you need it,

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Speaker 1: you need to download this thing. But I'm gonna let

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Speaker 1: you guys go through for right now. And we're just

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Speaker 1: it must not be important. He's letting us through whatever.

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Speaker 1: We get to the gate, We're sitting there. This is

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Speaker 1: two bitches that shouldn't travel together because we don't do

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Speaker 1: enough research during COVID or at all. And so we

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Speaker 1: get there and we just start hearing announcements like if

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Speaker 1: you do not have travelers insurance proof, you will not

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Speaker 1: board this flight. I said again, if you think you're

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Speaker 1: did not get troubling it. I was like, what the

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Speaker 1: so here we're gonna meet and Erica looking at each other,

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Speaker 1: excuse me start did you get travel insurance to go?

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Speaker 1: And he's like, oh yeah, yeah, we got that shit

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Speaker 1: And the night after that long drive, long flight, we

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Speaker 1: Literally like eleven o'clock at night, Like I guess I

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Speaker 1: Relaxed, you should if you've tried, you should let him

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Speaker 1: because oh it was great.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure there's a few spots here in the good

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Speaker 1: Okay, well I'll keep it there.

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Speaker 2: Also is that website I can remember what it's called,

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Speaker 1: There's always those sexy massage therapists online. Now, during that

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, if anyone knows anyone's led in, my dam.

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Speaker 1: I did. I was like, here you go, I'll sleep.

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Speaker 1: I never felt like fruit was so sexual and orgasmic.

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Speaker 1: we heard that the black people were at, so you know,

436
00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,320
Speaker 1: we had to swing over there. We took a fourteen

437
00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:56,800
Speaker 1: passenger plane which was very was kind of fun but scary.

438
00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 1: It stopped on like another little island, literally the jetway on.

439
00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 2: The people were flying in like onto the water.

440
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:05,399
Speaker 1: It was beautiful. I want to get to that island,

441
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:07,919
Speaker 1: whatever the fuck island that was we stopped at. And

442
00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,920
Speaker 1: then we made it back and we rented another.

443
00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:12,800
Speaker 2: Car and this time we drove five and a half hour.

444
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,959
Speaker 1: This time drove five and a half hours and on

445
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:19,880
Speaker 1: a one road, one lane road, run lane road highway

446
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,880
Speaker 1: for five nimes and like someone had already worned. It's

447
00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,919
Speaker 1: like it's only one road in and out of that place,

448
00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:28,439
Speaker 1: and if a tree falls or oh there's a smug flide.

449
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:30,880
Speaker 2: I was like, what, I'm glad I didn't hear about

450
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:31,919
Speaker 2: this till after we did it.

451
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:32,920
Speaker 1: No, he told us before.

452
00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:34,399
Speaker 2: I has not been listening.

453
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 1: You drove five and a half hours to the Caribbean side,

454
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:38,120
Speaker 1: and it's like yeah.

455
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:40,160
Speaker 2: But when we got there, it was like we unlocked

456
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 2: the fucking magic of Coast I mean Coast Rica's magical period.

457
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:48,959
Speaker 2: But it was like unleash the dragon. The only reference.

458
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 1: I guess that was an amazing reference. I feel like

459
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:56,080
Speaker 1: if you missed that. So we go. First of all,

460
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 1: there's no addresses in Costa Rica. They literally drop a pin.

461
00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 1: There's like pop number seven, and we just like drove

462
00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 1: down the road. There was a beautiful black woman greeting

463
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:07,439
Speaker 1: us in a beautiful dress, which was beautiful, and like

464
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:11,199
Speaker 1: you couldn't see the house, but bitch, when she opened

465
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,440
Speaker 1: up the gates to this house, you could not mot

466
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:16,200
Speaker 1: the fucking tell me, I was not princess mother fucking Jasmine. Okay,

467
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 1: the house was motherfucking Jasmine. It was a magic carpet

468
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,480
Speaker 1: in that bitch. It was like the secret Garden. Jungle

469
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:26,119
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you've made it. I was like, I

470
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 1: was like, we're rich, I don't.

471
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 2: Know, how do we afford this girl? And it coastres

472
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:33,119
Speaker 2: is not that very it was very not no, it

473
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:36,639
Speaker 2: wasn't It wasn't expense it was very affordable, which was amazing.

474
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 1: God was on our side, like literally everything.

475
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:41,639
Speaker 2: And then and then like we went out that night and.

476
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 1: Like, no, you're like just going over so much.

477
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:44,679
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

478
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:48,119
Speaker 1: There's a beautiful, magical pool, there was a magical house.

479
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,239
Speaker 1: There was an outside shower. It looked like we were

480
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:53,399
Speaker 1: living in Bali. The kitchens outside, the living room's outside,

481
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 1: it was living outside. It was sexy as fuck. And

482
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 1: then we're like, let's go get dinner on the town.

483
00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 1: And then we're just like amazing, host who's from La,

484
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:04,600
Speaker 1: a black woman from La and she owns this beautiful house.

485
00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 1: What a lucky bitch, Like, wow, I'm so happy you

486
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 1: own this house. Then it's true. Then we drove to

487
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,439
Speaker 1: the town and like as we like creep up to

488
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 1: the town, I hear like Caribbean tunes. I'm like, bitch,

489
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:19,720
Speaker 1: I think we're on the right side of the island.

490
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 1: I can feel that. I can just feel the jungle people.

