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Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with

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Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia.

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Speaker 2: Judice, Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, and welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush.

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Speaker 1: I am currently in the Bay Area for the Big Game.

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Speaker 1: I love it here, but I also gathered some sorority

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Speaker 1: girls to answer some burning questions here for this Dirty

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Speaker 1: Rush episode. Hi girls, Hi, yes, I found them off

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Speaker 1: the street. Okay, so let's get into it. Is it

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Speaker 1: weird to go to the bathroom and shower next to

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Speaker 1: each other in the sorority house.

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Speaker 3: Well, my sorority house was the showers in the bathrooms

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Speaker 3: were closed off, so it was not weird at all.

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Speaker 4: I never had that problem.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean, like like there was individual showers

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Speaker 3: are you talking about, Like yeah, but aren't.

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Speaker 2: Like being in the back at the same time. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't think any sorority house has like open showers.

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Speaker 2: I think everyone has a stall stall.

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Speaker 5: But I mean, at least in my house, we had

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Speaker 5: shower parties, so you did purposely time like when you

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Speaker 5: were going to showers that one person have a speaker

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Speaker 5: and everyone be hanging out in the back showering at

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Speaker 5: the exact same. Yeah, like purposely planned.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's I feel like that's kind of fun though.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, it's super fun.

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Speaker 2: I mean to just like shower and dance and sing

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Speaker 2: in the shower. Yeah, that's so fun.

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Speaker 5: I mean you're getting ready for the parties or going

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Speaker 5: to the same events. Why not shower together?

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Speaker 2: How many showers were there?

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Speaker 5: Five stall? Like five little stalls.

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Speaker 2: I assume some girls probably showered together.

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Speaker 3: Probably, and it was like it when I was showering.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it was always like an everything shower

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Speaker 3: or not always, I guess. Yeah, But in the fraternity

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Speaker 3: houses they had just shower heads in like a huge

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, like they would steam out the whole room.

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Speaker 3: The room was like about this size and there was

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Speaker 3: like six shower heads.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like it's weirder for guys, But then

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Speaker 1: I feel like guys get off on it more than girls. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: dead ass, because I feel like it's kind of like that.

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Speaker 2: In the high school locker rooms too. It's pretty much

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Speaker 2: all open.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it is open, but I remember it was

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Speaker 3: never like a get naked kind of thing, like everyone

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Speaker 3: water polo.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I didn't really have that issue with going

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and kind of just go with it. It's like,

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Speaker 3: oh well, I just.

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Speaker 5: Think it's especially at frats, I think it's quite gross

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Speaker 5: because I've been in situations where I'm waiting for the

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Speaker 5: bathroom out of frat and girls will go into the

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Speaker 5: open like exactly what we're talking about with those bathrooms

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Speaker 5: and go and pee in there. So I'm like, that's

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Speaker 5: an extra layer of disgusting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and the bathrooms are god yeah clean. That's crazy. Okay. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so girls, girls do it, I guess, and it's not weird. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Is it weird to date someone your sorority sister also dated,

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Speaker 1: I could say, I feel like you.

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Speaker 2: Will get burned and that's so awkward too.

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Speaker 6: And also like if you go to a small school,

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Speaker 6: like I went to a smaller school, like you're not

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Speaker 6: that's just weird. But it just gets smaller and smaller

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Speaker 6: as you get older and older. By the time it's

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Speaker 6: senior year, like your friends have kissed every normal guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like it's just a big no no too,

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Speaker 1: especially while you're a freshman and to rush, you should

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Speaker 1: not get with any older guy. If you want to

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Speaker 1: get with a freshman, it's fine because odds are, like

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Speaker 1: a potential older sister, it's going to have a less

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So I remember one of my friends.

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Speaker 1: I felt so bad for her, but smart, beautiful girl,

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Speaker 1: like definitely could have been a sorority girl and just

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Speaker 2: Oh no, she ended up becoming one.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but freshman year she got with this older guy,

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Speaker 1: but he happened to be dating somebody in the sorority

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Speaker 1: she didn't know, and they like blacklisted her. Oh god,

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Speaker 1: for rush, it's crazy.

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Speaker 6: I remember there was a story of this girl I

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Speaker 6: went to high school with. She went to school in California,

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Speaker 6: and so they had second semester rush and at a party,

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Speaker 6: it was like the president's boyfriend and so like she

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Speaker 6: told everyone to drop there, which is insane.

