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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for getting a man fired

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Speaker 1: for what he said to my toddler?

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Speaker 2: I mean, what did he say? He said some dastardly

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Speaker 2: things that we're going to get into. He said, this

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Speaker 2: is the best toddler of all time. That is not

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Speaker 2: what he said. Ah, let me tell you that much.

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Speaker 1: I'm the one third owner of a company with two

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Speaker 1: friends from college, Mike and Eric. I run the technology

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Speaker 1: side of things, so I'm not the face of the

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Speaker 1: company nerd. I rarely go into the office. I have

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Speaker 1: a four year old daughter whose father is Mike. Okay,

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Speaker 1: oh so uh wait wait okay, So we have never

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Speaker 1: been in a relationship and chose to co parent our daughter.

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Speaker 1: So you have a company together. You banged, but you're

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Speaker 1: not in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that is quite an interesting dynamic.

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Speaker 1: That is fucking weird, But hey, at least the daughter

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Speaker 1: is being raised by It seems like two parents that

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Speaker 1: love to So Mike got into a car wreck and

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Speaker 1: required surgery. Eric was out of town, My nanny is

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Speaker 1: on holiday, so it's me taking care of my daughter

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Speaker 1: and trying to run a company. There's a project that

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Speaker 1: Mike's working on in the office, and I have to

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Speaker 1: grab it.

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Speaker 3: And a portable server.

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Speaker 1: My daughter is already upset because she knows her dad

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Speaker 1: is hurt. Getting her loaded into the car to go

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Speaker 1: into the office was messy. She refused to wear matching

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Speaker 1: boots and is in an ELF outfit.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's so fun. I want to wear two boots.

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Speaker 2: I want to be an ELF today, Daddy's daughter. I

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Speaker 2: don't you know there's a strict dress code of in

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Speaker 2: this office. I don't know, but an elephant. No, I

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Speaker 2: want to be an health I mean why not? You know?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it kind of sounds sick.

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Speaker 2: What is she going into a business? Meaning like, hello, gentlemen,

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Speaker 2: sit down. I see you're not wearing your helf costumes.

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Speaker 2: You'll find it.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes working is very hot. Today we need to get

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Speaker 4: eight billion presents out.

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Speaker 2: Chop chop protection must increase by three percent month of

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Speaker 2: our month.

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Speaker 1: At this point, I'm like, whatever, let's go the whole

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Speaker 1: time in the car. Though she's crying and upset, I

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Speaker 1: get her to calm down because I told her we

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Speaker 1: would grab some things from work. I meet with our

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Speaker 1: VP of operations, Adam, and everything is fine and dandy

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Speaker 1: until my daughter realizes she left her dinosaurs in the car.

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Speaker 4: Oh, not the dinos.

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Speaker 2: They were They already went extinct. Ones.

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Speaker 3: You don't want them to go.

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Speaker 2: I've not forgotten.

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Speaker 1: She will not be appeased. We are in Adam's office

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Speaker 1: trying to get everything together to take to my home office.

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Speaker 1: My kiddo will not stop crying because Sarah the Dinosaur

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Speaker 2: Sarah Dinosaur. One million females. Come on, bro.

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Speaker 4: Oh Sarah so lowly. She just wants a friend, she said.

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Speaker 1: Sarah might not be able to breathe a high are like,

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Speaker 1: It's okay. Sarah is fine. She's a million years old.

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Speaker 1: She can fend for herself. Also, she's plastic and doesn't

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Speaker 1: need air. Oh my god, I'm mortified and want to

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Speaker 1: get my kid back in the car and home. Adam

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Speaker 1: has to run to the IT department to grab a

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Speaker 1: few more things for me. My daughter is in total

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Speaker 1: parther meltdown over Sarah the Dinosaur. A man walks by

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Speaker 1: and tells me to shut my kid up. This is

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Speaker 2: Oh you said to shut the hell up to the

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Speaker 2: wrong one third owner of this company. Yeah, you're about

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Speaker 2: to get three thirds of justice.

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Speaker 3: I've had it.

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Speaker 1: I told him this wouldn't be job if it weren't

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Speaker 1: for this child's father or me, and he could be

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Speaker 1: the one to shut up and find a new job.

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Speaker 1: I feel like also that comment came from like a

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Speaker 1: sexist place too, Like I don't think he would say

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Speaker 1: don't know, what do you think?

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Speaker 2: I agree?

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Speaker 1: Let us know if you think it's sexist, but you're

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Speaker 1: raging sexest misogyny, you have misogyny, You're raging sexist.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a woman, Yes, I thought I thought it was

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Speaker 1: I think, yeah, yeah, wow, wow, you thought the one

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 4: So telling, oh you don't.

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Speaker 2: Watch that like totally become a thing and then like

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Speaker 2: on all of the videos.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, don't get any ideas good ideas.