491
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:23,199
Speaker 1: I can feel the black people in the air. I

492
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 1: could feel them I was like, cuckck col cock co

493
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 1: We're here. We made it. And then so like right

494
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 1: before we get out the car, I was like really

495
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 1: feeling it. I was like, Erica, I just hope and wish, Like, honestly,

496
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,679
Speaker 1: if I just get to have one's like sweaty dance

497
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 1: with a stranger, I'll be so motherfucking happy, just like

498
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 1: one sweaty dance.

499
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:45,439
Speaker 2: She did say this.

500
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 1: I was just like, one just dance, it's one sweaty stranger.

501
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 1: So of course she was just like, yeah, okay, whatever, bitch,

502
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 1: let's go eat. We go to the beach. We watched

503
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:58,120
Speaker 1: this beautiful sunset and have this delicious to bomb ass meal.

504
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 1: We're like in deep romance with each other. I'm staring

505
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 1: into each other's eyes, telling each other how much we

506
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: love each other and how grateful we are, like taking

507
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:07,439
Speaker 1: turns going to the beach. All we wait for our

508
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 1: food and drink delicious cocktails. And right before we met

509
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 1: everyone sitting next to us, including the owner of the restaurant.

510
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 1: He gives us our check and he's like, are you

511
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 1: guys gonna go to the party, And I'm like, what

512
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 1: what did you say? He said, you guys going to

513
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:26,440
Speaker 1: the party next door. I was like, done, I didn't

514
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,159
Speaker 1: know there was a party. He's like, yeah, Johnny's that's

515
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 1: a really good party. I was like right now, He's like, yep,

516
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 1: about to get started right now. I was like, I

517
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 1: am a motherfucking manifesto. Okay, And what do you know,

518
00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 1: the party just starts getting it cracking right there in

519
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 1: front of our eyes on the beach under the full moon.

520
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 1: And what do you see some niggas sweat and dancing. Yep, yep.

521
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 1: I was like, haircut, I made this party happen. She

522
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 1: was like, I know, And I sweaty danced on some strangers.

523
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, we did. We sweaty danced on some stranger. There

524
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 2: were some fine strangers there too. There were some unexpected

525
00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 2: future friends there that we made friends with later that

526
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 2: we were like, who are these motherfuckers?

527
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,880
Speaker 1: Like Gilly stood out to Gilly the gods shout out

528
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:19,119
Speaker 1: to Gilly the motherfucking god, Like we judged Gilly. We

529
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:20,120
Speaker 1: saw Gilly on the beach.

530
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 2: She was wearing his tin had timberlands in the sand,

531
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 2: and then he had like his like the cool trendy

532
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 2: like wangling the dangling cross earring.

533
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: You know that like and like the wife beat her

534
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 1: with the mussels.

535
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,199
Speaker 2: And a girl and a grill and chains. I was like,

536
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 2: this nigga does not live.

537
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 1: Here, Like this nigga is visiting.

538
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 2: He's from He's a Tami or somewhere the Bronx.

539
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 1: He's from La for sure. And then we're also talking

540
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,159
Speaker 1: about this other gid. We're like, he's like the ladies

541
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 1: man of Costa Rica. I could tell he's trying to

542
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 1: run game and all the bitches. She was like, yeah,

543
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 1: he's a fuck boy for sure. Fast forward to about

544
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 1: twenty hours later. The next day, because the town is

545
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: very small, I met up with one of my girlfriends,

546
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,959
Speaker 1: Oh who was on the show last month. Shout out

547
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 1: to Monique, and then you know, the fuck boy joined

548
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 1: us and he became our friend. Later on, Gilly the

549
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 1: God joined us. He actually they both lived there. They're

550
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:14,119
Speaker 1: not to he's lived there for like five years. It

551
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:18,719
Speaker 1: was just pretty magical to see like young people just

552
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 1: say up and leave America and say fuck it and

553
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 1: like shut up shop and like this beautiful place where

554
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: like it's just the things you think are important are

555
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 1: really not important. And like when I say community, like

556
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: everyone loves on each other. It's kind of like a

557
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 1: little culty, like a culty love fest. So everyone's just

558
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 1: like really touchy feely and really like kind to each other.

559
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, is this a cult or is this real?

560
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 2: No, that is not a cult. I don't get cult vibes.

561
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 2: But the one I said was a fuck boy? Who

562
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,119
Speaker 2: is I don't think it's a fuck boy. He's actually

563
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 2: really sweet. He was actually in a cult, though I did,

564
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:51,879
Speaker 2: we did actually meet someone who was in.

565
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 1: That's a trigger warning. I shouldn't just say cult. Ol

566
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 1: willynally like that. I mean like a love fest.

567
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone just really supportive and it's continued like even

568
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 2: past being there. Like I can't believe that I didn't

569
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 2: know that this place existed, But I also know that,

570
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 2: like everything shows itself when it's supposed to, and I

571
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 2: might have not been ready to digest and accept what

572
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:22,199
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Speaker 1: And like even the party we went to, like there

609
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: was moms on the beach with their kids. The kids

610
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 1: are dancing, running around. That's what I love watching them.

611
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 1: The kids are just just like the water free free,

612
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,959
Speaker 1: just free living their best fucking lives. And people are

613
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: smoking weed. Nobody's worried about none of the shit that

614
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: we'd be worried about. No one drives cars, everybody has

615
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 1: a bike.

616
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 2: Everyone's eating from the earth.

617
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody's eating fruits and like everything's from local sourced,

618
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 1: mothbucking places. You just feel healthy and bliss and your

619
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 1: skin feels good. I was feeling so sexy there, I

620
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: told you, Okay, like five times, I'm like, I am

621
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 1: so sexy in Costa Rica, Like Coasta Rica makes me

622
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: sexier and It's true. I was sexier there. I mean sexier.