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Speaker 5: I feel like that happened so often just hear all

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Speaker 5: these stories, Like I feel like when you dating someone

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Speaker 5: they broke up. Yah. Yeah, you're all the like you're

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Speaker 5: the reputation, You're the reason, whether it's cheating, whether it's whatever,

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Speaker 5: and it's always something. So it's like, if you were

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Speaker 5: to then choose to go and date that guy doesn't

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Speaker 5: look good on your Well.

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Speaker 3: What's funny is when I was a sophomore, No, when

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Speaker 3: I was a freshman, I was hooking up with a

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Speaker 3: he asked me on like weird dates that I like

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Speaker 3: freaked out and would throw my phone across the room,

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Speaker 3: like I could not stand him. But we were hooking

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Speaker 3: up and then we stopped. Flash forward to sophomore year.

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Speaker 3: I was interviewing, which sounds so weird. I was interviewing

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Speaker 3: girls to be my little What does.

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Speaker 2: That call speed dated?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Ye, we were speed dating and she was telling me

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Speaker 3: the story of this guy she was hooking up with

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Speaker 3: but was a little bit weird, same guy.

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Speaker 4: And then we like bonded over the fact that you're

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Speaker 4: using the term weird too.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what that's his descriptor weird.

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Speaker 4: But I don't even know. We just like like slowly

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then she's turned into my little Oh my god,

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Speaker 3: and then get this.

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Speaker 1: See, sometimes you could really bond over a guy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it didn't didn't have.

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Speaker 3: To be weird because we both live in the same city. Now,

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Speaker 3: last year, I went on a date with this smoke

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Speaker 3: from a friend of a friend, mutual.

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Speaker 4: We went on a couple of dates.

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Speaker 2: You're using such interesting words today.

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Speaker 4: We went on a couple of dates. He was so gorgeous,

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Speaker 3: And then flash forward to like six months later, someone

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Speaker 3: conversation that they had gone on a couple of dates too.

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Speaker 2: And mashed on hinge.

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Speaker 4: That's why we're so sisters at Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you guys should constantly be going out

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Speaker 1: with the same guys. I feel like for it to

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Speaker 1: happen twice, it's a little too often. Yeah, it's one

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Speaker 1: too many times for sure, especially when you move to

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Speaker 2: Let's not bond over it too much. Okay, curiously, we

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Speaker 2: haven't talked sense.

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, would you say that there is cattiness in

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Speaker 1: the sorority house or just in sororities in general.

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Speaker 2: Yes, like caddie like cat like you fight like over

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Speaker 2: stupid stuff. Yeah, like caddies.

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Speaker 6: It's like small, small like girls getting mad over really

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Speaker 1: Music too loud in the realm, or not returning somebody's thing.

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Speaker 4: Me and my roommate used to sing to each other.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's yeah a little no.

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Speaker 3: We would just like sing like just for funsies, and

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Speaker 3: like people would talk about it downstairs like we were

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Speaker 3: just we were we were just having fun in our rooms.

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Speaker 2: I definitely would have talked about it.

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Speaker 3: So people were talking about it and they were a

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Speaker 3: little bit annoyed, and yeah, I like why there was

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Speaker 6: The room, And that was like the only dat Like

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Speaker 6: just like your conversations, would you sing them?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's awesome.

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Speaker 5: You wouldn't play music, make a little jingle of your day.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what, you just like sing what you're

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Speaker 4: trying to say?

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Speaker 2: Can you give us an example not a seal?

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Speaker 4: Yes exactly. And it actually actually was like can you

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Speaker 4: guys keep it down Like I'm trying to study and

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Speaker 4: we're like.

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Speaker 2: Oh, actually, what causes the most drama in a sorority house.

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Speaker 3: I think like boys, boys in drinking, blacking out. We

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Speaker 3: had some horrible instances where girls would come home and

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Speaker 3: like one girl projectile vomited in our living room and

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Speaker 3: it was bad. And then it was like the carpet

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Speaker 3: in the morning the president woke up screenshotted the security

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Speaker 3: footage of the carpet outside and was like, why is

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Speaker 4: And then I don't know, Yeah, I was just a disaster.