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Speaker 1: Adam comes back and the man starts yelling at Adam

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Speaker 1: about how he's trying to work and my kid and

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Speaker 1: I won't shut up. He told Adam he needed to

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Speaker 1: get me out of the office. I'm like, this is

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Speaker 1: my office. If you don't like it, you can leave

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Speaker 1: for real. Adam agrees and says I'm the owner and

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Speaker 1: there's nothing he can do. The man walks it back

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Speaker 1: to his desk, sneaky little bastard. Adam tells me he

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Speaker 1: will handle it, wishes me good luck with the project,

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Speaker 1: and sends my daughter out. Adam fired the man for

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Speaker 1: insubordination because the situation did not get better after I left,

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Speaker 1: and he made some sexist remarks about women in business.

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Speaker 2: Oh called it sex.

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Speaker 4: And sex and sexs.

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Speaker 3: I freaking call that.

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Speaker 2: New chance sexistexist.

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Speaker 1: I feel like if everyone in comments sexist in the

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Speaker 1: comments like like like you are a sexist, then everyone

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Speaker 1: in the comments will be like holy shit, like I

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Speaker 1: can't believe Sam and John are sexist now?

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Speaker 4: But no, no, no, busy guy, no I did.

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Speaker 3: Let's confuse them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, lets see, let's seeho actually watches the video. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: and it doesn't jump on the sexist bandwagon, tries to

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Speaker 3: I get it.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't my best day, but I'm trying to run

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Speaker 1: a company and take care of my daughter in a

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Speaker 1: stressful time. The man was rude, and to be honest,

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Speaker 1: no matter who I was, he shouldn't be telling a

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Speaker 1: child to shut up. Clearly bro never saw Undercover Boss.

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Speaker 4: So is OP the a hole?

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Speaker 1: Put your answers in the comments break No, I want

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Speaker 1: to see those answers, or if you don't want to

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Speaker 1: do some long drawn out comment, just type in sexist

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Speaker 1: if you think this dude's big sexist, that's right.

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Speaker 2: But John, what do you think is OP the a hole?

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Speaker 2: You know as a raging sage and it's not just kidding?

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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, yeah, this this guy totally sexist, totally the ahole?

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Speaker 3: Just like, do you think he deserves to be fired?

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Speaker 2: I think he definitely deserves because like also only think

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Speaker 2: let me talk it through. So here's the thing. If

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Speaker 2: I'm the owner of the company, right, I'm just like

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Speaker 2: I don't want I don't want you here, Like I like,

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Speaker 2: I just don't want that energy. It is maybe uh

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Speaker 2: to see what happens from there. Because it was just

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Speaker 1: I also wonder what, like it depends what he said

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Speaker 1: also afterwards too, Yeah you don't know shit after Yeah

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Speaker 2: I think I think that would be the nail in

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Speaker 2: the coffee for me. But on if it was just

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Speaker 2: the first one. Maybe it's like sit down and it's like, dude,

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Speaker 2: that's wrong, Like, yeah, what are you doing? Also, let

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Speaker 2: me uh formally introduce myself.

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Speaker 3: I'm your boss.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, let us know is is op the ahole?

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Speaker 1: Is this guy who is telling his kid to shut up?

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Speaker 1: The ale put your answers in the comments right now?

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Speaker 2: Speaking of comments, Sam, Yeah, we've been reading comments from

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Speaker 2: our sexy public subscribe.

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Speaker 3: We love him so dearly. I'm gonna read one right now,

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Speaker 3: do it.

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Speaker 2: This one was from the video my dad baby trapped

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Speaker 2: my mom. Then he did something even worse. It always

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Speaker 2: story complicated. This one comes from rox Harbor. Reminds me

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Speaker 2: of the guy on Reddit who posted asking for advice

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Speaker 2: on how he could force the mother of his child

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Speaker 2: to co parent with him. Classic.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, to be a parent, Yes always ends up.

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Speaker 2: I don't know where they come from, but somehow Reddit

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Speaker 2: you know what, we have all of you, and we

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Speaker 2: love that. So subscribe comment your stuff below. We might

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Speaker 2: just read it that we will. I refuse to give

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Speaker 2: any of my inheritance to my a fair baby sister

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Speaker 2: to save her life. The ahole?

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Speaker 3: I mean, is she gonna die?

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Speaker 2: You know? Ay, she's an affair baby sister.

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Speaker 1: I always like when we have these these multiple relationships

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Speaker 1: and like like family and friendship dynamics. I'm like, what

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Speaker 2: So when I was twenty five, we found out that

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Speaker 2: and he had a seven year old daughter with his mistress.

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Speaker 3: Wow, we're coming out of this story swinging.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we are starting off with a bang over here.

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Speaker 2: In one split second, the happy family I knew was

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Speaker 3: Yis rough.