623
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: I was like, my skin was sexier. I felt kinder,

624
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 1: kinder I did. I was happier. I was giving way

625
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 1: more hugs. It was just great. We made a lot

626
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: of friends. We thought we were locals. Even one night,

627
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 1: I begged Erica to go to this party. We're like,

628
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 1: they're like, yeah, Devin's parties, tonight's open. Dorian whatever you

629
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: always call her name. She was kind of mean to us.

630
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: She was nice later, Okay, Dorian. We went to Dorian's

631
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: party because we're locals. Now we have five friends, so like,

632
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell Dorian you're coming. We met up a

633
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 1: shout out to Island Brewja. We met up with Island Breuja,

634
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: who found us before we got there. She's living in

635
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 1: Costa Rica. She found good Moms because someone shared the

636
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: hat and she liked the hat. And then like weeks later,

637
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: we're going to Costa Rica. She meets up with us.

638
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 1: She's like, oh, you can go to Dorian's. How does

639
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: text her tell you're coming. I'm like, okay, I like

640
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: I really don't feel like going. I'm like, come on,

641
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: it's open mic night, Like in my head it was

642
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: like a full going party.

643
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 2: Eila was gonna fucking make her fucking open debut. That's

644
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 2: what this ship was. She couldn't wait.

645
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 1: So we drive to Jorian's in the night and I

646
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 1: drive and we're all.

647
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 2: Like, Lily, never happens. I don't trust remas driving.

648
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: I'm a great driver. I'm a great driver. Bitch. Yeah, well, bitch,

649
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: this is not my fault. So we're driving and I'm like,

650
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 1: oh my god, like there's the house. We're like a

651
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: deep conversation and I'm like, there's the house right there.

652
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 1: And literally as soon as I say right there, we

653
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 1: drive into a ditch, but not like a regular ditch,

654
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 1: Like the back of the.

655
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 2: Whole car was off the ground.

656
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 1: The back two wheels were off like the nose of

657
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 1: the car. I don't know what kind of ditch. How

658
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: was that cliff? It was like a cliff baby cloth.

659
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: She's like, no boom, and I was like, we just

660
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: look at this. I was like, oh my god, she's

661
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: gonna kill me. I'm like, oh, no, is the car broken.

662
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 1: This seems I'm like lifted off the car, opened the

663
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 1: car door and it's like swinging and I have to

664
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 1: jump down. So we're both We've put like six thousand

665
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 1: dollars in the credit card to cover with their insurance,

666
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 1: so we're like not saying much. It begins to rain,

667
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 1: so then we have to go. Also, we're in the

668
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: middle of the street. We're in the middle of the street.

669
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 1: So then we have to go into Dorian's house, where

670
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 1: we don't really know Dorian because we thought we're locals

671
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: two hours ago. And we get in there so mellow,

672
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: and everyone's sitting on the floor and there's like candles

673
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: lit and there's like poetry going and it's like I

674
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 1: am me, she is she, I am deep as the sea,

675
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: and everyone's like and then it's like and then it

676
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 1: really doesn't rhyme. It's like and then it's so deep

677
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 1: because you know, I don't have any friends, but I

678
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: do have friends, but I'm in Costa Rica. And then

679
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: it's like a guitar playing. It's like do doo doom,

680
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 1: do doo doo. And then here we come in, Like

681
00:32:55,640 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 1: first we're like, who the fuck are YouTube bitches. I'm like, hi, Dorian.

682
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: They're like it's like an abrupt stop to this terrible poetry,

683
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: and they're like like, our our car is stuck in

684
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: a ditch. Can you do you know what? Tow truck?

685
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: And they're all looking at us, like a tow truck, bitch,

686
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: you're in the jungle, and they're like, can you someone

687
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,719
Speaker 1: just I'm like this, give me someone could just come

688
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 1: out and look at it. So two guys like no

689
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 1: one's on any press time and coast three kids like

690
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 1: there's nothing to do. You're literally there's nothing happening. Shul

691
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: They come out, they look at it. Then I discovered

692
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 1: that there's killer ants.

693
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, the killer ants on the floor.

694
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 1: The rain, the killer ants. The car is in a ditch,

695
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 1: biting our feet in the air, and these two guys

696
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 1: are like huh yeah, like push it down a little

697
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 1: bit to like.

698
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 2: Barely barely tryl. I'm like, what the fuck is going on?

699
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: So you know, we're like la bitches. We're like, we

700
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 1: gotta get the fucking solution. What's the fun? Who on

701
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 1: a tow truck? Cow? Many help us? And everyone's like.

702
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 2: Just come sick.

703
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's like pull some card. Yeah, so let me

704
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 1: come in. They literally do nothing, and we're like, okay, well,

705
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: I guess they're like the toe check's not going to

706
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 1: be open. On Sunday.

707
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,280
Speaker 2: So then someone starts honking outside because they were blocking

708
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 2: the street. So we go back in.

709
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:16,439
Speaker 1: They proceed like nothing just fucking happened. We're not having

710
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 1: an urgent matter. They continue the terrible fucking poetry. Someone

711
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 1: starts honking outside, Erica goes and then she comes back

712
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: and she's like, Yo, the guy said he can help us.

713
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 1: We just had to get like ten friends, and he

714
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: sees like he's seen it a hundred times. He said

715
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,359
Speaker 1: he can help us. I'm like, so everyone's still like

716
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 1: and then we went to the tree the party, so.

717
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 2: They were intentionally ignoring me. I was like, that's why I.