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Speaker 3: I think.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I think it's boys and drinking. I

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Speaker 1: think it's like sneaking boys into the house too, or

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Speaker 2: I feel like all of that is like kind of big.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, a lot. We have a lot of issues with girls,

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Speaker 5: like once they become seniors, not being involved anymore, and

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Speaker 5: that causes a lot of problems, like not showing up

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Speaker 5: to events, not being involved in like alumni things, or

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Speaker 5: not coming to chapter and kind of just once you

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Speaker 5: get to a certain point, you no longer have as

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Speaker 6: It just happens it happens, I think with my sorty

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Speaker 6: I was just like, yeah, like, of course the seniors

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Speaker 5: Well, it's also I tell the younger girls, I'm like,

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Speaker 5: once you're a senior, you will feel the same way

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Speaker 5: like you will, just not anymore. I've been.

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Speaker 2: It's just found to happen. Which side of rush would

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Speaker 2: you think is better?

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Speaker 4: My god?

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Speaker 1: What side of rush do you think is better? Participating

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Speaker 1: in rush or rushing the potential and ms and already

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Speaker 1: being in a sorority.

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Speaker 5: Already I agree, reason that's better.

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Speaker 2: I hated.

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Speaker 5: I love doing it.

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Speaker 1: I liked both, but I liked on the other side

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Speaker 1: and recruited. I thought it was fun and exciting because

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Speaker 1: you're a freshman. I love then being older and actually

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Speaker 1: having to rush all these girls all day.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to like die.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, ours also went over.

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Speaker 3: It was first semester and it always went over a

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Speaker 5: To miss the first football game. It was dry. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: and they didn't let anybody in Greek life do it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I before to be in then through I.

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Speaker 5: Just always felt like about myself. You're ranking like literally going,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I got that.

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Speaker 6: I feel like if you're involved in recruitment, then you

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Speaker 3: What does kind of suck is like the rush week

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Speaker 1: Obviously if things don't go your way, it's maybe not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what is it like if you have a good

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Speaker 2: That's hard. I feel like it's hard. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You end up eventually seeing you know your friends at

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think it kind of matters more. It's like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I agree with that. So I feel like

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Speaker 4: Yeh, I didn't really experience that. I mean, I kind

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we both rushed the same sororities and then.

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Speaker 3: I just was in my sorority. Why didn't some of

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Speaker 4: We are are ours you have to have a three

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Speaker 2: And I was like, how do my friends?

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Speaker 6: And that's hard if your second semester rush, because so

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and that was it.

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Speaker 2: All literally failing. Yeah, that's so it's a big adjustment. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you're right. So I feel like the GPA thing is

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Speaker 4: It's kind of like on the flip side with guys.

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Speaker 4: I remember freshman year.

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Speaker 3: I was talking to my guy friends and they were

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Speaker 4: Classes because of pledging. Yeah, fraternities, and so they were

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Speaker 3: I don't know if they were drinking while they were pledging,

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Speaker 3: So then they all got horrible gps.

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Speaker 5: That's why school. My dad always tells me that the

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Speaker 6: Yeah, my school, the fraternities, like during pledging, like had

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Speaker 6: We had study hours, had study hours as freshmen we did.

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Speaker 1: To like keep us like and honestly, I kind of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it kind of just like forced you to

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Also you're going to do They would yell at you

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Speaker 1: if you were talking. Yeah, so it's like mine as well,

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Speaker 1: just do your work. Yeah, yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 6: I think it's a good thing for the fraternities because

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Speaker 4: We would get points for studying, yeah, which would then

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Speaker 2: Thinking back to points good room for living in the house.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Gabrielle, my sister grinded for those points because she wanted

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and she grinded, went to every single event. Did

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Speaker 2: she get it, Yeah, she got it. Oh, of course

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Speaker 2: she got it.

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Speaker 1: She would have lost her mind, yeah, if she had

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Speaker 1: Because if you didn't get a single, obviously, then you

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Speaker 1: you were literally they called it the orphanage because you

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, And I've just thought that that was Michigan.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, isn't it called like the.

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Speaker 4: Or I don't know, sleeping porch.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I was like pork. Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, but I thought it was crazy

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Speaker 1: because I'm like, I've never heard of that before.

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Speaker 2: Like there's your ship is every like your stuff is everywhere.