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Speaker 2: My parents divorced and further prenup. My mother walked away

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Speaker 2: with most of their assets since she also contributed more

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Speaker 2: though she grudgingly allowed me to have whatever relationship I

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Speaker 2: a fair baby. Yeah, you gotta be so mean into

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Speaker 2: the affair. Baby the fair baby didn't do anything. I understand.

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Speaker 2: Maybe being mad at the mistress with the affair baby,

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Speaker 2: Come on, caught in the cross. Hey, you're catching shrapnel.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm shooting. I'm shooting, and you're catching trap.

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Speaker 1: It's the affair baby, it's John hates a fair babies.

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Speaker 1: John likes to shoot trapnel into affair babies.

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Speaker 3: You heard air first, Folks.

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Speaker 2: In twenty years, there's gonna be like the whatever Twitter

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Speaker 2: is in the future, and it's to be like John

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Speaker 2: Fry like shooting babies. Say no to John Frod. That's right,

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Speaker 2: baby shooter, the baby shooter. Uh. My mother passed away

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Speaker 2: last year and left me everything. She got all of

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Speaker 2: which I now own and operate. Whoa like, we're assets

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Speaker 2: Daddy's poor.

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Speaker 3: Hey, but at least he's got his mistress.

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Speaker 2: Now, he's got his mistress and he's got his a

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Speaker 2: fair baby. He's good to go.

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Speaker 1: He's young at heart and in the wiener got that

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Speaker 2: All right. Uh, he was never a good businessman on

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Speaker 3: Yikes.

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Speaker 2: This year, my half sister was diagnosed with a life

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Speaker 3: Oh geez.

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Speaker 2: So basically like, if she doesn't get treated, then she dies,

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Speaker 2: if that's what it's This is a really really really

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Speaker 2: really really tough situation. The thing is, I don't want

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Speaker 2: even though it's not my half sister's fault. I like

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Speaker 2: how she keeps saying like half sis, half sticking it in.

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Speaker 2: It feels so unfair when I think that the money

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Speaker 2: really rather use it to grow her company and let

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Speaker 2: after all, and the only thing tying her to me

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Speaker 3: Some emotional manipulation right there.

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Speaker 2: The massive emotional manipul So the question is am I

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Speaker 3: Oh god?

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Speaker 2: This is this is one of the one of the

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Speaker 2: hardest because it's so cool.

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Speaker 3: It's like the trolley problem.

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Speaker 1: It's like, you know, right, like if you don't pull

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Speaker 3: Even though you you know, like well except.

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Speaker 2: This, no, no one's the trolley one is like you like,

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Speaker 2: what does it killed like one unhealthy person or three

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Speaker 2: like there's also the other trolley problem. If it's like

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Speaker 2: that way if you kill like one or ten people.

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Speaker 2: But it's like if you move it, are you still

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Speaker 2: are you now responsible right for killing the one person? Right?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: Whereas if you just let it go. You're killing ten people.

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Speaker 1: But but you're also I guess you're also responsible because

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Speaker 1: you have the power too. But basically like OPI has

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Speaker 1: the power to save a life, and it's like do

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Speaker 1: like if you donate to like one of those malaria.

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Speaker 2: Foundations, yeah you could literally you could literally save a

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Speaker 2: life today today right now. It sounds like we're doing

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Speaker 2: it now. It literally sounds like we're doing it in commercial.

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Speaker 1: Where it's like five cents can save this child, give

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Speaker 2: Literally, dude, this Yeah, it's This is I think one

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Speaker 2: Like it's it's either way. Is kind of super fucked

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Speaker 2: because honestly, she is I get the situation, and I'm

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Speaker 2: not saying that she's totally responsible for her, but that

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Speaker 2: thing tying it to her is the dad's like words,

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Speaker 2: she is related to her, Yeah, which doesn't necessarily mean anything,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, there there's definitely ties. And I think like

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Speaker 1: as fucked up as you know, Like the dad's question

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Speaker 1: Like I think that's a valid question. It kind of yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like it's like, don't do it for anyone else? Right,

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Speaker 1: do it? Like will you act? If you don't do this,

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And if you're like fuck, if I care, I don't

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Speaker 1: you probably should should help.

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Speaker 2: I would yeah, Like I feel like OP knows what

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Speaker 2: And it's also like you you're kind of going against

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Speaker 2: your mother's memory too, you know in what way?

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Speaker 1: Oh, by by doing it bye bye giving, by giving

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Speaker 1: Like if you were to give all this money away, right,

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Speaker 1: You're you're.

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Speaker 2: To the affair baby.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But you know, I think there's I actually do

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Speaker 1: to give away the entire fortune. Yes, yes, and I

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Speaker 1: can't imagine that's true. But even if it is, let's

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Speaker 1: like twenty five like fifty K to keep going. But

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Speaker 2: What she probably should do is like, look, in order

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Speaker 2: out the absolute most the both of you can do

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Speaker 1: So but yeah, but I do want to, like, I

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Speaker 1: complicated situation. Yeah, for sure,