718
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 1: Was getting picked. I could feel Eric's energy rising and

719
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: it was stressing me out because A I forced her

720
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 1: to come to the party. B I drove into this

721
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,800
Speaker 1: dumbass diage. See her credit card is on this fucking

722
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 1: stupid ass four hundred million dollar fucking insurance and I

723
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 1: can just feel her getting irritated. But I'm like, okay, me, no, me.

724
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 1: I'm like trying to fill the room. I'm like, there's

725
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 1: gonna be a perfect opportunity to rally everybody up. This

726
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:06,319
Speaker 1: is just not it. I'm like, okay, we've abruptly walked into

727
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 1: their then zen ness, whatever the fuck is happening here,

728
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 1: and now we're like pushing them to help us, even

729
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 1: though they clearly don't give a fuck. But let me

730
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,800
Speaker 1: just go about this. I'm just trying to be the buffer.

731
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,359
Speaker 1: So then they pull out some fucking cards and they're

732
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:24,479
Speaker 1: like everybody feeling cards. They're like feeling hard. We're gonna

733
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 1: pull some in a second, so as we're talking, shit,

734
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 1: don't worry, we have some here. But then like I

735
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 1: feel like, who's your best friend? They're like me, I

736
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 1: am my own best friend. And I realized that I

737
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,720
Speaker 1: love being my own best friend because I'm best friends

738
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 1: with me.

739
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 2: Like sometimes I talk to myself in the line and

740
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 2: people wonder what I'm talking to if it didn't talk

741
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 2: to me because I'm checking with myself.

742
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: And then I had this really judging I had this

743
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,760
Speaker 1: really judging thought at this moment. After like three cards,

744
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 1: I'm like this costa Rica full of like American like

745
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 1: loners because everyone's like a leone and I'm great, I'm

746
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: like are you? And then Eric is pissed, like she's fuming,

747
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:58,800
Speaker 1: and I'm like trying not to look at her. Because

748
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 1: I'm stressed. So finally I'm like, the cards get to us,

749
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 1: and you would think that they would skip us, but no,

750
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 1: they wanted us to go even though we're having an emergency.

751
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 1: So Erica's cards come and she's like, oh the time.

752
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 1: It was like, when have you felt the most the

753
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 1: most adrenaline?

754
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,360
Speaker 2: Yea, the most adrenaline, and I said probably birth. And

755
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 2: when my car got stuck in a ditch in the

756
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:18,320
Speaker 2: front of the party and no one.

757
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:22,320
Speaker 1: Helped, I'm like, if you guys could just please you guys,

758
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,839
Speaker 1: there's a guy out there that can help us.

759
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 2: I really appreciate. As soon as she got the pissed,

760
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:29,839
Speaker 2: I was like, there's like seven men in this room.

761
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 2: There was like, fuck, you're not gonna go.

762
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 1: Total of ten people at this love.

763
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 2: Most of them were men, get your ass up and

764
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 2: get on this goddamn car, but.

765
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:38,399
Speaker 1: They were so zend out.

766
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 2: I know a fuck. I was like one of them

767
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 2: and like intentionally was purposely. I was like, is this

768
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 2: some fake tribe shit? I was like, these motherfuckers don't

769
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 2: want to help us. I was pissed.

770
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 1: So she's like, the guys that if you just get

771
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 1: nine people, I'm like, can you please, if you all

772
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: can just please just come outside, everyone right now, please

773
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 1: all at one time, if we could just just give

774
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:59,879
Speaker 1: us five minutes of your weight. So then she goes

775
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 1: knocks on the guy's door and he's like, he's done

776
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: this before, because I don't know who the fuck allowed

777
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 1: this ditch to be this deep into the middle of

778
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 1: the street. He comes out. We all jump on the

779
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 1: back of this car. I'm in the front seat on

780
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 1: the fucking reverse. So, please God, please gotta get this

781
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 1: fucking crowd of here so I don't have to hear

782
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 1: him out. I'm like, they're like pushing, I'm like, please God.

783
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: And then finally and it fucking backs out because twenty

784
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: people are sitting on the back right corner and there's

785
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 1: not a fucking scratch on this fucking vehicle.

786
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 2: A miracle.

787
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 1: It was a goddamn miracle.

788
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 2: Anyway we got out. The moral of the story is

789
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:44,839
Speaker 2: they came and helped the more of the stories. They

790
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 2: were on some tribe shit. They were just very mellow

791
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 2: about it. We're just pressed.

792
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, the la and us was coming out really quickly.

793
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 1: I was like, we're in Costa Rica. You gotta relax.

794
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 2: But then like you know after leaving there and then

795
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,760
Speaker 2: I feel like we went from like the real jungle

796
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:02,720
Speaker 2: to the concrete jungle, back to work, back to our kids,

797
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 2: but even still like seeing like I'm even like when

798
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 2: I was there, I was like, Wow, I'm here with

799
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 2: my best friend. I am, I'm putting my daughters in

800
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,800
Speaker 2: camp or recording, I'm following my dreams. I'm interviewing fucking

801
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 2: dynamic guests that like who else is going to have

802
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 2: a conversation with like a dominatrix on a Tuesday at

803
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 2: twelve pm with her sub Like those are the kind

804
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 2: of conversations like I want to be having, Like I

805
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:26,800
Speaker 2: wouldn't want to be doing it. I don't want to

806
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 2: be up in an office, No offense to those that are,

807
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 2: but that's just not the way I'm designing my life.

808
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 2: And I'm realizing that I truly have designed my life.

809
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 2: And I think going to Costa Rica was a reminder

810
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 2: too of like not only like career wise, how I

811
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 2: want to be and like my goals and you know,

812
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 2: having access which sometimes correlates with having income, but like

813
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:49,280
Speaker 2: how I want to live, how my body to feel.