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Speaker 1: It's basically like everyone has a there's like a room

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've heard of this. It's crazy, and it's like

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Speaker 3: Or if someone coughs, yeah, oh my gosh, the illnesses

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Speaker 3: that probably spread in that room, oh yeah. Or if

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Speaker 1: Gabrielle's OCD is just too extreme, Like she would have

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Speaker 4: To do that, been able to survive, you know, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I could never.

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Speaker 2: Our fraternity house is gross, super very.

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Speaker 4: I don't think i've ever seen it decently looking.

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Speaker 3: Room.

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Speaker 5: Genuinely, they're disgusting.

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Speaker 2: They're just so sticky.

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Speaker 5: Everything is sticky. There is so much alcohol to think

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Speaker 5: that it's the turnover time throwing a party, then you

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Speaker 5: have like maybe three days of actually living there and

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Speaker 5: then another party that's true, and then three days of

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Speaker 1: I think us the fraternity houses at Rutgers hired a

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Speaker 2: It's just house.

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Speaker 3: It's so nasty, I mean, like from houses being passed

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Speaker 3: I feel like there's no way to salvage a fraternity

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Speaker 3: no much less like a living room. It was so

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Speaker 3: odd if I would go over to the fraternity house

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Speaker 4: Did it come from hundred million years old? What animals

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Speaker 2: Couches in their rooms? Like always?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And their tiny room they managed to fit a house.

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Speaker 4: Everyone wanted like their room to.

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Speaker 5: Be it.

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Speaker 2: Like the hangout. Like during the party, everyone.

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Speaker 4: Co were in this room if you had a clean room.

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Speaker 3: I remember my friends and I would talk about this

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Speaker 3: You should definitely not be having a tight, spotless week house.

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Speaker 2: No dust.

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Speaker 4: He was a little o CD.

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Speaker 1: Well some people are, but I feel like also living

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Speaker 1: You should have thought that that was like attractive.

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Speaker 4: I know, I think I did. And then my friends

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Speaker 5: I was like, the.

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Speaker 6: Do you guys want to hear something crazy? Yeah, And

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Speaker 6: my dad's fraternity, him and his roommate started a bar

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Speaker 6: in their room. Oh my schools, it's still there. Yeah, yes,

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Speaker 6: oh that's pretty cute. Yeah, in their room and it's

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Speaker 6: they would make money. They would like go buy all

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's so funny, so smart, right, but like,

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Speaker 2: how would you like live like with a bar in

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Speaker 2: It was like they set one up, I think the yeah.

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Speaker 6: Crazy.

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Speaker 3: What was also interesting was how much they paid for

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Speaker 3: just really expensive. But like the dues that they had

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Speaker 3: to pay to live in that ship hole to like also.

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Speaker 4: Was insane. Their dues were so high.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like going to formals and stuff, oh yeah, because

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Speaker 3: they would have and like their parents were paying for

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Speaker 3: us to get blacked out.

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Speaker 1: Literally and great wanted to one up and wanted to

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Speaker 2: So it was like you drove to your formal, you

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Speaker 1: You did this.

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Speaker 4: Where did you guys go for your formals?

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Speaker 2: We if they were like nice.

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Speaker 1: and like we had like a couple of venues that

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Speaker 1: were on the beach, and we did one in the city.

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Speaker 2: Would you guys stay to night? And that was like

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Speaker 2: would you do like away foremost where you spent the

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Speaker 2: night anywhere only for the fraternities?

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Speaker 1: Did that? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, never the sororities, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Same, which was so fun away foremost were fun yeah, so.

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Speaker 2: Fun until you like didn't want to be with that guy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, or you like had the worst end of your

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Speaker 4: life in your.

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Speaker 3: Anxiety and you have two more days and then you

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Speaker 3: have to drive home with like six people.

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Speaker 4: Awful.

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Speaker 2: It's so funny.

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Speaker 1: Would you, guys ever shower out of fraternity always? Ever

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Speaker 1: boyfriends at a fraternity house? No, so you never experienced No,

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Speaker 1: I would never never.

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Speaker 3: Like you live in the same city. Do not put

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Speaker 3: your bare feet in that shower, go home, Go home, boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: If you got a shower, that means you should go home, Like,

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Speaker 3: do not shower, please go home.

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Speaker 4: Imagine you're like, oh.

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Speaker 2: Hey, babe, can I take a shower here? I mean

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Speaker 2: it's like the communal showers. Its gross. And that is

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Speaker 2: part one. Stay tuned for part two. Love you guys. Bye,