814
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 1: Literally, that's what I kept telling. I was just like

815
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 1: I feel my body feels better. I'm literally were naked,

816
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:58,280
Speaker 1: like ninety percent of the trip. I'm mostly peeed outside.

817
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 1: I mostly showered outside the Eight Fruits, like I felt

818
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 1: connected to the earth, and you know when I felt

819
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 1: like such a powerful download, like a message of like

820
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 1: everything that you need, there's an abundance of it. Like

821
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 1: everything in Costa Rica is so plush and so like

822
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 1: that you could see that so rich. You could see

823
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 1: the earth bearing its fruit, you know, and I just

824
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 1: felt so cared for and protected and like everything I

825
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 1: needed right there I had, and everything else that I

826
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 1: was worried about didn't have to be worried about. And

827
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 1: even to the point of me manifesting a sweaty dance party,

828
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 1: and like even you know, when we got there, we're like, God,

829
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 1: I really want to share this experience with our community,

830
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 1: you know, like other people have to come here. And

831
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: even to the point where, after like three days, I

832
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 1: was like, it is so fucking necessary that moms go

833
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,280
Speaker 1: on trips without their kids, because you know, we're moms.

834
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: We were having guilt of not bringing our kids. We

835
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 1: were having you know, the scheduling at home wasn't going smoothly,

836
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: you know, niggas say they're going to show up, they

837
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 1: don't show up, and you have to you feel guilty

838
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,320
Speaker 1: should I be here doing this for this extended amount

839
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 1: of time. But I'm like, this is so fucking necessary,

840
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 1: and honestly, like I encourage it right after you have

841
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 1: a baby, Like it should be normalized to go on

842
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:09,240
Speaker 1: a long vacation every year without your family. You should

843
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 1: have to do it because you have to be able

844
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 1: to and for an extended time. Because it took Eric

845
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 1: and I at least like four or five days to

846
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 1: like decompress, decompress and then like really be in it,

847
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 1: you know, And like I was even talking about, like

848
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 1: how do we bring our community here? How do we develop,

849
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 1: like do a trip together where we can manifest because

850
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 1: Eric and I have had the blessing of being able

851
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 1: to really see our manifestations come to life to the

852
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 1: point like I'm looking over at my best friend like

853
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 1: I can't believe, like we did this, you know, like

854
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 1: we didn't win this on the radio. We paid for this,

855
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: weird adults. And then like how do we find the

856
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,879
Speaker 1: best air following our dreams to follow like just being

857
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:50,840
Speaker 1: us and just like we went to New York and

858
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:53,800
Speaker 1: had these crazy conversations with our friends and we're smoking

859
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,399
Speaker 1: weed and we're we're interviewing a dominatrix and then we're

860
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 1: turning it over and interviewing best friends and crying and

861
00:40:58,600 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 1: about how much we love each.

862
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 2: Other, out with our kids, and then we're just like,

863
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 2: I mean, I realize. And then so you saying, like

864
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 2: my friend was like, you guys don't live normal lives.

865
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, I mean, I think everyone's version of normal

866
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:11,719
Speaker 2: is different, but no, I don't, and I've never wanted to.

867
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,879
Speaker 2: And that's the life that I want to continue to live.

868
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 1: I want to be able to be one hundred percent

869
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 1: myself and be authentic and fuck up and cry and

870
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:22,280
Speaker 1: be vulnerable, and when I'm not being vulnerable, check myself

871
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 1: and my friend be able to tell me, and also

872
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 1: like just be able to put our kids in camp

873
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 1: together and get a babysitter and you know, go to

874
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: the sex party at night and laugh about it the

875
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 1: next day, and like still be good moms and still

876
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 1: do the things and it's such a beautiful journey and

877
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 1: I'm just I love it here. No same, but I

878
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 1: mean I think too, like going back to you know,

879
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: being able to connect to yourself and to nature and

880
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:52,440
Speaker 1: wanting to bring our tribe there. Like I'm just so

881
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,879
Speaker 1: excited because we were like, how do we do this?

882
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 1: And like, when I tell you the power of like

883
00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 1: me and Jamila's.

884
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 2: Entity is it's something really special and like you too

885
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 2: can have that with your friend, like with your soulmate

886
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:07,360
Speaker 2: or whatever that looks like. But me and Jamila were

887
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 2: we were like, we need to do this, and then

888
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 2: we met a woman and then.

889
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:13,359
Speaker 1: Literally we're like, we need to post a retreat in

890
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:15,840
Speaker 1: Costa Rica. It should be all of these things that

891
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 1: we're experiencing. And literally, like that day, I went to

892
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 1: go eat lunch with my friend who lives in Costa Rica, Monique,

893
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: and then she introduced me to this woman. She's like, hello,

894
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 1: you know, like I coordinate retreats. I've done it for years.

895
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 1: I did it on a major level and like Abiza

896
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 1: or some shit. I'm like, oh did you Well, thanks God,

897
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:35,839
Speaker 1: I'll take it, you know, And I told her. I

898
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:38,399
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, it's crazy that I'm meeting you right now.

899
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 1: Like I was just talking to my partner about this,

900
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: and it's literally every single thing that we wanted that

901
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:47,279
Speaker 1: we got, like to the very small, even down to

902
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: our friends when we got there, we were just talking, eh,

903
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,839
Speaker 1: look at them, like, and we asked for those friendships.

904
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:57,839
Speaker 1: Even in our like very small virtual manifestation full moon

905
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,799
Speaker 1: thing that we did, we had people come, you know,

906
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: write in and say like I manifested this and this

907
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 1: came to fruition. And I do believe there's power in

908
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 1: doing shit together. I do like when you harness your energy, Like,

909
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 1: first of all, femine energy is so fucking divine and goddess.

910
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 1: It's literally creative energy. We create life. And when we

911
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 1: put that shit together like the red tent style in

912
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,879
Speaker 1: a tropical holy place like Costa Rica, and you come

913
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: vulnerable and you come like open and ready to connect,

914
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 1: that shit is motherfucking powerful. So like, yeah, I'm super

915
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 1: super excited to announce that we are doing a retreat

916
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 1: hey in January in Costa Rica, twenty twenty two.

917
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so excited it's January two because I feel like,

918
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 2: I mean, we all know, like beginning of the year,

919
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:46,759
Speaker 2: we're always focusing on like, Okay, what are the things

920
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 2: that we're reevaluating about last year ourselves, But sometimes it

921
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:54,240
Speaker 2: takes like a few weeks into January for some reason

922
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 2: to like really like, Okay, what is it that I

923
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 2: really want to do? You know, And like I just

924
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 2: feel like making this commitment to yourself really and coming

925
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 2: back to yourself and saying I'm going to do this

926
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 2: for me, Like there's something so powerful about that and

927
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 2: then us all coming together. I'm just really excited to

928
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:14,839
Speaker 2: meet the people that you know are committed to themselves,

929
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 2: because those are the people I want to be attached to,

930
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 2: those not attached but connected to.

931
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 1: You know, well, when you're manifesting, yeah, you need people

932
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 1: who are on the same page as you. And we

933
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 1: need to nurture our dreams and nurture each other and

934
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 1: like take time to do that. It's important. Even in

935
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 1: Costa Rica, It's like it feels good to just do

936
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: whatever I want, like just nurture myself, listen to my body.

937
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: And the times I've experienced the most like shift in

938
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:40,719
Speaker 1: my energy and in my like in myself, like my

939
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 1: ability to reflect and dig deeper is when I'm most

940
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: silent and most in nature. So like doing that as

941
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: a community is going to be nice.

942
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:50,800
Speaker 2: And there's such magical people and healers out there, you guys,

943
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 2: I can't wait for you guys to see what's out

944
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 2: there and meet the people out there. It's just like

945
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,240
Speaker 2: it's oh my god, I miss Lanie.

946
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 1: Miss yeah, we have a Coasta Rican grandmother. Thank you

947
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:06,760
Speaker 1: Monique for retaking all your people.

948
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

949
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:11,880
Speaker 1: We went to visit this like magical Divide. It was

950
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 1: like going to meet God. It was like, hey, you

951
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 1: want to come meet God, come with us, come up

952
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 1: the mountain, then come meet her. And we did. We

953
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 1: like the mountain. Lani sent us with her friend from

954
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: Germany or Sweden. She like, we just went through like

955
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 1: back jungles, muddy back jungles down a hill up until

956
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 1: we found this beautiful untapped into waterfall and we just

957
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 1: like sat there and it was just so purifying powerful.

958
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 1: It was loud, it was and it was like you

959
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 1: couldn't even go under it because it was just heavy,

960
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: would probably break your back, and it was it just

961
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:51,280
Speaker 1: rained and we screamed and we yelled and we cried,

962
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 1: and we just like sat in that bitch for a minute,

963
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 1: like to absorb but like whatever energy we wanted to absorb,

964
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: and it was it's powerful anyway.

965
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 2: So should we do? Do you want to?

966
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 1: Just?

967
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 2: Did you do what you pull one of these cards.

968
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead quickly.

969
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 2: So we have this game. We've heard us talk about it.

970
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,280
Speaker 2: It's called We're Not Really Strangers. And in the spirit

971
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 2: of designing your life, I think a lot that comes

972
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 2: with designing your life is reflection. You must reflect, figure

973
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 2: out what it is that you want, what it is

974
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:26,359
Speaker 2: that you need, what is that you don't need? And

975
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:28,360
Speaker 2: so there's a reflection card in here. So I'm just

976
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 2: going to pick anyone. Hopefully it's not crazy.

977
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 1: It's so deep.

978
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 2: In one word, describe how you feel right now?

979
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 1: Hi, Hi, happy, grateful. I can't do one word. I

980
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: talk a lot. Where'd you pick from? This is reflection

981
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 1: and then this is a perception and what's the middle

982
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 1: one connection? Okay, I'm should do another reflection. Since we're

983
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 1: designing your lives, we have to reflect. Okay, this is interesting.

984
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 1: What can we create together? What can't we create together?

985
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:04,399
Speaker 2: Anything we want?

986
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:08,759
Speaker 1: Anything we fucking want? Oh that was a good one. Okay,

987
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 1: Let's try another one, because that's just.

988
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:11,399
Speaker 2: That's for the enterity.

989
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 1: This is for this is for the entitude.

990
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 2: Okay, h.

991
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 1: What is it a wild card? No, it's not a

992
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:19,359
Speaker 1: good one.

993
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 2: It's good.

994
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 1: What you admire most about me.

995
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,279
Speaker 2: Your capacity for love.

996
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:31,800
Speaker 1: I admire most about you. There's a lot I admire

997
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 1: about you. I admire your ability to have boundaries.

998
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:44,360
Speaker 2: So the opposite capacity to love you, your capacity to

999
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 2: say fuck you.

1000
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 1: It's a beautiful thing.

1001
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 2: It's thank you, I thank you. I receive that.

1002
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: Do we have it?

1003
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 2: Horri? Yeah, let's read our horri and then will if

1004
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:57,320
Speaker 2: you guys.

1005
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 1: Want to hear more about things we're not going to

1006
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 1: talk about about New York. Oh, yeah, in more detail.

1007
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:04,839
Speaker 1: Because we did go to a sex party, we did

1008
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:05,760
Speaker 1: some field research.

1009
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:09,480
Speaker 2: We went to study. It was a group study. It.

1010
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:10,800
Speaker 1: We went out into the field.

1011
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 2: We got into the field.

1012
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: You needed to collect some data, and.

1013
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 2: She wrote some things down notes.

1014
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 1: We're journalists, so of course we had to do the

1015
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:20,760
Speaker 1: research in the field.

1016
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 2: Did a lot of field work. But yeah, you can

1017
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 2: hear that on our Patreon, we talk about our experience

1018
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 2: at a party that was pretty life changing for me.

1019
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 1: It was life changing.

1020
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it looks solidified some things for me.

1021
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:41,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I could see that. I can understand that, Like, yeah,

1022
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:43,400
Speaker 1: there's an openness that has to come with.

1023
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:45,239
Speaker 2: I don't even know, I'm not even gonna refeel what

1024
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 2: it is, but just go listen to our patreon. It's

1025
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:50,399
Speaker 2: patreon dot com slash Good Mom's Bad Choices. We have

1026
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:54,319
Speaker 2: that little story among other stories that we don't share here,

1027
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:57,320
Speaker 2: so check that shit out. But we do have a

1028
00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:00,279
Speaker 2: whoorry and I thought it was a good one. Let

1029
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:08,359
Speaker 2: me see where is it? Who stories? Well? I thought

1030
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 2: I'd take this story to the grave, but apparently things change.

1031
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 2: I was twenty four when my first marriage ended. On

1032
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:15,840
Speaker 2: the first weekend my daughter spent with her dad's family,

1033
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:18,280
Speaker 2: my friends planned a girl's night so I wouldn't be sad.

1034
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:20,760
Speaker 2: I put on clothes I never would have been abled

1035
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 2: to while I was with him, and we headed to

1036
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 2: the club. Two hours in. I was feeling really nice,

1037
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 2: and that's when I met him. He had thick Haitian

1038
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 2: accent that turned me on. We danced and made out

1039
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 2: like drunk lovers. At the end of the night, my

1040
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:35,919
Speaker 2: scary ass tried to leave, but he gave me his ID,

1041
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,439
Speaker 2: driver's license, and social Security cards so that I would

1042
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 2: trust him. Wow, I drove what we were going to

1043
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:44,360
Speaker 2: do with those cards. If it's like you went.

1044
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: Missing, though, you could take a picture, you sent it

1045
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:46,439
Speaker 1: to your friends.

1046
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:49,280
Speaker 2: Oh, Okay, I got it, Okay, take it, okay credit Wow, Okay,

1047
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 2: that's yeah, it's a good idea. Actually, I drove to

1048
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 2: his house while he was sucking on my titties. He

1049
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 2: didn't care who saw, and I didn't either. We went

1050
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 2: back to his house and I got new Dick for

1051
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 2: the first time in six years.

1052
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:03,839
Speaker 1: Who hellujah Bringham home from the club and dickham down.

1053
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:07,400
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, amen, I support this message. I was feeling

1054
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 2: so fucking liberated that I asked him if if his

1055
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:13,319
Speaker 2: fine ass roommate wanted to fuck me too?

1056
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 1: I love it.

1057
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 2: He did. At first, I was nervous because they would

1058
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 2: switch back and forth between English and French. What wow.

1059
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of bilingual three something happening.

1060
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 2: So yeah, speaking of speaking of the sex club, but

1061
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 2: they both found ways to cater to me without getting

1062
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:34,759
Speaker 2: too close to each other. Come to think of it,

1063
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 2: that's probably what most of the talking was about. They

1064
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:39,279
Speaker 2: wouldn't come close to each other or.

1065
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: No, maybe because it had a pleasure her. I don't know.

1066
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:42,800
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe they were conspiring to please you, or that

1067
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:44,439
Speaker 2: would be great. That's a great thought to think about.

1068
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 2: I slept over and the next morning I felt like

1069
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,400
Speaker 2: I needed to explain that that was actually my first

1070
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 2: time doing something like that. Shame shame, creuptin the shame creeptain.

1071
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:59,080
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm God blessed me, verified slut. I thanked

1072
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:01,399
Speaker 2: him for treating me and told him that after all

1073
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 2: I went through in my marriage, I felt so good

1074
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:05,400
Speaker 2: to be free. He told me that from now on,

1075
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 2: whenever I wanted a safe space to do something new,

1076
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 2: I could call him.

1077
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:11,799
Speaker 1: Wow, he's a fucking saint. I want to cry. I

1078
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 1: know that was beautiful. I'm like, look at me, I'm

1079
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:16,720
Speaker 1: getting emotional. Sexual freedom is a gift.

1080
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 2: Wow, that's you know, like you know, it's safety for me.

1081
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 1: It is so important for like a man to say

1082
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 1: you're yeh feel safe like that is a good I

1083
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 1: never thought it was that word because you think of

1084
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 1: it in a different way, but it is. It feels

1085
00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:30,240
Speaker 1: safe to just be like the creepiest it's okay.

1086
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 2: You know that you're gonna be good there.

1087
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I don't I don't care about that. I

1088
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 1: love you.

1089
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 2: We were main friends. We'd go out.

1090
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 1: She's really teario I know she's about to cry crying,

1091
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:42,799
Speaker 1: you know.

1092
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 2: I just feel like it makes me happy to know

1093
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:45,800
Speaker 2: that exists, right.

1094
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 1: Right, there's men out there who says, oh my god,

1095
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 1: I love you enough to give you that.

1096
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:51,360
Speaker 2: You know what it is too. I cry because I

1097
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 2: can't go back like I am who I am. There's

1098
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 2: no going back. I've experienced too much. I've seen too

1099
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:59,840
Speaker 2: many things, and I can't go back to whatever normalcy,

1100
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:01,839
Speaker 2: whatever the fuck that looks like. I just know what

1101
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 2: I like.

1102
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 1: And are you with it or not?

1103
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:04,360
Speaker 2: Do you love me?

1104
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 1: Every safe? Right?

1105
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 2: Every safe? We remain friends. We'd go out to eat,

1106
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 2: set up play dates for my daughter and his son,

1107
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:12,840
Speaker 2: even have sex when we were in between relationships, just

1108
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,200
Speaker 2: us to end with others too, even though we did

1109
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 2: wild shit together. He held me in the highest regard,

1110
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 2: and I always felt like he was an ally. I

1111
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 2: recently found out that he was killed. Okay, now I'm

1112
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:25,719
Speaker 2: really gonna cry.

1113
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna cry too.

1114
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:32,359
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'll never forget all the liberation he brought

1115
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 2: into my life. Wow, wow, I never This is a first.

1116
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:38,440
Speaker 2: A horri is making me really emotional.

1117
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:40,800
Speaker 1: You know what, I just feel like I know what

1118
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:42,799
Speaker 1: I think for women too, and I think for free

1119
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 1: women and sexual women, it is hard to come by,

1120
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:47,840
Speaker 1: and it is a gift and honestly shout out to

1121
00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:51,319
Speaker 1: you for fucking saying, hey, I'm gonna try something and

1122
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 1: saying it because no how many women want it, and

1123
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:54,600
Speaker 1: not say it because like it's gonna be a train,

1124
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:56,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a slunt, They're gonna think I'm a hoe,

1125
00:52:57,000 --> 00:52:59,480
Speaker 1: like all these things. You know, it's sad that we

1126
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 1: have to live our sexuality in this quiet space. It's

1127
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 1: sad that we have to go around our sexuality wondering

1128
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 1: if it's offensive to anyone else, or if it's asking

1129
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 1: for too much attention, or if it's slutty, because men

1130
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 1: have the leeway to just sled it out even if

1131
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 1: it's fucking downright violent and disrespectful, and it's accepted and

1132
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 1: there's camaraderie around it. Like to be a woman is

1133
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 1: to be sexual. You cannot remove the sex from femininity,

1134
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:31,000
Speaker 1: from the feminine from like that's who we are. So

1135
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:34,239
Speaker 1: it's just so hard to come by a man who

1136
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:37,480
Speaker 1: recognizes and sees who you are, is who you are,

1137
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:40,400
Speaker 1: and it respects you as such. It's sad. It's almost

1138
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:42,160
Speaker 1: to the point like do I have to am I

1139
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 1: supposed to be more a different way? Am I supposed

1140
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 1: to be less sexual? Am I not supposed to express

1141
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:51,080
Speaker 1: my sexual fantasies because it's too much for somebody and like, no,

1142
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:53,239
Speaker 1: But you do have to know that there are going

1143
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 1: to be a lot of men that shame you, and

1144
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:57,799
Speaker 1: even less men that like wrap around you and love

1145
00:53:57,840 --> 00:53:59,800
Speaker 1: on you and can hold you to a high regard,

1146
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:03,400
Speaker 1: you know, respect you and help you live out those fantasies.

1147
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:05,800
Speaker 1: I'm really sad that he got killed.

1148
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 2: That's why we have to teach our sons to be

1149
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 2: good men.

1150
00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 1: We have to. I think we should be a school

1151
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:16,839
Speaker 1: for boys, a school for men to relearn. They're like, oh,

1152
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 1: fuck that, that's a lot of work. Jesus. It's like

1153
00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 1: every man ever I've ever met anyway, that school is closed.

1154
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 2: Well, thank you for sharing that. I appreciate you sharing that, Horri.

1155
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:32,399
Speaker 2: That was beautiful. But it's time for us to get

1156
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:32,919
Speaker 2: out of here, guys.

1157
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 1: But one more thing I wanted to say that we

1158
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:36,520
Speaker 1: missed I don't know how we fucking missed this, but

1159
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 1: in New York we had a fucking meet up.

1160
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:39,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we met up.

1161
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 1: And the horry made me think of it because the

1162
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:45,440
Speaker 1: most innocent, sweetest face in the whole party. Was like,

1163
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 1: remember that the horry about the me pegging the white

1164
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:53,440
Speaker 1: man of Juneteenth. I was like, that was you. Yeah,

1165
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 1: I was like, girl, I would have not seen this

1166
00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:58,279
Speaker 1: a little sweet face, never in a million years. You're

1167
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:00,320
Speaker 1: so it's so nice to put faces with whole sorries

1168
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:04,279
Speaker 1: you never know out here. I love you guys as

1169
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:06,439
Speaker 1: stories and I love you guys. It felt so good

1170
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:08,480
Speaker 1: to just like wrap my hands around you and like

1171
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:11,320
Speaker 1: chill and dance and vibe and eat and break bread.

1172
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 1: And hopefully we get to do more of that in

1173
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:17,839
Speaker 1: each city, more dinners. So check that out. And yeah,

1174
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 1: you know where to find us, rate and review us,

1175
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:26,800
Speaker 1: and we love you, love you, Bye bye Ella Solo

1176
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 1: Recorder La La the Latter Days, Ranz. Thanks